Two weeks after a DeKalb County police officer's wife was brutally assaulted and robbed outside their home, he was arrested for obstruction while a search warrant was being executed on his girlfriend’s residence.

According to the Atlanta Journal Constitution, the unidentified wife of DeKalb Police Sgt. Jerry Banks was enjoying an evening out with a friend on May 13. She called Banks around 2 a.m. to tell him she was on her way home after dropping her friend off.

At 3 a.m. the couple's daughter remembered leaving the garage door open and went to close it. She alerted her father that her mother's car was in the driveway.

Banks, who was at home with his daughter and her boyfriend, said he followed a trail of blood from the garage to the spot on the front lawn where his wife lay critically injured. She was transported to Grady hospital where she remained in intensive care on Monday.

The 3 occupants inside the home say they heard nothing outside, according to police reports.

Police do not consider Banks a suspect in his wife's attack -- despite the fact that he was taken into custody on Friday for being "boisterous" and "disobedient" when he was ordered to leave his girlfriend's home.

According to the AJC, Dekalb detectives went to the Lithonia home of Cherise McMoore, 33, who made terroristic threats to a woman who lived nearby.

Police say McMoore waved a chrome handgun at the woman last Tuesday and threatened to "Whoop" her a**. A search warrant was issued for McMoore's home on Friday (probably in connection with the attack on Banks's wife).

Banks and McMoore soon arrived at the home, and Banks attempted to "willfully obstruct or hinder … a law enforcement officer in the lawful discharge of the officer’s official duties,” according to the warrant for his arrest.

Banks, a nearly 14-year veteran with DeKalb police, and McMoore were taken into custody at her home.

Police said Banks, whose wife remains hospitalized, "refused to comply with verbal commands to leave the property while a search warrant was being executed on his girlfriend’s residence."

According to the AJC, Banks was released early Friday evening on a $500 bond. McMoore was released Monday on $3,500 bond.

Banks has been placed on paid administrative leave pending the resolution of his criminal case, DeKalb police spokeswoman Mekka Parish told the AJC.

According to the AJC, jail and court records show Banks was arrested in 1997 on simple and family battery allegations, but the charges were dismissed.

McMoore was previously arrested for trespassing and theft by taking.


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    • Flawless

      :shocked:

    • Usual Suspect

      Both of thems *side eye*

      Let me read this fluckery......

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :think: I'm all kinds of confused...

    • Flawless

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      .................................

      I read it & i'm still confused

    • Usual Suspect

      Finshed reading. Yes this was complete fluckery, some BS you just can't makeup. SMDH

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Flawless

      Yeah, it all just sounds so jumbled and tangled... :lol:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      _______________

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven't caught your man cheating yet -- that means he's good! :coffee:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      OK SO THE WIFIE GOT BEAT UP BY THE GF THEN THEY WENT AND SEARCH THE GF HOUSE AND THE HUSSBAND AND GF WERE NOT COMPLIANT?? :think: HELP!

    • lovezoe

      Please tell me That big boy ain't no cop!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Sandra

      :rofl:

      You have no idea how ironic your comment is to me right now!

    • DownBottom

      ^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece :shocked: ...this story does sound quite confusing though, :shrug:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

      OK SO THE WIFIE GOT BEAT UP BY THE GF THEN THEY WENT AND SEARCH THE GF HOUSE AND THE HUSSBAND AND GF WERE NOT COMPLIANT??
      __________________

      Police are not saying the girlfriend beat up the wife. Police are also not saying the officer had anything to do with his wife's attack.

    • Usual Suspect

      @Sandra - Some women don't look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don't search cell phones, do drive bys....

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      Hey yea I know him, Jerry Jerry jerry, there is more to this :coffee: her cousin had a different story. hmp. well im out for today :peace: oh I forgot to say Morning :waves:

    • Flawless

      That's why I'm single,nobody wants to be faithful :coffee:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      DownBottom says:

      ^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece :shocked:
      ________________

      :rofl:

    • Angiegirl

      Sandra Rose says:

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      _______________

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!

      ___________________________________________________
      Sorry, Im still confused

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :offtopic: I have a question, why are these police officers so overweight, who in the heck do they expect to catch that freaking big :shrugs: On topic, now I knew something was up when this story first broke, this is not surprising at all :coffee: Auntie, long as the fool keep it so I can't find out, or bring that mess to my house. I do agree if a man keeps his ho3s in the street where they belong and never ever bring that mess home he is a good one. A real man will never let trashy women destroy a marriage to good woman. With that being said women cheat too :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      Usual Suspect says:

      @Sandra – Some women don’t look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don’t search cell phones, do drive bys….

      ________

      Shole the fukk don't....if he IS doing something he can have FUN! B/C I'm truly not concerned! :danban1:

    • Ms. YaYa

      @ Lovezoe I thought it was Keith Traylor (former NFL player). There is no way that dude is chasing anybody down in a foot chase.

    • NaijaGal

      I'm all kinds of lost and confused as well

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Usual Suspect says:

      @Sandra – Some women don’t look for their spouse/signficant to cheat. They don’t search cell phones, do drive bys….
      ________________

      That's exactly the way it should be. It sounds like those women just accept the simple fact that men cheat. They are pre-wired to cheat from the womb. Just accept it. :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!

      :dead:
      ______________________
      But i am oh so mad that he let this trick interfere with his job! :no: <---smh

      when are ppl gonna learn tho??

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @DownBottom

      Yeah, I'm not understanding how dough boy up there is slayin' pussy left and right... :coffee:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      WOW :rofl: THIS SHAIT CRAY!! :eek:

    • Usual Suspect

      Flawless says:

      That’s why I’m single,nobody wants to be faithful

      _____________
      Don't feel that way, some men are faithful :hug: Few and far between but they are some.

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Auntie, long as the fool keep it so I can’t find out, or bring that mess to my house. I do agree if a man keeps his ho3s in the street where they belong and never ever bring that mess home he is a good one. A real man will never let trashy women destroy a marriage to good woman.
      __________________

      Excellent points! A good man will never bring that mess home to his wife. He will do everything in his power to keep his mess in the streets, and not let it affect his home. :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      @Down & FeFe but do you see the pussy he's slaying though...it fits

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      DownBottom says:

      ^^How dude up top get a wife and a side-piece :shocked: …this story does sound quite confusing though, :shrug:
      ___________

      Slimpickens in ATL right now, some women will accept almost anything. :coffee: me personally would much rather be single, and stay focused on my daughter and education, after that I plan to move to Canada :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Sandra

      I swear you need to expand your state of mind... :)

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      off the record Dekalb county have officers in all kinda activites, including _____________________, yep that too. I know a whole heap of them dudes. but yean hear it from me. and :peace: out forreal :coffee:

    • Angiegirl

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???

      _____________________________________

      Well, yeah and no....while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well......good luck with that.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Naija

      I guess you have a point...but dayum! :rofl:

    • lovezoe

      Yaya- them D cups alone would get in the way

    • gbellab

      Uncle Ruckuss' wife is beat up in her driveway. Unrelated, cops are called to uncle Ruckuss' GIRLFRIEND'S house after she threatens some other lady with her gun. Cops arrive at the GF'S house and uncle Ruckuss tries to obstruct justice by not allowing the cops to search his GF'S home. Uncle Ruckuss is suspended from his cop job

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      NaijaGal says:

      I’m all kinds of lost and confused as well
      __________________

      The first paragraph of the post sums it all up very clearly. An officer's wife was assaulted and 2 weeks later the officer was arrested for obstructing the search of his girlfriend's home. What are you confused about? :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      Angiegirl says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???

      _____________________________________

      Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.

      ____________
      :yes:

    • Bibi

      Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.

      :cosign:

    • Flawless

      Usual Suspects says:

      Don’t feel that way, some men are faithful Few and far between but they are some.
      .........................................

      I hope to find that in between :rofl:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Shole the fukk don’t….if he IS doing something he can have FUN! B/C I’m truly not concerned!

      :blink: guhl! whatchu mean u aint concerned?? that's yo hubcap right?? :nono:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _________________

      if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong. :coffee:

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      Umm.. so UHHH... ole big boy had two women...one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
      Am I close? :shrug: Hell my head hurts.. I sit in the :kona: and wait til we change the subject.... :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused
      __________________

      yea me too....

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Ummmm, so he stanning for the girlfriend and she look like dat, what the hell do the wife look like that he left her for dat?

    • Ms.Fashion

      Sandra Rose says:

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      _______________

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!

      ^^^^^^^^^^
      This right here is the realest thing I have read today!!!

      I don't think all men cheat. Just 99% do. :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Fayla

      I mean I'm not concerned to the point where I'm gonna be looking and/or searching for some shyt...if he's doing something it will come out eventually....if not, well then even better... :yes:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      gbellab says:

      Uncle Ruckuss’ wife is beat up in her driveway. Unrelated, cops are called to uncle Ruckuss’ GIRLFRIEND’S house after she threatens some other lady with her gun. Cops arrive at the GF’S house and uncle Ruckuss tries to obstruct justice by not allowing the cops to search his GF’S home. Uncle Ruckuss is suspended from his cop job
      ____________________

      :applause: You have excellent reading and comprehension skills. :yes:

    • Danielle

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      ……………………………

      I read it & i’m still confused
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      HA! I thought I was the ony one. I went back, read it again and was still confused :lol:

    • Usual Suspect

      if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong. :coffee:

      ___________
      :ghost:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _____________

      No your not wrong, the thing is a good man , welp lets just say you will never ever know he is cheating.... <- -- this kinda of man, straps up, keeps it clean, will never disclose personal info to his ho#s, will let the trash know up front, the ground rules.....and they don't cheat often. :coffee: That is when things get messy, and a real man knows this he keeps the cheating to a minimum, but unfortunately most men get greedy, and slip up. My dad tells me this all time 80% of what the average ninja tells ya is a damn lie, and if it sound like a lie it is. Now if your man is honest majority of the time consider him definitely above the average :coffee:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Angiegirl says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???

      _____________________________________

      Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.

      :preach:

    • Usual Suspect

      Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
      __________
      Pretty much....What is confusing is that that they both look like bears.

    • I Go There

      Sandra Rose says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _________________

      if you are an adult female who still believes in fairy tales, then, yes you are wrong
      _____________________________

      Well damn

      Im wrong at hello then...

      Sandra Thanks for letting me know I cant be right at all?

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      FeFe Feminine says:

      @Fayla

      I mean I’m not concerned to the point where I’m gonna be looking and/or searching for some shyt…if he’s doing something it will come out eventually….if not, well then even better…

      Phew! girl i thought u was slippin on yo pimpin right quick shewwwt! :lol:

    • Bibi

      Damn shame some men prefer quantity over quality.... :tea:

    • DownBottom

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      **************
      :cosign: It's not a fairy-tale, it's the truth...ALL men don't cheat...cheating has NOTHING to do with gender IMO and EVERYTHING to do with either opportunity and/or self-control. I have known quite a few guys that are faithful..but ppl still look at like seeing white unicorns :shrug:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass ... So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
      __________________

      Right! Except that wifey got beat TWO WEEKS AGO by an UNKNOWN assailant, and wifey is still in the hospital. I think we all know who the assailant is. But this is Atlanta where cops are very slow to arrest the criminals and quick to arrest the innocent. :rolleyes:

    • Trendsetter

      Hey what happened to my gravatar

    • Ms.Fashion

      Usual Suspect says:

      Umm.. so UHHH… ole big boy had two women…one wife one gf.. so girlfriend threatened to whoop an ass or did wifey? So wifey got beat and big boy is protecting girlfriend cuz she prolly the one who did it?
      __________
      Pretty much….What is confusing is that that they both look like bears

      ________________

      :rofl:

    • Danielle

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      I used to believe that until a few months ago...

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :rofl: and it starts :lol:

    • I Go There

      Angiegirl says:

      Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
      ________________________________________________

      Yep thats pretty much it

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Fayla

      :wink:

      Neva that girl!

    • pointhimout

      crazy. just crazy. am I the only one who feels cops should be in much better shape?

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      CALI!! :love: sup luv??

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      welp lets just say you will never ever know he is cheating…. < - — this kinda of man, straps up, keeps it clean, will never disclose personal info to his ho#s, will let the trash know up front, the ground rules…..and they don't cheat often. ___________________ You're right: they don't cheat often because they tend to have longterm relationships with just one jumpoff. :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      And for the record, I do NOT believe that all men cheat...I believe that PEOPLE (men AND women) go through times in their lives where they may not be ready for whatever...but when they are ready, when it is right, they are faithful... :yes:

    • Angela

      @Sandra,

      I'm so confused! Was the wife's boyfriend living in the house as well? If so, why didn't she call HIM to say that she was on her way and more importantly, WHY in the hail is the boyfriend living in the home with her husband? Foes the husband live with HUD girlfriend too? Please help me understand?

    • GAGIRL87

      :huh:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Dude is freaking huge, this don't look like the photo they have been showing on the news..... that shot they showed on the news must have been when he first joined the police force, cause this right here is straight up embarrassment, aint no well in hell he, chasing no one :rofl:

    • NaijaGal

      Usual :happy:

    • Angela

      @Sandra,

      I’m so confused! Was the wife’s boyfriend living in the house as well? If so, why didn’t she call HIM to say that she was on her way and more importantly, WHY in the hail is the boyfriend living in the home with her husband? Does the husband live with his girlfriend too? Please help me understand?

      Damn auto correct......

    • Gigi26

      This fat fukk right here though :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :yahoo: Hello Roses...
      I think people are just all kinds of confussed because of the way the husband/boyfriend Looks :rofl:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @DANIELLE
      "Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      I used to believe that until a few months ago…
      ____________________________

      Not all men cheat.
      Please elaborate on what made you change your viewpoint.
      :coffee:

    • Usual Suspect

      It's called discretion - Most men and some women don' know the meaning of the word. If you have the balls to cheat, pick and choose carefully. Decades ago, men that cheated only did so with women in other towns or with women that wouldn't dare call their home. Now these days...All bets are off.

      Men will screw their neighbor, wife's mother, sister and cousin. The women involved are just as guility. Why would a woman date a married man in the first place? :shrug:

      Cause he tells you he's unhappy? GTFO If he's all that wait until he's divorced. #carryon

    • Bibi

      Gotta love the optimism here :rofl:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      pointhimout says:

      crazy. just crazy. am I the only one who feels cops should be in much better shape? :no: you are not! only thing he's chasing are fast food workers who didn't get his order right. he prolly breaks out in a sweat walking from his police car to a perp's car he pulled over :(

      do better ATL popo!

    • MZ_CARAM3L74

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good!
      **************************
      I'm curious auntie,what is your definition of cheating?

    • Bibi

      Did Man say not all men cheat????? :confused:

    • Usual Suspect

      @Fayla and Naija :happy: :kiss:

    • GAGIRL87

      Some women will ACCEPT anything I'm NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick :nono: if you have a gf or wife, I'm not getting involved if I can't have ALL of you I don't want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Usual Suspect says:

      It’s called discretion – Most men and some women don’ know the meaning of the word. If you have the balls to cheat, pick and choose carefully. Decades ago, men that cheated only did so with women in other towns or with women that wouldn’t dare call their home. Now these days…All bets are off.

      Men will screw their neighbor, wife’s mother, sister and cousin. The women involved are just as guility. Why would a woman date a married man in the first place? :shrug:

      Cause he tells you he’s unhappy? GTFO If he’s all that wait until he’s divorced. #carryon
      ____________________________

      Agreed, folks have gotten sloppy with the cheating :no:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      FeFe Feminine says:

      And for the record, I do NOT believe that all men cheat…I believe that PEOPLE (men AND women) go through times in their lives where they may not be ready for whatever…but when they are ready, when it is right, they are faithful… :yes:

      yup. i actually think women cheat just as much as men. we're just smarter about not getting caught :coffee: women tend to think of all the scenarios to have an excuse for ANY question they may be asked. men don't seem to think stuff out all the way through.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Sandra Rose says:

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m all kinds of confused…
      _______________

      Let me clear it up for you, hun: men cheat. If you haven’t caught your man cheating yet — that means he’s good! :coffee:
      _____________________________________________________________________

      Sandra, so are you saying women don't cheat? :waiting:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Bibi

      He has a crush on Danielle...don't believe the hype... :coffee:

    • GAGIRL87

      FeFe ,Fayla ,GiGi, Naija, luVn_liFe, Usual, Msfashion, Bibi :hi:

    • Danielle

      @Man
      Hey!! I'd rather not lol. My statement is pretty self explanatory :)

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :hugs: @GAGIRL

      @Fayla

      I agree 100% :yes:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick :nono: if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      :cosign: i ALWAYS gotta get top billing or no billing AT ALL. i will NOT compete for affection NOR do i share. :nono: EVER! :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick :nono: if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :coffee:
      ____________________

      :cosign: Damn right, has never been the sharing type even with my food. You want some of fries Nah boo :nono: Let me order you some fries of your own..... I can't stand folks dipping they hand in my cookie jar :cuss:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _________________________________________________________________________

      No ... All men don't cheat ... Don't believe the bullchit

    • Gigi26

      I agree with you Usual, dudes and females nowadays are straight freaking RECKLESS!! Side bytch coming to the wife's house and telling him how she freaked her husband and all of that. Just a shame :no:

      My thing is this: If you ain't happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.

      Its one thing when we're dating or in a relationship cuz you can walk away and start over (in a sense no legal obligations). Its a whole nother thing when we are married. If you can't see yourself with one person, then be honest with the person. That is all.

    • Bibi

      @Fefe
      Ahh makes sense now..

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Fayla come here :hug:

    • I Go There

      pessimism is easy because it requires little effort

      :coffee:

      and not all men cheat
      when that woman comes along that changes things for him
      he will be as loyal as they come

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Banks and McMoore :shank:

      :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Well, yeah and no….while I do believe that MOST men have and will and do cheat at some point in their life. i do believe that once a man reaches a certain level of maturity and a certain relationship with themselves and the Lord they find that cheating does not whole a value high enough to risk losing what you have, when you have something good. But, if they havent reached that point in their life, well……good luck with that.
      _____________________________________________________________________

      :cosign: ... to whoever said this

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      GAGuhl! :hi: bewski what it dewski??

    • Trendsetter

      :offtopic:

      Rihanna definitely has a type.

      Sources tell us that the “We Found Love” singer has found another tattooed bad boy to stoke her considerable passion: New York Knick J.R. Smith

    • Bibi

      Fact of the matter is folks full of chit..wanna have cake and eat it too..a man given the chance will most likely take it. Offer a married man some and see how quickly his I would never becomes well maybe....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I Go There says:

      pessimism is easy because it requires little effort

      :coffee:

      and not all men cheat
      when that woman comes along that changes things for him
      he will be as loyal as they come
      ______________________________________________________________________

      :cosign:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Gigi26 says:

      My thing is this: If you ain’t happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.
      ______________________
      Some men are cowards :no: the fact of the matter men aren't built like that these days. Weak AF!!!! Man up, and keep it real if you ready to get ghost :coffee:

    • I Go There

      JMO says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _________________________________________________________________________

      No … All men don’t cheat … Don’t believe the bullchit

      _________________________________________________________

      See this is one of the reasons why I get scared

      If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
      they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
      so that also means to me that she's not gonna give me the best of her...

      Fk that shait

    • Usual Suspect

      @Gigi - Yeah, I don't play that cheating shiat. Ask my first husband. :coffee: Before I left our marital home, our 4 year old was like why are you in our bedroom.

      I will share: Laptop, a magazine, half a soda, food, dessert. NO SHARING OF PENIS :nono:

      There's too much to loose with random Dyck and Pus. STD/HIV/Bullet to brain....I'm good. If you feel you need to cheat. KEEP IT MOVING #bye

    • NaijaGal

      GAGirl :hug: shoe diva what it be like

      *side note* Just saw Nas' video for Daughters...that man is just too fine...oh and the message was on point :)

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      both of them are hard on the eyes, I hope the wife makes a full recovery

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Its one thing when we’re dating or in a relationship cuz you can walk away and start over (in a sense no legal obligations). Its a whole nother thing when we are married. If you can’t see yourself with one person, then be honest with the person. That is all.
      ______________________________________________________________________

      :cosign:

    • Gigi26

      You PREACH GAGIRL!!! :applause:

      These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they're one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they're winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.

      #teamnoaidsandherp

      #teamcleantopnotchpunani

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Throb

      I concur :yes:

      CC

    • NaijaGal

      I've always hated the phrase 'have your cake and eat it too'...isn't that what you're supposed to do with cake...eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe

    • Bibi

      I Go There says:

      pessimism is easy because it requires little effort

      and not all men cheat
      when that woman comes along that changes things for him
      he will be as loyal as they come
      _____________________________________________
      :tape:

    • GAGIRL87

      92

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      ____________________

      Damn right, has never been the sharing type even with my food. You want some of fries Nah boo Let me order you some fries of your own….. I can’t stand folks dipping they hand in my cookie jar
      _________________________________________________________________

      That's the LEO in us :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I Go There says:

      JMO says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Am I wrong for still believing in the fairytale that not all men cheat???
      _________________________________________________________________________

      No … All men don’t cheat … Don’t believe the bullchit

      _________________________________________________________

      See this is one of the reasons why I get scared

      If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
      they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
      so that also means to me that she’s not gonna give me the best of her…

      Fk that shait
      _______________________________________________________________

      Pretty much ... but being scared and complacent won't help you find that woman you're looking for ...

    • Usual Suspect

      Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy - cheating,lying, stealing.

      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @FE FE
      :shocked:
      I can't believe you doubt my sincerity!
      I'm shocked! SHOCKED!
      :coffee:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Jenie :hug: sup mami?

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I Go There says:

      _________________________________________________________

      See this is one of the reasons why I get scared

      If you got women out here thinking you gon fk up from jump
      they that means they are already looking for the worse in you
      so that also means to me that she’s not gonna give me the best of her…

      Fk that shait
      ______________

      Actually when I go into a relationship, I do not expect for him to cheat :coffee: but that's not to say he want. See for some women, unless you give them reason think otherwise, some women do not go into relationship with the notion of cheating. We don't

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Fayla that's why you the WIFE boo type billing all day ere day :lol:

    • Bibi

      @Igo

      Weak azz excuse to justify chit.....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Man

      :coffee:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @IGO
      "pessimism is easy because it requires little effort

      and not all men cheat
      when that woman comes along that changes things for him
      he will be as loyal as they come"
      ______________

      Co-sign
      :coffee:

    • Bibi

      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart

      Now this is very true.....

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      GAGIRL :thumbsup: yep !!!

    • DownBottom

      @Naija, :shank: Back away from Nas...why must u ladies make me violent...stick to your pre-pubescent Ryan Phillipe..mmmmk :tea:

    • GAGIRL87

      107

      NaijaGal says:

      GAGirl shoe diva what it be like

      *side note* Just saw Nas’ video for Daughters…that man is just too fine…oh and the message was on point
      _____________________________________________________________

      I'm recovering from the ciroc how bout you boo????

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Usual Suspect says:

      Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.

      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
      ________________

      You betta :preach: :bow:

    • Gigi26

      Igo,

      Trust is earned with me :tea: and once I see a inkling that you ain't worthy of it, I start to back off. I ain't one for the bullshyt either. Everyone puts their best foot forward but how many actually keep it?

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAJ
      "I’ve always hated the phrase ‘have your cake and eat it too’…isn’t that what you’re supposed to do with cake…eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe"
      ___________________

      But once you eat it, you azzed out!
      No more cake!
      :shrugs:

    • Phrozen1der

      Wow..... :no:

    • NaijaGal

      I Go There says:

      pessimism is easy because it requires little effort

      and not all men cheat
      when that woman comes along that changes things for him
      he will be as loyal as they come
      -------------------------------------
      but I don't think it's on the woman to make a man change...if a man wants to be faithful he will even if he's dating a trifling chick cause at that point he should know to walk away before moving on to the next chick...

    • I Go There

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Gigi26 says:

      My thing is this: If you ain’t happy communicate that to me. Cuz when you step out and bust down some other broad and come home to me like everything is peachy keen, you have violated a major term of the marriage contract and you will have your ass handed to you on a platter.
      ______________________
      Some men are cowards the fact of the matter men aren’t built like that these days. Weak AF!!!! Man up, and keep it real if you ready to get ghost
      ____________________________

      Nah Jenie

      Men are the same as they always was...
      Dudes back in the day messed around things were just kept a lil more private now folks are willing to talk about it.

      Back in the day a woman that messed with a married dude wouldnt say a word even would have kids by the dude and all that because she was afraid of how she looked now women get famous on it

    • Phrozen1der

      Everyone knows you just hold the cake..-Phaedra :rofl:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      The same way that yall say that men cheat women have the same capabilities. When someone wants to do something they do it. I mean, if you are lacking something you look for another to fulfill that need. That applies to not only relationships. I've seen where women have done some real hoe shyt. Women just tend to be a lot smarter with their cheating ways verses a man. We are more advanced and smarter than men. Men are messy(again that applies to more than one thing).
      Never go into something when you are not done looking at options. And honesty is the key. If you know that someone may be good for you but you aren't ready, be upfront with them. Nothing I hate more than a liar(no need to say and a cheat cause if you cheat you are lying in some form or fashion).
      So instead of thinking that all men cheat think about if that man was ready or showed the signs of readiness for a comittment cause nine times out of ten he didn't but you thought that you could change him!

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.

      #teamnoaidsandherp

      #teamcleantopnotchpunani

      :cosign: ALL DAY ERRYDAY!!!
      ____________________
      Usual Suspect says:

      Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.

      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart

      :applause: one of the realest things i read on SR! :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      Terrell just got kicked off an arena football team...

      Terrell Owens signed with the Allen Wranglers back in February but after a recent no-show for a team event at a children's hospital the coaches and the front office decided they'd had enough of The T.O. Show.

      In a statement to the media the team president cited Terrell's lack of commit on and off the field with their decision.

      Terrell gives up his salary and stake in the franchise.

    • Bibi

      As many chicks that are willing why do men feel the need to lie??

    • GAGIRL87

      110

      Gigi26 says:

      You PREACH GAGIRL!!!

      These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.

      #teamnoaidsandherp

      #teamcleantopnotchpunani
      ______________________________________________________________________

      I really don't know what's wrong with these HOES GiGi :shrugs: Who wants to be second? I know my worth and I know what I will and WON'T tolerate. A man knows when he's in the presence of a REAL woman :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Who hacked @Man's keyboard? :think:

    • I Go There

      Bibi says:

      @Igo

      Weak azz excuse to justify chit…..
      ____________________________________

      I aint justifying shait

      Look I dont cheat
      I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump

      But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships

      If its an excuse then Ill take that.

    • NaijaGal

      @Man then you go buy another cake :coffee:

      @GAGirl, ready to go home :lol:

      @DOWN I'm not even going to dignify that with a response *pages darkwing duck to get you right together*

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
      __________________

      This gone be my new FB Status :rofl: :blink: so serious though !!! Good stuff!!!

    • DownBottom

      Gee, Sandy always put up these type of posts and everybody go on about their theory of cheating...smh

      Women Lie...
      Men Lie...
      Yada Yada Yada... :newpost: please!! <...w/all due respect! #luvmylogin

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @TRENDSETTER
      "Rihanna definitely has a type.

      Sources tell us that the “We Found Love” singer has found another tattooed bad boy to stoke her considerable passion: New York Knick J.R. Smith"
      ________________

      He was just next in line.
      :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      NaijaGal says:

      I’ve always hated the phrase ‘have your cake and eat it too’…isn’t that what you’re supposed to do with cake…eat it??? #MaybeItsJustMe

      ______________________

      not it's not just you...i feel the same way

    • Usual Suspect

      When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you "think" you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind. :coffee:

    • Ms.Fashion

      GAGIRL87 says:

      92

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Some women will ACCEPT anything I’m NOT about to KNOWINGLING share nary dick if you have a gf or wife, I’m not getting involved if I can’t have ALL of you I don’t want NONE of you. PERIOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      ____________________

      Damn right, has never been the sharing type even with my food. You want some of fries Nah boo Let me order you some fries of your own….. I can’t stand folks dipping they hand in my cookie jar
      _________________________________________________________________

      That’s the LEO in us

      _______________
      Hey GAGIRL!!!! :waves:

      You DAMMMMMM RIGHT!!!

      #FellowLEO

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAJ
      "then you go buy another cake :coffee: "
      _____________________________

      I think you are taking the phrase too literally. :lol:

    • Iheart

      Usual Suspect says:

      When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.

      ____________________

      :preach:

    • Bibi

      @Igo

      Perhaps she can't be sure cuz of ur actions don't blame the chick. If u gave enough chits to entertain the possibility of a relationship then show the chick u real...if u run cuz she expresses a fear then what choices she got

    • Gigi26

      Gypsy: yes

      I can respect a dude that tells me he ain't ready for a relationship or doesn't want one because if I choose to fukk with him and I catch feelings and the like I have no one to blame but myself for thinking more of the situation that wasn't one in the first place (if that makes sense).

      But if we are MARRIED and you step out on me, oh nah there's hell to pay. We said vows to GOD. Promises that should be upheld. If there is something that I am slacking in, you communicate because we are ONE. And you get arrested off your SIDEPIECE?! I'm setting my pops and brothers on you :tea:

    • Trendsetter

      A 9-year-old girl is fighting for her life after her mentally troubled mother stabbed her four times with a chef’s knife yesterday in Queens, authorities said.

      Ann Carimbocas stabbed her daughter in her head, shoulder and back in a home yesterday morning on 176th Street near 145th Avenue in Springfield Gardens, police sources and Carimbocas’ friends said.

      Emergency responders rushed the girl, Briani Davis, to Jamaica Hospital.

      Cops took Carimbocas to the 105th Precinct station house in Queens Village.

      Later, she was wheeled out of the station house on a gurney and taken to a hospital.

      She was later charged with attempted murder.

      Carimbocas and her daughter, of Selden, LI, were staying overnight at the 176th Street home, said authorities.

      Carimbocas, from Barbados, was recently hospitalized for anxiety and had mental-health problems, said a roommate.

      We’re praying for that little girl’s full recovery. How scary! We also hope her mom gets the help she needs. SMH. Damn shame.

    • NaijaGal

      @Man I know what people mean by the phrase I just think that particular one is estupido

    • DownBottom

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      These low self esteem having bytches think its cute that they’re one of many by one lousy ass dude and think they’re winning. NO YOU ARE LOSING. Disease and all that filthy mess gets passed around easily that way.
      #teamnoaidsandherp
      #teamcleantopnotchpunani
      ALL DAY ERRYDAY!!!
      ____________________
      Usual Suspect says:
      Cheating is the easiet thing to do. All evil is easy – cheating,lying, stealing.
      Remaining Faithful is not for the faint of heart
      one of the realest things i read on SR!
      *****
      Whoa, who said this? AH-MA-ZING!! It's soooo much easier to do wrong than it is to do right! Surely, it isn't for the faint of heart! I like that! :thumbsup:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Usual Suspect says:

      When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind. :coffee:
      _____________

      20 / 80 RULE :coffee:

    • GAGIRL87

      @ IGO most women don't go into relationships thinking the worst, I know I don't :shrugs: every man is different I trust you until you give me a reason NOT too.

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @USUAL SUSPECT
      "When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind."
      _________________________________

      I swear if I hear this dumb azz 80/20 bullchit one mo' time.
      :smack:

      Sometimes the new person is just better. It DOES happen. People DO upgrade (Brad Pitt UPGRADED) Can we bury the 80/20 aka "please settle" argument now?

    • Usual Suspect

      jeniefrumdabloc - it's all yours :smile:

    • Ms.Fashion

      I Go There says:

      I aint justifying shait

      Look I dont cheat
      I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump

      But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships

      If its an excuse then Ill take that.

      ____________

      That's about right. For both men and women. :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Trendsetter says:

      A 9-year-old girl is fighting for her life after her mentally troubled mother stabbed her four times with a chef’s knife yesterday in Queens, authorities said.

      Ann Carimbocas stabbed her daughter in her head, shoulder and back in a home yesterday morning on 176th Street near 145th Avenue in Springfield Gardens, police sources and Carimbocas’ friends said.

      Emergency responders rushed the girl, Briani Davis, to Jamaica Hospital.

      Cops took Carimbocas to the 105th Precinct station house in Queens Village.

      Later, she was wheeled out of the station house on a gurney and taken to a hospital.

      She was later charged with attempted murder.

      Carimbocas and her daughter, of Selden, LI, were staying overnight at the 176th Street home, said authorities.

      Carimbocas, from Barbados, was recently hospitalized for anxiety and had mental-health problems, said a roommate.

      We’re praying for that little girl’s full recovery. How scary! We also hope her mom gets the help she needs. SMH. Damn shame.
      __________________

      :no: Not again :wtf: is going on :mad:

    • Bibi

      @Naija

      was it my gravi?? :hugs:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I was just about to ask if someone mentioned that 80/20 rule :hahaha:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      ^^ Escucho discos muy amigos :love: Yes shuga,,,That means-You are very sexy in French,,,The language of love :love:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAJ
      "I know what people mean by the phrase I just think that particular one is estupido"
      ______________

      Oh, well I feel that.

      But I know I :heart: pizza but I shole do be mad once I eat it and I'm outta pizza so I use that phrase all the time!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Bibi

      I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder...which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump...if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest...women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive! :yes:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      Usual Suspect says:
      When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.

      ^^ :rolleyes: Oh here go Caligirl with her 2yr degree-Jerry Springer final thoughts over analyzation of thangs :biggrin:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      JMO says:

      I was just about to ask if someone mentioned that 80/20 rule :hahaha:
      __________

      :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Ms.Fashion says:

      I Go There says:

      I aint justifying shait

      Look I dont cheat
      I DATE and will let a woman know that from Jump

      But I wont get into a relationship with a woman if she already thinking the worse of me OVER HER OWN FKED UP CHOICES IN MEN and Relationships

      If its an excuse then Ill take that.

      ____________

      That’s about right. For both men and women. :coffee:
      ________________________________________________________

      yep :yes:

    • GAGIRL87

      #random

      That cop looks like Rick Ross when he was an CO :kona:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Awww shat Brenden is in the building :hahaha: :happy:

    • NaijaGal

      @MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish...but Brad didn't upgrade imo...he can have the crypt keeper

    • YSoSrs

      I don't believe that all men cheat. But I also don't believe that people are meant to stay with one person forever every moment of their lives.

      Like I always say, even people that love their jobs need a vacation now and then. That's not cynical. That's pragmatic. :coffee:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating... show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?

    • Usual Suspect

      @DownBottom - My grandmother.....

    • Bibi

      @Fefe

      But how in the hail, is that not a thought people make generally?? I wonder if he's sincere? Do u believe everything ur told off jump? I mean I get some chicks can be like that but he is guarded (his words) how can he talk bout her being open when he ain't??

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      _____________

      :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      @USUAL SUSPECT
      “When the person you are with is lackng the 20% you “think” you need,the new person will more than likely lack the 80% you left behind.”
      _________________________________

      I swear if I hear this dumb azz 80/20 bullchit one mo’ time.
      :smack:

      Sometimes the new person is just better. It DOES happen. People DO upgrade (Brad Pitt UPGRADED) Can we bury the 80/20 aka “please settle” argument now?

      _____________

      :rofl:

      I really HATE that I agree with this...but yes, SOMETIMES that last person just wasn't FOR you long term...and people move on... :shrugs:

    • Ms.Fashion

      FeFe Feminine says:

      @Bibi

      I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder…which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump…if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest…women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive!

      ____________
      :cosign:

      In other words, DON'T BRING YOUR OLD SHYT INTO THE NEW SHYT.

      You can't put new wine into old bottles. (Shoutout to Redeemed because I know she/he know what I am referencing).

      :coffee:

    • DownBottom

      Since we have no new post, we need to liven this one up bit...
      :whistle: You're my lady
      My divine lady
      You're my lady
      Such a wonderful lady
      I can tell they're looking at us.

    • GAGIRL87

      This post has me :think: about Lyfe songs "Statistics"

      :whistle:

      25% of all men are unstable
      25% of all men can't be faithful
      30% of them don't mean what they say
      and 10% of the remaining 20 is gay

      That leaves you a 10% chance of ever finding your mate
      That means you better pay attention to these words that I say
      I'm gonna teach you how expose the 90%
      and show you what to do to keep the other 10.

      RULE #1
      Don't be a booty call
      If he don't respect you girl he gon forget you girl

      RULE #2
      If he's in a relationship
      If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you

      RULE #3
      Tell him that you're celibate
      And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it

      RULE #4
      Be the person you wanna find
      Don't be a nickel out here lookin' for a dime

      STATISTICS!

      15% of all men got a complex
      15% of all men don't practice safe sex
      20% of them come from homes without a father
      and there's a 50/50 chance that you'll marry a coward

      Something to think about when you're taking a shower
      Something to swallow when you're drinking bottled water

      I'm gonna teach you how to expose the 90%
      and show you what to do to keep the other 10

      Be patient! He's waiting!
      You don't gotta settle for that
      Leave what is past alone!
      Get you a backbone!
      Stop being (sorry for) yourself!

      Have you no checklist?
      It's gonna take patience
      Time is still wastin'

      Don't be a booty call
      If he don't respect you girl he gon forget you girl

      If he's in a relationship
      If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you

      Tell him that you're celibate
      and if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it.

      Be the person you wanna find
      Don't be a nickel out here lookin' for a dime.

    • Usual Suspect

      Electric Boogaloo - :happy: What up bew?

    • Gigi26

      @Bibi

      I think what I Go is saying is that a lot of times women wear their pain and past hurts on their shoulder…which can be somewhat of a turn-off from the jump…if a man feels like a woman is already doubting his sincerity then he will lose energy and eventually lose interest…women need to get BETTER at being careful, but not overly presumptive!
      ____________________________________

      I agree. Gotta experience the bad sometimes to get to/realize the good.

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAIJ
      "@MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish…but Brad didn’t upgrade imo…he can have the crypt keeper"
      ______________________

      He obviously upgraded TO HIM. I don't like Angelina Jolie either. She is way overrated to me... but you get the drift.

      Sometimes people UPGRADE. People act like that 80/20 malarkey is gospel. :shrugs:

    • Ms. YaYa

      GAGIRL87 says:
      @ IGO most women don’t go into relationships thinking the worst, I know I don’t every man is different I trust you until you give me a reason NOT too.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      What she said

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      I have been thru a lot but believe me when I tell you that I wipe the slate clean. I never bring past relationship issues into a new one. I don't get into relationships often cause I just do what I want but I'm very honest. I 'DATE' other men but if it's looking like there could be something than I know to end it with other dude. It's about being mature and that's it!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      YSoSrs says:

      I don’t believe that all men cheat. But I also don’t believe that people are meant to stay with one person forever every moment of their lives.

      Like I always say, even people that love their jobs need a vacation now and then. That’s not cynical. That’s pragmatic. :coffee:

      _________

      ^^^^^^^^^THIS!!

    • YSoSrs

      Sooo...I'm a HO if I don't feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha. :coffee:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      My thought is if women see's there something different about their husband address it - Im certain there were tell tale signs but some wives like to turn the cheek and pretend nothings wrong Im not on either side becuz my hubby cheated on me but I was different way different I didn't have time to argue investigate stalk none of that interested me - I knew my husband therefore I knew when he cheated I didn't turn the other cheek I prepared myself to DIVORCE HIM!

      SO GROW UP LIFE HAPPENS

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      Heyyyy Jenie gurl,,,Im diggin new the look,,,Not many women under 60 can pull off cheeks full of burgundy blush,,,But you workin it gal,,,Very retro,,,Very Blanche Devereaux-ish,,,Meeeeeow.

    • DownBottom

      :hi: @Cali, That's that wisdom that comes from age and/or experience!! I luv it! It puts EVERYTHING in perspective! #ThanksNana

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @FE FE
      "I really HATE that I agree with this…but yes, SOMETIMES that last person just wasn’t FOR you long term…and people move on… "
      __________________________________________________

      Exactly!!!

      How do you know if person "B" isn't better for you than person "A" unless you get to know both of them!

      SOMETIMES IT HAPPENS AND SOMETIMES IT DOESNT! THAT'S LIFE!
      :coffin: <<<80/20 bullchit

    • NaijaGal

      BiBi
      I gave you the side-eye hug in the other post :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      Bibi says:

      @Fefe

      But how in the hail, is that not a thought people make generally?? I wonder if he’s sincere? Do u believe everything ur told off jump? I mean I get some chicks can be like that but he is guarded (his words) how can he talk bout her being open when he ain’t??

      _________
      It's not about what you believe, it's about the energy that you put out...it is VERY possible for you to know some shyt may be up, but to act like you cool as a fan and be open...everything doesn't have to be so dramatic and expressive all the time... management of emotions is EVERYTHING... :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      @NAIJ
      “@MAN yeah I too think the 80/20 rule is on some ish…but Brad didn’t upgrade imo…he can have the crypt keeper”
      ______________________

      He obviously upgraded TO HIM. I don’t like Angelina Jolie either. She is way overrated to me… but you get the drift.

      Sometimes people UPGRADE. People act like that 80/20 malarkey is gospel. :shrugs:
      __________________

      Um Jennifer Aniston is overated :no: But arent you the one that like Kim Kardash :coffee: or was is Evelyn

    • KDub

      What in the wildabeast boogawolf HAIL? That bish is HIT. She the wife or the sidepiece? I ain't read yet.

      What size bra that dude wear? I keep hearing Biz Markie say "and a very big BRA" when I look at him...

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha.
      _______________
      Chile pls all that name calling and trying catagorize is for the birds the same females calling another female a HOE is one herself IMO

      Take OFFENSE - Oh well stop using that word to describe another female!

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      _____________

      ....not ONE lady would go forward with this "honest" man huh?
      :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      what ever is an upgrade to YOU, could very well be a downgrade to OTHERS....but who's opinion is the one you have to live with??? :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Brenden' 2: Electric Boogaloo says:

      Heyyyy Jenie gurl,,,Im diggin new the look,,,Not many women under 60 can pull off cheeks full of burgundy blush,,,But you workin it gal,,,Very retro,,,Very Blanche Devereaux-ish,,,Meeeeeow.
      ________________

      Meowwwww :rofl:

    • I Go There

      Bibi says:

      @Igo

      Perhaps she can’t be sure cuz of ur actions don’t blame the chick. If u gave enough chits to entertain the possibility of a relationship then show the chick u real…if u run cuz she expresses a fear then what choices she got
      __________________________________________

      Bibi if Im into a woman she'll know it... I also dont play the "we might be in a relationship game" Thats for novice and pussies dear... A woman will know im into her cause I say it and I will show it. If she tells me of her fears thats fine... See Fears are cool cause we all have em and if she HAS fears of me stepping out Ill do what I can to calm them and let her know Im not the other dude that did that....BUT every person does have a breaking point... If im with you and showing you how much I want to be with you and Im not stepping out on you and the relationship has grown past your other experiences then I would expect you to calm that shait down... If you 5 or 6 yrs in and you still got that tugging at you and the relationship has been nothing but wonderful then that fear REALLY becomes a fking Hangup that you dont wanna git rid of.... AKA EXTRA BAGGAGE YOU WANNA KEEP... otherwise not allowing you to really enjoy the relationship you wanted in the first place.

    • Bibi

      Oh and men do that all the time. Woman are usually optimistic but men don't forget the one that hurt them :nono:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man.

      ^^Yes. Women arent built for spreading it around. You have inneis,,,We have outies,,,Cant be just lettin any and everything in yo innies,,,Speshially arounst the same time :no:

    • Usual Suspect

      The 80/20 60/40 whatever somethings don't work for some people. I'm speaking of folks that are ALWAY looking for some shiat they don't have. PERFECTION.

      You drive a 96 Honda but you only date men tht drive certain typ of car.
      One of your legs is shorter than other, 5'4 and weigh 250 but will only date a chic that wears a 4.

      That kinda of bullshiat

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :yawn: its time time to switch topics

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      _________________

      :peace: <----me raising hands. I know how to distinguish fugging from feelings. If I'm purely attracted to him fugging we shall be doing but if I'm feeling him feeling him then I would have to let him go because I would be setting myself up for failure. I may miss the D but I will get over it! I will respect him for his honesty!

    • NaijaGal

      @MAN I see your point and you're right...and :cosign: FeFe sometimes God is saving you from that person so KEEP IT MOVING

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @JENIE
      "Um Jennifer Aniston is overated But arent you the one that like Kim Kardash or was is Evelyn"
      ______________________________

      I like both :heart: Kim K. :heart: and Evelyn. :love:

      But the point is people try to get the best person(s) they can. Men and women. Sometimes it works out good and sometimes it doesn't. :shrugs:

    • I Go There

      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
      ______________________________________________________________

      ISO

      You already know how I feel...

      Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      What size bra that dude wear? I keep hearing Biz Markie say “and a very big BRA” when I look at him…
      ______
      :rofl: :rofl:

    • GAGIRL87

      *coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment :coffee:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      Bibi says:

      Oh and men do that all the time. Woman are usually optimistic but men don’t forget the one that hurt them

      ^^BullShat! WOmen dont forget either,,,Were constantly being compared and punished for what Kwayvon did to you back in 2006,,,Come on now :-) btw Hey gurl :waves:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      ______________________________________________________________________

      You wont' get a real answer to that :nono: ... A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic

    • PERFECTO

      *I am living proof all men don't cheat......*

    • Gigi26

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      ___________________________________________

      Funny you asked that cuz I dealt with a dude just like that but I didn't want a relationship either so it worked for the both of us. We both didn't have the time to make that commmitment. There was no hard feelings either when I kept it moving. He's a good dude but not "my type to settle down with." DJM :tea:

      But I won't deal with that now that I am ready for a relationship. Somethings you just gotta walk away from to prevent an utter waste of time.

    • GAGIRL87

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      its time time to switch topics

      __________________________________________________________

      Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you* :popcorn:

    • YSoSrs

      @MAN

      I would go for the honest man but then I'm a desperate ho so I might not count. :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      GAGIRL87 says:

      *coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment :coffee:
      _____________

      We are -----> :thumbsup: <------ so right here :coffee: precisely

    • GAGIRL87

      PERFECTO says:

      *I am living proof all men don’t cheat……*
      __________________________________________________________

      :woohoo: :handclap:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.

      ^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see :think:

      #SignsThatYoureIntoFisting

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Usual Suspect says:

      The 80/20 60/40 whatever somethings don’t work for some people. I’m speaking of folks that are ALWAY looking for some shiat they don’t have. PERFECTION.

      You drive a 96 Honda but you only date men tht drive certain typ of car.
      One of your legs is shorter than other, 5’4 and weigh 250 but will only date a chic that wears a 4.

      That kinda of bullshiat
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Aint that the truth :rofl:

    • I Go There

      GAGIRL87 says:

      This post has me about Lyfe songs “Statistics”

      25% of all men are unstable
      25% of all men can’t be faithful
      30% of them don’t mean what they say
      and 10% of the remaining 20 is gay

      That leaves you a 10% chance of ever finding your mate
      That means you better pay attention to these words that I say
      I’m gonna teach you how expose the 90%
      and show you what to do to keep the other 10.

      RULE #1
      Don’t be a booty call
      If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl

      RULE #2
      If he’s in a relationship
      If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you

      RULE #3
      Tell him that you’re celibate
      And if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it

      RULE #4
      Be the person you wanna find
      Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime

      STATISTICS!

      15% of all men got a complex
      15% of all men don’t practice safe sex
      20% of them come from homes without a father
      and there’s a 50/50 chance that you’ll marry a coward

      Something to think about when you’re taking a shower
      Something to swallow when you’re drinking bottled water

      I’m gonna teach you how to expose the 90%
      and show you what to do to keep the other 10

      Be patient! He’s waiting!
      You don’t gotta settle for that
      Leave what is past alone!
      Get you a backbone!
      Stop being (sorry for) yourself!

      Have you no checklist?
      It’s gonna take patience
      Time is still wastin’

      Don’t be a booty call
      If he don’t respect you girl he gon forget you girl

      If he’s in a relationship
      If he will cheat on her that means he will cheat on you

      Tell him that you’re celibate
      and if he wants some of your goodies he gon have to work for it.

      Be the person you wanna find
      Don’t be a nickel out here lookin’ for a dime.
      ____________________________________________________

      Song by the same joker that JUST got outta Jail again for Battery of a woman....

      :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      @IGo :applause: and there it is

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      i have a question about condoms..... :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      GAGIRL87 says:

      *coughs* The grass is NEVER sometimes not greener on the other side it may just seems like that @ the moment :coffee:

      ____

      :)

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @GYPSY
      "If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      _________________

      <—-me raising hands. I know how to distinguish fugging from feelings. If I'm purely attracted to him fugging we shall be doing but if I'm feeling him feeling him then I would have to let him go because I would be setting myself up for failure. I may miss the D but I will get over it! I will respect him for his honesty!
      _____________________________

      :thinking:
      So if he is purely physically attractive enough than EVERYBODY is happy.
      If he ISN'T purely physically attractive enough YOU are happy.

      So either way YOU are happy and it's 50/50 for him...

      So why exactly would a dude NOT lie again?

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      ______________________________

      I like both :heart: Kim K. :heart: and Evelyn. :love:

      But the point is people try to get the best person(s) they can. Men and women. Sometimes it works out good and sometimes it doesn’t
      ______________

      True :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I Go There says:

      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
      ______________________________________________________________

      ISO

      You already know how I feel…

      Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
      ___________________________________________________________________

      Thats not true :nono: In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a "couple" after the first damn date with a person ...

    • DownBottom

      Soooo...we really ain't going to get a new post huh? :tea:
      :whistle: Quit your worrying baby
      Quit your worrying girl
      Quit your crying lady
      We can conquer the world

    • YSoSrs

      @BRENDEN

      Well, fck you too. :coffee:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @YSO
      "I would go for the honest man but then I’m a desperate ho so I might not count. "
      _________________

      In my all time knowing you, this is the sexiest thing you have ever said.
      **pours wine**

    • GAGIRL87

      @ IGO true but the message of the song is so true and I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      #SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
      ___________________

      This chit right here just made me scream :ghost:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Man
      If a guy is honest with me upfront yeah I don't see an issue with that! Like he shouldn't either :coffee:

    • I Go There

      JMO says:

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      ______________________________________________________________________

      You wont’ get a real answer to that … A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic

      ___________________________________________________________

      This shait is what I call "signing the waiver"

      SOME Women are ALWAYS say they are cool with some shait UNTIL
      they are in a "IN GOOD" with the guy. Then all the things they are good with they arent anymore.

    • GAGIRL87

      Fefe :love:

    • Gigi26

      But back to this obese joker up top. He's a piece of work because his WIFE is in the damn hospital and is worrying about his damn GIRLFRIEND?! Really?

      Ain't shyt at all. :no:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      What I'm saying is if there is physical attractiveness going on and I'm not looking for anything serious either we can be good cause it's just physical. However if I'm looking for more than I will keep it moving. Some ppl are not there for a relationship you just wanna fugg so if he says that's all he down for and that's all I'm down for then LEGGGOOO!

    • Trendsetter

      French KI$$E$ says:

      i have a question about condoms…..

      _______________________

      what's the question

    • Ms.Fashion

      GAGIRL87 says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      its time time to switch topics

      __________________________________________________________

      Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you*

      ___________

      We Leos are a mess!!! We can only talk about something for so long then we out!!! Our tolerance level is very low. :lol:

      No Shade To Everybody Else.

    • Usual Suspect

      If you meet a person and they want to be exclusive on the first date. RUN FAST!!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      a :newpost: is up...

    • KDub

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      ------------------------------------------------
      :peace: cause guess what? I aint interested in that ish right now either. Usta be a MUST for me. Nah I'm grown folks now.

      Fugg me and get the fugg on before my kids wake up and see you. THIS way... I aint gotta make you no breakfast. No you can't get a towel. Wash up atcho own dayum house. Using my good azz Dove. And don't text or call me telling me you got home safe cause Imma be SLEEP. It was great and see your azz next time. Maybe we can go on a real date to the movies or some shat...but I will let you know sir.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      ALL -

      what's the best condom to use for a man uncut? :waiting:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      ya can answer my question in the new post :kona:

    • DownBottom

      :yawns: @Naija, so what other celeb men do you find attractive? *makes note to see if any are on my list* :waiting:

    • GAGIRL87

      *SHOUTS* Jenie where da hail you @???????????? :waiting:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      YSoSrs says:

      @BRENDEN
      Well, fck you too.

      ^^Why? Because I believe a woman should be exclusive? Just because men do it and dont get labeled a ho, dont mean women should be able to do it too...Women exchange clothes and undergarments amongst each other,,,Nobody says boo,,,Should men be able to do that as well? Or are there just some things that one sex does that the other shouldnt :shrugs:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      Usual Suspect says:

      If you meet a person and they want to be exclusive on the first date. RUN FAST!!!!

      __________

      Girl....whew chile!

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      That is what I'm saying @KDUB!!!

    • Ms. YaYa

      Thank goodness there's a :newpost:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Brenden' 2: Electric Boogaloo says:

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      ^^ Escucho discos muy amigos :love: Yes shuga,,,That means-You are very sexy in French,,,The language of love :love:

      :ashamed: u tryna font my drawls off aintcha?! :hump: it's working :grill:
      how u durrin sessy?? i miss u! :love:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @BRENDEN
      "I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.
      _________________________

      ^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see

      #SignsThatYoureIntoFisting
      ________________

      :no:
      I think you are looking for CD and her love or Ms. Robyn Rihanna "Fisty."

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I Go There says:

      JMO says:

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @THE LADIES

      If a guy flat out tells you, he is not interested in a monogamous relationship, and he is currently dating… show of hands, how many of you would continue to date him and/or fluck him?
      ______________________________________________________________________

      You wont’ get a real answer to that … A number of women would because they think they can change the man which is ridic

      ___________________________________________________________

      This shait is what I call “signing the waiver”

      SOME Women are ALWAYS say they are cool with some shait UNTIL
      they are in a “IN GOOD” with the guy. Then all the things they are good with they arent anymore.
      _____________________________________________________________________

      Not even gonna respond to that... :lol:

    • Ms.Fashion

      @Igo

      Negro you just killed all of "Lyfe's" credibility!!!!

      :rofl:

    • YSoSrs

      @MAN

      *side eyes you and takes that glass of wine somewhat reluctantly*

      It was the "desperate ho" that did it, right? :think:

    • Bibi

      Truth: this fool cheated now I want out. Not what I signed up for. It's complicated. Don't need financial help but we friggin procreated and shoutouts to u single moms and chit but that wasn't what I planned. This is touchy. My bad. I'll holla

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      French KI$$E$ says:

      ALL –
      what’s the best condom to use for a man uncut?

      ^^^ :think: Hmmmm,,,Here I was always under the assumption that being uncut was like having a built in condom,,,Have I been doing things wrong :think:

    • GAGIRL87

      240

      Ms.Fashion says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      its time time to switch topics

      __________________________________________________________

      Pretty much bewski, what chu doing? *sits indian style by you*

      ___________

      We Leos are a mess!!! We can only talk about something for so long then we out!!! Our tolerance level is very low.

      No Shade To Everybody Else.
      ______________________________________________________________

      That we are, we command attention by just stepping in the room #chitleossay :lol:

    • YSoSrs

      @BRENDEN

      If a woman is clean and safe, she can do what she wants with her pussy. Period. Ain't no nig gone be out getting extra while I'm sitting at waiting like some sad sucker. :nono:

    • I Go There

      JMO says:

      I Go There says:

      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
      ______________________________________________________________

      ISO

      You already know how I feel…

      Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
      ___________________________________________________________________

      Thats not true In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a “couple” after the first damn date with a person …

      ________________________________

      JMO

      Some are cool but ive told some that I date and many
      will think that im out to fk em and leave em....

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I am in the other post @GAGIRL

    • I Go There

      Ms.Fashion says:

      @Igo

      Negro you just killed all of “Lyfe’s” credibility!!!!

      ________________________________________________

      YEP

      and Ill do it Tupac too

      :coffee:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      GAGIRL87 says:

      *coughs* The grass is NEVER greener on the other side it just seems like that @ the moment :coffee:

      :preach: chile MOST of the time that chit aint nuthin but ASTRO TURF! aint eem real grass :coffee:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      YSoSrs says:

      @BRENDEN
      If a woman is clean and safe, she can do what she wants with her pussy. Period. Ain’t no nig gone be out getting extra while I’m sitting at waiting like some sad sucker.

      ^^Thats fine shuga,,,But if you screwing multiple men at the same time as a means of payback,,,Youre more than a ho...Youre a silly ho #ijs If you do it,,,Because your man does it,,,Why not just drop the man? Instead of dropping it low for multiple men?

    • Usual Suspect

      @French Kiss - That' right get cho a z Z out this post and bet not see you in the next one. :dead:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Brenden' 2: Electric Boogaloo says:

      I like both Kim K. and Evelyn.

      ^^Umhhmmm. You likes yo cooter loose I see :think:

      #SignsThatYoureIntoFisting

      :dead:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I Go There says:

      JMO says:

      I Go There says:

      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…I’m a HO if I don’t feel the need to be exclusive with a man. Gotcha
      ______________________________________________________________

      ISO

      You already know how I feel…

      Tell a woman you just dating and Player and all that BS comes up.
      ___________________________________________________________________

      Thats not true In fact, I think people need to date more often instead of becoming a “couple” after the first damn date with a person …

      ________________________________

      JMO

      Some are cool but ive told some that I date and many
      will think that im out to fk em and leave em….
      _________________________________________________________________

      What did you say or do to make them think that?

    • YSoSrs

      @BRENDEN

      It's not about payback. It's about if you can do what you want I can do what I want.

      Not everything in a relationship is gonna be fair and balanced but some sht cannot be allowed for only one and not the other. You might be thinking this is where I'm going wrong in this area of my life. You might be right. Me know know. :shrugs:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @GYPSY
      "What I’m saying is if there is physical attractiveness going on and I’m not looking for anything serious either we can be good cause it’s just physical. However if I’m looking for more than I will keep it moving. Some ppl are not there for a relationship you just wanna fugg so if he says that’s all he down for and that’s all I’m down for then LEGGGOOO!"
      _______________

      I understand compeletely what you are saying. I get that.

      But what I'm questioning, is what is in it for the dude by being completely straight forward?

      He gains IF YOU FIND HIM PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE. That's the ONLY way he gains from that. The lying is to give the UN-ATTRACTIVE (or less than attractive)dude a better shot. What's in it FOR HIM to be straight forward? (nothing)

      And since nothing is in it for the ugly dude, the attractive dude gotta lie too. It's a vicious pyramid yall women make us build! LOL.

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      how u durrin sessy?? i miss u!

      ^^ I miss you 2 C cup :kiss: <----On the buzzum :ashamed:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      You might be thinking this is where I’m going wrong in this area of my life

      :no: Not at all,,,Were speaking hypothetically,,,If you Yso are celibate,,,And if that includes all holes closed,,,No oral no nothing...Then yeah you can date freely,,,But if you got a man,,,Why would you do that? If youre man is doing that,,,Why is he your man? Im not understanding :shrugs:

    • Ms.Fashion

      I Go There says:

      Ms.Fashion says:

      @Igo

      Negro you just killed all of “Lyfe’s” credibility!!!!

      ________________________________________________

      YEP

      and Ill do it Tupac too

      ________

      Yousa a man with some heart I see!! :thinking:

    • YSoSrs

      @BRENDEN

      My thing is I don't believe that one person can be everything for anybody. And it's not just about sex for me (obviously). You need different things from different people. Sometimes at the same time. It's when people try and make that one person fulfill their EVERY need that sht starts going wrong.

      And I get bored easily. And have a fear of commitment. So I'm sure those things play a part in my views as well. But not wanting to be tied down doesn't automatically make me ho as I see it. :shrugs:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      But not wanting to be tied down doesn’t automatically make me ho as I see it.

      ^^I guess it doesnt as long as youre not using that as an excuse to fck multiple men. Oh I dont wanna be tied down, oh I have a fear of commitment, Ohhhh Im just a ho. But if youre just dating because youre single and free to do such. Then more power to you I guess. As far as one person being everything for anybody...Hmmm...I mean I understand you dont need somebody to complete you per say,,,But if one person cant fufill your needs,,,Chile :think: You are very complex indeed :think: ION bout chu :think: #2Bcontinued