On the same day that the president of the United States made history by endorsing same-sex marriage, another man made a personal revelation that grabbed almost as many headlines.

Against Me! singer Tom Gabel revealed his decision to come out of the closet and begin living his life as a woman.

In the new issue of Rolling Stone magazine, Gabel, explained he will soon begin the process of transitioning to a woman by taking hormones and undergoing electrolysis treatments remove his body hair.

Gabel also revealed his plans to remain in his marriage to his wife -- a biological female.

From Rolling Stone:

Gabel will eventually take the name Laura Jane Grace, and will remain married to her wife Heather. "For me, the most terrifying thing about this was how she would accept the news," says Gabel. "But she's been super-amazing and understanding."

Gabel only told a handful of family and friends about her plan to transition before talking to Rolling Stone. Because this is the first time a major rock star has come out as transgender, the singer made a point of speaking openly about it. "I'm going to have embarrassing moments," says Gabel, "and that won't be fun. But that's part of what talking to you is about – is hoping people will understand, and hoping they'll be fairly kind."

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    • Songstress

      This world is so sad... #thatisall

    • Mr.BluPhi

      WHO? :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :blink:

    • NaijaGal

      :whistle:
      To everything
      Turn, turn, turn
      There is a season
      Turn, turn, turn
      And a time for every purpose under Heaven
      A time to be born, a time to die
      A time to plant, a time to reap
      A time to kill, a time to heal
      A time to laugh, a time to weep

      To everything
      Turn, turn, turn
      There is a season
      Turn, turn, turn
      And a time for every purpose under Heaven

      A time of love, a time of hate
      A time of war, a time of peace
      A time you may embrace
      A time to refrain from embracings

      To everything
      Turn, turn, turn
      There is a season
      Turn, turn, turn
      And a time for every purpose under Heaven

      A time to gain, a time to lose
      A time to rend, a time to sew
      A time for love, a time for hate
      A time for peace, I swear it's not too late

      To everything
      Turn, turn, turn
      There is a season
      Turn, turn, turn

      *this is what popped into my head after reading the post*

    • ItsIce

      Never heard of him/her.

    • Mr.BluPhi

      "Gabel also revealed his plans to remain in his marriage to his wife — a biological female."

      :blink:

      well to each their own.... as long as they're happy

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :blink: say what now

    • Hershey

      who is this again? Neva heard of her

      #politicallycorrect

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      I read this on Yahoo last night and I am still :huh: :blink: :shrug:
      I wonder if their marriage will have the same fate as Chaz Bono's?

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      :huh: IDK WHO HE IS.. BUT IF THAT WHAT MAKES HIM HAPPY DO IT!

    • Mamacita

      :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      yeah, this may be a topic I'll have to lurk on... :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      :hi: Hershey
      You are killing me (not in a good way) with your dinosaur train gravi choices. :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Ok um :huh:

    • candibfly

      i was also wondering how the marriage will survive this.

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      It's the lithium and prozac, and other hormones that they put in the water :coffee: Dasani, Naya, Etc....... :waves: morning Family

    • LadeeA

      Really... :coffee: :tape:

    • Mamacita

      them some big a*s feet!

    • Hershey

      H-town, :rofl: he does look rather dinosaurish doesn't he? :rofl:

    • iAmChan

      No mas...

      Morning yall, whats good?

    • Mr.BluPhi

      I know Redeemed has been throwing holy water at her screen for the past 2 days

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      I MEAN WE DONT KNOW WHAT HE IS GOING THRU AND IF THIS WILL MAKE HIS LIFE BETTER AND HIS WIFE IS OK WITH IT.. :shrug:

    • Bibi

      If she likes it I love it....

    • Mamacita

      So if he becomes a woman legally will their marriage be null and void if they live in a state that has banned gay marriage? Will they have to re-marry? In another state? :huh:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      Mamacita says:

      them some big a*s feet!
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~``
      :rofl: I can see your face while you typed that!

    • NaijaGal

      @Mamacita, courts don't recognize sex change...if they stay married they'll still be deemed as husband and wife

    • Bibi

      @Mamacita

      That's a damn good question....

    • Mr.BluPhi

      I say as long as he's happy and not harming anyone.... have it

      When you get a sex change, how does an orgasm work???

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Mamacita

      Good question, and if he was a straight man is he now a lesbian woman since he wants to remain with his wife? so many questions...

    • lovezoe

      :offtopic: Anyone watch Mary Mary show? I watched episodes 3,4, and 5 on Demand. Tina seem like a stick in the mud.

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      Mamacita says:

      So if he becomes a woman legally will their marriage be null and void if they live in a state that has banned gay marriage? Will they have to re-marry? In another state?
      ________________________________________________________________

      nope it dont matter how you change from man to woman or vice versa, you born one or the other. he still a man :shrugs:

    • Eazy

      Who is this? Why do we care? And what "biological" woman would stay with him? :think:

    • NaijaGal

      @lovezoe actually Erica's been getting on my nevers but I adore the show sans their sister goo-goo

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      :no: @Blue
      Don't say DeeDee name too loud round these here parts.

      @Hershey
      I almost choked on my water...mind you my lil one watches dinosaur train almost ever day! He looks like buddy in that pic. :hahaha:

    • Eazy

      I could put my whole fist in that mouth Hershey :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

      Good luck to him and his family. I just wonder how they'll explain this change to their daughter when she's old enough to understand that daddy was a boy and now he's a girl.

    • Hershey

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      I know Redeemed has been throwing holy water at her screen for the past 2 days

      ____________________________

      Please don't conjure up that seven scripture quoting, 12 tribe of Judea preaching, hypocritcal, saved only when I'm not on the internet, only I can judge you, I know the bible better than you ever will, can only go to church via her tv because she's banned across her city, member of the month on bible dot com woman/man/it. I can't with it today :coffee:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      I saw this yesterday. Apparently he's keeping his dyck.

      I think this why the wife can "make it work."

    • Mamacita

      @Naija Oh ok. I was talking to a guy I went to highschool with who has started the process of getting a sex change. He says that once the transformation is complete he will legally be a woman. But he is also a compulsive liar so I take things he says with a grain of salt...

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      I don't care about anyone's sexually, I really don't. I would rather them live out loud than to weap inside!!!!
      Live and let live!

      Merp!!!

    • lovezoe

      Goo-Goo is an ungrateful rat. How you gone ask for a retainer. I guarantee that Erica and Tina palm her hands whenever needed, work or no work. And from what I could tell, the styling NOT that great in the first place.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzwovsgiBXU lashellebelle

      Jesus take the WHEEL!!

      *pours power steering fluid in to be helpful*

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      :think:
      Maybe he and Chaz can exchange body parts...
      #helpful

    • http://www.wix.com/santanasantana/artist San

      Aint that much love in the world this way. No way I'd stay in that one.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Hershey says:

      ___________________________

      Please don’t conjure up that seven scripture quoting, 12 tribe of Judea preaching, hypocritcal, saved only when I’m not on the internet, only I can judge you, I know the bible better than you ever will, can only go to church via her tv because she’s banned across her city, member of the month on bible dot com woman/man/it. I can’t with it today :coffee:
      __________________
      I am in the exact same mood today :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :love: @Lashelle

      :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzwovsgiBXU lashellebelle

      @ Man

      :buttshake:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzwovsgiBXU lashellebelle

      Hey Baby Girl :love:

    • Ty

      Who ??!?!?!?! :shrug:

      :wave: @ All

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @LaTech (Comment #36)
      THIS Fake-Azz Pseudo Politically-Correct Societal BRAIN-Washing has made SO MANY People's Common Sense "Sensory" to Malfunction GREATLY Though...

      THIS Kind of SHYT is INSANE and Beyond RIDICULOUS... And I'm PROUD to be Amongst The REAL Thinking & Conscious individuals which seems to be THE MINORITY Nowadayz :coffee:

    • Anna

      Mr.BluPhi says:

      “Gabel also revealed his plans to remain in his marriage to his wife — a biological female.”

      ~~~~~
      Why is the wife not saying anything?

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      Maybe he and Chaz can exchange body parts…
      #helpful
      --------------------
      I... you... you know what.... just... :spank: :blink: .... :spank:

      Somebody had to eventually do it... :coffee:

    • YSoSrs

      Who? :yawn:

      Sup. :coffee:

    • Ty

      Man, I just don't care™ says:

      I saw this yesterday. Apparently he’s keeping his dyck.

      I think this why the wife can “make it work.”
      ___________
      A shim (she&him) with a dick...how romantic :hurl:

    • Bibi

      :(

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      @Yso You just made me :yawn: cuz you were :yawn: ing
      Hey dere.

    • Eazy

      Did anyone catch the shows on ABC last night? Modern Family was so funny...but the part I loved most was when he spoke of staying with his wife for the sake of his kids. That touched me :yes:

    • scorpio

      Still going to have MAN FEET, like in the photo, just like Chaz has LADY FEET, notice how small her feet were on dancing with the stars, did not match her body at all.

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      I saw this yesterday. Apparently he’s keeping his dyck.

      I think this why the wife can “make it work.”

      --------------
      And this is why I spanked you twice cuz I just knew you had a follow up.... :lol:

    • KyCakes

      So...when he's gettin it in with his Wife, she'll be saying ooh, girl, why you doing me like this? :blink:

      Mmmkay..... :coffee:

      But I digress...I agree with Lakes. To each shim own.....

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      So is there something else that we can talk about because this is boring?

    • anniemae

      Miss Sandra what's up with Time Magazine's cover?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      gypsyeyes says:

      So is there something else that we can talk about because this is boring?

      ________

      :cosign:

    • YSoSrs

      :waves: @WUT

    • KyCakes

      Y'all done got bored after 63 comments? :lol:

    • KyCakes

      YSO! :happy:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5lzXMdgD5I Mother Jefferson

      :coffee:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      We will never agree with the same thing.
      -------------------------

      Ok, so this morning I was listening to the radio and there was this woman that called the radio saying that the guy she dated came over to see her and they 'made out'. He is soon to be married and she called the radio station because she said that she is thinking about calling the fiance to tell her.
      What do yall think about that?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Ky

      :lol:

      It ain't much to say about the topic at hand without OFFENDING people! So yeah, let's just default to what we always end up discussing.... SESSS!!!! :D

    • Bootcampgirl

      DADT

    • Ms. Everything

      What I can't understand is how do you stay with your husband after he decides to be a woman? Maybe I've just never been that in love cause I can put up with a lot of ish (well I used to be able to before I got old and impatient) but you wanting to strut in ladies clothes and grow tits will never be one of them :nono:

      And how do you explain that to your child? I think that's the point where I would end up leaving and saying Daddy had an accident

    • KyCakes

      gypsyeyes says:

      We will never agree with the same thing.
      ————————-

      Ok, so this morning I was listening to the radio and there was this woman that called the radio saying that the guy she dated came over to see her and they ‘made out’. He is soon to be married and she called the radio station because she said that she is thinking about calling the fiance to tell her.
      What do yall think about that?
      ---------------------------------------------------------------------
      Why is she participating in the crime, if she knew he was dirty?

      Simple bish. She should have called the Fiancee when he attempted to make out with her.....Not done the deed than hollerd....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @gypsey

      She needs to stay in her PLACE! Dumb broad...

    • KyCakes

      FeFe Feminine says:
      @Ky
      It ain’t much to say about the topic at hand without OFFENDING people! So yeah, let’s just default to what we always end up discussing…. SESSS!!!!
      -------------------------------------------------------------
      :biggrin:

    • Eazy

      I think that’s the point where I would end up leaving and saying Daddy had an accident
      _____________________________
      I have to agree with this cause daddy would be dead to me. :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      I just googled the time magazine cover and all I can say is :blink: and :vomit:
      This is coming from a mother who breastfed both babies.

    • West Coast Chick

      GOD makes NO mistakes when creating humans. you can be gay and still be the same gender...I honestly dont understand that aspect of homosexuality :shrugs:

    • lovezoe

      KyCakes says:

      gypsyeyes says:
      We will never agree with the same thing.
      ————————-
      Ok, so this morning I was listening to the radio and there was this woman that called the radio saying that the guy she dated came over to see her and they ‘made out’. He is soon to be married and she called the radio station because she said that she is thinking about calling the fiance to tell her.
      What do yall think about that?
      ———————————————————————
      Why is she participating in the crime, if she knew he was dirty?
      Simple bish. She should have called the Fiancee when he attempted to make out with her…..Not done the deed than hollerd….
      -----------------------
      Typical scorned broad. Misery loves company. Even if ole girl break it off with him, don't mean you go be his main girl EVER. He knows how you get down, why make a commitment to a woman with loose morals.

    • Mamacita

      @gyps Why was he going to see the ex when he's getting married anyway? AND they kissed? Idk I don't like getting into other people's business, especially realtionships, but I may say something if they're going to make a life altering decision such as marriage.

    • Eazy

      He is soon to be married and she called the radio station because she said that she is thinking about calling the fiance to tell her.
      What do yall think about that?
      ___________________________________
      women like this really make me second guess our intelligence as a whole. dumb azz prob thought she could take him away from the fiancee and when the "make out" session didnt work, now she wants to confess to the other woman

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      http:// http://www.time.com/time/ covers/0,16641, 20120521,00. html

      remove the spaces

    • lovezoe

      Okay, I just googled the Times article. I am just going to :kona: on that one. No ma'am. No ma'am. Uh uh.

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      But I digress…I agree with Lakes. To each shim own
      :yes: LET US ALL BE GRRRREAT!! :lol: WE TAWKING BOUT SESS YET??

    • pointhimout

      I CAN'T.

    • Ms. Everything

      @Gyps I think she's a dumb ass broad who deserves what ever comes to her if she calls that man's fiance

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IIF9IAQSnU H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD)

      http:/ /www .time. com/time /covers/0,16641,20120521,00. html

      remove the spaces. the first post was put in moderation.

    • cheeks8683

      I don't know who this dude/female/she-male is but what he is doing is extremely selfish... If you have any doubt about your sexuality or gender at all (I'm thinking he had these feelings prior to getting married) don't bring anyone else, relationship wise, along for the ride unless they know whats up and they are a willing participant. Yes his wife accepts it now but think about the feelings she has already invested in the relationship/marriage. I could not imagine having to hear that the man that I married wanted to now live as a woman...Heck what did I do to make him feel this way??? Thats too much emotional stress to put on anyone because you're confused. #jmo

    • Eazy

      Wtf is in :coffee: ??! I tried being grown today and had a cup with my mom and now Im back in forth to the fvckn restroom :mad:

    • Bootcampgirl

      I do not like this attachment parenting thing...

    • Bibi

      :yawn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      ok, that Time Magazine pic is just too much! I felt VERY uncomfortable looking at that shyt! They must be in trouble because this is nothing but a last ditch effort to sell magazines!

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      EAZY :coffe: MAKES LOTS OF PEOPLE ESSTOMACH LOOSE.. HAPPENS TO MY COWORKER ALL THE DANG TIME :lol:

    • Ms. Everything

      :shocked: I don't care how long people want to breastfeed their kids but posing on the cover of a magazine with a half grown teenage looking kid hanging from your tit is just wrong.... poor baby

    • West Coast Chick

      KyCakes says:

      gypsyeyes says:
      We will never agree with the same thing.
      ————————-
      Ok, so this morning I was listening to the radio and there was this woman that called the radio saying that the guy she dated came over to see her and they ‘made out’. He is soon to be married and she called the radio station because she said that she is thinking about calling the fiance to tell her.
      What do yall think about that?
      ———————————————————————
      Why is she participating in the crime, if she knew he was dirty?
      Simple bish. She should have called the Fiancee when he attempted to make out with her…..Not done the deed than hollerd….
      ———————–
      Typical scorned broad. Misery loves company. (sounds that way to me, too :coffee: )

    • West Coast Chick

      Ms. Everything says:

      I don’t care how long people want to breastfeed their kids but posing on the cover of a magazine with a half grown teenage looking kid hanging from your tit is just wrong…. poor
      ______________________

      what the fluck are yall talkin bout? :lol:

    • Ms. Everything

      Google Time Magazine cover @WCC

    • KyCakes

      @WCC gravi change in 3, 2, 1.....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

      OMG, one of the mothers interviewed in the article said that she breastfed until she was 6 years old. Yikes.

    • lovezoe

      I say when a kid can come up to you shirt, unbutton it, and start suckling time to move on from the breastmilk. Cows milk is not the only milk out there.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Ms.Everything

      Yeah that pic is borderline incest....

      Can we say Oedipus Complex!!???

    • Bibi

      FeFe Feminine says:

      ok, that Time Magazine pic is just too much! I felt VERY uncomfortable looking at that shyt! They must be in trouble because this is nothing but a last ditch effort to sell magazines!

      :wtf: at that pic. I know someone who breastfed till the kid was 3 and he's 10 now obsessed with boobs. Iono if one has to do with the other but I thought that was creepy..

    • Anna

      H-Townmama ( I let Fayla whip it REAL GOOD) says:

      http:/ /www .time. com/time /covers/0,16641,20120521,00. html

      remove the spaces. the first post was put in moderation.

      ~~~~~~~~~
      I just typed in timemagazine.
      That is uncalled for. The boy should be embarrassed, mom should be shamed.

    • KyCakes

      Eazy says:

      Wtf is in :coffee: ??! I tried being grown today and had a cup with my mom and now Im back in forth to the fvckn restroom
      --------------------------------------------------------------
      !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:
      EAZY :coffe: MAKES LOTS OF PEOPLE ESSTOMACH LOOSE.. HAPPENS TO MY COWORKER ALL THE DANG TIME
      -------------------------------------------------------------------
      The caffeine will inspire your bowels to move cross country if your body is not used to it.... :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      I'm not a mother, but from what I've read babies don't need to be breast fed past 3 years old!

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      SO WE AINT TAWKING BOUT NUFFIN GOOD.. :kona:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      KY FAWK UR GRAVI LADY JUST FAWK IT OTAY.. :tape:

    • KyCakes

      @laker I will say the tweets that you were re-tweeting...the sex ones...were giving me fever....

    • Ms. Everything

      I know people who breastfed into the late toddler/early school age years and their kids turned out fine. They say it's healthier and all that. I never made it that long or even wanted to go that long :shrugs: To each their own but why embarrass your child by putting that on the cover of a magazine. He now has to live with that being public knowledge and I know from experience that if you remind a man that he was breastfed until he entered elementary school, he will get pissed off and not speak to you for awhile (especially if you laugh while saying it)

    • KyCakes

      @Laker :lol:

      You act like that's ME on the cover.... :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Eazy

      Coffee products have a diuretic in them, that's why it has that effect if you don't drink them that often...

      #helpful

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      KY MMMHHMM!! THEM TWEETS WERE HAWT.. HAD MY LIZ THROBN!! :ashamed: <<NOT REALLY!

    • KyCakes

      Lakes :hahaha:

    • Bootcampgirl

      Sandy, have you peeper her blog, apprently she's a fellow blogger??

    • Ms. Everything

      @FeFe my issue isn't so much with the act (although that's a big ass 3 year old) but with the fact that they have the picture on the cover of a magazine which will scar him later on in life. I don't have a problem with breastfeeding that long because I know people who've done it, it just wasn't for me and mine :shrugs: but keep that ish out of the magazines

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :hugs: @Bootcamp

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Ms.Everything

      Yeah I hear you...and again I'm not a mom, but this seems WEIRD....I know a lot of my male cousins had fascinations with breasts all the time growing up (likely around the age of this boy on the mag) and if they are KNOWINGLY suckling at their mother's tit that just seems a bit off to me...but :shrugs:

    • Ty

      FeFe Feminine says:

      I’m not a mother, but from what I’ve read babies don’t need to be breast fed past 3 years old!
      ___________
      If they can chew they need to be eating table food :coffee:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      **FLASHES THE FATMONAKAY SIGNAL** :danban: WERE FUK ERRBODY GO??

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Ty

      :lol: right! I mean do we see the animal kingdom nursing their "kids" for years????

    • Anna

      LaKErCHiC@*! says:

      **FLASHES THE FATMONAKAY SIGNAL** WERE FUK ERRBODY GO??

      ~~~~~~
      Some had :coffee: so their probably in the restroom. Others are at lunch.

    • Bootcampgirl

      :yahoo: FeFe

      Here's a little story just for you:

      DOVER, Del.- Authorities in Delaware say the Wilmington Police Department has arrested a woman accused of crushing three kittens to death with her hands.

      The Delaware Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals said 21-year-old Ashley Barnes was taken into custody on Rodney Square in Wilmington on Wednesday morning.

      The Delaware SPCA said it received an anonymous tip Tuesday, May 8, following a news report investigators were seeking the whereabouts of Barnes after she failed to appear for her arraignment in the Court of Common Pleas in Georgetown on April 25. That tip was passed on to the Wilmington Police Department, which arrested Barnes.

      Barnes is facing three felony counts of animal cruelty. She is being held on $3,000 secured bond.

      The incident is alleged to have happened on April 6, while Barnes- who is from Florida- was staying with friends in Millsboro. According to the Delaware SPCA, Barnes is suspected of intentionally killing the three kittens that belonged to an acquaintance. According to investigators, Barnes is believed to have crushed the kittens to death with her hands after the acquaintance accused her of stealing prescription medicine.

      The owner of the kittens, who asked to remain anonymous, said she took Barnes in like a daughter and she cannot believe that she could do something like this.

      "They were 6-days-old, born on April 1- April Fool's Day- and this happened on the 6th, on Good Friday," she said. I was beside myself. It's very upsetting that somebody could do that."

      The owner's friend, Charmion Rocker of Millsboro, said she found the kittens in the room away from their mother.

      "I went in and picked the first kitten up and when I got it up...all the guts spilled out," she said. "You could see where it was squished. It was not ripped, it was popped."

      Barnes had been staying in Delaware for only about five weeks when the incident occurred, the Delaware SPCA said.
      ___________________________
      This bish right here :shotsfired1:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      So yesterday I was listening to Pandora and 'Ready or Not' came on from After 7 and I posted that I heard that song and it made me smile cause of memories from when I was 15. My first love used to sing it all the time when we were dating!

      Phone rang at 6:15am and on the other line was my first love from when I was 15 singing that song all the way from Germany. Best wake up call EVA!!!!

    • Ms. Everything

      From my experience most little boys that have an obsession with breasts have it because it's a comfort thing. If you cuddle with a child (and most mothers love cuddling with cute little baby boys) they get hugged up against your chest, it's something that can't be avoided especially if you have big boobs BUT when they get a little older, we start smacking their hands away and telling them they can't do that which causes the obsession to grow from comfort to plain old curiosity :shrugs: My grandma used to tell me when I was younger not to smack the baby boys for grabbing cause they don't know what they're doing and by smacking their hands it causes them to do it intentionally because you're making them aware. It doesn't come from breastfeeding though

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @WCC (Comment #77)
      I KEEPS IT Real SIMPLE Though !!!

      There's MALE, FEMALE and ----> THAT Other SHYT... :nono:

      Society BRAIN-Washing with THIS NWO, Gay Agenda and Neutral GENDER Agenda will not change MY SENSIBILITIES (I REFUSE To Get Caught Up...) :coffee:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      Phone rang at 6:15am and on the other line was my first love from when I was 15 singing that song all the way from Germany. Best wake up call EVA!!!!

      AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW THATS SUPER SWEET :love:

    • KyCakes

      :offtopic: Which I'm sure you ALL appreciate....
      ------------------------------------------------------------------
      I wonder if anybody can get Dr. Sherry to venture over from We TV to VH1 and help Tami Roman work through her issues because this child–actually this 40-year-old woman—clearly has some sort of complex her current therapist has not been able to break through.

      I’ve respected Tami’s crazy for a while, but what I can’t stand is that she expects other people to adjust to her crazy and approach her as such—which isn’t doable for people who are not actually crazy like she is. Her victim game has been evident in her arguments with Keisha on “Basketball Wives,” when she attacks the poor girl for not confronting her in the same ghetto way she wants to be, and now she has the nerve to say viewers of the show aren’t being respectful of her and her issues. She told Sister 2 Sister:

      “Waking up to negativity on Twitter, negativity on Facebook, negativity on blogs, it’s emotionally and mentally draining, and things people say because they think they know you for watching you one hour of the week, it can weigh on your psyche.

      “The way I’ve dealt with things over the course of my life comes from deep-routed issues. Everybody has to respect the fact that people are going to take the journey and cross bridges when they’re ready to do it. “People judge based on how they would handle a situation. They don’t take into consideration how a person was raised. Everybody’s going to handle things differently.”

      Does she want to run that tape back and see how sympathetic she was not to the fact that Keisha wasn’t raised to call a woman a b**** and steal her purse because she wouldn’t cuss her out in public (sorry, spoiler)? Tami then proceeds to read off a list of things she should be telling herself when it comes to dealing with conflict in her little clique

      “You don’t have to follow me on Twitter. You really don’t. You don’t have to like me on Facebook. You don’t have to do any of that. If you disagree with how I handle something or the way a moment went down, you can say that and you don’t have to call me a b****. You don’t have to call me a lowlife. You don’t have to call me a hood rat. You don’t have to call me out my name to get your point across.”

      Interjection: Is this the same woman who addressed Keisha with b****, b****, and more b****? OK, just checking. Carry on.

      “I can take any type of criticism as long as you’re respectful to me,” she continued, “but people have a tendency to chastise and belittle us and not really realizing they’re doing the [bullying].”

      Mmmmkay Tami. If you say so.
      -----------------------------------------------------------
      :coffee:

      She's an idiot....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Bootcamp

      :cry: I am so sad now.... :no:

      I want to :shotsfired: that bitch for real!!!!!

      That reminds me of that cunt in Croatia who had a box of kittens and threw them into the river one by one a couple of years ago...I have NO tolerance for people who harm animals and children!

    • Ms. Everything

      @Boot they would've had me in custody for trying to squish that bish with my bare hands :no: :cuss:

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Gypsy-That gave me chills..

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

      @Bootcamp wow! That takes a sick individual. Now I have to call my DE fam and make sure she's not a relative.

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      :no: THATS SOO EVAAIL!! :cry: I DONT DO KITTIES OR PETS REALLY.. BUT THAT IS JUST FAWKN SIK!

    • Bootcampgirl

      IKR, who does that type of shat... :argue:
      Apparently, that story about the dentist removing all her ex's teeth, was a hoax..

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      :cry:

      The poor kittens were probably crying for help!

      *has to go take a breather for real*

    • Ms. Everything

      I didn't believe that story from the jump cause no dentist in their right mind would do that after going through all it takes to go through dental school in the first place. Not over an ex. And what fool would be dumb enough to continue seeing a dentist that he just dumped :thinking:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      All those chicks are hypocrites @ BBW.

    • MZN

      THANK YOU ELOVE!

      And this society is doing a damn good job of it too!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      We offtopic yet :yawn:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      OH BOOT THAT ESSTORY GOT MY TUMMY HURTING.. IMAGINE SQUEEZING THEM SO HARD THEY POP :cry:

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      We offtopic yet

      ---------------------------------------------------------------------
      I've been waiting too, :yawn:

    • Bibi

      Quick question why was Megan Good at Natalie Nunn's wedding? Are they friends? :thinking:

    • NaijaGal

      I really liked the therapist from Couples Therapy...seemed like she really wanted to help and not just get fame...hrm Dr. Drew :whistle:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      BIBI CHINIZLE GOT MARRIED?? TO WHO?

    • KyCakes

      Let's see....we talked abotu the mommy whipping out her titty to her 21 yr old, a chick who squeezed cats to death and Tami Roman's simple BBQ heaux azz....

      Yeah. I'd say we've been off topic for a minute...

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      @Daddy time to wake on up now I guess :lol:

    • Bootcampgirl

      My ex would be the last place I would be going to for shat...I agree, I don't think she would waste her entire career on doing something so foolish...

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      WERE IS ACE.. I NEED TO ASK ABOUT THEM CHOCOLATE SHOTS.. I MIGHT NEED SOME OF THEM :yes:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      @bootcamp-we are FB friends and my number is on my info. I haven't heard his voice since the 90's. It was like I was a kid again. I didn't say who it was or what song it was he just knew what I was talking about.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      KyCakes says:

      Let’s see….we talked abotu the mommy whipping out her titty to her 21 yr old, a chick who squeezed cats to death and Tami Roman’s simple BBQ heaux azz….

      Yeah. I’d say we’ve been off topic for a minute…
      __________________

      @Ky that gravi is the devil :no: :)

    • I Go There

      We still on this Lady thats a dude?

      :coffee:

    • Bibi

      @Laker

      Some young guy who is allegedly a football player except some say theres no record of him playing anywhere :tea:

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      :offtopic:

      What's up with every woman in the building reading a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey, or some shait like that? :thinking:

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      @Jeni, Ky just slapped me, lol

    • KyCakes

      Yes it is, Jenie... :lol:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      BIBI OH.. HEY SHE GOTS TO LIVE TOO :coffee:

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Gypsy-girl stop, you are sending chills all through my body with that post. Is he available, or did I miss you clarifying that??

    • Bibi

      @DW

      Every woman everywhere apparently....

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Daddy Warbucks says:

      :offtopic:

      What’s up with every woman in the building reading a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey, or some shait like that? :thinking:
      ________________

      I hear there is a lot of :hump: in that book :coffee:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      DADDY **HEEHEE** DID U SAY FELIZ MADRES DAY TO UR WIFIE?? :love: DID U SAY SHE WAS HALF MESSICAN??

    • Anna

      Bootcampgirl says:


      Apparently, that story about the dentist removing all her ex’s teeth, was a hoax..
      ~~~~~~~
      The comments were funny. 1 person said that she should have pulled all but the tooth he was complaining about.

    • KyCakes

      @DW :lol: In a good, erotic way, though...

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      What’s up with every woman in the building reading a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey, or some shait like that?
      ^^^ I NEED TO GET THIS BOOK IN MY LIFE I HEARD IT WAS A GOOD MOIST PANTY MAKER :yes:

    • Bootcampgirl

      Natalie Nunn is the epitome of an attention seeking person, but her body is banging...

    • Bibi

      @Boot

      :cosign:

    • West Coast Chick

      ELove says:

      @WCC (Comment #77)
      I KEEPS IT Real SIMPLE Though !!!

      There’s MALE, FEMALE and —-> THAT Other SHYT…

      Society BRAIN-Washing with THIS NWO, Gay Agenda and Neutral GENDER Agenda will not change MY SENSIBILITIES (I REFUSE To Get Caught Up…)
      ________________________

      exactly! that my point

    • Ms. Everything

      @DW I haven't read it and have no intention on reading it :shrugs: but it does seem that everybody down to my mama has read it

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      I WANT A TURKEY COB SAMMY.. WITH AVOCADOES :yes: #HUNGRYTALK

    • Anna

      NaijaGal says:

      I really liked the therapist from Couples Therapy…seemed like she really wanted to help and not just get fame…hrm Dr. Drew
      ~~~~~~
      I like her too. She gets emotional w/the couples.

    • NaijaGal

      Wendy Williams ruined my desire to read it...so far what I gather is that it's just a sex book

      *Anybody ever read ADDICTED, probably the only somewhat decent book Zane every wrote*

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      @!*LaKErCHiC@*!
      Moist panty maker you say :coffee: Hmm mmm I am going to cop this book

    • Ms. Everything

      @Naija I don't do Zane, every time I try my stomach turns :shrugs:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      Wendy Williams ruined my desire to read it…so far what I gather is that it’s just a sex book

      *Anybody ever read ADDICTED, probably the only somewhat decent book Zane every wrote*
      _________________

      :coffee: I like sex books

    • Bootcampgirl

      Ms. Everything says:

      @DW I haven’t read it and have no intention on reading it but it does seem that everybody down to my mama has read it
      ___________________
      :cosign:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Bootcampgirl says:

      Natalie Nunn is the epitome of an attention seeking person, but her body is banging…
      ____________

      True :coffee:

    • Bibi

      I wanna read it but there are so many other books I wanna read and I don't have time for them so....

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      @bootcamp-He is actually married and has been married since 1994. They are stationed in Germany but his son goes to Savannah State with my son(both freshmen). When my ex hubby died he called his son and sent him over to the athletic dorms to look after my son. When he visited his son back in the fall he checked on my son and took him out to dinner with his family and left him a lil something ($$$)

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      JENNI **ADDS TWO SHOTS OF PATRON TO THAT :coffee: ** YEP IM GETTING IT THAT AND ADDICTED ** :wink: NAIJA**

    • Bibi

      @Gypsy

      He sounds like a good one....

    • NaijaGal

      @Ms.E I think in the beginning she tried to actually be a good author but along the way it's just turned into nothing but bad porn in word form

    • West Coast Chick

      KyCakes says:

      @WCC gravi change in 3, 2, 1…..

      ___________________________

      :shocked: what the.......

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      DADDY **HEEHEE** DID U SAY FELIZ MADRES DAY TO UR WIFIE?? DID U SAY SHE WAS HALF MESSICAN??

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------

      :ops: THAT'S WHY SHE WAS ACTING :mad: this morning!!! I forgot that today is Madres Day in Mexico. I'm slipping

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Igo what is that in your gravi :huh:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      GYPS U MUST BE AN AWWSOME WOMAN LADY ALL THE ESSTORIES ABOUT UR EX HUBBY AND GOOD MEN .. :hug:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      DADDY YEP.. GETRR DONE YO!! FLOWERS.. I WOULD SAY EDIBLE ARRANGEMENTS THO.. :yes:

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      Ms. Everything says:

      @DW I haven’t read it and have no intention on reading it but it does seem that everybody down to my mama has read it

      -----------------------------------------------------------------------
      The ladies are all up under thier desks reading it. Is it that serious? :thinking:

    • Ms. Everything

      @Gyps aww he sounds like a good guy, just as a friend (since he's married), but good that you have him in your life

    • I Go There

      NaijaGal says:

      Wendy Williams ruined my desire to read it…so far what I gather is that it’s just a sex book

      *Anybody ever read ADDICTED, probably the only somewhat decent book Zane every wrote*

      ___________________________________________________

      Not a bad book at all.

    • Bibi

      Happy Mommy Day Laker!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      !*LaKErCHiC@*! says:

      DADDY YEP.. GETRR DONE YO!! FLOWERS.. I WOULD SAY EDIBLE ARRANGEMENTS THO..

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------

      I'm on it, Thanks Lakes!

    • Bibi

      @IGO

      U read Zane???

    • KyCakes

      I always like to read erotic novels if I know I have azz on the way...
      But my sess life has been drier than Kim K's sahara cat for a minute now... :wail:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      BIBI THANKS :hug: MY LIL MAN READING ME A POEM TUUMORROW AT ESSCHOOL.. I MIGHT CRY YALL :cry:
      DADDY I GOT CHU! :hug:

    • I Go There

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Igo what is that in your gravi
      _________________________________

      Watch
      Bowtie
      Crown & Coke
      Cufflinks

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      BIBI U A MADRE TOO RIGHT?? IF SO FELIZ DIA DE LAS MADRESITAS HERMOSA :hug:

    • Ms. Everything

      @Naija probably and since I don't like porn her books just sicken me. You can be sexier with a little discretion. I don't need to know every grimy little detail :shrugs:

    • I Go There

      Bibi says:

      @IGO

      U read Zane???
      __________________________

      Ive read a couple...

      Eric Jerome Dickey too

      :coffee:

    • Bibi

      @Laker

      Gracias pero el domingo lo celebro yo..yo no se qual es el dia de las madre dominicano :shrugs:

      @Igo

      I used to like him back in the day...

    • Ms. Everything

      Igo I've read almost all his books

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      EJD is that dude!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JNDi1mpG5ps&feature=youtube_gdata_player Ace

      <-- is in the next post if you need to find him... :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      KyCakes says:

      I always like to read erotic novels if I know I have azz on the way…
      But my sess life has been drier than Kim K’s sahara cat for a minute now… :wail:
      __________________

      :rofl:

    • I Go There

      Ms. Everything says:

      Igo I’ve read almost all his books
      _____________________________________

      Yep Ive read one
      that was good to me... Genevieve

    • Ms. Everything

      Igo Genevieve was excellent :yes: it took me a second to get into but after that I couldn't put it down

    • Bootcampgirl

      @Gypsy-Sounds like there is a special place in heaven for him, to go out of his way to check on your son and making sure he is ok. That is wonderful and gives me hope that there are still some good men out there. I'm just having a hard time finding his azz... :rofl:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Yes he is a good one.I've been lucky to have some good guys in my life. I just can't find one now!

    • NaijaGal

      @IGo I thought Addicted was ight...now Eric Jerome Dickey is my boy, although he's veered way left for me lately