Why You’re Not Married Yet: Three-time divorcée helps desperate women find Mr. Right

Most women who seek advice on men and marriage look to their friends who are already happily married.

Tracy McMillan is a three-time divorcée and daughter of a former prostitute. She doesn’t fit the typical image of a relationship guru who is in high demand on the television talk show circuit.

But her divorce status didn’t matter to readers of the Huffington Post, where her blog titled Why You’re Not Married Yet was the most read post ever.

McMillan told MSNBC‘s Kathie Lee and Hoda: “I’m just your best friend who’s been through all kinds of stuff in relationships and I’m here to kind of tell you the real truth.”

And the truth, according to McMillan, is that women lie to themselves rather than face cold hard facts.

She explained: ‘A lot of times, it’s because there’s a guy, he’s cute, you like him but he says, “you know what I’m really not ready to be in a relationship”. And you say to yourself, “well I’ll treat this like a temp job so if I really wow on the job maybe he’ll hire me full time.”‘

McMillian believes that when a man wants to get married he will know. There’s not much that women can do to make a man settle down when he’s not ready.

Most women force a man to get down on one knee — and most men oblige, even though they are not interested in a wedding. Which is what happened with Ms. McMillan — three times.

McMillan suggests that women ask themselves, do I come across as a bitch? Am I being superficial? — And if the answer is yes, McMillan urges women to change who they really are if they want a ring on their finger.

“You really have to be soft and vulnerable to form a relationship,” not bitter and defensive — she explained.

In her book, McMillan urges her readers to treat love as a “spiritual assignment” not as a list of physical requirements.

“If you’re not married and you want to be, you need to express more love. Not get more love,” she writes. “Express it. Feel it. Be it. See it everywhere.”

And I might add, while you’re expressing and being love, continue to express love long after you’re married.

A lot of women think it’s the man’s job to express love and treat them like queens, when in reality, men wanted to be treated special, too. If you forget that a man wants to be treated like a man — he will go out and find a woman who will.


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    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      I like her hair! I ain’t reading that damned article though. :no:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :yawn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      :popcorn:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      :rofl: whoever said she was a BEAUT :rofl:

    • Cha Cha

      :hahaha: SANDRA I didnt get past daughter of a prostitute…WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU WOMAN

    • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

      If your goal is just to be in love then her advice is cool. If you open yourself up and I mean wide open it will come flying threw the door. Of course it could be a womanizer, batterer, druggie, etc, but you’ll find love. She clearly doesn’t specialize in finding the right one or keeping a relationship going.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      *hasn’t read the post yet*

      Marriage is overrated….that is all… :)

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Im not reading that

    • Cha Cha

      tellem Bird :yes:

    • lady_cn

      “If you’re not married and you want to be, you need to express more love. Not get more love,” she writes. “Express it. Feel it. Be it. See it everywhere.”

      _________________________________________________________

      :rolleyes:

      Seriously???

    • gbellab

      A lot of women think it’s the man’s job to express love and treat them like queens, when in reality, men wanted to be treated special, too. If you forget that a man wants to be treated like a man — he will go out and find a woman who will.
      AMEN

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      How can someone that was the mold for the SCREAM mask tell me about why I’m not married? If she don’t sit her Steve Harvey get rich quick scheming azz outta here!

      Women that can’t keep a man be KILTING me!

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      So dis the woman who didn’t know her man was on the DL? … mmmkay… :coffee:

    • EB

      Tracy McMillan is a three-time divorcée and daughter of a former prostitute :dead:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

      :hahaha:

    • OutsidetheBox

      I just dont know many ppl still asking themselves this dumb question. Maybe its a behind closed doors kind of thing. I for sure know why im not married.

    • Cha Cha

      “You really have to be soft and vulnerable to form a relationship,” not bitter and defensive — she explained.

      this advice is appearing in the wrong blog :coffee: IJS

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      the reason why women aren’t married is because they’re too focused on being married! Just do you…and enjoy DOING YOU! :shrugs:

      I’m out folks…

    • I Go There

      I can answer that for yall with you guys having to spend the 24.95 and Barnes and Nobles or trying to get it downloaded to your kindle…

      YOU READY

      *clears Throat
      Ahem

      Here it is…

      Some of you not supposed to
      Dont mean that you wont make great wives
      but its just the luck of the draw
      Being married is not gonna be your cure all
      and Last but not least
      A few of you are so fked up that its a waste of time to even get into it.

      Please send your 2.99
      in care of

      IGOs ADVICE
      P.O.BOX 6969
      Getitin LN
      Fk, Anywhere USA

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      I’m not playing with Gypsy no mo! :no: :rofl:

      @ Fe…..Email me please. :hug:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :lol: She aint looking for love. :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAzGSRdTGgA&feature=player_embedded AWESOME

      @Gyps
      She’s looking more like Cher’s son in that one movie.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      So dis the woman who didn’t know her man was on the DL? … mmmkay… :coffee:
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Wasn’t that Terry McMillan?? :think:

      Yall know I don’t know people :lol:

    • DownBottom

      :whistle: Bad boys aint no good
      Good boys aint no fun
      Lord knows that I should
      Run off with the right one

      Me and Mr Wrong get along so good (so good)
      Even though he breaks my heart so bad (so bad)
      We got a special thing going on
      Me and Mr Wrong (mister wrong)
      Even if I try, no, I never could
      Give him up cause his loves like that
      Aint no way that I’m moving on
      I love my Mr Wrong

    • Cha Cha

      OTBBBBBBBBBB…runs in slow motion and backflips in to your lap!!! Sing to me..preferrably HELLO :pacifier:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      IGOs ADVICE
      P.O.BOX 6969
      Getitin LN
      Fk, Anywhere USA

      _______
      :ghost: and with that….

    • Bibi

      aww hell I shoulda went with my first instinct. :no:

    • lovezoe

      FeFe Feminine says:

      *hasn’t read the post yet*
      Marriage is overrated….that is all…
      ———————-
      I am married, but in some ways I agree with you. Marriage is for ME, but I don’t think all people need that piece of paper to signify commitment.

      I can assume why this chick been divorced three times, but I got bigger fish to fry.

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      I think i’m starting to like IGO. :wail: Yall :pray: for me

    • OutsidetheBox

      :hahaha: @IGo

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jsZhYyyPuI FeFe Feminine

      @Dimpz

      I’m about to head out of the office, but I can do so later tonight if you’ll be able to check it…

    • Gigi26

      Well she does have some points but every relationship is different. She does hit the nail on the wall about the temp job type of relationship. Gauge his thoughts and you’ll know whether or not you are wasting your time or not.

      Other than that, :shrugs:

    • Bibi

      FeFe Feminine says:

      *hasn’t read the post yet*
      Marriage is overrated….that is all…
      __________________________________________
      :cosign:

    • Cha Cha

      Hands out laminated bookmarks for IGO’s next bookfair :applause:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      :lol: @ BiBi

    • lady_cn

      JMO says:

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      So dis the woman who didn’t know her man was on the DL? … mmmkay…
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Wasn’t that Terry McMillan??

      Yall know I don’t know people
      ___________________________

      It was, but in WUT’s defense when I first looked at it I wondered why ‘Terry’ didn’t put her own picture on the cover. :shrugs: Then I looked again and saw it said Tracy.

      I guess reading IS fundamental. :coffee:

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      I Go There says:

      I can answer that for yall with you guys having to spend the 24.95 and Barnes and Nobles or trying to get it downloaded to your kindle…

      YOU READY

      *clears Throat
      Ahem

      Here it is…

      Some of you not supposed to
      Dont mean that you wont make great wives
      but its just the luck of the draw
      Being married is not gonna be your cure all
      and Last but not least
      A few of men and women are so fked up that its a waste of time to even get into it.

      Please send your 2.99
      in care of

      IGOs ADVICE
      P.O.BOX 6969
      Getitin LN
      Fk, Anywhere USA

      ———————–
      My editing fee is 10% … :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      I swear its the people that be in the most crazy, disturbing relationships that swear they give the best advice …

      Yea ok … tell me what you did … so I can do the opposite! :shrug:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ Fe.. :yes: :hug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      DownBottom says:

      :whistle: Bad boys aint no good
      Good boys aint no fun
      Lord knows that I should
      Run off with the right one

      Me and Mr Wrong get along so good (so good)
      Even though he breaks my heart so bad (so bad)
      We got a special thing going on
      Me and Mr Wrong (mister wrong)
      Even if I try, no, I never could
      Give him up cause his loves like that
      Aint no way that I’m moving on
      I love my Mr Wrong
      _________________________________________________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • OutsidetheBox

      *Turns on wind for hair* :hug: :lol:

    • I Go There

      Hood Crush

      you still owe me a word?

    • DownBottom

      :shrug: Back to the Rhi post…I can’t do this chit AGANE :pigsfly:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ #38…..I tell ppl all the time that my mother is my blue print for how not to treat a man. :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      IGOs ADVICE
      P.O.BOX 6969
      Getitin LN
      Fk, Anywhere USA
      _________________________________________________________________________

      You so silly :rofl: :rofl:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Bye yall!!!

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      JMO says:

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      So dis the woman who didn’t know her man was on the DL? … mmmkay…
      ______________________________________________________________________

      Wasn’t that Terry McMillan??

      Yall know I don’t know people
      ———————–
      Yep her too… :coffee: (chile I don’t know a terry from a tracy…)

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      DownBottom says:

      :shrug: Back to the Rhi post…I can’t do this chit AGANE :pigsfly:
      ____________________________________________________________________

      *clips ms piggys wings*

      Stay yo arse in here

    • http://www.vibedeck.com/brandoncharles BCinKS

      Ah. I, too, just saw “McMillan” and got all confused. It’s too late in the day to be trying to pay attention to details.

    • I Go There

      MzDimplez1123 says:

      I think i’m starting to like IGO. Yall for me
      __________________________________________________

      Dimplez its okay

      Dont act like that.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      the title alone would turn me off from reading :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Dimpz, :yes:

    • OutsidetheBox

      Yea ok … tell me what you did … so I can do the opposite!

      :rofl: EXACTLY!! This is why I request parenting books from the parents of ppl like the melendez brothers, jeffery dahmer, malvo and lee, that zombie face eating dude.. :no:

      Tell me what you did in your parenting so I can do the opposite :no:

    • I Go There

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      I Go There says:

      I can answer that for yall with you guys having to spend the 24.95 and Barnes and Nobles or trying to get it downloaded to your kindle…

      YOU READY

      *clears Throat
      Ahem

      Here it is…

      Some of you not supposed to
      Dont mean that you wont make great wives
      but its just the luck of the draw
      Being married is not gonna be your cure all
      and Last but not least
      A few of men and women are so fked up that its a waste of time to even get into it.

      Please send your 2.99
      in care of

      IGOs ADVICE
      P.O.BOX 6969
      Getitin LN
      Fk, Anywhere USA

      ———————–
      My editing fee is 10%
      _______________

      Thanks WUT

      you are appreciated

    • Bibi

      This is sooo just sooooo

      Fukk it!!!!! :tea:

    • Daisy

      I didn’t read her article did she say why she divorced 3x? #noshade just asking

      Marriage is what you make it from what I hear from my married friends. I believe in marriage my parents been married 30yrs and together since they were teens.

      If you don’t want to get married by all means don’t. No harm no foul.

      SN – In gen. I don’t like any relationship advice that sounds like “game playing” #aintnobodygottimeforthat I can only be me in the words of MJB Take me as I am or have nothing at all.

    • I Go There

      Cha Cha says:

      Hands out laminated bookmarks for IGO’s next bookfair
      _______________________________________

      Thanks Cha Cha

      To many damn books offering advice that should be on the back of a fking Condom wrapper.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      … and every relationship is soooooo different. There isn’t a blueprint on how to have a successful relationship #impossible

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      lady_cn says:

      Seriously???
      _________________

      Yes, seriously. If you want success, you have to LOOK like success. If you want love, you have to LOOK like LOVE. BE what you want, don’t expect it to come to you just because you think you deserve it. That’s a narcissist’s way of thinking. :nono:

    • I Go There

      Bibi says:

      This is sooo just sooooo

      Fukk it!!!!!
      ____________________________

      Bibi

      Its gonna be alright
      for real…. its fked up now but it wont be like this for long.

    • Ms.Fashion

      MzDimplez1123 says:

      I like her hair! I ain’t reading that damned article though.

      __________

      Y I just got in this post and you have said the exact thing I was thinking. LOVE THE HAIR!!!

      I did not read the post :coffee:

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      I Go There says:

      ———————–
      My editing fee is 10%
      _______________

      Heyyy no problem… anytime you need a little correction, come holla… I’ll hook you up :wink:

    • Gigi26

      Daisy I agree with you, my friends mom said treat it as a life long date. Keep it fun.

      My folks on the other hand….I just take notes :lol:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      FAYYYLAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
      Read my dream post or I could post here but I want your intepretation of it cuz to this day I scratch my head over it

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      :newsflash: the answer to y u’re not married is NOT in a book!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      She explained: ‘A lot of times, it’s because there’s a guy, he’s cute, you like him but he says, “you know what I’m really not ready to be in a relationship”. And you say to yourself, “well I’ll treat this like a temp job so if I really wow on the job maybe he’ll hire me full time.”‘
      ________________________________________________________________________

      This is true though … :shrug:

      If a man tells me something up front, thats what I’m going with. I may ask why and get the background but I’m not changing people #AINTNOBODYGOTTIMEFADAT (CD) :(

    • Daisy

      @DB I LOVE Mr Wrong (the song)

    • Bibi

      @IGO

      Easier said than done but thanks…

    • I Go There

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      I Go There says:

      ———————–
      My editing fee is 10%
      _______________

      Heyyy no problem… anytime you need a little correction, come holla… I’ll hook you up
      ________________________

      Let me guess If im cleaning up
      you are gonna go behind me and check to see how I did and clean up the way you want right?

      Damn…

      Just make sure youre in Boy shorts doing it.

    • DownBottom

      :whistle: Cause the whole, world, loves it when you don’t get down
      (bah da, bah bah bah-da da)
      And the whole, world, loves it when you make that sound
      (bah da, bah bah bah-da da)
      And the whole, world, loves it when you’re in the news
      (bah da, bah bah bah-da da)
      And the whole, world, loves it when you sing the blues
      (bah da, bah bah bah-da da)

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      I read it Choco & responded too :grill: it sounded kinda prophetic

    • Bibi

      :cya:

    • Gigi26

      This is true though …

      If a man tells me something up front, thats what I’m going with. I may ask why and get the background but I’m not changing people #AINTNOBODYGOTTIMEFADAT (CD)
      ________________________________________

      :yes: That is the only thing I agree with up there. But I will NOT take anyone else’s blueprint for a relationship.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Sandra Rose says:

      lady_cn says:

      Seriously???
      _________________

      Yes, seriously. If you want success, you have to LOOK like success. If you want love, you have to LOOK like LOVE. BE what you want, don’t expect it to come to you just because you think you deserve it. That’s a narcissist’s way of thinking. :nono:
      _____________________________________________________________________

      If you want something, you have to look and work for it

    • I Go There

      Bibi says:

      @IGO

      Easier said than done but thanks…
      __________________________________

      Nah Bibi

      Im gonna be Frank with you
      Its completely FKED UP.. and RIGHT NOW its BAD i mean REAL BAD
      and I cant imagine How you feel right now.

      Ive been through it as well… ALOT of people have
      and I know you think it wasnt gonna happen but it did and the shait sucks
      Monkey Balls. But once you get past that pain and anger… and NO MATTER what you do… you are gonna look back on this and not bat an eye lash to it.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      @Gigi :yes:

    • DownBottom

      :lol: @Daisy’s clarification, Me, too, (the song) :offtopic: Has anyone heard Monica’s Without You? I :love: it

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      I Go There says:

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      I Go There says:

      ———————–
      My editing fee is 10%
      _______________

      Heyyy no problem… anytime you need a little correction, come holla… I’ll hook you up
      ________________________

      Let me guess If im cleaning up
      you are gonna go behind me and check to see how I did and clean up the way you want right?

      Damn…

      Just make sure youre in Boy shorts doing it.
      ———————————-
      :rofl: Basically, but you’d enjoy how I use my feather duster…

      With that Im out!!! :bye: See yall demarrrrrowwww!!!!

    • Ms.Fashion

      @IGO

      You is STUPID!!!! :rofl:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ JMO….The shyt my mama do couldn’t work for NOBODY though! :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Good response IGO … except sucking Monkey Ballz

    • Daisy

      @GiGi Never heard it put that way but I likes and it def makes sense.

      I read an article that said men usually “grow” on women more than a woman will “grow” on a man I never gave that much thought until I read the article a few wks ago.

    • I Go There

      Ms.Fashion says:

      @IGO

      You is STUPID!!!!
      ____________________
      Fashion

      you know what Im talking about… them chics that go up behind you and
      clean up what you clean up… that shiat is hilarious.

      Its like why you want me to help you if you gonna go behind me and do it… Then complain about you doing it yourself.

    • Bibi

      @IGo

      IONO :shrugs: But I hear ya :hugs:

    • Usual Suspect

      women lie to themselves rather than face cold hard facts.

      :cosign:

      that when a man wants to get married he will know. There’s not much that women can do to make a man settle down when he’s not ready.

      Most women force a man to get down on one knee — and most men oblige, even though they are not interested in a wedding.
      :cosign:

      And stop saying, I don’t need a man. All men aren’t worthless, liars. (contray to what Ms. Sandra says)

      Remember the power of the tongue, speak things into existence.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      @Dimpz, seriously though, the stuff I hear my mother and aunts say … :tape: … Im just like wow … no words

      Its so strange how you can be related to people but at the same time be sooo different …

    • I Go There

      JMO says:

      Good response IGO … except sucking Monkey Ballz
      ________________________________________________

      That was an extra

      It was like a prize… :lol:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      FeFe Feminine says:

      the reason why women aren’t married is because they’re too focused on being married! Just do you…and enjoy DOING YOU!
      ________________

      :applause: Women today want to get married just so they can have a wedding before they even have love – like that selfish bish Kim Kardashian. These men out here don’t want to get married. But some women force men into marriages that they don’t want. Be honest with yourselves. Finding true love takes time! It takes a woman 9 months to fall in love with her baby. It should take you just as long to find real love in a man. :coffee:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ JMo….I KNOW what you mean. :hug:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Fay
      I saw your response and thanks but I have another question how come I could only see them and how come they wouldn’t hurt me

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      I Go There says:

      Some of you not supposed to
      Dont mean that you wont make great wives
      but its just the luck of the draw
      Being married is not gonna be your cure all
      and Last but not least
      A few of you are so fked up that its a waste of time to even get into it.
      ___________________

      :cosign: Some of you women are not cut out for marriage because you don’t love yourselves. Marriage is not a cure all for women who don’t love themselves.

    • Usual Suspect

      @Gigi – :preach: Do what works for you.

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Some of you women are not cut out for marriage because you don’t love yourselves. Marriage is not a cure all for women who don’t love themselves.
      ____________________
      I disagree Im not married because I do love myself :coffee:

    • DownBottom

      Hmmm, if I had a nickel for…nahhhh, *keepitkewte*
      :whistle: I need you now
      Always take the time to love me right hold me tight keep me coming home every night
      For you
      Ain’t nobody gonna change my mind
      Don’t think twice I been looking for you all my life
      Baby
      How did I survive all this time
      Without you
      Without you
      You
      You
      You
      Without you
      And I don’t ever wanna let you go
      (I’ll do anything anything anything)
      Because you are the only, only one I love
      Without you

    • I Go There

      Usual Suspect says:

      women lie to themselves rather than face cold hard facts.

      that when a man wants to get married he will know. There’s not much that women can do to make a man settle down when he’s not ready.

      Most women force a man to get down on one knee — and most men oblige, even though they are not interested in a wedding.

      And stop saying, I don’t need a man. All men aren’t worthless, liars. (contray to what Ms. Sandra says)

      Remember the power of the tongue, speak things into existence.

      ____________________________________________________________________

      Oh shait dudes really get down on one knee still…

      I know a dude that proposed to his Wife in front of the Bellagio Hotel in Vegas…

      Now all he says is “I should have pushed her ass in that water and went to the strip club”

    • Usual Suspect

      @Sandra – :preach: :cosign: You are exactly right! Some women aren’t meant to be married. Maybe it’s because they were never loved.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      <—never had a wedding but has been married almost 13 years. the wedding is mostly for the woman anyway. i hate to hear about ppl going into debt over a wedding & the marriage never makes it anyway :coffee:

    • lacountrygirl

      FeFe Feminine says:

      the reason why women aren’t married is because they’re too focused on being married! Just do you…and enjoy DOING YOU! :shrugs:

      I’m out folks…

      __________

      :cosign:

    • DownBottom

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      Some of you women are not cut out for marriage because you don’t love yourselves. Marriage is not a cure all for women who don’t love themselves.
      ____________________
      I disagree Im not married because I do love myself
      ************
      :rofl: this made me burst out laughing!!! Lord I needed that *hehehe*

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      :rofl: @ IGO’s friend.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      @Sandra … you keep saying, women this and women that … In many cases, it goes both ways

    • Cha Cha

      Sandrita..any future plans to get married now that CHANGE is coming?

    • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

      I just celebrated my 13th year wedding anniversary. Marriage is HARD work and it is not for the weak, chile trust me I know! Its not peaches & cream geesh! I’m not interested in what she is talking about though. :coffee: lol

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Oh shait dudes really get down on one knee still…

      I know a dude that proposed to his Wife in front of the Bellagio Hotel in Vegas…

      Now all he says is “I should have pushed her ass in that water and went to the strip club”
      ________________________________________________________________________

      :rofl:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Usual Suspect says:

      Some women aren’t meant to be married. Maybe it’s because they were never loved.
      ________________

      Those are the women who don’t know how to give something they never had. But they fully expect a man to love them and all their flaws unconditionally. Love is a 2-way street. You can’t expect a man to treat you like a queen when you don’t treat him like the King in his home. :nono:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Down
      Im serious tho I just asked myself would I want to be married and Im not sure I want a lifelong companion but I dont know about marriage

    • I Go There

      You can’t expect a man to treat you like a queen when you don’t treat him like the King in his home.
      _____________________________________________________

      YEP

    • Usual Suspect

      When women start focusing on the reltionship/marriage and stop trying to rush a man to the alter or to get the biggest diamond, there will be a shift.

      There is nothing wrong with having a fancy wedding, rang, but honestly most women don’t focus on how they can make their realtioship better until they smell smoke. IMO

    • DownBottom

      :whistle: Ooh
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that *****
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that *****
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that
      Girl gimmie that *****

    • Usual Suspect

      @fayla :cosign:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ Down….Is that that girl from Top Model in yo gravi?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Love is a 2-way street. You can’t expect a man to treat you like a queen when you don’t treat him like the King in his home.
      __________________________________________________________

      I agree with this …

    • Ms.Fashion

      I Go There says:

      Ms.Fashion says:

      @IGO

      You is STUPID!!!!
      ____________________
      Fashion

      you know what Im talking about… them chics that go up behind you and
      clean up what you clean up… that shiat is hilarious.

      Its like why you want me to help you if you gonna go behind me and do it… Then complain about you doing it yourself.

      ______________

      I know!!! :lol:

    • DownBottom

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Down
      Im serious tho I just asked myself would I want to be married and Im not sure I want a lifelong companion but I dont know about marriage
      ***************
      Oh I understand, I’m just so over the “how to get a man” “how to keep em” “how to lose em” “why u don’t have a man” “why men r this” “why women r that” blah…blah….blah blah. True chit, If people are this gullible…then I got a couple of books I can sell!!!! #Winning

    • Ms.Fashion

      @IGO

      You friend is an arse for that one!!!! :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      Usual Suspect says:

      There is nothing wrong with having a fancy wedding, rang, but honestly most women don’t focus on how they can make their relationship better until they smell smoke. IMO
      __________________________________________________________________

      :think: Thats a great point…

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Oh I understand, I’m just so over the “how to get a man” “how to keep em” “how to lose em” “why u don’t have a man” “why men r this” “why women r that” blah…blah….blah blah. True chit, If people are this gullible…then I got a couple of books I can sell!!!! #Winning
      _______________
      :cosign: I saved brain space not reading this article

    • Usual Suspect

      Very happy in my realtinship and I thought her opinion was well said :shrug: Unforunately she had to make 3 mistakes to learn. Just like Steve Harvey and his million dollar movie. But I guess no one wanted to hear what he had to say either *roll eyes :coffee: <—Chai Tea

    • KDub

      Tracy McMillan is a three-time divorcée and daughter of a former prostitute.
      ——————————–
      She was raised by a heaux… so in order to vaildate HUHSELF…she married errydack her stick figure shaped azz ever rode.

      Bet her azz a freak too. Prolly licking azzes and errythang. But in HER mind since she was married…its okay.

      NEXT!

    • Usual Suspect

      Yanks KDubs keyboard out the socket.

    • DownBottom

      *Brainstorming* So, they already have 90-day rule, Hmmm..for the impatient ones I can come up w/a 45-day rule!!!! *Genius* Oh, and uh…the 80-20 rule…Hmmm, let’s make that 40-30, :pc: This is going to be a BESTSELLER :woohoo:

    • KDub

      Tracy comes across like one of those women whose man beat their azz and be saying shat like “he purnched me in the eye but that means he LOVES me so MURCH”

      He hit me and it felt like a kiss.

      BET one of those three husband’s of hers was a woman beater. BET

    • DownBottom

      @MzDImpz, It’s Dorothy Dandridge

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      Usual Suspect says:

      Yanks KDubs keyboard out the socket.

      ————————————————————————-

      :chase: banging the keyboard like they did that printer in Office Sapce.

    • Usual Suspect

      @Downbottom – Exactly – Nobody is going to read it, but will mysteriously make millions. *rolls eyes again.….

      Kdub -You done found another keyboard :mad: ^%&*^&**% :rofl:

    • I Go There

      DownBottom says:

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Down
      Im serious tho I just asked myself would I want to be married and Im not sure I want a lifelong companion but I dont know about marriage
      ***************
      Oh I understand, I’m just so over the “how to get a man” “how to keep em” “how to lose em” “why u don’t have a man” “why men r this” “why women r that” blah…blah….blah blah. True chit, If people are this gullible…then I got a couple of books I can sell!!!! #Winning
      ______________________

      It think folks are sooo wanting to be with someone that they feel they need help in finding that person… so this it what comes out of it.

      but we barely look at the real reasons why things like this dont happen…

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      @ DB…Sorry, couldn’t tell from here. :hug:

    • Phrozen1der

      :lol: @IGo

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      KDub says:

      Tracy McMillan is a three-time divorcée and daughter of a former prostitute.
      ——————————–
      She was raised by a heaux… so in order to vaildate HUHSELF…she married errydack her stick figure shaped azz ever rode.

      Bet her azz a freak too. Prolly licking azzes and errythang. But in HER mind since she was married…its okay.

      NEXT!

      KDub says:

      Tracy comes across like one of those women whose man beat their azz and be saying shat like “he purnched me in the eye but that means he LOVES me so MURCH”

      He hit me and it felt like a kiss.

      BET one of those three husband’s of hers was a woman beater. BET

      :dead:

    • Phrozen1der

      “Tracy McMillan is a three-time divorcée and daughter of a former prostitute.” <—–She sounds like a winner.. :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEureObx87M JMO

      @Phro, you were working today??

    • Gigi26

      Self help books have been around for decades. This just happens to be one of them that deals with an issue that is a “hot topic” :shrugs:

      I will say this though, they need to write a book on how to have a cheap wedding cuz chiiiillllle all of this shyt is hurting my damn pockets! I told my mother i’m eloping :lol:

    • Phrozen1der

      @JMo Yeah we had an open house with people with big wigs on here… :lol:

    • Usual Suspect

      Igo – :cosign: Who wants to be 65/75 years old in a nursing home/assisted living facility with your buddy. I choose life long companion. Someone that is willing to pickup up my perscriptions, help me find my glasses, help me change my depends.

      My grandma said if he want wash your arse, don’t marry em.

      To each it’s own.

    • Gigi26

      Hmmm I wonder is her mom was a “Brothel” Prostitute or a street walker one….

      It could make all the difference in her marriages :think:

      Maybe she was a “Sunshine” a la “Harlem Nights”

      I’m thinking too deep about this. :lol:

    • DownBottom

      @Gigi, Hmmm..self-help books DO make bank!!!! Oh My! Thank you all for these AWESOME ideas…bout to find a way to supplement my income!!!
      :whistle: I don’t play in the garden and don’t smell her flower
      call me Mr. Carter or Mr. Lawn Mower
      boy I got so many bitches like I’m Michael Lowry
      even Gwen Stefani said she couldn’t doubt me

    • Angela

      Can anyone tell me what happened to
      Maven, CD and whomever else was banned?
      Like what led up to it? Please.

    • Phrozen1der

      No :coffee: :lol:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      THanks PHRO :wink:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Fay
      I saw your response and thanks but I have another question how come I could only see them and how come they wouldn’t hurt me

      honestly it sounds like u had protection Choco :yes:

    • Pootie Tang

      *read this ish*
      *puts down my Red Vine Candy*

      Dear Terry (3 time divorcee),

      When you finally get it right, then come holla at me about what I am doing wrong. Until then, you and your book can have a
      :koolaid3: <~~~~~of shut the hell up… *rolleyes*

      Thanks
      Your friend,
      Pootie T.

    • Pootie Tang

      OOPS

      *Tracy*

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      honestly it sounds like u had protection Choco
      __________________
      I know I did but who was protecting me you said they were getting beheaded becuz they would NOT take the Mark of the Beast and honestly FAY my third eye is WIDE OPEN sometime I feel like im on a planet by myself

    • Pootie Tang

      :rolleyes:

    • DownBottom

      :whistle: Cole World, real Cole World
      Them boys cool, me I’m on fire

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      :lol: @ PootieTang rolling eyes at her typo :lol:

    • Pootie Tang

      Hey Choco :waves:

    • Usual Suspect

      @Phro @ your NO :rofl:

    • Pootie Tang

      Dang i’m all late posting…..oh well…. :)

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      :coffee:

    • DownBottom

      A wise man doesn’t ask why, he asks why not? <…has someone copyrighted this yet? :waiting:

    • DownBottom

      @Ididntreallymeanit; What type of flower is that, if I may ask?

    • Usual Suspect

      @downbottom – what happened to your link :sad:

    • DownBottom

      @Cali, Oh, I had took it off…I’ve been trying to find more funny ones but been slacking

    • yallcrazy

      Go for it DB :lol:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      :waves: PootieTang

      :cya: PootieTang and ALL :lol:

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      DownBottom I have know idea

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Choco either an angel or God himself. U def are NOT alone. even tho it feels like it sometimes. there are other like-minded individuals out here :hug:

      c yall tomorrow :cya:

    • Usual Suspect

      @DB – Had my sista cracking up.

    • yallcrazy

      Cali :hug:

      Is her real last name McMillan though? :thinking:

      She might be like that fake Belafonte cat that scary spice married :shrug:

    • yallcrazy

      :nite: Choco

    • Usual Suspect

      Nite Fayla :kiss: :hug:

    • DownBottom

      @Fay @Choc :nite: Ladies!!! I will try and make it on tomorrow!! :bye:

    • Smonae80

      Hello :waves:
      TM can’t be serious, she cant even tell if a man is straight or gay.

    • yallcrazy

      Fay, I just got invited to this snazzy place, so I may not be “level headed” tonight, PLUS I have homework to do, that I’ve been putting off :ashamed: #duetomorrow :wail: #drinkingandhomeworkatthesamedamntime :sadface:

    • Phrozen1der

      @Usual @Choco :lol:

    • Usual Suspect

      @DB – It looks like a blue hydrangea (one of my favs)

      Hey Ya’ll where you been? :hug:

    • DownBottom

      @Ididnt, Ohhh…it looks lovely though! @Cali, I haven’t been able to find a really funny one like that…I may have to check WSHH again…that’s where I first saw that one!

    • yallcrazy

      :warning: This ain’t TERRY “married a downlow Jamaican” MCMILLAN

    • yallcrazy

      Cali :zzz: working yo!

      How are you today?
      =================================

      :waves: @myselfsaidhuh :rofl:

    • Usual Suspect

      Nite Choco

    • DownBottom

      Ahhhhhhhhh…just googled it, loving the blue hydrangeas…very nice!!!

    • Usual Suspect

      @Ya’ll all is well :yes: Bout to knock off, soon! Heading to DC for some oysters on the half shell :woot: :woot:

      Phro – Do you ever attend the Capital Jazz Fest?

    • Phrozen1der

      I’m new here so not sure when that is.. @Usual :lol:

    • Usual Suspect

      Fayla I think this is what you were speaking of….

      :offtopic: A New Jersey man allegedly cut out his entrails in front of police and then threw bits of his flesh and intestines at them.

      The gruesome scene played out at a home in Hackensack, N.J., where 43-year-old Wayne Carter allegedly barricaded himself in on Sunday, NBC New York reported.

      Officers got a call that morning when a witness said Carter was threatening to harm himself with a knife. Two cops responded, kicked in the door and found Carter in the corner, the station reported.

      Carter allegedly ignored officers’ orders to put down the knife, and instead began stabbing himself in the abdomen, neck and legs.

      An attempt to pepper spray the bleeding man had no effect, the Associated Press reported.

      That’s when Carter — disemboweled but responsive — reportedly threw bits of his skin and intestines at the officers.

      They decided to retreat and call in the Bergen County SWAT team, Hackensack police Lt. John Heinemann told reporters. The team was able to subdue Carter and get him to a hospital, where he remained in critical condition on Monday.

      Heinemann said he believes that drugs or mental illness may have led to the horrific incident, but those details haven’t been confirmed.

      No charges have yet been filed due to the unusual nature of the incident.

    • Phrozen1der

      WTF?! :nono:

    • Usual Suspect

      @Phro – Thought you mentioned you lived in the DMV. Every year the first week-end in June (Fri, Sat, Sun) there is a 3 day showcase of live jazz in Columbia, MD at Merriweather Post Pavillion.

    • Phrozen1der

      I do but this is my first June here @Usual :lol:

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      Down Bottom I looked a the picture on my desk top it is a hydrangea

    • nauni2004

      Some women are so focused on the damn wedding they forget that after the honeymoon is over there is this thing called marriage. It takes work, sacrifice and compromise. You can’t be right all the time and neither can he. At the same time I have to learn to step back and let your man be a man no matter if you agree with it or not. I learned that the hard way and I been married since I was 18. Thats qisdom from my mama that has been married 31 years LOL

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      nevermind

    • Usual Suspect

      @Phro – Well :welcome: This is me and misters fourth year. If you love jazz and women….It could turn out to be a nice day :smile:

    • Usual Suspect

      :peace:

    • YSoSrs

      I’m not seeing what’s so wrong with her advice. :shrugs:

      I don’t believe in marriage and don’t wonder why I’m not married and don’t think anyone else should either. But she didn’t say anything that wasn’t true for at least some people so I say her advice isn’t completely invalid.

    • 69

      Woman killed infant, ate part of brain, police say

      May. 30, 2012 09:32 AM
      Associated Press

      SAN ANTONIO — San Antonio police say a woman accused of beheading her 3-week-old infant son used a knife and two swords in the attack and ate some of the child’s body parts.

      San Antonio Police Chief William McManus told reporters Monday that Otty Sanchez’s attack on her son, Scott Wesley Buchholtz-Sanchez, was “too heinous” to fully discuss.

      But he says Sanchez ate part of the newborn’s brain and bit off three of his toes before stabbing herself twice.

      Police say the 33-year-old Sanchez told officers who were called to her house early Sunday that she killed her son at the devil’s request.

      Sanchez is charged with capital murder and is being held on $1 million bail. She is recovering from her wounds at a hospital.

      Read more: http://www.azcentral.com/news/articles/2012/05/30/20120530texas-woman-kills-infant-eats-brain.html#ixzz1wOdeknKR
      _____________________________________________________________________

      Ok, just yesterday we were discussing the face eating man in Miami. This afternoon, Fayla updated us on in Hackensack, NJ man that was throwing his own intestines at the cops and now this bitch in San Antonio beheaded her 3 week on son and ate his brain. Can someone please explain what the fck is going on? Like I just don’t understand this **** at all. :shrug:

    • 69

      Woman killed infant, ate part of brain, police say

      May. 30, 2012 09:32 AM
      Associated Press

      SAN ANTONIO — San Antonio police say a woman accused of beheading her 3-week-old infant son used a knife and two swords in the attack and ate some of the child’s body parts.

      San Antonio Police Chief William McManus told reporters Monday that Otty Sanchez’s attack on her son, Scott Wesley Buchholtz-Sanchez, was “too heinous” to fully discuss.

      But he says Sanchez ate part of the newborn’s brain and bit off three of his toes before stabbing herself twice.

      Police say the 33-year-old Sanchez told officers who were called to her house early Sunday that she killed her son at the devil’s request.

      Sanchez is charged with capital murder and is being held on $1 million bail. She is recovering from her wounds at a hospital.

      _____________________________________________________________________

      Ok, just yesterday we were discussing the face eating man in Miami. This afternoon, Fayla updated us on in Hackensack, NJ man that was throwing his own intestines at the cops and now this bitch in San Antonio beheaded her 3 week on son and ate his brain. Can someone please explain what the fck is going on? Like I just don’t understand this chit at all. :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      Three-time divorcée helps desperate women find Mr. Right :rofl:

      Well I ALREADY KN OW How you feel about HER ADVICE Though but THIS Ms. Sandra… And I might add, while you’re expressing and being love, continue to express love long after you’re married.

      A lot of women think it’s the man’s job to express love and treat them like queens, when in reality, men wanted to be treated special, too. If you forget that a man wants to be treated like a man — he will go out and find a woman who will.

      KUDOS To YOU Becuz Too Many Females/Women JUST DON’T GET IT Though :coffee:

    • Daisy

      @Yso I didn’t read her advice I just wanted to know if she said why she has been divorced 3x. In gen. I believe good advice can come from anybody regardless of their past listen to the message not the messenger and if anybody’s advice doesn’t apply then let it fly.

    • YSoSrs

      @DAISY

      That’s all I’m saying. Unless I just don’t like you. Like Steve Harvey. I wouldn’t take any of his so-called advice. :lol:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      in other news i need Mr Fayfay to stop smacking my ass like it’s a brand new ass. it’s the same ass u been smacking 13 years now sir!

      ^^^ No this heffa didnt,,,Always trynna throw her man down our damn throats :mad: ok,,,we get it,,,Hes the only one that gets to tap them round cakes,,,Hes the one that gets to suckle that full C cup,,,Hes the on swindling away the whipfinity revenue on illegal stamina enhancing pills :biggrin:

      Good evening yall,,,Hows tricks hows tricks :think:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      @Ys*,,,When you go out for a night on the town,,,Which of the following best describes your attire-
      A) Lil blk dress
      B) Jeans n a tshirt
      C) A dashiki
      D) None of the above

      :think:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      yallcrazy says:

      Hey Gurl,,,BrenBren was worried bout you,,,Aint seent you in several days—-You alrite? I read somewhere on facebook that you spent a few days in the E.R.??? Sumthin bout choking on a hamhock??? Girl,,,You know us big bishes got to chew our food thoroughly,,,Regardless of what yo stomach is telling you :biggrin: Glad ur back,,,Just in case u aint know—-Daddy lubs you :love: Yanno,,,Just so you know,,,Ish happens,,,We may never font again,,,But I will always lub you :love:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      Usual Suspect says:
      Some women aren’t meant to be married. Maybe it’s because they were never loved.

      Oh Cali :smack: Cali Cali Cali :smack: Girl,,,You ever ate some pastrami chilli cheese fries? I knw yo big azz has,,,Daddy lubs his plus sized sista :kiss:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Sandra say:Some of you women are not cut out for marriage because you don’t love yourselves. Marriage is not a cure all for women who don’t love themselves.
      _______________________

      I think I love myself way to much :shrugs: I have been concentrating on that for the last 3yrs, and it keeps getting better everyday. So when I am approached by men I literally don’t ever want to be bothered. When you have been hurt so much sometimes its best to sit back and look at yourself, because part of the reason is yaself. So that’s what I have been working on :coffee: But as far as getting advice from a book or article :nono: Its always good to see others point of view but experince and self searching is the best teacher. :coffee:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      I think I love myself way to much

      ^^^Same here gurl,,I got caluses on my palms that prove it.

      So when I am approached by men I literally don’t ever want to be bothered.

      ^^Aww shuga,,,You may very well be happy,,,But having a partner brings fulfillment to your life. Do you have pets?

      When you have been hurt so much sometimes its best to sit back and look at yourself, because part of the reason is yaself.

      ^^Aww shuga,,,I wanna give you a hug,,,I would like to respectfully disagree,,,As a man,,,As an unfaithful man,,,I can say that most of the time its us,,,Insecurities,,,Immaturity (s) and just flat out being horny,,,A man is gone be a man,,,But you cant allow that to transform you into a hardend woman :no: Dont blame yourself unless its absolutely true,,Only you would know…Come gimme sum shuga :kiss: #Noherpes

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo says:

      As a man,,,As an unfaithful man,,,I can say that most of the time its us,,,Insecurities,,,Immaturity (s) and just flat out being horny,,,A man is gone be a man,,,But you cant allow that to transform you into a hardend woman :no:
      ___________________

      :cosign: Women should just accept the fact that men are going to be men. It takes away a lot of the sting if women would go into a relationship with men knowing that they can’t do anything to change what God has ordained.

    • DownBottom

      :dead: @ If you’re a male and you want to know what rappers think about gay marriage, walk up to a rapper and try to kiss him

      :ghost: @ Is Obama a rapper? Why can’t u people READ AND COMPREHEND at the same time? <…I read this in the #samedamntime voice… :rofl:

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      I agree that you cant change, shape, nor mold a man :no: However there are some good ones out there…Im just not one of them :shrugs: When Im ready,,,So be it,,,Until then…I just want to have fun,,,And Im very open and honest about that :yes: Had 2 sexual relations week before last,,,They both knew about each other,,,Were all adults,,,I dont lie and I dont play games when it comes to sex,,,Some may say,,,But youre playing games?!?!! No,,,Because Im being upfront from jump :coffee: If you dont like it ______> Theres the door knob,,,But dont slam it on yo way out…Section 8 charges for stuff like that :biggrin:

    • YSoSrs

      @BRENDEN

      I think I’m ultimately going to end up disappointing you but because I find you’re attempts to decipher me amusing…

      B)Jeans and a T-shirt

      Dressed up or down depending on where I’m going. Comfort above all.

    • Brenden’ 2: Electric Boogaloo

      :think:
      What 3 things are most important to you in life? Do you have a bucket list? Ever been married? What would you say is most important to you,,,Presenting a nice appearance or leaving a good impression? You may say well presenting a nice appearance leaves a good impression,,,But its based off looks…Is that ok with you :think:

    • DownBottom

      :crying: Who is watching the NBA lottery <— Every stripper, future baby mama and jump off. Why do u think Twitter is so quiet?

      :hahaha: Why are Ugly Chicks all of a Sudden going Natural in 2012? Nappy Hair is only contributing to your Ugliness!!

      Ok, I am gone for real…woo, twitter is RAW :lol:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Awwww Brenden I freaking love you bring it in :hug: :kiss:

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      Why You’re Not Married Yet: Three-time divorcée helps desperate women find Mr. Right <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< :huh: next post please :kona:

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      Women should just accept the fact that men are going to be men. It takes away a lot of the sting if women would go into a relationship with men knowing that they can’t do anything to change what God has ordained.
      __________________________________________________________________

      I was good til you said this>>> what God has ordained :blink: :huh: :confused: :rolleyes: Really Sandymae Ella louise Jankins <<<<

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Morning Creamy :hug:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Good Morning!!!!
      Today is going to be a long day!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

      Morning All!

    • NaijaGal

      So people want to get paid for dispensing common sense…not the first and won’t be the last

      Morning Folks
      jenie, creamy, gypsy, LaTech
      :hi: :hug:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Morning Latech :waves:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Naija :hug: and everyone else :waves:

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      @Jenie Morning :hug: morning errbody :waves:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Hey Naija,Jenie,Latech

    • brownskin A.K.A Creamy

      @Naiji :hug: @Gyp :hug:

      @Naiji Chile she a mess really I look at the title and said ummm not reading the wirte up, it might just make my I Q low :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3bQrYBIp_0 LaTechGrad02

      Morning Naija, Gypsy, Jenie, Creamy!!

    • vero

      Morning people :waves:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Hey Vero :woot:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Gypsy :woohoo: Vero :hug:

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      Good morning ErrrOnes!!!!! :hi:

      Okay I need a shovel, lyme, a couple garbage bags and some Bath Salts cuz I’m about to kill my daughters boyfriend bury him and play crazy…. :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Wut Wut :spank: what happened ? Keep ya cool :cool:

    • http://wineandgummybears.blogspot.com/ gypsyeyes

      Wut Wut in da Butt! :hugs:

      What is the problem babe!

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      gypsyeyes says:

      Wut Wut in da Butt!

      What is the problem babe!
      ——————–
      Girl this good fo nuthin niggra had the NERVE to ask my daughter to give him money for and extended lodge because he got put out of where he stays… I took her money…. I told her his azz shouldn’t have got put out! He one of those niggaz that thinks he finna strike it big in music aka Bum who lives off of people who is foolish to believe in him until they find out he aint shat!
      I said I wish you would have paid his room! Girl he gone come up missing and they gone find me in the kitchen standing over the stove flippin his whole azz in a skillet sprinkling lavendar Mist bathsalt on it. :cuss:

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      @Jenie :hug:

      But let me use that switch to beat the extra hell out this boy! muddafukin-sonofabitchassnigga-thataint****-tryingtoleechoffmybaby-Illkillhisazz!!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:

      gypsyeyes says:

      Wut Wut in da Butt!

      What is the problem babe!
      ——————–
      Girl this good fo nuthin niggra had the NERVE to ask my daughter to give him money for and extended lodge because he got put out of where he stays… I took her money…. I told her his azz shouldn’t have got put out! He one of those niggaz that thinks he finna strike it big in music aka Bum who lives off of people who is foolish to believe in him until they find out he aint shat!
      I said I wish you would have paid his room! Girl he gone come up missing and they gone find me in the kitchen standing over the stove flippin his whole azz in a skillet sprinkling lavendar Mist bathsalt on it. :cuss:
      ________________

      I know that shat right stand ya ground with that. Bums make me sick :mad:

    • !*LaKErCHiC@*!

      THREE TIMES DIVORCED.. FAWK OUT OF HERE U KNOW HOW TO GET DIVORCED B!TCH.. :no:

    • BoogieNites

      longest short week everrrrrrr :mad:

      hiya SRfam !! :hi: