ACLU targets school that threatens to expel pregnant students
The American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) is going after a Louisiana public charter school that targets pregnant teenagers.
Delhi Charter School’s “Student Pregnancy Policy” states that if a girl refuses to take a pregnancy test — or turns up in class pregnant, she can be removed from class and sent home.
The ACLU claims the school’s policy violates the U.S. Constitution and federal laws against sexual discrimination.
ACLU executive director Marjorie R. Esman said the policy violates the Fourteenth Amendment’s equal protection clause because “boys who are expecting children — or who are suspected of having engaged in sexual activity — are not similarly treated.”
Students who refuse to take the pregnancy test must study at home or find another school.
That makes good sense to me.
As a teenager growing up in the Miami school system, I never saw a pregnant teenager walking the halls. That’s because pregnant teens were removed from class and placed in alternative schools, where they belong. We can argue that the policy violates student’s rights, but a girl who gets pregnant is no longer a child — she’s a grown woman with adult responsibilities.
Once the courts allowed pregnant teenagers to remain in class the teen pregnancy rates skyrocketed. And guess who has to pay to support all those unwed teen mothers?
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That pic
If they don’t get education so they can somehow have a way to better their future, we’ll be paying too
I smell a lawsuit
Que Jesse and al
Wow just wow.
I wanna knuckle punch that chic in the pic like Jose did Steebie! WTF wrong witchu?? And your friends are trif too
I vote they start making Mirena mandatory at about 13
Lawd…
that pic..
That pic though…
As a teenager growing up in the Miami school system, I never saw a pregnant teenager walking the halls. That’s because pregnant teens were removed from class and placed in alternative schools, where they belong. We can argue that the policy violates student’s rights, but a girl who gets pregnant is no longer a child — she’s a grown woman with adult responsibilities.
I 
my daughter never gets pregnant in Highschool.
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Now I agree with you on this
Or elementary, or no ones school
When I was in school, I remember only 1 girl who went around telling everyone she was pregnant…after a while, we just didn’t see her anymore.
Also…I forgot to tell my SR Family (I’ve been a lurker for many years, & very rarely post) that I’m preggers, and due in 26 days…my bad. Call it pregnant brain!!
Ooooh teen mom shaming! I love it. /sarcasm
In Charlotte, we had/have a school that is specifically catered to teens that are pregnant or have kids while they are still school age and enrolled in school. But, you do still have the option of remaining at a regular school while you are pregnant, if you chose to. Me personally I would want to go to a school that caters to pregnant girls if I am pregnant, but some kids dont wanna leave their friends I guess
Charter school meaning “publically funded”
Shaming these girls for “choosing life” eh? 
So Republican of you.
Congrats Trina!!!
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Yeah when I was in school..Those pregger chics got removed from school and our class Valedictorian was stripped from that title and honors due to her leg spread….Those were the good days
Are you serious @Bibs? *feigns laughter* I cant never tell when yall be sipping that coffee/tea
our class Valedictorian was stripped from that title and honors due to her leg spread….Those were the good days..
Bet $5 she still smarter than the rest of the class..?
But is that lacefront wax on her edges or jam??
OTB
Exactly when I was in school, no one saw the pregnant chick until she returned after having the baby. Towards the end of my high school days, NYC public schools was throwing them all out in ASlternative schools that they called Transitional schools where they would give them a trade certificate in addition to their diploma because they did not see many of them going to college after and at least with a trade they can get jobs. Doing child welfare I was amazed at how many middle school girls were pregnant and the stupid administration and students patting their backs and catering to their needs. This epidemic has to stop and I agree either the child or the parent needs to be accoutnable. There is no need to abolish the rule – this was why Clinton allowed girls over 14 (16 in some states) to go to Planned Parenthood without parental consent and get on the damn pill or get some contraceptives
@OTB
*sigh* Yea actually I am…. Some of the teen mothers of today are quite scary…when u have chicks getting pregnant cuz their friends are it’s a problem. I know teen moms who did what they had to do and didn’t let it deter them…but some of these new ones..I can’t. Sorry if that offends or sounds wrong but keep in my mind I have a nine yr old
OutsidetheBox says:
Charter school meaning “publically funded” Shaming these girls for “choosing life” eh? So Republican of you.
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Charter also means private school rules with public funding therefore school can do as they please. Shame some parents be killing themselves to get kids into charter school so they can get private type education for free, kids dont need to see pregnant bellies all day
so what happens to the boys knocking these gals up? they just chilling in homeroom huh?
3 different thoughts:
Yeah, Charters can do how they want to
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It could be viewed as a distraction IJS
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When I was in school, they sent them to another school too…
Mirena tho. The contraception for ppl in stable, monogamous relationships..? The one most recommended for women who have had multiple births..? @Bibs. Is your child a female?
Horrible environment to have your kid in a school with 20% or more of the girls either pregnant or already baby mammas. It leads to children thinking kids having kids is normal.
His they are learning how to knock a hood hoe out when she get outta place.
Fukk their character. Its all about the females. They can have sex as much as they please.
Bad Influence says:
so what happens to the boys knocking these gals up? they just chilling in homeroom huh?
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They are free to impregnate other girls.
Either most people have gone home for the day or this subject has touched home for a lot of the posters on here
When you ship them out of the school and send them to the alternative school (I attended one of those too) what happens to our communities when they get a less than desired education?
The children she has, raises are the children that will interact with your children.
yallcrazy says:
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@OTB
Damn otb and all her info
All I was thinking is five year bc ion bout the rest but yes I have a daughter….
@OTB yeaaaaaa but not smart enuff to be on birth control and not get knocked up
TrinaBCL
Congrats yo!
SN.. every time I type or say your name @OTB I think ODB.. Old Dirty Bastard LOL
Yeah this little girls think having a baby is so cute. The bad thing about is they do not even understand how much harder they are making their lives unnecessarily. I think laws should make these young girls really feel the struggle of having these babies and not just support and take care of these children on the taxpayers dime. I was a teenage mom and never was on public assistance, finished school, and went to college. I didn’t get pregnant again until I was married.
Dancerbee93 there are worse things that could happen to one you know? Preganancy is not an end all.
Students who refuse to take the pregnancy test must study at home or find another school.
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How da hell do u make someone take a pregnancy test
SEEK POSITIVE REINFORCEMENT FROM SOURCES THAT ENGOURAGE AND MOTIVATE YOU, I’M SO SICK AND TIRED OF SEEING THE BARAGE OF NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES EXAGGERATED IN THE MEDIA AND PERPETUATED AS AN ISSUE FOR THE ENTIRE BLACK RACE AND SPECIFICALLY BLACK WOME
AND WHAT REALLY IS SAD IS THOSE WHO FEED OF OFF OF THIS TYPE OF NEGATIVITY IN AN EFFORT TO DISTINGUISH THEMSELVES FROM THE ALLEGED MASSES
PREGNANCY IS AN ISSUE AMONGS TEENS AND THERE ARE NUMEROUS REASONS I WON’T EVEN ATTEMPT TO EXPLAIN OR LIST, BUT THERE IS SO MUCH MORE NEWS HAPPENING THAT IS POSITIVE ESPECIALLY FOR BLACKS IE THE OLYMPICS, I SIMPLY REFUSE TO “CLUCK’ IN THIS OBVIOUS HEN PEN-LOL
HAVE FUN
meant these little girls
Ok well the boys tha get them pregnant should be kicked out as well, of course that would result in DNA tests (because the boys would deny the babies) so it would take longer for them to be removed…I mean the girls didn’t get pregnant on their own.
Old Dirty Bastard LOL
Eh..This is not too far off tho.
Chic up stop with beer
1. need to have her head covered up,
2. thrown into a van,
3. have her baby induced
4. and then have her ass whopped with three switches and wet dish rag.
I SIMPLY REFUSE TO “CLUCK’ IN THIS OBVIOUS HEN PEN-
Does commenting constitute clucking because…you know what doesn’t even matter
dancerbee93 says:
But is that lacefront wax on her edges or jam??
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Nope thats Brown gel….flakes will fall of the pic in 5,4,3,2…..
Ty says:
Students who refuse to take the pregnancy test must study at home or find another school.
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How da hell do u make someone take a pregnancy test
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Hold them down on the toilet “Piss guhl pisss dammit!”
In Charlotte, we had/have a school that is specifically catered to teens that are pregnant or have kids while they are still school age and enrolled in school. But, you do still have the option of remaining at a regular school while you are pregnant, if you chose to. Me personally I would want to go to a school that caters to pregnant girls if I am pregnant, but some kids dont wanna leave their friends I guess
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Raleigh has Mary E. Phillips where the preggars girls go.
I walked around my school with my 17 yo (who was born 25 days before I graduated) and when they tried to send my azz to the preggars girls school…DaddyDub went to MY school and cusst folks the fugg out. I called him BOO-HOOIN.
Umm she been going to school K-12 with the SAME set of kids. She is an honors student in her senior year. She is 4 months shy of her 18th birthday. Old enough to vote. To get a credit card. She is not the first preggars girl to walk yall halls and I PROMISE she wont be the last. Do NAT brang that ish up to her NO MO. GOOD FUGGIN DAY…
@OTB
Ur not mad are you??
TrinaLBC – Congrats on your new gift.
I
it when OTB get all shadytreeish 
My school was a high school..but here you transition from elemen. to middle school and middle to high school with the SAME kids if you stay at the same schools the whole time.
MAMA’S BABIES DADDY’S MAYBE
AND THIS IS THE REASON WHY THE CYCLE REPEATS ITSELF, IF YOU HAVE TWO FLAT TIRES FIXING ONE MAY GET YOU A LITTLE FURTHER BUT EVENTUALLY YOU’LL HAVE TO FIX THEM BOTH
Is that sweat or that jam grease on them edges
ion know what 2 make 4 din tho..
Alright folks can’t take no more I’m sneaking out of here
and I’m off 
OutsidetheBox says:
Dancerbee93 there are worse things that could happen to one you know? Preganancy is not an end all.
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Im just saying school systems in the 80s 90s that was the solution…Like we cant show you as a role model and you knocked up so it was like they were taking things from a kid that gets in trouble.. ITs a catch 22.. Damn if you try to support and damn if you dont..You dont want other kids thinking its cool to get knocked up ya know
@Jenie, just like an other abscence: You make it up. If moms out in the “world” can and often have to go back to work 2 weeks later, a spritely 16yo can go back to school.
At the school I attended preggos got 2weeks after birth, 3 weeks if you had a c-section. Almost all the girls came back earlier than required.
dancerbee93 says:
Ty says:
Students who refuse to take the pregnancy test must study at home or find another school.
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How da hell do u make someone take a pregnancy test
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Hold them down on the toilet “Piss guhl pisss dammit!”
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Do they send them to a public gas station in a limo and does the potential father go in to buy sunglasses like Steebie
OutsidetheBox says:
Ooooh teen mom shaming! I love it. /sarcasm
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I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable!
This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system. 
Milky says:
Yeah this little girls think having a baby is so cute.
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And that’s why pregnant girls need to be removed from schools so they don’t give the good girls any bad ideas.
INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:
MAMA’S BABIES DADDY’S MAYBE
AND THIS IS THE REASON WHY THE CYCLE REPEATS ITSELF, IF YOU HAVE TWO FLAT TIRES FIXING ONE MAY GET YOU A LITTLE FURTHER BUT EVENTUALLY YOU’LL HAVE TO FIX THEM BOTH
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The voice of K. Michelle talking to Karlie about he floppy booty
Dancerbee93 there are worse things that could happen to one you know? Preganancy is not an end all.
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Correct.
As my momma told me…you are only a statistic if you allow yourself to be.
BEST words ever
Do they send them to a public gas station in a limo and does the potential father go in to buy sunglasses like Steebie
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As Maury is waiting in the stall playing “Heartbeat” by Trey Songz
Yeah I went to school with some preggers girl, and was even friends with one of them. My moma wasn’t really exicted about the freindship. But I was screwing back then, cause my momma told me that all men want to do is dig and your ass and was scared out my mind…
Mad? @Bibs? Why come? Nooooo. *scrolls up*
So I know a lot about BC..and I know you cant put no Mirena in fast-tails cause that string leads right to the goods and that can be even more disaster for loose goose-ees.
WYF?
And that’s why pregnant girls need to be removed from schools so they don’t give the good girls any bad ideas.
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I was the good girl.
I got preggars.
Nobody died.
Folks went to college and got a job and made something of theirself.
You only a statistic if you ALLOW yourself to be.
Gone’head on @Yall. I aint even say nuffin.
IDK that pic is atrocious – and I don’t remember having pregnant girls in my school in fact I was the only one back then – so maybe if they treat the boyz the same the law could be tried to see if its true
Bye jenie!
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
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FAWKKKKKKKKKKKKKK YEW.
sorry I meant WTF?
anyway
Well damn
That shyt was tacky az hell 
I don’t see the problem. I was having this convo earlier. In LA, they want to take the pregnant girls and home school them. I agree.
Yall, something has to be done about this. I think we can all agree that no teen should be dealing with pregnancy. Lets promote better choices. And make you responsible for the choices you make. Its not cute to see a pregnant teenager. Too much of the bad things are influencing our youth.
Let me tell you, when I was in high school, one friend in the group got pregnant then all the others wanted/had a baby. Real Talk.
Auntie, why don’t you & take rkj for a walk that-a-way —>
#possiblehacking
jam grease on them edges
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You know JAM don’t look like that, that’s murrays or blue magic
@OTB
Man sometimes I wish I could call you
You have endless info I wanna tap in on 
I wish my daughter WOOOOULLLLLD HAVE ROLLED UP ON ME PREGNANT! IM THAT PARENT!
First off, my kids knows Im the friggin FBI there are no secrets in my house or on their phone. You have to be involved in whats going on with your little girls and two you have to and I must reiterate … SCARE THAT SHYT OUT OF THEM
My daughter was scared of ****! Cuz she knew that it could not only get her pregnant.. It would get her choked stabbed and killed… by ME..
OTB, further up top. You did 2 good ones
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MamaDub is right! :yep:
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
Oh sorry for my manners
HEY YALL!!!
Talk to you tomorrow
welp lemme take my teenaged mother ass on & collect my welfare checks & EBT
this whole post is bull****. 16 & pregnant does more damage than a girl trying to complete her education at school with her peers does ANYday.
today just aint it yo
RK
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
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I fid your comment extrely offensive. Do you know her like that?
Crazy tho cause Sandra you are one of the main folks always talking about kids not being raised right, loved right ect but this very kind of policy, a policy that targets the girl only, is the kind of policy that perpetuates what you claim to be against?!?!
We always talking about men dont care and making it all the woman’s responsibilty “and she a grown woman now” while the dudes just kinda keep getting to do what..? Keep getting backed up that they dont have to be there.
What @Intense said, Mamas baby, daddy’s maybe.
Ms.Fashion says:
I don’t see the problem. I was having this convo earlier. In LA, they want to take the pregnant girls and home school them. I agree.
Yall, something has to be done about this. I think we can all agree that no teen should be dealing with pregnancy. Lets promote better choices. And make you responsible for the choices you make. Its not cute to see a pregnant teenager. Too much of the bad things are influencing our youth.
Let me tell you, when I was in high school, one friend in the group got pregnant then all the others wanted/had a baby. Real Talk.
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maybe we should spend more time and money on promoting safe sex and talking about it!! How does our society say its prohibited to talk about sex, give teens birth control and then turn around and put sex in every single damn thing?? Such an backward ass society
I do see a problem with the school administering pregnancy tests. But at the end of the day parents need to be parents and a whole lot of the ish would cease and desist and wouldn’t be an issue.
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<–is scaring the lil one with the thought of babies and no money DJM
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
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DIE MUTT!
rjk8 says:
OutsidetheBox says:
Ooooh teen mom shaming! I love it. /sarcasm
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I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
what in the hell
@Jackson is this directed @ u??
Nah she aint gone ban it. That nonfactor been riding my **** like a flea since I got here…talking about me my kids and the like and Sandra never says anything.
But let me talk about Tiny’s hair?
Chile. :lmao: I wish I had a fukk to give taday. *deep sigh*
Anywho.. *scrolls*
yallcrazy says:
WUT
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<–is scaring the lil one with the thought of babies and no money DJM
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My lil un see me struggling NOW HELL they know. Lawd Im waiting on my daughter to finish Med School so I can ride her coat tail for a while hell
Bibs
Sometimes I be lost in the sauce all the chit rolling round in my head. 
Yall see the bytch ain’t said shyt else. Bastid!
It’s females who waited to have a grip of kids after high school who ain’t done shizzt.
Dont ban the FLEA – we can drag that azz continously
HATE SIDELINE FUKS
OutsidetheBox says:
Nah she aint gone ban it. That nonfactor been riding my **** like a flea since I got here…talking about me my kids and the like and Sandra never says anything.
But let me talk about Tiny’s hair? Chile. :lmao: I wish I had a fukk to give taday. *deep sigh*
Anywho.. *scrolls*
She bans the wrong folks
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Yeah but that shyt was uncalled for
A little food for thought, the teen preggo rate is actually down 40% since I think the 90s (yall can double check me tho.)
But who needs facts when judging can keep us down? 
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable!
This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system. 
EAT A **** & CHOKE ON IT FUKKA! you got major issues man. gone take yo ass over to the white supremacist websites. clearly we are beneath u on this blog right?
Si j5rk yllaer yniT?
oM?
@Sandra, DO U NOT SEE THIS???
i’m super offended for OTB right now….the fuggin nerve.
KUDOS and CONGRATS to the females who didn’t ALLOW Your H.S. Pregnancy to DETER YOU but can SOMEONE… ANYONE explain to me HOW Getting PREGNANT during High School is a POSITIVE Thing
And WHY should people WHO have a Strong Opinion AGAINST High School Pregnancy be SHUNNED (For Their Opinion…)
DIE MUTT!
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leave it to CHOOCO to go their. 
@Ho’Boygah u a damn mess
I am offended as well.
This is not this posters first or second time commenting about her or HER CHILDREN!
STUPID AZZ TARD
Prolly the worse tick in the woods #BISH CAN GET IT TODAY
Yep @His. Its my Stan come to stann for me
And since it only ever shows up on these kind of posts, got me
… let me find out, your teenaged mama dumped you in a trash can somewhere and yew mad cause I kept mine.. 
#yourissuesshowing
I see the never married hoodrat with 5 kids by multiple men is still up in here giving advice. Unfreaking believable! This chick is going to have about 30 grandkids with most of her kids still living with her and without ever attending one wedding. But I’m sure she’ll be on a first name basis with the folks in the criminal justice system.
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Show yo face stanking azz pig fukka!!!! You mighty tuff behind a
Umm Sandra, i’m nit usually an advocate for banning but rjk8 is rude as f*ck and I’m uncomfortable
@Elove, I don’t think anyone is saying its a positive thing but at the end of the day people want to shame someone for having an abortion and then if they don’t they try to shame them for other reasons a lot of which arent even valid.
Usual Prime Suspect says:
DIE MUTT!
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leave it to CHOOCO to go their. 
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IJA Ho’boygurrr
@rjk8 (Comment #68)
EAT SHYT AND DIE!!!!!
@ ELove
@ELOVE
THere is nothing positive about teen pregnancy other than the teen mothers who don’t let the pregnancy stop their dream, ambitions and goals but Im with you and I was a teen pregnancy I don’t recommend it!
@CALI
You know I abhor that chit talkin out the side of your neck – outta nowhere and scurries off like the cock roach it is
I am offended as well.
That was some bull….if folks got banned for not saying anything ion see why it should stay….
I’m with Choco…ion really go at folks but that right there bish feeling froggy
so WHY exactly did Tatted HTown Sassy & CD get banned?? were they not deemed OFFENSIVE/DISRESPECTFUL TO THE OTHER POSTERS (ON THAT AWFUL DAY)?? i’m just trying to clear up as to what does/does NOT constitute a banning.
i am VERY OFFENDED for OTB being attacked so UNWARRANTED!
YALL
thank u sweetie 
I’m uncomfortable
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IM FINE PMSN AND MORE – #LETSGETREADYTORUMBLE
We need a :gosuckonafatmonkey’sdyck: emocon
Positive things about teen pregnancy:
If you dont have no more, you can be free by age 32
*there
@E, it isnt positive but its not like, the WORST thing that can happen in life…i had my son 4 months b4 my 17th bday..i’ve never been on WIC, welfare or ANY type of gov’t assistance (no disrespect to anyone that has)…i had 2 damn jobs @17 because i knew that being as tho i was a teen mom, eyes was on me WAITING for a bish to sign up for some assistance…i did what i had 2 do and i know for a fact it is NOT the end all because u crank a big head out early..
@Fayla
ELove says:
@rjk8 (Comment #68)
EAT SHYT AND DIE!!!!!
Ya-Ya
and I did speak to His
didnt I? If not Hey 
KDub says:
FAWKKKKKKKKKKKKKK YEW.
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Sandra told me I have to be nice so I won’t respond in kind. lol One thing I’ve noticed about hoodrats and thugs. They are all intent on pushing they’re backwards way of life on everyone else. I mean really how many teenage baby mammas graduate with honors and go on to college? What normally happens to these teenage mothers? Public assistance, H.S. dropout, or maybe one semester of junior college, menial unskilled job, more kids by different men and of course never married.
OutsidetheBox says:
Yep @His. Its my Stan come to stann for me
And since it only ever shows up on these kind of posts, got me
… let me find out, your teenaged mama dumped you in a trash can somewhere and yew mad cause I kept mine.. 
#yourissuesshowing
oh u came to the same conclusion eh?
hello my darling sorry for not fonting u today. i just saw somebody coming for u & it DISTURBED me!
;hug: @everyone Yall so kind, but trust me I never, ever hear that kind of chit IRL sooooo its like how Beyonce must feel when she reads the internet?
Choco aka Hippie says:
I’m uncomfortable
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IM FINE PMSN AND MORE – #LETSGETREADYTORUMBLE
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*ding ding ding*
In this corner…. (Where’s Laker?)
Ho’boygur, please bedazzle Choco’s shorts with DIE MUTT
dancerbee93 says:
Ms.Fashion says:
I don’t see the problem. I was having this convo earlier. In LA, they want to take the pregnant girls and home school them. I agree.
Yall, something has to be done about this. I think we can all agree that no teen should be dealing with pregnancy. Lets promote better choices. And make you responsible for the choices you make. Its not cute to see a pregnant teenager. Too much of the bad things are influencing our youth.
Let me tell you, when I was in high school, one friend in the group got pregnant then all the others wanted/had a baby. Real Talk.
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maybe we should spend more time and money on promoting safe sex and talking about it!! How does our society say its prohibited to talk about sex, give teens birth control and then turn around and put sex in every single damn thing?? Such an backward ass society
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We need to do that. And educate them on why you are waiting. Don’t act like sex is bad because it ISNT. But you need to be mature enough to handle all the emotions that come along with along with the possible responsibility of a result from it.That being a child.
SEX doesn’t define who you are.
SEX doesn’t make you cool.
SEX doesn’t give you self esteem.
You can use it just to Lust.
You can use it to degrade you or
You can choose to have SEX as a action that is shared between two people that love each other and plan to build together.
You first need to know that LOVE is not a feeling you get every month. THAT’S OVULATION!!!
MOTHAFUKA!
Dymond says:
Positive things about teen pregnancy:
If you dont have no more, you can be free by age 32
hey
but girllllllll i hit 30 next month and mines is 13…
*nas voice*
life is good…
She SAID “Crack a Big-Head Out Early” Though
Shut the fukc up. We ain’t even reading your bullshatt hoe. #gardentool
I was a teen pregnancy I don’t recommend it!
I had a total support system. But my mama didnt let me go to that one social for Doug Johnson and IM STILL salty about it.
Abstain kids.
For the love of your social lives, abstain. 
@RJK
You can respond you don’t have to be nice – I mean whats nice about you – continue being you – Im bored and I feel like slaying – you can come for me also cuz its obvious YOU AINT ABOUT CHIT!
CALI, BIBI, & DYMOND
afternoon ladies!
oh so she personally emailed you to tell u to cut it out?
#getthatputa
@Ho’boygah, i got u *looks for my bedazzler*
FASHION!
FAYYYYYYYYYY
ELove says:
@rjk8 (Comment #68) EAT SHYT AND DIE!!!!!
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I love it. The rats are out today
@Dymond
Sandra I agree, these are grown women now and should go elsewhereto finish school. I live in the highest teen pregnancy state. From what ive seen, most of the fathers are not boys but grown men.
Positive things about teen pregnancy
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Your teens friends will always comment behind your back and call you Ms. Parker.
@Sunni
I think I will get T-ShIRT printed with that on it!
I think that troll is someone we know
:crackingtheefukcup: @Choco’s “invitation”
Only in America!
Positive things about teen pregnancy
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You can ride the toys in Toysrus with no funny glances.
sooooo its like how Beyonce must feel when she reads the internet?
Dymond says:
I think that troll is someone we know
lawdddddddddddddddd its still typing?
and
@Choc
rjk8 says:
ELove says:
@rjk8 (Comment #68) EAT SHYT AND DIE!!!!!
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I love it. The rats are out today
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Ur moms is here
Awww we got a self hater in here – in fact you the bum azz hoodroach with more kids you dont know what to do – WE GET IT YOU ARE NOT A SURVIVOR WHILE LIKE OTB MANY OF US ARE!
I smell ENVY and you STINK!
Positive things about teen pregnancy
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You and your daughter canshare IDS?
Ok let me stop. Unless its the “thing” that whips your life into shape let the experiences of those past be your teacher.
Ni ni says:
Sandra I agree, these are grown women now and should go elsewhereto finish school. I live in the highest teen pregnancy state. From what ive seen, most of the fathers are not boys but grown men.
and what about the FATHERS of these children?? they can finish AT school tho right?? FOH
it’s called DISCRIMINATION people.
YO??
@ rjk u didnt have to do shyt but show up with your musty neck azz. I just hate u waited this late to show your azz
As far as teenage mothers that went on to graduate with honors, that would be and my mom. Dont blame anyone for your phucked up support system 
Better your own self because the self hate is obvious, now get da hell on!! Clean up on aisle 4 
Ni ni says:
Sandra I agree, these are grown women now and should go elsewhereto finish school. I live in the highest teen pregnancy state. From what ive seen, most of the fathers are not boys but grown men.
Interesting! Got any stories?
Get a gravi and shut the **** up!
THis ****in funny looking woodywood pecker got me really wanting to confront it!
HEY RJK woooohoooo
OVER HERE!
Fayla
hey baby doll
:poopcorn:
yallcrazy says:
Shut the fukc up. We ain’t even reading your bullshatt hoe. #gardentool
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a funky booty and eat a big dyck **in my nicki minaj voice**
Lemme dummie down my font.
You’re life must be really sad yo!
GOD bless you!
<—–hates gravi-less opinions….like, why u typing on my turf?
HIS
hola mami! what it dew sweetie?
rjk8 says:
KDub says:
FAWKKKKKKKKKKKKKK YEW.
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Sandra told me I have to be nice so I won’t respond in kind. lol One thing I’ve noticed about hoodrats and thugs. They are all intent on pushing they’re backwards way of life on everyone else. I mean really how many teenage baby mammas graduate with honors and go on to college? What normally happens to these teenage mothers? Public assistance, H.S. dropout, or maybe one semester of junior college, menial unskilled job, more kids by different men and of course never married.
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rjk8 – All the things you said can be true of anyone that is attending high school. Take the word pregancy out and replace it with drugs, alchohol, being a bad azz.
It’s just offensive when you single a person out and you don’t know their story. It’s some grown arse educated women with degree that have one child that will never be married because they go a nasty disposition. Yeah they may not be on welfare but there makes others life miserable because of their funky attitudes.
#carry on
why u typing on my turf?
#igottears
Bad Influence says:
@Ho’boygah, i got u *looks for my bedazzler*
FASHION!
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HEY BEW!!!!!
UHHHHH so Something went over my head. SO I went to read and yeah @OTB just IGNORE.
On second thought…..
WHAT AM I SAYING????? You know my crazy arse will be out for blood!! Calling my peeps trying to track IP addresses!!!!
Cali, fukc him, see #68
I smell ENVY and you STINK!
<—was finna lose my login. but IT aint eem worf it
Hey Fayla baby
Oh no, not MsFashion too
these back 2 school Target commercials are everything this year
Ni ni says: From what ive seen, most of the fathers are not boys but grown men.
why u typing on my turf?
It’s just offensive when you single a person out and you don’t know their story. It’s some grown arse educated women with degree that have one child that will never be married because they go a nasty disposition. Yeah they may not be on welfare but there makes others life miserable because of their funky attitudes.
#carry on
Choco aka Hippie says:
Awww we got a self hater in here – in fact you the bum azz hoodroach with more kids you dont know what to do – WE GET IT YOU ARE NOT A SURVIVOR WHILE LIKE OTB MANY OF US ARE!
I smell ENVY and you STINK!
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AWwww nobody ever paid you with gum huh rjk?? You the ugly ish licking on peppermint sticks at lunch thinking you was cute with the lil ass ponytail with 5 scrunches on it huh??
cause in America even a teen mom can be great. *whoop whoop*
*cues WHOOP THERE IT IS*
HEATED for real so let me
before I 
at BULLWINKLE
@Ya’ll – Ohh I know see #92
these back 2 school Target commercials are everything this year
Calling my peeps trying to track IP addresses!!!!
@Choco
I ain’t chit? Yet you have all day……years to sit up on blogs going back and forth in petty a.s.s arguments about petty a.s.s chit with people you’ll never see in your entire life! What does that say you and your life’s about?
Who’s getting a duplicate comment msg on the 1st comment
dancerbee93 says:
AWwww nobody ever paid you with gum huh rjk?? You the ugly ish licking on peppermint sticks at lunch thinking you was cute with the lil ass ponytail with 5 scrunches on it huh??
@Choco
I ain’t chit? Yet you have all day……years to sit up on blogs going back and forth in petty a.s.s arguments about petty a.s.s chit with people you’ll never see in your entire life! What does that say you and your life’s about?
do you think you are doing #MORON
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NOT ONLY ARE YOU A TARD but you are a IMBOSIL as well – fuggin IDIOT
@ Dancer…we used to call them the itty bitty ponytail committee
Heffas had half of their head in a scrunchy trying to make a pony tail 
:poopcorn: HONEY
*imagining this cat with a scruchy*
Yo…why the English teacher (
) the woman on the target commercial open her arms and be all Mike Jack on a bish with that fringe jacket 
<..Hi parents. Big year for spelling Here's what the kids will N E E D…wheew lmaoooo
dancerbee93 says:
AWwww nobody ever paid you with gum huh rjk?? You the ugly ish licking on peppermint sticks at lunch thinking you was cute with the lil ass ponytail with 5 scrunches on it huh??
I think RJK is a guy! AND I THINK HIS MOMMA IS THE NEIGHBORHOOD ADOPTION AGENCY – You know all them kids she willing to give them away
its GOOOOOOO TIME!
Matter of fact I’m taking care of one the worthless human beins educated no job gotta a bunch of degree kids…
Heifer had her children at 28 and 30 and ain’t worked in 7 got damn years. At least if she was a teen mom she have half of excue. SORRY BISH….
So get out of here with teen mess, these kids aren’t dumb, they fu5kn cause they can get away with it. I told my son he start fu5kn before he go to college I’m going to break his dyck and chop him in his throat
4 x’s…..
AWwww nobody ever paid you with gum huh rjk?? You the ugly ish licking on peppermint sticks at lunch thinking you was cute with the lil ass ponytail with 5 scrunches on it huh??
Eating alone 
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5 scruchies tho
Last night the Chinese girls was wearing scrunchies 
@Jackson, thats the one i was just cracking up at
(sidenote) i hate lame jokes…
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
these back 2 school Target commercials are everything this year
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I LOVED the one from last year….
Denim… Graphic Tees, Leggings and Tunics, Well Denim, Backpacks, Headphones, Hair Gel, Denim, Converse One Star Shoes, Denim, Shaun White Hoodies and Denim.
I think RJK is a guy! AND I THINK HIS MOMMA IS THE NEIGHBORHOOD ADOPTION AGENCY – You know all them kids she willing to give them away
THESE ROSES BELONG TO ME
YOU GOT ANYTHING TO SAY TO MY ROSES YOU COME TO ME
#PIMP CHOCO
i hate lame jokes…
Ok-k-kkkkkk and thats when I get like you with like, why you typing on our turf? This space is for funnies yo!
Usual
KyCakes says:
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:
these back 2 school Target commercials are everything this year
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I LOVED the one from last year….
Denim… Graphic Tees, Leggings and Tunics, Well Denim, Backpacks, Headphones, Hair Gel, Denim, Converse One Star Shoes, Denim, Shaun White Hoodies and Denim.
Why I ain’t seen no cool Target commercials? I feel cheated and ish!
@Fay Choc said you know all them kids she willing to give them away. I was saying it in her voice and everything
<— real turrs
*sigh….I hate that commerical she is the black version of Mista’s ex.
No joke, that bish be wearing some crazy azz clothes…
KY i started to tape myself singing that chit & sending it to her. i still might!
Choco aka Hippie says:
THESE ROSES BELONG TO ME
YOU GOT ANYTHING TO SAY TO MY ROSES YOU COME TO ME
#PIMP CHOCO
@Songstress if you do, puh-LEASE load it to You Tube
I’m
at all of ya’ll for being in 
with Target commericals.
that damn Choc
lemme get outta here bye ya’ll!
s
@Fay Choc said you know all them kids she willing to give them away. I was saying it in her voice and everything
<— real turrs
@Ya’ll – You ain’t seen it cause you beee to busy
ain’t worked in 7 got damn years
Cali
what she do for herself? Ive been trying to figure out how to be a SAHM for a while now! 
but I like too much chit. I like ‘spansive ass coffees, frivolous ass threads and exotic plants..
She prolly living off the child support huh? I aint jealous but im hating.
wheres Luscious tho? *lip quiver*
I was saying it in her voice and everything <— real turrs
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I be doing that chit with Harlem
RJK
Tryn to upset my stable of stallions!
NO WAY I NEED THESE HEFFA ON THE TRACK
I kid Ladies #DUCK FROM SHOES BEING THROWN
I had to switch up my mood
Usual Prime Suspect
People are singled out on here every day. Been going on for years. The issue isn’t being singled out the issue is not agreeing and embracing baby mamma life. Like it’s some type of great accomplishment. It ain’t
KY
i was gone sing it just like the Target guy tho! 
There is some bullshat going on #nojoke
I fonted something earlier singing a D J J imi song and it never posted, and just now I did it agane, and still nothing shows up.
What he do to you Auntie?
#doitbabystickitstickitbabydoit #thisbettershowup
so u sayin she was the 1st Octomom but without the artificial insemination?? she just got a roulette wheel of possible baby daddies eh?
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@RJK
RE: above its okay if you wanna tell us about all the strange mens you grew up with – we here are a nurturing bunch we wont throw your skeletal bones back at you – but we will make a spoon out of one for you use to use – you know like eating your own chit you give out….
KY i sent her a text one time singing the “Good Time” theme song a cappella. she wasnt ready!
Now I’m thinking:
She a bish, with a whole buncha bad ass kids, no child support, because she made such wise decisions.
#butguesswhat #aintourfault #weirdo
People are singled out on here every day. Been going on for years. The issue isn’t being singled out the issue is not agreeing and embracing baby mamma life. Like it’s some type of great accomplishment. It ain’t
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STFU
and read fool Sandra is not encouraging that life and you fuggn mentioned OTB like you know her and you don’t – and she didn’t encourage either so again READ AND STFU
#weirdo
Def #WEIRDO
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Dancerbee93
Your lips look familiar
@OTB – Yeah she lives off child support and (welfare I presume)
We just went to court a couple of months ago and based on education and previous employment the court liason told that bish she was
self impoverished
She was trying to get like 2000g’s. I almost severed ties over that shiat / had thoughts of having her “removed”
If I can get my sick arse up everyday why can’t you?
& it is officially on WHITE FONT STATUS going forward tho
#aintnobodygottime4dat
#gooftroop
#roodypoo
YEP @ FAY
Now tryn to show common sense
NAH BE WHO U R @ RJK “WILL THE REAL MICHAEL EVANS PLEASE STAND UP 
#suckaassfuka
Dancerbee93
Ses a matter of fact they look just like the lovely young lady with the beer bottle in her hand
*throws a clue at this gump*
Dancerbee93
Ses a matter of fact they look just like the lovely young lady with the beer bottle in her hand
I can’t even front that chit was funny 
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BACK TO DISLIKING IT
I worked at a school where mothers would let their grown boyfriends/baby daddy check them out of school. One of the guys was arn near old as me. I used to hang out with his brothers and was shocked to see him coming to pick up this 15 yr oldwho had a one yr old. he had to been about 25.
i am SO glad OTB is a real woman. that handles real business, & to the point of excellence. bc if she WAS some triflin hoodrat babymama this could possibly upset her. BUT since she’s a stellar mother, gainfully employed, intelligent as hell, AND a bad bish this kinda BS dont eem faze her. she know she got stans & stans can go from one extreme to the next
Damn Boss making me work and chit… *kicks pebbles*
rjk8 says:
Usual Prime Suspect
People are singled out on here every day. Been going on for years. The issue isn’t being singled out the issue is not agreeing and embracing baby mamma life. Like it’s some type of great accomplishment. It ain’t
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rjk8 – Singled out, called out…Whatever you want to call it, nobody is glorfying single pareneting at any level at least I at ain’t. What about the woman that has had 6 abortions, we will never about her. I ain’t never walked in OTB shoes, but she does go to work everyday and she takes care of her kids. Being married ain’t everything…
yallcrazy says:
What he do to you Auntie?
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I don’t know. Was there a link in your comment? Did you use tags or code in the comment?
OTB is very self aware and very self confident – SEXY AS CHIT!
Wayminit…who fcukin with my OTB?
I will cut a bish…
@Choco – That shiat was funny *snickers…just a little
Is everyone really that upset with RJK’s comments? Yes, some people go on to get multiple degrees and great jobs but generally speaking that is the exception, not the case.
I understand (not agree) why the focus is on the girls. It’s like the “mama’s baby, daddy’s maybe” scenario. Everything a straight boy does is for the attention of a little girl. If we collectively change our expectations, the boys will follow.
That mindset is in no way, shape or form “fair” but its reality.
Anybody seen Randy Travis’ DWI jailhouse photo?
#oneblackeye
And they said he was naked yall!
@LOVELYONE
YES I thinks its obvious everyone was offended when RJK came at OTB for no reason he could’ve stated his opinion and left her out of it! #MOB ROSES
@Sunni
I saw that chit and I was like damn he was really mad at 5 0 – talking about killing an chit and they fugged him up
Fayla says:
and what about the FATHERS of these children?? they can finish AT school tho right?? FOH
it’s called DISCRIMINATION people.
YO??
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I don’t see it as discrimination. I agree with Ni ni; these chicks are grown women who open their legs to grown men KNOWING they could get pregnant. Most of them end up dropping out of high school, or flipping burgers. That’s not discrimination, that’s reality in the hood.
Choc and Fay
Yall read me well. We all contribute something here roses and thorns. 
Pregnancy rates have decreased over the past two decades among all races, ethnicities and age groups — except for women in their 30s and early 40s.
Pregnancy rates for teenagers (ages 15 to 19) fell 40 percent from 1990 to 2008, and rates for black and Hispanic adolescents also fell substantially, even though their rates are still two to three times that of white teenagers. Rates among 18- and 19-year-olds were 19 percent lower than among the 30-34 age group in 2008; in 1990 they were 41 percent higher.
Im headed home. Promised a park day to my Ma'am. Grrrr.
Peace and blessings everyone.
Sandra Rose says:
yallcrazy says:
What he do to you Auntie?
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I don’t know. Was there a link in your comment? Did you use tags or code in the comment?
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Auntie.
Nope
I typed in party and then sang his lyrics and that’s all. It happened two times. I’ll try it again right now. BUT I want A REFUND, ANY I’LL SETTLE FOR YOU LETTING SOME OF THE MISSING ROSES BACK IN. What you say?
yall heffas should be working or somthing
I ain’t never walked in OTB shoes, but she does go to work everyday and she takes care of her kids. Being married ain’t everything…
*lip quiver* I warnt coming in here to-marra…and I was pawning the kids off on stepmama. Damn you Cali for making me have a conscious.
I coulda been married but I knew better. I just wanted the party and the dress not the union. Ion get no points for that? For not raising my kids in a loveless place? Sheesh. Goodnight!
Something is wrong SR!
I typed his lyrics with and without the party emo and neither time it showed up.
Who’s out there hating on D J J i m i? I been trying to font that ish all day yo1
yall heffas should be working or somthing
FUGG YOU YO! I see your subliminal 
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KY
Got to before I go…you know Im cool as a polar bear’s toenails. I think RJK8 is the dude I gave Mama Dee numma too. Ive apologized profusely!
Lets blog tomorrow you was doing work and chit today
LOL
Sandra,
You know I’m not falling about you.
Singled out as in commenters going at each other.
Something is wrong SR!
I typed his lyrics with and without the party emo and neither time it showed up.
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If you don’t give up already
Auntie, when I font his name properly it doesn’t show up.
RJK
is dumb he would’ve gotten a lot of e-azz had he played nice with us
Choco, I am trying to jam!
Ok, I’mma leave his name out this time.
We got ____ in the house tonight
Now if this shows, this is some bull
@OTB I’ll be here with bells on…and little else
Until Tomorrow ROSES and IGO
Choco aka Hippie says:
RJK
is dumb he would’ve gotten a lot of e-azz had he played nice with us
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Hellur my sessi Chocolate drop
Now if this shows, this is some bull
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Might be drunk later and text ya!
you know Im cool as a polar bear’s toenails
Choco aka Hippie says:
yall heffas should be working or somthing
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FUGG YOU YO! I see your subliminal
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I aint using any subliminals besides I suck at it… Besides of a product of that.. and I be damn if people shait on single mothers…BUT its not something that women should strive for. But hey shait happens.. and when that happens you gotta turn lemons into lemonade.
Try to font D J J i m i with no spaces!
I aint using any subliminals besides I suck at it… Besides of a product of that.. and I be damn if people shait on single mothers…BUT its not something that women should strive for. But hey shait happens.. and when that happens you gotta turn lemons into lemonade.
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@OTB – It’s all good
Sometimes I thinks about escape routes, but I don’t want them kids and mista just completly fu5ked and lost.
Ummm alot women get marred for the shower, gifts, dress and party. They ain’t planned one day of marriage. *whispers if I was smart, I had more disposable income when I didn’t have to share.
*selfish
Oh Boy!
@Choco
*thinking of several escape routes now*
FUGG U BISH I saw that chit
BYE GUHL!
Choco GETALIFE!
Yeah! Black women trying to shout down someone who is absolutely right! Got a love it. This is how ratchedness takes hold and takes over and controls the ghetto. Yawn You lay with dogs you get up with fees. Keep talking I ain’t listening.
That wasn’t for you yo!
#itwasnt 
It was referencing “my situations”
#ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmm
this group gives me life
Correction
Sandra, I’m not talking about you…..
Lovely One says:
Is everyone really that upset with RJK’s comments? Yes, some people go on to get multiple degrees and great jobs but generally speaking that is the exception, not the case.
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Exactly. A teenager who is running behind a grown man trying to get laid is not thinking about getting a PhD or Masters degree.
yallcrazy says:
Something is wrong SR!
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The words must be part of another word that is blocked on this blog.
why even….
Sandra Rose says:
Lovely One says:
Is everyone really that upset with RJK’s comments? Yes, some people go on to get multiple degrees and great jobs but generally speaking that is the exception, not the case.
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Exactly. A teenager who is running behind a grown man trying to get laid is not thinking about getting a PhD or Masters degree.
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Well that is true
KY
Whats up…
Hows my Rockie Mountain High?
Sandra Rose says:
yallcrazy says:
Something is wrong SR!
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The words must be part of another word that is blocked on this blog.
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IONO Auntie… See 281. I left his name out and it worked
*yells* I gotcho back D J J i m i
Thanks Usual!! Pregnancy…the gift that keeps on giving…
I died when he said: Oops that’s you’re hair pick it up trick
Ok
agane!
TrinaLBC, I was just joshing you earlier in my Congrats post
#fyi 
And
My baby fadder was a grown man when I got knocked. He was 20 and I was 17. We were together 4 years before our daughter came to this planet. I wasnt thinking about a PhD before I got knocked or after I got knocked.
Those with the higher degrees also make up the largest demographic of the unemployed. A piece of paper never made the morals of not ONE person I know. Cause if you was a dumb azz before you got edumakated then guess what?
Oh an @RJK was a missed abortion.
Bye.
I Go There says:
KY
Whats up…
Hows my Rockie Mountain High?
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High as a kite…well not now, but very shortly….
Are these the same schools who prohibit sex education? I was a teen parent in 11th grade and I finished high school, college and so on. It’s not fair, not all girls who have sex are bad kids, boys are predators. I know the abortion clinics will make a lot of money from this. I can imagine girls having abortions to stay in school and graduate.
@IGO
What you doing in here at this time?? Niccah you an owl now???
WUT-IZ-SWAGU says:
plopped out of lurking
I wish my daughter WOOOOULLLLLD HAVE ROLLED UP ON ME PREGNANT! IM THAT PARENT!
First off, my kids knows Im the friggin FBI there are no secrets in my house or on their phone. You have to be involved in whats going on with your little girls and two you have to and I must reiterate … SCARE THAT SHYT OUT OF THEM
My daughter was scared of ****! Cuz she knew that it could not only get her pregnant.. It would get her choked stabbed and killed… by ME..
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I agree that’s what happened to me, the **** was scared out of me so I made sure and do right and didnt have a kid till I was outta college, had a job and a bank account to sustain one. My sis who grew up with her dad did get knocked up and mama made sure to have me in delivery to see that shyt. That pain and her almost dying made me shut my legs closed. Same thing when I was having mine, fass ass teenage sister got that deliver room experience and needless to say she refused to have one even when the rest of her friends thought it was cute and all had one. I understand there is the 1% that do get knocked up and do make a success of their lives but lets be real the majority dont. All Im saying is that if as a parent I am doing what is needed to make sure my kids grows up right, I dont need your teen who more than likely had little guidance, a friend for a parent, or searching for love in the wrong places, influencing mine that that shyt is cute
#311 & #312 – Grown woman, 1st child, sneaking on SR during my workday, and I just saw this post…Not new here, but thanks for the welcome anyway!! hahahaha and please believe, I’ve been lurking on SR for years, to know enough about ya’ll to not get all butt hurt from side jokes!
KDub says:
Oh an @RJK was a missed abortion.
Bye.
awwwwwww 
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Kdub is a got damn fool
I agree with the ACLU. How is it fair that a teenage mother can be expelled from school but not the father… That’s sexist as hell. @Sandra Rose so when a teenage girl become preggos she becomes a woman with responsibilities but a teenage boy can still attend school and in essence be a child because he has a penis? I think I’m more offended at the message that this is sending to young men… At the end of the day there’s a lot worse things that your kid can be than a teenage parent…It’s not the end of the world … #theend
ahh the good ole days…yeah right
women weren’t necessarily abstinent in the 50s but it was much harder for a man to obtain sex from her without the promise of marriage. He couldn’t just move on to the next woman if the current one didn’t “put out”because she was likely to make similar demands too. also where communities were smaller and closer ostracism for a pregnancy was reality for the women. However, if a man did get a woman pregnant and didn’t marry her there was a certain amount of ostracism he endured too. With the 70s and birth control women who didn’t have as much access to birth control or who didn’t use it due to moral/religious grounds or who used it inconsistently found themselves in a sort of “competition” with women who did have birth control.It was the demise of the shotgun marriage. No longer was it so difficult for the man to move on to the next lover if the current one didn’t “put out”. These women made the decision to “compete” so to speak.
so that’s what started it…what women have to do is admit that bad choices were made and talk to their children about it. also stop saying OOW births are bad except yours and the people u know. we have to be consistent that OOW births are not good in order for the message to get thru to our children the boys and the girls
datsmdubya2u says:
These women made the decision to “compete” so to speak.
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In other words, they were respectable women but they adjusted to the times they were living in.
@ KDub and Cricket: you are both the exceptions. Congrats.
@ datsmdubya2u: I
every word in your comment! Parents need to introduce a thing called SHAME to their children. Teach your girl children that when they get pregnant they bring shame not only upon themselves but also upon their parents.
Lmao wow
KDub
Rjk was a missed abortion
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What! Ok you oversized roach! Since you want to go there. My mother was married to my father who worked and provided. Unlike your ghetto project hoodrat mamma who had babies by a bunch of men in and out of her bed. You should know about abortion with all of the random raw di.ck.s you’ve had in your sloppy pu.s.s.y and all of the new d.i.cks you’re going to have in the next few years. Keep glamorizing being a baby mamma. We know the truth. You wished you had a husband like my mother. The sad thing is you’re going to be single for the rest of your life and don’t know why.
@ Sandy
@ datsmdubya2u: I
every word in your comment! Parents need to introduce a thing called SHAME to their children. Teach your girl children that when they get pregnant they bring shame not only upon themselves but also upon their parents.
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Yes ma’am…no baby showers… no parties…. no making a big deal out of her…be compassionate but let these girls know they are not cute and having a baby has removed them from the center of attention. she’s got a child to see about. fawk ur prom…no you can’t play sports no you can’t run for homecoming queen etc….
and you sho as hail can’t be a cheerleader… and you have a baby sitter for work and school only… that’s what my mom did and hell i was 18 and had already graduated. she said ‘im not giving u the leeway to make another one.”
what in the FAWK is up with that bish in the pic
IDK..Im torn between it…on one hand i say they need to stay in regular schools…just because they made a mistake doesnt mean they should be removed from a school they were attending (as long as they were a good student) but on the other hand, if these alternative schools are offering parenting classes, childcare, etc. that may be the best thing.
ah the alternative school for pregnant girls…yup when a girl disappeared in junior high or high school you knew what it was about…but then they could return after having the baby…I am not currently a parent…don’t agree with pregnancy when you’re not financially stable, teen or otherwise…I do agree that females set the standard but we can’t keep coddling the males either…back in the day girls would be sent away to a relative and return with a ‘sibling’ instead of a child…now girls are clamoring to be on 16 and pregnant…nothing cute about a non fully developed 13 year old waddling…sad
maybe we should spend more time and money on promoting safe sex and talking about it!! How does our society say its prohibited to talk about sex, give teens birth control and then turn around and put sex in every single damn thing??
growing up my mother did not forbit me from having sex but she did forbid me from doing it unprotected.she made sure i was aware and told me if i did decide to do it, the right way to do it (protected, birth control) she told me least of my worries was coming up pregnant with the astronomical std statistics going around. I think her not forbidding me to do it made me not wanna do it…i wasnt humping til 18
Here comes Honey Boo Boo Chile!
<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< I got pregnant my SENIOR year in high school my son was 2 weeks old @ my graduation, I went to college got a good job I can retire from never had anymore kids my son is now 6.And his father still plays and ACTIVE role in his life. But teen pregnancy isn't glamourous by a long shot. It was a BIG WAKE UP CALL my mom told me point blank I will watch him while you go to school and work anything else I'm not doing it. That's what these kids need TOUGH LOVE!!!!! but I must say if your gonna remove the girls from school then the boys need to go to another school as well, like somebody else said wtf is he gone be doing chilling in homeroom looking for his next prey, Getting pregnant in HS taught me alot my son won't be able to pull the wool over my eyes been there done that
Morning folks,
and Rjk, U mad huh 
Morning Naija, Fated, 
Gagirl
morning my love 
Pryn
rjk8 says:
KDub
Rjk was a missed abortion
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What! Ok you oversized roach! Since you want to go there. My mother was married to my father who worked and provided. Unlike your ghetto project hoodrat mamma who had babies by a bunch of men in and out of her bed. You should know about abortion with all of the random raw di.ck.s you’ve had in your sloppy pu.s.s.y and all of the new d.i.cks you’re going to have in the next few years. Keep glamorizing being a baby mamma. We know the truth. You wished you had a husband like my mother. The sad thing is you’re going to be single for the rest of your life and don’t know why.
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I just read this entire thing um
Morning my fave peeps
Hey good morning SR Fam…
Question (destiny childs pause)
1. why is this girl holding a beer pregnant, and no one else around her seems to care?
2. why does she look like she’s no more than 18?
3. why does it look like she only got the edges of her hair braided and the rest is just pulled into a pony tail cause who ever started didnt have enough time to finish?
4. (statement not question) that ‘dress’ is hideous… i wonder if she has the same suade booties on that girl was in a few posts down
Crazy how Tatted got banned, but folks can talk about folks kids, parents, and etc but get a cosign from Sandra.
just skimmed over the post and the comments and wow someone is angry this morning how bout we all
and be happy it’s almost friday
we have to be consistent that OOW births are not good in order for the message to get thru to our children the boys and the girls .
@datsmdubya2u – I completely agree with this. When the exception is promoted, you begin to think that it’s the rule. And that’s NOT the case.
It’s kind of like Magic Johnson and HIV. People don’t seem to be scared of HIV anymore because they look at him, like oh he’s not sick. All I have to do is pop some pills everyday and I’ll be fine.
He’s the exception.
And we KNOW people are out here raw dogging it. Hence these OOW kids and STD’s.
LZoe I totally agree
Why would Sandy ban someone who shares the same views as her? Yall read her posts. Let her tell it, single mothers are the bane of society
Morning Jenie and all
VDot says:
Why would Sandy ban someone who shares the same views as her? Yall read her posts. Let her tell it, single mothers are the bane of society
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I didn’t get that from Sandy’s post, I’m a single mother and I totally agree with Sandra but the boys should be gone too.
Morning All
Trend
prynsexxx says:
Here comes Honey Boo Boo Chile!
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I absolutely LOVE you for this!
I DVR’d this last night & am watchin’ it now.
I think this show is HILARIOUS!
JENIE, LOVEZOE
@VDOT – now you know the bane of Sandra’s existence is Single BLACK mothers
DAAAAAAMMMMMMMMNNN I MISS YALL!!!!
Boss been riding my arse for the past few weeks! I got an hour to play… so
and 
I am working on my 9th banning….
@RJK your fave holiday is coming up.
Labor Day.
Time for that annual telethon that Jerry Lewis throws for birth injurious muthafawkas like yourself. You ole slow thanking bastid.
Jenie
how was your b day hun?
Hi EVERYBODY!
@Lashelle
That lil girl is HOOOOOOODDDDDD!!!!!!! LMAO
@RJK don’t be mad at me b/c your mother tried to abort you at 36 weeks. And you stuck with a face that looks like a Scream mask.
Just a perm. Case of fuggin Bell’s Palsy.
Ole Sylvester Stallone looking bastid.
*scrolls up*
Wut
Naija
Trend
Jenie
Prynn
Zoe
Razzle D
anybody watch ‘My Teen is Pregnant and So Am I’…one teen thought it’d be fun to have someone to play with…she didn’t know she had to do more than play with him and one was upset that her mom was also pregnant b/c that meant the mom couldn’t help her with her baby *le weep*
KDub says:
I am working on my 9th banning….
@RJK your fave holiday is coming up.
Labor Day.
Time for that annual telethon that Jerry Lewis throws for birth injurious muthafawkas like yourself. You ole slow thanking bastid.
why must you be so lethal? 
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KDub, Naija, WUT, Razzle, Trend, Zoe GM
LASHELLE MA BELLE
morning hun 
You wished you had a husband like my mother
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You cant see to read. If you could you would KNOW I got a husband.
You was prolly born with detached retinas as a result of being missed by the suction tube.
You prolly got to talk into the computer and have it type for you.
GAGIRL
O’an I am SO
@Choco for: “DIE MUTT”…. when I read THAT! 
After the recap I read of Honey Boo Boo, I WILL be tuning in.
“she’s the pregnantest”
lovezoe says:
After the recap I read of Honey Boo Boo, I WILL be tuning in.
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I have HOLLERED at least two or three times this morning at this show.
DJM, but i downloaded her ringtones, too.
@Lovezoe
It feels kinda good to see some YT folks chirren actin coonish on TV that we can
at.
Razzle Dazzle Boo says:
“she’s the pregnantest”
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THAT was one of my hollerin’ sessions! I fell the phuck out!
@Razzle
I was WEAK at “pregnantest”.
This woman said her grandchild looks like a busted can of biscuits!!
Unlike your ghetto project hoodrat mamma who had babies by a bunch of men in and out of her bed
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My parents had been married 12 years before I came along. HS sweethearts. Childhood really (since she was 4 and he was 6).
Unlike your hoe azz mammy and your pimp azz stepdaddy. Shug and DeeJay from ‘Hustle and Flow’. She STILL has no idea whose kid you are.
I didn’t get that from Sandy’s post, I’m a single mother and I totally agree with Sandra but the boys should be gone too. .
Not just this post, but her posts in general. She has never minced words in how she feels that single BLACK mothers (thanks for the correction Naija) are tearing the black community apart. Responsible for gay men. The reason why there is so much crime. The list goes on..
Those are the hoodest rednecks I done EVER seen. EVER! When they were at that auction for that expired food!
I lost the back to one of my earring I guess I’m gone have to take it back to the HOOD and take a lil piece of a pencil eraser
And they call the Daddy, Suga Bear!
I am done here. If @RJK comes back @Pryn tess meh.
If Sandra ban me I will tess you or hit u on the thread.
GAGIRL87 says:
I lost the back to one of my earring I guess I’m gone have to take it back to the HOOD and take a lil piece of a pencil eraser
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That’s not hood Babe. That’s being RESOURCEFUL!
@GaGirl
I DREAD losing the backs to my earrings. I lost one the other day and went out to my car and there is lay in the crevice of my seat. I was all
when I seen it. I don’t have no pencils in my house. I don’t 
Man f.uck birthday’s I gotta get my tag, pay my car note, & pay my ins ALL on my birthday
@GAGIRL got one better than that…had a friend in high school who ‘loved’ her boyfriend and wanted to tatt his initials on her so she used an eraser to erase the letter R on her arm #SeriousFace
You know WE stay cooning, so for this to come out… BUT regular alabasters categorize rednecks in the same class as us
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lashellebelle says:
GAGIRL87 says:
I lost the back to one of my earring I guess I’m gone have to take it back to the HOOD and take a lil piece of a pencil eraser
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That’s not hood Babe. That’s being RESOURCEFUL!
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@ Ms. belle
resoureful that I AM!!!
lashellebelle says:
This woman said her grandchild looks like a busted can of biscuits!!
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i hadnt seen it but saw the previews; why are all of their clothes too small like they dont have the money to buy chit that fits? ESPECIALLY THE MOMMA!
@GAGIRL
I was told TODAY is Nippy’s (RIP) Bday.
@ prynsexxx no pencils
I agree Sandra. I agree. && On that note. People need to stop having Kids they can’t afford to take care of. I think the most embarrassing thing in the world has to be having children you can’t afford to take care of and being known as so & so’s babymama. And then these Government Funded “Babymamas” have the nerve to prioritize about brand names etc. I am a college student, WHY ARE UNWED BABYMAMAS REWARDED WITH FINANCIAL AID ETC. WE NEED TO STOP REWARDING IRRESPONSIBILITY. I AM GRADUATING THIS SUMMER WITH NO DEBT BUT I HAD TO WORK HARD WHILE THESe BISHES PUSH OUT BASTARD KIDS AND GET REWARDED WITH FREE THIS THAT AND THE OTHER. I AM SICK OF THIS SYSTEM REWARDING IRRESPONSIBLE PEOPLE GTFOH!
Good morning all, I have been lurking hard since I finally have some free time.
Here Comes Honey Boo Boo is proof stupidity is rewarded in today’s society black, white, or otherwise. I felt embarassed for them.
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NaijaGal says:
@GAGIRL got one better than that…had a friend in high school who ‘loved’ her boyfriend and wanted to tatt his initials on her so she used an eraser to erase the letter R on her arm #SeriousFace
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I rememeber people were doing that chit when I was in school my brother has his intial on his arm from a pencil eraser just ignant
I don’t know who these “REGULAR” alabasters are but it doesn’t matter b/c those REDNECKS are setting them “REGULAR” alabasters WAAAAAYYYY BACK!
prynsexxx says:
@GAGIRL
I was told TODAY is Nippy’s (RIP) Bday.
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It sure is!!!! Happy birthday Whitney!!!!!
@GAGIRL
None that I can recall. Pens? Yes. Pencils…
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You Government Funded Yaky wearing Babymamas Make me sick!
I agree, IamK_Antoinette. As a society we should stop promoting promiscuity among teenagers. Shows like MTV’s 16 and Pregnant should be banned from television.
113ELove says: KUDOS and CONGRATS to the females who didn’t ALLOW Your H.S. Pregnancy to DETER YOU but can SOMEONE… ANYONE explain to me HOW Getting PREGNANT during High School is a POSITIVE Thing
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IamK_Antoinette says:
I agree Sandra. I agree. && On that note. People need to stop having Kids they can’t afford to take care of. I think the most embarrassing thing in the world has to be having children you can’t afford to take care of and being known as so & so’s babymama. And then these Government Funded “Babymamas” have the nerve to prioritize about brand names etc. I am a college student, WHY ARE UNWED BABYMAMAS REWARDED WITH FINANCIAL AID ETC. WE NEED TO STOP REWARDING IRRESPONSIBILITY. I AM GRADUATING THIS SUMMER WITH NO DEBT BUT I HAD TO WORK HARD WHILE THESe BISHES PUSH OUT BASTARD KIDS AND GET REWARDED WITH FREE THIS THAT AND THE OTHER. I AM SICK OF THIS SYSTEM REWARDING IRRESPONSIBLE PEOPLE GTFOH!
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I got financial aid while in college after having my son
@GAGirl, I know somebody that got a terrible infection from doing that eraser tat thingy, they actually had to do surgery to remove damaged tissue.
Razzle Dazzle Boo says:
i hadnt seen it but saw the previews; why are all of their clothes too small like they dont have the money to buy chit that fits? ESPECIALLY THE MOMMA!
and see I just won’t support the show cause with her people see it as cute but let that be a black child and it would be the shame of the black community and how we’re ignorant etc etc
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yet they have thousands to do glitz pagents????
@Razzle
I was proud of the mama for not showing her goodies to the best of her ability. When she was talking about those other FAT rednecks, I was WEAK! She seems confident tho’.
@ Gagi, Well thats GREAT for YOU! and Exactlymy point , it’s not fair. How is that an academic accomplishment. I got academic scholarships but no direct fincial aid because my parents made too much. Why does someone who choses to have a child get rewarded while the rest of us who prioritize and are responsible with our bodies have to bend over backwards to pay for an education. Its like push out a child heres a free education oh and groceries.. We will even pay for your living expenses. Why continue to reward irresponsible people with tax payers dollars. If anything open more planned parenthood clinics pass out more condoms etc. Prevent the damn Problem!
eh i’m still pretty sure i wont watch it
the previews were enough for me and for the simple fact that they can prance that little girl around and let her think some of the stuff is cute (although it may be funny) i cant get with it my son is 3 and at times he catches me off guard with funny chit i have to walk away to keep him from seeing me laugh so he doesnt think its ok i cant get with a kid that think he/she can say ANYTHING and the parent allows it 
Razzle Dazzle Boo says:
eh i’m still pretty sure i wont watch it the previews were enough for me and for the simple fact that they can prance that little girl around and let her think some of the stuff is cute (although it may be funny) i cant get with it my son is 3 and at times he catches me off guard with funny chit i have to walk away to keep him from seeing me laugh so he doesnt think its ok i cant get with a kid that think he/she can say ANYTHING and the parent allows it
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If they knew better, they’d do better.
But I honestly don’t think the family thinks anything’s wrong with their behavior.
Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says: and what about the FATHERS of these children?? they can finish AT school tho right?? FOH
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many schools will also kick out the boys but it’s harder to PROVE a boy is expecting. he’s not walking around with a big azz belly and, if i’m his parent, i would want a DNA test before he is expelled.
the bottom line is, girls (AND women) need to accept that THEY will suffer the most consequences and have the most responsibility for children they have. the thought that a boy will have an equal burden is ridiculous. females can’t seem to get this through their head, like if they have a baby they can MAKE a male love the baby, pay adequately for the baby, spend time with the baby, spend time with them, get kicked out of school like them, etc. it will be their first harsh lesson in life.
I am a college student, WHY ARE UNWED BABYMAMAS REWARDED WITH FINANCIAL AID ETC. WE NEED TO STOP REWARDING IRRESPONSIBILITY. I AM GRADUATING THIS SUMMER WITH NO DEBT BUT I HAD TO WORK HARD WHILE THESe BISHES PUSH OUT BASTARD KIDS AND GET REWARDED WITH FREE THIS THAT AND THE OTHER. ——————————————-
Can you get me the names of these baby mama’s please? I got a helleva lot of student debt (about $26k worth) and I am going back in Jan 2013 …thanks. By that time I will be divorced and an offical baby muvah agane
Oh and P.S. And the bastard kid I pushed out in 1995 is going to college in fall 2013. If there is some kind of funding for her being a crotch product of a single mother ….pass funding sources for her azz this way too.
I’m done with the main subject. Folks go TOO far sometimes. Mad because chicks on welfare, but also mad they get financial aid to better themselves. Whew
Sandra Rose says:
Lovely One says:
Is everyone really that upset with RJK’s comments? Yes, some people go on to get multiple degrees and great jobs but generally speaking that is the exception, not the case.
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Exactly. A teenager who is running behind a grown man trying to get laid is not thinking about getting a PhD or Masters degree.
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Yup! They are thinking. Gucci this Gucci that… Gucci Errthang!
datsmdubya2u says: so that’s what started it…what women have to do is admit that bad choices were made and talk to their children about it. also stop saying OOW births are bad except yours and the people u know. we have to be consistent that OOW births are not good in order for the message to get thru to our children the boys and the girls
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Kdub
I believe there are a lot of scholarships for kids from single parent homes, And Yes, You should be able to qualify for financial aid etc. take advantage of all the money you can get. I would. I just wish they made financial aid for responsible people as well. But I take it in stride, still graduating debt free with a great job in my desired field. Good Luck!! Get your free money boo!
I don’t think they pay off your debt though, You would have to speak to a financial advisor, I’m not familiar with that subject, as a returning college student there are many available programs to support you financially. Also if you are above a certain age their are A LOT of scholarships and grants available for returning students. Good Luck with yours and your daughters free ride!!!
I don’t think they pay off your debt though, You would have to speak to a financial advisor, I’m not familiar with that subject, as a returning college student there are many available programs to support you financially. Also if you are above a certain age their are A LOT of scholarships and grants available for returning students. Good Luck with yours and your daughters free ride!!!
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You totally missed my point. *PERRRRRRRRRN* as it flies over your head…
I am over the income limit to ride ANYWHERE scot-free.
I am smart enough to have already known all of this but really just felt like being an azz and wanted to see your take on it.
Good DAY to ya.
It didn’t fly over my head. I knew exactly what you were trying to do and I didn’t see the necessity in feeding into your blatant sarcasm. Tootles!
@IamK_Antoinette says:
The last time I check bishes wasnt lining up outside regular dudes apartments tryna be a baby mama…**** happens some times.
I would much rather a bish on welfare take that free aide and go to school and better themselves than sit…or rather lay up and keep having babies not doing ****.
you said your parents made too much, meaning you had two that could contribute…thats more than the “baby mamas” out here so why shouldnt they get help? just because someone made a mistake doesnt mean u should be blackballed for like.
My mother raised me on her own…im sure it wasnt her choice. When it came time to go to college…she aint have it and the govt said she made too much to for me to get financial aide…sweetie you not the only one who had to pay for school themselves.