R.I.P. Chris Lighty

The entire music industry is saddened by the news that Violator Entertainment executive Chris Lighty has taken his own life. Industry executive Jeff Robinson made the announcement on his Twitter page today.

Lighty, 44, died of a self-inflicted gunshot wound to the head, according to the NY Daily News.

“Law enforcement sources said Lighty — who divorced his wife, Veronica, last year — may have been dealing with financial struggles, including owing about $5 million to the IRS.”

According to Stunmag.com, Lighty was one of the richest men in music. He is the founder of Violator Management with a star-studded roster that includes 50 Cent, Diddy, Fantasia, Busta Rhymes, Missy Elliot, Mariah Carey and many other top shelf recording artists as clients.

Chris Lighty was reportedly despondent over a failed marriage. Lighty and his estranged wife Veronica, whom he married in 2003, have a son, Jaden, 6.

Following a meeting with Dr. Deepak Chopra in September, Lighty tweeted: “Deep energy in the house. Counseling on life, marriage, business, children, family, Wow…I am getting right.”

Depression is a serious mental illness that is not being adequately addressed in the black community. We have to remove the stigma that surrounds treatment for depression by talking about it often. We can’t continue to lose great minds to this emotionally debilitating disease. Now the music industry has lost a friend and a son has lost a father.

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    • Bibi

      Man what a shame RIP…folks just don’t know how bad depression really is :no:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :tea: let me read

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      :sad:

    • http://dawnsheen.blogspot.com/ Min Min Sheen (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen)

      Depression is a serious mental illness that is not being adequately addressed in the black community.
      ——–
      I agree. There is nothing worse than being imprisioned inside the four corners of your own mind. People need to learn to reach out. We self diagnois, self medicate, hide secrets in black families. Suicide is never the answer it might solve your problem but the affect it has on your family and kids although I do not know first hand I am sure never goes away hurt people, hurt people.

    • San

      Depression is REAL, I remember a time I didnt want to be here and no one knew. Never want to revisit that place again

    • luVn_liFe…

      This is truly Tragic,Truly May he R.I.P

    • prynsexxx

      WOW! Sad to hear. May The Almighty cover his family.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Sad :coffee:

    • http://pic.twitter.com/NQ0fC5oI BK2ATLMAN

      Damn RIP, one of the coolest dudes you can know..

    • NaijaGal

      but it looked like he was getting help but it obviously didn’t ‘work’…I feel for his son…suicide is always a selfish act to me

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      R.I.P.
      Sounds like he had some demons.

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      *waits for the post to go left*

    • lovezoe

      So sad. I hope his family finds peace and don’t blame themselves.

    • prynsexxx

      Dawn says:

      the affect it has on your family and kids….I am sure never goes away
      ____________________________

      :cosign: It doesn’t.

    • Gigi26

      Depression is REAL, I remember a time I didnt want to be here and no one knew. Never want to revisit that place again
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      Same here :no: I thank god I was too chicken to go through with it…a bish took 3 tynenols and was bugging out :lol:

      But in all seriousness this is sad, his child and his ex-wife will be scarred by this forever :pray:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Min Min Sheen (The artist formally kwn as Dawn Sheen) says:

      hurt people, hurt people.
      _______________

      See this ^^ :tea: u better :preach:

    • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

      Very sad. Black people don’t be afarid to seek out professional help. Nothing is worth taking your own life.

      Nothing. :dead: RIP Chris

    • prynsexxx

      @Yso

      Take it back downstairs. LOL

    • Bad Influence

      :no: RIP man…. depression is VERY REAL…

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAIJA
      Thats like saying someone with alzeihmers is inconsiderate for forgetting something.

      One of the end results of depression is suicide. Its part of the disease.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      How old was he?

    • Bad Influence

      Gigi26 says:

      Depression is REAL, I remember a time I didnt want to be here and no one knew. Never want to revisit that place again
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      Same here I thank god I was too chicken to go through with it…a bish took 3 tynenols and was bugging out

      fantasia??? :blink:

    • Iheart

      R.I.P :sad:

    • Chel

      ONE THING I CAN SAY ABOUT WHITE PEOPLE IS THAT FOR THE MOST PART THEY BELIEVE IN SEEING THERAPISTS AND GETTING TREATMENT IF SOMETHING IS MENTALLY WRONG WITH THEIR CHILD OR FAMILY MEMBER. MAJORITY OF THE BLACKS DONT. I HAVE A COUSIN WHO USED TO BEAT HER SON ALL OF THE TIME BECAUSE SHE SAID HE WAS “JUST BAD” BUT HE REALLY HAD A MENTAL ISSUE…I BELIEVE IN GETTING TO THE ROOT OF ALL PROBLEMS WHETHER THAT BE TALKING TO A THERAPIST A PASTOR OR WHATEVER. THIS IS SAD :( RIP.

    • Iheart

      Depression is a serious mental illness that is not being adequately addressed in the black community. We have to remove the stigma that surrounds treatment for depression by talking about it often.

      :applause:

    • San

      Same here I thank god I was too chicken to go through with it…a bish took 3 tynenols and was bugging out

      But in all seriousness this is sad, his child and his ex-wife will be scarred by this forever

      ________________________
      Having my mom there for me and prayer got me thru

    • Gigi26

      fantasia???
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      FUGGG YOU :dead: I was young at the time..very young didn’t understand what was going on….

    • Xena68

      Damn shame I hope his family can pick up the pieces and move forward by Gods grace

    • Bibi

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @NAIJA
      Thats like saying someone with alzeihmers is inconsiderate for forgetting something.
      One of the end results of depression is suicide. Its part of the disease.

      Have to agree…

    • San

      Wnen the will to live is gone, it’s gone.(Doesnt mean I agree with suicide) Dont matter who it hurts. When depressed all you see is your problems…

    • http://twitter.com/#!/Birdshu Bird

      That’s terrible news. God bless his close friends and family. R.I.P. bruh.

    • http://www.amazon.com/gotta-make-Heaven-going-thru/product-reviews/1448656729/ref=sr_1_1_cm_cr_acr_t iscream

      I read he owed millions to the IRS… Not so sure about him being one of the richest people in the industry. Just saying……

    • Gigi26

      Having my mom there for me and prayer got me thru
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      :yes: My sister went to therapy, my pops laughed at her but seriously it helped her a whole lot…i’m thinking about going myself just to get some shyt off my chest…sometimes you need to hear a voice talk back to you :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @YSO
      REALLY… This is What You want To See :think:

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      @PRYN

      Oh, I ain’t the one that’s gonna do it. :coffee:

    • Such A F’n Lady

      Damn homie. R.I.P.

    • brownsuggababe76

      RIP…

      We self diagnois, self medicate, hide secrets in black families…momma always say what goes on in this house STAYS in this house.. :hahaha:

    • Bad Influence

      u know i was teasing u bew :hug: @Gigi..

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related OHoney

      HIS!!! :mad:
      I don’t know who he is…this is sad though

    • San

      My sister went to therapy, my pops laughed at her but seriously it helped her a whole lot…i’m thinking about going myself just to get some shyt off my chest…sometimes you need to hear a voice talk back to you
      ____________________________
      Exactly, it seems like somebody else will understand better.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @San (Comment #29)
      TOTALLY AGREE!!! :coffee:

    • YSoSrs HuntyBooBooChile

      @ELOVE

      I don’t want to see anything. I just know I will.

    • Iheart

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @NAIJA
      Thats like saying someone with alzeihmers is inconsiderate for forgetting something.

      One of the end results of depression is suicide. Its part of the disease.

      ____________

      :cosign: A lot of depressed ppl feel like no one cares about them and everyone around them will be better off without them around. You start to believe things that are not true and make things that sound irational to a healthy minded person makes complete sense to them.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      A whole lot of prayer got me though depression :tea: and friends. :tea:

    • NaijaGal

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @NAIJA
      Thats like saying someone with alzeihmers is inconsiderate for forgetting something.

      One of the end results of depression is suicide. Its part of the disease.
      =========================
      part of it or not, I still deem it as selfish

    • Iheart

      Gigi26 says:

      Having my mom there for me and prayer got me thru
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      My sister went to therapy, my pops laughed at her but seriously it helped her a whole lot…i’m thinking about going myself just to get some shyt off my chest…sometimes you need to hear a voice talk back to you
      ___________

      It does help! I stopped having some of the nightmares I was having after I went :yes:

    • prynsexxx

      Gigi says:

      I was young at the time..very young didn’t understand
      _______________________________

      And I HATE that, when folks are young and haven’t lived yet and are confused. I heard a young girl once (can’t remember if it was on TV or IRL) say “I wanted to kill myself to see if HE would come to my funeral.” :blink: :smack: :wail:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @Gigi
      ONE of My Brothers in Ohio was in Desperate Need and I TRULY BELIEVE If I didn’t go there to Assist Him and Help Him get a HANDLE of His Emotions that he would’ve Committed Suicide (He was REALLY Going through Too Much at that Time…) :coffee:

    • Gigi26

      A lot of depressed ppl feel like no one cares about them and everyone around them will be better off without them around. You start to believe things that are not true and make things that sound irational to a healthy minded person makes complete sense to them
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      :yes: and you start to distance yourself from others..you are mentally trapped. I don’t know if dude drank but add that to the mix you get a deadly combination :no:

      Its crazy you see people smile but you don’t know what’s behind it.

      RIP Chris…

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Well I know if I ever get depressed I will be seeing a damn therapist :tea: cause that last time :no:

    • San

      ONE of My Brothers in Ohio was in Desperate Need and I TRULY BELIEVE If I didn’t go there to Assist Him and Help Him get a HANDLE of His Emotions that he would’ve Committed Suicide (He was REALLY Going through Too Much at that Time…)
      ____________________________________-
      Believe stuff like this helps :) U neva know

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Im not one to speak on Depression or suicide… All I know is no one knows what a person could be going through mentally to think they could end it and give up… some of the darkest corners of our minds are filled with sadness and I cant for one even know what the next man does to deal with that… soo

    • prynsexxx

      Brownsugga says:

      hide secrets in black families…momma always say what goes on in this house STAYS in this house
      _____________________

      ….and it should. Why? B/c when you “tell yo business”, folks aren’t there help, they are quick to :gossip: :ha: and :no: (shake their head) as you walk by. NOBODY offers help for the situation and most times it’s deeper then any outsider knows. IJS

    • http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=72503781 yanibunny02

      yall we skipped the post about Evelyn..or was that done purpose? :rofl:

    • Gigi26

      And I HATE that, when folks are young and haven’t lived yet and are confused. I heard a young girl once (can’t remember if it was on TV or IRL) say “I wanted to kill myself to see if HE would come to my funeral
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      No lie I asked my mom if I died would you come to my funeral..I was in a very dark hole…low self esteem/being a teenager/pressure to excel at a young age left me overwhelmed. But I talked to a friend who helped me a lot… :yes: I’m just glad that I gave life a second chance, some people don’t think like that.

      @ELOVE: Good thing you did that bro sometimes you can hear it in people’s voices……That’s what friends are for :yes:

    • Ms.Fashion

      MAN. All he needed was some help. NO one recognized he needed help? Are there other detailed reports? Before someone does this they reach out to get help. He’s gone now and left in a tragic way. :cry:

    • Aryanna

      This is so sad.. Money can’t comfort you :( Reach out and talk to someone who trust.. someone who can give you good feedback.. and not just tell you what u want to hear. Talk to someone who actualluy cares and definitely pray.

      R.I.P :(

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      ELove says:

      @Gigi
      ONE of My Brothers in Ohio was in Desperate Need and I TRULY BELIEVE If I didn’t go there to Assist Him and Help Him get a HANDLE of His Emotions that he would’ve Committed Suicide (He was REALLY Going through Too Much at that Time…)
      ________________________________________________

      Time to provide a bit of levity hope you dont mind homie

      Shiat I was in OHIO 3 weeks and wanted to run out in on coming traffic
      that place there WILL MAKE YOU SAD

    • Bibi

      @Prynn

      :yes:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @NAIJA
      For you to deem it “selfish” means you selfish yourself… or ignorant.

      The most elementary of research will show it is part of the disease.

      Smh at my people sometimes.

    • NaijaGal

      according to the article he sought or was seeking help

    • luVn_liFe…

      San says:
      Wnen the will to live is gone, it’s gone.(Doesnt mean I agree with suicide) Dont matter who it hurts. When depressed all you see is your problems…

      :yes: yes!!

      My sister went to therapy, my pops laughed at her but seriously it helped her a whole lot…i’m thinking about going myself just to get some shyt off my chest…sometimes you need to hear a voice talk back to you

      ^ ^ ^^ ^^ ^
      Yes GiGi hearing someone else thoughts,opinions,and understanding does bring comfort.Just like when one Vents to another it makes One feel better.
      but when your dealing with deep rooted issues its Certainly best to see a therapist.Unfortunately ALOT Of people see it as a sign of weakness or weirdness

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @I Go
      Yeah Ohio is a Str8 BUM-AZZ Spot Dawg (No Doubt…) :lol:

    • prynsexxx

      @Gigi

      but the girl said “SHE wanted to SEE if HE would come to HER funeral”…. How is that even possible, youngblood? :shrug:

    • NaijaGal

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @NAIJA
      For you to deem it “selfish” means you selfish yourself… or ignorant.

      The most elementary of research will show it is part of the disease.

      Smh at my people sometimes.
      ======================
      name calling or you being an ass won’t change my stance…It’s selfish to me, point blank period

    • Trendsetter

      Wow this story really hits home….my dad also committed suicide….he too was depressed but didn’t seek help…such a sad story…

    • prynsexxx

      @Elove

      :warning: Leave OHIO out of this. :karate:

    • Gigi26

      but the girl said “SHE wanted to SEE if HE would come to HER funeral”…. How is that even possible, youngblood?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Naw that is pure selfishness and stupidity…your death should not be the solid factor in seeing if someone care for you..WTH?! :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @luVn_liFe…
      A Therapist isn’t the Be All (CURE ALL Though…) I understand what you’re SAYING but Sometimes Somebody that ACTUALLY KNOWS YOU can be a Much Better Antidote for That Individual’s Situation (AGAIN I Hear What You’re Saying…) :yes:

    • prynsexxx

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @NAIJA
      For you to deem it “selfish” means you selfish yourself… or ignorant.

      The most elementary of research will show it is part of the disease.

      Smh at my people sometimes.
      ____________________________

      @YSO

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ HERE IS YOUR LEFT TURN SIGNAL…..

      :steer: <—– speeds off before YSO can get out the car good

      #tuckandroll

    • luVn_liFe…

      Trendsetter says:
      Wow this story really hits home….my dad also committed suicide….he too was depressed but didn’t seek help…such a sad story…
      ^ ^ ^ ^
      :hug: Im sorry to hear that TREND,yes this is truly Tragic and Sad.

    • yallcrazy

      RIP

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @pryn
      Sorry Darling BUT I BET You know WTF I’m Talkin Bout Though (YUP…) :coffee:

    • Aryanna

      Chel says:

      ONE THING I CAN SAY ABOUT WHITE PEOPLE IS THAT FOR THE MOST PART THEY BELIEVE IN SEEING THERAPISTS AND GETTING TREATMENT IF SOMETHING IS MENTALLY WRONG WITH THEIR CHILD OR FAMILY MEMBER. MAJORITY OF THE BLACKS DONT. I HAVE A COUSIN WHO USED TO BEAT HER SON ALL OF THE TIME BECAUSE SHE SAID HE WAS “JUST BAD” BUT HE REALLY HAD A MENTAL ISSUE…I BELIEVE IN GETTING TO THE ROOT OF ALL PROBLEMS WHETHER THAT BE TALKING TO A THERAPIST A PASTOR OR WHATEVER. THIS IS SAD RIP.

      _____________________

      I agree!

    • luVn_liFe…

      ELove says:
      A Therapist isn’t the Be All (CURE ALL Though

      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      No thats for sure,I get that.

    • GAGIRL87

      One of my close friends shot himself in the head and I had no indication he was depressed. He often joked about everything now it makes me think he joked & laughed alot to cover up the pain he was going through still don’t know why he killed himself. RIP Quanteze :(

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      ELove says:

      @I Go
      Yeah Ohio is a Str8 BUM-AZZ Spot Dawg (No Doubt…)
      ______________________________________________

      Homie I was at that shiat asking myself life questions… Thats why I was able to see the olympics cause after 8 pm there wasnt shait to do.

      the highlight was me drinking 8 whisky sours at the local Buffalo wild wings.

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Trend :hug:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      suicide makes me SO sad :(

      it can always get better, but they just want the pain to end. my supv’s hubby’s suicide is the closest i’ve been to it & it looks like it shakes u even worse that a “normal” death :(

      God be with his family :pray:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @GAGIRL
      Prime Example of WHAT You Just Said —-> Juinor Seau (YUP…) :yes:

    • GAGIRL87

      @Igo Wild Wings have some good wings :ashamed:

    • Iheart

      GAGIRL87 says:

      One of my close friends shot himself in the head and I had no indication he was depressed. He often joked about everything now it makes me think he joked & laughed alot to cover up the pain he was going through still don’t know why he killed himself. RIP Quanteze
      _______________

      You never know what’s hiding behind someone’s smile :sad:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      GAGIRL87 says:

      One of my close friends shot himself in the head and I had no indication he was depressed. He often joked about everything now it makes me think he joked & laughed alot to cover up the pain he was going through still don’t know why he killed himself. RIP Quanteze
      awww! :hug:

    • MsOnederful

      Dang.. May he RIP. According to the daily news. He owed the IRS $5 Million bucks. With friends like Mariah, 50, Russell Simmons and Missy who absolutely loves him. Idk why they could not have helped. :( His adorable son. I feel horrible for. Will pray for them.

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Iheart you sure don’t and that’s the truth this post makes me wanna cry bringing back memories of him!

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @Igo Wild Wings have some good wings
      ______________________________________

      garlic Parm

      is my fav… and i will fight a muthafker for them too.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Trend :hug: i’m glad u survived it. some dont :hug:

    • GAGIRL87

      Fay Fay :hug: back!!!

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      WOW!!I have finally arrived to Sandra Rose!! Hello alllll…..I feel like I already know most of you ..lol. How yall doing???? I mean welcome a sista or somehting.
      I feel like Ive heard this story before. Another Music executive killed himself a while back…right

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      MsOnederfol

      sometimes ppl are too proud to ask for help. especially men :(

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Igo I like the ranch and general chicken flavor. I’m hungry now ! :mad:

    • tld007

      Don’t be surprised we will start to see more of these tragic situations brace yourself and pray!

    • pointhimout

      Int. Gloomy office – AFTERNOON

      REDEEMED enters stage right carrying a CRUSTY bible and Illuminati pamphlets.

    • luVn_liFe…

      MsOnderful says:
      With friends like Mariah, 50, Russell Simmons and Missy who absolutely loves him. Idk why they could not have helped
      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      do these Celebs every help someone ele out other than theirselves?
      Look how they helped the comedian woman who was on Moesha Just saying.
      however just because one has wealthy friends they are not entitled to help someone out,No?

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      how do I get and avi…me no likey the one that was given to me

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      tld007 says:

      Don’t be surprised we will start to see more of these tragic situations brace yourself and pray!

      :think: y u say that?

    • Bad Influence

      :welcome: Keesh :hi:

      :dead: @Point :rofl:

    • GAGIRL87

      :dead: @ Fayla avi

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Igo I like the ranch and general chicken flavor. I’m hungry now !
      _______________________________________________________________________

      :lol:

      Sorry Sabotage… didnt mean to make you hungry.

    • NaijaGal

      @KEESH I think you’re talking about that Stuart guy…anywho :welcome: …you’re rather aggressive huh

    • dancerbee93

      I Go There says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @Igo Wild Wings have some good wings
      ______________________________________

      garlic Parm

      is my fav… and i will fight a muthafker for them too.

      ———————
      :hahaha: Ricky Rozay said the same damn thing about the same damn wing :lolsign:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      THAT CERTAINLY WASNT THE ANSWER :no: MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY AND LOVED ONES-RIP

    • Trendsetter

      Thanks Luvn, Fayla, & GA :hug:

      It’s hard but I’m maintaining. I need to seek some help as well…because I never got over the fact that my dad did that…I’m mad, angry, sad, hurt…I just have so many emotions in me…

    • dancerbee93

      :hi: Keesh :welcome:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      I think it’s important to remind everyone that money does not bring happiness. People pursue riches thinking it will bring them joy but all it brings is problems and mo’ problems. :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :welcome: Keesh
      Log in to the link that says enable Gravatar sign in with your SR log in and Wallah!!

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      luVn_liFe… says:

      MsOnderful says:
      With friends like Mariah, 50, Russell Simmons and Missy who absolutely loves him. Idk why they could not have helped
      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      do these Celebs every help someone ele out other than theirselves?
      Look how they helped the comedian woman who was on Moesha Just saying.
      however just because one has wealthy friends they are not entitled to help someone out,No?

      Luvn :hug:

      as someone who’s related to a somewhat wealthy person. it just doesnt work that way :shrug: not in my case anyway.
      that’s what most ppl think, but in reality that’s not how it is.
      now hopefully when my big blessings come thru bc of the struggles i’ve been thru, i wont have the same viewpoint..

    • tld007

      Depression majorly real a lot of ppl walking but feeling dead inside until the light of it is brought out be prepared to see well named and no named individuals brilliant minds usually… so sad…

    • Bad Influence

      NaijaGal says:

      @KEESH I think you’re talking about that Stuart guy…anywho …you’re rather aggressive huh

      i was like whoaaa tiger myself :rofl:

      and FAY that gravi :crying: :ghost:

    • GAGIRL87

      99

      I Go There says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Igo I like the ranch and general chicken flavor. I’m hungry now !
      _______________________________________________________________________

      Sorry Sabotage… didnt mean to make you hungry.

      ______________________________________________________________________

      @ Igo :-P

    • Trendsetter

      NaijaGal says:

      @KEESH I think you’re talking about that Stuart guy…anywho …you’re rather aggressive huh

      __________________________

      :dead:

    • GAGIRL87

      :-P I love this emoticion :lol:

    • yallcrazy

      :welcome: Keesh

      1st off you’ve gotta pay your dues ($) to Yso and she’ll hook your gravi up :yes:

      Who’s in charge of Newbie packets this month? :thinking:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      dancerbee93 says:

      I Go There says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @Igo Wild Wings have some good wings
      ______________________________________

      garlic Parm

      is my fav… and i will fight a muthafker for them too.

      ———————
      Ricky Rozay said the same damn thing about the same damn wing
      _________________

      His was Lemon Pepper

      :lol:

    • Bad Influence

      awwww @Trend… sorry about ur dad bew.. (just read the comments) :hug:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Sandra Rose says:
      I think it’s important to remind everyone that money does not bring happiness. People pursue riches thinking it will bring them joy but all it brings is problems and mo’ problems.

      ^ ^ ^ ^
      Yes MAAM,just like the KING Of the South says in Live UR lIfe
      you cant enjoy your riches cause your piss poor morally.

      Hey FAY,How are you? I was in a Great Mood but uuummmH Im feeling some kinda way naah :| seeing the folks in BraiTsworth and all :crying:
      And Your right just cause Friend,sister,brother,mother,grandmother is wealthy/Well off doesnt make you well off

    • Trendsetter

      @ Bad…thank you :hug:

    • dancerbee93

      Sandra Rose says:

      I think it’s important to remind everyone that money does not bring happiness. People pursue riches thinking it will bring them joy but all it brings is problems and mo’ problems.
      ———————-
      Auntie

      People trying to find happiness thru money does that fall in line with that dopamine feeling for a person???

    • yallcrazy

      <–is starving and indecisive hmmmmp

    • Gigi26

      Damn he shot himself in the head?! Good god that’s horrible :sad:

    • Aryanna

      Sandra Rose says:

      I think it’s important to remind everyone that money does not bring happiness. People pursue riches thinking it will bring them joy but all it brings is problems and mo’ problems.

      _________________

      PREACH SANDRA.. this is exactly what I said. Just give me enough money not to stress over bills.. and my family.. and im good.

    • Bad Influence

      why come i never had a garlic parm wang?

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Trend :hug: <—tightly

      do go ahead & get that help babe. it's NO shame in it at all. & from my understanding all those emotions u feel are totally normal to have. to be honest, in my darkest hours it was my children that kept me alive. i couldnt leave them with that kind of pain :no:

      #NOSHADE
      #100%LOVE

    • yallcrazy

      :P @GA :rofl:

    • GAGIRL87

      105

      Sandra Rose says:

      I think it’s important to remind everyone that money does not bring happiness. People pursue riches thinking it will bring them joy but all it brings is problems and mo’ problems.
      _______________________________________________________________________

      @ Sandra your right, I have a brother in the entertainment biz and it’s like he has the money but he’s also dealing w/ ALOT of the vices that come with the entertainment biz. Everything that glitters ain’t gold :no:

    • dancerbee93

      His was Lemon Pepper

      ——————–
      Ohhhh welll BBW must have that crack if all yall wanna kill over them :grin:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      GAGuhl & HIS

      yall no likey zenio’s twiny twin twin?? :shrug:

      there is no pleasing u ppl! :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Trendsetter says:
      Thanks Luvn, Fayla, & GA
      It’s hard but I’m maintaining. I need to seek some help as well…because I never got over the fact that my dad did that…I’m mad, angry, sad, hurt…I just have so many emotions in me…
      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      I hope that you get whatever treatment,therapy or other to help you deal with it,If you dont deal with it,you’ll always be angry about it and Never gain understanding :hug:

    • yallcrazy

      People trying to find happiness thru money does that fall in line with that dopamine feeling for a person???

      You might be on to something, because those addicted to shopping talk about “their high”
      :popcorn:

    • dancerbee93

      BTW hello fam!! :hugs:

      Bad
      Trend
      IGO Fay Fay
      GA
      Yall
      Aryanna
      Gigi

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Bad Influence says:

      why come i never had a garlic parm wang?

      :love: soooooo GOOD!

      yall got wingstop or wingzone up there?

    • GAGIRL87

      yallcrazy says:

      @GA

      _____________________________________

      @Yall :-P :love:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Dancer! :2dance: <—chacha slide
      sup guhl?

    • NaijaGal

      if it’s a mental disorder than it wouldn’t matter if he had 5 cents or 5 million right?

    • yallcrazy

      Trend, do you do any writing in a journal or anything therapeutic like that?

      Just an idea :hug: It is good that you can openly say your feelings now :yes:

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Trend singing toy story song :whistle: You’ve got a e friend in me!!!

    • luVn_liFe…

      You might be on to something, because those addicted to shopping talk about “their high”
      :ido:

    • missmiami

      :lipsealed: not one to judge but it takes some serious issues to kill yourself and I think it is incredibly selfish. Either way something is going on in this music business

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      DEPRESSION CAN DEFINITELY LEAD YOU TO THINK/BELIEVE THAT LIFE ISN’T WORTH LIVING OR THAT YOU ARE BETTER OFF DEAD-BUT SITUATIONS, ISSUES, CRISIS, PROBLEMS ETC. LAST MOMENTARILY NOT FOR EVER, IF ONLY PEOPLE COULD HOLD ON RIDE OUT THE TOUGH TIMES UNTIL THEY FIGURE OUT THAT EVENTUALLY THEY WILL OVERCOME THEM TOO, IT MAKES YOU STRONGER AND BUILDS YOUR FAITH

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE, IT’S A BATTLE OUT HERE AND IT’S FOR SOULS AND WHEN YOUR FAITH IS LOW AND/OR YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO PRAY AND WAIT, SOMETIMES THE DEVIL WINS

    • dancerbee93

      Everything that glitters ain’t gold
      ———————–
      hmmppff well my coo coo has glitter mist and it is golden!!!! Thank you!!
      :rofl:

    • GAGIRL87

      Heyyyyyy Dancer :hug:

      :whistle: Tonight I’m gonna DANCE for you!!!!

    • missmiami

      I get high from ahopping and then feel really guilty afterwards

    • luVn_liFe…

      yallcrazy says:
      Trend, do you do any writing in a journal or anything therapeutic like that?

      Just an idea It is good that you can openly say your feelings now

      ^ ^ ^ ^

      gurrrl you may not be fully Krazie After aLL :D

    • missmiami

      :applause: @ Intense u right about that. That darn devil had me about to commit myself to the hospital at one point. Thank Hod for Jesus :pray:

    • GAGIRL87

      @ Fay why he look so little like that dat in that avi :crying: :lol:

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      Bad Influence says:

      why come i never had a garlic parm wang?
      ___________________________________________

      I eat those when you go out with the girls… but we can have some tonight if you want.

    • MsOnederful

      luVn_liFe… says:

      MsOnderful says:
      With friends like Mariah, 50, Russell Simmons and Missy who absolutely loves him. Idk why they could not have helped
      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      do these Celebs every help someone ele out other than theirselves?
      Look how they helped the comedian woman who was on Moesha Just saying.
      however just because one has wealthy friends they are not entitled to help someone out,No?

      They aren’t entitled but could help. Simon Cowell helped Fantasia out of her situation. As far as Andell from the parkers. I heard Monique did not even go to her funeral…:(

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      @Naija..I dont think Im agreesive but I am dark skinned (may come off that way)
      Thanks @lVn_life and Dancer
      @ Yall Crazy…Im ready to pay my dues…wheres the check out line????

    • GAGIRL87

      140

      dancerbee93 says:

      Everything that glitters ain’t gold
      ———————–
      hmmppff well my coo coo has glitter mist and it is golden!!!! Thank you!!
      ___________________________________________________________________

      @ dancer :spank: you nasty heifer you!!!!

    • yallcrazy

      Dancer :yahoo:
      ——————-
      Well, I guess we have a rude newbie that didn’t thank anybody for their welcome.
      *snickers* she’s probably trying to figure out the gravi thing :rofl:
      ===========
      :rofl: GA
      =============
      Naija, I’m following your train of thought! Was it depression? Was it depression brought on by being broke? I got alot of thoughts on this, too much to font though….

    • luVn_liFe…

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE, IT’S A BATTLE OUT HERE AND IT’S FOR SOULS AND WHEN YOUR FAITH IS LOW AND/OR YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO PRAY AND WAIT, SOMETIMES THE DEVIL WINS

      Alright Nah Intense!! :preach:

    • Bad Influence

      that damn Dancer :hahaha:

    • MsOnederful

      Bad Influence says:

      why come i never had a garlic parm wang?

      THEY ARE BANGING! you should make some this weekend… then come back and file your report.

    • dancerbee93

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE,—————-
      Annnnnddd when you doubt Gods blessings and praise another God (money/record label execs) besides him **adjusting my hcuuch hat**

    • GAGIRL87

      144

      missmiami says:

      @ Intense u right about that. That darn devil had me about to commit myself to the hospital at one point. Thank Hod for Jesus
      ___________________________________________________________________

      The Devil is real!!!! you have to stay prayed up at all times!!!

    • http://youtube.com/watch?v=ntMXXpTATJo I Go There

      dancerbee93 says:

      Everything that glitters ain’t gold
      ———————–
      hmmppff well my coo coo has glitter mist and it is golden!!!! Thank you!!

      ____________

      humph… heard that before

    • Bad Influence

      Keesh says:

      @Naija..I dont think Im agreesive but I am dark skinned (may come off that way)

      nah what nah?? oh chileee :ghost:

      did someone fire a shot??

    • luVn_liFe…

      GAGIRL87 says:
      @ Fay why he look so little like that dat in that avi

      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      :dead:

      MsOnderful Says:

      As far as Andell from the parkers. I heard Monique did not even go to her funeral…:( <— Exactly my point (friend)

    • dancerbee93

      Naija..I dont think Im agreesive but I am dark skinned (may come off that way)
      ——————
      :rolleyes: :wtf: does that mean Rasheeda????

    • yallcrazy

      Whoops* removes the middle of 150* :whistle:

      *talking low so Keesh don’t hear* Did she figure out the gravi thing yall? Shhhh

      :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      somebody gimme a recipe for garlic parm wangz! :mad:

    • yallcrazy

      :karate: Hiiiiii Yaaaa @LuvLife
      ^slow like the matrix :lol:

    • dancerbee93

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Heyyyyyy Dancer

      Tonight I’m gonna DANCE for you!!!!
      _____________________
      :buttshake:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      waaay :offtopic:

      but i just loved Monifa’s daughter’s spirit :love:
      (i just got to watch r&b divas last night)

    • Bad Influence

      BWAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHA i die for @Dancers keyboard :rofl:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      This type of situation is common in the black community. My brother was diagnosed with Paranoid Schzifrenia (or however you spell it) when he was only 17yrs old. His came from a long battle of depression. Luckily we got him help. He use to tell me that he was hearing voices that would tell him to hurt himself or someone else. My uncle and cousing was also diagnosed with the same thing. My Fiance doesnt believe in getting counseling or help with depression…. but its all too real.

    • yallcrazy

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE, IT’S A BATTLE OUT HERE AND IT’S FOR SOULS AND WHEN YOUR FAITH IS LOW AND/OR YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO PRAY AND WAIT, SOMETIMES THE DEVIL WINS

      :applause:

      And I thank HIM for everything that I have AND everything that I don’t have!

    • Aryanna

      NaijaGal says:

      if it’s a mental disorder than it wouldn’t matter if he had 5 cents or 5 million right?

      _______

      I think they are trying to say he was depressed be/c of money issues.

    • missmiami

      That i have learned.

    • Trendsetter

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      waaay

      but i just loved Monifa’s daughter’s spirit
      (i just got to watch r&b divas last night)

      __________________________________________

      :cosign:

    • NaijaGal

      Keesh says:

      @Naija..I dont think Im agreesive but I am dark skinned (may come off that way)
      ==============
      I shan’t can’t and won’t

    • Bad Influence

      I Go There says:

      Bad Influence says:

      why come i never had a garlic parm wang?
      ___________________________________________

      I eat those when you go out with the girls… but we can have some tonight if you want.

      yes please. rawr :boobs:

    • dancerbee93

      hey hey hey Fay fay!! :dance:

      @Trend Im definitely sending :hugs: :pray: bew

    • willetta56

      :thinking Y’all, there is something evil/awful going on within the music industry! How many suicides does this make recently?

    • Milky

      this is so sad i think i may cry!! :crying: so many deaths lately just make me so sad. my mother passed away almost a year ago from a botched surgery and every time i hear about a funeral or some one passing i just get sad and feel like i need some :koolaid3: I guess i will be having a bottle of wine tonight.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE

      *mr brown voice*

      :whistle:

      devil thought he had me! i got awaaaayyy!!
      thank YA!!!

    • Aryanna

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      DEPRESSION CAN DEFINITELY LEAD YOU TO THINK/BELIEVE THAT LIFE ISN’T WORTH LIVING OR THAT YOU ARE BETTER OFF DEAD-BUT SITUATIONS, ISSUES, CRISIS, PROBLEMS ETC. LAST MOMENTARILY NOT FOR EVER, IF ONLY PEOPLE COULD HOLD ON RIDE OUT THE TOUGH TIMES UNTIL THEY FIGURE OUT THAT EVENTUALLY THEY WILL OVERCOME THEM TOO, IT MAKES YOU STRONGER AND BUILDS YOUR FAITH

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE, IT’S A BATTLE OUT HERE AND IT’S FOR SOULS AND WHEN YOUR FAITH IS LOW AND/OR YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO PRAY AND WAIT, SOMETIMES THE DEVIL WINS

      ________

      AMEN!!!!!!!!!

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      @missmiami

      I’M A SURVIVOR AS WELL, NEVER TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE, BUT I’VE BEEN DEPRESSED ENOUGH TO CONSIDER IT IN THE PAST

      IT’S ALL IN A MOMENT, I SWEAR IT’S LIKE THE DEVIL RIDING THE HELL OUT OF YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO TAKE YOUR LIFE AND UNFORTUNATELY ERRRY DAMN REASON YOU CAN THINK OF COMES TO MIND (GAS & ELECTRIC, TRAFFIC TICKET, MORTGAGE, NO KOOLAID, COW LICK, BILLS, GREY AND RAINY OUTSIDE, KIDS ACTING UP, RELATIONSHIP/FRIENDS/FAMILY DRAMA) HELL TOTAL ALL THAT SHIAT UP AND IN A SPLIT SECOND AND A WEAK MOMENT LIFE CAN BE ENDED JUST LIKE THAT

      THAT’S WHY I PRAY HARD, GET ON MY KNEES AND THINK GOD FOR LIFE, HEALTH AND STRENGTH-AND REBUKE THE devil DAILY!!!! THAT NEGROE KNOWS OUR WEAKNESSES AND PREYS ON THEM-LIFE IS NOT PERFECT AND WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS AND WHATEVER THE HELL IT IS, IT SHALL PASS TOO..

      YOUR LIFE IS WORTH LIVING SIMPLY BECAUSE GOD GAVE YOU LIFE-BOTTOM LINE!!

      I CAN TRULY RECALL DARK MOMENTS AND PRAYING AND FEELING LIKE A WEIGHT LIFTED UP OFF OF ME-IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS FEELING BETTER-JUST THINKING IF I HAD DONE IT, THANK GOD FOR KEEPING ME :) I DON’T STRUGGLE AS OFTEN ANY MORE NOW THAN MY FAITH IS STRONGER, AND WHEN I DO IT NEVER LASTS LONGER THAN A DAY-HUGE VICTORY!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcWvL-LZO08 AWESOME

      :peace:

    • yallcrazy

      My Fiance doesnt believe in getting counseling or help with depression…. but its all too real.

      Well that’s fine and dandy BUT just let him know if he “needs help” after yall get married, that you will sign him in… #faserious

    • Bad Influence

      *sings*

      One of these things is not like the others,
      One of these things just doesn’t belong,
      Can you tell which thing is not like the others
      By the time I finish my song?

      Did you guess which thing was not like the others?
      Did you guess which thing just doesn’t belong?
      If you guessed this one is not like the others,
      Then you’re absolutely…right!

      :kona:

      :bye:

    • missmiami

      @ keesh glad to hear cuz that runs in my family; depression. I myself have never gotten professional help. However, I believe the voices are usually demonic and most professionals would call me nuts too.Crazy cuz my hubby doesn’t really believe in counseling either. #djm

    • Trendsetter

      yallcrazy says:

      Trend, do you do any writing in a journal or anything therapeutic like that?

      Just an idea It is good that you can openly say your feelings now
      _______________________________

      Actually I use to write in a journal daily…but I haven’t written in my journal in a lil over a year…maybe I need to start writing again

    • GAGIRL87

      157

      Bad Influence says:

      Keesh says:

      @Naija..I dont think Im agreesive but I am dark skinned (may come off that way)
      ___________________________________________________________________

      :rofl: that chit cray!!!

    • dancerbee93

      yallcrazy says:

      Whoops* removes the middle of 150*

      *talking low so Keesh don’t hear* Did she figure out the gravi thing yall? Shhhh

      ——————–
      :hahaha:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ya’llCrazy says:

      And I thank HIM for everything that I have AND everything that I don’t have!

      ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
      Yes Maam All the TIME!

      ~ ~ ~ ~
      :wave: willetta56 Are you new?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      BLOWING MY Head Off isn’t Something I would consider doing IF I Chose SUICIDE Though :nono:

      I would go the PEACEFUL ROUTE like that Serial-Killer that was part of a DUO Serial killer Team… He bit a CYANIDE CAPSULE (And Died INSTANTLY and IMMEDIATELY…) :coffee:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      HIS

      make some wangs like u normally do but sprankle exkra gahlic on em. and then, when u put the sauce on em’ sprankle some parm on em :yes:

    • Trendsetter

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Trend singing toy story song You’ve got a e friend in me!!!

      ________________________

      :hug: thanks boo

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      ((((((((((((hello))))))))))))

      @HIS @FAY @YALLC :2dance:

    • yallcrazy

      Well, since we on funerals and thangs…..Does anybody have any good funeral speeches/poems/write-ups etc for somebody they were close to. #veryserious

    • Trendsetter

      :welcome: Keesha….seems like you have a strong personality

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      @Elovah hey boo! i had they best pancakes ever last week! You would have loved them!

    • dancerbee93

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      THE DEVIL GET’S BUSY THE MOMENT YOU DOUBT GOD’S PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE

      *mr brown voice*

      devil thought he had me! i got awaaaayyy!!
      thank YA!!!

      ——————————
      yes yes!!! My grandmother used to say “Black Folks dont need a counselor as lonnnnnnnnnnnggg as we got KING JESUS!!! Everythang will be alright”

    • yallcrazy

      Frenchie :steer: <–SR yacht :D

      *through clenched teeth* I need an answer Dancer, I can't see gravis now YO*

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      Rubs @GAGirl’s leg hey sexi! :lol:

    • Bad Influence

      @Intense :clap: u are on it today :yes: #178 was so real

      but :rofl: @ the cow lick tho

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      missmiami says:

      @ keesh glad to hear cuz that runs in my family; depression. I myself have never gotten professional help. However, I believe the voices are usually demonic and most professionals would call me nuts too.Crazy cuz my hubby doesn’t really believe in counseling either. #djm

      so are u hearing voices? #serious question
      #nojudgementhere

    • luVn_liFe…

      ELove says:
      BLOWING MY Head Off isn’t Something I would consider doing IF I Chose SUICIDE Though

      I would go the PEACEFUL ROUTE like that Serial-Killer that was part of a DUO Serial killer Team… He bit a CYANIDE CAPSULE (And Died INSTANTLY and IMMEDIATELY…)

      ~ ~ ~ ~
      Well alrighty then!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      @FAYLA how was your trip to dirty jerz???

    • yallcrazy

      Trend, that might be good :yes: writing can be soothing, no pressure though :hug:

    • missmiami

      @missmiami

      I’M A SURVIVOR AS WELL, NEVER TRIED TO COMMIT SUICIDE, BUT I’VE BEEN DEPRESSED ENOUGH TO CONSIDER IT IN THE PAST

      IT’S ALL IN A MOMENT, I SWEAR IT’S LIKE THE DEVIL RIDING THE HELL OUT OF YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO TAKE YOUR LIFE AND UNFORTUNATELY ERRRY DAMN REASON YOU CAN THINK OF COMES TO MIND (GAS & ELECTRIC, TRAFFIC TICKET, MORTGAGE, NO KOOLAID, COW LICK, BILLS, GREY AND RAINY OUTSIDE, KIDS ACTING UP, RELATIONSHIP/FRIENDS/FAMILY DRAMA) HELL TOTAL ALL THAT SHIAT UP AND IN A SPLIT SECOND AND A WEAK MOMENT LIFE CAN BE ENDED JUST LIKE THAT

      THAT’S WHY I PRAY HARD, GET ON MY KNEES AND THINK GOD FOR LIFE, HEALTH AND STRENGTH-AND REBUKE THE devil DAILY!!!! THAT NEGROE KNOWS OUR WEAKNESSES AND PREYS ON THEM-LIFE IS NOT PERFECT AND WE ALL HAVE PROBLEMS AND WHATEVER THE HELL IT IS, IT SHALL PASS TOO..

      YOUR LIFE IS WORTH LIVING SIMPLY BECAUSE GOD GAVE YOU LIFE-BOTTOM LINE!!

      I CAN TRULY RECALL DARK MOMENTS AND PRAYING AND FEELING LIKE A WEIGHT LIFTED UP OFF OF ME-IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS FEELING BETTER-JUST THINKING IF I HAD DONE IT, THANK GOD FOR KEEPING ME I DON’T STRUGGLE AS OFTEN ANY MORE NOW THAN MY FAITH IS STRONGER, AND WHEN I DO IT NEVER LASTS LONGER THAN A DAY-HUGE VICTORY!!!

      by INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST on Aug 30, 2012 at 3:47 pm
      _____________________________________________________

      i haven’t really been depressed since accepting Christ. But then again I shop instead of get down. In the gutter :danban1: taking baby steps for that sickness too

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Frenchieeeeee!!! :kiss: sup bewski??

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      @HIS i am blinded by your beauty! :thumbsup: on the new gravi!

    • Milky

      yallcrazy says:

      Well, since we on funerals and thangs…..Does anybody have any good funeral speeches/poems/write-ups etc for somebody they were close to. #veryserious

      ———————————————————–
      All I can say is speak from the heart or write something from the heart about that person. I find that more touching than anything else. Hope that helps!

    • Bad Influence

      Frencheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :kiss:

      im still confused bout the darkie comment but oh well…

    • yallcrazy

      :steer: *runs over Honey*

      #thisisforlaterjustincaseiforget

    • dancerbee93

      *through clenched teeth* I need an answer Dancer, I can’t see gravis now YO*

      ———————-
      *scrolls up* all i see is :blink:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Bad Influence says:
      @Intense u are on it today #178 was so real
      but @ the cow lick tho <– girl you Know its the little thngs that will break your back :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @NaijaGal (#134)
      NOT for Petty and SHALLOW Azz Individuals… Don’t forget YT FRIDAY back in The 80s (But They call it BLACK FRIDAY…) When ALL OF THOSE Wall-Street Dudes LOST THEIR SHIRTS in the Stock-Market (Them YT FOOLZ were jumping from Buildings to THEIR DEATH…) :coffee:

    • free

      San says: Depression is REAL, I remember a time I didnt want to be here and no one knew. Never want to revisit that place again

      **********************

      me too. over some STUPID SHYT! i was young and dumb though.

    • missmiami

      I dont hear voices :rofl: have in the past and we all have. Uknow that voice in your head isn’t always YOUR VOICE

    • Bad Influence

      ok we get it, u like to shop :lol:

    • yallcrazy

      Milky says:

      yallcrazy says:

      Well, since we on funerals and thangs…..Does anybody have any good funeral speeches/poems/write-ups etc for somebody they were close to. #veryserious

      ———————————————————–
      All I can say is speak from the heart or write something from the heart about that person. I find that more touching than anything else. Hope that helps!

      :huh: Stop making sense gal & go find me something :lol:

      j/k… I hear ya

    • dancerbee93

      im still confused bout the darkie comment but oh well…

      ————————-
      me too :waiting: maybe trying to upload an agressive dark skin pic :shrugs:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @MissMiami
      :offtopic: what’s the DEETs on the :buttshake: <–New one?

    • missmiami

      :wink: Ok guys i will be checkin out. Gotta get ready for that mjb concert tonight. Super excited to see my girl MF :woohoo:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcWvL-LZO08 AWESOME

      I just read a chart the other day that rated methods of suicide by pain and time before you’re actually dead. :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      Frenchie-BABY!!!! :hug:

      You already KNOW (You Are SO WRONG Though… Right?!!?) :lol:

    • yallcrazy

      Bad Influence says:

      Frencheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :kiss:

      im still confused bout the darkie comment but oh well…
      ===========
      dancerbee93 says:

      *through clenched teeth* I need an answer Dancer, I can’t see gravis now YO*

      ———————-
      *scrolls up* all i see is :blink:
      ==============
      Is it a person or the free gravi? :lol:
      I am trying to figure out same as Ho’boygurrr #alwaysfrigginlost #cantseegravis #hongry

    • Milky

      All I can say is speak from the heart or write something from the heart about that person. I find that more touching than anything else. Hope that helps!

      Stop making sense gal & go find me something

      j/k… I hear ya

      _—–_______________________________________________________________

      I spoke at my mother’s funeral even though no one thought i should. I didnt prepare a speech i just spoke from the heart becuz her and I were like bestfriends. I also wrote her a poem in the obituary, but everyone thought the words from my heart right off the top of my head was better. good luck!!

    • missmiami

      I am getn my booty 9/21 at 7:30ammam. First surgery of the day :) email me at missmiami@live.com to chit chat. Gotta go

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Dancer i’m #teamJesus all day erryday, but He also made counselors so we can utilize them too amen? AAAAAA-man! :lol:

      Frenchie i had a really good time. hubby’s fam was cool. wish i coulda spend more time in the city tho NY was great, what lil bit i got to see of it :yes:

    • yallcrazy

      Miami, yeah I saw your “my booty is coming Friday” font.

      Whatchu talmbout Willis? :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7je-DEQgPJk&feature=related ELove

      @AWESOME :rofl: :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      dancerbee93 says:

      im still confused bout the darkie comment but oh well…

      ————————-
      me too maybe trying to upload an agressive dark skin pic

      :crying:

      u better look esstraa (shout out 2 laker) angry in that pic bish…as a matter of fact i want u 2 headbutt evelyn so i know its real :yes:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      @ milky

      this is nice..

      The Next Place by Warren Hanson

      The next place that I go will be as peaceful and familiar
      as a sleepy summer Sunday, and a sweet, untroubled mind
      And yet… it won’t be anything like any place I’ve ever been..
      or seen..or even dreamed of in the place I leave behind

      I won’t know where I’m going,
      and I won’t know where I’ve been
      as I tumble through the always,
      and look back toward the when

      I’ll glide beyond the rainbows, I’ll drift above the sky
      I’ll fly into the wonder, without ever wondering why
      I won’t remember getting there, somehow I will just arrive
      But I’ll know that I belong there
      And will feel much more alive than I have ever felt before
      I will be absolutely free of the things that I held onto
      That were holding onto me

      The next place that I go will be so quiet and so still
      That the whispered song of sweet belonging
      will rise up to fill the listening sky with joyful silence,
      and with unheard harmonies of music made by no one playing,
      like a hush upon a breeze

      There will be no room for darkness
      in that place of living light,
      Where an ever-dawning morning
      pushes back the dying night
      The very air will fill with brilliance,
      as the brightly shining sun

      And the moon and half a million stars are married into one
      The next place that I go, won’t really be a place at all
      There won’t be any seasons – winter, summer, spring or fall
      Nor a Monday, Nor a Friday, Nor a December, Nor July
      And the seconds will be standing still…while hours hurry by
      I will not be a boy or a girl, a woman or a man
      I’ll simply be –just, simply, me
      Nor worse or better than

      My skin will not be dark or light
      I won’t be fat or tall
      The body I once lived in, won’t be part of me at all
      I will finally be perfect, I will be without a flaw
      I will never make one more mistake, or break the smallest law
      And the me that was impatient, or was angry, or unkind
      Will simply be a memory, the me I left behind

      I will travel empty-handed,
      there is not a single thing I have collected in my life
      that I would ever want to bring

      Except…

      The love of those who loved me
      And the warmth of those who cared
      The happiness and memories and magic that we shared

      Though I will know the joy of solitude …
      I’ll never be alone, I’ll be embraced
      By all the family and friends, I’ve ever known

      Although I might not see their faces
      all our hearts will beat as one
      And the circle of our spirits, will shine brighter than the sun
      I will cherish all the friendship I was fortunate to find
      All the love and all the laughter in the place I leave behind

      All these good things will go with me
      They will make my spirit glow
      And that light will shine forever

      In the next place that I go….

    • yallcrazy

      :hug: Thank you Milky

      I can’t wait til Honycoatd sees your font and gives you a new name :lol: djm :tea:

    • dancerbee93

      Is it a person or the free gravi?
      I am trying to figure out same as Ho’boygurrr #alwaysfrigginlost #cantseegravis
      ——————-
      Free #teamhungry

    • Bad Influence

      AWESOME :love:

    • Milky

      i need to try some of that whip. i have not permed my hair in about 12years. Does the whip strenghten hair as well as moisturize it?

    • yallcrazy

      :kiss:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      AWESOME says:

      I just read a chart the other day that rated methods of suicide by pain and time before you’re actually dead.

      :blink: woooow! what did it say? #morbidcuriosity

    • yallcrazy

      dancerbee93 says:

      Is it a person or the free gravi?
      I am trying to figure out same as Ho’boygurrr #alwaysfrigginlost #cantseegravis
      ——————-
      Free #teamhungry
      Like Precious? :popcorn:

      ======================
      Intense :thumbsup:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Milky says:

      i need to try some of that whip. i have not permed my hair in about 12years. Does the whip strenghten hair as well as moisturize it?
      __________
      :yes: :trophy:

    • Milky

      yallcrazy says:

      Thank you Milky

      I can’t wait til Honycoatd sees your font and gives you a new name djm
      _________________________________________________________________
      What’s wrong with my name? I need to put a pic up but,not sure how to do it.

      GOT MILK!!!

    • http://youtu.be/FYVslwomu98 gypsyeyes

      Depression is serious. It took me 2 years to get out of it. While I was going through it and not talking to anyone I was slinking deeper and deeper.I will not say I didn’t contemplate death but when I was thinking it would be easier my inner self spoke up loudly. No one even knew that I was going through it. Big Gypsy told me she knew all about it when she graduated this year.The Lord saw me through it. I’m still here and I aint going no where. Intense was so right. Everything will make you depressed when you are already depressed.

    • Milky

      @jeniefrumdabloc

      Thanks I think I will order some tomorrow!

    • yallcrazy

      Milky, the Whipfinity big container is the best value, but if you just want to try it out, try a small container. BUT if you ask all on here, the big one is the most economical :yes:

      I lick them all too BTW #youcare :lol:

    • dancerbee93

      Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:) says:

      Dancer i’m #teamJesus all day erryday, but He also made counselors so we can utilize them too amen? AAAAAA-man!

      ——————-
      Amen!!! i always looked at my family like but yall crazy !! I need to talk to someone about yall besides yall!!! When my mother passed i went to see a YT christian counselor and my family thought I was crazy!!! I think counselors and therapy is frown upon in our community because we have always been taught that you dont talk about yo business, yo family or nothing personal..What goes on in the house stays in the house..Thus the reason I know so many with mental issues and am always told “dont mess with such in such you kno they crazy! :shrugs:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Milky says:

      i need to try some of that whip. i have not permed my hair in about 12years. Does the whip strenghten hair as well as moisturize it?

      :yes: y yes it certainly does. *pats flat-twists* :grill:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      gypsyeyes says:

      Depression is serious. It took me 2 years to get out of it. While I was going through it and not talking to anyone I was slinking deeper and deeper.I will not say I didn’t contemplate death but when I was thinking it would be easier my inner self spoke up loudly. No one even knew that I was going through it. Big Gypsy told me she knew all about it when she graduated this year.The Lord saw me through it. I’m still here and I aint going no where. Intense was so right. Everything will make you depressed when you are already depressed.
      ___________
      Gypsy is that you :blink: Hey girl :happy: and your absolutely right !

    • yallcrazy

      :hug: Gypsy
      And your past strength got you through this past (rough) year, where you could’ve slipped back into it.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      gypsyeyes says:

      Depression is serious. It took me 2 years to get out of it. While I was going through it and not talking to anyone I was slinking deeper and deeper.I will not say I didn’t contemplate death but when I was thinking it would be easier my inner self spoke up loudly. No one even knew that I was going through it. Big Gypsy told me she knew all about it when she graduated this year.The Lord saw me through it. I’m still here and I aint going no where. Intense was so right. Everything will make you depressed when you are already depressed.

      :hug: SO glad u’re here mija :yes:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      yallcrazy says:

      Milky, the Whipfinity big container is the best value, but if you just want to try it out, try a small container. BUT if you ask all on here, the big one is the most economical :yes:

      I lick them all too BTW #youcare
      _______________
      :huh: its edible too ?

    • Milky

      Yall thanks ordering the big container becuz of u.
      ok Fayla look for my order tomorrow.

    • dancerbee93

      Free #teamhungry
      Like Precious?
      —————
      :hahaha: I Cant.. I..just :kona:

    • yallcrazy

      Milky says:

      yallcrazy says:

      Thank you Milky

      I can’t wait til Honycoatd sees your font and gives you a new name djm
      _________________________________________________________________
      What’s wrong with my name? I need to put a pic up but,not sure how to do it.

      GOT MILK!!!

      :smack: Notchu too :lol: Just wait for Yso to arrive, because she gives out all of the gravi instructions :rofl:

      &

      Honycoatd, always gives us her own personalized names :D

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Everytime I refresh my page, I notice in the photo up top that he looks sad in the pic :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcWvL-LZO08 AWESOME

      :peace: :hump: <– till I die

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcWvL-LZO08 AWESOME

      :kiss:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Amen!!! i always looked at my family like but yall crazy !! I need to talk to someone about yall besides yall!!! When my mother passed i went to see a YT christian counselor and my family thought I was crazy!!! I think counselors and therapy is frown upon in our community because we have always been taught that you dont talk about yo business, yo family or nothing personal..What goes on in the house stays in the house..Thus the reason I know so many with mental issues and am always told “dont mess with such in such you kno they crazy!

      :preach: and i think talking to a counselor who’s not involved/invested in any way is a RELIEF bc there’s no judgement & there’s objectivity. u can’t hold everything in all the time. u gotta lighten the burden somehow or possibly end up like Chris :(

    • luVn_liFe…

      YallCrazy says:
      I lick them all too BTW #youcare <– :dead: :ghost:

    • Milky

      Notchu too Just wait for Yso to arrive, because she gives out all of the gravi instructions

      &

      Honycoatd, always gives us her own personalized names

      _______________________________________________

      well i didn’t get the welcome package, so i have to feel my way through here.

    • yallcrazy

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      yallcrazy says:

      Milky, the Whipfinity big container is the best value, but if you just want to try it out, try a small container. BUT if you ask all on here, the big one is the most economical :yes:

      I lick them all too BTW #youcare
      _______________
      :huh: its edible too ?

      Hmmmp, you didn’t know!? :lol: It’s all natural, so that why I started licking it :shrug: djm :tea:

    • Gigi26

      Depression is serious. It took me 2 years to get out of it. While I was going through it and not talking to anyone I was slinking deeper and deeper.I will not say I didn’t contemplate death but when I was thinking it would be easier my inner self spoke up loudly. No one even knew that I was going through it. Big Gypsy told me she knew all about it when she graduated this year.The Lord saw me through it. I’m still here and I aint going no where. Intense was so right. Everything will make you depressed when you are already depressed.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      :yes: and I’m glad you got out of it!!

      The more you dwell on the bad the deeper you sink in…

      Intense you spoke straight truth!!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      yallcrazy says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      yallcrazy says:

      Milky, the Whipfinity big container is the best value, but if you just want to try it out, try a small container. BUT if you ask all on here, the big one is the most economical :yes:

      I lick them all too BTW #youcare
      _______________
      :huh: its edible too ?

      Hmmmp, you didn’t know!? :lol: It’s all natural, so that why I started licking it :shrug: djm :tea:
      ___________

      :lick: away No judgment here :D

    • dancerbee93

      its edible too ?

      Hmmmp, you didn’t know!? It’s all natural, so that why I started licking it djm

      —————-
      @fay fay Im ordering tomorrow as well…. I cant wait to :lick: I mean caress my hair with it!!! :whistle: whip it good!

    • yallcrazy

      Who the hell is charge of the Packets this month? :cuss:

      :mad:
      Can’t count on yall for shatt :rofl:
      ================
      LuvLife, try to lick your Whip yo! :lol:

    • Natasha38

      Logged in to say you are absolutely right Gypsy!!!

      Everything will make you depressed when you are already depressed. – This line here is the sho nuff truth!

      :waves: Good Afternoon Everyone!

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      :newpost:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @JENIE
      I tohught you were going to change that gravie!! the profile on the right scares me when i refresh or see that ” :shocked:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OcWvL-LZO08 AWESOME

      @Fayla
      It was rated by the top 20 ways people actually use to commit suicide. If I recall correctly the fastest (or close to it) was a shotgun to the chest (ala Junior Seau) at under a minute. The most painful and time consuming is setting yourself on fire.

    • yallcrazy

      Milky

      Age
      Kids
      Industry
      What part of the country you’re from
      Favorite SR poster

      I think that covers it. If I missed something, one of these PEOPLE will font it…

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: Natasha38 where you been?

      Fay the :newpost: is it on EviLEEna??

    • luVn_liFe…

      AWESOME says:
      The most painful and time consuming is setting yourself on fire.

      “” :shock: “”

    • Natasha38

      @Luvn :hug:

      Moving, Working, Enrolling my Children in a new school system… Life of a Single Mother tis all…

      I’ve been lurking and reading…

    • luVn_liFe…

      Natasha38 says:

      Moving, Working, Enrolling my Children in a new school system… Life of a Single Mother tis all…
      Ohhh Lady I feel ya! Stay Strong!

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      @miami…no, I dont hear voices but I have witnessed family members hearing them. I have a cousin that takes her clothes off and runs up and down the street every time she hears voices (which is usually when she consumes alcohol)

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      cant figure out this gravi thing to save my life!!! damn I feel like the short bus about to hit the corner to pick me up…..

    • Natasha38

      Thanks Luvn

    • BayMami_de4

      RIP and prayers for his son and family

      Bad Influence says:
      u better look esstraa (shout out 2 laker) angry in that pic bish…as a matter of fact i want u 2 headbutt evelyn so i know its real

      :ghost:

    • hotmess

      RIP. ….These stars ECT.. need to NO money can’t buy happiness you need to have a relationship with the Lord… go some where in your time of need and cry out to the lord for help. WOW

    • http://www.philly.com/ J Said it!

      hotmess says:

      RIP. ….These stars ECT.. need to NO money can’t buy happiness you need to have a relationship with the Lord… go some where in your time of need and cry out to the lord for help. WOW

      ~~~
      Let God’s church say Amen!… what profit a man to gain the world and lose his soul…