Less than a month after the death of her 3rd born son, Usher's ex-wife, Tameka Raymond, returned to a Georgia courtroom today to give explosive testimony about Usher's controlling behavior. Tameka's son, Kile Glover, 11, died on July 21 after being taken off of life support at a local hospital. A judge denied Usher's request to delay the child custody hearing due to the child's death.

Tameka Raymond said the Usher's sympathy for her son was "bogus." She called the 33-year-old singer a "Control Freak" who only filed for custody of their two sons because he believed she was going to file first.

According to my spy, Usher never had issues with Tameka's parenting skills until he learned that she flew both kids in coach during a trip to Jamaica. Usher pays Tameka a modest sum for child support, and he expects his children to be upgraded to first class -- not flying coach. The question is, what is Tameka doing with Usher's money?

The confidential source tells Sandrarose.com that Tameka's testimony was so moving that the judge was almost brought to tears.

Stay tuned for more details...

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    • yallcrazy

      Damn, they couldn't postpone this court date.

      *2 thumbs down to ush*

    • capricorn83

      #TeamUsh ....in general, not necessarily in regards to this case....
      Hoping for a speedy resolution for the sake of the kids! :coffee:

    • Gigi26

      :no: This has to be too much too soon for her..

      I don't think they can stop court proceedings, what happened to her son was a freak accident. No one saw that coming. Sad to say but they had to go on with this one way or the other. Fukked up yes, but its the justice system.

      I hope they come to an amicable agreement though. This is enough to break someone down mentally :no:

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      WHy would the judge deny a dely? This womans child died.

    • Ms. Everything

      Yall he tried to postpone, she asked the judge to keep it on schedule so she can get it out the way, move on with her life and focus on her family.

      What difference does it make if the kids flew coach? Flying coach isn't all that bad. My kids fly coach when they fly and probably would even if I did have Usher money. Was she in coach with the kids? Did she fly first class and let the kids fly with the nanny in coach? Either way, who cares? That's petty :claps: for Tameka. Fight for your kids

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      Usher pays Tameka a modest sum for child support, and he expects his children to be upgraded to first class — not flying coach
      ______________________________________________________________
      This statement is contradictory. If the sum is modest then maybe she felt she couldn't afford it. :shrug: Wouldn't be the first family separated by the curtain. Their room probably wasn't as nice as hers either. Now what?

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qkt7Dx_uK5Y MzDimplez1123

      I hear Usher tried to push the trial back because he felt Tameka would get extra sympathy because she just lost a child and Tameka insisted they move forward.

    • Ms. Everything

      Btw I agree with her reasoning for wanting the case to stay on schedule. This way she can deal with it, deal with the outcome and then take some much needed time with her babies to grieve and love and all that comes after you lose someone. Otherwise, her entire mourning period will have the cloud of this case hanging over it and who would want that? Besides, had she filed for the stay I'm sure the judge would have granted it, because she had that right. For him to do so and with the reasons he gave was so selfish, self serving and trifling I'm glad he was denied

    • gbellab

      so much for keeping the children's best interest 1st. It all comes down to money.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      i know they'll be glad when this is all over tho. may her soon RIP :pray:
      that is my worst nightmare! i cant imagine :(

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      The confidential source tells Sandrarose.com that Tameka’s testimony was so moving that the judge was almost brought to tears.

      Stay tuned for more details…

      u know we will :coffee:

    • mrsloveleigh

      If he is questioning what she is doing with his money--excuse me her money cause child support is for the parent to spend as they see fit-than question that. Why would he want the kids full time when he has a busy schedule as an entertainer. their mother can be with them day in day out year round. And if she was mothering the kids corectly and she was fine with joint custody what's the deal?

    • likeCaesar

      In a world where so many black men do not even bother to see their children at all I commend Usher for wanting to parent his. I don't know the details of their relationship or Tameka's personality traits, however she does not have the best reputation. It wouldn't surprise me if she were mad that he wanted the best for his children while not wanting to pay for the best for her other children that he did not bare.
      Its difficult to determine where child support goes and exactly which children its used to support. I'd be pissed if I sent my 2 children money for Gucci and she spent it on Old Navy for the whole bunch. LOL. I'm just saying...

    • Ms. Everything

      Any man who knowingly marries a woman with other children and then divorces her should not be surprised that at least some of the money is going to benefit her other children as well. I've bought things for my stepchildren without thinking twice, because I had it. And my stepchildren's mothers do the same for mine in the exact same way. I will not commend a man for doing what he's supposed to do while laying out petty stipulations such as his children should not fly coach. Just like he shouldn't be commended for being a father when he made himself a father. He had a choice, he made that choice and he can live with that choice. If she wasn't doing anything wrong, parenting wise don't try to snatch the kids away to save yourself a buck while allowing your menopausal girlfriend the opportunity to parent the babies she's probably to old to have.

    • likeCaesar

      mrsloveleigh says:

      If he is questioning what she is doing with his money–excuse me her money cause child support is for the parent to spend as they see fit-than question that.
      ____

      Which is all the more reason he should be fighting for custody. He should not have to pay to support her other children. SMH at professional baby mamas...

      My dad paid 250/wk and I got every single dime of it starting at the age of sixteen. When I went off to college my mom had set up a college fund using the child support she'd received from years prior. Now if thats not how the "parent receiving child support sees fit to spend it" then they are not responsible enough to manage the money and child support should be re-evaluated. Personally I think that child support should be put on a credit card with an itemized statement of what its spent on to prevent waste and abuse.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBrmhl70e38 Unpredictable

      SMH at alla dis :no:

      Hiiiii folks :waves:

    • Ms. Everything

      but @LikeCaser... she's not a professional baby mom though. She's been married twice, she didn't file for divorce he did. And I'm betting he isn't paying Nas's child support sum for two kids when he has more and could afford it, or even what some of these NBA players are paying. He dragged her back into court, she didn't drag him. It's great when a primary parent can afford to take all their child support and bank it for the childs future. But everybody doesn't have that option. Most have to use it for day to day living expenses. Tameka wasn't broke when she met Usher, she wasn't hard up for cash like when these dudes knock up strippers either. :claps: for your mom but don't disrespect the mother's who simply don't have it like that. And regardless, not wanting to pay child support is not a reason to take children away when the other parent is capable of raising them perfectly fine AND you have a career that has you away from home more times than not.

    • sassyshe

      :rofl: to flying cpach. Really Sandra I doubt Usher is that simple minded

    • http://twitter.com/candyrayne215 spongebobfan

      Is that the courtroom where "Waiting To Exhale" was filmed when Angela Bassett was getting her divorce?

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      mrsloveleigh says:

      child support is for the parent to spend as they see fit-than question that.
      _______________

      Child support is for the child, not for her to get her hair and nails done.

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      likeCaesar says:

      Personally I think that child support should be put on a credit card with an itemized statement of what its spent on to prevent waste and abuse.
      __________________

      I agree. If your company gives you an expense account, you can't spend the money on groceries. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      sassyshe says:

      to flying cpach. Really Sandra I doubt Usher is that simple minded
      _________________

      Tameka's words, not mine.

    • Ms. Everything

      Sandra, agreed but there are those who will get upset with women who use their child support towards the rent or groceries also. I think that's what Mrs. Love meant by that. You can't stipulate only use my support money for my child's direct expenses like clothes, diapers and a babysitter while ignoring the indirect expenses that a child needs even more like food in their stomachs and a roof over their heads. I hate women who assume that check is for them but I also hate men who think that cause they're writing that check they are entitled to detailed receipts dictating what the money was spent on as well

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      @ Ms. Everything: spending money on groceries and rent is understandable. Spending money on hair, nails, clothing, or anything for herself is not cool. If she needs those things she should get a job,

    • luVn_liFe…

      Let the Mud slinging Start AGAIN :|

    • Ms. Everything

      Sandra but she has a job and we don't know if that's what she's actually spending that money on :shrugs: Just because he's questioning what his child support is being spent on doesn't mean that's what she is actually doing

    • charleybrown

      Ms. Everything says:

      Sandra but she has a job and we don’t know if that’s what she’s actually spending that money on Just because he’s questioning what his child support is being spent on doesn’t mean that’s what she is actually doing
      *******************************

      Well if she is using the money appropriately, she shouldn't have no problem showing how it is being spent. When people get offended and upset about statements like that, it comes off as if they are trying to hide something. I personally think there should be itemized statements involved when it comes to child support. It would nip all of this foolishness these females partake in, right in the bud.

    • Ms. Everything

      I don't, I think it would give ignorant minded people more reason to interfere in the lives of their ex :shrugs: And again, I despise women who don't spend their support money on their children but use it for themselves but as long as your child isn't dirty, starving, uneducated, malnourished or otherwise neglected or mistreated and as long as she is taking care of that child as she should than it really is not that big of an issue. The court orders you to pay that amount, pay it and continue living your life. Until she gives you a reason to doubt her financial and/or parenting skills there's no reason to harp on what she is using it for. And flying the kids coach is not a reason

    • lovezoe

      Everyone do quick to dog Meka. The LAW does not require an itemized account of where CS goes. No one says boo when Kimora or Kim P does it, but because it's Meka she's horrible. Meka has a job, that's being a parent. I'm not dating she shouldn't work, but he didn't paying when were married. In riding with Meka on this one.

    • lovezoe

      Oh most 3 and 4 year olds NEVER fly, so nothing wrong with coach. She could be taking then to Bora Bora and he would have a problem if it were coach.

    • WUT-IZ-SWAGU

      New Emoticon check

      :lolsign:

      mkay got it... logs off

    • charleybrown

      I know the law doesnt require itemization of the child support spent. I wouldn't be opposed if they did require it. And it has nothing to do with Tamkea, all of them should do it. I just think that the men get the short end of the stick when it comes to women and child support.

    • Ididntreallymeanit

      Why is usher trying to get full custody?

    • sassyshe

      Sandra Rose says:

      @ Ms. Everything: spending money on groceries and rent is understandable. Spending money on hair, nails, clothing, or anything for herself is not cool. If she needs those things she should get a job,
      -----------------------------------------------------------------------
      Dont forget Lipo.

      Yes they can ask you for an itemized detail as to where CS goes that's why they have worksheets. Anything that is court ordered or provided by the govt can be audited at the court or govt instution's will. Usher went and filed the paperwork but that was when she started leaking ish to the papers when her Saks and other high-end store cards got cut.

      Dont get me wrong I am all for gold diggers getting theirs but lets be real these professional baby mamas as it was put know what they be doing. Diddy dont question his females because their CS is their allowance and their shut the f up money. You dont be seeing none of Diddy hoes running their mouths to the press even when ish got nasty with Misha and Kim, nothing was put out there. Nas didnt contest Kelis because he just wanted to get rid of her however that $55000 got cut after a few months to a reasonable amount because his lawyer did request a break-down of the money and the Judge deemed that she did not need that amount.

      Sometimes men do get the short end of the stick. Shoot my mom's child support checks took care of her entire family. My aunts didnt have jobs until we were teens and the checks started cutting off one by one.

    • sassyshe

      :offtopic: can we all talk about how hawt Derek J looked in his shorts. :rofl: I kid, I kid

    • Daisy

      I am still praying for Tameka and her family :pray:

      Tameka still works in addition to child support payments.

      I heard a clip of her testimony on V103 earlier today and she was talking about what she went through as a single teen mom at 19.

    • http://twitter.com/jetsetdeeva DeevaC

      People seem to forget that when the accident happened with Kile Usher offered Tameka 50/50 custody and a slight increase in child support, BUT she said no. That for me showed this was all about money to her. She knows she most likely can't win in court with facts so she took to the web and released a statement which again showed her true colors to gain Ushers image further. To say Usher's sympathy was bogus is bogus in itself. The man chartered a private jet for her to be with her child. It would take a cold hearted person to not feel for tameka during and in the wake of such a tragedy.

      This all could have been resolved if she would have just accepted his request for joint 50/50 custody. She is dragging this out.

    • lovezoe

      Deeva- I think it came out the story was false

    • Go-Go Girlie

      Sandra Rose says:

      @ Ms. Everything: spending money on groceries and rent is understandable. Spending money on hair, nails, clothing, or anything for herself is not cool. If she needs those things she should get a job,
      -------------------------------------------------

      Sandra, when you have children, you may spend some child support on hair and nails cuz the check was late and you had to spend your hair and nail money on the child. It all gets mixed up in one pot, but as long as the kids have what they need and it balances out, who cares? If a woman had to account for every item she spent on the child, what happens when there is more month than child support and she has to spend bill money on the child and then next month she can't make it up with the child support money cuz there are stipulations?

    • Go-Go Girlie

      ikeCaesar says:

      In a world where so many black men do not even bother to see their children at all I commend Usher for wanting to parent his. I don’t know the details of their relationship or Tameka’s personality traits, however she does not have the best reputation. It wouldn’t surprise me if she were mad that he wanted the best for his children while not wanting to pay for the best for her other children that he did not bare.
      Its difficult to determine where child support goes and exactly which children its used to support. I’d be pissed if I sent my 2 children money for Gucci and she spent it on Old Navy for the whole bunch. LOL. I’m just saying…

      ______________________________________________________

      Tameka's oldest son is grown and she shared custody of the other two with her ex-husband who is capable of taking good care of his kids financially. He may not have Usher money, but he aint broke either.

    • Go-Go Girlie

      DeevaC you are confused. Usher didn't offer her 50/50, they already had joint custody Usher wants FULL custody and wants to take the children on tour with him next year.

      He doesn't give a flying f*ck about how being taken from their mother will affect them after just having lost their brother. You can bet they are sad and confused about why Kile is not there and then to be uprooted and taken from their mother where they will only see her part-time. You really think that's a good look?

      If you had kids and shared custody, would you fight if your ex wanted full?

    • http://www.philly.com/ J Said it!

      who cares if the kids fly coach.. and it is no longer ushers money once its out of his possession! And tameka shouldn have to answer give account to how she spendin the money! this workd is sick.. I hope people will learn that the need not to have government in their lives at every aspect....damn yall work it out away from the system

    • http://www.philly.com/ J Said it!

      And on another note.. people need to stop having babies with individuals who lord knows they aint tryna stay forever with (hollywood contract agreements)... usher wanted to have kids to kill his gay rumors but having kids is not a detterance from being gay.... yall brought these kids in this world to go thru havoc,,its such a shame!
      I cant wait til these children are grown and no longer putting up with being pulled on both ends!

    • http://www.philly.com/ J Said it!

      Sandra Rose says:

      mrsloveleigh says:

      child support is for the parent to spend as they see fit-than question that.
      _______________

      Child support is for the child, not for her to get her hair and nails done.

      ~~~~
      I agree everythinng.. Sandra thats an ignorant staement! How you run your husehold is your business and if I take my full pay check to rob peter and pay paul and the following week rob paul and pay peter!! thats my perogative! Once the money hit my account or hand it facilitate where the funds gonna be allocated.. Im not gonna come up short on providing for my children! some of yall got the game mess all the way up!

    • http://myspace.com/mzkwietstorm MzKwietStorm

      People are never going to do what they SHOULD do. Its always about what they WANT to do. My husband had two kids before we got married. We always bought his kids school clothes, gave $200 a months, and occasionally helped the baby momma with utility bills. A few years go by, his baby moms meets a guy, and decides to put my husband on child support to help pay for her wedding and show proof of more income to buy house. How do we know thi?? She told him as she walked out the court room laughing. She is the main reason I'm for itemized statements. But karma is definitely a beast because that same guy left her and she lost her job. When you do things for the wrong reasons, nothing good will come from it.

    • Ms. Everything

      A lot of y'all are taking examples of trifling women and using them as a standard for all. MOST women don't abuse the child support system. MOST women don't take care of self before child. MOST women aren't out to get over on poor defenseless men with good intentions and fat pockets. MOST women use their child support as needed towards the support of their child as it's needed and as they see fit. Which is why MOST women will still make a way even if child support stops.

      I don't know what kind of women y'all are used to but don't put everyone else in the same hoodrat category as them. I find it funny that this woman never had an issue sharing custody, working out support with her first husband yet Usher comes along and all of a sudden she's only in it for the money :rolleyes: yeah cause it's all her smdh

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      You know what, I am not going to get into this child support crap at all :rolleyes: Coming from someone that receives no support at all, I know exactly how much it cost to raise a child, and my thing is the people that pay the support should quit complaining. I don't know Tameeka situation, but I do know child support can be only a smidget of what is trully being spent on child. My sister gets child support, and is still struggling to support her kids, but she makes do, health insurance, Eye insurance, Dental insurance,medicine, food, clothing, shoes, curricular activities, medicine, surgery, Tutoring, sometimes mental health visits, school projects,transportation to get to school, daycare, afterschool, grooming (hair), Birthdays, Christmas, shat the list could go on and on. But this is just my list!To each is on, but everyones situation is different though. Hell be careful who you lay with :tea: and have kids with that's all I have about that! Child support man :tea: :tea:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      And don't get any assistance, not on welfare, no wic, no assistance for nothing, see the ones that get support are the one that have all these damn babies. A person that aren't getting assistance, not having all these damn kids, I'm just saying, they stop at damn 1, if you taking care of a child by yourself, u got sense enough not to have nothing but one damn child, cause this shat ain't easy!

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      :waves: good mornin loves chall' talm bout?

    • NaijaGal

      JENIE & MS.E :waves:

      child support is like welfare...some do what they're supposed to do with it, others don't but people use the few trifling ones to make a debate out of it...I'm with Tameka not delaying the court proceedings, for what? How long do you give a mother to grieve over the death of her son? Usher's an idiot for even making such a statement b/c first of all, you're insulting the judge...just shuck and jive nigguh like you've been doing for your coins...people keep attacking Tameka for answering to a petition filed against her...as far as I've seen here on this board alone, no mother is going to be ok with her child/children being taken and would fight tooth and nail, so what makes Tameka different...Usher jumped the gun and now he has to face the consequences...when it's all said and done I'm certain the judge is just going to issue joint custody like before...what a waste of each other's time thanks to Usher

    • NaijaGal

      RAZZLE :hi: :kiss:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      oh wow child support convo.... :popcorn:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      Naija :hug:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      NaijaGal says:

      just shuck and jive nigguh like you’ve been doing for your coins…

      :lol:

    • NaijaGal

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      oh wow child support convo….
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      It's the never ending debate...I will say I can't stand when folks talk about how their momma made a $1 out of 15 cents...well if I have babies with my whomever and they're very wealthy I shouldn't be scraping by on sh*t...see Linda Evangelista

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      NaijaGal says:

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      oh wow child support convo….
      =================
      It’s the never ending debate…I will say I can’t stand when folks talk about how their momma made a $1 out of 15 cents…well if I have babies with my whomever and they’re very wealthy I shouldn’t be scraping by on sh*t…see Linda Evangelista
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      it is i wont even join the convo because i know both sides of child support some do what's right some dont and some make it work simple as that.

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      naija my tummy looking just like yours now been on "Kanye's work out plan" :lol:

    • NaijaGal

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      naija my tummy looking just like yours now been on “Kanye’s work out plan”
      =================
      :whistle:
      Thanks to Kanye's workout plan
      I'm the envy of all my friends
      :lol:
      *I haven't pulled me a baller though*

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      lol me neevah but it's ok mr razz plays pick up games

    • lovezoe

      Naija is right- NO WAY would I just sit by and let this rich man and his cut-throat lawyers just come by and take my babies.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Razzle, Naija, Lzoe morning :waves:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      :hi: jenie

    • lovezoe

      Jenie, Naija, Razzle- What it do. What it do. :dance:

    • Trendsetter

      Morning All :hi:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      :offtopic: so they just said on the radio that Nikki Minaj's dr told her to take two weeks off because she has a 'bruised throat' :eek: can some body insert the emote with one giving the other head? :lolsign:

    • NaijaGal

      LOVEZOE :hug: I'm saying though...no mother (barring minimum exceptions) is gonna go 'ok, sure, take'em' so it kills me when people go in on her and on top of that USHER IS THE ONE THAT FILED FOR FULL CUSTODY, all she did was respond to that ish but I digress

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      :hi: trend & lovez

    • NaijaGal

      TREND :hi:

      RAZZLE - how about Nikki said no other female rapper did more to open doors than Foxy Brown :huh:

    • FuturedocDonte

      Moanin :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      NaijaGal says:

      TREND

      RAZZLE – how about Nikki said no other female rapper did more to open doors than Foxy Brown
      ___________________________________

      I just read that on another site...I'm so confuzzled at that statement

    • lovezoe

      Nicki is so delusional. So delusional.

    • sassyshe

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      And don’t get any assistance, not on welfare, no wic, no assistance for nothing, see the ones that get support are the one that have all these damn babies. A person that aren’t getting assistance, not having all these damn kids, I’m just saying, they stop at damn 1, if you taking care of a child by yourself, u got sense enough not to have nothing but one damn child, cause this shat ain’t easy!

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      :cosign: I take care of my child myself and I did choose wisely cause dude took care of the one he had before mine. I guess our toxic relationship made him a sorry arse (since his fam blames me for all) but whatever when people ask why I dont have him in a court I say a) working for the govt I know better than to have your child name all up in the system b) Im not killing myself for no one's change c) I had my kid because I could care for him and d) Im not begging no mofo for $5, karma is a bycht. I do what is needed to give my child what he needs, help my fam and I can say I was lucky enough that my mom was able to get POA for him and thus provide him with her beautiful health insurance.

    • sassyshe

      My manner morning all :waves:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      NaijaGal says:

      TREND

      RAZZLE – how about Nikki said no other female rapper did more to open doors than Foxy Brown
      ___________________________________

      I just read that on another site…I’m so confuzzled at that statement
      -----------------
      how bout lil kim getting her stomach pumped of 8oz of :jack: :vomit: i think she was trying to surpass kim on that and flucked herself

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      hey sassy! :waves:

    • sassyshe

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      NaijaGal says:

      TREND

      RAZZLE – how about Nikki said no other female rapper did more to open doors than Foxy Brown
      ___________________________________

      I just read that on another site…I’m so confuzzled at that statement
      —————–
      how bout lil kim getting her stomach pumped of 8oz of i think she was trying to surpass kim on that and flucked herself

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      U know that she will never Kim credit but Kim revolutionize the game. Queen Latifah, YoYo, Mc Lyte and the early folks help them accept females. Kim made it okay to look like a hoe while doing it but she was able to cross over. Im just tired of the stupid who opened the rap doors debate that her and Kimmie keep going on and on about

    • VDot

      no mother is going to be ok with her child/children being taken and would fight tooth and nail, so what makes Tameka different.. .

      :thumbsup: I don't even have kids, but I would go to war if someone tried to take my imaginary kids from me. :shotsfired1: :shotsfired:

    • lovezoe

      I don't get the hate for Meka. Not everyone can ignore slander to their name. Meka defends herself and she is the big bad wolf. Yeah, her attitude may be a bit tart but she is no worse than some of Sandra's faves.

    • lovezoe

      OH if TI tried to take custody from Tiny, I bet the convo would be different. If Rocko did that to Monica, the convo would be different. Who is another FOB?

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      VDot says:

      no mother is going to be ok with her child/children being taken and would fight tooth and nail, so what makes Tameka different.. .

      I don’t even have kids, but I would go to war if someone tried to take my imaginary kids from me.
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      any mommy in their right mind would go balistic. :shank: simple as that

    • NaijaGal

      Chad Johnson Releases Official Statement

      I would like to apologize to everyone for the recent events that have occurred. I would like to wish Evelyn well and will never say anything bad about her because I truly love her to death. I will continue to be positive and train hard for another opportunity in the NFL. To all the fans and supporters I have disappointed, you have my sincerest apologies. I will stay positive and get through this tough period in my life.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puSCLM8nLFU Mother Jefferson

      :yawn: Is that Kim "Tootie" Fields AKA Regine in that second pic? :huh:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I have been watching south Central the sitcom on YT :popcorn: this was a good show, I remember watching as a child, but now that I am look at it again, I am over all in :popcorn:

    • Ty

      :wave: @ all

      I wish both of them would get their shyt together :coffee:

      Usher walking around looking like a rag doll yet coach is beneath u :rolleyes:

    • Ty

      spongebobfan says:

      Is that the courtroom where “Waiting To Exhale” was filmed when Angela Bassett was getting her divorce?
      ____________
      :blink: It might be :rofl:

    • lovezoe

      Testing

    • NaijaGal

      JENIE - I loved that show...and that girl could sang...she just could never make it...America wasn't ready for the realness of that show

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      Ty says:

      @ all

      I wish both of them would get their shyt together

      Usher walking around looking like a rag doll yet coach is beneath u
      --------------------
      ya heard meh!?

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      JENIE – I loved that show…and that girl could sang…she just could never make it…America wasn’t ready for the realness of that show
      ________________

      I remember her in Troop Beverly Hills, I think I am going to watch that tonight , awww I miss the 90's :crying:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      Mother Jefferson says:

      Is that Kim “Tootie” Fields AKA Regine in that second pic?
      --------------------------------------
      :lol:

    • Trendsetter

      South Central the sitcom was good...it was coming on TvOne last year...

      And about the Ev and Ocho ish...something in the water ain't clean....but I will keep my comments to myself

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      They need bring some of these sitcoms on Netflix I would be all in, like South Central, Thea, Out all night, Moesha, Family Matters, Different world, ashid even Blossom and more, that way I can see every episode with no interruptions at all ! :popcorn:

    • lovezoe

      Trend- Please share your thoughts. There was an article from a news source, not blog that Ev threw Ocho under the bus. She dumping him just like she dumped Antoine Walker when he fell from glory. :coffee:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      just heard audio of the coach and chad talking and coach was like "i'm aware that people makes mistakes but where we're at as a team and where you're at it just doesnt mesh..." chad was like "but coach i've never been in trouble before..ever!" coach was like "i know im sorry but..." basically gave his azz the boot...tooted n booted!

    • lovezoe

      I am sorry, I can't watch Urkel, Saved By the Bell, and sometmes Fresh Prince any more. Those shows are/were good, but Urkel did thee absolute MOST.

    • NaijaGal

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH...sad

    • Ty

      @ Trend did u hear the interview with him and Dolphins coach? He had already spoke with Chad prior about his behavior. When will these athletes learn that they represent an organization and they will not tolerate them showing their azz. U see TO is sitting at home :coffee:

    • NaijaGal

      RAZZLE - ^5 to that coach...ain't nobody got time for that drama...when you're known more for your reality tv antics then your craft, it's a problem...I think Reggie Bush finally learned that and that's why he moved on

    • MsDivaRo

      :wave: good morning everyone!!!!! Happy :hump: day!

    • NaijaGal

      @TY Ironically TO has a team now...and Chad is out...maybe one's pact with the devil expired and the other's just begun

    • NaijaGal

      MSDIVA DIVA DIVA :hug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related OHoney

      Good morning :steer:

    • NaijaGal

      Let me get yall thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone :coffee:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      NaijaGal says:

      RAZZLE – ^5 to that coach…ain’t nobody got time for that drama…when you’re known more for your reality tv antics then your craft, it’s a problem…I think Reggie Bush finally learned that and that’s why he moved on
      -----------------------------------
      Chad should have caught wind when they dropped Lamar Odom. dont make a difference what sport he playe he got dropped like a hot cake because he put his wife's stuff and family stuff before his craft. be smart i understand you want to chase money but if you're going to do that chase it along the lines of your job and stay away from reality shows and it's antics unless it's showing your team as a whole

    • MsDivaRo

      :hug: Naija

    • Ty

      lovezoe says:

      Trend- Please share your thoughts. There was an article from a news source, not blog that Ev threw Ocho under the bus. She dumping him just like she dumped Antoine Walker when he fell from glory.
      ___________
      I believe she did also. I bet they already got paid for that show and this was the only way for her to shake him without any backlash. Unfortunately he got the short end of the stick becuase Miami was his last chance. He might end up in Oakland for another season but its a wrap. He is arrogant, ungrateful, and has limited skills. He will be sitting next to TO :coffee: Ev will be with the next biggest contract holder

    • Ty

      @ Naija...who TO playing 4 girl :blink:

    • NaijaGal

      @TY The Seattle Seahawks

    • MsDivaRo

      :hi: Razzle, Ty

    • Ty

      NaijaGal says:

      @TY The Seattle Seahawks
      _____________
      Cheerleader, waterboy, 8th stream receiver :rofl:

      I bet he will shut the hell up now :yes:

    • MsDivaRo

      :offtopic: Bobby Brown back in rehab according to his new wife of 2 months. I like BB and :pray: that he makes it through this difficult time.

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      Ev will be with the next biggest contract holder
      --------------------
      she'll be playing the victim card for years to come and whomever decides to be the dummy will be playing save a ho

    • dancerbee93

      Morning Roses!! :hi:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      MsDivaRo says:

      Razzle, Ty
      ====================================================================
      :hug:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      dancerbee93 says:

      Morning Roses!!
      ----------------------------------

      :hi:

    • NaijaGal

      Bobby can't get that monkey off his back...sad

      @TY you see you ain't heard ish from TO...me thinks he's learned his lesson...for now anyway

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH…sad
      ___________________

      Exactly :applause: Now we got this bullshat on TV now, that's why I stay buying Bluerays and DVD sitcoms, so I can watch good shows, I'm still waiting on them to put the Meuppet Babies out on DVD/Blueray :waiting:

    • NaijaGal

      DANCER :waves:

    • Ty

      Morning Diva :hi:

      Poor Bobby :cry: I was reading some stuff on Whitney the other night and I understand why these folks are crazy. That damn industry :nono:

    • Trendsetter

      I don't believe that Chad headbutted her

      I believed she headbutted him

      She has a temper and so does he

      She didn't think that he would actually cheat on her...therefore she got mad when she found the condom receipt

      They both are attention whores

      Chad takes his career seriously (although his behavior is a bit much) but for the most part he can play some football

      After 40 days of marriage you want a divorce and you want the prenup upheld

      Why can't they get it annulled?

      It something very shady about this whole ordeal...

      Chad loses eevrything and Ev loses nothing

      Like I said something in the water ain't clean....

    • sassyshe

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      just heard audio of the coach and chad talking and coach was like “i’m aware that people makes mistakes but where we’re at as a team and where you’re at it just doesnt mesh…” chad was like “but coach i’ve never been in trouble before..ever!” coach was like “i know im sorry but…” basically gave his azz the boot…tooted n booted!

      ------------------------------------------------------------------------
      Dolphins coach didnt want Chad there to begin with as he made it clear he was not tolerating any BS from him. Chad was brought on by management because they basically wanted the VH1 cameras there. The coach felt that it was a distraction and didnt want that for his team. Therfore when the opportunity presented itself he was able to get management cut him ala the morality clause that many NFL players seem to forget the league will use in a NY minute to cut their arse

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Ty says:

      lovezoe says:

      Trend- Please share your thoughts. There was an article from a news source, not blog that Ev threw Ocho under the bus. She dumping him just like she dumped Antoine Walker when he fell from glory.
      ___________
      I believe she did also. I bet they already got paid for that show and this was the only way for her to shake him without any backlash.
      _______________

      People get paid for something that will never air though "shrug:

    • Trendsetter

      @ Ty

      I heard something on the lines of him acting a fool in football camp or whatver you call it...he mouth is what gets him in trouble ...

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      sassyshe says:

      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      just heard audio of the coach and chad talking and coach was like “i’m aware that people makes mistakes but where we’re at as a team and where you’re at it just doesnt mesh…” chad was like “but coach i’ve never been in trouble before..ever!” coach was like “i know im sorry but…” basically gave his azz the boot…tooted n booted!

      ————————————————————————
      Dolphins coach didnt want Chad there to begin with as he made it clear he was not tolerating any BS from him. Chad was brought on by management because they basically wanted the VH1 cameras there. The coach felt that it was a distraction and didnt want that for his team. Therfore when the opportunity presented itself he was able to get management cut him ala the morality clause that many NFL players seem to forget the league will use in a NY minute to cut their arse
      _______________
      Got a point :tea:

    • Trendsetter

      Oh and I got a lot to say about Bobby as well...but if I share my thought some Whitney fans might get mad...so I'll keep quiet again lol

    • Ty

      @ Jenie...yes if there is a contract. U see Dallas still had to pay Lamar after they fired him. It all depends on the stipulations

    • Anna

      NaijaGal says:

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH…sad
      ~~~~~~~~
      When you distract a Country w/crap, they forget about what is going on in the world. Translation. If you occupy them now, they can only complain after the fact.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      It will be interesting if anyone picks him up :tea: But either way that, cocky attitude fawked your career buddy :tea:

    • lovezoe

      Chad was cursing during the press interview. The coach said this was a new day and he wanted a different team. He told Ocho he was on thin ice. My thing is how you get a divorce and you not even legally married in the US Also. who wants to bet VH1 gone give her own show. This too big for her on BBWMIA

    • Gigi26

      :waves: Morning folks!

      Evelyn is gonna get what's coming to her....soon and very soon. She stepped on too many people to get where she's at...and now that Chad don't have a job anymore, shiiiid... :no:

    • sassyshe

      Trendsetter says:

      I don’t believe that Chad headbutted her

      I believed she headbutted him

      She has a temper and so does he

      She didn’t think that he would actually cheat on her…therefore she got mad when she found the condom receipt

      They both are attention whores

      Chad takes his career seriously (although his behavior is a bit much) but for the most part he can play some football

      After 40 days of marriage you want a divorce and you want the prenup upheld

      Why can’t they get it annulled?

      It something very shady about this whole ordeal…

      Chad loses eevrything and Ev loses nothing

      ------------------------------------------------------------------------
      Once a marriage has been consumated it cannot be annulled unless you can prove that the marriage occured under false pretenses. Everyone knows theyve been :hump: and to claim fraud would mean guilt on both sides thus the only route is divorce

    • NaijaGal

      So no thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone...well I don't like it, I think it's the stupiest casting I've ever heard...wasn't feeling MJB doing it but this ish right here is a no ma'am Pam

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Ty says:

      @ Jenie…yes if there is a contract. U see Dallas still had to pay Lamar after they fired him. It all depends on the stipulations
      _______________

      :thinking: Wow

    • Trendsetter

      And I never commented on this post in regards to Tameka and Usher

      I just hope they can come to agreement....because this mess is getting messier by the day

      Ok that's all I got on that topic

    • Trendsetter

      Ok thanks Sassy...I wasn't sure how that worked

    • Gigi26

      Trend...speak your mind...

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      NaijaGal says:

      So no thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone…well I don’t like it, I think it’s the stupiest casting I’ve ever heard…wasn’t feeling MJB doing it but this ish right here is a no ma’am Pam
      ________________

      What role is this, and I love Zoe Saldanada :tea:

    • Trendsetter

      NaijaGal says:

      So no thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone…well I don’t like it, I think it’s the stupiest casting I’ve ever heard…wasn’t feeling MJB doing it but this ish right here is a no ma’am
      _______________________

      I agree with you...I don't like it...nobody she's not believeable as Nina Simone

    • sassyshe

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      It will be interesting if anyone picks him up But either way that, cocky attitude fawked your career buddy
      ------------------------------------------------------------------------
      Analysts were saying more than likely he would be picked up by the Raiders who did want him. He chose the dolphins for the VH1 cameras

    • NaijaGal

      Trendsetter says:

      Oh and I got a lot to say about Bobby as well…but if I share my thought some Whitney fans might get mad…so I’ll keep quiet again lol
      ======================
      watching 'Being Bobby Brown' confirmed that Whitney was plain nuts...I believe that she introduced Bobby to the hard ish...he was mostly a weed smoker, got with Whitney and elevated to the cocaine and eventually that crack pipe...is Sherelle clean? :coffee:

    • Ty

      Anna says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH…sad
      ~~~~~~~~
      When you distract a Country w/crap, they forget about what is going on in the world. Translation. If you occupy them now, they can only complain after the fact.
      _________________
      :preach: So refreashing to know that others are paying attention :hug:

    • NaijaGal

      sassyshe says:

      Once a marriage has been consumated it cannot be annulled unless you can prove that the marriage occured under false pretenses. Everyone knows theyve been and to claim fraud would mean guilt on both sides thus the only route is divorce
      ========================
      ummmmmm no...there still has to be a marriage license for it to be recognized...neither Chad nor Evelyn were residents of St. Marten for that to count...they had a beautiful ceremony on that island but as far as there or here, their so-called 'marriage' is NOT VALID

    • Trendsetter

      Everybody use to say and is saying that Bobby got Whitney on those drugs....I don't believe it...I heard that she was already doing drugs when they met and she introduced him to it...yea he was drinking alcohol and smoking weed...but I don't believe he was doing that hardcore stuff...

    • dancerbee93

      Trendsetter says:

      NaijaGal says:

      So no thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone…well I don’t like it, I think it’s the stupiest casting I’ve ever heard…wasn’t feeling MJB doing it but this ish right here is a no ma’am
      _______________________

      I agree with you…I don’t like it…nobody she’s not believeable as Nina Simone
      *******************
      :THUMBSUP:

    • sassyshe

      Zoe Saldana has become white America's new minority, especially since shes dating bradley cooper. Thus the way it would go Holloywood would give her roles that quite honestly she's not fit for. I hope she's changed that stank attitude she gives the cast who are not A listers

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I think Whitney and Bobby were just alike and loved being around each other with the same habbits, that type of relationship is toxic. Think about it when most folks have a fat azz husband, the damn wife ends up blowing up like a Blimp in the end. Toxic! When you have a partner that have those same bad habbits or addictive personalities it don't mesh well, but Whitney Put him up on game with the drugs :tea: That's still my chick though :tea:

    • lovezoe

      I don't think Zoe Saldana has "it" to play Nina Simone. She is more of an action/dramaedy type of character.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Who is Nina Simone :pc:

    • Gigi26

      Zoe Saldana I believe is a coke whore...she gets with the yt men in Hollywood so they can support her habit :tea:

    • sassyshe

      Trendsetter says:

      Everybody use to say and is saying that Bobby got Whitney on those drugs….I don’t believe it…I heard that she was already doing drugs when they met and she introduced him to it…yea he was drinking alcohol and smoking weed…but I don’t believe he was doing that hardcore stuff…

      -------------------------------------------------------------------------
      As a hardcore Whitney fan I think I speak for many when they say everyone knew Whitney snorted lines here and there - shoot Eddie admitted he tooted here and there with her. What made people angry was that Bobby was doing crack and introduced Whitney to it, plus she started focusing too much on his drama which caused her ish to get messed up. I thought they were hillarious as a couple but some people are just toxic and bring out the worst in each other and I think that's what they did to each other. I dont blame him for her habits I just wished she had left earlier because they were not a good fit

    • Ty

      NaijaGal says:

      So no thoughts on Zoe Saldanada playing Nina Simone…well I don’t like it, I think it’s the stupiest casting I’ve ever heard…wasn’t feeling MJB doing it but this ish right here is a no ma’am
      _____________________________
      I like Zoe but that role is outta her league. Im not complaining because Hollyweird doesnt bend when it comes to black actors and actresses. I remember they had Angelina Jolie playing the role of a ethnic female instead of using an ethnic female. They tanned the hell outta her too. So Zoe it is :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      I always get Zoe Saldana and that other chick confused....damn I can't think of her name

    • sassyshe

      Trendsetter says:

      I always get Zoe Saldana and that other chick confused….damn I can’t think of her name

      =----------------------------------------------------------------------
      Who - Rosario Dawson?

    • lovezoe

      Trend- Joy Bryant? Nina and Zoe not even the same complexion. I hate when they make movies just because and don't even get the right people for it.

    • dancerbee93

      Gigi26 says:

      Zoe Saldana I believe is a coke whore…she gets with the yt men in Hollywood so they can support her habit
      ***********************
      Thus the reason why she is playing Nina Simone and we will have to deal :coffee:

    • dancerbee93

      Ty says:

      Anna says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH…sad
      ~~~~~~~~
      When you distract a Country w/crap, they forget about what is going on in the world. Translation. If you occupy them now, they can only complain after the fact.
      _________________
      So refreashing to know that others are paying attention
      ***********************
      :preach: confuse them with bull while we take away their voter rights, healthcare, education....Its a shame they make a note for some ppl to know the whole cast of LHH but a few dont even know the primary elections are comin up and dont know all the canidates **drops mic and goes to :kona: "

    • Trendsetter

      lovezoe says:

      Trend- Joy Bryant? Nina and Zoe not even the same complexion. I hate when they make movies just because and don’t even get the right people for it.

      _______________________

      Yes Joy Bryant...

    • yallcrazy

      :waves: to all the Roses

      :hug: Naija & Ty & Zoe

      If Enquiring minds wanna know :lol:
      BK and Paris J are supposedly "cool" now :coffee:

      Lord, please keep them safe and turn their lives in the proper direction :pray:

    • yallcrazy

      dancerbee93 says:

      Ty says:

      Anna says:

      NaijaGal says:

      Man how did we go from all those quality shows for black folks to BBW and LHH…sad
      ~~~~~~~~
      When you distract a Country w/crap, they forget about what is going on in the world. Translation. If you occupy them now, they can only complain after the fact.
      _________________
      So refreashing to know that others are paying attention
      ***********************
      :preach: confuse them with bull while we take away their voter rights, healthcare, education….Its a shame they make a note for some ppl to know the whole cast of LHH but a few dont even know the primary elections are comin up and dont know all the canidates **drops mic and goes to :kona:
      ====================
      Check out the book BRAINWASHED. Enlightening read :coffee:

    • yallcrazy

      MsDivaRo says:

      :offtopic: Bobby Brown back in rehab according to his new wife of 2 months. I like BB and :pray: that he makes it through this difficult time.
      :cosign:
      and Good Morning :hug:

    • yallcrazy

      :whistle: Warriors :whistle:

      Fukc yall at yo?! :mad:

      There better not be a new post OR ELSE I'm doing my 360 shooting agane :cuss:

    • NaijaGal

      @yallcray, join us in the teddy riley post upstairs #helpful

    • Ty

      @ Yall...it is a good read :thumbsup: Check The Arrivals series on youtube too. That series had me :blink: been reading and researching since I saw it a couple of years ago.