Dwyane Wade’s ex-wife speaks out

Dwayne Wade’s long-suffering ex-wife gave an exclusive interview to “Real Talk With Kietta,” detailing her rags to riches life with the NBA superstar.

In the 8-part video interview, Siovaughn Funches and her mom explained how Wade escaped an abusive home environment to move in with them when he was 16 — to how she went from living in the lap of luxury to moving back in with her mom at age 38.

“One night it had gotten really bad and him and his sister, his younger sister, had came to my home probably at like, 3 o’ clock in the morning and I opened the door and that’s when I had to tell my mom that I knew what was happening in his home and what was going on. I had to explain to her why he was coming to the door at that hour at 16-years-old. I had spoken with my mom and I had asked her is there any way he could stay with us and not have to live in that kind of environment.”

Her mom added:

“The night he came to me, he had two black garbage bags and he knocked on the door late at night. He asked me, did I mean what I said when I said that I would never let a kid be out in the street with no place to go. ‘You would never let a kid go hungry and you would always help them if they needed something for school’, and I said yeah, I meant what I said. And he said, ‘Mama, I’m home.’ So I was like, okay.”

Funches also described incidents of domestic violence committed by Wade while she was pregnant with their son Zion:

“He was cursing, he was calling me names, he was telling me to shut the ‘f’ up.[…]He picked me up and held me over his head literally in midair and threw me down in our bathroom. We had an ottoman in the bathroom and he slammed me down so hard that when my back hit the otooman it broke into four pieces and my back and head hit the concrete, the marble floor, excuse me, in the bathroom. After that I got up and immediately went — there’s a cordless phone in the bathroom, I immediately went to that phone and I was crying, I was hysterical, I went to go call the police. At that point more hell broke lose because I suppose he was in fear of being exposed because I certainly was going to call the police. I picked up the cordless phone, he snatched it out of my hand and he threw the cordless phone against my body so hard that the phone literally broke into pieces.”

Even after all of the courtroom drama and the things Wade and his mom said about her in the press — Funches still opened her legs for Wade while he was dating Gabrielle Union:

“Separated and divorced are two different things. I’m not certain when it happened or when she happened but I know that I was very married. I know that me and Dwyane at that time had talked about reconciliation going back and forth. I was still even intimate sometimes with my then husband. So, does that constitute sleeping or having an affair with somebody’s husband? Yes. To me, divorce and separation are always two different things.”

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    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      :chase: :tea:

      Afternoon all!

    • Xena68

      So you saying D Wade went WWE on yo azz

    • Milky

      D Wade gummed her up!

    • Daisy

      :popcorn:

      She must have seen one to many interviews of D Wade making his promo round for his new book.

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      She shole ILL showing a lot of GUMS!

    • LuvMySailor

      I have long forgotten the details of their divorce but part of me feels sorry for Siovaugh. It has to be hard loosing your children and seeing your ex in magazines with a new woman.

      I’m all for fathers being active in their children’s lives, but I’m suspecious about Steve Harvey, D Wade, Usher, and Chris Bosh. Those women were not crazy when you laid down and had children with them. Money can sway court decisions

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      I miss you @DADDY!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      Ok, I’m not saying she’s lying…but that shyt sounds VERY extreme! :coffee:

    • VDot

      I believe her :coffee:

      :karate:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      And I always KNEW that she felt like he owed her something because of her family taking him in…but I probably need to be quiet in this post… :kona:

    • Iheart

      I need reciepts :coffee:

    • Razzle Dazzle Boo

      LuvMySailor says:

      I have long forgotten the details of their divorce but part of me feels sorry for Siovaugh. It has to be hard loosing your children and seeing your ex in magazines with a new woman.

      I’m all for fathers being active in their children’s lives, but I’m suspecious about Steve Harvey, D Wade, Usher, and Chris Bosh. Those women were not crazy when you laid down and had children with them. Money can sway court decisions
      —————
      :cosign:

    • MZ_CARAM3L74

      :popcorn:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      <– Still needs a receipt for the DV.

      @HIS :hug: If you absolutely have to pay out of pocket until you can straighten out the insurance/Medicare situation… . Check with Target and switch your prescriptions to the generic version of the meds if they have it. Then get a Target card and us it to pay so you also get another 5% off the purchase price. (for the lurkers, this only works if you pay the bill in full each month) Or find a 0% credit card and use that to purchase the meds so you can pay over time without incurring extra fees. Temporary fix until you can find a permanent solution. :hug:

    • Xena68

      Iheart says:

      I need receipts

      You and K. Michelle :lol:

    • Bibi

      Had she accused him of violence before???

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related OHoney

      :popcorn:

    • San

      All that and she didnt lose that baby hmmm. I wouldnt even talk about him unless it was a book deal

    • Gigi26

      Damn son :no:

      Gotta suck taking a dude in when he has nothing, then when he gets something, he kicks you out and takes the kids….then makes book detailing how great of a father he is.

      She ain’t in no rags Sandra, he still pays her Alimony :yes:

    • belindammp

      :thinking:

    • Bad Influence

      ok so he Hulk’d the shat outta her while she was preggers? :no:

      like, ya’ll should see the visual i have of this shat… :smack:

      Dwade is tip toe’n out the closet anyways….dnt trip Cymbalta or wtfever her name is..

    • MissHarlem

      Hmmmm :coffee: I am with FEFE on this one

    • Xena68

      Why is her arm in a sling :think:

    • San

      Gotta suck taking a dude in when he has nothing, then when he gets something, he kicks you out and takes the kid
      __________________
      Gotta :cosign: that one

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      gypsyeyes says:

      I miss you @DADDY!

      ———————————————————————

      Hey sexy! :spank: How you been?

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      :waves: Daddy

      She should shut up! THis story made me feel sorry for Wade… he was wrong for the abuse – but all bishes coming out of the woodwork for chit that happened to them then that they should’ve handled then!

    • Bad Influence

      @Nikke, im filling @ Target..im gna work it out…i have no choice. thank u suga :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @bibi, Nope.. which is why its suspect now. You accused and sued about the clap, went on a tirade about the new boo, sued her for something frivolous, took every chance you could get to tell how your mama ‘nem took him in, was in the midst of losing custody of your children, had a bunch of lawyers walkout on you without demanding payment just to be rid of your crazy arese… and yet you NEVER once mentioned that he threw a phone at you so hard that the summabitch broke…

      Not even buying that with ill gotten child support money…

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      I am a strong supporter of DV victims. If at all you felt he was a threat physically, why wouldn’t you tell that to the courts long ago. They were in front of a judge many times and this could have been bought up then.when your sanity is questioned don’t you give all accounts of everything that has happened to you especially in a custody hearing? Not only do I need receipts I need a urine sample.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lIBVMdplt94&feature=related OHoney

      I tried to watch the video, it was too cheesy.

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      I have long forgotten the details of their divorce but part of me feels sorry for Siovaugh. It has to be hard loosing your children and seeing your ex in magazines with a new woman.

      I’m all for fathers being active in their children’s lives, but I’m suspecious about Steve Harvey, D Wade, Usher, and Chris Bosh. Those women were not crazy when you laid down and had children with them. Money can sway court decisions

      ^^^^^
      I AGREE

    • 69

      Iheart says:

      I need receipts :coffee:
      ___________________________
      For some reason, this chit go as hard as when YSO crazy ass says: No.

      :rofl: :rofl:

      Y’all mofo’s crazy in here. :hahaha:

    • San

      He did that but you stayed… :tea: Y talk about it now

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @fefe… One might argue that she got her cut and then some…. but Im going with you :kona:

    • Mamacita

      @Luv so you’ve never been with someone , thought they we normal, then found out, over time, that they were batshyt crazy? lol I know I have so I can see how the situation may have changed
      ——–
      Anywho, I don’t have one ounce of sympathy for her and I take the things she says with a grain of salt. She’s lied and shown her true colors throught this whole process. :rolleyes:

    • Mamacita

      @Luv so you’ve never been with someone , thought they we normal, then found out, over time, that they were batshyt crazy? lol I know I have so I can see how the situation may have changed
      ——–
      Anywho, I don’t have one ounce of sympathy for her and I take the things she says with a grain of salt. She’s lied and shown her true colors throught this whole process. :rolleyes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      i miss the days were most post would reach over 500 comments!

    • Gigi26

      So Siovaughn is from the Chi right….

      So she ain’t have no cousins to call up when he bodied her in the house? Shidd I know I would have Pook and Tay tay on speed dial with tickets waiting for em for the game front and center :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      @NikkeMinxx says:

      @bibi, Nope.. which is why its suspect now. You accused and sued about the clap, went on a tirade about the new boo, sued her for something frivolous, took every chance you could get to tell how your mama ‘nem took him in, was in the midst of losing custody of your children, had a bunch of lawyers walkout on you without demanding payment just to be rid of your crazy arese… and yet you NEVER once mentioned that he threw a phone at you so hard that the summabitch broke…

      Not even buying that with ill gotten child support money…

      _________

      :applause:

    • Mamacita

      @FeFe I feel you! They always bring that situation about them taking him. You do nice gestures like that because it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO. Not because you expect something from that person or feel as if they’re are eternally in debt to you because of it. SMH!

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      Tell me this: If I loan you $20.00 today can I talk about how I loaned you them $20.00 10 years later? Hell nawl. You took me in when I had nothing and I thank you. I was in your life years after that but do I owe you for the rest of my life because I’m rich? So I guess Brandy should have paid for Andele’s funeral too huh?

    • Iheart

      @NikkeMinxx says:

      @bibi, Nope.. which is why its suspect now. You accused and sued about the clap, went on a tirade about the new boo, sued her for something frivolous, took every chance you could get to tell how your mama ‘nem took him in, was in the midst of losing custody of your children, had a bunch of lawyers walkout on you without demanding payment just to be rid of your crazy arese… and yet you NEVER once mentioned that he threw a phone at you so hard that the summabitch broke…

      Not even buying that with ill gotten child support money…

      _________

      Check and fukking mate :apppaluse:

    • free

      i guess i’m one of the onliest ones hasn’t been scar-dragged by significant others or hubby. thank you lawdy!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      Mamacita says:

      @FeFe I feel you! They always bring that situation about them taking him. You do nice gestures like that because it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO. Not because you expect something from that person or feel as if they’re are eternally in debt to you because of it. SMH!

      ___________

      Exactly. I am CERTAIN that he has showed gratitude to her and hER family a million times over, but if the marriage ain’t working it ain’t WORKING. What does she want him to DO??? The muhfukka don’t WANT you no more, MOVE ON!!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeuqgD6GKjw&feature=related French KI$$E$

      OMG I WANT THAT MOFO CAKE NOW!

      Guess i’m baking this wknd *sighs*

    • MsDivaRo

      Siovaughn is all GUMS (no pun intended) *stickering*

      @French email me at divaro @ me.com

    • San

      free says:

      i guess i’m one of the onliest ones hasn’t been scar-dragged by significant others or hubby. thank you lawdy!
      ________________
      Me neither

    • Bad Influence

      im just saying if the nigga tossed u up while u were preggers and hurled u into the ottoman like he was making a freethrow….nevermind :kona:

    • Gigi26

      Yeah when she lied about getting the VD, that shyt was all the way fukked up :no: I can’t front..

      I ain’t gonna lie, if I took a dude in when has nothing and he did me like this…I would go half way crazy myself. Its not about him owing her anything its about the principle. Shyt I would think back to the beginning and what went wrong. They were like best friends, not some random groupie…she was owed some respect.

      Not team Siovaughn or Wade…just playing devils advocate for a sec…

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO BURY THE PAST ESPECIALLY WHEN IT HAS YOU WALKING AROUND LOOKING LIKE THE LIVING DEAD

      MAMA, LOOK DAYUM TIRED IN THE PHOTO ABOVE, THE SITUATION TODAY DOESN’T MEAN IT WILL BE LIKE THIS FOREVER

      OLE GIRL NEEDS TO REBUILD HER LIFE, STAY OUT OF THE MEDIA, SEEK AN EDUCATION AND CAREER, LIVE HER LIFE AND SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS SHE IS ALLOWED WITH HER KIDS

      IT’S AN UNFORTUNATE HAND SHE WAS DEALT, BUT FOR NOW IT IS WHAT IT IS, AS LONG AS THE BOYS ARE SAFE, BEING PROVIDED FOR AND WELL TAKEN CARE OF, SHE SHOULD HAVE NO WORRIES, CHILDREN NEVER FORGET THEIR PARENTS AND NO MATTER WHAT SHE “IS” AND WILL “ALWAYS” BE THEIR MOTHER AND NO WOMAN CAN TAKE THAT FROM HER

      GOD CAN CHANGE THINGS OLE BOY AND GABBY MAY BE DOING WELL NOW, GOD BLESS EM BUT YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS, THINGS JUST MAY NOT WORK FOR THEM, JUST LIKE THEIR RELATIONSHIP DIDNT’ WORK, SIT BACK LIKE THE OLD FOLKS SAY, GOD CAN MAKE EVERY WRONG RIGHT

      D WADE MAY SEEK HER OUT IN THE FUTURE AND NEED HER HELP WITH THE BOYS OR AFTER HE AND GABBY BREAK UP :coffee: GRASS AINT GREEN EVERY DAMN SEASON, AND SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LET A NICCA SPEND A FEW SEASONS THERE UNTIL HE REALIZE-HE SHOULD HAVE KEPT THE GRASS HE HAD

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @French
      You wanting so much cake you sure you don’t have a bun in the oven :wink:

    • MsDivaRo

      This Stride spearmint gum is on point though!!!!!

      #random

    • MsDivaRo

      French KI$$E$ says:

      i miss the days were most post would reach over 500 comments!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Hello, the one from yesterday that started all the gum ruckus was over 500! :rofl:

    • JustB

      Mamacita says:

      @FeFe I feel you! They always bring that situation about them taking him. You do nice gestures like that because it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO. Not because you expect something from that person or feel as if they’re are eternally in debt to you because of it. SMH!
      __________________________________________________________________
      Exactly! And to know he was only 16. What does taking a child in at 16 have to do with him wanting out of the relationship at 27. It is not like he got on and dumped her. He has been in the nba for 9 yrs. That was very nice of her mother and I am sure he is grateful. Relationships change and sometimes people want to move on. She probably was not always “crazy” but rejection can bring the crazy out of folks.

    • Gigi26

      im just saying if the nigga tossed u up while u were preggers and hurled u into the ottoman like he was making a freethrow….nevermind

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      He hulked her ass and she didn’t have a miscarriage or nathan? That bish uterus is made of steel :yes:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      I ain’t gonna lie, if I took a dude in when has nothing and he did me like this…I would go half way crazy myself. Its not about him owing her anything its about the principle. Shyt I would think back to the beginning and what went wrong. They were like best friends, not some random groupie…she was owed some respect.
      _____________________
      Maybe the money changed her and her mom cuz her going crazy over him leaving simply shows she is not a functioning adult from jump! She should’ve held her head high, took care of her sons, saw him in court and wished him :peace:! So showed out like a dumb azz bitter bish would!

    • Bibi

      @Nikke

      U right bout that…

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      rejection can bring the crazy out of folks.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      VERY TRUE!

    • Bad Influence

      well i actually think that anybody who worked with Andell could have and maybe should have helped to bury her…i mean, shes only dead as hell. if ur rich and an old friend suffered thru a battle with cancer how could anyone be cold hearted to her fam asking for donations to help bury her…iono thats just how i feel..it would have broken any of them (not just Brandy) to look out that one time..

      perhaps cause i have been there more than once *le sigh* im always the helper..

    • MsDivaRo

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      rejection can bring the crazy out of folks.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      VERY TRUE!
      ————————–
      :cosign:

    • Bad Influence

      wouldnt have* ‘cuse me.. #59

    • Ms.Fashion

      All I have to say is this.

      This woman has a side too. Fair Game in my book. I wouldn’t count what she says out. Everybody has their issues.

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.

      HmmmHmmm….. :coffee:

    • Gigi26

      Very true Choco…guess she was built for that “NBA” life :yes:

      Siovaughn just….idk….knit something.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      Yeah when she lied about getting the VD, that shyt was all the way fukked up
      __________________________________________________
      :nono: That’s the thing, she DID HAVE the clap she just didn’t get it from him and Gabby…

      she was owed some respect
      _________________________________
      I think he gave her all the respect she was entitled to. He never acted as if he wouldn’t cash her out, didn’t fight her about them kids until she started showing crazy. Remember, we didn’t hear bad things about her until he was defending himself. Im pretty sure he tried to bow out gracefully and she went Ring The Alarm on his arse but didn’t realize that Gabby was playing for keeps, too.

    • Mamacita

      @His Bye!!!! talkin bout freethrows and cymbalta :rofl: I hate you…

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      So WHAT she was REJECTED she is soooo fuggn stupid you can’t cope with life then which is why he has custody of their sons! FUGG HIM, GABBY and the NBA when it comes to my children – REJECTION BISH PLS #SWEET REVENGE like getting another MAN to love up on!

    • Milky

      He hulked her ass and she didn’t have a miscarriage or nathan? That bish uterus is made of gum

      __________________________________
      fixed that for you

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      THEY GET A BONER FROM IT AND THE FACT THAT THEY’VE PULL THE WOOL OVER EVERYONE ELSE’S EYES AS WELL, MAKES THEM FEEL POWERFUL THAT DESPITE THE TRUTH THEY CAN PERSUADE FOLKS TO ALWAYS VIEW THEM FAVORABLY

    • Ms.Fashion

      LuvMySailor says:

      I’m all for fathers being active in their children’s lives, but I’m suspecious about Steve Harvey, D Wade, Usher, and Chris Bosh. Those women were not crazy when you laid down and had children with them. Money can sway court decisions

      ___________________
      :cosign:

    • Bibi

      54, 56, 59 & 62

      All good points…

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.
      ___________________
      If someone else can drive you crazy then you never had any real will or conviction of your own! So still she is the one to blame for her actions!

    • OutsidetheBox

      im always the helper..

      His I have started to tell myself, I’m not doing it anymore. I mean it too. Your dad? My mom? Thats different but random ass family (I’m big on not asking for anything! Its a big problem) im drawing the line. :nono:

    • Gigi26

      I think he gave her all the respect she was entitled to. He never acted as if he wouldn’t cash her out, didn’t fight her about them kids until she started showing crazy. Remember, we didn’t hear bad things about her until he was defending himself. Im pretty sure he tried to bow out gracefully and she went Ring The Alarm on his arse but didn’t realize that Gabby was playing for keeps, too.

      true true…

      I won’t rule her out as 100% crazy, when shyt gets rough, some people can take it…and some others just flip :shrugs:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      So WHAT she was REJECTED she is soooo fuggn stupid you can’t cope with life then which is why he has custody of their sons! FUGG HIM, GABBY and the NBA when it comes to my children – REJECTION BISH PLS #SWEET REVENGE like getting another MAN to love up on!

      ___________

      Whew chile, we are on the SAME wavelength! Who has TIME for all that shyt, life is TOO SHORT!

    • Bad Influence

      Milky says:

      He hulked her ass and she didn’t have a miscarriage or nathan? That bish uterus is made of gum

      __________________________________
      fixed that for you

      :ghost:

      @Mamacita, WHAT? i was just saying :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      We don’t know that Brandy didn’t help her and what I’m saying is just cause we was people’s don’t mean that I have to do for you FOREVER. Because you know someone with money doesn’t mean that you are entitled to it.

    • San

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy
      ______________________
      Yep can happen to anybody its what you do with it (willpower to move on)

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Fe
      But that says so much about her – Im sorry but I don’t have empathy for her even when he had custody the stupid bish freaked out and he had to come and get them himself! SHE IS DISTURBED

    • Bad Influence

      @Jackson, well all i know is if i find out that pappy is sneaking ciggs and drinking again, imma be done with that too. i refuse 2 be stressing and YOU fuggin up. HELLO i hve a child to raise and if u aint finna help urself..i gotta draw the line somewhere. hmph.

    • JustB

      @ Bibi..seriously. I don’t understand why he should be in eternal debt to them. I ate dinner and stayed many nights at my BD’s moms house. Does that mean I should stay with him forever cause his mama fed me?? Sometimes relationships don’t work out for whatever reason and some people have a hard to accepting that and become extra bitter and vindictive.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      Because you know someone with money doesn’t mean that you are entitled to it.
      _______________________________________________________________
      :preach: And the church said amen…

    • MsDivaRo

      free says:

      i guess i’m one of the onliest ones hasn’t been scar-dragged by significant others or hubby. thank you lawdy!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Nope, I haven’t either…thank God cause ION play that mess!

    • Bad Influence

      geezus Choc u stay being mean to the womens :lol:

    • Bad Influence

      @NikkeMinxx says:

      Because you know someone with money doesn’t mean that you are entitled to it.
      _______________________________________________________________
      And the church said amen…

      can somebody call my jobless brother and tell him that…

      yeah im mad at all these mofo’s today :cuss:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

      “RENT EM SPOONS!”

      It’s FRIDAY!! In a few hours, I’mma be off till WEDNESDAY!!

      :woohoo:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      I THINK SOMEONE TRYING TO DRIVE YOU CRAZY IS MORE LIKE WHEN YOU KNOW THE FACTS BUT NOBODY BELIEVES YOU

      THE TERM IS CALLED GASLIGHTING, EVENTUALLY WHEN FACTS AND REALITY STOP ALIGNING THAT WOULD HAVE ANYONE SECOND GUESSING THE TRUTH OR THEIR OWN SANITY

      I CAN IMAGINE IF RODNEY KING TOLD FOLKS HE GOT HIS ARSE STOMPED OUT WITHOUT THE VIDEO AS PROOF, I KNOW FOLKS ESPECIALLY OUR FOLKS, WE QUICK TO LABEL FOLKS AS CRAZY

      AND TO BE HONEST THAT’S WHY SO MANY FOLKS GO SO HARD TRYING TO PROVE THEMSELVES, JUST LIKE K MICHELLE, CAUSE IF THE MASSES DON’T BELIEVE YOU AND CAST YOU AS A LIAR AND CRAZY-MOST FOLKS JUMP RIGH ON BOARD AND GO ALONG JUST TO GET ALONG AND TREAT YOU AS IF YOU WERE EXACTLY WHAT PEOPLE SAY

      AND THAT ALONE ALIENATION, SIDE EYES, BEING CALLED A LIAR/CRAZY, WILL SHO HAVE YOU REACTING/DEFENDING YOURSELF, BUT TO OTHER FOLKS PROVING YOURSELF TO SUCH AN EXTREME JUST MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN CRAZIER

      I LEARN ALOT FROM OBSERVING FOLKS, THIS ISH HAPPENS ERRRY DAY, AND THE TRUTH BE TOLD THE WEAK ONES ARE THE ONES WHO DIGEST POPULAR OPINION AS FACTS WITHOUT DOING THEIR OWN RESEARCH

    • Gigi26

      Damn Dwade got a long ass face

    • Ms.Fashion

      San says:

      He did that but you stayed… Y talk about it now

      ___________

      My mom stayed and went through much worse. I hate to think about it. Every woman reasons differently is what I have learned in life.

      I never understood her reason either. Because if someone raise their voice at me wrong, I get into postion. But I will definitely leave. :yes:

    • iyonah

      Steve Harvey, D Wade, Usher, and Chris Bosh. Those women were not crazy when you laid down and had children with them. Money can sway court decisions

      :cosign:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @His
      No I dont I have no respect for a woman who wants to play victim – I was a victim and the mofo did time for that chit – Simple as that either you like getting your azz beat or you dont!

    • Bibi

      @JustB

      I concur…I think she felt humiliated and was/is trying to figure out payback…

      I wonder if these “abuse” claims have anything to do with how the Ev/Chad drama has unfolded…
      Perhaps she’s trying to hurt his wallet as a way to hurt him..idk

    • San

      Ms.Fashion says

      I never understood her reason either. Because if someone raise their voice at me wrong, I get into postion. But I will definitely leave.
      ___________________
      Same for me…I dont do verbal, physical, mental none. But as for Sio she shld be talking to the therapist now to get pass what he did instead of airing it after you stayed. Just make it look like she still goin on and on

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      I THINK SOMEONE TRYING TO DRIVE YOU CRAZY IS MORE LIKE WHEN YOU KNOW THE FACTS BUT NOBODY BELIEVES YOU

      THE TERM IS CALLED GASLIGHTING, EVENTUALLY WHEN FACTS AND REALITY STOP ALIGNING THAT WOULD HAVE ANYONE SECOND GUESSING THE TRUTH OR THEIR OWN SANITY

      I CAN IMAGINE IF RODNEY KING TOLD FOLKS HE GOT HIS ARSE STOMPED OUT WITHOUT THE VIDEO AS PROOF, I KNOW FOLKS ESPECIALLY OUR FOLKS, WE QUICK TO LABEL FOLKS AS CRAZY

      AND TO BE HONEST THAT’S WHY SO MANY FOLKS GO SO HARD TRYING TO PROVE THEMSELVES, JUST LIKE K MICHELLE, CAUSE IF THE MASSES DON’T BELIEVE YOU AND CAST YOU AS A LIAR AND CRAZY-MOST FOLKS JUMP RIGH ON BOARD AND GO ALONG JUST TO GET ALONG AND TREAT YOU AS IF YOU WERE EXACTLY WHAT PEOPLE SAY

      AND THAT ALONE ALIENATION, SIDE EYES, BEING CALLED A LIAR/CRAZY, WILL SHO HAVE YOU REACTING/DEFENDING YOURSELF, BUT TO OTHER FOLKS PROVING YOURSELF TO SUCH AN EXTREME JUST MAKES YOU LOOK EVEN CRAZIER

      I LEARN ALOT FROM OBSERVING FOLKS, THIS ISH HAPPENS ERRRY DAY, AND THE TRUTH BE TOLD THE WEAK ONES ARE THE ONES WHO DIGEST POPULAR OPINION AS FACTS WITHOUT DOING THEIR OWN RESEARCH

      ___________

      This is SO VERY true Intense…you are on a roll today sistah! I’ve felt that way here recently… :coffee:

    • Ms.Fashion

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.
      ___________________
      If someone else can drive you crazy then you never had any real will or conviction of your own! So still she is the one to blame for her actions!

      ______________

      Every person has a limit. Nobody has super powers. We are HUMAN. We all have things that will drive us crazy. How long you stay in the state is on you. But you do get driven to that point.

      We have all been there. We just havent put our business on front street to allow us to be ridiculed. :coffee:

    • Gigi26

      :preach: #86

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      And for real this woman showed so much instability by her behavior in court she wasn’t taking any of it seriously and this was about her kids! SO YEAH!

    • MsDivaRo

      @French :hug: thanks ma

    • Bibi

      Intense is on point right there… :yes:

    • San

      Ms.Fashion says:

      Every person has a limit. Nobody has super powers. We are HUMAN. We all have things that will drive us crazy. How long you stay in the state is on you. But you do get driven to that point.

      We have all been there. We just havent put our business on front street to allow us to be ridiculed.

      _________________________
      :cosign:

    • MsDivaRo

      I’m chitting in high cotton now and wiping my azz wif the leaves!!!! #stuffmymomsays

    • OutsidetheBox

      On the crazy talk…so we all agreed that depression can cause chemical imbalances..but you guys truly dont think something could “drive you crazy?”

      I know a couple of things for sure.. not knowing where my kids are when some crazy mofo kidnap them? Check.

      Working hard doing the right thing all your life to be laid off and everything including your house and kids snatched from you even if you had an emergency fund? Check.

      I can move on with the best of them, but just because I picked that up somewhere doesnt mean everybody is equipped with the same tools.

    • Ms.Fashion

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      THEY GET A BONER FROM IT AND THE FACT THAT THEY’VE PULL THE WOOL OVER EVERYONE ELSE’S EYES AS WELL, MAKES THEM FEEL POWERFUL THAT DESPITE THE TRUTH THEY CAN PERSUADE FOLKS TO ALWAYS VIEW THEM FAVORABLY

      ____________

      :cosign: this and the later post you did!!!

      Watched the man(sperm donor) put my mom through a wall and he did all you mentioned. he is great MANIPULATOR!!! Had people thinking my mom was lying and he never did all those things she was saying.

      Hmmpppff… I know how it can be. Saw it first hand.

      :coffee:

    • Bad Influence

      @Intense yes ma’am :applause:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      Every person has a limit. Nobody has super powers. We are HUMAN. We all have things that will drive us crazy. How long you stay in the state is on you. But you do get driven to that point.

      We have all been there. We just havent put our business on front street to allow us to be ridiculed.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^
      :cosign:

      SHE DOES NEED TO SEEK HELP AND DO HER BEST TO MOVE ON AND REBUILD HER LIFE, AFTER AWHILE NO MATTER HOW JUSTIFIED YOUR VICTIM STATUS MAY BE MOFOS DON’T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN :shrugs:

      IT’S A HARSH REALITY BUT TRUE, GO THRU SOMETHING AND SEE WHO CALLS AND CHECK ON YOU, BUT THE MOMENT YOU BACK ON YOUR FEET, LOOKING GOOD AND FEELING GOOD ERRRRYBODY CAN CALL :coffee:

    • Bibi

      See this is hard cuz I most definitely can see OTB right now..

    • OutsidetheBox

      geezus Choc u stay being mean to the womens

      :cosign: Choc be like @Man on the fish tip. :lol:

      @Choc you say put another man in the bed but what happens when you become JLo? As in someone always putting another man in the bed. :huh: Thats not sound advice. Thats trading one problem for another, no?

    • OutsidetheBox

      Totally, totally agree with #86.

    • Bibi

      Dammit :claps: @Intense

    • Ms.Fashion

      OutsidetheBox says:

      On the crazy talk…so we all agreed that depression can cause chemical imbalances..but you guys truly dont think something could “drive you crazy?”

      I know a couple of things for sure.. not knowing where my kids are when some crazy mofo kidnap them? Check.

      Working hard doing the right thing all your life to be laid off and everything including your house and kids snatched from you even if you had an emergency fund? Check.

      I can move on with the best of them, but just because I picked that up somewhere doesnt mean everybody is equipped with the same tools

      _________________

      EXACTLY!!!!

    • OutsidetheBox

      Simple as that either you like getting your azz beat or you dont!

      Hail nah. Never that simple. Never.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      @OTB

      I do believe that people and things can drive folks crazy…I’ve been there myself. But I have much less sympathy for folks who lie or twist the truth in order to get attention.

      It’s one thing to cry all the time, sit in a dark room and be sad and down, it’s another thing to walk around doing and causing harm and evil to others…I lose sympathy for that :shrugs:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/a19fc5b0a5b0a826c0a201b8ac191b35.png mzwhang90210

      “Separated and divorced are two different things. I’m not certain when it happened or when she happened but I know that I was very married. I know that me and Dwyane at that time had talked about reconciliation going back and forth. I was still even intimate sometimes with my then husband. So, does that constitute sleeping or having an affair with somebody’s husband? Yes. To me, divorce and separation are always two different things.

      :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @Intense – You hit the NAIL on the head.

      Cabernet Sauvignon got tired of holding it in. I respect people healin then telling their story, because that then completes the process. Unlike EVE Lozada, I really don’t beleive her story. JMO…I’m looking forward to seeing Ilyana ripping into her.

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      Yall know they have some people who will drive you to the point of crazy and then point the finger like its you.
      ___________________
      If someone else can drive you crazy then you never had any real will or conviction of your own! So still she is the one to blame for her actions!

      ———————————————————————
      Tell it like it is!!!!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      excuse my manners :hi: errrybody :happy: blows :kiss:

    • OutsidetheBox

      IT’S A HARSH REALITY BUT TRUE, GO THRU SOMETHING AND SEE WHO CALLS AND CHECK ON YOU, BUT THE MOMENT YOU BACK ON YOUR FEET, LOOKING GOOD AND FEELING GOOD ERRRRYBODY CAN CALL

      Whew chile. :tea:

    • Gigi26

      Like dude is parading around like he’s the man of the year and she probably was approached for an interview to give her take and she said yes. Ain’t no harm in that imo

    • Bad Influence

      OutsidetheBox says:

      On the crazy talk…so we all agreed that depression can cause chemical imbalances..but you guys truly dont think something could “drive you crazy?”

      I know a couple of things for sure.. not knowing where my kids are when some crazy mofo kidnap them? Check.

      Working hard doing the right thing all your life to be laid off and everything including your house and kids snatched from you even if you had an emergency fund? Check.

      I can move on with the best of them, but just because I picked that up somewhere doesnt mean everybody is equipped with the same tools.

      :cosign: theres alot shyt typed on this blog that i skip right on past…one persons story wont EVER be YOUR story so who is anyone to say what some will/cant/should’ve done/do…its ridiculous.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      :hugs: @cali

    • Crickett

      To all the wrenches who act like they ain’t NEVER went bat-shi* crazy when a man played with their emotions are lying or acting holier than thou. Men are quick to call a woman crazy when he’s through with her. I’m like Robert DeNiro in the movie Heat- when it’s time to go, I’m gone, my sanity is the most important value in my life.

    • JustB

      I understand both sides. I am not saying that him leaving her shouldn’t hurt or she does not have the right to be in pain. However, does that justify being vindictive and messy? None of this surfaced until the divorce. Now he is promoting a book and she comes forth with this. It just seems she is unhappy and can’t accept he is happy with out her. jmo

    • San

      Crickett says:

      To all the wrenches who act like they ain’t NEVER went bat-shi* crazy when a man played with their emotions are lying or acting holier than thou
      _________________
      :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      JustB says:

      I understand both sides. I am not saying that him leaving her shouldn’t hurt or she does not have the right to be in pain. However, does that justify being vindictive and messy? None of this surfaced until the divorce. Now he is promoting a book and she comes forth with this. It just seems she is unhappy and can’t accept he is happy with out her. jmo

      ___________

      THIS! ^^^^^ :cosign:

    • Mamacita

      I don’t think people are denying that certain situations can bring a person down, BUT at what point do you STOP blaming the other party and move on. At what point do you take personal accountability for your actions? At what point do you make your children a priority? At what point do you stand sown and seek help?

    • Ms.Fashion

      INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

      Every person has a limit. Nobody has super powers. We are HUMAN. We all have things that will drive us crazy. How long you stay in the state is on you. But you do get driven to that point.

      We have all been there. We just havent put our business on front street to allow us to be ridiculed.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^

      SHE DOES NEED TO SEEK HELP AND DO HER BEST TO MOVE ON AND REBUILD HER LIFE, AFTER AWHILE NO MATTER HOW JUSTIFIED YOUR VICTIM STATUS MAY BE MOFOS DON’T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN

      IT’S A HARSH REALITY BUT TRUE, GO THRU SOMETHING AND SEE WHO CALLS AND CHECK ON YOU, BUT THE MOMENT YOU BACK ON YOUR FEET, LOOKING GOOD AND FEELING GOOD ERRRRYBODY CAN CALL

      __________________________

      I hope she does. I would like to see her mind healed and repaired. Maybe this is her step in doing so.

      I have been there. It still dont stop me from being helpful and generous. I just subtract from the quantity I once gave. :coffee:

    • MsDivaRo

      Crickett says:

      To all the wrenches who act like they ain’t NEVER went bat-shi* crazy when a man played with their emotions are lying or acting holier than thou. Men are quick to call a woman crazy when he’s through with her. I’m like Robert DeNiro in the movie Heat- when it’s time to go, I’m gone, my sanity is the most important value in my life.

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Exactly!!!!!!!

    • Natasha38

      :applause: Intense, Crickett, Bad, Fashion, OTB

    • MissHarlem

      Came back to INTENSE preaching :yes:

    • MsDivaRo

      :wave: Daddy/Usual

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      Yeah, if you ARE not a strong person a manipulative person can cause you to go BAT SHIAT. #REAL TALK

      I really think becaus of his celebrity status and things that happened in her life pushed her to “seem” crazy. I beleive Gabrielle is crazy. Cause DWADE seems :homo: to me. :shrug:

    • BrownSuggaBabe

      time heels all wounds :tea:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      Mamacita says:

      I don’t think people are denying that certain situations can bring a person down, BUT at what point do you STOP blaming the other party and move on. At what point do you take personal accountability for your actions? At what point do you make your children a priority? At what point do you stand sown and seek help

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      WHEN YOU’VE ACCEPTED THE REALITY OF THE SITUATION, THIS MAN HAS MOVED ON WITHOUT YOU AND NOW IS THE SOLE GUARDIAN OF BOTH OF YOUR CHILDREN

      AND WHEN SHE IS READY TO HEAL-WHICH IS WHAT YOU DESCRIBED ABOVE, WHENEVER WE GO THROUGH ANYTHING WE CONSENT TO IT IF WE CONTINUE TO TOLERATE IT AND NOT GET OUT AND MOVE ON WITH OUR LIVES

      WHEN YOU CAN DO SELF ASSESSMENT AND FIGURE OUT WHAT DECISIONS “YOU” MADE TO GET YOU WHERE YOU ARE TODAY AND WORK ON THAT-VICTIM STATUS WILL KEEP REPLAYING LIKE A BROKEN RECORD

      AND THAT IS WHY FOLKS ARE CALLING HER CRAZY, WHICH IS HER INABILITY TO IDENTIFY HER ROLE IN ALL OF THIS, NOTHING SOME INTENSE COUNSELING WOULDN’T CURE, IF SHE FOR ONCE TAKE THE ENERGY AND FOCUS OFF OF THIS MAN AND DIRECT IT TOWARDS SOMETHING AND SOMEONE SHE COULD REALLY CHANGE

      “HERSELF”

    • Bad Influence

      @Crickett,

      i remember when me and mister went thru a rough patch (in my early 20s) and i was sitting home trying think of shyt to do to him…lawd, thats how i ended up taking all the buttns off the flys of his pants..I mean ALL of em..then layed n bed peeking from under the covers while he switched pants tryna get ready 4 work :lol: by the 5th pair he was yanking them covers clean off my ass :hahaha:

      #goodcrazytimes

      i wont tell ya’ll bout the time i poured baby oil inside his brand new timberlands (i was 19) during that time, u couldnt do ANYTHING worse to my baby cept fugg up his fresh constructs :rofl:

      im so glad i matured *flips hair*

    • OutsidetheBox

      Is Siovaughn asking for sympathy? Ive never been a fan of telling ppl when to “be quiet”…everybody arrives in their own time…if a baby shows delay, we encourage him. If he continues to show delay we get help.

      I hate how once you become an adult everybody is all boo hoo..fukk you.

      Also, if it still “hurts” her and someone is asking these questions, what does it hurt us? Really? What strife does that cause you because someone is doing what we may perceive as “wallowing”?

      Siovaughn and I have def handled things differently (them gums for instance, i woulda been had those shaved down on Wade’s dime..) but this is how she is choosing to handle it and I tell you, it dont bother me none. IJS. And maybe its helping some other lost person..I could def look at her and say “see thats what i dont wanna be..” #motivation

    • Ms.Fashion

      JustB says:

      I understand both sides. I am not saying that him leaving her shouldn’t hurt or she does not have the right to be in pain. However, does that justify being vindictive and messy? None of this surfaced until the divorce. Now he is promoting a book and she comes forth with this. It just seems she is unhappy and can’t accept he is happy with out her. jmo

      ___________

      I dont think its this. She has her side as well. Its just that becasue of who he is, nobody is interested in hearing it.

      Still doesn’t remove her side in this. She was once apart of his life.

      By right, she can talk about whatever she feel. Its her story.

      :coffee:

    • Bibi

      theres alot shyt typed on this blog that i skip right on past…one persons story wont EVER be YOUR story so who is anyone to say what some will/cant/should’ve done/do…
      ___________________________________________
      :cosign: this too…

      too many variables with these two…if she was abused and she’s trying to heal in an interview isn’t the way..
      The kids should come before anything else and it doesn’t look that way right now..imo

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Choc you say put another man in the bed but what happens when you become JLo? As in someone always putting another man in the bed. Thats not sound advice. Thats trading one problem for another, no?
      ______________________
      What I am saying is when you get to the point you know you acting out its time to change its very SIMPLE! It don’t have to be a man she could pick up a hobby, start exercising anything healthier than fuggn acting up and being a pain in everyone’s azz and you are considered a grown woman! Im not here to fix her she will have to do that herself when she is tired of dealing with the consequences she brings on herself she will change her behavior!

    • Bad Influence

      @Usual, thats what i said…Wade and Bosh are in love…i decided :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      :waves: @ FeFe

    • OutsidetheBox

      I respect people healin then telling their story, because that then completes the process.

      This. This is what i was tryna say in my wordy ass way. :lol:

      Something I tell my kids…my boys have this problem especially..hitting each other and rough housing in general.

      One will always say (after the other starts to cry)”that didnt hurt!” And my response is you dont get to tell somebody else how to feel about their assault/abuse/whatever.

    • Mamacita

      @Intense “AND THAT IS WHY FOLKS ARE CALLING HER CRAZY, WHICH IS HER INABILITY TO IDENTIFY HER ROLE IN ALL OF THIS, NOTHING SOME INTENSE COUNSELING WOULDN’T CURE, IF SHE FOR ONCE TAKE THE ENERGY AND FOCUS OFF OF THIS MAN AND DIRECT IT TOWARDS SOMETHING AND SOMEONE SHE COULD REALLY CHANGE “HERSELF””

      :cosign: :yes:

    • yallcrazy

      We live and we learn. That’s life :tea: No sense rehashing ish. Move on…

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      Bad Influence says:

      @Crickett,

      i remember when me and mister went thru a rough patch (in my early 20s) and i was sitting home trying think of shyt to do to him…lawd, thats how i ended up taking all the buttns off the flys of his pants..I mean ALL of em..then layed n bed peeking from under the covers while he switched pants tryna get ready 4 work by the 5th pair he was yanking them covers clean off my ass

      #goodcrazytimes

      i wont tell ya’ll bout the time i poured baby oil inside his brand new timberlands (i was 19) during that time, u couldnt do ANYTHING worse to my baby cept fugg up his fresh constructs

      im so glad i matured *flips hair*

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^

      LOL, I SHO DONE BUST OUT SOME CAR WINDOWS IN MY DAY (EARLY 20’S) BLEACHED SOME CLOTHES, DROVE OVER TO HIS FRIENDS HOUSE, SHOOK THE BAG LIKE SHAKE N BAKE, TOSSED THEM OUT THE CAR WINDOW, AND DID A 360 AND RAN OVER DEM BISHES :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      (them gums for instance, i woulda been had those shaved down on Wade’s dime..)
      ____________
      :ghost:

      #comicrelief

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Nah when you do chit to me I either cheat with your friend or leave you all that other chit I don’t have time plus my mom told me very young in age don’t you EVER chase after NO MAN!

    • http://youtu.be/Yop62wQH498 Daddy Warbucks

      MsDivaRo says:

      Daddy/Usual

      ———————————————————–

      :hi:

    • Bad Influence

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Siovaughn and I have def handled things differently (them gums for instance, i woulda been had those shaved down on Wade’s dime..)

      bish i love u and hate u so much.. AT THE SAME DAMN TIME! :buttshake:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      No sense rehashing ish. Move on…
      ___________________
      THANK YOU LAWD!

    • OutsidetheBox

      BUT at what point do you STOP blaming the other party and move on. At what point do you take personal accountability for your actions? At what point do you make your children a priority? At what point do you stand sown and seek help?

      When youre ready. And guess what Mamacita some ppl just aint never ready. Sad but true.

    • Ms.Fashion

      Gigi26 says:

      Like dude is parading around like he’s the man of the year and she probably was approached for an interview to give her take and she said yes. Ain’t no harm in that imo

      _____________

      NO @Gigi, NOT AT ALL!!! :coffee:

    • San

      Get some help….end of story goodbye

    • MsDivaRo

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Choc you say put another man in the bed but what happens when you become JLo? As in someone always putting another man in the bed. Thats not sound advice. Thats trading one problem for another, no?

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      You have to heal from one relationship before starting another it is as simple as that!!

    • yallcrazy

      Cali :kiss: (on both cheeks, like the Brits) :shrug: :lol:

    • Bibi

      OAN: so serious so soon to end of work time on a friday no less….

      Should have discussed this and THEN gone crazy smacking gum…

      my 2 cents yall… #pretendtocare

      :cya: Have a great weekend

    • Bad Influence

      Oooooh the bleach #beenthere :yes:

      :rofl:

    • Bad Influence

      Bibi :bye:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Daddy
      Im not saying Im better but I’ve come out of some real chit and because I have FAITH and relied on GOD I made it thru!

    • OutsidetheBox

      The kids should come before anything else and it doesn’t look that way right now..imo

      I am a “mommy first” kind of parent. If I aint right, aint nodoby right. My mom hates when i say that but you know what if she had done that..some of my siblings would be better for it. Real talk.

    • Ms.Fashion

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Something I tell my kids…my boys have this problem especially..hitting each other and rough housing in general.

      One will always say (after the other starts to cry)”that didnt hurt!” And my response is you dont get to tell somebody else how to feel about their assault/abuse/whatever.

      ____________

      This is how I reason. :coffee:

      #IWishAMuthaFuggerWould

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Get some help….end of story goodbye
      _____________________
      :clap:

    • VDot

      To all the wrenches who act like they ain’t NEVER went bat-shi* crazy when a man played with their emotions are lying or acting holier than thou. .

      :cosign:

      I don’t believe them either way. Knowing they be on some Glenn Close boiling bunnies type ish :eyeroll:

    • MissHarlem

      OTB what I tell you bout sounding sexy

      CALI heyyyy hun :hug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      Dmanit MAC – Did you give a Psychrisist your login :waiting:

      That right there is keeping 100, on the MENTAL TIP!

      Everybody progresses, heals and moves on in there own way. She would have to be one increadibly syck chic to say all those things and then her mama sitting there co-signing. Women have stayed in realtionship for alot less. Crack, coke, weed, a car that barely runs, sloppy dyck. She stayed cause that was her husband who was a NBA star. :shrug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @his.. The buttons off the pants? On.The.Flo’. You bad as Kevin Hart talmbout he took all the earring backs.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      <—hasn't ever vandalized or trashed anything of an ex's….I just cried, cried, and cried some more and settled for stuff just to have someone who WANTED me back… #forshame

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Im not telling her how to feel cuz I don’t respect her – I don’t respect a woman that uses her children as weapons and apparently neither does the court of law!

      She still can shut up tho :coffee:

    • OutsidetheBox

      Im not here to fix her

      Lady you crazy. :lol:

      What I am saying is when you get to the point you know you acting out its time to change its very SIMPLE!

      And if she doesnt know she acting out? I have had plenty of retarded (that aint PC, I know) ppl experience. Sometimes folks just dont fuggin know.

      Crazy ppl think they are sane. Just like you and me. And I know Im touched. *wonky eyes*

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @FE
      Yep Im not with destroying people’s chit I destroy you when I leave and don’t take you back!

    • Ms.Fashion

      MsDivaRo says:

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Choc you say put another man in the bed but what happens when you become JLo? As in someone always putting another man in the bed. Thats not sound advice. Thats trading one problem for another, no?

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      You have to heal from one relationship before starting another it is as simple as that!!

      _____________

      I AGREE.

      :whistle:

      Bag Lady
      You go hurt back
      Dragging all them bags like that

    • Bad Influence

      im sorry but if @Usual types one more comment with that painted faced munkey baby…imma cwy :no:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      What I am saying is when you get to the point you know you acting out its time to change its very SIMPLE!

      And if she doesnt know she acting out? I have had plenty of retarded (that aint PC, I know) ppl experience. Sometimes folks just dont fuggin know.

      Crazy ppl think they are sane. Just like you and me. And I know Im touched. *wonky eyes*
      __________________________
      Well fuk if she don’t know now she never will let a court take my kids from ME oops NAH that aint my life :pray:

    • Bibi

      last thing…OTB ur right..I’m the same way…momma needed to do it too…why she lost it when none of us were there anymore…

      But if I lost custody of my kids…THATS ALL I would be able to focus on..that’s just me..they are the ONLY innocent ones…ijs..idk…just hug me dammit I’m pmsing :hugs:

      Ok :cya: for real

    • Ms.Fashion

      FeFe says:

      <—hasn't ever vandalized or trashed anything of an ex's….I just cried, cried, and cried some more and settled for stuff just to have someone who WANTED me back… #forshame

      _______________

      NO. #fortrue

      You being Honest. :yes:

    • VDot

      Siovaughn and I have def handled things differently (them gums for instance, i woulda been had those shaved down on Wade’s dime..) .

      :rofl:

      @ Intense – You are up here teaching today.

      I just wish more women were on the side of women. Helping to heal one another instead of lining up on the other side of the line screaming get over it and you’re crazy.

    • JustB

      @ Fashion. She has her side and as someone that has been through something in a relationship I do understand her hurt and anger but I decided I love me more and would like to preserve my sanity cause I got a kiddie to look after. Yes everyone handles things different. But the kids are what is most important and as long as he does right by them that is all that should matter. Some men act this way too after a relationship is over. If it were a man bashing the woman after they broke up, years later, alot of people would be telling him to move on, it didn’t work, calling him a bitch, etc.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      (them gums for instance, i woulda been had those shaved down on Wade’s dime..)
      Can’t stand whomeever said this :rofl: His gums ain’t all that…

      :hi:
      Ya’ll
      Diva
      His
      Harlem
      Daddy
      :danban:

    • BrownSuggaBabe

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      Nah when you do chit to me I either cheat with your friend
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

      now that’s what im talkn about

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Sad day when a female says she don’t have to destroy your chit we are lying!

    • yallcrazy

      <–done some good 'get-back' shatt in my day.

      Never busted out a window, well not a dude, but I did do this one chicks because she stepped to my lil(13 yr old) cuz while she was with the dude and said a bunch of disrepsctful shatt.

      Bish wouldn't come outta her house, so :deadhorse: <–her front, side window, and the hood. Bish!

      Now today I wouldn't do this :no:

    • Bad Influence

      @NikkeMinxx says:

      @his.. The buttons off the pants? On.The.Flo’. You bad as Kevin Hart talmbout he took all the earring backs.

      :ghost: when we watched that and heard that joke he looked dead at my ass and said “thats ur cute lil nutty ass taking my damn buttons!” lmaoooo i had to passionately smooch him and shyt so he would shut up *snickers*

      ion like when he brings up my old crazy :lol:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Brown
      How easy is that and 10 out 10 he won’t know unless you tell him NOW THATS SOME SWEET AZZ GETBACK!

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      WHILE YALL PLAYING LET JAY DROP BEY LIKE A HOT POTATOE AFTER GETTING HIM A NEW SIDE PIECE, AFTER SHE DONE LAID, ROLLED AND GYRATED ALL OVER THE DAMN FLOOR ABOUT HOW SHE WANTS TO CATER TO HIM, DANCES FOR HIM, AND CALL HIM DADDY BEFORE THE WORLD AND GIVE HIM A DAUGHTER

      I’M FOR CERTAIN HER ARSE WOULD GO DAMN NEAR STIR CRAZY, WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO DEEP AND THEY’RE IN YOUR SPIRIT, THEY HAVE TO BE PURGED OUT OF YOU AND IT TAKES GOD, PRAYER, AND A REALLY GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM TO BRING YOU THROUGH

      I ADMIRE ALL OF THE WOMEN WHO QUICKLY MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT,KUDOS TO ALL OF YOU SINCERELY, BUT AS WE CAN SEE EVERYBODY DON’T HANDLE THE SAME SITUATIONS THE SAME WAY, SOME TAKE LONGER THAN OTHERS, AND SOME NEVER REALLY RECOVER

    • OutsidetheBox

      That banana mashing felt good. :lol: That was my first foray into trashing. Im a scaredy cat but will try to fight a man in a NY minute. :ashamed:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      Im not here to fix her

      Lady you crazy.
      ____
      When I read that shiat right there, I BUSTED out laughing. CHOCO IS NUTS! Like that gil wrote her. :rofl: SMDH

    • San

      WHILE YALL PLAYING LET JAY DROP BEY LIKE A HOT POTATOE AFTER GETTING HIM A NEW SIDE PIECE, AFTER SHE DONE LAID, ROLLED AND GYRATED ALL OVER THE DAMN FLOOR
      ______________________
      Ring the Alarm on tht ass

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @ Fashion. She has her side and as someone that has been through something in a relationship I do understand her hurt and anger but I decided I love me more and would like to preserve my sanity cause I got a kiddie to look after. Yes everyone handles things different. But the kids are what is most important and as long as he does right by them that is all that should matter. Some men act this way too after a relationship is over. If it were a man bashing the woman after they broke up, years later, alot of people would be telling him to move on, it didn’t work, calling him a bitch, etc.
      _________________________________
      RIGHT ON! When I decided to leave it was becuz it was better for me and my kids all of us including him!

    • JustB

      WHILE YALL PLAYING LET JAY DROP BEY LIKE A HOT POTATOE AFTER GETTING HIM A NEW SIDE PIECE, AFTER SHE DONE LAID, ROLLED AND GYRATED ALL OVER THE DAMN FLOOR ABOUT HOW SHE WANTS TO CATER TO HIM, DANCES FOR HIM, AND CALL HIM DADDY BEFORE THE WORLD AND GIVE HIM A DAUGHTER
      __________________________________________________________

      :hahaha:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @OTB and Cali
      _I_ I never said I wasn’t crazy I just don’t like acting stupid :nana: :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      FE
      Yep Im not with destroying people’s chit I destroy you when I leave and don’t take you back!
      __________
      Now that iS TRUE! It’s a VIRGO thing. I will find something to make something about your life miserable before I feel like I have he closure. :smile: and OTB’s WONKY EYES

      :coffee:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :hug: @Bibs I understand you and feel you to a tee. I try to be proactive rather than reactive. Meaning we never want to get to the point where they even “consider” taking the kids. If mommy is “right” in all aspects…they will be damn good.

    • OutsidetheBox

      I’M FOR CERTAIN HER ARSE WOULD GO DAMN NEAR STIR CRAZY, WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE SO DEEP AND THEY’RE IN YOUR SPIRIT, THEY HAVE TO BE PURGED OUT OF YOU AND IT TAKES GOD, PRAYER, AND A REALLY GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM TO BRING YOU THROUGH

      I ADMIRE ALL OF THE WOMEN WHO QUICKLY MOVE ON AND GET OVER IT,KUDOS TO ALL OF YOU SINCERELY, BUT AS WE CAN SEE EVERYBODY DON’T HANDLE THE SAME SITUATIONS THE SAME WAY, SOME TAKE LONGER THAN OTHERS, AND SOME NEVER REALLY RECOVER

      :yes: STILL pinning behind Clay Fowler (he dumped me in 6th grade..)

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @Brown and Choc
      How easy is that and 10 out 10 he won’t know unless you tell him NOW THATS SOME SWEET AZZ GETBACK! How is that get back if he don’t know about it?

      This is as far as my crazy got… My BF at the time was lying about still creeping with his baby momma… and one night he aint come home… I had a friend come get me and take me to the BM house.. I simply took the car, put it in my grandpa’s garage, got a ride home and played stupid when he called damn near in tears the next morning thinking someone stole it. I told him I filed the report and called in the insurance.. rode that to the finish line until a month later when he wanted me to call and go off on the insurance and ask why they hadn’t mailed my check.

    • OutsidetheBox

      When I read that shiat right there, I BUSTED out laughing. CHOCO IS NUTS! Like that girl wrote her.

      :rofl: THATS EXACTLY WHAT I READ WHEN SHE FONTED THAT :rofl:

    • BrownSuggaBabe

      :offtopic: Im sit’n ant my desk minding my bizness, trying to read all the comments & eating pringles( i didn’t hv lunch) my trailer park arse co worker flagn/waving her hands at me(because im ignoring her)& says you can’t eat at ur desk. I looked at her & got another pringle ate it & turned away she thens comes to tell me FYI u know you cant eat at your desk i sd oh & turned around again do you know this beesh forward me an emailabout eating food at ur desk..like beesh leave me the fawk alone! #IDGAF

    • Ms.Fashion

      JustB says:

      @ Fashion. She has her side and as someone that has been through something in a relationship I do understand her hurt and anger but I decided I love me more and would like to preserve my sanity cause I got a kiddie to look after. Yes everyone handles things different. But the kids are what is most important and as long as he does right by them that is all that should matter. Some men act this way too after a relationship is over. If it were a man bashing the woman after they broke up, years later, alot of people would be telling him to move on, it didn’t work, calling him a bitch, etc.

      ________________

      Be grateful that you were able to recognize that and had the will to move on. Everybody is not like this. You can only control your temple.

      I think its better to show compassion for someone than a finger of harshness. You never know what lies ahead for you. You may have been strong in that particular situation but something else may cause you to hit the concrete.

      :coffee:

    • yallcrazy

      <–never wanted to destroy shatt because of how it'd make me look :shrug:

      And that would definitely close the door on the relationship. ION end relationships bad :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      :dead: @Nikke

      You are nuts girl! :rofl:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :rofl: :rofl: @Nikke. Lawd have mercy. I need to step my game up.

      I was nervous as hail abot a smashed banana and yo ass done stole the man ride?!?! :rofl:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Now that iS TRUE! It’s a VIRGO thing. I will find something to make something about your life miserable before I feel like I have he closure.\
      _________________________
      :yes: I can put my energy into better things! Plus Im a believer in Karma so I know I don’t want my chit touched….

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      In no particular order

      I put some nuts in some dog doo and gave to a boy, who pushed my son.
      Left my underwear in a ziploc bag with a dude name in crisper drawer in his fridge.
      Drove to dude house and rang his bell at 1am, when he thought I was out of town. (he had someone there)
      Wrote a scathing bio on Girl Don’t Date him on ex…
      Made a fake facebook about another guy.
      Collects a sizable amount of child support from ex husband (Money hurts badly.
      Never destroyed any property,

      Am I crazy? :yes:

    • OutsidetheBox

      :offtopic: What do we think about Lauryn Hill being the one not wanting to marry (in regards to Rohan Marley)? :gossip:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      <–never wanted to destroy shatt because of how it'd make me look

      And that would definitely close the door on the relationship. ION end relationships bad
      _________________________
      YEP!

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      Where are her friends? Her mother’s support need not be all that she has cause her mama is cosigning it. Women should support women but at what point do you stop supporting so that she can wake the fugg up on her own? I don’t know the whole story but I have seen court doc via innanet and pix and just by that you know that she needs to heal. This chick was on the beach in sunny azz FLA with a hoody and sweats on…that don’t count for nothing in the sanity department? Crazy is as crazy does. If you let someone drive you crazy then yes you are crazy. I’m not perfect and I do fall short but for the sake of my kids I know when to get it together. I have been to counseling and I battled court for custody of my kids with my ex-husband and his wife. I battled the both of them and believe me I wanted to do some shyt to them but I fought them with my maternal side. Something that no one can take from me is my sanity and my kids. You will fight tooth and nail when it is strictly for the kids and nothing else.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      yallcrazy says:

      <–never wanted to destroy shatt because of how it'd make me look :shrugs:

      And that would definitely close the door on the relationship. ION end relationships bad :no:

      ___________
      Honestly, this was my logic as well…I was so caught up in keeping that person's interest in me that I didn't want to do anything to throw off their opinion of me… but now I'm like FUKK YOU AND YOUR OPINION YO! :rofl: I ain't wasting time or energy trashing your shyt!

    • MsDivaRo

      Choco aka Hippie says:

      @Daddy
      Im not saying Im better but I’ve come out of some real chit and because I have FAITH and relied on GOD I made it thru!

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Now that there in itself is a TEST-TI-MONY! :applause:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      OTB and FeFe… I don’t like people insulting my intelligence… and that’s what he did by trying to convince me he was sleeping at his mama’s house.

    • OutsidetheBox

      And this mistress that is carrying on with Chad, Bianca Zuluaga? Oh for shame.

      Yall know she a lawyer in Miami right?

    • yallcrazy

      Yeah, I hurts feelings, not property :nono:

      :rofl:

      I always believed like this: The WORST thing I could do to hurt you, is to leave you all the way alone. Pronto!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @OTB #201.. I aint buying that either….

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @Gysp – I agree with you, when you got kids. You got pull your shiat together, but everybody ain’t built like that.

      Hey Suga :kiss:

    • OutsidetheBox

      I think its better to show compassion for someone than a finger of harshness. You never know what lies ahead for you. You may have been strong in that particular situation but something else may cause you to hit the concrete.

      Right. Finances for one. Love for another. Men kill themselves most often about money. I think we all agreed it take a bit of cray to kill yo’self fewl..

      My clothes? If I came home and all my clothes was destroyed..well, I just cant be held liable. *back of hand to forehead*

    • editorialgirl

      I need her to get some help. She needs counseling. You cannot shoot the phone at someone so hard it shatters unless their body is made of STEEL. And, she’s hitting marble floors and breaking ottomans after being shot on one? Come on, girl. Exaggeration. I feel bad for her because she seriously needs mental help. It all started with her lying about a STD. Then, ignoring the court a million times. The interesting this is, hate D. Wade or not, he NEVER speaks ill of her. I would call out her crazy.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BbVuI9sUlcE @NikkeMinxx

      @PrimeSuspect :yahoo: Hey miss lady…

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Brown and Choc
      How easy is that and 10 out 10 he won’t know unless you tell him NOW THATS SOME SWEET AZZ GETBACK! How is that get back if he don’t know about it?
      _________________________
      I shouldn’t have to say it but becuz I KNOW!

    • MsDivaRo

      Usual Prime Suspect says:

      In no particular order

      I put some nuts in some dog doo and gave to a boy, who pushed my son.
      Left my underwear in a ziploc bag with a dude name in crisper drawer in his fridge.
      Drove to dude house and rang his bell at 1am, when he thought I was out of town. (he had someone there)
      Wrote a scathing bio on Girl Don’t Date him on ex…
      Made a fake facebook about another guy.
      Collects a sizable amount of child support from ex husband (Money hurts badly.
      Never destroyed any property,

      Am I crazy?

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Now this was back in the 11th grade…I had a boyfried….mind you this the box that took my virginity….he broke up with me..I once blocked his truck in at a party with my car ( my cousins threatened to call my dad on me, I didn’t budge…he ended up jumping the curb and leaving after which I tore all the button off his button down shirt. About a week later I threw a pair of scissors at him in his driveway. My cousins begged me to leave….was I crazy, hell yeah!!!!

    • yallcrazy

      You cannot shoot the phone at someone so hard it shatters unless their body is made of STEEL.

      I contest :tea:

    • MsDivaRo

      *box should have been boy!

    • OutsidetheBox

      This chick was on the beach in sunny azz FLA with a hoody and sweats on…that don’t count for nothing in the sanity department? Crazy is as crazy does.

      Its not always hot in Florida FYI. :lol: And Fay was on the beach today in jeans, but we know she crazy so I guess I have no point.. :kona: :lmao:

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      Something that no one can take from me is my sanity and my kids. You will fight tooth and nail when it is strictly for the kids and nothing else.
      _________________________
      THis is my FEELING and its not to say I didn’t go thru hell to not let it take me down!

    • BrownSuggaBabe

      Hey Usual :hunching:

    • MsDivaRo

      :bye: Usual..have a good weekend hunni!

    • OutsidetheBox

      His words @Nikke

      “As a man, there are certain things I don’t accept, and it just so happened that I didn’t accept certain things [in the relationship].

      “It doesn’t mean she’s [Hill] a bad person or I’m a bad person. It just didn’t work out.”

    • JustB

      @ Fashion. I am compassionate, hence I said I understand the way she feels. My compassion is what helps me see both sides. None of my comments were harsh and I have been down, felt the pain, as I expressed. No one knows what lies ahead. I am only in control of me. I digress..

      Its Friday hun, lets hug it out :hug:

    • yallcrazy

      Wk1 hard ass class—3 A’s for my assignments :yahoo:

      I’ve been nervous waiting on the grades & haven’t started on this (wk2) work because I didn’t know if I was gonna have to change up my style *sigh of relief*

      :danban: I’m Bad I’m Bad You Know it You know (mj)

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      there is a :newpost:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgWgEoaAYDY FeFe

      Well I’m out of here…you ladies have a WONDERFUL weekend! :cya:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-zNhpOUelY Usual Prime Suspect

      @Editorial – She needs help and maybe a contract in the NFL,that woman is strong. Marble will kill you, she is lucky to be alive. A bad slip on that and your life could be over. Ask my number 7 tooth…..my ex poured milk on me as I walking through the foyer and slipped. I never forget that Bull****….

    • OutsidetheBox

      You cannot shoot the phone at someone so hard it shatters unless their body is made of STEEL.

      :wtf: Girl gone.

    • JustB

      @ Fefe. Have a good weekend chica!

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      OutsidetheBox says:

      This chick was on the beach in sunny azz FLA with a hoody and sweats on…that don’t count for nothing in the sanity department? Crazy is as crazy does.
      Its not always hot in Florida FYI. And Fay was on the beach today in jeans, but we know she crazy so I guess I have no point.. :lmao:
      _______________________
      Gabby was damn near naked!
      And Fay….well that man’s look said enough.

    • Milky

      yallcrazy says:

      You cannot shoot the phone at someone so hard it shatters unless their body is made of STEEL.

      I contest
      ___________________________________________________
      Maybe she had a hard body back then. She softened up like gum so he moved on!

    • yallcrazy

      <–is dealing with some shatt now BUT I'm not about to lose it (my mind). I just keep on trucking and praying…

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      @Editorial – She needs help and maybe a contract in the NFL,that woman is strong. Marble will kill you, she is lucky to be alive. A bad slip on that and your life could be over. Ask my number 7 tooth…..my ex poured milk on me as I walking through the foyer and slipped. I never forget that Bull****….
      _________________________
      :lol: at contract in NFL

    • http://youtu.be/Xxjwc84P364 gypsyeyes

      OutsidetheBox says:

      You cannot shoot the phone at someone so hard it shatters unless their body is made of STEEL.
      Girl gone.
      _________________________

      that right there!!! I don’t know what the Mayberry this means!

    • yallcrazy

      :nite: Fi

    • http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco aka Hippie

      <–is dealing with some shatt now BUT I'm not about to lose it (my mind). I just keep on trucking and praying…
      _____________________________
      Basically who aint dealing with something feel me! SHe think she get a pass to act a fool…

    • Ms.Fashion

      JustB says:

      @ Fashion. I am compassionate, hence I said I understand the way she feels. My compassion is what helps me see both sides. None of my comments were harsh and I have been down, felt the pain, as I expressed. No one knows what lies ahead. I am only in control of me. I digress..

      Its Friday hun, lets hug it out

      ______________

      We dont need to hug it out. I was speaking in general. Not personally towards you.

      But here you go anyway… :hug:

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      I feel bad for her but not because of what happened in the past but because she can’t move on with her life. Laws the power men hold.

    • http://twitter.com/SayItaIntSoJoe8 Atypical

      I don’t like to see anybody be abused,but..this lady has been known to lie. She threw everything but the kitchen sink at D Wade during their divorce…Why didn’t this come up? Why didn’t this come up when/before she lost custody of her kids? I honestly(and of course I could be wrong) think that she’s bitter..She’s bitter because she was with him when he had nothing and I guess she feels like he owes her, which isn’t why you do nice things for people but I digress…That’s the problem with falling in love as a teenager,IMO, sometimes you outgrow your partner…

    • Daisy

      Iyanla is going to HELP Evelyn and that includes tough love and doesn’t bash her like she said the behavior is NOT the person. Evelyn doesn’t need to lie about having her head busted open and previous issues she has had with Chad.

      Until you have a divorce that takes YEARS to finalize then all the separation is not divorce talk can miss me. Once papers are legally filed you are free to date in my book. In a PERFECT world people would wait until all things have been finalized but I would not be held hostage in a unhappy marriage putting my life on hold. Yes, some men and women lie about filing but in D Wades case we know he filed and was fighting for yrs in court. Some people can’t go a month w/o getting it in #ijs :coffee: I would love to see them go YEARS waiting on a div to become final.

    • Steel_Blk_Magnolia

      I believe her…that simple.
      I can only imagine the BS she had to deal with from a mother’s perspective. I would have snapped!

    • editorialgirl

      It means there is a difference between a phone breaking and a phone shattering. Just like there is a difference between an Ottoman moving or a piece falling off and an Ottoman breaking into four pieces. To be fair to the phone, she did say broke into piece and not shattered. So, my bad. But, yeah, let’s test out throwing people and see if the break an ottoman into four pieces and hit a marble floor and survive. What were her injuries? I imagine a broken back, neck and rib cage? What did her obgyn say when she went in for her check up after hitting a marble floor, breaking an ottoman and phone breaking into pieces on her body?

    • editorialgirl

      Distance also matters. If I snatched the phone from you, then I’m close, right? So why would I throw the phone instead of hitting you with the phone? There’s no space for the phone to sail through the air. I’ma take a regular phone and throw it at a box from a foot away. I’ll report back.

    • Ni ni

      women do not support each other, I so agree. Just on this board, everytime the man takes the kids, etc. , the women always drag the woman through the mud. And why should she shut up? Maybe her story will help her heal and help someone else in the process. And wtf does her gums have to do with anything? Everybody got something on them thats not perfect. Some of the women on here everyday still hasnt gotten over whatever it was that made you bitter.Cause you are bitter and just dont realize it.