T.D Jakes’ Daughter, Sarah Henson Ending 4 Year Marriage

Last week it was reported that the youngest daughter of mega church Pastor T.D. Jakes was divorcing her husband — a former NFL football player — after 4 years of marriage.

Robert Henson is a former linebacker for the Washington Redskins. The couple met when Sarah Henson was just 19. At that age it’s almost impossible to see through the dopamine haze.

It’s too bad Sarah Henson’s parents didn’t sit her down and explain to her that marrying a NFL player was probably not a smart move.

Women like Sarah who marry good looking, hunky NFL players are setting themselves up for failure. That is because there are many unscrupulous (and desperate) women out there who can’t or won’t respect his marital vows. A man is going to be a man when his woman isn’t around. You stack the deck against yourself when you marry a man who is a woman magnet. This is just common sense.

But once the dopamine cleared, Sarah was able to see that she and Robert were not compatible. The ingredients for a good marriage were never present: respect, responsibility, honesty, maturity and love comes after the dopamine has faded.

Why can’t women have patience and wait for love?


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    • Trendsetter

      :tea:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      :(

      that’s sad. but no kids were mentioned so i’m hoping none are involved.

      #brightside

    • luVn_liFe…

      :thinking:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Wow I remember seeing pics of this wedding :tea:

    • NaijaGal

      they got married cause she was knocked up…let’s also get an update on Jake’s son who was trolling for men at the bathhouses :coffee:

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      :coffee: <—dopamine

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      NaijaGal says:

      they got married cause she was knocked up…let’s also get an update on Jake’s son who was trolling for men at the bathhouses

      :shocked: OH MY!!! well spill the damn :tea: guhl!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Fay Fay spoke downstairs :waves: and what :popcorn: @Naija :shock:

    • Trendsetter

      NaijaGal says:

      they got married cause she was knocked up…let’s also get an update on Jake’s son who was trolling for men at the bathhouses
      _______________________________________

      say what????

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=puSCLM8nLFU Mother Jefferson

      :coffee:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      He showin a lot of teeth in that pic.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wave: hey FAY

    • Crickett

      And let her lead a life of a fairy tale and end up a spinster. If my daughter walked in and told me she was marrying s professional athlete I would do the Kris Jenner and make sure if it didn’t work out she would be well compensated for her wasted time. He is a professional athlete, graduated college and a Christian- men are men Miss Sandra sometimes you wait out the foolishness or go about your merry way.

    • NaijaGal

      YUP…Jake’s son got busted by an undercover cop who got the ‘pleasure’ of seeing his peen…and the daughter if I’m not mistaken already had a child at 14 and was going to TCU when she was knocked up and married ole boy…you know these megachurches especially are all about appearances

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      Four years is a long successful marriage these days…

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I agree Man, something looks quite odd about him, but I will keep that to myself :tea:

    • Milky

      Good Morning Everyone. :waves: Did her father talk to her about divorce from a spiritual standpoint?

    • cheeks8683

      Dang….I remember when the wedding pics were everywhere…Brown and Tourquoise….I remember it like it was yesterday :(

    • FuturedocDonte

      Morning :coffee:

    • lovezoe

      FAFAY- fonted you downstairs :hugs: That husband looks…. Sad their marriage failed.

    • flyqtnva

      The wedding was in Essence or Ebony….I remember thinking her..her mom..and sister were in love with the thought of planning a lavish ceremony…the groom not so much…..& where is her holier than thou daddy…and his marriages r 4ever message

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @JENIE AND LOVEZOE
      I never seen a linbacker lookin all happy and showin all they teeth and chit.

      He mighta wanted her brotha.
      :coffee:

    • Trendsetter

      Damn where the hell I been…I didn’t know any of this info

    • cheeks8683

      YUP…Jake’s son got busted by an undercover cop who got the ‘pleasure’ of seeing his peen…and the daughter if I’m not mistaken already had a child at 14 and was going to TCU when she was knocked up and married ole boy…you know these megachurches especially are all about appearances

      _______________________________________________________________________

      Say what now? Hd a baby at 14? Lawd, these PK’s I tell ya!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I thought working out is suppose to give you energy :tea: my azz is tired as hell ! Ugh :no:

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      @SANDRA
      :waiting: on NFL post.

      My son Peyon Manning remembered everything I taught him.
      :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Man, I just don’t care™ says:

      @JENIE AND LOVEZOE
      I never seen a linbacker lookin all happy and showin all they teeth and chit.

      He mighta wanted her brotha.
      ___________________

      See I wasn’t gone say nothing but since u drug it out of me :homoswitch:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Sarah Looks like her Mother :think: thats all I got

    • Ms.Fashion

      Morning All!!! :waves:

      Got nothing for them. It happens. :coffee:

    • cheeks8683

      The wedding was in Essence or Ebony….I remember thinking her..her mom..and sister were in love with the thought of planning a lavish ceremony…the groom not so much…..& where is her holier than thou daddy…and his marriages r 4ever message
      ______________________________________________________________

      Although I listen to his messages online he has been getting the side-eye from me ever since he showed up to the 2010 All-Star weekend comedy show with a mink coat on…looking like Frank Lucas :coffee:

    • free

      bathhouses, pregnant 14 year olds…what in the collection plate hell is goings on?

    • luVn_liFe…

      :hi: MsFashion

    • brown_skin83

      Next Sunday, I will be at the Potter’s House… lol. Robert Henson, how you doin?? Morning erbody!

    • lovezoe

      Anyone know anything about Detroit and hotels? I may surprise hubby with tickets for the Lions game.

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Luvn :hug: gm puddin how are u?
      ZOE :heart: i fonted u downstairs. today 70 squats are required. my thighs are :crying: at the thought *sad face*

    • lovezoe

      FAYFAY- I had to take a break due to that hip pain :sad: back at it now.

    • FTP

      She was 19.. I think too young to get married.. :shrug:

      GUUDD morning sr :hi:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ohhhh we we we FAY the gluts/thighs are gonna be on point!! :D

    • Ms.Fashion

      luVn_liFe… says:

      MsFashion

      ____________

      Hey HONEY!!! :waves:

    • free

      :offtopic: so possib has a pic of ursh, grace, and the fam and grace looks much younger….

    • DoNotDeleteMe

      When Thomas Dexter “The Walrus” Jackleg’s son was caught in the park, he just kept on jerking off looking at the officer. :rofl:P

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      MOST COUPLES GO INTO MARRIAGE WITH THE HOPE IT WILL LAST FOREVER, AND THE MAJORITY OF WOMEN AND THEIR FEMALE FAMILY MEMBERS LOVE PLANNING THE WEDDING AND THE IDEA OF LAVISH WEDDINGS

      WHATEVER THE CASE MAY BE, I HOPE THEY RECONSIDER AND RECONCILE, SOMETIMES FOLKS MAKE HASTY DECISIONS WHEN WHAT THEY ARE EXPERIENCING IS NORMAL EVERYDAY LIFE IN MARRIAGE AND FOR SOME, LITTLE THINGS THAT NAG YOU SEEM INTOLERABLE, PETTY ARGUMENTS, MISCOMMUNICATION OR THE LACK OF COMMUNICATION, ETC. WHICH ARE ALL NORMAL-AND CAN BE WORKED THRU IF BOTH PARTIES ARE WILLING

      PEOPLE MAKE THE ASSUMPTION YOU HAVE TO LIKE OR BE MADLY IN LOVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE EVERYDAY IN ORDER FOR MARRIAGE TO WORK, BUT THAT’S SO NOT TRUE, IT’S THE COMMITMENT TO REMAIN AND WORK AT THE MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY AND SPECIFICALLY WHEN IT SEEMS THE MOST DIFFICULT, WHILE REMEMBERING THIS TOO SHALL PASS..

    • Trendsetter

      free says:

      so possib has a pic of ursh, grace, and the fam and grace looks much younger….

      _______________________________________

      I just saw the pic…and she does look much younger

    • http://Www.yallaintchit.com Man, I just don’t care™

      “When Thomas Dexter “The Walrus” Jackleg’s son was caught in the park, he just kept on jerking off looking at the officer”
      ___________

      When did :jack: off in the restroom become illegal??
      :blink:

      The officer should have been charged for invasion of privacy!

    • dancerbee93

      Want that boost house incident across from his daddy mega church :think:

    • Ty

      Morning All :wave:

      @ Free…So Grace got her face tuned up :think:

    • dancerbee93

      Damn auto complete on this here phone..grrr

    • capricorn83

      I actually agree @Intense!!!

    • BigCityGirl

      Man…these Ministers are so busy paying attention to the mega house that they are forgetting to pay attention to THEIR house!

      Sorry to hear about the divorce….smh

    • DoNotDeleteMe

      He was not in the bathroom…he was IN THE OPEN IN A PARK!

    • KayCeiSoul

      lovezoe says:

      Anyone know anything about Detroit and hotels? I may surprise hubby with tickets for the Lions game.

      **********************************************

      Hey lovezoe!

      Was it you whose hubby is from one of the surrounding cities?

      Anyhoo, the Westin is cool, but the best rooms are actually in the casino (Motor City). Plush, and reasonable.

      Otherwise, you’ll be driving a country mile to the suburbs for anything else.

    • DoNotDeleteMe

      …and the park is a known hangout where gay men go to engage in open air s*x!

    • http://www.landofpure.net Fayla aka IWhipIt..WhipItRealGood:)

      Luvn :lol: i damn sure hope so! all this pain i need some mf GAIN ya hurd meh? :buttshake:

      TY :love: sup suga?

    • free

      Ty says:

      Morning All :wave:

      @ Free…So Grace got her face tuned up

      ********************

      it ain’t tuned up but she looks much better with a refreshing smile. maybe because we’ve seen her all booted up in the past.

    • KayCeiSoul

      Hey err’body! :hug:

      Happy Monday :heart:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Good Morning Intense and i agree w/your above thoughts 100%

    • DoNotDeleteMe

      “Jermaine Donnell Jakes, 29, faces a charge of indecent exposure after allegedly exposing himself in front of two undercover vice detectives shortly after 10 p.m. on Jan. 3. Senior Cpl. Janice Crowther, a DPD spokeswoman, confirmed Thursday, Feb. 12 that the detectives were both male. According to an arrest affidavit, the detectives were conducting an investigation into citizen complaints of sexual activity when they observed Jakes and several other unknown males park their vehicles in the lot east of the park at 2106 W. Kiest Blvd. The detectives followed Jakes into a wooded area, where he approached them with his penis exposed through his unzipped pants, the affidavit states. Jakes masturbated for several seconds while making eye contact with one of the detectives. Jakes made no attempt to conceal his penis despite people walking and jogging on a trail nearby, the affidavit states. According to court records, Jermaine Jakes listed his place of employment as T.D. Jakes Ministries.”

    • lovezoe

      KAYCEI- yep! That’s me. Thank you I will check those out.

    • KayCeiSoul

      Divorce happens. :coffee:

      If it’s over it’s over – i’on care whose leasdership you’re under.

      I was never for staying with someone that made you miserable. Shoo fly, shoo!

    • QueenSJ

      Hello everyone! :waves:

      You can’t be serious about marriage when the wedding or an “image” is more important. Lesson learned, I hope…

    • Natasha38

      :thumbsup: Intense

      Good Morning again everyone :happy:

    • dancerbee93

      Morning ty

    • Trendsetter

      Good Morning :hug:

      Ty
      Kay

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      GOOD MORNING :waves: SR FAM

    • Ty

      Morning Fay :hug:

      :dead: @ the gravi

    • Milky

      lovezoe says:

      Anyone know anything about Detroit and hotels? I may surprise hubby with tickets for the Lions game.

      I live in Detroit, The Westin, Doubletree, RenCen(kinda pricey)and Marriott. These all are located downtown, so there wouldn’t be a big commute to the game. I hope that helps!

    • Ty

      free says:

      Ty says:

      Morning All

      @ Free…So Grace got her face tuned up

      ********************

      it ain’t tuned up but she looks much better with a refreshing smile. maybe because we’ve seen her all booted up in the past.
      _____________
      Let me go see :pc: If Grace looks young she has been nipped and tucked somewhere

    • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

      Morning everybody :waves:

    • lakiesha76

      Ok sandra i love ya but you went to far on this one? Even if you wait for love doesny guarentee so dont act like it does.

    • FuturedocDonte

      Auntie Finally!!!! Some dark skin glories :yes:

    • Trendsetter

      Morning Glory has to much damn make up on….

    • Milky

      Why is the Morning Trainwreck taking pics in a city dump? Tacky Tacky. Girl Bye!

    • luVn_liFe…

      OH O Morning Glory is up!

    • Milky

      and she look like a Tranny very trannylicious!!!

    • cougar lover

      he shoulda just got a couple of good ol round the way dymes, and he woulda been good. i just don’t see the point of rushing into marriage when you are a young millionaire.

    • lovezoe

      Duck faces are so last year…

    • Natasha38

      :cosign: Trend

      I’m not feeling those white shoes but to each their own….

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ummmh she lookes as Manly as JOSE!!!!

    • Milky

      cougar lover says:

      he shoulda just got a couple of good ol round the way dymes, and he woulda been good. i just don’t see the point of rushing into marriage when you are a young millionaire.

      ___________________________________________

      becuz it looked better marrying a preachers daughter.

    • bumblebee

      Morning Glory reminds me of Phaedra in the pic with the white hat.

      Morning Roses!

    • KayCeiSoul

      She looks like that one character on “Drawn Together”. :coffee:

    • KDub

      My dearest Janae:

      The mother in me says…

      If’n YEW…dont get out that FUGGIN JUNKYARD posing…with white on and open toed shoes…before you get dirty AND/OR step on something and need a tetanus shot. :nono:

      Your sister in Christ

      Kdub

      Sandra we need a medical minute on tetanus.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPgpRw9tiuM bnatural

      KDub says:

      My dearest Janae:

      The mother in me says…

      If’n YEW…dont get out that FUGGIN JUNKYARD posing…with white on and open toed shoes…before you get dirty AND/OR step on something and need a tetanus shot.

      Your sister in Christ

      Kdub

      Sandra we need a medical minute on tetanus.

      ————————

      I was about the write about that junk yard background….she has on too much make-up….way too much…

      That’s all I got :coffee:

    • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

      That Morning Glory :no:
      I thought Auntie said send in professional photos.
      I’m tempted to send some pictures in now..now

    • brownsuggababe76

      Good morning SR Fam..

      Morning glory is a pretty lady minus the white shoes & the sharpie eye browz, makes her look tranny..I wish this fad w/these damn drawed on browz would go away… :shrugs:

    • Ms.Fashion

      I have seen the pic of Grace and yeah she still look the same to me.

      Is her son and Usher the same age???? Chileeeee :coffee:

    • lovezoe

      Prince Harry is being targeted for death in Afghanistan … so says a rep for the Taliban (yes, they have a rep).

      Harry — a helicopter pilot in the British military — is currently on a 4 month tour in Afghanistan … where he is reportedly fighting Taliban insurgents on the front lines.

      Obviously, his presence has pissed off the Taliban … and now terrorist spokesman Zabihullah Mujahid tells Reuters the group has made it a top priority to kill or kidnap the Prince.

      “We are using all our strength to get rid of him, either by killing or kidnapping,” Mujahid said during a phone interview either conducted in a cave … or a suburb in Pakistan.

      During the interview, Mujahid referred to the Taliban plans as the “Harry Operations” … added, “We have informed our commanders in Helmand to do whatever they can to eliminate him.”

      –______________________

      Why would the send him over there in the first place?

    • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

      KayCeiSoul says:

      She looks like that one character on “Drawn Together”.
      ______________________
      Yasssssss!!!

    • lovezoe

      Where is this picture of Grace and Mama Boy?

    • Ms. YaYa

      Why is the morning glory taking pics at Honey Boo Boo’s favorite shopping spot? It’s just not right :no:

    • Such A F’n Lady

      In regards to the Mornin’ Glory post: When are women (and some men) gonna learn if your eyebrows look like they’ve been drawn on, you’ve gone too far. :nono:

    • http://twitter.com/_Tainted_Love Tainted_Love

      @lovezoe He wanted to go. I read the Queen was against it

    • KayCeiSoul

      @ Pryti – Ummm hmmm! Don’t she!? YOU know who I’m talm’bout. :rofl:

    • Such A F’n Lady

      Anywoo, Mornin’ all! :waves:

      One more day til I’m 30 (again). :buttshake:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost: Evas Questions

    • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

      Well we all know thats how the cookie crumbles…I dated and NFL player for almost 3 years and the stories I have most of you would not even beleive…

    • OutsidetheBox

      They shouldve never given you niggas instagram. :no: :kona:

    • KayCeiSoul

      Such A F’n Lady says:

      In regards to the Mornin’ Glory post: When are women (and some men) gonna learn if your eyebrows look like they’ve been drawn on, you’ve gone too far.

      *****************************

      I know a chic that would shave her real ones off only to draw them bishes back on again. I am still baffled as to why this was repeatedly occuring.

      And if this Morning Glory EVER gains ANY weight, she will become Niecy Nash. :coffee:

    • FTP

      the morning glory.. well the comments are off that says it all :grin: #sandraknowsherrosestotheT

    • prynsexxx

      Ms. YaYa says:

      Why is the morning glory taking pics at Honey Boo Boo’s favorite shopping spot?
      ______________________

      :yes:

      *looks closely to see if I see June, Sugabear and Honey Boo Boo ride by* :steer: :pigsfly:

    • KayCeiSoul

      Keesh says:

      Well we all know thats how the cookie crumbles…I dated and NFL player for almost 3 years and the stories I have most of you would not even beleive…

      *****************************************

      I will put money into a PayPal account for you to please share. :coffee:
      You need to g’won and write a book.

    • FTP

      Is that my Tio Pedro tire shop she posing in? :think:

    • prynsexxx

      …and :cosign: with whomever said she looks like Phaedra and a tranny.

      :think: was her name actually James instead of Janae?

      The car pic was/is cute though.

    • prynsexxx

      :hi: @FTP :wink:

    • FTP

      :offtopic: This blueberry muffin is the sh!t..

    • FTP

      @Pryn :hi:

    • http://www.twitter.com/callmemiich PrytiBrownIs

      KayCeiSoul says:

      @ Pryti – Ummm hmmm! Don’t she!? YOU know who I’m talm’bout.
      __________________
      She looks EXACTLY like her!!!

    • Milky

      an older lady that works with me draws her eyebrows in of course grey colored becuz she is older. She has to go out and smoke every 15 mn. It was raining on day and she came back in from smoking and her eyebrows were running. I couldn’t do anything, but laugh for a few min. then I told her. She was so embarrassed. I kept thinking this couldn’t have been the first time this has happened!

    • FTP

      So I was reading about this Aldie store here on SR.. I went yesterday and i think I LUV IT! :love: I was lost with the quarter thing.. and the no bags.. but errthang else was soo much cheaper :yahoo:

    • FTP

      It was raining on day and she came back in from smoking and her eyebrows were running
      ^^ Sharpie is ur amigo.. won’t smear :coffee: Or do it MIJA esstile and tatto them sh!t in :lol:

    • KayCeiSoul

      It was raining on day and she came back in from smoking and her eyebrows were running.

      ********************************

      :wail:

      Milky – don’t do this to me again. Please. :dead:

    • Ty

      @ Zoe…he has been volunteering for a while in other areas but he shouldn’t be over there. Im sure someone is watching over him :coffee:

    • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

      MORNING GLORY ONCE SHE SOFTENS THE MAKE UP COULD MAKE IT AS A MODEL, PLUS SHE’S A PRETTY GIRL AND SEEMS TO BE IN SHAPE

    • Milky

      KayCeiSoul says:

      It was raining on day and she came back in from smoking and her eyebrows were running.

      ********************************

      Milky – don’t do this to me again. Please.

      __________________________________________

      Sorry but it is the truth. Hilarious but 100% true. I work with alot of yts. im the youngest and only black. the stories that i could tell….

    • Destinee

      Cuz they want to hurry and have sex, that is why they can’t wait. We are living in a society where we need instant gratification. We don’t want to work for what we have.