Video: Gabrielle Union explains why so many successful women are lonely (and why she dates a much younger man)

Justthefab.com bumped into actress Gabrielle Union at the UrbanWorld Film festival this past weekend.

When asked why she thinks so many successful, intelligent, independent black women are single, Gabby said, “I think [women] struggle” with giving power to men.

“My girlfriends and I are very independent,” said Union, 40. “We’ve been doing it WELL on our own for a long time, and sometimes that’s hard to give up a little power — to sort of acquiesce to another person and let somebody else lead sometimes — or all the time.”

Union, who is probably more familiar with being successful and lonely than most women, explained why she chose to date a much younger man (NBA star Dwyane Wade).

“Men who are in our age range also have a lot of options (read: gold diggers), and maybe sometimes it’s easier to go younger with a lot less expectation,” she said.

Gabby, who has put her storied dating history behind her, has been in a longterm relationship with Wade, 30, who left his wife for her. Union has had to dodge home wrecker accusations but she understands that most women will identify with the scorned ex-wife rather than with the woman who saved a young man from a bad marriage.

Union summed it all up by saying, “We’re up against a lot, but I think the person we see in the mirror is our biggest obstacle.”

Very well said!

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    213 Responses to “Video: Gabrielle Union explains why so many successful women are lonely (and why she dates a much younger man)”

    1. 1
      Xena68 says:

      Let the comments roll in :lol:

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      Aryanna says:

      I admit, I do struggle with that as well. I wont let a guy buy anything for me.. I guess be/c I have the mentality of ” He spends, you owe.” I try to break out of that. but I was raised by my mother.. and she held it down by herself. So I learned to be independent naturally.

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      Xena68 says:

      she understands that most women will identify with the scorned ex-wife rather than with the woman who saved a young man from a bad marriage.

      :rofl:

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      Trendsetter says:

      :tea:

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      i dont like Gabs liquid pancake/foundation whatever the hayle its called.Her dress is seXXXy doe. I dont care enough for her to listen to what she has to say :shrug: I just dont

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      WUT'S YONI IS DELICIOUS WITH COOL WHIP says:

      Somebody needs to sit her tits out in the sun for a few minutes… :coffee:

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      gypsyeyes says:

      Sorry but she told the truff! and she aint 40 yet!

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      :lol: she is an expert now?

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      WUT'S YONI IS DELICIOUS WITH COOL WHIP says:

      Have to lurk now see yall later… or tomorrow… :hug:

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      NaijaGal says:

      :whistle:
      How many ladies in the house?
      How many ladies in the house without a spouse?
      Somethin’ in your blouse got me feelin’ so aroused

      What you about on that independent ****
      Trade it all for a husband and some kids
      You ever wonder what it all really mean
      You wonder if you’ll ever find your dreams

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      Xena68 says:

      You have to let a man be the head I think a lot of us were raised by single parents and we saw them do it by themselves them we get the mentality that I only need a man for one thing and that’s just not true in this day and age both sexes no longer know their roles anymore

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      Bad Influence says:

      i mean…did the red sea part? did the bish turn water into wine *holds out my glass* :rollseyes: she aint saying shyt that anybody else hasnt said…girl, see yewwwwwwww..

      i hate when someone “known” says some regular ass shyt and im s’posed to be impressed :lol:

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      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      Frank Ski was just talkn about this on the radio earlier this week about the single independent women in ATL :tea:

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      MIAmixtapes says:

      If hard to let someone lead sometimes….right pretty sure u had no problems being lead to the bedroom :rolleyes: but anyways you can be independent without being inconsiderate to a your SO’s feeling.

    19. 19
      MIAmixtapes says:

      If hard to let someone lead sometimes….right pretty sure u had no problems being lead to the bedroom :rolleyes: but anyways you can be independent without being inconsiderate to a your SO’s feeling.

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      YSoSrs says:

      I don’t know my role or how to shut my mouth so I will be single for the foreseeable future. :coffee:

    21. 21
      Bad Influence says:

      and she needs to be discussing her vitilago (sp?) tidday anydamnways..

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      Ty says:

      WUT’S YONI IS DELICIOUS WITH COOL WHIP says:

      Somebody needs to sit her tits out in the sun for a few minutes…
      ___________
      :rofl:

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      dancerbee93 says:

      Union summed it all up by saying, “We’re up against a lot, but I think the person we see in the mirror is our biggest obstacle.”

      —————-
      oh so nooowww we quoting MJ songs as advice?? :coffee:

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      yallcrazy says:

      I like the dress. My boobs would look good in it. #itiswhatitis :grill:

      <—Ain't even trying to hear what she talmbout though :no:

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      gypsyeyes says:

      Please exit stage left @Bad!

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      I hate it when somebody foundation dont mach they dam skin.. :lol:

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      NaijaGal says:

      Bad Influence says:

      i mean…did the red sea part? did the bish turn water into wine *holds out my glass* she aint saying shyt that anybody else hasnt said…girl, see yewwwwwwww..

      i hate when someone “known” says some regular ass shyt and im s’posed to be impressed
      ++++++++++++++++++++
      ^^^THIS all day…look both ways before you cross the street…no chit

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      Gigi26 says:

      Men who are in our age range also have a lot of options (read: gold diggers)

      :rofl: Sandra you are a mess!!

      I agree with this slore. I mean, i’m independent (I don’t like asking anyone for anything and I was raised in a 2 parent household) but I do not let that get in the way of letting a man be a man. Its funny that all the blame on why we are lonely gets put on us. How about we check these negroes out? Huh? Ask why they would rather wife up a bustdown instead of a good woman, or why they feel like we have lower our standards for em? Or why so many of them have these unrealistic views on what their perfect woman should be?

      I see it alll the time here in DC :tea:

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      YSoSrs says:

      I don’t know my role or how to shut my mouth so I will be single for the foreseeable future.
      ————————

      :lol:

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      MrsWDE says:

      I was an independent woman and it took me a long time to let my husband “think” he is running things.

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      Smonae80 says:

      She need to sit her two-toned azz down

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      Gigi26 says:

      YALL Ain’t SHYT for that Vitilago titay reference!!

      :dead:

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      FeFe says:

      <—-has no problem letting the man lead….I just have a hard time finding men who actually WANT to… :coffee:

    34. 34
      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      I finished my bag of david’s pumpkin seeds before lunch! :wail:

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      yallcrazy says:

      I KNOW I run it (in every relationship) BUT I let them believe they run it. Ish ain’t rocket science, gone somewhere gabbrielle!

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      MIAmixtapes says:
      If hard to let someone lead sometimes….right pretty sure u had no problems being lead to the bedroom
      ~ ~ ~ ~ :rofl:
      Bad Influence says:
      and she needs to be discussing her vitilago (sp?) tidday anydamnways..

      ~ ~ ~ ~ :ghost:

    37. 37
      lexdiamonz says:

      Union, who is probably more familiar with being successful and lonely than most women

      :dead:

      OKAY she is doing too much talking DWade MUST be creeping again

      yall independent women keep doing it BIG!!! BY YOUR DAMN self…..

      :rofl:

      there is a difference between independent and interdependent…. GOOGLE it!!! yall younger ladies got to let a man be a MAN !!! it is too bad some of them never had proper training how but YOU can’t make or teach him how to be one

      signed HAPPILY,married for 21 years

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      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @ Xena I agree we as women need to let your man be the MAN in the relationship.

      @Yso I have the same problem knowing when to shut my mouth but luckily my man is use to it by now.

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      4xALady says:

      Wait…are we discussing why there are so many SINGLE independent women or why there are so many SUCCESSFUL and single independent women?

      Cause the addition of that ONE word breaks it into two different types of problems with two different causes.

      Just saying…

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      Ty says:

      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      I hate it when somebody foundation dont mach they dam skin..
      __________
      Lakes a coworker purchased some bleaching cream online and her face was light skinned and her neck was Akon’s complexion. I laughed at her azz for about a month. That shyt had her looking like Doug Christie (Powder) :rofl:

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      Bad Influence says:

      @Gyps, why i gotta go?? :cuss: im a nice person..

      @Naija, mhm…i could have done without this post..

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      yallcrazy says:

      Yup GG!

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      candibfly says:

      is that baby powder on her tit? :shrugs:

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      gypsyeyes says:

      I tried to date he would I would only see him like about 2-3 hours at a time. My kids were gone for the weekend and he came over I swear at the 3 hour mark I wanted him to go home. That nig got comfy.I asked if he was tynna stay and he looked all stoopit! Needless to say I don’t see a relationship brewing cause I don’t like ppl enough.

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      TY :rofl: HOW UR FACE POWDER WHITE AND UR ESSKING BOO BLACK? :huh: OR UR DAM ESSKING SEE THRU BUT UR FACE ORANGE OR PANK? :rofl:

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      Natasha38 says:

      Gigi26 says:

      Men who are in our age range also have a lot of options (read: gold diggers)
      Sandra you are a mess!!
      I agree with this slore. I mean, i’m independent (I don’t like asking anyone for anything and I was raised in a 2 parent household) but I do not let that get in the way of letting a man be a man. Its funny that all the blame on why we are lonely gets put on us. How about we check these negroes out? Huh? Ask why they would rather wife up a bustdown instead of a good woman, or why they feel like we have lower our standards for em? Or why so many of them have these unrealistic views on what their perfect woman should be?
      I see it alll the time here in DC

      ^^^^^^^^

      :applause: right there with you Gigi…

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      Bad Influence says:

      awww Gigi i aspire 2 be shyt :hug: :hahaha:

      hey LuVn_ :waves:

      @$! my bish *bewb grab* :love:

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      yallcrazy says:

      Fat Girl :D

      Ain’t nobody thinking about what gabby’s talking about. She don’t even know :rofl:

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      dancerbee93 says:

      @Bad right!! Jut cuz a celebrity said it noooowww everybody acts like they God of relationships..Likkkeee Steve Harvey…ohhh sooo you chics finna take relationship advice from a stand up comedian that used hedging shears for a line up :rolleyes:

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      lexdiamonz says:

      dancerbee93 says:

      oh so nooowww we quoting MJ songs as advice??

      umm SASHAY your azz to the —-> :kona:

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      yanibunny02 says:

      Have a __/ boo… I cant rock with this broad.. :nono:

    52. 52
      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      << HMMPH!

    53. 53
      yallcrazy says:

      Twin :2dance: Nothing Compares To You :grill:

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      candibfly says:

      i can’t stand steve harvey *throws a shoe* :mad:

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      NaijaGal says:

      the guys that are usually complaining about ‘independent women’ are the ain’t chit nigguhs so ummm yeah… :yawn: no other ish happening in the media

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      candibfly says:

      twin :2dance: <— diamonds and pearls

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      :yawn:

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      I Go There says:

      Gigi26 says:

      Men who are in our age range also have a lot of options (read: gold diggers)

      Sandra you are a mess!!

      I agree with this slore. I mean, i’m independent (I don’t like asking anyone for anything and I was raised in a 2 parent household) but I do not let that get in the way of letting a man be a man. Its funny that all the blame on why we are lonely gets put on us. How about we check these negroes out? Huh? Ask why they would rather wife up a bustdown instead of a good woman, or why they feel like we have lower our standards for em? Or why so many of them have these unrealistic views on what their perfect woman should be?

      _________________________________________________________

      It aint even enough time in the day for all them questions GiGi
      but the busted Down chic question is an easy one.

      It might be kinda hard to get from a womans POV but its easy to figure out…

      IMO..i think the roles of women has changed so much in the last 50 years that some dude dont know where to fit in.

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      AWESOME says:

      :peace: *hoards every pixel in your gravi*

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      Gigi26 says:

      Jut cuz a celebrity said it noooowww everybody acts like they God of relationships..Likkkeee Steve Harvey…ohhh sooo you chics finna take relationship advice from a stand up comedian that used hedging shears for a line up

      OR that former reformed whore Meghan Goode. Her hubby probably baptizes her sodomite ass every day, that’s how filthy she is :lol:

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      mizzdallas says:

      Chile cheese! She ain’t saying nothing new…

      S/N: @gigi I will be in d.c. in december for the first time, I’m actually going to see syleena johnson perform. I’m so excited!

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      yallcrazy says:

      52.Is that a CHALLENGE Laker? :rofl:

      *starts whooping piggie to get her fired up*

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      YSoSrs says:

      @TY

      You just had to find Sharpie Lo’s little brother for your Gravi? That Negro always copycatting. Ever since they was drawing their hairlines with Crayolas. :mad:

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      dancerbee93 says:

      yall younger ladies got to let a man be a MAN
      —————-
      For example.. Stop bringin your strap on in the bedroom… let his ****le be great for once dammit!

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      4xALady says:

      Steve Harveys movie/book was basically common fukking sense that our mamas, grandmamas, grandmamas mamas, and grandmamas grandmama’s been telling us for CENTURIES.

      He aint originate a thing! It’s just these silly tramps would rather listen to him because he has a penis and therefore, he simply MUST be dropping some new wisdom.

      :eyeroll:

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      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      I hate it when somebody foundation dont mach they dam skin..
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      That chit is so annoying ol powder face azz UGH

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      FeFe says:

      @AWESOME

      I swear I love your gravie! :lol:

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      candibfly says:

      awesome! *whispersing come hither words in ur ear*

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      Gigi26 says:

      IMO..i think the roles of women has changed so much in the last 50 years that some dude dont know where to fit in.
      ——————————————–

      I agree with you or some of em are so mammy-fied that they don’t want to fit in….

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      lexdiamonz says:

      dancerbee93 says:

      @Bad right!! Jut cuz a celebrity said it noooowww everybody acts like they God of relationships..Likkkeee Steve Harvey…ohhh sooo you chics finna take relationship advice from a stand up comedian that used hedging shears for a line up

      :rofl:

      GIRL didn’t i send you to the :kona: YOU BOUTS to get me fired I am in here laughing all loud BECKY getting nervous!!!

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      Ty says:

      YSoSrs says:

      @TY

      You just had to find Sharpie Lo’s little brother for your Gravi? That Negro always copycatting. Ever since they was drawing their hairlines with Crayolas.
      __________________
      :crying: They’ve stepped their game up :rofl:

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      yallcrazy says:

      candibfly says:

      i can’t stand steve harvey *throws a shoe* :mad:

      “Back by popular demand. You asked for it! He added another show just for you”

      Them commercials :wtf:

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      wait GG…Megan Good was sloring it around? i must have missed it…cause i know it was absolute news to me when she got married :blink:

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Brown :lol: I see im not the only one.. But then agaane I dont konw shait about no makeup :lol:
      YALL **BEATS UR PIGGY WITH MY GRAVI CANE** NOW CATCH UP! :pigsfly:

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      Ty says:

      dancerbee93 says:

      yall younger ladies got to let a man be a MAN
      —————-
      For example.. Stop bringin your strap on in the bedroom… let his ****le be great for once dammit!
      _______________
      :dead: :rofl:

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      YSoSrs says:

      Michelle Obama is here in Chicago and she will be taping for Steve Harvey’s new show. :no:

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      NaijaGal says:

      4xALady says:

      Steve Harveys movie/book was basically common fukking sense that our mamas, grandmamas, grandmamas mamas, and grandmamas grandmama’s been telling us for CENTURIES.

      He aint originate a thing! It’s just these silly tramps would rather listen to him because he has a penis and therefore, he simply MUST be dropping some new wisdom.
      =========================
      :bow: cause unless this nigguh works the 3rd shift, he’s only calling your ass at 1am for 1 thing only…but I digress

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      Gigi26 says:

      I will be in d.c. in december for the first time, I’m actually going to see syleena johnson perform. I’m so excited!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

      Yaay!! Ahh where is she performing? I want to help her upgrade her look :lol:

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      4xALady says:

      Steve Harveys movie/book was basically common fukking sense that our mamas, grandmamas, grandmamas mamas, and grandmamas grandmama’s been telling us for CENTURIES.

      He aint originate a thing! It’s just these silly tramps would rather listen to him because he has a penis and therefore, he simply MUST be dropping some new wisdom.
      —————
      :applause:

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      yallcrazy says:

      MsDallas, I like her voice! :yes:
      Igo, I agree, because these cats don’t know ish! Gotta date up nowadays :shrug:

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      NaijaGal says:

      YSoSrs says:

      Michelle Obama is here in Chicago and she will be taping for Steve Harvey’s new show.
      =====================
      NNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO…now I’m sad

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      This nanner with penut butter is hitting the fukn esspot! :danban:

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      I Go There says:

      Gigi26 says:

      IMO..i think the roles of women has changed so much in the last 50 years that some dude dont know where to fit in.
      ——————————————–

      I agree with you or some of em are so mammy-fied that they don’t want to fit in….

      __________________

      But thats when you gotta look at the Women that claimed they dont need a man…then put all of their attention on their sons. :shrug:

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      Gigi26 says:

      But thats when you gotta look at the Women that claimed they dont need a man…then put all of their attention on their sons.

      Yup. Won’t argue with you there sir :yes:

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      yallcrazy says:

      Laker I can’t see gravis :wail:

      BUT it’s ON! :pigsfly: (fitted with helium panteez and bra set)

      *yells out Sucka as I pass you by* :nana:

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      lexdiamonz says:

      yeah HOW did Megan Good (head) MANAGE to get married and to the REVEREND at that BEFORE ALL THESE HO’S !!!!!

      OMG PLEASE look at the dude’s relationship with his mother first I ALMOST was expecting Jonetta to tongue-kiss USHER on O special she act like he is HER MAN not her son TAMEKA should have SAW THAT SHYT walking before she got with him!!!!

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      @NikkeMinxx says:

      Feefster! #33 :cosign: Big difference between being independent and not having anyone to depend on…..

      Feef, what’s your email address please?

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      4xALady says:

      Also….

      A lot of successful women are single because simply put: their standards are probably higher.

      A lot of men choose bustdowns instead of good women because: their standards are lower.

      Qui-Qui is okay with Lil Ray staying home most of the day, playing playstation, eating up all the Cap’N Crunch and drinking the milk straight out the carton. He takes her to the movie and Red Lobster once a month, blows her back out nightly and they’ll live happily ever after because Qui-Qui would rather have Lil Ray than nobody. He’s good just because he doesn’t cheat or beat her.

      Rhonda with a job paying over $70k is probably going to want Raymond to contribute to the bills, help save money for a NEW house, go half on vacation, give nice gifts for holidays/bdays and STILL blow her back out nightly. As well as still be loyal, faithful and gentle.

      Plainly put: There will always be a lot of Rhonda’s out here, as long as there are plenty of Qui-Qui’s to meet the demand. Qui-Qui requires less.

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      This nanner with penut butter is hitting the fukn esspot!
      —————-
      <— misses the nanner :wail: forgive me…i'm emotional and chit today. :tea:

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      yallcrazy says:

      Where does he film Yso? Do you know? IONO

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      Oh, yall really don’t like Gabby huh?!? :lol:

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      Gigi26 says:

      @Razzle: Meghan was got fukked off by a couple of rappers and some football players.

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      @FeFe
      :whistle: I can change your life if you let me

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      MissHarlem says:

      :spank: 4 & YSO yall know why :coffee:

      HELLO EVERYONE :waves:

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      AWESOME says:

      Candi!!! :kiss: *starts and episode that would make @Wut blush*

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      dancerbee93 says:

      But thats when you gotta look at the Women that claimed they dont need a man…then put all of their attention on their sons.

      —————
      :preach: Even they damn sons be like “you aint got no dyck life line momma?” :shrug:

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      @NikkeMinxx says:

      Hey 4! Why Rhonda gotta pay half on the vacay though? LOL.

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Razzle no need fo tears **gives u a chiqita banana** why juu all up in ur feelings? :kiss:

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      I’m married and don’t feel I NEED a man. There is not one thing my husband can do with me or for me that I wouldn’t be able to accomplish alone. Nothing. :tea:

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      NaijaGal says:

      4xALady says:

      Also….

      A lot of successful women are single because simply put: their standards are probably higher.

      A lot of men choose bustdowns instead of good women because: their standards are lower.

      Qui-Qui is okay with Lil Ray staying home most of the day, playing playstation, eating up all the Cap’N Crunch and drinking the milk straight out the carton. He takes her to the movie and Red Lobster once a month, blows her back out nightly and they’ll live happily ever after because Qui-Qui would rather have Lil Ray than nobody. He’s good just because he doesn’t cheat or beat her.

      Rhonda with a job paying over $70k is probably going to want Raymond to contribute to the bills, help save money for a NEW house, go half on vacation, give nice gifts for holidays/bdays and STILL blow her back out nightly. As well as still be loyal, faithful and gentle.

      Plainly put: There will always be a lot of Rhonda’s out here, as long as there are plenty of Qui-Qui’s to meet the demand. Qui-Qui requires less.
      =============================
      :yes: …you should never be with an “At Least” Nigguh…at least he got a job…at least he see all his kids…at least he don’t beat me, etc

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      Gigi26 says:

      @Razzle: Meghan was got fukked off by a couple of rappers and some football players.
      ==============
      this must have been when she gained that weight and was addicted to those fat pills :think:

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      @NikkeMinxx says:

      Alottadat! :danban:

      @Wut.. Look into self publishing and selling your short stories on amazon…. They have a kindle area for that…

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      gypsyeyes says:

      Steve Harvey’s book only made me mad cause women were reading it and thinking it was the bible. He wasn’t telling any secrets. That shyt was common sense and because he was known and a man women thought he was letting on some man codes. No maam. This is what you should have already known.He found a market and tapped into it and it worked for him. Not mad at hustle at all. I bet them same women that followed those rules are still single.

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      yallcrazy says:

      As long as there is a low-esteem bishes out there, ahhh never mind, yall already know this ish…..

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      FeFe says:

      @Nikke

      Yeeepppp…all my life I’ve dealt with men who COULD be better, but they were so dependent on my strong suits that they happily got complacent…I was ready to step back and let them take the lead, but the drive on their part just wasn’t there…now hubby wants to wear an ‘S’ on his chest after he done showed his ass and abused me in more ways than one…now he wanna be super husband and shyt… :lol: muhfukka still ain’t capable in my eyes!

      email is caramelcomplex hotmail

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      4xALady says:

      @Gigi/IGo

      Oh wait….boo…look here!

      Don’t even get me started on these mammy-fied men who scream how they are supposed to be “head of the household” and the “man of the house” and you need to “let them be a man” and aint got nary a fukkin CLUE on what that means!

      I just ranted and raved about that with my friends for two days STRAIGHT last week! Don’t get me started! It’s an issue I’m having now. And for that reason, I probably will not ever date/deal with another man who did not have a strong and lasting REAL male presence in the house.

      I could type a damn thesis on my issue with this topic right now.

      Chilee!!

      *walks off to go get some wine to calm down*

    108. 108
      I Go There says:

      Igo, I agree, because these cats don’t know ish! Gotta date up nowadays
      ____________________________________________

      It aint that they dont know?
      Its just that we are only gonna give you what you let us.
      But most of yall dont know your roll with what dude

      For instance
      A chic could be talking to two dudes right?
      Well one dude she’s just fking and hes the 2am Im gonna call you late and come through and beat it up dude. (AND not that there is anything wrong with that.. cause yall need to get it in too)

      But the second dude is the dude you go out with
      chill with and hang with…he respects you.
      and most of the time the chic has him on some “we aint fking until Im ready shait”

      Ole girl REALLY wants the 2 a.m. dude but dont realize that she is in the 3rd role (which I like to call the bust down role)
      and MOST dont go up the role ladder Just DOWN.

      She picking the wrong dude to set her sights on… :shrug:

    109. 109
      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Razzle no need fo tears **gives u a chiqita banana** why juu all up in ur feelings?
      ———
      oh I wasnt talking about the fruit :ashamed:

    110. 110
      MsB says:

      NaijaGal says:

      …you should never be with an “At Least” Nigguh…at least he got a job…at least he see all his kids…at least he don’t beat me, etc

      __________________________________________________________________

      :cosign:

    111. 111
      NaijaGal says:

      Alex ain’t never met no Martin LuthadaKing says:

      @FeFe
      I can change your life if you let me
      ====================
      :popcorn:

    112. 112
      yallcrazy says:

      ALEX :yahoo:

      :woohoo:

      :dance:

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      Gigi26 says:

      Qui-Qui is okay with Lil Ray staying home most of the day, playing playstation, eating up all the Cap’N Crunch and drinking the milk straight out the carton. He takes her to the movie and Red Lobster once a month, blows her back out nightly and they’ll live happily ever after because Qui-Qui would rather have Lil Ray than nobody. He’s good just because he doesn’t cheat or beat her.
      ————————————————————–
      I hatechu :crying: but truth! That’s what i’m trying to say, I know the answers to these questions but Gabby ain’t saying shyt that her own ass had to learn. Lets stop asking women this shyt and start asking these niggas. After all, they the ones choosing aren’t they? :tea:

    114. 114
      luVn_liFe... says:

      Alex ain’t never met no Martin LuthadaKing says:
      Oh, yall really don’t like Gabby huh?!?
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      I just dont like her pancake on her Face.

    115. 115
      Ms.Fashion says:

      Well can she explain why she look casket sharp in the face?? :shrug:

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      MsDivaRo says:

      *kicks in this door looking for Luvn*

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      4xALady says:

      @Nikke

      (Shhh! I was trying to say “half” before the men in here pounced on the whole “but wait- why he gotta pay for the WHOLE thing?!” rant. Trying to get 10 points for the ladies. Ya’ll know what I meant, though. :wink: )

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      FeFe says:

      @Alex

      :lol: :hugs: careful…folks might think we are SLEEPING together and that you are cutting my coochie :rolleyes:

    121. 121
      MsDivaRo says:

      :wave: Jenie/MsFash

    122. 122
      MissHarlem says:

      ALEX :coffee:

    123. 123
      Ms.Fashion says:

      HEYYYYYY @BADDD!!! :hug:

    124. 124
      MsDivaRo says:

      :wave: Nikki!

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      Ms.Fashion says:

      Well can she explain why she look casket sharp in the face??
      ———————-
      :hahaha:

    126. 126

      @Nikke
      :waves: Wheres’s my drink?

      @Yall
      I take it back. :yahoo:

    127. 127
      dancerbee93 says:

      :thumbsup: Igo!!! Trying to make a booty call into a relationship…flukked the game all up…These chics act like they aint neva got ****ed down good and this nucca in love with them..ohhh nooo hunty thats why he left you in the wet spot…Know your roll and he might let you use the warm towel first…might :coffee:

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      FeFe says:

      @4x

      Please don’t get the game fukked up…it all depends on the MAN! My husband came from a Huxtable type household…had an alpha male type of father who he was very close to…and he STILL had no clue on how to be a proper head of household…

    132. 132
      yallcrazy says:

      SON :2dance: How Many Yall Know About The Quake :whistle:

      We Do!

    133. 133
      Gigi26 says:

      It aint that they dont know?
      Its just that we are only gonna give you what you let us.

      :tea:

      :waves: Harlemmmmm darling!

    134. 134
      luVn_liFe... says:

      MsDivaRo says
      *kicks in this door looking for Luvn*
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      say Wut nahh??

    135. 135
      Ms.Fashion says:

      FeFe says:

      <—-has no problem letting the man lead….I just have a hard time finding men who actually WANT to…

      _____________

      :cosign: Cant scream it loud enough!!

    136. 136

      @FeFe
      *sigh* Yes, you are right. Sharing e-coochie. smh

    137. 137
      NaijaGal says:

      FeFe says:

      @Alex
      careful…folks might think we are SLEEPING together and that you are cutting my coochie
      ======================
      too late…yall are now a lesbian couple who met off sandra rose…you left your husband to be with Alex and now the Leviticus thumpers are gonna come after you…uh huh that’s right

    138. 138
      gypsyeyes says:

      Some women just have a man to say she isn’t single. I will not tolerate that at all. I can do bad by myself.

    139. 139
      YSoSrs says:

      HARLEM!!

      You know you liked that. :coffee:

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      yallcrazy says:

      :kiss: Fay

      <–knows that all men ain't ish unless they ready to be.

      Fi, their mothers screw them UP!

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Razzle eww juu nawwsti :kiss: So juu on dry island? :hug:

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      Know your roll and he might let you use the warm towel first…might

      ————–
      :hahaha:

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      FeFe says:

      @4x

      Please don’t get the game fukked up…it all depends on the MAN! My husband came from a Huxtable type household…had an alpha male type of father who he was very close to…and he STILL had no clue on how to be a proper head of household…_
      ______________
      Wow :tea:

    145. 145
      4xALady says:

      @Gigi

      “Lets stop asking women this shyt and start asking these niggas. After all, they the ones choosing aren’t they?”

      _________________

      See? THIS is the problem, though. In the traditional “male/female” roles as should be- the WOMAN is supposed to pick which MAN should lead her and carry her household.

      The govt put out some bs stats about their being a “man shortage” and all of a sudden women became okay with getting chose by whatever Rayquan, Day-Day or Peanut that liked her azz enough to bequeath her with his worthless presence, rather than CHOOSING as she is supposed to.

      THAT’S why the situation is what it is now. The above issue is what made the Qui-Qui’s. It’s just the Rhonda’s now are outnumbered by Qui-Qui’s. And with so many males being gay or such now, there is an even more panicked frenzy about “running out of men.” So every hour of every day, a new Qui-Qui who don’t want watch from her man…is created.

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      yallcrazy says:

      MissHarlem says:

      ALEX :coffee:

      :rofl: She gotchew back for me (without even knowing) :lol:

    147. 147

      @You
      I know I had dialed those 7 digits a short while ago….. :waiting:

    148. 148
      NaijaGal says:

      Alex ain’t never met no Martin LuthadaKing says:

      @Naija
      Put down that popcorn!!! lol
      =================
      :lol: see #137

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      MsB says:

      Women have allowed being Independent to be a hinderance, it is no longer a characteristic! It’s because there are a lot of women out there who won’t allow the men to be the head and that’s because he neglects the body!! What I’m saying a lot of these boys don’t know how to take care of a home because of their fathers and their neglect in teaching them to be responsible and showing them what being a MAN entails.

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      :popcorn: IDK SHAIT ABOUT NO MARRIAGE OR A MAN BEING THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE.. SO NO OPINION BUT PAYING ATTENTION :lol:

    151. 151
      yallcrazy says:

      Yso, did you see my Q?

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      FeFe says:

      @Naija

      Yep, especially since Alex talks to me on Twitter and tells me stuff…the fact that I BELIEVE that she is going to Paris next year means that I am her lover and she has wooed me with her pillow talk….that bish ain’t really going to Paris! :rofl:

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      lovezoe says:

      Scandal comes on TONIGHT!!!!!!

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      NaijaGal says:

      FeFe says:

      @Alex
      careful…folks might think we are SLEEPING together and that you are cutting my coochie
      ======================
      too late…yall are now a lesbian couple who met off sandra rose…you left your husband to be with Alex and now the Leviticus thumpers are gonna come after you…uh huh that’s right
      _______________
      :rofl: You ain’t right!!

    155. 155
      Gigi26 says:

      Trying to make a booty call into a relationship…flukked the game all up…These chics act like they aint neva got ****ed down good and this nucca in love with them..ohhh nooo hunty thats why he left you in the wet spot…Know your roll and he might let you use the warm towel first…might

      GLORAY!! You speak that word…. :lol:

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      Razzle Dazzle Boo says:

      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Razzle eww juu nawwsti So juu on dry island?
      ————————
      Thus me being emotional and chit…buzzing aint nuffun like the real thing :nono:

    157. 157
      MissHarlem says:

      GIGI darling :waves:

      MSDIVA hey boo :hug:

      MSFASHION :hug:

      SOOONNNNNNN :2dance: you stay having us jamming

    158. 158
      yallcrazy says:

      Yup MsB

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      NaijaGal says:

      How many ladies in the house?
      How many ladies in the house without a spouse?
      Somethin’ in your blouse got me feelin’ so aroused

      What you about on that independent ****
      Trade it all for a husband and some kids
      You ever wonder what it all really mean
      You wonder if you’ll ever find your dreams
      ______________________
      Hey baby girl :hug: Damn I don’t I familar with this depressing song.

      Morning Errybody :danban1:

    161. 161

      gypsyeyes says:

      Some women just have a man to say she isn’t single. I will not tolerate that at all. I can do bad by myself.
      _____________

      :preach: and some feel like they can’t go through life being single :no:

    162. 162
      4xALady says:

      *dont want much from her man

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      FeFe says:

      @Smurfette

      I can believe that…his mother babies the SHYT out of him!

    164. 164
      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Razzle no it aint :cry:

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      yallcrazy says:

      MissHarlem says:

      ALEX :coffee:

      She gotchew back for me (without even knowing)
      _______________________
      :rolleyes: Don’t nobody care bout HER!

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      yallcrazy says:

      FeFe says:

      @Naija

      Yep, especially since Alex talks to me on Twitter and tells me stuff…the fact that I BELIEVE that she is going to Paris next year means that I am her lover and she has wooed me with her pillow talk….that bish ain’t really going to Paris! :rofl:

      Ummmm Can I get jealous, to make this an all out brawl affair :rofl:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Fay :tea:

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      NaijaGal says:

      USUAL :hug: this is off Kanye’s Graduation Album…it’s called I Wonder…it’s actually quite a deep song…how are you feeling luv

    169. 169

      I saw a chick on FB yesterday bragging bout being the sideho3 to another sideho3 for the same dude :no: I was like really :blink: u think being the side is cute :huh:

    170. 170
      yallcrazy says:

      Fi, you couldn’t be my friend, I use “pillow talk” on the regular yo! :rofl:
      #ikidikid #youmyfriendinmyhead :grill:

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      dancerbee93 says:

      and some feel like they can’t go through life being single
      ——————-
      Right!! Thats why they try to put a dyck in every orafice at one time and then look at dude like why he dont love me?? BISH you loving the crew!!!

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      NaijaGal says:

      MISSH :hug: hello beautiful…so happy to have your presence :grill:

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      Gigi26 says:

      THAT’S why the situation is what it is now. The above issue is what made the Qui-Qui’s. It’s just the Rhonda’s now are outnumbered by Qui-Qui’s. And with so many males being gay or such now, there is an even more panicked frenzy about “running out of men.” So every hour of every day, a new Qui-Qui who don’t want watch from her man…is created.

      :yes: And lets not forget Rhonda’s get thirsty and desperate and turn into Qui Qui’s. Knew quite a few :tea:

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      MissHarlem says:

      YSO :yes:

      ALEX Im not at my desk which means barely no work today. Only reason why I am gonna be on here today. You aint get away :coffee:

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      FeFe says:

      @Naija

      Yep, especially since Alex talks to me on Twitter and tells me stuff…the fact that I BELIEVE that she is going to Paris next year means that I am her lover and she has wooed me with her pillow talk….that bish ain’t really going to Paris!
      ________________
      :rofl: Even after I offer you a free trip in my luggage you not gon believe me?!? It’s ok. Moving on. I was trying to be all romantical and stuff. Sheesh.

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      Gigi26 says:

      Trying to make a booty call into a relationship…flukked the game all up…These chics act like they aint neva got ****ed down good and this nucca in love with them..ohhh nooo hunty thats why he left you in the wet spot…Know your roll and he might let you use the warm towel first…might

      ___________
      I agree ith you GIGI – Some of these chics that claim they just want to get dycked down. Go in hard and then get sprung. Just be honest, and be like look I want a booty call and hopefully if you are nice I may catch feelings. It’s remarkable what honesty will do for you.

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      :newpost:

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      yallcrazy says:

      :warning: Bat sign for Kdub :lol:

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      FTP_L@kEz*.* says:

      Harlem :hug:

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      Ms.Fashion says:

      MsDivaRo says:

      Jenie/MsFash

      _________

      HEY BEW!!! :hug:

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      MsDivaRo says:

      luVn_liFe… says:

      MsDivaRo says
      *kicks in this door looking for Luvn*
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      say Wut nahh??

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Why was I left by myself two flights downstairs? Not one…but TWO!

    182. 182
      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      I don’t know where Steve’s taping his show. I know that the FLOTUS will also be stopping by Harpo Studios today. Maybe that’s where he is? I might have missed something there.

    183. 183

      dancerbee93 says:

      and some feel like they can’t go through life being single
      ——————-
      Right!! Thats why they try to put a dyck in every orafice at one time and then look at dude like why he dont love me?? BISH you loving the crew!!!
      ______________
      :preach:

    184. 184
      NaijaGal says:

      :newpost: is up involving TI & others

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      I Go There says:

      NaijaGal says:

      FeFe says:

      @Alex
      careful…folks might think we are SLEEPING together and that you are cutting my coochie
      ======================
      too late…yall are now a lesbian couple who met off sandra rose…you left your husband to be with Alex and now the Leviticus thumpers are gonna come after you…uh huh that’s right

      __________________________

      Phewwww…

      Finally out the cross hairs

      Thanks ALEX

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      FeFe says:

      @Smurfette

      :lol: I know….

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      3halos says:

      That’s the best I’ve seen delusional home-wrecker look in a while. Women (and men) kill me how they will try to overlook personal transgressions and then come off as being likeable and ‘above’ it all. At the end of the day, a thorn is still a thorn.

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      Aryanna says:

      4xALady says:

      Also….

      A lot of successful women are single because simply put: their standards are probably higher.

      A lot of men choose bustdowns instead of good women because: their standards are lower.

      _______

      AGREED

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      @You
      I don’t want to talk to you here!! :huh: I’m about to cut you loose.

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      FeFe says:

      @Alex

      I know…and I want to believe what you told me…but if I do that means we are SLEEPING together! *kicks dirt*

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      Lucky704 says:

      Bad Influence says:
      i mean…did the red sea part? did the bish turn water into wine *holds out my glass* she aint saying shyt that anybody else hasnt said…girl, see yewwwwwwww..
      i hate when someone “known” says some regular ass shyt and im s’posed to be impressed
      _________________________________________________________________________

      :cosign:

      So let me get this right because I am married means I am helpless or in need of guidance? I think she has her definition of union mixed up. I get so sick of hearing women being labeled due to their relationship status; being single does not give you a fuking extra prize in the Cracker Jack box. Anytime you are a women handling your business with or without a man means you are the shyt.

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      MissHarlem says:

      Don’t nobody care bout HER!

      ^^^^^^ LIES TOLD ON SR

      NAIJA bonita how you doing?

      FAYYYLLLLAAAAA hewwo. Are you post office friendly?

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      gypsyeyes says:

      I refuse to let my children see a man living off of me or disrespecting me just to say I have a man and to keep my bed warm. Now if we have something and we are building together that is something different. When I leave the house you better be leaving the house unless it’s vacay, you work 3rd shift or it’s your day off. Same rule applies to kids over 18 and graduated.

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      4xALady says:

      @Fefe

      Girl! I got a real problem on my hands. Dudes these days are just not built how they used to be.

      Ask one of these new dudes now to slide up under a car and change some oil, rotate some tires and check your transmission fluid and their azzes are looking at YOU like THEY’RE scared to break a damn nail.

      Sh*t!

      Dont. Get. Me. Started. Ta-Day!

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      @Baby Girl – I don’t know what the hell I just typed…But I guess you got it.

      Graduation – The first album, I thought I knew all the words, on of my favs…

      Aside from not typing well, I’m actually feeling GREAT! Hanging in there :happy: HOLDING OUT, UNTIL I PASS OUT :danban1: :danban:

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      GAGIRL87 says:

      169

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      I saw a chick on FB yesterday bragging bout being the sideho3 to another sideho3 for the same dude I was like really u think being the side is cute
      _______________________________________________________________________

      Say what now Jenie :no: ques Monica “Sideline Ho” :whistle:

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      I Go There says:

      Phewwww…

      Finally out the cross hairs

      Thanks ALEX
      ___________________________
      :huh: :kona:

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      GAGIRL87 says:

      193

      gypsyeyes says:

      I refuse to let my children see a man living off of me or disrespecting me just to say I have a man and to keep my bed warm. Now if we have something and we are building together that is something different. When I leave the house you better be leaving the house unless it’s vacay, you work 3rd shift or it’s your day off. Same rule applies to kids over 18 and graduated.

      _____________________________________________________________________

      @Gypsy

      My cousin CATCHES THE BUS every morning and her baby daddy walks her to the bus stop and walks back home and does NOTHING ALLL DAY while she’s a work :no:

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      gypsyeyes says:

      But I bet she thinks he is being a man by making sure she get to the bus stop safely. Expectations are so low.

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      I Go There says:

      Aryanna says:

      4xALady says:

      Also….

      A lot of successful women are single because simply put: their standards are probably higher.

      A lot of men choose bustdowns instead of good women because: their standards are lower.

      _______

      AGREED

      _________________

      I dont think it actually because of their standars but it might have to do with the fact tha the busdown actually shows appreciation a bit more..if you will

      Like you got a successful chic thats doing for herself… a dude has to really be secure in his shait to deal with that.. like going out.. he may take her out to a nice restaruant a movie maybe a lil spot and she is like…”

      Thats natural…its what you should be doing and it dong garner you and points for the booty and whatnot”

      But that “Bussdown” is looking at it like… damn he is making an effort to do someting with me and I can really appreciate that…due to the fact that she might not get that ofter from dudes she has fked with in the past… to her thats something fking special… so she treats it as such.

      Ego stroked
      advantage
      Bustdown

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      yallcrazy says:

      Alex ain’t never met no Martin LuthadaKing says:

      @You
      I don’t want to talk to you here!! :huh: I’m about to cut you loose.

      She is putting her foot DOWN :hahaha:

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      Milky says:

      Expectations are so low.

      _______________________________
      :cosign: expectations are beyond low. there are a lot of women that don’t require anything from their counterpart except for some dack. and half the time they aint doing that right. Keep ur expectations high ladies. these men only do what u let them do!

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      Like you got a successful chic thats doing for herself… a dude has to really be secure in his shait to deal with that.. like going out.. he may take her out to a nice restaruant a movie maybe a lil spot and she is like…”

      ____________
      That’s a simple azz woman, that’s needs to be checked and needs to be by herself. You ain’t got to eat 5 star everytime you go out. Go get a smoothie, go to the gym together, ride a bike. I hate when these chics like he wanted to take me to applebees. What else wer you going to do? Feed your cat and eat left overs? I’m not saying settle, I’m saying give a nicca a break. If you trying to make something out of the realtionship.

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      I Go There says:

      Usual Prime Suspect says:

      Like you got a successful chic thats doing for herself… a dude has to really be secure in his shait to deal with that.. like going out.. he may take her out to a nice restaruant a movie maybe a lil spot and she is like…”

      ____________
      That’s a simple azz woman, that’s needs to be checked and needs to be by herself. You ain’t got to eat 5 star everytime you go out. Go get a smoothie, go to the gym together, ride a bike. I hate when these chics like he wanted to take me to applebees. What else wer you going to do? Feed your cat and eat left overs? I’m not saying settle, I’m saying give a nicca a break. If you trying to make something out of the realtionship.

      ___________________

      But that comes with her comfort level as well
      like if she’s so use to doing that on her own or with friends
      its like its second nature…and she isnt thinking about the jesture of it all… SO it really leaves women stuck in a catch 22
      Damned if dont Damned if you do.

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      Sandra Rose says:

      gypsyeyes says:

      …she aint 40 yet!
      _______________

      All female celebrities shave a few years off their real ages. :coffee:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Xena68 says:

      You have to let a man be the head I think a lot of us were raised by single parents and we saw them do it by themselves them we get the mentality that I only need a man for one thing and that’s just not true in this day and age both sexes no longer know their roles anymore
      ________________

      :preach: dammit! :clap:

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      But that comes with her comfort level as well
      like if she’s so use to doing that on her own or with friends
      its like its second nature…and she isnt thinking about the jesture of it all… SO it really leaves women stuck in a catch 22
      Damned if dont Damned if you do.

      __________
      You are exactly right! Every time I go out with my friends, I’m not going big every time. We looking for specials and bargins. We got car notes and mortages. Gabrielle IS NOT OPRAH and most of these chics out here ain’t. Like I told shorty here at the job, stop letting this chics that ain’t screwing you, set you up for taking them to Ruth Chris, The Chart house. Go to Ruby Tuesday see if she crack her purse, at least pay the tip. When a women is concerenced about how much she you are putting out, she is also thinking about her bottom line. IMO……

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Xena68 says:

      You have to let a man be the head I think a lot of us were raised by single parents and we saw them do it by themselves them we get the mentality that I only need a man for one thing and that’s just not true in this day and age both sexes no longer know their roles anymore
      ________________
      :preach: dammit! :clap:
      __________________
      :agree: :coffee:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      Gigi26 says:

      Its funny that all the blame on why we are lonely gets put on us.
      _________________

      Because 99% of the time single women raise men. A woman can’t raise a boy to be a man. End of story. Period! :nono:

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      Sandra Rose says:

      MrsWDE says:

      I was an independent woman and it took me a long time to let my husband “think” he is running things.
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      :clap: My mom, my aunts and all the women in my family did the same thing and that’s why they stayed married.

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      Sandra Rose says:

      FeFe says:

      < —-has no problem letting the man lead….I just have a hard time finding men who actually WANT to…
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      Once again, blame the single women who raised them. :coffee:

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      iyonah says:

      Union, who is probably more familiar with being successful and lonely than most women, explained why she chose to date a much younger man (NBA star Dwyane Wade).

      Gabby, who has put her storied dating history behind her, has been in a longterm relationship with Wade, 30, who left his wife for her. Union has had to dodge home wrecker accusations but she understands that most women will identify with the scorned ex-wife rather than with the woman who saved a young man from a bad marriage.

      ^^^^^I love you for this Sandra :rofl:

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      TwinMom says:

      When you meet a man worthy enough… you will submit. I don’t care who you are. Sometimes, people are caught up in the cycle of living what they see. Just cause your mother didn’t have a man, doesn’t mean that all men are dogs. Get your mindset together and watch what happens.

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