Canadian Court Rules HIV Carriers Can Withhold HIV Status from Sex Partners

If you are dating a Canadian resident, be careful. The Supreme Court of Canada has ruled that HIV carriers can withhold their HIV status from sex partners as long as they wear a condom and their HIV levels are low.

In a 9-0 ruling Friday, the Supreme Court reversed an earlier ruling that HIV positive individuals must inform their sex partners of their status.

From Citytv.com:

The court said it was reflecting the medical advances in treating the virus that causes AIDS since it first ruled on the issue in 1998 and left open the possibility of adapting to future changes in science in medicine.

The court ruled 14 years ago that people with HIV must inform their sex partners of their condition, or face a charge of aggravated sexual assault, which carries a maximum life sentence.

Now, that duty to disclose has been removed as a long as the HIV carrier has a “low load” of the virus and wears a condom.

“On the evidence before us, a realistic possibility of transmission is negated by evidence that the accused’s viral load was low at the time of intercourse and that condom protection was used,” Chief Justice Beverley McLachlin wrote on behalf of the court.



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    207 Responses to “Canadian Court Rules HIV Carriers Can Withhold HIV Status from Sex Partners”

    1. 1
      gbellab says:

      good thing i have no desire to visit Canada

    2. 2
      pointhimout says:

      they probably summed it up this way because the average AIDS holder isn’t going to disclose it anyways, even if the law says they have to. Protect yourself.

    3. 3

      Lawd have mercy, and I was thinking of moving to Canad, depending on the outcome of this election :tea:

    4. 4
      Honycoatd says:

      O Canada! Our home and native land! … *sings national anthem*

      Canada is a great country and with better health care than america.

      :ontopic: that is crazy about the ruling. People should be practicing safe sex anyways.

    5. 5

      Ummmmm :wtf: wow!!!

      Morning all :tea:

    6. 6
      luVn_liFe... says:

      Some shadyyyyyyyyyy Shyte going around this world!!!
      :cool:

    7. 7
      luVn_liFe... says:

      @Jenie :hug: hows your friend?

    8. 8
      Bad Influence says:

      i’m sorry, what?

      is this a joke?

    9. 9
      OutsidetheBox says:

      Wow.

    10. 10
      Natasha38 says:

      That’s crazy <————- there needs to be an emoticon sign that says this :yes:

    11. 11
      yallcrazy says:

      WOW :shocked:

      Welp we are all responsible for our own bodies so :shrug:

      I didn’t read the post IJS IMB *slams gavel*

    12. 12
      luVn_liFe... says:

      as long as they wear a condom and their HIV levels are low
      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      At Least theY have some type of Stipulations :shrug:

    13. 13
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      CRAZY!! Whats the law here in the US? (too lazy to google).
      Should be protecting yourselves anyway though :shrugs: but even still, a person should have the right to know and make the choice i think

    14. 14
      yallcrazy says:

      Ok, I stand by my 11 :tea:

      Yso, let’s debate! :yes:

    15. 15
      YSoSrs says:

      Bull. Sht. :nono:

    16. 16

      *crosses Canada off the list* :coffee:

      wrap it up kids!

    17. 17
      luVn_liFe... says:

      @Natasha38 i was listening to Try a little Tenderness just now at thought about you listening to

      OHHHH Its been such a Long long time,Seems Like I’d get u offa my mind BUT I CANT!!
      :whistle:

    18. 18
      sassyshe says:

      Same ish as saying hiv porno stars can work as long as they wear a condom.

    19. 19
      NaijaGal says:

      if’in folks care guess they’ll make sure to go to the clinic and await test results before hitting the sheets :shrug:

    20. 20
      Honycoatd says:

      Look at it from a different point of view. How many people really care about their partners sexual history and health? Not many even go to doctors visit on their own much less to go get checked out with their partner.

      It will always be word against word. We have to be more responsible and wrap it up… get tested… have open communication with each other and stop linking sex with love ( I believe if we are able to draw a more definite line in knowing love does not equal sex and sex does not equal love, we would be more apart of our actions and our partners).

    21. 21
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Naija :yes: preach! thats exactly what i do! I need to see recent results before anything pop off I dont trust no condom fully :no:

    22. 22
      luVn_liFe... says:

      :rolleyes:

    23. 23
      Bad Influence says:

      @X and Ho’boygah, i answered u downstairs bout Miguel

    24. 24
      tintin1979 says:

      @gbellab

      Canada is not a bad place. Toronto is really nice, I live here. But just like any country or anywhere in the world you can’t depend on people to disclose their status, you have to protect yourself to ensure you don’t catch it.

      many of us probably had sex with individuals who had HIV and are unaware, I know I used condoms with anyone I was with before my husband. and I keep up with my PAPs. So it’s up to us to protect ourselved, no anyone else.

    25. 25
      Natasha38 says:

      @luvn :kiss: (on the cheek though, cuz we’re getting to know each other)

      You know shes waiting
      Just anticipating
      The thing that you’ll never, never, never, never possess
      Yeah, yeah
      But while she there waiting
      Without them try a little tenderness
      Thats all you got to do

      It’s a shame that I hear the CB version and not Otis…. LOVE THIS…

      Thanks Luvn

    26. 26
      OHoney says:

      Suspect everyone.
      Protect yourself.
      Get tested.
      Ask for their test results.
      Worry Less.
      :yes:

    27. 27
      tintin1979 says:

      and fine many of you won’t visit Canada anymore but why, because you wanna have raw dog sex?

    28. 28
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      Soooo… In Texas, it’s a felony to own 6 or more dildos.
      And in Canada you don’t have to disclose your HIV status.

      :wail: my list of places to move to is getting shorter each day

    29. 29
      NaijaGal says:

      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      CRAZY!! Whats the law here in the US? (too lazy to google).
      Should be protecting yourselves anyway though but even still, a person should have the right to know and make the choice i think
      =====================
      the law here is you’re supposed to tell your status to potential partners or risk going to jail but by then isn’t it too late :shrug:

    30. 30
      yallcrazy says:

      NaijaGal says:

      if’in folks care guess they’ll make sure to go to the clinic and await test results before hitting the sheets :shrug:

      :cosign:
      I mean really folks gotta take consideration for themselves anyway.

      ==============
      Ho’boygurr, go see what I said back :D and sway :lol:

    31. 31
      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      :huh: :warning:

    32. 32
      GAGIRL87 says:

      26

      OHoney says:

      Suspect everyone.
      Protect yourself.
      Get tested.
      Ask for their test results.
      Worry Less.

      _______________________________________________________________________

      and BAM there it is :cosign:

    33. 33
      luVn_liFe... says:

      @Natasha :no: CB Version here,I got all OrigiNALs on my ipod girl my hubby be like :rolleyes: LOL
      With every beat of my heart,Theres a Beat for you….

    34. 34
      Bad Influence says:

      :rofl: :rofl:

    35. 35
      yallcrazy says:

      :waves: Natasha

      :eek: :eek: :huh: My :egg: had better been sunny side up :tea:

    36. 36
      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      Soooo… In Texas, it’s a felony to own 6 or more dildos.
      ~~~~~~~~
      :wft:

    37. 37
      OutsidetheBox says:

      HIV can lay dormant for months. As in not appearing on a test. Thats why I have two a year. And yeah you can protect yourself, but not control anyone else’s actions. So he clean this month, but next..

      HIV is a lethal weapon to me. Seems there would be more regulation. :tea: Like guns. And the Gawd awful marijuana. :tea:

      I dont agree with the ruling.

    38. 38
      Honycoatd says:

      Also it has a lot to do with Phobia and lack of education that have people living in so much fear.

      HIV is not AIDS…. HIV is a virus that affects the immune system and AID is the result from a weakened one.

      It is just basically cause and effect :coffee:

    39. 39
      OHoney says:

      Bella’s Master – Dont Taze me Bro says:
      Soooo… In Texas, it’s a felony to own 6 or more dildos.
      ________________________________________________________________
      I live here, I never knew this.
      I only have 1 but still *giggles*

    40. 40
      Bad Influence says:

      why u cant have 7 dildos in texas? kinda shyt. :lol:

    41. 41
      yallcrazy says:

      OTB, the “window” is shorter now due to new tests or something like that. I think it’s 3 mos.

      Does anybody know?

    42. 42
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I just disagree with the notion that its not up to a ppls government to protect its people.

    43. 43
      Natasha38 says:

      @Luvn That was me yesterday listening to the Dorothy Moore Misty Blue and Lena’s Stormy Weather because that’s all I’ve ever known. :love: but Try a little tenderness is putting me in “better” mood :buttshake:

    44. 44
      luVn_liFe... says:

      Folks are Really Triffling,If one w/hiv or ANY Std for that matter to Feel its ok to be screwing folks and damaging them Like that.

      I dont Blame those Kinda games! some will get :shank: but I DO NOT Sleep around,B$ I GOT MArried a Mofo had2Stay strapped up!

    45. 45
      yallcrazy says:

      Yso, is that ALL you’re giving? 15? *pouts*

    46. 46
      OHoney says:

      Bad Influence says:
      why u cant have 7 dildos in texas? kinda shyt.
      _________________________________________________________
      LIES they’re just trying to keep us apart boo :lol: come on down!!

    47. 47

      luVn_liFe… says:

      @Jenie :hug: hows your friend?
      __________________

      :waves: He is doing better. Thank you so much for the prayers, he is now breathing on his own :hug:

    48. 48
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      he Obscene Device Law is a Texas statute dealing with obscenity. In 1973 the Texas Legislature passed Section 43.21 of the Texas Penile Code which, in part, prohibited the sale or promotion of “”Obscene device[s]” mean[ing] a device including a dildo or artificial vagina, designed or marketed as useful primarily for the stimulation of human genital organs.”

      Section 43.23 of the Code dealt with promotion (“A person commits an offense if, knowing its content and character, he… promotes or possesses with intent to promote any obscene material or obscene device… A person who possesses six or more obscene devices or identical or similar obscene articles is presumed to possess them with intent to promote the same.”)

    49. 49
      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      There is personal responsibility. Yes. But what has happened to PUBLIC responsibility? Especially when it comes to PUBLIC health issues like HIV/AIDS?

      YOU (not you) can be selfish when it’s only YOUR life at stake. We should all be sexing safely. All the time. But sht happens and NOTHING is 100% safe.

      What gives a person the right to keep important health info from me? You are taking away my choice to make the most informed decision I can about whether or not you and your goodies are worth the risk. So I call bullsht on this whole thing.

      GO! :waiting:

    50. 50
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      LOL @Bella…7 huh? Who needs 7 anyone :tea:

    51. 51
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I havent heard or read that @Yall. You can get a test..I think its called RNA DNA or something like that..and it can look really early for specifics BUT healthcare doesnt use it because it has a higher false postive or whatever rate. And its uber expensive (for a test).

      You can buy your own from an independent lab but when you go to your doc or clinic or planned parenthood that is not the test youre getting.

    52. 52
      Honycoatd says:

      We give “government” way too much power over our being. It is necessary for people to protect themselves and be responsibility. Its like asking for a rope and then told to hang yourself.

      It is very simple… get tested and wrap it up and if you don’t trust condoms stop having sex.

    53. 53
      Bad Influence says:

      @Honey.. :lol: ion wanna go 2 jail for rubber dycks!

    54. 54
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      I’m assuming there are no Passion Parties in Texas?!

      :huh:

    55. 55
      MissHarlem says:

      :eyeroll: we should have a stfu emoticon as well

    56. 56
      luVn_liFe... says:

      jeniefrumdabloc says
      He is doing better. Thank you so much for the prayers, he is now breathing on his own
      ~ ~ ~ ~
      :woohoo: OMG!!!!!! How Awesome and Great to hear jenie :yahoo: you let him Know His been on some prayer lists!

    57. 57
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I just saw a paper that said they lessened the re-test window to 3 months @Yall. that what you meant?

    58. 58
      Natasha38 says:

      :hi: @Yall dropping my bikini and sex bra into the \___/

      After the week I’ve had I’m ready for FREAKY FRIDAY :party:

    59. 59
      Bad Influence says:

      :blink:

    60. 60
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      LOL @xamayca

      Yeah, 4 is just fine for me :ashamed:

    61. 61
      OHoney says:

      Bella’s Master – Dont Taze me Bro says:
      I’m assuming there are no Passion Parties in Texas?!
      ________________________________________________________
      I’ve been to many :coffee:
      I’m here to tell ya, nobody is in my bedroom checking my dildo count mmk?!!

    62. 62
      Honycoatd says:

      :rofl: @ O’honey nut

      I would hope not. Unless you want them to.

    63. 63
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      :lol: @O’Honey

    64. 64
      OutsidetheBox says:

      We give “government” way too much power over our being.
      ____________________________________________________________
      :hahaha: :hahaha: Hony I would love to take all the kids home too but i cant and other ppl arent…what about them?

      Govt is for a reason.

    65. 65
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Bella…I dont own even one…is that normal? I tried in the past, but it does nothing for me. :shrugs:

    66. 66
      MissHarlem says:

      :haha: wrong post for my comment but eh might work here too

    67. 67
      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Brown my email address is in the Tamar post if you wanna meet up at the fair…

    68. 68
      yallcrazy says:

      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      There is personal responsibility. Yes. But what has happened to PUBLIC responsibility? Especially when it comes to PUBLIC health issues like HIV/AIDS?

      YOU (not you) can be selfish when it’s only YOUR life at stake. We should all be sexing safely. All the time. But sht happens and NOTHING is 100% safe.

      What gives a person the right to keep important health info from me? You are taking away my choice to make the most informed decision I can about whether or not you and your goodies are worth the risk. So I call bullsht on this whole thing.

      GO! :waiting:
      *going* :D

      It IS YOUR(not you, everybody) responsibility to take the person to get tested OR go together to get tested SO THAT YOU KNOW what’s what! :yes: <–slow nod

      Knowledge is Power! We can only count on ourselves…

      GO! :waiting:

    69. 69
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      @Xamayca

      You just gotta find the right one. So you’re reaching “you know what” the natural way??!?!?!

    70. 70
      OutsidetheBox says:

      So no Armed forces if its up to us to protect ourselves..and then I should be able to arm myself with whatever i want, and attack the ppl who would do harm to me..with no repercussions.
      :waiting:

      The govt doesnt have to give me the guns. I’ll get them myself.

    71. 71
      OutsidetheBox says:

      wrong post for my comment but eh might work here too

      :lmao: :hahaha: Harlem i still :heart: you and New York :lol:

    72. 72
      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      They are for a reason but we as a whole (society) has become too lax in our responsibility especially when we should be taking care of self first.

      We ask government to step in and when they do it is never much of a bargain… one way or the other, we ask for something and they ask for something in return for that something we asked for.

      I want to protect the helpless too but I don’t think our dependency on so much cry out for government intervention is the way to do it.

    73. 73
      YSoSrs says:

      Sooo…Yall and others that see nothing wrong with keeping your HIV status to yourself…If some fcker does this…And even though you are “safe”…You still get it, you will just say “Welp. Sht happens. It’s my fault for not knowing you were positive and not being able to protect myself 100%”? Like I said. Bullsht. :coffee:

    74. 74
      yallcrazy says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      I just saw a paper that said they lessened the re-test window to 3 months @Yall. that what you meant?
      :yes:

      That way, yall both take one test, still practice safe sex, go back in 3-4 mos take test, hopefully it’s still negative, then you still have to decide if you wanna go sans rubber.
      I choose the rubbers though IMB :yes: even though I hate ‘em. I know you’re allergic right, so what precautions do you take? #faserious

    75. 75
      NaijaGal says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      So no Armed forces if its up to us to protect ourselves..and then I should be able to arm myself with whatever i want, and attack the ppl who would do harm to me..with no repercussions.

      The govt doesnt have to give me the guns. I’ll get them myself.
      =======================
      I agree with you when it comes to government….I don’t necessarily agree with this ruling but even taking into account the ruling we have in this country, how is it a guarantee that the person you’re with is going to tell you (spouses included) so for this particular situation it’s def more up to the individual to follow through

    76. 76
      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      :pray: Thank you for showing me how to LOCK this FATRabbit down :coffee: Hello Errones :waves

    77. 77
      MissHarlem says:

      OTB :rofl: hush up

    78. 78
      Honycoatd says:

      YALL darling,

      I agree with what your saying. At the end of the day we have to be accountable for self first then children and go on down the line.

    79. 79
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yall the lambskin ones are an option for those who are allergic/hate latex :helpful:
      they are expensive but the closest to natural

    80. 80
      yallcrazy says:

      Yso, it WOULD BE MY FAULT if I didn’t protect myself though IMB

      I’m not totally disagreeing with your line of thinking, I just wanna debate :D

    81. 81
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      But Lambskin are less reliable against protecting from HIV

    82. 82
      MsDivaRo says:

      Ya’ll off topic yet? :yawn:

    83. 83
      MsDivaRo says:

      :wave: Bel-llllllllllllllla

    84. 84
      OutsidetheBox says:

      For other individuals who are not in an established relationship or are doing the dating scene, disclosing their HIV status to another person is often difficult and requires quite a bit of courage. In a perfect world, of course no one would have HIV or AIDS. In a semi-perfect world everyone who had HIV would:

      Know their status (because they took the test).

      Be willing to disclose that to another person (before they have sex with them).

      Use protection if that person so desires.
      Also in this “perfect world,” our society would look at a person with HIV no differently than it looks at someone with any other chronic disease. Reducing stigma is key to opening lines of communication.

      But hence, we do not live in a perfect world, so we often have to make choices based on instinct, trust, and in some cases, our own conscience.

      ..Before making any judgments ourselves, we must keep in mind the fact that we, as HIV infected individuals must take on a certain level of responsibility if we are ever to stop the spread of HIV in this country.
      ^^^^^

      From The Body which is a great website, BTW. Im glad the HIV and AIDS professionals and community have a conscience.

    85. 85
      yallcrazy says:

      I thought the lambskin didn’t stop stds and hiv though.

      I once held out on my boo (yrs ago RIP) at a nice hotel because he had lambskin rubber and I was :nono:

      He was livid :blink:

      :rofl:

    86. 86
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Bella Yes you are right, I forgot about that SMH Sorry thats for monogamous couples nevermind

    87. 87
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      Diiiiiivvvvaaaaaa!!!! :waves:

      Hi my luv!

    88. 88
      yallcrazy says:

      :hi: Creamy
      :bye: Creamy

    89. 89
      luVn_liFe... says:

      MsDivaRo says:
      Ya’ll off topic yet?

      ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
      Nope what say you on this???? :D

    90. 90
      NaijaGal says:

      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yall the lambskin ones are an option for those who are allergic/hate latex :helpful:
      they are expensive but the closest to natural
      =======================
      I’ve heard lambskin is not as preventative though…you have any additional info on it

    91. 91
      yallcrazy says:

      Honycoatd says:

      YALL darling

      :love:

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      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yall yes i forgot about that sorry disregard my comment. It stops pregnancy :yes: which is why I use it now in my monogamous relationship to my fiance

    93. 93
      Bella's Master - Dont Taze me Bro says:

      Interestingly Diva, we are still on topic since it coincides with Freaky Friday :yes:

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      Bad Influence says:

      *peeks back in*

      :smack:

    95. 95
      yallcrazy says:

      :warning: Yso
      don’t be fonting no essay :no: because I’m not reading nothing too long (HENCE 84) :lol: (evil laugh) :rofl:

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      Natasha38 says:

      @Diva… I went :offtopic: but I guess Freaky Friday is not appropriate for this post :ashamed:

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      Honycoatd says:

      YSO,

      I am not saying it is right for people to go and infect others. But we need to make conscious decisions on what we do and how it affects us. Life living now is out with the fools rush in excuse and just protect yourself. I am not saying that situations and people not intervene and take that decision away from you. Life is all about decisions, not 100% right or wrong but on what you decision on how other people’s decision affect yours… Its a sad situation and I have compassion for anyone that unfortunate things happen to and “God Forbids” someone take your right to live your life healthy away. But I pray that their punishment is severe.

    98. 98
      yallcrazy says:

      :grill: 95 has two shades in it :kona:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      That way, yall both take one test, still practice safe sex, go back in 3-4 mos take test, hopefully it’s still negative, then you still have to decide if you wanna go sans rubber.
      _________________________________________________________________________

      @YALL

      1. Because many people who are infected will
      seroconvert within two to three months, it may
      be useful to be tested two to three months after
      an isolated exposure event, to “rule in”
      infection and receive early care.

      2. Clients testing negative two to three months
      after an isolated exposure event must retest six
      months after exposure to “rule out” infection.

      3. For clients in the six-month window period,
      there is a period of time prior to
      seroconversion when they may be infectious
      to others, in spite of testing negative for HIV
      antibodies.

      I’m not allergic to latex..is that a slight on my maternal birth record?

    100. 100
      yallcrazy says:

      Ok X, I was gonna be bad for him (RIP) :ashamed:
      :rofl:

    101. 101
      Honycoatd says:

      Naija it is one of the least protective ones… Lambskin is used more of a good feel than for protection.

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Like I said. Bullsht.
      ____________________
      memba the convo when dude killed that lady?? :tea: Was it Texas? Sandra has the link up.

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      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yall :wink:

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      yallcrazy says:

      I’m not allergic to latex..is that a slight on my maternal birth record?

      :nono: (pointing at you) You fonted that once :yes: Maybe you were joshing :shrug:
      =============
      Re:99
      So, how long should we wait or be tested? 3-6 months?

    105. 105
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      yallcrazy says:

      Yso better not be coming down with Bronchitis today :wail:

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      how is it a guarantee that the person you’re with is going to tell you (spouses included) so for this particular situation it’s def more up to the individual to follow through
      ________________________________________________________________________
      There is no gurantee. We all agree on that. BUT if there is some type of severe punishment for those who did not..maybe we could have some deterrence on non-disclosure.

      Im not going to kill anyone because I am deterred by a lengthy prison sentence. Not necessarily caring about them. Caring about me and mine tho.

    108. 108
      ELove says:

      I read about this earlier today and WAS LIKE :blink:

      HIV/AIDS is a Scary Scenario for The Clueless to The Well-Informed Though and It ALL REVOLVES around Individuals not being COMPLETELY Open-n-Honest to Their MATE (GF/BF, Husband/Wive and Significant Other…) regarding Their PREVIOUS Sexual-Encounters (YUP…)

      And @OTB SAID: HIV can lay dormant for months. As in not appearing on a test. Thats why I have two a year. And yeah you can protect yourself, but not control anyone else’s actions. So he clean this month, but next..

      Just COMPLICATES Things to THE EXTREME Though (It’s ALL-OUT Scary Now…) :coffee:

      And HAPPY Friday Everybody!!! :yes:

    109. 109
      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @GaGirl i just followed u on twitter..i’ll dm u my #

    110. 110
      yallcrazy says:

      Gypsy, what’s your opinion? :thinking:

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      Angiegirl says:

      Natasha38 says:

      @Diva… I went :offtopic: but I guess Freaky Friday is not appropriate for this post
      _______________________

      I tried about 3 doors down and nobody took the bait…. :crying:

    112. 112
      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      But no sex can be 100% safe. NONE. Even with testing. And condoms. A dams. We try to believe that lie cause we don’t wanna stop fcking altogether.

      Even though MANY of us should. For reasons like you don’t want to tell folks you are HIV positive. I see NO good reason for feeling that way. If it embarrasses you, get the fck over it. You’ll be even more embarrassed if I take you to court and sue you for infecting me w/o my knowledge.

    113. 113
      OutsidetheBox says:

      You fonted that once

      _____________________
      :no: We can do a google if we must but I doubt it. And maybe it was BC? And yes, that would have been in jest. I dont know that im allergic to BC i just know certain types have failed me… or I failed them.

    114. 114
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Elove :yes: def scary

    115. 115
      Honycoatd says:

      No matter who we are with its a act of faith we go out on the limb with them on many things.

      We all have a beginning and end… yes, I do not wish anyone leaving this earth because of other human’s decision to be selfish, careless and vindictive. It is not right but maybe it is the place I am mentally, emotionally and spiritually that I look at it different and just pray and ask for protection and have peace in my heart that tells me that my battles are HIS victories and in end I will have true justice.

    116. 116
      Keesh says:

      They need to make it illegal for guys with lil willies to buy Magnums. This happens a lot from what I hear

    117. 117
      GAGIRL87 says:

      Sheree Whitfield has again been mistaken for a drag queen. But this time, it was a news outlet that made the mistake. Check out what Sheree had to say about being mistaken for a deceased drag queen…

      TV Guide posted the news a few days ago that “RuPaul’s Drag Race” contestant Sahara Davenport (born Antoine Ashley) died from heart failure. And instead of using an actual pic of Sahara, TV Guide accidentally used a pic of former “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Sheree. WOMP.

      Sheree later tweeted:

      I am sorry to hear about the lost of Sahara Davenport My condolences go out to her Family. Pls remove my picture from your website @TVGuide

      _______________________________________________________________________

      :rofl: sad but funny at the same daymn time :no:

    118. 118
      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      One Husband on Wife while the first one live :coffee: helpful

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      Caligirl says:

      :wtf:

      Hey Errverybody

      :wtf:

      But no sex can be 100% safe. NONE. Even with testing. And condoms. A dams. We try to believe that lie cause we don’t wanna stop fcking altogether.

      @YSO This is why I love you and but my stimulator more. :kona:

    120. 120
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yso, can you sue someone over them not disclosing?

    121. 121
      OutsidetheBox says:

      because I’m not reading nothing too long (HENCE 84) (evil laugh)
      __________________________________________________________________
      Your life doll. But thats from the Aids and HIV professionals. Synopsis: Their moral conscience puts the non-infected to shame. :)

    122. 122
      YSoSrs says:

      @SIS

      Hrm. :coffee:

    123. 123
      Bird says:

      Thank you Lawd for getting through my roaring 20s in piece.
      :danban: <— holy ghost dance

    124. 124
      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Keesh LMAO

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      NaijaGal says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      There is no gurantee. We all agree on that. BUT if there is some type of severe punishment for those who did not..maybe we could have some deterrence on non-disclosure.

      Im not going to kill anyone because I am deterred by a lengthy prison sentence. Not necessarily caring about them. Caring about me and mine tho.
      ====================
      even the death row has not deterred murders from occuring…those that want to do right will do so without any prompt from the state or otherwise, those who don’t will not regardless of consequences

    126. 126
      gypsyeyes says:

      So let me put on my body condom for this here blog! :awwwskeetskeetskeetskeet:

    127. 127
      MsDivaRo says:

      I got nothing cause I’ve been with the same man for 26 years!!!!! :danban1:

    128. 128
      GAGIRL87 says:

      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @GaGirl i just followed u on twitter..i’ll dm u my #
      ______________________________________________________________________

      :stop: boo I’m not on twiiter don’t dm that chic nothing :nono:

      email me!!!!

    129. 129
      Caligirl says:

      BC i just know certain types have failed me… or I failed them.
      _____
      Don’t think you were being funny, but that right there tickled me.

      I’m allergic to latex. :yes:

    130. 130
      OutsidetheBox says:

      But I pray that their punishment is severe.
      ___________________________________________
      From God only? But not from the Govt while they are living? I dont understand it @Hony

    131. 131
      Honycoatd says:

      @ Naija

      Exactly… we just have to “hope” we have people with good, GOD fearing conscience around us that will do right by us.

    132. 132
      YSoSrs says:

      @XAMA

      I believe there have been cases but I couldn’t name any of them. :think:

      @HONY

      I don’t live on faith and I certainly don’t fck on faith either. :nono:

    133. 133
      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      Keesh says:

      They need to make it illegal for guys with lil willies to buy Magnums. This happens a lot from what I hear

      ______________________________________________________

      :rofl: u from the ATL :coffee:

    134. 134
      yallcrazy says:

      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      But no sex can be 100% safe. NONE. Even with testing. And condoms. A dams. We try to believe that lie cause we don’t wanna stop fcking altogether.

      Even though MANY of us should. For reasons like you don’t want to tell folks you are HIV positive. I see NO good reason for feeling that way. If it embarrasses you, get the fck over it. You’ll be even more embarrassed if I take you to court and sue you for infecting me w/o my knowledge.
      ==========
      ION have any disagreement here :no:
      I wanna Debate :wail:
      ==========
      OTB, I think it was that day that somebody asked you and you thought they may have been shading you, but then they said they weren’t and then you stated the pill/rubber/shot history :shrug: I think…

      Nonetheless, no shade here.

    135. 135
      MsDivaRo says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @GaGirl i just followed u on twitter..i’ll dm u my #
      ______________________________________________________________________

      boo I’m not on twiiter don’t dm that chic nothing

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :dead: at this!

    136. 136
      GAGIRL87 says:

      @gypsy :whistle: Too da window to da wall till da sweat drop down my balls now all this b*itches crawl … I just realized how rachett those lyrics were just den :think:

    137. 137
      Caligirl says:

      @Diva – You are blessed woman, some women have been with there husbands that long and still come up wondering :wtf: happened.

      S/N – Did anybody watch Scandal last night

    138. 138
      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      But no sex can be 100% safe. NONE. Even with testing. And condoms. A dams. We try to believe that lie cause we don’t wanna stop fcking altogether.

      ____________________________________________________

      well said Cali :coffe:

    139. 139

      Rap-It-Up :condom:

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      yallcrazy says:

      xamayca _Iza_Bacchanalist says:

      @Yso, can you sue someone over them not disclosing?
      :yes: I believe you can sue!
      ===========
      :cosgin: Bird 123

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      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Diva what? :/

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      Angiegirl says:

      Because I know Auntie would never post anything to paint our President in a good light:

      The U.S. unemployment rate fell to 7.8 percent last month, dropping below 8 percent for the first time in nearly four years and giving President Barack Obama a potential boost with the election a month away.
      The rate declined from 8.1 percent because the number of people who said they were employed soared by 873,000 – an encouraging sign for an economy that’s been struggling to create enough jobs.
      The number of unemployed Americans is now 12.1 million, the fewest since January 2009.
      The Labor Department said employers added 114,000 jobs in September. It also said the economy created 86,000 more jobs in July and August than the department had initially estimated.

      :obama: bishesssss!!!! :yahoo:

    143. 143
      yallcrazy says:

      Cali :kiss:

    144. 144
      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @GaGirl :shocked: i just followed her that’s all.. *going to unfollow that imposter*

    145. 145
      OutsidetheBox says:

      those that want to do right will do so without any prompt from the state or otherwise, those who don’t will not regardless of consequences

      ______________________________________________________________________

      And if we can lessen that by half..half will, half wont..its something, instead of nothing.

    146. 146
      MsDivaRo says:

      Caligirl says:

      @Diva – You are blessed woman, some women have been with there husbands that long and still come up wondering happened.

      S/N – Did anybody watch Scandal last night

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :stop: WHO DIS? Usual is this juu guhl in disguise? :rofl: #blessed and I DVR’d Scandal..I’mma watch it tomorrow!

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      Keesh says:

      So let me put on my body condom for this here blog! :awwwskeetskeetskeetskeet:

      :hahaha:

    148. 148
      yallcrazy says:

      Angiegirl says:

      Because I know Auntie would never post anything to paint our President in a good light:

      The U.S. unemployment rate fell to 7.8 percent last month, dropping below 8 percent for the first time in nearly four years and giving President Barack Obama a potential boost with the election a month away.
      The rate declined from 8.1 percent because the number of people who said they were employed soared by 873,000 – an encouraging sign for an economy that’s been struggling to create enough jobs.
      The number of unemployed Americans is now 12.1 million, the fewest since January 2009.
      The Labor Department said employers added 114,000 jobs in September. It also said the economy created 86,000 more jobs in July and August than the department had initially estimated.

      :obama: bishesssss!!!! :yahoo:

      :woohoo:
      :kneel:

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      Caligirl says:

      @Creamy – Can’t take credit for that…That was YSO and her wisdom. :wink:

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      YSoSrs says:

      @YALL

      We DO have a disagreement here. Not a serious one but still. If not, what the hail are we “debating” about? :huh:

    151. 151
      NaijaGal says:

      USUAL – last night’s Scandal epi made me fall inlove with the show…I fonted earlier I can’t stand indignant hoes, you still a hoe, hoe

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      OutsidetheBox says:

      Don’t think you were being funny, but that right there tickled me.

      I’m allergic to latex.

      __________________________________________________________________

      Are you? I didnt know that! And that quip was totally funny. Super Uterus. :lol:

    153. 153
      MsDivaRo says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      @ Diva what? :/

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      you told guhl juu not on twitta…she following the wrong person!

    154. 154
      OutsidetheBox says:

      So let me put on my body condom for this here blog!
      ___________________________________________________

      You betta. They aint got no love for ya. We’ll infect ya. :wink: :lol:

    155. 155
      Keesh says:

      brownskin A.K.A Creamy says:

      Keesh says:

      They need to make it illegal for guys with lil willies to buy Magnums. This happens a lot from what I hear

      ______________________________________________________

      u from the ATL

      No, but Im an hour up the road…lol

    156. 156
      yallcrazy says:

      Ok, I still say WE are responsible for ourselves and had better make (as sure as possible) that we allowing a clean dyck sliding up and through our walls.

      I’m not gonna DEPEND on no man to be “honest” with me :no:

    157. 157
      gypsyeyes says:

      It is everyone’s moral responsibility to protect themselves and the other person(s). Now,whether you do or don’t effects more than just you in the case that you do contract. I know someone with HIV and doesn’t disclose to ppl. I however have gone behind their back and told the person they were trying to get with. I felt it was my responsibility.

    158. 158
      Caligirl says:

      @Diva – Tis, I. Cali is how I started out, I changed when Travon (RIP) was killed.

    159. 159
      GAGIRL87 says:

      144

      BrownSuggaBabe says:

      @GaGirl i just followed her that’s all.. *going to unfollow that imposter*
      ___________________________________________________________________

      :lol: pls do!

    160. 160
      yallcrazy says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      Don’t think you were being funny, but that right there tickled me.

      I’m allergic to latex.

      __________________________________________________________________

      Are you? I didnt know that! And that quip was totally funny. Super Uterus. :lol:
      This for me? :shrug: #confused

    161. 161
      Keesh says:

      NaijaGal says:

      USUAL – last night’s Scandal epi made me fall inlove with the show…I fonted earlier I can’t stand indignant hoes, you still a hoe, hoe

      It was my first time watching and OTB gave me an update. I like the show and you right a hoe is a hoe no matter what!
      Thanks OTB!!!

    162. 162
      NaijaGal says:

      OutsidetheBox says:

      And if we can lessen that by half..half will, half wont..its something, instead of nothing.
      ======================
      how is it lessened especially if statistics are still coming out stating the rate of HIV cases are steadily climbing…obviously the laws here are not preventing anything…I had a professor tell me once if you break up with someone and need an order of protection, it’s not gonna help cause if the person was sane an order wouldn’t be needed…again I’m not disagreeing with the law we have here but I’ve yet to see what it has accomplished

    163. 163
      GAGIRL87 says:

      Keesh you in Tennakey right?

    164. 164
      MsDivaRo says:

      Caligirl says:

      @Diva – Tis, I. Cali is how I started out, I changed when Travon (RIP) was killed.

      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Already!!! I recognized them there pearls!!!!! :fistbump:

    165. 165
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I don’t live on faith and I certainly don’t fck on faith either.
      _______________________________________________________________
      :lol: SIS I hate chu still :lol: Folks forget were not a nation of one thought and religion.

    166. 166
      yallcrazy says:

      gypsyeyes says:

      It is everyone’s moral responsibility to protect themselves and the other person(s). Now,whether you do or don’t effects more than just you in the case that you do contract. I know someone with HIV and doesn’t disclose to ppl. I however have gone behind their back and told the person they were trying to get with. I felt it was my responsibility.

      :applause: Good Business!
      I’d even go a step further and contact 311 hmmmmp :tea:
      That bullshatt is super shady IMB :karate:
      ==
      What did ole girl do though? :popcorn:

    167. 167
      ELove says:

      @Yall (Comment #156)
      And MALES should Feel the SAME WAY regarding the Females They choose to have Sex With Though (Dishonesty isn’t Gender Specific…) :coffee:

    168. 168
      luVn_liFe... says:

      MoFos Are Ruthless! Forshame for shame

    169. 169
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I think…

      _____________
      :yes: That was xena and i didnt say that about latex. Cali is allergic tho, it seems. No need to add the no shade disclaimer. Seriously. :lol: i forgot to font :lol: after i asked if it was a slight.

    170. 170
      yallcrazy says:

      Yes, I agree Big Daddy :yes:

    171. 171
      yallcrazy says:

      Gotcha :wink:

    172. 172
      VDot says:

      Im not mad at the ruling. I think that the fear of going to prison for non-disclosure is one of the reasons why people don’t get test. Being ignorant of your status is unprosecutable.

      I had a really close relative die from AIDS (:crying:) a few years back. My granny hinted years ago that she thought their “allergy” issues were kind of suspect (Big Mama be all knowing :yes:). They refused to get tested, and was only tested when they were literally on their death bed. At that point it was full blown AIDS. Mid 30s. Chit was tragic. But it was fear – fear of dying, fear of stigmas, fear of prosecution for non disclosure, fear of never secksing again that I honestly believed caused them to not want to know their status. They KNEW, but because they refused to confirm with a test, they went without treatment until it was too late.

      I say that to say, well really I don’t know what to say. I got sad and lost my train of thought typing the above. All I know is that I don’t trust NO ONE when it comes to my health. We could get tested a thousand times and Im still giving the side eye to unprotected secks. Husband or not.

    173. 173
      yallcrazy says:

      Oh and we all know them cats that try to raw dog you the first time so :shrug:

      Shyt is real and WE gots to protect our goodies!

    174. 174
      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      How can you punish someone that has no “heart” to do something like that… even for murderers or rapist or anyone that shamelessly do unjust to others?

      Have you watched some of those real life behind bars show and seen some of those heartless animals? They are dead in the eyes and do not care what man or government does to them… Killing them is way too easy for them (in my eyes). Like I said it may have to do with where I am in my life emotionally, spiritually and such that I have that outlook.

      Let me add this, maybe I have always been a passive person and alot more now as I get older and understand more. But one day, I was at Costco and I had my 3 little ones with me ( normally I do not take my smaller children with me to go big grocery shopping but it was a last minute decision) well we were coming out the store and Naaj was walking next to me and the other 2 were in the pulley cart… well this lady drive basically almost ran her car into us… There were not even enough room to put a finger between the car and my daughter. She was that close and alot of people around basically attacked her for almost could have possibly killed us. But I was not angry… I was more grateful that we were okay and me and my babies could go home.

      I just try not to look at the negatives in a situation (if I can help it) but the positives/ blessings and saving grace in all of my life… I do not know how long I will be here. I just want to enjoy the life I have now with my family, babies and friends. I do not have time to think about the negatives in situation (if I can help it)…. I will keep being thankful for the moments I have and when I am gone it will be the end of it until judgement day (which is another story).

    175. 175
      yallcrazy says:

      :pigsfly: I’m hungry bbl

    176. 176
      YSoSrs says:

      @SIS

      My own cynicism keeps me cold at times. It’s why I drink so much :coffee: Trying to keep warm and sht.

    177. 177
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I’m not gonna DEPEND on no man to be “honest” with me
      _______________________________________________________
      Duh. Hopefully most of us wont..not even those fonting about a hubby (no shade, just saying..we had a story here link up there)

      BUT if it did happen you telling me you dont want that person punished? By the govt? Cause you cant do chit with the laws the way they are..you’ll get charged with battery, assault, murder..but they get a slap on the wrist..for possibly ending your life?

      I totally believe in the HIV/AIDS advances and that they are promising. I dont think they will be able to save ppl in the next 50yrs tho.

    178. 178
      yallcrazy says:

      OTB
      174 = Let GOD handle it. #helpful

    179. 179
      gypsyeyes says:

      My theory on condoms:
      I got 4 kids.
      My family said if I die aint nobody taking my kids,especially Avery cause she is really sarcastic and puts ppl in their places too much.

      So I can’t get pregnant or contract no diseases under the AVERY ACT:

      Fugg,If’n he aint got no condom I got some gloves that came in my old Olive Oil Relaxer Kit.

    180. 180
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I felt it was my responsibility.
      ________________________________
      I would to. Sue me if you must.

    181. 181
      OutsidetheBox says:

      @Yall #160. I was responding to Cali.

    182. 182
      Natasha38 says:

      gypsyeyes says:

      It is everyone’s moral responsibility to protect themselves and the other person(s). Now,whether you do or don’t effects more than just you in the case that you do contract. I know someone with HIV and doesn’t disclose to ppl. I however have gone behind their back and told the person they were trying to get with. I felt it was my responsibility.

      ~~~~~~

      :applause:

      You too @Cali

    183. 183
      Caligirl says:

      @Ya’ll – Yes, fa real. I start itching and in need of icecubes, cold water and monistat. I can use microsheer condoms or abstain. Thankfully I’m commited. Birth Control pills made my pressure high and I tried the sponge and the film and it too made me irrtiable. My Goodies is ULTRA SENSENTIVE. #Dont Hate :kiss: *giggles

    184. 184
      yallcrazy says:

      BUT if it did happen you telling me you dont want that person punished? By the govt?

      I didn’t say that. Shoot. They would be lucky to have the law handle them.

      I’d make that call(not to 911) and then have to deal with my situation I guess.

      I get tested twice yearly also, because you just never know :shrug:

    185. 185
      gypsyeyes says:

      @yall-told me that she wasn’t going that route anyway but thanks for the heads up!

    186. 186
      yallcrazy says:

      :rofl: Gypsy

      BRB

    187. 187
      Honycoatd says:

      @ Yso and OTB

      I do not believe we are on the same train of thought, belief or faith. But that will not stop me for asking for protection for us all even when you don’t believe in my GOD. I would hope you all pray for the rest of us that do not believe in your GOD or whatever the case is that you believe in as long as they are loving, caring and protecting…. I need all the protection.

      Believe it or not… I pray to the MOST HIGH and when I do he answers and does what he has always done for me that is in my best interest.

    188. 188
      Natasha38 says:

      See Gypsy… you was skrait until the old gloves in the Olive Oil Relaxer Kit :dead:

    189. 189
      yallcrazy says:

      Gypsy, She should’ve bought you lunch or some ish :rofl:

    190. 190
      yallcrazy says:

      186 was for the gloves

    191. 191
      OutsidetheBox says:

      @Naija The number of new HIV infections in the United States has remained steady, at around 50,000 cases a year over the past four years- 2011, Center for Disease Control and Prevention.

      “”Not only do men who have sex with men continue to account for most new infections, young gay and bisexual men are the only group in which infections are increasing, and this increase is particularly concerning among young African American MSM.”

    192. 192
      YSoSrs says:

      @HONY

      I’m a atheist.

    193. 193
      Caligirl says:

      @Gypsy – I’m slowly fadding away. *Olive Oil and gloves :rofl:

      On the tip with being moral responsbility. Please people don’t care about that. If you ask 10 random working brother the last time they were tested they would probably say. My job don’t test no, more I got high last night.

    194. 194
      Keesh says:

      GAGIRL87 says:

      Keesh you in Tennakey right?

      yeap

    195. 195
    196. 196
      OutsidetheBox says:

      @Hony I am the single mother of 5 who takes ridicule vocalized and otherwise from folks everyday. I am the most optimistic person I know. I dont look to the negative. My cup? ALWAYS half full. I understand your analogy, appreciate it and I still would have cursed the lady and praised God. :)

      I STILL believe that a so-called PPLS govt should make earnest attempts to protect its ppl. Especially if its a taxation type government <–my argument.

      If I didnt have to pay in, i wouldnt look to them for chit, but I do. I expect to be compensated.

    197. 197
      Honycoatd says:

      @ YSO

      I know madam. It will and has not changed the fact that I will continue to pray for you even if you don’t belief.. I got enough for both of us.

      At the end of the day, we will all come to the realization of what our existence is or was for either it be in life, death, spirit or etc, etc.

      It will not deter me what you believe in… I will do what I feel in my heart that I must and MY GOD is a MIGHTY AWESOME GREAT GOD and he loves challenges so he will do and see you through what he sees fit in due time.

    198. 198
      OutsidetheBox says:

      I pray to the MOST HIGH and when I do he answers and does what he has always done for me that is in my best interest.

      ______________________________________________________________________
      Hony I believe in God. YSO does not.

      I use prayer to get closer to God. To develop a relationship. I believe that he wants me to move forward and move closer to Him. Through prayer, my wants and needs that I might take to him…will become what he wants for me.

    199. 199
      Keesh says:

      I use prayer to get closer to God. To develop a relationship. I believe that he wants me to move forward and move closer to Him. Through prayer, my wants and needs that I might take to him…will become what he wants for me.

      YES!!!!

    200. 200
      Caligirl says:

      @OTB – Who cares what folks think. I admire a woman (you) of today, that doing her thang and taking care of their kids. The people that’s talking are probably from a family of 10 and they mama didn’t take care of them. Otherwise I’m not even sure why somebody would have anything to say. That’s just my unsolicited opionion.

    201. 201
      Keesh says:

      Auntie wont let us post on the :newpost: why???

    202. 202
      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      :hug:

      Some people tell me I am too soft but that is not it. I just have learned to pick my battles quite well to keep my sanity. I am quite the optimistic person too and can take a beating but I have learned to love harder until I truly can not take anymore then I will let go.

      Well I was just happen we were alive. I saw the fear in her eyes and understood it was a mistake but it was not enough for me to get upset over when I got to go home to my other 3 babies. My biggest fear is leaving them and feeling like I did not prepare them enough to live without me… I believe in the MOST HIGH and always ask for him to give me peace in knowing that I have done my best with my babies and they will be okay if I have to leave unexpectedly. I am graceful I come from a family that will do their best to make sure my babies are ok.

      I am not saying I want these people to drink Iced tea and chill. Yes, maybe someone else have to decide what punishment they get because I could not after the anger subdued. But I look forward to when the “REAL BIG ONE” lays it on them really nice.

    203. 203
      OutsidetheBox says:

      Cali YEW know I dont care. But to a lot of folks single moms, especialy of multiples and no man??? :no: Shew I’m whats wrong with the country, let some folks tell it. You read the chit posted here. Sandra initiates it.

    204. 204
      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      I know babycakes… I don’t judge her for what she believes. I just ask that whatever he is doing with her to forgive her and keep her safe. And when he is ready that he makes her a believer for that is what he promised to do… (make non believers, true believers). My heart is open to her for a reason and I listen to that inner spirit that guides me daily.

      She is changing more than she realizes and that is exactly how it is suppose to be.. She is not a goner just misplaced for the moment. she is open to things for a reason… her understanding just has not come full circle yet.

    205. 205
      OutsidetheBox says:

      :hug: @Hony. Great convo. Food for my always hungry soul.

    206. 206
      Honycoatd says:

      OTB,

      Don’t listen to the naysayers… We all have roles in this world and yours just happened to be fruitful. You are doing what needs to be done so what others have to say is just their judgment and your blessings.

      You work hard for yourself and your babies… you provide for you all…. protect and clothes them and most importantly you have instilled values in them so they when they are grown and have their own conscience they will make good decisions and be great individuals.

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      TeeTee says:

      In the United States if a client reports to a therapist that they are engaging in unprotected sex while HIV positive mental health professionals are not allowed to notify authorities or the endangered partner. The premise is that just because you sleep with someone with HIV does not mean you will contract the disease, and because you can not confirm that the person will contract the disease it is considered non-threatening…

      Bullcrap but true!

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