In Case You Missed It: Tamar & Vince, Episode 5
On last night’s episode of WE Tv’s Tamar & Vince, the couple wrap up their Hawaii vacation by having a blow out fight in front of their friends April and Lashawn Daniels. Sadly, Tamar can’t see that her childish, immature behavior is causing Vince to question their marriage. Vince loves Tamar but he is torn between staying in the marriage for love’s sake or leaving Tamar for his own sanity.
Tamar is one of those women who believes she should be placed on a pedestal by her man. No woman should be placed on a pedestal to look down at her man. The woman’s role is to be subservient (serve) her man — not to humiliate him and loud talk him in public.
If Tamar wants to be in a happy marriage she should make her husband happy, because what she’s doing now is not working for her. Tamar’s immaturity makes it difficult for her to see beyond her own selfish needs.
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Didn’t get the chance to watch it last night
I didn’t see it last night, but my timeline says Tamar is a HORRIBLE wife. Karma gone get that girl.
I know the answer to this question, but I’m gonna ask anyway. I have never paid a lot for purses. I buy one and use it til it falls apart. Now I am in an income bracket that allows me to at least get Coach bags on sale. My first and only Coach bag has been used up and is dirty although not raggedy, but I don’t know how to clean so it’s useless. Got an email today with a coupon that allows me to get a Coach satchel from the outlet store for $97. Thing is I ain’t got no money. I will have to dip into savings to get it. Question: Should I get the satchel which will only be on sale through the weekend?
“The woman’s role is to be subservient (serve) her man”
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Vince getting tired but he got issues too which was clear lastnight. What happened with his parents
AWWW CHIT IT’S 12PM!!! I’m finna run down to this goom bay fest since it just started and get me a plate of crack gyros
<—-really my plate of food i'm about to get and chit 
@ bird I am a shopoholic so I say YESSSSS IT’s a steal. Let that be your treat cuz the year almost over anyway
Bird says: I didn’t see it last night, but my timeline says Tamar is a HORRIBLE wife.
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I wonder how much of that is her real personality….and how much of her behavior is “producer” induced?
I’m sure these reality show producers STRONGLYY encourage people to go above and beyond for ratings. On this show and others as well.
my words to Tamar are you dont miss a good thing until its gone
I like Vince but Tamar wowwww she need to sit down somewhere
Tamar is one of those women who believes she should be placed on a pedestal by her man. No woman should be placed on a pedestal to look down at her man
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What a min now I loves a pedestal. Treat me like the Queen I AM and you will most def be treated like that King
@ Bird oh yeah it depends if your savings can stand it as well. If it can why not? We work hard and some treat ourselves sometimes
aunt sandy’s tweet before i leave…
“you must have me mistaken for Vince…I only date submissive women.” I know she wanted to add the
emote to her tweet!
@Missmiami his parents passed when he was younger
@Bird, buy the bag for $97. How long have you been carrying your other bag? If you only carry this new one for one year, youve still made out..that bag is only costing like .30 a day.
And clean your other bag using YoutTube vids.
Last night’s epi proved the problems in the relationship aren’t just Tamar’s fault. Vince is holding on to some stuff. If he has abandonment issues because of the deaths of his parents, he needs to address them. He is still upset that Tamar left his side for a few hours while he was in the hospital. Bringing that up now isn’t arguing fair. Not properly accepting what seemed to be a very sincere apology from Tamar was not right.
To both Tamar AND Vince I ask the question: Do you want to be right all the time or would you rather be married?
love the song when it comes on
@bird treat yourself
Jennifer Lopez is a horrible singer by the way…
LoveDont Cost A Thing is playing on my Rihanna station on i
radio
@bird i say buy the satchel and put the money back in ur savings when u get paid. If it’s not goin to be on sale on payday why miss out on the savings? Don’t cheat urself treat urself. Some of us women have to learn that we work hard and we deserve something special for ourselves sometimes. Psst im like the devil on ur left shoulder!
@Bird don’t do it! Savings is for emergencies only. If you must be sure to pay yourself back plus interest when you get paid.
San says: What a min now I loves a pedestal. Treat me like the Queen I AM and you will most def be treated like that King
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Btw, am I the only person that feels like sometimes keep your relationship problems to yourself. I think friends kimda get akick outta u going through a tough time. It’s like ok our problems don’t seem that bad. It’s like when u double date i secretly competing or something.idk it’s weird I guess. Like why wereApril and her hubby in their counseling session?????
@Bird I tend to hold on to my savings like its my last. I dont like the broke feeling, but that price is not bad for a Coach and you can always add the money back to your savings later
IT TAKES AN EXTREMELY SPECIAL PERSON TO DEAL WITH THAT CHILE TAMAR! SHE HAS NO CLUE!
Lots of typos with this ipad. Sorry guys
I see Sandra Vanzant is still tryna fix Tamar’s life.
you must have me mistaken for Vince…I only date submissive women.
missmiami and OTB
Thank you thank you!!!
I now have the courage to present the argument to hubby. He’s pretty agreeable when it makes sense. I will also check out the video on cleaning my current one. It has no tears or anything.
The ratings are down, cuz the First 48 comes on at 9 pm
I HATE the way Tamar has direahha(sp) of the mouth. Vince can hardly make a point w/out her babbling on like a banshee!
I HATE people like that period. You try to have a conversation w/them…and you can tell they aren’t listening, they’re just waiting on their turn to talk/prove that their right.
I’m learning to str8 up just walk away, and leave them mid-sentence.
I guess I’ll watch being that I don’t have shat else to do
slow day up here at the job
@ Bird if your savings can stand it, hubby says it’s a go then ur good. As a mom I rarely treat myself so when I do I still feel guilty so I ave to always justify it. I am sure you deserve it
I watched it…Vince is closed off, does not like to talk about his feelings and shuts down when Tamar starts to get extra…if they both don’t change their marriage does not stand a chance
OTB
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Vince and his friend sweating off just bouncing the ball was comedy
#FatAsFcuks
*Hollers for GG!!!!*
Hey boo – where ever you are!! I missed you in the post below.
I HAVE heard “Lately” – it had to grow on me, but I love the way she rearranges things. My mentor is scandalous!!!!
@ Bird if your savings can stand it, hubby says it’s a go then ur good. As a mom I rarely treat myself so when I do I still feel guilty so I ave to always justify it. I am sure you deserve it
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Tamar gotta learn to stroke her man and his ego sometimes. Plus her attitudewill startto make the next chicklook more appEasing. U can get more with honey verses vinegar. Plus if she wants to be talen seriously in the entertainment industry ahe needs to humble herself. The wayshe handled dude lastnight was ratchet. Being submissive is a form of power imo. It doesn’t mean u r weak
@Bird. I’d buy the Coach and place the money back in my account.
Also, I don’t know where you live but TJMAXX and Marshalls has Coaches, Dooneys and Michael Kors bag as well for low prices and tend to have more in stock around the holidays for gifts. TJMAXX has lay a away.
<—treats self. If mama aint happy..hrm. It always has to make sense tho. Like them two sweaters i bought for our non existent winter yesterday, I realized I cant pig out at the fair.
@KayCei!! I thought I saw a post saying you didnt like it?!?! I LOVE IT! From the very first listen..hearing the voice and instantly knowing its her, then already knowing the words but its still sounds new..
@ otb girl i was close to buying sweaters yesterday but stopped cuz we still have 80degree weather in the fall and winter
Milky says:
@bird i say buy the satchel and put the money back in ur savings when u get paid.
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DING DING DING DING! We have a winner. Bout to call hubby and ask right now.
I’m am a super duper anal/disciplined saver. Hubby gives me a lot of credit for that so I’m sure he’ll say yes.
Tamar use to get beat the hell up by her ex boyfriends (2 of them back to back) and she acts as if she wants an ass whooping from a man because that is what she was use to. She knows that Vince will not Knock her out, so she pulls his hoe card everytime.
Miss Mainey says:
@Bird don’t do it! Savings is for emergencies only.
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I agree. You won’t feel any better about yourself if you get a coach bag. There are so many other nice bags that you can buy for way less.
San says:
What a min now I loves a pedestal. Treat me like the Queen I AM and you will most def be treated like that King
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That’s the problem. You women want to be TREATED like queens but you don’t know how to ACT like one.
But @Miami they was only $25!!!
Sadddd. But you know what..its supossed to be 80 here over the weekend, low of 40.
So you guys might actually get to low 70s….in the mornings.
Sandra Rose says:
San says:
What a min now I loves a pedestal. Treat me like the Queen I AM and you will most def be treated like that King
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That’s the problem. You women want to be TREATED like queens but you don’t know how to ACT like one.
It’s not your man’s job to treat you like a queen. It’s your job to ACT like a queen and to treat your man like a king. He has other things to worry about, such as providing for you and your family.
What the heckif u can wear them once when it cold sometimes it’s worth it
@ Sandra, a womens role is to be subservient and by this you mean????
It seems like they just be going at it for no reason. I wonder if something bad happened to Tamar in her childhood that she doesnt talk about,because something is deeply wrong with her. I like her though, she just got issues up the ass.
Ok..the bag wasnt about feeling better about herself.
It is a need she is noticing..30 cent a day really. She doesnt buy frivolous things and being a Coach well made leather bag..it’ll last well longer than 5 years.
She doesnt want a LOUIS STEWART backpack, just a $97 Coach.
Auntie it’s some truth to what u saying. I learned this after we got married. Wasschooled by some family members that have been married for decades. Blessed that I have been fortunate enough to have good people around me that care and KNOW BETTER.
Sandra Rose says:
It’s not your man’s job to treat you like a queen. It’s your job to ACT like a queen and to treat your man like a king. He has other things to worry about, such as providing for you and your family.
Wait, would this make me a gold digger?
RoseBud83 says:
It seems like they just be going at it for no reason. I wonder if something bad happened to Tamar in her childhood that she doesnt talk about,because something is deeply wrong with her. I like her though, she just got issues up the ass
She was in abusive relationships
I watched last night’s episode and I was irritated by the way Tamar was acting. While I am sure Vince isn’t perfect and has things he needs to work on, Tamar is way over the top. I’m surprised he stayed with her this long. I watched each season of the Braxton’s and I was even annoyed at how she communicated with her sisters. Especially when it came to their relationships. She was so busy being extra judgmental of their relationships that she was unable to look in her own back yard to see that her husband is hella irritated with her and unhappy. Tamar has shown that she has no filter, is extra self-centered, and doesn’t mind acting obnoxious on television for ratings. Instead of trying to solely focus on a signing career that will likely flop like it did years ago when she first attempted musical success, she need to focus more on building her family and being more supportive of her husband. At the end of the day family should come first. I may not be the perfect wife, but I make certain that I am supportive of my husband to the best of my ability, and try to stroke his ego here and there. Heck I even let him think he’s right once in a while even though I know I usually am….lol
This man can’t even stand it when she talks. Each time she opens her mouth he is either dancing, making faces and rubbing his face. He checks out every few minutes when she expresses herself, that’s cold.
Sandra Rose says:
It’s not your man’s job to treat you like a queen. It’s your job to ACT like a queen and to treat your man like a king. He has other things to worry about, such as providing for you and your family.
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so vince is bruce kardashian, part deux?
Sandra Rose says:
It’s not your man’s job to treat you like a queen. It’s your job to ACT like a queen and to treat your man like a king. He has other things to worry about, such as providing for you and your family.
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You so mean and surly today.
OutsidetheBox says:
@KayCei!! I thought I saw a post saying you didnt like it?!?! I LOVE IT! From the very first listen..hearing the voice and instantly knowing its her, then already knowing the words but its still sounds new..
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You did Sugar-Boogar. It grew on me though. Once I started paying attention to her vocal arrangement, it was a wrap.
I am a singer, writer, and arranger. When the art is true, it cannot be denied.
That’s the problem. You women want to be TREATED like queens but you don’t know how to ACT like one.
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No the problem is generalizing all women PERIOD. There are women and I am including MYSELF that treat men the way they should be treated and therefore demand the same respect
I love how we give Men the excuse to do whatever and it’s all up to the woman to make his every command come true. Miss me with that bull. 2 way street over here