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US married father’s horror after wife places his child with an adopted family without telling him
Texas couple were experiencing marital trouble when husband took a job out of state leading to the quiet adoption

Judge has since found birth mother had deceived her husband, the adoption agency and prospective parents

Adopting couple of six other children given 60 days to give the child back to father

Adoptive parents say they plan to appeal the judge’s decision
By Nina Golgowski
PUBLISHED: 18:22 EST, 3 December 2012 | UPDATED: 10:58 EST, 4 December 2012
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A Texas man is battling for custody of his first-born daughter after his wife successfully gave her up for adoption without telling him – to a family who now refuses to return the girl.

Terry Achane, 31, a drill instructor in South Carolina, says it was just days after he left his pregnant wife for his new job out of state that she quietly signed over their unborn baby to a family of seven in Utah.
His newborn baby, whom he had wanted to name Teleah, was given to Jared and Kristi Frei, who now say the girl is theirs and won’t give her back without a fight.

Custody: A fight over custody of this baby who was unknowingly by her father put up for adoption by her birth mother in 2011 has her adoptive parents in Utah vowing an appeal on a judge’s ruling to give her back
Mr Achane says that he and his wife, Tira Bland, were having marital problems not long after learning she was pregnant in 2010, leading to her decision and his now spiraling struggle today despite a judge ordering the girl returned to him last October.

The now ex-husband says Ms Bland had suggested having an abortion or giving their child up for adoption – fearing she would end up as a single mother – but he said no, encouraging their daughter’s birth.
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It was just months later in February of 2011 that Mr Achane found himself sent to Fort Jackson in South Carolina for work, believing he’d leave and come back a new dad.

Ten days after his move, however, his wife went gave birth to a premature baby and signed away their child before cutting all contact with her husband.
‘I was like, “Utah? Where is Utah?” I’d never been to Utah. She’s never been to Utah,'” Mr Achane told the Salt Lake City Tribune of the moment he first heard the bizarre and horrifying news.
Sent to live with Jared and Kristi Frei, who had spent the last few years struggling to naturally expand their family of five children, the baby found herself in the city of Spanish Fork.

New home: Days after Tia Bland gave birth to her daughter while her husband was working out of state, Kristi Frei, a Utah mother of six others welcomed the baby into her home knowing that the father didn’t know about the adoption
‘We knew that we were not done having children, but after years of sudden infertility and several miscarriages … we discovered somewhere down the line that Kristi had advanced endometriosis, and would not likely conceive or carry another child again,’ the Frei family write of their struggle in a blog aimed at raising money for their court battle.

‘…little did we know the challenges and trials that awaited us in finding and fighting for this little girl.’- Frei family
Turning to adoption, in early 2009 the Frei family grew their family by one more with a baby boy named James.

Desiring to add one more child – ‘a close, similar sibling’ for James as they write – they found Mr Achane’s daughter, whom they named Leah.
‘Since that eventful day, we have, as a family, come to know that this dream was a righteous desire blessed to fruition by God, and that Leah would be that child – and yet, little did we know the challenges and trials that awaited us in finding and fighting for this little girl,’ they write.
The adoption agency Adoption Center of Choice told the new family that Mr Achane wasn’t aware of his daughter’s placement with them and he would most likely contest it if he had found out.
The Tribune reports that Ms Bland had given the adoption agency Mr Achene’s former address in Texas for contact, knowing full well at the time that he was not living there.

Scared: The baby’s mother, Tira, pictured, told the family in Utah that she was alone and scared during her baby’s birth and wasn’t sure if her marriage would last
With the judge’s recent ruling he noted the Freis family acknowledging the risk of the father’s upset but ‘decided they wanted to proceed forward with the adoptive placement anyway.’
Kept in the dark throughout this with months of being unable to reach his wife, Mr Achane asked a friend to visit her home in Texas who reported that the house appeared vacant.

Feverishly calling anyone who may know where his wife could be, while fearing she may have carried out the abortion she once threatened to do, he learned from a family doctor that his wife was no longer pregnant but they could not legally disclose what had happened to the baby.

An ounce of relief only came to the horrified man when his wife finally called him in June, telling him she had signed away their baby to the Frei family.

‘I believe she felt guilty at that point because she just made a call out of the blue,’ he said of his ex-wife’s phone call.

Once he learned of his daughter’s fate, he immediately tried to track his little girl down but upon contact with the adoption center they refused to disclose any information on her whereabouts.
The agency told the court in October that it was standard procedure to not share any information with a father of a potential adoptive child when asked.

Missing: The baby’s mother admitted to giving the adoption agency an incorrect address for her husband to use as contact, preventing him from finding out about his little girl’s whereabouts for months
‘I am not a very religious person,’ Mr Achane has since told the Tribune, ‘but thou shalt not steal.’

Speaking of the drawn out legal battle, he said: ‘If they prolong it, that is more time away from my daughter. There are precious moments I can’t get back. … It has been a year and a half now. There is no court order saying they have the right to my child. I just won the case. I want to get my daughter and raise my daughter,’ he said.

Judge Darold McDade berated the Adoption Center of Choice’s handling as ‘utterly indefensible.’

‘This is a case of human trafficking,’ Mr Achane’s attorney Mark Wiser told the Tribune.
‘Children are being bought and sold. It is one thing what [adoption agencies] have been doing with unmarried biological fathers. It is in a new area when they are trying to take a child away from a married father who wants to have his child.’
‘It has been a year and a half now. There is no court order saying they have the right to my child. I just won the case. I want to get my daughter and raise my daughter’- Terry Achane
When an attorney for the Frei family contacted Mr Achane, asking him to consent to the adoption, he said no and demanded his little girl returned to him – to the Frei family’s complete surprise.

‘Over the last 19 months, despite the law requiring that a father show interest in his child and at least attempt regular communication to establish a bond, the father has never shown any interest in Leah other than to hire an attorney,’ the family writes in their blog.

Despite a judge’s order to return the child within 60 days, the family now asks that his parental rights granting him custody of her be terminated.

They accuse him of abandoning both the mother and baby during her pregnancy and therefore demonstrating no capability for raising the girl.

‘The right of a fit, competent parent to raise the parent’s child without undue government interference is a fundamental liberty interest that has long been protected by the laws and constitution of this state of the United States, and is a fundamental public policy of this state,’ said Judge McDade.

He added that there is no law requiring the father to ‘prove himself’ as fit to father his own child.

‘Once Mr Achane contacted the Adoption Center of Choice … to let them know he opposed the adoption and wanted his daughter back, that should have been the end of this case,’ said Mr McDade.

Not going down without a fight, the Freis vow to appeal the judge’s decision, asking friends and family to support their case financially through their blog.

They note having paid for ‘two already expensive adoptions (each costing around $25,000),’ with a continuing fight only requiring more money.

Their online petition has since raised more than $20,000.

A hearing has been set for January 16 of next year on the child’s transition back to her father.

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This is what i read.

@Kay, From my understanding he PCS’d to SC to become a drill instructor and she stayed back in Texas because they had been having marital problems. SHe wanted to abort the baby from jump, but he wasn’t having it.

@Fay, It wasn’t the court that wouldn’t give him the info, it was the Adoption Agency, who were fully aware that the his wife was giving the baby up without his knowledge.

GellySammich says:

I don’t understand the law… within 60 days? to get MY child
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I didn’t understand that part either. It’s already been almost 2 fukkin years and he gutta wait 6 mo days

125 zurishay says:

Update: he got the baby back.

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SAy word?

No prob Gelly! I read it before i posted the story, but i still wanted others to have a chance to read it if they wanted to

Aspiring Model aka Sugar Foot says:

What yall talking about

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The sorry bish who gave her and her husbands child up for adoption with him knowing

@His

‘sup lovely…are you going to Arizona?

@Nikke

Let me find out she’s out here chasing that mermaid chick?
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U saying she went to pick up Aryn in NY

@Flo

F e li ne Fe m in ine

(just take the spaces out, I’m trying to still ride under Sandy’s radar!)

@His

*giggles*

@Fe

Thanks for what you did up there. AIN’T THAT SOME BULLSHIGGADY??!!!!

@Sandra up there deleting my comment…I am a mom dangit!

Shekinah Finna have all of y’all looking like a OMG girl

@A.J.

but you hurt ol’ girl’s feelings last week with the basketball game contest… I kind of felt bad for her because she sincerely meant everything in her post and it would have meant the world for her to go to the game with her hubby!

<— Wants Bird to win since her hubby skinned her had

@KDub

You can get an SR account with a paid ISP, it doesn’t HAVE to be a work email account…

Vdot just confirmed why i hate her

@His

PrincessPleasureMe or something like that…

I forgot to add that my baby mama ain’t never gonna let me smash looking like this. I’m just beside myself right now.
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girl, it’s all good…I’ll get that in nice and right for the both of us!

@luVn

mmmmhmmmm

@Harlem

She around…she always on Twitter

@Harlem

awww, I Twitter…Twitter’s never fukked my man or anything at all! *sniggles*

@luVn

Ummmm, you follow that bish from Oceanside, CA right???? Ask her…

Gigi26 says:

P.S. oh and Sandy, its me Ho’Boygah again, i forgot to tell u about that time that my 3rd babydaddy (father of my second child) hit me in the face with a full can of beer so i have a scar covering the entire left side of my face. he busted me 2 the white meat. we still together tho. he finna change, i believe in him. (this just happened on Thanksgiving) i could use makeup tips on how to hide that. i really need 2 win Sandra..

BUT if u dnt let me win, please give the makeover to Deandra. i wont even be mad..

signed with love & pump it up,
Ho’Boygah

there ya go DTTS!

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Fukk yew!

NaijaGal says:

Donna del Gatto says:

@Harlem

awww, I Twitter…Twitter’s never fukked my man or anything at all! *sniggles*
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same thing Malaysia said about Jackie

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Haaaa!!! Good comparison, because I did learn about some moles following my tweets but hopefully I was able to curtail alladat!

@ Donna, your bish rih

Dang, Sandra ain’t having it with these free accounts!