Lamar Odom Falls Asleep During Child Custody Hearing

Liza Morales and Lamar Odom

LA Cippers star forward Lamar Odom couldn’t keep his eyes open during his latest child custody hearing. The 6-10 star took a short nap on the hard bench at a NYC courthouse today. But a court officer, who overheard Odom snoring, interrupted his peaceful slumber.

“Excuse me, are you OK?” the officer asked Odom.

After Odom said he was fine, the officer said: “I need you to sit up.”

Odom sat up, but he eventually slumped over again, resting his head on his hand.

Odom’s baby mother, Liza Morales, is having a hard time getting over the fact that he has moved on without her.

Morales, who starred briefly in a reality TV show about famous exes, is fighting Odom over custody of their daughter Destiny, 14, and son Lamar Jr., 9.

TLC’s “Starter Wives” was reportedly cancelled over lack of public interest.

So now Morales, who refuses to date anyone else, has a lot of time on her hands again.

“[Lamar] is the only man I’ve ever been with. I know the worth of my cookies,” she once said.

In an open letter published today on The Daily Beast website, Morale said Odom’s whirlwind romance and marriage to Khloe Kardashian hit her hard.

“I don’t think I’ll forget the tight knot I felt in the pit of my stomach the morning I received the text message with three simple words on the screen. It read ‘I’m getting married’ and it was from the man I’d spent more than 10 years of my life with,” she said.

“Years that included us getting engaged in 2000 and becoming parents to one daughter and two sons. Yet not long after our separation Lamar Odom was getting married to Khloe Kardashian, a woman he’d met four weeks before.”

She added: “How could the man who’d constantly given me reason after reason for why we couldn’t get married just yet now be ready to tie the knot so quickly? There aren’t words to explain how I felt that day.”

She continued: “We kept things cordial for the children’s sake after the breakup, but that changed when he married Khloe,” she said.

“Now we only communicate through third parties and lawyers, which I regret deeply since it is exactly what we each experienced as children and said we wouldn’t do to our kids.

Morales’s emotional wounds are reopened every time she reads the blogs or watches the Kardashians on TV.

“As I continue to move on with my life, it can be difficult to avoid hearing about the Kardashians day in and day out,” she said.

“But I do what I can to ignore the constant chatter and I try to keep it from the kids as well so they can have a life that is as normal as possible.”

Morales said her relationship with Odom, whom she met in high school, severed her bond with her father.

“I did have a very close relationship with my father, whom I loved dearly and consider my hero. He worked very hard to make sure I could attend Catholic school and have everything I needed,” she said.

“But when I started dating Lamar that all changed. My father is Puerto Rican and he didn’t approve of me dating a black man.”

Photos: Talkingwithtami.com, Splash News



 


428 Responses to “Lamar Odom Falls Asleep During Child Custody Hearing”

  1. 1
    luVn_liFe... says:

    :smack: TOO much Suga

  2. 2
    Gigi26 says:

    Bytch jump off a bridge. Get over his glue sniffing ass already.

  3. 3
    rockstar says:

    So in other words ” He doesn’t give a fluck”.

  4. 4
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I find it funny, especially since Puerto Ricans have African blood :tea:
    Liza is a prettier version of Khloe so we know Lamar has a type with his ole Lurch looking ass

  5. 5
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Morales,is fighting Odom over custody of their daughter Destiny, 9, and son Lamar Jr., 5.
    ~ ~ ~ ~
    BUT Y R they Back in Court??? :blink: wasnt this already Handled?
    SANDRA?

  6. 6
    Diva says:

    He fell asleep cause he ain’t have his color book and 64 pack of crayolas that he naws on :rofl:

  7. 7
    Gigi26 says:

    And now this puta wants to throw the race thing in there…well you fukked him and had 3 kids by him and he’s a starrah lacing you with his cash so how does Papi feel about him now? He thought he was a goon or some shyt. Bytch please, fade to black. I don’t like Lamar’s stupid ass either but what is throwing this out there gonna do? He ain’t divorcing Khloe so just get you a Manuel or Jose and call it a day. Make your pops happy this time around….

  8. 8
    Aryanna says:

    I actually feel bad for her. I think she loved him. He didnt even know Khloe that well but married her all because who she was. Khloe wouldn’t have even looked twice at Lamar if he was just a regular guy. He aint even cute.

  9. 9
    Diva says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I find it funny, especially since Puerto Ricans have African blood
    Liza is a prettier version of Khloe so we know Lamar has a type with his ole Lurch looking ass

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: I shole did think ole girl up top was Frankenberry AKA Khloe!

  10. 10
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    My daddy told me, it doesn’t take a man a long time to figure out whether or not he wants to marry you. And if he don’t want to marry you, his ass ain’t going to marry you. Don’t waste your time tinka! :tea:

  11. 11
    luVn_liFe... says:

    :chase: GIGI I don’t like Lamar’s stupid ass either but what is throwing this out there gonna do? He ain’t divorcing Khloe so just get you a Manuel or Jose and call it a day. Make your pops happy this time around….
    :hahaha:

  12. 12
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    If she cared so much about her children and their relationship with their father, things would not have changed once she found out he was getting married to Khloe. I’m sure the signs were there waaayyyy before child number two that he wasn’t that in to her. Popping out some babies and sticking around through a bad relationship does not make a man want to be with you.

    Self Esteem of Your Mutha-Fukkin Self -Kat Williams

  13. 13
    Gigi26 says:

    Aryanna don’t feel sorry for her. She ain’t no different from many women who feel put the damn cart in front of the horse then expect everything to fall into place “logically.” Umm no.

    You were good enough to birth his children….that’s it mami. No mas.

  14. 14
    Miany says:

    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    The obvious choice for your dryness is some WHIP! the Candy Cane is one of my faves for the skin @Miany.
    ^^ I have lavender whip and I use it for my hair and feet. I won’t put it on my face (the problem area is nose and beneath eyes) because it’s scented and it’ll irritate my allergies if it’s so close to my nose.

  15. 15
    Betamax82 says:

    Umph :tea:

  16. 16
    Gigi26 says:

    :cosign: RIF. The signs were def there, she just chose or was blinded enough by the money to ignore them. Thought being a “NBA Girlfriend” was good enough…

    Liza, go see Iyanla and uhhh yeah, that’s it. Go see her.

  17. 17
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Miany try some OBAGI skin Products

  18. 18
    Miany says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:

    My daddy told me, it doesn’t take a man a long time to figure out whether or not he wants to marry you. And if he don’t want to marry you, his ass ain’t going to marry you. Don’t waste your time tinka!
    ^^ I’m inclined to agree with your pops… My co worker said he had a strong feeling about his wife in less than a month of dating. He obviously didn’t propose right away but, he said he knew. (he kept dating her to make sure she wasn’t crazy etc. but, he said he almost knew she was the ONE)

  19. 19
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I bet that daddy would have like Lamar if his ass married Liza after he got drafted. Lamar ain’t no looker so she was about that come up, why have babies with a man who refuses to marry you?

  20. 20
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    It’s not about blood line with Puerto Ricans. They are very aware there is African blood in them. Just like Spanish vs. Mexican… and Africa-Africans vs. African Americans (blacks)it is a cultural difference between PRs and American Blacks and many PRs don’t want their kids to water down the culture by dating and having babirs with an American … especially a black American.

    Just my educated opinion but, still just an opinion. I’m speaking in general and I’m sure not all fall into this category; obviously her dad does.

  21. 21
    Miany says:

    Gigi26 says:
    Aryanna don’t feel sorry for her. She ain’t no different from many women who feel put the damn cart in front of the horse then expect everything to fall into place “logically.” Umm no.
    You were good enough to birth his children….that’s it mami. No mas.
    ^^ :applause: she just mad cuz she wasted her groupie years in a relationship with him and now she can’t really get a baller

  22. 22
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    Yep, Miany, I have always listened to my father. I have heard too many stories of chick dating nuccas, taking care of their behinds for years, they break up and then he is engaged to some other chick that he has only been dating for six months. I feel bad for the women but sometimes I wanna say, “stop giving so much of yourself”

  23. 23
    Miany says:

    luVn_liFe… says:
    Miany try some OBAGI skin Products
    ^^ Thanks, I will look into it…I responded to you downstairs about Jazz in the gardens

  24. 24
    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Miany says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:

    My daddy told me, it doesn’t take a man a long time to figure out whether or not he wants to marry you. And if he don’t want to marry you, his ass ain’t going to marry you. Don’t waste your time tinka!
    ^^ I’m inclined to agree with your pops… My co worker said he had a strong feeling about his wife in less than a month of dating. He obviously didn’t propose right away but, he said he knew. (he kept dating her to make sure she wasn’t crazy etc. but, he said he almost knew she was the ONE)

    ________
    I agree with both of ya’ll. If you have been their girl for more than a few years…chances are that’s all you’ll ever be. Rather sad really but there it is.

  25. 25
    Nakeya_j says:

    I have serval problems with some things in this post. One being this:
    “How could the man who’d constantly given me reason after reason for why we couldn’t get married just yet now be ready to tie the knot so quickly? There aren’t words to explain how I felt that day.”

    Uhh duh. HE DID NOT WANT TO MARRY YOU. Plain and simple. I mean seriously? She dont have a momma or an aunt or someone who could tell her this?

  26. 26
    Str8tUpMenace says:

    Liza & Khloe favor each other.

  27. 27
    luVn_liFe... says:

    @Mainy I seenT it. and OH! :lol:
    Khloe doesnt LooK to bad in those pics Up top (for a change)

  28. 28
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    the rest of the pics and captions have me rolling!

    The Game (with a finger waves looking haircut) with Khloe and then Lamar with the caption of him having dinner with Kris Humphries.

    Sandra you are a trip. lol

  29. 29
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @RIF, yeah, I have heard that too, but I have also heard about Puerto Ricans as well as Dominicans not wanting to identify with their African lineage. So it could be one or the other, or both

  30. 30
    luVn_liFe... says:

    @MIRS
    :hug:
    YES They Do ALOT!

  31. 31
    Diva says:

    Never count those chickens until those muthafuggas hatch #helpful

  32. 32
    Gigi26 says:

    “stop giving so much of yourself”
    ———————–
    :yes: “Stop being a wife, when you legally have girlfriend benefits”

  33. 33
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Puerto Rico is a race where she from?

    I see Lam Lam aint the only crayon eater. I dont like this broad. :eek:

  34. 34
    Milky says:

    peeks in… is it safe in hur now????

  35. 35
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Say wut? :hahaha:

  36. 36
    Oldskool71 says:

    Nakeya says: HE DID NOT WANT TO MARRY YOU

    Exactly, she needs to read that book “He’s Just Not That Into You”…men usually break their arse for who they care about and want to be with with no excuses

  37. 37
    Diva says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @RIF, yeah, I have heard that too, but I have also heard about Puerto Ricans as well as Dominicans not wanting to identify with their African lineage. So it could be one or the other, or both

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :nono: Them porta Riffas don’t want to identify with african lineage!

  38. 38
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    MILKY :cheers:

  39. 39
    Gigi26 says:

    @OTB: I think her and Lammy back in the day used to eat crayons together :yes:

  40. 40
    Miany says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:
    they break up and then he is engaged to some other chick that he has only been dating for six months. I feel bad for the women but sometimes I wanna say, “stop giving so much of yourself”
    ^^ Man I have been called all typa bitter, you gonna be single for a long time, etc. cuz I always tell my friends.. “I’m single until I’m married” they mad cuz they know I mean it. I don’t really owe a man anything until the BOTH of us decide we are in it for the long haul. If I decide to :hump: this man until my husband comes along it’s my choice but, I ain’t tryna attach myself to anyone who isn’t mine forever. I :love: too dang hard to give that away for free.

  41. 41
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Milky :kiss: Onthe4head!
    Its always safe,Just act accordingly

  42. 42
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I thought dey was an ethnicity OTBey :rofl:

  43. 43
    Diva says:

    Milky says:

    peeks in… is it safe in hur now????

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    *grabs Milky’s booty right quick*

  44. 44
    Who Dat says:

    Dearest Liza:

    Hoe getcho LIFE. Who gives a flying fugg if Solomon “Hand That Rocks The Cradle” slow looking crayon eating azz is the onliest man who ever tapped that? He been married to Karl Kardashian Simpson Odumb for 3-4 years now. Get over it. Get the guap he send you for yall chirens…take care of said chirens…and K.I.M.

    He don’t wantchu no mo’ (Katherine Jackson voice).

    Your sister in Christ,
    KDub

  45. 45
    luVn_liFe... says:

    porta Riffas
    lol

  46. 46
    Diva says:

    Gigi26 says:

    @OTB: I think her and Lammy back in the day used to eat crayons together

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I could see em fugging up a pack of 64

  47. 47
    Nakeya_j says:

    I wonder does her father now tell her how stupid she looks. Not because he was black, but because her foolish ass thought time and babies equated to a marrage. Clearly she does not watch Maury. :tea: *in my Beyonce voice* “Sucks to be you right nowwwwwww”

  48. 48
    Daria Morgendorffer-La_la_la_la_La says:

    I see Lam Lam aint the only crayon eater

    :rofl: you better leave lam lam alone. You can tell by his frontal lobe that his soft spot never fully hardened.

  49. 49
    MsChavo says:

    Ummm, she is way cuter than Khloe anyway. But Khloe money is longer, and from a practical stand point, when thinking of long term stability, money can be a huge factor. I dont really blame Lamar, but I sure dont really respect it either.

  50. 50
    Aryanna says:

    @Gigi26

    Yes I understand, there are women like that who believe that having a baby by a man will make them set for life ( please see Toya Carter).. I just dont believe it was the case with her.

    I do agree with the statement made about it doesnt take a man long to know if he wants to marry you. I just dont know about Khloe’s reason.

  51. 51
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Good. Were all “here” on this Pelican. *sneer face* :lol:

  52. 52
    Str8tUpMenace says:

    Heyyy Luvn & all my bews!!! :hug:

  53. 53

    Yall know Lamar retarded azz has a scheduled nap time. Court date or not.

  54. 54
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Miany you betta do it boo, I think its so backwards that we tell men to live life, date, enjoy women but at the same time we tell women during this age you should expecting to be married or be in a serious relationship. How my ass suppose to be awaiting marriage when you told all them nuccas to be about that Hugh Hefner life?

  55. 55
    Nakeya_j says:

    “I’m single until I’m married”
    —-
    Sure ya right. Because on my damn 1099 from the IRS it sure don’t ask me about a damn boyfriend. It says single or married.

  56. 56
    OutsidetheBox says:

    Bologna. Its skin color. Thats why they have bleaching issues. Its not just culturally watering down the Puerto Ricans.

  57. 57
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Yeah, I mean many cultures with African blood get furious with being tied back to Africa where their own people sold them in to slavery. So, I think they hold the culture they were bred to have to heart and distance themselves. Kind of how Europeans threw their European servants in to America to build the land and kept them as slaves opposed to letting them come back to Europe after their debts were paid. Many white Americans despise Europe for that.

    Oh sh*t… nope, .. I’m getting too deep in to some mindful thinking. I promised I was not going to think that hard today.

    back to drinking and talking about nothing.

  58. 58
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    :rofl: yall so rotten, and my Kountry Kousin @KDub takes the cake

  59. 59
    Gigi26 says:

    And I’m pretty sure Liza father hated Lamar because he saw what type of nigga he was not just because he was black…if Lamar was Lamaro I’m sure he would’ve hated him the same.

    Fathers can tell when a nigga is coming to do damage and when he means well. He prolly saw what Lamar was gonna do a mile away and wanted to spare her the heartbreak.

  60. 60
    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Liza is giving me KeKe Wyatt in this picture. :thinking:

  61. 61
    Aryanna says:

    So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??

  62. 62
    luVn_liFe... says:

    I just dont know about Khloe’s reason.
    ~ ~ ~
    Desperate,did U see the other choices Omarion,some short oaf

  63. 63
    Nakeya_j says:

    Ummm, she is way cuter than Khloe anyway.
    —–
    But clearly not smarter. And it looks like she has real emotional problems, or no self esteem. Either way, Khloe looks like the better choice.

  64. 64
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @RIF I don’t necessarily agree with holding onto the culture as distancing themselves, well at least not in this context.

  65. 65

    @MS. CHAVO
    “Ummm, she is way cuter than Khloe anyway. But Khloe money is longer, and from a practical stand point, when thinking of long term stability, money can be a huge factor. I dont really blame Lamar, but I sure dont really respect it either.”
    __________

    :huh:

    Lamar has made over $100 million dollars in his career and he is in his early 30’s so he prolly still has one or two more contracts in him. Not including endorsement deals.

    He won’t get a dime out of the Kardashian family. :no:

    Khloe big nasty ass was stuffin them crayons in his ass when they was phucking
    :deadhorse: <<Khloe beating Lamar's azz up with them crayons

    …and Lamar was like this: :love:

  66. 66
    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    “I’m single until I’m married”
    —-
    Sure ya right. Because on my damn 1099 from the IRS it sure don’t ask me about a damn boyfriend. It says single or married.
    ________

    See there? This shyt right here? That’s why I love your font so. :lol:

  67. 67
    @NikkeMinxx says:

    Her parents were race mixing and fruit dont fall far from the tree. Her daddy trippeing…

    She had three kids for this due and one passed. The passing of a child has broken up a plenty airtight marriages so Im sure it wreaks havoc on girlfriend/boyfriend situations… especially whenhes halfway otu anyway. She needs to get over it. (Him leaving, not her kid passing)

  68. 68
    Nakeya_j says:

    So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??
    —-
    I guess it is different for everyone. But I sure told my bf either we are gonna piss or get off the pot. #Serious #JudgeYaMother

  69. 69
    luVn_liFe... says:

    if Lamar was Lamaro
    :crying:

  70. 70
    @NikkeMinxx says:

    what are they in court for anyway?

  71. 71
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Gigi so true, slow clap, this is real. Liza knew he was a knucklehead but she saw them dolla signs :love:

  72. 72

    @ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ______________

    :facepalm:

    What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?

  73. 73
    Nakeya_j says:

    :hug: VA!!!! lol I’m cracking up at you.

  74. 74
    MissHarlem says:

    She may need some self worth, esteem, respect etc BUT that does not erase them being together in HS and him leaving her after THEIR child died. Usually it takes 2 people to be fcks up so he dont get a pass either. Child aint even settled in the ground fully and he off and married so yea mentally she still a teenager but that was FOUL. Carry on :coffee:

  75. 75
    Daria Morgendorffer-La_la_la_la_La says:

    “[Lamar] is the only man I’ve ever been with. I know the worth of my cookies,” she once said.

    Girl…boo…them cookies is way past their shelf life. Truth is you ain’t found another rich dummy who wants them. Ol frigid arse. What man with money wants retard odoms left over cookies when they got thin mints outside of Kroger.

  76. 76
    Miany says:

    How my ass suppose to be awaiting marriage when you told all them nuccas to be about that Hugh Hefner life?
    ^^ :rofl: exactly. I ain’t the one to be…. “Yeah he cheat but, what man doesn’t at least I gotta man” nah kidd….I’m an all or nothing kinda chick. If it aint all, trust me you mean close to nothing to me in the grand scheme of things.
    I say to each her own cuz if she loves her man, I am no one to tell her to leave but, it ain’t for me.

  77. 77
    Who Dat says:

    and many PRs don’t want their kids to water down the culture by dating and having babies with an American … especially a black American.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I am still convinced this is why Jennifer Lopez aint marry Puffy. He said he asked too. She wanted them pure Puertoriqueno babies. Enter who? Mark Praying Mantis Anthony.

  78. 78
    luVn_liFe... says:

    @NikkeMinxx says:what are they in court for anyway?<-THIS! same thang i AsKed!

  79. 79
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @KDub she was scared them babies was going to come out looking too ethnic or worse looking like Diddy

  80. 80
    OutsidetheBox says:

    you better leave lam lam alone. You can tell by his frontal lobe that his soft spot never fully hardened.

    _________

    :rofl: :rofl: True..

  81. 81
    luVn_liFe... says:

    I am still convinced this is why Jennifer Lopez aint marry Puffy. He said he asked too. She wanted them pure Puertoriqueno babies. Enter who? Mark Praying Mantis Anthony.
    ~ ~ ~
    Mhhh HMMM

  82. 82
  83. 83
    Gigi26 says:

    @Who Dat: I’m pretty sure it was cuz Marc Anthony left that beautiful upright Dayana Torres or some shyt like that for J. Ho’s ass :no: See how that ended..

  84. 84
    OutsidetheBox says:

    you better leave lam lam alone. You can tell by his frontal lobe that his soft spot never fully hardened.
    ____________

    Whahhhh. Toya was like 14 and had been with Wayne for a while. :eyeroll: I dont think she fits that groupie mold.

  85. 85
    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    I think if you are happy then stay with whoever you are with. If you want to get married and he doesn’t then you need to move on. If you find yourself bringing up marriage before the man… on several occasions, you might want to think about your relationship and if you are willing to wait until he asks you because he is sick of you pressuring him about it. Are you really comfortable walking down the aisle with a man that you pressured in to marriage? If you are on baby number three and still looking for a ring….. yeah… good luck with that.

  86. 86
    Who Dat says:

    Girl…boo…them cookies is way past their shelf life. Truth is you ain’t found another rich dummy who wants them. Ol frigid arse. What man with money wants retard odoms left over cookies when they got thin mints outside of Kroger.

    :dead:

  87. 87
    Nakeya_j says:

    @Harlem

    Serious Question:
    So what was he supposed to do? Wait till when to leave her? Because it seems to me that the relationship was over before the kid died. That was just the door closer. I mean, should we really expect him to stick around, if he already checked out in his head? I don’t know. The whole relationship seems jacked up if you ask me.

  88. 88
    OutsidetheBox says:

    :cuss: That was suppossed to be to Aryanna about Toya. :eyeroll:

    The blog is wonky. Sandra on the prowl.. :warning:

  89. 89
    Aryanna says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ______________

    What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?

    __________________

    I guess I shouldn’t have asked everybody. Marriage is important to me so thats why I asked. Thanks.

  90. 90
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    did she say thin mints from Kroger, I can’t breath, OMG

  91. 91
    Nakeya_j says:

    You know, for Khole and Lamar to get married that quick, she has the most stable relationship out of all her sisters…and seems to be happy unlike the other 2. Good for them.

  92. 92
    @NikkeMinxx says:

    I dont think Toya fits here….. them Govan girls though? Absolutely

  93. 93
    MissHarlem says:

    Blacks in Latin America…a documentary series we were shipped off to damn near EVERY latin country and they def make sure they preserve their culture bc the spanish blacks get treated like chit and reminded as such. Peru still have cotton pickers and black Mexicans are in areas in Mexico where you need all the damn donkeys a paddle boat and an sos just to get there.

  94. 94
    Nakeya_j says:

    guess I shouldn’t have asked everybody. Marriage is important to me so thats why I asked. Thanks.
    —-
    I answered you!!! See #68

  95. 95
    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Miss Harlem Brazil has the largest African Diaspora in the world, so I am still trying to figure out the black boyfriend bit :tea:

  96. 96
    Nakeya_j says:

    I dont think Toya fits here….. them Govan girls though? Absolutely
    —-
    :cosign:

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    Betamax82 says:

    What man with money wants retard odoms left over cookies when they got thin mints outside of Kroger.
    ____________________________________

    :dead: :rofl:

  98. 98
    goat76 says:

    For the Daddies: The harder you try to push them away from something, the harder your daughters will BUCK!!

    I have a lil sympathy for ole girl, sympathy dack!!

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    If you are on baby number three and still looking for a ring….. yeah… good luck with that.
    ________

    ESPECIALLY if he KNOWS you want to be married. :yes:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ______________

    What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?
    ________
    I’m reminded of a friend who was with the same man for over 10 years. They didn’t see the point in getting married. She woke up to find him unresponsive one morning. His family (who he was not close with) came to the hospital and dictated to her when she could see him and for how long. The sister made the decision to pull the plug. They let her have absolutely no say so in his funeral arrangments. Buried him where they wanted to. And of course they fought her being beneficiary on his life insurance policies. Even threatened to take her to court for giving his clothes to Goodwill.

    Had she been his wife instead of his wifey…she coulda shut all that shyt down from the jump.

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    ok what we comparing, can we bring up Bron, Bron and Vannah. Vannah must of loved Lebron cause even at 14, he looked like somebody daddy

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    MissHarlem says:

    KEYA he should of left her when she was in her firt trimester of her first child bc they BOTH knew it wasnt going anywhere. But being a teenager they cant see past a day for anything they do. Both can kick rocks for I care. Im just stating what is ALWAYS forgotten with her I cant grow up and get better **** ass.

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    Who Dat says:

    @Who Dat: I’m pretty sure it was cuz Marc Anthony left that beautiful upright Dayana Torres or some shyt like that for J. Ho’s ass See how that ended..

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I always ask myself…How the HAIL did MARC ANTHONY get TWO women who have been voted The Most Beautiful Woman in the world? THE FAWKING ODDS ARE…?????? Dayanara is pure bred PR as well. Look who SHE had kids with. All of Marc Anthony’s kids are with pure blooded PR women. Even with his first BM.

    Also why JHo aint have chiren with Ben? He wont a nukka… but he also WASNT PR.

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    MissHarlem says:

    Oh and d!ck is now blocked bc I was fonting that all day every day.

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Harlem

    yup

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    You know, for Khole and Lamar to get married that quick, she has the most stable relationship out of all her sisters…and seems to be happy unlike the other 2. Good for them.
    ____________

    :thinking: IDK I belive the preggo struggle rumor.. And I think Kim is happy. :lol: If even in her own head.

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    Miany says:

    Aryanna says:
    So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??
    ^^ Most cases I feel like if he’s right he should propose before it gets to the point of her feeling ‘oh mi gawd it’s been soooo long’… A lotta times women (OR MEN) try to force it which is where all the foolishness ensues. IMO I spent 5 years with a man I knew I wouldn’t marry. He was good to me and I loved him so it was hard to leave but, something was a lil off and I knew it wouldn’t happen. Eventually, we parted ways. SOME WOMEN would take the length of the relationship, look at ALL the good, ignore the lil bad and say “when is he gonna propose, it’s been 5 years??”

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    goat76 says:

    I do have sympathy for her tho. He knew he didn’t want to marry her a long time ago. I just feel like that was wrong.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    I dont think Toya fits here….. them Govan girls though? Absolutely
    __________
    :tea:

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    @ARYANA
    “What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?

    __________________

    I guess I shouldn’t have asked everybody. Marriage is important to me so thats why I asked. Thanks.”
    ___________________

    Or just not asked at all. Seems like if it was “important” you would have an idea of how long you would be with someone without marriage.

    … or maybe deep down you know it’s unnecessary. :think:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    goat76 says:

    For the Daddies: The harder you try to push them away from something, the harder your daughters will BUCK!!

    I have a lil sympathy for ole girl, sympathy dack!!
    ___________
    :preach: I remember dating a dude that basically lived in the streets. Just slept wherever he ended up, but that niggah stayed clean and with a fresh pair of Jays. Just cause daddy didn’t like him. Hollerin bout “But Daddy I LOOOVVEE him!” Dude ended up “borrowing my car” without my permission. Last I heard he’s doing time for murder. God I was dumb. :smack:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    KEYA he should of left her when she was in her firt trimester of her first child bc they BOTH knew it wasnt going anywhere. But being a teenager they cant see past a day for anything they do. Both can kick rocks for I care. Im just stating what is ALWAYS forgotten with her I cant grow up and get better **** ass.
    —–
    I’m thinking the same. And don’t get mad, because I was serious. That relationship seemed real crazy to me. And the fact that his aunt is all in her face and talking smack about him….that realtionship was doomed. She needs to get some emotional help, so she can move on with her life, because no matter how many Jesus’ she prays to he is not coming back.

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    Who Dat says:

    The blog is wonky
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    RAGGELY

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    NaijaGal says:

    Blacks in Latin America…a documentary series we were shipped off to damn near EVERY latin country and they def make sure they preserve their culture bc the spanish blacks get treated like chit and reminded as such. Peru still have cotton pickers and black Mexicans are in areas in Mexico where you need all the damn donkeys a paddle boat and an sos just to get there.
    =====================
    I LOVED THIS DOCUMENTARY *me and you shall never part*

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    MissHarlem says:

    DUB you are a thousand percent correct :yes: her mom made it known that she wasnt having no child with no damn diddy and made it even more known to break up with him.

    SUTHERN yes ma’am you are correct

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    uthernBelle4 says:ok what we comparing, can we bring up Bron, Bron and Vannah. Vannah must of loved Lebron cause even at 14, he looked like somebody daddy
    ~ ~ ~
    U leave Bron/vanna ALONE :nono:
    anTeewayZ chille Bron is Aging Backwards,Cause he looks 10yrs younger these days :heart:

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    leoluv3 says:

    Considering Lamar and Liza weren’t together when he started dating Khloe, Liza should have started moving on then. Yes I’m sure it did hurt when he married her and that’s what you were looking for, however hunny your relationship was already OVER when they met, and not to mention y’all haven’t been together for at least 3 years now so you need to move on and GET OVER IT… Better yet, you need to find someone else to give the cookies too, then you’ll get over Lamar because you’ll be under someone else! And BTW, Lamar and Khloe make a cute couple, I don’t think she’s ugly and I actually think she balances him out, they’re relationship is more normal and consistent then them other two sisters’ of hers!

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    ok what we comparing, can we bring up Bron, Bron and Vannah. Vannah must of loved Lebron cause even at 14, he looked like somebody daddy

    ________

    :shocked: :shocked: YOUR THIRST IS REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL :shotsfired:

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    Gigi26 says:

    @Harlem and SuthernBelle:

    I truly believe any and every country that was European colonized will have these issues with colorism. The seed was planted too far back. Crazy thing is, my observation shows that when it comes to Puerto Ricans…a lot of deep Latin rooted countries don’t really look at them the same as one of their own..from the Spanish they speak, the morals they have n chit like that, they are too diluted to them….So for Liza to bring up the “black” thing is straight garbage imo…

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    Aryanna says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ARYANA
    “What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?

    __________________

    I guess I shouldn’t have asked everybody. Marriage is important to me so thats why I asked. Thanks.”
    ___________________

    Or just not asked at all. Seems like if it was “important” you would have an idea of how long you would be with someone without marriage.

    … or maybe deep down you know it’s unnecessary.

    _________________

    OR maybe its a gossip site and I was interested in EVERYONE ELE’S OPINIONS. Some one who talks with common sense. Since you dont know how to, Im going to do myself a favor and stop reponding to ignorance. Enjoy your day and I hope you feel better.

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    @ VA

    But they were happy together when he was alive right? I mean, once he died… let the family do whatever if that’s how they want to be. What a person’s family might do after death shouldn’t force a man in to marriage should it? I mean, if you are not seeing eye to eye then don’t be together but, trying to predict the future to force marriage seems off to me. I’m sure her happiness with him when he was alive is more important than the family acting a fool after his death. Families jump stupid sometimes even when somebody was married.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    spent 5 years with a man I knew I wouldn’t marry.
    _________________

    :no: Stayed with mine for nine long yurrs. Knew I warnt gone marry that man. :(

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    The blog is wonky
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    RAGGELY

    :wail: :rofl:

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    @SOUTHERN
    “ok what we comparing, can we bring up Bron, Bron and Vannah. Vannah must of loved Lebron cause even at 14, he looked like somebody daddy”
    ____________

    His middle school games were televised. She knew what the deal was way back then.

    She wasn’t goin ever leave no matter what that nigga did.

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    MissHarlem says:

    KEYA :lol: I aint getting mad

    NAIJA :hug: makedada

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    Diva says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??
    —-
    I guess it is different for everyone. But I sure told my bf either we are gonna piss or get off the pot. #Serious #JudgeYaMother

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: my crazy mama say shyt or get off the pot

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    NaijaGal says:

    I always ask myself…How the HAIL did MARC ANTHONY get TWO women who have been voted The Most Beautiful Woman in the world?
    ==========================
    cause Marc is the King…he is beyond popular amongst his people…don’t let them bones fool ya…dude has his pick of any woman he wants

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @OTBey @Luvn I am guessing yall are Bron fans, I am not here to shade but all I am saying Vannah loveded that man because Bron gots to be at least 102

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    Aryanna says:

    that_VA_thickchick says

    Thats sad.. :-( Im pretty sure she loved him. Yes being married makes the world of difference. Especially if you come from christian background. I work with health insurance and 401k and trust me… being a girlfriend doesnt get you many benefits. Some companieds honor it.. majority dont.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    anTeewayZ chille Bron is Aging Backwards,Cause he looks 10yrs younger these days
    ______________

    :huh: *hisses*

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    Betamax82 says:

    Had she been his wife instead of his wifey…she coulda shut all that shyt down from the jump.
    __________________________

    Truueee *2 Chainz voice* :tea:

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    Diva says:

    MissHarlem says:

    Oh and d!ck is now blocked bc I was fonting that all day every day.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I fonted that yestday too!!!! I guess Sandra got fed up with that vulgarity on her family oriented blog!!!! :buttshake:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I need to make a note never talk bad about Bron Bron again or I’ma e-die :rofl:

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    Who Dat says:

    even at 14, he looked like somebody daddy
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I looked at them clips of him in MIDDLE SCHOOL like you said and Bron azz is like Benjamin Buttons.. “He was born old”

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    Nakeya_j says:

    let the family do whatever if that’s how they want to be
    ——
    :no: Stop the track! Wait. If the family was not close to him, and she was. Then why as the distant family act as if she was not a heavy part of his life? Why treat her bad? See and I can agree with vA, had they had been married, they could not treat her like that. Why because in the laws of the US Goverment, the WIFE trumps all. Even your damn mother! Humph

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    :offtopic:

    For over a year I have basically kicked my sugar craving…. I went IN two days in a row with a snack sized blizzard.. now I have a reallly bad sweet tooth. Im feeling Pooky-ish. Any suggestions, I do not want to start gaining the weight I have successfully lost. :wail:

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    @ARYANA
    “OR maybe its a gossip site and I was interested in EVERYONE ELE’S OPINIONS. Some one who talks with common sense. Since you dont know how to, Im going to do myself a favor and stop reponding to ignorance. Enjoy your day and I hope you feel better.”
    __________________

    …everyone else’s opinion about YOUR life? Yeah right. Sounds like you just can’t handle common sense is all. You’ll be ok.

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Man the same way Kim KarTRAPshian does with her MEN :tea:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    cause Marc is the King…he is beyond popular amongst his people…don’t let them bones fool ya…dude has his pick of any woman he wants
    ~ ~ ~ ~
    U got dat RIght Sista,U See that pretty young thang he’s with Now?? :tea:

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    NaijaGal says:

    ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ======================
    I think 3 years tops

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    His middle school games were televised. She knew what the deal was way back then.

    She wasn’t goin ever leave no matter what that nigga did.

    ____________

    Im like :cry: Ive been in the gym forever with that nigga too..

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    Nakeya_j says:

    being a girlfriend doesnt get you many benefits.
    —-
    Correction: Being the girlfriend leaves you NO benifits. Please read your 1099. And I am so serious when I say that. The goverment could care less about your bf or gf. Your husband or wife, they care about.

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    @ VA

    But they were happy together when he was alive right? I mean, once he died… let the family do whatever if that’s how they want to be. What a person’s family might do after death shouldn’t force a man in to marriage should it? I mean, if you are not seeing eye to eye then don’t be together but, trying to predict the future to force marriage seems off to me. I’m sure her happiness with him when he was alive is more important than the family acting a fool after his death. Families jump stupid sometimes even when somebody was married.
    __________
    You definitely have a point. Marrying just to collect on an insurance policy or have some say so is not the move. But speaking from the conversations I had with this particular person though…she wishes she’d married him. For the reasons I stated earlier, yes. She hated the way these people who were practically strangers shut her out of the final moments of his life. But also deep down she knew she always wanted to marry him but felt like they’d get around to it eventually but never did.

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    Aryanna says:

    Miany says:

    Yeah some women do chose to settle! I see it all the time. If you dont have the title.. dont play the role. Why pay extra for a job that you’re already doing for free!

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    Diva says:

    Aryanna says:

    that_VA_thickchick says

    Thats sad.. Im pretty sure she loved him. Yes being married makes the world of difference. Especially if you come from christian background. I work with health insurance and 401k and trust me… being a girlfriend doesnt get you many benefits. Some companieds honor it.. majority dont.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Just like a side-ho…you ain’t got no benefits!!!!!! I saw this first hand….a lady I know was lliving with dude (her boyfriend and her baby daddy) He passed away. The wife came and got his car from the girlfriend and his belongings!!!! #bam

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    @GIGI
    “I truly believe any and every country that was European colonized will have these issues with colorism.”
    _____________

    Asians do too though dating back centuries (geisha girls) and they were never colonized.
    :think:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    OutsidetheBox says:anTeewayZ chille Bron is Aging Backwards,Cause he looks 10yrs younger these days
    ______________

    *hisses*
    :stop:
    ION :love: LBJ like u,thats YO MAN!i :heart: for his BsktBll Skills! YES!! Ya know ima SprtsFANaTic!!

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    Diva says:

    Aryanna says:

    Miany says:

    Yeah some women do chose to settle! I see it all the time. If you dont have the title.. dont play the role. Why pay extra for a job that you’re already doing for free!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    and why buy the cow when you can get the milk for FREE!!!! #blamemymamaforthis

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    Miany says:

    from the Spanish they speak, the morals they have n chit like that, they are too diluted to them….So for Liza to bring up the “black” thing is straight garbage imo…
    ^^ It’s the fact that they themselves SEE the similarities. They hate what they see in themselves so they try to overcompensate by saying living and doing this kinda ignorant shii in a desperate attempt to seperate themselves.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Any suggestions, I do not want to start gaining the weight I have successfully lost
    ~ ~ ~
    YEAH cut That Shyte OUT @WUT!

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Gigi its a hiearchy within the Latino/a community just like our community, colonialism, imperialism, and post colonialism did a number on ppl of color everywhere

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    @OTB
    “His middle school games were televised. She knew what the deal was way back then.

    She wasn’t goin ever leave no matter what that nigga did.

    ____________

    Im like Ive been in the gym forever with that nigga too”
    __________________

    :rofl:

    :huh: “Who is you?” -Lebron talkin to OTB

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    Nakeya_j says:

    and why buy the cow when you can get the milk for FREE!!!! #blamemymamaforthis
    —-
    Chile yes!! IIf you want me to do wife type things, guess what, I suggest you buy a ring and get it poppin. Because playing house is for the birds. #YesISaidIt

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    Just Looking says:

    Hell, I married one and we was together for 15 years, I knew it wouldn’t last after year 2. :cry: #wasteoftime

    Thanks for for my child :whistle:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    let the family do whatever if that’s how they want to be
    ——
    Stop the track! Wait. If the family was not close to him, and she was. Then why as the distant family act as if she was not a heavy part of his life? Why treat her bad? See and I can agree with vA, had they had been married, they could not treat her like that. Why because in the laws of the US Goverment, the WIFE trumps all. Even your damn mother! Humph
    ___________
    Girl look how Anna Nicole and that old man’s son BOTH went to their graves still fighting over that Crypt Keepers money. :no:

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    NaijaGal says:

    He passed away. The wife came and got his car from the girlfriend and his belongings!!!!
    ==========================
    that’s why a lot of women don’t file for divorces…they know the wife trumps…ALWAYS…marriage just means less justification and less paperwork :tea:

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Nakeya

    All I’m saying is that they could not of predicted the actions of his family. So, get married over a possible crazy family? I mean, I understand the family was f*cked up when it came to her and being married would have been to her benefit in the situation of him getting sick and then dying but, if they were happy not being married… should they have gone on a negative conspiracy theory about his family and used that as a reason to get married?

    I’m just giving a different opinion. Again, some families act a fool even when people were married. It’s a sad story for sure but, if they were both on the same page about not marrying then, there were just bad consequences to their decision but, they were still happy while he was alive.

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    Who Dat says:

    cause Marc is the King…he is beyond popular amongst his people…don’t let them bones fool ya…dude has his pick of any woman he wants
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Oh my deceased stepfather was PR and yeah he is HUGE in PR. HUGE. I been knowing about Marc since shyt forever. Before he was English language.

    He is up there with Tito Puente…Ralph Mercado far as the legends go for that genre.

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    @SOUTHERN
    “@Man the same way Kim KarTRAPshian does with her MEN ”
    ______________

    :stop:
    Men fall in love with Kim naturally. The rest of these hoes tryin to get pregnant on the second date.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    If you dont have the title.. dont play the role
    :clap:

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    NaijaGal says:

    ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ======================
    I think 3 years tops
    ———————-
    If you are dating with a purpose of finding a husband,you should let that person know as soon as you feel you are interesting in more than just a cut thang. Most women don’t do that cuz they feel it will run the man off, but if he is also dating with a purpose it shouldn’t and the ones that are just in it to smash as long as you’ll deal with it, will head for the hills… :shrug:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Man But Asians did that WAY before yts entered their arena.
    Women in the Tang Dynasty, the “geishas”, used the white makeup because sun darkened “workers”. They were nobles, so they had to be set apart. The men were still Asian yellow tho.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Men fall in love with Kim naturally
    :smack:

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    Aryanna says:

    @ Nakeya_j

    No CORRECTION.. when I said many benefits I meant that. I just dont do 401k.. I also take care of health insurance. Some companies honor domestic partners… but you’re right.. for thr 401ks the goverment states the spouse is automatically the bene unless they give up that right.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    Ya know ima SprtsFANaTic!!
    _________________

    :lol: :yes: I just have to mess with you. Vannah aint studyin’ me. :cry:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    ok @MAN whatever helps you sleep at night :tea:

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    I guess my point is, if you are happy, then be happy in whatever situation you are in. If you want to be married, don’t take advice from single lonely people. If you don’t want to be married, don’t take advice from people who do. If you are happy, don’t take advice from unhappy people. If you are unhappy, shut up. lol

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    Gigi26 says:

    He is up there with Tito Puente…Ralph Mercado far as the legends go for that genre.
    —————————-
    :yes: Shiiid Ricky Martin can’t touch Marc Anthony :no:

    Marc Anthony has hits though :lol:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Diva says:

    Aryanna says:

    that_VA_thickchick says

    Thats sad.. Im pretty sure she loved him. Yes being married makes the world of difference. Especially if you come from christian background. I work with health insurance and 401k and trust me… being a girlfriend doesnt get you many benefits. Some companieds honor it.. majority dont.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Just like a side-ho…you ain’t got no benefits!!!!!! I saw this first hand….a lady I know was lliving with dude (her boyfriend and her baby daddy) He passed away. The wife came and got his car from the girlfriend and his belongings!!!! #bam
    __________
    Wife aint no dummy. And a lot of time “our people” won’t initiate divorce proceedings until they are ready to get married again. They could care less. I know a couple that was “separated” for 15 years. Man died, wife shows up at the funeral dressed in all black complete with veil and handkerchiefs acting every bit of the grieving widow. Wouldn’t even let the man’s daughter have the flag off the coffin. She took it cause she was the wife. It’s probably still in the trunk of her car.

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    Miany says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    spent 5 years with a man I knew I wouldn’t marry.
    _________________
    Stayed with mine for nine long yurrs. Knew I warnt gone marry that man.
    ^^ It’s ok cuz you KNEW you weren’t gonna marry him. At least you weren’t disillusioned. Some women swear he gonna marry her cuz she proves she’s his ‘ride or die’ chile you gonn a ride him every night and die waiting on that ring.

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    Nakeya_j says:

    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Nakeya

    All I’m saying is that they could not of predicted the actions of his family. So, get married over a possible crazy family? I mean, I understand the family was f*cked up when it came to her and being married would have been to her benefit in the situation of him getting sick and then dying but, if they were happy not being married… should they have gone on a negative conspiracy theory about his family and used that as a reason to get married?

    I’m just giving a different opinion. Again, some families act a fool even when people were married. It’s a sad story for sure but, if they were both on the same page about not marrying then, there were just bad consequences to their decision but, they were still happy while he was alive.
    —-
    I hear you. And it really is not for everyone. And it is a personal choice. But I know the wife trumps all. And really if we are together and we are happy, to me I feel like why not get married? Why not be more than a boyfriend or a girlfriend? Again, its a personal choice. But her she me, I don’t want to be some mans girlfriend all my life. Screw that. But to each it’s own, and God Bless.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    “Who is you?” -Lebron talkin to OTB
    ___________

    :rofl: :rofl: I cant let any of my connects in Miami go for fear of severing my “six degrees of separation” tie with him.

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    I’m really starting to feel like i’m the only person I know/”know” with ZERO desire to marry. Well the only female anyway.

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    NaijaGal says:

    I been knowing about Marc since shyt forever
    =========================
    and I think that’s why J Lo chose him when she was done being “black” and “white” and wanted to corner the “messican” market…and as already stated she knew she weren’t having no mulatto babies

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    Aryanna says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.

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    What are yall talking about? Just left the bus stop and when I got there there was a lil girl that had a not in her pocket for me from her daddy. It said SEAN 404-555-1234(but his real number) Lets talk about dinner plans. How cute was that?

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    :whistle: Oye Como Va

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    Nakeya_j says:

    It’s probably still in the trunk of her car.
    —–
    I cracked up when I read that part.

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    Diva says:

    NaijaGal says:

    He passed away. The wife came and got his car from the girlfriend and his belongings!!!!
    ==========================
    that’s why a lot of women don’t file for divorces…they know the wife trumps…ALWAYS…marriage just means less justification and less paperwork

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    And she was supposely engaged to dude for like 3 or more years!!! nothing she could do!!!!!! wife didn’t give a damn…and the girlfriend had to bury him…… :smack:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    I guess my point is, if you are happy, then be happy in whatever situation you are in. If you want to be married, don’t take advice from single lonely people. If you don’t want to be married, don’t take advice from people who do. If you are happy, don’t take advice from unhappy people. If you are unhappy, shut up. lol
    ______
    Translation: “Do you, I’ma do me,and don’t ask me shyt!” :rofl:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    If you are dating with a purpose of finding a husband,you should let that person know as soon as you feel you are interesting in more than just a cut thang. Most women don’t do that cuz they feel it will run the man off, but if he is also dating with a purpose it shouldn’t and the ones that are just in it to smash as long as you’ll deal with it, will head for the hills…
    _________________

    :) THIS.

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    Sam says:

    Hi Roses!!!!! and dudes

    whatcha’ll talkin about :popcorn:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    What are yall talking about? Just left the bus stop and when I got there there was a lil girl that had a not in her pocket for me from her daddy. It said SEAN 404-555-1234(but his real number) Lets talk about dinner plans. How cute was that?
    —-
    That was cute. Listen, now that you told us this much, we will want to know what happened at dinner. lol.

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    @OTB
    “@Man But Asians did that WAY before yts entered their arena.
    Women in the Tang Dynasty, the “geishas”, used the white makeup because sun darkened “workers”. They were nobles, so they had to be set apart. The men were still Asian yellow tho.”
    ________

    :huh:
    That’s what I was telling ol girl. Asians been having issues with color long before yts came around so you can’t always blame colorism on them.

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    J-Lo and Marc Anthony’s all Spanish duet CD got plenty rotation with me.

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    Nakeya_j says:

    If you want to be married, don’t take advice from single lonely people.
    —–
    Why do ppl do this? Hello, they are single, lonely, and BITTER (lmao, this blog loves to say that) Why take advice from them?!

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Aryanna

    Maybe because she let him do it?

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Miany says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    spent 5 years with a man I knew I wouldn’t marry.
    _________________
    Stayed with mine for nine long yurrs. Knew I warnt gone marry that man.
    ^^ It’s ok cuz you KNEW you weren’t gonna marry him. At least you weren’t disillusioned. Some women swear he gonna marry her cuz she proves she’s his ‘ride or die’ chile you gonn a ride him every night and die waiting on that ring.
    ~ ~ ~
    I was with my ex 9yrs,Met my hubby 6months after him and we married in 18mths.
    I knew i was NOT Gonna Marry my ex,it was all fun/Games :tea:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Man but we were talking about countries that Europeans colonized so where’s the confusion?

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    Gigi26 says:

    @Man But Asians did that WAY before yts entered their arena.
    Women in the Tang Dynasty, the “geishas”, used the white makeup because sun darkened “workers”. They were nobles, so they had to be set apart. The men were still Asian yellow tho.
    ——————————-
    Thank You. I wasn’t gonna go into this here… :lol:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    YOUR NAME HERE! says:

    What are yall talking about? Just left the bus stop and when I got there there was a lil girl that had a not in her pocket for me from her daddy. It said SEAN 404-555-1234(but his real number) Lets talk about dinner plans. How cute was that?
    ______
    I KNEW IT! I read your font about that Daddy like “he tryin’ to get at you!”

    Don’t stop pop that pop that pop that pop that :whistle:

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    Diva says:

    <—-glad I'm wifed up…and have been for 23 years!!!! But baybeh iffin I ever gets free for whatever reason I will have a boyfriend for the rest of my years on God's green earth!!!!!!

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    Just Looking says:

    still in the trunk of her car.
    _________________
    Giggles

    ride him every night and die waiting on that ring.
    ______
    The lyrics are Bands will make her dance, but if you smart. Save that kind of dancing till you get the band. :tea: JMO

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    NaijaGal says:

    Asians been having issues with color long before yts came around so you can’t always blame colorism on them.
    ===============================
    well they were obviously influenced by the looks of Europeans…I’m still baffled that they bleach their skin…blacks wanna be their color, they wanna be Nicole Kidman :lol:

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    :hug: and :kiss: @ Sam

    Hell you been yo?! :wail:

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    Aryanna says:

    @ReadingIsFundamental

    Exactly.. they can only do what you allow.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Wut try dried fruit, fresh fruit, baked apples with cinna, ice cream sandwiches (really..each one only about 150 cals) and plain M&Ms!

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    @NikkeMinxx says:

    :danban: go ‘head Gyp!

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Hello, they are single, lonely, and BITTER (lmao, this blog loves to say that
    :smack:
    YES,#forShame

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    and while colorism examples precede Europeans, we were discussing it in a specialized context

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    Again, its a personal choice. But her she me,

    ________
    :hahaha: Why did I read this, pop my lips, and fling my hair all while bouncing in my seat?

    BOOM #tamar’sworld

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    Nakeya_j says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    ——
    The answer to this is (for me) NO! Listen, I love my son, and would not trade him for anything. Even on his worst day. But I would NEVER MARRY HIS FATHER. I don’t care if I was dying and all I had to do was marry him to have life. I still would not do it. Yes the correct Christian way is to get married and then have babies, but shoot, sometimes you find out when it’s too damn late that someone is not marrage material.

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    Gigi26 says:

    @Man but we were talking about countries that Europeans colonized so where’s the confusion?
    ————————-
    Thank You. :rofl: Fukk I care about Genghis Khan n the Wangs for? We ain’t talking about em, we talking about Marshmallow lady up top!

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    NaijaGal says:

    you do not need to be married nor have kids to give sensible advice…gtfohwtbs

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    Just Looking says:

    @RIF – :happy: :rofl:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    Why did I read this, pop my lips, and fling my hair all while bouncing in my seat?

    BOOM #tamar’sworld
    —–
    But why when I was typing it I was saying it in my Tamar voice. :hahaha: #SheRatchet

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    Sam says:

    Hey Dimpz :happy:

    1) my job is crackin the whip so I can’t post as much
    2) been dealing w/ my sil she had both her breast removed last week :wails:
    3) also been dealing w/ my aries :wails: we mad cause I won’t agree to the no condom thing just because we tested okay :(

    otha than that eatin sleepin and being merry :happy:

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    Just Looking says:

    @NikkeMinxx & Dimpz :hug:

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    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Diva says:

    <—-glad I'm wifed up…and have been for 23 years!!!! But baybeh iffin I ever gets free for whatever reason I will have a boyfriend for the rest of my years on God's green earth!!!!!!
    __________
    I said this when I first got divorced. But honestly, the jury is still out on that. I might be convinced to tootsie roll on down the aisle one mo gin. :danban:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    and it might not have started with Europeans but hell they shole ending it with the eye lid surgery and bleach blond hair :rofl:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    NaijaGal says:you do not need to be married nor have kids to give sensible advice…gtfohwtbs
    ~ ~ ~ ~One would think so :shrug:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    you do not need to be married nor have kids to give sensible advice…
    —-
    Naija I love your font, however, I am not about to take advice on some things about kids from ppl who have not one chick nor child. #YouCanJudgeMeItsOk

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    Asians been having issues with color long before yts came around so you can’t always blame colorism on them.
    ________

    But is that “issues” with color? Yes..but not to the extent that the African lineage in the West has, I would say.

    Asians show their “dislike of self” influenced by the West (crakkas and their media stronghold definition of beauty) through eye lid surgeries.

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    Diva says:

    :hug: Sam :happy:

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    Sam says:

    you do not need to be married nor have kids to give sensible advice
    ^^^
    :no: not at all

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    blah blah blah blah cry me a river :blink:
    Bish needs to be grateful for her blessings instead of letting the world know of her thoughts FOHWTBS yo :mad:

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    @SOUTHERN BELLE
    “@Man but we were talking about countries that Europeans colonized so where’s the confusion?”
    __________

    The same things occured BEFORE the Europeans colonized tho for various reasons at different times.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    @SAM
    OMg :(

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    I have no idea who this man is so dinner is prolly out the question. Nucca prolly got a baby mama that is the reason he gave it to the daughter all sealed up.

    But I will keep yall posted.

    About the topic of shacking/marriage.
    Most men get comfy and if you giving him errythang without the rang he gone keep it like that. Yall know with me I been seeing dude on and off(mostly on) for 5 yrs. he met my kids when they were 1 and 2 and now they are 6 and 7. He came the other day to hang pictures and Big Girl Gyps busted out laughing and said “you still around?” He can only #Occupy pucci between the hours of 10pm and 6am. I’m not looking for anything and unless he talking commitment and marriage nicca will still be punching in the late shift.

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    Sam says:

    hey diva hun you still in here drankin :)

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    Betamax82 says:

    :hahaha:

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    Aryanna says:

    Nakeya_j says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    ——
    The answer to this is (for me) NO! Listen, I love my son, and would not trade him for anything. Even on his worst day. But I would NEVER MARRY HIS FATHER. I don’t care if I was dying and all I had to do was marry him to have life. I still would not do it. Yes the correct Christian way is to get married and then have babies, but shoot, sometimes you find out when it’s too damn late that someone is not marrage material.

    _________________

    Yes I believe everyone makes mistakes.. so I understand your situation. That was for the women who really want to be married with a guy but settle for just a girlfriend like Lamar’s old girl. She let him give her all the reasons why he couldnt married her but still stayed in a relationship her. You on the other hand sound like you dont want NOTHING to do with your son’s father. lol

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Man I know that, but we were talking about those instances, like I said we were talking about a specific context

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    :hug: @ Looking How you be love?

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    :nana:

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    Sam
    fugg you bean yo #rhetorical
    :hug:

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    @SOUTHERN BELLE
    “and while colorism examples precede Europeans, we were discussing it in a specialized context”
    __________

    There is no “specialized context” unless it was one you invented.
    :think:

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    NaijaGal says:

    Naija I love your font, however, I am not about to take advice on some things about kids from ppl who have not one chick nor child. #YouCanJudgeMeItsOk
    =============================
    didn’t your friend with a kid tell you, you were doing too much with the site and see words with your son? that’s my point…cause this childless wonder was giving props and thumbsup all the way

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    Gigi26 says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    ————————————-
    Cuz some folk live in denial, some find out “too late”, shyt happens, and some…well ion know. A lot of situations can explain this really.

    I run from niggs who say “You gonna have my kids” before they say “i’ma make you my wife” Its just ass backwards to me. Its easy to get someone pregnant and walk away. It ain’t that easy to walk out of a marriage. That’s a vow you made to God and he makes sure it ain’t easy to walk away from.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    well they were obviously influenced by the looks of Europeans…I’m still baffled that they bleach their skin…blacks wanna be their color, they wanna be Nicole Kidman

    _______________

    Before they ever really saw whites they used white paint because of class systems. Noble ladies needed to be whiter than regular ladies (regular ladies “work” and hence tanned)

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    Diva says:

    Sam says:

    hey diva hun you still in here drankin

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: they got me on this 21 step program :ghost:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    and honestly I don’t think what the Asians necessarily did could be interpreted as colorism at least not in the context I’m talking about

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    Sam says:

    I know luvin :wails: All I can do these days is just be thankful :no:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    You on the other hand sound like you dont want NOTHING to do with your son’s father. lol
    —-
    lol lol FTR He is a great dad. I can never take that from him. Anything past being nice for the kid, I can not do. But I do want to get married. Just not to him. lol lol

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    216 was for the odom’s bm #nocontroversy
    ===============
    Sam :hug: you sister-in-law is so lucky to have you around!

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    umm Man there is a different context, and no I didn’t invent it

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    Diva says:

    @DTTS :hug: hey babes

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I feel like you comparing apples to oranges

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    Aryanna says:

    Sam says:

    you do not need to be married nor have kids to give sensible advice
    ^^^
    not at all

    ________

    I agree. My grandma use to say ” you dont have to pay for your sense all the time”. Some situations you should be able to look at and know thats something you dont want to get in to. I dont have to be Tina Turner to tell women not to let a man beat on you…Good advice is good advice and some people avoid it and use that as a cop out just because they dont want to listen anyway.

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    Gigi26 says:

    Shiid if you ask me Asians are knee-deep in the “fukk up your face, hair, body up” business and the “Raise your self esteem bidness” as well :lol:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    also been dealing w/ my aries we mad cause I won’t agree to the no condom thing just because we tested okay

    ________

    So sorry to hear about your SIL. May she been rid of that stinky cancer.

    Why he mad? He dont know the 6month rule?

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    Sam says:

    diva damn they had to add steps on you :rofl:

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    Just because he nutted don’t mean he wanted to wife her up :shrug:

    #notgettingthetwoconfused :tea:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    didn’t your friend with a kid tell you, you were doing too much with the site and see words with your son? that’s my point…cause this childless wonder was giving props and thumbsup all the way

    Hummm true. Very true. Ok your right. Because that heffa…nvm….but you sure were. #Checkmate

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Sam says:I know All I can do these days is just be thankful
    ~ ~ ~
    that Is ALL :hug: So Sorry to hear that

    AND SCREW THAT SHYTE!!!Keep Strapping up! :tea:

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    Just Looking says:

    @Sam – Sorry to hear about that.

    @Dimpz – Started doing laundry today, it looks like it’s the entire neighbor brought there clothes over. I thought he had be doing the laundry. “barely” :cry: :mad:

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    @ New Girl…..You working all day today?

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    Diva says:

    Sam says:

    diva damn they had to add steps on you

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :chase:

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    UUMMMM

    Nobody said anything about single or people without kids not being able to give sensible advice Ms. Naija if you were referring to my comment.

    There are times, I feel that people go to the wrong type of people to get an answer to their particular situation. Like why ask someone who is not married, don’t wanna get married and is negative about you wanting to get married at all?.. was my point. I don’t put all people in boxes so, my comments are for the situations and people they would apply in and to.

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    Hey MsDiva, this bish looks like emily, no?

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    NaijaGal says:

    Interesting about the Asians…so where did they get the idea fron? so did the Europeans get it from the Asians because they too used to put on white powder :thinking:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    Naija I love your font, however, I am not about to take advice on some things about kids from ppl who have not one chick nor child.
    __________

    :huh: IDK @Keya. Some of the BEST advice I have gotten for my child rearing has come from them childless. The schools are full of childless women and men. :(

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    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    Just because he nutted don’t mean he wanted to wife her up

    #notgettingthetwoconfused

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :ghost:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    I don’t have kids but I know children need discipline, love, and support. By no means am I going to tell parents what to do with their children but I think its unfair to exclude people just because.

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    Aryanna says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    ———————-
    This I think is her fault as well. We choose to settle on Baby Momma. If you are a woman who seeks to be married before you have kids, protection has been in this country for soooooo many years so to trust that a man may or may not marry you because you have his kid is unbalanced thinking. Yes there are “accidental pregnancies” but not 2-3-4 times in a row.

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    FuturedocDonte says:

    Lamar got on a flight jacket :shrug: didnt know they still made those

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    MzDimplez1123 says:

    @ New Girl…..You working all day today?

    Not if I can help it :ashamed:
    Imma go into :warning: Snow Mode in about 40 minutes :yes: #word

    You?

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    Gigi26 says:

    Before they ever really saw whites they used white paint because of class systems. Noble ladies needed to be whiter than regular ladies (regular ladies “work” and hence tanned)
    —————————-
    I think it had something to do with purity and being held in the highest regard..like a God…

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    :mad: with Looking.

    You know they don’t like laundry. I do all the laundry and Big Buddy be complaining about smelling sweet. Wash ya own drawls then. :shrug:

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    Oh and my uncle’s GIRLFRIEND of 44 years asked him recently if he wanted to get married…he didn’t answer as he was packing his clothes for the weekend to go over his other GIRLFRIEND’S house of 12 years. And his other baby mama who he has 3 kids with is still in the picture…If you want more require more :coffee:

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    goat76 says:

    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @ARYANNA
    “So question for everyone.. how long should a woman stay in a realtionship wihout being married??”
    ______________

    What marriage got to do with it? If you like that nigga and yall having fun, why you care if you married or not?

    I mean really?
    ________
    I’m reminded of a friend who was with the same man for over 10 years. They didn’t see the point in getting married. She woke up to find him unresponsive one morning. His family (who he was not close with) came to the hospital and dictated to her when she could see him and for how long. The sister made the decision to pull the plug. They let her have absolutely no say so in his funeral arrangments. Buried him where they wanted to. And of course they fought her being beneficiary on his life insurance policies. Even threatened to take her to court for giving his clothes to Goodwill.

    Had she been his wife instead of his wifey…she coulda shut all that shyt down from the jump.
    ————————-
    Or just have a Will, and make here the beneficiary.

    I’m still looking for a good beneficiary…lol

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    Aryanna says:

    I run from niggs who say “You gonna have my kids” before they say “i’ma make you my wife” Its just ass backwards to me. Its easy to get someone pregnant and walk away. It ain’t that easy to walk out of a marriage. That’s a vow you made to God and he makes sure it ain’t easy to walk away from.

    ____________________

    Yes.. I agree with you lol im like let me know I mean something more to you than just sex lol

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    NaijaGal says:

    RIF – I just saw the comment, didn’t know who it came from but it still stands…as you’ve stated it’s nice to get a different perspective…the chick who stayed with an abusive man is probably going to give you a different advice than the one who left or one who’s never been beat…just b/c I haven’t been in the situation does not mean I cannot give great sensible advice…as the old saying goes you don’t have to taste the honey to know it’s sweet

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    Stop putting me in a box RIF :mad:

    #controversy
    :rofl:

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    @ New girl….I been here since 7 so, I get off at 3:15. Gonna run to Sally’s then go home and hybernate. :yes:

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    Diva says:

    :offtopic: Another Kardashian has been introduced to the dark meat!!! Kylie and Jaden Smith are dating :smack:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    Ok so I stand corrected. So how about I adjust it. I am now not taking advice from people who already have a negitive outlook on whatever. People without kids or a husband/wife can still be objective.
    P.S. Naija, thanks to you and others here my kid can now spell: hat, cat, mat, rat, sat, pat, at, narrow, shallow, wandered, and amazing. #VeryProudMommy

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    @SOUTHERN GIRL

    yeah, must be apples to oranges cause one way or another seems like you are going to hold “Europeans” responsible for whatever so I get it.

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    NaijaGal says:

    And of course they fought her being beneficiary on his life insurance policies.
    =======================
    now this shouldn’t have been an issue…interesting

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    but what I don’t get is why would you have children by a woman you don’t want to marry doe. If you really don’t like that wench, having a baby is going to leave you stuck with her for at least 18 years :thinking:

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    Sam says:

    So sorry to hear about your SIL. May she been rid of that stinky cancer.

    Why he mad? He dont know the 6month rule?
    ^^^^^

    yeah thing is she doesn’t talk about anything we thought she was havin the tumor removed she called saying “her girls are gone” at 24 I just didn’t think about this stuff it’s sad :no: I guess we should have known the tumor was the size of a potato **sigh** but now she has fluid in her lungs and developing blood clots :wails:

    It’s not a 6 month rule, I like him but I love myself more and if my body is tellin me not to sleep with you without a condom I don’t care what a test says, and the way he actin after I voiced my uncomfortableness left me questioning other things. I will move when my body and mind tells me to move, but if both ain’t agreeing it’s a no go…

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    My Gma was with her husband for about 30yrs before they got married. :shrug: They’ve always had a decent relationship from what I’ve seen.

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    FuturedocDonte says:

    My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    —-
    I agree… But some women say that then spread them legs hoping to have a baby thinking the kids will make him stay :nono: folk need to learn their worth

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    Gigi26 says:

    Just because he nutted don’t mean he wanted to wife her up

    Thank and you. A lot of females get this confused. A nut is only a biological activity. No emotional feeling attached to it. Maybe after a good session but trust he can get that same nut with a bust down and feel the same way.

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Naija… I will drink to that. :koolaid3:

    Then again, I will drink to anything but, it’s nice when there is a reason. :-)

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Diva says:Another Kardashian has been introduced to the dark meat!!! Kylie and Jaden Smith are dating
    ~ ~ ~
    :stop:
    I thought he was In2 Kendel???? da Fugg Lemme Go SEE :pc:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Man that’s not what I am doing, I think that’s an unfair description on your part about what I was talking about but since you are going to act that way nvm

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    Aryanna says:

    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says

    This I think is her fault as well. We choose to settle on Baby Momma. If you are a woman who seeks to be married before you have kids, protection has been in this country for soooooo many years so to trust that a man may or may not marry you because you have his kid is unbalanced thinking. Yes there are “accidental pregnancies” but not 2-3-4 times in a row.

    _____

    YUP.. most of the time.. this comes from TRYING to keep a man or competing with another girl!

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    Nakeya_j says:

    Oh and my uncle’s GIRLFRIEND of 44 years
    —–
    I’m sorry I could not read past that. I’d be damned.

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    Looking, do that laundry and fix him a sammy pronto! :mad:

    :newbie: <–on his side today! :nana:

    :dead: at big buddy smelling sweet!

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    Sorry about SisinLaw Sammy. :hug:

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    Just Looking says:

    because he nutted don’t mean he wanted to wife her up
    ______________
    “busted” out laughing :rofl:

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    *going for the goodie prize*
    Nakeya, did you see the word that I recommended for the lil one? :waiting:

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    @YOUR NAME
    “Oh and my uncle’s GIRLFRIEND of 44 years asked him recently if he wanted to get married…he didn’t answer as he was packing his clothes for the weekend to go over his other GIRLFRIEND’S house of 12 years. And his other baby mama who he has 3 kids with is still in the picture…If you want more require more ”
    _______________

    :lol:
    But they all happy tho right? I bet she be glad sometimes when he go to his other girlfriend house!

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    @ New Girl…I use detergent scent booster AND fabric softener sheets. He be smelling fresh out the dryer. :rofl:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    So in 2013 people have not yet learned that having a baby does in fact NOT keep a man? Oh ok.

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    It’s been fun… I love when there are good convos on SR. It usually goes downhill after a ban but, it seems we have overcome. ha.

    Lunch time! (its only 12:25 here… JESUS!!!)

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    Just Looking says:

    @DTTS – Um you know I barely started walking :sad: Next you going to tell me to start running and biking to work. “hands on hip”

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    Gigi26 says:

    @MAN: Its simple effing English bro. I clearly said that in the context of Liza saying that her pops didn’t like her with Lamar cuz he was black. Sheesh. That was the context of my statement. Nothing more, nothing less.

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    OutsidetheBox says:

    @Wut try dried fruit, fresh fruit, baked apples with cinna, ice cream sandwiches (really..each one only about 150 cals) and plain M&Ms!
    ————————
    :smack: the blizzard was a M&M one…does that count? :rofl: I kid, I am going to walmart for some trail mix with dried fruit when I get off. That should curve the craving and give me a protein balance to help kill the craving… :pray: I HOPE!

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    yeah thing is she doesn’t talk about anything we thought she was havin the tumor removed she called saying “her girls are gone” at 24 I just didn’t think about this stuff it’s sad I guess we should have known the tumor was the size of a potato **sigh** but now she has fluid in her lungs and developing blood clots
    :pray:
    for ur SIL SAM thats So SAD,Very

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    MsDiva & Looking

    hose :ha: be killing me in ‘shock’ that “he’on want me like that” and I be all :huh: bish you knew he ain’t wantcho ass ‘like that’…

    She stuck around for baby 2,3 :shrug:

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    NaijaGal says:

    RIF :rofl: between you and DIVA I don’t know who’s the bigger lush…I think you win cause you actually drink on the job :cheers:

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    Gigi26 says:

    Oh and my uncle’s GIRLFRIEND of 44 years asked him recently if he wanted to get married…he didn’t answer as he was packing his clothes for the weekend to go over his other GIRLFRIEND’S house of 12 years. And his other baby mama who he has 3 kids with is still in the picture…If you want more require more ”
    ——————–
    sorry but :rofl: Da FCK IS THIS?! 44 years?! :ghost:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    *going for the goodie prize*
    Nakeya, did you see the word that I recommended for the lil one?
    —-
    Yes I did. And I did start that the other day!! Thank you very much! I’m really trying over here.

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    Diva says:

    @Sam so sorry about your SIL :hug: :hug:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    Interesting about the Asians…so where did they get the idea fron? so did the Europeans get it from the Asians because they too used to put on white powder
    _________

    :thinking: Its deep… I believe the yts mustve gotten it from the Asians. Most places in history were “conquered” by northern “lighter” ppls. Over time lighter became better because it was the dominant force. Very simple answer but I think youll get the jist of it.

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    Just Looking says:

    But they all happy tho right? I bet she be glad sometimes when he go to his other girlfriend house!
    ________
    Prolly :yes: since they cool like that :shrugs:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    girlfriend of 44 years, when they get together, when they was 12? :rofl:

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    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Naija..

    Sh*t.. where is the hidden camera?

    … As I was about to go back to Hulu and watch a movie after I just popped the top on this Limearita!

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    NaijaGal says:

    SAM :hug: and :hug: <—–for your SIL…hopefully she's being encouraged to get counseling or group therapy

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    Diva says:

    NaijaGal says:

    RIF between you and DIVA I don’t know who’s the bigger lush…I think you win cause you actually drink on the job

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :trophy: biggest lush award goes to RIF :rofl:

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    Gigi26 says:

    Damn yo uncle got the game down pact…shiid my Gawd…

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Just Looking says:Um you know I barely started walking Next you going to tell me to start running and biking to work. “hands on hip”
    I AGREE W/Smurfette LETS GO!!!GET2Moving them HIPS!

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    @FUTURE
    “My take is.. if a man can make you the mother of his children ( WHICH IS PERMANANET).. then why cant he make you his wife. You gave this woman a role to be responsible for your children for the rest of their lives.. yet she isn’t good enough for you to marry? This is so backwards. Too many babymamas and not enough wives.
    —-
    I agree… But some women say that then spread them legs hoping to have a baby thinking the kids will make him stay folk need to learn their worth
    _____________

    A man give the ingredients, the woman decides what to do with them. So if she CHOSE to have a baby, she CHOSE to be a baby momma. Don’t complain about it after the fact.

    Sometimes them traps be backfiring is what it is.

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    :steer: <–treadmill Looking *cues Move Something*

    :kiss: You know I'm joshing you honeybun!

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    Nakeya_j says:

    Ummm so my faunt is now white Naija?!

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    Diva says:

    ReadingIsFundamental says:

    Naija..

    Sh*t.. where is the hidden camera?

    … As I was about to go back to Hulu and watch a movie after I just popped the top on this Limearita!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    *moves trophy over and slides under RIF for a limearita*

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    Nakeya_j says:

    *going for the goodie prize*
    Nakeya, did you see the word that I recommended for the lil one?
    —-
    Yes I did. And I did start that the other day!! Thank you very much! I’m really trying over here.
    <–is bout to catch Nakeya inna lie :yes:
    What was the word? :waiting:

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    Who Dat says:

    My Gma was with her husband for about 30yrs before they got married. They’ve always had a decent relationship from what I’ve seen.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    My daughter’s grandmother and her man got married when my daughter was six.

    They had been together twenty two years.

    My BD gave his mama away.

    Her and the man have been together since my BD was about eight his own daggone self.

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    Just Looking says:

    @OTB – Drink more water, I’ve drank so much water. That’s my new required diet, ginger ale taste like pure sugar. Don’t even want nothing sweet. :nono:

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    Sam says:

    44 years of being a girlfriend…chile……….. whew!!!! :rofl: that nucca smooth as otb skin :rofl:

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    Let me give yall a break down on the Kardashian’s and their dating of black men. They grew up with parents who were friend’s with an interracial couple OJ and Nicole and Lionel and his wife at the time. The girls were friend’s with black children all day every day. Sydney and her brother and Nicole Richie. Along comes Lauren London and Malika and Khadijah. Please remember that this is Beverly Hills. As Armanians to the YT’s they were black cause they weren’t YT. WHo did yall want them to date if all that they were around was blacks. If I lived with YT’s like that I’m sure I would have YT boyfriend. I don’t see the big deal! JMO!

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    GET2Moving them HIPS!

    :shakebutt: and then :hump: #inthatorder :D

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    Aryanna says:

    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says

    This I think is her fault as well. We choose to settle on Baby Momma. If you are a woman who seeks to be married before you have kids, protection has been in this country for soooooo many years so to trust that a man may or may not marry you because you have his kid is unbalanced thinking. Yes there are “accidental pregnancies” but not 2-3-4 times in a row.

    _____

    YUP.. most of the time.. this comes from TRYING to keep a man or competing with another girl!
    ——————-
    :yes: I have a friend who has kids the same age as another woman just about. They are both sleeping with the same dude! Their esteem is so low that they are fight each other over him. This negro don’t work (except in the bedroom obviously) and they are both fighting to stay with this negro who chooses to stay where he wants when he wants. Somedays over her house some days over the other chicks. And she cuss him out each time, he fuks her silly and she all goo goo ga ga the next day :no: How silly is that? in the mean time the babies keep coming like they in a race to have his last baby or some shyt..

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    @diva
    Jaden went on a few dates w/kendall :huh:
    but now with KYlie :no:
    I guess

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    I think it had something to do with purity and being held in the highest regard..like a God…
    ___________

    Absolutely. You is one smart cookie @Gigs. :heart: Being noble meant you had a right “ordained by God”. :yes:

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    GAGIRL87 says:

    I did have a very close relationship with my father, whom I loved dearly and consider my hero. He worked very hard to make sure I could attend Catholic school and have everything I needed,” she said.

    “But when I started dating Lamar that all changed. My father is Puerto Rican and he didn’t approve of me dating a black man.”
    _____________________________________________________________________

    I was feeling her until she said this so on that note BISH PLS :rolleyes”

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    wait, did I miss something :blink:

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    Sam says:

    thanks everyone for the well wishes :hug: :happy:

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    who cares about the k family? :huh:

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    All he got to do is buy her a pack of Newports and fifth of Gin!

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    @YOUR NAME
    “Let me give yall a break down on the Kardashian’s and their dating of black men. They grew up with parents who were friend’s with an interracial couple OJ and Nicole and Lionel and his wife at the time. The girls were friend’s with black children all day every day. Sydney and her brother and Nicole Richie. Along comes Lauren London and Malika and Khadijah. Please remember that this is Beverly Hills. As Armanians to the YT’s they were black cause they weren’t YT. WHo did yall want them to date if all that they were around was blacks. If I lived with YT’s like that I’m sure I would have YT boyfriend. I don’t see the big deal! JMO!”
    ______________

    :coffee:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Is it time for March Madness . .

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    wait, did I miss something :blink:

    :shrug:

    :rofl:

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    Just Looking says:

    @DTTS – Hmpph I thought you had been talking to mister. He was you all better now right. You want to go to the track? Dude is you serious. :rofl: Yes, he was serious.

    Gonna start stretching and 3 pounds weights on Monday.

    How was drinks last night. I would love a glass of wine :sad:

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    Diva says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    @diva
    Jaden went on a few dates w/kendall
    but now with KYlie
    I guess

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I guess he thinking if Kendall didn’t let me get it I’ll try Kylie…. :shrugs:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Anybody see duke/DaCanes Game?? Lord they had me cewing on my damn CUTicles!

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    Sam says:

    @man, i question myself when I agree with your posts :rofl: lerdt!!!!!

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    NaijaGal says:

    Ummm so my faunt is now white Naija?!
    ===============
    all white everything :lol: I kid I kid…did you ask me something I missed…sorry :hug:

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    <–is ready for March Madness

    #competitive

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    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    who cares about the k family?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Nobody :tea: :rofl:

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    We are in the K family post kinda and I swear something always gets said about them dating black men and personally I don’t care.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    :rolleyes:

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    GAGIRL87 says:

    It read ‘I’m getting married’ and it was from the man I’d spent more than 10 years of my life with,” she said.
    _____________________________________________________________________

    Regardless of what that had to be painful :cry:

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    Just Looking says:

    “But when I started dating Lamar that all changed. My father is Puerto Rican and he didn’t approve of me dating a black man.”
    ___________
    No man wants to be with a woman, that admires her father and not him. :nono: Too much friction.

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    NaijaGal says:

    “Let me give yall a break down on the Kardashian’s and their dating of black men
    =====================
    Kourtney just likes cream though, she ain’t never wanted chocolate
    :no: :lol:

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    Sam says:

    All he got to do is buy her a pack of Newports and fifth of Gin!
    ^^^^^
    boy the simple life :rofl:

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    Who Dat says:

    and Lionel and his wife at the time
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Yeah cause Brenda (Lionel’s first wife) by the time you talking about…had already kicked him and Diane’s (that yt hoe) gatdayum azz… ‘Bama style.

    Brenda Ritchie whooped BOFF the man AND the yt hoe DOWN you hear me? She is still on my list of she-ro’s.

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    We were all :love: yesterday!

    Him: Chamone to the track :rofl: I :heart: it!

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    Sam says:

    44 years of being a girlfriend…chile……….. whew!!!! that nucca smooth as otb skin
    ———————-
    My Grandparents on my moms side was like that, I never knew they weren’t married.. of course until he died and his udder children from his first and only marriage came and tried to claim the 82 acres from my mother and sisters and brothers. See this is that classic shyt that we miss. Why live all your life in insecurity. If you gone be with me for ever why not have the benefits of it? If you are living 20,30 years in a relationship that has two incomes or maybe only his, and he dies, how will you survive now on that one income or now having no income? You can’t draw his social security or even his death benefit cuz what… no marriage.

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    @SAM
    “i question myself when I agree with your posts lerdt!!!!!”
    _________________________

    Embrace my wisdom.
    :coffee:

    **pinches on your butt**

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    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    <–is ready for March Madness

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :thinking: Is this a big March linen sale? :rofl:

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    Aryanna says:

    @WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!?

    Sounds like some chicks I know! When I have my children I will be married. I know I cant control what he does.. but I can set standards.. and thats what I notice that these chicks lack. They fronting like they okay with being just a baby mama just to keep a man. Men really aint gone push the issue of getting married. The mature ones will.. but the dogs will lay up in your house.. drive your car.. have sex with you.. and every thing else that a husband will do.. but WILL NOT make it official. Thats OUR fault though. Set your standards… mean what you say… and if he’s not at least trying to meet you half way.. then move on. You will look up and be 80 years old being somebody’s girlfriend.

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    @SAM
    :stop:
    Wait, before you get to flirtin and chit with me, you are a natural born female right? :huh:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    @JUST I am dranking SO much wata. :( Yall gonna be the deaF of me. *rubs big belly* :lol: Thats @WUT up there tryna figure out how to indulge in a sweet treat without gorging on them.

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    wait what, I’m still missing something

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    <–is ready for March Madness

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Is this a big March linen sale
    YES LET ME KNOw when annas Gets it Popping!!! MmmmKAY!

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    FuturedocDonte says:

    :offtopic:
    So at first I was :pray: that it won’t gon snow until I came to work today and they said “if it snows tomorrow don’t come to the hospital”… So now I been Holy Ghost :pray: that the bottom fall out. I know God like :mad: make up yo mind

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    Diva says:

    Who Dat says:

    and Lionel and his wife at the time
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Yeah cause Brenda (Lionel’s first wife) by the time you talking about…had already kicked him and Diane’s (that yt hoe) gatdayum azz… ‘Bama style.

    Brenda Ritchie whooped BOFF the man AND the yt hoe DOWN you hear me? She is still on my list of she-ro’s.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Lionel and the then girlfriend were petrified of Brenda after that beat down!!!! She whooped that azz!!!!! :rofl:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    that nucca smooth as otb skin
    __________

    :rofl: I fought the air for those women. Im too mad at his pimp hand! :rofl:

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    Who Dat says:

    Kourtney just likes cream though, she ain’t never wanted chocolate
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    She the same age as one of them racist Hilton sisters that they also grew up with too. I think Nicky.

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    NaijaGal says:

    I think most of us could care less who someone dates as long as it’s genuine…when people speak on it I think it’s usually referring to those who put down an entire group and that’s usually based off of some ignorance…cause best believe if black dudes side-eye the mess out of a sista when she steps out with a white guy…I remember dudes going crazy when they found out Paula Patton was married to Robin Thicke and she’s not even full negro :lol:

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    My mama STILL talks about Brenda Ritchie. LMAO

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    Sam says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @SAM

    Wait, before you get to flirtin and chit with me, you are a natural born female right?
    ^^^^
    nigga :rofl: and :yes: :hahaha:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    shid the KarTRASHians can date or marry whoever they want, that ain’t what the deal is. Its the promotion of hoe s***

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    Just Looking says:

    @Dimpz – He said he was tired. I was so heated when I got to the laundry room, I almost passed out.

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    See this is that classic shyt that we miss. Why live all your life in insecurity. If you gone be with me for ever why not have the benefits of it?
    __________

    …and there you have it…. :coffee:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:wait what, I’m still missing something
    ~ ~ ~ ~
    suthern Sweety . . babes Wuts DO YA Think UR Missing??
    I cant HELP I Just wanna Know.Truss IMA ALways missing shyte
    but DO TELL :lol:

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    Diva says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    <–is ready for March Madness

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Is this a big March linen sale
    YES LET ME KNOw when annas Gets it Popping!!! MmmmKAY!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :nono: a bish don't fugg wif nothing Anna got!!! That shyt aint no good!!! :rofl: where the fugg you get a 24 piece comforter set for 39.99?

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    :chase: MsDiva
    #fortheloveofhumanitypleaseeeeeeeeeee
    :rofl:

    ================
    Somebody, get Southern a newport and gin or something yo :rofl:

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    Ummm, Scott was Kourtney’s first YT boyfriend. Saw it in an interview.

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    I have a friend who has kids the same age as another woman just about.
    _______

    Thats a terrible story. :( My kids are the same ages as their sibs too, but I didnt know until years after I left him anyway.. :shrug:

    He bought one of them over Sunday. Fella having a rough time, bout to send him to boot camp. :( His mamie just got out of prison her damn self.

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    Diva says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @SAM

    Wait, before you get to flirtin and chit with me, you are a natural born female right?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can breathe…man wants to make sure you ain’t got a ****LE :dead:

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    @NAIJA
    “I remember dudes going crazy when they found out Paula Patton was married to Robin Thicke ”
    _____________

    I think she like women more than dudes and Robin ol junkie azz just glad to be around.

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    <–was at a fune and the real wife who was married to him when he was a soldier came through :blink:

    Talk about bananas!

    #wifegetsitall :tea:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    where the fugg you get a 24 piece comforter set for 39.99? :shrug: IONo

    @OTB
    Fella having a rough time, bout to send him to boot camp. His mamie just got out of prison her damn self.
    :(

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    Diva says:

    :smack: we can no longer font dyckle…fo shame Sandra Rose a dyckle is a small pickle!!! :rofl:

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    FuturedocDonte says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    <–is ready for March Madness

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Is this a big March linen sale
    YES LET ME KNOw when annas Gets it Popping!!! MmmmKAY!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    a bish don't fugg wif nothing Anna got!!! That shyt aint no good!!! where the fugg you get a 24 piece comforter set for 39.99?
    —-
    It could be for a twin size bed :yes:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @luvn I’m trying to figure out where the Kardashians got inserted, if anything I am mad at the fact Kim got on the come up with a sex tape that was bad. :cuss: instead of the men she date. Regardless of how tacky I think the Kardashian family is, every woman deserves to be happy

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    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!? says:

    Aryanna says:

    @WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!?

    Sounds like some chicks I know! When I have my children I will be married. I know I cant control what he does.. but I can set standards.. and thats what I notice that these chicks lack. They fronting like they okay with being just a baby mama just to keep a man. Men really aint gone push the issue of getting married. The mature ones will.. but the dogs will lay up in your house.. drive your car.. have sex with you.. and every thing else that a husband will do.. but WILL NOT make it official. Thats OUR fault though. Set your standards… mean what you say… and if he’s not at least trying to meet you half way.. then move on. You will look up and be 80 years old being somebody’s girlfriend.
    —————-
    :yes: and if in your heart, you want to be married but is just settling, you are doing yourself an injustice. don’t be afraid to walk away. If he loves you like he say he do when he is between your legs, he will do right by you.

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    Sam says:

    Just an opinion

    if yall in relationships with dudes for over 3 years and he ain’t asking or looking like he wanna get married and you are not ready to leave. The $$ he gives you put in a separate bank account, if you guys break up or he leave years down the road you SHOULD have some nice duckets…take a trip to somewhere nice to mourn what was not.

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    Diva says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    where the fugg you get a 24 piece comforter set for 39.99? IONo

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    annie be selling that as a special…..comforter so thin you can see the mattress through it :rofl:

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    @DIVA
    “Wait, before you get to flirtin and chit with me, you are a natural born female right?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can breathe…man wants to make sure you ain’t got a ****LE ”
    __________________

    Muthaphucka name is “Sam!”

    I ain’t want no confusion and chit down the line.

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    Who Dat says:

    is ready for March Madness

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    If you STAY ready you aint never gotta GET ready.

    KDub stay ready for college bball starting in SEPT :yahoo:

    I mean I be laying in the bed some nights in early fall :sad: wishing HARD reggulah season would start already….Fugg the Maui Invitational and the Alaskan Shootout.

    Be on Google checking all the teams sked and putting them on my calendar :pc: <<<< my fanatical azz.

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    In other news, Ima need a newport on Sataday, my Tarheels play them Debils

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    Gigi26 says:

    Brenda Ritchie whooped BOFF the man AND the yt hoe DOWN you hear me? She is still on my list of she-ro’s.
    —————————
    Brenda did that shyt for her ancestors :rofl:

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    Diva says:

    FuturedocDonte says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    <–is ready for March Madness

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Is this a big March linen sale
    YES LET ME KNOw when annas Gets it Popping!!! MmmmKAY!

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    a bish don't fugg wif nothing Anna got!!! That shyt aint no good!!! where the fugg you get a 24 piece comforter set for 39.99?
    —-
    It could be for a twin size bed

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    It be a queen though…the twin prolly $19.99!!!! :ghost:

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    So my Uncle and Aunty Girlfriend got together when they were 17 and they have 5 children. He stepped out on her and had 3 kids with another. Their first born boys are Junior’s cause they have his same exact name and the same bdays and are 4 yrs apart. All the children have the same, all 8 have the same initials. The kids have always been around.

    No kids with the latest girlfriend though. She is his escape as he explained it.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    @suthern :smack:
    Shyte Ya alreaTee Know,theres 25 dif subjects going at once,anythangs likely to get inserted :hug:

    Screw the K’dishes

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    :yes: 372

    <–wouldn't be waiting no yrs just for some paper :no: Time flies by before you know it :tea:

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    Just Looking says:

    Saw interview with Paula and her and Robin went to high school together and she said wasn’t nobody checkn for her but Robin. She said she was oddball. They allways grow up suppa bad. :tea:

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    @SOUTHERN BELLE
    “@luvn I’m trying to figure out where the Kardashians got inserted, if anything I am mad at the fact Kim got on the come up with a sex tape that was bad. instead of the men she date. Regardless of how tacky I think the Kardashian family is, every woman deserves to be happy”
    ______________

    Kim is so beautiful she was goin be famous no matter what.

    She managed herself wonderfully.

    Them other ninjas was famous before Kim, it ain’t her fault they fell off.

    And someone mentioned Will’s son dating another Kardashian girl is how they started getting discussed.

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    Diva says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @DIVA
    “Wait, before you get to flirtin and chit with me, you are a natural born female right?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can breathe…man wants to make sure you ain’t got a ****LE ”
    __________________

    Muthaphucka name is “Sam!”

    I ain’t want no confusion and chit down the line
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can hear you now….saying but I thought you was a female…well since we here lets get this over wif fast :rofl:

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Diva says:annie be selling that as a special…..comforter so thin you can see the mattress through it
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: BWAHAHAHAHAHAhahahahaha Gurrl U just Made Me HOLLER!

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    Gigi26 says:

    See this is that classic shyt that we miss. Why live all your life in insecurity. If you gone be with me for ever why not have the benefits of it?
    ————————-
    SHIIIID the baby mommas of today have it good with that CS cuz back in the day? :tea: Bytches was just getting time :tea:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    You uncle must be a wealthy man: 8 kids and three girlfriends, Gottttt dang

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    Diva says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @SOUTHERN BELLE
    “@luvn I’m trying to figure out where the Kardashians got inserted, if anything I am mad at the fact Kim got on the come up with a sex tape that was bad. instead of the men she date. Regardless of how tacky I think the Kardashian family is, every woman deserves to be happy”
    ______________

    Kim is so beautiful she was goin be famous no matter what.

    She managed herself wonderfully.

    Them other ninjas was famous before Kim, it ain’t her fault they fell off.

    And someone mentioned Will’s son dating another Kardashian girl is how they started getting discussed.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I mentioned it and who gone check me boo? :rofl:

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    Just Looking says:

    take a trip to somewhere nice to mourn what was not.
    __________
    Screaming and almost tossed laptop across room

    :cosign: :rofl:

  391. 391

    Take it easy… Man had a bad experience one time :tea:
    #controversy :kona:

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    @DIVA
    “Muthaphucka name is “Sam!”

    I ain’t want no confusion and chit down the line
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can hear you now….saying but I thought you was a female…well since we here lets get this over wif fast”
    ________________

    :huh:

    :stop: No ma’am.

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    Doesn’t Talk To Strangers says:Take it easy… Man had a bad experience one time
    ~ ~ ~
    Wit KYCaKes??

  394. 394

    Hell naw, live in the projects..Moved out in early 2000 because they tore them down. lived there since 1970. Just hood shyt.

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Man, ok, whatever makes you happy boo :tea:

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    OutsidetheBox says:

    Griner dunkd + scored 50 last night @LuVie! :shocked: That girl is a beast!

    Gators will win the SEC. :tea:

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    Just Looking says:

    :rofl:

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    Diva says:

    <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

    Take it easy… Man had a bad experience one time
    #controversy

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    For realz, Can I get the details?

  399. 399
  400. 400

    @DIVA
    “And someone mentioned Will’s son dating another Kardashian girl is how they started getting discussed.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I mentioned it and who gone check me boo? ”
    ______________________

    :huh:
    I know what you need….
    **unzipping pants**

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    luVn_liFe... says:

    :rofl:
    :rofl:
    :rofl:

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    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Diva I ain’t checking you at all cause I don’t want to get hit with one of dem liquor bottles in your stash :rofl: I was just at a lost about the Kardashians dating Black men, I was like where that come from?

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    Diva says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @DIVA
    “Muthaphucka name is “Sam!”

    I ain’t want no confusion and chit down the line
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I can hear you now….saying but I thought you was a female…well since we here lets get this over wif fast”
    ________________

    No ma’am.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I’m just messing wif you pimp daddy :hug: #sensitiveandshyt

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    MsDiva, he may share it with yall :shrug:

    *snickers*

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    @LUV
    “Doesn’t Talk To Strangers says:Take it easy… Man had a bad experience one time
    ~ ~ ~
    Wit KYCaKes??”
    __________

    :huh:
    Who?

  406. 406
  407. 407
    OutsidetheBox says:

    IKR @DTTS @LuVie. I be feeling so bad for him too. He used to ask if he could “be my kid” all the time. :(

  408. 408

    Didn’t the Thickes also grow up right next door to each other?

  409. 409
    luVn_liFe... says:

    :newpost:
    DIVA
    :newpost:

  410. 410

    @DIVA
    “Take it easy… Man had a bad experience one time
    #controversy

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    For realz, Can I get the details?
    _________________________

    Smurfette just talkin chit.
    :coffee:

  411. 411
    Diva says:

    SuthernBelle4 says:

    @Diva I ain’t checking you at all cause I don’t want to get hit with one of dem liquor bottles in your stash I was just at a lost about the Kardashians dating Black men, I was like where that come from?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl: you ain’t right!!!! but a bish will get to chunking empty bottles in a heartbeat if ya’ll get down wrong

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    Sam says:

    Just Looking :rofl:

    My aunt told me this along time ago when I didn’t know what love was. I tried it out on a guy I was dating for 6 months left with a little over 4 grand hmmph!!!! that average out to be a little under $700 a month of extra income. I was younger so I’ve gotten better with age :coffee:

  413. 413
    Who Dat says:

    In other news, Ima need a newport on Sataday, my Tarheels play them Debils
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    IN DA HILL BABY :yahoo: (in my ****ie V voice) 9 pee em.

    Slathers your nakked bawdee with the CORRECT shade Carolina blue bawdee paint. :love:

  414. 414
    NaijaGal says:

    Brenda did that shyt for her ancestors
    =========================
    *in Katherine Jackson’s voice played by Angela Basset* I HEARD HER AND I DON’T WANT YOU NO MORE
    :rofl: :rofl:

  415. 415
  416. 416
    that_VA_thickchick says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @NAIJA
    “I remember dudes going crazy when they found out Paula Patton was married to Robin Thicke ”
    _____________

    I think she like women more than dudes and Robin ol junkie azz just glad to be around.
    ____________
    Wait…so are you insinuating that Paula straddles the fence? If so, I’m bout to be on the first thing smokin to LA (or wherever she is). I’m finna be chasing her car like Kevin Hart did on Hollywood Husbands. #thatchickbad

  417. 417

    414 :dead:

    Sam, if’n more folks had alittle bit of game, everything would be a whole lot better!

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    Nakeya_j says:

    <–is bout to catch Nakeya inna lie
    What was the word?
    —–
    It was together. and you told me to give it to him like: to get her so he could learn the three small words and the one big one. NOW! #POW

  419. 419
    Diva says:

    @VA you chase Paula and throw me Robin!!!! :rofl:

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    Nakeya_j says:

    @Naija please see #276…i think. somewhere round there. lol

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    Sam says:

    bye you guys :waves: :hug:

  422. 422

    Speaking of Robin Thicke, has anyone noticed how he walks? :eek:

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    Who Dat says:

    Brenda did that shyt for her ancestors
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Brenda did that for every woman who ever caught her dude with a Heidi.

    Cause without Brenda…that slap scene where Angela knocks that bish over the boardroom table in “Waiting To Exhale” woulda NEVER BEEN okay? EVER.

  424. 424

    Yay Nakeya :cheer:
    I love it when the kiddies learn :hug:

  425. 425
    Aryanna says:

    WUT IZ THA PROBLEM!?

    My friend has been engaged for 3 years smh.

  426. 426
    Just Looking says:

    Sam, if’n more folks had alittle bit of game, everything would be a whole lot better!
    _______
    Say it one mo time. Cause remember it ain’t trickin if you got it.

  427. 427
    INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST says:

    IT’S NORMAL TO GRIEVE OVER THE ENDING OF A RELATIONSHIP, ESPECIALLY WHEN CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED, HOWEVER AND EVENTUALLY MOST MOVE ON AND GET OVER AND SOME QUICKER THAN OTHERS, IN EXTREME CASES MOST WOMEN BECOME RESENTFUL AND BITTER WHICH DOESN’T HELP IN THEIR SEARCH FOR A NEW RELATIONSHIP, HOWEVER IN EXTREME CASES FOR MEN THEY EITHER KILL THEIR OBJECT OF AFFECTION OR THEMSELVES

    I THINK SHE’S HARMLESS, AND HAS A VALID POINT ABOUT LAMAR MOVING ON RATHER QUICKLY BUT EVENTUALLY SHE WILL GET OVER IT :coffee:

  428. 428
    lexdiamonz says:

    Who Dat says:

    Dearest Liza:

    Hoe getcho LIFE. Who gives a flying fugg if Solomon “Hand That Rocks The Cradle” slow looking crayon eating azz is the onliest man who ever tapped that? He been married to Karl Kardashian Simpson Odumb for 3-4 years now. Get over it. Get the guap he send you for yall chirens…take care of said chirens…and K.I.M.

    He don’t wantchu no mo’ (Katherine Jackson voice).

    Your sister in Christ,

    :dead:

    SCARY how this chik and Klo(HE) look like SISTERS!!! WOW niccas stay having a “type” I showed my brother pictures of all his 50’11 girlfriends and was like DUDE they look like family LOL

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