R Kelly and Jay Kelly

Singer R. Kelly, 47, is having difficulty coming to terms with the news that his oldest daughter Jaya Kelly suffers from gender dysphoria, a mental disconnect between her biological sex and her chosen gender.

“Well, first off don't start by calling her my son," Kelly told WCGI’s The Morning Riot. ”As far as that’s concerned, always believe what you see—with your own eyes that is. That’s the best way to go about this business. I’ve heard a lot of things about a lot of people and it was never true."

R Kelly and Jay Kelly

13-year-old Jaya, who goes by the name "Jay," opened up about her condition during a question and answer session on Ask.fm. “I believe I am a boy and want surgery, and the medication to help me [be] who I was supposed to be,” she wrote.

The elder Kelly was not a constant presence in his daughter's life even before divorcing Jay's mother, reality TV personality Andrea Kelly, in 2009.

Kelly refused to address the controversy directly, saying, “Why do you think I’ve been here for 27 years and still relevant? Because I don’t address dumb sh*t. I don’t do it. I just don’t do it.”

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    • VDot

      He said :stop: I aint got no son :mad: :lol:

    • jealousCNenvy

      HE right though...he don't address any allegations. When it gets too bad, he puts out a religious song. Smart guy. But I wouldn't address it neither. Especially when it pertains to my children.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Singer R. Kelly, 47, is having difficulty coming to terms with the news that his oldest daughter Jaya Kelly suffers from gender dysphoria, a mental disconnect between her biological sex and her chosen gender.
      ~~~~~~~~~
      Of course he's having a difficult time with that, that is tough MaYne
      :(

      and I read he stopped the chick from addressing his daughter as His SON
      :tea:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      VDot says:

      He said I aint got no son
      _______________

      :lol: He has a son and 2 daughters. Jaya is the oldest daughter.

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      so when he says he don't address dumb shyt, do he mean dumb as in yall see the pic and can tell she a boy, i ain't gotta say shyt, or dumb as in she a girl and will neva be a boy, don't believe the q&a them ppl claimed she did about herself?

    • CHA CHA

      The elder Kelly :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Kids minds sway with the wind though :no: smh...
      Mannie went through tomboy phases, nobody was thinking about fugging/sexing at that age though :shrug:

      :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Cha Cha ur gravie :lol: Makes me :eek: when I read ur font

    • luVn_liFe…

      Mannie went through tomboy phases
      LMAOOOO
      Who?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Well, now they can ride :steer: around and look for all the young ladies toghter, too much OH :kona:

    • VDot

      Sandra Rose says:

      VDot says:
      He said I aint got no son
      _______________
      :lol: He has a son and 2 daughters. Jaya is the oldest daughter.

      ______________

      Oh :ashamed: I heard the interview earlier and the chick did try to say something about his daughter transitioning into his son, and he shut that phrasing down.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCr4EJSUcCU Zoe B.

      Yeah he said don't call her my son :rofl:

    • VDot

      Mannie went through tomboy phases

      _____________

      EJ Mannie from the Garden?

      :dead: and :ghost:

      :hahaha:

    • luVn_liFe…

      VDot says:

      Mannie went through tomboy phases

      _____________

      EJ Mannie from the Garden?

      :hahaha:

      omg!
      :hide:

      :ghost:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Mannie girls LuvLife :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :hahaha:

      "Ya'll are some Basic a.s.s. biaatches!"

      :casket:

    • CHA CHA

      HOYBUGGAH :2dance: <--12 play

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Not Mannie. S/O to Mannie :woot:
      #yallcrazy :rofl:

    • VDot

      “Ya’ll are some Basic a.s.s. biaatches!”

      _____________

      So fugging basic :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      16 :facepalm:
      -----------
      (Janet Jackson whisper voice) It was worth the wait Cha :love:
      :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Ooop, I take that byke, he offended Fay, I think :thinking: I can't keep up :ashamed: #teampettybutcantremember :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :hahaha: cheddup Smurfette Iam over here dying :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Okay :/

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      How yall be doing that ole swirly mouth face? :thinking: That's the one I want for 23 LuvLife :nana:

    • luVn_liFe…

      LORT, they got Hank Baskett on surveillance video going to Tranny's house
      :ashamed: Im embarrassed for him and Shamed for Kendra
      ;(

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Joker trying to figure :pc: out how to hyphenate all they names :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :confused:

    • CHA CHA

      2LUVN

      I should start responding in my Mi Mi tough as nails voice :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      so, even though this is a minor child, this very personal story/struggle can be all in the media without regard for the child still being a minor? iont even have no jokes, cause if'n ar-ruh kelly was my dad, i might be 'confused' too (and not just the usual irrational frontal lobe b.s. kids mistake for bright ideas) and it doesn't help that he's a respected entertainer whose fans may not consider or care that he may be a real live monster when he steps off the stage and goes home. she's just sooo young :no: i wish her the best :pray:

    • CHA CHA

      (Janet Jackson whisper voice).. :hahaha:

      FIRST OF ALL YOU MUTHAFLUCKIN RIGHT IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT, GET THE FLUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHYT, YOU AND STEVIE CAN GO FIND A CLIFF AND JUMP THE FLUCK OFF, BECAUSE A BISH LIKE ME CAN GIVE A FLUCK :hahaha:

    • VDot

      Damn these trannies be getting it in. Boy pussci + boobs is what's hot in these streets?!?!? :eek:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      LuvLife, he is even trashier THAN SHE IS :blink:
      :no: SMH! I'm shamed for her too. He's a dumb fuk!

    • Just Looking

      CHa Cha Gravie Serves this post well :yes:

      :champ: Winner :cheer:

      as well as comment 30

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      :dead:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      DTTS what happened to make y'all start saying "mannie" things, "mannie" people, "mannie" times, "mannie mannie" etc.? :think: :confused:
      :hahaha:

    • Just Looking

      Good Day Fancy Nancy - How are you this fine Tuesday *lips pursed :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Okay :confused:
      :hahaha:
      ==================
      THe hail #30 :rofl: :rofl:
      ==========
      V.
      *inserts going to hell in handbasket quote* :no: SMH!

    • Just Looking

      Thought it was Mainy Too.

      Mannie will get you :banned: :ban:

      :scared:

      set trashcan outside of office door and turns light off :drive:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Cha Cha Says:
      FIRST OF ALL YOU MUTHAFLUCKIN RIGHT IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT, GET THE FLUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHYT, YOU AND STEVIE CAN GO FIND A CLIFF AND JUMP THE FLUCK OFF, BECAUSE A BISH LIKE ME CAN GIVE A FLUCK :hahaha:
      :eek:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Thing, IONO who started it, or how or why but surely he was Pissed that day :lol:
      -----------
      What's Cha's gravi? #cantsee :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      I'm very well; thank you for asking JLoo - how you? :tea: <<<<pinky up :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :popcorn: You figured out who yew gone be yet Joker? :hahaha:

    • luVn_liFe…

      @Smurfette
      Yeah they both Are Trashy, still doesnt make it right.

      Although I never like Kendra mainly cause she's a cum drinker, I still feel terrible for her.
      can you Imagine what she's feeling :(
      and done read her mama for filth *in mimisvoice*

      She really has no1 to cry to

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      CHA CHA says:

      (Janet Jackson whisper voice)..

      FIRST OF ALL YOU MUTHAFLUCKIN RIGHT IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT, GET THE FLUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHYT, YOU AND STEVIE CAN GO FIND A CLIFF AND JUMP THE FLUCK OFF, BECAUSE A BISH LIKE ME CAN GIVE A FLUCK
      *********************
      *does the nikko face/smile/wtf look/sad face/confused face look*

    • luVn_liFe…

      smurfette
      CHA's gravie is MiMi when she went AWFF!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Although I never like Kendra mainly cause she’s a cum drinker, I still feel terrible for her.
      :cosign:

      can you Imagine what she’s feeling :(

      :nono: Nope, and donchew put that in nobody's atmosphere! *chortles*

      and done read her mama for filth *in mimisvoice*
      :shocked: Whet? She did? What for? When? :popcorn:

    • luVn_liFe…

      noJOKE
      who is that in ur gravie,Looks like a girl I had to cut
      :tea:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      You figured out who yew gone be yet Joker?
      ******************
      ima just be his last name cuz that damn hyphen got me stressed...gon have my future babies all confused and and shyt...so ima just be mrs. his last name byway of my maiden name *shrugs*

    • CHA CHA

      thanks @ JUST LOOKING I think I will stay in character till I get home to my hubby and children, clear on up until I go to sleep...I'll let ya'll know how that goes :hahaha: tomorrows Gravi might be my Sundy face after a fight with Draya....Keep me in your prayas :hahaha:

    • Just Looking

      I’m very well; thank you for asking JLoo – how you? :tea: <<<<pinky up :lol:
      ++++++++++++++++
      Well, thank you ma'm.

      FYI I posted my e-mail addy...so yo could see the see the real Teddy.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      luVn_liFe... says:

      noJOKE
      who is that in ur gravie,Looks like a girl I had to cut
      :tea:
      =====
      Thee one you spat upon? Because she was mad disrespectful.
      Ready :box:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      sum dude tryna be mimi when nikko tole her the bags got "stolen" and the tape was in there

    • Trendsetter

      NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

      CHA CHA says:

      (Janet Jackson whisper voice)..

      FIRST OF ALL YOU MUTHAFLUCKIN RIGHT IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT, GET THE FLUCK OUTTA HERE WITH THAT BULLSHYT, YOU AND STEVIE CAN GO FIND A CLIFF AND JUMP THE FLUCK OFF, BECAUSE A BISH LIKE ME CAN GIVE A FLUCK
      *********************
      *does the nikko face/smile/wtf look/sad face/confused face look*

      ____________________

      :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      CHA CHA says:

      thanks @ JUST LOOKING I think I will stay in character till I get home to my hubby and children, clear on up until I go to sleep…I’ll let ya’ll know how that goes :hahaha: tomorrows Gravi might be my Sundy face after a fight with Draya….Keep me in your prayas :hahaha:

      :lol:

    • luVn_liFe…

      According to AVA London, the affair started just two months ago, when Baskett first made contact.

      “I met Hank Baskett probably around the 22nd or 23rd of April this year,” London told The National ENQUIRER, which provided Radar exclusive access to its tell-all interview. “He contacted me through a video I had posted on YouTube and we exchanged information.”

      PHOTOS: Busted… BIG TIME! 12 Hollywood Stars Caught On Camera Cheating!

      “I gave him the address to my house, he came over,” she added. “I wasn’t expecting for him to come at the time he did, and I had just gotten out of the pool with my girlfriend.”

      Dressed only in a bikini, London says she answered the door to find the Kendra On Top star dressed in basketball shorts, sandals and sunglasses.

      But at first, London claimed, she had no idea that the man standing before her was a celebrity, and the former Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver took precautions to hide his true identity.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      *whispers* LuvLife, if'n it's her, send the pic, so she can get ReCut :eek:

      :hahaha:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      I HATE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU #53 :dead:

    • Trendsetter

      But I love you #57

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      set trashcan outside of office door and turns light off
      _______________________________

      *slaps knee* :lol: there was JUST a discussion about this today in our corridor:

      employee with no appt: is so-and-so here? :biggrin:

      dismissive colleague: oh, iont know :think: her trashcan is out here in the hallway so... :shrug: :kona: :rolleyes:

    • Trendsetter

      Alright Roses I'm out!

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      i love you too!!!! you home with my baby yet????

    • luVn_liFe…

      In fact, it wasn’t long after their introduction, she said, that the couple became intimate behind closed doors.

      And although Baskett allegedly seemed nervous, London said the 31-year-old was the first to take his clothes off.

      “We quickly went to my bedroom where things got a little hot because he had already had taken off his clothes and he was erected,” she said of their first alleged encounter. “I started giving him a hand job and he was playing with my penis ‘cause he was laying down and I was like, you know, above him, so that’s when I realized who he was.”

      Although she claimed the two did not have sexual intercourse, she said Baskett still was satisfied.

      “He PUT MY P.E.N.I.S CLOSE TO HIS FACE and that’s when he, you know, he came really quickly,” she alleged. “Hank and I gave each other hand jobs and he played with my breasts. And it didn’t really go that much further because he had already come.”

      And, even more surprising, after the act Baskett casually took a shower in London’s bathroom to clean up, London claimed.
      :hurl:
      :vomit:

    • CHA CHA

      NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

      *does the nikko face/smile/wtf look/sad face/confused face look*

      SO BASICALLY YOU SHOWING A GRIP OF TEETH :hahaha: :grill:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      welp, answers that question...bye boo!!! :hugs:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      *whispers* LuvLife, if’n it’s her, send the pic, so she can get ReCut :eek:
      ~~~~~~~
      :dead:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      CHA CHA says:

      NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

      *does the nikko face/smile/wtf look/sad face/confused face look*

      SO BASICALLY YOU SHOWING A GRIP OF TEETH
      *****************
      a whole gang of dem muhfukkas!!! :rofl:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Her situation is really sad. That Testosterone she's taking is no joke. Females are not supposed to take high doses of Testosterone. It wreaks havoc in our bodies. It causes aggression and wild mood swings. Not to mention the severe acne and hair loss. This is medical negligence. Doctors swore an oath to never do harm. :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      “I started giving him a hand job and he was playing with my penis ‘cause he was laying down and I was like, you know, above him, so that’s when I realized who he was.”

      SHUT THE FRONT DOOR :shotsfired:

      So, what that make him? Gay, Bi, Trife!

    • Just Looking

      dismissive colleague - Depends on the whom is failing off their duties.

      Typically, I'm social butterfly...I keep my door open most days, unless I ordering clothes, shoes, making hair appointments,etc....

      ***you get the picture

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Sandra Rose says:

      Her situation is really sad. That Testosterone she’s taking is no joke. Females are not supposed to take high doses of Testosterone. It wreaks havoc in our bodies. It causes aggression and wild mood swings. Not to mention the severe acne and hair loss. This is medical negligence. Doctors swore an oath to never do harm. :no:

      :cosign: AND I am more appalled at the parents! & ION care who doesn't like it :shrug:

    • luVn_liFe…

      AVA LONDON passed a polygraph test

      :no:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      In fact, it wasn’t long after their introduction, she said, that the couple became intimate behind closed doors.

      And although Baskett allegedly seemed nervous, London said the 31-year-old was the first to take his clothes off.

      “We quickly went to my bedroom where things got a little hot because he had already had taken off his clothes and he was erected,” she said of their first alleged encounter. “I started giving him a hand job and he was playing with my penis ‘cause he was laying down and I was like, you know, above him, so that’s when I realized who he was.”

      Although she claimed the two did not have sexual intercourse, she said Baskett still was satisfied.

      “He PUT MY P.E.N.I.S CLOSE TO HIS FACE and that’s when he, you know, he came really quickly,” she alleged. “Hank and I gave each other hand jobs and he played with my breasts. And it didn’t really go that much further because he had already come.”

      And, even more surprising, after the act Baskett casually took a shower in London’s bathroom to clean up, London claimed
      ********************
      noooooooooooooooooooo...i wasn't reaaaaaaddddyyyyyyyyy :casket:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      FYI I posted my e-mail addy…so yo could see the see the real Teddy.
      ______________________________

      :smack: shew! i aint been on here worth nothin since :think: mmm, hmmm round bout thursday... goes byke to the time before i was cast into servitude last week... :kona:

    • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

      aight folks :peace:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      LuvLife, IF it's in the Enquirer, it is true, and I know mannie mannie don't want to believe that, but my Granny been getting those mags since before me :eek: and everything EVERYTHING we read, it comes out in the real media about 2-3 months later. They have the proof, pics, receipts :yes:

    • Just Looking

      Sandra Rose says:

      Her situation is really sad. That Testosterone she’s taking is no joke. Females are not supposed to take high doses of Testosterone. It wreaks havoc in our bodies. It causes aggression and wild mood swings. Not to mention the severe acne and hair loss. This is medical negligence. Doctors swore an oath to never do harm. :no:
      __________________
      @ Sandra

      :think:

      This is what you read?

      Does not knowledge come from personal experience?

      Can Transgender women get a penis?

      Is it functional..

    • deedeegirl

      I dont blame him for not going along with this madness. But I gotta wonder if the girl was abused in some way.

    • luVn_liFe…

      SO that would mean when Kendra was eight months preggos, he was getting his rocks off with a shim

      :no:

      Boy OH BOY :no:

      just.....

      NO

      :no:

    • CHA CHA

      IMA TAKE TRIFE FOR 500 ALEX @Hoybuggah

    • Just Looking

      He PUT MY P.E.N.I.S CLOSE TO HIS FACE
      +++++++++++++++++++
      This is the story of two men?

      One is pretending not to be homosexual.

      Okkkie dokkkie

      Jumps through office window. :ghost:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Oh WOW "on the run show" will be here tomorrow

    • luVn_liFe…

      Jumps through office window. :ghost:
      ~~~~~
      Girl I just died a hundred deaths :rofl:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Read this blog by a woman who thought she was a man. She is now off of Testosterone. People in the Trans community attacked her, calling her a "failure" because she didn't complete her transition from female to male. She writes: "[I] wish that trans people had better access to alternatives besides physical transition and better support for dysphoria besides the mirage of changing sex, which is not possible."

    • MzTisch

      Hank,

      You coulda got your girl to wear a peen if that's what you wanted. I'm pretty sure Kendra woulda been down. Smdh.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Jumps through office window. :ghost:

      ____________________________

      :rofl: :rofl:

      you aint lyin cause this can't be life! :no: his team mates prob :gossip: :think: :nono: :no:
      :facepalm:

    • luVn_liFe…

      i Know Hanks Parents are So Embarrassed :smack: OR MAYBE Not they seemed truly delighted to accept Kendra's nude calendar

    • sassyshe

      Sandra I was reading up elsewhere and this trans individual who got detailed information about Jay transformation said that shes not on testosterone, its illegal for the docs to prescribe until shes 16. However she is on puberty blocker to stall or slow down her puberty (which is still sad)

    • sassyshe

      I just cant believe Kendra didnt know about Hank liking the trannies. I think the disagreement came on cause he was sneaking with the tranny while she was pregnant

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Sandra Rose says:

      Read this blog by a woman who thought she was a man. She is now off of Testosterone. People in the Trans community attacked her, calling her a “failure” because she didn’t complete her transition from female to male. She writes: “[I] wish that trans people had better access to alternatives besides physical transition and better support for dysphoria besides the mirage of changing sex, which is not possible.”

      ________________________________

      OMG Sandra! :shocked:

      *scared to read it due to easy queasy tummy*

      :hide: what else it say? :popcorn:

    • sassyshe

      Whats more sad is that they saying that R Kelly only has contact with his son not daughters and that he no longer lives in Chicago. If thats the case hes evil cause he has that girl in court blocking her from taking those kids to California where she wants to be

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      If thats the case hes evil cause he has that girl in court blocking her from taking those kids to California where she wants to be

      ______________________________

      :nono: you 'posed to be sleep though :tea:

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      He surely has a right to address it, or not - but if his doorter is going around saying she believes she's a boy, SHE's interested in addressing it. Clearly.

      Additionally - Whether R. Kelly likes it, or not - if he has a child who identifies with the gay community and prefers to play football vs cheerleading, he should be no more ashamed as a father than a birl should be by having a father whose been accused of molesting every girl old enough to play hop skotch.

      The nerve. Is it possible that she believes the rumors about her child molestin' a$$ed deddy and THAT's what prompted her to change the way she walks, talks, & identifies? Maybe she wanted to make sure that her father didn't see HER 12 year old a$$ as an object at some point and the best way to do it was to be the antithesis of all things girly.

    • Who Dat

      Got busy and then had to leave early today from work. Was lurking....

      Ummm WHO HEAH ate her twin sister? I'll wait!

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) says:

      OMG Sandra!

      *scared to read it due to easy queasy tummy*

      what else it say?
      ______________

      She listed factors that would have helped her (other than transitioning to male). 2 of those factors were "More accurate information on the effects of testosterone"
      and "Honest discussion on the mental effects of testosterone." As hellish as this drug is to the female body and brain, doctors are giving Testosterone to children! :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      sassyshe says:

      However she is on puberty blocker to stall or slow down her puberty (which is still sad)
      _________________

      Thanks for the info. Doctors prescribing anything that isn't medically necessary should be illegal. There is no indication that this child has had therapy. :no:

    • Who Dat

      For once I cosign @Carrington. All of it.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      I think you're on to something there Carrington :think: (even though I'm trying not to laugh at your term "doorter" as it relates to this child, and "birl" isn't helpful either in maintaining a serious mindset for this topic). :tape: :hahaha: :tape: :rolleyes: :kona:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Just Looking says:

      Can Transgender women get a penis?

      Is it functional..
      ________________

      A penis transplant on a female is not functional. Maybe in the future it will be.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      She listed factors that would have helped her (other than transitioning to male). 2 of those factors were “More accurate information on the effects of testosterone”
      and “Honest discussion on the mental effects of testosterone.” As hellish as this drug is to the female body and brain, doctors are giving Testosterone to children! :no:
      ________________________________

      Thanks, Sandra (I think) :no:
      They building frankensteins from the inside out! :no: and clearly knowing but not caring about the effects :no: it's a horror! :hide:
      #fixitJesus :pray:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :cuss: EYE didn't eat huh :mad:
      ==============
      :cheer: MsTisch! :hug:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      A penis transplant on a female is not functional. Maybe in the future it will be.

      _____________________________

      #don'tfixitJesus :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      future peens :dead:

      :nite:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      luVn_liFe says:

      LORT, they got Hank Baskett on surveillance video going to Tranny's house
      :ashamed: Im embarrassed for him and Shamed for Kendra
      ______________

      I saw this story and ignored it. Hank Basketcase isn't even on my radar. :no:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      PEEPtoez :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Hush DTTS! :mad: you know i wore these in honor of OTB's borned day!

    • VDot

      #don’tfixitJesus :no:

      and

      Hank Basketcase

      _______________

      :dead: :hahaha:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Sandra
      did you see the story about the babysitter said some black guys robbed them,the 4 yr old said Not the right brown :lol:

      From the mouth of babes

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      VDot says:

      I heard the interview earlier and the chick did try to say something about his daughter transitioning into his son, and he shut that phrasing down.
      _______________

      He was right. There was a time (before Obama was elected and people had more common sense), if you wanted a sex change, you had to have intensive therapy, live like your gender chosen gender for years, and go before a judge to change your name. Nowadays, a 5-year-old can say she thinks she's a boy and they immediately put her on drugs and start calling her a boy and changing her name. This world has gone crazy! :no:

    • ShadeQueen46

      Im trying to figure out what's going on with her hair. Did she relax the front & let the rest stay natural?

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Hey y'all. OK 1) r Kelly said miss me with this shyt. I did not answer about peeing on that kid, and I'm not answering about any kid of mine. Lmao 2) who ask is Hank gay!? Is that a serious question!? Yes he is gay, he played with another dyck. (In my Samuel L. Jackson voice)

    • Who Dat

      You is fetus in fetu @Smurfette?

      Word. Steven Kang wrote a book about it. And the lil boy in India had his in him and he looked 15 months knocked.

      She got a name? I vote Sassette. The lil sister to Smurfette.

    • sassyshe

      Thanks for the info. Doctors prescribing anything that isn’t medically necessary should be illegal. There is no indication that this child has had therapy. 

      by Sandra Rose 
      -----------------
      It is and people forget that teenagers are indecisive which is why they should not be encouraged to engaged in life changing decisions/behaviors/practices until they are adults

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      V! you know that's like some final frontier mess :no: Can they just leave us 'old-fashioned' gals SOMETHING?! I don't want no "surgical" dude :no: (not that there's anything wrong with it :rolleyes: ), but I prefer the manufacturer's model to the re-hab'd chop-shop model. :kona:

      :nite:

    • VDot

      Did she relax the front & let the rest stay natural?

      ______________

      I promise I almost just spit out my wine. :rofl:

    • Bliss

      All teenagers go through phases, but this right here is rediculouse. Someone in that household should intervene... Aunt, uncle, grandma... somebody :smack:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      I edited my post to add what R. Kelly said about not calling Jay his son.

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      When I was a nursing student back in the 1980s I don't ever recall a doctor suggesting hormones or surgery for this condition. It was understood that these people had mental issues and they were given psychological help. Even when the gay community forced the APA to change the diagnosis from Gender Identity Disorder to Gender Dysphoria, it was still seen as a mental issue. Then Obama got elected president.... :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      sassyshe says:

      It is and people forget that teenagers are indecisive which is why they should not be encouraged to engaged in life changing decisions/behaviors/practices until they are adults
      _______________

      Exactly. A child's mind is still developing at Jay's age. She isn't even at the rebellious stage yet. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      luVn_liFe says:

      Sandra
      did you see the story about the babysitter said some black guys robbed them,the 4 yr old said Not the right brown

      From the mouth of babes
      ________________

      I don't get it. :shrug:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Carrington says:

      The nerve. Is it possible that she believes the rumors about her child molestin’ a$$ed deddy and THAT’s what prompted her to change the way she walks, talks, & identifies? Maybe she wanted to make sure that her father didn’t see HER 12 year old a$$ as an object at some point and the best way to do it was to be the antithesis of all things girly.
      __________________

      I think she failed to navigate successfully through the crucial Electra Complex stage of psychosexual development. She is stuck in the penis envy stage when a girl is supposed to compete with her mother for her father's Love. She is fixated on her father (subconsciously) and, in particular, his penis. Notice she says she wants the surgery. It's like she's attempting to reconstruct herself into her father. She is still sexually attracted to her father (subconsciously). And she will never be right until she gets past that father-fixation/penis envy stage.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Kdub
      Maybe that's why I got these HIPS :shakebutt: twin split up in my hips :wail:

      I hope my Mom is laughing down on me :ashamed:

      :rofl: :kona:
      -------
      That's interesting SR! :yes:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      whoa :hide: #120 had me like :eek: damn

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I can't comment on shyt I will never understand :shrugs:

    • SoNastyandSoRude

      Hey yall

    • SoNastyandSoRude

      I think r.kelly just mad that the 13 yr old girls gonna be showing up at the door to see jay and not him

    • sassyshe

      I think r.kelly just mad that the 13 yr old girls gonna be showing up at the door to see jay and not him

      by SoNastyandSoRude 
      -----------------
      :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Jenny :utensils up and ready: :lol:
      What's for dinner? :eek:

    • luVn_liFe…

      The Sudanese Christian Woman who was freed Was jailed again yesterday with her husband and kids after trying to board a plane to the U.S.A
      :-|

      their Gvnmt said She submitted fraudulent forms of some type :no:

      :nino:
      Gym TIME!

    • OpinionHated

      Did he say that to the judge when they were charging him with diddling with the babies...

      Maybe his daughter wants to be a son and he's mad about it cause he touched her - I don't put nothing past anybody and he IS a KNOWN pervert..

    • San ah make ya dance

      Of course he’s having a difficult time with that, that is tough MaYne
      :(
      ------------------
      :cosign: After time it is, what it is. I can only imagine tho

    • :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove

      Morning roses :waves: on Jaya I think it is a tragedy that the world has gone insane. They need to take this child off puberty blockers and allow her to transition into WOMANHOOD!!!!! Now ain't no tellin what went on in her home with her father I :pray: he didn't touch her but her family needs to get her the same type of counseling they would get for her if she had body dysmorphia and was anorexic.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      <--Doesn't Talk To Strangers says:

      Jenny :utensils up and ready: :lol:
      What’s for dinner? :eek:
      June 24, 2014 at 9:51 pm
      ________________

      9:51 :eek: you know I don't eat that late ... give ya nightmares :scary:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      I don't even want to be in Kells shoes ... not now, not ever :nono: heartbreaking

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      “Ya’ll are some Basic a.s.s. biaatches!”
      _____________
      :hahaha: Whew chile! I needed that laugh this am. It's SEW MANNIE of y'all that's basic :crying1:
      I think I died about 4 times when I read that. It was hilarious. Mannie you did that! Say it with your chest :lol:

    • :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove

      @MisTaken I don't understand the Mannie thing. I know there is a posrer named Mannie who used to post more often but now doesn't except for the occasional outburst. I'm confused.

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Oh and outside of R Kelly's past and just focusing on the child... I see no reason why she should be on hormones at this age. It's too soon. She is confused and struggling to find herself. Making a permanent change right now is not good. Heck it's grown people that don't know themselves. I think parents these days want to pacify their kids and be their friends and they are afraid to "hurt their feelings." F THAT. I wild tell any of my kids that you can do whatever you want when you are grown ... Out of my house and college. But until then you are going to keep those same parts you had when you popped out of my ______. And wear clothes that correspond with that part. Be having my kids walking around looking like lil mannie freshes and EJs :no:

    • San ah make ya dance

      @Mistaken where you get that statement :huh:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      :blink: cosigns San #137 ... where did that comment come from :huh:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Which statement San?

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      OpinionHated says:

      Maybe his daughter wants to be a son and he’s mad about it cause he touched her...
      _______________

      I believe he touched her too. I believe he molested her at that crucial stage when she was developing her psychosexual identity. He arrested her sexual development and threw her into a world of confusion. That's why she didn't stop at being a lesbian. Her case is an extreme body image disorder -- like a cutter but 100 times worse. She needs intensive therapy, not hormones and surgery. They are giving her too much autonomy to mutilate her body at such a young age. :no:

    • San ah make ya dance

      The one about basic biaatches

    • San ah make ya dance

      :phew: That child got some eyebrows. I got a cus that hate to look at her pics now because of her eyebrows :hahaha:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove says:

      I :pray: he didn't touch her but her family needs to get her the same type of counseling they would get for her if she had body dysmorphia and was anorexic.
      ________________

      Excellent analogy! If Jay was anorexic they wouldn't perform liposuction or allow her to take diet pills. Anorexia is a mental disorder just like Gender dysphoria. She needs intensive therapy, not hormones and surgery. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove says:

      @MisTaken I don’t understand the Mannie thing. I know there is a posrer named Mannie who used to post more often but now doesn’t except for the occasional outburst. I’m confused.
      ________________

      Some men can't take these sexually aggressive women on this blog. Only the strong survive in the Rose Garden. :yes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :yawn:
      Morning San,Jenie, mistaken, Puupylove and SANDRAROSE :wave:

      SandriTa can you do a follow up on the Sudanese Christian woman,Plz

      :thankyou: IA

    • San ah make ya dance

      Some men can’t take these sexually aggressive women on this blog. Only the strong survive in the Rose Garden. :yes:
      ------------------
      *slaps leg* :phew: :hahaha:

    • San ah make ya dance

      :waves: Luvn

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says:

      I wild tell any of my kids that you can do whatever you want when you are grown … Out of my house and college. But until then you are going to keep those same parts you had when you popped out of my ______. And wear clothes that correspond with that part.
      ________________

      :clap: This is what a good parent would do for their kids. The media and the Obama administration are stumbling over themselves trying to appease the gay community -- which has the highest rates of mental illness, depression, suicides, HIV, STDs than society per capita. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      San ah make ya dance says:
      @Mistaken where you get that statement

      jeniefrumdabloc says:
      … where did that comment come from

      MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says:
      Which statement San?
      ______________

      I was shocked when I didn't see a response to that statement last night. You ladies must've been sleeping. :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Sandra Rose says:

      San ah make ya dance says:
      @Mistaken where you get that statement

      jeniefrumdabloc says:
      … where did that comment come from

      MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says:
      Which statement San?
      ______________

      I was shocked when I didn’t see a response to that statement last night. You ladies must’ve been sleeping. :rofl:
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :lol:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Man Let me go look :pc:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Hey ladies and SR :hi:
      I copied the comment from up earlier in the post. Somebody referenced when Mannie called V basic. It was all in fun. That's why I call her and others basic because of that. No shade to Mannie. I had no problem with him. It's just one of those one liners that stuck with me. You know like FOH :lol:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Im sitting here like :huh: Gotcha :yes:

    • :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove

      On :jack: Basket. Why? Just why? I would've thought he married Kendra's hoe ass so she (or they tohlgether) coukd fulfill his desires. But just like men who are in relationships with women who love women still cheat, some folks just ungrateful.

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      I was shocked when I didn’t see a response to that statement last night. You ladies must’ve been sleeping.
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      :rofl: True True. Normally it would've incited more dialouge in remembrance. And he would've popped up maybe.
      Shoot forget that. I was more confused going back to read some other people's font and the ones that blindly co-sign every statement but don't have THE ANSWERS :rules: But that's cool. Whatever floats your boat. TEAMBOATFLOAT :grin:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Did he really do that shyt, couldn't bounce back from that :no:

    • Wasting time

      Good Morning Roses :waves:

    • http://youtu.be/Lx58GQtmE50 MisTaken is #unbothered :cool:

      Oh yea Hank B :smack: SR I know you said he is nothing but ummmm... It would be a fun post to comment on. And with your flawless writing style I think you might enjoy posting it :yes: Plus you could diagnosis him :grill:

    • :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove

      Some men can’t take these sexually aggressive women on this blog. Only the strong survive in the Rose Garden. :yes:

      by Sandra Rose
      ________________________

      Invite Jaya to the garden so she can witness some nontraditional womens.

    • San ah make ya dance

      :waves: Wasting

    • :nun: Caged bird singing :wail: puppylove

      :pc: on the Cacique website buy 2 get 1

    • bama_n_jersey

      She needs intensive therapy, not hormones and surgery. They are giving her too much autonomy to mutilate her body at such a young age.
      ***************

      I totally agree with this Sandra. The fact that they are letting her do this is sad. If she wants to be gay at this age..fine...but to go through this big transformatio is so wrong and should be illegal. I don't think her mind is developed enough to handle all of this.

    • Wasting time

      Hey San :hi:
      Word Caged Bird? let me . . . .

    • bama_n_jersey

      But Sandra...just because the politicians are making changes in the gay community does not mean that this parent should allow her daughter to make this huge decision. People are always trying to blame celebrities and politicians for something that can be fixed in their house. They don't live with you and don't make your household decisions for you. so this is no excuse, in my opinion.

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      bama_n_jersey says:

      They don’t live with you and don’t make your household decisions for you. so this is no excuse, in my opinion.
      ________________

      All a confused child has to do is report their parents to the gestapo -- I mean the media, and all hell breaks loose. Attempting to get therapy for these confused children is considered a federal offense. The Obama administration has made it nearly impossible for parents to make decisions for their own children. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      bama_n_jersey says:

      If she wants to be gay at this age..fine…but to go through this big transformatio is so wrong and should be illegal.
      ________________

      It should be illegal, but doctors are at the forefront of this madness. I remember when doctors performed lobotomies on mental patients until someone with some common sense stepped in and called the procedures barbaric. I think it's barbaric to give hormone shots to confused children. :no:

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      MisTaken is #unbothered :cool: says:

      And with your flawless writing style I think you might enjoy posting it :yes: Plus you could diagnosis him :grill:
      ________________

      Now that you put it that way, I'll see what I can do. :yes:

    • VDot

      Some men can’t take these sexually aggressive women on this blog. Only the strong survive in the Rose Garden. :yes:

      _________________

      :preach:

      Good Morning all from the Leader of the Basic Movement!! :waves:

      I hatelove yall!! :hahaha:

    • VDot

      Now that you put it that way, I’ll see what I can do. :yes:

      ____________

      :dance:

      These trannies are have....the best year ever? :confused: :shrug: :huh:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost:

    • lisarenee

      The daughter wants to be a boy? Hell I always thought the mom was one...she's very transsexual looking to me...if not she real real close