Trouble in Paradise: Beyonce and Jay Z Headed for Divorce

Beyonce Jay Z and Blue Ivy

Beyonce, Jay Z and little Blue Ivy were spotted as they landed at a Westside heliport in NYC on Sunday, June 8. The couple were seen amid reports that Jay Z’s cheating has ‘destroyed’ Bey. The 34-year-old singer appeared to be distressed and depressed. She wore a grey hoodie, shredded denim shorts and classic white Converse sneakers, while Jay Z wore a v-neck tee and a grey sweater draped delicately over his shoulders. Little Blue looked nervous as she chewed on her fingers. Her tightly coiled hair was unkempt and dry. Blue looks like a child who has seen (and heard) too much at home. Poor thing.

Thanks to loyal reader Shanda J. for sending the pics.

Photos: Jae Donnelly/NY Daily News



 


251 Responses to “Trouble in Paradise: Beyonce and Jay Z Headed for Divorce”

  1. 1
    aRoTh says:

    Like the casual out and about fit, Bey. :thumbsup:

  2. 2
    Sakeena says:

    I love the fact that they have tons of money and let blues hair do whatever it wants to do

  3. 3
    Gigi26 says:

    Ummm don’t play a role in the destruction of a Negro Family Sandra :no: Come on its hard enough that the sprite man has done it for the past century, lets not do that. I ain’t even a fan of hers but to suggest a dissolution of marriage when they have a young child is a bit mean no?

    I wish them all the best and hope they can make it work. That’s what marriage is supposed to be, WORK. For better or for WORSE. :yes:

  4. 4
    VDot says:

    The 34-year-old singer appeared to be distressed and depressed.

    _____________________

    :lol: Not just tired from the flight? Because the whole family looks tired :yes:

    Where the fugg has Julius been?

  5. 5
    Just Looking says:

    Sakeena says:

    I love the fact that they have tons of money and let blues hair do whatever it wants to do
    _________________
    Let me come stand under this tree, the sun is finally coming out.

  6. 6
    VDot says:

    What does Bey’s sweatshirt say? :waiting:

  7. 7
    Sandra Rose says:

    Gigi26 says:

    Ummm don’t play a role in the destruction of a Negro Family Sandra
    _________________

    Shouldn’t your anger be directed toward Jay Z? Beyonce is not my wife. I’m not the one cheating on her. :coffee:

  8. 8
  9. 9
    iscream says:

    Hmmm who are the kids in front of Jay?

    They look like people who are tired from travel… Like most people at the airport.

  10. 10
    Sandra Rose says:

    The 34-year-old singer appeared to be distressed and depressed.

    _____________________

    VDot says:

    :lol: Not just tired from the flight? Because the whole family looks tired :yes:

    Where the fugg has Julius been?
    __________________

    I’ve seen many pics of Beyonce stepping off planes. She has never looked this depressed.

  11. 11
    Gigi26 says:

    :rofl: If he’s cheating i’m sure they’ll deal with it. They ain’t divorcing, mark my words. Beyonce is from a traditional Southern home, hell her FATHER was cheating on her MOTHER for YEARS and she left him what, like 4 years ago for good?

    Also, I’m not angry but I don’t remember you giving this much coverage to Mr and Mrs. Harris :tea:

    Wassup with them?

  12. 12

    but didnt you just teach us that rich mean can cheat as much as they want to? :shrugs:

    if so, then Jay is doing what the good lawd intended to do. give that man a trophy :champ:

  13. 13
    libra80sbaby says:

    :thinking: Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long

  14. 14
    SummerBaby says:

    I like Beys outfit.

  15. 15
    libra80sbaby says:

    Also, I’m not angry but I don’t remember you giving this much coverage to Mr and Mrs. Harris :tea:
    Wassup with them?
    ———————–
    :tea:

  16. 16
    bnatural says:

    libra80sbaby says:

    :thinking: Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long
    —–

    He’s back…just saw him with her the other day on another blog…

    Am I the only one who doesn’t believe they are headed for a divorce? :shrug:

  17. 17

    hell I looked like that coming out the subway this morning. travel is a torturous bitch! :whew:

    maybe Im getting a divorce too :shocked:

  18. 18
    San ah make ya dance says:

    OMg yall don’ caught lil Blue nem at a bad time :rofl: They look TIRED

  19. 19
    SummerBaby says:

    Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long
    ————-
    He’s back I seen pics of him w/Bey earlier this week.

  20. 20
    iscream says:

    @GiGi

    Tiny is happy for her freedom. :lol:

    “Miss Ciley I feels like sanging”

  21. 21
    Sandra Rose says:

    Gigi26 says:

    I wish them all the best and hope they can make it work. That’s what marriage is supposed to be, WORK. For better or for WORSE. :yes:
    ___________________

    I agree. I applaud Beyonce for trying to keep her family together despite her cheating man. That’s what a mother is supposed to do. Bey is a smart woman. She knows that a man is going to cheat.

  22. 22
    San ah make ya dance says:

    I wish them all the best and hope they can make it work. That’s what marriage is supposed to be, WORK. For better or for WORSE. :yes:
    ——————
    :cosign:

  23. 23
    Sandra Rose says:

    iscream says:

    They look like people who are tired from travel…
    ________________

    Tired from riding a helicopter for 20 minutes? :lol:

  24. 24
    Beta says:

    Um these two are not exempt from divorce but I hope they work whatever it is out we have enough separation as it is in the black community

  25. 25

    San ah make ya dance says:

    OMg yall don’ caught lil Blue nem at a bad time :rofl: They look TIRED
    _______________

    Chile that shyt there is unacceptable :nono:

  26. 26
    San ah make ya dance says:

    A couple that matches together, stays together OK :rofl:

  27. 27
    bama_n_jersey says:

    Maybe it’s just me, but it looks like someone was in the process of taking the babies hair down and just ran out of time before they had to get off the plane…. :shrug:

  28. 28
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Chile that shyt there is unacceptable :nono:
    ————–
    I can’t even lie lil blue don’ rolled all over that head :lol:

  29. 29
    Beta says:

    Dam I did not know that was Bey behind them who she hiding from

  30. 30
    Sandra Rose says:

    @ Gigi26: As I said, I applaud Beyonce for staying with her cheating husband for the sake of their child. Tina Knowles was a great role model for her daughters. She put up with the cheating for decades. Tina taught her daughters that THEY came first, not her feelings. I wish more black women would follow her lead. :coffee:

  31. 31

    My Stouffers lasagna never looks like how it looks on the box :no: never :cry:

  32. 32
    buddapecan says:

    I think it’s hilarious when people comment on Blue’s unkept hair and then Bey’s stans comment on how rich Blue is but wouldn’t put up the same defense for another little girl with the same hair but a different momma. :coffee: (really don’t care about the child’s hair since she ain’t mine)

  33. 33
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    I wish them all the best and hope they can make it work. That’s what marriage is supposed to be, WORK. For better or for WORSE
    ————-
    Can we as a blog define what is “for worse”? Because, seriously, somethings are a deal breaker.

  34. 34
    bama_n_jersey says:

    @gigi…in other words, we will NEVER get that story. :rofl:

  35. 35
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    Oh, excuse me…..hello good ppl of sandra rose…im NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS…i’m really light skinned w/a grey background as you can see in my profile pic…i like long walks on the blogs and long talks in the comment sections..i be so faserious when i say some things, but most ppl think i’m jokin fa whatever reason…so hopefully you guys will make my blogging experience as great as my lurking experience…and with that being said…..happy blogging my new ex best friends (just in case nobody saw my other intro)

  36. 36
    iscream says:

    They look like people who are tired from travel…
    ________________

    Tired from riding a helicopter for 20 minutes?
    —————-

    :rofl:

  37. 37
    Sandra Rose says:

    User Friendly says:

    but didnt you just teach us that rich mean can cheat as much as they want to? :shrugs:

    if so, then Jay is doing what the good lawd intended to do. give that man a trophy :champ:
    _________________

    This is true. That’s why I stress that I applaud Beyonce for staying with him for the baby’s sake. A good woman puts her child first, not her feelings.

  38. 38
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Oh yea and how Yung Berg ghostwriting but cant write to save his “career” :rofl: Imma be laughed out today :phew:

  39. 39
    VDot says:

    Tiny is happy for her freedom. :lol:

    __________________

    :yes: She is out here acting like she was newly released from prison. :lol:

  40. 40
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    blue can’t be nervous, she ain’t even old enough to have nerves….

  41. 41
    bama_n_jersey says:

    I’ve had days where my daughter had her hair half way done before we had to leave the house, unplanned. I would put that half in a puff though.

  42. 42
    Gigi26 says:

    We can agree to disagree Sandra :yes: :lol:

    She can’t smile all the time, shiiid life ain’t rainbows and lollies 100% of the time, even as a millionaire :shrugs:

  43. 43
  44. 44
    Sandra Rose says:

    libra80sbaby says:

    :thinking: Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long
    _________________

    Julius was reportedly fired for sleeping with the boss’s wife. Beyonce has needs like all other lonely women who stay home while her husband slangs seed everywhere.

  45. 45
  46. 46
    San ah make ya dance says:

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    :blink:
    ——————–
    x1000 :rofl:

  47. 47
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Blue looks like a child who has seen (and heard) too much at home. ~~~~~~~
    Yes I believe BLU done see a whole damn lot; they travel all over the World. THERE IS MUCH TO SEE :woot:

  48. 48
    Sandra Rose says:

    Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long
    ————-

    SummerBaby says:

    He’s back I seen pics of him w/Bey earlier this week.
    _______________

    Those were old pics. He was fired for sleeping with the boss’s wife. :coffee:

  49. 49
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Can we as a blog define what is “for worse”? Because, seriously, somethings are a deal breaker.
    ————-
    Ppl need to add that in their vows then because they do get up there saying for worse. That means thru whatever. I can talk since I aint married :biggrin:

  50. 50
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Bey\HOV aint getting NO Divorce :nono: WE will be subject to a “Getting divorce” post on blogs once a month or two for the next five years
    Blogs will get tired :lol:

  51. 51
    VDot says:

    Blue looks like a child who has seen (and heard) too much at home.

    _____________

    I totally skipped over this line the first time I read the post. :rofl:

  52. 52
    Sandra Rose says:

    bama_n_jersey says:

    Maybe it’s just me, but it looks like someone was in the process of taking the babies hair down and just ran out of time before they had to get off the plane…. :shrug:
    ________________

    They were stepping off a helicopter, hun. Rich folk in NYC lease helicopters for short hops so they don’t have to sit in traffic.

  53. 53
    Sandra Rose says:

    buddapecan says:

    I think it’s hilarious when people comment on Blue’s unkept hair and then Bey’s stans comment on how rich Blue is but wouldn’t put up the same defense for another little girl with the same hair but a different momma. :coffee:
    ________________

    :cosign:

  54. 54
    Just Looking says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    @ Gigi26: As I said, I applaud Beyonce for staying with her cheating husband for the sake of their child. Tina Knowles was a great role model for her daughters. She put up with the cheating for decades. Tina taught her daughters that THEY came first, not her feelings. I wish more black women would follow her lead. :coffee:
    _____________________
    What? You wish that more women would put up with cheating? Are these women suppose to continue to have sex and relations with these men. The children become dysfunctional, not to include the risk of getting an STD or HIV.

    Ms. Sandra, are you serious?

  55. 55

    :rofl:

    Sandra in here preaching today!
    :yes:
    :preach:
    :cosign:
    :claps:

  56. 56
    luVn_liFe... says:

    happy blogging my new ex best friends (just in case nobody saw my other intro)
    :huh:

    :welcome: forSERIOUS

  57. 57
    VDot says:

    San ah make ya dance says:

    Oh yea and how Yung Berg ghostwriting but cant write to save his “career” :rofl:

    _____________

    :thinking: I believe he could be a ghostwriter. Most ghostwriters aren’t in front of a mic.

  58. 58
    Gigi26 says:

    :rofl: Bama :cosign:

    Nakeya, I ain’t the marriage guru being that I ain’t married but people nowadays want the WEDDING and not the MARRIAGE. Yes, if Sean was a habitual cheater before the ring, he will CHEAT after the ring and tux, and DJ, and photos.

    Marriage is all about compromising and fight. Fight in the sense of putting aside the things that make you damn near hate your partner and finding the love that had yall married in the first place. The more folk learn about that, the less divorce there will be. Marriage don’t change things, the people who took the vows do. That’s all i’m saying.

    Love ain’t happy all the time. Love is knowing that when he makes you mad, you still have a part of you that can say, there was something that made me want him in the 1st place (n vice versa) and can’t live without it. Its a scary thing but i’ve seen it and I believe in it.

  59. 59

    Vdot why I missed damn near the whole damn paragrapgh :rofl: I just reread it all over :lol:

  60. 60
    iscream says:

    If that is true hopefully Bey breaks the cycle for Blue Ivy sake. You can not be at your best for your kids when you’re at your worse emotionally beloved.

  61. 61
    San ah make ya dance says:

    _____________

    :thinking: I believe he could be a ghostwriter. Most ghostwriters aren’t in front of a mic.
    —————–
    I know, but shouldn’t you be decent when you do jump in front of it?

  62. 62
    Just Looking says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    Blue looks like a child who has seen (and heard) too much at home. ~~~~~~~
    Yes I believe BLU done see a whole damn lot; they travel all over the World. THERE IS MUCH TO SEE
    ________________________
    Hey Luvie :kiss: I thought the same exact thing! With her lil hand in her mouth. :/ <<< Gabby Lip Quiver

  63. 63

    @JUST LOOKING
    “What? You wish that more women would put up with cheating? Are these women suppose to continue to have sex and relations with these men. The children become dysfunctional, not to include the risk of getting an STD or HIV.

    Ms. Sandra, are you serious?
    ______________________

    Yes, she’s serious. It’s true. Most long term marriages endure infidelity. Women need to accept this.

    It kills me when they throw out “H.I.V.” like’s it the equivalent of the boogeyman that should scare people into being faithful because “they could catch H.I.V. and die!” People don’t even wear their seatbelts all the time. :shrugs:

  64. 64
    luVn_liFe... says:

    WEDDING and not the MARRIAGE
    ~~~~~~~~~
    Someone I twit with SAID this :lol:

  65. 65
    Sandra Rose says:

    Just Looking says:

    What? You wish that more women would put up with cheating?
    _______________

    Believe it or not, you come from a long line of good women who put up with their husbands cheating. That’s what good women do. Men are going to cheat. It’s in their nature. It is ordained by God that man be fruitful and replenish the earth.

  66. 66
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Are these women suppose to continue to have sex and relations with these men
    —————
    I guess they suppose to still lay there and take it :tea:

  67. 67
    Beta says:

    Are these women suppose to continue to have sex and relations with these men. The children become dysfunctional, not to include the risk of getting an STD or HIV.
    Ms. Sandra, are you serious?
    ____________________________

    Please enlighten us Sandra

  68. 68
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? :tea: And not have a hissy fit

  69. 69
    VDot says:

    Vdot why I missed damn near the whole damn paragrapgh :rofl: I just reread it all over :lol:

    ________________

    I think she went back in and added that whole section about Blue and being nervous. I ain’t see none of that the first go around :lol:

  70. 70
  71. 71
    bama_n_jersey says:

    Plane…helicopter….more of a reason why they didn’t get to finish her hair.

  72. 72

    They were stepping off a helicopter, hun. Rich folk in NYC lease helicopters for short hops so they don’t have to sit in traffic.
    ___________________

    :huh:

  73. 73

    @VDOT
    “Oh yea and how Yung Berg ghostwriting but cant write to save his “career”

    _____________

    That nigga killed his own career tho. :rofl: Wasn’t like he was talentless… His BEST CHANCE was to be like a pop-pseudo R&B type rapper that appealed to ladies (think Drake).

    Then he went and clowned his very own fan base. :rofl: chit niggas do. Now he at the local McDonald’s tryin to work his way up to fries. :lol:

  74. 74
    iscream says:

    If these rumors of divorce then I wonder why they haven’t released a statement saying such or a IG post laughing at it…. They have address lessor rumors like Beyoncé waist size. If they do spilt it won’t be till after the Summer Tour.

  75. 75

    Vdot exactly :lol: when I went back and read it I was like :ghost:

  76. 76
    Beta says:

    I guess they suppose to still lay there and take it
    ________

    HA

  77. 77
    Sandra Rose says:

    Just Looking says:

    Are these women suppose to continue to have sex and relations with these men
    _________________

    Yes. Good women fulfill her wifely duties because men have a higher libido than women (to keep the earth replenished). STDs are a common fact of life.

  78. 78

    @SAN
    “Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? And not have a hissy fit”
    _________________

    Nope. Why would we expect or accept for women to do what men do? That doesn’t even make sense. :shrugs:

  79. 79
    Gigi26 says:

    Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? :tea: And not have a hissy fit
    —————————
    A man’s ego is too fragile to even imagine his wife sukking another man’s dyck much less spreading her legs for him.

    A man will kill his wife for cheating, she’ll be all kinds of slutbuckets and hoes to him…let him tell it.

  80. 80
    coco creamy says:

    I asked this question downstairs will sombody please tell me what the hell

    is a THOT :kona:

  81. 81
    VAALLDAY says:

    :tape:

  82. 82

    San ah make ya dance says:

    Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? :tea: And not have a hissy fit
    ______________

    Women can’t do the same thing a man do :tea: well…. ya can but you will be called something else :tea: crazy logic indeed but it’s the truth

  83. 83

    thot = that hoe over there

    i dont know why yall done got Man and Sandra riled up on this cheating issue. :smh:

  84. 84
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Nope. Why would we expect or accept for women to do what men do? That doesn’t even make sense. :shrugs:
    ————–
    What doesn’t make sense is a woman with common sense and self worth to put up with things that are not beneficial to her. A man cheating can destroy a womens mental among other things.

  85. 85

    oco creamy says:

    I asked this question downstairs will sombody please tell me what the hell
    is a THOT :kona:
    ________________

    :hahaha: chile I asked the same thing awhile back (That ho# over there) corny ass acronym :rofl:

  86. 86
    Gigi26 says:

    @Creamy: THOT-THAT HOE OVER THERE

  87. 87
    Sandra Rose says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    Yes, she’s serious. It’s true. Most long term marriages endure infidelity. Women need to accept this.
    _________________

    Thanks you! :clap: We need more men like Man on this board.

  88. 88
    Carrington says:

    These are rich people problems. And I don’t care as I have a SERIOUS issue going on in my own life that requires immediate attention.

    Yesterday, my kid calls me on my way home from work and asked if I’d take him to Game Stop, so I got home, blew and he came out. We get to the mall and I see this heavyset dude wearing the EXACT same outfit I had on, down to my hat – it was weird as all hell.

    I leaned over to tell Joey to check out the fat MF trying to be me and then I noticed that he leaned in to speak to someone who looked JUST LIKE JOEY!!

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.

    Now THAT’S some $hit to cry about.

  89. 89
    Just Looking says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    Just Looking says:
    What? You wish that more women would put up with cheating?
    _______________
    Believe it or not, you come from a long line of good women who put up with their husband’s cheating.
    ++++++++++++++++
    Ms. Sandra you are correct, I do; however I’m not built that way. I tried it…It didn’t work.

    Not built in the fashion to knocked in the head and turn around to make fried chicken and then give head. :shrug:

  90. 90
    VDot says:

    On Young Berg from allhiphop:

    Among his most notable writing credits are Tamar Braxton’s 2013 hit “The One”, King Louie’s “My Hoes Do Drugs” (Featuring Juicy J and Pusha T), Lil Wayne’s “John” (Featuring Rick Ross) and T-Pain’s “Bitches Link Up” as well as titanic tracks from young upstarts such as Driicky Graham’s breakout “Snapbacks and Tattoos”.

  91. 91
    San ah make ya dance says:

    A man’s ego is too fragile to even imagine his wife sukking another man’s dyck much less spreading her legs for him.

    A man will kill his wife for cheating, she’ll be all kinds of slutbuckets and hoes to him…let him tell it.
    —————–
    Exfckingactly

  92. 92

    @JENIE
    “Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? And not have a hissy fit
    ______________

    Women can’t do the same thing a man do well…. ya can but you will be called something else crazy logic indeed but it’s the truth
    ___________________
    It’s not “crazy logic.” It makes perfect sense. Which is why that is the way it is in every culture in human history. :yes:

    The crazy thing is to try to treat two DIFFERENT things in an IDENTICAL way. That was the dumbest part of the feminist movement. To try and have women treated in an identical way to men. Made no sense.

  93. 93
    San ah make ya dance says:

    And he still sucks

  94. 94

    <<<— more men like Man :blink:

  95. 95
    luVn_liFe... says:

    STDs are a common fact of life.

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    NOT
    IN
    MY
    40+
    years of life!
    EVER!!
    :nono:
    I wish a mofo would

  96. 96
  97. 97
    bama_n_jersey says:

    @Carrington….I am glad I didn’t have water in my mouth. Was not expecting that at all

  98. 98
    San ah make ya dance says:

    That was the dumbest part of the feminist movement. To try and have women treated in an identical way to men. Made no sense.
    ——————
    So whats up with this new generation that don’t wanna take care of women then?? Why she gotta be a gold digger, aint that what yall suppose to do. Take care of the household and shyt. Nigs now want you paying for shyt

  99. 99

    @SAN
    “Nope. Why would we expect or accept for women to do what men do? That doesn’t even make sense.
    ————–
    What doesn’t make sense is a woman with common sense and self worth to put up with things that are not beneficial to her. A man cheating can destroy a womens mental among other things.
    ___________________

    If that destroy her mental it was either weak to begin with or she wasn’t properly prepared for reality. :shrugs:

  100. 100
    Beta says:

    Chile with these expectations I see why more women are becoming lezbos I be gatdayum if I knowingly except you fuggin me and the next chick :rolleyes:

  101. 101

    Nancy you see what I see too huh :thinking:

  102. 102
    luVn_liFe... says:

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    :rofl:

    GET YO Fat behind in the gym and away from the table SIr :lol:

  103. 103
    Just Looking says:

    Man, I just don’t aka Boris care™ says:

    @Boris Yes, she’s serious. It’s true. Most long term marriages endure infidelity. Women need to accept this.
    It kills me when they throw out “H.I.V.” like’s it the equivalent of the boogeyman that should scare people into being faithful because “they could catch H.I.V. and die!” People don’t even wear their seatbelts all the time. :shrugs:
    __________________

    Having worked in infectious disease department for years, you’d be surprised how many people have the Package. People are enjoying themselves a little too much. I’d welcome the boogey man.

  104. 104
    San ah make ya dance says:

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror
    ——————
    :rofl:

  105. 105
    missyJ says:

    Beyonce and Jay are not divorcing anytime soon. And even if they did we’d never know about it :tea:

  106. 106

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.
    __________________________

    :crying:

    that happened to me once. went to a pole dancing class right after I had my baby and the room was surrounded by mirrors. I looked in the mirror and a fat bitch looked back! The fat bitch was ME :shocked:

    I was 160 but have lost 25lbs since then. no mofo way I was about to be a biggun. :nono: looking all swole and sad :confused:

  107. 107
    Beta says:

    :hahaha: Carrington

  108. 108
    luVn_liFe... says:

    Man, I just don’t care™ says:

    @SAN
    “Nope. Why would we expect or accept for women to do what men do? That doesn’t even make sense.
    ————–
    What doesn’t make sense is a woman with common sense and self worth to put up with things that are not beneficial to her. A man cheating can destroy a womens mental among other things.
    ___________________

    If that destroy her mental it was either weak to begin with or she wasn’t properly prepared for reality.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~
    I do AGree with MAN on this, I was bout to respond til I read CARRINGTON’s problem :rofl:

  109. 109

    @SAN
    “That was the dumbest part of the feminist movement. To try and have women treated in an identical way to men. Made no sense.
    ——————
    So whats up with this new generation that don’t wanna take care of women then?? Why she gotta be a gold digger, aint that what yall suppose to do. Take care of the household and shyt. Nigs now want you paying for shyt
    __________________

    “Gold digger” is a term used to control women. Females should absolutely no qualms about being a “gold digger.” I’m thankful it has been as effective as it has been so far because women actually try to avoid being called that for some reason even though every single woman who ever lived is a “gold digger.”

    That’s what a woman was born to do. That’s why “gold” is precious. It attracts women. Other wise it would just be a yellow rock that’s useless (historically speaking).

  110. 110
    VDot says:

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.

    ______________

    :crying1: :dead: :rofl:

    Pick the body type most similar to yours so I can get an idea:

    Post Jail Chris Brown
    Gucci Mane
    David Banner
    Gerald Levert
    Rick Ross
    Big Pun

  111. 111
    Sandra Rose says:

    @SAN
    “Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? And not have a hissy fit”
    __________________

    Women are not supposed to cheat. Ideally, women are supposed to be pregnant for 9 months out of every year. You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man. On the other hand, if a man can afford it he can have a large harem of wives who bear multiple children for him. This would cut down on STDs and HIV (which was introduced into the general population by promiscuous gay men). This is a way of life in the middle east. American women are too selfish though.

  112. 112
    Beta says:

    My Hoes Do Drugs
    _____________

    :lol: what kind of title

  113. 113
    missyJ says:

    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.

    Now THAT’S some $hit to cry about.
    ==================

    :crying1: WHY?!?! :dead:

  114. 114
    San ah make ya dance says:

    I do AGree with MAN on this, I was bout to respond til I read CARRINGTON’s problem :rofl:
    ————
    Its still a fact tho and it aint right

  115. 115

    @JUST LOOKING
    “Having worked in infectious disease department for years, you’d be surprised how many people have the Package. People are enjoying themselves a little too much. I’d welcome the boogey man.”
    ______________

    Yeah. People like phucking. Always have, always will. don’t matter what the consequences are. :shrugs:

  116. 116
    San ah make ya dance says:

    “Gold digger” is a term used to control women. Females should absolutely no qualms about being a “gold digger.” I’m thankful it has been as effective as it has been so far because women actually try to avoid being called that for some reason even though every single woman who ever lived is a “gold digger.”
    ———————-
    I agree :yes:

  117. 117
    Just Looking says:

    I leaned over to tell Joey to check out the fat MF trying to be me and then I noticed that he leaned in to speak to someone who looked JUST LIKE JOEY!!
    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.
    _______________________
    GOOD BYE I just left this life.

    PS NO COOK OUT REQUIRED

    :dead: :ghost: :rofl:

  118. 118
    Tink Tink :newbie: says:

    One simple solution if you don’t want a man to cheat…..give up the beef cakes and trade it in for fish

    ….for the record though, I have never physically cheated :tea:

  119. 119
    SummerBaby says:

    STDs are a common fact of life.
    —————-
    :huh: I know that it happens & that’s a deal breaker for some, but at what point do you leave & it be “acceptable”?

  120. 120
    coco creamy says:

    User Friendly says:

    thot = that hoe over there

    @jennie, and GiGi :wtf:

    :ghost: DNR

  121. 121
    San ah make ya dance says:

    You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man
    —————-
    :shocked: Who gonna have that many kids these days. A fool I tell ya. I can’t

  122. 122
    BullSweetness says:

    @Carrington… are you trying to kill people on the blog? I got strangled reading that…

  123. 123
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    that happened to me once. went to a pole dancing class right after I had my baby and the room was surrounded by mirrors. I looked in the mirror and a fat bitch looked back! The fat bitch was ME

    I was 160 but have lost 25lbs since then. no mofo way I was about to be a biggun. looking all swole and sad
    ————–
    I’m already sad, because this is gonna be me after I have my baby. :cry:

  124. 124
    StripperOnAMinkRug says:

    New person here.. Somebody say hi to meeeeee!!!

  125. 125
    luVn_liFe... says:

    San ah make ya dance says: I do AGree with MAN on this, I was bout to respond til I read CARRINGTON’s problem :rofl:
    ————
    Its still a fact tho and it aint right
    ~~~~~~~~
    It isn’t right at ALL :wink:

  126. 126
    Beta says:

    Call me selfish then :tea:

  127. 127

    Sandra Rose says:

    @SAN
    “Well can MEN accept the CHEATING ALSO?? And not have a hissy fit”
    __________________
    You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man. < 6 :blink: :wtf:

  128. 128
    Just Looking says:

    @VDOT – GO TO HAIL. :dead:

    :crying1: :dead: :rofl:
    Pick the body type most similar to yours so I can get an idea:
    Post Jail Chris Brown
    Gucci Mane
    David Banner
    Gerald Levert
    Rick Ross
    Big Pun

    NOT BIG BUN OR GERALD as they are both are dead.

  129. 129
    VDot says:

    “Gold digger” is a term used to control women. Females should absolutely no qualms about being a “gold digger.

    ____________________

    I actually agree with this :yes: Replace “females” with “women” tho. Something about the term females being used bothers me. Especially if males are referred to as men in a scenario, but females are referred to as…females :huh:

  130. 130
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man
    ————
    6?! Sorry. The two I have, is it!

  131. 131
    San ah make ya dance says:

    I’m already sad, because this is gonna be me after I have my baby. :cry:
    —————
    At least yall have an excuse a lot DONT :hahaha:

  132. 132

    Sandra, who is the “them” referred to in the following scripture? :think:

    Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

    1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

  133. 133
    VDot says:

    You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man.

    ________________

    Where’d you get this old arbitrary azz number?

  134. 134
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Call me selfish then :tea:
    ———————
    OK Tuh :tea:

  135. 135
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Rules of life, do unto others as you want done unto you :tea:

  136. 136
    iscream says:

    It’s not what you do but how you do it and if you are going to cheat (male or female because women cheat too) you better make damn sure that your partner doesn’t find out. You don’t catch feelings for the person you’re cheating with, you don’t put them before your partner…. It’s levels to this and everybody ain’t able. Cheating isn’t a problem till you get caught.

  137. 137

    6 Kids :nono: the only ones doing all that usually get assistance… or have nannies, home schooling and the funds period…. ain’t no way in the hell the average or even above average doing all of that…. :nono: 6 kids shyting me !!!!! Folks getting dogs now :tea: shid

  138. 138

    I’m already sad, because this is gonna be me after I have my baby.
    ______________________

    yeah but you dont have to stay that way. plus you are way taller than me so 160 will look different on you. youll be alright.

    just dont eat ALLLLLL the shyt they give you on WIC. :nono: let the baby eat them cereals and you get the cream of wheat. dont drink up the juicy juice unless you cut it in half with water. matta fact, you just drink water and let the J drink the juice. :lol:

  139. 139
    free says:

    Sandra Rose says:

    Just Looking says:

    What? You wish that more women would put up with cheating?
    _______________

    Believe it or not, you come from a long line of good women who put up with their husbands cheating. That’s what good women do. Men are going to cheat. It’s in their nature. It is ordained by God that man be fruitful and replenish the earth.

    **************************

    i don’t believe i’d ever be the same once i know my hubby has been cheating. i won’t communicate the same, respect the same, act the same, fugg the same, etc. he minus well get the hell on cause i’mma do me, tiny harris style.

  140. 140
    Tink Tink :newbie: says:

    Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool: says:

    Sandra, who is the “them” referred to in the following scripture?

    Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

    1:28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth
    _____________________________
    Whatever happened to Redeemed…were yall able to run her/him/it off :think:

  141. 141
    VDot says:

    NOT BIG BUN OR GERALD as they are both are dead.

    _________________

    They’re still alive in spirit!! :nun:

    :listen:

    In the hot tub, poppin bubb-ly
    Rubbin your spot love, got you screaming Punish me

  142. 142
    VDot says:

    :listen:

    But it don’t stop, watch the Pun get wicked
    When I (stick it) even Luke be like “Don’t stop, get it get it”

  143. 143

    @VDOT
    “You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man.

    ________________

    Where’d you get this old arbitrary azz number?
    ____________________

    It’s a calculation based on a females age, reproductive life span and the “weaning” for each child.

    It’s not perfect because some women can bare children earlier and/or later than others and other variables. But it’s a good average figure for most women.

  144. 144

    iscream says:

    It’s not what you do but how you do it and if you are going to cheat (male or female because women cheat too) you better make damn sure that your partner doesn’t find out. You don’t catch feelings for the person you’re cheating with, you don’t put them before your partner…. It’s levels to this and everybody ain’t able. Cheating isn’t a problem till you get caught.
    _________________

    Now this I can agree with :yes:

  145. 145
    San ah make ya dance says:

    6 Kids :nono: the only ones doing all that usually get assistance… or have nannies, home schooling and the funds period…. ain’t no way in the hell the average or even above average doing all of that…. :nono: 6 kids shyting me !!!!! Folks getting dogs now :tea: shid
    ————-
    Can you imagine if federal assistance wasn’t available My Gawd. Just talked about this yesterday. I wonder if more abortions would happen

  146. 146
    VDot says:

    Whatever happened to Redeemed…were yall able to run her/him/it off :think:
    __________________

    :stop: :nono: Don’t do it bruh!

  147. 147
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Cheating isn’t a problem till you get caught.
    —————
    :nono:

  148. 148
    Carrington says:

    VDot says:

    Pick the body type most similar to yours so I can get an idea:

    Post Jail Chris Brown
    Gucci Mane
    David Banner
    Gerald Levert
    Rick Ross
    Big Pun
    – – – – – – – –
    In my elderly years, I have become David Banner-ish – but, I have always been Chris Brown before Ramen Noodle Casserole and ironed grilled cheese sandwiches in jail took it’s toll…

  149. 149
    iscream says:

    “Gold digger” is a term used to control women. Females should absolutely no qualms about being a “gold digger.

    ____________________

    I actually agree with this Replace “females” with “women” tho. Something about the term females being used bothers me. Especially if males are referred to as men in a scenario, but females are referred to as…females
    ——————-

    “Independent Women” is another term used to control women.. In the words of MJB I’m tired of screaming independent I want to start depending on you.

  150. 150
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    yeah but you dont have to stay that way. plus you are way taller than me so 160 will look different on you. youll be alright.

    just dont eat ALLLLLL the shyt they give you on WIC. let the baby eat them cereals and you get the cream of wheat. dont drink up the juicy juice unless you cut it in half with water. matta fact, you just drink water and let the J drink the juice.
    —————-
    That reminds me that I need to call the WIC people. lol. Speaking of WIC, can yall tell me how it is possible that this girl I know, gets 800$ in food stamps?! With two damn kids?! The fugg?! I wanted to slap her when she told me that.

  151. 151

    @SAN
    “6 Kids the only ones doing all that usually get assistance… or have nannies, home schooling and the funds period…. ain’t no way in the hell the average or even above average doing all of that…. 6 kids shyting me !!!!! Folks getting dogs now shid
    ————-
    Can you imagine if federal assistance wasn’t available My Gawd. Just talked about this yesterday. I wonder if more abortions would happen”
    _____________

    All of this is malarkey. You do realize in yesteryear our great grand parents and grandparents had 6,7,8 kids and up?

    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.”

    :facepalm:
    Don’t get me started.

  152. 152
    Gigi26 says:

    6 kids for your man
    ———————–
    The orthodox Jews do this…but then again, they’re fukking their cousins sometimes so….

  153. 153
    VDot says:

    In my elderly years, I have become David Banner-ish

    ___________

    Oh well you’re cool then :yes: That’s still sexy :yes: Below Gerald is when it becomes a problem :tea:

  154. 154

    VDot says:

    Where’d you get this old arbitrary azz number
    ____________________________

    why are yall asking for marriage advice from a lesbian tho? :huh: and got the nerve to be taking it seriously.

    Man & Sandra have a good time at our expense :pc: they be like watch this

  155. 155
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    happy blogging my new ex best friends (just in case nobody saw my other intro)

    forSERIOUS

    *********************
    *Did loving_life just english teacher correct my name???* heyyyyy!!! thanks for the welcome doll:)

  156. 156
    Just Looking says:

    @free – :waves: I would not be same. As I’ve said, been there done that. Said I would never get married again….

    The thought hurt me to my bone marrow.

  157. 157

    San ah make ya dance says:

    6 Kids :nono: the only ones doing all that usually get assistance… or have nannies, home schooling and the funds period…. ain’t no way in the hell the average or even above average doing all of that…. :nono: 6 kids shyting me !!!!! Folks getting dogs now :tea: shid
    ————-
    Can you imagine if federal assistance wasn’t available My Gawd. Just talked about this yesterday. I wonder if more abortions would happen
    _______________

    I can’t speak for any other state but Georgia having all those kids … that azz would need to be filthy rich or in assistance :no: in 2014 shyting me …. daycare cost is through the roof….. among st other shyt to factor in….. only a fool would have that many damn kids :nono: shiddddd

  158. 158
    Just Looking says:

    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    :waves: Hey Big Momma, LOVE YOU TUMMY :happy: How long you got?

  159. 159
    San ah make ya dance says:

    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.”

    :facepalm:
    Don’t get me started.
    —————-
    Are you serious? Life itself is expensive and adding that many kids is indeed expensive. But I don’t have no kids and you don’t either so

  160. 160
    ShadeQueen46 says:

    Hey roses im new here :waves:

  161. 161
    Gigi26 says:

    I have a couple of friends who came from 6+ kids households..its not far fetched. Its just that with inflation, taking care of a child is expensive and pay is not going up with the prices of food, clothes, etc…

    I used to want 5 kids…now i’m good with just 2 or max 3. My parents have four.

  162. 162
    VDot says:

    why are yall asking for marriage advice from a lesbian tho? :huh: and got the nerve to be taking it seriously.

    _____________________

    Who’s taking it serious? This is just to pass the time and keep the comments going. I don’t mind reading their ridiculousness. It’s rather entertaining. Here and there I agree with some of the things they say, like this:

    “You do realize in yesteryear our great grand parents and grandparents had 6,7,8 kids and up?
    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.” ”

    :cosign:

  163. 163

    @ISCREAM
    ““Gold digger” is a term used to control women. Females should absolutely no qualms about being a “gold digger.

    ____________________

    I actually agree with this Replace “females” with “women” tho. Something about the term females being used bothers me. Especially if males are referred to as men in a scenario, but females are referred to as…females
    ——————-

    “Independent Women” is another term used to control women.. In the words of MJB I’m tired of screaming independent I want to start depending on you.
    ______________________

    :yes:

    Got to control the hoes at all cost! We been doing it since forever! Right down to “love” and the “kissing the frog!”

    :rofl: THEY FELL FOR IT!

  164. 164
    luVn_liFe... says:

    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says: *********************
    *Did loving_life just english teacher correct my name???* heyyyyy!!! thanks for the welcome doll:)
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    NOPE Neva . . .I Font THEE worst on here :tea: misplaced too, to and TEW
    :lol:

  165. 165
    Beta says:

    All of this is malarkey. You do realize in yesteryear our great grand parents and grandparents had 6,7,8 kids and up?
    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.”
    ____________________

    Man most of them built their homes things were less stressful financially for them who is going to pay for all those kids now most people don’t want Gov assistance if they can help it

  166. 166
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    I can’t speak for any other state but Georgia having all those kids … that azz would need to be filthy rich or in assistance in 2014 shyting me …. daycare cost is through the roof….. among st other shyt to factor in….. only a fool would have that many damn kids shiddddd
    ————–
    When my son was in daycare (5-6 years ago) I was paying 150 a week. So 150 times 6 kids. Then you have to feed them. Put clothes on them. Shoes on them. Pay for school trips, birthdays, vacations….sorry but they are not cheap. Period.

  167. 167
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Who wants to live like that :rofl: Not me :tea: I likes a lot of things

  168. 168
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    VDot says:

    Pick the body type most similar to yours so I can get an idea:

    Post Jail Chris Brown
    Gucci Mane
    David Banner
    Gerald Levert
    Rick Ross
    Big Pun
    – – – – – – – –
    In my elderly years, I have become David Banner-ish – but, I have always been Chris Brown before Ramen Noodle Casserole and ironed grilled cheese sandwiches in jail took it’s toll…

    ***********************
    i have been a CO in my past, and the thangs them inmates do with a honeybun and peanut butter and chocolate, and noodles chilli and cheese….have you looking like :huh:…but on slick ima try dat tho :hahaha:

  169. 169

    STDs are a common fact of life.

    _____________________

    :rofl:
    WHOSE LIFE??!!!

  170. 170
    luVn_liFe... says:

    San ah make ya dance says:Who wants to live like that :rofl: Not me :tea: I likes a lot of things
    ~~~~~~~
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    THAT PART :tea:

  171. 171
  172. 172
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    @JustLooking Hey!! :hug: I am due in October! I have the whole summer to go.

  173. 173
    free says:

    Just Looking says: @free – :waves: I would not be same. As I’ve said, been there done that. Said I would never get married again….

    The thought hurt me to my bone marrow.

    ***********************

    it’s nice to try but i’m too old for that shyt. i married late and i ain’t trying to live my last years working with and around him and his hoes. i need peace in my life.

  174. 174
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    luVn_liFe… says:

    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says: *********************
    *Did loving_life just english teacher correct my name???* heyyyyy!!! thanks for the welcome doll:)
    ~~~~~~~~~~
    NOPE Neva . . .I Font THEE worst on here misplaced too, to and TEW

    *****************
    it’s cool lol….no harm…you can go back to luVn_life then :hahaha:

  175. 175

    San ah make ya dance says:

    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.”
    :facepalm:
    Don’t get me started.
    —————-
    Are you serious? Life itself is expensive and adding that many kids is indeed expensive. But I don’t have no kids and you don’t either so
    _________________________

    Who said this :blink: trained to think :stop:

    HealthCare – 800 a month (Family PPO) Ya lucky if ya employer helps ya out halfway with that
    Daycare- 530 a month if its just afterschool
    Factor in clothing and shoes ………. ( they grow like weeds) and so many other things to factor in

    Man conditioned my azz 6 Kids :nono:

  176. 176
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    Oh I forgot that the lights, water, and heat needs to stay on, and the rent/mortgage needs to be paid as well. Kids cost.

  177. 177

    That reminds me that I need to call the WIC people. lol. Speaking of WIC, can yall tell me how it is possible that this girl I know, gets 800$ in food stamps?! With two damn kids?! The fugg?! I wanted to slap her when she told me that.
    _________________

    easy. depending on what state she’s in and how many ppl are on her case and whether or not she also gets cash assistance/rent assistance. I used to get around 750 because its 250 per person give or take. me, my son, my daughter = 750. living ppl, not fetuses.

    the only reason I qualified is because my job didnt pay me during my 3 month maternity leave. I signed up for everything I could think of. I didnt get cash assistance because technically I did have a job.

  178. 178
    missyJ says:

    “You do realize in yesteryear our great grand parents and grandparents had 6,7,8 kids and up?
    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.” ”
    ==============

    My GPs had 10. Other than the house my grandfather built, kids were still expensive and my father grew up starving and ill clothed.

    My grandmother stockpiles in the basement because she was 1 of 10 during the depression.

    Kids always been expensive, no hypnotism needed.

  179. 179

    “You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man.”
    _______________________________

    Sheeeeeeeeet! that’s THOT work. :tea:

  180. 180
    NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS says:

    *oh god i see a belly i must rub, but she don’t know me, restrain urself faserious, restrain* :bite:

  181. 181
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    @User then let me go and sign up. Because I’m about to be on unemployment full time. Well at least till after the baby gets here, and I find another job and I go back to work. Shoot. I like to eat too. lol

  182. 182
    Who Dat says:

    “You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man.

    ________________

    Where’d you get this old arbitrary azz number?
    ____________________

    It’s a calculation based on a females age, reproductive life span and the “weaning” for each child.

    It’s not perfect because some women can bare children earlier and/or later than others and other variables. But it’s a good average figure for most women.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Michelle Duggar and Lauryn Hill got my byke then.

  183. 183
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    @NOJoke if you wash your hands first you may e-rub. lol

  184. 184
    BullSweetness says:

    @Man – I’m usually somewhat with you when it comes to your feelings about child support but how are these kids going to be supported? Surely you don’t expect women to take care of all these kids without financial assistance because last I checked most ppl don’t have farms for their kids to work on anymore….

  185. 185
    Beta says:

    Sheeeeeeeeet! that’s THOT work
    _____________

    :hahaha:

  186. 186
    San ah make ya dance says:

    because last I checked most ppl don’t have farms for their kids to work on anymore….
    ————–
    :ghost:

  187. 187
    Hearts~n~Kisses says:

    Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool: says:

    “You’re not even fulfilling your earthly duties if you don’t bear at least 6 kids for your man.”
    _______________________________

    Sheeeeeeeeet! that’s THOT work
    ____________

    :cosign: Lemme guess the owner of that ungodly lie…

  188. 188
    ShadeQueen46 says:

    all of the dust Beyonce’s paid her haters is stuck in Blue’s fro

  189. 189

    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    Oh I forgot that the lights, water, and heat needs to stay on, and the rent/mortgage needs to be paid as well. Kids cost.
    ______________

    and pray to the lord they not bad as hell :pray: that’s another fawking headache :eek: 6 Kids is absurd unless ….. you have the finances, home schooling, a nanny … reliable transportation and healthcare….. ain’t nobody having all them damn kids no more…. I was in the grocery store the other day and powder formula for one can was 32 dollars :shock: for the damn powder…;. it ain’t no teling how much the ready to feed is…. Imagine having to get milk with out Assistance WIC, FOODstamps etc <<, like how I did …. That shyt is not walk in the park for a married and single person… Ya got to be damn rich or very well off…. and don't let the baby have a week tummy and ya have to buy that really expensive milk :phew:

  190. 190
    The Pearl! says:

    Carrington says:

    These are rich people problems. And I don’t care as I have a SERIOUS issue going on in my own life that requires immediate attention.
    Yesterday, my kid calls me on my way home from work and asked if I’d take him to Game Stop, so I got home, blew and he came out. We get to the mall and I see this heavyset dude wearing the EXACT same outfit I had on, down to my hat – it was weird as all hell.
    I leaned over to tell Joey to check out the fat MF trying to be me and then I noticed that he leaned in to speak to someone who looked JUST LIKE JOEY!!
    It was then that I realized that the fat mf wearing my ensemble was ME in a mirror.
    Now THAT’S some $hit to cry about.
    *********
    @Carrington! That’s saaaaaaaaaaaaaad! :crying: But quite entertaining, too.

  191. 191
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Just foolishness :hahaha:

  192. 192
  193. 193

    Whatever happened to Redeemed…were yall able to run her/him/it off :think:
    ________________________

    oops! forgot to add… #noredeemed

    (shut up Tink! :rolleyes: :lol: )

    I’m only asking because continuously referencing a scripture but not fully explaining your interpretation of that scripture isn’t always as informative as one might think. :tea:

  194. 194
    Who Dat says:

    Her tightly coiled hair
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Naturals call it a curl patter’ern @Sandra.

    Purple Wisteria has a nice one. Her cute self.

  195. 195

    I was in the grocery store the other day and powder formula for one can was 32 dollars
    ________________

    :shocked: and appalled!

    :nono: thats why I nursed mine and sold that milk for the cash. they need to put a cap on those prices because thats insane! what kinda golden calf are they using to get that formula? :rolleyes:

  196. 196
    Gigi26 says:

    Folks are forgetting that back in the day it was more or less a 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLD. Didn’t make it all the way easy but waaay easier than a single parent one.

  197. 197
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    I was in the grocery store the other day and powder formula for one can was 32 dollars
    ————–
    Say what? 32 what? for what? Yeah, let me call and make that WIC appoitment. Fugg whom ever wants to judge me. And I think this time around I will be breastfeeding more. $32 is way too much for a can that don’t even last a full 2 weeks let alone a month. The hell.

  198. 198

    Jay Z know thats his baby. you can tell she’s a daddy’s girl. :love:

  199. 199
    SummerBaby says:

    Folks are forgetting that back in the day it was more or less a 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLD. Didn’t make it all the way easy but waaay easier than a single parent one.
    ——————–
    Exactly! Most now days there’s probably 6 kids between them. I know very few men that don’t have any children.

  200. 200
    Who Dat says:

    Whatever happened to Redeemed
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Her zealot self is programming more scripture into a database so it will be easier to search. She is up to the New Testament.

    :pc: <<< @DeeDee

  201. 201
    The Pearl! says:

    StripperOnAMinkRug says:

    New person here.. Somebody say hi to meeeeee!!!
    *******
    Um, :hi: @Stripper! (You didn’t have to beg! It’s unbecoming, um, but :hi: still)! :rofl: and :welcome:

  202. 202
    Hearts~n~Kisses says:

    So what am I if i don’t bear 6 or 10 kids for my man and HE don’t wan’t that many kids? :thinking:

  203. 203

    Gigi26 says:

    Folks are forgetting that back in the day it was more or less a 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLD. Didn’t make it all the way easy but waaay easier than a single parent one.
    _______________

    I can agree with that but the prices these days are through the roof…. a gallon of milk damn near 4.00 dollars :shrugs: shyt is high as hell these days food period…. 6 kids in 2014 is not happening unless ya rich or on assistance point blank …. back in the day a can soda was .10 cent :shrugs:

  204. 204

    @MISSY J
    “You do realize in yesteryear our great grand parents and grandparents had 6,7,8 kids and up?
    And this was BEFORE Gov’t assistance. We’ve all been trained to think “kids are expensive.” ”
    ==============

    My GPs had 10. Other than the house my grandfather built, kids were still expensive and my father grew up starving and ill clothed.

    My grandmother stockpiles in the basement because she was 1 of 10 during the depression.

    Kids always been expensive, no hypnotism needed.
    ____________________________

    And my GPs had 9 and everyone’s in here had more than 2 or 3 (which is the average). Yeah, they might have been on a farm and built they own house and wore potato sacks. They had it hard and they still made it. :shrugs: I ain’t say it was cotton candy and rainbows. But they made it. :yes:

    This whole foolishness about how kids are “sooooo expensive” simply isn’t true. It’s from people that can’t priortize. Can’t sacrifice. Etc. etc.

  205. 205
    Beta says:

    Most women were stay at home wives/mothers which eliminated the need for daycare and the older kids had to take care of the younger siblings my 75yo coworker still hot about not having a life till this day because her parents would have kids and just pass them down to her to raise she didn’t get to have her 1st child until she was 46

  206. 206
    Who Dat says:

    Fugg whom ever wants to judge me. And I think this time around I will be breastfeeding more. $32 is way too much for a can that don’t even last a full 2 weeks let alone a month. The hell.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    With Dub9 I had to wait until I was out of work on leave and getting 70% of my salary to qualify. Then I was goodt for a whole YEAR :nun: We only recertify annually here. I nursed for 8 weeks and when I went back to work I STILL supplemented my WIC with generic formula. Ex-hubby was like :blink: on generic formula listening to his mammy. Dub9 didnt manage to die or NOTHING on generic. Sheeeet. TUH!!!

  207. 207
    San ah make ya dance says:

    Just :stop:

  208. 208

    @JENIE
    “Folks are forgetting that back in the day it was more or less a 2 PARENT HOUSEHOLD. Didn’t make it all the way easy but waaay easier than a single parent one.
    _______________

    I can agree with that but the prices these days are through the roof…. a gallon of milk damn near 4.00 dollars shyt is high as hell these days food period…. 6 kids in 2014 is not happening unless ya rich or on assistance point blank …. back in the day a can soda was .10 cent
    _________________________

    Yes… but a YEAR’S earning was also on average $4,000 if that. So that .10 cent can of cola is .55 cent to a 1.00 now. On the HIGH end, ten fold.

    Meanwhile the average american income is $40K a year….or TEN FOLD. (NATIONAL AVERAGE, please don’t comment about how Junebug ain’t making $40K)

  209. 209

    But they made it.

    This whole foolishness about how kids are “sooooo expensive” simply isn’t true. It’s from people that can’t priortize. Can’t sacrifice. Etc. etc.
    _______________________

    I dont want to just make it. I dont want my kids to just make it. I want to be comfy. I want them to have EVERY DAM THANG for xmas and not have to share with a bunch of other muthafukkas.

    my way of prioritizing and sacrificing is by not having no more dam kids. I dont like a lot of ppl around me anyway. 2 is enough. :tea:

  210. 210
    bama_n_jersey says:

    @jenie…my second daughter had that weak stomach…that formula was expensive as hell. Then she would go through a can in 2.5 days. The hell…

    I pay $1k a month in childcare for one child, plus before and after care for the oldest. Yep, I stopped at two. Then summer camp is expensive as heck. No thank you with the 6, but the two that suggested this feel free to have the other 4 for me.

  211. 211
    San ah make ya dance says:

    I dont want to just make it. I dont want my kids to just make it. I want to be comfy. I want them to have EVERY DAM THANG for xmas and not have to share with a bunch of other muthafukkas.

    my way of prioritizing and sacrificing is by not having no more dam kids. I dont like a lot of ppl around me anyway. 2 is enough. :tea:
    ——————–
    :clap: :cosign:

  212. 212
    Hearts~n~Kisses says:

    @Man, SO how many kids do you plan on having?

  213. 213

    @BETA
    “Most women were stay at home wives/mothers which eliminated the need for daycare and the older kids had to take care of the younger siblings ”
    _________________________

    :yes:

    You know, I was watching a financial show and these parents had this very same discussion. The financial analyst ran the numbers and adivised the wife to quit her job and for the husband to pick up additional shifts at his job where he could and it would be much more beneficial. And it was true.

    These daycares are modern day scams. Females should forego their “designer handbags” and take part time jobs or stay at home to avoid that rip-off.

  214. 214
    Hearts~n~Kisses says:

    User Friendly says:

    But they made it.

    This whole foolishness about how kids are “sooooo expensive” simply isn’t true. It’s from people that can’t priortize. Can’t sacrifice. Etc. etc.
    _______________________

    I dont want to just make it. I dont want my kids to just make it. I want to be comfy. I want them to have EVERY DAM THANG for xmas and not have to share with a bunch of other muthafukkas.

    my way of prioritizing and sacrificing is by not having no more dam kids. I dont like a lot of ppl around me anyway. 2 is enough
    ____________________

    :cosign: :clap:

  215. 215
    Beta says:

    Fugg just making it did that shyt at home I know moms did the best that she could but I like having things and just making it ain’t good enough for me

  216. 216
    missyJ says:

    Yeah, they might have been on a farm and built they own house and wore potato sacks. They had it hard and they still made it. I ain’t say it was cotton candy and rainbows. But they made it.

    This whole foolishness about how kids are “sooooo expensive” simply isn’t true. It’s from people that can’t priortize. Can’t sacrifice. Etc. etc

    ============

    Lemme see yo pampered azz farm and wear a potato sack with Jeffrica and Jaffiya. Hell the cost of sunblock for your dome alone would have you in the red.. let alone adding kids.

    Kids cost $$ just because you talk hypothetical about feeding them wild dandelions and dress them in leaves doesn’t mean kids aren’t expensive

  217. 217

    the two that suggested this feel free to have the other 4 for me.
    _________________

    :lol: I know thats right. thats too dam many people under one roof. you can get lucky and have two good ones but take your chances with 6 and you gonna end up with at least one dud.

  218. 218

    aint nobody taking Sandra and Man seriously. :lol: they not even dedicated to the foolishness they spewing. if’n they were, they’d help each other fulfill their “duties” to mankind and get to :hunch: rat now! :hahaha:

    i say practice what you preach, or eat a hunnid donuts :rofl: :kona:

  219. 219
  220. 220
    SummerBaby says:

    I dont want to just make it. I dont want my kids to just make it. I want to be comfy. I want them to have EVERY DAM THANG for xmas and not have to share with a bunch of other muthafukkas.
    my way of prioritizing and sacrificing is by not having no more dam kids. I dont like a lot of ppl around me anyway. 2 is enough
    —————
    :cosign: I was scared straight after I had my twins. I was too scared to get pregnant again & get another set.

  221. 221

    Lemme see yo pampered azz farm and wear a potato sack with Jeffrica and Jaffiya. Hell the cost of sunblock for your dome alone would have you in the red.. let alone adding kids.
    ___________________

    :casket: RWilli Im ready to be picked up now!

  222. 222
    San ah make ya dance says:

    i say practice what you preach, or eat a hunnid donuts :rofl: :kona:
    ——————
    :rofl: :phew:

  223. 223
  224. 224
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    Fugg just making it did that shyt at home I know moms did the best that she could but I like having things and just making it ain’t good enough for me
    —————–
    Amen.

  225. 225
    luVn_liFe... says:

    I pay $1k a month in childcare for one child, plus before and after care for the oldest.
    ~~~~~~
    my GAWD! :bite:

  226. 226
    San ah make ya dance says:

    . Hell the cost of sunblock for your dome alone would have you in the red
    —————–
    :ghost:

  227. 227

    The financial analyst ran the numbers and adivised the wife to quit her job and for the husband to pick up additional shifts at his job where he could and it would be much more beneficial. And it was true.

    __________________________________

    that’s a workable solution for the husband and his wife; now, what about his hoes and THEIR chirren? :waiting:

  228. 228
    San ah make ya dance says:

    :lol: I know thats right. thats too dam many people under one roof. you can get lucky and have two good ones but take your chances with 6 and you gonna end up with at least one dud
    ————-
    My mama got 5 and I guess 3 out of 5 aint bad but dammnit if she would’ve just stopped :rofl:

  229. 229

    Kids cost $$ just because you talk hypothetical about feeding them wild dandelions and dress them in leaves doesn’t mean kids aren’t expensive
    ____________________

    :ghost:

    ok now Im done for real-for real. Im ret ta go

    kids these days eat quinoa and edamame & shyt. They used to feed us scrapple back in the day. my kids would riot if I put some scrapple on the stove in 2014. :rules:

  230. 230

    @MISSY J
    “Lemme see yo pampered azz farm and wear a potato sack with Jeffrica and Jaffiya. Hell the cost of sunblock for your dome alone would have you in the red.. let alone adding kids.

    Kids cost $$ just because you talk hypothetical about feeding them wild dandelions and dress them in leaves doesn’t mean kids aren’t expensive
    ____________________

    :rofl:

    They not expensive. People just too prideful. Goodwill, Salvation Army and Wal-Mart are affordable. Plus they have garage sales and other places you can get slightly used clothes at.

    And another big savings is juices and cokes. Kids should drink water with some occaissonal milk. That’s IT. :yes:

    :think:
    I should write a book…

  231. 231
    IncogNita says:

    just wanted to say hello :newbie:

  232. 232
    San ah make ya dance says:

    They not expensive. People just too prideful. Goodwill, Salvation Army and Wal-Mart are affordable. Plus they have garage sales and other places you can get slightly used clothes at
    ————–
    This fool is plain crazy :rofl: My stomach hurt shyt

  233. 233

    that’s a workable solution for the husband and his wife; now, what about his hoes and THEIR chirren?
    ______________

    :lol: right? spreading seeds is expensive! just ask Stevie J

  234. 234

    Fugg just making it did that shyt at home I know moms did the best that she could but I like having things and just making it ain’t good enough for me
    —————–

    …and there you have it.
    This is why I say kids ain’t expensive.
    :coffee:

  235. 235
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    :offtopic: These people at my job are a trip. So there is two open positions here. Mind you, the girl that does the sit down job, told the mananger that she would go do the stand up heavy work so I can do her job til after I have the baby so I won’t be without a job. How about they don’t want to do it. They all keep passing the buck. I just got off the phone with the HR rep, and she is trying to act like she has no idea of what is going on. This is the type of bs I deal with at this stupid place. Mind you, I still have all my emails. and I sent them to my personal email address. Clowns. Jesus be some teeth to bite my toung because I’m about to cuss them all out.

  236. 236
    bama_n_jersey says:

    I should write a book…
    ————

    No…you should have 6 kids and then get back to us.

  237. 237
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    I should write a book…
    ————

    No…you should have 6 kids and then get back to us.
    ————–
    And lets hope you are married with these 6 kids, because 6 kids and child suport. smdh.

  238. 238
    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    *support

  239. 239
    OpinionHated says:

    Maybe Bey is sad cause she can’t phuck Julius no mo…..

  240. 240
    Crimsontide says:

    I think hat kids don’t HAVE TO BE expensive. It’s us buying them expensive, designer clothes, expensive shoes, cars, expensive gadgets and electronics, etc….

    I also agree with Man, daycares are a scam! I can’t believe how much they charge.

  241. 241
    Crimsontide says:

    *that, not hat

  242. 242
    kenbakerswife says:

    Sakeena says:

    I love the fact that they have tons of money and let blues hair do whatever it wants to do

    __________________________________________

    I do too. She got dough so you know she could get her hair done professionally if she wanted to. I like that her hair is free and wild, thats how blacks folks hair grow is out and up .. I love it!! She didnt fall for the pressure to put in a million ponytails or beads. I love that it upsets people and she doesnt give two fcuks.

  243. 243
    kenbakerswife says:

    bnatural says:

    libra80sbaby says:

    Where the hell is Julius??? I mean aint nobody on vacation that damn long
    —–

    He’s back…just saw him with her the other day on another blog…

    Am I the only one who doesn’t believe they are headed for a divorce
    _______________________________________________

    No you are not, I dont believe it for a second.. I think they would do anything to save the union. Thats what marriage counseling and prayer is for. Even if there is trouble , why the first response have to be divorce? They going to work it out whatever it is .

  244. 244
    kenbakerswife says:

    buddapecan says:

    I think it’s hilarious when people comment on Blue’s unkept hair and then Bey’s stans comment on how rich Blue is but wouldn’t put up the same defense for another little girl with the same hair but a different momma.

    ____________________________________________________

    No one is talking about other little girls hair, they talking about Blue. Sooooooooo how do you know WE STANS wouldnt defend any other little girl?
    :hide:

  245. 245
    MrsL says:

    Noticed that Bey is carrying Pop Chips. I love Pop Chips.

    Sorry, carry on. :ashamed:

  246. 246
    Lady_L says:

    Gigi26 says:

    Ummm don’t play a role in the destruction of a Negro Family Sandra Come on its hard enough that the sprite man has done it for the past century, lets not do that. I ain’t even a fan of hers but to suggest a dissolution of marriage when they have a young child is a bit mean no?

    I wish them all the best and hope they can make it work. That’s what marriage is supposed to be, WORK. For better or for WORSE.

  247. 247
    Lady_L says:

    kenbakerswife says:

    Sakeena says:

    I love the fact that they have tons of money and let blues hair do whatever it wants to do

    __________________________________________

    I do too. She got dough so you know she could get her hair done professionally if she wanted to. I like that her hair is free and wild, thats how blacks folks hair grow is out and up .. I love it!! She didnt fall for the pressure to put in a million ponytails or beads. I love that it upsets people and she doesnt give two fcuks.

    ——————————-
    Look at blue’s edges…..has more than more grown-ups!

    :tea:

  248. 248
    Blanche Devereaux says:

    Hey everybody :waves: Good News: I just found out I have another Baby Blanche on the way. Bad News: I was still tryna lose 20lbs :crying:

  249. 249
    lovebites says:

    could someone please comb that little girls hair.

  250. 250
    JJSPLAYHOUSE says:

    buddapecan says:

    I think it’s hilarious when people comment on Blue’s unkept hair and then Bey’s stans comment on how rich Blue is but wouldn’t put up the same defense for another little girl with the same hair but a different momma.
    ________________

    PLEASE AND :thankyou: !!!!! Comb that child’s hair if you’re not locking it! :angry:

  251. 251
    1nicolegrace says:

    :crying: Please do something to that baby hair… Or at least get the lint out. That man is part-owner of Carol’s daughter

Comments are closed for this post