Ray Rice

A. J. Delgado, a National Review columnist, says former Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice is "a victim," and the shocking elevator video footage actually helped his case.

AJ Delgado

Delgado, author of the controversial book "Crying Rape," was a guest on Sean Hannity's radio show earlier this week. She called Ray Rice the "bigger victim of domestic violence," and, according to Delgado, Janay "knocked herself out."

Some might say I'm defending Ray Rice here. Maybe I am, but if you watch the video, the video actually helps makes him look better than he did before. She repeatedly attacked him. He's a victim—flat-out fact—of domestic violence. Only after she's hit him several times and spit on him does he finally hit back. ... And she happens because of that blow to knock herself out on the railing. That was an unintended consequence, I'm sure.

Delgado added:

"I thought we live in this gender-neutral society. Liberals are always telling us men and women are exactly the same, they should not be treated any differently. But when it comes to domestic violence or rape accusations, the woman is automatically the wallflower, automatically the victim. I would love to have a liberal explain that to me."

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    • sochlo504

      I kinda agree with her
      :scared:
      There is a double standard when it comes to men hitting women vs. women hitting men. It could be that men are typically bigger and stronger than women but still you shouldn't put your hands on anybody. She didn't knock herself out though, the ferocity with which he smited her sent her into the railing which knocked her out. If I have to physically fight my mate I don't want to be in that relationship. The world is tough enough and you should be able to come home to peace.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      :rofl:

      If "Janay" was named "Becky" those SAME muthaphuckas would be protesting for Obama to enact some weird law where they can execute him without a trial! :rofl:

      These people at Fox are COMEDIANS these days!

    • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Fox News is the devil's playground. They are all about shock value. Yes, technically it was mutual combat, but he was never equal. He spit on her first when she walked by him on the way to the elevator. Then she took a swipe at him. People claim that there was spitting in the elevator but I didn't see that. What I did see is that he crowded her in a corner as soon as they got in the elevator. They did a quick doggy paddle windmill on each other then he hit her in the face and went to the other side of the elevator. That's when she charged him and he hit her with the left hook to the chin nocking her into the hand rail in the elevator.

      Fox just wants get folks talking about them and tuning in. Won't be me.

    • inter_loop

      In other words, she wasn't a white woman so let's broadcast these animals fighting their women. Then cut to Mike Brown with his hands up wielding a light saber attacking Missouri cops. After that, cut to a montage of Trayvon Martin and say, "See. That's why you're not suppose to carry Skittles and fruit punch at the same time." Then, cut to a screen shot of Sandra Rose bashing American president Barack Obama and watch the crawling scroll at the bottom read "They care less about themselves even more than we do So Let's Promote That....

    • Savannah

      Why she got that dumb smirk on her face? She can't even say it with a straight face. :bye: Becky

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      If “Janay” was named “Becky” those SAME muthaphuckas would be protesting for Obama to enact some weird law where they can execute him without a trial!
      _______________________________

      I swear i was about to say this same thing @Man! some of them same ones tryna spin it like Janay gotta 'own' her part, are THEE same ones who got famous offa the OJ trial! let Janay had been a blonde/blue "Nicole" :phew: they would be organizing to come tie up DC traffic by this evening! :mad:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      @SOCHLO
      "There is a double standard when it comes to men hitting women vs. women hitting men. It could be that men are typically bigger and stronger than women but still you shouldn’t put your hands on anybody. She didn’t knock herself out though, the ferocity with which he smited her sent her into the railing which knocked her out. If I have to physically fight my mate I don’t want to be in that relationship. The world is tough enough and you should be able to come home to peace."
      _____________________

      :yes:

      It's not a "double standard" tho. Men and women have different standards because they are different.

      I think most people understand meeting something with "equal force." But it's not like Ray "feared for his life" or even that she was a threat to him. He just hauled off and knocked her azz out.

      Just a sad situation all around.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      chile, that smug looking sped up there aint fooling me! she outchea trolling for some Mandingo!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      “I thought we live in this gender-neutral society. Liberals are always telling us men and women are exactly the same, they should not be treated any differently. But when it comes to domestic violence or rape accusations, the woman is automatically the wallflower, automatically the victim. I would love to have a liberal explain that to me.”
      _______________

      :think:
      How do yt men train their women so good?

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      and now they tryna dispute whether or not she got K.O.'d by a technicality? like wtf does it matter?! if his fist had not connected she wouldn't have been K.O.'d! :mad: that's like debating whether a boxer was knocked out by an upper cut or by his head hitting hitting the floor... either way, if you still down after the count :deadhorse: you are not the :champ: and it still counts as a KO!

    • OpinionHated

      I see she gets popped in the eye on the regulah... dumb ho.... hitting on either side is wrong and just cause she hit him he should not hit back - he should walk away and leave her alone not marry her azz - I have no pity for Ray or Janay's dellusional azz and dumb ho's like this make it hard for people (men and women) who actually endure domestic abuse - I knew this dude who's wife used to wail on him on the regular the slightest infraction this bish hitting him - I used to be like why you let her do that and his response - I love her - I was done - thats when I realized abused people men or women have emotional issues that make them think they deserve to be beat....

      Delgado up there smiling like she just hit a meth pipe - bish bye.....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      i think she needs to stand by her words and let them put her in an elevator with Janay and see if Janay can knock her the fawk out by just chin-checking her or if she has to knock her into the rail in order for that arse to stay down! bish! :cuss:

    • Rib of Chan

      Janay dragged herself out the elevator too huh?

    • Wasting time

      :tea:

    • Wasting time

      :think:
      How do yt men train their women so good?
      -----------------------
      By Ray Rice'n 'em :yes:

    • Rib of Chan

      Janay stepped over her own body like :kona: ??

      We may as well say Ray wont eem there!

    • Wasting time

      A.J Know what she was doing.
      YT women don't hit them. Just take it and you too can have a baller.

    • amatrex

      In almost all domestic disputes, MEN are expected to control their emotions and show restraint before allowing things to turn physical. That makes perfect sense because men are typically stronger than women and they are obviously capable of doing far more physical damage if they choose to hit a female. But on the flip side, Ms. Delgado makes a valid point about how women desire to be equal to men. Yet for whatever reason women are not held to the same standard during domestic disputes because nobody expects them to control their emotions and restrain themselves from putting their hands (or spitting) on a man. They're allowed to spit, kick, or punch a man as much as their heart desires (similar to what Solange did to JayZ in her elevator meltdown) but that just as wrong. Women who act out violently against men should not be given a pass just because they're the weaker sex. They gotta learn to control their emotions just like men are expected to and they should be held accountable for their actions that could potentially provoke retaliation.

    • OpinionHated

      White women don't hit me???!!!!! Uuuhhhmmmm Can you ask Tiger how his head felt after Elin went postal with them 9 irons....

    • OpinionHated

      hit men.... dang typo...

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPIs6REdG2Q datsmdubya2u

      Oh of course she black so she must've fone something to cause it...... bish please

    • OpinionHated

      amatrex says:

      In almost all domestic disputes, MEN are expected to control their emotions and show restraint before allowing things to turn physical. That makes perfect sense because men are typically stronger than women and they are obviously capable of doing far more physical damage if they choose to hit a female. But on the flip side, Ms. Delgado makes a valid point about how women desire to be equal to men. Yet for whatever reason women are not held to the same standard during domestic disputes because nobody expects them to control their emotions and restrain themselves from putting their hands (or spitting) on a man. They’re allowed to spit, kick, or punch a man as much as their heart desires (similar to what Solange did to JayZ in her elevator meltdown) but that just as wrong. Women who act out violently against men should not be given a pass just because they’re the weaker sex. They gotta learn to control their emotions just like men are expected to and they should be held accountable for their actions that could potentially provoke retaliation.

      ----------------------

      Look its not equal peroid - when women get equal pay then y'all can bish about the unfairness of women vs men hitting on each other till then phuck outta here with this sh*t....

      This argument is like saying black people need to stop playing the race card cause they are getting shot with their hands up in the air by cops and vigilante's its partly their fault for looking menacing... this is bullchit....

    • https://m.soundcloud.com/bernadette-giacomazzo/momma-dee-i-deserve?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_cam <—MisTaken: My shoulders too big to box with God. GET.INTO.IT :eek:

      I thought y'all said you was staring downstairs :angry: that's it I have bullied too much today :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      In almost all domestic disputes, MEN are expected to control their emotions and show restraint before allowing things to turn physical. That makes perfect sense because men are typically stronger than women and they are obviously capable of doing far more physical damage if they choose to hit a female. But on the flip side, Ms. Delgado makes a valid point about how women desire to be equal to men. Yet for whatever reason women are not held to the same standard during domestic disputes because nobody expects them to control their emotions and restrain themselves from putting their hands (or spitting) on a man. They’re allowed to spit, kick, or punch a man as much as their heart desires (similar to what Solange did to JayZ in her elevator meltdown) but that just as wrong. Women who act out violently against men should not be given a pass just because they’re the weaker sex. They gotta learn to control their emotions just like men are expected to and they should be held accountable for their actions that could potentially provoke retaliation.

      ———————-

      Look its not equal peroid – when women get equal pay then y’all can bish about the unfairness of women vs men hitting on each other till then phuck outta here with this sh*t….

      This argument is like saying black people need to stop playing the race card cause they are getting shot with their hands up in the air by cops and vigilante’s its partly their fault for looking menacing… this is bullchit….
      _________________________

      LESSER PAY?
      :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      its partly their fault for looking menacing
      ______________________________________

      yeah, 'cause it's been said that Trayvon' hoodie contributed to his murder. they out here and they believe their own b.s. :tea:
      like i say about this lady up top, i hope folks don't have to BECOME victims before they can finally manage to show a little sympathy for folks who are already victims, smh.

    • San ah make ya dance

      Listen just stay far away from men that tend to not mind knocking a female out :tea:

    • amatrex

      OpinionHated says:

      Look its not equal peroid – when women get equal pay then y’all can bish about the unfairness of women vs men hitting on each other till then phuck outta here with this sh*t….

      This argument is like saying black people need to stop playing the race card cause they are getting shot with their hands up in the air by cops and vigilante’s its partly their fault for looking menacing… this is bullchit….
      ---------------------------------------------------

      Sounds like you don't really want equal treatment--you want "special" treatment. Because in your mind you're ALWAYS the victim. Understood :coffee:

    • Wasting time

      :goodnight:
      It was all good just 2 posts ago :lol:

    • https://m.soundcloud.com/bernadette-giacomazzo/momma-dee-i-deserve?utm_source=soundcloud&utm_cam <—MisTaken: My shoulders too big to box with God. GET.INTO.IT :eek:

      Let me end this blog day on a high note while I still got a few giggles in me from earlier :peace:

    • http://www.soundcloud.com/brandoncharlesmusic/i-miss-you BCinKS

      I don't condone domestic violence, BUT you also have to factor in testosterone. Men are designed to react a certain type of way when faced with danger and physical harm and all that. No, a man shouldn't go 12 rounds with a woman, but any time a man is hit, his first reaction is to hit back. Pure nature. :coffee:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Have a good weekend Wasting! (and if you see that trick up top you already know what to do :box: ) :nite:

    • OpinionHated

      Sounds like you don’t really want equal treatment–you want “special” treatment. Because in your mind you’re ALWAYS the victim. Understood
      -------------------------------
      I don't want anything cause I'm not abused or an abuser - just saying folks act like it's cool to beat up someone who is obviously physically inferior.... so if a 5 year old head butt you and knock out your tooth the 5 year old deserves a knock out punch cause they provoked you.... its not right for a woman to provoke a man and its not right for a man to allow himself to be provoked to the point of physical retaliation - its called self control on both parts.....

    • OpinionHated

      I'm gonna get on the T and Ray Rice anybody who comes into my personal space cause y'all said it was cool to hit if provoked..... I hope somebody got bail money for me....

    • Anna

      Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool: says:

      and now they tryna dispute whether or not she got K.O.’d by a technicality? like wtf does it matter?! if his fist had not connected she wouldn’t have been K.O.’d! :mad: that’s like debating whether a boxer was knocked out by an upper cut or by his head hitting hitting the floor… either way, if you still down after the count :deadhorse: you are not the :champ: and it still counts as a KO!
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Notice his reaction, looked like he's probably K, O'd her before. He didn't check to see if she was breathing, never stooped down to where she was on the floor, not a natural reaction when you love someone.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Don't do it Opi! :nono: these blog OPINIONS aint loyal... this same blog said it was NOT okay for Porsha to 2-piece Kenya's provoking arse, so use YOUR best judgment :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      @Anna, exactly!

      I've seen people show more concern for an animal on the side of the road. :rolleyes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      How clever :rolleyes: On the for real, this is what Janay wants you to know.

      DUBB...

    • luVn_liFe…

      We may as well say Ray wont eem there!
      ~~~~~
      YUP
      DUBB I sent u something :wait:

    • Apparition

      Welp. They on Adrian Peterson ass now.

    • luVn_liFe…

      APP :hi: What AP did Now?!!???
      and :wtf: is going on w\Ickki's bootay there?

    • Apparition

      :hi: luVn
      Child abuse.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Apparition says: Child abuse.
      ~~~~~~
      You lie :shock: WHAT!??? You mean A.P. the RB?? the same A.P. that lost his on break child to child abuse???

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      @LUVN
      "Apparition says: Child abuse.
      ~~~~~~
      You lie WHAT!??? You mean A.P. the RB?? the same A.P. that lost his on break child to child abuse???
      _____________

      Yes. :facepalm:
      TMZ is ON these niggas! Chit!

    • Apparition

      Sounds like he just gave him a whoopin. But it's open season on all these sports niggas I guess.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      It stemmed for a whipping with a switch LUVN. Some bitter azz baby momma situation sound like.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Ray Rice got the answers; he said:
      :whistle: Blame it on the a a a a a alcohol... :whistle:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :wtf: is AP whooping on someone else's child??
      I thought he had two kids and his son cant be much older then 4.

      He aint got nan bit of business putting his hands on other folks children,now shyte.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      @LUVN
      AP got like 6 or 7 kids. Nigga got that bread and puzzy came rollin in like the tide at sundown. He took all of it.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      Oh, and "someone" has "leaked" footage of Ray Rice's wedding to show him and Janay all "loving" and chit.
      :facepalm:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K5tyqEZaFHE Man, I just don’t care™

      Greg Monroe, an NBA player, was arrested for a DUI in February. The arrest video just leaked and Monroe pizzed himself.
      :facepalm:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Man, I just don't care™ says:AP got like 6 or 7 kids.
      ~~~~~
      :kona: that's RECOTDayumdiculous!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Ummmmm, Sandra.... what happened to the :newpost: on Big Sean??? :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      Sandra, i didn't even get to listen to the song... :mad:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRALyMDoCBw&sns=em Nancy Drew (fka IsThisThingOn) has entered into witness protection :cool:

      The arrest video just leaked and Monroe pizzed himself.
      ____________________________________

      no shame in this (he prob feared he'd be shot) :tea:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost:

    • MistaO

      She's right.

    • Anna

      Are they trying to take leagues away one by one?. They don't like that blacks are now coaches. What is going on? I'm 47 DV has been going on forever. I am not saying it's right. But I feel like it's a "witch hunt" on Blacks. Yet "Georgie Porgie", got in another road rage, and said "I'll kill you". Ben R, still gets a pass for raping 2 women.

    • SunnyPA

      As a woman and mother, I agree with her and she's not saying anything Whoopi Goldberg hasn't said. I have told my daughter that if she hits a man (or woman) don't expect them to do nothing. If she doesn't want to get hit, then don't start a fight. It's a natural reflexive action to strike back when defending oneself. Rice stated he was intoxicated and not in control to stop his actions. And there is no evidence that Rice has previously hit her or will in the future.

      More important to me is that my daughter knows how to take a man down whom attacks her.

      I have been in relationships with wonderful decent kind men, some even wimpy. But I would've never assumed that if I spit in their face or punched them in the nose, they would not take physical action. If a woman came after your man with a knife and he stood there and let her stab him, how would you feel about that?

      And Blacks need to stop thinking it's just Fox News that's racist and all republicans are bad. You're listening to other White media doing the exact same thing pointing the finger at Fox News. Y'all vote for Satan if he had a 'D' next to his name.

    • SunnyPA

      HOW COME NO ONE'S TALKING ABOUT THE FEDERAL JUDGE CHARGED WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?!?! SHOULDN'T HE LOSE HIS JOB?!?

      http://newsone.com/3050935/federal-judge-charged-with-domestic-violence/

      In August, Alabama Federal Judge Mark Fuller was charged with beating his wife, pled guilty and his arrest record will be expunged if he completes a counseling program. Roland Martin and the “NewsOne Now” Straight talk panel, featuring Sen. Vincent Hughes, Kim Brown and Jessica Ann Mitchell, discuss the case of Judge Fuller, the silent epidemic of domestic violence, why the media is not talking about this story with the same fervor as the Ray Rice story and if Fuller should be fired. Listen to their entire conversation below.

    • Mahoganynative

      I agree that if you hit someone you should expect to get hit back, but if I hit you with a feather I don't expect to get hit back with a sledge hammer. Put it context people.

    • browniz106

      sad