Catcalls video

An average-looking woman wearing tight jeans and a tight top was filmed walking the streets of New York city for 10 hours expecting men to do what men do: notice her.

And in noticing her, they vocalized their appreciation of her feminine attributes -- as heterosexual men have done since the beginning of time. Men instinctively notice women of child-bearing age. It's in their nature.

Millions of women vented their outrage at the men in the video, who did nothing more than exercise their constitutional rights to express themselves in a non-violent manner.

I don't agree with the obviously emotionally-scarred woman who wrote this blog complaining about my opinion. She took a giant leap in comparing her violent rape to the woman's experience in the Catcalls video.

At no time in the 10 hours of filming was the woman assaulted or even touched by men on the streets of NYC. They simply vocalized their appreciation of her attributes -- as is their constitutional right to do.

We've failed as a society when men are crucified for simply saying "hello" or "you're beautiful" to a woman on the street. Women might as well wear veils and dress in muslim clothing if they don't want to be noticed by men.

To the women who are complaining about the men in the catcalls video, the time will come when men won't notice you anymore. Hopefully you won't be one of those women who rush to the plastic surgeon to improve your looks so men will notice you again.

Enjoy the peace and solitude.

From Create and Deliver:

I’m pissed because the author of this blog tries to justify these actions by referencing scientific research and the Bible. Some nonsense about men are on this earth to be fruitful and multiply, and they weren’t being inappropriate. In fact, the author ads insult to injury by alluding to the fact that this woman should be grateful she’s getting the attention ; for after a few years when she’s 40, men aren’t going to find her attractive. I won’t come for Sandra Rose the way I would have 6 months ago, because I have learned that you can’t separate a fool from their foolishness. I myself use to record men’s disgusting ‘compliments’ and uploaded them to my instagram page. I had even resorted to turning around and confronting these men, asking their names, asking them to repeat themselves, asking them if they found their comments offensive and disrespectful.. even reported some of these guys to their bosses (many of them still in uniform or actually sitting in their work truck). After my rape, I stopped doing these things. It hadn’t been twelve hours after I was choked slammed to the ground with a man’s penis pushing up against my legs that I had to go downtown to report to my probation officer. I was standing in line (minding my own business) when the janitor walked across the room in my line of vision, winked his eye at me and licked his lips. I stopped leaving the house altogether. I was filled with so much rage, so fed up with the blatant disrespect, I was afraid that I might actually run across the street with my knife and cut the next man in the throat if he said something I didn’t like. And I would get no time to serve because I was literally insane. I really walked around with with the switch blade that day just hoping I would get the chance to carve out some pervert’s Adams apple. I have even stopped wearing weaves and makeup in an effort to make myself LESS attractive in an attempt to encourage these pieces of shit to keep their fucking mouths closed.

I’m saying this to say that Sandra Rose is an idiot if she thinks that saying things like that to a woman who is walking down the street is ok. We all have the right to use public spaces without being verbally assaulted or sexually harassed. It is not a compliment. It makes some of us uncomfortable. It makes some of us afraid. The culture we live in looks at women as ‘things’ to be enjoyed. Toys to satisfy any and every man who wants it. There will always be people who feel like this blogger does. Nothing I say will change it. We live in a man’s world and mainstream opinion would have it that I shut up and be grateful that men find me attractive. I can’t wait to get the fuck out of here and away from people. This is bullshit, this HAS to stop, and I’m going to bed.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Well my goodness :shock: what a title

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    I myself use to record men’s disgusting ‘compliments’ and uploaded them to my instagram page.
    ________________

    Then bytch you are a complete dumbazz with way to much time on your hands to be doing this mess :nono:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Lady has a point :shrugs:

    Sandy you was wrong and well we all know you know you were wrong but doing your job to be slightly inflammatory. Unfortunately some folks take you fah serious.

  • Jay3088

    :yawn: Girl Bye

  • Smonae

    "you cant separate a fool from their foolishness"
    C & D you are the damn fool, reading a damn blog and you obviously don’t like the blog's owner.
    Who’s is this miserable azz chick :huh:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    After my rape, I stopped doing these things
    ______________

    Ok you know what .... I see what this is..... seek help and counseling....
    Sandra why you entertaining this nonsense.... :tea: I didn't even finish reading this mess

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    missyJ says:

    Lady has a point :shrugs:
    Sandy you was wrong and well we all know you know you were wrong but doing your job to be slightly inflammatory. Unfortunately some folks take you fah serious.
    _______________

    Where was Sandra wrong ? :tea: Heck it was Sandra's Opinion

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    Why do people do this? Y'all write in these letters, that are super angry, and all Sandra does is put it on the blog for us to laugh and say what we want. Lady please. All that you wrote, to say what? Ugh.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Then bytch you are a complete dumbazz with way to much time on your hands to be doing this mess

    ==========

    Why?

    I myself use my IG to do a series of #bignegros take pics with men 6'6 and above and #bigbootynegros men with nice butts and my modeling stuff.. some folks waist train, some folks selfie their followers to high heaven.. we got every amateur Julia Child... Sosha media is all folks with too much time on their hands

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    :shrugs: ppl have a right to their opinions.....as ignoraneous as those opinions may be :tea:

    just like I have the right to pretend that ignoraneous is a real word :grill:

  • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

    Should i even read it?

    Hey guys. I am back. Had to actually work and put out a few internal “office” fires :rolleyes: Thanks for all of your notes. I REALLY appreciate it. Love you all :heart:
    The sitter does have covers on the outlets. Taken3 went behind the tv and unplugged one of the devices to put the spoon on there. The sitter lives in a townhome. The kitchen and living room are down. The bedrooms up. She has to go downstairs to get things out of the kitchen.;..people at the door, etc. She went to get more juice for one of their cups. She has one other kid same age as my son and then a 4 year old. So no little babies.
    I think it is VERY easy when it happens in someone else’s care to say shoulda coulda woulda but if we think back on all of the stuff our kids get into in our own care :no: all we can say is BUT GOD. Taken3 is just EXTREMELY smart and busy. Curious. The sitter is older than Karlie Red but she is very active. Like takes them outside and runs around with them active. She puts me to shame :oops: I pray I look as good as her and am as healthy. The boy will be 2 very soon and now I am going to start looking at schools for both of them. I wanted them to be at the same place because it would be a nightmare for me to get 3 kids from 3 places solo especially when I get in at 7 am :no: Then it would be expensive as heck. Sigh. But yea. They need to been intellectually stimulated and in a more educationally structured environment soon. The sitter is going to be really sad. Even though she tells me all the “she got to go! She is too smart!” She loves her and that boy.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    The lady that filmed this pointless video ..... something tells me she is a slut outside this video.... I wonder have anyone found her FB or instagram..... only a undercover slut would take the time out to film some mess like this... :tea:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    User Friendly says:

    :shrugs: ppl have a right to their opinions…..as ignoraneous as those opinions may be :tea:
    just like I have the right to pretend that ignoraneous is a real word
    ____________

    :lol:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    Most of the stuff Sandra says is because it's provocative and gets the people going. I find it hard to believe she truly believes half the stuff she says. And even if she does really believe it :shrug:

    The woman who wrote this blog obviously has been hurt (raped) and Sandra's post was a trigger for her. The statics for sexual abuse in women are astounding. SO while men many just think they are saying hello and giving compliments, women are truly fearful. Their catcalling just may trigger memories of past sexual abuse within them. :( I hope the author of the blog is seeking/has sought help with recovery :hug:

  • SOTHERNGRL

    To the women who are complaining about the men in the catcalls video, the time will come when men won’t notice you anymore. Hopefully you won’t be one of those women who rush to the plastic surgeon to improve your looks so men will notice you again.
    Enjoy the peace and solitude.
    ***********************
    :blink: I think I have been coming to this site too long I am now beginning to recognize :shade: when I see it.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    missyJ says:

    Then bytch you are a complete dumbazz with way to much time on your hands to be doing this mess
    ==========
    Why?
    __________

    Folks get spoken to daily .... not one time did anyone threaten her.... what was the point :shrugs: it's bullshyt

  • free

    i didn't watch that stupid azz video....

  • http://youtu.be/xdT5uC4dtgo MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

    @Missy :rofl: I am dead reading what you said about the Taken1.99 making twice baked potato out of his :eek: cause he keep putting LOW-SHUN (how he says it) on it. I would wait and see but I know this body ain’t birthing no more babies. He it. The legacy either thrives or dies with him. He either JAMEIS or NAH….. :hahaha:
    Ok..gonna try and lurk. Gotta run some quick work related errands that require me to drive now since I am going to swing by the sitter. I will be back at my desk after 12 maybe :kona:

  • Time to Waste

    :facepalm:

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    ….. only a undercover slut would take the time out to film some mess like this
    _________________

    :facepalm:

  • SOTHERNGRL

    I won’t come for Sandra Rose the way I would have 6 months ago, because I have learned that you can’t separate a fool from their foolishness.
    ******************
    Sandra she needs to be FINISHED. I mean WE can say slick chit like this but I dont think other people should be saying this.

  • FuturedocDonte

    you ma'am (author of enraged letter) need a Therapist :coffee: a damn good one at that

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    People raise hell bout the wrong shyt I swear... :tea:

  • Bliss

    I finally watched the video. Does it matter that she is walking down a cerntain neigborhood or block? Does it matter that she is walking pass a certain ethnic nationally? If she were to walk pass the men in wall street, I doubt it if she'd get those catcalls... I'm just saying no shade :think:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    something tells me she is a slut outside this video

    ___________

    :blink: What led you to that conclusion from the video? I mean, we didn't even hear her speak. We just saw her walk :lol:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    FuturedocDonte says:

    you ma’am (author of enraged letter) need a Therapist :coffee: a damn good one at that
    ______________

    Exactly :tea: I stopped reading when I saw that.... If you let a damn blog get you that mad to sit down and write a damn essay ... about another persons opinion .... chile :tea:

  • Time to Waste

    The video was stupid and pointless.
    This letter was pointless as well. She needs to be talking to a trained and licensed professional and not writing into a blog.

  • capricorn83

    Most of the stuff Sandra says is because it’s provocative and gets the people going. I find it hard to believe she truly believes half the stuff she says
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    :cosign:
    That's how I view it too. I never take Sandra seriously

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    VDot says:

    something tells me she is a slut outside this video
    ___________
    :blink: What led you to that conclusion from the video? I mean, we didn’t even hear her speak. We just saw her walk
    _____________

    Something tells me she is :thinking: where Man at he usually calls it :yes:

  • The Pearl!

    :waves: Good morning, all. @Taken, I'm so glad Taken3 is alright. Shoot. You got my eyes all teary just reading it. I agree with whoever said go on home for the day...you've been pissed on and had a darn near heart attack at the sitter calling yo good job. Call it a day if possible! :hugs:

  • Beta

    Lawd

  • Aprilbaby

    Hey Folks!

    Today is my Friday!

    Did she say her probation officer????

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    because I have learned that you can’t separate a fool from their foolishness.
    ---------------
    She would know. Because this right here, is pure foolishness. Simple ass lady.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Folks get spoken to daily …. not one time did anyone threaten her…. what was the point

    ====

    Good lordt I'd love to have you sit in on my Sexual Harassment trainings or volunteer at the DV hotline... someone doesn't have to say anything threatening or physically assault you before they cross the line....

    The same as a child molester grooms his victim before even laying a hand on them.

  • Time to Waste

    I finally watched the video. Does it matter that she is walking down a certain neighborhood or block? Does it matter that she is walking pass a certain ethnic nationally
    ----------------------------
    That is what had me on 100 about the video.
    That woman basically shaded BLACK and LATINO men in the guise of a social experiment.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    So is anyone taking the kiddies trick or treating tomorrow ? :tea:

  • NO JOKE_IM FASERIOUS

    email keya

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    Don’t be elegant from the undertitty down and ratchet from the nipple up :shrug: go hard or go home

    _______________

    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    missyJ says:

    Folks get spoken to daily …. not one time did anyone threaten her…. what was the point
    ====
    Good lordt I’d love to have you sit in on my Sexual Harassment trainings or volunteer at the DV hotline… someone doesn’t have to say anything threatening or physically assault you before they cross the line….
    The same as a child molester grooms his victim before even laying a hand on them.
    ____________

    Yeah ok I'm done with this debate ... pointless

  • FuturedocDonte

    The mind boggling thing about it to me is: This child, Ms TY, has a blog of her own. Where she has the right to document her own PERSONAL experience and exercise her OWN OPINIONS? She pissed off because someone exercised their own opinion that was opposite her own? :huh: ::Chris Christy Voice: Just sit down and shut up

  • capricorn83

    The lady that filmed this pointless video ….. something tells me she is a slut outside this video…. I wonder have anyone found her FB or instagram….. only a undercover slut would take the time out to film some mess like this…
    ------------------

    :huh: :facepalm:

  • Time to Waste

    So is anyone taking the kiddies trick or treating tomorrow ?
    ---------------------
    I am! :woohoo:
    IHOP after for the free scary face pancake :yes:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    I can’t wait to get the fuck out of here and away from people.

    ________________

    This line is concerning. Where is she going? :blink:

  • luVn_liFe…

    Taken3 is just EXTREMELY smart and busy
    ~~~~
    So she got some SUPER POWERS Out of it?????

    s/n I have 13 v.m.'s :hahaha: Im NOT here to work :nono:
    Im getting shyte in order for the next 30 days. FOH
    cause MANYANA . . . :tea:

  • FuturedocDonte

    Hush VDOT :lol:

  • MissArtist

    She needs help. I actually feel bad for her. Her anger is misdirected and not all men are bad. If she had cut somebody that day, they would have taken her azz straight to jail.
    Good Morning, MisTaken. :tea:

  • Chelle514

    Morning all:

    FREE WORLD & FREEDOM OF SPEECH, Sandra you did nothing wrong and that's my own opinion. You stated your opionion just as she did, sounds like she's just MAD & BITTER. Hopefully she'll get over her anger and go on and enjoy her life. Have a great day all :)

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    FuturedocDonte says:

    The mind boggling thing about it to me is: This child, Ms TY, has a blog of her own. Where she has the right to document her own PERSONAL experience and exercise her OWN OPINIONS? She pissed off because someone exercised their own opinion that was opposite her own? :huh: ::Chris Christy Voice: Just sit down and shut up
    ____________

    shyt be just that deep to folks I guess... :tea:

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    successful troll is successful :)

  • kamadiva

    I see I am not alone in thinking that the video was pointless. No threats or harassment on any of the guys part..if you don't like what they have to say..keep it moving and don't respond. Oh...she did that as evident in the video, right! :sideeye:

    As for the commentor - agreed, it was a trigger for the traumatic event that happened to her, but how does the next person on the street suppose to know what happened to you when they just smile and speak? Really? Have we gotten so far away from just being polite (even if you don't like the delivery) that any and everything is a harassment to you? JEEZ! People and their feelings!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    I finally watched the video. Does it matter that she is walking down a certain neighborhood or block? Does it matter that she is walking pass a certain ethnic nationally
    —————————-
    That is what had me on 100 about the video.
    That woman basically shaded BLACK and LATINO men in the guise of a social experiment.

    ------------

    Being honest... does this happen with the same regularity and vulgarity from white men??

    We do liquor promotions in white clubs and bars and black/Latino clubs and bars. The girls wear the same outfits at each. The tone of the events is totally different. From the way people grab and fake and beg for an extra free drink to the way the way the men look, grab and speak.

  • Chocolate

    this is just dumb, but people with mental disorder will do anything for attention, why in the hell put on them tight azz clothes, knowing dam well these rapist are out here, , you were a rape victim right, this is a sick world, and by your logic it ain't making any dam sense,

    ME, "ima put on tight as clothes so men can see my azz and cooch and tiddy print
    MAN " hey beautiful
    ME "why would you disrespect me like that"
    MAN " :wtf:
    ME "why are you looking at me in that way"
    MAN " chyt you came out the house looking like a street walker, i see all your azz so now im not suppose to look"
    Me "just because i look like a Whore dont mean I am
    MAN " :wtf: :huh: all i did was give you a compliment dam.

    black man can't holla at a woman so now he becomes :homo: ok i see your logic now

    :lol:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Someone posted her personal photos in the comment section on FB..... she sure dresses like a potential slut :yes: titties all out ....

  • luVn_liFe…

    That woman basically shaded BLACK and LATINO men in the guise of a social experiment.
    ~~~~
    Last night on ABC nightly news the reported pointed this out too
    :smack:

  • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I didn't watch the video so I didn't see if the men were being obnoxious or not. Sandy made it sound innocent, but I know how she do. But the woman is doing too much now and she been doing too much. Cat calls and rape are not the same thing. She's either a whacked out feminist or a lesbian if normal attention from men gets her that riled up.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Chocolate what is that in your gravie :huh: whoa

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

    The mother of the boy in that substitute teacher case is suing for 11milly.

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    I see absolutely nothing wrong with what she said. Just as Sandra Mae is entitled to her opinion, catachrestic as it may be to some, this person has as much right to her belief that being a tactless male is no more a birthright than being sexually harrassed is for a woman - at least not in America because on this land right here... these United States of America... you have as much right to comfort when you walk down the street as anyone else. Whether you stand up to piss is irrelevant.

    It's one thing to be "controversial" just for the sake of page views, but when you support sexual harrassment and in essence send a message to men who already think that it's OK, then you've pretty much crossed the line.

    I suspect that the purpose of this video is not to show respectful men who simply say, "Hi. You're beautiful" in a negative light. What I got was that this woman was to show men who do take that "hi" a few steps closer to DISRESPECT what it is like for a woman simply walking down the street.

    If I walked down the street and every 10 steps random white women said, "Damn, boy! Show me what that tongue do... I been wanting to f*ck a brother..." that $hit wouldn't be flattering to me - after I boinked about 10 of em.

  • SOTHERNGRL

    @V did you see the chit between Sandra and Benzino. Chit was epic. Sandra told Zino she would name the time and place but his punk ass wouldnt show. I was rolling :rofl: Hubby like whet chu laughing at :eek: Nothing.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    The tone of the events is totally different
    _____________

    Can you expound on this? What's the difference you see?

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Time to Waste says:

    So is anyone taking the kiddies trick or treating tomorrow ?
    ———————
    I am! :woohoo:
    IHOP after for the free scary face pancake
    _______________

    I'm so glad it's on a Friday :yahoo: :woohoo:

  • SOTHERNGRL

    @Keya when you wake up. You know they were saying Mona fired Zino&ThiThi.

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    :yawn: is it friday yet? I got a "potential slut" outfit with my name allllll over it :nun:

    I cant wait to transform from single mother/secretary to slore. the work week be holding me back, yo! :mad:

  • luVn_liFe…

    successful troll is successful
    ~~~
    :tea:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5hT5ntbVKw Afiya

    I can’t wait to get the fuck out of here and away from people. This is bullshit, this HAS to stop, and I’m going to bed.

    :thinking: Wonder if she managed to die yet??

  • pointhimout

    not this schit again. here's some advice: gain 50lbs and all will leave you alone.

    depending on the area, she can expect to get this again and again. you know urban area folks have no sense and think anything goes.

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    Sandra told Zino she would name the time and place but his punk ass wouldnt show.
    _______________

    :facepalm: something is really wrong.

  • MissArtist

    Is the woman who wrote the letter the same woman in the video?

  • sassyshe

    Yes Sandra at times expresses some ancient mysogonistic views but thats Sandra. Homegirl obviously needs to realize that she is dealing with the hurt from her rape in unhealthy ways. You cant change others opinion but if you are sitting around trying to crucify men because some ahole pig victimized you then you have to stop and look at yourself. I hope she reads the comments cause sweetie you are destroying yourself from inside out and you are going to eventually self destruct. The rape wasnt your fault nor was it the fault of the men that surrounds you. Go get some professional help so that you can repair you

  • Chocolate

    jeniefrumdabloc says:

    Chocolate what is that in your gravie

    ____________________________________________

    my decatur where its greater sis, thats been my gravi for months now :lol:

  • kamadiva

    @TimeToWaste - yep...Lil Diva is Vanellope from Wreck It Ralph! Gonna do a Trunk or Treat at the church and hit my sis neighborhood so the BIL can take them.

  • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

    Morning Roses!!!! Auntiieeeeee she mad at you :mad: so mad, that she typed out pre-meditated crimes against innocent people. This America and freedom of speech is just that. Girl betta go get some good dyck...get that back broke in, fall in love and not worry about what people say when she walk by. Attention seeking is real and you know what ya doing in them tight azz clothes, twisting that azz down the screet. Baby bye. Sorry for her rape but she is suppose to be doing things to empower woman about her rape situation and not attacking bloggers and Journalist whos job is to report news.I know what you need, you need some gum to chew on.... Baby Bye :kona:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    It’s one thing to be “controversial” just for the sake of page views, but when you support sexual harrassment and in essence send a message to men who already think that it’s OK, then you’ve pretty much crossed the line.

    ______________

    :cosign: I'm ALWAYS more shocked at the responses from women supporting the bs, than the men. At this point, I shouldn't be as shocked, but I am. No wonder men dismiss it when they have women on the side cosigning and saying it's okay. :huh:

  • Time to Waste

    Being honest… does this happen with the same regularity and vulgarity from white men??
    -----------------------------
    IDK
    She didn't have any in her video :shrug:
    I can't call it!
    IF that was her intention; than she would have had another video in SOHO over the same time period in the same outfit . . .

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Chocolate says:

    jeniefrumdabloc says:
    Chocolate what is that in your gravie
    ____________________________________________
    my decatur where its greater sis, thats been my gravi for months now
    _______________

    I have a new monitor and everything is huge now.... so now I can really see it :lol: mess dot com !

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    depending on the area, she can expect to get this again and again. you know urban area folks have no sense and think anything goes.
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    in part of the video she is under the metro north station at 125th and park ave. that area is a rest haven for dope fiends. I wont even walk that block at a normal pace. I do a light jog or I just go alllllllllll the way around it.

    Ive seen two ppl completely naked on that block. shyt you aint never seen before happens there. for instance, this past summer I saw a person stuffed inside a donation bin. maybe he was alive, maybe he wasnt :shrugs: I told the police tho.

  • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

    I have been trunk and treating, fall festiving since last week with all my damn kids :cuss: Got one today too soooo Halloween must be the grand finale

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    I got a “potential slut” outfit with my name allllll over it :nun:
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    :cosign: I hope I don't get raped while wearing it tho. Titties out means I would be asking for it. :eek:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    VDot says:

    I got a “potential slut” outfit with my name allllll over it :nun:
    ____________
    :cosign: I hope I don’t get raped while wearing it tho. Titties out means I would be asking for it.
    ________________

    Yep advertisement :eek: don't say I didn't warn ya !

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    @V did you see the chit between Sandra and Benzino.

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    I totally missed it! Going to read now :pc:

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    Girl betta go get some good dyck…get that back broke in, fall in love and not worry about what people say when she walk by. Attention seeking is real and you know what ya doing in them tight azz clothes, twisting that azz down the screet.
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    oy vey! :smh:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    What is up with all these ads on the blog now :mad: lawd

  • free

    jeniefrumdabloc says: What is up with all these ads on the blog now :mad: lawd

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    i thought it was just me....

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    I hope I don’t get raped while wearing it tho. Titties out means I would be asking for it.
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    :rofl: my toes will be showing I hope they dont get raped too. last time dude said he was finna suck the polish off. :eek:

  • JerseyGirl68

    She is an idiot, Miss Sandra. So f*** her!!! Next!

    :newpost:

  • capricorn83

    The lady that filmed this pointless video ….. something tells me she is a slut outside this video…. I wonder have anyone found her FB or instagram….. only a undercover slut would take the time out to film some mess like this…
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    water... all over my keyboard... :ROFL: :ROFL:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    @V

    This may get long. I apologize in advance..

    So we go in and set up a table, banners, get mixers, still have flip flops and sweaters. At a black club as soon as the liquor banner goes up people immediately come over (even tho it's obvious by the table and our attire we haven't started). We are polite and say hey we haven't started yet. People will hover, check back a few times and then be right there as soon as we start. At a white club people may look but they don't approach.

    State law limits the amount of free liquor we can distribute to each patron. and we have to give it to the person drinking it. At a black club after 2 and we say I cannot give you anymore people will try to take the drinks off the table when they think you aren't looking, will send their friend over for them. Will ask for one for their "friend" who didn't want to walk over.

    At white clubs if someone is drinking Vodka and I offer Fireball they will turn it down. Or at the end of the night when I'm trying to just give it away I can't. People are like no I've had 2 I've had enough.

    We are supposed to take pictures and mingle. Black/Latino men more often than white men will use the photo op as a chance to hug you real tight, try to kiss you, even reach a hand up your skirt.

    And the socioeconomic group only changes the dynamic slightly.

    Even if it's not liquor or a bar setting in my experience black and Latinos want whatever free useless crap we are giving away while a lot of times you have to convince a white person to take the crappy Frisbee

    None of this is to say this is an absolute but there are marked differences in my experience not just from the men but from each racial group.

  • capricorn83

    *wrong post*

    this one had me :ROFL:

    is it friday yet? I got a “potential slut” outfit with my name allllll over it 

    I cant wait to transform from single mother/secretary to slore. the work week be holding me back, yo! 

  • Time to Waste

    I’m so glad it’s on a Friday :yahoo: :woohoo:
    ----------------------
    ME too!
    We tried on the costume yesterday with his warm clothes.
    He is ready!!

  • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

    Interesting take on this topic from women.

    Very interesting. How "You" get more upset with a post about what Kim Kardashian does with HER P*s-C than "you" do about topics that actually AFFECT you is mind blowing.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Time to Waste says:

    I’m so glad it’s on a Friday :yahoo: :woohoo:
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    ME too!
    We tried on the costume yesterday with his warm clothes.
    He is ready!!
    October 30, 2014 at 10:44 am
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    Lil J been wearing her costume damn near every day when she gets home :lol: she ready

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    Yep advertisement :eek: don’t say I didn’t warn ya !
    __________________

    :no: This makes me sad. Victim blaming/slut shaming, is real out here. We won't ever be able to hold the real culprits accountable with this type of thinking :(

  • SOTHERNGRL

    this past summer I saw a person stuffed inside a donation bin. maybe he was alive, maybe he wasnt I told the police tho.
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    @UF :shocked: :blink: :eek: Jesus if I saw somthing like this I dont know what the hell I would do. But my question is why are we just now hearing about it?

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Dot says:

    Yep advertisement :eek: don’t say I didn’t warn ya !
    __________________
    :no: This makes me sad. Victim blaming/slut shaming, is real out here. We won’t ever be able to hold the real culprits accountable with this type of thinking :(
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    Awww sorry your sad >> here's a hug :hug:

  • luVn_liFe…

    Attention seeking is real and you know what ya doing in them tight azz clothes, twisting that azz down the screet :eek:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    She didn’t have any in her video :shrug:
    I can’t call it!
    IF that was her intention; than she would have had another video in SOHO over the same time period in the same outfit . . .

    ==========

    In your experience I mean. In the original post folks were talking about the crazy things or nice things random men have said to them.

    In what I do I see the drunk frat boy type yt boys (even my yt frat boy friends) stare at women, make jokes with their friends, say crass things but a lot it is toward each other than towards the woamn

  • The Pearl!

    Aprilbaby says:

    Hey Folks!
    Today is my Friday!
    Did she say her probation officer????
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    Good morning, Aprilbaby...you saw that, too? (I stopped reading shortly thereafter) (sigh) She's got a multitude of trouble, aintshe?

  • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

    oh yeah and ole girl must be a bulldigger or bout to turn into stud. Her hate for men is REAL

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    Awww sorry your sad >> here’s a hug :hug:

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    :no: That's harassment because I didn't ask for it :nono: :rules:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    VDot says:

    Awww sorry your sad >> here’s a hug :hug:
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    :no: That’s harassment because I didn’t ask for it
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    Damit you will take this here hug ret nah :mad: >>>> :hug: and this here :lick:

  • Time to Waste

    il Diva is Vanellope from Wreck It Ralph!
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    Kewt!
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    Lil J been wearing her costume damn near every day when she gets home :lol: she ready
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    Time Jr would have done the same and drove me crazy.
    His costume was in my closest since the 2nd week of September :lol:
    Last night that was the first thing he asked; if he could keep it on :rofl:
    He could until dinner.

  • CocoKhaleesi

    Damn ads.

    Eye swear that EYE'm not trying to be dense on purpose but can someone clear this up for me. Is the woman in the video the SAME woman who wrote this blog post? Or perhaps a close relative...or perhaps someone of you know importance? :huh:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Just seen a video of good and pregnant woman robbing a store :no: and on top of that she had on a cape.... like a super woman cape :facepalm: no mask or nothing

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

    Very interesting. How “You” get more upset with a post about what Kim Kardashian does with HER P*s-C than “you” do about topics that actually AFFECT you is mind blowing.

    ===============

    True story

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Time to Waste says:

    il Diva is Vanellope from Wreck It Ralph!
    ——
    Kewt!
    _______________
    Lil J been wearing her costume damn near every day when she gets home :lol: she ready
    _______
    Time Jr would have done the same and drove me crazy.
    His costume was in my closest since the 2nd week of September :lol:
    Last night that was the first thing he asked; if he could keep it on :rofl:
    He could until dinner.
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    They be ready :lol: and it's on Friday this year :yes: it's about to go down ...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    @Missy - Gotcha. Thanks for the breakdown. I'm not surprised at the break down especially - "Black/Latino men more often than white men will use the photo op as a chance to hug you real tight, try to kiss you, even reach a hand up your skirt." As evidenced here, we have the tendency to believe that tight clothes means you are asking to be felt groped up, touched, harassed, fingered and pass this message along to their male counterparts (sons, uncles, cousins, brothers), it makes sense. Or something. :huh:

  • http://www.nj.com/hudson/index.ssf/2011/12/jersey_citys_prince_the_pimp_d.html User Friendly

    UF Jesus if I saw somthing like this I dont know what the hell I would do. But my question is why are we just now hearing about it?
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    I actually forgot about that one. I dont see that donation bin anymore so I guess they removed it and him (or her) at the same dam time. I was gonna take a pic but like I said, I wasnt sure if the person was alive and I was with my doorter and didnt want her to realize what I was looking at. the officer chuckled when I told him :confused: that block is WILD! 125th goes from the east end to the west end. there are different scenes depending on where you are.

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    :lol: I tell ya

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R5hT5ntbVKw Afiya

    So all this banter, do you REALLY think that will stop a man from hollering at you while you walk down the street and around the corners for 10 HOURS trying to get catcalls and attention? REALLY? :confused:

    I work at a shipyard, full of men and felons, men and women speak ALL THE TIME(and I ain't wearing nar shyt that's tight) what's wrong with speaking back? :confused:

    Some folks JUST BE LOOKING FOR TROUBLE!!!!!!!! :facepalm:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ypRKb0xKVQ8 VDot

    >>>> :hug: and this here :lick:

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    :rofl: Just aggressive with it. I'll go with it :yes:

    :newpost: Tiny & Co. :eek:

  • http://SandraRose.com Keesh

    I thought it was Thursday.. I SO CONFUSING RIGHT NOW

  • Chocolate

    VDot says:

    Yep advertisement :eek: don’t say I didn’t warn ya !
    __________________

    :no: This makes me sad. Victim blaming/slut shaming, is real out here. We won’t ever be able to hold the real culprits accountable with this type of thinking

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    I can understand your point, but at some point we as women need to take responsiblity, for our own demise, no way in hell we don't know whats out there yet we choose to entice these fools, we know its a crazy world it been since the beginning, but what are we gonna do as women, sit back and and entertain sexual jokes, sexual t.v shows, and the likes, if we entertain this stuff on a daily basis, how will men ever feel when they step to us, a man is a hunter, he has a sense that us women don't have, they sniff out women like this we can agree to disagree, but it is what it is, that is why they treat them that way. not saying this for you but in general,

  • Ms Peaches

    Sandra "you better watch your back" said in the mother's voice from Baby boy movie.

  • MsChavo

    Sandra you were absolutely right...its a dang compliment and in their nature to observe. Heffas ain't got nothing else to do. Not to brag....sike I'm braggin...all she got was 100 in 10/hours....hmmm I get like 10 per minute walking the streets of Chicago. I always say thank you and keep it moving. If the compliments are over the top, which they tend to be Sometime, I will just ignore the fella. But to me its not strange because I get compliments from men, women,grandma's, kids, all on the street. That heffa that did the documentary is a waste of life...

  • Bliss

    Being honest… does this happen with the same regularity and vulgarity from white men??
    —————————–
    IDK
    She didn’t have any in her video
    I can’t call it!
    IF that was her intention; than she would have had another video in SOHO over the same time period in the same outfit . . .
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    She didn't have any caucasion men in the video because they don't be catcalling, thus, they would be no video to shoot :yes:

  • INTENSEMOCHA THE ANTAGONIST

    There were only a few guys who crossed the line, the majority of them simply acknowledged her and/or complimented her~

    Far from harassment except for maybe two

  • Fated4Greatness

    Social media aint doing nothing but making people soft as hell. Ol cry baby a$$es :cry:

    The video was really not that serious. As one reader noticed, look at the neighborhood she was in. Anything walking with T&A would most likely get the same reaction. Send that girl to a diversely populated area and Im sure it would be the complete opposite.

    And as far as this reader getting so upset. Ma'am. You dont pay for this service. This is not something you must come to everyday. If you dont like it, click the lil red X, gtf on with your life.