Phaedra Parks and Apollo Nida

Reality TV socialite Phaedra Parks says she is “relieved” that her husband Apollo Nida was shipped back to prison following his conviction for bank and wire fraud.

Unlike most couples who rush down the aisle, Parks was forced to wait until Nida completed a prior prison bid before they tied the knot 5 years ago. But the distance between them only heightened her intense feelings for him.

As we know, our feelings are a terrible life compass. So when Nida walked out of a Georgia prison, Phaedra quickly married him and signed a contract to star in a reality TV show.

Both bad decisions that were out of the norm for an intelligent woman like Parks.

Parks had complained in the past that Nida did not have the maturity level or skills necessary to hold down a steady 9-5 job to support his family. Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women.

It’s easy to imagine Phaedra — a strong black woman — growing wary of her husband’s feminine, immature ways.

“I won’t have to be worried about all his nonsense, wondering what’s going on with him, has he wrecked something, has he got in trouble somewhere?” she said during a recent episode of Real Housewives of Atlanta.

Women want 2 things from their men: intimacy and a sense of security. Parks says she got neither of those from Apollo.

Parks said Apollo never should have married her if he was insecure. But it was Parks’ job to assess Apollo’s emotional status before she agreed to marry him.

That’s where the brain neurotransmitter Dopamine comes in. It renders smart women like Parks deaf, dumb and blind to a man’s glaring flaws.

“It’s easy to say you love somebody,” Parks told her mother, but actions speak louder than words.

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    • Time to Waste

      Way to kick ’em while he down

    • Ms Peaches

      Pha Pha was scared of that ole yella nikka.

    • hell_on_heels

      Pha Pha fall back! I like her but she’s sounding a bit immature herself…just take care of them babies…..I haven’t watched this season. So fed up with the foolery! Hi Roses

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Phadra I feel ya :yes: Fawk that fool …..

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Ewwww at Apollo. He’s gross. He’s been gross to me ever since he deep throated that pickle tho :hurl:

    • Ms Peaches

      That’s where the brain neurotransmitter Dopamine comes in

      —————————————-
      Sanda don’t you start now. :rofl: We know that that Dop will have you visiting a nikka on a air mattress. :rofl:

    • Time to Waste

      Is that the sanger Lloyd to the left lusting after Apollo :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      You pick a thug, had babies by a thug, now you done with the thug :smh: didn’t you know what you was getting from the door? :thinking:

      #petty

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      wow thats trifling. he’s still your hubby and everything aint for everybody to know. now when they kiss and makeup……..

      :no:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women.
      _______________

      Typical for a man that did a bid in prison :tea:

    • KDub

      Way to kick ‘em while he down

      Parks had complained in the past that Nida did not have the maturity level or skills necessary to hold down a steady 9-5 job to support his family.

      wow thats trifling. he’s still your hubby
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      But this heffa was running around trying to open a funeral home…she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill. Instead she wants to push him in the street now after all of this, drive the bus, and roll him over. Sit down Phaedra. Frfr.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Is that the sanger Lloyd to the left lusting after Apollo :rofl:
      _________________

      looking like sammy davis, jr. :danban:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      Lloyd up looking like :haha: You going to jail, nah!

    • SummerBaby

      Women want 2 things from their men: intimacy and a sense of security. Parks says she got neither of those from Apollo.
      ———————
      This is true :yes:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Women want 2 things from their men: intimacy and a sense of security.

      —-

      My main questions in looking for a man, are you a man of GOD, are you a provider, are you a protector?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I’m gone be quiet til we switch topics.

    • Matchsticks

      I honestly get everything Phaedra is saying…when you start feeling like your husband’s MOTHER that mess gets old! Gotta be tensed up and nervous every time he leaves the house, has too much to drink, hangs out with certain folks. That’s not security, but I can also listen to Apollo speak one time and know he wasn’t gonna give her that…oh well…

    • free

      Afiya says FOH :chase: says: You pick a thug, had babies by a thug, now you done with the thug :smh: didn’t you know what you was getting from the door?

      ************************

      basically. but when he get out and only have 5 dolla in his bank account….

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      But this heffa was running around trying to open a funeral home…she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill. Instead she wants to push him in the street now after all of this, drive the bus, and roll him over. Sit down Phaedra. Frfr.
      ——
      :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      User Friendly says:

      wow thats trifling. he’s still your hubby and everything aint for everybody to know. now when they kiss and makeup……
      _______________

      I’m sorry but that fool deserves no support. :tea: the divorce papers would be in the mail …. dude treated like shyt in my opinion….

    • FuturedocDonte

      Apollo in gym testing them pickle eating skills :hide:

    • SummerBaby

      :rofl: :rofl: Lloyd looking like a male groupie

    • free

      Vanna is the root of all evil says: My main questions in looking for a man, are you a man of GOD, are you a provider, are you a protector?

      ******************

      she wanted that D and them mixed babies. and phae is bout that life. he didn’t throw her to the wolves but no way in hell she ain’t a criminal right along with him.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Matchsticks says:

      I honestly get everything Phaedra is saying…when you start feeling like your husband’s MOTHER that mess gets old! Gotta be tensed up and nervous every time he leaves the house, has too much to drink, hangs out with certain folks. That’s not security, but I can also listen to Apollo speak one time and know he wasn’t gonna give her that…oh well…
      _______________

      Phaedra is making a smart move :tea: fawk this stand by a ain’t shyt man shyt … nope

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      But this heffa was running around trying to open a funeral home…she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill.

      _____________________

      She was on the show talmabout I tried to help him go legitimate with the funeral home….donkey booty videos.

      :wtf: That man didn’t wanna do a donkey butt video unless he was in the butt. Male or female. Didn’t matter :shrug:

    • Matchsticks

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women.
      _______________
      Typical for a man that did a bid in prison :tea:
      _________

      Or had complexes and insecurity growing up… :tea:

      some of these fools grew up with daddy’s in the house…and them daddy’s be like :facepalm: that boy ain’t turn out to be ’bout shyt…!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women.
      _________________________________

      :huh: ^^^^Presumptuous statement.

      I was raised by a single mother and could run a laundry list of the things she taught me and being a fukk boy ain’t one of ’em. :coffee:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      basically. but when he get out and only have 5 dolla in his bank account….
      ______________

      :think: didnt y’all say he said he wasn’t coming home to stay in no apartment?

      he better have a stash somewhere but trust and believe its a chick on the corrilinks right now that got a shoulder for him to lean on :yes:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      ******************

      she wanted that D and them mixed babies. and phae is bout that life. he didn’t throw her to the wolves but no way in hell she ain’t a criminal right along with him.
      ——-
      You, DDubb, and I are >>>><<<<<

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      didnt y’all say he said he wasn’t coming home to stay in no apartment?
      —–
      He said this for a reason. Trust.

    • FuturedocDonte

      :rofl: :rofl: Lloyd looking like a male groupie
      ——
      Why I thought that was the boy from “How to get away with Murder”

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      “But it was Parks’ job to assess Apollo’s emotional status before she agreed to marry him.”
      ______________________________

      Exactly! Now she wanna act like a victim?! She knew he was a lil cerebrally ‘delayed’ and she prob thought that would work in her favor when it came to controlling and manipulating him; she didn’t bargain for him being a hot-headed fool, instead of the docile arm pet she thought she was getting. Girl bye. :rolleyes:

    • Matchsticks

      jeniefrumdabloc says:

      User Friendly says:
      wow thats trifling. he’s still your hubby and everything aint for everybody to know. now when they kiss and makeup……
      _______________
      I’m sorry but that fool deserves no support. :tea: the divorce papers would be in the mail …. dude treated like shyt in my opinion….
      _________

      :cosign: seriously…fugg Apollo…I done heard all kinda stuff about him that never even made it on the show…Phaedra is FOS too, but she don’t owe him jack for the stuff he’s pulled… :nono:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      :shocked: FAINTS! :ghost:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I’m going TK say this. Phaedra knew. She knew. No job but paying a $3200 mortgage. She knew. Probably even gave tips, but the partner got messy.

    • Matchsticks

      Long Time Lurker says:

      Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women.
      _________________________________
      :huh: ^^^^Presumptuous statement.
      I was raised by a single mother and could run a laundry list of the things she taught me and being a fukk boy ain’t one of ‘em. :coffee:
      ___________

      :yes: I believe you, and I know too many bytch made dudes that did grow up in a two family household…that is not the formula for fukk boys!

    • free

      KDub says: But this heffa was running around trying to open a funeral home…she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill.

      ***************

      this n***** looked lazy to me. he didn’t want to do the funeral home (understandable) but she said she tried to hook him up with legitimate stuff ut he wanted to roll like she rolled. apollo was never going to really work with his hands, which is something he would probably have to do because it taint easy for a convict to find jobs in the A. everybody doing background checks.

      i think he thought he was gonna ball 50/50from the RHOA but phae seem like the type of broad who will split 85/15 so he started doing his own lil dirt and she saw a way to let him do him and die by the sword in the end. kills two birds at the same time.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      she wanted that D and them mixed babies. and phae is bout that life. he didn’t throw her to the wolves but no way in hell she ain’t a criminal right along with him.

      —-

      If yo unemployed husband say he drop $7000.00 in a strip club what you thank he doing? i mean really i have no sympathy for pha.

    • KDub

      Exactly! Now she wanna act like a victim?! She knew he was a lil cerebrally ‘delayed’ and she prob thought that would work in her favor when it came to controlling and manipulating him; she didn’t bargain for him being a hot-headed fool, instead of the docile arm pet she thought she was getting. Girl bye.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      I missed you :wail: Co-sign all of this.
      She played herself (out this bish). <<Pacifically for YOU :love:

      Lets dance. :2dance:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      Additionally, Nida was highly emotional and had anger management issues — typical of boys raised by single women
      ==========

      Wasn’t Polo raised by him deddy cuz mama was on crack??

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      …I done heard all kinda stuff about him that never even made it on the show…

      ________________

      Whatcha heard Matchie? :popcorn:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Phaedra saw a fine man …. decided she was going to groom this man to her standards (hence a damn project) and she did in some ways….. these kinda of men get built up by women and by the time they are on top …. that’s when they leave ya…. you have done all that work fixing this (build a man) up .. just for him to snatched up by the next. Phaedra got out dodge just in the nick of time ….. :yes:
      Those (project) men a trip …. I had one ….. they only surface, etc when they are down…. whewwww ya…. and then we (women) try to fix them up :no: Smart move Phaedra…. keep that shyt moving

    • Matchsticks

      she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill.
      __________

      nah, I know his type…he would have found a way to fugg that up…Apollo is a criminal and doesn’t know how to sit his azz down and follow rules…that’s who he is… :tea:

    • Time to Waste

      OAN
      Dub is back :yahoo:

      :rofl:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      :crying1: :crying1: :crying1:

      …is …is that my KDub???!!! :crying1:

      Lawd I knowed you was coming byke to me! :crying1: you seen where i had wishededed you a murry chrimma ‘out dis bish’ wednesday din you? :crying1:
      welcome byke :hug: (and don’t you quit us no mo’ like that :spank: )

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      But this heffa was running around trying to open a funeral home…she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill.

      =============

      Cuz ATL needs a another Barbershop?? That’s simple.

      Deathcare is a million dollar business :yes:

    • Matchsticks

      VDot says:

      …I done heard all kinda stuff about him that never even made it on the show…
      ________________
      Whatcha heard Matchie? :popcorn:
      __________

      just that he stayed up in other chicks, if you know what I mean…dude been shifty and all over the place for quite awhile…

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I’m going TK say this. Phaedra knew. She knew. No job but paying a $3200 mortgage. She knew. Probably even gave tips, but the partner got messy.

      __________________

      SHE KNEW!!!! If anything she probably pointed the police in his partner’s direction. She was done with him at that point. He had served his purpose and now it was time for him to GEAUX! :chase:

    • SummerBaby

      seriously…fugg Apollo…I done heard all kinda stuff about him that never even made it on the show…Phaedra is FOS too, but she don’t owe him jack for the stuff he’s pulled…
      ————————-
      What you hear :popcorn:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      “But it was Parks’ job to assess Apollo’s emotional status before she agreed to marry him.”
      ______________________________
      Exactly! Now she wanna act like a victim?! She knew he was a lil cerebrally ‘delayed’ and she prob thought that would work in her favor when it came to controlling and manipulating him; she didn’t bargain for him being a hot-headed fool, instead of the docile arm pet she thought she was getting. Girl bye. :rolleyes:

      —-

      its sad bc of her immature desires her boys have to be raised without a dad. you used to visit this man know he aint have ish visting him while he was living with his homeboy sleeping on a blow up. you couldnt done no better than that? and you a lawyer? desperation is a real disease

    • SOTHERNGRL

      :huh: :blink: who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.

    • free

      Matchsticks says:

      she coulda helped him open a barbershop. He had a skill.
      __________

      nah, I know his type…he would have found a way to fugg that up

      ********************

      :rofl: so friggin true.

    • KDub

      Phaedra saw a fine man …. decided she was going to groom this man to her standards (hence a damn project) and she did in some ways….. these kinda of men get built up by women and by the time they are on top …. that’s when they leave ya….
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Why I pictured Tasha Mack when she groomed Bobby Brown in “Two Can Play That Game” :ghost:

      @Match…you prolly right. He woulda prolly messed it up. In that case she probably knew all of this from jump. Why I said she aint no angel either. But dont throw him unda the bus. She running round here hollering she a southern belle. Bish a real southern belle aint SAYING ISH good or bad about what went down. STFU. :stop:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      My main questions in looking for a man, are you a man of GOD
      _____________________________

      um, Vanna, you do know your boy marilyn manson is a ‘minister’ in the church of satind? 😆

    • KDub

      who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.
      ^^^^^^^^^
      Singer Lloyd on crack.

      Google it.

    • free

      Vanna is the root of all evil says: its sad bc of her immature desires her boys have to be raised without a dad. you used to visit this man know he aint have ish visting him while he was living with his homeboy sleeping on a blow up.

      **************************

      wasn’t she sneaking in the halfway house with him on a blow up with a flat pillow and half the air out? #boutthatlife

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.
      ______________

      Lloyd looks like Lloyd on crack. that’s just how he look :snort:

    • KDub

      wishededed you a murry chrimma ‘out dis bish’ wednesday din you?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      No. I am sorry I missed it too :ghost:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      awwww Lurker, you know Sandy just be tryna get the people going :yawn:
      we aint hardly getting ready to disparage the contributions of single moms everywhere ’cause some folks know a few trifling ones :nono: :hug:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I honestly get everything Phaedra is saying…when you start feeling like your husband’s MOTHER that mess gets old! Gotta be tensed up and nervous every time he leaves the house, has too much to drink, hangs out with certain folks. That’s not security, but I can also listen to Apollo speak one time and know he wasn’t gonna give her that…oh well…
      ***************************
      I will just say this I have always looked at his high yella azz like this :huh: :blink: but when they webt on vacay and he let her go to sit outside their hotel having to pee and you sitting your azz up there yukking it up with Kendra of all folks. :no: sir. and I dont believe the

    • luVn_liFe…

      No PHAE U should have vetted him better hun!

      No accountability in her role in choosing a bad mate for HER!

      F On somewhere

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      KDub says:

      Phaedra saw a fine man …. decided she was going to groom this man to her standards (hence a damn project) and she did in some ways….. these kinda of men get built up by women and by the time they are on top …. that’s when they leave ya….
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Why I pictured Tasha Mack when she groomed Bobby Brown in “Two Can
      ____________

      :crying1: good example…. but I have seen happen so much …. Phaedra dodged a bullet…. but look how her life, and all that mess is out there…. and two kids by this fool…. really she looks like the fool as well… but :shrugs: hell at least she has sense enough to cut that shyt short with Apollo :yes: I applaud for holding her head high … :yes:

    • Matchsticks

      Phaedra is definitely FOS, I agree…but I don’t agree that she should be on some stand by your man, ride or die type mess…I think she displayed that early on and the dice roll didn’t work out, like it never does…I wish her well, she’s got two beautiful children now…

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      we aint hardly getting ready to disparage the contributions of single moms everywhere ’cause some folks know a few trifling ones
      _________________

      right cuz some ppl grow up with NO parents at all 😮 and still grow up to be upstanding citizens of the US of A 😮

      hey Nannnnnn :happy:

    • free

      KDub says: She running round here hollering she a southern belle.

      *****************

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.

      free says:

      wasn’t she sneaking in the halfway house with him on a blow up with a flat pillow and half the air out? #boutthatlife

    • luVn_liFe…

      KDub says:

      who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.
      ^^^^^^^^^
      Singer Lloyd on crack.

      Google it.
      ~~~~~~
      :ghost: HELEN Im coming to join YA! :casket:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      @Nancy why do you have Baby Jane crazy azz in your gravi?

    • SummerBaby

      who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.
      ^^^^^^^^^
      Singer Lloyd on crack.

      Google it.
      ~~~~~~
      Crack tho?! I swear I don’t understand what makes a person in almost 2015 try crack :no:

    • Matchsticks

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.
      ___________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • free

      Matchsticks says: just that he stayed up in other chicks, if you know what I mean…dude been shifty and all over the place for quite awhile…

      ****************

      i wonder if she was the rat?

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      wasn’t she sneaking in the halfway house with him on a blow up with a flat pillow and half the air out? #boutthatlife

      —–

      U right about that i didnt have the story right :hahaha:

    • KDub

      but I don’t agree that she should be on some stand by your man, ride or die type mess
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Oh hell naw. Now I aint saying that. By any means. :no: I am basically saying bish you knew what choice you made early on. Dont put him out there like that now to make yourself look better. I HATE that in ANY life scenario. She WAS on that show tryna hook him up with a legit oppty, but now gonna say she could see he was lazy and lacked maturity? Really? Silence is best sometimes. :coffee:

    • SummerBaby

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.
      ___________
      I read somewhere that she used to date Birdman back in the day

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      My KDub said:

      I missed you :wail: Co-sign all of this.
      She played herself (out this bish). <<Pacifically for YOU :love:

      Lets dance. :happy:
      _______________________________

      EYE YAM SOW FULL. :crying1:
      :love: :heart:

    • Time to Waste

      HELEN Im coming to join YA!
      —————–
      who the hail is Helen?!?!

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Matchsticks says:

      Phaedra is definitely FOS, I agree…but I don’t agree that she should be on some stand by your man, ride or die type mess…I think she displayed that early on and the dice roll didn’t work out, like it never does…I wish her well, she’s got two beautiful children now…
      _____________
      :cosign: I think people just don’t like her in general :shrugs: be that as it may…. She owes him nothing with all the disrespectful shyt he pulled…. and to be honest …. she smashing him, marrying him yada yada fixing him up…. hell that fawkboy oh her azz…. and got the nerve to show ya disrespectful azz on national tv….. chile :tea: Phaedra do you bew :thumbsup:

    • KDub

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      RIGHT! Back when I WAS watching on a reg, she used to STAY hollering that chit tho. Imma southern belle. I used to be like bish PLEASE :stop:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.

      ============

      Sounds like classic southern Belle to me :tea:

      Remember Who Da Pappy? in Life :rofl: chit is real. Southern Belle is like a preacher doorter

    • Matchsticks

      free says:

      Matchsticks says: just that he stayed up in other chicks, if you know what I mean…dude been shifty and all over the place for quite awhile…
      ****************
      i wonder if she was the rat?
      __________

      lotta folks wonder that…I can’t call it, but I can tell she is completely OVER his bull shyt…I would be…

    • http://twitter.com/SayItaIntSoJoe8 Atypical

      I don’t think she’s relieved that he’s in prison. I think she’s humiliated. Phaedra has a very well put together image and Apollo’s incarceration shatters all of that. Not a body language expert like @SandraRose #sniggles but her demeanor screams embarrassment,not relief imo. I almost feel sorry for her watching her on #rhoa…Almost…

    • KDub

      EYE YAM SOW FULL.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      :hug: How you BEEN DOING SIS???

    • Matchsticks

      Really? Silence is best sometimes.
      ____________

      :yes: I have to exercise this about my own ex husband…everybody thinks he’s so good and perfect, and I just stay mum, like y’all just don’t fuggin know…

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      KDub says:

      but I don’t agree that she should be on some stand by your man, ride or die type mess
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Oh hell naw. Now I aint saying that. By any means. :no: I am basically saying bish you knew what choice you made early on. Dont put him out there like that now to make yourself look better. I HATE that in ANY life scenario. She WAS on that show tryna hook him up with a legit oppty, but now gonna say she could see he was lazy and lacked maturity? Really? Silence is best sometimes.
      ________________
      Shee’s a lawyer…. typical… say a lot of shyt to save face.. see it everyday…. and yes she made a choice …. a fawked up choice… to marry that ain’t shyt fool… did him a favor… got him on tv got him publicity … had him eating good for however many years….

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      Phaedra saw a fine man …. decided she was going to groom this man to her standards (hence a damn project) and she did in some ways….. these kinda of men get built up by women and by the time they are on top …. that’s when they leave ya….
      __________________________________

      :preach: :thankyou:

      i agree 100% Jenie; Phaedra needs to (and needed to a long time ago) leave that niqqa alone. what i don’t agree with is her acting like she didn’t know FROM THE JUMP what she was getting/getting into :nono: she too smart to try to play dumb now. i don’t receive it. 😆

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      That Southern Belle mess :tea: well hell Phaedra ain’t doing no more then the rest them broads :tea: flexing…. … point blank :tea:

    • KDub

      I have to exercise this about my own ex husband…everybody thinks he’s so good and perfect, and I just stay mum, like y’all just don’t fuggin know…
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      +1!!!!! I only talk chit about my ex husband TO HIM :rofl: and to TWO other folks. Not ever the masses. I mean this is kinda different so I get it cause its public, but she by any means aint gotta add NOTHING negative (or positive for that matter) to the fire. She already has an inferno going on.

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      nah, I know his type…he would have found a way to fugg that up…Apollo is a criminal and doesn’t know how to sit his azz down and follow rules…that’s who he is… :tea:
      _______________________________

      :phew: yall are preaching in here today! you aint never lied Match! :fistbump:
      my girl married one of the ‘reformed’ dudes. he even messed around and got a ‘good job’ with the county! that, in turn, restored some of his driving privileges. why dis fool mess that up AND got caught driving when he wasn’t ‘posed to be, then wanna tell her she don’t understand how hard he got it! :smack: i was just like ‘girl what’ :hug: :tape:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      That Southern Belle mess :tea: well hell Phaedra ain’t doing no more then the rest them broads :tea: flexing…. … point blank :tea:

      —-

      Thats all it is. its not reality its all lies.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! 😀 says:

      Phaedra saw a fine man …. decided she was going to groom this man to her standards (hence a damn project) and she did in some ways….. these kinda of men get built up by women and by the time they are on top …. that’s when they leave ya….
      __________________________________
      :preach: :thankyou:
      i agree 100% Jenie; Phaedra needs to (and needed to a long time ago) leave that niqqa alone. what i don’t agree with is her acting like she didn’t know FROM THE JUMP what she was getting/getting into :nono: she too smart to try to play dumb now. i don’t receive it.<<< I agree …. but chile …. Let's just say Phaedra acts like a typical lying azz attorney…. everything is all about saving face …. or better yet covering ya azz….. a liar in short… folks like that never see fault or at least want admit to it … fronters :coffee:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Vanna is the root of all evil says:

      That Southern Belle mess :tea: well hell Phaedra ain’t doing no more then the rest them broads :tea: flexing…. … point blank :tea:
      —-
      Thats all it is. its not reality its all lies.
      ____________

      :yes: and this is why I can not …. I should have smacked myself for watching last season and I must say addictive show :yes: but when folks was praising Kenya’s actions and other stuff….. I had to come up off that show…

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      :phew: yall are preaching in here today! you aint never lied Match! :fistbump:
      my girl married one of the ‘reformed’ dudes. he even messed around and got a ‘good job’ with the county! that, in turn, restored some of his driving privileges. why dis fool mess that up AND got caught driving when he wasn’t ‘posed to be, then wanna tell her she don’t understand how hard he got it! :smack: i was just like ‘girl what’ :hug: :tape:

      —-

      call me wrong or stuck up but i have deal breakers. i cannot do men who are felons or been in jail.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      who is that guy standing next to Apolnia? He looks like Lloyd on crack.
      ^^^^^^^^^
      Singer Lloyd on crack.
      Google it.
      *******************
      @Dub I was just talking out my ass. I had no idea. I googled it. Chits ridic.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      We talkin bout the same lawyer that was taking money in the parking lot? :tea: oh ok

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      she ain’t no damn southern belle. bytch had a pair of drawers and a wash towel in her purse sneaking round with appolonia at night. then get pregnant and fake the due date.

      __________________________________

      :hahaha: :rofl:
      #nochill

    • KDub

      @Dub I was just talking out my ass. I had no idea. I googled it. Chits ridic.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^
      Like @Summer said up top…Its 2015. Even if it was a few years ago…who in DA HAIL is out here trying crack? Crack is a throwback drug. So 1984. :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      😆
      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      why dis fool mess that up AND got caught driving when he wasn’t ‘posed to be, then wanna tell her she don’t understand how hard he got it

      ================

      He don’t got it hard, he just don’t want it good :no:

      Same way user talking bout errybody ain’t fit to work, some folks ain’t not to be criminals. It is never their fault, nobody understands :eyeroll:

      A lot of these ex-offenders need counseling that they give to ex-cult members.. hood life is like brainwashed into them 😮

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      User! :hug:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Time to Waste says:

      HELEN Im coming to join YA!
      —————–
      who the hail is Helen?!?!
      _______________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • Matchsticks

      User Friendly says:

      We talkin bout the same lawyer that was taking money in the parking lot? :tea: oh ok
      _____________

      !!!!! and stuffing it in her bosom! :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      User Friendly says:

      We talkin bout the same lawyer that was taking money in the parking lot? :tea: oh ok
      ~~~~
      whatchU saying UF they expecting too Much?

    • luVn_liFe…

      OR is it Elizabeth??! :kona:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      @Nancy why do you have Baby Jane crazy azz in your gravi?

      ___________________

      @SOTHERN, now dont ack like yeen know Baby Jane Hudson was the original ‘woke up like this’ star! 😮

    • Matchsticks

      Same way user talking bout errybody ain’t fit to work, some folks ain’t not to be criminals. It is never their fault, nobody understands
      ___________

      :yes:

      Folks do not get it, people like this think a certain way. Like their brain juices flow in a different direction and formation than folks who know how to sit down and follow rules. They cannot follow rules, they look for loopholes and shortcuts, and if they don’t see them they either quit or find a way to jack it up…and I want to smack the cowboy shyt out of them every time they come with that “nobody understands me” mess…. FOH!

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Vanna is the root of all evil says:
      That Southern Belle mess :tea: well hell Phaedra ain’t doing no more then the rest them broads :tea: flexing…. … point blank :tea:
      —-
      Thats all it is. its not reality its all lies.
      ____________
      :yes: and this is why I can not …. I should have smacked myself for watching last season and I must say addictive show :yes: but when folks was praising Kenya’s actions and other stuff….. I had to come up off that show…

      —-

      well you have to look at the dynamics of the show. when it first came on, it was detailng housewives in atlanta with prominent and/or rich husbands. it went from being that to watching Nene attack everyone to Nene attacking everyone and focusing on the reason why Kenya is not sucessful being that her attitude is a hot mess.

    • KDub

      We talkin bout the same lawyer that was taking money in the parking lot?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      I was surprised that from a LEGAL standpoint she even FILMED that damn scene okay? Taking CASH from a client in a parking lot. Of the COURT. :dead: still years later. That was the last season I watched too

    • Time to Waste

      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE
      ————————-
      :no:

      Elizabeth!!

    • FuturedocDonte

      EYE YAM SOW FULL.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      😆

    • SOTHERNGRL

      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE
      ********************
      :facepalm: Fred Sanford wife name was Elizabeth @Luvvie. Here ya go :hug:

    • KDub

      OR is it Elizabeth??!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      You can do no wrong in my eyes.
      Her milla name was Helen :hug:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      😆
      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE :hahaha:

      im sorry wasnt it “elizabeth im coming to see ya?”

    • San ah make ya dance

      Fugg Apollo!!!

    • Time to Waste

      ” I’m coming Elizabeth”

      :rofl:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      Crack tho?! I swear I don’t understand what makes a person in almost 2015 try crack :no:
      ________________________________

      :confused: i swear i thought crack was ‘out of style’ …like, oh that was so 80s :yawn: but apparently it’s still hot in the streets. who knew :shrug:

    • Time to Waste

      Her milla name was Helen :hug:
      ————
      :rofl:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Time to Waste says:

      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE
      ————————-
      :no:
      Elizabeth!!
      ___________________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • SummerBaby

      i swear i thought crack was ‘out of style’ …like, oh that was so 80s but apparently it’s still hot in the streets. who knew
      ————-
      Let’s be real there has really never been a good time to try crack :hahaha:

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      San ah make ya dance says:

      Fugg Apollo!!!
      _________

      Fugg all they tails 😆 but Apollo sure will not get sympathy … at all

    • Matchsticks

      but apparently it’s still hot in the streets. who knew
      __________

      it’s never the initial drug of choice, from what I hear it’s what folks default to when they can no longer afford other things…

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      I don’t think she’s relieved that he’s in prison. I think she’s humiliated. Phaedra has a very well put together image and Apollo’s incarceration shatters all of that. Not a body language expert like @SandraRose #sniggles but her demeanor screams embarrassment,not relief imo. I almost feel sorry for her watching her on #rhoa…Almost…
      ________________________

      @Atyp, you is astute. :yes:

    • San ah make ya dance

      Acting like somebody owe him and he won’t even pay for hisself :rolleyes:

    • luVn_liFe…

      KDub says:

      OR is it Elizabeth??!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      You can do no wrong in my eyes.
      Her milla name was Helen :hug:
      ~~~~
      :thankyou: dubb :nana: at all u otha SKOLARS!

    • San ah make ya dance

      Fugg all they tails 😆 but Apollo sure will not get sympathy … at all
      —————–
      :thankyou: Ole patty cake aZZes

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Her milla name was Helen :hug:
      ————

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Let’s be real there has really never been a good time to try crack
      ~~~~
      RIGHT SUMMER :hahaha: 😆

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      you is astute. :yes:

      ++++++++++++++++++

      Look at you using TIP words :fistbump:

    • KDub

      Let’s be real there has really never been a good time to try crack
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Cosign! Nobody wakes up and is like you know what? I think Imma try some CRACK for the very first time tahday.

      You right. Better say it :rofl:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      How you BEEN DOING SIS???
      ___________________

      i been good Dub, other than them :whip: working me like a hebrew :phew: but it comes w/the territory, as this is typically my busiest time of the year. Still, i got to see the parents for Chrimma, and almost all the nieces and nephews :love: came by to see their old aunt. so i can’t complain. hope all is well with Ma Dub/Pa Dub/(and Thug-on-a-Mattress Auntie) :heart: :hahaha:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Let’s be real there has really never been a good time to try crack

      _____________

      :rofl: Heroin. That tar. That girl. is what’s hawt now a days :yes:

      :bow: <- Dope fiend nod
      😮 <- Dilated pupils
      :shank: <- Track marks
      :sick: <- Withdrawal

    • KDub

      hope all is well with Ma Dub/Pa Dub
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      They cray

    • Time to Waste

      :newpost:

    • KDub

      :shank: <- Track marks
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      :crying1:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      Let’s just say Phaedra acts like a typical lying azz attorney…. everything is all about saving face …. or better yet covering ya azz….. a liar in short… folks like that never see fault or at least want admit to it … fronters :tea:
      …….

      We talkin bout the same lawyer that was taking money in the parking lot? :tea: oh ok

      ________________________________

      oh yeah :smack: oh well, nothing to see here folks :tea:

    • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I don’t blame her. Apollo is a handful. Even if he weren’t a criminal he parties all time, tricks off thousands of dollars on strippers, disrespects her publicly, etc. I’d want him gone too. That club scene made my skin crall. I couldn’t wait for him to go to jail for her even though he’s already there.

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      HELEN is FREDD SANFORDS DEAD WIFE
      ________________________

      :think: i think i want Luvie to logout! :ghost:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      A lot of these ex-offenders need counseling that they give to ex-cult members.. hood life is like brainwashed into them
      _____________________________

      :think: you might be on to something there @missy. they def need to be de-programmed or sum :no: and he was tryna run this on my girl knowing full well that she has worked at the rehab clinic and done heard every story out there! (he also routinely over-estimated his intelligence in most situations, so he thought he was being convincing and his shat was air-tight, but there were SOW mannie mannie holes… *trails off* :no: )

    • finallymadeitn

      i agree 100% Jenie; Phaedra needs to (and needed to a long time ago) leave that niqqa alone. what i don’t agree with is her acting like she didn’t know FROM THE JUMP what she was getting/getting into :nono: she too smart to try to play dumb now. i don’t receive it. 😆

      by Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! 😀 on Dec 30, 2014 at 11:33 am

      I agree she should’ve left along time ago but she was trying to save face after she slipped & got pregnant by a felon that wasn’t ready to be a family man

    • finallymadeitn

      By the way :newbie:

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      Let’s be real there has really never been a good time to try crack :hahaha:
      _____________________________

      wait… that’s not… i didn’t mean… you hush Summer! 😡

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      oh gosh, there go mean girl… hey San, hey girl! 🙂

    • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

      Matchsticks says:

      …when you start feeling like your husband’s MOTHER that mess gets old! Gotta be tensed up and nervous every time he leaves the house, has too much to drink, hangs out with certain folks.
      ***************

      Chile boo! Who been tellin you my business? Ain’t nobody got time for that.

    • http://www.oprah.com/own-six-little-mcghees/Grandma-Gets-Stuck-In-a-Kids-Maze Nancy Drew Woke up Like This… Flawless! :D

      Look at you using TIP words :fistbump:
      _________________________

      yeah, he my idle. 😮

    • pointhimout

      I swear Lloyd (in the first pic) is the cutest lil ugly thing. My peoples used to cut his hair.