Martin Chalecki and Gonzalo Flores

A male patient is relieved that police finally believe his claims of rape at the hands of a male nurse while he was a patient at a Bridgeport, CT. hospital.

"I wanted to scream in the worst way -- I tried to scream, but because I was on a lot of medication, no sounds would come out," Martin Chalecki told the Connecticut Post on Thursday. "This man stood over me, this smile on his face with hands that were cool and dry and did terrible things to me. I will never forget that smile on his face."

Chalecki, who is a homosexual, said he was raped by nurse's aide Gonzalo Flores while he was hospitalized with acute Pancreatitis at St. Vincent's Medical Center in February.

Chalecki said he reported the sexual assault to hospital security. But he said the hospital staff failed to take his complaint seriously because he is gay.

Flores, 53. was arrested and charged with sexually assaulting two other male patients. Chalecki said other men would not have been victimized by Flores if the staff had taken his complaint seriously.

"We followed every single process, and we take all allegations seriously," Dianne Auger, chief corporate affairs officer for St. Vincent's told the Post.

From Connecticut Post:

Chalecki has now been identified by police as the third victim of Flores, 53, an accused serial molester of male patients at the hospital, whose alleged actions have shocked St. Vincent's and the community.

Chalecki's complaint was the first accusation against Flores police and hospital staff said they had received. There was no arrest at the time, and the February allegation lingered, unsubstantiated, for months.

Then on June 7, an unidentified Fairfield man reported to police that he was sexually assaulted in his hospital room. Following that, as police investigated Flores -- but before his arrest -- the hospital fired him on June 11.

Nearly a month later, on July 8, Flores was arrested and jailed on charges he sexually assaulted the Fairfield patient.

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    • A.J.

      :tape:

    • luVn_liFe…

      my gawd :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      LORD have mercy

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      He look like "yea so what I did it" smh

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      Is the crutches cuz of the assault.. like on white chicks when homie was in the wheelchair :rofl:

    • Mystic

      Wow!!! We living in a crazy world!

    • http://thegameonbetblog.tumblr.com/ Bird

      WTF? Why in the hail would he be raping men in the hospital like he's going to get away with that? I wonder why the first victim didn't go to the police after he saw the hospital wasn't taking him seriously.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      “with hands that were cool and dry and did terrible things to me. I will never forget that smile on his face.”

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      :blink: So did he jack him off? He doesn't saying about him turning him over or mounting him :no:

      Bless his :heart: tho. You go to the hospital to get better, not raped.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I just shave it completely smooth
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      With razors or clippers Luvin?

    • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

      Smdh. Just nasty. Yuck.

    • A.J.

      I wonder why the first victim didn’t go to the police after he saw the hospital wasn’t taking him seriously.
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      Right!!

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I wonder why the first victim didn’t go to the police after he saw the hospital wasn’t taking him seriously.

      ___________

      According to Man, no one gives a fukk about male rape victims. All they get is :haha:

      :tea:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      :think: I vaguely remember screaming when I got my colonoscopy done but when I woke up I wasnt sure if it was a dream or not.

      I can see this happening. I wonder what procedure he was having done and why there was only person in the room.

    • A.J.

      I can see this happening. I wonder what procedure he was having done
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      Hope it wasn't ass injections. :tea:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Gonzalo
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      destined for failure with this name. :no:

    • SummerBaby

      This is terrible! Maybe it's just me, but his head looks really big for his body :shrug:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      WHET DE FOK IS DIS? :no:
      This what I come back to. Poor man. I can only imagine his horror. I might have had to take it but when I came too :fight: BRUH I wold have when ape stanky. If it was a lesbo and she had :lick: I would have broke all her fangas and mashed them into her vag.PERMANENTLY.

    • Milky

      :wave: My Rose family please keep me and my family in your prayers. I lost three family members over the weekend! 2 great aunts on Saturday evening and 1 uncle last night..... THANK YOU IN ADVANCE! My heart is so heavy today as I type this I am weeping. :cry: :kona:

    • SummerBaby

      Sorry for your loss Milky

    • luVn_liFe…

      With a 5 blade Razor V
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      Ya'll and these comments though! :hahaha:

      * his head looks really big for his body :shrug:

      *Hope it wasn’t ass injections.

      *He doesn’t saying about him turning him over or mounting him :no:

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      SummerBaby says:

      This is terrible! Maybe it’s just me, but his head looks really big for his body
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      Edward James Olmos dude looks like he has the virus :smh:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      My Rose family please keep me and my family in your prayers. I lost three family members over the weekend!

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      :( Sorry to hear this Milky. :praying: that God strengthens your family and lifts you up in love

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U missyJ

      :hugs: Milky

    • A.J.

      @Milky I'm sorry for your loss. Will do.

    • luVn_liFe…

      :hug: MILKYYYYY Babes! Im SO Sorry for your loss. I did send one up for you. :hug:

    • Savannah

      Sorry for your loss Milky.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Zoe
      Oh my goodness! What are they going to do to Mills? AND WHY did it take so long for anyone to notice! I hate to say it, BUT if this is supposed to be real–they’re both dead by now

      AND EYE JUST KNEW that that husband tried to kill his wife!

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      I don't think it was the mob dude.whatif it's because of ole girl? When Casey laid into Dawson, was shouting and laughing at the same time. FINALLY! When ole boy hopped out that window, I knew he was trash. Hubby was like I woulda been looking for you AND he lied about where she was. Bum.

    • luVn_liFe…

      New campaign reaches out especially to military's male victims of sexual assault, aiming to counteract stigma
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    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Milky-:prayers:

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      My Rose family please keep me and my family in your prayers. I lost three family members over the weekend! 2 great aunts on Saturday evening and 1 uncle last night….. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE! My heart is so heavy today as I type this I am weeping
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      :omg: so sorry for your loss, hun. all at once like in a house fire or separately?

      my goodness. :hug:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      Awe poor Milky :hugs: God bless you during this difficult time

    • luVn_liFe…

      :shock: VANNAH/Savannah Aren't the SAME!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      :hug: MILKY :hug:
      :pray: for strength and understanding.

    • Milky

      so sorry for your loss, hun. all at once like in a house fire or separately?

      my goodness.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      1 aunt died from cancer(kinda expected) 1 aunt heart attack and my uncle died yesterday from a heart attack!!!

      Thanks for the all the prayers, I am just really shocked at three in one weekend!!!! God said no more than I can take, but these past five years have been testing my strength for sure!!!!

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      So I plan two weeks ago to be home. Mental day. Mr said he would take the day off too. Last minute he left last night to go back :( 30 minutes later he called back like I miss my babies I am coming home :yahoo: In my head I planned on us sleeping in...taking the kids to the sitter and catching a movie... So we slept in a little.I had still had to get up and get Taken9.95 ready...
      Get ready to cuddle with my MR....Taken3 (both her and TakenSon made their way to our bed) sits up and throws up on me. ...give her a bath. She throws up on me again.....so i ended up going to get gingerale crackers and more soup... running a work errand.... now he is on his work laptop and i am on mine. i had already been answering work emails from my phone :(

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      luVn_liFe... says:

      :shock: VANNAH/Savannah Aren’t the SAME!

      :yes: Yah huh no? :thinking:
      :shrug:
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      Zoe, her exbf doesn't have any pull though IMB, the mob knows how to coordinate something like that :lol:
      The dead bumb, the call in, the truck left behind to trap them...
      Oh, and what happened with the baby? After the hospital scene. Did I miss the end? :thinking:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      dang Take. hope the kiddies get better soon. yall need a do over mental day.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I am just really shocked at three in one weekend!
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      It is a lot to take in at once MILKYYY :hug: :hug:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Taken3 (both her and TakenSon made their way to our bed) sits up and throws up on me.

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      :hurl:

      Sorry to hear this :hug:

      My niece threw up in my car a few weeks ago. I just forgave her. Sh!t was disgusting :eek: :lol:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      @U yep one of those things where I say it is not about me.Clearly I took the day off to be able to take care of her :(
      She is better now. watching a movie on the ipad... she had chicken soup..crackers... and gingerale....she has asked for more crackers..... i told her to let that settle first.glad she is ok

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      @milky sorry for your loss

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Just HOP ON HIS DUCK, damn them laptops
      OH :kona:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Taken
      Awwh TYPICAL fam life with kiddies. It's just the inevitable sometimes, TRY IT AGAIN.
      the next time give em some benadryl or nyquil or somethiN :kona:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      glad she is ok
      ____________

      me too. :hug:

      I made chicken noodle soup yesterday. its so cold :cold:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      @DTTS yea i am going to have to do something :rofl: it was sweet he turned around. Maybe he had another reason like he didn't want to go but he i will take it :lol: Either way yea THIS BLOWS... i guess i could blow.... :kona:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      DTTS- we won't find out what happened to baby until Jan. You think she will blame Boden, they were arguing when she went into labor. The reason I say it wasn't the mob was because that's obvious. What if it was from the PI work Mills did.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      the next time give em some benadryl or nyquil or somethiN
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      is it wrong that I did a happy dance when I saw that they make children's nyquil? :confused:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      God said no more than I can take, but these past five years have been testing my strength for sure!!!!
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      In all your ways, honor HIM and HE shall direct your path :yes:
      HE got you Milky! :yes:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      the next time give em some benadryl or nyquil or somethiN
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      he has a lil bit of a runny nose.. i started to give him the nightime right now :ashamed: but i don't have a lot so i gave him the normal one... i will give him the other one in a bit.... we gotta hurry up tho.... Nutbyke get home in `1.5 hours ...no hollering when she come home :no:

    • luVn_liFe…

      User Friendly says:

      the next time give em some benadryl or nyquil or somethiN
      __________________

      is it wrong that I did a happy dance when I saw that they make children’s nyquil? :confused:
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      Oh, you don't use the same for ALL :eek:

    • http://pinkcottonent.com JerseyMom

      And we know the first victim's identity because....

      I hope both victims sue the hell out of that hospital.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Oh, you don’t use the same for ALL
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      :facepalm: luvie trying to make me catch a body :eek:

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      is it wrong that I did a happy dance when I saw that they make children’s nyquil? :confused:
      ___________________
      is it wrong that i already gave it to both small kids? but the label say :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Nasty bastid :cuss:

    • luVn_liFe…

      User Friendly says:

      Oh, you don’t use the same for ALL
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      :facepalm: luvie trying to make me catch a body :eek:
      ~~~
      NO WOnder my poor son aint right :bite:

    • http://pearlswindow.com Carrington

      If that had been a woman making allegations of rape, he would've been arrested that night - no questions asked.

      Stuff like that is one-sided. I've worked in hospital environments where they won't let male PCA's take care of female patients because they could cry rape. I yelled and screamed about how unfair it was to punish male PCA's because a woman could say that she's been raped by him because MEN aren't the only ones who sexually molest and rape, but it fell on deaf ears.

      Nobody wanted to hear that they were being sexist by suggesting that we ONLY have to worry about men being sexual deviants.

    • luVn_liFe…

      After saving his Atlanta mansion from the foreclosure auction block several times, Jermaine Dupri loses the battle once and for all…

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Zoe
      What if it was from the PI work Mills did.

      :thinking: Hmmmm, I didn't think about that. Cruz gonna go :box: for his new lady :rofl:
      That was a funny looking baby :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      :rofl:

      WTF?

      Bruh...

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      57 jeez, ANDDDD how long this bean?!?! :blink:
      Getcho ish together JD :eek:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      @CARRINGTON
      "If that had been a woman making allegations of rape, he would’ve been arrested that night – no questions asked."
      _________________

      This is true... but come on. No one cares about "male rape victims." We all know that.

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      luVn_liFe... says:

      After saving his Atlanta mansion from the foreclosure auction block several times, Jermaine Dupri loses the battle once and for all…
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      its probably for the best, the upkeep on a mansion must be brutal. the water, electric and heating bill alone :phew:

      I have heard ppl with regular size homes talking about a thousand dollar a month heating bill in the winter. sometimes its not worth it.

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      but come on. No one cares about “male rape victims.
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      yes we do :rulese"
      #malerapevictimsmatter

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      :rules:

      :facepalm:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      @CARRINGTON
      "Nobody wanted to hear that they were being sexist by suggesting that we ONLY have to worry about men being sexual deviants."
      ____________________

      No one cares if a woman is "violating" a man! :rofl:
      I'm sure you got all kinds of side eyes.

    • Danielle

      Damn... That's horrible. First time hearing this story, Bridgeport is my hometown.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I have heard ppl with regular size homes talking about a thousand dollar a month heating bill in the winter. sometimes its not worth it.
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      U aint neva lied U.F. my bro has the same size house as I do and I have a pool.
      He said in the Summer his light bill is almost $600 a month!!!

      GTFOH!!!! No Way!

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      @Danielle you a nurse :popcorn: what other freaky stuff be going on at the hospillah

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      there's a whole genre of porn on this.

      "athlete gets physical exam" will lead you to some skrange thangs on the interwebs. :kona:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      but come on. No one cares about “male rape victims.
      ______________
      yes we do :rules:
      #malerapevictimsmatter
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      :rofl:
      #1: No we don't care! What a waste of everyone's time and the resources of the state! -for females raping grown men or prisoners

      #2: Rapist of men should get the instant death penalty! :ak47: No trial! :nono: -for men raping law abiding men!

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      He said in the Summer his light bill is almost $600 a month!!!
      ________________
      :no: Listen i AM SICK about a abnormal $300 water bill now. Had them investigate and they talking about :nono: not our fault. Meanwhile it took 45 days and now it's past due. we wanna take up a collection so we can have WORTER? :crying1: It's free but we gotta pay for it.. can i get a GO FUND ME??? on the blog?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      DTTS- I'm glad she gave him a chance. Can't wait for it to come back. Hubby said that was a fake baby.

    • http://youtu.be/dXBaJfVr9us MisTaken: Loyal reader :champ: and your pastor’s #1 prayer warrior :pray:

      Rapist of men should get the instant death penalty! :ak47: No trial! :nono: -for men raping law abiding men!
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      ok well wait. if a straight man is raped them death penalty? this one was gay so no mas? he wanted it anyways? they hawrny all the time? they don't get tired?? :jack:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      $600 a month!!!
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      :nono: see nah thats too dam much.

      we have to keep our coats on at my godmother's house. she dont play. I stopped going over there for thanksgiving when I had my daughter. its just too dam cold in her house.

      you see the bills for those ppl who compete with xmas lights :shocked:

    • luVn_liFe…

      a abnormal $300 water bill now
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      :shock: Ya'll may have a leak in the pipes! :phew:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkcCHR-7FNA Man, I just don’t care™

      Rapist of men should get the instant death penalty! No trial! -for men raping law abiding men!
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      ok well wait. if a straight man is raped them death penalty? this one was gay so no mas? he wanted it anyways? they hawrny all the time? they don’t get tired??
      ____________________

      Yeah, I just saw he was gay. Makes me think he "led the rapist on." Prolly was wearing some revealing clothes or something. :sarcasm:

    • luVn_liFe…

      you see the bills for those ppl who compete with xmas lights :shocked:
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      NO But U.F. last year we started putting them up it increased my light bill $150! thankgawd it's only about 6 weeks, mayne shyte I keep water/electric Shut off and low!

    • luVn_liFe…

      and Yes a $600 a month light bill is excessive, he has three teenage sons (big athletes they are) they're Giants and dont care :no:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      :newpost:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :newpost: EJ

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Sorry for your loss Milky.