Greg Anthony

CBS and Turner Sports analyst Greg Anthony was arrested on Jan. 16 and charged with soliciting an undercover cop for a discreet sex act. Like most happily married men, Anthony probably did not believe he was cheating on his wife since he was paying for services rendered.

A newly released transcript reveals the brief verbal exchange between Anthony and the undercover cop posing as a prostitute whom he arranged to meet after responding to an ad in the escort section of Backpage.com.

Anthony met the prostitute at the DoubleTree hotel on Scott Circle, in room 805, shortly after leaving work at 5:45 p.m.

He was in town to announce an NCAA game for CBS sports.

The transcript reveals several instances when Anthony should have caught on that the hooker might be an undercover cop.

The prostitute was too formal. She repeatedly asked Anthony if he wanted to have "intercourse" for $80.

In reality, no self-respecting hooker would waste a john's time by repeating the same question over and over. And no hooker would utter the word "intercourse". The usage of that word alone should have set off alarm bells.

    UC: How are you?

    D1: Good and you?

    UC: So $80 for intercourse

    D1: Oh I don't wanna say all that

    UC: I just need to know so I don't have surprises

    D1: Oh just whatever

    UC: So straight intercourse or blowjob

    D1: Umm, yeah that's fine

    UC: So $80 for sex

    UC: You want me to dress up

    D1: Oh yeah

At that point the undercover cop alerted officers to move in and arrest Anthony. After his arrest hit the evening news, CBS announced Anthony was suspended indefinitely.

"Greg Anthony will not be working again for CBS this season," said a CBS spokesman.

Anthony is married to Dr. Chere Lucas Anthony, a dermatologist. The couple have a 10-month old daughter together. Anthony has 3 grown children from a previous marriage.

"I made a mistake," Anthony said in a statement to the media following his release from jail. "With this lapse of judgment, I embarrassed many, including myself. I will work to regain the trust that I have lost, and the first step is saying that I am sorry."

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    • SummerBaby

      :no:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      With his salary why he need to do all of that. no side kick? Jump off? I mean If I had that type of money I wouldnt be n the streets for nothing

    • http://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

      Vanna is the root of all evil says:

      With his salary why he need to do all of that. no side kick? Jump off? I mean If I had that type of money I wouldnt be n the streets for nothing
      ____________________

      Because sidekicks and jump-offs get emotionally attached after sex. Men are driven by their need for raw sex, while women are driven by their emotions. That's why married men frequent hookers -- because there are no feelings involved and their wives won't get that phone call in the middle of the night from the other chick saying she's pregnant. Man will come along and explain it all to you shortly.

    • http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

      His poor wife geesh! :tea:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      Because sidekicks and jump-offs get emotionally attached after sex. Men are driven by their need for raw sex, while women are driven by their emotions. That’s why married men frequent hookers — because there are no feelings involved and their wives won’t get that phone call in the middle of the night from the other chick saying she’s pregnant. Man will come along and explain it all to you shortly.

      ---
      that's a good point Sandra.

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      Vanna is the root of all evil says:

      With his salary why he need to do all of that. no side kick? Jump off? I mean If I had that type of money I wouldnt be n the streets for nothing
      __________________

      they don't pay them to come, they pay them to leave.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      His poor wife geesh! :tea:

      ---
      With the 10 month old baby :( :(

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      Sandra says:

      Because sidekicks and jump-offs get emotionally attached after sex. Men are driven by their need for raw sex, while women are driven by their emotions. That’s why married men frequent hookers — because there are no feelings involved and their wives won’t get that phone call in the middle of the night from the other chick saying she’s pregnant. Man will come along and explain it all to you shortly.
      ---------------------------------------------------
      I'm here for it :popcorn:

    • sassyshe

      Morning all :waves:

      See he should've called Crissy so she would've hooked him up with one of her escorts

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I just heard about backpage over the summer. 8 had no idea :hahaha:

      Yea that fake hooker talk would have been a dead giveaway. Bish I need you to talk real fugging nasty. Blow bubbles with it BEFORE we even talk payment. You gonna have to earn this $80. :tea:

    • free

      what does "dress up" mean?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      10 month old daughter? :thinking: I bet he was backed up. Probably ain't had no butt since that baby was conceived about 20 months ago. That's why he was an amateur with it :yes:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      Yea that fake hooker talk would have been a dead giveaway. Bish I need you to talk real fugging nasty. Blow bubbles with it BEFORE we even talk payment. You gonna have to earn this $80. :tea:

      :cosign:

    • Unshakable

      @topic,

      It's sad that sometimes peepa step out before realizing that everything they need within a healthy relationship is either within themselves and or
      at home. Best of luck to this couple.

    • free

      Sandra Rose says: Because sidekicks and jump-offs get emotionally attached after sex. Men are driven by their need for raw sex, while women are driven by their emotions. That’s why married men frequent hookers — because there are no feelings involved and their wives won’t get that phone call in the middle of the night from the other chick saying she’s pregnant.

      ******************

      well he need to go a bit more high-class than this....

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      The prostitute was too formal. She repeatedly asked Anthony if he wanted to have “intercourse” for $80.
      -----
      :facepalm:
      Oh somebody tell ole girl I replied downstairs about where to live. I am not pasting :dead:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Hmph. $80.00 tho :no:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      UC: I just need to know so I don’t have surprises
      -------
      That should have sent him to the door.

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Oh somebody tell ole girl I replied downstairs about where to live. I am not pasting :dead:
      ____________
      :lol:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      @Unshake people don't like to put in the work or effort anymore :no:
      They out more into their jobs or a stranger

    • http://youtu.be/COjlQLe2JV0 puppylove finally made the #dirtythirty :koolaid:

      With his salary why he need to do all of that. no side kick? Jump off? I mean If I had that type of money I wouldnt be n the streets for nothing
      _____________________________
      am I the only one more concerned that he wasn't getting a high dollar prostitute? Hell, could barely buy me dinner for $80 :coffee:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Hey AJ :lol:

    • luVn_liFe…

      :facepalm: I read about this over the weekend. embarrassing

      AJ I Meant the GLK SUV or the Caddy SUV

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      DoubleTree :no:

    • Time to Waste

      Lord!
      $80.
      He getting them Crackhead Hookers.
      :no:
      His wife needs a EVERYTHING Test and a good divorce lawyer!

    • http://youtu.be/COjlQLe2JV0 puppylove finally made the #dirtythirty :koolaid:

      @MisTaken congrats on your impending new position

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Backpage :lol: nig was desperate

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      am I the only one more concerned that he wasn’t getting a high dollar prostitute? Hell, could barely buy me dinner for $80
      ____________
      Two words: DoubleTree aint nothing high dollar there :tea:

    • Unshakable

      @TakeTake,

      Then why get married in the first place? What did they think marriage was about? :blink:

      I am not talking at you or directing that towards you personally. You know I come in peace and bearing snick snacks. :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      he should have Known something was up... or is that the going rate for a trick $80????

    • TaylorMade

      Good Morning My Row-Sayyyys!! Finally watching Krusty Black Ink :yahoo:

    • Candy Cane

      am I the only one more concerned that he wasn’t getting a high dollar prostitute? Hell, could barely buy me dinner for $80 :coffee:
      __________________________________________________________
      :yes:

      Goodt Morning :hi:

    • KiMi0414

      Oh somebody tell ole girl I replied downstairs about where to live. I am not pasting :dead:
      ____________________
      Way to make me feel like the step child :wail:
      But the bank I work for has its headquarters in downtown Charlotte so as far a job I would be better off in Charlotte. BUT its more expensive than ATL. I could see how family life would be better in Charlotte. Hmmmmm now I’m confused. I like each place equally, but I wanna make sure I make the right move for my baby.

    • TaylorMade

      The new girl seems like a mix between Sassy and Dutchess :think:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      AJ I Meant the GLK SUV
      __________
      Oh ok :lol: you did say SUV my bad

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      DoubleTree :no:

      *****

      Nigga wanted some free cookies to go along with that cheap head and puss. He envisioned the day going a lot different:

      :head:
      :hump:
      :jack:
      :bye: to hooker
      :pizza: <--- those free chocOlathe chip cookies
      :zzz:
      Them home to the :pacifier:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Morning Candy Cane

    • Unshakable

      @PuppyLove,

      What kind of fancy smancy eateries do you frequent? Gone head guhl! :hahaha: :hug:

    • Ms. YaYa

      Was the "hooker" a man or woman :tea:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      She won't leave him.

    • whitty hutton

      stupid...just plain stupid. he's only sorry because he got caught. ugghhhh - folks (men and women) will never learn. folks are so lazy nowadays - jump in marriages with no intentions of working through the hard times (which most certainly come) and no thought to the other life/lives that are devastated when they muck it all up.

      if this was a woman, she'd be all kindsa 'unfit mother', 'poor example of a wife and mother', etc. but he's just suspended indefinitely. smh

    • Candy Cane

      :hi: Morning AJ

    • Blanche Devereaux

      So....Mya is performing at strip clubs now :hahaha:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      I could see how family life would be better in Charlotte.
      __________
      Do what's best for your family. Traffic is a bytch here in the A. Every damn day and most nights. Hell that's why you need to be comfortable riding in deez streets. :tea:

    • Time to Waste

      MisTaken you getting bumped up to Supervisor or all Supervisors for the Govment!!
      :yahoo: :cheer: :whoot:

      Congrats :danban1:

      ** Let me hole someting :grill: **

    • listen2me

      Oh somebody tell ole girl I replied downstairs about where to live. I am not pasting :dead:

      _____________________

      So we your secretary :rofl: Blog Supervisor.

      (Just messing with you)

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      @Unshake I know you are not talking to me. But just for kicks :sissyclawsyourfaceoff: :huh:
      I really think people get married for the wrong reasons, have no sense of what marriage is, are caught up in that dopemine, just wanted to be married, want to prove people wrong, didn't know it would be that much work because they had no examples.... It's sad. I mean I didn't know how hard it would/could be and I love mine. It's a daily compromise. There can never be a time when both of you give up or fall out of love at the same time. And you have to go in like divorce is not an option unless XYZ. No silly stuff. You gotta work for it. But again.... These are conversations that should be had in advance of the pomp and circumstance nuptials

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ms. YaYa says:Was the “hooker” a man or woman :tea:
      ~~~
      THIS! ^ ^ ^ ^

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Was the “hooker” a man or woman
      ___________
      :rofl: good question but hell it don't matter niggas going to backpage :wtf: surely it's at least 1 heaux that's coming up trying to get in. Just sad.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky: says:

      @Unshake people don’t like to put in the work or effort anymore :no:
      They out more into their jobs or a stranger
      ____________________________________

      I think sometimes its just for the thrill of it. Its not personal.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Lovezoe - I don't think she will either :no: But then again I think his actions read that of a desperate horny azz man. She ain't been :hump: him :no:

    • Unshakable

      @Taylor,

      Crusty is right. The blog consensus is that that whole locale needs to be deemed a health violation. Peepa don't eem use the bathroom up in there. The place looks, well.......like I was saying, the blog concluded that tats should be gotten elsewhere.

      @KiMi,

      Dunno iffin you belee in a higher powah, but iffin you do, talk to them about it. You may also want to do a cost/benefits analysis to help guide your decision. Best of luck to you in that endeavor.

    • luVn_liFe…

      UF :happy: where have you been?

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      So….Mya is performing at strip clubs now
      ____________
      I didn't see this being a problem. What was the problem was Bow Wow commenting!! Nigga you stay in yo mama house stop playing!!

    • listen2me

      On topic: this is just horrible. That's what his cheap azz get. Can't imagine how the wife feels. Someone mentioned she won't leave him...but love is a crazy thing... This nigga would probably flip this story to make it sound like she tried to rape him.

    • whitty hutton

      what puppylove.... said:
      ...am I the only one more concerned that he wasn’t getting a high dollar prostitute? Hell, could barely buy me dinner for $80 :coffee:
      ------------------------------
      :preach: I guess times is hard for straight hookas these days having to compete with the trannies and everything else out there.

    • http://youtu.be/COjlQLe2JV0 puppylove finally made the #dirtythirty :koolaid:

      @Unshake grandpa set the rules, granny perfected the game, and momma taught me right.

    • KDub

      The wife ain't going nowhere. A dermatologist is the move too. My long term dermatologist has never taken insurance. She wanted her coins up front. File that ish yourself. :rules: Also med school buddy of mine who interned here, said all her frens wanted to be derm docs. I was like :shrug: They rarely have to do hospital call rotation and again...get paid. You fugged up Greg. :facepalm:

    • Candy Cane

      Ya'll see Chris Brown clapping back at one of his fans. Rhianna taught that nigga well. :rofl: I know Chris is immature and needs to grow up, but I:heart: him.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      I think sometimes its just for the thrill of it. Its not personal.

      ********

      :cosign: or that it means they dont want to be married or stay married. For some (really many) infideity is not a deal breaker :shrug:

    • KDub

      what does “dress up” mean?
      ^^^^
      Ask Mister Cee

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      UF :happy: where have you been?
      ________
      Hey there UF!!

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Then why get married in the first place? What did they think marriage was about? :blink:
      __________________

      for better or for worse. she may have sent him out there with some money from her own account and said "make it do what it do"

      especially if she had a tummy tuck right after delivery or if she is still feeling gross. :shrugs: ya never know. I went waaaaaaay past the 6 week mark to have sex again. my body looked and felt like it had melted. :(

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      So….Mya is performing at strip clubs now
      ____________
      I didn’t see this being a problem. What was the problem was Bow Wow commenting!! Nigga you stay in yo mama house stop playing!!
      -----
      And marrying a THOT who don't know whether she like licking or slobbing.

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Ya’ll see Chris Brown clapping back at one of his fans.
      ___________
      Which I didn't understand because it's not just him performing; it's Trey Songz as well.

    • SummerBaby

      So….Mya is performing at strip clubs now
      ____________
      I didn’t see this being a problem. What was the problem was Bow Wow commenting!! Nigga you stay in yo mama house stop playing!!
      ---------------
      :cosign:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I didn’t see this being a problem. What was the problem was Bow Wow commenting!! Nigga you stay in yo mama house stop playing!!
      .............................................................

      She was at the broken down gay club here for pride like a couple years ago. I gotta see the video before I judge. If it was a nice place...chit why not :shrug: Bow Wow should fall back though. He's the SAME one that was crying broke less than 2 years ago.

    • http://youtu.be/COjlQLe2JV0 puppylove finally made the #dirtythirty :koolaid:

      The double standard with men and women cheating I believe was created by women. We are so much better at it than men and we have given them this falsw sense of security that we will be faithful no matter what. I tell all my friends, if you can find time to entertain a side chick she can find time for a side piece or two.

    • Milky

      :wave: Good Morning :yawn:
      @AJ :kiss: how are you doing babes???

    • Candy Cane

      It’s a daily compromise. There can never be a time when both of you give up or fall out of love at the same time. And you have to go in like divorce is not an option unless XYZ. No silly stuff. You gotta work for it. But again…. These are conversations that should be had in advance of the pomp and circumstance nuptials
      _______________________________________________________
      :yes:
      Marriage is just like a job. You have to put in the work to see results. If you dont its going to fall apart. Every marriage has their bottom line. For some its cheating, for others its abuse, for others its financial security. But I married mine til death do us part. So if some shyt pop off we gonna have to work things throug. His parents been married for 36 years. My dad and my step mom been married 30. They all have dealt with things, but they still together. I live for that.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      Hey User :waves:

      Did you see the indeed posting I tagged you in? lol

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      A.J. says:

      UF :happy: where have you been?
      ________
      Hey there UF!!
      ____________________________________

      hey Blog! :hi:

      I was at home enjoying my snowday yesterday. moving furniture around making way for my bookshelves & closet system that's being installed tomorrow.

      I only went out once and that was to the bodega. didn't even get dressed I put my coat and some jeans on over my onesie. :lol: :shame:

    • Unshakable

      @Unshake,

      I read the first two lines of your commentary in a bolero tone. *pops lips and does a z-snap* :hahaha:

      But seriously, at least you went into it with respect for your so, you know what I mean? I guess I am in my feelings about how such behavior can be rationalized in one's mind. I mean, how does one justify disrespecting their mate like that? Did they even sit down to communicate these things?

      I mean, this incident is but a mere microcosm of a much larger issue. However, I believe it could have been addressed long before it escalated to this. No judgment. Thank you TakeTake for your honest perspective and I am glad you and your boo thang work on it!

    • Milky

      Isn't Bow Wow engaged to Erica Mena (who supposedly was getting pimped by Chrissy) Bow Wow go sit and azz down and shut the fluck up until you manage to die!!!!

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      @AJ :kiss: how are you doing babes???
      __________
      Never better!! How you doing?

    • luVn_liFe…

      making way for my bookshelves & closet system that’s being installed tomorrow
      ~~~~
      ordered MORE Stuff UF?

    • Unshakable

      @PuppyLove,

      And I ain't mad atcha guhl! Now that's w'sup! Teaching generations how to put it down and passing the techniques on down the family line. Yes Gawd! :woohoo:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      microcosm
      __________
      Come through college education!! :lol: :yes:

    • Candy Cane

      AJ
      Cause the fan was being smart talking about you was sentenced to 1000 hours of community service in 2013. What the problem is? :rofl:

      Chris was look hoe, I been to jail, rehab, tours, and trying to please unappreciative bitches like you. My nigga has NO chill! Just a douche bag. :rofl:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      microcosm
      __________
      Come through college education!!

      ___________

      :rofl: :rofl:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Mawning folks! This is the funniest story ever. He's an donkey....

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      People say marriage ain't work, it is. If it's nitgung but fixing his favorite meal, him remembering your favorite bubble bath. You got to date each other. Know your spouse. Put your spouse about your kids. Don't wake up when all the kids are gond and you don't know each other. Be respectful. Don't becso quick to flap your gums. I've learned so much these past nine years and I'm STILL learning.

    • Unshakable

      @AJ,

      Thank you, you beaullifah Black man you. :kiss:

    • http://instagram.com/p/xf0TD-kTEZ/ A.J.

      Chris was look hoe, I been to jail, rehab, tours, and trying to please unappreciative bitches like you.
      ___________
      And social media will be his downfall unfortunately. Chris can dance; I don't take away his talent but trying to be Bobby Brown nah buddy. It's ok.

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      Blanche Devereaux says:

      Hey User :waves:

      Did you see the indeed posting I tagged you in? lol
      ____________________

      yes I did :facepalm:

      that's prolly where ol boy from this post got his hooker from :lol:

    • Candy Cane

      And marrying a THOT who don’t know whether she like licking or slobbing.
      ___________________________________________________________________________________
      Erica is so fawking sexy. I need her and Cyn to "accidently" leak a tape pr two. I'd watch! :yes:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Way to make me feel like the step child
      -------
      I see you carried youself on down there didn't you?? You needed them answers :huh: :hahaha:
      No for real banking is one of the industries Charlotte is known for of course. And as far as more expensive.... yea.. But you get what you pay for. As far as neighborhood and schools. It's just what is more important to you. I love both for different reasons. I know you will figure it out :hugs:
      Thanks everyone. No prompt yet. Just a soon to be vacancy and a recommendation from my boss about what should happen. It isn't what I wanted to do but hey if given an opportunity some times you end up doing what you should be ... I will lee the blog posted :grin: as long as nobody is against suoervisor stories :ghost:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      Then why get married in the first place? What did they think marriage was about? :blink:
      __________________
      for better or for worse. she may have sent him out there with some money from her own account and said “make it do what it do”
      especially if she had a tummy tuck right after delivery or if she is still feeling gross. :shrugs: ya never know. I went waaaaaaay past the 6 week mark to have sex again. my body looked and felt like it had melted. :(
      by User Friendly on Jan 28, 2015 at 9:43 am

      :cosign: Alladis I told y'all earlier TRIPLETS!!! I ain't want hub nowhere near me for a min but how the hell u get caught up like dis :facepalm: Simp :smh:

    • MsOnederful

      Because sidekicks and jump-offs get emotionally attached after sex. Men are driven by their need for raw sex, while women are driven by their emotions. That’s why married men frequent hookers — because there are no feelings involved and their wives won’t get that phone call in the middle of the night from the other chick saying she’s pregnant. MAN will come along and explain it all to you shortly.

      so MAN is a guest blogger for the blog now..?????? expect him to have Slim privileges soon and very soon.. can't wait for his guest post lol.. Morning roses.. missed ya much! further more when did Auntie come back and start ki keying with us? I stopped commenting after i saw she abandoned us lol... Welcome back Auntie to chop it up with us mere Mortals... Ok i kid I kid.. yall can tell i have my ........................ this week.. sighs..

    • listen2me

      microcosm :pc: What that mean?

      Marriage is definitely hard and takes LOTS of work and compromise. In most cases I think if you keep the lines of communication open it works for the both of you.
      Men are usually more sexual than women. My things is if you want erotic or hooker sex, want to watch porn, or you're into bondage let your spouse know. 9 out of 10 times she's just as bored as you and wants to try new things also...

    • Candy Cane

      You got to date each other. Know your spouse. Put your spouse about your kids.
      _________________________________________________
      This is why I try to plan a getaway for me and my hubby at least once a year. Even when I dont see where the money gonna come from. I start planning in the beginning or the end of every year. To me its an investment in our marriage. We get to be kid free and enjoy each other and reaffirm our love. Its remembering why we got together in the first place.

      Cabo in 12 days...Gawd I cant wait!

    • Blanche Devereaux

      yes I did :facepalm:
      that’s prolly where ol boy from this post got his hooker from :lol:
      ..............................................

      I thought about responding just for kicks :lol:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Put your spouse about your kids.
      ____________________________

      did you mean above? I know your keyboard be fighting you :duel: :lol:

      but that reminds me of a question I saw recently:

      who eats first? your man or your kids?

      my answer was kids but a lot of women said their man. it turned into a heated debate (for other ppl, not me cuz its not even debatable to ME)

      but what yall think? :popcorn:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      This is why I try to plan a getaway for me and my hubby at least once a year. Even when I dont see where the money gonna come from. I start planning in the beginning or the end of every year. To me its an investment in our marriage. We get to be kid free and enjoy each other and reaffirm our love. Its remembering why we got together in the first place.
      Cabo in 12 days…Gawd I cant wait!
      ................................................

      :yes:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      so MAN is a guest blogger for the blog now..?????? expect him to have Slim privileges soon and very soon..
      ______

      He's the on deck Slim :coffee:

    • KDub

      So....Nicki did "Anaconda" as a tribute to Meek Mill's unit prolly huh? I aint mad at her. :no: I told yall that smushed faced azz nigga had SOME kinda attribute (looks like 9 inches of attribute to ME). Go Onika :winky: Told yall the other day I was on team BBD. :coffee:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      People say marriage ain’t work, it is.

      *********

      I've never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It's the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell :hahaha:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      my answer was kids but a lot of women said their man. it turned into a heated debate (for other ppl, not me cuz its not even debatable to ME)
      but what yall think? :popcorn:
      ....................................

      My kids, but my man puts their needs above his own so he always tells me make their plate and get them settled before I make his :shrug:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      that reminds me of a question I saw recently:

      who eats first? your man or your kids?

      my answer was kids but a lot of women said their man. it turned into a heated debate (for other ppl, not me cuz its not even debatable to ME)

      but what yall think?
      ____

      Had this debate in a group before. I take everybody plate out at the same damn time. Call them and they come. Now whatever order they come in, ain't my business

    • Candy Cane

      My things is if you want erotic or hooker sex, want to watch porn, or you’re into bondage let your spouse know. 9 out of 10 times she’s just as bored as you and wants to try new things also…
      ________________________________________________________
      Hell yeah. I like bondage shyt. And I tell my husband. Shyt lets live out our fantasies together.

    • Unshakable

      @no-no,

      I see what you're saying. Maybe I am ole fashioned (or just , plain ole) but I thought marriage was sacred and a union that you fight to preserve.....that the union is to be respected. I surmise that is one of the benefits of effective communication too. Like Take Take said, it is something that has to be continually worked on.

      Then again, every person has different values and defines marriage as they see fit, so I suppose therein lies the answer. :yes:

    • KDub

      but what yall think?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^
      In the south...it is tradition for the men to eat first. I always make dude place first. How I was raised. If my dad is present he eats before everybody. Even my man.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      *******
      My man. Kids are resourceful and sh.it...they know how to get in where they fit in :hahaha: No but forreal, my man :tea:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      did you mean above? I know your keyboard be fighting you :duel: :lol:

      but that reminds me of a question I saw recently:

      who eats first? your man or your kids?

      my answer was kids but a lot of women said their man. it turned into a heated debate (for other ppl, not me cuz its not even debatable to ME)

      but what yall think?

      -------
      You know what. Everybody ain't no roades skolar like you! If we have no food, my kids eat first.

    • whitty hutton

      @ User,
      i'd prolly feed the kids first and then sit down with mine and hubby's plates. we don't have kids yet but that's how my mom did it, so i'll prolly follow suit.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I hit submit too fast. When it comes to dinner, my husband.

    • luVn_liFe…

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      ~~~
      :huh: I luv my hubby and am "kinda" subservient to him. BUT MY CHILD would Eat first.

    • Candy Cane

      My kids, but my man puts their needs above his own so he always tells me make their plate and get them settled before I make his :shrug:
      _________________________________________________
      I would say I fix my kids plate first. But if I cook most of the time my husband will fix him and the kids plate. And he washing dishes too. If I gots to stand and cook. The least he can do is wash dishes. Cause I fawking hate to do it. Thats something we established way before we got married though. You have to set rules before you say I do.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      In the south…it is tradition for the men to eat first. I always make dude place first. How I was raised. If my dad is present he eats before everybody. Even my man.
      ______

      That's how my mom did it. And she sure as hell would give that nucca the biggest piece of chicken, and a heap of food.

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      who eats first? your man or your kids?

      UF I know in my home I serve my children 1st and then hubby #hewilldeal :lol: but frfr he actually prefers it that way

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      I’ve never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It’s the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell
      ____________________

      :lol: right!

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      I make all their plates at the same time. I might out the kids at table on paper ones but give my hubby the good China last. He cool with it :shrugs:

      I get cheating isn't personal to some men.. Women. Depends on the mate. For me it is. You stick your Paynus into another vortex. That's deep. Intimate. Body juice. I think at this stage of the game and marriage for me it is a deal breaker. Before we were younger and even though I haven't heard of anything i woukd have to suck that up: but now with all of the conversations. Sacrifices goals, kids, love and experiences we have shared it's a huge betrayal. I wild be like :peace: and he knows it. Don't met me find out :tea:

    • Milky

      Never better!! How you doing?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      i'm good shuga!!!

    • Jessie

      His wife is beautiful.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      I cook dinner most night:, because I love cooking healthy meals for my family. If my husband sees my day sucked, he says what's on the menu and cooks it. He does the dishes, the kids sweep the floor (albeit multie times). I make smoothies at night for the morning.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Call them and they come.
      :lol:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      In the south…it is tradition for the men to eat first. I always make dude place first.

      ********

      :cosign: My mama is/was the same way. At family get togethers (on my mamas side), the men get their plates made first. Then the kids.

    • listen2me

      luVn_liFe... says:

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      ___________________________________________________
      When they were younger my kids would get there plate fixed first so that the food would be cool by the time we all got our plates. Now that they are older and smelling their musk....damn this kidz...they don't appreciate me anyway :no:

    • Milky

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      I fix both plates at the same damn time!!! We all gon eat at the same time!!!!

    • http://youtu.be/COjlQLe2JV0 puppylove finally made the #dirtythirty :koolaid:

      who eats first? your man or your kids?
      my answer was kids but a lot of women said their man. it turned into a heated debate (for other ppl, not me cuz its not even debatable to ME)
      but what yall think? :popcorn:
      _________________________

      At first I said man but I saw someone who sais it depends on if he is the father ir not. If he the deddy he eat first if not then the kids eat first. Makes sense to me. :newpost:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :newpost:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      :huh: I luv my hubby and am “kinda” subservient to him. BUT MY CHILD would Eat first.
      ________________________

      me too and me too.

      the "Men eat first" group said that it teaches children respect for men. :shrugs: I never thought of it that way and while I understand it, my kids will still always eat first. flesh of my flesh, blood of my blood.

    • luVn_liFe…

      You stick your Paynus into another vortex. That’s deep. Intimate.at this stage of the game and marriage for me it is a deal breaker.
      ~~~
      AGreed TAKEN! I WONT Deal. u fcukie fcukie else where U Geaux! :nono:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Pet peeve: cold food. I tell everyone to sit down right before food ready. I like my food from the pit to the plate.

    • Candy Cane

      I might give ONE cheating pass, cause I dont think realistically couples make it 50 years without cheating. But when that chit becomes a habit, you gots to go. Its not about the sex, it when you have an affair with someone and giving them your emotios. Your emotions belong to ME and me only.

      I'm a firm believer in what I dont know, maybe I dont need to know. If you cheat, your ass best to be discrete. Cause when I take your ass to court, I'm getting ALL my coins. :buttshake:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Now that they are older and smelling their musk….damn this kidz…they don’t appreciate me anyway :no:
      ___________________

      :facepalm: I just got a text from my son's teacher this morning. he done pissed her smooth OFF!

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      At first I said man but I saw someone who sais it depends on if he is the father ir not.

      ********

      :thinking: I agree with this :yes:

    • KDub

      My mama is/was the same way. At family get togethers (on my mamas side), the men get their plates made first. Then the kids.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      We were at Dub20 grandma house for a family gathering. And his lady wasn't there...so Dub20 came in there and made her daddy plate. I was like you KNOW you not supposed to be in here yet. :stop: She said "MA! I KNOW. My DADDY gotta eat though" :love:

    • Unshakable

      @User,

      I concur. I would fix the kids plate first. Now if it was his birthday, then that's different.

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      cause I dont think realistically couples make it 50 years without cheating.

      *******

      :cosign:

      It's hard for me to see MYSELF being faithful 30+ years...nevermind him :eek:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I might give ONE cheating pass, cause I dont think realistically couples make it 50 years without cheating. But when that chit becomes a habit, you gots to go. Its not about the sex, it when you have an affair with someone and giving them your emotios. Your emotions belong to ME and me only.
      I’m a firm believer in what I dont know, maybe I dont need to know. If you cheat, your ass best to be discrete. Cause when I take your ass to court, I’m getting ALL my coins. :buttshake:
      ............................................

      Folks be throwing away a lifetime of happiness over ONE one night stand, never made sense to me :shrug:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      Here's snotber question: at family gatherings/cookouts/etc, do you fix your man's plate?

    • Unshakable

      @Rose Garden,

      Regarding same sex couples, who eats first.......the kids or the so? Is there a hierarchy of sorts? :think:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      :newpost:

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      lovezoe says:

      Here’s snotber question: at family gatherings/cookouts/etc, do you fix your man’s plate?
      _________________________________

      only if its MY family. if its his family, then im not touching them ppl stuff.

    • Unshakable

      @CandyCane,

      But isn't is possible to give emotions and alla that the first time someone cheats? I get what you are saying, I just find that point intriguing.

      @Blanche,

      I believe it's the value that's placed on sex/intimacy. For some, it is no biggie...for others, it is a deal breaker. It is kinda linked with trust and honesty. Both can take a lifetime to build, yet only seconds to tear down. Furthermore, consider this.....

      What if a person cheated one time and:

      Got someone pregnant or got pregnant
      Got an std or vd
      The person (mister or mistress) carried on like Glenn close in Fatal Attraction

      Then would you stay or geaux? :popcorn:

    • Anna

      MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky: says:

      @Unshake I know you are not talking to me. But just for kicks :sissyclawsyourfaceoff: :huh:
      I really think people get married for the wrong reasons, have no sense of what marriage is, are caught up in that dopemine, just wanted to be married, want to prove people wrong, didn’t know it would be that much work because they had no examples…. It’s sad. I mean I didn’t know how hard it would/could be and I love mine. It’s a daily compromise. There can never be a time when both of you give up or fall out of love at the same time. And you have to go in like divorce is not an option unless XYZ. No silly stuff. You gotta work for it. But again…. These are conversations that should be had in advance of the pomp and circumstance nuptials
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
      Amen.

    • last of the Mohicans

      :newpost:

    • last of the Mohicans

      :newbie: