Michelle Obama

They say "When in Rome, do as Romans do", but apparently first lady Michelle Obama doesn't believe in following strict traditions. The first lady and her husband, president Barack Obama, made an unscheduled trip to Saudi Arabia on Tuesday to pay their condolences after the death of the King Abdullah.

According to strict dress code for women, all women in Saudi Arabia are required to wear a headscarf and loose, black robes while in public. But Mrs. Obama defiantly refused to cover her head.

From Yahoo News:

As a delegation of dozens of Saudi officials — all men — greeted the Obamas in Riyadh, some shook hands with Mrs. Obama. Others avoided a handshake but acknowledged the first lady with a nod as they passed by.

Saudi Arabia imposes many restrictions on women on the strict interpretation of Islamic Shariah (shah-REE'-yuh) law known as Wahhabism. Genders are strictly segregated. Women are banned from driving, although there have been campaigns in recent years to lift that ban. Guardianship laws also require women to get permission from a male relative to travel, get married, enroll in higher education or undergo certain surgical procedures.

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    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :shrug: Michelle said she is an American.

      :obama:

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals lovezoe

      If shr woulda covered head you would say it's proof she Moos-lum.

    • luVn_liFe…

      either way, the SAUDI'S will be aiight. they're GONE now right, Just passing thru.
      :tea:

    • listen2me

      But Mrs. Obama defiantly refused to cover her head.

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      As TI would say, "That's her head"

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      :love: our FLOTUS

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      dem her hairs :shrugs: as a consolation, when them ppl come over here they can take theirs off. deal? :)

      long as she don't come back with no gray eyes then its cool with me. :lol: angry ppl always find something to be upset about. they over there in the desert hot and miserable. Michelle said she aint want to sweat out her press with all them scarves and shyt.

    • Chemalrel

      :cosign: POTUS and FLOTUS always in a lose lose situation.

    • Milky

      Shait she was dressed appropriately, that should be enough. That is not her religion you can't make her follow your beliefs. IJS!!! I love our FLOTUS, that is one real woman!!!!

    • luVn_liFe…

      angry ppl always find something to be upset about
      ~~~
      :nun: SAY THAT! UF ur son's IN BIG trouble :eek: ?

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      Speaking of covering/not covering up. La Perla's spring collection? :phew: And they had Naomi close out the show? :phew: I want in :yes:

    • Blanche Devereaux

      If she would have folks would have been hollering that they are Muslims and this and that. I see why she didn't wear it.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Real tears at THATS HER HEAD :ghost:

    • LuvMySailor

      As she's the wife of a visiting dignitary, she does not HAVE to cover her head.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      says:

      I’ve never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It’s the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell
      ____________________
      I have. Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue. They soul mates. You know.. Folks like Kim K. Repeat divorce offenders

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      They say “When in Rome, do as Romans do”, but apparently first lady Michelle Obama doesn’t believe in following strict traditions.
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      When they come to America do they do as we do? Fine it's part of their religion, but is it part of hers? When they come hereto visit do they follow our traditions? Nerp so there you have it.

    • Candy Cane

      Michelle say she aint fawking up her curls for these people. She aint Muslim shyt. :nun:

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      :nun: SAY THAT! UF ur son’s IN BIG trouble :eek: ?
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      not big per se, he is just annoying the teacher and she is allowing it.

      she said he is drumming on the desk with pencils--which is stupid and should be easily stopped but apparently they are going at it over this. :rolleyes:

      these young, cute teachers :rolleyes: they are basically having a war of who is the most strong willed. If I could, I would go up there and embarrass him but imma use the time to find a way to make him never want to drum in class again. :tea:

      its a matter of respect. the teacher should've commanded it from way back in September and he should give it IR-regardless. they both getting on my nerves.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Oh and about the life time of happiness being thrown away for a one night stand...
      Meh :shrugs: I get it IF that is it. But these hoes out here being evil. They will find your job email pictures of him :hump: to your work presentation ... Go pick up your kids from school.. Post it on sosha media :no: nobody has time for that. Just leave me

    • KDub

      The trip was unsked. She didnt even get to see the good stuff she wanted to see in India I read. Fugg these folks. They need to go address their own problems and this is NOT one. They have ALOT of issues in that country. Go! WORRY BOUT THAT ISH.

    • Str8NoChaser

      It wasn't a problem when Laura Bush did it though... :tea:

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      VDot says:

      Speaking of covering/not covering up. La Perla’s spring collection? :phew: And they had Naomi close out the show? :phew: I want in
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      :confused: they only make stuff for itty bitty titties. ppl who don't even need no bra :rolleyes:

      my coworker gave away her whole la perla collection after she had a mastectomy. is that gross? :think:

    • MsChavo

      Hilary Clinton never covers her head when she goes to Saudi Arabia, and neither do any other women leader. Why is Michelle Obama being singled out?

    • whitty hutton

      MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky: says:

      says:

      I’ve never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It’s the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell
      ____________________
      I have. Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue. They soul mates. You know.. Folks like Kim K. Repeat divorce offenders

      -----------------------------
      when people ask me do I like being married, I respond that I like being married to MY husband. we balance each other out well - i'm fiery, he's coolheaded. over time, he's taken on some of my personality traits and me some of his. we've had some really tough times and most of the best times of my entire life have been with him. I don't think you really know what you got until you go through some tough times and work together to make it through. jmo

    • luVn_liFe…

      its a matter of respect. the teacher should’ve commanded it from way back in September and he should give it IR-regardless. they both getting on my nerves.
      ~~~
      gawd.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I’ve never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It’s the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell
      ____________________
      I have. Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue. They soul mates. You know.. Folks like Kim K. Repeat divorce offenders
      ..................................

      Its a reason I didn't say yes when I was asked. I'm not ready :eek: even though I KNOW its backwards I can handle being a mother. But a wife :eek: I'm getting there but my grandparents taught me to take marriage seriously. Thats a LIFETIME full of loving somebody even when you dont want to.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I’ve never heard anyone say marriage is easy :nono: It’s the opposite. If anything they make that sh1t sound scary as hell
      ____________________
      I have. Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue. They soul mates. You know.. Folks like Kim K. Repeat divorce offenders
      _______

      Bullchit. Anything you do in life is hard. Living, breathing, raising kids, relationships, marriages, working. All that shyt is hard. And no one is perfect. When different people are co-existing with one another there will be disagreements and shyt. How in the hell we ain't never supposed to agrue? We ain't the same folk, he I agree with myself sometimes... Folks need to go head and stop lying to themselves. Looking for this storybook bullchit. That's why marriage fail, they ecept too much, they expect perfection. No such thang. You be wanting to run away from your kids, so you know for damn sure you wanna run away from your spouse.

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      I get it IF that is it. But these hoes out here being evil. They will find your job email pictures of him :hump: to your work presentation … Go pick up your kids from school.. Post it on sosha media :no: nobody has time for that. Just leave me
      ______________________________

      :phew: these side pieces going HAM. they be like no taxation without representation :rules:

    • Candy Cane

      I have. Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue. They soul mates. You know.. Folks like Kim K. Repeat divorce offender
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      The same cousin I cut off is always saying that she doesnt want to argue in her relationship. That shyt dont make no sense to me. Cause I argue with the folks I love. Thats how you know I love you. Conflict is apart of life. :shrug:

      I argue with my husband, my friends, family, ya'll....If I disagree, Im gonna let you know it.

    • Unshakable

      Dragged from downstairs:

      Unshakable says:

      @CandyCane,

      But isn’t is possible to give emotions and alla that the first time someone cheats? I get what you are saying, I just find that point intriguing.

      @Blanche,

      I believe it’s the value that’s placed on sex/intimacy. For some, it is no biggie…for others, it is a deal breaker. It is kinda linked with trust and honesty. Both can take a lifetime to build, yet only seconds to tear down. Furthermore, consider this…..

      What if a person cheated one time and:

      Got someone pregnant or got pregnant

      Got an std or vd

      The person (mister or mistress) carried on like Glenn close in Fatal Attraction

      Then would you stay or geaux?

      @Topic,

      Michelle from the Chi can't win for losing, unfortunately. :no:

    • listen2me

      User Friendly says:
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      :facepalm: I just got a text from my son’s teacher this morning. he done pissed her smooth OFF!
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      :rofl: It's always funny when it's someone else's child. But she text you because he's beating on the desk with his pencil. I would have text back...Did you not take a classroom management class? TAKE the damn pencils. I'm at work doing MY job; now do YOURS!

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      gawd.
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      :confused: annoying, rite?

      I swear my son wasn't like this last year. got awards in every class. this year he is so defiant.

      the text she sent me was so dam long. I know she bout sick of him. hell, me too.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      :confused: they only make stuff for itty bitty titties. ppl who don’t even need no bra :rolleyes:

      my coworker gave away her whole la perla collection after she had a mastectomy. is that gross? :think:
      _____

      I want some, but it's expensive! And yeah your co-worker in nasty. And the person who accepted her worn tidday holders are nasty too.

    • whitty hutton

      on the topic of cheating:
      I ain't getting a divorce over a one-night stand. but if you come home and tell me you're in love with another chick and want out, then it's a wrap. don't come back when that shit blows up in your face.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Thats a LIFETIME full of loving somebody even when you dont want to.
      ~~~~
      :yes: It isn't easy. Many of days I cant stand my hubby but love him JUST the same.

    • listen2me

      imma use the time to find a way to make him never want to drum in class again. :tea:

      ________________________________________
      How old is he? H3!! put his azz in band!

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      :rofl: It’s always funny when it’s someone else’s child. But she text you because he’s beating on the desk with his pencil. I would have text back…Did you not take a classroom management class? TAKE the damn pencils. I’m at work doing MY job; now do YOURS!
      _________________

      :lol: I should go to the office supply store and get him them big ass sped pencils we used to use in Kindergarten or better yet, some "I love Justin Beiber" pencils :rofl:

      annoy his ass right back.

    • Candy Cane

      Taken,
      That's why niggas go get prostitutes. Professionals. Cause side-hoes will destroy your family cause she cant be the wife. They 9 times outta 10, the husband aint leaving his wife and family. I dont even understand how you want another man with a wife and kids. What kind of shyt is that? Aint no challenge in fawking a man with a ife. Find your OWN man. Thats a challenge. :duel:

    • KDub

      I am on the view of it all points back to THE MAN. Even if she IS doing GROSS misconduct... If HE didn't put himself in a dumb azz position for this hoe to eem BE: contacting you, even KNOWING your name, going through his phone, finding out shat she has NO BIDNESS KNOWING...she wouldn't have the OPPORTUNITY to eem contact you. But b/c YOUR HUSBAND/S.O. decided to do XXX...now she up in YALL Kool-Aid. Hold HIS azz as the sole responsibility and cause. Including the actions of: THAT BISH. Nigga this is YOUR fault. You ALLOWED this to happen, due to your decisions/actions. FIX IT. :coffee:

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      I want some, but it’s expensive! And yeah your co-worker in nasty. And the person who accepted her worn tidday holders are nasty too.
      __________________

      :lol:

    • KiMi0414

      :phew: these side pieces going HAM. they be like no taxation without representation :rules:
      ________________
      When and why did this side chick mess become a "thing"? Its like they're glamorizing not being good enough to be the one and only girl in his life. I don't get it. Stop trying to make fetch happen.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      my entire life have been with him. I don’t think you really know what you got until you go through some tough times and work together to make it through. jmo
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      :bow: RUNS AROUND THE BLOG :woohoo: You preaching now. *slaps you hard in the byke*
      Not by serious that is why I say now.. Today.. 2013-forever I can't deal with no you cheated mess. FOH .. My last kid was born before that time. You had 3 kids to get it right. I done put my body threw the equivalent of a car crash for them and you multiple times plus did my job as a wife supporting you *cues Mary J, Jazmine, Keyshia and everybody else bitter*. FOH... I would be sangle and just deal with an up front dating life style. It would be hard but I would be back outchea :bite: Looking like a wife .lol:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      :lol: I should go to the office supply store and get him them big ass sped pencils we used to use in Kindergarten or better yet, some “I love Justin Beiber” pencils :rofl:

      annoy his ass right back.
      ________

      Hmmm you gotta be creative.... If you get him them big arse pencils he can make more noise with em...

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      When and why did this side chick mess become a “thing”? Its like they’re glamorizing not being good enough to be the one and only girl in his life. I don’t get it. Stop trying to make fetch happen.
      ___________________

      girl, iono but its full speed ahead, aint it?

      maybe when Evelyn told Tami she was a non-muthafuggin factor. this is a dangerous game these thots are playing.

    • whitty hutton

      Unshake said this:
      ...Furthermore, consider this…..

      What if a person cheated one time and:

      Got someone pregnant or got pregnant

      Got an std or vd

      The person (mister or mistress) carried on like Glenn close in Fatal Attraction

      Then would you stay or geaux?
      -----------------------------------
      IN MY OPINION (and mine only), I wouldn't throw away sixteen years for a one-time mistake.

      the pregnancy thing is a hard one but i'd at least put forth a good faith effort to stay. not sure if i'd make it, but at least i'd try

      std - for better or for worse are the vows I took. it'd be hard and i'd prolly bring it up from time to time; but still, if it's from a one-time thing, i'd hope he learned the lesson and we could move on.

      if it's a fatal attraction bitch, i'd :shank: that chick and be done with it

    • Candy Cane

      Unshakeable
      If you fall in love with someone the first time you have sex, its probably already some connection there. Like ya'll been conversing on the phone, texting etc. Which is an affair, which is a deal breaker for me. Emotionally cheating is worse to me. That means you LIKE the bitch. :bye: Nigga

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      Thats a LIFETIME full of loving somebody even when you dont want to.
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      :yes: It isn’t easy. Many of days I cant stand my hubby but love him JUST the same.
      by luVn_liFe... on Jan 28, 2015 at 10:30 am
      ___________________________________________________
      :preach:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser says:

      :lol: I should go to the office supply store and get him them big ass sped pencils we used to use in Kindergarten or better yet, some “I love Justin Beiber” pencils :rofl:

      annoy his ass right back.
      ________

      Hmmm you gotta be creative…. If you get him them big arse pencils he can make more noise with em…
      ~~~~
      Yup
      But If she GET BIG One's with the BIEBS on em,he'll be shamed to pull em out
      :hahaha:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      on the topic of cheating:
      I ain’t getting a divorce over a one-night stand. but if you come home and tell me you’re in love with another chick and want out, then it’s a wrap. don’t come back when that **** blows up in your face.
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      But that sound like he left you :kona:
      No for real anything involving emotions or lpast just a one time bang :nono: even that now for me

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      Hmmm you gotta be creative…. If you get him them big arse pencils he can make more noise with em…
      ____________________________

      girl I was just joking. aint nobody got time to play with his monkey ass bout no dam pencils. imma just slap him upside the head and dare him to do it again.

      prolly unplug his cable box until the spirit moves me to re-plug it back in. :shrugs:

    • whitty hutton

      what taken said:
      ...*cues Mary J, Jazmine, Keyshia and everybody else bitter*. FOH… I would be sangle and just deal with an up front dating life style. It would be hard but I would be back outchea :bite: Looking like a wife. :lol:
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      if he was in a long term side-relationship, i'd do the same - leave his ass and be a line item on his paycheck...and hers too depending on just how bitter and vindictive I was feeling at the time. I often joke that i'd be out in the club looking like a "wife", so I know what you mean.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Chic-Fila is offering free chick/biscuit sandwiches.. I got one this morning.
      I didn't like it together :no: the biscuit was good so was the chicken SEPERATE

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      @U :rofl:

    • listen2me

      these side pieces going HAM. they be like no taxation without representation :rules:

      _______________________________________________________________________

      The way I see it, men minds are simple and they think with the other head. Treat him like you're the side piece. We often get caught up in our day to day routines and forget that we ALL like attention. Instead of texting your man/woman about Susan's braces....text that nigga a nude photo. Men often cheat because it's an escape from the nagging of the petty things. I'm not giving men a pass for cheating but we need to accept our responsibility as well. And I will wait for the backlash 3...2...1

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      So when they visit China, she should wear one of those big ass straw hats that look like a flying saucer, or wear a dashiki and put shells in shyt in her hair when she visits Africa. Maybe wear a kimono, bind her feet and shuffle walk when she goes to Japan. Or should he wear a damn kilt when he visits Scotland. Fukk outta hear. :huh:

      Just shits and giggles, but damn, let these folks live.

      Ain't they got some WAAAY bigger shyt to worry about? :shrug:

    • KDub

      imma just slap him upside the head and dare him to do it again.
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      :crying1: And be done huh?

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      Chic-Fila is offering free chick/biscuit sandwiches.. I got one this morning.
      I didn’t like it together :no: the biscuit was good so was the chicken SEPERATE
      --------
      This is what we call BREAKFAST :lol:

    • Candy Cane

      IN MY OPINION (and mine only), I wouldn’t throw away sixteen years for a one-time mistake.
      the pregnancy thing is a hard one but i’d at least put forth a good faith effort to stay. not sure if i’d make it, but at least i’d try
      std – for better or for worse are the vows I took. it’d be hard and i’d prolly bring it up from time to time; but still, if it’s from a one-time thing, i’d hope he learned the lesson and we could move on.
      if it’s a fatal attraction bitch, i’d :shank: that chick and be done with it
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      :cosign: If the baby was a boy, I might even let him come play with my girls. Cause I want a son, but I dont want to stop :koolaid3: and :blunt: for 9 months :lol: I might thank the bitch :biggrin:

    • whitty hutton

      what taken said:
      But that sound like he left you :kona:
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      :hahaha: yeah, u right. but you know the story - they think the grass is greener and wanna come back. this is my first (and hopefully only) marriage so I don't know about that personally, but I do have friends that divorced and remarried. I don't think i'm cut out for that. :nono:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Lol @User..... These kids get on your last nerves.

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      @Listen: I agree.
      Know what your partner likes. You can't be ignoring her or not at home and then be like send me a pic or expect her to be on her knees all the time and you don't even date her, watch a movie in the bed, buy her a daffodil or grease her scalp ever. Some women like to be mentally stimulated in addition to physically. That is forgotten at times

    • KDub

      Ain’t they got some WAAAY bigger shyt to worry about?
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      I said that too. The Saudi's got ALOT of issues. Social and ethical. They old azz King just managed to damn die. Got a new one they gotta break-in. OTHER politics. Got oil to manage and look after. Bruh.

      :no: Let Barry worry about Chelle's hair.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      :cosign: If the baby was a boy, I might even let him come play with my girls. Cause I want a son, but I dont want to stop :koolaid3: and :blunt: for 9 months :lol: I might thank the bitch :biggrin:
      ................................................

      My bonus son :yes: DATS MY BABY and when I'm done loving on him and spoiling him. I send him back home with his mammy :yes:

    • listen2me

      :lol: I might thank the bitch :biggrin:

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      :rofl: So you gonna be Yandy?

    • KDub

      I didn’t like it together :no: the biscuit was good so was the chicken SEPARATE
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      A PIECE of chicken, and a biscuit as a side is how its supposed to be. You right :rofl:

    • Candy Cane

      if he was in a long term side-relationship, i’d do the same – leave his ass and be a line item on his paycheck…and hers too depending on just how bitter and vindictive I was feeling at the time. I often joke that i’d be out in the club looking like a “wife”, so I know what you mean.
      ____________________________________________________________
      Chile my hubby best friend is going through the shyt right now. Dude was a low down dirty dawg in his marriage. Taking HER money to take HOES on trips, and buying rooms up the street from her house. Now they back and forth in court cause she trying to get her coins back from that nigga. He didnt even bring her to my wedding cause he was down there messing with my bridesmaid. I finally told her all the shytI knew he was doing during the marriage. Now dude is mad at me and my husband cause I'm still cool with her. Told my husband he needs to control me. :blink: He gonna be mad af cause in May, me her and another good friend is planning a trip to NOLA. Nigga you dont run me. And you cant tell me and my husband who we can be cool with. If she come to town, we gonna hang out.l..what you gonna do?

    • listen2me

      Ok Roses...It's been fun! I'm out. But I will think of you all when I am cleaning myself after using the restroom, when I am washing my knees, when I am cleaning my ears and while I am getting my tax documents together. ( Blanche and Kimi ain't gonna be the only ballers on the blog) :winky:

    • KiMi0414

      I don't think I'm cut out for marriage :no: My tolerance for BS is extremely low and I have no problem being by myself. But guys my age are just generally not good catches and I'm not into older guys. My parents been together 25 years and I see what they go through. I don't think I could do it :no:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      See you all are better than me. I ain't got time to be raising no side babies. And how my husband is he would not want them to be treated different. And they should not be. But me and the way my I BUILT THIS CITY petty is set up :nono: BRUH go ahead and leave me. We lucked out with these kids on health, looks and personality. you are welcome :eek: You is not gonna mess around and bring me now baby that don't fall in line. I will treat that baby like Gab U. Be mashing it upside it's peasy head teaching it to bark and walk like a dog instead of a human and be like :rolleyes: DEM HER GENES :lame: your side baby slow as el.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      First Lady Obama said, "Dem her choices :nun: "

      Hi :hi:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

      whitty hutton says:

      I don’t think you really know what you got until you go through some tough times and work together to make it through. jmo
      ______________________________________________

      :thumbup: True shyt... It's also during these times that you realize how creative you could be to off you significant other.

      After 20 years, I done come up with some doozies. Sometimes we sit around and joke about how we would take each other out.

      She said she would poison me and let me die in my sleep. Painless. I knew then, that this chick love me. :biggrin:

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      MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky: says:

      @Listen: I agree.
      Know what your partner likes. You can’t be ignoring her or not at home and then be like send me a pic or expect her to be on her knees all the time and you don’t even date her, watch a movie in the bed, buy her a daffodil or grease her scalp ever. Some women like to be mentally stimulated in addition to physically. That is forgotten at times
      _______________

      this guy once told me that as long as he paid the mortgage that's all he had to do for his wife (she was a housewife/stay at home mom)

      me: yup, that's why you think she been at the family reunion for the past week and she aint :tea:

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      s my age are just generally not good catches and I’m not into older guys. My parents been together 25 years and I see what they go through. I don’t think I could do it :no:
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      Well then give up!!! :blink: since you already threw in the towel. Ain't nobody even ask you yet Kenya :rofl:

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      Be mashing it upside it’s peasy head teaching it to bark and walk like a dog instead of a human and be like :rolleyes: DEM HER GENES :lame: your side baby slow as el.
      _____________

      :rofl: your hubby better not even try it. you would have the whole squad turn against him. :lol:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      Them people saying being in love should not be hard. You should not argue.
      ==========
      I missed this memo. Y'all slacking on the updates :rules:

    • whitty hutton

      @ KiMi0414
      I love being married to my husband because having someone to share life's journey with is priceless. seeing someone grow and change over the years up close and personal is beautiful; and having someone to pick me up when i'm down, be my biggest cheerleader, and put up with my shit (and we all have it) without judgment is something I wouldn't trade for the world.

      when it's the right person, your BS tolerance will change and although i'm a loner by nature, it's fun having someone there to be "me" with. I don't know how else to say it but you get the gist.

    • Gigi26

      She said she would poison me and let me die in my sleep. Painless. I knew then, that this chick love me. :biggrin:
      ---------------------------------
      :yes: :claps: That's a good woman you got there!

    • Candy Cane

      Listen,
      I watched Love and Trash last night. And I can see the love that Yandy has for that boy. I respect her for making Mendisease communicate with Samantha. Thats what REAL women do. But when he told Samantha to gone on and leave us be I was like daaaaaaaaaamn. That gotta hurt. But I feel what he saying. Yandy been holding down, dont come trying to shake shyt up now.

      As a stepmom, I felt everything Yandy was saying. My husband and his ex wife have a great relationship. And aint on no papers. She call and ask for what his other daughter needs. If he aint got it, I will give it. It takes a village to raise kids. When she comes for the summer I treat her like she my own. Hell she was my first child really. Children wasnt even on my radar when I met my hubby. Life is funny like that though.

    • KiMi0414

      Well then give up!!! :blink: since you already threw in the towel. Ain’t nobody even ask you yet Kenya :rofl:
      _______________

      I haven't given up per se lol Just the BS I went thru with my son's father left a bad taste in my mouth. We were together since I was 18 my first and only and I thought it was forever and when it wasn't :no: Just a hurt I don't want to go through again. Its hard giving that much to someone for it to not work out.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      I missed this memo. Y’all slacking on the updates :rules:
      ________________________

      speaking of updates, how is HoneyIDGFDip? :popcorn:

    • whitty hutton

      @ LTL,
      :hahaha: we do the same kinda stuff. hence my comment that it's awesome to have someone to be "me" with. ain't it something to be able to look back and laugh about shit that seemed soooooo serious at one time. that's the growth you can only experience by sticking in there with somebody. marriage has been like a mirror for me - showing me the best and worst parts of myself.

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      this guy once told me that as long as he paid the mortgage that’s all he had to do for his wife (she was a housewife/stay at home mom)
      me: yup, that’s why you think she been at the family reunion for the past week and she aint :tea:
      by User Friendly
      ___________________________________________________:tea: Don'tcha Know no Goodt :ROFL:

    • Candy Cane

      I will treat that baby like Gab U. Be mashing it upside it’s peasy head teaching it to bark and walk like a dog instead of a human and be like :rolleyes: DEM HER GENES :lame: your side baby slow as el.
      ______________________________________________________________
      :chase: :rofl:

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Just a hurt I don’t want to go through again. Its hard giving that much to someone for it to not work out.
      ___________________________

      they need to come up with an immunization to hearbreak cuz man if that thang don't sting :brokenheart:

      they can keep them hpv shots and let me get my kids some heartbreak vaccines.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      KiMi0414 says:

      I don’t think I’m cut out for marriage :no: My tolerance for BS is extremely low and I have no problem being by myself. But guys my age are just generally not good catches and I’m not into older guys. My parents been together 25 years and I see what they go through. I don’t think I could do it :no:
      _____

      Man listen.. You tolerate bullchit from a negro your dating or just banging. I might as well tolerate bullchit from my husbsnd, than from some negor on the street. I ain't married yet, I keep putting it off. But I know I will marry soon. And let me tell you, this negro gets on my VERY LAST nerve, you hear me? But I rather take his chit, than some of these dudes out here. Dating is horrible!

    • https://scontentxfp1/v/t42.1790-2/10883260_10205181477284067_1503867899_n.mp4 MisTaken: So thick :buttshake: she make everybody else in the room so uncomfortable :winky:

      have the whole squad turn against him. :lol:
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      Listen friend :hahaha: I am far from perfect but on this wife tip.. IT don't get no better (Beyonce's Etta James voice) .. And that is with my admitted and in progress flaws and all. I refuse to be treated anything less than what I feel I deserve. But I do believe the man is the head of the household and respect that. I also believe in balance. If I pay bills too I get a say so in things. Publicly I might let you take the lead or make the final decisions but consult me in private beforehand

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      But I rather take his chit, than some of these dudes out here. Dating is horrible!
      ____________________

      these dudes today be like "whatchu cooked?" and think that's a date. :lol:

      you be done courted their asses by MISTAKE and uoeno it. :confused:

    • Unshakable

      @Whitty,

      That is good that you found someone who balances you out like that. HEALTHY love is a beaullifah thang. Yes indeed. :love:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I haven’t given up per se lol Just the BS I went thru with my son’s father left a bad taste in my mouth. We were together since I was 18 my first and only and I thought it was forever and when it wasn’t :no: Just a hurt I don’t want to go through again. Its hard giving that much to someone for it to not work out.
      ______

      Child you was a :pacifier: find you some grown up :love:
      You know better, and have experienced more. I'm sure that your choosing a mate will be different also.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      I ain’t getting a divorce over a one-night stand. but if you come home and tell me you’re in love with another chick and want out, then it’s a wrap. don’t come back when that **** blows up in your face.
      ==========
      It's refreshing to see your font. A good bit of women (myself included) sees cheating as a deal-breaker. If I were married, I'm not sure if it would be a deal-breaker for me. I think my hang-up would be having to trust again.

    • Time to Waste

      :hi: Butter!
      Day after a snow day on the plantation ain't no joke!

    • KiMi0414

      they need to come up with an immunization to hearbreak cuz man if that thang don’t sting :brokenheart:
      ________________

      I don't wish a heartbreak on even my worst enemy. Mine is still fairly fresh ( like Septemberish) So I'm still dealing with it. Part of the reason I'm trying to move out this city.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      these dudes today be like “whatchu cooked?” and think that’s a date. :lol:

      you be done courted their asses by MISTAKE and uoeno it. :confused:
      ____

      This young boy was tryin to holla at me once. Asked what I like to do. I said depends. I told him some of the things I liked to do. This muthafawker gonna tell me, well if I like drinks we don't have to go out. We can just go to the liquor store cause they have dranks, then come back to my house.

    • KiMi0414

      Child you was a :pacifier: find you some grown up :love:
      You know better, and have experienced more. I’m sure that your choosing a mate will be different also.
      _________________
      I'm still a baby :hahaha: I'm only 24 and we just broke up a few months ago.

    • listen2me

      @Candycane I wasn't being judgmental I was actually laughing at the fact you said "Thank you bish..I wanted a son an2way!
      We never know what we'd do in a situation until it happens to you.

    • Gigi26

      I don’t wish a heartbreak on even my worst enemy. Mine is still fairly fresh ( like Septemberish) So I’m still dealing with it. Part of the reason I’m trying to move out this city.
      ----------------------
      :welcome: Tell me more *sits on couch* :tea:

      Where do you live beloved?

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I’m still a baby :hahaha: I’m only 24 and we just broke up a few months ago.
      _______

      Ahhh hell naw girl. Take a chill pill. Date, be careful and have fun. Marriage will come in it's time. You get to figure out what your wants, and needs in a man is by dating. And what you are willing to tolerate as well.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_nAbQogbMOk Buttercup

      When and why did this side chick mess become a “thing”?
      ===========
      Mama Butter was in a relationship with Papa Butter for 23 years. He was married to someone the last 20 years of their dealings. This was back in the '70s :coffee:

    • http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8eIKYHFCEWk kno_no_good

      :newpost:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Day after a snow day on the plantation ain’t no joke!
      ______

      It sure is. I'm tired and ain't do ish yesterday, but drink Blue Moons and nap.

    • Candy Cane

      I think my hang-up would be having to trust again.
      ___________________________________________________________
      :yes: My husband wasnt truthful about his situation with his ex wife for two years into our relationship. She wouldnt grant him a divorce even though he had moved out of the state and on with his life. She didnt want to ose his military benefits. But when I met my husband he told me he was divorced. He said he lied cause he knew I wasnt the kind of woman that would date a married man, even if he was seperated. Which is TRU!!!!! But when I find out he was, it took the life out of me. It was very hard for him to gain my trust back. Once you lose trust, its nothing there. It took my dad to tell me he was still legally married to my mama when he met my stepmom. He said that man didnt want to lose you, thats why he lied. Its was hard to get over. But we made it. :nun: God is good.

    • whitty hutton

      @ Unshake,
      girrrrrrllllll, sometimes I wanna strangle him. I can always tell what kinda sandwich he fixed or if he makes Kool-Aid...cuz he leaves crumbs and stains on the counter. damn dishtowel is right there and he just won't wipe the counter! sometimes I think he's slightly re-tahded (not trying to offend any special needs posters) because the simplest stuff just is not top of mind to him.

      but if I kicked him to the curb for all the petty stuff, i'd be a lonely bitter bish cuz ain't nobody gonna be EXACTLY how I want them to be. I get on his damn nerves too, but we make it work...and most times it's fun.

    • KiMi0414

      :welcome: Tell me more *sits on couch* :tea:
      Where do you live beloved?
      ____________
      I live in country behind SC. Metro area. There's nothing here. At. All.

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      This muthafawker gonna tell me, well if I like drinks we don’t have to go out. We can just go to the liquor store cause they have dranks, then come back to my house.
      __________________________

      that's how they do. be trying to lay up in your house, watch your cable, and eat up your kids cereals.

      these dudes be homeless on the low. :tea:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      :newpost:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Yeen got to cover your head IF you are not from there :no:

    • mgabrielle

      Get your facts right- if you are Muslim you have to cover your hair. I'm an American living in Saudi Arabia and I have never covered my hair.