Usher Raymond and Grace Miguel

R&B singer Usher Raymond, 36, popped the question to his longtime girlfriend Grace Miguel, who turns 49 this year.

Usher started wooing Grace, an executive at his record label, five years ago, when he was 31 and she 42. Grace was Usher's product manager at the record label.

The couple began dating in 2009 while Usher was still married to his ex-wife, Tameka Raymond. They divorced later that year.

“She's happy but they're trying to keep it quiet,” an insider tells Us of the private couple, who looked cozy with one another at the Golden Globes Art of Elysium Heaven Gala in Los Angeles on Jan. 10. Miguel’s ring finger was noticeably adorned with a giant diamond ring at the event.

Usher, who was raised by an overbearing single mother, has always shown a preference for older women since he was a wee young lad.

The great psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud termed this sort of May-December relationship -- when a boy desires to marry his mother -- as the Oedipus Complex.

Despite the psychological facets of their relationship, it's clear that Usher loves Grace. On New Year's Eve, the singer punched out a rude drunk who referred to Grace as "old" and "ugly".

This will be the 2nd marriage for both Usher and Grace.

From US magazine:

Usher’s wife-to-be’s ring is so massive, Page Six previously reported “you wouldn’t think it was an engagement ring because it’s so big,” after the couple were spotted ringing in the New Year together at E11even nightclub in Miami.
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The 36-year-old singer only recently started opening up about his longtime love. "I have an incredible partner and manager," he told Billboard magazine in October 2014. "She has helped me through some of the hardest times in my life and my career. She’s someone who’s been able to support and understand all of who I am. Not just as a dancer or as a performer or as a singer, but as a humanitarian and a business man and as a person."

Usher, who is dad to sons Naviyd Ely and Usher Raymond V, was previously married to Foster from 2007 to 2009.

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    • Gigi26

      I wish them the best :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      Well ain't that speshul.. Congrats

    • PassionateBeauty

      that hand bag is hideous.. thats all I got for this post..:shrug:

    • Time to Waste

      Oedipus Complex.
      ------------
      I don't think he has that at all.
      I think he has ALWAYS been around women much older than him and he just likes it. 13 or 14 living with Diddy :no: who knows what he has seen and done with regard to women and maybe a ma... :kona:

    • luVn_liFe…

      Again, how many times are they going to get engaged?

      MAYBE Urssh Just likes older women because they're seasoned and ready.
      :tea:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Just what exactly in the tie dye hell does Grace have own. :no: :nono:

    • Locapoca

      the singer punched out a rude drunk who referred to Grace as “old” and “ugly”.
      ^^^^^^
      Theres a nice lawsuit for ya. Go head and write that check Usher. :tea:

    • Unshakable

      Even though he and Maniqua didn't make it, I hope he and Miguel or Manuela (whatev her name ill) are happy.

      @Taylor,

      I'll repost it up heah. Does your friend know of the colonization of vermin that occurs at her house? :think:

    • Time to Waste

      From Downstairs:
      Huckabee want Bey and he don’t know what to do about it cause she a Negra :yes:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Grace, an executive at his record label,
      ************
      I take it he aint learned a damn thing about leaving women who work with/for you the fugg alone.

    • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

      Good for him :tea: hopefully this one will last

    • Locapoca

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      Just what exactly in the tie dye hell does Grace have own
      ^^^^
      :lol: She look like a proud Mom in that picture not a fiance. Congrats though theyve been together awhile. I wonder how Tomeka feels.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      @Roth and Shake from downstairs

      My circle is small, if they got an infestation I know it. I check folks sofas and scalps when I visit

      @Taylor

      I could NOT be frens with someone whose house made me itch :lol: #TeamPetty

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Yeah I read this somewhere, can't remember. Wish them the best and hope it turns out better than his last marriage.

    • SOTHERNGRL

      that hand bag is hideous.
      *****************
      Dont stop at the purse the whole damn getup is just atrocious.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      SOTHERNGRL says:

      Just what exactly in the tie dye hell does Grace have own
      _______
      :hahaha: That outfit and bag is blahhhhhhh

    • Time to Waste

      Snoop a Grand Dad y'all :rofl:

      So is he the Dog GrandFather now?

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Jay and Bey are 12 years apart too. :shrugs: love is hard to find. get in where you fit in.

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      I saw the interview with oprah when his mom was on there. She said she had been depressed and sad for years bc of his marrange to Tameka. I'm like y tho? Be happy for your son. U mean to tell me u out of it bc of that. Controlling she was...

    • DYmondgurl

      Not a fav couple of mine but CONGRATS!

      A fannybag u wear arnd ur wrist :thinking:

      :huh: the zoo, and Sea Worl’ will have to do.. :huh:

      C'Mere :spank:

    • Locapoca

      Look usher looking all nice in his tux and this bish got on a 2 piece senior citizen tye-dye outfit like shes going to the knit scarves at the senior community center. She probably got on orthopedic stilettos to go with it along with a Thong made by Depends.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      OH I BEAN waiting on this news to break! :bounce:
      :huh:

      Ugly Gucci purse :blink: and she got on hair stylist clothes :lol:

      Congrats though! :woot:

    • TaylorMade

      Shake, she's the person I was talking about that has zero to no self esteem. She finally kicked out her loser bd and she's trying to get herself together. Unfortunately, she's also apart of team working poor. We've had talks and I've made strong suggestions but she just can't keep up with the clean outs, repairs, and up keep. I've also told her about her kids, who are also apart of the problem, but she has to work in order keep up on what she can. And I mean we're talking about raccoons and squirrels burrowing in the house, bed begs, rodents/pest, I mean the list goes on. Needless to say, she has never been at my house and I haven't been in hers. - You really don't know what folks are going through when you see them or when they clock out. And I'm not going to lie, I have to take breaks from her from time to time because listening and trying to help becomes heavy and I have to mentally recharge.

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      Just what exactly in the tie dye hell does Grace have own. :no: :nono:
      _______________________________

      :spank: to you and Passionate Beauty for making me scroll up and see that travesty. looks very Camille-Cosbyish or Dorothy Sbornak-ish

      that's a menopausal outfit if there ever was one. keeps you cool and airy for when those hot flashes act up. :phew:

    • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

      They look old together :yes:

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Snoop a Grand Dad y’all
      **********
      :huh: :blink: Who has had a baby?

    • luVn_liFe…

      Doesn't Talk To Strangers says: OH I BEAN waiting on this news to break!
      :lol:

    • Locapoca

      that’s a menopausal outfit
      ^^^^^
      :bye: User

    • luVn_liFe…

      that’s a menopausal outfit if there ever was one
      ~~~~
      :blink:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      I don't like this fake Auntie that is posting :nono: Can the real Sandra Mae please stand up

    • aRoTh

      Yall SUCK!

      Down there talking to myself like a mugg! :sad:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      the singer punched out a rude drunk who referred to Grace as “old” and “ugly”.

      ============

      If yew old yew old :shrugs:

    • Vanna is the root of all evil

      that hand bag is hideous.. thats all I got for this post..:shrug:

      ---

      She is hideous :no:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Jay and Bey are 12 years apart too. :shrugs: love is hard to find. get in where you fit in.

      by User Friendly on Jan 13, 2015 at 11:49 am
      _____

      Allegedly *cough cough*
      Is it me or does all Raheem DaVaughn sounds alike? He got a new song called Queen and I thought it was Woman or whatever it's called. Is he recycling beats??

    • Unshakable

      @Taylor,

      That's seaux unfortunate. Is she eligible to apply for any assistance or school programs to help her finances? Are there any family menbers she can stay with? That living situation is dangerous. I'm surprised her houseor living situation hasn't been deemed uninhabitable yet. She could get really sick from that. I am seaux sorry to hear that Taylor. :hug: for you and her.

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Yall SUCK!

      Down there talking to myself like a mugg! :sad:

      by aRoTh on Jan 13, 2015 at 11:55 am
      ___
      _they do that to me all the damn time. It be crickets and ish.

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      Aww :heart: COngrats. I bet Grace has some nice cats she can pass along :)

    • *Kah* Namaste! Peace! Blessing! One Love!

      Grace looks like she's making an appearance with her son. :tea: I guess Usher doesn't want anymore kids.

    • kamadiva

      Congrats....

      From downstairs - Butter doing to merch in her recipe! Gotta try it!

      aRoth - me too..but won't tell nobody #missingingredients

      :eww: I have a an Aunt, who is the sweetest thing, a great cook, but she got roaches...I ain't going over there! :nono: I'll see her at a neutral locale.

    • DYmondgurl

      menopausal outfit for a seasoned ol :chickenhead:

      YALL mean :hahaha:

    • Locapoca

      missyJSays says:

      the singer punched out a rude drunk who referred to Grace as “old” and “ugly”.

      ============

      If yew old yew old
      ^^^^
      ESPECIALLY if you show up wearing that Jimmy Hendrix Purple Haze Outfit. You knoooow better!(in my no flex zone voice)

    • TaylorMade

      My circle is small, if they got an infestation I know it. I check folks sofas and scalps when I visit

      @Taylor

      I could NOT be frens with someone whose house made me itch :lol: #TeamPetty

      by #missyJSays on Jan 13, 2015 at 11:46 am
      ----------
      So I am a Scary Mary and a Petty Patty :facepalm: :lol:
      I've been invited - for dinner----- just. Can't. Do. It.! I'm the Queen of saying No Thank You!! Another reason just as AJ said- I DONT do pot luck!!

    • inter_loop

      Anyone see the Breakfast Club interview with Nicki Manaj's ex hype man?! Oh, man. The feminization of the insecure black man by the black woman will destroy our community more than any cop, racist, or religion.

    • aRoTh

      Time to Waste says:

      Snoop a Grand Dad y’all

      So is he the Dog GrandFather now?
      ___________________________

      He's a Grand-PAW. :rofl:

    • luVn_liFe…

      I bet Grace has some nice cats she can pass along
      ~~~~
      ION Thank bonita applebaum ever had that moment. :D

    • *Kah* Namaste! Peace! Blessing! One Love!

      She probably got on orthopedic stilettos to go with it along with a Thong made by Depends.

      __________________

      :dead:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Dorothy Sbornak

      :heart:
      :karate:

    • TaylorMade

      So what's a good age to potty train? A boy in particular. Friend just said that she's throwing her son a 3rd bday party but this little dude still wears diapers :sideeye:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      @Taylor does she rent or own??

    • SummerBaby

      Allegedly *cough cough*
      Is it me or does all Raheem DaVaughn sounds alike? He got a new song called Queen and I thought it was Woman or whatever it’s called. Is he recycling beats??
      -------------------
      I :heart: his music, but I thought the same thing when I first heard Queen. I still purchased on iTunes because I like the message

    • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

      My circle is small, if they got an infestation I know it. I check folks sofas and scalps when I visit
      ______________

      cut it out :lol: no you don't.

      I have a friend who had a real bad roach prollum. I told her to get a exterminator. she said she cant because she has asthma. :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

      her and her hubby bought a house and moved. guess they said fugg cleaning this spot lets just get another one. :lol:

      her logic when it comes to things is skewed but ive known her so long that I just work around it.

    • kamadiva

      Ion do potluck either..especially from folx I don't know what they kitchen look like..by kitchen I mean personal and household hygiene!

    • luVn_liFe…

      WHAT! :shock: Grace is almost 50!??
      :blink:
      WOW
      :eek:
      OH

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      aRoTh says:

      Time to Waste says:

      Snoop a Grand Dad y’all

      So is he the Dog GrandFather now?
      ___________________________

      He’s a Grand-PAW. :rofl:

      The Big PAW or Top PAW :kona:
      ============
      :rofl: LuvLife
      Ish made my day! :D
      :hahaha:

    • *Kah* Namaste! Peace! Blessing! One Love!

      TaylorMade says:

      So what’s a good age to potty train? A boy in particular. Friend just said that she’s throwing her son a 3rd bday party but this little dude still wears diapers :sideeye:

      ________________________

      He should have been transitioning since the age of at least one.

    • DYmondgurl

      Jimmy Hendrix Purple Haze Outfit

      :lol: She bout to :nun: any sec

    • *Kah* Namaste! Peace! Blessing! One Love!

      luVn_liFe... says:

      WHAT! :shock: Grace is almost 50!??
      :blink:
      WOW
      :eek:
      OH

      ___________________

      And she looks every day of those 50 years. She looks like she lived those (close to) 50 years hard.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      o what’s a good age to potty train? A boy in particular. Friend just said that she’s throwing her son a 3rd bday party but this little dude still wears diapers

      ===========

      Boys seem to need a little longer.

      LilMissy I waited until she was 2.25. I wanted to start right at 2 but experts say you should try when there is other big change going on and that's when we moved to Columbus so I waited until we were settled there for 2-3 months and she had a routine.

      I wouldn't say 3 is bad for a boy.

    • SummerBaby

      So what’s a good age to potty train? A boy in particular. Friend just said that she’s throwing her son a 3rd bday party but this little dude still wears diapers :sideeye:
      ------------------
      Mine were all trained before age 2 because the daycares wouldn't take them here at the time if they weren't trained.

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      Locapoca says:

      Look usher looking all nice in his tux and this bish got on a 2 piece senior citizen tye-dye outfit like shes going to the knit scarves at the senior community center. She probably got on orthopedic stilettos to go with it along with a Thong made by Depends.
      _____________________________

      and you talk about ME? :shocked: tuh!

    • Blanche Devereaux

      @Taylor, between 2-3 is a good age. Definitely should be done by age 4 IMO, I know boys are usually harder.

    • luVn_liFe…

      She looks like she lived those (close to) 50 years hard.
      ~~~~
      :bite: lawd that's why I try to take care of myself, Botox's and ALL!
      :nono:
      :eek:

    • Time to Waste

      He’s a Grand-PAW. :rofl:
      ---------------
      Yo, I just spit this water out :rofl:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      cut it out :lol: no you don’t.

      ================

      Yes I do :kona: Before I sit down and I keep a close eye out for itching and scratching and any red bumps on skin.

      I am so paranoid about getting bed bugs :facepalm:

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      ION Thank bonita applebaum ever had that moment.
      _____________

      :lol: :hahaha: True. She a big timer.

    • aRoTh

      User Friendly says:

      My circle is small, if they got an infestation I know it. I check folks sofas and scalps when I visit
      ______________

      cut it out no you don’t.
      _________________

      :ghost:

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      still wears diapers
      _________

      But a porty...I mean whas important...duh. :hahaha:

    • TaylorMade

      That's the thing Shake. But gov'ment standards she make to much AND she's bad with her finances. I've had that talk on numerous occasions too!! :mad: she's quick to help some did with her extra but yet she's struggling to maintain her own bills :cuss: after awhile you get tired of hearing about it. She's a great person, she's just not stable. I look at her as an example (she's 46) of what NOT to do. But because she's been through so much she comes with an unbiased opinion that I can appreciate.

    • Locapoca

      User Friendly says:

      and you talk about ME? tuh!
      ^^^^^^

      :kona:

    • WUT IZ REALLY GOING ON? :blink:

      Boy when that OLD THUNDA CAT get with a STRONG YOUNG BACK...man its magic! :rofl:
      I was told women are in there sexual prime in their 40's..But he only got a year of that shit left and then its old granny puss he bangin :oldman: :think: I wonder will I be high natured then too?

    • aRoTh

      I waited until she was 2.25. I wanted to start right at 2 but experts say
      __________________

      Who the hell is an "expert" when telling you about YOUR child? LOL I often wonder if these "experts" even have children of their own sometimes. These are the same "experts" that allow their children to still ride in strollers til they are nine. What deems them an "expert" anyhow? IJS LOL

    • SOTHERNGRL

      Mine were all trained before age 2
      ****************
      +1 but I cant tell other folks about they kid all I know is I wasnt changing no chitty pamper past 2. Get cho azz on this pot. But again that was me and mine. :tea:

    • kamadiva

      Who in the H*LL wanna still be wiping a butt of a 3 yr old? :eww:

      ManChile was about 12-18months (but loved to still poop in the bath...up until age 2 (don't ask).

      LilDiva was trained about 18months!

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Boys seem to need a little longer.

      LilMissy I waited until she was 2.25. I wanted to start right at 2 but experts say you should try when there is other big change going on and that’s when we moved to Columbus so I waited until we were settled there for 2-3 months and she had a routine.

      I wouldn’t say 3 is bad for a boy.

      by #missyJSays on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:03 pm
      ________
      I trained both girls at two. Babyhair11 was a damn struggle I tell you. I wanted her to be done by the time she start school. She was but damn it, it was rough. Babyhair5 wasn't trained when she started school. A little after. But it was a breeze for her. I started like really 1 introducing the toilet to her (I don't do potties) and then full fledged potty training at 2. Then one day I just said I'm not putting no pamper or good nights. On you. And she was good. I was like I coulda been did this!!!!!!!

    • kamadiva

      My kids ain't wear no pullups or good nights....thick training panties and plastic cover! NO ACCIDENTS!

    • kamadiva

      plus..when they were home (or at Grammy's), let them run bottom free! They got it...real quick!

    • SOTHERNGRL

      I know boys are usually harder.
      ****************
      I had 3 and it just wasnt that hard to me or them. Took a couple days for them to get the hang of it; by day 3 they like :nono: Ma I know what to do. :shrug:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I swear my kids school folks are nuts. Babyhair5 dean called me to say "thank you" I guess for getting her to school daily (whatever) but she starts with "Babyhair is fine" I'm listening like of course she is, she's home. But I ain't say chit. I wanted to see how long it would go for. Then finally she was like "Oh wait, she's not here here today. Where is she?" Home stupid....

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      Who the hell is an “expert” when telling you about YOUR child? LOL I often wonder if these “experts” even have children of their own sometimes. These are the same “experts” that allow their children to still ride in strollers til they are nine.

      ================

      I mean it's folks out there that study their chit for years. Would you get on an airplane and ride if the pilot announced this was his first day and experts say he needs 1000 hours of training but how are they gonna tell him about HIS ability?

      I don't know everything so I read and parse the information. Accept what you want and reject what you don't.

      LilMissy was trained in less than 2 weeks based off what I read. I see people struggling for months cause they force it or punish or shame kids for accidents.

      Ion think there's any one right way to do anything tho

    • kamadiva

      I give Usher 10-15 more years and then he will be looking for a real pretty, pretty little thang.... :listen:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      My kids ain’t wear no pullups or good nights….thick training panties and plastic cover! NO ACCIDENTS!

      by kamadiva on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:11 pm
      ______

      Neither did my oldest. And ain't wet not near bed once she got it together.
      I know a kid who is 6 and still sucks a pacifier.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      My kids ain’t wear no pullups or good nights….thick training panties and plastic cover! NO ACCIDENTS!

      ===========

      That's what I did.

    • aRoTh

      I'm all for if you have "babies" real close in age, train they asses up too. The same things you teach the old, you teach the young too. If you teaching your 5 year old to tie his shoe, then you teach the 3 year old as well. You teaching the 10 year old to clean, you teach the 7 year old as well.

      #trainupachile

    • aRoTh

      I know a kid who is 6 and still sucks a pacifier.
      _____________________

      See. And I bet the "experts" say that is OK. Not in MY house it's not. :nono:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Nefertiti, edges kinky. says:

      still wears diapers
      _________

      But a porty…I mean whas important…duh. :hahaha:

      RIGHT, I mean Should he not have a POTTY? :lol:

      :whistle: Yew Gotta Fight for ya Right To PartAyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy :party:

      TakenPotty would NOT approve! :banned: :hahaha:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      See. And I bet the “experts” say that is OK. Not in MY house it’s not

      ===============

      Actually you'd be hard pressed to find one that does :tea: Just saying

    • kamadiva

      Potty Training - the most effective way to do it is by ROUTINE/CONSISTENCY!!

      You can potty train one day and not do it the next. If you feed them or give them drink, they will have to use it soon! Their lil bodies don't hold on to much, stomach and bladder are small!

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I’m all for if you have “babies” real close in age, train they asses up too. The same things you teach the old, you teach the young too. If you teaching your 5 year old to tie his shoe, then you teach the 3 year old as well. You teaching the 10 year old to clean, you teach the 7 year old as well.

      #trainupachile

      by aRoTh on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:15 pm
      ______

      My kids are six years apart and my oldest taught her sister to tie her shoe. That's a great thing about having them spaced out in age.

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      LuVie the olds that won 326millis tho...the wife with her backseat driving? :hahaha: ;heart:

    • WUT IZ REALLY GOING ON? :blink:

      Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser says:

      Boys seem to need a little longer.

      LilMissy I waited until she was 2.25. I wanted to start right at 2 but experts say you should try when there is other big change going on and that’s when we moved to Columbus so I waited until we were settled there for 2-3 months and she had a routine.

      I wouldn’t say 3 is bad for a boy.

      by #missyJSays on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:03 pm
      ________
      I trained both girls at two. Babyhair11 was a damn struggle I tell you. I wanted her to be done by the time she start school. She was but damn it, it was rough. Babyhair5 wasn’t trained when she started school. A little after. But it was a breeze for her. I started like really 1 introducing the toilet to her (I don’t do potties) and then full fledged potty training at 2. Then one day I just said I’m not putting no pamper or good nights. On you. And she was good. I was like I coulda been did this!!!!!!!
      -------------
      My mother told me when they can walk..they can walk they lil butts to the toilet so start training them soon after.. all mine were done and sleeping dry by 18 months.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      My kids ain’t wear no pullups or good nights….thick training panties and plastic cover! NO ACCIDENTS!
      ..........................

      I just got Blanche 2 some training panties...

      I dont believe in pull ups, its a waste of money IMO.

      I took Blanche 5 to target one day, bought her that last pack of diapers and a pack of panties and told her once the diapers were gone, we are wearing panties and she better not piss herself or ill make her sit in it. Shes only had a handful of accidents in her life :tea:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      I’ve had that talk on numerous occasions too!!
      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
      :hahaha:
      -----------------------
      Mine learned in his 2 yr old class. They used to march them all to the potty like every half hour. A Potty Parade! :rofl: :rofl:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Potty Training – the most effective way to do it is by ROUTINE/CONSISTENCY!!

      You can potty train one day and not do it the next. If you feed them or give them drink, they will have to use it soon! Their lil bodies don’t hold on to much, stomach and bladder are small!

      by kamadiva on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:17 pm
      ______

      Yes and in the am first thing as they open their eyes head straight to the potty. They will have to go

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      RIGHT, I mean Should he not have a POTTY?
      ___________

      Seriously. Grades is chit but he got on them new Jays! :hahaha: :shank:

      I hate them alretty. :lol:

    • TaylorMade

      Yes I do :kona: Before I sit down and I keep a close eye out for itching and scratching and any red bumps on skin.

      I am so paranoid about getting bed bugs :facepalm:

      by #missyJSays on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:05 pm
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      Mannn listen, I've had eczema all my life and my skin will tell me right away if something aint right!! My diet is constantly changing which is why I juice and eat as much raw fruits and veggies as I can. So being exposed to random triggers and ppl who don't take care of themselves is not good for me or my asthma. That's another reason why folks just can't be strolling up in my home. And when I vaction, which is a lot, I bring my own sheets/towels. If I'm over my "friends" house (for the first time) I have to ask what kind of detergent they use because that determines what I have to sleep in- if we're sleeping :winky: Allergies, eczema and Asthma are nothing to play with :nono:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      I ain't gonna lie, I like Grace Miguel's name :yes:

      :thinking: Maybe I should go by my first and middle name now :ghost:

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      Oh. Congrats to The Ohio State.. :eyeroll:

      URBAN THAT COULDVE BEEN US BUT :crying1: Congrats.

    • SummerBaby

      My kids' lil brother turns 3 next month & he's not potty trained. My petty azz ask all the time when y'all gonna train him :hahaha: I swear their dad acts like a first time father :facepalm:

    • Time to Waste

      Nef
      You get my email?

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      I hated pampers and bottles. I remember with my youngest when I was like I'm getting rid of the bottles this child gonna tell me "but you have to give that girl milk" stupid do you think the ONLIEST way she can get milk is from a damn bottle? At one that bottle was gone.

    • Blanche Devereaux

      I will say, I also didn't work when Blanche 5 was younger. The work schedule has definitely made it harder with Blanche 2.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      but he got on them new Jays!

      :dead:

    • aRoTh

      Would you get on an airplane and ride if the pilot announced this was his first day and experts say he needs 1000 hours of training but how are they gonna tell him about HIS ability?
      _______________________________

      We're talking about children. Not pilots who just safely landed the plane on a tarmac 40 minutes before I boarded. So no, I wouldn't question HIS ability.

      But as we all know, one child may be different from the next. I'll just say what I always say........what works for me in mine, may not work for you (not directly talking about YOU @#missyJ) in yours. I'm not going on what "child experts" feel is ok. IJS

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      Allergies, eczema and Asthma are nothing to play with

      =============

      My big sissy has all three. She is like my seeing eye dog when it comes to folks homes. She will be like Will Smith in Hitch (before he swole all up) then I know it's time to go :rolf:

    • FuturedocDonte

      R&B singer Usher Raymond, 36, popped the question to his longtime girlfriend Grace Miguel, who turns 49 this year.
      ---------
      My wife is 3 years older than me. I almost felt like I couldn't bring her home :no: I dont see how :facepalm:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Taylor
      Tell your friend to hold a Potty Meeting like MsTake did :rofl:
      #contractswasinvolved :heart:

    • kamadiva

      My cuz sonssss still suck :pacifier:...they are 7, 5 and now she is pregnant with twins!

      This is another story for another day on her and her kids! SMH

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      Jamie Lynn in this knife fight :dead: :ghost:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Allergies, eczema and Asthma are nothing to play with

      =============

      My big sissy has all three. She is like my seeing eye dog when it comes to folks homes. She will be like Will Smith in Hitch (before he swole all up) then I know it’s time to go :rolf:

      by #missyJSays on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:22 pm
      _____

      So do I. Smh

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      What the hell a plane got to do with this? :crying1:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      We’re talking about children. Not pilots who just safely landed the plane on a tarmac 40 minutes before I boarded. So no, I wouldn’t question HIS ability.

      ==========

      I'm just gonna warn you flight crew often changes. The pilot who landed the plane is often not the pilot who is taking off for the next... that don't mean nothing to the convo really just some info :lol:

    • Time to Waste

      My son got a cousin, who is 3 weeks younger than him. Still in a pull up.
      My son will be 5 next month :tea:
      At thanksgiving I was :shock: when he gave the pull up to his mom and said I'm wet.

    • luVn_liFe…

      …the wife with her backseat driving?
      ~~~
      mHHH HMM SEE :tea:

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      Nef
      You get my email?
      __________

      DOH! :pc: I knew I forgot something..blame my mind. I stressed..brb..

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2SQh007k6U #missyJSays

      What the hell a plane got to do with this?

      ==========

      Roth don't belee in experts.. Everyone just measures their own ability and goes with it :nun:

      If I said I can do it then I must be able. Cause making a baby takes skill and automatically tells you everything you need to know.

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      The pilot who landed the plane is often not the pilot who is taking off for the next…

      OH! :rofl: But doesn't everyone know this?! :hahaha:
      Pilots can't be flying :pigsfly: FOREVER :rofl: :rofl:

      Maybe I missed the beginning of this :kona:

    • SummerBaby

      :newpost:

    • FuturedocDonte

      My cuz sonssss still suck :pacifier: …they are 7, 5 and now she is pregnant with twins!
      ------
      My son stopped sucking the passy at 4 months, but we might have to give it back to him. Heard him making this noise for a few days and could not put our finger on what the hell it was, then we realized - HE'S GRINDING HIS TEETH :blink: They said give him a :pacifier:

    • kamadiva

      Ok..so I am trying to lay off the sugar, but why did they have some chick-o-sticks in e breakroom....FREE!! UGH! (yea..I got one)!

    • Gigi26

      My second brother learned from my first one. He actually dictated when he was done with pampers, he would take em off and go himself :yes:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      Omg I'm hungry. I said I. Wasn't gonna buy lunch since I brought breakfast (trying to cut down on my spending) but Shyt im hungry :crying:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      Lost Agane :crying1:

    • Hair Lova Formerly Known As Dark Ceaser

      My second brother learned from my first one. He actually dictated when he was done with pampers, he would take em off and go himself :yes:

      by Gigi26 on Jan 13, 2015 at 12:27 pm
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      That was my two little sisters.

    • TaylorMade

      Now how do you teach a grown as man!! Aka Thug McPissy!! :cuss: but any who a Potty Parade sounds so cute. And lol diaper boy is in a class with younger kids because he's not trained. I think that's kinda wrong too because he's possibly not developing at the rate that he should. But hey, I don't know because I don't have kids. I'm just going off of what I think seems right :shrug:

    • kamadiva

      @FutureDoc - mine never had pacifiers...and LilDiva grinds her teeth. Dentist gave her a guard!

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyR09SP9qdA&sns=em Afiya says FOH :chase:

      Locapoca says:

      Look usher looking all nice in his tux and this bish got on a 2 piece senior citizen tye-dye outfit like shes going to the knit scarves at the senior community center. She probably got on orthopedic stilettos to go with it along with a Thong made by Depends.
      ==========
      :hahaha: :chase: STOP BEING MEAN!!! :lol:

    • luVn_liFe…

      My wife is 3 years older than me. I almost felt like I couldn’t bring her home
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~
      WHeT
      DONTE?? Causes she's a smidge older than YOU???

    • Unshakable

      @Taylor,

      That's good. Some folks you justhafta feed with a long handled spoon. Not sayin you betta than them, you just don't want your vortex to be infested with roaches or other vermin. Exterminators can only do so much.

    • Nefertiti, edges kinky.

      :thumbsup: @Time. So damn cute! *ovary flip* :(

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      HairLova

      IF you gotta save, then save! You already ate like ah king *snickers* for Breakfast :eek: So SETTLE DOWN :D

    • Unshakable

      @Taylor,

      and as for your friend, it sounds like beyond the vermin you have managed to kindle and preserve the relationship. And you have set up healthy boundaries, which is good as well. People will change when THEY are ready, and not a moment sooner. :yes:

    • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_S8jrHDNQVE&list=HL1365174233 <–Doesn't Talk To Strangers

      And lol diaper boy is in a class with younger kids because he’s not trained.

      :ha: :gossip:
      :kona:

    • Time to Waste

      Thanks Nefi
      He gonna be 5 next week :wail:

      I'm not responsible for your ovaries :lol:

      No worries about the wait; I just wanted to make sure I got the right address and some random don't have pics of Time Jr.

    • Ms Peaches

      He’s a Grand-PAW
      ---------------------

      Insert laugh track :rofl:

    • FuturedocDonte

      My wife is 3 years older than me. I almost felt like I couldn’t bring her home
      ~~~~~~~~~~~~
      WHeT
      DONTE?? Causes she’s a smidge older than YOU???
      ----------
      Yes, and also the same age as my older sister which made it weird, but they got over it real quick :coffee:

    • OpinionHated

      Somewhere in ATL Tameka is cutting herself in a bathroom.....

      I wonder if she'll finally relinquish the name - I could see if Ush was her first husband but bish you was already married you didn't keep that ninja name why you won't let Usher's name go - Usher should have done like Ike Turner - Your Honor dat my name my daddy had it he giv it tuh me and she can go but the name stay here the name stay wif me!!!!!!

    • tintin1979

      I love that fact that Usher likes grannies.