Every year around this time, NFL players like Delanie Walker dump their trophy jump offs to return home to their faithful wives or girlfriends who held it down on the home front while their men played for NFL teams based in other states. These "trophies" come in handy during those lonely nights in unfamiliar surroundings.
But occasionally jump offs catch feelings and forget their purpose in NFL players' lives. One of those jump offs is Racine Lewin, Walker's "girlfriend" of 10 years. Lewin posted an angry missive on the Tennessee Titans star player's own Instagram account accusing Walker of being a cheating dog.
Speaking in the first-person narrative style (as if she was Walker), she wrote: "I have no self-control in the off-season. I'm a 'celebrity' and she no longer looks good enough for my 'image' while I'm not playing football."
Lewin also accused Walker of being a male "whore" who told everyone he was single. She said Walker "promised" her another baby after she miscarried in 2010.
Later, Lewin's angry post was deleted from Walker's IG account and Lewin attempted to explain her desperate behavior on her own IG page:
Thank u to those who support me. What I did was out of my character, but I guess after so long a woman really does get fed up. For all of you saying its my fault I stayed for 10 years… your right, but easier said than done when you love someone. It was really the death of our baby boy back in 2010 that made me stay… Promises of another baby, gifts, family, marriage, lies…. All really enticing to a girl who is already broken. The difference between then and now is age, maturity.. I am much stronger these days. Yes, I was hella weak and easily manipulated back in the day. I don’t blame him entirely for being young, having money, and wanting his cake and eat it too.. But at this age, after 10 years, so many promises, and the start of a family I can no longer be weak. The last thing I want is our daughter to think it’s ok or normal to be disrespected by a man. So it stops now, before she is born, one way or another. If we didn’t love each other, we wouldn’t have made it this far.. But love without trust, loyalty, or respect was bound to crumble. I made the move all the way to TN for him.. To love and support him like I always have. I told him all I want is trust loyalty and respect for one year.. If he could do that then I would marry him. But he failed, and I’m disgusted at this point. I want my daughter to have a father.. I want what every woman wants… Family, stability, trust. Lord knows..
The bottom line is this: no man wants to be pressured into marriage. He either wants to marry you or he doesn't. Threats and public humiliation will only distance him further. Do yourself a favor and learn what Love looks like so you can easily recognize it and avoid wasting your life with losers.
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