Faith Evans

Gospel singer Faith Evans turns 42 today. Faith, who hasn't had a hit record in years, recently revealed that reality TV personality Stevie J loaned her $75,000 to purchase a house. She didn't say whether she paid him back in cash or intimate favors.

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  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Good morning yall and happy :hump: day in shyt...

    Yeah and HBD to Faith and whoever them udder peoplez is... :tea:

  • luVn_liFe…

    :hi: WUT

    Does Jeans do not compliment Faith well.at.all :nono:

  • Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake

    Morning yall....I do NOT like Faith's outfit...and why is she borrowing money from Stevie J?! Don't she have a husband?! Are they friends like that?

  • FuturedocDonte

    Gospel singer Faith Evan
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    See :rofl: auntie know good and well Faith reads the blog. I told my wife I was thinking about getting faith album because I liked the song that played in the background when she :nun: on Lhh. Then somebody said it was on iTunes for $5.99. Won't He do it :yahoo:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    :hug: Luvin Life!!

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

    Shocked Sandra didn't allude to a :lick: relationship with the chick in the pic.

    @Donte - I downloaded her album a couple months ago. A few nice songs, but I'm glad I didn't pay for it. :coffee:

  • iWasteTime

    So you just gonna be eating a 1000 dacks to day! :thumbsup:

  • iWasteTime

    what is it FOH Wednesdays, someone tell Dub it's been moved up a few days

  • Vanna is the root of all evil

    Dang I don't know who was worst in screwing they artists laface or bad boy? :think:

  • CHARBEE

    Morning Yall!!!!! :wave:

    Where in da Hell is her husband?

  • iWasteTime

    Maxi Priest

    :buttshake:
    She was a Jezebel, this Brixton queen
    Livin' her life like a bad sweet dream
    Tellin' me lies when the truth was clear
    I think she knew what I wanted to hear

    Spinnin' around like a wheel on fire
    Walkin' the tightrope on love's highwire
    A fatal attraction is where I'm at
    There's no escapin' me

    I just wanna be close to you
    And do all the things you want me to
    I just wanna be close to you
    And show you the way I feel

    :danban: :slowwwine: :smoke:

  • SOTHERNGRL

    Faith and old girl look like they were at home cleaning up and realized they were out of :blunt: and had to run to the store right quick to pick up some and some snacks.

  • SummerBaby

    Faith, who hasn’t had a hit record in years, recently revealed that reality TV personality Stevie J loaned her $75,000 to purchase a house. She didn’t say whether she paid him back in cash or intimate favors.
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    I heard about this yesterday. It didn't bother me one bit :shrug: some folks can't even get gas money from a guy.

  • http://sandrarose.com 100milesperhour

    Nakeya_J or Keke thanks to Unshake says:

    Morning yall….I do NOT like Faith’s outfit…and why is she borrowing money from Stevie J?! Don’t she have a husband?! Are they friends like that?
    ___________________________________________________________________

    They're divorced. Maybe her appearance on L&HH in the scene with Stevie J. was partial repayment on the loan?

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    How I ain't know that me and the homie Faith had the same birthday? That's cray cause she one of my real homies like Miss Wendy. We Monmouth County Jersey girls. JoJo need to get his ish together and rep Gemini properly. We posed to be cool peoples.

  • SummerBaby

    :happybirthday: @Bird

  • Nefertiti ePoundCake$$—>OhTaBizzle

    Her and steebie been tight.. b.i.g.? Yeah. My friends don't do nothing BUT borrow/take. :shrug: #properfrenmgmnt

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

    :happybirthday: Bird!

  • Gigi26

    Uhhh Faith needed 75k but got a damn Balenciaga bag n gucci belt on? Bytch you better downgrade yo lifestyle if you gotta borrow from a nigga that owes super child support :rollseyes:

    Didn't she come up with R&B Divas? What a waste.

  • SummerBaby

    I want to know where she found a house for $75,000 :think:

  • CHARBEE

    :happybirthday: @ Bird... :party: :partyhat:

  • Nefertiti ePoundCake$$—>OhTaBizzle

    Happy Birthday, Bird!! :hug: :kiss: And mannie more! :2dance:

  • Vanna is the root of all evil

    John Edwards (62)

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    The scum of the earth.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Thanks for the birthday love yall! Middle age rocks! .....said no one ever.

  • Gigi26

    Shorty behind Faith has a huge head...is she Ethiopian?

  • Vanna is the root of all evil

    Hbd @bird

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    Faith looks like the freckled face redhead boy from MAD magazine.

    Im so glad these attys only work part time. Ion think i could do 40 hours with them evry week. Fuggin annoring (how my gran says annoying)

  • Meme81

    So he can give Faith 75k for her mortgage but wont pay his own child support? He must have MC Hammer syndrome with that logic.

  • SummerBaby

    I read that he gave her that money back in the day :shrug:

  • iWasteTime

    Yeah, this wasn't recent.
    This was when Stevie was still popping so in the 90s.
    He loaned it for her and when she got her advance she paid him back.
    Was for a house in S. Jersey. She hasn't lived on the East coast in years.

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    Shane West :love:

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    Don’t worry about it. Do your job like she isn’t doing. She brought that abusive stranger into her life and is allowing him to stay so far. That’s her choice. Maybe some tough love will help her snap out of it.
    ——-
    Bird Bird Bird Bird :facepalm: I done told you once today that you got to put away the ahole Gemini sometimes :facepalm: You done called strippers hoes that will be bad parents…now you saying if you let someone beat on you and it affects your job FOH cause you weak and you should have thought better than to bring that person into your house. While it might have underlying validity the bigger picture is the person is in danger. Mentally a prisoner. Emotionally broken. Physically scared. I know I know…they should leave. And it sucks that it is being brought into the workplace but this is why some folks don’t tell. They are ashamed in the first that it happened then if they tell someone might tell them they deserve to be beaten because they don’t leave and pass them a pink slip :( Even if that lady never leaves as a human being I still would have to do my part and report it and then do the necessary next administrative steps. That hurt my feelings

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    Oh it's her birthday :ashamed: Ignore my last post... i just got an email to swing by my boss's office anyways so :blink: wonder what this is about :bite:

  • love_22_nina

    john Edwards there is a special place for him in hell

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    BEFORE I go ummm don’t nobody think this wasn’t in their Bad Boy days like :wtf: :rofl: I can’t. And then she might have been short 75,000.. not buying a while house :crying1: This must be Wayoffbase Wednesday

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

    :happybirthday: Bird!! Try not to get I any arguments with faux celebs. It's all about you today :lol: :hug:

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    Uhhh Faith needed 75k but got a damn Balenciaga bag n gucci belt on? Bytch you better downgrade yo lifestyle if you gotta borrow from a nigga that owes super child support :rollseyes:
    Didn’t she come up with R&B Divas? What a waste
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    :ghost: hi G, bye G. :hi:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

    Wayoffbase Wednesday

    ******

    :thinking: I like this :hahaha:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Happy BDay Bird :hug:

  • iWasteTime

    And im following a pimp (i think) by accident but im scared to unfollow him cuz he mite beat me :eek:
    No but for real :lol:
    ---------------------------------
    :rofl: Not a pimp though User :lol:
    He update with his stable?
    How you even find the pimp :lol:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

    Come thru with this facts Time Waster :clap:

    :kiss: :hug: OTBayBay

  • iWasteTime

    I died at little bitter fatty, and why do kids think because the parents have money, they have money. No boo.
    ----------------------
    I learned that when Cliff but Vanessa on :lol:
    YOU don't have any money, your mother and I have money

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    Gigi26 says:

    Shorty behind Faith has a huge head…is she Ethiopian?
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    I bid you adieu G. A-dam-dieu!

    :casket:

  • iWasteTime

    This must be Wayoffbase Wednesday
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    :hahaha:

    :yahoo: Neffi!!

  • Gigi26

    Oh if this was back in Bad Boy's hey day forgive me for my first comment :yes:

    But the second comment still stands...who's the dyke with the huge head?

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    My relationship is boring :yawn: I feel like we an ole stale married couple that's been together 10 years and don't have much to say to each other... He comes over EEEEVERYFUKKIN night..but just to chill..we casually speak, he listens to music, we either :hump: or fall asleep.. The dopamine has dried the fuk up!!! Now I feel like after tomorrow when I go for my test...I got to stick around a few weeks before I 86 him.... Im stuck...

    Any tips on how to reconstitute this dry shyt!!!

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Faith, who hasn’t had a hit record in years, recently revealed that reality TV personality Stevie J loaned her $75,000 to purchase a house.
    _____________________________________

    that's awesome :clap:

  • daprinceofradio

    Bird says:

    How I ain’t know that me and the homie Faith had the same birthday? That’s cray cause she one of my real homies like Miss Wendy. We Monmouth County Jersey girls. JoJo need to get his ish together and rep Gemini properly. We posed to be cool peoples.

    Wait? bird you and Wendy friends for real? or just from the same county lol?

    and dammmm if biggie was still alive Faith would not want for anything :( HE WOULD have probably been the first billionaire rapper before Dr. Dre .. I love FAITH.. so underrated its ridiculous.. I bought the album.. its so 90's. LOVE IT!!!!!!!

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    :rofl: Not a pimp though User :lol:
    He update with his stable?
    How you even find the pimp :lol:
    -----------
    Yep. A pimp or at least someone who plays one on IG. I swear I unfollowed him but he still there :eek:

  • Just Looking

    :happybirthday: Bird

    Any special plans

    It's your Birthday :danban1: Get Busy :dance: :danban1:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    She didn’t say whether she paid him back in cash or intimate favors.
    ____________________________

    :facepalm:
    *waits for Faith to step forward with a hunnid dacks on a platter for SR* :rofl:

  • Gigi26

    Faith ain't bad..she had a trans-woman perform as part of her backup singer one time I seent her in DC. Real Laverne-ish befor OITNB came out :yes:

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    But the second comment still stands…who’s the dyke with the huge head?
    _______________
    :rofl: YAS! We have serious questions! Britney Griner out here emotional and lost. Is this a match?????
    So my boss was like this won’t take but a sec close the door. She always has me close the door cause her assistant nosey and plus we always seem to be talking classified :lol: So remember earlier in the year I got a lot more stuff to do..lil bit mo money? :rolleyes: Thanks thou :nun: WHALE she said my title getting an upgrade too. It ain’t everything BUT It will look much better on my resume. Broadens my marketability. :yes: So for that I give thanks :pray:

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    :waves: Good morning.

  • Just Looking

    WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill: says:

    Any tips on how to reconstitute this dry shyt!!!
    =============
    It's happens, life and relationships. It's like Roller Coster, it wild and it has up and downs, sometimes there is water on some rides... Then you get off and get back in line.

    Per my then 17 year old. <<<< :rules:

  • SummerBaby

    @Wut
    How long y'all been together? I kind of like that type of routine :lol:

  • Gigi26

    It ain’t everything BUT It will look much better on my resume. Broadens my marketability.
    ----------------------------
    GO HEAD :yahoo: (no pun intended)

  • capricorn83

    From downstairs:

    People need to stop following people they don’t like just to talk chit :no:
    So wack!
    I don’t follow anyone I don’t like and I darn sure don’t comment and @’em.
    Some of these people hiding behind private pages, with flowers as their gravi or looking like Shanaenae need to know. You coming at someone with a little fame and you look like Grimace with a dry weave in your gravi and think someone isn’t going to say something … tuh

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    :cosign: I've never understood why ppl follow those they dislike and waste time posting negative comments under their IG

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    he dopamine has dried the fuk up!!! Now I feel like after tomorrow when I go for my test…I got to stick around a few weeks before I 86 him…. Im stuck…
    Any tips on how to reconstitute this dry shyt!!!
    ____________
    :crying1: you got to wait at least 60 days buddy :hahaha: 30 days look suspicious.... 60 is less crazy looking...90 days..you ain't gone make it. Do you think he has changed since he found out about your test? He may be more into nurturing you because he feels like that is what you need. Or he has caught feelings. WHEN (speaking it into existence) you get back the good results maybe he will loosen up. I been married almost 10 years….Been together longer than that. You need to let the dopamine fade at some point to see if it’s worth anything. As for the spark. As many tips as you got :shock: Girl bye

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    Wut u aint known the man but a month :eyeroll: There is still plenty to discover about each other.

    The way u "make" love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom :yes:

    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang.

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Maxi Priest!!!! :kiss: :ashamed:

    ...is in my playlist right now... :whistle: that girl, ooh, that kind of girl :whistle: *dutty wines like Patra* :buttshake: :kona:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Waste! we >>>>>here<<<<!! :lol: :hug:

  • iWasteTime

    @Wut, what you want?
    What did ya'll do before?
    How long y'all been together again?

  • Unshakable

    :happybirthday: Bird! Any fun or exciting plans? :think:

    Good morning Roses! :hi:

  • Just Looking

    Where is Simple? :yawn: I need exceitment

  • http://youtu.be/bQaBEm_mh5U I AM MisTaken I don’t get tired :huh: of being PETTY :)

    Interviewee time got moved up… I have thought of nothing to ask :lol: BB in a few

  • Gigi26

    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom
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    Agreed.

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    I want to know where she found a house for $75,000 :think:
    ________________________________

    :lol: maybe it was a down payment Summer? ...so mean :hahaha:
    (your in-law get her lights cut back on yet? :crying1: )

  • Just Looking

    :waves: @ Khaki IN COLOR - :welcome: are you are former lurker

    :rules: <<<< The list will be sent by Resident Blog Manager

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    User Friendly says:
    Wut u aint known the man but a month :eyeroll: There is still plenty to discover about each other.

    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom :yes:

    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang
    ____

    This is SO good. I try to people this every day.

  • iWasteTime

    Nancy :hug: :buttshake:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Bird says:

    Thanks for the birthday love yall! Middle age rocks! …..said no one ever.
    ___________________________________

    :hahaha: awww c'mon now Bird :hug: :happybirthday:

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I AM MisTaken I don't get tired :huh: of being PETTY :) says:

    Bird Bird Bird Bird I done told you once today that you got to put away the ahole Gemini sometimes You done called strippers hoes that will be bad parents…now you saying if you let someone beat on you and it affects your job FOH cause you weak and you should have thought better than to bring that person into your house.....
    ***********************

    I been there. Family and friends blamed my ex for everything and gave me the "poor victim" treatment. It wasn't until my manager/friend expressed disgust toward ME that I got it. He looked at me in a way that he never did before and told me that he thought I was a better woman than that. He acted like I was the scumbag in the situation for not knowing my worth. Within a week dude was gone from my life. This woman is missing work, leaving work early, late to work and not doing her job. Let her feel like the scumbag in the situation. Let her know that she might be willing to settle for that BS but her employer ain't. It might help her.

  • SummerBaby

    @Nancy
    I don't know. I hope so because it's hot out & they need air condition for the baby.

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    Just Looking says:

    :waves: @ Khaki IN COLOR – :welcome: are you are former lurker

    :rules: <<<< The list will be sent by Resident Blog Manager
    _______
    Yes and no and THANKS. I had a log in. "Khakiincolor2u" I lurked every day, never commented so I forgot the password. I change careers, companies after I have my chunky so I didn't have access to email to get password recovery. I just waited patiently for auntie to open the gates again.

  • Just Looking

    User Friendly says:

    Wut u aint known the man but a month :eyeroll: There is still plenty to discover about each other.
    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom :yes:
    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang.

    +++++++++++

    :waves: @ User :hug:

    You are so smart. Plus, dude is sticking around, that is great in itself, maniy mainy mainy men, would have been ghost.

    Peace Be Still, be grateful. JMO

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    :cosign: I’ve never understood why ppl follow those they dislike and waste time posting negative comments under their IG
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    Some ppl are mean & bored. Some ppl like any attention even if its negative. Some ppl hate outside the club cuz they cant get in.

    BUT some IG personalities really do think they are celebs for real & ppl think its their duty to bring em back down to earth. Vicious cycle.

  • iWasteTime

    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang
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    I love y'all.
    I agree it is discovery through out the relationship.
    I've been with Mr since I was 18 and still find out little things.
    like I just found out this niggah don't eat any hot cereal. Oatmeal, Farina, Grits none of it. I said so when I make grits, he said I don't eat it. I ain't never notice :rofl: .... They may say more about me than him though :kona:

  • Unshakable

    @Wut,

    And I mean no disrespeck, but could it be that the "unfulfillment" is internal, and not external? :think:

    What exactly do you want from him? What are you expecti g him to do for/with/to you?

    Perhaps the answers to these querstions can seeve as a guide. No judgment on my end. I reapect whatever decision you make. Like another poster said, perhaps give it some time. Mull it over. :hug:

  • Just Looking

    @Khaki :smile: :welcome: Back

    Just messing about the Rules

    Tells DTTS not to send them :smile:

  • MissHarlem

    People will always comment on what other people do with their money. Dumb but will always be the case. Stay out of people's pocket unless you paying their bill :shrug:

  • iWasteTime

    Where is Simple? :yawn: I need exceitment
    -----------------
    FOH looking :chase:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    User Friendly says:

    Wut u aint known the man but a month :eyeroll: There is still plenty to discover about each other.

    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom :yes:

    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang.
    -------------
    Girl I ask, wanna play cards. Come to the gym with me. He says babe im wipe out for the day, and he doesn't like cards like that. smh.

  • Just Looking

    iWasteTime says:

    Where is Simple? :yawn: I need exceitment
    —————–
    FOH looking :chase:
    ============
    :waves: @I waste :kiss:

    Hey everybody got there thing, I like Simple Boldness and matter of fact, disposition.

    :shrug: we all don't have to agree with other.

    :hug:

  • Simple person

    I just want to celebrate! another day of living! I just want to celebrate! another day of LIFE!

    man! yall probably don't know nothing about that song by Rare Earth but its still a good jam and very appropriate on a birthday

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    I said so when I make grits, he said I don’t eat it. I ain’t never notice :rofl: …. They may say more about me than him though :kona:
    ____________________________________

    :hahaha: :heart:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Unshakable says:

    @Wut,

    And I mean no disrespeck, but could it be that the “unfulfillment” is internal, and not external? :think:

    What exactly do you want from him? What are you expecti g him to do for/with/to you?

    Perhaps the answers to these querstions can seeve as a guide. No judgment on my end. I reapect whatever decision you make. Like another poster said, perhaps give it some time. Mull it over. :hug:
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    I really don't know. But I do know when I feel it. He is very sweet, but I just feel like we an old ass couple already and the relationship is still suppose to be in the honeymoon stage of infatuation, the sillies, the late night giggles, the spontaneous things you do as couples...I feel he is already settled. We had the relationship talk and I asked him do he see an us in like 3 years He was like absolutely..but I don't but couldn't tell him that.

  • iWasteTime

    :shrug: we all don’t have to agree with other.
    ----------------
    :hug:

    Nah you right ( :lol: ) but sometimes it comes off as trolling.
    You take the opposite in Everything !

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    JL :waves: you going to the jazzfest? (I don't think I am cause it's too hot :oops: )

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Unshakable says:

    :happybirthday) Bird! Any fun or exciting plans?
    *************************

    Thanks love! I'm going to a homies cookout on Saturday. I'm excited because I have not seen her and her dad (my former track coach) since high school. I was supposed to be throwing my little one a 5th grade graduation party, but I flaked as soon as I got the invite. We'll do my daughter's cookout next weekend.

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Just Looking says:

    User Friendly says:

    Wut u aint known the man but a month :eyeroll: There is still plenty to discover about each other.
    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom :yes:
    Plus u need that co-payment mula so sit tight, miss thang.

    +++++++++++

    :waves: @ User :hug:

    You are so smart. Plus, dude is sticking around, that is great in itself, maniy mainy mainy men, would have been ghost.

    Peace Be Still, be grateful. JMO
    ---------------
    I hear you Just. I know he cares in the middle of the night he rolls over and grabs me close to him. My mother said if he needs to feel you close for more than just sex you are closer to his heart than you know. Imma stick around to see if there is something to build on...

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    Wut my guy fren told me "men get with women so they hv somebody to stay in the house with, women get with men so they hv somebody to go out with"

    Meet halfway but quiet time & just being in the same space at the same time is soooooo valuable. My fren works 72 jobs. Sometimes I go with him on his second job. They just be happy to smell ya neck :lol: and vice versa i suppose

  • iWasteTime

    Looking :blink: What are the lotto numbers ?

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    Gigi26 says:

    The way u “make” love doesnt hv to do with sex. You create love thru interaction. Play scrbble, uno, drinking games, jog, bike ride, go rock climbing. There is so much more to life & love outside the bedroom
    —————————–
    Agreed.

    ________________

    I concur ladies :yes:

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    @Wuz IZ a PHD I'm new to commenting so I understand if you are like (who is this chick and why is she talking to me?)

    What initially attracted you to him? Was he always reserved? Have ya'll ever been spontaneous? Ever tried asking him to play card while you was nekkid? (it makes a difference) What does he do to be wiped out? Also I don't know what test, but if it's health wise some men over analyze and don't function until they know all is well with you.

  • Blanche Devereaux

    i snuck in to say I love yall...I miss fonting and that I am breathing :waves:

    feel free to email me blanchedthegoldengirl1AThotmail :waves:

  • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

    Wut maybe u done sucked the life out of him. Literally :blow:

    The man tiyad :lol:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

    @Wut

    It ain't my business, and you seem like cool peeps but you put it here so....

    As someone said, what do you want? I ask because you complain that he's over every night, just chilling. And it sounds like you think it's stifling. What if he didn't come over so often, and the only time he did, it was to blow your back out? Would that make you feel better? or would you then complain that he thinks he can cause he gave you cash.

    I don't know him or you, but is just seems like he ain't gone get it right, no matter what because you just ain't into him.

    So again, do you like him, or what he can/is doing for you? If you like him, you gone have to take the bitter with the sweet. If not, and you just putting up with him temporarily for help, remember what goes around comes around. I've been with the Mrs for 20+ and it ain't always peaches and cream. 5% of the time she pisses me off, and those days I imagine me, her, and a woodchipper having a 3some. But rest of the time, I realize she's the best thing to happen to me.

    All that to say nobody's perfect. :no: So you going to have to decide what Wut wants?

    Just my opinion.

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    SummerBaby says:

    @Wut
    How long y’all been together? I kind of like that type of routine :lol:
    -----------
    Not long. He has settle right into the relationship and it is officially predictable. Each day he comes over we small talk he grabs a shower and PJ(oh he now has several of his pj bottoms at my house.) slide into bed, we watch tv, chat a lil either have sex or we crash, he gets up get dressed for work comes and kisses me in bed (he gets up before I do (5:00am) and its off to work to do it all over again.

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Wut my guy fren told me “men get with women so they hv somebody to stay in the house with, women get with men so they hv somebody to go out with”

    Meet halfway but quiet time & just being in the same space at the same time is soooooo valuable.
    _______________________________

    lawd User, you full of truth tuhday :phew:
    I'm more of a home body than Mister is, but if we're both at home, that nig wanna be "together" :facepalm: I go downstairs to do laundry, and if I'm down there more than 15 min and he can hear the tv on, here he come :sigh: I be sayin to myself 'now warnt he just up there watching fast/furious? he KNOW he don't wanna see these old Columbo reruns I'm watching' :rolleyes: :hahaha:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Ever tried asking him to play card while you was nekkid? (it makes a difference)
    ______________________________

    :hahaha: true... :oops: :kona:

  • Just Looking

    I hear you Just. I know he cares in the middle of the night he rolls over and grabs me close to him. My mother said if he needs to feel you close for more than just sex you are closer to his heart than you know. Imma stick around to see if there is something to build on…
    ============
    There you go. Come here and give me a :hug:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Blanche! :yahoo: :hug: :hug: :kiss: :kiss: :hug: :hug: <--for you AND the babies :love:

  • Just Looking

    Thotmail

    :dead:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    BLANCHE :happy: :hug:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Long Time Lurker says:

    @Wut

    It ain’t my business, and you seem like cool peeps but you put it here so….

    As someone said, what do you want? I ask because you complain that he’s over every night, just chilling. And it sounds like you think it’s stifling. What if he didn’t come over so often, and the only time he did, it was to blow your back out? Would that make you feel better? or would you then complain that he thinks he can cause he gave you cash.

    I don’t know him or you, but is just seems like he ain’t gone get it right, no matter what because you just ain’t into him.

    So again, do you like him, or what he can/is doing for you? If you like him, you gone have to take the bitter with the sweet. If not, and you just putting up with him temporarily for help, remember what goes around comes around. I’ve been with the Mrs for 20+ and it ain’t always peaches and cream. 5% of the time she pisses me off, and those days I imagine me, her, and a woodchipper having a 3some. But rest of the time, I realize she’s the best thing to happen to me.

    All that to say nobody’s perfect. :no: So you going to have to decide what Wut wants?

    Just my opinion.
    ----------------
    Maybe Im unsure of everything Lurk. He is ideal. He is sweet and kind. I like him I do. Maybe I wasn't expecting him to be so comfortable in this so quickly. Where you like that with Mrs Lurk.. When you knew she was the one, did you just settle in for the road ahead? Is that the new way of showing a woman you are?

  • Unshakable

    @Wut,

    Have you talked to him? Asked him what he likes to do? Perhpas thru that conversation you can learn about mutually shared interestd and build off that. If there are very few, then maybe you guys can be open to learning about the other's interests. If not, ask yourself are you willing to dtick with him and make it work if nothing changes.

  • iWasteTime

    Ever tried asking him to play card while you was nekkid? (it makes a difference)
    --------------------------
    Naked UNO the chit :yes:
    Draw two and you can "draw" off the other's body.
    Chit 2 Draw 2's and a Draw 4 is :blow:
    Reverse is literally the best; what ever you just did is reversed back to you. So if you :lick: a pec or nipple then he has to do the same.

    Get you some naught dice :lol: Nakkid CLow

  • SummerBaby

    "men get with women so they hv somebody to stay in the house with, women get with men so they hv somebody to go out with”
    ----------------
    True indeed :yes:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Just Looking says:

    I hear you Just. I know he cares in the middle of the night he rolls over and grabs me close to him. My mother said if he needs to feel you close for more than just sex you are closer to his heart than you know. Imma stick around to see if there is something to build on…
    ============
    There you go. Come here and give me a :hug:
    ---------------
    stomps over like a spoiled kid... :hug:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    and those days I imagine me, her, and a woodchipper having a 3some. But rest of the time, I realize she’s the best thing to happen to me.
    _____________________________

    :rofl: :heart:

    Lurk, I wanna know what the Mrs would use for the 3some :hahaha: :popcorn:

  • WhoDat

    :tea:

  • Just Looking

    @Lurk - That on some grown man steez.

    @Simple :hug: Rare Earth, you are a Mess

    @Iwaste - WHALE, I've been around the block a couple of times and screwed up enough to know the difference. :shrug:

    @Fancy - The one in DC? Mister said he TYIED too, said I drag him to every event. We gonna chill and work in garden, drink some VINO. Are you going?

    Let me :pc:

  • Unshakable

    @Blanche,

    Why did I read the last segment of your e-mail addy as thotmail.com.......as in "thot" mail.com. Had to step back for a minute. :facepalm:

    @LTL,

    But a wood chipper tho? We dobe graduated to woodchippers? :rofl:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    khakiincolornotlightskin says:

    @Wuz IZ a PHD I’m new to commenting so I understand if you are like (who is this chick and why is she talking to me?)

    What initially attracted you to him? Was he always reserved? Have ya’ll ever been spontaneous? Ever tried asking him to play card while you was nekkid? (it makes a difference) What does he do to be wiped out? Also I don’t know what test, but if it’s health wise some men over analyze and don’t function until they know all is well with you.
    -------------
    He has always been reserved. Quiet. He measures his words and even that drives me looney sometimes and I find my self completing his sentences :lol: I just realized Im impatient... Its me and not him...smh

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    *takes Dub's temperature* ...cause here lately it's been up & down :eek:
    how you feelin on tuhday Dub? :hug:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    SummerBaby says:

    “men get with women so they hv somebody to stay in the house with, women get with men so they hv somebody to go out with”
    —————-
    True indeed :yes:
    --------------
    Wow that's deep! and true...

  • SummerBaby

    :hi: @ Blanche

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    We gonna chill and work in garden, drink some VINO. Are you going?
    ____________________________

    Nerp... Mister already said he gonna re-do the border on my flower bed :yahoo: and we gonna grill and partake of the vino as well :yawn: <--we boring :hahaha: :kona:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    :tea:

  • Just Looking

    @I WASTE - Now these lottery numbers, only 3's and send them to Clayton FIL...He still ain't gave us none of his winnings. It be on the reg and then have the nerve to say, where are the pick 6...Black people ain't neva happy.

    How do you want these delivered. Here on the blog? :tea:

    BBL it's time for clean eating

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Dub? come byke! :rofl:

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

    WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill: says:

    Maybe Im unsure of everything Lurk. He is ideal. He is sweet and kind. I like him I do. Maybe I wasn’t expecting him to be so comfortable in this so quickly. Where you like that with Mrs Lurk.. When you knew she was the one, did you just settle in for the road ahead? Is that the new way of showing a woman you are?
    ____________________________________________

    Our situation was a lil different. I've known her my entire life (parents are best friends). We crushed on each other off and on. Wss there for each other during "other" relationships. But we didn't date til we were in college. We started young. So how "they" do it now, I don't know, cause I been outta the game for a min.

    However, I have friends that have reached this "certain age" and "they" say they know what they want kind of quick because they've played the games and done the dumb shyt already. So they know what to look for and if it ain't there, don't waste time. He's giving you time and not just nut bussing sex, so maybe he already knows.

    Question is, how do YOU know?

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    :hug: THANK YALL SOOO MUCH!

    I just realized its me! I'm impatient, and I think I am not use to this type of love from a guy. Maybe its like User said, maybe he looks to me as somebody he wants to chill with. He says that all the time. I just want to chill. I need to slow waaaay the fuk down and just enjoy it for what it is now... Thanks for the advice and the jokes... This is why I love yall :hug:

  • iWasteTime

    How do you want these delivered.
    ---------------
    :lol:
    iwastetimez where real G's mail :grill:

    I got you when we win!

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Lil Kim baby is too damn cute :love: I mean OMG

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill: says:
    He has always been reserved. Quiet. He measures his words and even that drives me looney sometimes and I find my self completing his sentences :lol: I just realized Im impatient… Its me and not him…smh
    -----
    The things that drive you crazy now, you will love when you established in a relationship.. Everybody needs excitement every now and then..But ain't NATHAN more sexier to me than stability. When a man knows what he wants, it don't take it long at all. Instead of suggesting plan things for you to do. You initiate what you want. I created a whole day called "Freaky Friday" I had a different wig, outfit etc. He never knew who he was going home to.

  • Just Looking

    :waves: @ Jenie and Dubb

    What yall sipping on?

  • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

    So Wut you really aint gone never answer the "how long yall been together" question, huh? :lol: thats ok cuz we gone still ask :tea:

    Hell maybe the nigga homeless :shrugs: it takes a while to know somebodys real situation.

  • http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cqjT_YqmNas Long Time Lurker

    Nancy Drew Ain't Studdin' You :yawn: says:

    and those days I imagine me, her, and a woodchipper having a 3some. But rest of the time, I realize she’s the best thing to happen to me.
    _____________________________

    :rofl: :heart:

    Lurk, I wanna know what the Mrs would use for the 3some :hahaha: :popcorn:
    ____________________________________________

    She's a sweetheart. She said she'd just feed me rat poison til I just passed on away, nice and easy. :hahaha:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    She’s a sweetheart. She said she’d just feed me rat poison til I just passed on away, nice and easy. :hahaha:
    ________________________

    :rofl: :hahaha: she much too kind... :crying1: :ghost:

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    HEYYYYYYYYYYYY @WhoDay :waves:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    I sometimes picture kicking DF about the face and neck in steel toed construction boots. Maybe bashing him in the head with a bat :yes: . I :love: DF though.

  • khakiincolornotlightskin

    damn auto correct @WhoDAT HEEEEEYYYYYYYYYYYY :waves:

  • Just Looking

    :yawn: <–we boring :hahaha: :kona:
    ===============
    I :love: boring :yes: and :happy: MOST DAYS

    Lurker just about kilt me with the wood chipper. I just be thinking a hit with frying pan or toss of a vase.

    Meanwhile I watch to much snapped to even say woodchiper out loud. :rofl:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    um, User, I think you've exhausted your 'words of wisdom' for the day :think: :ghost:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Long Time Lurker says:

    However, I have friends that have reached this “certain age” and “they” say they know what they want kind of quick because they’ve played the games and done the dumb shyt already. So they know what to look for and if it ain’t there, don’t waste time. He’s giving you time and not just nut bussing sex, so maybe he already knows.

    Question is, how do YOU know?
    -------------------
    The reality is right in the space right now... I don't. I have thought if we broke up tomorrow, would I be hurt, probably not. I think we have to have more time to grow into each other I guess. Maybe I have fed into my own romantic stories that I write and looking for that same spark in real life with a man. I don't know...maybe Im a little afraid of this that he is offering...stupid I know...

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Maybe bashing him in the head with a bat :yes: . I :love: DF though.
    ________________________________

    you said 'thin line'? :crying1: :ghost: :ghost: :ghost:

  • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

    I created a whole day called “Freaky Friday” I had a different wig, outfit etc. He never knew who he was going home to.
    ---------

    I used to do head at halftime with my daugtrs father. Im not watching no sports so i found another way to participate. Said u can watch the game with ur boys if u want someone really interested in sports. Compromise is key.

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    User Friendly says:

    So Wut you really aint gone never answer the “how long yall been together” question, huh? :lol: thats ok cuz we gone still ask :tea:

    Hell maybe the nigga homeless :shrugs: it takes a while to know somebodys real situation.
    ------------
    We have been lightly chatting and conversing shortly after me and short stroke ended. We really got heavy just here recently not quite 2 months.
    He is long from homeless, remember his sister and he are really close she would not let him be that with the money she has. He has a great job working in a lab of a childrens hospital making carbon wafers for medical devices, drives a 15 lexus and dresses impeccably. Oh and his condo is small but cute and very well decorated.

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    Nancy when he irritates me I close my eyes, picture kicking him in the mouth, and take a few deep breaths. Calms me down :yes: :rofl:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Meanwhile I watch to much snapped to even say woodchiper out loud. :rofl:
    _________________________________

    :rofl: she already planning her defense :ghost:

  • http://www.gravatar.com/avatar/db78ef2b213fd6958c1aa6773fe9a6dc?s=80 jeniefrumdabloc

    Justlook :kiss: hey bew

  • iWasteTime

    Wut; you still here?
    What is it that you use to :hump: when aunt flo is here?

  • https://www.facebook.com/lists/10150387562179388#!/video.php?v=347882248719363 User Friendly

    And then yall picture them hitting yall back & calm right the heck down huh? Oh thats just me :kona:

    Man hands hurt. I dont even play fight or slap box ever since that bloody nose in 1992 :nono:

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0TMzDWwIj7Y Nancy Drew Ain’t Studdin’ You :yawn:

    Nancy when he irritates me I close my eyes, picture kicking him in the mouth, and take a few deep breaths. Calms me down :yes: :rofl:
    ________________________________

    :crying1: please stop sharing :crying1: ...I don't want to be called to testify :no: :ghost:

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybcNSoh8vI4 VDot

    :newpost:

  • WUT IZ A PHD!!! :grill:

    Unshakable says:

    @Wut,

    Have you talked to him? Asked him what he likes to do? Perhpas thru that conversation you can learn about mutually shared interestd and build off that. If there are very few, then maybe you guys can be open to learning about the other’s interests. If not, ask yourself are you willing to dtick with him and make it work if nothing changes.
    -----------------
    :yes: You are going to laugh but we talked he says he has always been low key, never was into clubs while in college he just worked on getting out as fast as he could. I said jokingly to him that when he was in highschool I bet he had a ton of chicks on him (you've seen his pic) He said he was the shy kid in school and people thought he was stand offish but he was just quiet. He was with is one highschool girlfriend 7 years after highschool and has his only kids with her. then he had a 4 year relationship. He is only 35. So he lives a low key life. but its contradictory of me. I love going out experiencing new stuff and doing new things...

  • https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kPI_xA1SoRg Mother Of Dragons, Shopaholic, Geek

    :lol: I'd never hit him. I've learned from my past relationship that if I ever do more than think about it I'm done with you. Respect is lost. Plus like you said he's much bigger than me and I'm no fool. I even say to him, "Ugh, I want to kick you in the throat right now" and he says "Go ahead you violent little munchkin" then we laugh and move on.

  • Alisa

    I'm confused I'm reading the story then scroll to read the comments and that's where I get lost

  • Alisa

    I'm confused I'm reading the story then scroll to read the comments and that's where I get lost