Tamar and Vince Herbert

As Hollywood continues to celebrate the Supreme Court’s historic ruling on gay marriage, many wives in the entertainment industry are turning a wary eye toward their husbands.

Reality TV star and part-time singer Tamar Braxton, 38, has been happily married to her husband, music mogul Vincent Herbert, for 7 years. But there was a time when she showed concern that her husband might be batting for the other team.

A well-connected insider tells Sandrarose.com exclusively that he recalls taking an urgent call from Tamar when he was out and about one day.

The source said he pressed his ear to the phone as the faint sound of piano playing could be heard in the background. The source said Tamar told him the piano impresario was music producer and future reality TV star Stevie J.

But that’s not what she wanted to talk to him about. Her voice was barely above a whisper as she asked, “Is Vince gay?”

The insider was momentarily taken aback by her question. He gathered his thoughts and responded honestly: “I don’t know him like that,” he told her.

The insider cautioned Tamar to have patience; gay men never stay anonymous in Hollywood for long. He will eventually be exposed.

“I can’t wait that long,” Tamar hissed into the phone. “My ex-husband was gay,” she whispered, as Stevie J continued to tickle the ivories on her piano after holding a business meeting with Vince.

Legend has it that Stevie J was the reason behind the breakup of Tamar’s 1st marriage. So she had good reason to be concerned.

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  • Tamar Braxton: ‘I’m Not a Gold Digger’



    • Chitsngiggles

      She deleted my comments from IG yesterday. Oh well.

    • SummerBaby

      Legend has it that Stevie J was the reason behind the breakup of Tamar’s 1st marriage. So she had good reason to be concerned.
      ————-
      ???

    • KDub

      Stevie and his damn Riva monsta ? is gay?

      That chit the real story.

      Goes to look at Stevie’s Riva monsta again.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Who made Tamar mad now. Only time folks snitch. Or money. We know Sandra aibt paying.

    • MS PEACHES

      I would not marry any damn man from Hotlanta. You have a better chance at Power Ball than not having a flaming cheeto.

    • Trey

      Vince is sweeter than a bag of sugar

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      WAIT….so are we saying Stevie and TaeTae’s ex had an affair? and she letting him all up in her new marriage?

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      I’ve heard that about Vince, tho. And he shows classic behaviour.

    • whitty hutton

      How dreadful. Folks can say anything and be quoted as an insider, credible source, etc. all in the name of spreading gossip. Yes it’s amusement for the masses but I’d hate to be the subject of such vicious tales. smh ?

    • SunRiseBlossom

      Tamar makes too much Dayum money for that wig… Her part is still together!!! I have seen heffas in the hood with a better quick weaves than that crap she rocking!!!

    • Futuredocdonte

      she gon have a nervous breakdown. Tamar been on the blog more than ? someone else who shall remain nameless

    • Femme404

      Vince ain’t gay…he fat. First things first, Tamar.

    • JerseyMom

      I don’t blame her tho.

    • whitty hutton

      Girl…did u see them nonexistent edges of hern on last Thursday’s BFV?!? Tamar needs to stop with the lacefronts, go to HRS and go on sabbatical til them shyts grow back in.

    • Femme404

      Not true. Its just that the same squirrels are chasing the same nuts.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Lawd, Sandra! LOL!!!! that scenario with the piano playing in the background, ROFL!!!!! This is too funny! And then you painting Steebie as a potential serial ‘turner-outer’ of husbands, whew! ROFL!!!! Away with you, Sandra…. no gawd!! LOL!

    • Buttercup

      Legend has it that Stevie J was the reason behind the breakup of Tamar’s 1st marriage.

    • iWasteTime

      who gonna start the blog go fund me ?

    • SummerBaby

      Tickle the ivories of the piano ???

    • Femme404

      Foooooor?

    • whitty hutton

      Naaaaaaaannnnnnnccccyyyyyyyyy!!!!! ???????????

    • Buttercup

      Listen, I have to look away from the teebie when Steebie is playing musical instruments. His talent coupled with that BBD, for a brief second, I can understand why these womenz fall for him.

    • Cricket404

      Ladies and gentlemen, the bi-sexual list is long as the money.

    • Buttercup

      Do you live in Atlanta? Ever visited?

    • Futuredocdonte

      ?????

    • Femme404

      I know and he so damn sleazy and corny. What a waste.

    • Buttercup

      Is Auntie saying that Steebie had One Wish before it was told to Money Mayweather?

    • SunRiseBlossom

      LMBO!!! Yes I did… This chick need her sister Toni Braxton’s stylist because her stylist obviously have some kind of vendetta against her!!! Toni always be on point weave or no weave!!!

    • whitty hutton

      Chile puh-leeze. Gay done spread to every corner of the Earth. Large metropolitan areas attract more of ALL kinds of people. You could end up marrying a down low dude from the corn fields of Nebraska.
      #ignorancemustbebliss

    • SummerBaby

      What you say to her?

    • KDub

      And fat ass mens too sound like

    • Buttercup

      I’ve found that it’s mainly people who have never set foot on any Peachtree that make statements like that. It’s like those people in Nebraska who think all black women act like NeNe.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      So Vince and Steebie is gay and even though Steebie stole her first husband she letting him hang out with her current husband? Ok.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      whit!!!! :snotty nosed hug: ?

      ? *mimosa for your breakfast*
      ? *martini for your lunch*
      we already setting off the 4th… all day drinks :hiccup:

    • SunRiseBlossom

      So Auntie Sandra I read somewhere that Puffy ole “old” sorry behind is suing BET 100 million dollars for falling on stage during his performance. Is this true?!!!

    • Buttercup

      But you know every black man bi-sexual according to Saaaaaundra.

    • whitty hutton

      Zackly! Wonder if she has a nigga name? #jussayin

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I’ll check with my sources.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      hmmm… there does appear to be a theme to these bromances, LOL!

    • Buttercup

      You ain’t ask me, but I think that was a satirical article.

    • Ashley ?

      Idk about him being gay, but i definitely believe he is abusive the way he talks to her on their show. Then she goes on the real & act like he husband of the year.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Thanks.

    • SummerBaby

      ???

    • whitty hutton

      **already tipsy** that’s why I’m crine so early! U know I get all emotional when I drank. ??

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Gay men everywhere. From coast to coast, sea to shining sea.

    • Buttercup

      Co-friggin-sign. He talks to her with SEW much disdain like she ate the last hot wing.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      “The last hot wing.” ???

    • whitty hutton

      Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!! Now that’s the real ?

    • Bootcampgirl

      Morning folks, today is swish-swish last day until Tuesday. I get the office all to my self….#petty/selfish

    • Chitsngiggles

      That she sounded a hot mess and them lashes was a mess and that is she would calm down and just be herself she would be fine. I said that all those dramatics she does on stage makes it uncomfortable to watch her on stage. And I said to fire her make up artist and stylist

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      hateful :ghost:

    • whitty hutton

      Stop it! You’re making sense!!

    • Buttercup

      Dang, so you told her how you really feel. I can’t even lie. I probably would’ve deleted your comment too.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Yeah. He comes off a bit like Ike and she acts like he’s Prince Charming. Lies…..

    • whitty hutton

      Well all u did was tell the truth. I couldn’t have said it better myself. She has a beautiful voice but all the theatrics, clown makeup, etc is distracting.

    • Femme404

      Tamar likes controlling men, if nothing else. This time she found one who instead of kicking her ass, emotionally abuses her.

    • Bootcampgirl

      I’ve never watched this show either…

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Neither have I.

    • Chitsngiggles

      I think Stevie is byesexual.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Steebie casting spells and sparking vortex boxes through the teebee? ROFL!!!!!

    • Chitsngiggles

      Well the truth is the truth. She need to hear the truth. Not what them ladyboys gas her behind up on.

    • Bootcampgirl

      *twirls around in circle* I’m not the only one who is in jeopardy of losing they “black” card…

    • whitty hutton

      Nigga betta sit his ol’ Encyclopedia Britannica-selling ass down somewhere. ??

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I’m surprised Sandra arms ain’t hurting from all the reaching.

    • Buttercup

      But you couldn’t DM me though? LMBO

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      The way she act I wouldn’t be surprised he is gay … ijs

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      LOL!! If this is any indication that Sandra gonna be a mess all day, I am here for it, hahahahaa!

    • Chitsngiggles

      I wasn’t the only one….

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Yeah I get gay vibes from the cat ….

    • whitty hutton

      SANDRAAAAAA!! can we get a penis emoji?? I love eggplant but dubs done ruined it fuh me… ??

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Y’all ain’t missing nothing…

    • MS PEACHES

      Tamar knows Vince got that Sugar and I aint talking about diabetes.

    • KDub

      Vince is not from Atlanta tho is he?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      But I watch aEmoire, Scandal, so I’m safe. ??

    • KDub

      This. Not to mention. ..who in this story is from ATL tho?

      Tamar and nem from Murry-land
      Stevie from NY.
      Vince is from Jersey? I really think he is. I used to watch that show.

      How ATL get into this?

    • MS PEACHES

      When I saw Puffy on the stage floor. I thought he meant to fall like that.

    • Bootcampgirl

      Hulu Plus or Netflix??

    • MS PEACHES

      That’s why she is so over the top. She always saying stuff that’s suspect. Like someone other than for the money wants her husband.

    • Carrington

      She should’ve asked if he knew of anyone with stock in lip balm, because all that mouth breevin’ and tongue hangeroutisms shall surely leaveth thine lips chapped.

    • Nanny

      So she’s no longer a friend of the blog?*waits for Tamar’s tweet*

    • KDub

      Try sexual too

    • whitty hutton

      I read this with that Daffy Duck lisp she talks with sometimes!! **crine** ???

    • Nanny

      I screamed @piano

    • KDub

      This piano playing chit sounds just like…Floyd and Ray Gay Norwood.

      Did Stevie have on flip flaps too while playing?

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Both. Amazon Prine as well. Hulu Plus mostly has the new shows. Netflix has them after the season ends, but Hulu only has five at a time. Netflix is getting more original programming (loved Kimmy Schimdt), Amazon Prime is like Netflix, but you can rent newer movies. Then I got the Fire Stick which I hooked up.

    • whitty hutton

      **slams down piano onto dubs fangas** ??????

    • Torae

      If you have to ask “is my husband gay?” Chances are he is gay…although I don’t believe this source

    • KDub

      Tamar gonna read this story like I know Sandra didn’t

    • Rachel B

      Let’s cut this gay business out. Her husband isn’t gay.

    • Ms. YaYa

      I was sitting here thinking the exact same thing…

    • KDub

      ?? If I had one wiiiiish

    • JerseyMom

      You told the truth tho.

    • whitty hutton

      Wrong blawg Rachel! Er’body is gay in the Garden of Sandra Rose. ?

    • KDub

      From Stevie or Hey Kool-aid?

    • whitty hutton

      Bwahahahahajahaha…that nigga was sangin!! ???

    • KDub

      That’s how that story got Stevie J. He was doing an interlude so hadn’t gotten to singing part yet

    • SunRiseBlossom

      Lol!!! You are a mess!

    • SunRiseBlossom

      Oh my bad!!! I will know next time Buttercup! Lol…

    • SunRiseBlossom

      Thanks Tee-Tee!!!

    • SummerBaby

      Blog rules ?

    • Torae

      I don’t see him as being gay….a little rude with a nasty attitude that is maybe borderline abusive ..but not gay…he has a nasty attitude tho…

    • whitty hutton

      Did he not look like he was ready to canvas the neighborhood in them ol 1940s style glasses he had on at the EBT Awards? ??

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Yes! the whole write-up is wrongly hilarious, LOL!

    • Chitsngiggles

      I was just trying to be helpful. I like Tamar when she is dressed down and normal. But when she tries to embody this diva stance it just doesn’t work for her. She got too many gat dudes working for her. But she won’t hire no real females cause she thinks we all hate on her. Just like she thinks her sisters hate on her. She’s delusional

    • KDub

      You been drank’n already? Soon as I drop Dub10 off to leave for Disney today…I’m going IN. Been resting my liver since Friday?

    • Nikke

      Butter and Whit :fightstheair: yall gon’ get up offa Nebraska…

    • whitty hutton

      OK…ok…just for shyts n giggles… who is the power bottom in a homo relationship with mouf breevah Vince?!?

      I’m disgusted at the thought of him and Tamar doing it let alone him and another man! How dreadful… ??

    • SunRiseBlossom

      Girl Yes! And He was so out of breath when he got done with that performance. Lol! It is time for him to let it go…

    • whitty hutton

      Already!! Job has been working the pure dee shyt outta me so I started my July 4th holiday very early…like this morning. Liver gonna be black by Friday.

    • Chitsngiggles

      He need somebody like EJ Johnson to be the bottom. I was looking at a pic of EJ yesterday, thinking what dude is screwing him cause he is big. Not fat anymore but amazon like.

    • whitty hutton

      Sorry… :kona: I had meant to say the corn fields of whatever other state grows corn that you don’t live in. :ashamed: ?

    • SSSLOVELIVE

      It makes sense because she surely looks like a drag queen.

    • SunRiseBlossom

      I am sure they both close their eyes and picture the man they wish they were with at that present time… You know… to help make the process a little more easier to stomach!!!

    • KDub

      Girl my 4th of July starts in about 25 minutes and gone last til 7/12 lmaoooo. My cousins went likka shopping last night. It’s going down *cues Joc*

    • KDub

      ?…

    • whitty hutton

      Sheesh! u gon be damn near embalmed by the TWELFTH!! ??

    • SummerBaby

      *Off topic
      I just read that Glory Johnson is having twins.

    • Cricket404

      Because they migrated to Atlanta

    • Chitsngiggles

      Well damn….

    • KDub

      This chit best story of the year!

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Can you believe it?! This story just gets better and better!

    • GuestSTAR

      When you have to ask around if he’s gay/down low, perhaps you unknowingly already have your answer.
      So are you saying Stevie J was screwing her ex hubby? Never knew she was even married before Vince.

    • Chitsngiggles

      That wasnt no damn test tube baby then. Glory cheated with some real sausage and got knock up. Damn.

    • Nikke

      LOL. Hey Whitty. I live in Minnesoata, but was born and raised in Omaha, NE.

    • SummerBaby

      New post

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I hope she gets hersekf together in time for them babies. The whole thing feels like a bad Mona Scott play.

    • Femme404

      I don’t blame her. Sleeping on “breastplates” and stroking Britney’s ego while “taking” the strap had to be exhausting. She need a man, ya hear?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Breastplates?! Bwahahahahahaha!!!!!!!

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      From Steebie

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Whaaa Whaaa Whaaaaa. ~crine~ I did tooooo.
      LMAO

    • Toni ToniToni

      LOL, The truth hurts, I guess. Haha. You were only trying to help. :D

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Awwww. Y’all aint worth a DAYUM today! LOL

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      She (Glory) said it was planned IVF and her wifband knew alllll about it.

    • Lolalao

      You’re right! I couldn’t watch her..

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Tamar has ZERO friends and family..they forever telling her busy…TOWANDA

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      BOL BOL BOL,solglow once we get our shyt together….lets go whup femm for the bullshyt she just fonted:’)))))))

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      I know, right?! The visual of that killed me!!!!

    • kgirl33

      Lol @ better chance at power ball. True though

    • Monday

      Is Tamar still a friend of the blogs??

    • the guest

      So why would she have Stevie J in her house knowing what he did to her first marriage. Hollywood is crazy. Entertaining your enemies in your home. Crazy.

    • the guest

      That’s what I’m saying.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Idc about the gay stuff, I’m just concerned with the longing look he has like he really want to now whats for dinner, is he THAT hungry…I’m also happy that his mouth is closed.

    • Karla Smith

      So now Stevie J gay, too?

    • metrice7979

      someone said she had chris brown eyelashes. you should have went into the muppet babies song on her ass. bitch looking like a moutain goat.

    • Femme404

      Towanda should be ashamed. Forget the cameras. Your sister is your sister.

    • Femme404

      LMAO.

    • BlahBlahBlah

      Too bad, Tamar can dis sausage, gun and bullets, bat and balls, right here right now!!!! She be preggs over here already fosho.

    • My Thoughts

      ????

    • Mona Lisa

      Exactly! More men look at my husband than me when we are out, and I am fine as hell! My husband doesn’t have a clue that he is being hit on. The dl thirst is real yall!!

    • Teachmeeatme

      I remember watching either Braxton or V&T and they had a date or something and Vince got a call about his friend (male) being in the hospital or something and chile……. he exploded on her a$$.com like it was a call about her (his wife).. My gaydar went RED!

    • BreakingGoood

      I questioned it the first time I heard him speak & yes this is a shade.

    • Queen Negus

      Uh Buttercup we dont, We think like everyone else all over country. Yall messing wit my state? Yall know some of you have been stationed right her(yep I spelled it since yall think we are country) LMAO!!!

    • Queen Negus

      MY HOMIE, I used to live in Mn. I coudnt do that snow. I still have relatives in Mn and visit every few months. I lub shopping in the “no tax on shoes and clothes” State and 5 hour drive is worth it!!!!

    • Alisa

      Now days I hv noticed people don’t consider or label their sexual behavior. Everything and anything goes People don’t seem to want to use past labels and thoughts for their behavior today. Since the younger generation accepts it. Those that would hide feel like they can come out now This is just MY thought. Perhaps he is attracted to male and female? He does act rather itchy him and Tamar sound like 2 chicks 1 just has a d ick I think the way he grew up has a lot to do with his ways

    • http://batman-news.com t5kmu

      I said the same thing when I saw her perform on the BET awards the other night, she is starting to do to much.

    • Alisa

      I think they are jealous and hate on her Come on think about it They are jealous AF I think the main reason is because she thinks she is better than them and what she has is backed up her house,cars,husband making money, she can sing, hosting talk shows now look at the sisters The fact she fits the type of person that seems to hv it all despite her ugly attitude. And her sisters can’t seem to catch a break. The oldest jealousy just oozes out of her

    • Alisa

      LOL a mountain goat

    • Alisa

      He uses Jedi Mind Tricks

    • Alisa

      Hey Kool-aid lol he does that’s funny as hell I never thought about that as soon as I read your comment I started thinking about the old commercials when he would bust thru the wall saying Oh Yeah

    • Alisa

      That’s how urban myths get started But no one checks things out for themselves they read it all the social media chatter after that it spreads and then people take it as fact. Like my mom would say vote Democrats all the way my grandmother etc but during the summer as a law intern my mentor would always say don’t believe it, say it, or try to make other people believe anything you don’t know Don’t adapt blind belief I hv heard the Atlanta and gay men quote and no lie that always comes to mind now when I hear Atlanta. That statement, the hair show, the hotel where CNN is located,and Gladys Knight’s her restaurant Im going to dig and see if I can find the source.

    • Buttercup

      I’m confused. I was saying that mainly the people who say that all guys in Atlanta are gay don’t live here or have even visited the city. I think I missed something in your reply.

    • chappedlippz

      Guess you hit a nerve

    • Queen Negus

      It’s like those people in Nebraska who think all black women act like NeNe.
      ^^^^*
      That is the comment you had made. ????

      I just wanted you to know I have been to Atl and I don’t think all black women in Atlanta act like Nene. I have black women friends and family all over the Us that has never watched the show like myself. We are highly educated as well.
      But it is all good and thanks for shouting out my state?

    • Queen Negus

      So correct but we are a city as well and most cornfields are owned by white farmers. We don’t live no where near cornfields. ?

    • Theresa

      You was being honest. she do to much, thinking she better then her sisters and everybody else!!!

    • harmony

      I doesn’t when you don’t say it rudely.i would have blocked your ass too.shoot

    • Buttercup

      Aaaaaah, I see. That portion of my comment was piggybacking off a prior post. No worries on shouting out your state. When I visited Lincoln I remember thinking, “Who knew Nebraska was packing beautiful people like that?!”?

    • Power*Pup*

      obviously she knows how females are/can be, (“she’s got too many g*** dudes working for her”), still not understanding what relevancy that has?? Obviously u have a problem w/them being in her employ.