NFL wife Romina Lombardo-Foster filed for divorce from her husband, Arian Foster, one year after she learned he fathered a baby with another woman.

According to gossip tabloid TMZ.com, Foster and his college student side piece, Brittany Norwood, welcomed a love child last year.

The Fosters have two beautiful children of their own. They struggled to keep their family together despite his wandering eye. Lombardo filed for divorce on April 22.

On Monday, Foster released a statement:

“After 4 years of marriage, it has been nothing but a gift. I’m extremely grateful for the wife, mother and person she was to myself and our children. I will continue to be here and support her wholeheartedly on her next journey as I’m sure she’ll do the same for me. We have two beautiful children that are the center and focal point for both of our lives and I’m forever thankful that we crossed paths. At this time please respect the privacy of her, myself and most importantly our children.”

Lombardo, who packed up the kids and left Foster, also released a statement:

“After much thought and soul searching, I have made the difficult decision to end our marriage. We are both committed to being excellent co-parents. Our children always come first and we will continue to raise them together as a family. We ask that you respect our privacy and our children’s privacy during this time.”

Women today can be so selfish. In the olden days, women knew men cheated. But they kept their families together for the sake of the children.

It's a fact of life that men cheat. Men are wired to cheat from the womb. It is ordained in the bible.

Arian Foster is a man who has fulfilled God’s commandment to multiply and replenish the earth with multiple women.

When did women stop respecting men? Why marry men if you refuse to let them be men? You might as well marry your girlfriends if you want emasculated men.

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    • Tammie Reed

      Sandra how are women being selfish if a dude is out having unprotected sex and could possibly bring you back something deadly, and we decide to leave? I would divorce him too! I don't understand your logic sometimes lol. You can cheat and then father a child on me and practice unprotected sex too? Nawl, I don't think so! Thats dangerous and my health is more important than some unfaithful guy! Smh!

    • iWasteTime

      damn

    • eljjai

      Aunty Sandra as a long time lurker I have always believed you say such things to be provocative.
      The New Testament, says one man for one wife. Meaning after the days of Isaac n them God looked down and said okay, the earth has been replensihed enough, time for some new rules.
      The Lord also hates divorce and only allowed it because his children were hard-hearted.
      Man must be faithful as Jesus is faithful to his bride, The Church.

    • eljjai

      Aunty Sandra as a long time lurker I have always believed you say such things to be provocative.
      The New Testament, says one man for one wife. Meaning after the days of Isaac n them God looked down and said okay, the earth has been replensihed enough, time for some new rules.
      The Lord also hates divorce and only allowed it because his children were hard-hearted.
      Man must be faithful as Jesus is faithful to his bride, The Church.

    • Chitsngiggles

      My BFF going through the same thing. She finds out her hubby got a 3 month old on the side. Gave the baby the same initials as his other two kids by my bff. Dude mad at my bff cause she won't take him back. Ninjas be having a lot of nerves and balls. Its not 1932. Wives don't have to put up with side pieces and "break babies"

    • Chitsngiggles

      My BFF going through the same thing. She finds out her hubby got a 3 month old on the side. Gave the baby the same initials as his other two kids by my bff. Dude mad at my bff cause she won't take him back. Ninjas be having a lot of nerves and balls. Its not 1932. Wives don't have to put up with side pieces and "break babies"

    • Buttercup

      Meh, I wish I cared enough to take the bait.

    • Buttercup

      Meh, I wish I cared enough to take the bait.

    • Cricket404

      He was doing too much and she was not a good detective, A full 9 month pregnancy and there were no text messages about the baby kicking or nothing? Or he was the type to punch her in the face if she touched his phone.

    • Cricket404

      He was doing too much and she was not a good detective, A full 9 month pregnancy and there were no text messages about the baby kicking or nothing? Or he was the type to punch her in the face if she touched his phone.

    • Mel

      there's only so much one can take aunty

    • Mel

      there's only so much one can take aunty

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Personally, once you done made outside baby(break or no).its nuthing else I personally want with you.cuz even if you never cheat again.this OTHER WOMAN is now in OUR bed.and her tie is still very much an emotional one cuz its YOUR baby.I mean competition between two women is hard enuff.but another woman AND a baby,ooooh no ma'am.its easier to let him go and gather either your thoghts, children or ALL both and keep yourself mentally healthy to do what you need to do as woman.I don't like STRESS and for me to personally stay and maintain under such dire straits is infact asking entirely to much of my MENTAL VALUE....#knowyourownlimits

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Personally, once you done made outside baby(break or no).its nuthing else I personally want with you.cuz even if you never cheat again.this OTHER WOMAN is now in OUR bed.and her tie is still very much an emotional one cuz its YOUR baby.I mean competition between two women is hard enuff.but another woman AND a baby,ooooh no ma'am.its easier to let him go and gather either your thoghts, children or ALL both and keep yourself mentally healthy to do what you need to do as woman.I don't like STRESS and for me to personally stay and maintain under such dire straits is infact asking entirely to much of my MENTAL VALUE....#knowyourownlimits

    • zeta4life

      NAH!!! TAM...u know Sandra likes to keep hers readers on they toes....Love your blog also...and your fashions

    • zeta4life

      NAH!!! TAM...u know Sandra likes to keep hers readers on they toes....Love your blog also...and your fashions

    • iWasteTime

      If y'all don't know how Sandra feels about man and his job as a man. Some of you will be on this blog hurt, mad, angry, thumb thuggin (s/o to Lurk). Arian was doing his job as a Man . . . .

    • iWasteTime

      If y'all don't know how Sandra feels about man and his job as a man. Some of you will be on this blog hurt, mad, angry, thumb thuggin (s/o to Lurk). Arian was doing his job as a Man . . . .

    • Buttercup

      I'll take the latter for 200. Alex.

    • Buttercup

      I'll take the latter for 200. Alex.

    • Chitsngiggles

      That's how my buff hubby was. He was kicking her ass, cheating, and taking her money at the same time. She dealt with it until one ass whooping got to be too much. Finally she woke up. #wonthedoit

    • Chitsngiggles

      That's how my buff hubby was. He was kicking her ass, cheating, and taking her money at the same time. She dealt with it until one ass whooping got to be too much. Finally she woke up. #wonthedoit

    • Buttercup

      I don't think she truly feels this way. She just takes a controversial stance because it gets the people going.

    • Buttercup

      I don't think she truly feels this way. She just takes a controversial stance because it gets the people going.

    • zeta4life

      they don't get it....I just laugh...
      cuz...if MRZ come in here with a baby or a goat that didn't come outta me....WHOO!!! girl let me go...glad I'm going to out the office...because its about to get REAL MTOISH in this bish....don't believe me...JUST WASH
      TTYL!!!

    • zeta4life

      they don't get it....I just laugh...
      cuz...if MRZ come in here with a baby or a goat that didn't come outta me....WHOO!!! girl let me go...glad I'm going to out the office...because its about to get REAL MTOISH in this bish....don't believe me...JUST WASH
      TTYL!!!

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Either way the day I start caring....

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Either way the day I start caring....

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      (church hymm vc)YESSS LAWD!!!!!

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      (church hymm vc)YESSS LAWD!!!!!

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      Sometimes I have to read some of these posts remembering sage advice from my Mama Peaches. "Opinions are like a$$holes. Everyone has one, and yours stink"

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      Sometimes I have to read some of these posts remembering sage advice from my Mama Peaches. "Opinions are like a$$holes. Everyone has one, and yours stink"

    • Guest444

      A woman is selfish for having a child?? A woman is selfish for not letting a man cheat andbring her home oow babies or diseases?? Men are wired to cheat from birth but women who share the same genetic makeup as a man should always remain faithful?? Why would a man even get married if thisis the lifestyle he wants to lead??

      Sandra Rose - you sound like a freaking insane idiot sometimes.. I don't know how the Hell you've even had a blog this long.. I swear - you're nothing but a warmonger just like Donald Trump.. You say dumb isht for the shock effect!! SMH!!

    • Guest444

      A woman is selfish for having a child?? A woman is selfish for not letting a man cheat andbring her home oow babies or diseases?? Men are wired to cheat from birth but women who share the same genetic makeup as a man should always remain faithful?? Why would a man even get married if thisis the lifestyle he wants to lead??

      Sandra Rose - you sound like a freaking insane idiot sometimes.. I don't know how the Hell you've even had a blog this long.. I swear - you're nothing but a warmonger just like Donald Trump.. You say dumb isht for the shock effect!! SMH!!

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Especially when the person is talking about something they don't have...why get mad?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Especially when the person is talking about something they don't have...why get mad?

    • Buttercup

      <3 the Mama Peaches anecdotes.

    • Buttercup

      <3 the Mama Peaches anecdotes.

    • teresa david

      AMEN!

    • teresa david

      AMEN!

    • Buttercup

      Truuuuuue

    • Buttercup

      Truuuuuue

    • Doink_Ahanahue

      The commission to "Be fruitful and fil the earth" was given to one Adam and one Eve. At that time there were no others. So it is ABSOLUTELY NOT ordained anywhere in the Bible

    • Doink_Ahanahue

      The commission to "Be fruitful and fil the earth" was given to one Adam and one Eve. At that time there were no others. So it is ABSOLUTELY NOT ordained anywhere in the Bible

    • iWasteTime

      All day . .

    • iWasteTime

      All day . .

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      (fist bump)cuz I KNOW my worth and GOD IS NOT DEAD!if HE said in His word its a MAN out here FOR me and that is promised to LOVE me like he love humself. Then I know anything other than truth is an outright lie!!!!I'm too good as a WOMAN to dare accept less.if you for me and you refuse to be a good man then you can keep getting it!I'll stay alone and doin me til it changes.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      (fist bump)cuz I KNOW my worth and GOD IS NOT DEAD!if HE said in His word its a MAN out here FOR me and that is promised to LOVE me like he love humself. Then I know anything other than truth is an outright lie!!!!I'm too good as a WOMAN to dare accept less.if you for me and you refuse to be a good man then you can keep getting it!I'll stay alone and doin me til it changes.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Sandra so if that's the case do you think pologamy should be legalized?

    • Chitsngiggles

      Sandra so if that's the case do you think pologamy should be legalized?

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      GOOD MORNING YALL!!

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      GOOD MORNING YALL!!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Mawing boo.. That thing get knocked on yet?? ( TMI? too much if so I ain't sawry) LOL

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Mawing boo.. That thing get knocked on yet?? ( TMI? too much if so I ain't sawry) LOL

    • iWasteTime

      Butter.
      We have a Great Wolf, there are actually 3 Lodges, on the same mountain and affiliated. Great Wolfe is great but we were looking at the Safari one and yes on Groupon too . I want to do Aug 14th and 15. come home on the 16th and have the 17th to rest

    • iWasteTime

      Butter.
      We have a Great Wolf, there are actually 3 Lodges, on the same mountain and affiliated. Great Wolfe is great but we were looking at the Safari one and yes on Groupon too . I want to do Aug 14th and 15. come home on the 16th and have the 17th to rest

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Morning Soon to be...

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Morning Soon to be...

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      From da bottom of my heart to the depths of my sooouuullll.. Yes Lawd.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      From da bottom of my heart to the depths of my sooouuullll.. Yes Lawd.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Ya'll only been married for 4 years and you ALREADY got a baby on the side..BRUH..you been piece of Shyt...Romina is getting out while she is young and can start over with someone else. When a man has zero respect to the point he dives deep in something without a rift then its time to go...BYE MOLEY...you will never or could ever be cute enough for me to lose my self respect.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Ya'll only been married for 4 years and you ALREADY got a baby on the side..BRUH..you been piece of Shyt...Romina is getting out while she is young and can start over with someone else. When a man has zero respect to the point he dives deep in something without a rift then its time to go...BYE MOLEY...you will never or could ever be cute enough for me to lose my self respect.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Nah kid. He brought me down last night so Im goodt! lol

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Nah kid. He brought me down last night so Im goodt! lol

    • SummerBaby

      The write up is hilarious! ? this sounds like some old school advice, but in all seriousness if I married a professional athlete I wouldn't be shocked if he cheated #shrug. Before y'all wanna come for me NO I don't think it's alright. #thanksinadvance

    • SummerBaby

      The write up is hilarious! ? this sounds like some old school advice, but in all seriousness if I married a professional athlete I wouldn't be shocked if he cheated #shrug. Before y'all wanna come for me NO I don't think it's alright. #thanksinadvance

    • Tammie Reed

      I think she says stuff to ruffle my feathers but its too early lol

    • Tammie Reed

      I think she says stuff to ruffle my feathers but its too early lol

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      lol...yea...unless its Grant Hill. lol

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      lol...yea...unless its Grant Hill. lol

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      OOOHHH YEAH! I ain't knocked up..but got knocked on sew swellll last night! Nah bish is crampy and miserable...fuk the "RedLight"!!!

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      OOOHHH YEAH! I ain't knocked up..but got knocked on sew swellll last night! Nah bish is crampy and miserable...fuk the "RedLight"!!!

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      lol good

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      lol good

    • I want to be free

      Tell it whitty! My dad cheated on my mom and produced a child. She stayed with him talking about he is the love of her life. GFOH I lost some respect for her and a lot for my father cause my mom went through hell with him.

    • I want to be free

      Tell it whitty! My dad cheated on my mom and produced a child. She stayed with him talking about he is the love of her life. GFOH I lost some respect for her and a lot for my father cause my mom went through hell with him.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Told my bff this yesterday. Her and hubby ain't been married but 3 years. He was locked up one. And if he don't have enough thought or respect to put a fugging condom on he dont care about you or your vagina for that matter. Just laying it low and spreading it wide. Being a ride or die is some bullshat. Fug that.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Told my bff this yesterday. Her and hubby ain't been married but 3 years. He was locked up one. And if he don't have enough thought or respect to put a fugging condom on he dont care about you or your vagina for that matter. Just laying it low and spreading it wide. Being a ride or die is some bullshat. Fug that.

    • Buttercup

      That sounds like a blast! If the one y'all would visit is anything like the one we visit, the whole family is going to have a ball. Sidenote: I've noticed that they are typically near lots of shopping and restaurants, so I used to steal away for a couple of hours and let the boys have "guy time."

    • Buttercup

      That sounds like a blast! If the one y'all would visit is anything like the one we visit, the whole family is going to have a ball. Sidenote: I've noticed that they are typically near lots of shopping and restaurants, so I used to steal away for a couple of hours and let the boys have "guy time."

    • Tammie Reed

      I had a boyfriend back in the day that did this to me too, we weren't married just dating for years and he got a chic preggers, ofcourse I left after I couldn't deal with it anymore but he got an attitude and harassed me afterwards, dude couldn't take it when I started dating other people. Welp!

    • Tammie Reed

      I had a boyfriend back in the day that did this to me too, we weren't married just dating for years and he got a chic preggers, ofcourse I left after I couldn't deal with it anymore but he got an attitude and harassed me afterwards, dude couldn't take it when I started dating other people. Welp!

    • Libra80sBaby

      Let a wife get pregnant by a side nigga and watch how bad the husband act the fuk up. They be butt azz hurt but expect women to forgive and forget and move on. Cheating...once I can forgive...unless a baby and or disease is the outcome. That chit is reckless af.

    • Libra80sBaby

      Let a wife get pregnant by a side nigga and watch how bad the husband act the fuk up. They be butt azz hurt but expect women to forgive and forget and move on. Cheating...once I can forgive...unless a baby and or disease is the outcome. That chit is reckless af.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      YAY for you!!!!!! we can breathe now.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      YAY for you!!!!!! we can breathe now.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Life is too short..if you break vows and that contract is voided...

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Life is too short..if you break vows and that contract is voided...

    • Monday

      Too early for this type of post....

    • Monday

      Too early for this type of post....

    • Libra80sBaby

      I agree. But nigga have some discretion. Don't be bare backing these hoez

    • Libra80sBaby

      I agree. But nigga have some discretion. Don't be bare backing these hoez

    • MissHarlem

      Just dumb and I ain't even read it ?

    • MissHarlem

      Just dumb and I ain't even read it ?

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      What you aint fin to do is take MORE money out of this household for child support. I already told ya'll I told MR. I came to him pure and disease free by way of mortgage. If I think I got an itch out of place that's his azz featured on the next episode of Wives with Knives.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      What you aint fin to do is take MORE money out of this household for child support. I already told ya'll I told MR. I came to him pure and disease free by way of mortgage. If I think I got an itch out of place that's his azz featured on the next episode of Wives with Knives.

    • I want to be free

      Yep and she took me to a divorce attorney with her after she found out and cried her eyes OUT and still stayed with him. Naw I ain't built like that.

    • I want to be free

      Yep and she took me to a divorce attorney with her after she found out and cried her eyes OUT and still stayed with him. Naw I ain't built like that.

    • Buttercup

      *sucks teeth* WHALE I just realize that I'm a few days late. I felt a little cramping last night, and I don't feel a little pregnant (y'all remember THAT day?), so I'm good, right? Right?

    • Buttercup

      *sucks teeth* WHALE I just realize that I'm a few days late. I felt a little cramping last night, and I don't feel a little pregnant (y'all remember THAT day?), so I'm good, right? Right?

    • Chitsngiggles

      I get that. Cheating comes with that particular territory. But damn at least use protection and have enough respect not to bring it back home. But females need to learn how to show men how they should be treated. Females be thinking they are better than the next broad, and that's how they end up with their feelings hurt. I don't think I'm immune to being cheated on, but I ain't finna play with my husband if he does. Also, everyone's bottom line is different. We tolerate what we want....

    • Chitsngiggles

      I get that. Cheating comes with that particular territory. But damn at least use protection and have enough respect not to bring it back home. But females need to learn how to show men how they should be treated. Females be thinking they are better than the next broad, and that's how they end up with their feelings hurt. I don't think I'm immune to being cheated on, but I ain't finna play with my husband if he does. Also, everyone's bottom line is different. We tolerate what we want....

    • SummerBaby

      Exactly! I wouldn't want the stress of marrying a professional athlete or an entertainer.

    • SummerBaby

      Exactly! I wouldn't want the stress of marrying a professional athlete or an entertainer.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      In the olden days, men didn't let women find out about their cheating. Side babies were shunned. Child support wasn't tracking baby daddies down for side pieces. Some of these men acting less and less like men and not holding down their families properly. If a nigra want to be a bigamist he needs to let the woman make an informed choice not spring it on her in the form of a side baby.

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      In the olden days, men didn't let women find out about their cheating. Side babies were shunned. Child support wasn't tracking baby daddies down for side pieces. Some of these men acting less and less like men and not holding down their families properly. If a nigra want to be a bigamist he needs to let the woman make an informed choice not spring it on her in the form of a side baby.

    • Canary Red™

      I wish a ni$$a would expect me to accept him cheating. The devil is a lie.

      If my momma taught me anything it was DONT TAKE NO SH!T off a negroe!

      I was only 8, taking a bath minding my on business and she bust the bathroom door open and schooled me! I was like ? -- but I never forgot it. First piece of game from momma! #RIP

    • Canary Red™

      I wish a ni$$a would expect me to accept him cheating. The devil is a lie.

      If my momma taught me anything it was DONT TAKE NO SH!T off a negroe!

      I was only 8, taking a bath minding my on business and she bust the bathroom door open and schooled me! I was like ? -- but I never forgot it. First piece of game from momma! #RIP

    • Tammie Reed

      Exactly lol

    • Tammie Reed

      Exactly lol

    • SummerBaby

      Absolutely! Don't embarrass me & have me out in theses streets looking dumb.

    • SummerBaby

      Absolutely! Don't embarrass me & have me out in theses streets looking dumb.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      "having a piece of man is better than having no man at all.do you get my drift.hang if you can hang.no pain no gain".-BETTY WRIGHT

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      "having a piece of man is better than having no man at all.do you get my drift.hang if you can hang.no pain no gain".-BETTY WRIGHT

    • SummerBaby

      That's some random stuff I do to my kids. ?

    • SummerBaby

      That's some random stuff I do to my kids. ?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      and I dont want to be either.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      and I dont want to be either.

    • Shira Harding-James

      Oh lard he's about to get blocked....indefinitely!!

    • Shira Harding-James

      Oh lard he's about to get blocked....indefinitely!!

    • luVn_liFe…

      she.tried.EYE.guess <_<

    • luVn_liFe…

      she.tried.EYE.guess <_<

    • Chitsngiggles

      Shid. My grandfather had 2 side babies on my Madea and they already had 11 kids. Side whore used to speak and make her babies speak to my Madea, everytime they passed one another's house. Bish had to let my granny know, who's kids they was. But my Madea got the last laugh cause them kids didn't get a Mexican peso when my grandfather died and was banned from his funeral. Karma is a bad bish.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Shid. My grandfather had 2 side babies on my Madea and they already had 11 kids. Side whore used to speak and make her babies speak to my Madea, everytime they passed one another's house. Bish had to let my granny know, who's kids they was. But my Madea got the last laugh cause them kids didn't get a Mexican peso when my grandfather died and was banned from his funeral. Karma is a bad bish.

    • Canary Red™

      ??? ....I do the same with mine too...we got to school em early.?

    • Canary Red™

      ??? ....I do the same with mine too...we got to school em early.?

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      No to sound all holier than thou, but I have this little thing called a conscience and believe in this bad bytch named karma. I have been tempted waaay too many times to count, but all I can think about is if the Mrs decided to do the same, my manhood couldn't handle knowing some other dude done been all on her just pumping and sweating and making her moan.
      That thought alone keeps my dyck in 3 places, inside her, in my pants, or in my hands.
      And if you think this makes me "emasculated"........

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      No to sound all holier than thou, but I have this little thing called a conscience and believe in this bad bytch named karma. I have been tempted waaay too many times to count, but all I can think about is if the Mrs decided to do the same, my manhood couldn't handle knowing some other dude done been all on her just pumping and sweating and making her moan.
      That thought alone keeps my dyck in 3 places, inside her, in my pants, or in my hands.
      And if you think this makes me "emasculated"........

    • SummerBaby

      My dad recently found out his dad had outside kids & one of them are my age ?

    • SummerBaby

      My dad recently found out his dad had outside kids & one of them are my age ?

    • Buttercup

      Co-sign. I went to college that has a D-1 athletic program. I met a dude who was a former football player, had been on a couple of tours in the army, and was finishing up my degree so he was older. He told me that that a couple of years before I got there, one of his former teammates was handing out herpes like candy. It was then that I knew FOR SURE that I'm not about that life.

    • Buttercup

      Co-sign. I went to college that has a D-1 athletic program. I met a dude who was a former football player, had been on a couple of tours in the army, and was finishing up my degree so he was older. He told me that that a couple of years before I got there, one of his former teammates was handing out herpes like candy. It was then that I knew FOR SURE that I'm not about that life.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      everybody ain't able. :tea:

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      everybody ain't able. :tea:

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      YES!!!!!!!!! Help somebody you hear!!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      YES!!!!!!!!! Help somebody you hear!!

    • luVn_liFe…

      to do what? :muah: NAN

    • luVn_liFe…

      to do what? :muah: NAN

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      WHAT YOU JUST SAID, Granddaddy had a whole family on the other side of town but not an nan time did they ever cross paths or comingle and his wife and first family aint lack for a damn thing.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      WHAT YOU JUST SAID, Granddaddy had a whole family on the other side of town but not an nan time did they ever cross paths or comingle and his wife and first family aint lack for a damn thing.

    • SummerBaby

      When I was in college there was a snow bunny spreading gonorrhea to football players ?

    • SummerBaby

      When I was in college there was a snow bunny spreading gonorrhea to football players ?

    • holmesa925

      Who wrote this article? Seriously, who sat down and typed out this mess? I can't figure out if we're supposed to take it seriously or if it's a sarcastic write-up.

    • holmesa925

      Who wrote this article? Seriously, who sat down and typed out this mess? I can't figure out if we're supposed to take it seriously or if it's a sarcastic write-up.

    • I want to be free

      And that's the way it should be but men can be weak about the flesh and getting they dyck wet.

    • I want to be free

      And that's the way it should be but men can be weak about the flesh and getting they dyck wet.

    • Canary Red™

      "just pumping and sweating"

      ?

      I'm on the floor!

    • Canary Red™

      "just pumping and sweating"

      ?

      I'm on the floor!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      ummmm is a little butter cup on the horizon?

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      ummmm is a little butter cup on the horizon?

    • Shira Harding-James

      Off topic but some what on topic My ex husband cheated on me and divorced me to be with his ex co-worker(woman I befriended and used to babysit our daughter) only to cheat on her with another girl (who knew about the current girlfriend) and got her pregnant. He then left the co worker to be with the pregnant one and now they are married. If that's not KARMA!!

    • Shira Harding-James

      Off topic but some what on topic My ex husband cheated on me and divorced me to be with his ex co-worker(woman I befriended and used to babysit our daughter) only to cheat on her with another girl (who knew about the current girlfriend) and got her pregnant. He then left the co worker to be with the pregnant one and now they are married. If that's not KARMA!!

    • BrownskinQT (Carrington’s e-bo

      Oh no....not the women respecting men convo

    • BrownskinQT (Carrington’s e-bo

      Oh no....not the women respecting men convo

    • Buttercup

      I don't think you sound holier than though at all, Lurk. There are some guys who will stick their peens in any hole. There are some who are more like you and actually practice self control.

      Folks just need to be real with themselves and their mates about their desires and like would be easier for so many.

    • Buttercup

      I don't think you sound holier than though at all, Lurk. There are some guys who will stick their peens in any hole. There are some who are more like you and actually practice self control.

      Folks just need to be real with themselves and their mates about their desires and like would be easier for so many.

    • SummerBaby

      Karma is a beast! I'm too old to be paying for some foolish mistakes.

    • SummerBaby

      Karma is a beast! I'm too old to be paying for some foolish mistakes.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Well look at God...The only side piece(s) you need is right and left. and the only one I have is thumber.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Well look at God...The only side piece(s) you need is right and left. and the only one I have is thumber.

    • Chitsngiggles

      I was tempted 2 weeks ago. Childhood crush post on FB "I'm in yo city at the Hilton til 8 pm" Ninja STILL fine as he was in high school. I lied and told him I was at work. I'm not fugging up my fo show, fo some moe. I'll see ya next lifetime bruh. Karma won't get my ass.

    • Doll Privato

      "When did women stop respecting men? Why marry men if you refuse to let them be men? You might as well marry your girlfriends if you want emasculated men."
      -------------------------

      ? A shot of truth with no chaser. Plus she knew what she was getting into when she married an athlete.
      Hes running around all day risking injury to feed his family. Like Tyson said, "Can I at least get a blo w j o b? "

    • SummerBaby

      He is a piece of work. ?

    • I want to be free

      My mom did the same thing with my dad's not-on-break baby when he died. Called the police and they escorted her azz to the county line and told her to never come back.

    • Buttercup

      Nasty behind. Go to the clinic and clear that ish up.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Yup random Reading Rainbow moments...You playing Play Doe? Can you play with me? Ok and let's talk about respect..

    • Buttercup

      We'll see. I've had baby fever since the new year.

    • MissyJ

      Women today can be so selfish. In the olden days, women knew men
      cheated. But they kept their families together for the sake of the
      children

      Pssh "The Gift" changed all that... and the fact that side hoes want shine nowadays... them the selfish ones. When you sign on to be a side hoe you know you and yo baby gets no love cept the day after Christmas UNTIL the wife manage to DIE.... Now heffas feelin themselves like Bad Boy they side baby all on the track and all in the video

    • luVn_liFe…

      You SOUND Hideous! Cut the shyte aint nobody playing "Brady Bunch" around these parts.
      IN OTHER News OchoStinko's "NEW BM" is sangle and trying to get W I C
      :sips:
      yeah keep having babies for the sake of multiplying :rolleyes:

    • Smartypants

      I always say this is the distinction:

      Men cheat with anyone. It's just xes.

      Women cheat with men they actually like. That's the fear.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      passes down all the kid clothes that were offered to me yesterday... HOT POTATO! YOUR IT! LOL

    • MissHarlem

      Stop making sense boo. It has no place on mto part dos ?

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      But why lie though? If you were "truly" not interested. That's what you should have said. Telling him you had to work only leads him to believe if he caught you at a better time, it would be on and popping. And he's going to try again, and again. And one of those times, you ain't gonna want to lie no more. And you're going to find yourself twisted up in some sheets like a Rold Gold pretzel.
      But hey, do what works for you....

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      YEAH! Cuz preggos Wut..is a muddafukking trippy as chick! Real talk! lol

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      WHATTTTTTTTTTTTT...BAY-BEE

    • Buttercup

      But both of them had 4 kids each before they had this baby, right? Someone should've been the voice on reasoning in that relationship.

    • SummerBaby

      Isn't she also on section 8 also? No shade to anyone on it. My homegirl got a nice house in FL on section 8.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Umm they are still together. He just took all the kids to see Meek/Nikki last night.

    • Shira Harding-James

      Ma'am understatement of the freaking year....I do my best with my emotions because I'm still livid

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I guess she not posting new KICKS post no time soon..

    • Doll Privato

      Then don't get married.

    • SummerBaby

      It'll get better! ??

    • Chitsngiggles

      Come through. Cause IF I was to ever cheat, it won't be with no random. Trust.

    • Buttercup

      Dang, you don't play any games, huh?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I mean was SHE there...you know ocho lubs the kids..

    • Canary Red™

      " OchoStinko's "NEW BM" is sangle and trying to get W I C"

      Say what now ?

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      They are still together. He just posted her and his kids going to concert last night. She's been tweeting about blogs lying on her.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Oh ok...hopefully he do right by this one.

    • Canary Red™

      Ok! He was talking we can't see her till her shoe game right with these CL's he's been looking for ?

    • Carrington

      Welp, let's just hope she stayed as long as she did because she was TRYING to work it out. I'm not one to tell you how much hurt is worth your soul as there is a distinct difference in working through infidelity and working around it. Especially when the reminders of said infidelity is at your house every other weekend and the person you were cheated on WITH has to be there when you pick up and drop off the kid.
      Not to mention that SHE gets to live a lifestyle courtesy of YOUR spouse's money while YOU have to put up with his bull$hit to live yours. The mistress kinda, sorta won until the wife left.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      "Arian Foster is a man who has fulfilled God’s commandment to multiply and replenish the earth with multiple women."
      ^^^^
      Sandra, can you point me to the scripture that instructs men to multiply with "MULTIPLE women"?????? I mean, multiplication can be accomplished with a pair. If he and his wife as a pair have already produced a child/children, then he's already fulfilled the "commandment" to multiply. What he did beyond that with another female amounts to infidelity and disrespect for his wife/marriage/home (not to mention the total disregard he obviously had for his wife's physical health as well as his own). He acted irresponsibly; God is not the author of confusion.

    • Doll Privato

      Never marry a man unless he is wheelchair bound if you don't want him to cheat.
      ?

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      She posted the same ones he did. I'm not debating this. She made a joke about WIC on twitter and ppl running with it. I wish I didn't even try to correct the wrong info.

    • Buttercup

      So did someone create a fake twitter account because the blawgs had receipts?

    • BrownskinQT (Carrington’s e-bo

      My mom and dad too! This is why men need to be careful of how they treat their wives! You never know how it affects the children! Mainly daughters, I say the men in my family are like the Kennedy men, take care of home financially but emotionally and mentally doggish as hell!

    • Guest444

      I don't care!! My life has been just fine up to this point not on her board and I'll be fine beyond today..

    • Smartypants

      Lmao! But even then, if he has money....

    • Doll Privato

      Nope the wife still won because she's gonna get half of everything.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Well....I ain't gone lie and say I didn't think about it. I'm human. And he knows if I wasn't married, I probably would have. It was just easier to say I'm working. Don't judge me. Lol.

    • SummerBaby

      I done seen some wheelchair bound dudes all in the club w/their fresh gym shoes on.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Child you are so tired, like who likes there own comments?..you are such a cornball and You don't even know it...

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I mean he just posted a video feeding the baby.

    • Carrington

      Which is kinda sorta what, "until the wife left" means...

    • Doll Privato

      Lol. True.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Receipts of what? They always tweet dumb chit. People take it serious.

    • Doll Privato

      I admit... I am corny for that.

      I just couldn't resist. ?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Good but he always takes care of children..the BMs is who he leaves for dust.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      BYE honey!!!! Cause liking your own comment is like giving yourself a high 5. Of course you like the chit you wrote it!!

    • Lulu

      I grew in a household with a cheating father and a loving and faithful mother. The pain and broken trust it caused my family can never be forgotten. You apparently have never been in that situation or you would not be so dismissive about it. Infidelity has to do with insecurity and narcissism. ..not some primal and manly rite of passage.

    • Smartypants

      I agree, but that shiny new toy eventually gets boring. The mistress' life becomes the (soon to be ex) wife's. She will get tired of his bs and the cycle will continue.

      Some people just don't have self control. They should stay single!

    • Doll Privato

      Bwaahhhhahaha ?

      Stop!! I can't take it. ?

    • I want to be free

      Brownskin I ain't gone lie. It fukked me up for a while. Still to this day cause my mom recently passed. I was so disappointed in my dad cause that wasn't the man I believed him to be in my heart and head.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Oh no its cool..I hope it's not true.

    • SummerBaby

      My nephew mama does it all the time on fb & ig.

    • hotcocoa2

      So true!!!!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Well and I mean this in no shadiness intended maybe they should upgrade their status before they procreate. All the blame can't be placed on him.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      lol

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Word

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I got a few fb and ig friends that do the same like WTH??

    • BrownskinQT (Carrington’s e-bo

      Sorry to hear about your mom. Hugs and prayers to you

    • Carrington

      Sandra Mae - can we PLEASE go back to being selective about who gets to join our little community? There are some folk around here who make sounds I don't like. With the "old" family - I just accepted that there were some drunks, ignorants, uppities, comedians, activists, and a$$holes... but you HAVE to deal with family.
      I don't know these other peepa and I want em out! #Petty Pendergrass

    • SummerBaby

      Sorry for your loss! ??

    • BKLYNS MAMA

      Romina Lombardo-Foster gyrl stop playing...you betta enroll in the Evelyn Lozada school of tricking. Stay with Arian get wat you can until ALL his bread is GONE. THEN leave because he was cheating. Then bounce back with a dude with MORE Bread and have some babies to secure a check. #IJS

    • Chitsngiggles

      This is very true. Whores don't know their place.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I never understood liking your own picture....isn't that kinda implied when you uploaded it? I hope you didnt upload a pic of yourself that YOU thought was ugly.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      I have nothing on these folks

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Im glad you can admit such things. I respect it.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      OMG that makes my azz itch....

    • Trey

      hahaha at this post...but its true....we gonna do what we do

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Hey Libra gal .... where you been

    • iWasteTime

      Why I loves the Lurks!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      to forgive cheating, especially if it results in a lifelong painful reminder of not only your cheating, but your disregard for my health... you can say you forgive the man, but if there's suddenly an 'extra' child visiting your home every other weekend, it takes a strong (and stable) woman to not think about strangling that man in his sleep... I'm kidding about the strangling, LOL (but not about the struggle to forgive) :kona:
      (smooches Luvie! :kiss: )

    • Trey

      Sandra being a medical nurse wont respond to this....LMAO

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Oh no but something is wrong with someone who has all these babies but can't keep a relationship

    • luVn_liFe…

      IONo that factually however I have read that she is. BUTT I guess it's COOL. the kids have a roof over their heads.

    • Doll Privato

      My biggest problem is that he wasn't using condoms- That is so dirty. Hes just out sexing random chicks raw getting random fluids onto his dirty D.
      Who knows what he's got crawling up his asss. I would get checked ASAP and never trust him again.

    • Smartypants

      Ugh. It's been a minute since the change. Y'all oldheads still ain't over it? Ch....

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Hey Libra!!! :waves:
      girl you not lying! if his wife had turned up pregnant by somebody else, she'd probably have to go into witness protection! they can dish it but canNOT take it!

    • Buttercup

      Step Mama Butter either was a saint or too doped up on Xanax to care. He had AT LEAST 8 kids on her while they were married. I recall Mama Butter would call their house like, "Hey Step Mama Butter. How you doing? Is Papa Butter there? May I speak with him please?" Apparently, Step Mama Butter tried to nip things in the bud early in their marriage but he told her that Mama Butter can do what she wants and that includes calling their home. He told her to get right or get left. Well, y'all can tell how that story ended.

    • iWasteTime

      some drunks, ignorants, uppities, comedians, activists, and a$$holes... but you HAVE to deal with family.

    • I want to be free

      Thanks Summer!

    • Buttercup

      If they like it, I love it.

    • I want to be free

      Thanks Brownskin!

    • Carrington

      Nope. Who IS you? LOL

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      maybe he has more than one phone/plan *shrug*
      #noTiger

    • Smartypants

      Smartypants. Nice to meet you. Lol

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I don't get the correlation between the two. Men are all equipped to produce a seed that doesn't mean a man is mentally and emotionally stable and ready for a relationship. He wouldn't have all these babies if he didn't have anyone to procreate with. If the first had raised her standards then the subsequent BM's might not have happened. Just my two cents.

    • Carrington

      I don't talk to strangers. #Bye! LMAO I'm just playin'... leese you introduced yourself. We might let you in, but I gots to warch your cawments firse. (I got my eye on you!)

    • MissHarlem

      You're not who he is referring to. Your font is not of the mto kind. More of the garden kind ?

    • Its Me

      Carrington better say this ish.

      Oh its me. WhoDat/ Kdub

      But yes. All of what he said. I'm all of what he listed too. Except uppity. Hard to be ratchet and uppity.

      Ok. Bye

    • Buttercup

      Cause Grandpa and Grandma Butter did their fair share with 15 kids and no outside babies.

    • MissHarlem

      Cosign. Some are cool

    • luVn_liFe…

      Right... DITTO. I'm just here for the foolery and gossip.

    • iWasteTime

      some drunks, ignorants, uppities, comedians, activists, and a$$holes... but you HAVE to deal with family....

    • MissHarlem

      Gimme some of that ?

    • iWasteTime

      some drunks, ignorants, uppities, comedians, activists, and a$$holes... but you HAVE to deal with family.

      lmaoooo

    • Its Me

      Hey there! ?

    • luVn_liFe…

      #MissyJ!!!!!

    • Doll Privato

      Well now that you elaborated...

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      *tabernacle*

    • guest

      There were others. Remember Cain killed Able and God placed a mark on him so he wouldn't be hurt by others when he had to leave.......

    • PettyEyezPrime

      GM

      ???TURN UP! TURN UP! TURN UP! IT'S MY BIRTHDAY! ???

    • SummerBaby

      Happy Birthday! ????

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Happy Birthday

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      *weeps softly* my hort is full :sniffle: :heart:

    • Smartypants

      Happy birthday. You're one of those interesting Leo-Cancers.

    • MissHarlem

      Hey sista wife ?

    • L.T.L. Since 2007

      Don't forget the mean ass, bat shyt crazy aunt who likes to antagonize all the kids, but you love her rude ass anyway.

    • I want to be free

      Happy Birthday! Enjoy your day/week/month!

    • YouIsPettyYouIsMessyYouIsExtra

      Nancccyyyyyyy!!! :happy: I was waiting for you at the blog doe. I'm fine. Parents are good too. How are you?

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      sorry for your loss :hug:

    • iWasteTime

      Hello Cancer sister

    • I want to be free

      Thanks Nancy!

    • Carrington

      Right? The one whose nice ONLY when she thinks nobody else is watching. She'll sneak and give your a$$ a dollar and DARE you to tell anybody.

    • luVn_liFe…

      Ahh for sure NAN. It's easy to say what we wouldn't do if we are not in that situation/moment.
      I'm sure I could NOT / would NOT accept it.
      No
      MaaM

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      I saw the captions on the pic and LOL. So funny. I guess papa being a rolling stone will never go outta style.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      I'm well sweetie! good to see your font! :hug:

    • Smartypants

      She's probably adorbs. Cause us Cancers are fine af. Leo women tho ?

    • Doll Privato

      Well ... its not your website so be a man and not a shady QUEEN.
      You're a mean girl trying to make new people feel uncomfortable to voice their opinions. You're not even cool enough to say you're watching somebody's comments to determine whether they can join your little corny circle.

      I mean... who are you?

      Who do you think you are?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      The fact that you were not on Snapped or Wives with Knives, my hat is off to you!

    • stav

      Please quote the scripture in the Bible , where it says men are wired from the womb to cheat, I will bet dollars to donuts you are unable to do so. It's painfully obvious you are not married ,and will never be with the ignorance you spew. Women of long ago put up with much more because they were much more dependent on their spouse in those days. Women today are much more capable of not depending on their spouses, and being able to leave once they, their children , and marital bed has been defiled, and disrespected. While adultery is a biblical ground for divorce, it is certainly up to the individuals in the marriage to decide whether to work it out , or divorce. Their choice certainly should have nothing to do with the ignorant opinions of a blogger.

    • SummerBaby

      What's wrong with Leo women?

    • Its Me

      I got hot tears. Damn. That sums it up tho. Rude aunt. In real life the aunt you just described is my aunt Bobbie. That bish will cuss a kid smooth out. And has been for about 45 years. And will tell your azz QUICK: "So! Tell yo mama or daddy. I will cuss them out too if they come back saying something."

      We been threatening kids at fam gatherings with her forever. Better sitchoass down before I go get Ant Bobbie!

    • YouIsPettyYouIsMessyYouIsExtra

      I'm not sure which title I fit :thinking: on the weekends I can be a drunk, Monday's -iggnant, Friday's the activist....
      Hey Carrington, Hey Joey
      -?Taylor

    • YouIsPettyYouIsMessyYouIsExtra

      Nothing, yall were just to late to be a cancer :hahaha: Hi Summer?Taylor

    • Its Me

      Ugh. Nothing nice? At all?

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Donald Trump though? Sandra offers controversial points of view (duh, it's a blog) ...but I'd never compare her to a hate-filled, entitled, bigoted arse-wipe like Trump.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Not a thang

    • SummerBaby

      *waves*

    • Smartypants

      I'm not too fond of Leos male or female. In my experience, the lot of them (not all) are bitch made. The women who have given me trouble in life were always Leos. Jealous batches! They were unfortunate looking too.

    • I want to be free

      Why he got to be a shady queen when he's expressing HIS opinion? What if someone told you to stop being a petty azzhole when you font something?

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      .......

    • SummerBaby

      I disagree 100%!

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Happy Birthday!

    • iWasteTime

      Yo that Future album is about to be number one.
      I bet she wish .... never, ever mind!

    • Doll Privato

      You gotta go by the animal sign too. Lol.

    • Its Me

      It's painfully obvious you are not married ,and will never be with the ignorance you spew.
      ^^^^^
      Umm well Sandra.... she's a lesbun.

    • SummerBaby

      New post

    • Smartypants

      Lmboooo

    • I want to be free

      lol. you wrong for that...lmao

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Lol,(stomps in place)Don't do us like that!(twists shirttail) a little on the DEMANDING side but we cute!0:)

    • SummerBaby

      We're beautiful!

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thank you

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thank You

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Yes I'm gorgeous lol. Cancers are A1

    • iWasteTime

      We sure are :D !

    • VDot

      Childhood crush? Did yall bang at one point? Old dude left the hotel room/check out time (rather late check out) like he was real familiar with them drawers. LOL

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      thank you, Butter! :hug:
      Sandra knows how to do the math... but today she's chosen sensationalism over science. carry on, Sandra. :tea:

    • Doll Privato

      What are you the likes Police?

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thank you

    • T-Baby

      SandraRose! Tell me your site has been hacked! Yesterday you had the nerve to say the KKK a hateful organization was having a peaceful protest! Like what the hell is wrong with u! Nothing about a white supremacist hate group is peaceful and it is about time someone handed their asses to them! And today you say women are selfish because they leave with the children instead of being cheated on! WTF! She has every right to leave and you my dear are clueless and your opinions seem to come from a Cracker Jack box! Bloop!

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I have my quirks. A little OCD but it makes for great progress and big dreams lol. Thank You

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Happy B-day, Slant!!!! ???

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thank You

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thanks

    • booo

      Sandra u really are a sad soul!!! Funny thing is you blast Ciara for being engage to man with multiple kids but u praise this one!!! Smh
      I guess this is your definition of blogging!! People like you need continues prayers and divine intervention.

    • eljjai

      Guest, calm down. Sandra olny says these things to be provocative. It's not that serious. How about you state your views and opinions in an orderly fashion and we can have an interesting discussion about this? k hun?

    • Tammie Reed

      When we do cheat, usually we cheat up lol lol lol

    • Smartypants

      You probably are. But some of your sistern. ? ugly to the bone.

    • MisTaken

      When did women stop respecting men? Why marry men if you refuse to let them be men? You might as well marry your girlfriends if you want emasculated men.

      ______________
      So LESBIHONEST....Is that why you turned to the kat? Couldn't deal with men cheating? I know girl. I ain't set up for getting STD's, having sisterwives, my kids not seeing their father respect their mother, me being faithful while the person who took the same vows as me isn't held to the same standard due to anatomy all "just cause men ain't smart enough to use their brains or honor the promises that they make." They dumb. Cavemen even.

    • Chitsngiggles

      He was in town for work related business. Only here for the day. Wanted me to come to the Taste of Chicago with him. No bueno dude. And yes we smashed in high school. That's why I wasn't going. I know a set up when I see one.

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      When did women stop respecting men? Why marry men if you refuse to let them be men? You might as well marry your girlfriends if you want emasculated men.

      _____________
      Chile......

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      :facepalm: Carrington! are you working WITH Sandra to increase her hits? ...'cause you 'bout to bring out ALL the trolls, lurkers, and banned SR complainers/haters. *takes cover*

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      ROFL!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      lawd, LOL!!!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Hey boo thang!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Summer *puts up hand* please stop right there w/any & all fb/ig references. last time you went there, you was talking bout folks lights was off, but they was still posting "dimly lit" pics ...I cackled all day about that, even when I was outside of the office - it's not a good look. ROFL! :hug:

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      LOL!

    • Doll Privato

      Grow up and mind your business. You're too old to be a minion of a mean girl. This is school yard behavior.
      You people are not in highschool anymore. Grow up.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Thank You Nancy

    • AListDiva29

      U stay reaching! U have no actual idea how hetero relationships work, other than reading on them! This is not the 1950's! Women today can provide for their own kids, and don't need a man unless they want one! Staying in a relationship with a cheater, where there's also fighting hurts the kids more. Everyone deserves the right to be happy, and your stupid for staying in a relationship with someone that will repeatedly disrespect u! Plus, not all men cheat! Please join the 21st century soon!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      sounds like he got ADD or something, lol! sorry you had to go through that though, and I hope you're in a better situation now.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      "wives with knives" Lordt that tickled me something terrible! ROFL!!!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      "get right or get left" ...tee-hee

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      hand. clap. my nicca!!! :hug:
      (now you know that's just gonna make 'em want you more?) :facepalm: LOL! :hug:

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      "informed choice" - you said a mouthful!!!

    • Renee Bee

      Thank the Lord everyday that this fiendish devil is in your rear view mirror.

    • TAL

      Umm, Sandra. In this day and age you cannot afford to have a cheating spouse. It's too much of a health risk now. You're a nurse. One of the unspoken trends down here in South Florida is J'can wives coming up here to Florida for HIV treatment. These women were faithful spouses to their philandering husbands. Look where it got them. God created one man and one woman together in the Garden of Eden. And the Bible records Lamech, the first polygamist, as a murderer.

    • Carrington

      See, everyone who KNOWS me from this site knows that I like to joke - but you wouldn't know that because clearly you're not someone I would allow to take out my trash. Shady queen? See, a shady queen would call you a bunch of ignorant, tacky, unattractive b*tches hiding behind a doll because her face and the TERM doll won't match... but the GENTLEMAN in me will simply turn the other cheek - right before I say, "B*tch f*ck you..."

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      this the only way to do 'business'! I found out my ex was creeping and I busted him. once he couldn't deny that he was caught (I called the 'lady' and had her confirm that he wasn't 'home' and then handed him the foam) ...nothing to talk about after that ...I then told him "I'm going to my gyn TOMORROW and when I leave there if my temp aint exactly 98.6, you in danger"
      I'm not even violent like that, but I actually meant it when I said it. Scared MYSELF, 'cause I then started planning to get a firearm. :shame: like I said, everybody aint able. :kona:

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      gurl all of what you said. I said if I think I got a rash that ain't from nairing or laundry detergent that's your azz. I'm the owner and if I ain't doing anything to depreciate the value, I'll be damned if you do.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I shol am...Officer PettyBox...

    • Doll Privato

      Well if that is you in your photo I would refrain from calling someone unattractive. Lol.
      I really would. And usually I wouldn't respond to a Mitch like yourself because in real life I would have a real man handle you but I just had to say something because I cant believe an uncool nerd like you is trying to dictate who Sandra should let in her site.
      Usually I don't even converse with catty gay men who can't dress, because what else would we have in common beside knowing fashion? Fashion is why normal thinking women even accept you ( a catty gay man).
      You can't battle a real man because he would knock your effeminate butt out so every chance you get you like to come at a female as if you're superior.
      What makes you think you hold any authority on a woman's site? And look in the mirror before calling anyone attractive. You're fly and your face isnt popping like that either. If I were a gay male I wouldn't look twice at you.

      Me, im far from unattractive and have never had a problem getting a handsome + successful man.
      I'm not hiding behind anything I purposely chose this Doll because she's beautiful and reminds me of myself. I love dolls and I love fashion.

      NOW back to you!

      If you were SO cool THAT I WOULD HAVE to KNOW YOU TO SEE HOW YOU "PLAY" You'd have your own forum where you can dictate who's who and who can comment.
      I KNOW HOW SANDRA PLAYS BECAUSE SHE IS COOL and she is known. I would never be here commenting if she was still tweeting on twitter. I would just read her post and then keep it moving. You- I never heard of and by the looks of what you have on... I probably never will.

    • Liah

      You have seriously lost your damn mind with this statement!....GTFOH!!!!!

    • Liah

      I AGREE!

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I do. You want all of these kids with women you have no desire to be with. Procreation is one thing; creating broken homes is another...he doesn't fall on his feet both don't have standard esp is diving deep in every chick without rift then telling courts he can't afford CS...they both have issues.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      I just got one question....WOMEN,DO YOU THINK YOU CAN WALTZ BACK UP IN YER HAPPY HOME PREGNANT FROM ANOTHER MAN.AND YOUR HUSBAND/BOYFRIEND/MAN STILL BE TRYING TO KEEP THE FAMILY TOGETHER???DO YOU THINK HE GONE BE AS FORGIVING AND UNDERSTANDING AS SOCIETY SEEMS TO FEEL WE SHUD BE?(money Mike vc)I'll hold.....

    • Liah

      Already!

    • KayDot

      Exactly!

    • Bootcampgirl

      Is this Intense, serious question, if so, Heeyyy...

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I'm not in his bed and neither am I in his or the others head. But what I stand strong on is he wouldn't be able to create broken homes if the women raised their standards and required marriage before children. He wouldn't be able to dive deep in every chick if those chicks kept their legs closed. I was fuqin for years before I got married never claimed to be a virgin. My child wasn't created until we were married for 3!!

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      *catches the 'ghost' and jumps over pew* A-MEN!!!!!!!!

    • Shira Harding-James

      Girl...I thought about it lol but God. And besides I wasn't messing up my lucrative career over that sorry situation and leaving my kids motherless. He's a great father despite the marriage so at this point I'm grateful for that and working on forgiveness

    • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

      Fyuck no. My husband would be gone so fast you'd see smoke from his footsteps going out of the door ?

    • Carrington

      Typical. You want to CHALLENGE a man, unprovoked. Call him out of his name. Attempt to disparage his character. And then the MINUTE you get called out of YOUR name. The second you get addressed in the very same disrespectful manner in which you ADDRESS - you want to revert back to being a woman and want to be handled as such. You're that foolish person who thinks she can hit all over a man and then claim "woman" right before he responds. I got you. Welcome to the community, ignorant. I try to a lot 15 minutes per day to entertain fools. Your time is up.

    • txgrits

      I think she be being sarcastic with that "men are born to cheat" mess, at least I hope so...

    • Shira Harding-James

      I agree with you there! We settle for mediocre constantly when we can have so much more

    • hotcocoa2

      Lol...but...I like your font and your stories about Joey. I am a young lady but I swear about 10 years ago, I gave my mom the same headaches Joey give you with my smart ass mouth.....

    • txgrits

      say that ish!!!

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      The shyt we accept is the shyt we regret!-Ashanti

    • Guess Who

      Sandra Rose sounds like an idiot and the last bish to be discussing anything biblical. FOH

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Yes,it is...the all caps was me trying to get REAL SOLIDERS to STAND UP!!!!

    • THE OLDER SISTAH

      I wouldn’t expect him to be forgiving and understanding.
      Relationships are hard work and if I ever got to the point where I’m coming home pregnant by another man than that means I had already given up on the relationship. Not only that, but there is no way in the hell I would subject my kid to growing up around a man as a constant reminder of my indiscretions. Some couples are able to work through it and I applaud them, but I couldn’t stay in
      the relationship… but that’s just me.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      I feel you,but I know the ones "I" know woodnt and the woman in question wood be good and wrote off.if he has children with this woman.he gone let her know all he care about is HIS!her and who ever with the other one can do whatever!it take a real MAN to even deal with a child that came after they broke up and she moved on and a baby came outta that.again so its not misunderstood.I feel what you saying.I am and can only speak from how my life and acquaintances have been set up.

    • Doll Privato

      Not reading your response. ?

    • 88

      Do you hear yourself?

      Women today can provide for their own kids----they don't need a man.

      I sure hope you don't have little boys

    • Vixen

      It should be..men shouldn't be selfish marrying a woman because he doesn't want anyone else to have her, knowing he still wants to sow his royal oats. I mean, women who marry athletes or any man with power and money should expect their man to cheat. I say if you can't deal with it then live by your own means...then again who marries for love nowadays anyway. If Cookie stayed with Magic and this dude caught the monster then these wives shouldn't have a problem with outside babies. They just wanted to live that lifestyle but now they will live that lifestyle off his money the way they want to.

    • VDot

      "B*tch f*ck you..."

      A man after my heart. Now, what's your phone number? :waiting:

    • Vixen

      Nope. She was with this dude for money. She had the two kids like others do..that way she will get a good payout. She didn't care what he did as long as she got what she wanted. Now she will get her own (of his money) and not have to wait or ask him for money. These women don't care if you cheat as long as they don't bring an outside baby into the mix. When that happens...they act as if they are trying to work it out..then they divorce...the judge will look at her with sympathy because it looked as if she took her vowels seriously but with her being Caucasian she's going to get a great deal out of this anyway.

    • surprise2012

      This is one wife that wasn't having it. Good for her!!! Good luck to her and her babies.

    • Alex

      Agreed, Thats life or death when you start dibbing and dabbing elsewhere. You put my life at risk. I would divorce him as well and do just as the video above :)

    • Vixen

      The reason guys like hell 2 da naw is because he has to live with and see the product of your cheating everyday and more than likely help financially because the other guy will leave or his child support payments won't be jack. Now when he has an outside baby, he's thinking..you don't have to see it or take care of it but little does he know it's taking money away from the home. There will always be excuses for men and the blame always on the women.

    • Vixen

      Hell 2 Da Naw!!!!

    • surprise2012

      That's how they do. They have the nerve to get mad when we don't want to take them back. But, if the tables we're turned I promise you he wouldn't take her back. She would be every name in the book & every other name he would find to call her.

    • surprise2012

      OMG. I love it.

    • shaylynnn

      The women that stayed, stayed because they had no choice. They had no source of income or any other options. Pls stop pretending women were happy/content w. a good cheater for a husband. If he wants to be w multiple women, either find some women that are ok w that, or don't get married. Nobody is forcing men to get married. & if your getting married because of "society" you're weak anyway.

    • more

      That's what comes with cheating. People quick to let a man be a man but once the topic on STDS come into play u hear nothing

    • N. Wooten

      And it works EVERYTIME!

    • MsVAllDay

      Now Auntie I'm a little disappointed in you. You give us great blogs on how we need to be careful about these DL men giving black women aids well what about these men that cheat and have unprotected sex? Back in the day women didn't have to worry about catching HIV, but we do. Cheating and putting my health at risk is a no go. I would leave his azz to and take that MF to the cleaners!!

    • Sincerity7

      That's horrible! She might have ben able to forgive the cheating but not a baby and a baby mama. These jiggas crazy.

    • Tammie Reed

      Usually when women cheat we are tired and had enough but we usually have a game plan and its to benefit our kids/family. I wouldn't cheat with no bum dude! If I am going to do it, he would have to have more than what I have at home and that treats me better than what I got or whats the point.

      Women are smarter to me and we know what we're doing when we do decide to step out. Men usually cheat to get off and thats, that. Women, not so much, were are more emotional and thats why dudes can't take it when a we cheat because they know it was more emotional with feelings involved.

      My granny told me, you and your kids should never go hungry if you know how to play "it" right. I knew what she meant by the "it" too and I was young! My granny was an ol g! Wink! LOL!

    • Hmmm~?

      Sandra, I really don't agree with this post. It's not at all silly or illogical to expect a man to not cheat. It's about love and remaining faithful. Fugg that reproduction shyt. The world is overpopulated anyways and these next couple of generations are gonna have it pretty rough. If anything people need to stick with their partners and STRONGLY reconsider having children.

    • TheRealLee

      That's a good take.

    • TheRealLee

      She needs to go see the lawyers and secure herself financially because his ass will be owned by another woman for the next 18 years. She needs to go to the GYN to make sure he didn't gift her with something as well. It's amazing to me that these men don't know about the struggles of other men who recklessly enter into that 18 year mess. None has ever heard of protection. They missed that class in high school and their mamas taught them nothing.

    • BlahBlahBlah

      Might as well get some $$, and some new dyk. cha ching.

    • BlahBlahBlah

      U a Proverbs 32 wife, hush!

    • AListDiva29

      Do u hear yourself? Men still have to parent their children whether they are with the mother or not! If more women stood up for themselves they won't be walked all over! Good for this chick, hopefully others will start following suit!

    • Letmecommentbeforeicant

      If the world ran by what was written on this blog in the past two days, we would have a proud "peaceful" KKK as a president , swarms of Fuchsia like father's who rarely spend time with their multitude of children, and even higher AIDS/HIV cases.

    • Tammie Reed

      He nasty!

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Lol,I wood love to be what the Bible speak of in a wife, but alas I have a long ways to go.but one thing I can put on my OWN soul,I WILL NOT ACCEPT this chicanery the world trying to pass off as JUST THE WAY IT IS!

    • Tammie Reed

      I never did like a dude with a bunch of damn kids anyway! Too damn stressful and I'm selfish as far as that lol.

    • Letmecommentbeforeicant

      Right, then their's the possibility that he still messes around with one of the exes. Too much extra stress, especially if I had a child with him. But, sometimes these girls see the aluminum foil lining.

    • slim3542

      Womanizing men created religion, therefore creating all the religious literature that pollutes this earth.....The bible and koran as well as many other "good books." All bu l lsh it. JS

    • slim3542

      White women be swearing they snagged a Black man from us and accomplished something great until they realize.....he's just a man like any other no-good man.

    • MsEducated

      Seriously !?!?, I couldn't believe you actually wrote this post. Women being selfish... ? Listen I'm a 27 year old divorcee mother.. and for the same reason men want to be treated as men but don't want to play the role..I dealt with it for a long time after a while you can't stay for the children.. you stay with a man because you love him. His kids will always be his kids..He wasn't thinking about them kids when he laid up raw with another woman. I wish I would allow my daughter to be disrespected by any man, that's why I had to lead by example..smh SANDRA smh.

    • 1/8

      If more women put more thought in to a man's character - think Ciara, for example - there would be fewer fatherless children.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      You better say that. Somebody needs to bring me my shawl!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Dollar to a doughnut he wouldn't accept her cheating and definitely not an outside baby. That's not in the athlete handbook.

    • suganspice68

      She did right to put his a$$ out,I would had done the same thing too.

    • suganspice68

      His ego took a beating when you dumped him,he had lots of nerve.

    • suganspice68

      That's so right,lots of them don't have no emotional connection or love for a woman yet can dip their stick into any female .

    • suganspice68

      Most men sure can't take it when chit is being dished back out to them,lol!

    • suganspice68

      Exactly!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Black Rob Whoa. Your granddeddy was putting in work still? That had to be difficult to hear of more (side) siblings.

    • suganspice68

      You speak the truth!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      You betta know it.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      That's right.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      ...sweating and making her moan. ~giggling~

    • suganspice68

      It's a shame,your mom deserved better than to be disrespected like that.

    • Saywhatnow?

      Sandra did you step into the quantum leap accelerator and still trying to find your leap home? Because DAMN!

    • suganspice68

      Sorry for your loss,I hope that your mom found peace

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Not to sound crass, but it sounds like he did you a favor.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      He laid the groundwork. If no one read his first chapter to see how the rest would be...shame on them.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Free yourself Shira!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Ain't that the truth. Thank him for it ALL.

    • suganspice68

      You are a smart man to consider of what the consequences could be ,most men wouldn't care;they would be too selfish about getting their pleasure for that moment.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      He has another one? My, oh, my.

    • suganspice68

      In the early 1950's,My late great-grandmother knew all about her husband cheating on her with a young woman;he was near 70 and had a side baby by that young lady.every time his baby mama used to would call their home to speak to him,my great grandma used to would answer their phone and would go get her husband and would put him on the phone to talk to her!

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      I've seen some physically abuse the significant other/spouse and the kids.

      They just stood there and took it.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Love this pic!

    • Canary Red™

      ??? I swear I was going to say that part...girl I was looking for a cigarette after he desribed it like that!!!!!! And I don't smoke!!! Omg!

    • Canary Red™

      Ok! ??

    • KB

      Sandra - Just to make sure I understand you. You ARE trying to stir up emotional responses with your latter comments about being selfish, not respecting men etc. etc, right?

      Not even close, do better please? ?Not falling down that rabbit hole of nonsense. ?

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Aye what about the clothe ova yer knees....and church fan:)))))

    • jusstlooking

      Well said

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      Shyt sound like he'd pour gasoline on his heels!:')))))

    • SummerBaby

      Me too & cheat too!

    • Lyd

      i want to give thanks to my dr and i will always give thanks to Dr igbodo who brought back my love that has left me for 6years within 48hours, i have said about this last week but i promised to always tell people about this every week end so that those that did not read about it last week will read about it this week, i have been looking for how to get this boy back to my life because i love this boy with the whole of my heart, i could not replace him with any body,one day i was watching my television when i saw a lady giving thanks to Dr igbodo and telling the world how he helped her i was so shocked i could not believe it because i never taught that there are powers that can bring back lost love, then that was how i decided to contact him too because i do really need my love back,when i contacted him i told him everything and he told me not to worry that my love will surely be back to my arms within 48hours at first i could not believe because i was thinking how could somebody that has gone for 6years come back within 48 hours,so then i decided to watch and see,unbelievable within the next 48hours i got a call from unknown number so i decided to pick the call the next thing i could hear was my loves voice he was pleading and begging me on the phone that i should forgive him that i should forget all that have happened that he did not know what came over him,he promised not to leave for any reason, that he was really sorry for what he did,i was so surprised because i never believed that this could happen,so that was how i accepted his apology and the next morning he came to my house and still pleading for me to forgive, him i told him that everything is okay that i have forgiven him, that was how we started again and now we are married, i promised to say this testimony in radio station, commenting this testimony is still okay but before this month runs out i promise to say this in radio station and i will,sir thank you very much.World please am begging you people to try and thank this man for me,or if you need his help here is his email address (igbodospiritualtemple@gmail.com)

    • ???

      Dubb I've come to the conclusion that you are insane in the membrane lmao @you all the time!

    • Bonny

      This is damn near the craziest thing I ever read.

    • Shira Harding-James

      Oh no they read it but they were to busy trying to be the editor and rewrite the story lol

    • Shira Harding-James

      It's possible we both contributed to the demise but I guess the difference was I was willing to work through it he checked out

    • Shira Harding-James

      I don't think it's ADD lol but I do think it's genetic both his father and grandfather same thing only difference is they stayed in thier marriages

    • R in NYC

      Sandra you must be joking. Adultery and fornication are clearly addressed in the bible and no where does it say it only applies to women.......lol. Thanks for the laugh.

    • Libra80sBaby

      Girl working my ass off and been busy with the hubby and kids.. How are you love?

    • Allisha Jackson

      I can see why Sandra is single........

    • Molly

      Man or woman, if u're not ready 2
      Marry & committ. Stay Single. ?

      Life's simple,
      We choose 2 complicate it?

    • Philly Jawn

      Sandra did u take ur prns today cuz ur tripping! God said committ yourself to the person ur with so STOP

    • rodt

      Sandra are you drunk posting ish.

    • MocaPretty

      Some of these bs articles dont deserve a comment like really? When does playing Russian roulette with your health as a women become being selfish. Sandra please have several seats somewhere. Her hubby is fawking women RAW girl bye

    • Lisa Martinez

      Hi i am Lisa Martinez from Tampa Florida. This is a testimony i am about too to share with you all regarding what happened to me after i lost my husband to a woman i called my best friend some years back. It is so hard raising two kids on your own when you don't have a stable job. My husband has always been the bread winner of our family, he was loving but all of a sudden things things changed drastically when i introduced my husband too my best friend (Michelle) i never realized i was casting my own downfall. My husband cheated on me and moved in with my best friend, i loved him so much and i never wanted to be a separated mom, because i want the best for my kids. My kids became so persistent that they are always asking about there dad after 4 years of us been separated, so i explained things to a friend of mine Latoya, she advised me on what to do if i really wanted to get my Ex-husband back. She told me about a Woman she knew in the Western Part Of Africa named Great OLOKUN, that she is a great herbalist who is well renowned in Africa for her mysterious works. She gave her testimony too me and i never believed in black powers, but Latoya was so persistent that i tried it if i really wanted my Ex-husband back, of course i do and my kids was the main reason i gave into it, i asked Latoya about contacting the Great OLOKUN, and she gave me her email and phone contact: (highcheifolokun@gmail.com).. I contacted her with faith, told her my problems and what i wanted she gave me a list of what too provide immediately, i did so and she told me in a week time my husband will come back asking me to forgive him, i doubted and in a week and two days my Ex-husband came asking for forgiveness. CONTACT THE GREAT OLOKUN NOW VIA (highcheifolokun@gmail.com )!!!!!

    • Tae’lur Alexis

      I was so infatuated with him because I read an article about him and we had so many of the same interests ? he was into philosophy and he seemed so intelligent and looked gorge. But now i hear of side babies and ish. Wtf

    • Margew

      Arian just came out as an atheist. God's laws don't apply to him.