Sherri Shepherd Lamar Sally split

Media mogul Sherri Shepherd and her estranged husband, Lamar Sally have reached an agreement in their messy divorce dispute. Shepherd has agreed to pay Sally $4,000 a month in child support for a baby she and Sally commissioned a surrogate to carry for them.

According to Page Six the monthly payments will increase to $4,600 when Lamar Sally, Jr. turns 13.

The couple split in May 2014 after 3 years of marriage.

Sally's sperm was used to fertilize a donor egg. Shepherd, 48, had argued that she was not financially responsible for the infant since she was not the biological mother.

But in April, a judge ruled Shepherd was the legal mother of Lamar Sally, Jr.

In addition to agreeing to the terms of the child support, Shepherd and Sally, 44, agreed to "destroy" any remaining fertilized embryos being stored in a freezer at a fertility clinic.

Gossip tabloid TMZ reports Shepherd can still sue Sally for coercing her into the surrogacy arrangement in the hopes of obtaining child support.

Lamar Sally, Sr. is unemployed.

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    • prynsexxx

      I would pay his ass in pennies EVERY month.

    • OpinionHated

      I ain't even mad at him - this is exactly what she get for jumping the broom with a gay man just so she could say she had a husband.... dumb ho's and their antics....

    • EbonyLolita

      Just cut a lump sum check yearly. Folks gonna learn that even w/this surrogate stuff you'll have to pay up! Get a lawyer to hash out things before decisions are made to do this!

    • JerseyMom

      Child, I would have fought for custody, if I had to pay $4k in child support. WT_? Sidebar: Is Sherry rolling like that she can afford that monthly child support amount! Blank stare.

    • Hair Lova ???

      Damn Sherri, he got you. Let this be a lesson to you kids out there. Sometimes these things can be a blessing in disguise. Her being unable to conceive a child with him was her blessing, but she didn't listen. God was trying to tell her something. Had her arse listened, she wouldn't be in this mess now.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Listen to that gut. It tells you just more than you're hungry.

    • Hair Lova ???

      Lmfaooooooo

    • Torae

      Bish betta get custody...I hope that baby don't look like him...if so I wouldn't want custody...ijs

    • Hair Lova ???

      Unrolled pennies at that. Placed in plastic grocery bags. You know them things are not sturdy either.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Who knows. She doesn't have that View money, but she does do other shows here and there.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Nope in the big water jugs.

    • WeKnowsItAll

      2 big old heads but not 1 neck between them. It boggles the mind.

    • SummerBaby

      Man I hope she does sue him for coercing her into the surrogacy arrangement.

    • holmesa925

      LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOOOOOW!!!!!!!

    • OpinionHated

      I hate you - I was just thinking that if that kid got either of their DNA I would pay for somebody to take it... baby head shaped like an entire minion and it got linebacker shoulders with peasy hair...

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      OMMG!!!!WHALE,you just kilt me!!!!no wonder she had no problem being associated with Johnny gil

    • Hair Lova ???

      Why not? They look like damn brother and sister.

    • Hair Lova ???

      Zoe your being way too kind. I say plastic bags, so I can poke holes at the bottom right before I hand them over.

    • SummerBaby

      They sure do!

    • Hair Lova ???

      Lol, all he needs is some wet and wavy weave .

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      BOL BOL BOL,a friend of mine put her baby daddy on CS to the tune of 75$ a week.on his way outta court say he told her he gone pay her in fives!!!as for YOUR comment.*blank stare*does your pettiness know no bounds!!!!:'))))

    • SummerBaby

      He mad over $75 a week?! ?? Back in the day my homegirl bd was "self employed" she put him on child support his payment was $45 a month. ???

    • Decked Out

      i saw them both in NYC. she should NOT have MARRIED him. she was "PRESSED" and this is what "PRESSED" women end up with. ALIMONY payments

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      *hollering* Both of them looking like Stephanie Mill by the neck lmao

    • Bootcampgirl

      :offtopic: How you rob a bank in a wheel chair, in broad daylight, with only a note, and you get away???

    • Ms. YaYa

      Lamay is a grown ass woMAN why isn't she working???!!!??

    • prynsexxx

      I hear her on Tom Joyner damn near every morning.

    • Hair Lova ???

      Cause he knew he would hit pay day with Sherri.

    • OpinionHated

      ha ha ha ha ha you azz you made me laugh out loud and the office is dead silent....ha ha ha ha now I can't stop laughing....

    • prynsexxx

      Nope.

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      I saw that too chile. #FACEPALM

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Chile if Sherry aint shaped like a damn porta potty :(

    • prynsexxx

      EVERY TRIP! LOL

    • prynsexxx

      ......with straw sized hole openings. And superglued lids. Fux wit it.

    • SoChlo

      We're going to have to enact new laws about surrogacy, egg custody, and embryo rights. All these babies being created by mad scientists are getting out of hand.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      See summa baby,the way I'm set up.I ain't gone first HAVE a baby for a bih who either ten toes down in pure struggle.nor wood I have one from a bih who got a lol sumthin but its like pulling teeth to get it.phucking with me and giving me the run around bout my babies was the quickest way to depreciate my mental value and have me ackin like a home/land terr.,o-#rist!

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      I just gotta say, yall ain't worth two damns. Leave that funny lookin baby alone.

    • IvyMades

      This story has me rolling!

      She would have made out better if she paid the baby's medical bills from the start and co-parented.

      She knew the contract she signed. The kid wouldn't be here if she didn't commissioned the surrogate, so it was FOUL that she tried to avoid legal responsibilities as a parent.

      Not surprise Sally isn't working. He has an infant to care for fulltime! Perhaps he could afford paying someone to look after the baby now that Sherri owes child support!

    • Hair Lova ???

      Off Topic: How you don't know how much rent you pay? And how you don't know you've been skipping months? And how come your paying the back rent, and forgetting about the current rent? Bish don't be bringing your stinkin arse down her trying to flex, fugg outta here!

    • Hair Lova ???

      Your being way too kind. Wayy too kind. More like a box shaped fridge. One without the curves of course.

    • TheRealLee

      If she wanted a child this bad, she should have gone to a sperm bank and do IVF with a surrogate. Take the man out of the equation unless she was willing to pay child support on the inevitable split. Same thing for a man that wants a child. Get a surrogate. Get her out of the equation, you have your child. You retain 100% custodial rights. It seems that parenting and having a spouse have splintered off and have become opposing matters especially in Hollywood where marriage is as solid a jello.

    • Hair Lova ???

      I knew he wasn't the one. Especially when he was scared to ride the tea cups at disney world.

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      I still blame Neicy Nash for this whole fiasco. She knew that man was gay when she set them up. All you got to do is look at his simp looking azz. Hell I dont even think you had to look at him cause Stevie Wonder and Ray Charles could tell and they azzes is bline.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Where Britney GreenGiant at? You next....

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      no its Thursday only.

    • Tiffany Miller

      This is such a black eye for African American women. You made a decision as an adult to bring this child into the world, and because YOU made another poor decision in choosing a man, now you want to back out. If we don't allow MEN to get away with it, women shouldn't either. If she were responsible, she would have fought for custody. This is what happens when you try to throw the baby out with the bath water. Where are her real friends?

    • MS PEACHES

      Sherry bettra claim that chile every year for her tax return. First she gotta to get partial custody.

    • Tiffany Miller

      i have a crush on Brittney... and Janet Jackson...

    • Tiffany Miller

      Her decisions, her shape, her jokes..... so uninspiring!!!

    • prynsexxx

      I said damn near.

    • Cheddup Already Damn

      Not bad! 48k a yr. she should just cut him a check that covers the next 18 yrs and be done with it... ImB of course ??

    • prynsexxx

      .....and watch him go buy a car with it. LOL

    • kco0l;s ChocolateBox

      What does Lamar being unemployed have to do with it? Sherri made an arrangement then tried to abandon the helpless child, Women have been doing this to men for decades! Now the tables finally are starting to turn.

      Plus $4000 is a drop in the bucket for her. On a good note Sherri is EXCELLENT in "The Soul Man" series. That alone can pay her measely child support payments.

    • Femme404

      SMH. Phadra/Fantasia/Sherry the list goes on and on. Men like this prey on
      successful black women because they are usually lonely and extreme
      control freaks. They can't meet men of their own ilk(successful etc)
      because you aren't going to "run" a successful man. Alpha males and
      alpha females don't mix. Alpha males aren't attracted to dominate women.
      Its oil and water. So by the time these women reach their late 30's and
      and its been all career this is what they attract.

    • prynsexxx

      Would it be easier for her to just sign away her "parental" rights.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      OFF TOPIC OH MY GOSH JUST GOT THE BEST SURPISE EVER! MY SON SURPRISED ME AT WORK TODAY!!!! MY MARINE IS HOME! !

    • Alex

      You have to be one sorry man to loathe off of a woman's income. On the other hand now fair is fair if behind closed doors if Sherry and her TITS sat there and made the agreement with that man about that baby then divorce or not she should be responsible for the child just as much as his unemployed arz.

    • Alex

      lmao

    • Bootcampgirl

      Yaaayyyy!!!

    • SummerBaby

      Awww! That's fantastic.

    • SummerBaby

      I would ??

    • Dee

      Sherri is one big breasted DUMB DUMB and must have been very hard up for a man to let that creature put her in a situation like that. Where will she get $4 grand a month?

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      I cried like a baby at lunch. Im sitting there just talking and laughing and a man pulls up a chair and I glance but then did a double take and just started balling like a fool! ROFL

    • SummerBaby

      Some new J's, a few pieces of jewelry, make it rain at the strip club. ???

    • tynamight

      if sherri gets custody she wouldn't hafta pay child support. get custody, sherri!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I think she already did or tried that.

    • prynsexxx

      I don't think she wants (nothing to do with) the baby.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      @Zeta! LOOK WHO WE TALKED UP! He surprised me at work today!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      or the daddy

    • Bootcampgirl

      How sweet, that just gave me chills...

    • prynsexxx

      Money, hoes and clothes, all a brotha knows. ~Biggie

    • lovelygamour

      Sharri view was that the surrogate was not really a surrogate. I think so too. Its easy to solve. Do a dna test on baby and the white lady.
      Lamarr never seemed to be into her anyway. He was just riding it out.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Maybe bc she is shaped like tragedy, she felt it was her last chance.

    • imright

      seems fair 2me....i wonder if Sheri will visit w the child

    • imright

      or she could pull a Luda ?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      B/c Child Suppor is not for ANYBODY to live off of and he clearly wants Sherri to pay for him to live. IF he was a female I'd say the same thing. Man have been abandoning babies for years so I guess the tables are turned too. SMH

    • BKLYNS MAMA

      SMH that kneegrow SAL had a plan from day 1 ...he excuted that ish with the quickness. That fool #KevinFederlined Sheri a$$... he a freakin' male Golddigger. and Sheri should have Steve Harvey his has....get full custody...and pay NO child support

    • scentsychick30

      Lamar somewhere turnin up on Sherri dime,?I would literally pay him in gum.talk about paying for a kid that ain't yours man?.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Yup send his simple butt to the coin machine in the grocery store

    • scentsychick30

      He look sneaky in the top pic,?like he thinkin got ya b???h

    • the guest

      Exactly!

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      Hey hun :hug:

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      an unemployed gay one at that. He must be new to the community cuz gay men work and have really great careers typically. Reminds me of Toni Braxton marrying an unemployed man and paying for her own wedding. Nice sweetie, I wish you forever. CHEERS!! FF to the proverbial breakup.

    • zeta4life

      WUT!!!! girl I am sitting here with tears in my eyes, SEND A TEXT TO REVA MONSTER!!! CODE BLUE!!!!!
      I "member" when Z20 did me like that at Christmas,
      *Hugs u real tight, wiping snot on your breastsis"
      Love u sis
      #MILITARYMOMSROCK

    • the guest

      He'll get a modest two bedroom apartment, decent car, find a cheap morning to night day care and sit on the couch and watch TV for the next 17 years. This is all he wanted, to be a kept man.

    • zeta4life

      THANKS GUYS FOR ALL THE CONGRATS FROM DOWNSTAIRS, BUT I GIVE GOD ALL THE GLORY!!!! AND SO GLAD HIS MERCIES ARE RENEWED DAY BY DAY!!!
      HAVE A SAFE 4TH GUYS

    • zeta4life

      u is so damn "kray" and I love it!!!

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      Congrats sweetie (raise, new job, baby's first steps, hacked Sallie Mae????).

    • NSYDEOUT

      #DEAD#. Oh no, don't do this. Yall have me dying over naming things Sherry Shepherd is Shaped like. :weeping:

    • the guest

      Tellers caught off guard by handicapped sympathy. Robber knew that.

    • zeta4life

      Now I said I was almost crying, nah u done did it
      *full fledge alligators tears*
      Wut I am so happy for u, but remember what I wrote (go up and see) and u know he is going to want to eat up everything in your damn house right??
      Love and hugs to u both, and he gained weight like Z20 did, he is such a handsome Marine

    • NSYDEOUT

      Lord....that man is NOT easy on the eyes. My retinas hurt. Sherry, deflate those tits so you can see an ugg mofo, inside & out! Dummy!

    • zeta4life

      (rofl) didn't I tell u about that damn "glamour shoot of Eddie Longstroke??? but I had a GREAT onoco. appointment
      #TWICEBREASTCANCERSURVIVOR!!!!!

    • the guest

      $4000 is middle class income for Sally Sr.

    • Chellie141508

      But how do we know she was coerced..she was all giggly and smiley about marrying this man she got what she asked for she had to be present and pay for this surrogate because as everyone says he is broke..she shouldn't be allowed to just walk away just like a man would be crucified if he did it..ijs

    • 1/8

      Why would two ugly people want to create a baby? ?

    • 1/8

      LMAO!!!!!!!!

    • NSYDEOUT

      I'm going to the underground. Something about this just made me snort. More power to them

      :FACEPALM:

    • BaybeK8s

      Does anyone know if the rumor that Lamar Sally and the surrogate are now a couple is true?

    • BubblingBrownSuga

      Doesn't she still host The Newlywed Game?

    • Hair Lova ???

      Wut you got a big boy!

    • Michelle

      She is always working. The judge is not going to make her pay something she cant produce

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      I hope she learns a lesson because this has been a big expensive and humiliating one.

    • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

      Thanks Z!

    • GTFOHWTBS

      Lamar is one ugly man-child. They were an ugly couple and I bevel he had a set up on her from day one. He looks like a throwback pastor .Get a job and stop depending on a women's coin. 4K in CA aint jack.

    • BubblingBrownSuga

      How come when something positive is done by a Black woman all Black women aren't given credit but we're ALL responsible for any negativity? How about you just say Sherri is making YOU look bad, because she is not a reflection of me.

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      lol. And a sincere congrats to you!!!!

    • BubblingBrownSuga

      If the child had her DNA or none Sally's she probably would have done that.

    • Triumph104

      I'm surprised athletes don't go the surrogate route. That way they never wind up paying $20,000 a month in child support and begging a judge to lower the payments when they stop playing.

    • Tiffany Miller

      I'm okay. Unfortunately, we are grouped together. Good suffer with the bad and life is not fair. It is a comment. I am not asking that you wear it in public.

    • Hmmm~?

      How are ya'll really getting mad at him when Sherry's ol' messy azz is the one at fault? She wanted to have a baby, only to cop out and ditch it on him, and then act like she had no involvement in the birth. What she did was EXTREMELY messy, and just downright evil. She knew that he wouldn't be able to take care of that child by himself. He should be getting a lot more than 4k.

    • Maxey Ross

      In pennies too funny.

    • TheRealLee

      IKR. $20K a month while they are active but once the career is over and endorsements dry up, they can't sustain those payments. Here is the rub; the baby mama does agree to a reduction. My proposal sounds a little selfish, denying the child the other parent. But if you are lousy at relationships, don't do it. Make sure your child still has a family and is close with your parents, siblings, aunt, etc.

    • Canary Red™

      This is going to be real strange when Lamar Sally Jr learns his "mother" literally didn't want him. She treating this child like its property. Really!

    • Canary Red™

      It's so funny when celebs reach their height in their careers they have to solidify it with a marriage n a child only to get bamboozled in the end. I remember all the hype behind her at the view, losing weight and getting married. Now look. A joke. Smh!

    • Carol

      what a poor excuse of a man he is. I hope Sherri has learned her lesson about marrying broke a$$ men for the sake of having a "man" around.

    • Teachmeeatme

      He finessed is @$$ into 4k... Woman with SELF issues are easily targeted. so sad

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol

    • GuestSTAR

      Yeah, Sherri LOOKS desperate and men know the ones to target.

    • Enoughsaid2020

      Why do people go into relationships so blindly? Nothing in this world is forever. She already had one child, and now you have to pay to play! SMH!

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      Why did they divorce? Did Sherri walk in while he was trying on some of her bras and bloomers?

    • Noize4u

      She should just swallow her pride and give him a lump sum of $2milli to get lost and make him sign a contract that gives her freedom.

    • Sincerity7

      Out here ordering kids knowing their marriage was not solid. Bad move.

    • Queen B

      Good she should pay....i agreed to bring a child in this world, biological or not therefore she shud b held responsible too

    • the guest

      If she's ordered to pay 4k/mo she's averaging at least 20k/mo

    • Bonny

      So

    • Everclear1972

      So over 18 years that child support will total approximately $1 million.

      Talk about $1 million baby.

      Maybe Britany Grinder and Sherri can move in together and share expenses because both of them are going to need to economize to pay for these children.

      I can't believe that Sherri is worth that much especially since she is no longer on the View.

      She must have saved her pennies when she was a comic and on Everybody Loves Raymond and the View.

      But is she still hosting the Newlywed Game and if so how much is she making for that?

      Anyway the best to Sherri and I hope Lamar Sr. can find employment with his unwashed lowlife ashy a$$.

    • Everclear1972

      Hell if he moved to the South he could live like a king.

      Buy about five acres and pull up a double wide and call it a day.

    • Everclear1972

      'Maybe bc she is shaped like tragedy'

      She's shaped like an upside down triangle--base at the top!!!

    • Everclear1972

      Inside job.

    • Everclear1972

      I think Phadra sought out Apollo because she wanted children and she didn't want them to be dark-skinned like her.

      As for the other two they need to give up on men and become nuns.

      You know something-I've never seen a black nun.

    • Everclear1972

      They used an egg donor so the surrogate was not the biological mother.

    • Everclear1972

      She doesn't want custody at all.

      That's why people are so angry with her although I understand why she doesn't want a reminder that everything she had with Sally was a lie.

    • Everclear1972

      They used an egg donor and Sally's sperm.

    • Everclear1972

      Why the child support only totals close to $1 million over 18 years and his prenup was either $60K or $100K?

      BTW l doubt he's contesting the divorce since he filed first.

    • Bayou Classic

      These women better stop letting Neicey Nash fix them up with men. Sherrie Shepered shud have ran the other way when Neicey introduced her to this loser. Neicey always tryna fix somebody up.

    • Bayou Classic

      Neicey Nash introduced that man to Sherrie

    • Bayou Classic

      I said the same thing too. Everybody Neicey fixes up with a man ends up wanting to best her and her husband senseless in the end

    • Traci404

      Damn!
      $48k to sit at home, and do nothing.
      Leave LA move to Kansas, where rent is cheap.
      DUDE has got to be he worst. NO REAL MAN would make a woman support him, unless that was his plan all along.
      TRIFLIN!

      Paying for a baby and a man you dont want.

    • Stephanie

      Ya'll know damn well if Sherri were a man everyone would call her a dead beat parent.

    • Stephanie

      He has his own place in California he never gave up.

    • Stephanie

      Ya'll do know Sal isn't unemployed and he is still teaching.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      THROW BACK PASTOR!!!! I'm weak!imma steal it cuz I know smbody THIS minuet I can hit with it!!!!:'))))

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      They out here....

    • Tbone Right

      Exactly! She was so proud to have her "man" and now look at her. Learn to love yourself first...ladies

    • Tbone Right

      *tears*

    • Femme404

      According to Apollo, when he first got out of jail Phaedra was coming to see him in the projects and screwing him on an air mattress. What that tells me is that she was willing to screw a man(fine or not) straight off a scrap heap. He knew she was lonely and desperate, and she knew she could control him because he didn't have sh*t.

    • sunni_daze

      That sucks....she needs to pay him in dust. Ladies be careful what you sign...these dudes aint loyal.

    • lovelygamour

      that's the question? lamarr had this planned. where did this woman come from? where did the egg come from? this was all very convenient. this was not fully legit. why didn't he go through an agency? see, its fishy.

    • 2Real

      She makes way more she makes about 100k a month and that's just from appearances, comedy tours, promotional speakings, and broadway

    • 2Real

      Yup that she was paying the mortgage for lol talk about hustling a check.

    • Crazy tee

      Well that's enough to keep them in the projects depending on what state he decides to live in...He better head south if he wants to survive on that monthly income.

    • Everclear1972

      Ok there's one.

      They must stay in the basement.

    • mzwhang90210

      This flabby lazy McNegro. . He'd have about 30 mins to enjoy that settlement. IJS.

    • Stephanie

      No, I read an article when they first got married, Sal owned his house and it was paid off. I do know he is teaching again, he just has a hard time finding someone to watch LJ, he has since flew another cousin in to stay full time. I can understand why people think what they do, but no media covers the whole story with all the facts. Sherry kept telling her friends she was leaving Sal, she did so it would get back to him, when he confronted her and said what about the baby, Sherri said, "It's not my baby" that is when Sal packed up and moved and filed for custody before the baby was born and the media assumed (as Sherri planned) Sal was wrong for doing what he was, even Ricky Smiley was saying, how you going to file for divorce and ask for full custody. when you put all the pieces to Sal's puzzle together, they fit.
      Sherri made a living trashing her ex, she had nerve to get mad Sal talked to the press.

    • Well.well$well

      He may be an assholes for trapping her but once you decide to make and keep a human being there's no un doing it. She wanted the child and she should pay child support to support it..

    • 2Real

      Hmm maybe he isn't what the media has portrayed him to be

    • 2Real

      Hmm maybe he isn't what the media has portrayed him to be

    • OpinionHated

      STOP IT - shaped like Tragedy - oh lord now I can't stop laughing - I luv/hate you!!!!!!

    • cheechee1x1

      lol

    • cheechee1x1

      Lamar pulled a Kevin Federline " K-Fed" Getting paid to baby sit from birth to 18 and 21 if the child goes to college. Why are so many women falling these last chance romances with suspect men. Somebody please break this circle of stupidity.

    • Stephanie

      Did you read the articles?
      One is on Daily Mail. Other on Reality TV Scandals.
      Google, Is Sherri Shepherd A Deadbeat Mother, the scandals link will lead you to Daily Mail. I can't post links. ;-(

    • Yea

      That's only 48000 and with a kid, that ain't no real money and if he get a job then it's going to get greatly reduced. He thought he was going be like most women getting 8-10 thousand a month. But I'd sue something terrible and tie up at least half that money for a few years. Lol