Vester Flanagan

Vester Flanagan’s male escort days were long gone when he executed 2 Virginia TV journalists live on air before killing himself.

Flanagan, 41, shot and killed WDBJ-TV journalist Alison Parker, 24, and cameraman Adam Ward, 27, during a live broadcast on Wednesday.

In a letter sent to a friend before he killed himself, the openly gay former TV news reporter feared getting old and losing his good looks.

“I do NOT wanna get old … HELL NO!!!” Flanagan wrote.

“Please keep working out player … when the heads stop turning, it’s AWFUL!!!”

Flanagan mailed the package containing modeling photos and handwritten letters to former roommate and friend, Robert Avent.

Avent, 45, told the NY Daily News he received the package on Sunday — four days after the murder-suicide rocked Virginia.

In handwritten and typed letters, Flanagan obsessed over his fading looks and his inability to find a sex partner.

“I totally CANNOT score right now …,” Flanagan wrote. “And this is from a man who used to be paid hundreds an HOUR to sleep with men… one was a hot YOUNG guy in SF… he once asked, ‘Can I f— you?’ He offered to give me $1,000… I playfully said, ‘No.’ Well, he gave me 2k.”

Early Wednesday, Flanagan sent a text to Avent telling him he did something “very bad.” But Avent, who was still asleep, didn’t see the text until later.

“Please do not respond to this text,” wrote Flanagan.

After the shooting, Flanagan called Avent on his cell phone.

“He said, ‘Oh, I did something this morning.’ And he was talking normal, like nothing. Like he didn’t do anything at all. Like a normal voice,” Avent recalled.

“And he said, ‘I shot and killed two people.’ Just like that, in a normal voice,” Avent said.

“No you didn’t,” Avent replied.

Flanagan told him to turn on CNN and he hung up.

“I’m just riding. But I’m not going to jail,” Flanagan said, according to Avent.

As police closed in on Flanagan on I-66, Flanagan called his friend again.

“Now it looks like a bunch of police cars behind me now,” Flanagan told Avent.

“He asked me if there was anything I wanted to say before he goes,” said Avent, who struggled with what to say to Flanagan.

“He said, ‘Come on, spit it out! I don’t have much time,’” Avent recalled.

“I said, ‘Just don’t do it,’” Avent said. “He said, ‘I love you and thank you for being there for me.’”

Avent said he played no part in Flanagan’s life as a gay male escort.

“He didn’t hit on me. We were just friends and roommates. I didn’t participate in any of that,” Avent told The News.

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    • Ashley ?

      Have yall tried necole bitchie new blog?

    • iWasteTime

      color money

    • iWasteTime

      um….
      ohhhh …. Kay

    • And there ya go!

      “Good Looks”…???? huh? Now escort I can believe.

    • ThomasSamoht

      To this I say…

    • luVn_liFe…

      :huh: Haaaannnnhhh??? Mhhh the fit body moved on looooong ago, his news anchor days was nearing on jabba da hut.
      come on Vesta stop it.Just Stop

    • Blue

      We should go ‘head and stop giving him press now.

    • mzwhang90210

      That pic up top with the “sheer” gray tho…

    • mzwhang90210

      LMAO

    • harley_quinn2.0

      Gots to show the goods

    • MS PEACHES

      Freckled Alfie was cra cra for real.

    • shaybytheway

      Yes. He’s getting creepier and creepier post mortem

    • harley_quinn2.0

      I just love how you spell his name ?

    • Chitsngiggles

      This story got more wholes in it….I just don’t believe any of this

    • mzwhang90210

      Not if they’re spoiled.

    • rodt

      naw hellnaw

    • MS PEACHES

      That gray outfit would make Eddie Long proud.

    • Its Me

      “He didn’t hit on me. We were just friends and roommates. I didn’t participate in any of that,” Avent told The News.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^^
      Nigga yews a lie.

    • harley_quinn2.0

      Hey he was in demand during that time ???…I bet that under armor skull cap drove the menz wild

    • Its Me

      So Avent was what Al Cowlings was to OJ? I mean minus the old azz Bronco and driving and what not.

      Ok.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Why don’t folks wanna get old anymore. I wanna get old so I can cuss folks out and not have to give a shyt. Being old seems cool! Lol

    • Karen Brady

      He better werk!

    • mzwhang90210

      I’ve seen footage of this guy when he was on the air.
      His reporting was “stiff” and mechanical, and he flailed his hands around a lot. I wasn’t impressed by his style. That might be a reason he was passed over for reporting assignments.
      I don’t discount all of his claims of racism..but I do think that he took his internal anger about his failures/inadequacies out on others.

    • Its Me

      I at first thought that sheer gray was a onesie for mens.

      Then it got the nerve to have “HELL NO” wrote DEADT across his top crotch/the FUBPA area he died with

      (FUBPA…Fat Upper Boi Pouch Area)

    • mzwhang90210

      ha!

    • Chitsngiggles

      He could be Raz B daddy. They look a like.

    • Its Me

      and he flailed his hands around a lot.

      ^^^^^^^^^^^
      Gay traffic director kinda?

    • luVn_liFe…

      I just read the whole post and dud TRULY has issues.

    • askquestions

      Dang. Sandra called it in the first post. Called him narcissistic. It’s a mental illness shared by A LOT of gay black men……. They’re all have some sort of borderline psychosis.

    • 88

      Heard this dude was letting Obama smash the cakes while he was working for Rentboy. The shooting is fake Obama’s goons (FBI) killed him.

    • iWasteTime

      lololololololol!

    • luVn_liFe…

      +1

    • mzwhang90210

      One thing I didn’t understand was…he alleged that he was being discriminated against because he was AA and gay.

      Okay, I see how people knew he was AA..but how would they know he was also gay?

    • Chitsngiggles

      They be so obsessed with the exterior…. Its very creepy!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      So Indecent Proposal on ID wasn’t just about the transgender life but actually people telling their stories. I watched the young mother become a sugar baby.

    • TaylorFinallyMadeIt

      I bet that phone call will haunt him. *shrugs*

    • LuvMyBrownSkin?

      Agreed!

    • 88

      it’s all lies.

    • mzwhang90210

    • LuvMyBrownSkin?

      He was sick and selfish.

    • Tiffany Miller

      What doesn’t make sense is him writing a letter to someone he could call… who still writes letters? And I would really like to know who put those pictures on his fridge.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Did I miss that too?

    • mzwhang90210

      I saw that.
      Perhaps I’m wrong but..who would pay her $1,200 a week?

    • Chitsngiggles

      All this mess is a conspiracy. I don’t believe one bit what is being reported.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      It wasn’t about the Shim?

    • mzwhang90210

      Yes but a phone call couldn’t be left for prosperity.

      I think he put the pics on his fridge..kinda like as motivation maybe?

    • Buttercup

      He needed an Aibileen in his life, “You is smart. You is kind, You is important.”

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Narcissists put photos and mirrors everywhere. That’s because they are soulless people who don’t have a sense of self. In other words, they quickly forget what they look like. So they take tons of selfies. When you go into their homes they have pictures of themselves everywhere.

    • askquestions

      Shallow people.

    • mzwhang90210

      lmao

    • 1/8

      For most gay men, turning 40 is the kiss of death. Add mental issues to the equation and you’ve got a recipe for disaster.

      Recently, a gay acquaintance joked about buying a gun and shooting people at a gay hangout spot, because no one would hookup with him. He’s pushing 50.

      Another friend ran to the restroom in tears after a male stripper, who was at a local bar, entertaining the patrons, rejected him.

      Yes, some homosexuals are fragile, temperamental creatures.

    • Buttercup

      Yeah, I totally missed the mark with that one. Why did she go out and get an Audit though? The car she had when they were about to get kicked out of the motel had a temporary tag on it.

    • mzwhang90210

      It was another/different/new episode Auntie

      Some hard looking chick, and her mom and 2 kids, living in a $200+/wk motel room. And (supposedly) some married dude that she met online..was offering her $1,200/wk for sexual favors twice a week.

      That was her “Indecent Proposal.” She ended up taking it.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Reaction as follow:

      First….WHETTTTT….
      Second : HMM Hmm hmm
      Third: Ninjaaa
      Fourth: He was fugging crazy….
      FiFF: This two piece tho.
      Lastly: You Lion Avent..Yo name is Avent…sound like a escort to me.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I think Vesta was into white men, which explains why he hated white women with a passion. Most black, gay men HATE black women for the same reason.

    • Buttercup

      I kept asking myself the same thing. I guess folks will pay a hefty sum to keep all of their secrets close to the chest.

    • JayCee087

      What CIA droid stable did they pull this guy out of? What Black man is named (Syl)Vester Flanagan?

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      so he killed them folks cause he wasnt getting any. Knee grow please.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I Need to catch…what time does it come one

    • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

      He didn’t fear losing his johns. He was fretting about having lost his s3x appeal. If he really cared about it that much he would have taken his fat behind to the gym. But clearly that wasn’t his thing ever because he’s overweight in the pics above.

    • Chitsngiggles

      Thank you. That’s what I think this is.

    • mzwhang90210

      Right. But Butter..you saw her. $1,200. A week???

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      That’s a lot of money for a hard looking chick who lives in a motel room with her mom and 2 kids.

    • aRoth

      they take tons of selfies. When you go into their homes they have pictures of themselves everywhere.

      I know TWO ppl like this! :bitesnails:

    • Buttercup

      I think 10 o’clock Eastern.

    • mzwhang90210

      Why did I temporarily think Vesta..the singer.
      #RIP

    • Buttercup

      Was it $265/week? That’s rent for a nice house on the south side.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      With a lot of them you can tell right off the bat (no pun intended). With others, they tell their business because they want special treatment.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      thats not even a lot of money..maybe if you single…

    • luVn_liFe…

      It’s who he thinks he truly iz. *blankstare* at his big a s s up there.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      That’s very good money. I was barely making that as a registered nurse.

    • mzwhang90210

      Yeah Butta..I knew it was $200 something, that’s why I put $200+. LOL couldn’t remember exactly.

    • Buttercup

      There are people who work full time jobs who make much less. She was saying $1,200 for 2-3 encounters per week.

    • mzwhang90210

      Maybe I shouldn’t have used the word “hard.”
      But I will say that when the episode first came on.. I thought she was a stud.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I am DYING at this thread! lollolol

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      i guess if I was doing that for a living I’ll only do it making bank but you are right.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      My ex was like that. She had pictures of herself on the wall going up the stairs and in every room. That was red flag #1 that I missed.

    • Buttercup

      That’s crazy. I hope she’s saving some of those coins, because that well will run dry when his wife finds $5K/mo missing.

    • Chitsngiggles

      $4800 a month in ATL is damn good money. To lay on your back twice a week. Not have to get up and go to a real job. Hoes be winning….

    • aRoth

      CON- GRA- JU-LAAAAAAAaaaaaAAAAaaaaaAAAAA- SHONZ!

    • Buttercup

      Ditto

    • luVn_liFe…

      DAMN Sure is! That’s what good va jay jay is going for these days!??

    • mzwhang90210

      Did you notice that they kept saying she needed the money that day….but then come nightfall of that same day..she was just going to meet the dude? They should’ve been evicted by then.

    • aRoth

      …..or a Daddy. Not sugah.

    • Chitsngiggles

      ????????

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I guess it depends on where you at…in DMV rents is 1200-1800 for a good area

    • aRoth

      What in the KUFI underarmor hell?

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      I borrowed that name from someone else in this thread.

    • mzwhang90210

      LOL…

    • Buttercup

      My expenses don’t total nearly $4,800 for me a Lil Butter on a monthly basis. It MAY be that much when Honey Dip is here and we’re paying a mortgage and factoring his expenses as well. MAY.

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      His last name is very IRISH sounding.

    • aRoth

      Look, I know somebody who, you can’t see the mirrored curio because of the portraits.

    • Chitsngiggles

      But one week pays the rent for the whole month. Still got $3600 more to spend…

    • iWasteTime

      What is the opposite?
      I don’t have not one pic of any of us up.
      We know what we look like !

    • mzwhang90210

      Yeah but $1,200/wk is $4,800/month. TAX FREE!

    • iWasteTime

      I said that last week.
      Like get some ice cream or look like Vesta circa 1992

    • Buttercup

      That’s comparable to the A. I pay a premium for housing since I wanted to be in one of the best school districts.

    • mzwhang90210

      Maybe she needed $7,000/month for food. Like Glory.

    • Buttercup

      I just added it up. $4,500 monthly for a family of 3 who eat out at least 3 times per week.

    • mzwhang90210

      Gotcha.

    • Buttercup

      I think with the hotels, they give you until check out time, so I thought they needed it by 11am the next day.

    • iWasteTime

      TV One has a new show coming about female killers…
      I don’t want to see it though

    • Sasha586

      Yes, it is evident that he was bat shyt crazy and I don’t need to know anything else about him.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I guess but making 55000 a year is considered like barely middle class. I would say its cheap to live in ATL…overall….where I use to live..plastic bag were 5 cent a piece…lol..that was crazy to me

    • mzwhang90210

      Deleted with a quickness tho.
      *DEAD*

    • Jusstlookn2

      $2000gs that some change. Yeah when it goes bad it goes bad.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      AH…Got it…ok thats good…my forgot this wasn’t legit work…

    • mzwhang90210

      Oh okay. Cuz I could’ve sworn she was telling her zesty uncle that they needed the $$ that day, or they’d be gone.

    • BlancheD

      Dub I just hit you ?

      I miss the garden …how y’all been

      http://media2.giphy.com/media/lWZpvA1L3A664/200w.gif

    • Smartypants

      Sounds like your typical Virgo to me….

    • Buttercup

      It’s definitely cheap overall. When folks tell me how much their 4BD/3.5BA home they rent south of the city is, I could pay all of the household expenses on that I pay in rent alone. But my kid may not have a teacher- just substitutes that do 1 week or 2 week stints.

    • mzwhang90210

      Yup. On that peroxide she uses to make her mohawk blonde.

    • Buttercup

      Why not? I forget not everyone is as twisted as I.

    • Junkanoo

      conspiracy theorists are saying this story is a false flag……i

    • Smartypants

      ? In my preteen years my sisters and I would go from one mirror to another to look at ourselves. Our mom would say, “don’t worry, your faces didn’t change.” Got us together.

      But narcissism is ok during the preteeb years, no?

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      I just don’t want to move further down south…I’m a northern at heart…

    • mzwhang90210

      lmaoooooooooo….
      I remember a Fraiser episode..where Fraiser put a lil squealing pig on the fridge..to discourage Daphne from eating.
      Every time she opened the fridge..that pig would squeal.

    • luVn_liFe…

      I seen that. I don’t follow the theory <_<

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      :Off topic: Does Miley Cyrus sound like a dude or what?

    • suganspice68

      Lill man in that pic is a cutie!

    • BlancheD

      My daddy’s wedding is Friday y’all

      My alcoholic grandmother who I hate is coming from Atlanta.

      Pray for me y’all. Pray the gin that will be in my system doesn’t take over.

    • mzwhang90210

      She sounds like she smokes alot of ….whateva. All hoarse/raspy. Like Whitney used to sound sometimes.

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      Good luck!

    • iWasteTime

      I saw this on IG about 2 hrs ago and just got up off the floor, thanks for putting me right back down there

    • WHITTYwithWORDS

      its the ciga-weed.

    • Jusstlookn2

      She most certainly is not lady like.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Gin will make you sin, try Vodka

    • SummerBaby

      Congrats to your father!

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      Who you telling kids & grandkids gonna be like MeeMaw is done lost her damn mind. We gotta put her in a nursing home. Meanwhile back at the ranch I’m gonna have one trained to know I aint crazy so they can talk up for me when the others get to talking chit bout me.

    • Buttercup

      Nah, we think we’re the ish until death.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Anytime

    • suganspice68

      He sure did look like Jabba the hut in his later years

    • Jusstlookn2

      Hey moon pie.

    • SpillyNillie

      Yal’ll really do!! This is my cousin all day. She celebrates for the entire month of September…loves the attention.

    • 1/8

      When I saw the news clip of her incident with Nicki, I honestly had no idea that was Miley. I sincerely thought it was a drag queen.

      The word on the net is that she’s transitioning.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Alot of crack

      Just say it, don’t hold back today. Kona

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      has Don Lemon weighed-in on this yet? :kona:

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      we might could possibly kinda sorta give this to Sandra and say she was right IF it were not for the fact that this is what she says about every damn body. Unless you a fren of the blog.

    • mzwhang90210

      I have a 58 yr old male gay relative that is uber scared of getting old.
      He’s had his whole face re-done, pec implants, booty implants, chin/cheek implants..and an Eddie Long toupee. Plus he had JET BLACK eyebrows permanently tattooed on his face.
      Dude is a walking punch line.

    • mzwhang90210

      Hey apple turnova. *kiss*

    • Bootcampgirl

      I do, right up my alley…I watch Deadly Women reruns ALL the time…

    • Jusstlookn2

      Hey Blanche, been thinking about you. Hope all is well. Aside from this. I hope the lady is nice. Hugs

    • Jusstlookn2

      Fancy where have u been? Pokes out lip

    • VDot

      Be he could describe every nook and cranny of Vesta’s vanilla starfish.

    • MS PEACHES

      And look like a boy in drag?? Yep!

    • Jusstlookn2

      Yes we do.

    • OpinionHated

      Losing his good looks – bwaahhhh so he was also delusional cause ughhhmmm nothing up there look good….. high yella frecked pecker fool…

    • GTFOHWTBS

      So sad. He was fine in his younger days

    • YES I SAID IT…

      LOL I said the same thing, dude sound like he trying to cover up something from his friendly past

    • Bootcampgirl

      I don’t know about fine but he was alright in his younger days…

    • Jusstlookn2

      I haven’t apple pie in ages…that sounds so good. I too am trying to maintain my good looks. I had a cinnamon flec today. Moon pies warmed up are the best. So random….I know. Kona

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      chile! just busy w/work and life :phew: I’s settled byke down now though :hug:

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Girl I guess her sugar daddy wanted her riding good. I mean he moved her out of that hotel until a nice looking house. You could tell at the end even though she had a job, that guilt wasn’t bothering her as much. $5000 a month… and she said when they go out he gets her hair and makeup done. Now I couldn’t watch the one with the dude and the sick husband.

    • VDot

      I so wanna see a pic. But I went back and re-read and saw you said relative, so I’ll just imagine. In my mind he looks like a version of Jermaine Jackson. LOL!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I think Friday’s boo. I caught the reruns last night.

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Really? I might have to look into that one.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Offtopic. This white lady who is probably paid by Dolly Ashley madison talking about how cheating saved there marriage.

      Gtfoh

    • Bootcampgirl

      Moon Pies *barfs* I hate any kind of sugar confection with that white cream…But I did hear that they are supposed to making thin Oreos, I amy try those…#mebuttinginyallconvo

    • Jusstlookn2

      I just said that…I haven’t been up here much either. Lol

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      That first one was. I thought the entire show was about shim’s life and it’s actually different people every episode that gets an indecent proposal.

    • VDot

      What were the other red flags?

      Did she have a mirror over her bed. My homeboy’s deddy did. Totally changed how I looked at him. LOL!

    • SpillyNillie

      How so?

    • Sexy CJ

      This sh*t is getting post-mortem creepy…….

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I was thinking the same thing… But you saw that come up didn’t you. Plus p don’t have a face on it.. She must be dropping down and getting her eagle on…

    • Jusstlookn2

      Hey Boot hugs. All women say they hat the creamy middle. Sideeye.

      Seriously my favorite are ding songs
      Hostess

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      no. ma’am. :ghost:

    • Jusstlookn2

      He is what you say Hello how u doing fine

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      chokes on rice bowl… LMAO!

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      That and Wives with Knives. Deadly Women ain’t no joke. The black widow was killing up until her 80’s. She had been to jail like 4 times. She wouldn’t stop killing.

    • VDot

      Bwhahahahahahaha!!!

    • Bootcampgirl

      *wink* I like the fluffy like in Hostess but hate that hard like in Oreo’s..

    • Buttercup

      Yeah, I had to turn. It was too muRch.

    • scentsychick30

      So he was a escort and reporter? Now clearly he had to have been referring to the 80’s or 90’s unless the news clips are old#confused

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      Yes. That was the weekly rate at the hotel.

    • i troll it like i see it

      I’m sorry, “good looks?”

    • OpinionHated

      Me again… who was paying him that kinda money for d*ck – I cry bullchit – no way – why quit hoing and be an anchorman when you bringing in that kinda dough… especially considering he had anger issues with all management at any company – if he was making bank like he said “Bryce” would have never been born – I cry bullchit just another gay black man in denial and overrating the value of his worn out boi puccee – its not a vagina it cannot revert back to its original size once you blow it to smithereens… loose sphincter liar…..

    • Bootcampgirl

      All them women be crazy..but do you notice how when they commit those crimes across the pond they barely get any time…Shat they would be up under the jail in the states…

    • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

      *walks back out*

    • mzwhang90210

      LOL girl. He’s mentally ill, always going around throwing hissy fits. I used to feel sorry for him & take up for him…because nobody else in the family wanted anything to do with him..but then he turned on me & wanted to scratch my eyes out. Big mistake.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Red Flag don’t make eye contact with officers, a black guy was pulled over. He asked officer why? Because you madever aggressive eye contact. Wth

    • Buttercup

      I CANNOT wait for me to use my age as an excuse for my mouth being so reckless.

    • Jusstlookn2

      Wink wink….lmbo

    • MS PEACHES

      He didn’t want to draw any attention to himself.

    • BlancheD

      Thank you everybody. I really don’t fawk with that lady…

      Imma mind my business and avoid her.

    • imright

      watsup w his parents?? r they both black??

    • OpinionHated

      He showed up to work in that gray outfit…. with a matching purse

    • iWasteTime

      starts after labor day
      I may or may not have been watching Just Wright and saw the commercial

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      She really looked butch. Had a mowhawk and all. Let me see if I can get a pic of her.

    • Jusstlookn2

      I don’t know, Just felt like sting that. If it were me I would feel comfortable tougting the praise of a website that is known for cheaters.

    • VDot

      From the Daily Male – “Avent says that he met Flanagan at a Greenville, North Carolina gym in 2002, and when he got a job opportunity in California in 2006, Flanagan offered to let him live in his four-bedroom house in Vallejo where he was living alone at the time.

      They lived together as roommates from 2006 until 2012, when Flanagan moved back across the country to work at WDBJ.”

      Those niggas were butt buddies. By they met in the gym, means I built him over backwards in the locker room and pounded away. Gym = bath house….I wonder who was the top.

    • Bootcampgirl

      Or just do the opposite and gun down the deputy and empty the gun like dude did in TX, that ninja will never see the light of day again…

    • mzwhang90210

      That’s what I was saying Khak.
      When they first showed her, I thought she was a stud.

    • mzwhang90210

      Must’ve been the puss..cuz it warn’t the face.

    • Buttercup

      Grandma Butter was a straight shooter. One of my friends isn’t much of a looker, so before she came over to granny’s house the first time, I told my friend that my grandma is old so she doesn’t always know what she’s saying. Sure enough Grandma Butter told her that she looked “unique and rather unfortunate.” Won’t nothing going on with her mind. She was sharper than I was.

    • OpinionHated

      don’t believe the hype of course ho’s gonna up their salary – people in corp America ain’t the only ones who lie on their resume…. he lucky if he got $10 on a two for one bloe job…

    • Bootcampgirl

      Let me find out he riding with E-40 and dem…LMAO

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I have my limits. I was like no maam we changing this whet now..

    • mzwhang90210

      ….

    • Bootcampgirl

      Fck all that, where are these gullible men located at?? #judgeifyoumust

    • OpinionHated

      yeah but the risks far outweigh the rewards… not enough for me to risk getting bumpy itchy and scabby…

    • Sexy CJ

      ……………..

    • mzwhang90210

      Old is relative too.
      Here in Cali..if you are over the age of 30, you are considered (for all intents and purposes) “old”.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      if it’s the one about ‘what I did for love’ I’m watching (and judging) :kona:

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      She was talking to him on a website for men looking for a sugar baby.. You can tell she was really battling. I teared up when the gas light came on and they pumped 3 dollars cause they only had $20 between them and had to go to the grocery story. She was trying to sell jewelry and everything to not have to do it.

    • Bootcampgirl

      Ain’t nothin that a first and monthly visit to the clinic won’t catch and protection…

    • Buttercup

      Seeking Arrangement dot com

    • OpinionHated

      back up if she living in a motel and she can’t afford to take care of her pickneys what the bish doing looking for dick online – I’m so over these out of priority children having loser women…. what’s indecent is that she has kids no home and got time to think about man….

    • VDot

      He tried to sissy claw you? LOLOL

    • mzwhang90210

      New post

    • Bootcampgirl

      I think that’s a different one, what I did for love been out…

    • Karma WhO

      Our men are some disturbed creatures..

    • Datsmdubya2u2

      Ion think he cares tho…he wanted to take somebody out at least he didnt kill himself he might talk one day before they execute him

    • Bootcampgirl

      What is there to say though, it wasn’t even provoked…he just stay mute on this and go on a take that L he about to get…IMO

    • mzwhang90210

      LOL…Yup. Then I tried to kick him in his lady nuts, but I missed.
      It’s probably a good thing …. they’re probably made of plastic too. I would’ve bounced down the street.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      you beat me to it! :ghost:

    • Datsmdubya2u2

      He said that flannigan prob did experience some bias in the newsroom bc its common. Said he handled it the wrong way.

    • mzwhang90210

      Me too Khak. I thought they were going to show weekly epi’s of that shim.

    • mzwhang90210

      Right.
      IJS…$4,800 a month CASH…is a lot to some.

    • Datsmdubya2u2

      Iono he might say something like he hate cops or cause of all the black men who have been killed

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      This is how I pray to be. and my grandbaby gonna be just like you. Telling folks oh dont pay her no mine whilst knowing aint a damn thang wrong with me.

    • 1/8

      Wow! That is so sad. Poor guy.

      I have never been afraid of aging. At nearly 50 years old, I don’t have any wrinkles or gray hairs, YET, but when they show up, I plan to embrace them. I’m too busy living my life to chase the mythical fountain of youth.

      Besides, I’ve had my time in the “spotlight” and I have enough memories to last TWO lifetimes! ?

    • AllmylifeIhadtofight

      I just emailed you a screen shot of her. I couldn’t attached the pic.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      awww Blanche :hug: you already know who you are and you already know your worth… nobody has a right to try to make you feel ‘less than’ …smile and be fabulous and twirl away from the b.s. :hug:

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      LMAO!!!

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      i dont know whos crazier the people that did the crime or the woman with the black hair/wig that does the talking I cant make up my mind if that her real hair, Cause she looks crazy as hell her damn self.

    • OpinionHated

      ewwwwww…. I have lived almost a half a century std free me nah start pickin dem up nowg jes cuz we hav obamacare…. condoms don’t prevent crabs…

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      NPR is saying the police (chief?) is now blaming the ‘Black lives matter’ movement for the shooting… but I call b.s. …just as they are quick to claim that not all cops are bad, we can’t let them blame an overall peaceful form of protest for a LONE attack on one cop. FOH!

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      User Friendly your cousin? Cause she celebrated the entire month. Probably getting her outfits and chit together cause Sept. 1 is tomorrow.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      pls stop doing the education, Sway :ghost:

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      *cackles*

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      that was he play play name.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      oh, well it’s whatever the new one starting in September is about… maybe it’s ‘I shanked a skank for my man’ or ‘I robbed the likka stoe for my boo’ or ‘I drowneded a bih in bleach for my nikka’ …something like that :kona:

    • SUZANNE SUGERBAKER

      this is so mean, but you just gotta laugh

    • Its Me

      Drink Henny. It really enables you to give not nah fugg

    • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

      ALL THAT REFRESHING I DID EARLIER AND MISSED THE NEW POST…LE SIGH. I HOPE YALL LEFT SOME COMIC RELIEF FOR THESE PHOTOS UP TOP.

    • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

      PINEAPPLES!

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Hi Nancy!!

    • Scorpio

      Unfortunately we live in a superficial society now, folks think fake facebook post are normal. I’m out and about, young, and free. Old doesn’t have the same ring of relevancy.

    • askquestions

      Lol. All those condition-based words. Lol.

      Yea, I know Sandra does. I actually think she has a good sense from reading people.

      Maybe because she shares some of those same traits.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Thanks hun.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      The narcissistic stare, the narcissistic rage, the gas lighting; she had all the signs and symptoms or narcissism. But I missed them because the dopamine had me….

    • Jusstlookn2

      Hey Southern, that the truth…TWO THOUSAND a NIGHT…I mean I don’t know how many or the length of time or what he gotta do. I will leave that to your imagination, as I’m sure you thought about, about it. I will not judge you. What you think.

    • Jusstlookn2

      WEll, that the best thing you can do. Get you good spot near the bar and half way to the rest room and you could have the night of your life. Don’t drive though.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      Hey Slant! :hug:

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Fuggin LOSER

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I’ve missed you *hugs ya back*

    • RoniV

      That’s my show BCG. Love me some Candice Delong, but she almost scary as the women on the show.

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      well geepers… :bashful: I misseded yall too (well, most of ya) Lol!

    • RoniV

      She does look crazy with her ever changing face and wigs. Read that before she became an FBI profiler she was a psychiatric nurse, so some of that crazy probably rubbed off.

    • $103237338

      How can he lose something he never had??

    • Datsmdubya2u2

      Ppl dont have to be listening to BLM to hate cops these days

    • RoniV

      Sounds like my forty six year old brother in-law. Couldn’t figure out why he always wanted to walk my rottweiler til I saw him on the hoe stroll.

      His azz had on a tight silk black tank, tight brown daisy dukes and black boots. Said that was his rottweiler outfit and he needed the dog to complete it. Narcissist is putting it mildly.

    • 1/8

      LMAO! ?

    • mzwhang90210

      The thing is..for the yearsssss I was the only staunch supporter of his. The rest of the family dogged him out, I spoke up on his behalf. Then one day he had a hissy fit..and started swinging his murse at me. Then I finally saw what everybody else saw. And started treating him accordingly.

    • mzwhang90210

      You are just straight up…no chaser huh? LMAO!

    • Mrs. (Asexual) Elmo

      I bet all men with ‘Superman’ tats are trying to scrub them off with razors.

    • 1/8

      Some people don’t appreciate being loved and supported. A lot of older gay men become bitter once they start aging and they realize the glitter has been rubbed off their rainbow.

      When I was young, my uncle, who was also gay, told me to maintain a normal life outside of the gay bars and gay lifestyle. He encouraged me to find self-worth in education, my career, and volunteerism.

      Sadly, most gay men have nothing to offer but sex.

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      I love when it’s your word against the dead person. Sure guy, I’m buying your angst. Um, he wasn’t much of a looker pre-weight gain though. I never been much of a light skinnededed pursuer, so don’t read too much into that. He was plump as schit came D-day. IJS.

    • Lorenzo Chaps

      I saw that silly crap. It happened in OH. He told the cop he was filming it and asked why was he pulled over. Cops are really silly af and abuse their power. If you’re a black guy and you pass a cop, you are being watching automatically. And yep they try to intimidate you or do something simple to get a reaction out of you.

      In the hood, we call this “looking for a reason.” IDK a black man who doesn’t have at least 2 stories or encounters with a cop who wasn’t trying to just punk them over nothing or something trivial.

      I was driving thru Clarkston going like 2 miles over the allowable and saw the police hi tail it out his hidden spot. You would think he just got a call that I robbed a bank or something as fast as he was coming up Montreal Rd. A black cop too. One thing I can say when we see cops, we see no color. They’re all FOS. #NOPOLICENEEDED who and what, again, are they protecting and serving?

    • ???

      For real tho. Anytime you gotta say all that when nobody asked YOU LYIN!

    • Winner

      Gay 4 Pay

    • mzwhang90210

      True.
      Do you still blog? I would love to read more of your commentaries.

    • ???

      He looked zesty to me at first glance.

    • 1/8

      I haven’t blogged in about three years, but I’m toying with the idea of jumping back in the saddle. I kind of miss it.

    • ???

      Oh so he meets some random at the gym and just invites him to come live with him and they were never involved? Yea ok.

    • 1/8

      OMG! The gas lighting! I had a narcissist try that sh(t with me and I read him for filth. I had never been so angry and insulted in all my life.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Nope. Biracial. S/O @Sandra Rose. Father was Flanagan Sr. Played in the NFL. Didn’t want the pressure of daddy’s name, not like that name was going to “make it” in media.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      Blackirish.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      You better say that shyt ,,,,,, loud ya hear … fawk this sick fool

    • Canary Red™

      Hey boo???

      What happen ^^^^^^ who deleted what?? What did they say…!!!
      Let me scroll and scan look for your comments ??????????????

    • Canary Red™

      See lol????
      Just creepy and extra!!!!!!!!

    • Canary Red™

      ??????????????????????????

    • Canary Red™

      FLATLINE_________________

    • Canary Red™

      Speak. I remember when I wanted to write for those TV shows back in the early 2000 and I read and saw a story about how you have to be 23 or younger to write for them shows. This girl was 28 and lied and said she was 23 and got caught. She wrote for that show Felicity??!!
      It’s a shame how they promote fantasy as reality! No one is staying young forever I don’t care how young u r. U have to die young. ?

    • Canary Red™

      ?????

    • Canary Red™

      I mean zestayyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!

    • mzwhang90210

      Hey bewbee…yeah I remember that…there was a big stink about her lying about her age.
      But if folks didn’t put such an emphasis on age…she wouldn’t have (felt that she) had to lie.

    • mzwhang90210

      LOLLLLL…If I tell you then I have to kill you.
      LOLOLOLOL…nah bew..somebody said something about another blog..asked had anybody seen this person’s new blog.
      Sandra swooped in like..GTFOH.
      The end.

    • mzwhang90210

      Dude is posed up in that sheer gray like
      “My bologna has a first name…it’s O-S-C-A-R”

    • Canary Red™

      lol oh hell naw!!!!!!!! ???????
      Cuz she will swoop in on yo ass!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3bcb3cd3aeb6351ee67f54c54975342cdab4b5bbf08cc91cc354868d0fef34e3.jpg Her timing is impeccable to say the least!!!!

    • Canary Red™

      Exactly!!!! It’s pressure out here in this business/industry! I know Beyoncé is feeling it. Halle Berry….

    • I cAll ThE sHoTs…

      It’s boring trash. They never do the stuff to put them in jail or get them killed. (YAWN)

    • Molly

      Word on the “Internet Skreets” that this was all A “Hoax” . ?
      Crises Actors”.
      Comparing it 2 the ” Sandy Hook” massacre. So I guess
      “Vester is still Tricking?

    • PRiNCESSgIgI

      Woooohooooo y’all some fools on here lol i was cruising through here not gonna sign on then fell off the bed laughin crynin at this umph umph umph y’all some fools fa dis here sheitt

    • PRiNCESSgIgI

      zestfully stank booty

    • BRING THE PAYNE

      LOVE IT!!!

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      lol…good!

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      wait! is the narcissistic stare that little twinkle in their eyes that i’ve been mistaking as being undercover alcoholics???

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      OMG….looks like Kim is wearing a fat suit!

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      she may be going through gender replacement therapy

    • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

      any excuse to silence the truth, smh

    • stanley

      lol those pics were old. Cause he looked fat to me.

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      No. It’s a really intense stare that makes you feel like a deer caught in a car headlights.

    • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

      i’ll have to start paying attention.

    • SpiceGirl

      bye Felecia!