Sam Sarpong, former supermodel and star of MTV’s Yo Momma, committed suicide by jumping off a bridge in Pasedena, CA. He was 40.

Sarpong’s body was found below the Colorado Street bridge at 3 p.m. The bridge is dubbed “suicide bridge” by locals.

A final cause of death is pending a toxicology report. A witness saw Sarpong leap from the bridge, USA Today reports.

The British-American moved to the USA from London with his father when he was 11. The Charlamagne the god look-a-like pursued modeling and quickly became the face of a Tommy Hilfiger campaign. He landed more modeling gigs with top designers such as Versace, Donna Karan, Gucci and Dolce & Gabbana.

Sarpong won numerous fashion awards and was twice named to the “Fifty Most Beautiful People” list by Today’s Black Woman magazine.

Sarpong landed television and movie roles including a coveted gig co-hosting MTV’s reality TV show Yo Momma with actor Wilmer Valderrama.

Sarpong and Valderrama traveled the country interviewing people with the best “snaps”.

When Yo Momma was canceled after 3 seasons, Sarpong hosted the BET Awards pre-show All Access.

He is survived by his sister, British television personality June Sarpong.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    THIS IS TRAGIC

  • iWasteTime

    He was funny.
    RIP

  • Mel

    Dam smh

  • Angela

    Tragic. He was funny.

  • MookieFly

    This is so sad. Another life cut short. I pray his family recieves the healing they need at time

    “The Charlamagne the god look-a-like”

    You going to HellT. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200

  • Floriduhh Evans

    ? rip

  • Buttercup

    If I were to end my own life, I think I would take the Lisa on BMJ route and take a bunch of pills. I’d clear the table and wash the dishes beforehand though. I don’t need folks thinking I’m nasty.

  • SummerBaby

    So sad! You never know what’s going on in a persons mind. RIP ??

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    Wow…that’s sad…but did I detect shade or nah –> Charlamagne the god look-a-like”

  • mzwhang90210

    Jesus please grant him the peace now, that he couldn’t seem to find while he was here on Earth…& give strength to his family & loved ones.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Tragic, so sad.

    Look for the opportunity to speak and give someone a compliment today and give a compliment. You could change there entire outlook and make things brighter for them.

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    right…my nana would always say ” make sure you have on clean underclothes….case you are in an accident, really? nana…How come its just good hygiene to have on clean ish, lol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    That’s sad

  • Angela

    In a gasoline filled metal barrel ??

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I remember him. I’m sad to hear that. Prayers for his family.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Don’t say that.

    Come here hunches you

  • Jusstlookn2

    Hey There Hunti

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Very very sad. God rest his soul. After watching Being Mary Jane Tuesday night, I have become more accepting of the wishes of suicide victims for some reason. It suddenly feels weird to automatically expect people to stay here when they don’t want to. And now this happens and I get to feel it for a real person. It’s sad for his friends and family, but his pain has ended.

  • SunnyChi

    Tragic! May he RIP!

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I don’t think pill deaths are as pleasant as they make them look on TV. You’re going to feel pretty shytty before you die and possibly become violently ill and not die.

  • mzwhang90210

    That’s my stance on suicide. Some people earnestly feel they just do not wanna do it anymore. I can’t imagine their pain…makes my heart ache.

  • mzwhang90210

    Lupe Valezquez (sp)

  • Milani

  • Jusstlookn2

    Respectfully I disagree, when I was first diagonised I felt like why fight, and go through all this medical crap. But it’s always a better day than your worst.

    Yes, Mary Jane was horrible, I really hope they explore her demise and suicide more.

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey Jussy!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Charlamagne should be so lucky ?

  • Buttercup

    You’re right. I guess I thought the pills would knock me out first seeing as thought I can’t even take Benadryl without eventually getting super drowsy.

  • mzwhang90210

    Harley!

  • Buttercup

    Don’t say what? I don’t think I would commit suicide, but if I were to, I don’t want it to be messy.

  • MzFutureLCSW

    OMG!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Whang! *hugs*… I see you got your dog a new wig from the beauty supply store ?

  • Jusstlookn2

    Yeah, as Bird says it probably will not be as easy as it looked. I’m not thinking of no good way to DIE.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    sad

  • Nik

    Too many people with promising careers leaving the world this way. Authoress Erica Kennedy and TiTi Branch of Miss Jessie’s come to mind. Whatever their reasons were, the bottom line is there are people who look like they have it all, but on the inside they are suffering. People need not take the veneers for granted. EVERYBODY is dealing with something.

  • Nik

    That episode had me SHOOK.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I’m not sure what you were diagnosed with, but if it wasn’t mental/emotional illness that makes you feel like shat pretty much every day of your life then I get that too. But I was really talking about those people that can’t shake the feeling that they just can’t take it anymore.

  • Jusstlookn2

    BBL, this is too much for me.

    SPEAK LIFE

  • Nik

    You said it right. I remember asking someone what they thought about something and they said they were not used to people asking them what they think. There are a lot of neglected people out here. A compliment, a little attention, a simple “What’s your take on that?” can make a person not feel invisible.

  • Buttercup

    It was far too real. My oldest friend was battling thoughts of suicide in 6th grade. That’s when we became extremely close. We don’t speak all the time, but after watching that I HAD to pick up the phone and call her to ask how she’s doing.

  • Buttercup

    I’m sorry. I truly didn’t intend to offend you.

  • MissyJ

    then you wouldn’t apply. Soem folks just do not have the fight left in them. My baby sissy has lupus, kidney failure, and cancer. She has been fighting for 11 years. This past time she was in the hospital the doctors were giving her such a hard time. She was ready to refuse treatment and receive palliative care. it’s getting worse and worse. my momma wanna me to convince her and i told her no. It’s her struggle and she knows when she’s had enough.

    You may have felt like why fight but in your heart you knew you hadn’t had enough

  • Nik

    God bless you for your sensitivity. I agree that the episode was VERY real. The scenes leading up to her death were well executed. I also like how they showed how Lisa’s past haunted her, which made her feel devalued. Then there were other events that confirmed her false idea of not feeling like she mattered. Mary Jane helped put the nail in that coffin, though.

  • MissyJ

    I’d jump off a bridge. You pass out before you hit the ground if it’s high enough

  • Buttercup

    *HUGS*

  • Nik

    That’s what I heard too. This one lady was running from men who tried to assault her and jumped off a bridge to escape. The cops said the height of the bridge made the water like concrete once she hit. Her limbs snapped off.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    True. Your body will reject the pills by vomiting.

  • BlancheD

    I’m sorry Missy. She should be able to live the rest of her life they way she sees fit.

  • Nik

    Yep. That’s why I try not to take things personal at first when people get out of pocket. You’d be surprised how many people’s angst is not about us, but that they just don’t have it in them to “do life” anymore.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Wow. Your baby sis is a warrior! I pray her strength to keep fighting.

  • BlancheD

    Lord ?

  • MissyJ

    My mom knew that but she wasn’t ready to let go and truthfully I’m not either. BUT It is taking the life out of her, my sister loves to travel and be free and it’s a lot harder for that now

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Mary jane was extremely insensitive to embarrass Lisa’s mama who is already mourning the loss of her daughter. Shameful.

  • Nik

    To the nth degree!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Tell me they don’t look like twins. I can’t see Charlamagne as a supermodel, though.

  • Buttercup

    I like how the show starts dialogue. Yes, Lisa tried to reach out to MJ, but she did so because she was trying to clean up the mess she made by giving sloppy toppy to David. Now this girl was your sister, but you go after the love of her life? I’m not talking a bed buddy or someone that MJ briefly dated. David is and was MJ’s “one that got away.” Lisa was dead wrong for that, so I can’t really blame MJ for not wanting to speak with her.

  • Buttercup

    It was insensitive for Lisa’s mom to allow the man who molested Lisa and haunt her for majority of her life to attend her home going services.

  • SpillyNillie

    Gosh…you never know what people are going through…RIP

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    As I recall she asked him not to come. The woman was in mourning. All she’s thinking is that was so long ago.

  • Chocolate City

    I Love You. Those simple words can save a lot family members, and friends. Say them often. Give flowers while your loved ones are still living, not when their dead.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Young folks don’t follow in this cat’s footsteps :nono:
    Whatever’s going on (unless it’s mental–then get help) isn’t worth ending your life over. Sometimes good things happen to bad people, bad things happen to good people—BUT you just pick yourself up and keep it moving!

    This was the pu$$y way out.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    To be fair, David and Mary Jane were not dating. So he was up for grabs. MJ took Lisa’s misstep with David a little too hard. MJ needed to let go and let God handle it. Lisa was molested by her father. So her daddy issues made her vulnerable to male whores like David. And Lisa was not MJ’s blood relative.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Ummmm whale nvrmind.

    :kiss:

  • shaybytheway

    Idk… I feel like fudge her mom. If MJ put the final nail in the coffin, the mom built and polished that bish. There is no feeling on this earth like being betrayed by your mom. Even if its because she’s weak. That hurt goes DEEP. And every day that she doesn’t at least try to make things right, is a new betrayal. Speaking from personal experience.

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    tilts head…maybe a little……well, especially not now because Charl doing the skin lighting thing and he looks super weird. Right, he doesn’t have that supermodel swag or height, Ha

  • Nik

    Lisa’s mom is the worst kind of woman who would know that her man molested her child and still choose him. I’ve met people who have gone through that and they feel worthless. I don’t know how I would have handled it if I was in MJ’s shoes, but she should have been sensitive to the other people at the service and leave that man be. MJ has been “smelling herself” since Season 2, spazzing out on folks and acting arrogant.

  • Buttercup

    Nope. She was thinking that he’s going to go upside my heard. The only thing she was mourning was not protecting her baby girl and it ate away at her until she decided she didn’t want to take it anymore.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    May his family find peace in all this :pray:

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It wasn’t MJ’s place to air the family’s dirty laundry at her funeral. It was disrespectful. MJ should have more class than that.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    THERE’S A CLOSE UP OF HIM I SAW ON IG…IOB I THINK. THE RESEMBLANCE IS RATHER STRIKING…

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    RIP to this young man and prayers for his family, smh. So sad.

  • Nik

    MJ didn’t realize Lisa was in such a bad place, so I can see your point with that. Lisa broke the girlfriend code, though. Maybe she envied MJ and felt empowered by what she did with David. And sloppy toppy…LMBO!

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    MY MORNING GIRLFRIENDS IN GOD EMAIL SAID EXACTLY THIS…IT’S TOO SAD FOR WORDS.

  • Buttercup

    I can understand wanting to be cognizant of the sensitivity of others; however, I think she was finally standing up against Lisa’s step father since her mother never bothered to do it for her. Her petty also played a part in her calling him out.

  • FromAfrika

    Dear Lord.. Please help Sandra look at the facts. The main cause of her suicide was in church bidding her farewell and MJ was being insensitive.. Oh ok.

  • CaliYoruba

    I missed the first half. What happened before MJ went to her Mom’s house?

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    I seen pic’s on his Instagram…he basically looks sad in each pic. Sad, ppl can dress up real nice, but inside they slowly dying.

  • Nik

    Well she roasted that fool real good for the last time!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I can’t believe these comments I’m reading. The blame falls on Tina Knowle’s husband, not on the mother. It is so easy to blame the mother. She was a victim, too. She suffered right along with her daughter. Richard Lawson is the only one responsible for his actions.

  • FromAfrika

    I shouldn’t laugh .. Really

  • CaliYoruba

    ok dang. Sandra will have to do a post b/c I missed that too

  • CaliYoruba

    Can you do a post? I missed most of it

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    And that’s why she was as much a victim as her daughter. Walk in her shoes before you pass judgment.

  • AnonymousRose

    ? Isn’t it written that you should not take your own life……Or did I miss interpret the Good Book

  • Buttercup

    No, Lisa wasn’t MJ’s blood relative. She didn’t speak to her blood relatives for over 15 years. Lisa envied MJ and wanted to be like her- so much so to break girl code. I don’t care if my used-to-be honey dip and I have been over for 99 and 1/2 years. Any true friend of mine would never pursue him or give in to his advances (if there were any). If she does, she would hurt me in a way that I could never forgive.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Hugs and prayers…I told a friend this, who is going through chemo. When in battle, be His proof that He equips His warriors; you will never know what YOUR victory is. God only places you in battles to to prove you can and will fight, and he never thinks in terms of winnig or losing. Some times your victory is going home and some times its living to fight another day. Either way you have a victory.

  • Nik

    LOL@ Tina Knowle’s husband. I forgot about that marriage. Yes, he is entirely to blame, but once the mother found out she should have moved her daughter out of harm’s way. But as we saw in the car scene when he degraded her, she’s a weak woman.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    There is a picture of Sam on IG that I thought was Charlamagne.

  • Buttercup

    I thought we were having a dialogue. I wasn’t aware that I was passing judgement and stating that Lisa’s mom should be damned to hell, stoned at the town’s center, hanged for the world to see. Giving an opinion is not passing judgement. But you knew that…

  • Nik

    MJ was at Lisa’s house and the parents showed up. MJ got into it with the mother because she said she didn’t want the stepfather at the funeral because of what he did to Lisa.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    Prayers to your fam missy :hug: <3

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    <3

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    THAT VERY SAME ONE…INDEED

  • partytime

    So sad.

  • shaybytheway

    But wasn’t that the point of her speech? Keeping dirty secrets (lies) is what killed Lisa. Her mom KNEW what she did. That’s why she offered up a lie to the family about Lisa’s death. The way the story is told, MJ and her family adopted Lisa after her mother chose her abuser. I think some rights are forfeited when you vacate your role as family and become a relative. And it just ground my gears that this man gets to stand up at her funeral and receive condolences KNOWING he helped put her there. Yeah.. bump that momma.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    Hey Blanche! :waves:
    :hugs: <— for you and the Little Blanches <3

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Listen, Im all for respecting folks but that when out the window when she chose as a mother to NOT protect her baby… Lisa never got her truth out in life bc her mother turned her back and chose a man over her then she let that man come to her homecoming. That wouldn’t fly in my family, she and her husband would have been cursed out in church, that’s if he was still living. What MJ did was TAMED, believe me. He can’t hide behind his wife anymore now that the truth is out and her mother can no longer play dumb..everybody knows now and when the truth is in the light darkness is hard to find.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    He looks more like Wood Harris nem, to me :think:

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Don’t mind me. I got caught up, like it was real life.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Sans, love your different point of view but no, dats not it. That is her step daddy, mom place him in HER life. Mom knew about it and chose to side with her husband…THAT’S on the same level if not worse…let a child suffer bc you want a husband…please..she didnt suffer, she scarificed/sold her baby.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Didn’t the mother find out when the the daughter was older? What could she have done?

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    And mess up dem clean knees?! U selfish, smh. Lol!

  • Nik

    I don’t remember when she found out. If she found out later on in life, that’s a different story. I think the most she could have done in that circumstance was not have him at the funeral.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    :chase: smh… :hug:

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Again, the women was molested from the ages of 11 to 16 by a man she thought she could trust to keep her safe. She suffered emotional and psychological trauma as a result. And you expect someone in that space to think about your feelings when she is confronted by a male whore who gives her the attention she craves?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She asked him not to come.

  • my view

    It took me forever to get in here

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    She said she hadn’t spoken to her in 15 years..so Im thinking 20ish is when she told her? maybe how old is Mary Jane suppose to be?

  • SummerBaby

    The site is loading very slowly for me.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Right. What could the mother do? Her daughter was fully grown.

  • Milani

    It’s been taking a while for me to get in here too.

  • Fendi

    He was hardly a Charlamagne lookalike. It is unfortunate that a person’s life cannot be respected without extra commentary. I really would like to know the truth behind this man’s alleged suicide. I don’t believe what the media is reporting.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    see I know it’s not me…its crashes my net like crazy.

  • SummerBaby

    Mine too! I’m on my phone & I thought it was my recent software update responsible.

  • Smartypants

    It seems he was well-liked. I wish he knew that when he was alive.

    I can’t judge those who commit suicide. We’re all one tragedy away from at least thinking about it.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    So sad. You never know what anyone is going through. This proves that money and fame mean nothing. Too many people are assumed to be okay because of what they have or because they don’t complain. I’ve learned to never be too busy for people. You could be the 1 to save a life and don’t even know it. Prayers to those affected. For anyone feeling like life is too much and is better without you, it’s not. There are people that love you and you don’t even know it! Seek help and don’t be ashamed.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    You said “dead wrong” :crying1:
    *exits this post* :ghost:

  • PettyEyezPrime

    It keeps crashing and saying the server is down.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Makidada!

  • Smartypants

    “Never be too busy for people.” This is a lesson I keep learning in my life.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Summer! Good afternoon.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    A LOT, I have a daughter and If marry someone who molested her even if it took her a while to say something; whether she’s 20 or 55 and he is still around, you think I wont do something? Me and him would be going to hell together. He would be no where in sight, the law may not be able to handle it but whitty and her family can.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Babes.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    @realsandrarose:disqus , Is something going on with the site?…its starting to crash A LOT and loading slow.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    It’s a hard lesson to learn. People’s lives seem to look better from the outside. You never know what 1 conversation could reveal about a person.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Oh San ?

  • shaybytheway

    This!!!!!!!!!!!

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    OFFT: I bought my baby a toddler recliner for her bday, super excited.

  • Chocolate City

    GOD is the only one that Will judge. Heavenly Father and Mother.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    When is her bday?

  • Buttercup

    :kiss:

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Second monday in Nov

  • Smartypants

    His pictures on Instagram show someone with SOMETHING on their mind. The last pic especially he is secretly worrying or thinking about it

  • AnonymousRose

    judgement is here

  • Buttercup

    I can understand getting caught up. It happens to the best of us.

  • Buttercup

    No pun intended

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    SPEAK!

  • Buttercup

    So sweet! She will get years of use out of it. I found one for Lil Butter when he was 2 and it matched with my den furniture perfectly. That’s where he spends our many movie nights.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I RECENTLY SAW ONE…SHE’LL LOVE IT! IF I GET ONE I’D HAVE TO GET 3 SO I’M CONTEMPLATING LOL

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I can’t access the site. It’s doing what it did when it was 1st switched to Daquan. Aww. Scorpio. You made me for real look at a calendar, lmfao. Can I get a recliner?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Come on Whitty! Say that!

  • VDot

    The Charlamagne the god look-a-like

    ************

    TUH, LIES you tell!

  • scentsychick30

    So tragic rip.

  • Buttercup

    And you expect someone in that space to think about your feelings when she is confronted by a male whore who gives her the attention she craves?

    ==============
    As a parent, it is my responsibility to eliminate all things that will cause mine harm to be best of my ability. He certainly isn’t absolved of any responsibility, but Lisa’s mom became equally as guilty when she didn’t protect her baby after finding out what that monster did to her.

  • VDot

    I agree.

    Depression is a fugging beast. One you cant understand unless you experience. Bless their hearts :-(

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    It was affordable and I know she will love it.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol..Crazy folks…I gotta make you work. Yup Scorpio…LAWD help me …get in line…mom and sis said they want one two

  • VDot

    Bwhahahaha!! I can’t stand you. :hugs: :kisses:

  • my view

    that’s what I just said

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Girl this thing is BRIGHT orange..her favorite color and matches nothing.

  • Buttercup

    LOL. I’m too particular for that…it would have to go in her room.

  • Buttercup

    I got Lil Butter’s from Homegoods. If you’re lucky, you can catch some on clearance for $50.

  • VDot

    Nevermind, edited to say I get it now. LOL.

  • Dontae Smith

    Something ain’t right you want us to believe this man committed suicide due to lack of Work in Hollywood hm okay

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    It probably will…BUT she always wants to be around me so, I’ll just live with it….it makes her happy and lorT know when she is older and getting on my last nerves, I’ll miss those moments.

  • Buttercup

    True. True. “Baby don’t keep.”

  • Jusstlookn2

    We good HUGS, you didn’t offend me. BRING IT IN AND GIVE ME SOME. My best friend from college killed herself, she had been in a bad car accident and it left her with a limp and so other superficial injuries. She shot her herself.

    I just function better being positive no matter the situation.

    No matter the illness you never now. My husband co worker was given 2 weeks to live, he got gangrene and that ate the cancer and he still alive.

  • VDot

    Agreed. Yesterday while driving home, I went through a list of ways to kill yourself. Every single method sounded horrible. So basically I wouldn’t be able to do it.

  • Jusstlookn2

    *slams book on table you and spits out my gum in the middle off the blog. You are correct

  • Buttercup

    Hahaha. Both. Tina Knowles’ husband guest starred on this week’s episode on BMJ.

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    I am Lisa and MJ combined in one person. Every episode takes me on a roller coaster of emotions. The writers are doing a fantastic job on this series. With that said, I agree with Sandra. MJ should not have aired Lisa’s dirty laundry at the funeral, it was inappropriate and it wasn’t the time. I felt some kind of way that she was upset with her Mom for reaching out to Lisa’s family. A Mom deserves to know that their child has left this earth. Myself and my brothers were molested by my step dad, my Mom was physically, mentally and sexually abused by him as well. As a child I blamed my mom but as a grown mother, I started to sympathized her position and understood it. It sounds crazy but it’s what I needed to free my soul. Iyanla said it best on one of her episodes of “fix my life”, you have to start looking at your Mom as a woman to understand her story. Forgiveness is not for the offender, it’s for you. If more people learn how to forgive and let God, the suicide rate will decrease.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Were you considering it?

  • 100milesperhour

    After asking the father not to attend the funeral, the mother said “people will talk” if MJ isn’t there. She cared more about idle gossip over a woman’s presence being missed than her daughter being violated by a sexual deviant SHE brought in the home.

  • nucynu25

    I think they talking abt being Mary Jane, I don’t watch the show but after reading this I might hve to.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    NOTED…YALL GOT ME EXCITED NOW!

  • VDot

    I just read he spent seven hours talking to the police before jumping. Wow! Family came and everything. He wanted to go :(

  • iWasteTime

    you got one of those. Mine into gree, any and all shades!

  • 100milesperhour

    When MJ spoke to her mom about funeral plans, she made it clear Lisa hadn’t spoken to her parents in 15 years (& wondered why they were even informed of her death!). The viewers are left to infer that the mother knew all along, or found out along the way & did nothing.

  • VDot

    Thank you for sharing your story. And you/Iyanla raise a good point. We look to our moms as super heros, when really they are women with their own set of issues.

  • Jusstlookn2

    She went to Lisa’s and saw her last supper and what not and then her parents showed up, well her mom and stepdaddy (Beyonce new stepdaddy) I think it was in that order.

    My thing she was attractive, intelligent but not physically ill and yes I know mental illness can be bad. But she will never meet her prince charming, never get married etc. Mary Jane was wrong not to answer her calls, but she was too in a bad place and had a problem drinking all the time. The She could have very well killed the Lickemm lady with the Caddy; Ms. Devine played that role.

  • Zizzle

    RIP.

  • VDot

    Hell naw. I love life way too much. I had just read this story about him killing himself, and made me think about the various ways people manage to do so. And they all sounded painful.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Agreed Ms. Solo PREACH and HUGS and Sending Love your Way

  • SummerBaby

    Thank you for your transparency. I wish you & your family the best. ??

  • 100milesperhour

    MJ knew she attempted suicide before. And I don’t know how I’d take it if my “friend” was intimate with someone I loved. But she went IN on Lisa when she showed up @ her home & gave her no room to speak. Taking digs at Lisa’s mental health & all. Let her talk. Don’t verbally degrade her, then walk away like you do everyone in your life.

  • SummerBaby

    He wouldn’t be the first & combine depression in there anything is possible.

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    I often say being a Mother is the hardest job. We look for our Moms to be strong and guide us but many of them have not dealt with the pain that they have carried for years.

  • Hair Lova ???

    She let the gates and the site went into overload.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I empathize with you and you are strong. I’m glad you were able to forgive, that is something i struggle with everyday.

    I think the reason why she said it was bc her mother and s.father pictured her as a crazy person, especially her step-father. I think she told her the truth bc in life Lisa was never allowed to speak it. That woman knew what her husband did, I don’t believe for a second she didn’t think Lisa wasn’t telling the truth but I do believe she was afraid to leave the man she loved and be alone. You can not ask for respect at a funeral when you allow the man, who was a big catalyst to you daughter’s end, to sit next to you. Lisa that deserve respect.

    I believe when I chose to have my child, I chose to protect her no matter what my issues are. I can’t allow anyone to knowingly harm my child and do nothing simply out of fear for myself. I am a mother first and a woman second.

  • SummerBaby

    Hey! How are you doing today?

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    Thank you for that. Unfortunately, both my brothers are dealing with addictions from this trauma. So your sincere prayers are greatly appreciated.

  • nucynu25

    Awww, I couldn’t imagine

  • nucynu25

    Money doesn’t buy happiness.

  • MzApple

    it seem like on his ig he was working on something with fox recently and still modeling

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    wow…He couldn’t get pass the darkness, tried but still couldn’t.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Been there – minus the cancer. It’s terrible and still going through things. Remembering being in the hospital and the doctor saying, we gotta go back in…Grabbed his and said; that’s okay if it’s not right. Then it will be time for me to go. I was just tired. My said she understood, and said it’s your life but don’t be selfish. Everybody functions in a different way. Hugs

  • Sincerity7

    That show was funny. Dang.

  • Nik

    Agreed!

  • nucynu25

    Wow, that’s crazy. That’s a micrale.

  • Nik

    MJ went too far when she came at Lisa, that’s the truth. She used her weaknesses against her.

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    The bigger picture is that it wasn’t MJ’s story to tell, she did that for her calculated purposes, not Lisa. A better platform to tell Lisa’s story would have been to a group of teen girls going through similar stories, not at a woman’s funeral in front of her colleagues and peers.

  • SummerBaby

    I truly hope your brothers can overcome their addictions.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    YES…Orange EVERTHING…you know how hard it is to find girl orange clothes…I believe coats should be neutral..I had to buy the brightest PINK AND ORANGE coat a live…smh..looking like a chewed up piece of blubble gum

  • nucynu25

    My mom always says suicide is such a selfish act. But honestly idk, who am I to tell somebody to keep living their dark life?

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    Thanks dear. I always welcome hugs and love!

  • Nik

    My first thought was it came out at the tail end of the situation, or shortly after.

  • nucynu25

    It is, I maybe wrong but it’s one of the sins that won’t be forgiven.

  • LeBrick James

    The Book says:
    Do you not know that your body is a temple of theHoly Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own, you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

    I dont believe God wants his children committing suicide.

  • Jusstlookn2

    It wasn’t she WAS WRONG. The family and friends were there to grieve her not her secrets.

  • 1/8

    According to media reports, for seven hours, authorities tried to talk him out of killing himself.

    I’d like to know why the police didn’t secure the area below the bridge and prevent him from hurting himself? There are devices designed specifically for jumpers.

  • Nik

    Dang, I forgot how old they were. I think in their mid-30s.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    We see things differently that wasn’t calculated to me.. and some times when you aren;t strong enough to tell you story someone else should otherwise no one will. The only two people who were ashamed with the molester and his protector.

  • Nik

    That’s right. Well, she couldn’t make him stay so he got what he deserved across that pulpit.

  • nucynu25

    Aww sorry you went through that. Pedophiles are the absolute sickest ppl on this earth to me. Am happy you found closure.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Just dropped in to say hello. It’s unfortunate what happened to this guy. I hope his story is a message to someone else that there are other ways to manage your pain. We never know what another person is going through.

    *Runs back out because I don’t want to be shyt in here today*

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Hey Ms. YT Lady..I hope you are having a good day

  • Nik

    POW!

  • Jusstlookn2

    A sin is a sin and all sins are to be forgiven. The idea of suicide being a mortal sin is man made.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    That’s so sad. But at least the family has the small consolation of having tried to reach him and letting him know he was loved.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    First time talking today and you’re going to shade me like that?

  • MzFutureLCSW

    What show is this?

  • 100milesperhour

    I don’t see how asking him not to come is honoring Lisa, she’s dead now. The time to honor her would be while she’s still breathing, hurting & yearning for her mother’s support, love & affection. I bet once the mother found out, she made Lisa out to be some harlot off the street trying to steal her man.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Yeah it has too, I was on morphine last week and within seconds, my entire body seem to be in flames and I vomited.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Hey There Sweeeeeeetnessssss

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    TeeHee…I couldn’t help it…it STILL funny to me..I just picture a YT chick with her IG lycra dress on, bottom gold fronts, A-symetrical cut, and long nail on listening to T.I bc you know shes a DAT bih….I SORRY.

  • LeBrick James

    I hope your stepfather went to jail for what he did. Too many sexual abusers get away with abusing children.
    And yet the damage to those children will often remain with them for the rest of their lives.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    You think I’m Iggy Azalea? That’s the kind of yt chick you picture me as… Lordt.

    You’re not sorry you meant it.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Hello, how are you?

  • 1/8

    A 1996 Jet Magazine article addressing the suicide rate among black men, cited drugs and alcohol as the leading contributors.

    Basically, the healthcare professionals quoted in the article, stated that blacks are conditioned to believe depression is a “white thing” and often self-medicate with drugs and alcohol.

    If you’re constantly drunk or high, it’s hard to keep a job, and if you can’t keep a job, every aspect of your life is negatively impacted.

  • Nik

    Being Mary Jane

  • AnonymousRose

    yea I thought so, thanks

  • AnonymousRose

    thanks ok…

  • Prettybootnikki

    Wasn’t that Beyoncé step dad??? He kind of looks like the guy that married Tina. I could be wrong though. The show was certainly good. But I just felt like how dare her to not want to tell her parents of the death and service. Like Mary Jane birthed her into this world or something. The nerve of her. But loved the show. So sad about this guy in this post though.

  • JustCoastWitHa

    Damn, that’s funked up

  • 100milesperhour

    Maybe that’s why David said “it wasn’t your fault”, right before the funeral (and she went IN on him too). Because he knows that mouth is lethal when angry.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Better, I’ve been home for almost two weeks and starting too feel better. I feel a nap coming on.

  • nucynu25

    Thanks, I said I could be wrong. Blasphemy against the spirit is a sin that won’t be forgiven.

  • SameoleJ

    I too, forgave my mother for what I thought was turning a blind eye. Turns out, she was molested too and she had a hard time dealing with the fact that she didn’t prevent me going through it. I also understood at a young age that it was not my fault, and the ownership was on the offender, which helped me heal better than she did. In the end, between the two of us, my daughter never experienced it as we both watched for signs and made sure it didn’t happen.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I’m ok. How are you holding up?

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    LOL Damn I did just discribe her…my bad

  • nucynu25

    This post to sad..

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Waaaaiit… ? NOW you can go lol

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Whateva hoe.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Glad to hear you’re feeling better. Take a nap for me. I need it.

  • SummerBaby

    I’m good! I could use a million dollars, but otherwise fine. ?

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Been there done that too

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Haha. You being good? Or are you acting like Whit?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Walks right back out of this post ….. hellz to da no not today Devil … bye!!

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    But I’m not a devil… what about me?

  • Buttercup

    I feel like massah told the slaves that it’s a sin that will not be forgiven, so that they wouldn’t end it. Then again, you don’t have time to repent. Let me go back to work….

  • ~~eb

    I am so mad that Fox Chicago chronicled Milan after last week’s Empire, asking him about being ghey in Hip Hop. I just rolled my eyes. What album/single has he released??

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    be back later!!

  • Just Keya

    See, I just came back in and now im not even gonna read. Let me just go.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Hey luv *hugs and kisses*

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    Same for my mom, she was molested by her uncle. She didn’t know about what happened to us until we were grown (she had longed divorced him). My oldest brother had a come to Jesus moment one night with the aid of weed and beer and called and told her. The next day she asked me and I confirmed. My other brother to this day has never fessed up. At that moment she shared her story, which helped us both heal a bit. I have a daughter (16) and a son (21) and I shared my story with them when they were young and any questions they had I answered them. Every year that past, I thank God that they made it without incident. It became my biggest fear as a parent. God bless you and your wonderful daughter!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Man listen, I done spoke about this here post but I’m unable to can any further. #Currently waiting to pass go and collect my $200

  • Miany

    If she found out when her baby got grown she should have STILL left his behind and called the police, even if statutes of limitations dictate that charges cant be pressed I would have called the law, even if JUST to inconvenience him. I try to let the law help, if they wont? then I would have done other evil stuff to him.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Sew you saying that if you were a YT woman…would you be a Amber Rose type or Jessica Biel type? I would be a Amber Rose type.

  • Ms. Damn Solo

    He did not. By the time my Mom found out, we were grown and she had long divorced him. She wanted to pursue charges but the statue of limitation had passed. In any situation, there is no punishment that man can inflict compared to what God will do to those that harm his children. The last I heard, he broke his back at work and can no longer walk and the young woman he married after my mom takes his check, abuses and cheats on him. He will live the rest of his life suffering for his sins.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    May this man rest in peace. I’ll be back when we have a new post.

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Sorry for the up vote. I thought you were referring to something I just noticed. but you couldn’t be.

  • Mitch

    Tragic.. mental illness

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Sandra you should save these posts for the end of the day like 4:45P or something :kona:

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    So sad. I’ve always wondered what’s so bad in someone’s life that drives them to do that. I lost my best friend of 25 years., It was my belief in god that saved my life. I wonder where his mind was at. At that time.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I would be MUVA ??

  • CookieMobster

    You have really got to be in a bad way to jump off a bridge. If I was going to end it, which I never would I would take way too many Xnaxx or something a gently fall asleep. I ain’t jumping off of nothing.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile I notice quite a bit …..to be honest … way more than your average. I will be back when there is a newpost.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hey bew

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Two?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Just keep ya eyes open chile

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    nah sixty five

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    WHALLLEEE I’d have to think about that. There’s benefits to both of those types.

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    right. sixty five plus two

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Ya’ll need to stop acting up rhet now.

  • Asia

    Also the fact the father said she was bi-polar w a wild imagination when she was a child in the car le d me to believe she said something when she was much younger but “daddy do me” brushed it off saying she was crazy & imagining his special love when confronted.

  • mzwhang90210

    OT: There is a new show on TV called “For My Man.”
    Anyway…there is a story that’s going to air…about a Black woman that shot a yt woman in the parking lot of a hospital/pediatric parking lot…and stole her newborn…and ran over the dying woman as she was clinging to the window of the car. The Black woman planned to present the FULL blooded CAUSIAN baby to her fiance…and tell him she’d just delivered. (She’d falsely claimed to be pregnant…and felt she’d lose her fiance if she didn’t produce a baby somehow)..
    I’m like…how was she planning to pass that off??
    I read up on the story already so I don’t wanna spoil it for those who are gonna watch. IJS..it’s tragic.

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Not acting up at all. Lol. I just like to know what I’m dealing with so I can ignore.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Maybe one of yous can start a listing and share it on a tshirt.

  • mzwhang90210

    Sugar…get out of that kona…I see you.

  • kco0l;s ChocolateBox

    PSALM 23

  • SummerBaby

    I saw the commercial for that episode & was wondering the same thing. ?

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey heffa. I asked my doggy about referring you to her beautician, she said…(and I quote)
    “Since I’m so funny looking…tell her to find her own damn hair stylist…ARF!!”

    #dontshootthemessenger

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    You know you ain’t right Lol. Seriously though this is getting ridiculous. Before I respond to a post I feel like I have to ask the person “Are you real or just a figment of your own imagination.”

  • SayWhatNow?

    Her mother needed to be embarrassed!

  • SummerBaby

    What I miss?

  • mzwhang90210

    Right. I mean…lets say she got away with it…and the boy started growing up..100% WHITE….how was she gonna explain to her fiance Demetrius why their son looked like Harry Potter?

  • SummerBaby

    ReVitiligo ?

  • 100milesperhour

    Yes. It’s easier for some despicable mothers to believe the man b/c believing your child & confronting this SOB takes courage, guts & undisputed love for your baby, something she obviously lacked. Now when Lisa’s dead, she thinks she’s “honoring” her by telling him to stay away from the funeral? What for? The damage has already been done.

  • mzwhang90210

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey Ossie…(IF that’s your real name)…*eyes you suspiciously)…I was back reading some of that stuff…crazy.

  • mzwhang90210

    JenEEEE *waves bye as you drive away*

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey Slanted… *tugs ur hair*

  • mzwhang90210

    Oh yeah…anybody heard from that poster Leah? Remember when she posted that her daughter was being mean to her?
    I hope she’s okay.
    Leah, please reach out and let us know. *hugs*

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Hey girl! No that’s not my real name. LOL. But you can be sure if’s the only one I use on here. That’s why I’m always worried about getting banned cause I would have to start all over. I’m not creative like some people up in here. Probably have a name generator app or something. It is definitely crazy.

  • SummerBaby

    Have you seen @WhittyHutton? I haven’t seen her since the first few days or so of Daquan.

  • mzwhang90210

    LOL…you know its crazy. Got me VERY reluctant to respond to unfamiliar fonts…hell, “familiar” ones too.
    I would just want to know why?? Like really? Like who gets off on doin stuff like that…what do people get from it?

  • mzwhang90210

    No. her, or User eitha. *sigh*

  • SummerBaby

    I miss them & @OTB ?

  • Fendi

    I saw Whitty recently on either Bawsip or MTO.

  • SummerBaby

    Good to know all is well w/her.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Hey Mz.Whang i dont know where to start.FAKING A PREGNANCY.KILLING A MOTHER TO GET HER UNBORN.OR THE FACT THIS BLACK WOMAN TRYING TO PASS A WHITE BABY OFF!!!!i.simply.can.NOT!(turns and leave)

  • mzwhang90210

    Me too.
    I even miss Intense…she used to go IN. lol

  • mzwhang90210

    That’s why I wish Sandra’s old archives were still up. I laughed many a day at some of that stuff.

  • SummerBaby

    Me too! I haven’t seen her in here in quite awhile.

  • SummerBaby

    Me too! The Roses use to drop valuable information, recipes & everything.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I’m not responding anymore …..smh … one thing about it always gets exposed always

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey Payne…I know right..and chile…look at the pics below of her…vs the pics of the parents of the White baby…
    How the hell was she gonna play that off??

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    I don’t know; haven’t been around today.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    You just never know what’s going on in someones life. I don’t know that’s all I got.

  • mzwhang90210

    **Correction…she WAS pregnant..but had suffered a miscarriage. So instead of tell the truth to her fiance…she killed a woman and took her baby. SAD.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    A name generator though? Lawd.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    I feel the same way about you. That pup of yours is not consistent in her hair dos and I thank she might be a spy.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    What’s going on? Something happen today?

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Disrespectful Funny Looking Azz Bish SMH

  • mzwhang90210

    *loud CACKLE*
    Well..if you were Black..I might care but ummm

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    *takes off my bamboo earrings – at least 2 pair* You better watch what you say to me.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Prayers for his loved ones. You never know what a person is going through. I had said once I wish the person who attacked me would of put me out of my misery because I was scared as ish for a long time after. You just never know…

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I finally just finished the assessment for a job I applied for …. nevertheless I’m loving the route the public sector is taking with these test, because the veteran’s preference rating system they have now has caused a mess. This assessment test gives hope to regular qualified civilians ….. it actually test your skills across the board along with your personality….. Chile they taking it back old school in a new innovative way ….. I’m here for it. Not all agencies are using this hiring practice unfortunately , but I do believe more will fall in line with this method of hiring. This form of hiring is used by google too …. filters out a lot of the bad apples … lying on resumes or better yet getting the job and don’t have a clue as to how to perform it well smh …… You have no idea how the current rating system in public sector has ruined so much mess smh #JustVenting

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Nope ….. I’m just keeping my eyes open.

  • mzwhang90210

    *TEARS*
    Chile…the thing is…I honestly thought “Nanna Dee” was who/what she claimed.
    Then I saw her hawking tee-shirts…and I was like huh? When did the blog regs decide on garden tees? ( I felt slighted..like..nobody bothered to tell me?..lol)
    THEN…it was like “Well my boss said blah blah..”
    And that’s when the fur on my toes stood up. Then the TRUTH came out I was like…hell to tha NAW!!!!
    Had me emailing him/her with questions about WordPress…and wasn’t eeem real.
    S.m.h

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Well I was told that they were being canceled because of me then a few days later it was posted that the ‘boss said no’. Who knows what’s real? I don’t and I don’t know if I can bother to care.

    Wait, you have hairy toes? So are you human or a dog?

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Ahh gotcha. I saw some trolls in here yesterday. I paid them nothing.

  • mzwhang90210

    Well..close em & gimme a kiss *muah*

    Yeah JenEEE…when you used to say that, I won’t lie…I’d be like nah..JenEEE is just exaggerating…or speaking from anger.
    I must admit tho..you were SPOT ON.

    ANDDDDDD….there are more too….I’ve noticed since my eyes are open.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    so the yt ppl dont appear to be outrageously rich.but she clearly aint got no money.and this woman was stealing cuh-lear-ly a WHYT baby!!!!if her man was anywhere near HER complection.it still wood have been for naught….CUZ HE WOOD HAVE LEFT HER AZZ FOR CHEATING…AND TRYING TO MAKE HIM TAKE CARE OF A CHILD THAT LOOKS LIKE A YT MAN’S CHILD!Ms.Whang,if you watch please tell me how this chicanery turns out.?

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    It’s ONLY 3:45? I thought it was like 5:30…SMH

    AND we’ve been left for dead in a suicide post. HELP!

  • mzwhang90210

    Wow…sorry Jabba, I didn’t know you were attacked. *hugs*
    Well..thank goodness you made it thru

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Kiss kiss <3

  • SummerBaby

    It’s been a long day! ??

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Yes I did thank you. Laughter helped immensely it did. I would read this blog faithfully and with the birth of Ju and someone special helped, I overcame it.

  • Keesh5000

    Tina Knowles tho ?

  • SummerBaby

    *hugs*

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Maybe because they feel that they aren’t being allowed to
    sit at the table? Not knowing there is
    no table, it does not exist BECAUSE none of this is real. None of it, with the
    exception of opinions, but even that is different depending on what is being
    discussed. People come on here for
    different reasons, some are funny, and some come to talk about reality shows,
    some their favorite drama on TV and so on. The reason for all the log ins
    baffles me. The only other possible reason I can give is… THEY ARE TRULY JUST
    BAT SHYT CRAZY.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    It sure has. I don’t see cooking dinner in my future.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Maybe you should have your bangs cut so you can see.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    AMEN… This is not real life. It’s just not. If you want a seat in these blog streets, you can get it by being true to your self.

    I don’t care if you broads don’t like me, ya’ll still gone let MEH in. lol

  • Chitsngiggles

    I just read this entire post and I must say it hit home. I cried the entire BMJ episode because I was/am Lisa. I suffer with PTSD. My mama don’t get it, yet she is the main culprit.

    Battling depression and suicide is no joke. It doesn’t make you weak either. It’s not a pucci way out. Unless you have suffered through it, folks should watch what they say…

    This blog is a joke sometimes

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Thank God you did! You are the winner.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile it even stole my name and posed as me chile …. smh hence my TM next to my name …. smh

  • Maccabees Apocrypha

    …and there you have! The Oct 31st ritual death of a so-called celebrity.

    where are those folks that was arguing with me yesterday?

  • mzwhang90210

    I will. Her fiance’s pic is below. Even with him being light skinned…I don’t think he would’ve bought that story. Look at the deceased womans kids…

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Yep bawhahahah right … the familiar ones too chile rofl there is even one out there claiming to be exposing the madness about that fool …. quiet as it’s kept I’m Sideyeyeing the hell out that one too IJS . … chile sick

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Is it hard to TM a name?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile Preach !!!!!!!! This is why I say it’s deeper than this blog on every level ….. When I say mentally sick folks be thinking I’m talking mess .. nah I’m dead serious …… That’s a stone cold fool…. everything is a lie with that one everything … I consider folks with that mindset dangerous … real talk

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    Never mind…I think I need a nap.

  • mzwhang90210

    Once I applied for a job…I scored a 92…and was up against a veteran that (as I later learned) had scored an 86. But since the company’s policy was to give veterans an automatic 10 pt credit on their tests..guess who got the job.
    Anyways…good luck !!!

  • SummerBaby

    *hugs*

  • SummerBaby

    I’m tired of cooking every night.

  • Maccabees Apocrypha

    I told you that God can put one of these so-called celebs to Death around this time of the year….around Oct 31st…and I’m gonna make another prediction…wait for it…

  • mzwhang90210

    Bwahaaaaaaaa

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    I hear you. The way my pockets and my waist line are set up though, I need to.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile Lies … all of that was to get folks info chile …. in one of my emails the first thing it said … do you have other roses emails ….. personally fugg I look like giving out other people stuff …. secondly that argument bout some shirts was wack ….. then she proceeds to send me your responses ….. chile once I actually took the time and red that mess …. then she slid Dub name in there out of no where …. I mean out of no where …. and let me tell ya …. I knew something was up ….. chile after that I knew who it was smh ….

  • mzwhang90210

    LOL gurrlllllllllll…makes me wanna cancel my cable.
    Who needs tv with the characters that inhabit the garten?

  • SummerBaby

    I’ve been serious about portion control & watching what I eat so I feel ya’.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I will not disclose that info on this blog chile smh …

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Running the cord from your neighbors house to your house doesn’t mean you ‘have’ cable to cancel.

  • Maccabees Apocrypha

    Sorry to hear that. The Lord wanted you alive for a reason. Ask God to keep a Wall of Fire around you…..I have one around me. I know, because I’ve never been injured/hurt by nobody, and I’ve almost never been able to injure anyone either…lol

  • mzwhang90210

    ARF!…I mean um…I beg YOUR pardon.
    lmao

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    BAwhahahahh chile look at my puppy… gotta look at folks font like this …. do I know you rofl

  • mzwhang90210

    Girl stoppppppppp….I am screamINGGGGGG

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    dead … nice try we digital everywhere nah

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    You’re saying maybe I shouldn’t eat tacos tonight? lol

  • Chitsngiggles

    I get real pissed off at the double standards. Folks can say rude shyt about mental illness, but I better not stand up for my race. That is ass backwards to me.

    Unless you have walked an inch in metal illness watch what you say. You don’t know if somebody is reading this and take remarks like “weak, selfish, and pucci” the wrong way. That’s the reason why black folks don’t discuss mental illness. Cause some dumb ass wants to be insensitive cause they don’t understand.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    NEW POST!

  • Chitsngiggles

    Sometimes I don’t know. It can be like walking through a haze full of mud. You just have to keep pressing through.

  • mzwhang90210

    Preach!!!
    Here’s my thing…if a person has the time, desire..and ability to fake all those personalities (sometimes simultaneously…sometimes having conversations/arguments with THEMSELVES)..then why waste it here? Why not put those skills to use and write short stories or take an acting class???
    That’s why I agree on the mental illness thing…that, and just plain wickedness.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Mz Whang in dis thang!! Hey hun :)

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Happening across the board …. I have scored a 99 before vet 89 add 10 points … we both were referred to the selecting officials… automatically by law I was pushed to the very bottom because 6 other vets were on the same list ….. The vet got first dibbs … I was told if they refuse the job that is when they would start selecting from the non vets…. do you know the Vet they hired stayed on that Job a year and left and they had to re-announce the position again. Frustrating managers too ……

  • SummerBaby

    Mental illness is very real. I had a homeboy commit suicide a few years ago. In all the years of knowing him I never would’ve guessed that’s how things would end for him ?

  • abby500

    BMJ episode? Yes that was deep.

  • SummerBaby

    I had tacos the other night & ate a too many ? I really don’t deny myself anything I’m just trying to eat way less of it. Holiday food is my weakness. ?

  • mzwhang90210

    LMAOOOO…chile I even got cats on the case…

  • mzwhang90210

    lmaoooooo….snitches get stitches.
    IJS

  • Carla

    Why???????????

  • Lurkin’

    Mary Jane’s mother called Lisa’s family.

  • Maccabees Apocrypha

    whenever you pray, light two candle sticks and face the East..hold your
    temples, recite the Lord’s prayer first, and then tell Him to relieve
    you from thoughts in your head, relieve you from any spirits that may be
    housed in your mind, tell Him to forgive any sins that you have
    committed to bring this situation about. God is Real, and you have to
    know that He will hear you, But you have to ask for forgiveness as well,
    because most of the things we suffer are a Direct result of sin.

  • Nik

    Yes. I loved it.

  • Nik

    MJ is a self-sabotager.

  • THE OLDER SISTAH

    People with mental issues can’t maintain for a long period of time without having a “episode” eventually. At least that has been my experience with my family member. They can have you believing them for a while but then something will set them off and they will show out. It’s sad but true. If this is the case then they shouldn’t be on a blog, they should be seeking professional help.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    Sometimes it seem like the person who has everything is the most miserable and the person who you think is miserable is actually at peace with their life. Life is strange like that. RIP young man. I pray that no problem in my life seem too much to bare because usually those problems are temporary. I wonder what made him do it.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    I’m the same. I just try to cut back how much I have because I know me very well. If I say I can’t have it, I’ll want it even more.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    Who gone check me? You and Ms. Frufru? Chile please.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Thank you yes.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Thank you.

  • Ms.Capricorn101

    Lol. The irony.

  • mzwhang90210

    I agree. Eventually..their slip will show.

  • ?E?E?M?A

    Oh shut up ghetto Socrates.

  • mzwhang90210

    Say wutttt???? See..I didn’t know all of THAT was going on.
    Folks will curse you out under one blog identity….then be all up in your font under anotha..thinking they’re doing something.
    LOL…dayum.

  • Loyal Lifestyle

    Lol! Awwww You thought your words would bother me..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Yep!

  • T3

    This is sad. Life is so precious. One of my favorite quotes is be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you don’t know about. I can’t say that I’m ALWAYS kind. But I try. You just never know how a kind word or gesture can impact or even save a life. RIP ??

  • ???

    You see that chit? Just DON’T stop..ever. ugh!

  • ???

    …..and counting

  • ???

    ???

  • ???

    Mental is what it is..in one of her alters she said she goes to counseling.

  • ???

    That crazy bish has done this on many sites. She be allllll damm day doing it too. Folks on HSK used to be like “damm bish when DO YOU have time to wash yo azz?

  • ???

    She done got one girl so mad that her life was being threatned ..it was that bad.

  • ???

    Word on the curb is that she is/was a writer..not a good one tho.

  • ???

    That’s how she eventually gets outed..her outburst. She seems to be happy when she thinks she’s in control of manipulating people to talk and even agree with her but the minute the veil is lifted and people start really seeing what’s up is when she completely unravels..hence the sudden rush of new names and them cosigning each other. That’s her way of trying to get people to talk with her again. If you pay attention to those new log ins you will see that they start off agreeable and you may even sympathize with the sad “stories” but keep watching and in time you will see the flip..happens everytime.

  • annon

    Dont want folks thinking?..lol Yes….but this is probably one of the main reasons for suicide…givin a fk what people think of your personal life. Only small minds focus on that type of petty nonsense anyway. Their opinions should have little value. I give NO fks. And do just fine.

  • Asia

    Exactly. The sad thing is this happens too often for comfort 2 times in my own family. Idk if it’s desperation or delusion on the part of these women but either way it’s disgusting. Almost like how women always confront the other woman instead of her man when her man is the 1 she should be going ham on. Not exactly the same but still women need to have more respect & dignity for themselves when it comes 2 what they allow men’s to get away w in the name of saying “I got a man”…smh

  • Sexy CJ

    R. I. P……………

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I mass cook or cook 2-3 meals in advance. Everything is labeled and can be heated up, nuked, or whipped up in less than 10 mins from fridge to table. Main ingredients like meats are already prepared too so they can be whipped up, i.e. ground turkey can be patties or for chili.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Summer, what is holiday food?

  • Auditor

    Damn I know that bridge…condolences to his family…

  • Auditor

    So true…

  • Auditor

    I feel you…your own family be the coldest…

  • Auditor

    Yup take it day by day (that’s all you can do anyway)

  • Auditor

    My slow cooker/pressure cooker takes the wheel!

  • Auditor

    My first fed job the vet guy stayed on for 3 days…and said it was too much paperwork! I don’t think vet preference has hurt me in federal hiring. None of my coworkers are vets. But once you’re in you’re in! If you leave make sure to do 3 years to get the full benefits or you’ll lose them.

  • Auditor

    Maybe her man was white? Lol

  • Auditor

    Nm missed the pic…

  • Auditor

    Albino?

  • SummerBaby

    All the food we have at Thanksgiving & Christmas holiday.

  • mzwhang90210

    Kiss kiss

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Smh. Nah. That could be everyday around here. I can’t even lie. I can’t let the holidays be the reason I pig out. I likes to EAT! ?

    Wait a minute! Why does the pig have to be BLACK!? This is a conspiracy!

  • mzwhang90210

    It’s food that Billie Holiday used to serve folks before she sang.
    *pops you in da back of the head*

  • ???

    Jenie I’ve been trying to tell yall..especially you..about this girl since the time Sandra let people in. I can see where you could get confused cause people normally do but I can assure you that I’m not a troll or the troll. I get that at this point everybody that came in later is suspect but just so you know when I seen her coming at you I recognized her because she has done the same thing to me and countless others before…and no this is not a case of hit dogs hollering because as far as I know nobody else has been trying to break all of this down. If you don’t want or need the input then cool but don’t misunderstand me cause I ain’t into this stupid chit that she does..never was!

  • ???

    This time last year she did that very same chit when she was getting exposed..stealing name.,until the moderator came in and called her out..it got that bad. I’m certain that it’s her.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    CORONA!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    You betta unass me woman! ???

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    You might save their life

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    :hug:

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Thank you. Gives it bak

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    (But I really left though :crying1: …I couldn’t regain my composure :no: …and you were being so sincere :ghost: )

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    I can’t stand me either, which is why I excused myself :tears:
    :kiss:

  • Lambily01

    I can attest to the fact that is a very, very painful, unpleasant feeling.

  • R in NYC

    This is so tragic. I’ve suffered from depression for the past 32 years and I know all too well how it can lead you down some dark places. People make fun of mental illness and constantly use “bi-polar” as an insult. It’s just not funny folks. I don’t know this man’s diagnosis but I’m sure he felt alone and frustrated. There’s nothing worse than being in emotional and psychological pain and feeling hopeless while those around you wish you would just “get over it”. May this young man rest in peace.

  • AnniA

    I have asked myself the same question over and over again. They are against therapy because of that “what happens in this house, stays in this house” mentality. This “house” is the number one contributing factor to my mental state so back the hell up so I can run and go tell it! Hell, most of us need some time on a professionals sofa!!

  • socaligirl99

    He doesn’t but most people who kill themselves are mentally ill and I think God doesn’t hold that against them. Just my opinion though.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    The love of my life passed away as did other immediate family members this week. It’s been rough. I’ve just been out of the loop for a minute. I’m up now missing them and making sure the little Freebushes are sleep. I’ll pop back in from time to time.