helen highwater

A gender critical transsexual is speaking out against the myth promoted by the media that men can be women and women can be men.

Helen Highwater, a 42-year-old British accountant, caused controversy when he wrote a blog post criticizing the global Gay Agenda.

Highwater is a transsexual. He plans to undergo sexual reassignment surgery in the UK next year.

But he says even if his surgery is a success, he will never be a female.

In his blog post, Highwater called the “trans women are women” movement a “vicious lie.”

“It’s a vicious lie that is as dangerous for transwomen as it is for women. It’s a lie that sets us up to be triggered every time we are called he, or ‘guys’ or somebody dares to suggest that we have male biology,” she writes. “Even a cursory glance from a stranger can cut to our very core. The very foundations of our self-worth are fragile.”

Highwater dismisses the leftist’s prevailing theory that men can have female brains and vice versa. Recent studies show there is no such thing as male and female brains.

Read Highwater’s post here.

  • Milani

  • MzFutureLCSW

    Good. Hopefully, this will enlighten people who are radical.

  • Canary Red™

    He is telling the truth!

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    But he says even if his surgery is a success, he will never be a female.

    ____________________________
    And water is wet. FOH! Hell tell me something I don’t already know. Like tonight’s Power Ball numbers.

  • partytime

    Amen.

  • MzFutureLCSW

    @sandrarose You have spam in the Walmart story.

  • SameoleJ

    Well isn’t he a Smartypants!!

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    MY FAITH IS BEING TESTED ROSES…I’LL BE IN AND OUT FOR A WHILE. P.O.P. HOLD IT DINE.

    AND *HE* IS EXACTLY RIGHT…BUT MOST OF US ALREADY KNEW THIS.

  • Hater

    No lie!

  • 1/8

    It amazes me that some of those confused men actually think they are women and have the nerve to look down on gay men. You can slice and dice your body parts, but you can’t change your DNA.

  • Fendi

    Based on the excerpt posted, I appreciate Ms. Highwater. I will grant her the respect of referring to her in the feminine pronoun because she acknowledges that, even post-gender reassignment surgery, she will still be transgender. I am not opposed to anyone. I am, however, opposed to the notion that adding or subtracting genitalia is cause enough for a person’s gender to be legally reclassified. It takes other anatomical components to classify someone as male or female. Our genders are defined when we’re in utero. The notion that, regardless of your age or gender, you can legally reclassify yourself because of how you opt to identify is ridiculous. Regardless of how a person feels in their skin, we are what we were created to be. No amount of defiance will change that.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    No chit Sherlock

  • SandrasNewFave

    Lot of thoughts but one prevails- is the picture a remake?

  • SandrasNewFave

    Stay strong

  • Jen_n_juice

    But he says even if his surgery is a success, he will never be a female.
    ————–
    I stopped reading after this truth was stated. I agree! Morning Roses!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Sometimes we will walk through the valley. Go on through the test. I want to hear this astonishing testimony when you’re done. ??

  • jussaying

    This was a great read – I read the entire article and what it touches on is more so gender issues which a lot of people seem confused about since people always confuse gender and sex.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    YALL HAVE NO IDEA…I CANNOT GET THROUGH MY MORNING GIRLFRIENDS IN GOD DEVOTION WITHOUT CRYING…I STILL HAVE YET TO FINISH IT.

  • Di Ana

    Exactly what is the “agenda”… to turn everyone into homosexuals?

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    THIS IS ABOUT TO PUT ME BACK IN TEARS…THANK YOU.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    WAKE UP

  • the guest

    And why do transexuals need to call themselves women? Why cant they just call themselves transexuals? Because deceit is a part of their identity and deceit is a part of the identity of the DL men who sleep with them. They should all just say what they are a man that prefers to look like a woman and a man who prefers men who look like women. They want society and the government to legitimize deceit instead of just being real about who they are.

  • Liz

    GM, I was pleasantly surprised by her thoughtful post. It really makes you think.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    He has to know “they” are going to snatch his slip, wig, and tiara. Afterwards, he will find all his stilettos have been sawed off and made into Caitlynesque kitten heels. He will be put out the circle, membership revoked, ostracized, and have his Entertainer Of the Year sash ripped to shreds.

  • lil goodie

    It amazes me that some people don’t believe in GOD but wake up every morning and able to live another day with good luck/ naw..it’s blessings..

  • Di Ana

    oops… sorry.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I’ll wait for you.

  • jussaying

    GM beautiful! It just was stuff I’ve heard before lol but it’s nice that it was coming from (their words) “non gender conforming male.”

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Montel Williams was on Morning Joe this morning. I had no idea he was a veteran (Marine Corps). Anyways, he was speaking on the Donald Trump ‘Muslim Ban’ he made some very thoughtful and valid points. Nevertheless, it amazes that people (media/politicians) won’t just state the obvious. Donald Trump is doing so well because America is full of stupid racists. The end. This is not a surprising anomaly.

  • my view

    I heard Montel on the breakfast club one morning and I really enjoyed his interview

  • SandrasNewFave

    Tears are good. I am into feeling things. Don’t suppress it or try to rush it. Feel it, learn from it, grow. You can face this challenge & succeed. You got this. ??

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    To each his own, however…? I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh MY help…

  • Liz

    Its just nice to see her evolution of thought and see some consideration not just for herself but actuall women. Sometimes it seems like transwomen hate natural born women so its nice to see one that doesn’t

  • 1/8

    It amazes me that some people believe in god.

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    It really is a good read. Better than I expected.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Highwater is speaking the truth!

  • YOUR man chose BSweet #ohwell

    What does your DNA say? We can be whatever we feel like we are but those things we can’t change… in 200 years if you dig you up how will they classify you? I’m bothered that people get mad about that.

  • AnonymousRose

    your future job application check one
    *Male
    *Female
    *Transgender
    *Transsexual
    *Not sure
    *Non of the Above

  • Bam Bam Li

    ???

  • Genia Gouch

    I can appreciate this article.

  • LibraGirlonly

    It’s about time someone in that community made that statement. I struggle with understanding transgender because my brain tells me that you can’t change your DNA.

  • Bam Bam Li

    * transracial, *martan, *supergender. Don’t know what the last one is, or maybe I’m afraid to make something up it might actually become a thing smfh

  • stav

    Society is and always has been so disrespectful to women. To try to get society to buy into their non-sense that all it takes to be a woman is to grow out your hair , buy some silicone sacks , and parade around in women’s clothing.It’s deplorable to women worldwide! Men would never say that a biological woman that cuts off her breast , and gets a tiny fake penis is a man. Stop trying to sell us this crap ! We are not buying!

  • LibraGirlonly

    You got that right and black people should be very careful about supporting Donald Trump. We can’t walk out our door without being a target and I just don’t think the Republicans care about our struggle.

  • lil goodie

    Amen!!!!!! For he is my creator..

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  • LibraGirlonly

    I get my strength from my faith and it’s a wonderful feeling.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    You’re right. It’s not. They have been waiting on him. A voice of the “people”. ?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Very careful? They shouldn’t be voting for him period.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I’m going to have to check it out.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Well alright

  • AnonymousRose

    Not sure= Im confused not sure what I want to be.. Still deciding

  • lil goodie

    Don’t forget race….that is soon to change..but the wrong answer you get deported..(to somewhere)

  • LibraGirlonly

    Agreed but tell that to the foolish black pastors that are speaking up for Trump. Do you think they are getting their pockets lined ? You know it’s always about money.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Sooo… Am I the only one that just saw that and what the heck does that mean?

  • 1/8

    I am convinced that self-hatred is at the root of most cases of transsexualism. These are gay men who are attempting to eradicate their homosexuality by declaring they are really women trapped in a man’s body.

    Over the years, I have witnessed a handful of associates “transition” into make-believe women and every last one of them is miserable. You can’t cure self-hatred by erasing who and what you are; you fix it by embracing your true self.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Saw what?

  • AnonymousRose

    so lets see
    Black
    white
    dark white
    blasian
    light black
    mid white (pink)
    isis
    none of the Above
    yep I can see that

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Has anyone tried any cleansing/ flat tummy teas? If so, did they work? I am going to head to the health food/vitamin store at some point next week. Looking for suggestions…

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Say that… chile.

  • Angela

    What is that monster figure about to bite off his face?? It’s scaring meh.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I used a cleanse from D health store. It worked you just have to follow the diet as well for it to work. I ate my way back up the scale so I’ll be doing another one soon.

  • Auditor

    Chile…*sits back with kettle chips*
    Preach on!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lawd…okay.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    DON’T APOLOGIZE…JUST PAY ATTENTION

  • Auditor

    What is it supposed to do? I take magnesium every night and it cleans me out every morning along with naturally relaxing your muscles to help you sleep.

  • Chile_Pleeze

    I WAS THINKING ALIEN VS PREDATOR LOL

  • Auditor

    #dead and yes the truth!

  • Auditor

    And you know this…

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Ballerina tea. @Good Day highly recommends it lol.

  • Hater

    So true!

  • LibraGirlonly

    Lol

  • Auditor

    Lol me too

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    WHOOT.

    I like it. HOWEVER, there are some right here on this blog arena that have something ELSE to say. It depends upon your body, the strength of the tea, and how long you let that bad boy steep.

    I’ve also used Valerie Simpson.

  • http://batman-news.com Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    First thing that popped up in my head too

  • JayCee087

    “Even a cursory glance from a stranger can cut to our very core. The very foundations of our self-worth are fragile.”

    ^
    This is a problem for much of society. I grew up being bullied, but my self-esteem and self-worth was never “fragile.” My parents taught me that in life you will encounter a**holes. You pick your battles, deal with it, move on and be great. I was never “triggered” as a kid. This new world is just……strange now.

  • Empress

    He is absolutely correct. If every clue that a transgender has that is telling them they are the wrong sex is based on stereotypes, then the male and female brains must be different. This notion will have Women’s Rights advocates spinning they will never agree to that! If we agree to this argument it opens the door to all types of racist an sexist nonsense. Most of the stories that transgenders tell about how they “knew” they were in the wrong body is full of culture based sex-role stereotypes such as; “I wanted to play with dolls”, “I like to wear dresses”, “I was never into sports or rough housing like the other boys”, Never once heard any man say “when I went through puberty I kept waiting for my period to start, that’s how I knew I should have been a girl.” Their ideas of gender are ALL culture none of it is biological/genetic. All the transmen are out there being super macho, hell most of them seem to be gym nuts(the average born male is not like that) While most trans women act super fem like Marilyn Monroe. Ridiculous.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Psalm 14:1

    To the chief Musician, A Psalm of David. The fool hath said in his heart,There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.

  • Shantonda

    it seems like common sense… and considering that by definition, they can not actually trans-fer into being a woman without certain equipment… however i have been called transmisogynistic for making such statements on twitter. being confronted by feminists telling me i have a phobia bc i said “a chick with a dick”… ok it may have been offensive, a wee bit (chuckle chuckle) but its def not a phobia… and this is not as common sense as one would think.

  • 1/8

    If it makes your life better, that’s a good thing and you’ll get no argument from me. I understand the purpose of religion, but I have never believed in god, the devil, heaven or hell.

  • Xsjado

    Someone with sense..lol

  • Auditor

    Just curious…where do you think you’ll go when it’s all said and done? Also who created the world?

  • Auditor

    Just pure evil…

  • Auditor

    They want you to agree with their sick delusions

  • Shantonda

    they gotta dream and possibly still a dick, guess that’s enough. lol

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Welp….

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lol. ok.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Thanks for the tip, I’m going to research magnesium. Basically, it supposed to help reduce bloating. I’m trying to see how much of this is bloat and how much is fat. LOL

  • Nonya Bizness

    After Boot Camp, Montel was placed in the Naval Academy Preparatory School.He completed the course and was accepted to the 4 year U.S. Naval Academy.Upon his graduation, he became the first African American enlisted Marine to complete and graduate both the Naval Academy Prep School and Annapolis.(Wikipedia)
    I watched his show for years and always heard him talk about his time in the Navy, but never the Marines.Wow.

  • the guest

    Agreed completely.

    There could be a men’s bathroom, a women’s bathroom, a bathroom for men who prefer to dress like women, and a bathroom for women who prefer to dress like men. That way everyone is open and honest about who they are and accommodated.

  • i troll it like i see it

    If you haven’t had an actual sex change then you are simply a cross dresser and that’s ok!

  • Meme81

    My question for him is if you know you will never be a true female, then what is the point of having the surgery?

  • Meme81

    Well, the alternative is: believing in ones self, others, nature, nothing-all of those things are temporal and can let us down. I’d rather live by God’s plan than to simply be buffeted by the winds of happenstance. But, I completely understand people who don’t agree. Trust me, most Christians who are honest have had waivers in faith and doubts.

  • Meme81

    I guess he does special affects.

  • Meme81

    Isis??? Dead.

  • Paige

    Not believing there is a creator amazes me.

  • Auditor

    O OK yea no bloating…I pretty much eat right and cut dairy out my diet….which caused alot of my problems.

    Yea they say magnesium is lacking in our bodies.

  • Auditor

    Me too…I wake up to these amazing mountains everyday and just off that…I know there is a God…

  • 1/8

    What happens to an ant, a housefly or a hummingbird when it dies, where does it go?

    For some reason, man has convinced himself that he is too special to simply die, and there MUST be a second act.

    When we die, our bodies break down and our remains are incorporated into other organisms… just like other animals that die.

    Question: If everything has a creator, who created the creator?

  • 1/8

    What happened to all the people who died before “Jesus” was born, did they all go to h311? Furthermore, according to the bible, no one has gone to heaven since “Jesus” died. I’m sorry, there are too many holes in those stories for me to take them seriously.

  • 1/8

    If you’re saying god never disappoints its followers, I strongly disagree. I’m sure there were many disappointed Christians following 9/11, the massacre in Paris, and the slaughter in San Bernardino.

    If you tell me your god’s plan was to sit by while innocent people die….

  • Emily post

    No duh… Who calls transexuals women?

  • PrettyBrown28

    Ok…you don’t believe in God, heaven, or hell. Why are you so up in arms? If we are all foolish in believing there is a God, heaven, hell, or the devil…why do you care? You can’t be offended by something you don’t care about or believe in, right? The fact is deep, deep, deep in the back of your mind you do wonder if there is a God.

  • Auditor

    Eh I wouldn’t say “convinced”. Humans are magical creatures…this is why we run the world. No other creature is able to do what we are able to do. That’s why they are irrelevant in the scheme of things. That is a fact and cannot be debated.

    And nope can’t answer your question on who created God…guess you’ll have to ask that to the creator when you get a chance. But who said EVERYTHING had a creator? I just said the world was created.

  • PrettyBrown28

    Hell, I’m bothered that transgenders are trying to take away my right to be a woman simply because they WANT to be one. And no the hell you can’t be what you want to be so stop that foolishness.

  • Auditor

    Demons…they walk among us…

  • Paige

    You have the right to believe or disbelieve. I won’t argue with you. What I will say is that your living dangerously. There is a God and one day my dear you will answer to him.

  • Junkanoo

    For many people they will continue to treat transgender people as the sex they feel they were born to really be . The big issue I have is its ok for trans people to call themselves what they like an if I disagree I shouldn’t feel threatened by they’re perspective. It’s so hard to really grow up emotionally in western culture were constantly looking outside of ourselves for validation of our beliefs or were constantly trying to convince folks of why they’re wrong an were right if we don’t share the same view on a given issue.

  • Li

    After the change surgery, will she be able to menstruate? That’s what REALLY makes a woman.

  • 1/8

    The same jealous, spiteful god who murdered children in the bible?

  • 1/8

    Humans are magical and quite arrogant, too. We don’t run the world, we are ruining it. Furthermore, no animal is irrelevant.

  • 1/8

    Please, do not confuse my convictions with anger. I enjoy Sandra’s blog, because the articles and comments are entertaining. If anything here made me angry, I wouldn’t be here. ?

    In addition, I never referred to you or anyone else, as foolish for believing in god. I merely stated the fact that I do not believe in deities or devils.

  • 1/8

    You are one of the most angry, confrontation weeds in the garden. Your endorsement of god is laughable.

  • Auditor

    Nope only race that ruins everything is white folks…but that’s a whole nother topic.

    I meant irrelevant in what they can do in comparison to humans. Of course every animal has a reason for being here.

    And yes humans are arrogant because they believe they can play God and tamper with things that don’t or shouldn’t be tampered with in the first place.

  • 1/8

    I agree, white people can be quite meddlesome, to put it mildly. However, they are not solely responsible for all the ills of our planet.

    As for the latter part of your statement, I agree with you 100%.

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Or just a third bathroom for “others”.

  • Choppituph

    please do share where you are getting your information from Empress? I am a transman, and i have not witness your assumed description of what transmen do anywhere?! maybe you are thinking of masculine studs?????? maybe?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks, hun.

  • anjanette b

    Nobody loves who they are anymore. Everybody trying there best to be different than who there are. I quess because people don’t know who they are in the first place.

  • KB

    I can’t even read the post because I’m trying to figure out why they are in front of the Alien monster.

  • KB

    Wasn’t expecting that…LOL!

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Are you familiar with Pascal’s Wager?

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I’m not angry, but I’m not surprised a Godless person like yourself would think so. You’re the angry confused one, not me. I know what I am which is why I don’t have to break myself down into percentages, nor do I latch on to a race / group of people Idont belong too. Oh FYI the most high doesnt need me to prove his excistance, he does all on his own everyday, you have no belief in him because he has none in you. Later neanderthal

  • 1/8

    Well, you are the most unhappy, happy person I have ever met.

  • 1/8

    Yes, I am and Pascal seem to suggest we act like we believe in god, even if we don’t, because it’s a safer bet. Is your god so easily swindled?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    THANK YOU!

  • yallcrazy

    CTFU!!!

  • Oya Shango

    A biologically born male, who has been surgically and hormonally altered to present as “female,” can never be a biological, chromosomal female . . . period. The female is more than just the sum of her anatomical parts. Besides her natural ability to give birth, her soul, spirit and very essence exudes her bio-genetic makeup. Sacred aspects that cannot be synthetically replicated in a laboratory. It is deeply offensive, insulting and trivializing to dare call a surgically altered male a “woman.” I support GLBQT civil rights, but I do not support modifying bio-science to justify this kind of madness. . . .

  • the guest

    True. I was being gracious with suggesting four bathrooms. Transsexuals should practice honesty and transparency. Why pass as women? Just be transsexual. DL men should stop hiding and be proud to proclaim and introduce their significant other to the world as a transsexual. The word woman should be reserved for women and if you are not dating a woman you should not refer your lover as one. First thing transsexuals should say to men they meet is I’m a transsexual instead of being deceitful at all.

  • the guest

    It’s evil for transsexuals to deceive people.

  • Meme81

    I didn’t say God never disappoints. I think my statement was very clear. People’s understanding of how the Lord operates is skewed. That probably has a lot to do with their disappointment. I’m learning about God every day. It’s been a long learning curve. What I’ve realized recently is he doesn’t respond to whining and self pity. He really does help those who help themselves and still believe on him to fill in the gaps. At least that’s what I believe. If you don’t, then I understand and can even respect that.

  • Meme81

    I’ve asked God the same question you’re asking a LOT. Why all the pain and suffering? I’ve asked it about my own life as well. I can only speak for myself, because I was recently healed of an illness I had for 12 years, that I thought would NEVER go away, and my doctor called me and told me my tests were 100% negative. I was more grateful to be alive and it brought me closer to him AND I am able to empathize with people living with chronic illnesses. Those are just a few of the positive things that have come from my suffering. Pain can bring a greater healing and appreciation of life.

  • TooMunch

    Whoooaa! This a one mind blowing comment.

  • 1/8

    As a child, I was kicked out of Sunday school for expressing these thoughts. I refused to believe that a god who allegedly created all creatures, would place more value on one species.

  • 1/8

    Did it ever occur to you that there is no god, and its creation is man’s way of knowing the unknowable, the incomprehensible?

    Science created the universe and man created god to make sense of it all. What some refer to as god, is merely nature in its many splendid forms.

  • Meme81

    I think everyone who is a Christian has wondered that. So, yes, I have. But honestly, I can feel his presence. I know that sounds strange, but I do. And I’ve witnessed miracles in my life that I couldn’t explain. Like being healed of an illness after over a decade.

  • Meme81

    The last thing I can say in response to you is that everything in the Universe has an opposite-up/down, black/white, right/wrong-and as I do believe there is a God, I also believe there is an opposite to that who is the author of pain and suffering. When God’s people are being attacked or when his people spit in his eye metaphorically, he can’t help us. He made us in his image. So just like when we have a friend or family member that curses us and wants nothing to do with us, we either get angry in response OR remove ourselves from that person’s life. God can’t bless what we curse.

  • 1/8

    A man who claims he knows everything is a fool. With that being said, I could be dead wrong and you could be right. As a left-handed, biracial, homosexual, atheist, I have no room to judge anyone else’s beliefs. LMAO!

    This world can be a very scary place and if your belief in god gets you from A to B, I support you 100%.

    We’ll just have to agree to disagree. ?

  • TooMunch

    Your thoughts are definitely against the grain (lol), although I do not agree with some of your comments, I find them pretty interesting and valid.

    It was a pleasure to see the debate between youself and AuditDOD (whom I agree with more btw). But, you surely made me go hmmm! LoL. You have some powerful thoughts and some solid points.

  • 1/8

    I was an odd child. My parents were always asking, “Where did you hear that?!” They couldn’t believe I was coming up with those thoughts on my own. LOL!

    In the words of Sly and the Family Stone, “Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin)!”

    ?

  • Meme81

    I agree. When you find that person who KNOWS everything, tell them that. I simply tell people what I believe.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    duh. There you have it. So men who choose to sleep with a ts, women are officially on to you now. TS are nothing more than men disguising their voice(s) with a face of caked on make-up. Many times, their schlung is as thick and long as the man lusting after them. And yes, those men love to put the ts schlung in their mouth(s).

  • TooMunch

    I like ‘outside the box’ type of people, as well as the folks that just try to ‘do the right thing’ type folks. That is a really cute story, and I know that you must have kept your mother on her toes! LoL. Take care ?

  • eljjai

    what amazes me the most about atheists is how they wana act like they are better than Christians because they believe in Science and proven facts. Then watch them turn around and call Bruce Jenner a woman.
    Fcuk science, Bruce Jenner is a woman dammit.

  • eljjai

    while we all have the right to accept or dismiss the idea of faith of any kind, I would ask both believer and non believers if they are making an informed decision. People tend to jump on bandwagons. Right now it’s “in” to be atheist. So many people are piling on that, whether it works for them or not.

  • the guest

    PERFECTLY SAID.

    Your comment needs to be reposted and read all over the world.

  • the guest

    Because even if he makes some compassionate and valid points, he is still mentally unwell and disturbed.

  • the guest

    It’s like women can’t just take a man’s word for it that he’s straight. DL men and tranny’s bury a secret world of lies.

  • the guest

    Can you believe this! They actually make tampons with fake blood in them for transsexuals.