love and hip hop atlanta

Yesterday, a loyal reader named Baron sparked an intense debate in the comments section when he claimed that widespread "homophobia" in the black community is the reason why down low black men stay in the closet.

Another commenter corrected Baron by stating that being in the closet does not equate to being a down low man who hooks up with multiple men and brings diseases home to his wife or girlfriend.

The take away from the debate was that only down low gay men who are living foul tend to experience homophobia in the black community.

Read on...

This is a private taping on a closed set.

The event is closed to the public.

  • SummerBaby

    I know they previously did a panel after the Miles & other dude relationship.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    And what happened?? Who led the discussion?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Sigh. I don't trust anything "positive" Mona does.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Ditto.

  • SummerBaby

    I don't recall who led the discussion. I do remember Snoop from the Wire, Miles & his man, Ray J, Karomo, the transgender that's on the new season & a bunch more folks on the panel.

  • Just Keya

    Mona does stuff for drama and money. I don't really care for her.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Doing so will result in your immediate removal and possible charges.
    ^^^^^
    Imma need this hw. Charged with WHET?

  • Renee26

    I wonder if they are going to debate if Jose was born a woman...(I still want to see childhood photos), if Stevie J and the fellas in the "creep squad" are on the DL or just male whores

  • sunni_daze

    Because it's usually everything but positive. I feel you

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Assault by camera?? **shrugs**

  • It’s Taurus Season

    I remma this. I did not watch off the strenff of how you got Ray Gay up there and at THAT time him singing in Floyd living room to all the menz (see video) was kinda recent

    Suspect.

    https://youtu.be/BZUZ61LchxE

  • SummerBaby

    That video is hilarious every time. It never gets old. ?

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Still don't think mimi and Chris fit each other. I heard mimi with another woman anyway

  • Renee26

    Probably copyright infringement....they want to make sure nothing gets leaked before their show airs.

  • Yoni

    Baron sparked an intense debate in the comments section
    ______________________
    Whurr? Which post? I swear I miss all the good stuff.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Promise to love you. Trust me...I trust you.

    ???

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    When is the anti-criminal-hiring show?

  • Renee26

    people rarely change their viewpoints so really the panels are pointless

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Tells you it will be a hot ratchet Mona production.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    It will always be a classic. Ray-J at that piano crooning...to a room full of men.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    THIS!!!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    OH, THIS is exactly what the world needs to see... :facepalm:
    ---------------------------------------
    I'm down for real No-Bullying discussions, meetings, picnics etc BUT NOTHING ABOUT MONA SAYS RESPONSIBLE...

  • It’s Taurus Season

    This I can see. When I first saw it though, I couldn't immediately think of a charge

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    You never disappoint lol

  • Yoni

    Not a "hot ratchet Mona production". LMAO

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    THIS! I concur. Wrong person for this discussion.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    *jacked

    DUBAI, United Arab Emirates — A 25-year old American woman appeared in court Monday on misdemeanor charges for allegedly insulting the United Arab Emirates in public while waiting for a taxi at the Abu Dhabi International Airport.

    The National, a government-owned newspaper in the emirate of Abu Dhabi, reported that the woman, who was not named, has been under arrest since Feb. 23. The newspaper says she told the Federal Supreme Court that she was waiting for a taxi at the airport when two men approached and spoke to her in a manner she did not like.

    It quoted her as saying that she “refused to engage with them and
    nothing happened.” The report did not say if evidence was presented
    against her.

    The National says she requested from the court to pay a fine and be released from jail. A verdict was set for May 2.

    The U.S. Embassy in Abu Dhabi responded to an Associated Press query by stating that the embassy, “is aware of the case and is providing
    consular services.”

    While liberal on some issues, the UAE has strict laws governing
    expression. Unlike in many Western countries, defamation is treated in
    the UAE as a criminal rather than a civil matter. Insulting the UAE’s
    leaders, or the country itself, can carry a prison sentence and steep
    fines.

    In 2013, a 29-year-old U.S. citizen from Minnesota was tried under a
    cyber-crimes law and accused of defaming the country’s image abroad for posting a spoof video online about youth culture in the UAE. He spent nine months in prison before being deported and fined $2,700.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Speakin of LHHATL, did yall see all of Tommie's mugshots. She ain't wrapped too tight.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Yes! I was like damnb!

  • SummerBaby

    I saw all the mugshots & different hairstyles

  • SpillyNillie

    And was SO passionate...#onewish

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Chahged with UPDATING! *snorts*

  • It’s Taurus Season

    All his heart, soul, emotion chile. All of it.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Well damn. They do not play in the UAE. I still want to go. Badly.

  • SpillyNillie

    Well damn, when did it air? I'm one or two episodes late?

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    You mean Atasha the fraud princess? Yes, I saw. I'd expect better acting from a person with that many fraud charges...but then again, perhaps her lack of acting skill is why she has so many.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Is this when they started referring to him as Ray-Gay?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    THEN, Mimi had the GALL to say she not gay because Chris identify as gay. Mona needs a darn Oscar for all these storylines and scripts. And Mimi don't give because Chris don't like to be touched anywhere that reminds HER of being a woman.

  • SummerBaby

    I also saw the victim trying to book as many interviews as possible.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    LE VEILED GHEYS

  • Renee26

    That's utterly ridiculous! This is why I have no desire to visit any country that requires their women to walk around silent and covered from head to toe...I will not be oppressed because of their cultural beliefs.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    OMG I FINALLY HIT PLAY...HE WAS SINGING TO FLOYD!!!

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    I simply say have the strength to live your life and stop pretending to be someone else. If you are in fear of your own truth..don't involve innocents in your deception to make YOU feel better about YOU..Don't try to validate your decision by deceiving others into thinking you are
    A Man
    A Woman
    Straight
    It will always backfire in some degree or another. This world is unforgiving enough without adding unnecessary drama on top of it.. I can't imagine the feeling of being gay in this world. But nothing in this life is easy. To cop out and say it is fear that made me hurt or harm anothers life is selfish.I can't even understand this if this wasn't the age of acceptance. Everyday you live and you make choices. Chose to live your truth..
    Big props to those who do.. for those who don't get help...

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He's right.

    Explain to me why there is so much more revulsion from male homosexuality when compared to lesbianism even among women?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Two episodes. Last night.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Uh oh. See, I didn't do the education on her. Just knew she was 6 cans short of a six-pack.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Huh??? So what does she hunch, her feet? How does she even enjoy sex?? I'm confuzzled.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    NOT 6 ZOE!

  • Yoni

    :ghost: :rofl:

  • LadyFrance

    Who has time to be arrested that many times? apparently years 2003-2014 were not good years

  • Renee26

    On topic...why is it not frowned upon when men cheat and bring diseases back home when they cheat with women?? I mean Sandra has constantly said that men are genetically inclined to cheating because they need to spread their seeds. So it's perfectly acceptable for men to cheat in many peoples eyes.

  • Yoni

    She said she's a "giver". I guess THAT'S how she "gets off" is by giving.......like a pedophilic santa claus of sorts.

  • Tammie Reed

    They sent this to me and I deleted this so quick, no thanks! Didn't even know it was for one of Mona's reality shows! So glad I declined I have laundry to do lol.

  • Nina Ross

    Have you ever seen a "whipped" man cheat?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I was like ma'am. Mimi will do anything for a limelight and a bald d...

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Its when I did. I can't speak for others. ?

  • Nina Ross

    Lmao!! I just forwarded it to others;)

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    So...my thing is this. If you get no pleasure from being touched then that's a clear sign of sexual dysfunction of some sort. There are deep issues behind that.

  • Tammie Reed

    Lawd lol

  • LadyFrance

    Because as a society we are taught that it is ok to be a lesbian. This is glorified, at least if you are pretty, in mainstream society. Let a person be ugly or a male, then things go a bit astray. America has never been known for its consistency on its stance about homosexuality. You even have girls in the club being "gay" for the duration of the evening for the sake of attracting male attention. This whole generation/society is a crap shoot

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    That was the thought that came to my mind. Something happened.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    She said Chris doesn't like to be touched anywhere that reminds her she's female? Like for real uttered those words? ?

  • SummerBaby

    Exactly plus it sounds boring ?

  • Yoni

    I can't vouch for what "Ray-disha" (girl name for Radio) got going on in her loins and brain. LMAO Told yall something is off about that there girl/boy.

  • Yoni

    Not uttered....SPAKE (in my Lil Mo voice) those words. LOL

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Somebody tell somebody that Brazil's WOMAN PRESIDENT is about to get impeached AND it's gonna get ugly because they have to do all their votes in public...

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    She sure did. I was like um? How does any of this work then?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    This!!! DEEP, DEEP issues going on there!

  • Yoni

    Whipped as in the girl got him whipped? Or whipped as in tired, done worked all day, whipped? Or whipped as in mentally whipped by life and 'da man'?

  • jussaying

    LOL.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Lil Mo bothers me now. Another one who I liked better before reality TV.

  • Yoni

    You know!

  • jussaying

    too much porn. i feel like being a lesbian wasn't acceptable until porn became more easily accessible via the internet. seriously, porn in itself has disillusioned MANY young males of my generation and younger who have these unrealistic expectations of what sex is supposed to be like. additionally, the things kids are doing now.. at a younger age as well.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Sure does. I am a person who loves personal space. Adores it. Will ask people who are too close to me in line to back the hell up. Will tell my kids "Ok, that's enough touching, get off of me now." Even with my feelings about the value of personal space I don't understand having no desire to be touched while being intimate. Huh?

  • Emily post

    Sorry I dont need any Lessons on anything from the Fraudulent Vh1 network and their beard self hating Mona Scott who should not even be allowed to be a producer. What she is doing to the images of black women should get that broad STONED! We dont need her telling us anything except how in Gods Earth do they green light that Trash show. Oh Vh1 hates black women.
    She is the biggest disgrace to the Entertainment industry to a show that calls themselves "love" and "hip Hop. She is the most vile and disgusting black woman on the planet in entertainment.
    We need a panel for why the women on love and hip hop have not been required to pass a mental evaluation. They will sleep with anybody according to the show men other women hell I am waiting for either incest or animals next thats all thats missing. We should all be thanking her for what bringing Prostitutes, Strippers and broke attention seekers on television to make her and VH1 rich for a spectacle... LOL Now she is going to pretend like she cares about LGBT only thing she is good for is perpetuating the BLACK female Stereotype. Lazy, Man Crazy, Will sleep with anybody, not really all that talented, Promiscuous, no morals and they dont even receive empathy from the people who create the show. Its laughable she is trying to care about the LGBT issues.. other than shock value.. womp, womp... the smartest thing gays can do is Stay away from her shows. They bully themselves getting on that Trash Channel and her awful shows. Who takes any of them serious.

  • Yoni

    *perks up* Did somebody say p0rn? :popcorn: :bounce:

  • jussaying

    LOL... yes. porn has women getting vaginoplasty and bleaching bootyholes.

  • SpillyNillie

    Is MiMi really this hard up for a check? First she was Sleezy's Merry Maid, then she started swinging from the shower rod to Niko's rod, to masterminding the production of a sex tape, and now she's patting on kitties...I'm a need her to choose a lane and stay in it!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I don't understand having no desire to be touched while being intimate.
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    Seems to go against what the word "intimate" means.

  • Yoni

    I keep my cart between me and the person in front/behind me at ALL TIMES! DON'T come near me.

  • imright

    more gay ish ? Mona needs 2 come out the closet! ?

  • It’s Taurus Season

    Patting on kitties. That's all she doing? Well okay?

  • Yoni

    And then what? LOL

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    LOL! I thought about you over the weekend when I saw a post about the Hub now being able to be streamed on your tv with Roku. I thought of you and chuckled.

  • imright

    shes not even patting...ol "girl" dont like 2 b touched ???

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Exactly. If she cared about that woman, even as a friend since it's probably a fake relationship, she'd advise her to seek some sort of therapy. She's clearly not asexual because she engages in sexual behavior so she needs to get to the bottom of why being touched bothers her.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    LOL!!!! Y'all on it this morning!

  • SpillyNillie

    Well since this is a "family" blog and all....

  • Yoni

    I was trying to watch some the other day and it said I got a virus on my device. Saddened me to no end. LOL

  • SpillyNillie

    She ain't about that life...

  • ??TupacsFemaleDoppelganger??

    Not as much as these STD spreading down low black males do.....

  • SummerBaby

    I always thought she was a lesbian. #shrug Anyone ever seen her husband?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    The Hub gave your phone a cyber STD! LOL!!!

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    My father is following this story, he's super interested.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Apparently you have to have mugshots to appear on LHHATL now.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    *snorts*

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    She's married?? Word?? Never would have guessed.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    FROM THE EDUCATION I GOT (CAUSE I STILL AIN'T WATCHED EP 1) MIMI SAID SHE'S A GIVER...SO SINCE MIMI AIN'T GIVING THAT MEANS SHE AIN'T LE GHEY. SHE'S JUST A RECEIVER IN ALL OF THIS. RIGHT SWAY?

  • It’s Taurus Season

    He fine. Being Mona Scott in my DVR right now. Might be able to find it on BET site

  • It’s Taurus Season

    For almost 20 years

  • SummerBaby

    I seen her years back on an awards show with Missy & she mentioned a husband.

  • LibraGirlonly

    The transgender on LHHATL does not look like a man at all. I have been told that the trans women are looking better than the real women out here. Smh

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I SAW THIS TOO...

  • SummerBaby

    I have so much tv to get caught up on. I recently watched the Being Jasmine Guy. It was really good.

  • JerseyMom

    I'll pass. Next!

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    YOU TELL THE BABY DRAGONS "GONE NOW...GIT!" M.O.D???

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Really?? I am shocked! Maybe I shouldn't be, but still...

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    The JG ep is on my to-watch list. Always liked her.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    To Busta ex bodyguard

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    So was that her initial hip-hop connect?

  • It’s Taurus Season

    I still think she patted Missy's kitty

  • nicelyput32

    LOL.

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    Sure do ?

  • SummerBaby

    Me too!

  • nucynu25

    I ain't going to no panel to discuss who should & shouldn't get dik or kitty ..its your life , live ..wear yo rainbows proudly ...

  • It’s Taurus Season

    That episode of Being? Shed A LOT of light on Mona. She is an absolute biz BEAST. I recommend it to everyone. LHH is yes. Ratchet. But she even SAID it's for entertainment.

  • It’s Taurus Season

    She been in the biz for almost 30 years. So nope. She was in before him.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Interesting. Yeah, it's ratchet, but she has managed to make a mint off of it. Okay, I'll add that ep to my watch list.

  • SummerBaby

    I love rainbows. ? Years ago I used to have a t-shirt with one on it. My cuz had to fill me in on what the rainbow met. I had no clue. ?

  • SpillyNillie

    In the case of MiMi (a grown, consenting adult) can she really be bullied? Can any grown person who wakes up on a whim one morning and decides to be gay be bullied? Aren't they aware that their actions will be judged by society and everyone won't agree with their way of life? Is someone like MiMi even concerned with what others think?

  • It’s Taurus Season
  • SummerBaby

    Yeah she can be bullied. There are some crazy azz miserable people that follow celebs on social media just to be cruel.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I've noticed most stud/butch lesbians have mental problems that stem from unresolved issues in their childhood.

  • iWasteTime

    New Post, CP Time

  • Emily post

    Mona Scott Young Behavior panel is about as helpful as Jerry Springers Final Thought....
    Trying to do Damage Control..... For that god awful show...

  • nucynu25

    I think its safe to say once you expose your kitty to the world , you shouldn't give no fuks ... I ain't got a penny of sympathy for her duck ass.

  • nucynu25

    Lol

  • MotherOfDragons, GetOffMyENuts

    It's clear she's good at what she does. I will never deny her business savvy, she's sharp. I just have an issue with what she is willing to do in the name of entertainment. You can entertain and make money without perpetuating negative stereotypes. I am also aware that the reality is that the vast majority of successful business people have become successful by doing shady shyt. It's the way of the business world, the personal is taken out of everything and all things are seen simply as a means to an end.

  • Yoni

    :sads:

  • Carrington

    When I was over the finance department at a foundation that treated people with HIV, I was also tapped to write monthly articles in some gay publications (I didn't care then, but I wish I'd kept at least a FEW of those magazines looking back) I wrote an article speaking to this very topic as I spent a LOT of time interviewing clients about their financial means and a lot of them would tell me stories about their lives and where they come from - I would hear some DOOZIES. I wrote an article that speaks directly to the this topic and the consensus, at least from my perspective, is that it is absolutely true that the HIV infection rate amongst heterosexual black women can be attributed to homophobia within our community. My experience is that most black folk debunk this theory, but that's because we don't want to own it and it's easier to place the blame elsewhere. Reality is relative. An overwhelming number of black, bisexual would likely BE gay if they could, but since society tells them that it's not acceptable - they get a wife, or several girlfriends because someone says you're SUPPOSED to have one. So, out of shame/necessity, these dudes marry a woman, but creep with a man.

  • Tiffany Miller

    You have to choose your words carefully these days. Last night, he stated that Waka Flocka made 'irresponsible' comments. That is called an opinion. You have to like everyone and be more accepting. But its funny how I watch some be so judgmental towards others fashions, looks and hair. How dare you tell someone how to parent? Last nights episode made me a bit upset. So you suffer all your life afraid to be yourself and all of a sudden you want to use the media to BULLY people into accepting and liking you? It's not genuine and is a waste of time. The more we cater to this type of behavior the worse things will become.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    No, I just think she don't want a regla job. See Jose and Steebie have a storyline. She. She has nada.

  • LeBrick James

    Please.... dont mince words. Tell us how you really feel haha!

    But seriously, there's a lot of truth in what you're saying there. A lot of these reality shows make black folk look real bad, both men and women.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers
  • Yardgirl

    Holy crap that place is scary as hell! A friend of a friend is over there, the 3rd wife of an American born dude who has settled there as a BB coach. He has promised her the world, set her up in her own apartment like he did for his other wives, but I fear for her! I would never set foot in that place even for free *shudder*

  • Baron

    Sandra, I was not "corrected" , but you are in the business of sensationalism. I argued we all want transparency to rid infectious diseases amongst our women. It was not my intention to spark a divisive debate. However, I am glad it was discussed. I live in NYC, otherwise I would be glad to attend.

  • LadyFrance

    Very true. The unrealistic expectations are out of this world. More emphasis is placed on the physical than on the true substance of what should make up a person/relationship. When all of the physical fades away there is nothing left to keep the person/relationship going. This is seen in the increased suicides and throw away relationships. We no longer value each other. Too many ppl becoming "confused" on who or what they are. Much of this and the hidden agendas are geared towards our ppl. The rise in feminine males and homosexuality has increased greatly. You should never have a male trying to compete with a woman. A male should not try to see who can out "woman" a woman. The insanity of the exaggerated make up, gestures and clothing is beyond me. Then you have the men who want to trick ppl into believing they are woman. This past year there was much debate going on because transgenders were offended by the terminology in a midwifery book. Are you kidding me?! That book is not for you because you my sir are still a man. Genetics don't lie. There was a movement to remove the terminology for the female genitalia and the words woman. How are these words offensive when discussing what naturally happens to a natural woman? FOH.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    #PROOF #FACTS #REALITY VERY TOUCHY....

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I assume you are referring to the many excuses given by down low gay men to excuse their behavior? These are down low men who happen to be bisexual -- not gay. As a lesbian, I can tell you with absolute certainly that I have never experienced homophobia -- and even if I did; there is no amount of homophobia that would cause me to be a switch hitter. Either you are down with being bisexual or you are not. I know quite a few gay men who are not interested in sleeping with women. I wish you wouldn't spread misinformation and lies told by down low married men who would creep with men regardless of the circumstances.

  • iSaiditFIRST

    Why are there so many downlow men in the first place. Many of these guys are genuinely attracted to both sexes. What is going on in these households.
    I truly believe a small minority of the population is born gay because of biology, etc, gay people have always existed. But something is not right when such large sect of the population is either gay/bi or trans, especially those conflicted with their sexuality or changing it in adulthood. Some pain or dysfunction happen somewhere along the way.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "Why are there so many downlow men in the first place. Many of these guys are genuinely attracted to both sexes."
    --------------

    Exactly. They are bisexual men who sleep with both sexes and lie about their preference. When they are challenged, they use the excuse that, if only the black community would accept them they would ONLY sleep with men. It's laughable the excuses they come up with to explain their behavior.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You were corrected, because being a closeted gay man is worlds apart from being a down low bisexual man who hooks up with multiple men and brings diseases home to their wives. Closeted gay men are gay, not bisexual.

  • Baron

    Ok, Sandra. I guess there are no bi ppl in the closet. I'm cool on this conversation.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    in the firestarter DL boyfriend post

  • iSaiditFIRST

    Auntie you say you never experienced homophobia, but not to be offensive but your not really an out lesbian, right? Also society is much more accepting of lesbians than gay men, especially in our community.

  • LibraGirlonly

    The trans on LHHATL does not look like a man. i have so many questions as to why they look better than some real women.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Are you new here? Most of my readers know I am a lesbian. This discussion about "homophobia" started as an excuse to explain down low behavior. If you are a heterosexual black woman you should be worried that you will be next to contract HIV. Half of all black men in Atlanta will be HIV positive within the next decade. Homophobia isn't forcing men to be promiscuous -- ignorance is.

  • surprise2012

    Big Freedia was on that one too, right?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You have to see him in person. He looks like a man wearing a ton of makeup.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    this! I usually end up standing BESIDE my cart because between all the hair flinging and neck breathing, I be feeling "close to the edge" ...keep your dander to yourself, and you back there, yeah you, the mouth breather, gimme 3 feet!

  • LibraGirlonly

    I'm so confused about that. I get it but in the heat of the moment what do you do? It's too much to remember.

  • Nancy Drew on my ibrowse today

    ROFL!!!

  • Yoni

    Oh that's too many comments. I'm don't feel like going to find out. LOL Thanks tho'. LOL

  • LibraGirlonly

    Ooh well they do pack on the make up but I just can't tell who is what anymore.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It's Mona logic. Don't bother trying to understand it.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That's what my Unclockable Trans posts are for; to teach you women what to look out for.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Miona need to stop with this mess and I don't believe for a second MiMi is gay. They don't seem to have a connection at all but ok MiMi get ya money I guess. Mimi is going to need therapy when Mona is done using her.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Body language doesn't lie, people do.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Thanks because I had no idea this was so rampant.

  • lil goodie

    All for a story line. ..

  • Mel

    This was the clip that had Fab clowning him on Twitter and he got in his feelings trynna fight Fab at a club ??????

  • Carrington

    I would assume that you've never "experienced homophobia" for a number of reasons 1) What is viewed as "acceptable" for gay women isn't a luxury that's extended to gay black men. 2) You spend an awful lot of time being homophobic - and I assume that you wouldn't really notice. When it's all said and done, there may be varied reasons for why someone chooses to do what they do and the only one I can speak to is the one that the men I've interviewed have revealed to me. The fact is that homophobia is one of those reasons - whether we choose to acknowledge it, or not. If you personally speak to the "gay agenda" that could possibly make it easier for some of these men and women to come out of the closet and then claim that homophobia doesn't exist for you... then that's an entirely different conversation that I'm just not that interested in.

  • LibraGirlonly

    I agree they want their cake and eat it too it's too much. If you are bi just be honest about it.

  • imright

    lol idk im jus tired of her living vicariously through her cast.

  • LeBrick James

    There's a lot of them in the ATL unfortunately. And if you dont take a second and third look, some of them can really fool you.
    But I've noticed that as soon as they start to speak you can usually tell from their voice that something is "off".

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    One thing about the make up they wear sometimes it is meant for the stage tv and pictures. If you saw it in real life you would clearly see the difference. Now some of the more "fishy" ones can get away with regular make up..but they are still contoured to the Gods!

  • LibraGirlonly

    I think it's too late. I felt the same way. You don't get to tell me how to parent my child and what if I don't agree with all this changing gender stuff.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Hotlanta!!! Truth!!

  • LeBrick James

    Some people think child abuse contributes to it.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Yessss and real women don't feel the need to do that everyday. Same with Kykie Jenner. I thought she had a lot of plastic surgery but it's makeup. She is on the cover of some magazine looking like herself. Lol

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    GREAT! NOW I DON'T FEEL SO BAD...BUT! I DO HAVE TO LET THEM BOUNCE AROUND MY BED WHILE I LAY THERE HALF SLEEP...BRINGS THEM JOY! LOL

  • Monday

    I was living under a rock. I never seen it until now

  • Emily post

    People look at this as no big deal but I see so many children imitating what they see and hear on television and the airwaves. Its amazing to me how the entertainment industry gets a pass with the images they portray especially with regards to black women and to black children... They are even amazed that nobody cares so they keep pushing the envelope. African Americans rarely ever speak up on what the Entertainment industry unless its about not receiving a award. It is plain disgusting and irresponsible. Has anybody checked the CDC rates in these cities where these shows tape. VH1 producers find it funny black children suffer the consequences. I wonder do the STD check the participants like they do for the white shows or do they sign a release. As long as they get ratings and the money they will serve blacks Bologna sandwiches laced with rat poison on a plate with flint water as the beverage. People think its cute... anyways

  • Ant Hill

    Boom Bye Bye. #FreeBuju

  • Miany

    but did anyone do the education??? lol... i aint got the answers Sway but I am willing to bet my last copper penny that Ray J azz aint grow up with no dang Floyd

  • Ant Hill

    #false Obama, Hillary, and Beyonce, etc. make y'all think it's cool so y'all cosign it.

  • Well.well$well

    I see no lies in his statement though. If people were allowed to sleep with/love who they wanted to love without being judged or ridiculed there probably wouldn't be a need to be on the dl. So I agree with his statement in that Homophobia is responsible for dl men bc it's true....

  • MsVAllDay

    Men being on the DL has nothing to do with them bringing home diseases to these women. If you want to screw other men, cool, but what about using protection?? Especially, when you know you have a wife and kids. There is no excuse for this fuckery!!!

  • Dem Moore

    Wow what mentally healthy adult wouldn't understand that. I accept gay men in part because I don't want one feeling like he needs to pretend to like me or want me to save face. Let people be who they are and your dad won't end up in women's clothing.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But you don't have to accept what society says?
    Isn't that all of the rants about the media/society shoving homosexuality down our throats?
    People accept what makes them feel good.

  • SpideySense

    I used to love Ray J as a child when no one else was checking for him. Had his autographed poster on my wall, traveled states away to see his lame appearance at a night club and everything. Then he was rude to me at Wet Willy's for no reason. My petty laughed so hard when i saw this. Lame A$$ Nicca

  • SpideySense

    I'm startng to think that we all do. Every last one of us.

  • LadyFrance

    I personally dont accept any of it. As politically incorrect as it may seem im not for the homosexual agenda. my husband and I are trying to raise strong God fearing children and that is not part of the equation. I don't go out of my way to confront ppl about their lifestyle either though. Its not for me to give judgement nor punishments. I mind my business and keep it moving unless it directly effects me and mine. I do say that if I had to date in today's time, I would just be single for life.

  • SpideySense

    My friend says that everyone should love women so that's why lesbians are cool with him. Also that ever present threesome fantasy for many/ most straight men. We are used to images of women dancing on each other or being sexual suggestive in photo shoots. Men being sexual suggestive together turns straight men off, and this is a straight man's world

  • Emily post

    lol you getting too deep...

  • morenYAHdelsur

    People can certainly be who they are. Even if they are DL, seems like they're just ashamed. Idk how the "community" could deter that person from being free. Sounds like they have their own self-esteem issues. Can't blame the "community" for being DL.

  • 88

    I maintain Black men are Down Low because deep down they know what they are doing is wrong (genocide/self-destruction) but through traumatization, programming and even brainwashing the have become addicted to this destructive behavior, in essence they are victims of outside influences as they are not choosing that position they are being pushed into that position.

  • Candance

    Yep she has moved on... lmao! I thought Arian's (spelling) question was very valid last night? lmao

  • Candance

    lmao yes... someone had the nerve to comment that was her past.... umm ok until next week!

  • Candance

    So does that make her trans... because from so many comments many are afraid to take the final plunge of really transitioning so as long as in your head you identify differently that's all it takes? I'm just trying to understand the rules because I'm all sorts of confused! So, is this only valid when the identification is male and female or can I identify with other things and call it good?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But 51% of the population is female so that makes no sense.
    But to take your statement further women are just men with boobs, an inny instead of an outie?
    Using that logic then people shouldn't have an trouble with transgenders then.

  • SpideySense

    I mean, I didn't go all that deep into it or anything. He was joking and basically said that since he loves pu$$ everybody should love it too, even other women. This is a man who's grossed out by any male to male sexual intimacy and since transgender women used to be male that's not gonna fly for him.

    Also women and men aren't the same, fyi

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So there's no logic involved just bias.
    You may not think that unchallenged bias is a joke until you're on the receiving end.

  • Queen B

    Yea i was reading the debate in the other post and Baron def has his facts twisted

  • Fendi

    Perhaps men on the DL remain in the closet because they are really the ones who have issue with their sexual proclivities. I've never asked someone their orientation. I've had people volunteer that info when I can care less.

    If what you're doing is right, and you're secure within yourself, there's no reason for you to be "in the closet." People need not subject others to their inner conflict or confusion. Own the fact that you're dishonest with yourself and others in your life.

  • SpideySense

    Um, ok

  • Renee26

    Yes... Stevie J ???

  • http://www.facebook.com/lisa.daniels.7311 Lisa Daniels

    I hate the people who will behind you and see a little room on conveyor and will reach over you to put their stuff on it because they can't wait. Those be the times I wish I could let out a nasty sounding and smelly fart because you are too close and need to back up.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    If EYE had one Wish

  • Auditor

    Preach! It's always the gay ones prancing around screaming I'm this and I'm that. I had one at a training I had to go to come out talking about she's gay. I'm like WHY did you even have to bring that up. Just do you...

  • Auditor

    I'm confused on why you can't sleep with who you want. Who in the hell has to know? No one has EVER asked me who I'm sleeping with and even if they did it ain't none of their damn business and I'd be sure to tell them so.

  • Fendi

    What perturbs me is they think they're targets in aworse ways than the next person.

    An idiot lesbian had the audacity to tell me once how her mother fears for her safety, because she is a lesbian. Bïtch, bye. Mothers fear for their daughters' safety because we have vaginas. Men are brutes and bïtches are jealous. If you don't get raped, you get followed/stalked, harassed, threatened, people try to intimidate you, fight you, etc., not because of what you did or said, but because they're afflicted.

    There are some sick souls in this world, and for that reason, we need to keep our eyes wide open and be as aware of our surroundings as possible. A hedge of protection is helpful, too. Folks always show concern when they love and care about someone - race, class, gender, orientation, etc. aside. But common sense isn't common. Lol

  • Auditor

    There are some sick souls in this world, and for that reason, we need to keep our eyes wide open and be as aware of our surroundings as possible.

    But common sense isn't common.

    THIS

    Why I keep to myself I can't deal with the world and it's evilness and stupidity.

  • Fendi

    You're here. You better be able to navigate your way through everything going on. I have begun practicing the art of avoidance. I'm not longer interested in engaging inconsequential people and/or things.

    I used to go back and forth with certain folks about petty isht to let them know they have the wrong one. The problem is, when you argue with a damn fool, the line becomes blurred as to which one of you the fool is.

    I let people own their ignorance, and I will keep stockpiling my blessings. Trust when I say, doors are opening to me in supernatural ways, all because I'm focused on the right things and engaging the right people in the right ways about the right things. ??

  • Auditor

    Preach! I learned at 16 to practice the art of avoidance but of course "relapsed" in my early 20s. Now I keep to myself don't fool with no one.

  • Rodmilla De Ghent

    word to my brother, who hates his gayness, and always seems irritated with ME cause I accidentally busted him out.

  • Fendi

    That's the cross he'll have to bear if he isn't being honest about who he is. You didn't create that, nor are you perpetuating it. When you live in your truth, you speak truthfully about others. Everyone isn't able, love. You evolved. Hopefully, he will join you. ??

  • Rodmilla De Ghent

    I agree

  • maleorderside

    We probably assume it's the guy you're holding hands with at the mall tbh

  • maleorderside

    She's doing her job.

  • slim3542

    he beat fab ass though.