Chef Ty Johns

A 19-year-old man is charged with stabbing a popular lesbian caterer during an argument over missing folding chairs.

Chef Tyonne Johns, 35, had just finished catering a gay wedding at Ellanor C. Lawrence Park in Fairfax County, Va., when she was confronted by Kempton Bonds, of Clifton, Md.

Bonds accused Johns of stealing the park's folding chairs.

“Chairs took my friends life. She ordered chairs and was just trying to get them back on the truck and he thought she was taking his chairs,” Johns' friend Seymone Spence told WUSA.

Spence said Bonds was confrontational with the guests, most of whom were members of the gay community.

"He had no respect for us. The way he talked to us. The way he tried to dictate everything around us was just wrong," Spence told WUSA. "He knew he was going to hurt somebody. If anybody would've said something, it just so happened to be Ty because she had to separate the chairs."

“At approximately 10:50 p.m., as the event came to an end, the verbal altercation continued and escalated with the suspect, Bonds, apparently stabbing the victim with a knife,” a Fairfax County Police Department spokesman told the NY Daily News.

Police retrieved the knife used in the crime but have not charged Bonds with a hate crime.

Bond is being held on 2nd degree murder charges.

Friends created a GoFundme page to raise funds to pay for Johns' funeral.

“We are asking the community to stand, take action, and bridge the financial gap resulting from the horrific hate crime that transpired in the suburbs of our nation’s capital,” said Johns’ friend Eraena Seymore on GoFundMe.

Johns was described as "a true humanitarian" who distributed extra food to the homeless.

She also assisted as a gym teacher at an elementary school near her home.

So far, public donations have raised $2,460 toward a goal of $30,000.

  • bemetoo

    damn over some chairs people are truly fawk up in the head

  • jussaying

    omg that's so sad... she looks so sweet. i can't believe a human life has to be lost over folding chair.s

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Sooooo,GO FUND ME is the new MET LIFE INSURANCE?Can ANTYbody bury those they love?as for the situation up top....with the climate about homosexuality and its admitted the tention was there.why werent some authoritarians out anyway.?

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Why was he there in the first place?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I don't mean any disrespect but I'm sick of these go fund me accounts for funerals !!!! And if a person didn't have any insurance or money to be buried why pay 30k to bury them? You can give them a nice funeral on a lower budget ppl getting on my nerves

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Read about this earlier. Tragic.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I read he worked there.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Her preference in life shouldn't be a headline her good deeds should but I digress and am going to the kona... it's just so sad that folks are killing left and right.

  • Queen B

    Damn RIP ? But it dont cost 30k to bury someone....dont abuse the GO FUND ME campaign ppl damn ?

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Just read it in the Daily News article. Seasonal employee ?

  • Sucker Free

    Cremation is the way to go ?

  • Sucker Free

    My former co-worker at the casino passed Friday after being attacked outside rumors....RIP Zach

  • Sucker Free

    cremation is an option too...less than 1K I think

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Sorry to hear that. Ridayumdiculous all of this violence.

  • hotntot95

    One of the many Dumb reasons to die...CHAIRS!!!@%5663368%'#

    One of the dumb reasons to kill...
    CHAIRS!!%#%4%&+

  • MsSincerity

    Never trust a guy with pin curls. If homophobia was the reason, how stupid is it to kill someone only to be sent to the place where that kind of activity goes down the most. Now you're gonna have to bend over daily so that your azzh0le can be rooted and looted. #Dummy

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Saw this on the local news. RIP to this lady, smh. ?
    (Sandra, there's also a Fairfax mayor who resigned after being caught dealing meth-for-sex. Who knew this was going on in DC's idyllic vanilla suburbs? :sarcasm:)

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Didn't get past pin curls... ??

  • TaylorFinallyMadeIt

    30,000 for a funeral? Get on with that foolishness

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Glad you said it. How horrible. Lesbian this, gay wedding that, then turn around and talk about a forced agenda...You the one that keeps bringing it up? She was beautiful. Youthful looking. Talented, ambitious, entrepenueral,,,Rip...

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Oh and btw, hi? Feels like we ain't talked in forever? Hope Alls well, bye??

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Me either lol

  • BLACK *I*C*E*

    Before I go back and read past the first sentence of this post....somebody please, PLEASE tell me why WE must be informed about EVERYONE'S sexual orientation?????

    I am lesbian and gayed out.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Also horrible
    http://www.people.com/people/mobile/article/0,,21023156,00.html?xid=socialflow_facebook_peoplemag

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Hi bewski, we haven't I'm getting the lil monster ready for school Wednesday. Sending hugs and ?

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I know no harm was meant but she was so much more than her personal preference. It's just sad all of this killing.

  • BLACK *I*C*E*

    It's not a freaking hate crime. It's murder.
    Drag his alabaster ass thru the media sludge until he thinks he's black.

  • Lovelove

    That's sad. She seemed to be a good hearted person.

  • Lovelove

    And probably a closeted gay-rod who is struggling with his sexuality.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Is lil homey wearing a hair net up there? I swear he got lunch lady hair, smh

  • I aint the one

    Very. The teens who were throwing the rocks got off with a slap on the wrist? Let me read the original report.

  • http://www.facebook.com/juanhustle @JuanHustle

    $30,000 for a funeral tho?

  • Enoughsaid2020

    We live in such a sad world. Sending prayers to her family, and friends. May she rest in peace. He should be charge with first degree murder. Scumbag!

  • Vonn

    30 grand? They must be building a shrine. Stop abusing Go Fund Me. Hopefully, they will donate funds not used for her services.

  • Vonn

    In my elderly lunch lady voice, "You want peas or carrots baby?"

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Smdh they ruined their lives

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Lol!?

  • I aint the one

    They all received jail time but 3 of the 4 didn't get long sentences at all.

    Their lawyers called it a prank gone wrong, but if you're throwing a 5 pound rock (the size of the rock that struck his wife) off the overpass directly into traffic, you knew the outcome would be tragic. That wasn't no damn prank, that was just evil...smh

  • scentsychick30

    Rip to her she looks like a sweet girl. However this go find me stuff is outrageous buy a life insurance policy.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I missed about 5 posts lol. But. ? Imma drop this here :

    R.Kelly. Just like racists gotta go? How we sat up here and laughed and wished death on Dylann Roof, Zimmerman, hell even Oscar Pitorious aka Tink Tink got his ass beat last week too...

    I hope the family of that ORIGINAL girl (back before he married Aaliyah there was a rumor...PRE Aaliyah), I hope her fam, and all the girls including the one he pissed on, BEAT HIS ASS! This nigga thinks it's now OKAY to be public with a damn 18 yo. If she is 18, bet he been fukkin her since she was 15. Not ok.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Since folks didn't put no respect on Go Fund Me's name....folks should donate to the funeral home. It's public and easy to find which home the deceased is at.

    No more Go Fund me. I'm sure others feel like that by the low amount raised too. And it's sad. Folks abused that to point of no trust.

  • I aint the one

    I read the full investigative reports the journalist wrote when the story initially broke and the follow-up after the trial. And the chit stuck with me, cause he (the journalist) said this is blatant evidence that this country could give a chit about what happens to little black girls. ? And damnit if that aint the truth. Whenever I hear him speak or see his face I get disgusted.

    I wanted to send an edible arrangement to the chick from Huffington Post Live that dragged his nasty ass during that interview a while back. She the real MVP!

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    A life isn't work some folding chairs now? What's the value of a life these days??

  • I aint the one

    RIP Tyonne.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I missed about 5 posts lol.
    ------
    Morning sickness already? ???

  • Mizz76

    Sad story!!

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    From the Gofundme account: Family, friends, and most of all FUNDS are needed! We are asking the community to stand, take action, and bridge the financial gap resulting from the horrific hate crime that transpired in the suburbs of our nations capital. Funds and resources are also needed to continue to highlight the ongoing assault in our communities, in our schools and NOW on our jobs. We are also aspiring to continue her legacy through scholarships and awareness.
    -----
    I bolded that first part myself.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I'm so pissed. So pissed man. First I thought it was a rumor. No. He really almost 50, dating an 18 yo.

    Know who I'm really mad at? Andrea. If my husband did some shyt like that knowing we have a female child??? I wouldn't hush. No. No.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    k...What are you saying by doing so?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Nope!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Nope!

  • I aint the one

    Oh ok. Cause I was confused by the price tag. So what's left after the funeral is paid for will go towards scholarships and community awareness? ?Mmmkay

  • I aint the one

    Oh ok. Cause I was confused by the price tag. So what's left after the funeral is paid for will go towards scholarships and community awareness? ?Mmmkay

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Lol. I hope not? If she preggers she coulda at least got preggers for me? Been knowing her since forever. Dating back to when I was Charles, allegedly? Y'all heffas dirty. Y'all do me so wrong?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Lol. I hope not? If she preggers she coulda at least got preggers for me? Been knowing her since forever. Dating back to when I was Charles, allegedly? Y'all heffas dirty. Y'all do me so wrong?

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm saying that's what they need. What the hell are you saying by asking?

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm saying that's what they need. What the hell are you saying by asking?

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    You're a pro at it now I guess. Good.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    You're a pro at it now I guess. Good.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Nothing. Was just curious what you were trying to say by bolding.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Nothing. Was just curious what you were trying to say by bolding.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    She got pregnant the old fashion way. Only BBD need apply. You are ld (learning disabled and lil' dack syndrome) so you need not apply. You aren't long enough, thick enough, or manly enough to ride that ride.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Probably was a closet gay. Why the hell would he take a life over some chairs? RIP Tyonne.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Go home Bren.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    I am home. Been here since 3pm spucifik standard time.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    You sir, are mean.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Good. How's the weather? Did you have a good dinner tonight? Big plans for your day tomorrow?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    I'm not speaking to you anymore?Take care hun??

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Mean? I'm an honest lady.

  • I aint the one

    This! I wanted to like her, I really did. But one of the reasons I stopped watching Hollywood Wives was because it became clear that she acquiesced to his pedophilic behavior. You're not invloved with someone for as long as they were together without being aware of chit like this.

    I get you were trying to distance yourself and your kids from the backlash but make a statement or something, Sis. These were little girls we're talking about.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Talk to you tomorrow Bren. Have a good night.

  • Allihave2say

    2 lives only one's lungs will still breathe.

  • LeBrick James

    So true.
    And it really bothered me back then when a lot of black folk would come against the young girl, talking 'bout: "These young girls so fast nowadays"... "she knew what she was doing, acting all grown" ... "she and her family just tryin' to get money out of him", etc.
    Too many of "us" were more interested in enjoying his music, rather than think about the young girl(s) he was allegedly messing with.

  • Allihave2say

    pedo's gone pee.

  • I aint the one

    Didn't have time to play in the garden today, so tell me if ya'll mentioned how much of an ass 50 is for calling Courney Kemp (creator and EP of Power) out her name cause his lil dack was shown on Sunday's episode.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He?!. I thought "he" was a girl. "He" looks like Zendaya with a short, darker haircut. Smh

    RIP to the decedent. I'm not sure why there's a $30k goal set to bury her, but I hope they raise a reasonable sum to do so.

  • stav

    Her sexual preference to me is irrelevant, this is just so petty and dispicable. May she rest in peace, and may we all pray for God to help friends and family endure this horrific tragedy. May the punishment fit the crime for this maniac.

  • LeBrick James

    Nada. Seems like it's always been that way though.
    Going back decades, we've had our people losing there lives over sneakers, bomber jackets, and other trivial stuff.

  • I aint the one

    talking 'bout: "These young girls so fast nowadays"... "she knew what she was doing, acting all grown"
    -------------------
    Please don't get me started and have me post a full blown feminist rant. What was so disheartening was that these statements were coming from men AND women. Straight victim blaming. Rape culture at it's finest.

    Brick (can I call you Brick? We blawg frans so...Ima call you Brick ?) when I tell you I was beyond heated reading the details of this story when it broke. I mean he exhibited ALL the behaviors of a predator. Textbook phucking case.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    And he was grinning like he was very proud in his mugshot. Giving men meth in exchange for male group sex.

    "When the funk hits the fan, smell like chitterlings, grits and ham. Gonna get funky!" ?

  • Allihave2say

    Death is the new get rich quick scheme and the new get fame & notoriety. The family of the decease get new car rich. The murders get internet fame.

    That said, killing was already in him and he was looking for the right moment to let it out. He may have a distaste for gays and the event was the opportunity to act. He didn't kill her because she was gay, he killed her because he'd been holding it in and couldn't hold it anymore.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Giggle so hard when yall fight. ?

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Bren wants a baby. I offered my services but his finances aren't right. I'm confident he'll find the right person tho.
    ----
    Next - Butta Love just came on so I cain't be mean anymore.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Once I realized she had her own. She wasn't one to have to need his money. Not to mention her speaking out wouldn't have legally messed up certain things anyway. Legally he was gonna have to pay her something. Child support and alimony. She could have said something. I would have been doing PSAs for child sex workers and victims of child rape. Wouldn't have been shyt he coulda did about that

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    That tickled me so.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I'm still laughing

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Hold up. Hold up, I am a.new aunt aint You aint tell me? I save congrats and gifts to u confirm.

  • Sucker Free

    Yo I busted out on this here!

    How did you get brown hand emojis?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Well.not being funny but did you forget Micheal Jackson on purpose. I am fan of his music....but he was reported to "Bad" sick man.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    U hit emojis on phone and slide until u get ur desired complexion.

  • LeBrick James

    ["Brick" is cool, mama. That works.]

    I think the larger problem is that "we" let criminals and predators get away with all kinds of mess just because their skin color is the same as ours. To me that's just madness.
    For years I've had folks throw shade at me online for saying I felt OJ was a murderer, Cosby was a sexual predator, RKelly was a child abuser, etc. To a lot of folks, that kind of talk makes you a "sellout"... since to some of us, everything is always about "the white man trying to bring a brotha down". smh

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree x 50,000 thousand. Folks abuse it.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree x 50,000 thousand. Folks abuse it.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    It was an upgrade on the iPhone a few months back I think? Not sure if it works on other phones??????????????????????????????

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    It was an upgrade on the iPhone a few months back I think? Not sure if it works on other phones??????????????????????????????

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree with you, however we dont know details of divorce.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree with you, however we dont know details of divorce.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    When I saw this??????????

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    When I saw this??????????

  • whitty hutton

    It ain't disrespectful...it's the truth.

  • I aint the one

    Right! I understand the mentality and skepticism we have when one of us commits a crime..."the white man" has conspired against us and all that jazz. Yes I know. But right is right and wrong is wrong. And you have to stop and ask yourself what type of person are you to defend the actions of a murderer, rapist, or pedophile simply because he looks like you? Ashit, not all my skinfolks be my kinfolks. I call it like I see it.

  • LeBrick James

    I think the reason her sexual preference was a part of this story is to say she was a popular & well loved person in the gay community.
    I didn't look at it as being "shade" or anything like that.

  • I aint the one

    IDK Jusst. Can an NDA legally stop you from receiving child support and alimony? Serious question. Wouldn't he HAVE to shell out those payments regardless? Even still, after hearing about the acts he committed while you were married to him, wouldn't it move you to at the very least make an indirect statement about child/human trafficking, sexual child abuse, etc.? Maybe that's just me. We all cope different.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    This Non reunion.....

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    This Non reunion.....

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    This Non reunion.....

  • product of 79

    This is jus too sad ?... Came for laughs... Leaving in tears R.I.H Ms.Johns?

  • product of 79

    This is jus too sad ?... Came for laughs... Leaving in tears R.I.H Ms.Johns?

  • product of 79

    This is jus too sad ?... Came for laughs... Leaving in tears R.I.H Ms.Johns?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    RIP
    ------
    And everyone should have life insurance, for at least funeral.

    That would cost less than 10 bucks per month.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    When I was a photographer I had a few tough guys step to me to impress the celebs they were with who didn't want pics taken. But in all of those cases, a REAL man intervened to protect me.

    In Ms. Johns' case, it seems there were no men wiling to step forward to help her because she dressed and acted like a man.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yeah, that's messed up that a Man didn't get involved & bop this little guy upside his head.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    A woman who wears short hair and baseball caps is not a guy. Most women can't match up with a man in a fistfight. That's an unfair fight.

  • brooklyn23

    Why you had to make me laugh with that 1st line tho

  • brooklyn23

    Lmfao I had to scroll back up to check them curls out

  • brooklyn23

    I don't get how people still support this guy. Everytime they play his song or a song featured with him, I change it. I don't support pedos

  • brooklyn23

    They don't give a fck what happens to little girls period and even little boys at that. Keep mind the people who help run shit from, judges to political persons, they are into that pedophile shit. Pedophiles get slapped on the wrist as punishment. I say torture all of them and put a bullet to the head (even that's too good for them ). Pedophilia is perversion at its best. Gross

  • brooklyn23

    Oj is a murderer who now is being punished for something he got away with back then

  • Soda

    Maybe, but most likely maybe not. We've become a nation of bystanders, looking at events through camera phone lenses, ready to shout out that we recorded something instead of calling 911 or helping. Look at the incident between the man & woman on public transportation in CA last week. She claims he called her a racial slur, so she kicked him in the face and body, then stood on his body and stomped him. You could hear the voices of different people commenting as she assaulted him. I don't know what made her stop because that part wasn't shown in the video I saw but I hope that someone finally pulled her away from him or at least yelled at her to end her rage.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Girl I would die??. A pregnancy would kill me. Hell withdrawal symptoms from wine would do me in before the pregnancy got me??

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I just said to my homegirls R. Kelly gonna end up like OJ. He not gonna be happy til he caught.

    I pray someone speaks up whose check he missed.

    He might Charlie Sheen himself. Bankrupt himself from paying hush money

  • Incog-knee-gress

    We said the same thing! Some he was gonna have to pay regardless. Maybe she took extra to hush. It's sad AF. Whole thing.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    It was horrible.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Reads like they are trying to paint this as hate crime. Which it very well could be. That's why it's relevant? It's to her benefit for it to be brought up actually. No?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Girl. If so I missed it. Just very briefly. A mess

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I eagerly anticipate the arrival of the salad emoji. It has taken far too long for a salad emoji. The people at Apple have shown NO respect to Californians, pescatarians, vegetarians, and vegans with such an exclusion.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Yes. Bc he dead. Mike managed to die. And didn't get shown no more with any kids ever. Not never. R.Kelly two posts down with a baby on his arm rubbing it in our face that he got away with it THRICE. There is a marriage license out here, in this world with his name on it having married a 15 year old girl.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    That's all speculation. I can easily speculate that those men that intervened did so because they expected sexual favors from you in return. I can easily speculate that in all those cases you were involved in, you were the aggressor. How does one constantly find herself on the receiving end of a fake man trying to impress celebs and having to be restrained by a real man? There's many things one can deduce and speculate from that alone? Trouble maker/seeker much?? Damsel in distress syndrome? Speculatively speaking none of the witnesses, if any, knew that either party involved in Ms Johns' case knew that both parties were not male. Upon first glance she looks like a male, upon first glance he looks like a butch female. Who knows what people were thinking, if anything at all.

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    I genuinely didn't know where you were going with the salad thing at first???? yeah my minds always there???

  • I aint the one

    He just can't help but be an ass. I'm inclined to believe Courtney considering Curtis has a documented history of having bish-made tendencies.

  • I aint the one

    Lol we >>>><<<< here, Sis.

  • I aint the one

    Bren what the hell is going on in your gravi now? ?

  • Emily post

    Why is her sexuality brought up? Was she targeted because of her sexuality or over a chair dispute? Its awful either way and Its strange how people behave like they are in a Hollywood horror film.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I mean salad as in BBQ chicken, Caesar, green, etc. I had a sneaking suspicion you'd suggest otherwise. ?

    Ass is not part of the four food groups. Just say no!

    P.S. Serious question: Since you want to be a father, do you plan on leaving a donation at the doctor's office for IVF or are you attempting to inseminate your future mother of your child the old fashioned way?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Ohhhhh helll to naw naw naw. O saw it, he really is sick. Very familar with how he molested Aaliyah (God rest her soul) yeah piss is No good. No child and most adults dont want no piss on them. Offtopic ...I mean in the comfort of my own home I sat in some piss, i lost my mind and told the kids the kids whoever did. Was a nasty sucka. I cant imagine being pissed on. Nope never. Whispers...have have u heard baby pee good for your complexion?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Just died laughing at withdrawal of wine. ??????????????????????

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree with you, but I dont walk in her dancing shoes. I think that was her only skill set. Lets face it, she not a good paynus picker. You see the other joker she married. Damn fewl couldnt even sing. If I may also add, once you have child/children by a loser, the guilt is long lasting. They are still minors and those children have to go to school. ?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Whispers I was wondering too. Then too add other confusion, she touted. I made it Bold. Hawt damn tears...??????????????

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Whispers I was wondering too. Then too add other confusion, she touted. I made it Bold. Hawt damn tears...??????????????

  • rachel

    $30k for a funeral?

  • rachel

    $30k for a funeral?

  • the guest

    This talented, enterprising, successful young black woman was murdered over bigotry and resentment of her success not over chairs. That ignorant POS bigot was prejudiced against the guests because of their s--exuality BUT he was seething with hatred at the sight of this black woman in the position of a business owner and in charge of catering the event.

    #rosewood

    Racism is so demented, warped, and evil.

    The food and beverage industry really should come together and pay for the victim's burial.

  • Critical_Thinking

    Agreed.

    Also, I am tired of the lgbt community misusing the hate crime charge and after reading DM, it seemed as though he had anger issues and we do not know what was said during their argument and I am not justifying the murder, but we have to know when to walk away or get assistance. I think its time for me to do another training workshop.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Why they need $30K to bury butch?

    It sounds as if someone wants a cut.

    BTW the killer could pass for a lesbian. Maybe they will send him to the women's prison after he's sentenced.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    You know that Sandra has an obsession with everything gay even though she is a self-hating lesbian.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Monami swears we are remedial lol the fat lady has sung for this city...

  • JustB

    The words on her hate are ironic..."God's gift in Hell's kitchen" sooo sad

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Ass is not part of the four food groups
    ............................................

    It needed to be said.... sadly....

  • alissonraw

    From the go fund me page.
    "Funds and resources are also needed to continue to highlight the ongoing assault in our communities, in our schools and NOW on our jobs. We are also aspiring to continue her legacy through scholarships and awareness."

    Too vague for me to donate. Wish they just stick to burying her and create the non profit later.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Keep saying this! Perversion goes all the way to the top!

  • EScrazy

    It's always sad when these folks in my generation don't have life insurance or something saved up. I was fortunate enough to have a mother who got life insurance for my brother and I at an early age. When my brother passed his homecoming went without a hiccup. But I've seen my friends parents not have anything saved for themselves let alone for an unforeseen circumstance, or either they were too far gone on drugs to care and that's the plight of many kids born in the 80s during the crack epidemic

  • MsSincerity

    Up there looking like Betty Boop. lol

  • mela.reign77

    No regards for human life that's all it is. I pray that justice is served I also pray for her family and friends. However $30,000 is a bit much for a funeral. Did she have children or someone under age that she was caring for? That's the only way I can see asking for 30K to help with the kids or something. But chile unless they're burying her in a gold dripped casket with rare stones, a crown, some blue suede shoes, a Jesus piece, one of Kanye's raggedy high priced sweaters a Rolex, a pinky ring that says pinky with crushed ice, flying Paul wall in to do her a grill and having the funeral in Japan and flying 6 of her closest friends they better rethink that 30K. IJS..

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I've always believed OJ was guilty (and if more of us knew how OJ really felt about us, maybe we'd have jumped off the 'free OJ' bandwagon during that murder trial). OJ didn't just 'love' Nicole (to death!), He genuinely LOVED and preferred yt folks in general). Folks from all over made their way to his house during that slow azz goodbye tour/ police chase, and he talking about "what are all these niggas doin in Brentwood?"
    Man .. .forget Orenthal James, 'ol sellout!! LOL!

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    This is so sad. God bless her soul. That stupid trick deserves everything that's coming his way. I hope they throw the book at him???

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Chile, Fairfax Virginia is rich in more than history and median income! Shady politics and perversion (see 'to catch a predator') are deeply ingrained as well.

    #ProudNativeVirginian
    #NoLoveForPervs

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Yep. To the baby pee.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I stopped at Tink Tink. ??

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Damn dude was reading the news on Sunday morning tambout bae...Tink TInk got beat up in prison this week TOO? Then read they think it was a sideline suicide attempt. Not that he got beat up. They wont say.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I believe suicide attempt.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Happy Birthday Nippy!

  • Lolalao

    I read that!!

  • Libra80sBaby

    30,000 for a funeral?! They trying to come up in the midst of a tragedy. Shameful

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    True and who stood by the fool--his children from his first marriage.

    I was thinking that his first wife could have showed up at the trial with a patch over her left eye and testified how he used to beat her back in the day.

    Talking about I haven't been able to see out of his eye since OJ dotted it back in 1975.

    Those black women on the jury would have convicted his a$$ with a quickness.

    Ha, ha,ha!!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Awe man. Thanks for this.

  • Lolalao

    Why is that fun? Did they actually think that was a day of fun? Why aren't they serving life in prison?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    flying Paul wall in
    ^^^^^^^^^
    My baby favah.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Hate you for making me laugh at any of this! Lol!!!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    We do too.

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_

    see ppl just ain't right in the d*mn head....

  • harley_quinn2.0

    No problem ?

  • TeeTee

    no it is the new come up for people looking to profit from someones death.... I'm sure she had life insurance (or I would hope so) becuase it does not take $30,000 to bury somebody

  • MissyJ

    Good Morning

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I don't mind donating to medical expenses or trips due to medical issues. I think these things should be taught in school. Proper planning, money management, estate planning, etc. So sad that someone took a life over folding chairs.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Morning boo.

  • i troll it like i see it

    She sounded like a good person. He was probably jealous of her.

  • zeta4life

    "TOUCH WHAT I NEVA TOUCHED!!!
    "SEEN WUT I NEVA SEEN"
    WOKE UP AND SEEN THE SUN SKY HIGH (sky high)
    HEY ROSAYS!!!!!!

  • zeta4life

    HEY U!!!!

  • mela.reign77

    That's all it is and it's sad.

  • zeta4life

    BABY LUV!!!!,,,,HEEEEYYYY!!!!

  • zeta4life

    NOBODY!!!!!...30 g's...GTFOH!!!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Hey boo!! You and me will never part.

  • zeta4life

    +100^^^^...This...THANK YOU!!!!!

  • zeta4life

    AND U KNOW DIS...MAN!!!!
    :big hug:....miss "some" of u guys so much!!!

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Touch deez?
    See deez?
    Wake up with nut on yo tiddyz??
    hi? Top (or bottom) of the mornin to ya?

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Toe suckin?

  • zeta4life

    ROFLMBAO!!!!!...I love u too...!!!!

  • zeta4life

    who dat iz????...*asking for a friend*

  • zeta4life

    it look like "lil Duvall" to me....but u sure them toes and not "fangas"...*puts on glasses*...

  • zeta4life

    "or mash'd taters"....LOL!!!!

  • zeta4life

    gotta get to this mtg....miss ya'll!!!

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    My boo. Don't leave me here alone.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    All these Olympics out here currently and not one post. Anything. Get us TF outta here

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Heller. Goodbye. Smooches?

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Morning hun ((((hugs))))

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    A majority of the post lately have been blah but the PreMadonna post reloaded our Rush card :coffee:

  • Incog-knee-gress

    That damn intern...

  • Incog-knee-gress

    HOLA

  • yoni

    Goodie Mob? Cee-Lo?

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Good Morn-Ting *in my Madea voice*

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Sandra needs to up her stipend or something. Give some better motivation.

  • yoni

    30K for a fune? She was a caterer, so I KNOW the food is automatically covered. IJS

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Hey, Ms. Z!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Go to Famelous someone interviewed the black Kijg who beat up Dylan.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Let me find a Whitney playlist :headphones:

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Especially Miss Simone. Put some respek on their names.

  • iWasteTime

    I want a post on Phelps mean mugg!!
    I love it !

  • Buttercup

    Good morning. I was just listening to her on Friday then I migrated to Cissy. *queues "I Go to the Rock" *

  • Buttercup

    I thought he was going to start growling at that boy.

  • Buttercup

    Good morning, yoni. Goodbye, yoni! :dead:

  • iWasteTime

    that boy TRIED IT!! Mike said not today satan. I want to know what he was listening too, it's always rap but what to have that face! Bring it DMX? Knuck if you Buck, Never Scared? FDB ? SOMETHING HARD!

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    I bet it was some Pac chile he gets me amped too lol

  • Incog-knee-gress

    We were dead. Bae was like that is his who want war face. *cries hot ass tears*

    http://www.eonline.com/news/786272/why-so-serious-michael-phelps-game-face-is-the-stuff-of-meme-dreams

  • Incog-knee-gress

    For me its him and Wayne.

  • SameoleJ

    Or no one thought a knife would be pulled, over some chairs that CLEARLY did not belong to the assailant and may not have belonged to the venue either. Perhaps people saw that the victim was trying to deescalate the argument and the stabbing happened to fast to stop it.But yeah, we can all speculate.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Is that the look DMX had on his face before and during his sex scene with Taral Hicks in Belly? *kona*

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Come on through with that gif, Dubb!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I'm always in the mood for Whitney

  • http://Copblock.org Brenden’s Back #BlockDeez?

    Exactly. Geesh. The woman is dead. Let's be respectful of at least that. She's dead. Gone. Oh well if there were real men, oh if she didn't dress like, oh this oh that. This is a dead Black woman. We lost a sister here. Chill on the bs...

  • Yvonne

    I agree. I am sorry for their loss, but people need to start investing in life insurance. There are many people who don't have it.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    I can't take Cissy serious after seeing those faces she was making singing backup for Aretha ??

  • the guest

    She does look like she has a nice spirit. What a terribly sad story.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    See. Good night.

  • Buttercup

    LMBO. I hate @docdonte saying Cissy looked like she's pondering if she left the greens on.

    I was listening to her stuff when she was in her prime. Whitney sounded a lot like her. She just took that gift and ran with it.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    ...

  • lulu’smommy

    Crying!!!!!!!!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Yall gonna have me leaving work early and my boss is here today.

  • Buttercup

    This is one thing I can't wrap my head around. Having life insurance is a non-negotiable in my family. I refuse to sell fish plates and wash cars, because someone wasn't proactive. Nope. You can have a potter's burial.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    They need to skip the $100 budgeted out for chicken huh? *snorts*

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe
  • the guest

    Their focus should be her funeral. The scholarship in her honor should be simplified such as sending a minority youth in need to culinary school or starting a cooking class at a community center.

    I agree, their appeal is doing too much and overshadowing their well intentions.

  • Sucker Free

    ? Its on and popping now!

  • MissyJ

    I felt like it was publicity tbh

  • harley_quinn2.0

    .....

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Yaaassssssssssss!!!!!!!! Lordt.

    Talking all that shyt and then he puts that BBD up in ya.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm not the only one about to send a text? Beep me 911?

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Peter Gunz just had his 25th child.....Congrats!

  • the guest

    I don't believe she was killed because of her preference. She was killed because of her success. Her killer first tried to belittle her by accusing her of stealing chairs. Then killed her when his belittling didn't work. He wanted to cut her down to size, then he cut down her life.

  • Yvonne

    Exactly. We'll put a nice picture of you up on the mantle and have a service and that will be it. We all don't have to be buried like a king. It's weird.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Imma be like have a good rest of the day! All cheerful and shat. *giggles*

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    The thoughts running through my mind right about now ??????

  • Jessica

    Dang man, he's crazy.

  • the guest

    Pin curls, I can't.

  • Buttercup

    It was definitely Earl. He heard Earl barking and carrying on and started to feel it deep down. I was SEW happy for Lilly King last night. Yulia was sitting there with the poot face.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    That is the BEST sleep EVAH. Your legs barely work afterwards but it's all good. It's a better workout than squats or walking. You burn a lot of calories sexing and it's much more enjoyable.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    That makes sense because I though they all go along so great

  • yoni

    I saw that Sunday. The voice did not match the look.

  • yoni

    And the Chek pops. Fukk they thought?

  • yoni

    But I just got here.

  • zeta4life

    Hey u. ...Goodies Mob...love Dem niggas. ...SOUL FOOD!!!!

    Still rides for the Dungeon Family. ..lol

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    You always come through for me! :)

  • zeta4life

    Dub????

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    I'm not alone. Sit in the corner with me. Dammit why'd I bring it up?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Good Morning it does seem a bit much.

    You wanna do a break down? of course you do.

    $2,000 to $10,000 for casket
    $500 hundred $1000
    $300 spray for casket
    $1000. for Tombstone.
    $200 for Speaker
    $2000 for burial plot
    500 to have funeral on streaming live
    $15k Re-pass and programs

    yeah, I'm calling BS Yoni, this is a bit much for "average" cost

  • yoni

    Man listen. Yall gone quit telling me good night and I just got here. LOL Yall KNOW she had all the food, plastic plates, Dixie cups and napkins for the repast......AND the damn hall. They know they trying to get over.

  • zeta4life

    LEEEETTTTTTEEE! !!!!!!!

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Why'd you ask for this? Now I'm sitting here staring at it. About to find me some p0rn until I can get off...work.

  • iWasteTime

    I agree with Missy it read as a add and now we want to see which male he beefing with...lol

  • zeta4life

    *runs in to get you* ....I know these heifers being mean to my baby

  • zeta4life

    *trying to cough, instead of laugh in this mtg* ...gwon nah! !!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    When he wrote candy asses I felt like a kiss watching Monday night Raw ??

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I had a college friend who did IT when we graduated. She used to have to monitor internet usage for her firm and she said not only was it more people than you would think looking at p0rn during the workday, but p0rn streaming always spiked right before lunch and right before 5pm. LOL!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Well she posted a pic of his ahem yesterday I didn't look because I'm sure no matter the length it's diseased.

  • zeta4life

    U beta say it! !!!!...ALMOST VIRGO SEASON!!!!!!..

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Gotta keep my legs crossed ??

  • zeta4life

    LMAO! !!!

  • Phillybruh

    Just buried my nephew in a traditional Muslim Ceremony and that cost 6 grand with no frills, now My grandmothers cost nearly 12 grand. They are asking for 30 but shooting for 15.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    That was so damn pathetic. You feel like you on top of the world because you got dirty feets laying up in your bed? These hoes get on my nerves.

  • zeta4life

    Hey boo. ...and they need to take BBW's with them. all that shit is DONE ?

  • SummerBaby

    Sorry for your loss! ??

  • Phillybruh

    Thank you!

  • zeta4life

    And what self respecking woman would put they man dyke pic up....????

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Apparently a woman with no self respect.

  • Sinny

    Damn, I know this girl, from the DMV (DC, Md, VA) community. This is so sad!

  • zeta4life

    AMEN! !!!!...and think that shit cute. ...hell post what that bank account look like....

  • zeta4life

    Lmao! !!!!....shitty footz

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Drip, drip, drip.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Nothing about that man is attractive. Nothing.

  • zeta4life

    Me too. ...read all them Chicago newspapers on line...and here his ass is with a barely legal...UGH! !!!..

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    LMAO. I never watched it on my work computer but my phone. TUH.

  • Dee

    More and more young killers, with knives too! SMDH!!!

  • Buttercup

    OMG! I have tears. I ain't fooling with you today.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    He's a bum.

  • ramosyo

    Lesbian or not she didn't deserve to die. This young man was homophobic ! Being aggressive to guests... 2nd degree no sir u killed her in cold blood. Senseless. Is the world coming to an end?

  • ramosyo

    They have a go find me for dogs and anything they can think of! It's funny how if the story moves people... THOUSANDS.. If not... Eh u gets nada???

  • harley_quinn2.0

    That's cold

  • yoni

    *glancing over this itemized list and sounding like an accountant*
    So I see you have a charge of "$500 hundred $1000". Is that a misc. charge? There is nothing beside it. $300 for a spray? I think you left out a "." between the 3 and 0. They can arrange a nice one for you at your local grocery chain store. That $200 for a speaker. You mean speaker equipment, right? Because if THAT'S the case/cost, ain't NOBODY talking. We all gone mourn in silence. I barely wanna hear a sniffle. 500 for a live stream. How bout Facebook live is running it for FREE from multiple cellphone networks. 15k for re-pass and programs? Glenda who works for the County, can get you right together at Kinkos for $20, a free hairdo for the fune and a pack of Newports. Quit playin'.

  • yoni

    Yassss. A heaping helping of fried chicken, macaroni and cheese, some collard greens, too big for my jeans...... LOL

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Always. They don't treat me right when you aren't here.

  • LeBrick James

    Wow. Kids are expensive. With all his child support payments, that dude wont have any money left over.

  • LeBrick James

    That's only going to attract more curious hoes/groupies etc to try and get with him.
    He's a hoe enough as it is... dude doesnt need any more free promotion.

  • Full Monty

    Was those chairs made out of gold or something? Folding chairs nah it sounds like it's something more to this.

  • Full Monty

    Yup which is why I don't mess with these young kids. AT ALL! They nuts!

  • Full Monty

    NOOO! LMFAO! No you didn't bring it to the fish plates. Memories memories.

  • SameoleJ

    This was a hate crime, based on all accounts and the chairs were simply an excuse to start an argument. He more than likely poked and prodded at erybody until he got someone to argue back with him. And did the knife just materialize like they do on Star Trek?

  • SameoleJ

    She finally had that damn baby?! I thought she was part elephant, due to her long azzed pregnancy. Why was her due date so off the mark?

  • SameoleJ

    Then he will be on reality tv forever, cause any other form of a career has long since passed him by.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    We all need to get Belly'd today.

  • 1shy112

    Why was he even there? Hate crime at its finest. Chair was a excuse.

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Who knows lol. There's no rhyme or reason with these birds.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    just nasty, smh!

  • missk85

    I worked with her briefly last year and she was so nice, chill and down to earth. I hate this happened to her, in the manner it did and over some damn chairs his ass didn't own in the first place. A good person gone too soon over something so stupid. Rest Peacefully #ChefTy

  • Nophucksgvn

    I hope that you feel the same way about the "race card" being played every time something bad happens to a black person.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I agree I was JACKING up all the cost. I assisted in the burial of many family members. You act like you don't know my font.

    The last fune, our very OWN DUBB assisted me via the internet in the repass for my mother in law. I AM certain I spent less than 200 dollars and fed at least 75 persons. The programs we about 18.00 we had her picture blown up from 20 maybe. The most expensive item was the urn and it was like 1500, because my husband and FIL divided the ashed us in threes. The two of them and adopted sister.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    I'm sure it, to each it's own. but I'm WOULD never throw 30k away. In my mind that's what that would be.

  • yoni

    I KNOW you were being silly jacking up the cost. I got the font. Just go with it. Sheesh. LMAO

    Sorry about MIL.

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    Whoop whoop!!

  • I aint the one

    They are some long azz toes, that's why I was confused ?

  • I aint the one

    Damn fewl couldnt even sing.
    ----------
    I remember this con-artist.? They divorced or separated about a month later. Crazy ish came out about him after the fact too. She has TERRIBLE judgement in men.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Re post in a current post you agree with me. LMAO

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Re post in a current post you agree with me. LMAO

  • Melissaisasnob

    Her gofundme won't go through the roof like some poor little white gay who gets beat up by his step-mother.

  • Critical_Thinking

    Elaborate more and give examples please...

  • yoni

    Of course. LOL

  • SpiceGirl

    I do believe we are living in our last days!

  • SpiceGirl

    May ChefTy RIP

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Not saying this is the case, but I knew a girl who told her dude who had left, she was pregnant. He stayed. She wasn't pregnant at the time, but eventually did because there was no need for condoms with her already being "pregnant". That was the longest pregnancy in history. It was a YEAR before she had that baby. I told them that girl as pregnant at the time. They didn't want to listen to Lucy. ?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Uh, she's not cooking it, Yoni with the little "y".

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    That's that "You wanna piece of meh?!" look.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Who is this?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    You know whet...?

    ~looking at you like that baby child that always tell on everyone else except themself~

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    2 out of 3 were taught in Home Ec/Life Skills class, but I guess that is missing from the curriculum these days.

  • Keyster29

    I feel so sorry for what happened. To die over an argument about folded chairs is just sad and stupid. But I didn't read anything about him using gay slurs. Just because someone is being a jerk does not mean they hate your sexuality or race. I truly dislike that people attempt to use the hate crime law so loosely. It makes it harder on real victims to win in court.... Based off the article the suspect is definitely guilty of manslaughter. And also, what did people do before go fund me was created to raise money?? Life insurance is a very cheap expense for a lot of people, so please do your fam a solid and get some life insurance...smh..

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    That's the face old people make when they're too old to care anymore.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Hey Zeta yes done

  • yoni

    If she had some real friends on her team, they would/should.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I agree

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    NIPPAAAAAY!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Wait!

    I need to catch my breff...

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Lafayette a character on True Blood

  • lovelygamour

    She shouldnt have lost her life, but, this is what happens when you force change that is unreasonable.
    He shouldve been able to ask his boss to assign him to a different event. Instead he was forced to interact. He was geeked up.
    Now the wedding party guest knew he was off but still put up with him. They just forced it and probably insulted him. Dont fight crazy.
    They shouldve asked the owners if he could be replaced. The owners shouldve done it no questions asked.
    To many people feel things "arent their problem" or "you better watch out for me". No we need to watch for crazy. Plus if he was acting off why didnt they help her with the chairs. Or made him pick out their chairs. She shouldnt had to deal with this and die. It wasnt even her wedding.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    There's nothing for me to tell on myself. I got plenty to tell on you though. Plenty.

  • Alisa

    People wonder how someone could be capable. It was only until I met so many young kids that have never been told they are loved. No one taught them right from wrong or to respect life. Most murder cases when I sit and talk to them they are void of feeling or caring about anyone. The majority were diagnosed with "failure to thrive" The hospital sometimes ask for volunteers to come and feed & just hold these babies. It was sad. Sorry for being long winded and I'm not sympathetic to him your comment is so true but when you stop & think about ALOT of this younger generation I hv so much respect for mothers & fathers that really love and raise their kids with values & respect

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    YES!!!

  • Alisa

    Now that my parents are older they hv discussed that with me & I am thankful they hv invested in life insurance but your comment about a Potter's burial that is what I may hv because I hv no children no family so when my parents are gone it's just me. I hv had to come to terms with the fact I will probably die alone and no one will claim my body so I'm now trying to figure out how I will mk sure I'm buried with dignity. There will be no GOFUNDME page for me and she probably never made arrangements for death I just hope none is trying to make money off her death and pray that friends that are trying to bury her with respect

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    ?...?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Ohhhh ?

  • Full Monty

    True some don't know right from wrong but a lot do and just don't care. Some of them just want to see what it feels like just to say they murdered someone. Look at the black kid that murdered his rich parents. I am sure he knew right from wrong but he was told no and he didn't like being told no. This is generation X!

  • Six7

    Mann, Bruno Mars' trippin.

  • Buttercup

    You can make pre-arrangements. I've known a couple of people who had their entire homegoing service planned before they passed. My paternal grandmother even went so far as to have her headstone made. All they had to do after she died was put her death date on her tombstone. One lady even had the funeral home as her beneficiary (long established and trusted within the community). I fonted all that to say that no matter if you think you will die alone or no, you can always have a dignified service.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    So he already had in head his head that he was gonna start some schit. Like the boys in blue, he hoped she'd buck or give him a reason. It had nothing to do with chairs. Hate crime.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I swear I posted my comment and then started reading others. I said the exact same thing as you. He was looking for any thing to use as an excuse to start an argument with her cuz she's gay. Hate crime. She took the bate, especially if he really did have odd behavior that many guests noticed.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Respect and condolences. More black folks better start cremating people. You can have a decent homegoing still, but cremation. If I have 30k to "spare," I'm not spending it on a funeral. No way.

  • SMDH x2

    When I reached the age of 19, my mom gave me my insurance policy she had been paying on. I took it and continue to pay on it till this day. I also encouraged my daughter when she married to make sure to get life insurance for here and her kids and she did.

  • SMDH x2

    When I reached the age of 19, my mom gave me my insurance policy she had been paying on. I took it and continue to pay on it till this day. I also encouraged my daughter when she married to make sure to get life insurance for here and her kids and she did.

  • Yvonne

    That's smart. It doesn't have to be much. I'm not trying to make my husband rich if I die first, lol. Just enough so he won't have to open a Go Fund Me or wash cars to pay for my funeral. How sad.

  • Yvonne

    That's smart. It doesn't have to be much. I'm not trying to make my husband rich if I die first, lol. Just enough so he won't have to open a Go Fund Me or wash cars to pay for my funeral. How sad.

  • SMDH x2

    Hell, I thought about wrighting my own eulogy. Who can speak about Me better than Me.. Don't want no sad stuff, all uplifting, lol

  • SMDH x2

    Hell, I thought about wrighting my own eulogy. Who can speak about Me better than Me.. Don't want no sad stuff, all uplifting, lol

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Right I agree

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yes!!! I said that very thing I told someone today that sometimes I've noticed that the LBGT folk play victim without telling the full story of how things happen sometimes it's not even about them being gay or trans or anything it's about them being disrespectful period but every time someone dies or get beat up its going to be because they are LBGT

  • suganspice68

    Lol!

  • che’lint

    ?????

  • SameoleJ

    Exactly........clear cut and dry hate crime!!

  • KB

    ......??

    RIH Tyonne Johns

  • H-Town Girl

    Since when can we go to Boss man and say we are not comfortable with the customers please assign me to a different event. Boss man would easily respond 'Perhaps you would feel much more comfortable in the unemployment line.' He was not hardly forced to interact he had the option of quitting & finding employment else where just like the rest of us free folks in America.

  • Quitedeliteful

    I hope he gets the book thrown at him and may his cellmate be a bedroom bully!

  • lovelygamour

    Jobs for him maybe hard to come by. Plus why quit over one couple.
    Ive worked and attended many events where people where "swapped out". Unless the place was real small most halls ,clubs, and events would swap you with a co worker. The main goal is for the event to go well and to have enough bodies. If someone doesnt want to be there then send them home. It used to be like this. Now commonsense is dead. The guest shouldve said they want someone else or he can leave and come back. They knew he was crazy.

  • MelMel

    What does it matter that she was a lesbian??? Really?