Charlize Theron

These images are floating all over social media today. The images show South African actress Charlize Theron emasculating her adopted son, Jackson, by dressing him like a girl.

According to one blogger, Jackson, 5, identifies as a transgender. The boy is seen wearing a striped dress and a cap with a blond ponytail attached.

Theron, 41, also adopted a baby girl named August in 2015. Both children are black.

Social media users are outraged that celebrities like Theron are attempting to emasculate their black sons.

These images reflect the disturbing trend in Hollywood of praising and uplifting black cross-dressing men, such as Laverne Cox and Jaden Smith, in an attempt to make black men appear less sinister to whites.

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  • Candance

    Not a good look at all! I'll just say this... Im happy it isn't my son, this is clearly an issue not just a simple choice. My son would try to fight me throw a fit and be p***** if I attempted to put a dress and a pony tail on him.

  • YaYa

    so the child is a science project now???

  • PussyGal0re

    Remove this child immediately! He isn't a science project! She is subjecting him to ridicule. Dumb, racist c?nt!!

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    You willing to take him in?

  • PussyGal0re

    Not a problem! I have adopted children several times throughout the years. How about you?

  • Yoni

    My co-worker is upset because her son wore a shirt with cats all over it today to school. She's feeling some type of way about. But last week she went to a friends house and picked up baby dolls so they could play "house" together........That's all I got.

  • Moon Lee

    Mess like this makes me thankful, for a lot of simple things!

  • PussyGal0re

    ?????????????????

  • Noirluv45

    How does one, at 5, know he's trans-gendered? ?

  • Hill Candy

    I'm speechless

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I swear "they" are trying to emasculate our Brothas in any way possible

  • hotntot95

    Now I hope the LGBT COMMUNITY can see how ridiculous this is...it's a toxic mixture of Hollywood and the agenda to turn the black man into a menstrual freak show...it's infuriating to me ?

  • R in NYC

    Lord help us all. These are truly the last days.

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    Thi is child endangerment and cruelty. Da fuk is wrong with these people??

  • PussyGal0re

    Menstrual though? ? "Minstrel" dear.

  • Angela

    This was her "game plan" all along...I want to drag her unconscious....

  • hotntot95

    Nope...I said what I said..

  • askquestions

    Sad. Sad. Sad. Shes South African and we alllllll know what Europeans did in Soutg Africa ...

  • askquestions

    Lmao

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I did a post about this when she had him in pink ballerina shoes and everybody thought I was crazy and tried to talk junk cuz I said should white folks be allowed to adopt black children and why aren't white folks interested in adopting their own race of children there are plenty of them that need to be adopted plus I spoke on how she treated him from the looks of the pictures as well I'm sorry I don't feel that white ppl should be allowed to adopt black kids even if the white person is from South Africa

  • digal704

    People raise their children as they see fit. Thankfully I haven't been in that situation with a young child. I don't think I could participate in that. My daughter chose it for herself as a young adult and it was tough for me. If that works for her family then I'm happy for her. It seems young to make that decision IMO. My daughter did say that she felt as a child that she should have been a boy.

  • Arii

    Well damn PussyGal0re, do you have receipts?

  • askquestions

    Hell ... South African whites are no different from American whites ... or maybe worst.

  • Lovelove

    WHY would anyone do this shit? These ppl are crazy AF!

  • Saharabutnotdry

    We Africans don't believe in this shiit! It's disastrous imo. I wonder how much she got paid for this "Agenda".

  • Blue

    would she do this had he been her adopted white son?

  • Reddy

    I have typed and erased my comment 3 dang times. I just don't know what to say. I want to know how a 5 year old knows they are trans?

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_

    this is so f*cking inappropriate.

  • hotntot95

    Yes...This shit ain't normal...idgaf Wat "they" say about it...

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    real questions... because we know the Anglos used to keep small African children as "pets" ....fugg'n pervs!

  • askquestions

    Recent quote from Charlize about HIV ... from Life Style magazine ...

    At the recent UN international AIDS conference in South Africa, the actress Charlize Theron announced that HIV “has no biological preference for black bodies, for women’s bodies, for gay bodies ... HIV is not just transmitted by sex,” she explained. “It’s transmitted by sexism, racism, poverty, and homophobia.”

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    WHAT IN THE WHITE-WASHED RAPUNZEL HELL???!!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Do these whites adopt black for any particulr reason?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    In her case:
    If she wanted a child(ren) from her NATIVE country; then the likelhood of getting one that is black vs white is greater, being that blacks are 80% and whites are only 9% of the population.

  • iWasteTime

    why he gotta be a white woman though ... ugh
    He didn't want to be Tiana? I know she was a frog for half the movie but damn, Elsa!!

  • askquestions

    White people, even the "liberal" ones, borderline sociopathic tendencies ... the will to do whatever comes to mind with no regard for reality.

  • Reddy

    And then you going to put the ugliest dress and blonde ponytail...I'm crying. This is a travesty!!! My husband would have me buried in a hole out in Dinwiddie! Lawd!!

  • askquestions

    Well ... you know. He cant be too black. He might grow up to be thug.

    So shes making him a fairy.

  • hotntot95

    Exactly ...the new"indentured servant"..pisses me off

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    just because they CAN. and nobody calls b.s. on 'em because they got their own b.s. they waiting to unveil... dis tew murch!

  • NolaD

    This is crazy... smdh...

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Who is going to remove him? The South African govt?

  • Reddy

    I thought I was wrong for thinking that. Why he had to have a ugly plastic blonde ponytail?

  • askquestions

    White people ... especailly gay white couples, should not adopt black. What kinda sick fetish????

  • Taylordanes

    this is ridiculous...she needs a mental health evaluation..

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I googled this and saw 2 things. 1. He was mad at one of her co-stars because she wore a white movie wig, but wouldn't put on the Elsa dress. He thought she was Elsa by the hair. Article said he loved all things Frozen. 2.I saw another pic on another occasion of him out wearing this same Elsa wig. I guess he really likes Elsa. I don't know what else to say. He's 5. This time next year he might go everywhere wearing a Spiderman costume.

  • Blue

    hahahahaha

  • Renee26

    That's sad...these parents are retarded! Majority of kids go through a "gender identity crisis" between 3-5 years of age. It's because they are just now learning the differences between boys and girls. They may even be caught hunching on each other. It's the parents job to correct the children and explain to them the differences and tell them why they can't dress like the other kids they play with or whatever. This is just ridiculous...The Pitts did the same things with their daughter. They act like they can't tell their kids no.

  • askquestions

    Black props ... life-size set pieces ... human play-things ...

    Social experiments ... are blacks naturally dumb. Will being raised by whites improve intellect.

    So many questions ... so many fetishes.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Theron, 41, also adopted a baby girl named August in 2015. Both children are black.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
    *waits for Baby August to be photographed with her lil tatas taped down and wearing a baby gap wife-beater and calvin klein boxer briefs for boys*

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    WTH!?!?!? :facepalm: U might as well give us a Angelina and Brad post. I'm over these folks...a phucking blond ponytail. I'd rather talk about Angelina :coffee: Who is keeping Zahara!?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I said this downstairs earlier in essence. Its social, Psychological, and demographic (which she stated in terms of race, sex, economic. All of which are demographic) transmittal of the disease. All physical yes. But there are other factors to consider as well. I dont disagree with her.

  • CookieMobster

    My son wanted to be swore he was a robot when he was 3 but I didn't dress him up and tell him it was OK and that he could be a robot if he wanted. You have to train a child up in the way they should go. What is wrong with people.

  • Renee26

    He more than likely asked to wear it and she complied

  • Trey

    Thats F***ed up

  • LeBrick James

    Im not a violent dude, but this makes me want to punch her in the mouth.

  • goat

    These people..smdh

  • LeBrick James

    White people, especially the "liberal" ones, borderline sociopathic tendencies ... the will to do whatever comes to mind with no regard for reality.

    #fixedthat

  • LabellaMior

    Morting good people's. ..what on the Holy hell...I can't with this up top...

  • Renee26

    They don't...they may say I want to wear what Sally is wearing and throw a fit...then all of a sudden the adults label the kid as such

  • Renee26

    Elsa is what's popping right now. Tiana is old news

  • Phillybruh

    Looks like the kid is heavy into Frozen. Who gives a sh*t I got my own kid to raise.

  • SG

    This stupid bish

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *pelts you with snickers* ....have several!
    (nobody got time to set-up yet another gofundme 'cause you out here punching yt womens, Lol)

  • LeBrick James

    "Only a minority of children who experience cross-gender identification will continue to do so into adolescence or adulthood."

    http://www.cnsnews.com/commentary/ryan-t-anderson/nearly-everything-media-tell-you-about-sexual-orientation-and-gender

  • APeachLikeMe

    I hate this! I had so much love for her ONLY because she was South African... Now she just shaming my people!!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    she tryna make him into a 'mini me' smh...

  • rayne215

    my daughter would love that hat. she loves elsa

  • TeeTee

    This is not the first time she did this. She does this on a regular basis. Google it. I wish we could sign something to take her child away. The feminization of our men and the systematic genocide that these folks got up they sleeve....

  • Chuck

    This is what happens when you Black parents dessert your kids.

  • Jen_n_juice

    Lawd Jesus I can't. ...

  • MissHarlem

    Never will accept boys dressing like a girls. Never ?

  • SameoleJ

    And I usually rock with you, but NOPE!! She is wrong for this!! Yep, plenty of little boys were singing Let It go, etc. but this is too far. He is 5...Spiderman should have been on his radar about a year or more ago. Shoot, 4 year old grandson can tell you who all the Marvel characters are and he been doing that for a whilenow. The 2 and 3 year olds are all things Mickey (not Minnie) and Elmo,...oh and Paw Patrol.......but will sing Let It Go. She could have redirected him.......this dizzy bish chose NOT to.

  • Reddy

    Damn Angie!?!?! What's wrong with her? Is she sick? I'm not trying to be a butthole but her knees look so...so...pointy and jagged.

  • doubledee

    So sick of this ish....suddenly every kid identifies as transgender. I call BS.

  • LeBrick James

    Exactly .
    These parents are damaging their children with their supposed "open mindedness".

  • Incog-knee-gress

    THIS! Right here.

  • SameoleJ

    Jesus- The one who says his name like this (Hay- Zoos) and who Donald wants a wall for....not the manger baby!!

  • MookieFly

    Yea, she tried that. White women are snatching up young black men and moulding them anyway they see fit smh. Its time to break this cycle.

  • Jen_n_juice

    That's cause parents like her stop teaching kids and let them do whatever. You teach kids there's a difference between boys and girls and that sometimes they can't do the same things

  • SameoleJ

    Da Fuq dat mean?! Does she even know? Did anybody tell them dead folks that "think" they had it due to sex that they can come on back to life because of her theory?

  • SameoleJ

    Racism, though, Dubb!

  • rayne215

    nature vs nurture. Psychology was very clear about this.

  • Jen_n_juice

    #WhitePrivilege black folks need an 800+ credit score, PhD, mom dad and grand parent living in the home before we can adopt our own

  • SameoleJ

    Gay son's mom seconding this!!

  • imright

    u shouldn't b able to adopt a child of another race!!! my opinion

  • Reddy

    I feel you. I thought as the adult it was our responsibility to say "uhmmm hell nah!" My son at the age of 8 thought it was okay to wash with just water and no soap. Should I have let his funky self think it was okay? This may be different but you have to be willing to tell a child no and this is what you will be doing and stick with it.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I don't disagree. I was simply providing more context. I would not allow MY son to dress like this. In private or public.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Majority of kids go through a "gender identity crisis" between 3-5 years of age
    ______________________________
    I was completely unaware of this! I know it's only anecdotal, but I never witnessed this in my nephew or any of my nieces when they were 3-5 y/o. they were actually very clear on their 'roles' and 'identities' which we could easily observe while they played. and even though my nephew was the lone male amongst a gaggle of little girls, he was very early on exhibiting a definite single-minded 'male' attitude. and the girls were always 'girly' :shrug:

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    They're saying she not taking care of herself because her career is falling off and Brad is creeping. Another site said he offered her $30 mil in a divorce settlement but some of the kids want to go with Brad. :shrug:

    http://www.inquisitr.com/3436864/angelina-jolie-and-brad-pitt-divorce-confirmed-sagging-careers-and-infidelity-to-blame-for-split/

  • LeBrick James

    sorry... ** chomping on snickers**
    I'm not sure what got into me.
    I'm not me when I'm hungry.

  • Libra80sBaby

    What in the hell??!!

  • Phillybruh

    Or it could be as simple as asking Disney to make Frozen stuff that makes black people more comfortable with boys playing with toys?

  • Renee Bee

    But who bought the kitty shirt, huh? Who dressed the child, huh? The child does not have a job! ? (wailing)

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    I have no words...I'll let y'all speak and add on lol

  • MrsQ31

    wow

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    girl, let some folks tell it, Jesus was 'questioning' his lil preference in the manger, smh

  • Keri

    The only thing I can say is, WHY???

  • SameoleJ

    I think the issues was saying that whites cannot or should not adopt minority children, and not an issue with the anger at the way she dressed him. There are people who are raising children of other cultures quite well...whether via adoption or interracial dating/marriage. But NO this mess with a 5 year old dressing like this.....NO!!

  • Reddy

    Wow!!! If there was ever an example that money doesn't equal happiness...poor Angelina.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    THIS RIGHT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NEVER EVER!!!!!!!

  • SameoleJ

    SMDH....sad but true!!

  • Jen_n_juice

    I don't have kids *my disclaimer* but I'm not sure I'd even allow my son to do that. IMO Frozen is for girls. The movie Cars is for boys

  • MissHarlem

    Gay has nothing to do with your gender. Take dck great but you don't need to dress like a girl unless it's a paying gig ? good for you ?

  • Str8tUpMenace

    You chomping on those snickers like Vince was chomping on Tamar's finger

  • askquestions

    Lol. That "especially" might be hittin on something.

  • Renee Bee

    I swear to gawd I could use this gif everyday.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Exactly my nephew saw my bracelet and said he wanted one...I told him this was for girls and I'd get him a boy bracelet. Got him a leather bracelet made for lil boys.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Religion too. It was written. "FRONTLINE explores how HIV has permeated the community. Racism and homophobia have played roles in the spread of the disease, but so have religion, poverty and politics."

    http://www.nytimes.com/1993/01/12/us/commission-says-racism-contributes-to-aids-spread.html

    http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/frontline/article/race-and-americas-hiv-epidemic/

  • MookieFly

    That's what's so sad about the adoption process. So many black children who need homes but so many obstacles for black families who want to adopt. But all a white celeb needs is a empty grocery bag and she/he can pick em up like produce.

  • MissHarlem

    Forever ever ever forever ever ever *three stacks voice*

  • Str8tUpMenace

    They're saying she is not taking care of herself because her career is falling off and Brad is creeping.
    _____________________

    How you get him is how you lose him

  • SameoleJ

    Bottom line. My daughter was raised with 3 brothers. When she started getting her boobies, she had a fit because there was no more being free with her brothers and she required top coverage at all times. It crushed her world, but I had to explain it to her and help her understand.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Chile...

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Racist due to the disparity of health programs, insurance, and access. You are in healthcare. You know this.

  • Jackie Brown

    Jesus take the wheel

  • Reddy

    I agree completely. People will try to vilify you if you don't agree with certain things in this day and age. What they do in their house is their business...but as for me and my house...this is not happening!

  • Phillybruh

    I have a niece that would disagree, she is as girly as they come but watches Ninja Turtles all day has play sets and action figures. It's just what she's into. Her parents would love to buy her a Barbie she's just not into it. Why waste money on things they aren't going to enjoy.

  • MookieFly

    They do make unisex toys for Frozen. They have the lumberjack guy and the snowman as several figurines.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Dis is some bullshiat. Cps needs to intervene in this case and all assoicated like cases.

  • SameoleJ

    AND THERE IT IS!! You like men....fine. You like them as a man, dress like a man and stay the hell out me and your sister's closet!! When he came out, I very clearly stated okay, no cross dressing!! You are a male who likes males and if any male wants you to dress as a female, tell him to take his confused azz on!!

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Lol too cute

  • Phillybruh

    He doesn't want to play with those he likes elsa I'm sure they could create a shirt or two

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Yup I was never into the "girly" stuff...it was boring lol

  • SameoleJ

    She cried like she was dying when that one nodule emerged. Was like...I don't want them! Smushing the damn things down and all. CTHU

  • MissHarlem

    I welcome being vilified especially when my morals and knowledge of self is threatened. Idc either. Makes no damn sense. No I will not accept your bs ?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LOL!!!!! bless her heart, ROFL!

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Lol I hollered when I got my period like that...little did I know I'd stay hollering for years to come...cramps are a mf...

  • SpillyNillie

    She would adopt a black child to do this bullshat with!

  • SameoleJ

    Okay......I see. I was looking at it a different way. But you are correct in healthcare they will sell a minority the okey doke real quick.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Omg...she on that Eddie Long diet?

  • Jen_n_juice

    Lmao poor thing.... But hey better that them letting her go ahead and her 3 brothers talkin about they want breast cause they see hers

  • MissHarlem

    ????? thank you. They act as if we ain't had gay's since forever. Problem is when I gotta fight to keep you out my closet or telling me the struggle of being a fake woman.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    My baby is like that. Loves girly but action figures too

  • LeBrick James

    So within less than a year of her adopting this child (who was 4 years old at the time) she's decided that the child is really "a girl on the inside"?

    #notbuyingit #devilisbusy

  • MookieFly

    Well actually, to be clear, we don't know what he wants because we are not there. Even then, there are boy shirts that have Elsa on them.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And will!!! She has spoken out against it in re to her native South Africa and the youth and stop the spread. Has a foundation too. I dont like her dressing her son as a girl. But she is tireless in her work against HIV/AIDS and has been for a long time.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Watching Catfish. Why would you send money to a guy you never met?!?!?

  • the guest

    This is a racist agenda to make white people feel threatened by black boys. It is also a gay agenda with Agelina Jolie's daughter preference for boys clothing and Gwen Stefani painting her sons nails pink. There is nothing at all hip about these agendas. These are dangerous times.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    *raises hand* I was caught hunching lol

  • Phillybruh

    I mean we've jumped to this kid is transgendered, when all I see is 5 year old in a Elsa wig and the night gown is a bit much but hey not my kid its hers to indulge.

  • the guest

    Yes.

  • iWasteTime

    SAY THAT SHIT AGAIN!!
    somewhere Jen is cackling!
    I'll help him raise Z and Shiloh though.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Girl. How people are still so gullible is amazing to me. And these folks stay in these fake relationships for YEARS!

  • Str8tUpMenace

    In the words of Mutombo, No No No

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Gwen Stefani painting her sons nails pink
    _________
    Hell her husband used to paint him and HIS BOYFREN Marilyn nails pink most likely. How we know Gwen did the painting and not Gavin?
    QTNA.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I got PEP7 to feed and clothe. Kids out here sucking on raw chicken and selling toys for food. He may need heavy therapy later but there are way worse problems a child can endure. Hell, a child would rather wear a dress then not have a hot meal, warm bath, loving family or decent life in general. Ask Draya's son if he would have worn a dress and bleach blond hair instead of eating the particles in the air. I'm not saying is right or I agree btw.

  • Jen_n_juice

    I never wanted to play with Barbie no job having azz either but Mama Juice wasn't letting me play with trucks and cars neither. "Take yo azz outside and play or take a nap since you don't want to play inside with yo toys"

  • Stacey J

    I'm going to hope that this was her ill thought out attempt to go out in public without someone recognizing her.

  • SpillyNillie

    Seriously tho...being the mother of a young black boy...my son has never came to me and said, "mom, I want to wear a dress." NEVER! Are we sure it's the children requesting to do these things? The parents act as if it's the child's desire to dress like the opposite sex and there's nothing they can do about it. LIES I SAY!

  • the guest

    Exactly

  • sas318

    It didn't occur to me that they're trying to make black boys look less sinister to whites. It just looks like a boy looking like a girl. Is everything always about race?

    Jillian Michaels let her 5 year old son get his ears pierced.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Ha! I luh you.

  • felinelurker

    From downstairs:
    OFF TOPIC: IF YOU TAKE OFF WORK FOR A LAST "BASH" BEFORE KIDS RETURN TO SCHOOL- FAMILY/FRIEND ASKS YOU TO ASSIST WITH SPOUSE'S PARTY FOR WORK THE SAME DAY, WHAT WOULD YOU DO? *PERSON SAYS SHE HAS NO OTHER HELP* CONVERSATION TURNED FROM AN INVITATION TO REQUEST OF ASSISTANCE...

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Ikr Waste...I like Zahara :)

  • iWasteTime

    This time next year he might go everywhere wearing a Spiderman costume.
    --------------------------
    This my life but it is a ninja custome

  • Yoni

    She did. Didn't approve of it at first, then her lil sister was like "who cares". The sister also brought one for herself. They wore them to the movies together. Then he wore it to school today. She told him before he got out the car....."I don't want you to come home saying you were bullied..". I'm just relaying the story.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Speaking of this. I don't think that boy dressing in his towel is funny.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    I guess she's saying they're injecting folks...*cough* like the Tuskegee experiment

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I think what's more important is truly finding a way to determine if a person is soundly 'fit' to become the guardian of an adoptive child. it has to be more than a question of economics (which isn't the only consideration, I'm sure). but, I do wonder if the economical advantages of some individuals overshadows other areas where there may be more to be desired in the way of them being a 'well-rounded' parent. I won't go as far as segregating the adoption process, but something is amiss HERE with Charlize, IMO.

  • SameoleJ

    No one should be vilified for standing in their beliefs. If they are, it isn't the person who is being vilified problem, it is the problem of the person doing the vilifying. If you don't stand for what you believe in, you lose yourself.....and for what?!

  • Jen_n_juice

    *DEAD*

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Exactly what kind of help is she asking for? Your time or your money?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    with all love and due respect family/friend needs to go immediately to plan 'B'

  • the guest

    Because his stupid Hollywood actress mother told him that's what she wants him to be.

  • SpillyNillie

    Sey whet? Gwen married a Hershey Highway Slider?

  • Alicia.Ashe

    They had to go all the way to Alaska to confront his ass

  • Phillybruh

    At the end of the day its a toy, that they eventually grow out of. My son has played with barbies, at first I was bothered but then I said I got bills to pay and he's just fine.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Yeah, but he was openly bi so she went in knowing that.

  • SameoleJ

    Oh, I love her as a person (girl crushed on her hard)......her mothering of this young man is bothering me.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Define help.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    And possibly c through z. A is definitely omitted though. ??

  • LeBrick James

    The Nigerian ones are really good at that...in a bad way. They'll have women wiring them bail money, money to release their "inheritance", etc.

    (No disrespect to any Nigerians among us.) :|

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    fugg you for that last part PEP.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Really? Never seen them go that far. These folks are nuts.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Nope neither has my nephew...he knows he has his own clothes...why ask about mine?

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *cackles*

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Sigh...particles in the air...

  • MissHarlem

    Say that ?

  • SpillyNillie

    Wow, I had no clue...

    On the subject, a friend told me she was approached by a dude who's been delivert and doesn't like menz no more to go on a date.

    I said I wouldn't do it. Any thoughts?

  • Candance

    My kids ask for a lot of stuff but as a parent you have to use your authority and say NO. Kids usually get over a blunt No rather quickly. If they don't you then take further action to make sure they understand. My son was paying one day and was walking in my shoes, I looked at him and those shoes and said REALLY? he has never put them on again, nor did I think he was a trans... IJS lets stop!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    ??

  • Phillybruh

    I would say 99.9% of boys don't want too wear dressed gay or straight.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Nope I'd get a free meal tho...

  • Jen_n_juice

    If this was the case then sadly even less of ours would get adopted

  • Phillybruh

    She's had this kid since he was infant.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Well that really IS racial maybe, being that the main coordinator of the Tuskegee expirement was a black woman. And she kept right on recruiting clinical paitents/subjects even after it became VERY clear that it was highly unethical. Ole Eunice.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    YEARS, CRAIG!!!!
    and not nary a snapchat, computer cam, yearbook pic, NOTHING. Hail, I don't even utilize all the apps on my phone and I still manage to accidently facetime at least one of my contacts once a month!

  • Look@m3

    no the black children are adopted as science projects

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I literally was in a group chat about this last night. I would with him well, but I'm not built for that.

  • Blak

    dressing up a little black boy like a little white girl is completely unacceptable and those kids need to be taken away

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Which is ALL-SEW what I said downstairs. How we dont know that the wig maker ex-wife aint know about his gayness? We dont.

  • felinelurker

    Well, when I mentioned my plans, I asked what could be done the day before. Everything has to be done that day.
    Pretty much leg work

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Didn't know that...we sure that's true? I don't believe ish no more...she got paid off? Family threatened? Shiit...

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Like how people try to catch the falling snowflakes??

  • Slickone

    And it's a blond pony it could at least match??

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    yeah, she may be a nice, well-intended lady, but this is a head-scratcher (for me)

  • mela.reign77

    I don't agree with this but I will leave it there. Smh....

  • Candance

    Gay does have a connection to gender lets not do this! If it didn't then why are the following letters LGBTQ grouped together.
    Most trans people are gay... no? Maybe not all, but most...

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I have a pic in my phone. Gavin was purdy.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Y'all could become good friends...I got a friend like that before... that's my negra lol

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Fugg his mama for making that 1 of his only options.

  • Jen_n_juice

    Lmaoooo!!!!!!!

  • SpillyNillie

    Neither am I. My mind would never be at ease...

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I missed most of that post. (My sis just had her baby, was at the hospital. Woo-hoo!) But I agree. Was just in a group chat talking about this last night. Lady we know married a man knowing he was an ankle biter. The rest of us didn't find out until "three letters took him to his final resting place," but SHE knew. All along. She still married him though and stayed till the end.

  • LeBrick James

    Ok, my bad then. I stand corrected.
    (The daughter is the one she adopted last year.)

  • MissHarlem

    Me and mine come first. Always. If I can help besides that OK but if not them be the breaks ?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    She got it to!?!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    This ^^^^^^^^^ here!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I can't I'm not built for that. I don't know where his mouth and bussy has been.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Exactly. Because if you like penis, that's a craving I could never satisfy. So...nope. But good luck sir.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    She was getting paid. Dont excuse her for recruiting subjects of her fellow black man. I am in clinical research. Eunice Rivers is the reason why we have to have consent on top of consent on top of consent to let patients know, you are in a clinical study and the drugs you are being exposed to causes XYZ.

  • Mystery User

    these white bitches are adopting Black boys and turning them into faggots and making them their best friends.

  • Candance

    He saw it on TV, Tablet, Phone or any other electronic they shove in our children's face.

  • Phillybruh

    But dressing him like stevie j complete with gold tooth is perfectly fine.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Ha! Me, too! And Soul1 stays facetiming people by mistake. LOL!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    dammit! not another one! we need to call FDA bout this s*&t!!!!

  • Smartypants

    Y'all believe in tarot cards? I'm using virtual cards and when I pull it mentions something about a new love. But I'm married. ???
    I want to believe what it says about me and money though.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I've heard that bish Karma is a REAL bish....

  • SummerBaby

    This is ridiculous!

  • Phillybruh

    The daughter was an infant too.

  • bemetoo

    Take em away from this pig...lol jk but way would she allow that I bet if she would've shiided out that boy out if her vajayjay she wouldn't put him in a dashiki and black braids

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    No. I think since she went in eyes wide open, she may never have even consummated it. He was the son of a preacher so I'm thinking he just did got married because it was expected and she did it because she wanted to the Second Lady of the church.

  • SpillyNillie

    How does that work? You just say I don't want tha peen no more? Then what happens when you get a craving? Nah bruh, ain't gone be able to do it...

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Having a child by a different race is cool though? What's the difference? Bishes out here choosing baby daddies by hair texture.

  • Candance

    Redirected him! Exactly what parents are suppose to do! Letting these children do what ever they want drives me so crazy! Its so not cute. These people will be running our world one day. Society is setting weak children up for failure.

  • SpillyNillie

    Wow

  • the guest

    Wait I just looked at the photos again and that black male child has on a hat with a long blond braid attached. Bad enough this black male child is being socialized transgender but Charlize couldn't find an Afro puffs wig. Why a long blond braid? This is all kinds of confused and wrong.

  • zawnn

    I'm so pissd.. Wth

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    doesn't matter I'm not giving my time or money :coffee: who would help if you didn't know I was off and if you need money, a party should be the last thing on your mind :chase: Folks know not to phuck with my "me" I don't even answer my phone

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Well, if you have already laid out your time and money for your plans, then no. I would tell her I'd come an hour early maybe, but that's it. Sorry, not sorry. I've been burned by helping folks with their parties before so I'm super biased with this.

  • SummerBaby

    Congrats on the new addition your family.

  • Liah

    WTH is going on ???????!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eunice_Rivers_Laurie
    A lot of black doctors and nurses participated. They knew in the very LEAST that what the govt was doing was unethical. It has been said some knew exactly what was up and turned a blind eye.

  • SpillyNillie

    I bet he was LOL

  • Buttercup

    when I pull it mentions something about a new love
    =============
    I don't know much about tarot cards. Could it be a baby, new hobby, career, falling deeper in love with your husband, etc?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    I have learned this the hard way. But I learned, dammit!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Say you have plans that can't be changed.

  • hi-liter

    She needs to be ashamed of herself letting that boy dress like that. He is a little kid, not a teen, but a little kid who can still be told what to do. Now a teen should be able to be told what too do as well, but as a child his age, a parent has more control over his mind and the way he thinks. He asked to wear that shat and she said, "Sure honey why not." SMMFH

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I'm still unhappy with having to wear top coverage at home and in general. It's so unfair *falls gently to the ground* I can't hurt what my top coverage is supporting ?

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    see a few comments down...hmph. Enjoy your day off hun :coffee:

  • felinelurker

    I was thinking moving my plans to Saturday but that means fighting a bigger crowd/traffic. Which was the reason I took off work ???

  • ty ty

    This is sad all so many levels....

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    awwww, she out here making folks day when they pick-up and see that lil sweet face... too precious. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cda4925ca1d357264787be9b5ccd589f4b0940cb9442847e1840c0a193a331e3.gif

    :sniffle:

  • Blaque Mahogany

    That's the devil...

  • 100milesperhour

    Just like Angelina told Shiloh. She claims since age 2, Shiloh wanted to be called John.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Nope. Don't do it. Proceed like you originally planned.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    CONGRATSSSSSSSS

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Someone done liked my post from LAST year. Guess they googling all of Tamar posts.

  • Yvonne

    It's amazing to me how black people have so much to say about white celebrities adopting black children, but we rarely adopt ourselves. Sure, we adopt in nontraditional ways, grandmas and aunties and cousins take in relative's children, but there still are so many black kids in the foster care system.

    Calling child services is ridiculous. Do you realize how many children are actually being abused, beaten, molested, locked in cages, in basements, starved, neglected, raped - and social services is supposed to put all that on hold because a boy wore a cap with a ponytail on it?

  • Buttercup

    IF YOU TAKE OFF WORK FOR A LAST "BASH" BEFORE KIDS RETURN TO SCHOOL- FAMILY/FRIEND ASKS YOU TO ASSIST WITH SPOUSE'S PARTY FOR WORK THE SAME DAY, WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
    ==============
    I would let him or her know that I already had plans. Sorry, not sorry. In the words of Dimpz, "Piss poor managing on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part."

  • felinelurker

    Can't even do that bc I planned to get the kids up early (surprise them) & get on the road. Event is midday

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thank you!!!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thanks!!!

  • Candance

    So wrong on SO MANY levels!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    why for you come here?

  • Str8tUpMenace

    OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHH. *cues Bobby Brown*

    Get up off my back
    Save a heart attack
    Ain't nobody Humpin' Around (Ain't nobody humpin around)
    No matter what they say
    No it ain't that way
    Ain't nobody humpin around

  • imright

    abuse isnt always physical.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Wait. This affects your kids?? Oh, no. Answer is no. Sorry. Go and enjoy your time with the Felines!

  • the guest

    I agree. White people can't raise black children but I do think black people can raise white children.

  • Str8tUpMenace

    *dead* #icant

  • MissHarlem

    Meaning that you can be a female love females and have no desire to want to be a male and vice versa. The gay men at brunch over the weekend shared the same sentiment so it's a different of perspectives

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    right!! Have you heard from Dimpz Butter?

  • Buttercup

    Neither has Lil Butter. He randomly wears costumes on any given day, but they haven't involved dresses.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    My old hair stylist used to have that posted next to her station.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    ooh congrats to the fam on the new baby!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • 100milesperhour

    But everybody clapped b/c the rich yt woman gave the poor orphaned black boy a home. I knew there was an agenda w/Hollywood actresses adopting black instead of kids that look like them. Wonder what they were doing to him when that woman heard him screaming uncontrollably in the mountains & called the cops. Sean Penn the ogre was there too.

  • felinelurker

    Yes! They had vacation with whole family but I just wanted us before school.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    O hell naw. Do you!! Let THEIR chips fall where they may while yours fall into place.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Look. Tell them no. This your kids' past big hurrah.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    They gonna add the boy with a cap with a ponytail on it...as you said right on in.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Its not but how do you classify which is worse? I dont agree with him with this dress on. But I sure as heck think calling social services and him getting physically abused possibly is not the move either.

  • the guest

    He has on a hat with a long BLONDE wig braid attached. Why? This is heartbreaking.

  • Noirluv45

    I know, right?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    That's what they want... easier to control...

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Bobbaaayyyy!!!!!

  • Phillybruh

    She simply put a nice bow on how black people don't adopt.

  • hi-liter

    I bet if he was still over in South Africa, I bet he wouldn't be identifying as Transgender. I guarantee you that.

  • Yvonne

    THANK YOU! You have restored my faith in humanity.

  • Noirluv45

    SMH.

  • imright

    if u so happen to have a child w a person of another race i see nthng wrong w that. PURPOSELY chasing after "good hair" is shameful.

  • Yoni

    All them folks she done INVITED and are about to eat up all her food and drank all her likka, can't help her out? She has options. If she can't dig out some help from OTHER folks she done invited, then she should cancel the damn party.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    OK interesting...thanks again for the info!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I believe in forgiveness and 2nd chances, but my old azz is scary and skeptical.... that's gonna be a 'no' for me.... but keep ya head up (I'm sure something will turn up)

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    just HOLLERED.
    (it's essential to know one's limitations though, ROFL)

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    I vote NOPE. Don't sacrifice your pre-planned time w/your kids in exchange for running errands for someone else's spouse's work function. On your off day at that? Naw, son.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    And you should! Go and have a great time!

  • imright

    also having a mixed child does not gurantee "good hair" ive saw it happen plenty of times!!! ?

  • SandrasNewFave

    another one....

  • felinelurker

    That's where she got me. She wasn't notified of plans herself until yesterday & she needs last minute help. Her immediate family can't make it in town bc last minute.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Exactly!

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Oh OK...I was Reyna do that for military benefits...didn't work out lol

  • Yoni

    RIGHT!
    Priority vs. Option.
    You will not become MY PRIORITY, if I'm only your OPTION.

  • Renee26

    This is a parent who obviously doesn't tell her child no...there's a lot of them out there and it's sad

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    More like that see her fat cheek since she puts the phone all in her face. She stays "talking" on the phone for someone who can't talk. LOL!

  • felinelurker

    True, true, lol!

  • the guest

    Bet Angelina thought she'd never see the day....

  • Yoni

    Then whomever took the pleasure of notifying HER at the last minute, can be responsible for finding her some last minute help.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LOL!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Future and I have the same visitation schedule. I'm only around ?<---that many days ?. Don't deny me the roses Nan. I missedededed most of you ?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Military benefits would be tempting though. My big cousin to this day still gets her medical insurance paid through her ex-husband's benefits and they have been divorced 20+ years. New wife HATES that, but nothing she can do.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Come on, now! Say that!!!!!

  • Renee26

    I was never caught but I remember hunching as well....and I've caught several children in that age bracket hunching too....and it's psychology 101 when discussing child development. It's up to adults to correct the behaviors

  • ramosyo

    Why??

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    didn't get past "Future and I" ...I can't today with you, LOL!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    True but many don't understand biology, dna, dominant or recessive genes ?

  • Yvonne

    Of course not, but there is a difference between an abusive parent, and a misguided or misinformed parent. Wouldn't it be better to educate parents instead of another kid, a black male at that so he's less likely to be adopted by another family, ending up in the foster care system? People are so quick to yell - call child services! Take the kid away!

    From what I understand, he doesn't dress like this everyday, he wanted to be Elsa from Frozen for some sort of game or event. Tomorrow he may want to be Batman.

  • Renee26

    Lol it's an Elsa hat...from Frozen

  • Yardgirl

    Yeah, the BLONDE speaks volumes. I work with only whites and they raise their kids different from how we do. Son wants to wear a dress, OK, let him be him they say. Me, ooonu mad to raas!! FOH!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Im sorry but we already have plans. I will call you next week to chat about your party, see how it was, to catch up etc.
    Bye.

  • MissHarlem

    Makes no sense to go against your point.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Yet they are 1000% sure they know who the daddy is by the wave pattern and the baby hair ?.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    So basically you were like, if Barbie ain't got nothing on this light bill, then fck it, let me gon to work and keep it moving.

  • iWasteTime

    you are a adoptive parent? That is great! God Bless you. I want to, once we are in a house though.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    This pi$$es me off. Go and emasculate your own color Charlize. She is south African, So it's not like i can tell her to go and emasculate her own kind, but her own color i damn sure can.! I'm still not sitting right with her since the Tia Mowry Beef.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I've been good today ?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Ha! Really??? That is so cute. Awww, Waste Jr.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Now, come the Fugg on! ???????

  • Yvonne

    I'm not. It's not the right time in my life to have children. When the time is right, I would love to adopt.

  • MissHarlem

    Let me be even more clear crystal even NO

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Awww, a baby. Congrats!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    People are so quick to yell - call child services! Take the kid away!
    ________
    And THEN ask...why she adopt a black kid. B/c those are the main faces of kids IN the system! Bc of stuff like THIS. People done called the folks over XYZ. Other stuff too. But still. Yes there are white kids. But NOT as many as black kids. And probably for SURE not ANY white infants.

  • just being me

    He dont look too upset so maybe he wanted to wear it ..

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thank you!

  • Yoni

    He looks like he's about to do the Milly Rock.

  • garrisonville

    what on Gods green earth is going on here. i'd slap the glitter outta his lil @ss in that dress.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    girl ALL of this!!!!
    my GOOD frens don't get my 'me time' ...i'll hang in there for a couple/few functions but after a while I be like, um, yeah I won't be to that one. I finally asked them after a series of dress fittings/after fitting dinners/round of b-day dinners... y'all don't get tired??????? we are NOT a bunch of 20-year-olds, take yo azz on home somewhere!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Nah honey...A 4 and 5 year old don't know what they want. I wish a kid a mine would. I was always, if i need your opinion, I'll give it to you-to my boys.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    The boy who believed he was with Katy Perry for years and refused to believe otherwise ?? they did him so wrong.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LMAO!

  • Yoni

    Don't let that hoe guilt you about doing something with your kids.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Thank You!

  • BooBooBaby

    Thank God! I would Never dress my son like a girl....he can pitch a Fit...I would NOT allow it!!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    These children are a reflection of what they are hearing and seeing in the home. Simple emulation...and the parents are promoting it.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    that "Bye." was dismissive as hail though, LMAO!

  • MissHarlem

    This a no brainer ?

  • LeBrick James

    Yeah i got that. I just had the impression she'd adopted the boy last year, when he was 4. But I see now she got the girl in 2015 and the son back in 2011.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    I got a Mean Funky Stare yo...
    Lemme see some ish ? like this in real life.

    ??

  • Incog-knee-gress

    This (What Feline described) some shat my family would pull on me. I have become VERY dismissive. Bye means end of discussion.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *waits for my t-shirt to arrive*
    ....'cause this some sho nuff wisdom right here!

  • harley_quinn2.0

    Kevin McCall is going to be on Iyanla Fix My Life. What took so long ??

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Probably not.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    MA'AM.
    MA'AM.

  • Renee26

    Look into child development and psychology 101....both subjects touch on this very thing. It's normal for babies to explore their bodies around that age. Same as when little boys get out the bath and like to run around naked or kids of both genders masturbating at a young age. If the parents learn not to make it about sex the can see these things with an open mind and address the behaviors accordingly.

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Nope raising 3 of my own. I'm also not the one saying remove him from
    His home as if his options in the system are going to be so much better.

  • Yoni

    What you say, so there is no misunderstanding. LOL

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Ghost from Power was a non believer. He believe it now tho. So was James Bond in Live and Let Die. Ms. Solitaire and her tarot cards was ON THE DAMN MONEY.

  • LeBrick James

    We're just raising up a whole generation of confused kids.

    I feel sorry for this next generation coming up.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    This is so disturbing for sooo many different reasons.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Correct...You don't know if the Mommy is gay or not....and/or what the hell is going on with Sean Penn. These actors-... (I am just saying this with the issue at hand because they seem to be the ones in the Adopt one take 3 more pool)...-needs to detox from these gay and bi-sexual roles because it seems like it is sticking.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Even if it was just me DOLO I wouldnt. NOPE.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    That was so politically correct of yew ?

  • Yoni

    Whale....the ACTUAL saying is....

    "Never let someone become your priority, while allowing yourself to be their option."

    I just re-worded it a tingy bit different up there. LOL

  • Candance

    True!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    We just got a real glimpse of his crazy with the Chris Brown debacle. Eva kept his crazy pretty much quiet.

  • Yvonne

    I know. I know of a lady who called child services on a single mom who came home with a trunk full of groceries and took the baby inside first, then went outside to get all the groceries, so the baby was alone in the house alone for a minute, tops, maybe two. Maybe the neighbor should have gotten off her bony behind and helped her? But no, she sat and watched out the window and called social services. Ridiculous. I guess the mom should have grown octopus arms.

  • Shantey

    Who knows what is going on in the damn house...for all I know he could be a house ni99a or a sex slave you know how they get down. That's why my kids don't spend the night

  • MissHarlem

    ?? N to do O. In English no in Spanish no in French non in Swahili hakuna.

  • AnonymousRose

    Their. Plan is working..... Hook , Line, and Sinker....

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Both of them won Academy Awards for playing gay folks. Her for Aileen Wurnos and him for Harvey Milk. It might be sticking...yes. But its helping their career. That is what actors strive for no? *shrug*

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Yup my granny never remarried I figured out why lol

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I swear, me and coworker JUST had this convo yesterday. she was telling how her 'best' friend wouldn't take no for an answer when she begged off being in bff's wedding. coworker had just lost her husband within 6 mos of bff's wedding. she told this lady she wsn't up to it, but this selfish heffa (my characterization) wouldn't take no for an answer and 'reminded' coworker that she had been in HER wedding and that coworker had promised to return the favor. I told her that ALL OBLIGATIONS go out the window when your muhfug'n husband dies! You only obligated to those two little babies you left with, and everybody else will deal (s/o Keya)!!!!!

  • gellie

    I'm thinking this is why her and Sean Penn fell out.

  • Yvonne

    She dumped Sean Penn a long time ago.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Yup

  • harley_quinn2.0

    He's a live one. A bag full of nuts. He's missing a lot of screws.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    you way is better, short and to the point...

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Thats what we dew....to nice. Jonny depp ole lady, she said i am out. This mug crazy as bat shiat.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Chile...

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Kids are curious by nature at that age. Hell my daughter stood at the toilet once and peed on herself..came crying to me saying her wee wee didn't work like her brothers did.. I was like huh?!! She pointed to her navel(She had an outtie) saying her wee wee didn't work...I had to explain that whole concept to her in her age. We stopped using kid names like wee wee at that point..

  • naughtycorner

    In addition to gender identity , there is some racial identity issues , Is it just me or is thing on his head simulating long blonde hair (ala whoopi ) I have no problem with trans-racial adoption as long as the parents are educated and informed when you black adopted child is pining for white skin , blue eyes and long blond hair like yours, that is a teaching moment to say well mommy looks like this and you look like this both are beautiful the LAST thing you do is put a fake towel like long blond hair on the child's head

  • That’s Interesting

    Yes they want the Black man weak. She should be ashamed of herself and she used to be SO PRETTY. Now she looks like shit.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    Feline's dilemma sorta reminded me of the lady who wanted you to come pick her up for YOUR baby's 21st b-day party! ...lemme go byke and tell Feline to offer to Skype that lady some 'help' for 15 minutes, shewww, smh

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Yes, any time someone make a dramatic transition to a life changing role in a documentary or autobiographical that is so pivotal or poignant, they need an island and a detox because they tend to take on those traits in real time... I am sure the likes of Robert DiNiro, Denzel, Jamie Foxx and Angela Bassett all thought the same in those roles they've played and played well. I mean, I know I wouldn't want to get up and be in my kitchen and have my dad say some chit like...Eh-You talkin' to me!? They be believing they lying azzes!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    blunt as hail.... I love it!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And those were real life people. Both were. So if nobody portrays their story bc yes they were gay..who will?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Agreed...always said I wanted to adopt one...but my nephew got me rethinking having my own and somebody else's lol

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    global rejection, LMAO!!!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Oh did she now? I thought they were engaged... so maybe she is that practicing single lesbian....No wonder that kid is confused.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Wait, wait, hole up! This funky bish tried to make this lady who just lost her husband to put on some ugly pastel dress and skip down the aisle like everything was grand. I hope she have her EX-friend a great big FCK YOU! If my damn dead husband isn't enough of a reason for you to leave me alone, then consider this a benediction on this friendship.

  • Unhappy American

    I bet she laughs pure evil at this kid he is doomed

  • Incog-knee-gress

    She still on one too. STILL

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Wow

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Oh, lawd, I thankfully missed that episode. I did see that pre-midget girl in Atlanta fooling some chick into thinking she was Bow Wow.

  • AnonymousRose

    It should be outlawed that white people CANNOT. adopt black boys. They killing our future generation. AND. Black men. Need to stand up and fight this bullchyt.... IInstead of I G HOOKAWHORES....ughhh

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    She still salty with you? Over HER lack of transportation to YOUR baby's party?

  • BlahBlahBlah

    she needs her ass whooped. "he identifies with transgender"? boy only speaks 2 syllable words. naw fam

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    oh, I believe what you're saying and was not questioning the education, lol. all that you mention directly above is familiar. I guess I just never thought of it as "gender identify crisis" (but I certainly would have if my nephew was ever running around in a blonde braid and a dress)

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    I have no qualms about them playing them...I just have a problem when they carry it on in real time. One of my twins is acting, and I have to pray over him and roles. Hollywood and the likes will eat them up and spit them out. Have them taking demonic roles and drug roles. I am wondering who took on roles of real people who were so messed up, they ended up messed up behind it...like I know Mike Epps is going to have a challenge playing Pryor. Jodie Foster was messed up too behind the Hannibal roles. Is the part worth your money, family and soul?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Lol too cute...my nephew saw blood on my towel and asked what happened...I'm like damn wth do I say? I just brushed it off and distracted him lol.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I had my male cousins doing all kinds of "girl" things. Including dress up. Baby dolls, nail polish and probably more. I also loved their TMNT and G.I Joe. We played video games and watched "girly" movies. We just wanted to have fun. We give our children their 1st impression on girl/boy from the moment we pee on that stick and it says +, ll, positive etc. It's what was taught to us. Even down to color.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I see all of this as separate issues. I don't see a problem with adopting. I do see a problem with the topic in this post though.

  • just being me

    Really ?? you replied to my post so you are replying to my opinion so its me who didnt ask you for your opinion ..

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Thank you!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    you betta put that shitt down and rekindle the love with your husband.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    LOL!!! Uhn-huh. Granny knew what was up.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    That was hilarious

  • MissHarlem

    Gotta cover all fronts lol

  • BooBooBaby

    I don't know about that...Sean Penn is a Looney far Left Liberal Nutjob!! ;)

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    You can have your opinion and that's cool...I haven't any problems with what you said....I'M JUST TELLING YOU MY THOUGHTS ON A 4 AND 5 YEAR OLD, whether you asked for it or not...

    What's the problem??

  • SameoleJ

    Kids are curious and that is the adults job to redirect them. A kid will try to drink dangerous things and we redirect them, so Charlize can do that same. Yup, my boy cousins played dress up, but it was confined to the house and treated as what it was was......play. not parade around in the street wear. He is 5, so he is at the age of understanding boys and girls......she needs to do better.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    My son saw that I bled through my clothes and started crying hard! "Mommy you gots a boo boo!" He thought I was hurt bad! ROFL. I had to hold him and say it was ketchup I spilled..I had to lie he was only 4!

  • SameoleJ

    That is true all boys had a sister or another female family member or friend make have them dress up......but they new the boundaries of it and didn't go to the market dressed like that. They understood that there was a time and place for it.

  • Wuts got Petty Davis Eyes..

    Yep! Get a fukking grip people!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I remember him getting arrested for that.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    NEW POST

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    WHOOT

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Is the part worth your money, family and soul?
    ^^^^^^
    Your craft is your craft. I mean some doctors have a hard time saving lives hence the term "playing God/God complex". Some Attorneys have a hard time defending clients they KNOW are guilty. Folks risk it all DAILY. It's part of alot of folks job.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Yep. The Bad Boy of R&B.

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    when she told me she gave in and did it, I wasl looking at her like she had two heads! then she said that wasn't enough because when the bish got knocked, she then wanted to set-up a committee to plan her baby shower. she PUT (as in told her she was on it) coworker on committee, and then proceeded to schedule several meetings, venue outings, and payment obligations! when coworker said she really couldn't adhere to the schedule nor pay 'her part' of the venue debt, that's when she and bff really fell out. ...bish had the baby and coworker had to hear from another friend even about that!
    I told her this aint NOTHING like me and my friends. and if either one of them acted like this, that would surely be the end of US. FIN.

  • Yvonne

    All I'm saying is Charlize's adopting Jackson means there's one less black child in the foster care system. Many people here are saying that her children should be taken away from her, putting them back in the system, which I don't think is the answer.

  • I aint the one

    HBO made a movie about it. Miss Evers Boys. Good watch.

  • wonderwoman

    So if he ask for a gun, would she buy one. Come on stupid( I don't like using that word) Charlize, use some common sense.

  • Shade Fest

    This is all wrong...nope notta

  • SameoleJ

    A 4 or 5 year old has a very clear idea of what they want. However they are able to be redirected to what is best for them, which may not be what they want. He does look like he wasn't forced to wear this outfit, but even if he is going to come out as gay....she needs not push the agenda.

  • Phillybruh

    Well they will just be sitting in the adoption store because blacks won't adopt them.

  • SpiceGirl

    confused much?

  • Karma WhO

    I understand celebs have the right to adopt, but some of these people need to be thoroughly screened just like other adopting citizens..this is horrible..someone needs to step in to asses whether this woman is fit to be a mother..

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    well bless her hort (and fugg her if she mad over the ONE time you couldn't accommodate her and has chosen to forget all the times you WERE there for her).... see, this why I stay to myself 'cause folks got a LOT of b.s. with them (and family can be thee worst sometimes).

  • gellie

    Bruce/Kaitlin is a card-carrying PROUD right-wing Republican.

  • I aint the one

    Yup, will never forget learning about this. Miss Evers Boys with Alfre Woodard and Laurence. Great watch.

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    WHO DA HAYLE PETTY AZZ DONE MENTIONED T -SHIRTS ON THIS HERE BLAWG?!...AGAINE?!

    ???

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    this sounds like a person to whom someone has been TOO good, to the point of them beginning to develop a sense of entitlement. when you go from an attitude of appreciation to one of expectation, we may need to re-examine our relationship....

  • PettyEyezPrime

    True, based on what they are taught. If I wanted to go out as a ninja turtle, no one would say anything. Probably would have been complimented and ? over. If a boy goes out as almost anything with wings, society judges hard. I get it. None of the males in my family did it. All I'm saying is society creates the stigma. Specifically Black society. Again, not saying I agree but I get it.

  • felinelurker

    y'all don't get tired???????
    lol!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    *lip tremba*
    it was for a good cause....

  • just being me

    I dont have a problem when you sharing your opinion but you are acting like I replied to you and I didnt :

    " if i need your opinion, I'll give it to you-to my boys."

  • PettyEyezPrime

    ??yes. With the tv on the toddler chairs.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Reading is fundamental...This was a statement I made to my OWN Children..............................

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    "adoption store" ????
    good day, Sir!

  • BicoastBlackGirlGeek

    "The disturbing trend in Hollywood of praising and uplifting black
    cross-dressing men, such as Laverne Cox and Jaden Smith, in an attempt
    to make black men appear less sinister to whites."

    BOOM.

  • sunni_daze

    And this is what happens when "they" raise "our" boys. This 100% Grade A+ Horse Shyt

  • Renee26

    Hilarious!!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    ...and you'd replied to the incorrect person...SameoleJ didn't make the response, I was the one that replied to what I tell my children, not her.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Come through with that truth, Nan!

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Lol yup he's 3...they're so precious

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Wow. She's a good one. But she's better off without that leech of a friend.

  • Mssugamoma

    Damn shame !

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    And I get that...I go back to that silly broad who is fighting for her 4/5 year old to have use of transgendered bathrooms. Dressing him up in girl clothes. Children are living their lives what they see or experience, be it an immediate connection which is the parents, or what the parents are allowing them to see, as tv...what 4/5 year old says, I want to be a girl, and I want to sit down and pee...malarkey like that. This is the job as a parent to condition the child into what a child is meant to be. Driving into the wall is not the thing to do...like that whole defensive-offensive driving technique. You avoid everything you can to save a situation and preserve life. But giving in to a minor when you are the parent is setting them up for humility and will lead to other things down the line to their detriment. When they're grown, that's their own path, but why do silly things by saying if my son wants to wear a dress, and a blond wig, I'll let him. Maybe my parenting skills are jacked up, but if a kid demands or tells me what he/she wants, It don't work like that for me.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    I'll dl it for my long ass plane ride...thank you.

  • AnonymousRose

    Thats why I said black men should do better. We can prevent this

  • Jay

    She is inviting pedophiles to destroy this kid. She is sick puppy.

  • Phillybruh

    They should but they won't. These black men these days can't even fist fight and these are the ones who wasn't allowed to play with barbies. But they going adopt...lol

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Hell she might be one herself...she does work in Hollyweird...

  • Phillybruh

    What happens when we raise them, because the product in the streets now is not so great!

  • SameoleJ

    Wait, that baby has yellow flip flops on!! FUKK NO!! This chick gets NO PASSES!!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    yeah, that chick was totally self-absorbed.
    it's like my baby sis said when I was telling her how busy I was with a friend's wedding. she said that reality tv has people believing that a constant stream of luncheons and meet-ups and parties is how people should really be living, and if you're not doing that you're missing it.
    now, I'm not knocking celebrating the moments of your life, but we ain't got to hire a band every time you get an oil change either, Lol!

  • Ceezus

    What in the Hell is going on!!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    I swear that's exactly what I put in my email when I rec'd yet another invite on a Monday (after I had just been out with them on Saturday). they must be on that new geritol because mother is tired, Lol!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    ...and that's a very fine line of crafting, life imitating art etc., I won't dispute the daily routines of people who do what they do....it's the end result and the repercussions, those results in the end. Who is held liable for that person who you got off as a lawyer that killed again, and who is responsible for that person you saved as a doctor when that life you'd saved went awry on something else by a chain reaction. It happens all the time, but what is your responsibility to it in life, or what does your conscious say about it because you were just doing your role?

  • SameoleJ

    UM, are you daft?! I was disagreeing (a little with Orchid) and semi agreeing with you!!
    Per my statement: He does look like he wasn't forced to wear this outfit, but even if he is going to come out as gay<------that was agreeing with you!

    Go eat a Snickers!!

  • Nancy Drew is Ab Fab!

    LTOSR

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Mmmhmm

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    That's the full outfit lol

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Chile...

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    yes; however, while the system has failed too many kids, there have been many of success stories regarding foster kids. My dad and his wife have raised four and they are all in college now and are very respectable people. I don't hesitate to call them my siblings even though they were never adopted.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Lord have mercy... And she thinks i am telling her if i want her opinion, i would give it to her...........

    it's a long day yet!

    But tomorrow is my birthday so take as lonnnnnnnnnng as you want!

  • SameoleJ

    I think we agree on the fact that this is a load of crap and she isn't helping him with this behavior. You are absolutely correct....kids aren't thinking about being transgender.

  • SameoleJ

    I just saw a picture showing the flip flops and was IRKED!!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Well alright

  • Yvonne

    That's wonderful!

  • Full Monty

    How the fuc he know what or who he is at 5? She got that boy looking like a ghetto Aunt Jemima. Fix it Jesus!

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Right... all a 4/5 year old needs to be thinking about is abc's and sky and why water is wet...where my animal crackers...
    not, my blond wig or mommy i want to sit down and pee like you and put on a dress, using a girls/boy bathroom. they should not be this precocious just yet.

  • the guest

    Is that what that is? Worse! She's letting a black male child emulate a white female cartoon character. Like I said bad enough she's socializing him to be transgender but since she insists on this there's no black female cartoon characters?

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Yeah I am not ready! lol

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I've never... I never liked Jackson being in her custody, and I've also mentioned Sandra Bullock adopting Black children, especially with her having been married to an openly racist man just prior to adopting Louis.

  • Full Monty

    LMFAO! U a mess!

  • Meme

    This is probably part of her illumi ñàté ritual find the purest African boy adopt him confuse him and Lord knows what else they are doing to that poor child

  • the guest

    That thought came to my mind too. Now, Sean Penn is a crazy Hollywood liberal but none of he darn sure didn't socialize any his sons into dresses and blond braid wigs.

  • the guest

    Angelina's a liar. She planned to socialize that girl that way.

  • the guest

    AGREED.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    SMH sayin Charlize ain’t wrapped too tight but this goes to show U that Charlize Theron has no black friend’s bcuz if she did, she would know that it is inappropriate to downplay a black boy’s masculinity by making him wear feminine attire. Even if this little boy likes to play dress up, let him play dress up in the house if U must, however letting him come out side in girls’ clothing is a sure way to show that U are trying to erase the boy male traits in saying that I have a transitioning kid, boy to girl, which I really do believe that children should not be given the voice to make such decision at such an early age.

    But like I said in my past posts, a lot of white women just like white men are afraid and intimidated by black men, however some white women feel sorry for them so they would adopt just like Theron and they would raise them but mold them to be soft spoken sensitive feminine men so that their society won’t feel threaten by a strong black man. I'm just saying, I could be wrong but that's how I feel when I see shiit like this plus I have a friend who is white and who adopted a brother and sister who is black and she is always asking me stuff about the hair, the clothes and the culture difference and I'm so glad she does bcuz if she was to ever dress the little boy in girl clothes, well I don't think we would be friends 2day bcuz I wouldn't be cool with foolery like that.

  • Rachel

    These celebrities never adopt these children to love them, they are merely accessories. She is just accessorizing her accessory as a transgender boy SMDH.

  • the guest

    Speak!

  • the guest

    No.

  • Vickix

    I didn't know We all are streets people. You're talking like we're all savages. There's a lot good black couples that would like to adopt a child.

  • the guest

    Exactly! This is wrong what they are doing and they want to impose it on everyone.

  • Phillybruh

    Then adopt, according to the stats we as a race simply don't do it.

  • hotntot95

    Xactly!! First off this ain't Halloween...so learn the difference between fantasy and reality...second, u A Boy...u gone be iron Man or Spiderman...

  • Kirenee

    Learn to tell your kids "NO" and go sit your little tail down somewhere, ya hear....

  • Buttercup

    Hey babe. I haven't heard from her. I don't think she's returned to the garden. I would hope I would recognize her font.

  • PROPHETMAJOR

    Cray! I don't even let my daughters wear anything that's not of our culture! Nothing from frozen or any of those yt Disney shows! If I can't find it in my culture then they're not wearing it! Even as a little girl. I want my kids to love who they are! Not some blue eyed blonde hair devils??

  • Vickix

    I'm not saying I'm against trans racial adoption, I just don't like the perception you're putting out there that either get adopted by the Great White Hope and live great or you'll be left in the streets to die effing with niggas.

  • OrchidJones-VidaLocaVirgo

    Mannnnn, I am so here with you on this!!!!!

  • Guess Who

    SMH...so not only is he confused to believe's he's a woman...but a white one.

    O_o

    Poor baby.

  • Phillybruh

    Calling them the great white hope is a stretch I would never go that far. But we don't adopt our own they languish in foster care until they are turned out into the streets at 18 with the effing niggas.

  • barbeez

    This is unacceptable. I've always accepted white people adopting black children but now I'm starting to question the practice. This boy wants to be not only a girl but a white girl with long blonde hair. His mother is instilling in him that people that look like her are the world's definition of beauty. That child needs to be snatched from her care. She could learn a thing or two from Madonna or Sandra Bullock.

  • crystal weston

    This was posted on Instagram and they went in on her. If she wanted a girl she should have adopted a girl. But she adopts a black boy and suggest to him to wear dresses and put on blonde wigs.
    Culturally she can identify to a black boy with a strong personality so she psychologically strips him of his identity and masculinity.
    It's nothing normal about this. I have two boys and my youngest is 8 and not one time had he ever wanted to wear a dress or play w/ dolls. I'm a single mom!!!! He naturally chooses masculine toys on his own.

  • barbeez

    She's telling him its okay to want to be a blonde white girl like her. Sad.

  • Chazzi Beauti

    This is what happens when society gives Bruce/Caitlyn a damn courage espy and invite that b.s. into your home

  • Chazzi Beauti

    This is what happens when society gives Bruce/Caitlyn a damn courage espy and invite that b.s. into your home

  • iWasteTime

    It is not!!! ..lolol!
    I fight his 4 foot 3 ass daily over that costume!

  • iWasteTime

    It is not!!! ..lolol!
    I fight his 4 foot 3 ass daily over that costume!

  • Genia W-m

    This isn't a white actress adopting black children issue. it's an issue with so many parents resorting to dressing their kids like the opposite gender as soon as they say something like "I want to wear a dress." Psychiatrists are advising parents to do this. Just awful. Gay actor Rupert Everett recently spoke out about this saying parents need to beware of this because the next thing is hormones which are permanent.

  • Teresa Uriel

    ....and yall think God loves white people...ha!....joke of the century....this is just ONE of the many reasons why they are called all sorts of names in the Bible:

    esau....meaning wasted away

    edom...meaning red people

    satan/demon/devil....meaning deceiver

    dragon....beast

    Idumea

    oppressor

    the wicked

    enemy

    border of wickedness

    evil

    etc etc....

  • LibraGirlonly

    Kudos to you for that.

  • LibraGirlonly

    My first reaction was Ohhhh my fawking Gawd!!!

  • Mr.Sardonicus

    He doesn't know he's transgendered. It's some blogger making an assumption. A blogger who has never met Charlize or her son.

  • Teresa Uriel

    ...and for the freaking record...THAT CHILD DID NOT ASK TO WEAR THAT MESS....that's the demon in her asss that's got him doing that

  • Mr.Sardonicus

    These are some of most the ignorant comments I've read. It's no wonder so many black men are on the down low.

  • Victorious82

    This is just wrong. Somehow this seems like abuse. White folks are leading the charge to emasculate black boys. This is so disgusting. He looks a plum fool.

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    Wtf

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Good afternoon,so i can get a better understanding of your comment.what are you considering STUPID comments?those against or for?

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Perfectly stated

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    ?PLEASE,get out of my head!!!!???

  • Sandrarose Lover

    This is really sad that they would adopt children only to confuse them of how they are to be. They are the adult, the parent that is to instill good morals to their children yet they do this garbage and only to our black children.

  • Jay

    She definitely has to have some issues. No telling what she is doing to that boy.

  • crystal weston

    Okay ...LOL LOL LOL

  • sunni_daze

    I'll take the lesser of the 2 evils for 1000 Alex....you can clearly see this is child abuse amongst other things.

  • I don’t sugarcoat.

    Oh please, there is absolutely no excuse for men to sleep with women, have children with them and sleep with men. Gays are more welcomed than ever before. People aren't hiding their sexualities anymore.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    And yet i wonder....if this was a son of her own flesh....wood she even do this?THIS tom foolery and bill phuckery may be the very reason her womb is unable to produce.MONEY got her a child...still doesnt make her a mother.my very personal opinion.

  • che’lint

    How?

  • imright

    their is nothing misinformed or misguided abt putting a wig & dress on ur SON!!! this is crazy. this is bullchit. this is abuse.

  • HugItOut

    I'm sorry but in my house my kids will dress according to their gender norms. Once they move out they can make their own choices but not under my roof. That blond ponytail hat bothers me as much, if not more, than the dress. Is she trying to make him want to be a white woman? What is with all of these women allowing their sons to dress up like Elsa from frozen? But if I spank my child that's a problem. FOHWTBS

  • Queen B

    He gonna be pissed when he sees this later on

  • HugItOut

    One of my coworkers has twins, a boy and a girl. The boy loves princess outfits and snakes. The girl loves pirate costumes and sports. She's been trying to encourage him to like the snakes more but he gets upset if he's not allowed to wear the princess dress at home. You can tell she's super embarassed about it and hopes he grows out of it.

    I don't care if you throw a tantrum. Take that darn dress off right now! Crazy that kids are dictating to their parents these days.

  • Yvonne

    It's not abuse. All this melodrama and overreaction in these comments is crazy. Yes, in some households, if a boy asks for an Elsa costume the mom would probably steer him toward the superhero costumes. Charlize chose to buy the Elsa costume. It's a difference of opinion, not abuse.

  • SameoleJ

    Thank you

  • the guest

    Exactly! I'm going to be in shock about this transgender agenda for as long as I please. She felt no type of way putting that blonde braid hat on him? She's unwell.

  • Arletta Sloan

    Really? It's all about race? I just don't think so! It's about 5 year old children who have no sexual identity to speak of unless someone coaches them to it, forces them into it or molests them to skew their thinking (in this case, molestation could be verbal, physical and/or sexual, and including bullying or simply inundating with media).

    You can trust me on this - if I, being very pale of skin, happened to see a black man walking down the road, I probably wouldn't find him sinister, unless he was doing something that seemed insane - like wearing a bad obviously female outfit, like when Will Smith's son was being lauded for his "fashion sense". That was a tacky, scary outfit.

    Black men are not scary, except in the way that any other men are scary. Which is the same way women can be scary - when you can see insanity or bad intent or definite threats coming out of them and directed at you.

    Don't let the media, don't let the haters tell you any different. Unreasonable people are scary people with more money than sense are scary, a mall full of selfish people is scary. Skin color is just skin color.

  • HugItOut

    The hat really disturbs me. The dress is one thing, but that blonde wig hat is entirely another.

  • Arletta Sloan

    In some ways, i agree with you. But, you know what? A little boy liking a princess outfit probably means nothing, any more than a little girl wanting to play with an action figure instead of a Barbie. Making too big of a deal about it can cause it to be a much bigger problem and lead to trauma and rebellion.

    And, no one should be forced to like anything! Except their veggies, because, those are essential to health.

    But, I do think there are boundaries that should be set, such as saying that the child may not dress that way at someone else's house or outside, or whatever...

    For most boys who dress up in mommy's clothes or sister's play time outfits, of which I have known many, they tend to grow out of it, due to lack of interest, greater interest in more manly pursuits, or the realization that they would prefer not to make other people so uncomfortable that they don't get invited to sleep overs.

    That's the healthy, natural way society works for most people who are left to make up their own minds in a caring and safe environment , while being raised by the semi-sane parents of the world.

    For those few who do not grow out of it on their own or where it is a sign of some sexuality other than their parents would prefer for them to have, well ... they are going to be like that, anyway, no matter what you do, so why bully them to behave in some way other than what they currently understand is natural to them.

    They will change or they will not - by their own choice. All you can do is love them and give them the information on your viewpoint.

  • Mr.Sardonicus

    Don't be stupid. Reading these comments you really think LBGT people are accepted?

  • KB

    You're in my head...?

  • Howard Alum ?

    Why is there a long azz story from ?

  • HugItOut

    He'll probably get over it one day. I was allowed to be quirky and creative as a child, played dress up and had imaginary friends too, but I am of the mind that the adults are here to steer the kids in the right direction. Therefore we cannot just let them do whatever they want to do all the time. They look to us for the difference between right and wrong. We may disagree about the definition of right and wrong but My sons would be taught to wear their gender specific clothing and hairstyles. Once they move out on their own as adults the decision thereafter would be theirs.

    People are free to do whatever they like and we are free to disagree with it. I disagree with allowing little boys to think that it is appropriate to wear dresses and long fake blond hair at any time. That's just me (and the majority of people on this blog).

  • Howard Alum ?

    If anything, it is giving those hollyweird perverts the wrong impression. ****I'm addicted to SVU*** I'm afraid for little boys growing up in Hollywood ?

  • MkBee

    This makes me sad.

  • Tammie Reed

    Why is this a trend? Lawd!

  • Anji

    Some may want to say it isn't about skin color, oh but it is. It hurts my soul to see this child abused in this manner. Seems like Theron's amusing pet.
    For centuries they have tried to eliminate the essence of father figure in black cultures, by any means necessary. It is done as an attempt to control and destroy due to fear of inferiority. As birth rates decline there will be even more of an onslaught with the intent to annihilate the black family by imprisoning, deliberate feminization and destruction of the black male.

  • HugItOut

    Lol! Lol lol

    We're all free to express ourselves here, she just had a whole lot to say

  • HOPoutWITthaThiccnez

    In life there will be a age where this child has the right to wear what he LIKES but as a parent you know what is right for the time being and this is NOT right..

  • Tonia Hannah

    Im so sick of this shit!

  • Lolalao

    When I look at that picture, I get really mad. Wth is wrong with people...

  • Kiyana Greene

    Accept your kid for who they are, if he asked to wear that obviously he's unsure of himself and he still has time to figure it out ! Make him feel uncomfortable and you'll be like all the other parents who bashed their kids and found them hanging in a closet the next day !

  • the guest

    I'm so sorry to reiterate my shock and dismay at this photo. Will you please confirm I am seeing correctly that this black male child is wearing a SUNDRESS, white girl cartoon character hat with a long blonde braid wig extension, walking along eating froyo in Hollywood with his idiot Hollywood actress white adoptive mom. Because I still don't believe this!

  • the guest

    And accessories.

  • Truth

    She knows what she is doing !

  • whitty hutton

    Zackly! He can thank me later.

  • indano

    They are treating the kids like pets

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Wtf is wrong with her?!

  • the guest

    Is it not a safe assumption being that he is in a sundress and girl's blonde braid wig hat?

  • IamAllnatural

    This is so sad when parents let their children make stupid decisions. Some adults don't understand the purpose of parents. These children need guidance.

  • Strappyheels

    And she has a blond wig thrown on this child's head!!!

  • 19awesomegrl97

    Lord have mercy!

  • S T

    Emasculate? Hm. It doesn matter, he woulda married a Becky anyway and been emasculated then. It's just come earlier now than it would otherwise have. Shout out to EJ!!!

  • S T

    Yup, you got everything but u missed: "mothered" by a white unknowing female from and raised by and in, brutal Apartheid racist, black male emasculating, South Africa. But everything else, yeah you got it. Sick.

  • S T

    Ohhhh how I agree.

  • S T

    The new chihuahua. Sick. They used to put us on display in zoos. Now they're letting us live with them! How kind. NOT.

  • Taylordanes

    Other blogs are reporting this is actually her daughter ?

  • Mr.Sardonicus

    You shouldn't assume anything or diagnose a kid you've never met. That makes sense doesn't it?

  • Mr.Sardonicus

    Thank you for a reasonable non judgmental comment. The ignorance and stupidity here is astounding.

  • Mac Jones

    This right here. It's why white people will never and I mean never be trusted by the black race. The logic. The perversion of parenting under the so called auspices of raising a child well. Right. Free. Is balderdash. And I put that mildly. Why does Freedom to express x.y.orz. always end up in the gay agenda perverting our children? A child. Like a female or male plant. Is not thinking sexually. Until sexualized by being introduced to the idea. So the thought of him being a blonde white woman. Hmmmm. I wonder where he could've got that idea from. #whitesaretheworst

  • Mac Jones

    And for all those that don't know..especially those who would endorse this nonsense or bleach their skin or reduce their people. Their legacy. Or the presence of melanin in their black bodies. (Eumelanin. Not phaeomelanin. The inferior molecule) is a book called "Melanin: The Chemical Key to Black Greatness" written by a NASA astrophysicist named Carol Barnes. The book was $25 when it was published in 1997. It is available on Amazon for upwards of $1800-$2800 dollars.

  • leapyearpisces

    I don't feel well, so I may not finish out my thought as detailed as I would like,. but this child is being abuse. This is abuse in itself, any sane person knows this little boy didn't ask to don no bootleg candy striper dress and a Rapunzel hat wig. Charlize ain't fooling me. Lest not forget that she is South African. I will pray for these children she adopted. Probably priming them to be sex slaves to those pedafiles in Hollywood and to GOD's knows whomever else.

  • BLACK *I*C*E*

    What in the entire f%#k??!!!???
    #before I start reading

  • BLACK *I*C*E*

    These images reflect the disturbing trend in Hollywood of praising and uplifting black cross-dressing men ....in an attempt to make black men appear less sinister to whites.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Sandra if u don't preach today
    ???????????
    Like little trained 'monkeys'. IMO

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She only has 2 children. Her son is 5. Her daughter is an infant. A baby.

  • Tammy GILBERT

    She doing what she suppose to do with him

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Does "social" explain why over 55% of all HIV cases are gay males?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Does "social" explain why over 55% of all HIV cases are gay males?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Does racism explain why gay males can't pick up free condoms at the health clinics?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Does racism explain why gay males can't pick up free condoms at the health clinics?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    They blame everything except the men who have unprotected random sex repeatedly. Ignorance is the reason why 55% of HIV cases are gay males.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    They blame everything except the men who have unprotected random sex repeatedly. Ignorance is the reason why 55% of HIV cases are gay males.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This raunchyness is why his ass kept getting arrested at his concerts.

  • shawn Mc

    its no growing out that, usually a kid knows what feel right to him, might as well let it go

  • SehkmetGoddess

    Starting to think something is up with the YT people and their kids wanting to be the other sex.

    Idk what it is.. But.. It's something.

  • SehkmetGoddess

    Yeap.
    Yeap.
    Yeap.

  • shawn Mc

    clearly she trumps him with her new age way to raise children

  • shawn Mc

    this is more about that attitude that we need to be accommodating to everyone feelings about sex and identity.

  • shawn Mc

    isnt this what BLM pushes

  • kekeb

    This some bullsht

  • Yo sister in law baby cousin t

    Kids wear what Parents buy. Period

  • Chile_Pleeze

    WHY DID SHE BUY HIM A DRESS IN THE 1ST PLACE??

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Yep. Funny how this type of raunchiness is typical nowadays.

  • Amel

    Little kids like to dress up, its not that deep.

  • Renee26

    Because she's retarded...and the frozen hat too...the baby girl can't wear either so they shouldn't have even been an option

  • T3

    I will never understand parents giving their kids this "choice". Nope! Not in my house. This shyt is beyond bizarre! I can't with Hollyweird.

  • tisha

    Until they can buy their own clothes they wearing what I buy

  • tisha

    Until they can buy their own clothes they wearing what I buy

  • Candance

    Sad.... just sad!

  • TDK

    Went to her IG and this isn't a first time occurrence.

  • Shanaya

    He is fuckin 5 who cares...doesnt mean he will be any less than a man when he grows up...children play dress up jus so happen her son wanted to be Elsa that day who cares he is a kid...if you google them its not an all the time thing...social media always tryna make something big and my thing is nobody buys his clothes but her so mind ya business...

  • Xsjado

    It will truly be interesting to see how he pans out as adult.

  • Sincerity7

    Ummm, you wanna wear what??

  • Diamond

    I bet u that this baby is being touched and abused.

  • Alisa

    But shouldn't parents say to their son that girls are princess and your a boy and boys are princes that grow to become kings. I just think when you go out and buy it then let them wear it????.It's the parents job to correct/teach the child and explain the difference. I think this is a bit more than girls playing w/ trucks etc.

  • Alisa

    But shouldn't parents say to their son that girls are princess and your a boy and boys are princes that grow to become kings. I just think when you go out and buy it then let them wear it????.It's the parents job to correct/teach the child and explain the difference. I think this is a bit more than girls playing w/ trucks etc.

  • HugItOut

    You are correct Alisa. The kids shouldn't be running the show. You wear what I give you to wear, and a princess outfit aint it.

  • HugItOut

    I guess we'll see.

  • Drgulla

    So glad that shaming your children out of imaginative play is part of your parenting strategy.

  • Donna

    Sad and disturbing!! He just bearly coming into his own gender. He will be on mind meds if she keeps up this foolishness.

  • Candance

    Lol shame on me for me not wanting my son to walk in my 6inch heels. There are plenty of other imaginative options... but that ain't one. Trust.... my son felt no shame! I love how social media has used shame as a reverse psychology tactic.

  • PussyGal0re

    Do you? Why ask a question that you will never have a definite answer for? You'll just have to ask the 10 or so well adjusted, productive adults I've had a hand in raising.

  • PussyGal0re

    You all always come with the BS. How on earth do you know what this kid's options would be had the great, white savior not rescued him? GTFOH! Perhaps ANOTHER nice, normal family would have adopted him. We will never know. But this mental game this bit©h is playing is not cool. It is DAMAGING as this child still has to interact with his peers. You're free to believe as you please. Please don't address me again. Tend to your own three.

  • PussyGal0re

    It was hyperbole, but you get the sentiment.

  • Izadon Nelson

    And what is that

  • Izadon Nelson

    This is sad

  • Tunji Legba

    Social experiments

  • QTNA brought to you by KIC!

    Are you finished or are you done? Did it take you since Tuesdsy to come up with that? The mere fact he was up for adoption in South Africa is all I need to know that his options just may not have been to great.

  • Arii

    Do I...what? I didn't claim anything receipt worthy.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I kinda dont. You are up here talking out your neck sans FACTS. Remove him or NOT have had a white woman adopt him is not the answer. Kudos to YOU for all the adults you have cranked out. Sure they appreciate it. But this situation is FAR different. South Africa has one of THE worse foster care systems in the WORLD ma'am. Find you some facts and some business

    http://www.groundup.org.za/article/over-million-children-fall-through-foster-care-cracks_2438/

  • Incog-knee-gress

    See my below comment to you. With some facts. His chances would have been almost nil to answer your questions in re to the "white savior". No. Dressing him like that is not helping him. Neither would leaving him in foster care systems of South Africa.

  • Jesse Mae

    If the child feels transgender.than I get it ..she's opening him up to not feel ashamed of himself. As far as my own son. I would never ever allow it. AND RACE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT!!!. it's more of a human right. She helping her child (mind u not biological) find himself.

  • http://worldstarhiphop.com/ Keep It Re4L

    Shut up bitch

  • Ugonna Wosu

    No, shame on you for being a bigot. I know you'll deny it, like bigots do.

  • Ugonna Wosu

    What harm will it cause him by letting him dress the way he wants? The only thing I can think of is you're scared of him turning out gay, which is your problem, not the child or his parents. Get in the 21st century, bigotry is getting old. Racism and homophobia are embarrassing conditions to have, and you have at least one of them.

  • Ugonna Wosu

    He's into Elsa from frozen. Lower your blood pressure. You can play with white, blonde toys without forgetting what you are. I'm a black woman who grew up on Barbie.

  • Ugonna Wosu

    You're all crazy. Please tell me you're all one troll, who has too much time on their hands.

  • Michelle Burnside

    Social Services need to take these kids from her. She evidently has mental issues if she thinks it's ok to subject this child to HER SICK ways. This is mentally and psychologically damaging far worse than physical abuse. She doesn't deserve children at all. Let one of her family members give her their child to destroy.

  • Candance

    When raising YOUR kids- especially toddlers- it actually called being a parent. So once again no shame! Shame on you for defining my parenting as such... ! I see you learned another word from TV today BIGOT lmao!

  • discripplemation

    So....guys with long hair are hot. Boys with long wigs are being emasculated. Girls who want to dress like male superheros are strong. Boys who want to wear dresses are weak. And excuse me, but screw you with this black and white bullsmuck. That kid don't know from sh*t, that is MOM, nothing more, it's idiots like you ppl here who end up planting the idea in children's heads that there is some difference between ppl based on skin color. White moms let their white sons do this sort of thing, what is that, then, trying to make white men seen less "sinister" to some demographic? How can you not see how specious your reasoning is?

  • HugItOut

    You don't know me so don't tell me what "conditions" i got. I am neither homophobic nor racist and I am a liberal about most things. I would not allow my underage son to wear female clothing, period. As I stated before, once they are out of my house and/or are legally adults they can dress how they please.

    If you want your sons traipsing around in dresses then be my guest. Good luck with that.

  • Roseanne Kelly

    A lot of you people are disgusting. If he wants to wear a dress and an Elsa ponytail, who's to say he can't? At this age, kids are supposed to be finding out who they are in the world. If he didn't want to wear it, he'd create merry hell about it. But he's not. He's happy, and his mother is allowing him the freedom to choose what he wants to wear, which is what kids of his age are supposed to do. He's not hurting anyone and neither is Charlize. Get over yourselves.

  • kennedy campbell

    just so you know heels were originally made for men. the higher the heel the higher in society they were...this kid probably likes whoever he was dressing like...my sister used to be a tomboy and grew out of that after highschool. it's not always a big deal...dressing like that does not mean he will be or is trans or gay...if your son was wearing the heels don't worry.

  • ghoststrike

    Your reverse psychology won't work. I wouldn't be surprised if Charlize threw the dress on him and and the boy quietly complied.

  • ghoststrike

    So proper parenting of a child is bigotry, now? lol

  • ghoststrike

    She's treating him more like a pet than a child. Sickening.

  • ghoststrike

    Parading a child around like a pet is not proper parenting

  • ghoststrike

    Agreeing to every request a toddler makes is NOT proper parenting.

  • ghoststrike

    Not if the parent is playfully putting dresses on a little toddler boy because they think its "cute". She's parading him like a pet than a human child.

  • Moody

    Seriously? She is trying to "emasculate" him? How about the child is simply being a child? People who become lounge chair critics over this are typically the ones who see nothing wrong w/ war, w/ children living in poverty, w/ homelessness, w/ police brutality, etc. They are very selective about their outrage. This is Not your child! Do your daughters wear pants? Do they play ball? Aren't you afraid they may grow up to be lesbians? Mind your own parenting skills.

  • ghoststrike

    What harm will ii cause to let a toddler do whatever he wants, right?

    Just let the 5-yr old run the show, right?

    Also, we don't know if the kid even wanted to wear the dress.

  • ghoststrike

    I feel sorry for those kids to have an idiot adopt them.

  • Moody

    That is why he will grow up and wear those heels in the privacy of his own home or out to a gay club. Children who are gay know they are different. The problem is not them, the problem is parents such as yourself who care more about society's opinion. By making something as mundane as women's shoes taboo you feed interest. You may create a Caitlin.

  • Sher

    This bitch is a demon plain and simple.

  • Sher

    I am so done with all the poster's here buying into the allow him to express himself. Yeah right! She is training him to be this way...this is not the first time she has emasculated this poor child. IDK about today's society...I'm worried. Judgement is way off!

  • Sher

    That's not imaginary play dumbass!

  • Sher

    IKR...People will say anything to justify their ridiculous behavior. They have no scruples or morals. So many in today's society are so far gone because their parents didn't raise them right. So sad

  • Sher

    I agree. The children today are a different breed. But parents still have to express their authority.

  • Sher

    I disagree. It is her job to train her children. Your not training yours is why our society suffers more each day. The untrained being turned out into society.

  • Sher

    Preach!

  • Sher

    Why not allow him...Are you a part of this discussion or not. The simple fact that there is a discussion that is probably longer than any other on the blogs right now. Why would any parent that loves and wants to cover their child in every way possible do this atrocious thing to their child. Remember the child is not in charge, she is. It's about her not covering her child spiritually. You see whether you believe or not, we are physical, emotional, spiritual human beings. Yes there is a spiritual side to all humans and she is NOT doing her job as a parent..there is more than one way to abuse a child. CPS needs to get involved ASAP!

  • Sher

    Thumbs down because you posted to get a laugh and it ain't never okay with me to mess with kids ..and this is not funny.

  • Sher

    I'm sorry that you were raised without a healthy moral compass. The only reason you are on the attack with those of us who don't agree with this retarded broad is because your judgement is flawed. She chose a black child to do this to because she felt that she could get away with it. He's a walking sacrifice to that which she serves... she knows it though. Charlize knows exactly what she is doing. She's done much more than this and has gotten away with it.

  • Sher

    You again... I'm glad this is open forum because I say what I want to say. I hope that you never have any children because you are stupid!

  • Sher

    Yep!

  • Sher

    Bravo!

  • Sher

    If I had a choice and it was me I would rather grow up in Sth Africa Bitch. That is how bad what this bitch is doing to him you are just ignorant to what goes on in hollyweird.

  • Sher

    See above comment

  • Sher

    IKR Unbelievable!

  • Sher

    Right she chose Shiloh so that people wouldn't accuse her of ABUSING her adoptees. When I was two yrs old my mother was my stylist. I don't know about the rest of you.

  • Sher

    This stank white bitch needs her ass whooped!

  • HugItOut

    I love you for this. I'm glad your son has your support, within reason.

  • Akua Ofosuhene

    I spent last weekend with a white friend and her children I wonder how it would have looked if I dressed up her son in an African dress topped with an afro wig and taken him for a group photo ?
    I dont doubt that the child wanted to wear the dress and wig, but a black conscious parent would be able to help and unpack what all of that is about, rather than agreeing to let the child run around the streets displaying his anxieties. children understand the race dynamics from the age of 3 and the natural response is to join the the privileged white powerful class, a parents duty is explain the reality of the world and build up black self love in a world that uses all institutions from education, religion, politics, war, sex and economics to devalue black lives and everything associated with the idea of black. This is a life times work ! and I am not sure that there are many white loving parents who are prepared to put in the work to understand that dynamic and more importantly disrupt it whenever and every time it comes up. what is obvious from these photos is that Charlize Theron has no idea about how to show love to black children in a racist world

  • Akua Ofosuhene

    I spent last weekend with a white friend and her children I wonder how it would have looked if I dressed up her son in an African dress topped with an afro wig and taken him for a group photo ?
    I dont doubt that the child wanted to wear the dress and wig, but a black conscious parent would be able to help and unpack what all of that is about, rather than agreeing to let the child run around the streets displaying his anxieties. children understand the race dynamics from the age of 3 and the natural response is to join the the privileged white powerful class, a parents duty is explain the reality of the world and build up black self love in a world that uses all institutions from education, religion, politics, war, sex and economics to devalue black lives and everything associated with the idea of black. This is a life times work ! and I am not sure that there are many white loving parents who are prepared to put in the work to understand that dynamic and more importantly disrupt it whenever and every time it comes up. what is obvious from these photos is that Charlize Theron has no idea about how to show love to black children in a racist worldI

  • monalisa15

    I don't believe its the child idea to dress that way. The boy is African. Why would he want to wear blonde hair.

  • monalisa15

    White people like her should not be adopting black children. She is no Sandra Bullock.

  • SameoleJ

    I love that young man with all that I am and am blessed to be his momma. And he is absolutely gorgeous to boot!! Like model material and I am not just saying it because he is my son. Imma post his picture one day!

  • Troy Mason

    How many men laps has this boy been forced to sit on until he was bent. This is a conditioning not his choosing.

  • Valencia Mcintosh

    I think it's interesting to note that it's mainly WHITE celebrity parents with BLACK kids participating in culturally deviant behavior. I don't see any WHITE parents with WHITE kids doing these same things. Just an observation, I haven't come to a decision on whether or not I find this despicable. Mainly because I think a child should freely express themselves, regardless of gender roles, but I am weary of White Americas emasculating of Black men.

  • Valencia Mcintosh

    We don't have much to say about parents dressing their kids as little thugs and gangstas, so I have my reservations on causing an uproar because this kid has on a dress. I know it makes people uncomfortable, but so should seeing a 2 year old dressed as effing 2 chains or whoever.

  • Michelle

    This is precisely why these weird bish's should never be allowed to adopt black children, ever.

  • Natalie

    Wow I am shocked at the ignorance on this comment section, as some one who has worked with children for over fifteen years and knows something of Child phycology and development there is absolutely nothing wrong with a boy wanting to put on a dress and it's certainly not damaging psychologically for them to do so. What's damaging is society's backwards views on the subject.

    It's fineif your son does not wish to dress up like this but some and there is nothing wrong with it.

    http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12/magazine/whats-so-bad-about-a-boy-who-wants-to-wear-a-dress.html?_r=0

  • Dv8 Combat

    He already put the shoes on, the homosexual thoughts have already made their way though his psychi, hence why he trying them on, he may already be gay. If that boy does it again yall need to open a can of whoop ass on him, while you do it and like i did with my straight 5 year old son, make sure you shout "boy ima beat the G-A-Y outta yo ass", trust me it works. rinse and repeat

  • scientific viewpoint

    The orientation of the boy is NOT dependent on how he is dressed at the young age but it's innate. People turn out to be transgender in the most conservative families who are always dressed in the "birth gender" way. If we look around the world - heterosexuality is much stronger feeling than homosexuality.

  • LovelyLady LibraPerfection

    A 5 year old cannot identify with being a transgender. They don't even know what functions their sex organs have other than urination. The fact that grown ass people are saying this is ok is so sad. You can try and emasculate Blacc men all you want...they fear blacc no matter if he's gay, straight, or in between. That dress won't stop a cops bullet. And why did she have to go get blacc children to destroy mentally?? Mess up ur own kind.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Come on y'all maybe......just maybe we are looking too beep into this. Kids grow outta stuff like that. It may be something he seen in the movies that he's dressed as. Give it a few and let's see what happens before we jump to a conclusion.

  • Candance

    Lol ill keep that in mind hahaha

  • Vavoline Say-leen Johnson

    right? My by the time my daughter was two she was telling me what she would and wouldn't wear. She would only wear out of season frilly dresses, too

  • Vavoline Say-leen Johnson

    so...we are gonna kill each other over what we are speculating she might be doing? Nope, Im out

  • Jay

    Aw it's so sweet that she's not limiting her kid and telling them they can't wear something they clearly enjoy because some people don't like certain ways cloth is cut to be on children with certain figures <3

  • ThoughtWillFreeYou

    What is it with black people and homophobia?

  • ThoughtWillFreeYou

    You should worry more about your kids knowing which guy is their daddy and less about what costume they want to dress up in.

  • Candance

    Hahaha their daddy... their real daddy is my real husband so no that we cleared that up.... back to parenting and teaching and leading. Gtfoh with that lame ass comment hahah

  • Candance

    Disagreeing does not =homophobia.

  • King

    Candance arguing with white people is pointless there history is full of perversion, and unfortunately a lot of blacks have adopted those ways. White people are never wrong in this country. If the child is gay that's something he should be able to decide much later also she should give birth to her own if she's going to do that. Because if she's wrong that's child abuse.

  • King

    Candance arguing with white people is pointless there history is full of perversion, and unfortunately a lot of blacks have adopted those ways. White people are never wrong in this country. If the child is gay that's something he should be able to decide much later also she should give birth to her own if she's going to do that. Because if she's wrong that's child abuse.

  • LeeLee

    O_o

  • LeeLee

    Strange to me that people are now acting like this is the first time we've seen this. She's been allowing this for a few YEARS - I've seen old pics of him dressed a similar way. Honestly, it's graduated from pink hoodies and girl sneaks to these costumes and dresses. So it's NOT something he's growing out of.

  • kennedy campbell

    well heels originally where made and worn for men...the higher the heel showed indicated your status in wealth etc...of course men wore leggings, stockings, and wigs too back then...of course we started wearing skirts and things before pants..and we know women didn't wear pants...isn't it funny how far we have come in terms of dressing...

  • Kaq

    Child Abuse.

  • ThoughtWillFreeYou

    Not the guy you tell the welfare dept is their real daddy.

  • Candance

    That was so lame it was kinda funny!

  • ThoughtWillFreeYou

    I think the hair straitening products leaked into your brain.

  • Candance

    ok ha ha now you are just weird! #mylastresponse2U

  • ThoughtWillFreeYou

    2U? Wow, I guess the school system really failed you. You made it to what, the 10th grade before he put a baby in you?

  • Alonzo Edmondson

    What does that mean? Such an idiot response! No she is not. People with penises piss standing up. Not sitting down. People with penises are rightfully called boys, men and they produce testerone which creates sperm for insert into females which create babies. Not your imaginations of what you were created to do! Male or female not socialized into the what you feel makes you at a happy place. Nature is what you're supposed to do.. Nature not socialized imperfections... Perfect nature...

  • Alonzo Edmondson

    Or helping the. To accept nature as it should be and not makingbthem your personal social experiment. As if you at really care about Black folks Margaret Sanger...

  • Alonzo Edmondson

    Well, this is true...LOL. When she wants to play in the street with traffic at a high point do you say " Oh, sure honey go ahead, do what you feel" I think not. It would change her and your life forever..

  • Dednrurc

    Adopting them by a stable loving family is good, but parading them around like this at a tender age... I dunno... maybe I am old fashioned, if that kid ends up like Jaden Smith, I don't know who to blame.

    I think he could be taught some cues now. He can decide later what to do with his life once he reaches a more reasonable age (15?, 18?). Charlize can discourage it, it is part of her role as a mother. She at least must consider keep him from being ostrazised or bullied by his playmates at school.

  • Matthew Garrett

    I remember being that age... I sort of doubt he is all the concerned about whether he is being gender fluid. I personally think he does look odd with the blonde ponytail, however, maybe HE likes it. I spent enough of my life doing things that I did not want to do because others expected it. By and large I wanted to do things that would have put me in the "trans" classification. I was never given the opportunity. I salute her for giving him the opportunity to try what he would like to try. If he walks in front of a mirror and thinks he looks "dumb, stupid, etc"... The experiment will be over... Otherwise leave the child alone.

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    So beating a child to a bloody pulp is alright just as long as they aren't dressed like a girl ..ummm k.

    That boy is gay, there is NOTHING she can do to change that ..Period.

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    Of course he complied, He requested it.

    Only a Fool would think she Forced that on him

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    He was going to grow up to wear heels regardless

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    ????Best post yet.

    Some fool thinks BEATING IT OUT OF HIM is the answer.

    I feel sorry for her kids.

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    I feel sorry for your son, you are Crazy

  • Candance

    Plz dont feel sorry for him! He's good. You're crazy for even replying to my comment! #bytchbye #mykidsrnotyourproblem

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    You're a crazy Abusive cunt.

    I'd rather my son be gay than Abuse him, clearly you're son is already headed that way hence why he is trying on your shoes(Those are the signs).

    You do not know how to raise a child, I highly doubt you know how to Pick a man, his father must be one of those DL brothers and downloaded his genes in your son.

    You're right, Not my problem?

  • Candance

    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA Bitch you should be a comedian!!!!!!!!! I hope the depths of your soul reaches the bottom pit of hell. Don't speak about my son or my husband or anything else that has to do with ME! so BITCH BYE! #Cuntthat

  • Stephanie Marie O’Neill

    While no one can make a child Gay or Trans.. (Which are NOT the same thing) no one should be assuming anything about what this kid is..

    Wearing female clothes or costumes.. doesn't mean anything.. If the kid is Trans at the end of the day, then the kid will probably let you know before too long.. Gender Identity develops between ages 3 and 6.. (something we knew before the word Transgender even existed).

    Sexual Orientation develops later usually as a precursor to puberty.. (which happens at different ages for different people but averages are between 10 and 14).

    A Trans kid may also be gay, but they can also be straight. asexual or any other orientation in between.

    As far as the Science on the issue, Trans kids and Gay kids are born that way.. no amount of conditioning or brainwashing can change them. Only traumatize them into hiding it from you.

    It is a fundamental part of who they are and it is bad parenting to inflict the kind of emotional trauma onto your child of denying who they are..

    There seems to be some other misconceptions, towards this issue.. If a Child is Trans, the will likely be seeing a Therapist and a Doctor to monitor them and diagnose them if they wish to medically Transition and anything that would be "Permanent" is only allowed on a minor when deemed Medically necessary. (which is extremely rare and usually involves details the general public is not privy to, after all that is private medical information).

    However there is no reason to assume anything at this point, since many kids will play as characters they like from Cartoons.. and not letting them is more likely to cause permanent damage than letting them be kids.

  • Big 7-4 ?

    Caucasoids are INHERENTLY EVIL
    1 Corinthians 10:20
    " https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0013782ce05fb6e23e1eb3d8921ca79c9781c73aa32e12dabd26b2984a1a0d74.png But I say, that the things which the Gentiles sacrifice, they sacrifice to devils, and not to ELOHIM: and I would not that ye should have fellowship with devils."

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    This ho needs "honor-killing"...Often when young actresses break into the “big time”, they will make a film, which eludes to their Satanic covenant. Charlize Theron’s break through role came opposite Keanu Reeves and Al Pacino in THE DEVIL’S ADVOCATE, which features a scene of a seemingly demonically possessed and self-mutilated Charlize, naked in a church. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/fb930c1937690c68ee006111712dd84a49ce1c832687c033456bb0ee6450f817.jpg

  • Matthew Garrett

    You know I can't say and some feminization would not hurt young black males. If anything could turn them in a direction away from aggressive VIOLENCE would that be evil? We are talking about a population where 1 in 3 males between 20 and 35 are in PRISON... They're answer to police contact is ATTACK to the Police. I'm white as they come and would expect to get cracked on the head or shot for similar activity. I see AGGRESSION and a lack of respect for ANYONE as a real problem with young black men. Not all but MANY... Is the bigger crime to feminize some or to allow them to go prison or to get shot? I'm thinking feminization if it were me...

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    You sniveling soulless DEMONIC Caucasoids approve of ANYTHING satanic https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0013782ce05fb6e23e1eb3d8921ca79c9781c73aa32e12dabd26b2984a1a0d74.png

  • Big 7-4 ?

    The bitchass god-complex in you pink, hairy, missing-link Neanderthals is a legendary ancient evil ? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3702babca315ed50d3185d173bf22d1d69e717bc6b3ebd216c7249d6b184eb89.jpg

  • Matthew Garrett

    And what are you? A black jew?

  • Big 7-4 ?

    Bitch bye

  • Big 7-4 ?

    Gayass fascist punk

  • Claire

    Agree. I feel so sad for him and I can't imagine what else he must be going through.

  • Claire

    Violence has nothing to do with gender or race but with the social environment you live in. Raising up boys like girls will not make our society more peaceful quite the opposite. It will just add more miserable people who have no idea who they are.

  • Claire

    There is a huge difference between accepting the difference and encouraging it. Clearly this woman doesn't care if her son is rejected by others in school. I might be intolerant but you are very selfish

  • Margie Leal

    You have no idea what black men are really like, if this is how you view them. And don't even start the prison conversation. Lots of black men end up in prison for reasons they have zero control over. White people like you need to be re-educated on black people. You're so confused, and misinformed.

  • ???Ness_west?????

    Well @ least he's always smiling... & btw he's wearing the sh!t out that hat..??? Hayyyy sashayyyy

  • Tete

    I bet she feeds those kids a lot of "PIZZA".

  • Tete

    Your parents gave you a lot of "#pizzagate" too right??

  • Matthew Garrett

    You can't believe how much I would love to see you and hundreds of thousands of other malcontents go to South Africa. I'm guessing you have never actually been. I have... Since Black control took over it is one of the most dangerous places on the face of the Earth. Would be happy to pay for your ticket as LONG AS IT WAS IRONCLAD ONE WAY... Go while the going is good. Escape America...

  • Candice A Wright

    Victorious 82, don't forget about Will Smith's son that has dressed like a girl since he was small.....

  • Candice A Wright

    YES I SAID IT, I guess you forgot about Will Smith allowing his son to dress in female attire since he was young???? It's no wonder we still have racism......

  • Candice A Wright

    Full Monty, tell that to Will Smith too.....

  • Candice A Wright

    Teresa Uriel, you're so full of BS... God didn't make black people until way after Adam and Eve.... Go Preach your racism somewhere else....

  • Candice A Wright

    Claire, how do you know that she's encouraging her son to wear garb like that?? You don't-- everyone of these hate messages are nothing but racist hate...

  • Candice A Wright

    sunni_daze, this conversation could go many ways, but there are black trans raised by blacks, maybe you all should go out into the world and adopt all of the black babies that were given up, and talk to Will Smith about his son dressing like a girl....

  • Candice A Wright

    Vickix, then why aren't they adopting ALL of the black children out there that need homes????

  • Candice A Wright

    Anunnaki, I think you guys are killing your own future generations in many ways.....

  • Candice A Wright

    Anji, you're speaking of the liberal Democrats that tried to eliminate your race.....Get it right...... Ohhh BTW it's not because of fear of inferiority -- think hard about it.....

  • Anunnaki

    I feel mixing with white people is killing our race no offense.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Blacks are intimidated by y'all white people, LOL get the fuk out of here with that shiit! Y'all white people are in fear of us Especially in the career field and any other thing that U white people don’t think that we are smart enough and skilled enough to do better than you! A lot of y’all white people mimic the black people in so many ways. And on that note, before you say we are intimidated by your people, I want you to really think about how much we as black people contribute to this world, especially back in the day when your ancestors did not cook or clean their own homes and tend to their own crop and fields, they had black people doing it for them and as well as your founding fathers fuking black women so if anyone is intimated, it’s you closet racist white people!

  • sunni_daze

    Honestly I would adopt. I belive all kids need love. But this here is some bs and its clearly something more at play.

  • Parbudin Mackanlall

    Selfish bitch!! Using the boy to demonstrate her supposed broadmindedness!! He will never have a chance to grow into a regular man unless someone intervenes.

  • Nelson

    Wasn't there a serial killer whose mom would force hiom to go to school dressed like a girl?

  • Athanasia Vagias

    Please don't include Madonna in your argument. She calls her kids "nigga" and she has pictures on her Instagram of her two adopted black children massaging her feet like two little slaves.

  • Athanasia Vagias

    No offense taken. I am also shocked that Charlize Theron was allowed to adopt a black child given her history. She was raised in South Africa which is known for their White Supremacy and she left when they changed the laws giving blacks more rights. If she isn't a bigot then I don't know who is.