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Rap mogul T.I. Harris is going through a bitter divorce from former Xscape singer Tameka "Tiny" Cottle. Well, the papers haven't been filed yet, but that's just a formality.

Fans on Instagram.com are offering T.I. advice in the hopes of saving his marriage.

Although there is no hope for T.I. & Tiny's marriage, maybe some of you can use this fan's advice.

Tiny has already moved out of the couple's Jonesboro home and is moving on with her life.

TI

The best way to avoid marital trouble is not to get in trouble in the first place.

I know that's difficult for men who are wired to cheat, but all it takes is a little common sense. Plan ahead. Cover your tracks carefully and destroy all evidence of infidelity.

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  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    And to races...let the Fuggkery begin

    5...4...3...2...1

  • SameoleJ

    Willie Moe Jr, though, from the Praise station? Just in case you didn't knoooooowwww, Millie Moe Jr. in your radio!! ---That Willie Moe Jr.?

  • QweenOfThorns

    A happy marriage has never ended. Perhaps the split is for the best. Lawd knows I was miserable watching my parents be miserable with each other....hoping that each fight they had would be the end of it.

  • SameoleJ

    Chiiiiiiilllllleeee!!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So I saw were he threw his business partner under the bus regarding the restaurant.

    Ummm it'll be interesting to see if they actually break up. I mean this is just one in the long line of infidelities. Maybe she'll pull a Muslim Lil Mo and stay...forever.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    I remember when Tiny posted that pic in bikini and T.I tried to check her. Sad when a woman posted to get revenge on her now soon to be ex. And the eye color change. I feel for her.

    T.I SHOULD'VE been faithful since he came out of jail. She was a real trooper..probably still will be for the sake of the kids..

    Sad

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I wish this perspective was shared more often. I know someone that has convinced himself that it is better for his children to grow up in a dysfunctional two parent home, than a functional one parent home.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    LIL mo? Scooby Doo HUH. she has now been married twice and has openly admitted about threesomes and such.

  • IntroSpective

    Used to be a huge fan, but now something about this guy irks me deeply. Idk ?

  • SameoleJ

    Good, not only me...Mr. "Young Fly & Saved At the Same time"

  • MzApple

    lil mo's muslim outchea impregnating 18 year olds and telling other chicks dack turns him on

  • QweenOfThorns

    #truth

  • SameoleJ

    Them kids don't care!! But I am sure the little one that told him he treats her bad.....wouldn't mind him not being there to treat her bad.

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Chile'
    ???

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    In my opinion the ADVICE it sounds like a little TOO late!where was all the advice givers BEFORE him getting caught.in my larry the cable guys vc,"THIS IS LIKE CHECKING ON YER BURGERS AFTER THEY'VE BURNT!"?

  • IntroSpective

    He used to be a legit awesome artist. But now hearing his voice causes me to make the stank face ?

  • QweenOfThorns

    My dad would even tell me he was staying until I graduated high school...that was 11 years ago and they are still bickering while my Mom thinks im her psychologist.

  • SameoleJ

    SHUDDAP!! (I been putting disclaimers up all week- Chile- NO, not Chile!!) LOL

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Let's go!
    Chile' hear we come ?
    ??

  • SameoleJ

    So we just gonna ignore the fact they gave a person NOT God credit for saving their marriage?! Really, seriously...um okay!! If Willie gets divorced, they better delete this mess!!

  • SameoleJ

    Only burned hot dogs are good!!

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    On the grill ?????

  • Rayne

    im so low down..i sent my sister a post card saying she had HIV from this clinic and the inside message said" That PWUSSAY is done like a flame grilled patty" .
    Why am I crying and dying on the inside cause she called my job crying hard down tears. omfg>>im finna call ha back and tell ha it was me lmmfaooooooo!!

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    Basicially if you're going to cheat don't get caught.

  • SameoleJ

    I'm in San Juan come November, so I guess we can add Chile'

  • IntroSpective

    ? exactly

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Cool!
    ??

  • Karma WhO

    lmaooo i did that to my bff ..did a prank call told her she had herpes..it took her 2 years of test to believe she didnt have it lmaooo but yes call her for she puts a pistol in her mouth lol my friend almost did

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    thrice... she's been married 3 times.

  • darealwifey

    Mr. Harris might find himself a woman who is temporarily more pleasing to his eyes (and those of his lustful, envious onlookers), but to find a woman who is loyal, a good mother to your children, who has PROVEN that she is there through thick *AND* thin (prison, infidelity, control-issues, etc.) is rare. That woman is to be cherished and respected and kept in the highest regard.

    These men continue to choose to live in the flesh and ignore their spiritual selves. He could be gone before the end of the day, and then what? His family is the BEST of him, and he is throwing that away. Good luck, Mr. Harris. You will find that what you are seeking will leave you hollow and empty.

  • Karma WhO

    i say if he broke his marriage apart, it was because he wanted to..move on tiny!!

  • SameoleJ

    That was cruel!! She done broke up with her bf or told her husband she wants a divorce, etc.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Yeah, well she Muslim's now (not knocking the faith) and she wants you to know it. She said she was sticking by her man...that may like men...but definitely likes looking at and talking about other men's d**ks.

  • B.Sweet is Savage

    That's cruel but if she read your inside message and still believed it then it sounds like your sister might be a little touched.

  • Vonn

    He seems to be a controlling hypocritical asswipe, imo.

  • darealwifey

    lmbo...

  • Sucker Free

    What...how u find this tea?

  • stav

    Sandra, The men wired to cheat line(trolling your readers yet again) has been tired, let it go now, I'm sure you can think of other ways to get conversations started.

  • Vonn

    Yum.

  • Critical_Thinking

    Wait...

    Why your mom got you in their affairs?

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Hey Sammy...are you in here behavin...and YASSSSSSSS,i love BALL PARKS done this way????

  • Critical_Thinking

    *Walks out*

  • Vonn

    Double yum. Those are thee best. Preferably SAUSAGES.

  • Sucker Free

    Monogamy is hard for blue collar folks much less the rich and famous...

  • KcoolMuziq

    This is a PR DISASTER! What about their MEGA deal with Vh1? How are they going to get out of this? This happened before and they played it off as nasty rumors. After a while people are not going to buy this happy marriage facade. Is Ti life falling apart? Isn't his club in the middle of a fiasco?

  • SameoleJ

    I am always behaving

  • SameoleJ

    But of course!!

  • Rayne

    she did. cause i answered the job phone saying that message. she laughed. i cant type what her and her twin did to me...almost got me walked out my job. im glad i can hold my composure. cause that one i almost couldn't handle.

  • Rayne

    she good now lol

  • SameoleJ

    Why you think he is spiritual? He could just like sex.

  • SameoleJ

    Okay, but you know your sister mental and know she ain't built for these kinds of jokes. I know I could do this to my younger sister....but that middle one (besides the fact she is a bit whoish) would go slit her wrist. #OVEREMOTIONALAZZ

  • PussyGal0re

    Little man syndrome

  • MzApple
  • BRING THE PAYNE

    ??HIS doesnt convince me AT all....??

  • MzApple
  • darealwifey

    Because whether he realizes it or not, we are not just our bodies. But each person has their own journey and lessons to learn.

  • Mister Fantastic

    This arrow nose pointing down to his herpe snitch lips will never appreciate how Tiny had his back till she is back in Mayweather's bed. This fool Police T.I.P put out a press release on that hood restaurant of his on INSTAGRAM. Stop it son!

  • hotntot95

    I kinda feel like hes all happy go lucky fun Dad on TV and a complete assshole behind the scenes...I've been around a couple of these types...

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    Hey go for what you know. Not mad at her or knocking her. I manage my vagina in such a way, that I not condoning or cosigning on my spouse cheating. He can hit the door and kicks the rocks he properly placed in the front yard.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    And BOOM there you have it.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    TRUE (said in a lyrically song like manner)

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    OH MY GAWD you are fuggn sick. Where do a get such a card. DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD DEAD

  • DJ

    I don't believe it; I don't see Tiny going anywhere. If someone is leaving, it will be T.I.

  • Karma WhO

    all that ride or die chick is for the birds..you ride or die for a dude and get played anyway..i aint riding for shyt but these kids and these bills..

  • DJ

    All day. For every dude with a ride or die, he's riding and she's dying. Shakespearen style death.

  • the guest

    This is absolutely the best comment I've ever read on a blog. Every man happy or unhappy in his marriage on the planet needs to read your words here. You will be blessed for sharing this wisdom.

  • IntroSpective

    THIS!!! ?

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    they got to KNOW its a joke, what clinic writing you talking bout you ate up like old fry on a ant hill.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Agree 100%. She goes through the motions every few years.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Thumbs down to open marriages and inviting other people in to your bedroom.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Faints

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    I know that’s difficult for men who are wired to cheat, but all it takes is a little common sense. Plan ahead. Cover your tracks carefully and destroy all evidence of infidelity.
    _____________
    Cheating instructions Sandy LOL How about just sit your azz down since HIV is rampant in the A and stay away from known prostitutes :coffee:

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    HIV, STI are rampant across the WORLD CRAIG.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    this!!!!!!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Multiple chicks... and every conversation turns to how big his man's penis is. I wonder if Lil Mo slept with his friend. Like did she have similar conversations with him and get turned on? Yuck.

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    And inviting yourself to the doctors. YEAP

  • Teresa Uriel

    T.I. is the one bringing his family down with all of the cheating/Adultery/Lust.....men who cheat and can't stay faithful/loyal to their ONE WIFE as the LORD COMMANDS IN THE BIBLE, are just destroying themselves.

  • BKLYNS MAMA

    shes married to the boxer guy....does he still box? anybody
    ...never heard of him

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    hey hun :) what did u cook lol :waiting: you're right but Atlanta has the highest HIV rate and he has the nerve to be messing with prostitutes

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    I'm not a fan, and I can give his some advice for free.
    Proverbs can be found on google...
    1-Don't Cheat, because a happy wife = a happy life...
    2-Don't take any wooden nickles because your employees can't use them...
    3-Pay your bills and don't go bankrupt because if you go pro se' and represent yourself in court, just remember, he who represents hemself, has a fool for a client.

    Bill=$0.00

  • KLow

    Tiny should've moved on a LONG time ago. Truth be told, she kept putting up with it and he had no reason to change. Some women need to wake up. why continue to put yourself through pain/serious when the writing in on the wall. #byeBoy #BAN

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Yes... it is important to reiterate the number 3...in this case 3 is not a charm, 3 is an ALARM!

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    last night curry. tonight wine and cheese. That can heat that up. YEAP

    HUGS

  • Teresa Uriel

    All men who think they are supposed to cheat better read your post and the Bible, because this is one of the reasons that God has turned His back on black men now....they are too lustful and undisciplined

  • Finding Forever…

    I agree with ya. I would tell my mother FAITHFULLY...LET'S JUST GO. The ish gets tired with the constant arguments & battles. My parents had some good times & then some not so good times, so I've LITERALLY seen the best of both worlds. It's probably had a hand in my siblings & I relationships with the opposite sex. One was in abusive relationship, another screws anything not nailed down...safely, of course & one doesn't make it EASY nor TRUST (yet at least). She says she feels bad (hopes we aren't too "damaged") now that he's no longer here, but it's spilled milk...what can we do? Wipe that ish up & pour a new cup...my advice to her. Counseling helps too.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    3 women are out now on this fool and she sticking by her man...well she is really stuck, so she may not have a choice.

  • Teresa Uriel

    Major been looking real sad for awhile too.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    no receipts for those without IG?

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Jussy,i heard this in DayDay vc????

  • Teresa Uriel

    I thought I was the only one who noticed....I can't even look at his face for more than 2sec these days

  • Jusstlookn To Stay Woke

    HE HE me too. LOL

  • Finding Forever…

    x 1000. I could NEVER. My stingy wouldn't allow it. I don't share shoes, clothes or my man. Not willingly. Anything else, ask and I may consider but that's not even a guarantee. Do it before you get married at least, but some folks can handle it. I've been asked before...Dude: "Oh I want a threesome...would you ever consider it?" Me: "Will another man be invited, so I can have my way?" Dude: "I ain't gay." Me: "Well neither I am, so you gotta give to take." Has worked every time the topic is EVER mentioned, LOL.

  • Taylordanes

    haha mine said it for 40 years and then my dad passed...they loved each other tho.....

  • MissyJ

    Auntie I just need to now who retain FOB status in the divorce...

  • Taylordanes

    ALL MEN are NOT just black men.....

  • iWasteTime

    +1

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Good day. Lol.

  • SummerBaby

    Divorce is never easy. Good luck to Tiny & the kids.

  • Finding Forever…

    I would assume if a man would keep their dipper in their zipper that would be advice enough, but I've never been married...soooooooo. Throw the years one has put in, kids, assets...I guess are some reasons that some stay. To each...to each. I just wonder how do you trust again? I'd need a reprieve of sorts to even see if I could trust & could continue the marriage because if every time I'm looking at you & wishing the beans go down the wrong pipe that CAN'T possibly be healthy, LOL.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    AND...how YOU doing?

    lolol

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Reading it I was gagging.

  • Orchidjones-PETTY INSTIGATOR

    Chile we been talking about this for a minute now, but the 2nd and 3rd woman surfaced yesterday. smh on that!

  • Finding Forever…

    That reality show curse seems to be more & more true. Keep the cameras out of your home...that's sound advice you can bet on.

  • Mel

    Sounds to me like another ig spam promo like one I saw where the person claimed a voodoo priestess help them get their man to stop cheat lmao fuckery

  • Sucker Free

    Lil mo strikes me a being a hoodrat so no surprise on her poor choice of menz

  • Teresa David

    Lmao

  • Teresa David

    Mmmm agree

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Tiny

  • Teresa David

    O m g truth sounds a tad familiar stay up we can still win

  • HugItOut

    Tiny's so smart. She waited until she got all her surgeries done before she dipped on him. She also waited until she dropped another baby too. Perfect. Now that she looks better in the face she can pull another man and still collect that extra child support.

    Kudos Tiny. You deserve something special for being the long suffering girlfriend/baby mama/wife of a serial cheater who has questionable views about women. Kudos!

  • HugItOut

    He said that? Wow. From the mouths of babes

  • Truth

    Ignore everybody and y'all take little break and work it out .When you been together a long time you go through this type of thing it's normal

  • Somewhat

    I can't agree more, me. Saying then want a decent hard working woman but, out here cheating with welfare recipients while you at work. Majority black men are weak and ignorant

  • Teresa Uriel

    the reason I focus on black men is because they are God's Chosen Leaders to the entire universe and are supposed to be setting the righteous examples for other nations to follow. We as a people are too busy trying to follow and copy their ways, but they are supposed to be following us and doing what WE command them to do.

  • Renee Bee

    Oh I like that. Lol.

  • hi-liter

    What's with these boxers and dacks lately?

  • hi-liter

    A whole pack of Conecuh sausages.

  • Karma WhO

    Agreed!!

  • Luv Pitties

    I plan to go in November as well for my bday treat, I'm somewhat nervous about being in that strange place alone. I am looking to stay at a resort and make it work.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Wow.

  • Rayne

    Inspot (dot) com

  • Rayne

    Lmao

  • Sexy CJ

    ***********

  • Sexy CJ

    ************

  • LibraGirlonly

    Be done with his arse Tiny. I know you have those children to raise so focus on that and live life to the fullest and one more thing you (women or men) don't need someone else especially a stranger telling you your marriage is on the rocks. You already know when to fold them. Some of us hang on for dear life not realizing you are killing a part of your soul when you stay in a unhealthy relationship. Happy Friday guys!!!

  • LibraGirlonly

    Damn!

  • LibraGirlonly

    I agree to parts of this.

  • LibraGirlonly

    Iggy was his downfall. Selling your soul much? Meaning Tip.

  • Allihave2say

    So Tiny got herself a new baby as a going out present?

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    We already claimed Tiny ??. SR knows this our Blawg ???

    ??

  • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

    Yew better not! ???

  • product of 79

    I'm not for the bs tip has put tiny thru but, they are married, and that shiit ain't easy ? They have been thru it all. Wish her and the kids the best,Tip needs to Honor his wife and family or Keyshia Cole that thang-Let IT go.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Ament

  • God is working on me!

    That picture man ???. But I don't see anything wrong with giving anyone advice. It doesn't mean they have to take it, but it's nice to see a fan is giving some positive outlook to what's going on. Although we don't know exactly what's going on in their home aside from the media put out there. But hey it was a nice gesture.

  • Pebbles

    It seems as if he gave tiny the public ammunition that she needed.

    Ti has a preference & don't be surprised what his next preference will be.,

  • Pebbles

    Muslimah and happy I hope this marriage works out..for her...

  • Pebbles

    Those people the times a woman will leave , when a man believes he has on lock & don't pay attention to the signs.

  • Pebbles

    She also waited until he publicly was caught (allegedly) with that woman.. Waited till all her ducks were in line.

    If Ti smart he would try to have it done quietly & move on..

  • Pebbles

    She ain't the one he is willing to change for.

    Have you ever seen a couple where the dude just put the woman through all types of drama? They breakup he move she move on.

    You see the dude again and realize he done a 180 he changed his whole life no longer the person you remember his knee wife singing his praises.

    A man will change if he meets a woman he's willing to change for

  • more

    Girl Tiny is not going anywhere

  • more

    Facts but woman like Tiny are allowing these men to get away with it so let her be

  • more

    Facts but than you have to addres why the majority of black women never leavr these men

  • more

    Facts

  • more

    I will use this line lol

  • product of 79

    Hmm ???...

  • more

    Exactly but it sucks. I am only speaking to a jerk whome i am clearly under some kind of spell! We never even had s*z but yet i allow him to speak me in a way that would blow or mind. As you said will change when he meets someone hw wants to change for

  • yvette46

    Really hope they both just find happiness in whatever decision they make! !

  • Finding Forever…

    Feel Free. It a GREAT ONE, LOL :)

  • MzFutureLCSW

    Good for her. She shld have left eons ago.
    I "heard" abt him making her crawl in front of the homies.

  • razack

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  • HugItOut

    She played the game well

  • the guest

    I believe this. For generations black men have of their own will and choice abandoned families, deserted children, and lived promiscuous to the extent they have self prophesized racist stereotypes. God weeps at the trails of heartbreak caused.

    The same energy and commitment could be given to defying stereotypes but instead multiple out of wedlock babies, child abandonment, and promiscuity have become a cultural and social norm and standard.

    Men lead nations and breaking the hearts and lives of women and children is not leadership. This can all be turned around with black men just changing their minds and a metaphysical shift in paradigm toward healing.

    T.I. could change his mind and ways right now but he's too caught up.

  • the guest

    Speak!

  • the guest

    Beautifully said!

  • the guest

    I think they should keep it real and represent what they are going through. Many families black and white could relate.

  • the guest

    I think Mayweather really really liked Tiny. I think he was in love with rescuing her from TI. Mayweather would have married her. That's why TI was so threatened by him. Cheating men hate the men waiting in the cut to treat and love their women right.

  • BG BG

    If this is true, GOOD FOR HER! After a while a person gets tired of being DRUGGGED!

  • Jayde da Blade

    well dam. treat ya woman right...frfr

  • Low E. TUH!

    THESE FOLKS DONE RECOMMENDED PRETTY WILLIE TO BE THEIR MARRIAGE COUNSELOR THO...HE GOES BY WILLIE MOORE JR NOW BUT STILL

    -SINGS "LAY YOUR BODY DOWN"-

  • Mister Fantastic

    You are 100 with this post.

  • 19awesomegrl97

    they are not divorcing!

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Even if she tried. T.I seems to be the man who will kill any other man who touch his ex woman...even if he cheats over and over

  • VM

    I got a cousin right now doing fed time because she refused to fold on her man. I will never understand how some women lose themselves in this game of loyalty.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Tiny has moved out of the Jonesboro house. She lives with her children in a gorgeous mansion that she bought with her own money.

  • SameoleJ

    That is what I was confuzzled about!!

  • SameoleJ

    That is what I was confuzzled about!!

  • tintin

    leave his arse. a serial cheater has gots to go

  • Karma WhO

    funny u say that..i got a cousin also just got sentenced on friday to 4 years for being a dude ride or die..robbing folks in other states..but ur ass got 3 kids that u left behind smh

  • more

    If by some miracle she left TI. Tiny would not allow Tip to hurt a man she wanted to be with but since she has no self esteem she don't have to worry about it

  • more

    lol

  • VM

    Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo, I need to check the family tree, we might be related. My cousin has three kids as well and her oldest son got caught up in the charges to. Check this though, she's 41 y/o. So it's her (2 years), the boyfriend (7 years), and her son (7.5 years because he's honoring the street code of not snitching). Everybody including the top suspect snitched. I mean they made the front page news and I think everybody they talked to lines was tapped. This is the icing on the cake she's on section 8.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    Ahhh okay good for her. She stayed for so long and she seemed very loyal. But there comes a time to think about yourself first

  • Karma WhO

    chileeee that is deep...

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    She might not allowe him.. But one of T.I's boy might "accidentaly" do something bad..

    T.I will never let her go..NEVER

  • more

    She will have to let go herself but she wont