Beyonce and Blue Ivy Carter

The following is a repost of my Medical Minute on raising narcissistic children, originally published on April 21, 2013.

The values we instill in our children while they’re young will shape the adults he or she will become.

Photos in this post are shown for illustrative purposes only.

We have all done this: we are shown a photo of a friend’s child, and our initial response is based on the child’s looks (“She’s so cute!”)

We tend to especially favor children who are light skinned with long hair. Any culture that is obsessed with beauty and image breeds narcissism. As a result, most narcissists tend to be very good looking.

Studies show that the sharp rise in narcissism in today’s society is directly linked to the explosion in social media.

Instagram is a narcissist’s playground where the self-obsessed upload their photos to encourage ‘likes’.

In a blog on Huffingtonpost.com, sports psychology consultant Nicole Forester referred to social media as an “Epidemic of narcissism”.

“We are each hard-wired with the desire to feel relevant. Everyone wants to feel like they matter and are important. Social media provides this outlet, but also promotes being self-absorbed,” she writes.

Symptoms

The symptoms of narcissism are:

  • Trouble maintaining longterm relationships
  • Becoming easily hurt and rejected
  • Wanting only “the best” of everything (Brand divas)
  • Reacting to criticism with anger (narcissistic rage), shame, or humiliation
  • Taking advantage of others for their own self gain
  • Verbally or mentally abusing others
  • Exaggerating one’s own importance, achievements, and talents
  • Unrealistic fantasies of love (Erotomania), success, beauty, power, or intelligence
  • Requiring constant attention and positive reinforcement from others
  • Becoming jealous easily
  • False feeling of entitlement
  • Punishing others with the silent treatment
  • Lacking empathy and disregard for the feelings of others
  • Being obsessed with self
  • Appearing unemotional or uncaring
  • Being easily bored

  • In addition to these symptoms, narcissists may also display dominance, arrogance, show superiority, and seek power or wealth.

    Psychologists urge parents to refrain from excessively praising their child’s looks. Also, limiting a child’s access to social media is beneficial.

    Watch what you say to small children. Avoid excessive praising of their looks. And ask your friends to avoid praising your child’s looks.

    Remember that children are concrete in their thinking. They don’t have the maturity level to process adult language yet.

    Excessive praise is not just limited to looks; excessively praising a child’s gifts or talents can lead to narcissism as well (think narcissistic celebrities).

    Children typically have a difficult time distinguishing between their actual self (who they actually are) and their ideal self (who they think they are).

    This causes an unrealistic view of themselves. Children who grow up to be narcissists have fractured personalities (unrealistic perception of actual self and ideal self). They are like broken mirrors. We can put the pieces back together again, but the mirror will never be whole.

    Children develop an unrealistic self-view when they receive too much attention or not enough attention from their immediate environment (parents, caretakers, or peers).

    In order for a child to develop a realistic self-view, he or she must receive approval from their environment in balanced and healthy doses.

    Remember that all babies are born narcissistic. But through social interaction with other children (such as in day care), they learn that the world does not revolve around them.

    Children who receive too much praise/attention will develop an unrealistic self-perception, and children who don’t will compensate for that lack of attention.

    Any types of activities that focus on overly praising children can raise narcissistic levels.

    The cause of narcissism is not fully understood, but the following factors can lead to narcissism:

  • An oversensitive temperament at birth
  • Excessive admiration that is never balanced with realistic feedback
  • Excessive praise for good behaviors or excessive criticism for bad behaviors in childhood
  • Overindulgence and overvaluation by parents, other family members, or peers
  • Being praised for perceived exceptional looks or abilities by adults
  • Severe emotional abuse in childhood
  • Unpredictable or unreliable caregiving from parents
  • Valued by parents as a means to regulate their own self-esteem


  • Treatment

    It is unusual for narcissists to seek treatment. When they do, it is probably caused by a narcissistic injury (loss of a relationship or employment) that leaves them feeling depressed or anxious.

    Treatment can be very difficult because narcissists often see themselves as more intelligent or knowledgeable than doctors. Treatment can include therapeutic approaches (anger management, cognitive, behavioral etc. Medication is also prescribed for depression, anxiety, etc.

    This has been your Medical Minute.

    More info on the web

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder in Children – WebMD

    Causes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder in Children – Voices

    Prognosis is Gloomy for Children with Personality-Disordered Parents – Psychology Today

    Preparing the School for Your Child with Narcissistic Personality Disorder – About.com

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder – Wikipedia

    DISCLAIMER

    Any medical information published on this blog is for your general information only and is not intended as a substitute for informed medical advice. You should not take any action before consulting with your personal physician or a health care provider. Sandrarose.com and its affiliates cannot be held liable for any damages incurred by following information found on this blog.





    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ?? Blue ??

    • luVn_liFe…

      Blubee is so cute, she always looks like a little girl.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      This 1/2 medical minute is so sorry
      ????????

    • luVn_liFe…

      glad I just looked at the pic 🙂

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Yeah IONO watt I was thinking ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Trump sticks foot in mouth again.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      “Are You Raising a Narcissist?”

      Nah. I ain’t raising nothin. Musta been firing blanks in my fertile days? Nowadays, I can barely get it to rise? Getting old sucks. Thanks Obama?

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol I just asked down yonder was we getting that post

    • Lisa daniels

      Mines aint one but she did say her little friends chickenpox scars are gusting (disgusting). I told her she was being mean and she better hope she doesnt get any.

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Bluby is adorable

    • SumthinSweeter

      Wow, so you know this child personally? I am definitely not a member of the beehive BUT jimminey crickets you be reaching don’t you??? Ummm in case you had an unconscious moment, we are about uplifting our babies, yes? Especially the lil black girls. Who knows what lil Blue Ivy will grow to be. Smh, you have this platform and you are ruining it.

    • brooklyn23

      Got damn Sandra most of these apply to my ex. But he’s. Sociopath

    • MissHarlem

      Aww there goes my Blue ?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Blue and those pink Chucks are adorable.

    • leapyearpisces

      Both my children are narcissists, and I get on them about it, but I think a lot of teenagers are narcissists, especially these millennials, social media is breeding narcissists by default. These kids coming out the womb ready to start a Snapchat streak.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Not all ???

    • leapyearpisces

      and that cute child appropriate purse. You can tell she is already sophisticated.

    • MissHarlem

      Her two ponytail puffs are adorable. So glad she let that child’s hair grow and do it’s thing. She has great hair and edges. Hate everytime I see this child I get baby fever ugh. Damn you Bey

    • Sexy CJ

      The values we instill in our children while they’re young will shape the adults he or she will become:

      1) Reacting to criticism with anger (narcissistic rage), shame, or humiliation
      2) Taking advantage of others for their own self gain
      3) Verbally or mentally abusing others
      4) Exaggerating one’s own importance, achievements, and talents
      5) Unrealistic fantasies of success, power, or intelligence
      6) Lacking empathy and disregard for the feelings of others
      7) BEING OBSESSED WITH SELF
      8) Appearing unemotional or uncaring

      * In addition to these symptoms, narcissists may also display dominance, arrogance, show superiority, and seek power or wealth………

      https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/353bd079a80181a4de22fb21134d4191815f18f2f5c5d73d9cb8fe576f1afc99.jpg

    • Sexy CJ
    • imright

      Bey isnt a hot head like Thugga!! shes not goin to respond to u SANDRA!!!??? no matter how many nasty posts u put up???

    • Yardgirl

      Blu is adorable!!!????

    • Incog-knee-gress

      I just almost choked to my death. Not sure why this tickled me so

    • leapyearpisces

      ? DTTS, I don’t know what you mean / saying.

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Luvie. Is you okay?

    • BrownIsBack

      Emoji guy invited me to the movies……..I’m going alone

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      See. Now I’m singing, Annie are you okay? Are you okay? Are you okay, Annie?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Dub21 is one. Dub11 is none of this

    • BlackGirls EatGreen

      Great post, wrong kid.

    • CaliVirgo

      What u going to see??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      You wrote soc media is doing it to them.

      I’m saying not all
      ?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Go with him. Stop this

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Why? I’d go with him just on the strength of not having to buy a ticket for myself.

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      I saw Birth of a Nation. EPIC FILM! EVERYONE GO SEE IT!!

    • Incog-knee-gress

      I ain’t for once say it like that??. I love Luvie.

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Stop lying on my friend (in my head). You know Dub21 is a sweetie.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I went to see Girl on Train earlier-we bought B.O.N. tickets though so he could get the credit 😀

      Me and BFF going to see B.O.N. tonight. My treat ?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      She got a few issues. She strange like her daddy nem.

    • Petty Rubble

      I might go tonight after work.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Didjew reply byke in emojis?! ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      We’re going later

    • CaliVirgo

      ?Sew silly??

    • leapyearpisces

      Ok, gotcha.

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Ha! That’s right. Blame the papa. LOL! I certainly do with Soul3’s quirks.

    • hi-liter

      Both Bey and Blu in all Gucci.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Stop this.
      ^^^^^
      ????

    • Jackie Brown

      I pled the 5th?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      What did you like? The story? The writing? The casting? The soundtrack?

    • Petty Rubble

      Blue is so cute.

    • BrownIsBack

      Girl on a train.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I liked it!
      I want to read the book now.

      Lettuce discuss In another post of course. Lol #nospoilers

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Everything that is remotely wrong with me and oldest sis my mama blame DaddyDub???.Flat footed. Asthma prone. Eczema. “That’s yall daddy bad ass genes”

    • BrownIsBack

      I have to drive 30 minutes to meet him and but all them damn emojis smh

    • MsSincerity

      Are there any scenes that will piss you off to the extreme?

    • Zebra Stripes

      This! You how many guys I have went out with in the past just so they could pay for my movie ticket & take me to an expensive restaurant, knowing I wasn’t interested in them, just because I was bored & because I’m cheap?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ???

    • BrownIsBack

      I got about 10 today smh

    • CaliVirgo

      Ooh that looks like it’s going to be good ..I want to go to the movie??no babysitter this weekend ?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Bwahahahahahaha!!!!!

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      Go, you’ll be glad you did.??

    • BrownIsBack

      If I’m not interested I won’t waste their time or mine so I’ll pay for my own

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      Great!??

    • morenYAHdelsur

      This was long for no reason. It’s Friday LOL I ain’t got time.

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      The casting and the riot!!! That was my favorite part, oh and Nat’s unwavering faith in God.

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      Yes, i hate to give anything away but one part I had to turn my head.

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Sandra said, look, y’all were complaining yesterday because I left y’all for dead. You will read and appreciate these posts tuhday!

    • Incog-knee-gress

      If you leave now…

    • CaliVirgo

      ?Rite here with you girl?

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Cool. I’m glad it’s good. I hope it gets a strong showing this weekend.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Veronica Webb on side of bus in a Dressbarn ad?

      #teamMJB ??

    • CaliVirgo

      Lol?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      She like him. She doesn’t know it yet?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Oh chittt :hahaha:

    • jeniefrumdabloc™
    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      Me too!! A black producer tries to tell a story that needs to be told and the Hollywood racist higher ups try to do EVERYTHING in their power to overshadow it with something from the past but the devil is a liar! Support this film!!???

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Are you still being petty 20 years later?

    • MyNameIs

      Sandra posting after working hours on a Friday. You had a fight with your girlfriend?
      Blue is just the cutest!

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Yes straight from theeBook of Pettilonians ???

    • CaliVirgo

      You know the roses ride hard

    • morenYAHdelsur

      Right! ? Came back and enlightened us with all kinds of lagniappe chit.

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Ok. Me too then. Team MJB lol.?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      She looks kinda bad tew. Frfr

    • morenYAHdelsur

      Mannn I can’t wait to watch Martin tonight LOL.

    • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

      that’s right tell her everyday how beautiful she is!!! Build that confidence in her and no one will ever be able to tell her different. That way as she gets older and is able to read the mean, nasty things people say about her she will know she is beautiful and no one can take that away from her!! You go Blueby!!

    • CaliVirgo

      ??Why I try an Google pettilonians..took me a minute lol? ima go pour me some wine??Cuz it’s Friday bishes

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Ohhhh snap I was gunna say remember her and Mary…Look atchu. I remember too??

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      She called Mary ghetto, Mary was like oh I got yo ghetto? I remember one year the Soul Train awards were being petty. Had Veronica presenting an award just as Mary got done accepting hers?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ????

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      You should see this ad on double decker bus ???

    • Lisa daniels

      Lmao is that baby trump?

    • CaliVirgo

      To quote one of thee roses “pics or it didn’t happen “

    • Lisa daniels

      Cuz you know it’s true. Bey a silent gangsta.

    • Sexy CJ

      Ha…..Ha…Ha….In The Words Of Sandra Rose…..Photos in this post are shown for illustrative purposes only……….

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Collective Gasp

      Trump “you grab them by the pussy”

      election is over hopefully

      post that Sandra Drops Mic

    • CaliVirgo

      Yuck? fukin clown?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Girlll

      Just ah piece of shatt…

      Plus what he just said about the exonerated Central Park 5!!!

    • BrownIsBack

      Nope he drives trucks so I’d have to pick him up

    • CaliVirgo

      Trump not chu boo?

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      That he is complete with funny hurr

    • Petty Rubble

      I will. I’m Not doing anything else and I really want to see this. There’s a book about the movie in Target

    • CaliVirgo

      Hey chokie choke?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Saddle Diwn ???
      ? Googa it.
      Look like ah group of young ladies and their Grandma? Ok not that bad but Steal???

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Hey Cali, how are you ?

    • Pamela

      I agree ?percent with this post, BeyoncĂŠ looks a mess! And if Blue Ivy wasn’t her daughter I doubt seriously people would think she’s cute remember Jay Z is her daddy.

    • CaliVirgo

      I’m doing good ..I’m drankin tew nite?..wait still the afternoon huh??? Any who how you??

    • CaliVirgo

      Ok ima Google this better not be another pettilonians situation..lol?

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol enjoy your libations, I’m doing great starting to buy stuff now for Christmas is all.

    • BrownIsBack

      I have a male cousin who has told me numerous times I should do it and just enjoy the evening but I’d feel guilty because if he knew from jump I wasn’t interested I’m sure he wouldn’t be offering

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Donald Trump bragged in vulgar terms about kissing, groping and trying to have sex with women during a 2005 conversation caught on a hot microphone, saying that “when you’re a star, they let you do it,” according to a video obtained by The Washington Post.

      HE SAID JUST GRAB HER PUSSY

      The video captures Trump talking with Billy Bush, then of “Access Hollywood,” on a bus with the show’s name written across the side. They were arriving on the set of “Days of Our Lives” to tape a segment about Trump’s cameo on the soap opera.

      The tape includes audio of Bush and Trump talking inside the bus, as well as audio and video once they emerge from it to begin shooting the segment.

      In that audio, Trump discusses a failed attempt to seduce a woman, whose full name is not given in the video.

      The tape was recorded several months after he married his third wife, Melania.

      The Best thing he can do is STFU and dig a hole and get in it.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      I decided to look up the article???? When Mary asks her does she want to fight??????

    • HIS4EVA

      I think Blu is very cute and looks just like her dad.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      BAWWWAHHHHH

    • Luvn_it

      I completely hold heartily disagree with Ms. Nicole Forester about social media. I have a Instagram account and other than my kids,some celebs, funny memes, and other things of political and so on matters that interest me I don’t post pics of myself. Same goes to for my FB which fts pics of my kids(including profile & wall) and qoutes and memes. Twitter the same(minus the kids) and Tumblr. So no we aren’t “ALL” hard wired anyway. Everyone is different.

    • CaliVirgo

      I love Christmas??what you getting the churrin?? Mines still small so Yay I’m thinking about getting them bikes and both of them tablets.

    • HIS4EVA

      more like unbothered and I aint even a fan

    • THE OLDER SISTAH

      The idiot azzhole went after everybody today. 1} Illegal immigrants are coming into this country to vote in the upcoming election. 2) Central Park 5 are still guilty although proven innocent a long time ago. 3) Women will let you do anything to them if you have money.
      trump is on a roll and the Republican party will not disavow him for nothing and half this country will still vote for him

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Post the link.

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Ju is getting a bed and educational stuff. My girls are grown but I’ll find them something.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Folks out here grabbing puss? Is he sure that’s what he was grabbing????

    • CaliVirgo

      I don’t think I will ever get them alot of stuff for Christmas though jeasus only got 3 thangs and there birthday is two weeks later

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      I love it too, enjoy them while they are small they grow so fast.

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      I have already started my Christmas shopping as well. @Yoni be making me feel guilty so I’m trying to better by starting early.

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol I’ve been stashing stuff every time I see a bargain.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Wasn’t she always funny faced tho? Her body count is what gave her a bit of success. Much like the modeling Kardashian or Genner or whatever…Nothing screams model about her but maybe her height…It’s her namesake…Some folks get lucky like that…Webb deserves more props tho cuz she did it the hard way.lol. Yes screwing your way up is hard, I would know?

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      My kids are September, October and November kids so it was nonstop for me lol next week they will be 21, 22 and 23 for a month lol I’m glad I had them in my 20s though

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo
    • Rayne

      I exhibit a couple of these traits. Lemme ask my mirror who is the fairest of them all.

    • CaliVirgo

      Whoo you were busay..lol nah I can’t talk mine are one and two respectively both January tho 14 and 15th

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Anybody with a ounce of self esteem does.

    • Scromes1212

      Don’t know the reason for using that picture but I second every word of this post. I’m all for confidence but folks really think they important out here. People act like social media has helped society in some way. We gained nothing from social media. It creates problems on top of problems.

    • CaliVirgo

      Oh okay whew..Cuz I was gone say?

    • mzwhang90210

      I have a male relative that is a HUGE narcissist. (He was raised to think that he was better than his siblings.)
      Anyway, he was going through an extremely bitter divorce last year & was ranting to me about his ex, he goes “And she is the biggest narcissist you’ve ever seen, doesn’t care about anybody but herself!”
      I wanted to read him for filth, but he was in so much emotional pain I stayed mum. I waned to say dude–she told me the same about you!!

    • Angela

      I have a question….Why did you feel the need to point out that you’re not a BeyoncĂŠ fan?…People kill me when they say something that’s not negative about her because usually before or after they let it be known they’re “not fans” “not members of the BeeHive”…Soooo many people do this and I was just curious as to why?

    • mzwhang90210

      Bishop Bew?
      Is anyone surprised about Trump?

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Love Martin

    • mzwhang90210

      Hey Ossie?
      I don’t know why Trump has been allowed to get THIS far.
      I smell a rat.

    • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

      No mention of Trump or any of his spawn who fit this category perfectly.

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol yes I was in the bathroom throwing a search and rescue party for MN in December because I had just gave birth in September lol. That’s the only time I was looking for one.

    • Angela

      Yes Blue is…and Sandra needs to quit with these “photos are for illustrative purposes only”….My backside….

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Whangggggg ? ?

    • mzwhang90210

      Why didn’t you use a picture of Trump above?
      Never mind. Silly me.

    • Scromes1212

      Second that.

    • mzwhang90210

      Heyyyyyyyy bewski???-for you.
      ????????-for my Ju!

    • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

      Rather raise a naricisst than one who says they will grab a woman by her kitty kat.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Dr. Whang – Iono, but I’m happier than a pig in slop.

    • mzwhang90210

      Stingy wit muh kuddah kat…
      *dance*

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      Or his children. Heeyyy boo.

    • mzwhang90210

      Lol

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      well

    • CaliVirgo

      I know the feeling..I was at the doctor like say what now??

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      You should’ve told him. When did you get so nice? That was your chance to slide in with ‘Cuz have you considered any of the actions that you’ve done? For example, do you think it was okay when you…..’

    • mzwhang90210

      My doggy says she’s a perfect size 2.
      And she says she expects 4 Louboutin shoes, one for each paw.

    • mzwhang90210

      JenEEE??

    • PettyEyezPrime

      So your milkshake doesn’t bring ALL the boys to the yard, just your husband ?

    • mzwhang90210

      Stank-stank ?????

    • Let Your Soul Glow

      Your doggy and her slaying hurr. #shedeserve

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Lol

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      Muah I hope all is well.

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      I’ve seen some kids before that weren’t easy on the eyes but Blue isn’t one of them.

    • mzwhang90210

      Would’ve been like talking to a wall. He honestly feels he walks on water. SMH

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I know many who have those qualities. I also don’t deal with a lot of people who have those qualities. I stroke no ego, male or female.

    • Readytochokemothernatureonout

      He can do what he want. Ain’t that some bullshiggetry

    • mzwhang90210

      Lololol…that’s all I need.
      ?

    • Scromes1212

      Trump didn’t raise his kids Ivonka did. Her words yesterday. Said he didn’t talk to them until they were 21 and could talk about business. I’m no Trump hater. His kids seem to be descent people

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Blue looks like a mixture of her mammy and pappy. She’s not an ugly child. When her hair is “combed” and in 2 puffs, people are all ?, she cute. When she rocking her baby hair and an afro people are ? like she not pretty. FUGG EM I say.
      Hey shuga sweet

    • mzwhang90210

      Folks like that are REALLY insecure.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      What flavor ?

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      How you?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      The Clown Is Going Down

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      The downfall for those people is hard. Very hard.

    • mzwhang90210

      Lol..shaddup.
      Welcome back…issued ur font.

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      How you?

    • mzwhang90210

      Yup. He was incredulous that SHE was leaving HIM. I had to stop taking his calls.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I have too much to do. I DON’T HAVE TIME! The you’re so pretty and handsome, I like your outfit, you’re so smart etc… is way too time consuming. They better get a mirror and a tape recorder.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I missed thee ?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      LOL I remember this.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I’m doing quite well but so schleepy. Fix it!

    • Lolalao

      Why can’t Beyonce get an outfit right!!! Solo help your sister, please…

    • mzwhang90210

      Haaaaaaaa.
      Tell em PEP..they don’t compliment that dent that you have in the top of your head-that collects water when it rains- so why should YOU compliment them?
      Bwahaaaa ?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      As long as your aren’t doing all of those at the same time!

      The lady up top, Beyonce is multi talented and damn near a billionaire. I’m sure she is a good mother. The both look happy!

    • mzwhang90210

      Good. Going on a couples date later. Ion really wanna go, but hubby obligated us?
      How you be?

    • mzwhang90210

      Lololol..chile

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      *?snorts*

      Hey :karate: ???

    • THE OLDER SISTAH

      Hi Whang. Hope all is well. I miss you!
      The reason why you smell a rat is because there is a big fat one right in the middle of this campaign and his name is trump. IMO. He wasn’t supposed to win, he just wanted to be up on stage with the other candidates. The republican party didn’t expect him to win, but when he started gaining in popularity they had no choice but to go along with it. I think it was supposed to be Jeb Bush that ultimately ran against Hillary Clinton.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      HEY!! I was here ?yesterday (I think). I seent (no typo) your font but I think you left ?before I could say Hey girl hey.

    • mzwhang90210

      Miss you too!
      And I totally agree.
      One thing Trump did do though…he brought the racists out in DROVES,

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I have to empty it all by myself and everything, WHERE THEY AT THEN YO?! ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Yeah ?Pound Puppyish

      Errbody thought she was pretty because she was light I guess. I never thought she was Supermodel material ??
      #lindaE
      #naomi
      #christyT

    • mzwhang90210

      Ditty!!!!! ?? :karate:

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Came in to tell PEP and Whang I love em. ???

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Link??

    • PettyEyezPrime

      They kind of deserved each other you say :kona:

    • mzwhang90210

      D
      A
      F

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      No it’s not lol
      I was looking at the big bus and her Mug jumped out at me. I even scrunched me eyes to focus! ???

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Yur TSO fulla love today(this post) ???

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ???

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      *down vote*

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Your dog’s hair is giving me 90’s Lil’ Kim vibes. She could have been dancing all in the videos ?

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      I’m doing okay. Tired but I have company coming by in a few so I have to play the hostage hostess.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Okay
      Okay
      I’ll let yew slob on my face today ?
      *insert your gif* ?

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Well I just came to tell you that I love you…sometimes…mostly after I’ve eaten some ‘candy’? Girl, that stuff be having my urethra tingle, praise Xenu? Even taking a piss makes me feel pretty??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I know yew see me in the video

      TRUE ???
      ??

    • PettyEyezPrime

      How are you?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Pretty Piss! Yur after my hart ??

    • mzwhang90210

      Lol.Have fun

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      I could only imagine mixin candy with pain pills? Chile? I’d be the prettiest of pretty??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I’m fine sis. I’m glad your back. ?
      Don’t make me send a Water Buffalo to find you. It’s one on here just posted about lil Blue’s look.

      #teampetty ?

    • mzwhang90210

      Phone posting so rain check ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      With makeup!
      ????

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I have real tears because Lil Kim is no longer a Black woman and neither is the dog ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ?????

    • mzwhang90210

      Love you MORE!!!????

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      I’m trying to be good. I wanted to say no but I didn’t and now I just wonder when they’re going to leave. They’re interrupting my BBD.

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      You better not love her more than you love me.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      He got older but never grew
      For his life he can’t tell the truth
      How to love he ain’t gotta clue…
      Cuz you can’t raise a mannnnn
      He’s already grown what u gone do??????

    • THE OLDER SISTAH

      Yes he did. I hope they stay out where we can see them, it’s better that way.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      OMG ?. it’s this education I’m trying to receive ? You don’t have my SR email ?You good at accounting ?No, seriously.

      #teampettytoo
      *whispers* they’re going to say we’re cliquish ?
      ?Maybe even narcissistic ?

    • PettyEyezPrime

      Love you back ??

    • PettyEyezPrime

      They’re interrupting my BBD.
      ******
      I keep looking at the clock. SNAILS PACE I TELL YA ?

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Have ya’ll talked about Trump and his latest tomfoolery? Talkin bout he can basically rape any woman he wants cuz he’s a celebrity (I’m paraphrasing).

    • CaliVirgo

      They are over there at it AGAIN?..I just could NOT give someone that much of me..

    • PettyEyezPrime

      JENNIE!!!! HEY GIRL. Hoping all is well round your way.

    • ReadingUfromTX

      The irony is that guy Billy Bush who Al Roker had words with (regarding Lochte) on live t.v. is in the hot seat as well.

      In Auntie’s words “Wont God do it”

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Call the cops for disturbing the peace

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      ???Just be thankful is not you??

    • Allihave2say

      She dresses according to how she sees the world/how her mind perceives things.

    • CaliVirgo

      Probably take them for EVER to get here specially when I give them they address ?

    • Allihave2say

      I like it!

    • CaliVirgo

      But they fukin up me buzz?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      K. Michele

      ===================
      Good morn or evening friends
      Here’s your friendly announcer
      I have serious news to pass on to everybody
      What I’m about to say
      Could mean the world’s disaster
      Could change your joy and laughter to tears and pain
      It’s that
      Love’s in need of love today
      Don’t delay
      Send yours in right away

    • CaliVirgo

      I’m just going to go in my room can’t really hear them so much in there

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Where’s Dont Talk when you need her for her jacked post. Anywho, here’s an excerpt:

      On Friday, a video surfaced in which the Republican nominee for president, Donald Trump, boasted about kissing, groping and having sex with women, saying that “when you’re a star, they let you do anything.”

      “I’m automatically attracted to beautiful women — I just start kissing them, it’s like a magnet,” Trump told “Access Hollywood” host Bush in a conversation that was caught on a hot mic in 2005.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      posted it below : )

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Oh I did a quick glance but didn’t see anything. Thanks for posting.

    • CaliVirgo

      U wonder why he act like a boooy
      Cuz he wasn’t raised right b4 you

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Funny I never liked Billy Bush, He is Typical

      He acts nice with you, but with his friends he acts very different.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      ???

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Who and watt?! ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Write and complain to landlord. You are owed right of private enjoyment within your own dwelling. Call 311 if you don’t wanna call 911.

    • Violet Rose

      I feel like this little girl is truly happy and allowed to be a child. I always feel the same way about Ciara’s son, he always looks happy. I think Bey and Jay as well as mama Tina will help Blu grow into a wonderful young lady.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I’m slippin! ??

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Yeah he seems the type that has been changed by Hollywood. His true colors came out though during that Roker interview.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Yeah, I hope he is done! Hillary Team is OFF the chain, After Pence raked Kaine over the coals, this had to come out. She is may be crooked but she is smart and it’s all we got. LAWD SEND HELP

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      They goin thru love changes
      Love
      Will
      Make
      You
      Oh so happy…inside
      Love
      Will
      Make
      You
      Oh so sad…make you cry
      Love changes oooh love changes??????
      #RIPKashif?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      No, he always been that way. He says slick stuff about blacks all the time!

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Heard a convo by yt males stating they’d choose Kaine over all TREE ??

    • CaliVirgo

      Chile thee neighbors again TEWDAY?. Chile yesterday they was over there arguing about thee BUGA SUGA?God only knows what the problem is today..I swear ima get out of the hood tho

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Hey you! It’s ok we still luv u.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Watch a good movie, turn on some good music. Do some Saturday cleaning.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ?
      Inside
      I
      I
      Ide
      ??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ? thank goodness??

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Aww HUGS

    • ReadingUfromTX

      Oh wow. I watch that show in pieces. Well Karma is not playing this year at all.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Save your money! No more eating out! No more extras. Save yourself? ?

    • ReadingUfromTX

      lol

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ALL EYE NO is Assets=Liability + Owners Equity! ???

      I gotta A in acct though lol.
      I enjoyed it. What’s troubling you exactly??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Lettuce know if yew want you s to send in the swat team??

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Well he was the Gov of VA, however he not strong enough to run for President. Which I said that night and the Professionals came back and said the same thing.

      He really is a good guy, but he is not a grab them by the p&&SY guy, like his mate Hillary.

      No white man wants a woman as President. have you heard that convo?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Trump headquarters reps should be getting boxes from the nearest bodega, ups store, fed ex

      Pack they shiat up and see if Hillary got any openings

    • PettyEyezPrime

      It’s my highest grade (out of 4) right now, 98?. The teacher doesn’t think I need help because of that and I take classes online so I’m basically self teaching. It’s so many words, where’s Jay-Z’s accountant ??. The one he spoke of in the song “Drug dealers anonymous”? I need him LOL.

    • Allihave2say

      In BIC’s case she may need to be slightly narcissistic because people have been bad mouthing her since before she is of the age of accountability. She’s gonna have to love herself despite of the hate.

    • ReadingUfromTX

      I think he is scared of the possibility that he may win and so he is throwing everything out there to offend everybody in hopes that they vote against him.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Keep up the good job!!! ??????

      Stay motivated! It’ll be over soon! ?

    • PettyEyezPrime

      The titles the transactions fall under and how to list them in the ledger. I’m great with the t-acct. I get cash and supplies but act, payable/receivable, unearned income, service revenue….?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Oh yes! I’ve always said our country is wayyyy more Sexist than it is racist…

      The guys today prefer Kaine for Pres though.

    • PettyEyezPrime

      I am, I’ll be glad when it’s over, in 10 weeks ?FML.
      THANKS ?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      It would depend on his opponent.

    • CaliVirgo

      Not sure who they landlord is they live in building across from ours? Who ever it is got a to be fam or a good friend cuz they be tearing that place up

    • GuestSTAR

      Sandra, are you going to post up an article about that EXPLOSIVE, VULGAR video of Trump?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Probably not she is unnaturalized citizen,, but yet a surrogate.

    • barbeez

      Well I’m a narcissist. It’s been rough going. I was a beautiful, smart, precious child and spoiled. I mean what else could you do with such a perfect being. Well I had to learn the hard way that not everyone was going to give me what I wanted. It’s best not to spoil your child. They may never find true happiness.

    • CaliVirgo

      Me virgo=my house already cleant?

    • barbeez

      I think spoiled is the word, but she’s a cutie.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      You played me dirty
      Yo game was so bad
      You toyed with my affliction
      Had to fill out my prescription
      I found the remedy, I had to set you free??????

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Umm is it the rain? Our theater is not packed. I am on white side of town. But damn. I’m a lil pissed.

    • CaliVirgo

      Girl if you see the light flash three times?..gone and call???

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Isn’t every side in NC whi…nvm?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ?Can’t cook, but gotta kitchen full of pots, pans, and gadgets ???

    • CaliVirgo

      Lol?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      You can tell by Fantasia we got hoods sir. Where the Birth of a Nation folks? We early. Maybe they coming

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      They said versus Hill, trump, and Pence. They was being so SiriusXM AS IF it was possible(this election cycle).

      I told them trump done made them mad(like ah rabid bat) ???

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      We’ll see. Early reports haven’t been looking good numbers wise? Is what it is.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      10 weeks, Smen Weeks!!! *dismissive hand wave*
      That’s nothing. You can see the Light Carol Ann!

      YOU GO GIRL ??????

    • CaliVirgo

      Just cuz I have to ask (like I don’t know) what you seeing?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Birth of a Nation

    • Incog-knee-gress

      I’m angry

    • Incog-knee-gress

      Fukkin Matthew.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Just think it out like in real life.

      Imagine you’re a business owner and picture every transaction-that’s what helped me.

      Make up/think up an imaginary company/small business.

      I hope it gets easier for you soon :hug:

    • CaliVirgo

      See.. you know why THEY not there?

    • Incog-knee-gress

      This a popular spot! We outchea in these parts too.

    • NYTimes#1Bestseller

      Didn’t know that. Thanks for the info.???

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ?????

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      we going in the am. A professor/african american one said it was disappointing and factual.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      TouchĂŠ

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      “I moved at her like a bitch”

      ^^^
      Your guy SR.
      ????

    • Petty Rubble

      You’re welcome.

    • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

      I don’t necessarily think being narcissistic is a bad thing. We all display some or all of these traits whether we know it or not and being neglected (I was and both of my parents were middle class working folk) can cause all types of problems. I’ll take being narcissistic over poppin a needle in my vein any day fo 500 Alex… we imperfect y’all

    • CaliVirgo

      Well I don’t know why WE not there but THEM I know. Hell I am not at thee movies cuz I have no sitter?

    • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

      My shat I’m bout to download

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Watts he teach?!
      ??

    • Incog-knee-gress

      I ain’t got one either. We locked Dub11 in a closet. Just til her sister get there. I put her in. Her sister gets her out when she gets home.

    • Incog-knee-gress

      What?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Oh ? Don’t call police! Might have to fight a family afterwards ?

    • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

      Mother’s Finest version of course

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      You told me things?
      And I believed them all?
      You dissapeared at times?
      But that didn’t matter at all?
      Ooooooh this lonely nights?
      I waited for yo call?
      I didn’t know it then?
      That you
      Have a
      Husssssband?
      I miss those RnB songs where they sang about cheating. It was so…taudry, yet true to life. Cheating sings these days would be…They just…Plus folks would call the female singing it a heaux? I could just imagine everyone in KMichelle’s mentions if she made a song like As We Lay…

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Said this below. If you got a ounce of self esteem. We all display some traits.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Donald Trump is deranged I mean he acted like he wanted to have sex with his daughter. Who says my daughter is sexy.

      He should step down!

    • THE OLDER SISTAH

      All conscientious black people should be angry. It was never about Nate Parker, it was about making sure the movie failed.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      You better had put some snick snacks inside closet. ???

    • CaliVirgo

      Still better than draya…sorry? not sorry?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      My DEsire fur yew is strong
      But I won’t dew wrongggg ????

    • Incog-knee-gress

      She got her tablet. Snacks. Juice box. She good. And safe.

    • Incog-knee-gress

      I’m leaving on this note. Yall be safe?

    • PettyEyezPrime

      That makes perfect sense. Thank you! Especially since I’m trying to start my own business. Won’t nobody be stealing my funds??. They’ll get chopped in the throat, TUH!

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Take me to heart
      And I’ll always love you
      And nobody
      Can make me do wrong
      Take me for granted
      Leaving love unsure
      Makes will power weak
      And temptation strong

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ??

    • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

      Exactly we human ain’t nobody perfect.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Please re read . NO kisses for you

    • PettyEyezPrime

      ??I got this. I think I can, I think I can ?????

    • Incog-knee-gress

      X’s 100. Bf was like wtf???

      We got Fandango with lines etc envisioned.

      We gotta do better.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      You know it’s time
      We clear the air
      You been watching me
      I been watching you
      And you know
      You knooooooow
      Oh I
      Wanna groove
      Groove with you??????

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Just like I heard hoes Talmbout their fine sons and how sons fugging some their friends.

      Heard it with my ears. Unbelievable! Crazy just like trump.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      After attending an advance screening of the film, however, I now know that Parker failed miserably in his mission. Contrary to his promises of “historical fidelity,” Parker created a deeply flawed, historically inaccurate movie that exploits and distorts Nat Turner’s story and the history of slavery in America. Nearly everything in the movie—ranging from Turner’s relationship with his family, to his life as a slave, and even the rebellion itself—is a complete fabrication. Certainly the film contains sprinklings of historical fact, but the bulk of Parker’s story about the rebellion is fictitious: Nat Turner did not murder his owner, nor did he kill a slave patroller. Turner’s rebellion was not betrayed by a young boy, or by anyone else involved in the revolt.

    • CaliVirgo

      Bye boo? you enjoy your movie

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      She

      LESLIE M. ALEXANDER
      Dr. Leslie M. Alexander is a professor in the Department of African American and African Studies at The Ohio State University, where she specializes in 19th century Black culture and political consciousness. She teaches courses on slavery, resistance movements, and historical accuracy in film.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Oh I thought you had a conversation with a Professor friend and he said that.

      Stop talking to Strangers!

      ?(Forced) ?

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Ohhh
      Speak yo mind
      ???

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Yeah, I’m mad, that he talking about he wanted to do his story. Well do that story and not make up things. We got enough problems. I’mma go see though.. Le me know here or text a sista

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      I guess you’d say
      What can make me feel this way?
      My girl (my girl, my girl)
      Talkin’ ’bout my girl (my girl).
      I’ve got so much honey the bees envy me.
      I’ve got a sweeter song than the birds in the trees.
      Well, I guess you’d say
      What can make me feel this way?

    • CaliVirgo

      Chile ima be in prison for trying to kill somebody and they still gone be arguing over who did the last line??

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      I’m getting Sweepy ?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      NOpe NO kisses

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Isn’t it always, what is is and what it gonna be.

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      I know you wanna leave me
      But I refuse to let you go
      If I have to beg, plead for your sympathy
      I don’t mind ’cause you mean that much to me
      Ain’t too proud to beg and you know it
      Please don’t leave me girl (don’t you go)
      Ain’t too proud to plead, baby, baby
      Please don’t leave me, girl (don’t you go)

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      yes and no

      lived there 3 – 11

      Parents have home there and FIL lives there now.

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      ????

    • CaliVirgo

      Well gone to sleep? I’m probably bout to call it a night to (it is 630). I swear I’m like an old lady..lol?

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      Well damn…That’s early. I’m going drink some water and start a movie and fall asleep. We were suppose to me another couple, but the husband has halatosis and he always be like hey JUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSIE and it seems as if he has a fan blowing shiat directly in my face.
      Night Night

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      nite ntite

    • CaliVirgo

      I can’t stand you??.

    • brooklyn23

      Lmao I wAs gonna say the same thing. That baby is too cute

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      :facepalm:

      So much more to say, but I’m go get some snuggle time, but no fanga in….neva mind

    • brooklyn23

      Lol

    • Jusstlookn for Social Grace

      I often can’t stand my self, a side effect of narcissism. You wanna be wrong, but you are right. Shrugs

      MAUH

    • CaliVirgo

      I see what you did there?#helpful

    • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

      Please don’t assume that you’re a narcissist based off a blog post.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Good night sis ??

    • CaliVirgo

      Sandra? girl you is okay..what happened to you yesterday?

    • http://Copblock.org Brenden’ 2 : Electric Boogaloo

      Have fun?

    • Violet Rose

      He might actually be the lesser of the two evils for the Black Community. If the Democrats have their way they will give an estimated 20+ million illegals citizenship and the right to vote. Additionally they want to bring in up to 70,000+ Syrian refugees. Democrats already use and provide nothing to Blacks do you think after they get this new voting base they will need the black vote. Remember white guilt works on only white people.

    • B.Sweet has e-white privilege

      I’m going to leave them here and I’m going out to get mine. Otherwise I won’t survive.

    • Wolfperm

      I don’t understand why ALL of the negativity is ALWAYS directed toward people who look just like YOU.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Yes gal ? I can’t complain and won’t ? … Hope all is well with you ??

    • Prettybootnikki

      We saw it at 7p CST in the woodlands (Houston area) and it was not crowded at all. I was shocked.

    • jeniefrumdabloc™

      Whang whang ???? hey bewskie

    • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

      If you think Trump’s kids are ‘decent’ people I would hate to meet you.

      The two sons seem to be clones of their father. Ivanka doesn’t seem as bad but maybe she hides it better.

    • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

      This is a very lengthy write-up. I read the portion mentioning some people’s fascination with LSLH. As a blogger who is the antithesis of what most people would consider the standard of beauty, this blog is your personal forum to showcase something different. I rarely, if ever, see Black women of any shade being heralded on this blog. With all of the well educated, professionally accomplished, amazing Black women who exist globally and serve as inspiration for women who want better for themselves, I cannot name a single forum where those women are uplifted and utilized as a source of encouragement for others.

      People aren’t narcissistic because they love themselves and they take good care of themselves. That’s what we are supposed to do. They are narcissistic when they believe the world revolves around them and cannot exist without them. No coincidence, but the overwhelming majority of people featured on this blog are narcissists, and unjustifiably at that. They are not saving people’s lives. They are not curing diseases. They are not feeding the hungry or housing the homeless. They are marginal looking people who have marginal talents, at best.

      What does it say when you continue to cut and paste posts about narcissists? How does it reflect when you comment negatively about how a person raises their child if/when you have never been a parent and/or never had a hand in raising a child?

      You support Donald Trump, one of THE most narcisstic people in the universe. You do yourself and your blog a disservice with posts like these.

    • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

      If I’m reading HIS4EVA’s lone sentence correctly, the woman is siding with Beyonce in this fictitious fight, despite her not being a fan of Beyonce’s music. That isn’t “negative,” but rather factual for her to state she isn’t a fan. Unstable people assume that if you “defend” or agree with someone, it’s because you’re a fan. You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t.

    • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

      ??????????????????????

    • ShadesofEMPRESS

      Beyonce and Jay has money galore therefore blue will have more than the average kids her age. Bey and Jay owes no explanation. It’s there money. I read that whole narcissistic medical minute and I was like really? Blue is being raised to have confidence. Something black women need to be raised with.

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      ????

    • Owww76

      Xerox looks a mess as usual! Blue is getting big looking just like the pappy!

    • Scromes1212

      You didn’t explain how they are not descent people? Because you don’t like there father? If that was the case the black community would be in grave trouble.

    • yallcrazy

      Well I guess her lil ass will be a narcissistic. Cause I be loving all on my niece. She get all Auntie money and attention.

    • Lolalao

      I guess the world is a big bottle of Pepto- Bismol ?

    • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

      Are you retarded?

      Do you understand what a clone is?

      Google ‘Don Jr’ and ‘Eric’ and listen to their interviews. They are stupid, ignorant pigs just like their fathers.

      BTW ‘descent’ is what an airplane does when it lands.

      You meant to use ‘decent’ which means ‘respectable and ‘ethical’

      But since you missed that I would expect you to understand because you have a reading comprehension problem.

    • Moon Lee

      Too cute, and precious. Beyonce can afford to give Blue the best. Why wouldn’t she????

    • Phuck_trump

      Written so eloquently ??

    • Phuck_trump

      Whale, since I’m seeing this comment today, I’m just wondering how the movie was. Was it worth seeing?

    • Allihave2say

      Well if you wake up to see JZ everyday then yes it is! 🙂

    • <—Doesn'tTalkToStrangers

      Excellent movie
      A “who done it?”
      Puts you in the mind of Gone Girl, except you don’t know who did what LOL

    • Phuck_trump

      Welp, that sounds goodt. I’m probably gonna watch it. Right now, I’m watching “phone booth”, with the dude who can’t put the telephone down?

    • sherri2016

      Hypocritical Trump is the biggest Narcissistic man ever but you call a child because your jealous of the mother Hate is a terrible drug

    • KennyHollywood

      You are most likely correct….for now… The problem with Blue Ivy is that she will be tormented by sites like this and “Black Twitter” for the rest of her life. When she gets old enough to “google” herself and comprehend all the things that have been said about her since she was born and the things that will continue to be said, will cause immeasurable pain and damage to her.

    • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

      HAHAHAHAHA

    • Nataliegaye

      Wow!!! So he sat down with 60 mins but not Gayle ? He would’ve had a better time with the CBS morning news crew to be honest. They wouldve really gave focus to the movie as well as giving a fair and balanced interview.

    • Isignedup4this

      I agree. I respect Halle For keeping her second child away from the media. I don’t think she was showcasing her daughter but the custody battle got in the way so we saw more of her. I strongly believe in hide your kids, hide your husband. Lol

    • iyonah

      Little Blue is soooooo cute 🙂

    • Saved.Sista’.Shirell

      “We tend to especially favor children who are light skinned with long
      hair. Any culture that is obsessed with beauty and image breeds
      narcissism. As a result, most narcissists tend to be very good looking.”
      @realsandrarose:disqus I agree with the entire write up. I am on Face book and I Follow Pretty Brown Girl movement. One day, I began to notice that the likes and positive comments are NEVER high for the darker hued, unless they have more Euro features & “good hair”. It astounded me. We are so “color struck” and we don’t even know it, which makes it an issue. Why? Because, you can not deal with something that you have no idea exists, IN YOU.

      When I watched Lemonade and there was a moment when the camera was fully on Blue & ONLY Blue, she smiled…….to me…..TO ME, I did not see confidence. I saw arrogance. Big difference.

    • Runner

      YES!

    • Ant Hill

      A lot of these angry bird Black women were raised like this, blame a Black man for everything and take no blame for their own actions.

    • dcizscumm

      OMG she will NEVER be as pretty as mommy, J Z genes…hard life coming for this kid

    • Josh Tolley

      She isn’t as beautiful as Mommy. That’s evident.