boy gets haircut

Many of you have already seen this video of a 6-year-old boy with emotional and behavioral problems who is acting out while getting his hair cut.

Usually children who act out in public like this have experienced trauma and abuse at home.

Shame on viewers who say all this child needs is a whipping to correct his behavior.

It is wrong to inflict more violence on an already damaged child.

Imagine having anxiety and not knowing how to cope with it because you’re a child who can’t express what you’re feeling.

Dr. Nancy Rappaport, a Harvard Medical School professor, tells Childmind.org that children who act out aggressively in public or in school are likely suffering from an undiagnosed anxiety disorder.

“When the chief complaint is temper tantrums, or disruption in school, or throwing themselves on the floor while shopping at the mall, it’s hard to know what it means,” she explains.

“The trouble is that when kids who are anxious become disruptive they push away the very adults who they need to help them feel secure,” notes Dr. Rappaport. “And instead of learning to manage their anxiety, they end up spending half the day in the principal’s office.”

She added: “When a teacher understands the anxiety underlying the [tantrum], rather than making the assumption that the child is actively trying to make her miserable, it changes her approach,” says Dr. Rappaport, “The teacher is able to join forces with the child himself and the school counselor, to come up with strategies for preventing these situations.”

Dr. Rachel Busman, a clinical psychologist at the Child Mind Institute, says children who are disruptive in class or asking a lot of questions are often misdiagnosed as ADHD.

“Kids with OCD, mislabeled as inattentive, are actually not asking all those questions because they’re not listening, but rather because they need a lot of reassurance.”

Thanks to loyal reader Kimberly R. for the video link.

  • hi-liter

    “Usually children who act out in public like this have experienced trauma and abuse at home”.
    _________________________________________________________
    I thought this was the opposite, children act out in public because they don’t get disciplined at home and are spoiled.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I don’t understand the fixation with putting EVERYTHING online. I don’t have any kids, but I have heard parents mention having to restrain their child at the barbershop. But why put it online?

  • Nikkiknows

    I believe this child may have autism…I was reading a post and there was someone talking about some of the things they saw that was similar…made me wonder if his mother is aware of that…

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I was ‘tender-headed’ when I was a kid so I squirmed and jerked and flinched when I got a hair-cut.
    It’s not unusual.

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    I think this child is special…autistic or something

  • iWasteTime

    It’s a hair cut!
    Mister cuts Jr and 1 out of 4 hair cuts he acts a plum fool.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lord, the Ohio state shooter has killed like 7 people. The holidays are here man.

  • Sucker Free

    For attention hun…where u been ?

  • Elle

    Truth be told, I’m actually proud of the little village that helped to get through this haircut. My people are always very quick to back hand an unruly child instead of calming down first. Yes, I have spanked both of my kids twice in their lives, but I hate when parents think a good azz whooping or knocking a child into next week fits EVERY “crime.”

  • Sucker Free

    Lawd…and here I thought boys were easier to deal with roundst the head ?

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Omg

  • i troll it like i see it

    I’m googling this right now, did not know about this.

  • Carrington

    I didn’t know that he was as old as he appears to be before I clicked on this video… if he’s NOT autistic or “troubled”… then this is a result of TOO much patience and parents ASKING a child to do things and then letting him decide IF he wants to do it.
    Joey didn’t have choices and neither did I. I knew exactly what buttons to push, and who to push them with. My mama didn’t play. She whooped ass in church, the grocery store, traffic lights, school, and while I was on the toilet if she found something broken while I was getting one in. I was still a bad child, but never disrespectful or defiant. I still tried my mother even though she was ignorant with hern… but my DADDY never put his hands on me and all he had to do was LOOK at me as if he was disappointed and say, (in that deliberate even-tone of his), “Redd… now you know this disappointments me because you know better… and your mother and I know that you know better…” and I would be so upset and shamed for DAYS that I would avoid him at all cost. If he came in the back door, I went through the front. If he came downstairs, I went up. Father’s naturally have a different level of respect for some reason – at least in my experience. He was a talker and a talk from him hurt me to the core. SHE was an azz whoopa and I was still bad as hell.
    On the flip side of this, what I learned from Joey is that he was not afraid of the haircut, he was afraid of the term CUT… it took a long time for me to figure that out though. He knew that cuts hurt, and when he heard that “machine” buzzing around his head and he knew he was getting CUT… he was waiting on it to happen. And he never processed that he never actually GOT cut, he was under the impression that it was just a good day and it hadn’t happened YET… but it was coming.

  • Keesh5000

    OMG!!! THAT SILVER BUBBLE COAT THA MAMA GOT ON……

  • Keesh5000

    This is normal in the Black Barbershop. I got 2 boys and the first time……Jesus, they Daddy was laughing saying that lil nigga gone be okay. Just get that lining right

  • Lisa daniels

    Usually children who act out in public like this have experienced trauma and abuse at home.********
    Some kids are just bad as hell and like to show out in public because they think you won’t whup that ass. Until you get one of your own, save your comments.

    Thanks,

    Mother of a bad ass trying my last nerve

  • Lisa daniels

    All this

  • Keesh5000

    Naw, this is normal….I swear it is

  • nucynu25

    They did not jump him ..idk this rubbed me the wrong way but I really can’t call it .

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    He shook his head yes when the barber asked him “that feels better, huh?!”… Then commenced to acting possessed again. That’s a damn demon-child, and exactly why I don’t and won’t have kids… Can’t risk gettin no shi* like that.

  • Yoni

    Seen this the other day…
    Cortland would have got the business and his mama would have had to pay me EXTRA! #doubletip

    Isn’t it ironic that three out of the four men all had locs? No? Ok. LOL

  • Keesh5000

    Results of single parenting in the hood….Thats all. People dont realize how hard it is to raise boys without a Man in the home. He spoiled.

  • nucynu25

    Thisss

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    Whhhhat?! Are you serious? Man, hell naw

  • MissyJ

    I came home for lunch. Big mistake. Big.

  • nucynu25

    That’s my thing ..I honestly am more perplexed abt this being recorded .

  • Keesh5000

    Right…rubbed me almost but Ive seen worse. I work in YFD…Inner City Kids will do some thangs that will make you laugh and shake yo head.

  • nucynu25

    I’ve seen it …my baby is 2 but he knows to still for haircut time he also knows I will pop them Lil legs .

  • iWasteTime

    lololol
    Thanksgiving for lunch ?

  • Keesh5000

    They dogged her OUT when she left the shop! This is real life mannnntttttt. They do this at the hair salons too…giggling

  • Yoni

    I thought it was “snakeskin’esque”.

  • hotntot95

    I truly understand this line of thinking…kids are crazy..and the more u give them the more they want..u can love them, discipline them and they can STILL turn out fuk’d up…

  • Di Ana

    The boy has no discipline I wonder where the father is. It’s going to get viotile when he gets older to the point that he’s going to be locked up in Juvenile if that’s the way he’s carrying on.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Sandra is reaching again

  • Keesh5000

    snakeskin bubble gum…. Heyyyy.. I might need to go on shark tank with this idea. DONT NOBODY STILL IT EITHER. I CALLED 1ST

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    The problem is that these kids parents be negotiating with them like they have an opinion…this boy needs his ass whipped everyday and twice on Sunday. And shame on his momma for not instilling any type of respect in him. If ya son can’t act right then have his ass looking like Django til he can sit in the damn barber chair….

  • Yoni

    I read that 8 were transported to the hospital and the shooter was dead. Didn’t read that they were all KILLED or injured, just transported.

  • Di Ana

    If little man don’t know how to act then don’t get him a haircut let him walk around with his Afro. They sure were dogging the mother out but it’s the truth.

  • Keesh5000

    NAW, nobody arse was beat.. she aint reaching, if the mom would have popped him…then she would have been reaching

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    The child was growling!!! WTF someone should check for the three 6’s on his body…demon child azz

  • n1kk1a

    I’m so blessed that my son sat down and has never cried in the chair. His barber says he’s the best little kid he’s ever had in 16 years. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b51c52e53ec73b64ab47eda3b66d072206269c1d5e1605233f3a9ae7a729810a.jpg

  • Yoni

    Another patron recorded it.

  • Keesh5000

    Im bout to go home for lunch. Lock my office bc they may not see me no moe today

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I got told I was saddistic when I said over the weekend in one post that he might could need to get his ass beat.

  • iWasteTime

    Father’s naturally have a different level of respect for some reason
    ——————-
    Tis true.
    Mr Time, looks, calls him by his whole name or lowers his already deep voice a few octaves and Jr is in tears. Me, I have to call him, yell out him, threaten to do bodily harm etc etc

  • Butter

    This kid right here is just bad as hell. he doesn’t get told no, and Im sure runs the entire house. How I mean How does a Child a black one at that get away with hitting and kicking mom! He is spoiled AF And Fcuk that single parent crap, there are other people besides fathers!! Uncles, Brothers, Male Friends or Male Cousins!!

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    It was like he needed holy water and some scriptures read out loud, that boy was doing TOO phuking much… And ya’ll telling me they all do this?! I would lose my shi*, the universe really knows which ones to bless with children and the rest of us with dogs.

  • Carolina Blue

    That was so damn uncalled for.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Idky but this was funny ?

  • Carrington

    Absolutely. Even autistic kids know not to play with black deddy’s – which suggest that even when they have issues… they know enough to know what they can and can’t get away with. THAT boy needs a present deddy who will let him know what disrespecting his wife will get him.

  • Yoni

    Do autistic kids swing on their mama’s?

  • Keesh5000

    Sad how my teen boys around here wanting to look like Django. What is this new look..with the I dont care up top..just line the sides. Hair naps all over the bathroom sink and floor. I clocked out this morning tho. I said unt unnnnnn. Come get these bebes up!!! NOOOOWWWWWWW

  • Butter

    Too bad 666 doesn’t mean Devil or anything negative!

  • Carolina Blue

    ??????

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    That kid seemed off to me somem wrong and it’s gonna stay wrong into adulthood if that mother don’t do something pronto ??

  • Keesh5000

    He too small. He walk around without a haircut….. they will be ready to call CPS

  • Carrington

    That barber who tossed his ass on the ground at the end seems like a good prospect to put some act right on his spirit.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I was referring to The Omen (the original 1976 one) that I love…

  • Carolina Blue

    Lil dude said “i cant take it”!!!! ??

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Yep! I’ve seem my neighbors get their azz handed to them by their autistic child. It’s not a pretty sight

  • 88

    This is a product of boys being raised by single mothers with no father (male disciplinary) around they are emotionally unstable.

  • Toni ToniToni

    This is a comment from the barber from that shop. He said The little boy has been there before and is not autistic nor special needs.

    Kenneth Owens
    Kenneth Owens To everyone that followed this video, We at Ko’s Barber Lounge , appreciate an respect all comments and concerns. That was a case of Men coming together and showing discipline in a Barber way, that young boy gets his hair cut often and we have never had a problem servicing him before. He is not autistic nor has a special need . But was very disrespectful to his mother, and I am sure extra parenting needs to take place. But as a Man , Father, and Barber We had to be the Village that day, we didn’t think this video would go viral but i hope it shows we have a lot to do to save our young men. KEEP THE POSITIVE COMMENTS COMING PEACE. KO’S BARBER LOUNGE

    https://www.facebook.com/fanta.lewis.1/posts/1347597368592766

  • nucynu25

    ??? I believe in popping kids ..always have & will . Disclaimer ..I Dont pop for anything only when I get tired of repeating myself

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    They said she need a man ? Had me rollin all weekend. The chick filming might have had her eye on the barber cuz she said “naw that mama stupid!!” Real quick …I had to side eye real quick. She DOES need to do something to help that child tho…w the asap

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I also still stand by what I said this weekend too. GIRLS have it just as bad as BOYS over their hair being groomed. Just bc your lil ass aint in the mood today…IDGAF. I aint in the mood either. You cant continue to look crazy by the head. There are actually accounts of schools sending putting it in the rule books that your head MUST be combed. Torchlight Academy here in Raleigh has had it on theirs since Dub21 was in the 4th and 5th grade there. So you cant. So I MUST. So sitcho lil ass UP here and cooperate.

  • nucynu25

    ???

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Its the new style…unkempt Django chic smh. These boys dont realize life is unfair and people will judge you based on your hair. Its not right but hey its the truth. I just tell them get a hair cut then when you get the job grow that shit out however you want it to be. Just get your foot in the door first.

  • nucynu25

    ????

  • Carolina Blue

    Idk if they swing on their moms but they damn sure swing. Bae had a job working with them. One girl swung on her and she almost hit her back….

  • Yoni

    But like that? She went to make a call and he swung on her.

  • nucynu25

    Who tf said that ?

  • Carolina Blue

    “Ooooohhh i cant take it”
    ????

  • Incog-knee-gress

    And sitcho ass up here numerous times would indeed qualify.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    IDK. A lurker.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Ok!!!!! Church!!!

  • Carolina Blue

    Dope!

  • Yoni

    Mystery solved.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Point em out!!!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Uncles, Brothers, Male Friends or Male Cousins!!
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    My BIL KEEPS ALL the male chiren in check in the fam. ALL OF EM. DubNephew4 dont play no games with him PERIOD.

  • nucynu25

    Wouldn’t be no almost with me ..that Lil bihh would’ve caught a glorious reflex

  • nucynu25

    Stoopid ???

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Malcolm Flex I think

  • nucynu25

    ???

  • Carolina Blue

    Annnnnd if your mama like mine, you went to school with crooked ponytails ,grease all on your big ass forehead, half nappy, half straight edges …..yeah you right

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao….sooo extra

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    I blame his over indulging ass momma. This boy is throwin’ fists & shoes, snarling, spitting and wtf ever else he wanna do & yo ass steady hollerin “Cortland! No! Stop!” instead of snatching him up by the ears and dragging him the hell outta there. We SEE what his problem is. WTF is YOURS, Batch????

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Yoni Yoni, the stories I could tell you. I’ve seem it all with the kid and his parents. They both need an intervention. Smh?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    All the time. Our homegirl reported her nephew swung on her sister more than once remma? He is autistic. Aspbergers.

  • nucynu25

    I would’ve batted his Lil ass so quick ..fuk u mean up in here acting a whole ass ..

  • Incog-knee-gress

    ALL OF THIS and I thank you for it

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    THANK YOU.

  • Carolina Blue

    If that wouldve been me at 25 i wouldve rocked the mfkn boat on his ass fr fr

  • Carrington

    I think I whipped Joey’s a$$ THREE times, the first time I did, I cried harder than he did… I’m a talker… yeller… cussah! But he respects me and ends every sentence with “Sir”… I used to play with him and tell him that he could say a certain word during a specific conversation and he would be like, “I don’t care WHAT you say… I’ve been told what I can and can’t say and you can’t RE-give permission for me to say that. No thanks, I’m kewl, cuh!”
    On the flip side, I used to get on him about his hair all the time because he just doesn’t give TWO damns. He used to get $50 per week for allowance and would go to the barber shop every week and spend $20 of them on his hair (until he got a girlfriend) and THEN and ONLY then did he take my advice to go ONCE per week and edge it up yourself on the off week and save that $20 for gas.
    This MF is home from basic training and AIT and looks like a werewolf by the head. I asked him yesterday before he and blue haired nose ring went to the movies why he hadn’t gotten his hair cut because I’ve told him THREE times since he’s been home and he says, “Oh. I’m gonna cut it myself.” MF, your appearance is all you have as a black man. THAT gets you either written off as “one of them”, or looked at like, “Wait… let’s give this young man a chance.” during the interview stage. HOW you present is oftentimes just as important as WHAT you present on an interview and I know this for sure because I’ve turned some people away based upon how they physically presented during the interview process.
    Jackass would pay $20 out of his $50 allowance to get a haircut when I was giving him the money… now you have a full-time job and plenty money in the bank and you won’t get a haircut.

  • nucynu25

    ??

  • nucynu25

    Come through

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Really off-topic.

    Do any of you have a coworker who wears the exact same thing every single day to the office?

    One of my coworkers who just came back to my office after taking a paycut has been wearing the same clothes-white polo shirt, navy slacks, dark socks and black shoes EVERY SINGLE DAY since late September.

    I know he’s married so I don’t understand why she is letting him out of the house or if he’s having some issue why she hasn’t said anything.
    This ish is getting weird.

  • Carolina Blue

    ???
    Im done with you today!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Thank you for this…The evidence is clear in the video… Absent father, and problem with the mom trying to do it on her own. God bless the village and these guys, especially the owner for transparency and telling the truth.

    Thanks Sandra for posting the video…now what do we do with this boy now that we know there are no ADD or Adhd/aspingers autistic issues with the child?

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I bet he’ll take an azz whoopin though won’t he…
    can’t breathe… you breeavin!? lol…lil bad azz…lol

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    ?? him and blue ivy still going strong huh,

  • nucynu25

    Get him a male mentor , talk to him abt his anger issues ..beat that ass next time .

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao i couldve sworn he rolled his eyes to the whites, as my granny would say

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    That’s because you are a good respectable mother… you’re raising the baby right…lil guy! look at him!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    That’s because you are a good respectable mother… you’re raising the baby right…lil guy! look at him!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    All I know is mama used to get me in direct order when I cut up time to get my hair done.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    All I know is mama used to get me in direct order when I cut up time to get my hair done.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    ??I hollered.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    ??I hollered.

  • nucynu25

    Maybe he has his on uniform ..I’ve done it before 3 regular polos & slacks even when uniform wasnt mandated ..is he musty ?

  • nucynu25

    Maybe he has his on uniform ..I’ve done it before 3 regular polos & slacks even when uniform wasnt mandated ..is he musty ?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Mom should have gotten him in line or taken him outside. When kids don’t have an audience they calm right on down. I don’t agree with filming every thing.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Mom should have gotten him in line or taken him outside. When kids don’t have an audience they calm right on down. I don’t agree with filming every thing.

  • nucynu25

    That’s what others me ..like bih what part of this situation prompted yo ass to press record ?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I had a co-worker whose dad owned the company and that heffa wore BLACK PANTS every single day. Solid color shirt but black pants and black shoes. Every day. I have threatened to do it myself actually. Go out and get 5 pairs of khakis and just different colored solid colored shirts for years but just never did.

  • Keesh5000

    I swearrrrrr my girls are 5 and 10 and I have to explain to Daddy everyday about the struggle of a Black Girl and her hair. I remember the struggle before I remember anything else in life. WE STRUGGLE DAILY WITH OUR HAIR AS BLACK GIRLS AND WOMEN. He act like he dont understand and it hurts my feelings. Its a full time job maintaining my girls hair… Im finna cry….. What about meeeeeeeee, I struggle tew

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Can’t be….that sounds like a stereotypical troll. Wait til I see him or one like him…speaking of it’s been a long time since we seen self hating Toni walker on here ?

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Geez

  • Phillybruh

    Both of mine learned early, I will send you outta the house without a cut. But they love my barber he sharp as shaat, so they sit still now. But all that crowding around holding him down was unnecessary.

  • pecancandy

    Are the clothes clean? When I am really busy or really grinding I do this.
    I wear all black or hospital scrubs..don’t have time for distractions

  • Carolina Blue

    Well i wear the same clean shit evry four days.

  • Carrington

    *insert lips smack, eye roll, and purposeful…. long, drawn out pause. Thing is, I think she’s moved on, but he’s so stupid he really thinks she’s waiting on him… no, cuh… she’s with you this week because she got a dumbass in the army with a check who can pay for her bundles and send her money… while she’s here with her man and you’re in Killeen, Texas 2 1/2 hours away. But, you can’t tell him nothing.

  • Low E. TUH!

    But as a Man , Father, and Barber We had to be the Village that day, we didn’t think this video would go viral but i hope it shows we have a lot to do to save our young men.

    AND THIS IS THE REASON WHY.

  • Keesh5000

    They still didnt have to dogged the mama out when she left…giggling.. Thats the only thing they need to apologize about

  • nucynu25

    Exactly ..sometimes ppl just aint worried abt what you are worried abt ..

  • Low E. TUH!

    THIS WIND ADVISORY AIN’T NO JOKE! I GOT A WHOLE CHIPOTLE BURRITO FOR LUNCH AND NO DRINK…THIS WIND IS WHIPPING AND HOWLING SOMETHING SEW SERIOUS! I JUST WANT A SWEET TEA :CRYING:

  • Incog-knee-gress

    THIS! I said this too on that post this weekend. It is a huge job. Worse time in my life was trying to do: MY hair, and both Dubs hair DAILY. For about 2-3 years there I was doing all TREE of us. I rocked braids and weaves A LOT due to it. Then FINALLY Dub21 turned around 13 and she could pretty much do her own. My close homegirl has THREE girls and spends ALL DAY on Sunday mass washing heads and braiding for the week. God BLESS HER. And any woman with more than one girl at the house.

  • Keesh5000

    I wont go…..Wont talk about me when I leave on camera and post it…Everything else was normal. They dogged the mama out and yall know it

  • Incog-knee-gress

    It would take A LOT of fukkery out my daily routine if I would gone head and do it.

  • Mmm…Okay

    He would have had a half haircut. If either of my sons dared to try me like THAT in PUBLIC no less, they would have gotten snatched up by the throke and shoved into a space where I can inflict the fear of all that is holy on that behind. I don’t play with kids.

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    That sucks. Hopefully he wisens up and listens to you.

  • nucynu25

    Bloop ..like why he bothered?

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    Big mad.

  • nucynu25

    ???

  • Carolina Blue

    It really will. I assume you work in a proffesional setting, im blue collar. I aint messing up my good shit. Even still l, it will save you time and headache.

  • Keesh5000

    Oh the horror!!! I wear wigs and 10 year old get sew ins with leave outs but I still have to groom it every morning. SHe will start it but I got to nuck buck it. She braids it and wraps it up in a hair scarf at night so she in training. The 5 year old…..hold my hand and pray with me. I get up 2 hours early just to make sure all tree our heads good before we leave out and they still be late for school…

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Toni WALKER. Lordt. I seen her over in the TMZ comments and on MTO from time to time

  • Incog-knee-gress

    THIS used to be MY struggle. Daily.

  • Carolina Blue

    Yeah it aint that deep for me. Same clean clothes jist on different days. Long as that check drop.

  • Keesh5000

    I know…Im like they crowding him…he cant even breath.. I tell people if I fall out dont crowd all around me.. 1 or 2 of yall get a brown paper bag and some liquor and know CPR….everybody else byke the fukkkkk up

  • Yoni

    BOOM!

  • nucynu25

    I Dont wear a uniform but I rotate the same ish ..my work cloths are just that .

  • Yoni

    Bet his bank account fat! Lay off or not. Weren’t you the same person that was talking about how you were upset that somebody was wondering what kind of car you drove, or something like that?

  • Yoni

    THIS!

  • https://www.etsy.com/shop/AMarieNaturals Lovezoe

    I don’t do hair. I have s nice lady who comes every three weeks for the Zoe girls hair.

  • nucynu25

    Get em

  • Keesh5000

    Girl, Im going through it!

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I am in an office. And my worry is I am not all that compliant with dress policy. I just got the side eye from the Dubs and bf the other DAY when I came home in my Nike t-shirt and Air Max’s on. They ALL were like you aint go to no damn work dressed like that (a weekday/ not a Friday). At least with the khakis and solid colored shirts I would be in compliance.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ha,ha,ha!!
    He’s white so you know they don’t really have a body scent but when I pass by his cubicle I don’t smell anything but we don’t wear uniforms but it’s just strange.

  • Carolina Blue

    Say what????? White people dont have a scent???????

  • nucynu25

    It isn’t strange tho boo .

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    Ha! Gloriously involuntary reflex.

  • nucynu25

    ????

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ha,ha,ha!!
    We work for Uncle Sam and he doesn’t work an alternate work schedule.
    Hell I work 4-10’s and I wash on Thursday nights or during the week if I run out of towels.

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol!! Oh shit. They like mama yous a lie today!!!?

  • Yoni

    I’m the proud owner of a working washer and dryer. Same scrubs EVERY WEEK. Mix and match the different long sleeved shirts. Wash day is Saturday or Sunday. Nobody to impress, I sit in a CLOSED office, within a lab, with drawn blinds and no windows all day. LOL

  • Toni ToniToni

    Hey there NucyNu25! :)
    I agree!
    He definitely may thrive and be able to get his lil self under control with a good male figure in his life.
    Someone that will give him that much needed guidance and sternness from a man.

    Because if someone doesn’t get a hold of that boy, he is going to get him self hurt and he is going to wind up in BIG TROUBLE. And his Moms and other women in his life are going to feel the true wrath from him. They certainly don’t want his butt being 12 and 13 acting like that.

  • nucynu25

    I would’ve been like oh my bad ..shidd Dont be running up on me ??

  • Yoni

    It’s SOOOO convenient. Just like my weekly meal prep. GOOD HABITS are hard to break. LOL

  • Carolina Blue

    Rotate like a mug!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But this dude wears the same navy pants and the same white polo shirt every single day-no variety.
    What kind of situation is that?

  • Incog-knee-gress

    they really were. I was dressed Friday jeans dress down on a Tuesday lmao

  • Carolina Blue

    Ha! Do you! Same thing here!

  • nucynu25

    I deal with the public & still give no fuks ..

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    Unless someone’s contributing to your clothing budget keep on doing you. Can’t be going broke trying to live up to.someone else’s standard. If you’re clean them you’re good. You might not be fashionable but you’ll.be good.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    A Steve Jobs one perhaps. He wore a black turtleneck, jeans and sneakers for 20+ years.

  • nucynu25

    Well , obviously he’s clean . Why are you so pressed ?

  • Yoni

    YAAAAAAAASSSSSSS!!!!! I REFUSE to wear my good shit in here, INCLUDING my good/weekend wigs. And when I do, I get questioned about it. I planned on wearing my fro wig. Then I got up this morning, looked in the mirror, took that rat tail comb, parted my shit down the middle, slicked down the sides, slapped on a piece of hair, drew it up in a bun and put my scarf on to “hold it down” til I got to work and bounced. Yall ain’t gone see my good hair………until it gets cold(er) because I need to cover my ears. LOL

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Not pressed just observant.
    It’s just odd!!

  • Hmmm~?

    Why didn’t they just stop? Obviously there was an issue. Kids don’t act like that for that long for attention. Ignorant.

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    Some of the richest (white) kids I knew growing up would duct tape their shoes together but had money out the wazoo. One of them was a duchess from France but went around with holes in everything.

    When they got it they don’t bother to look like they do. Meanwhile the black and brown financial aid students wore brand names from head to toe but had not even 2 pennies to rub together.

    #priorities

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao!!! Ok! I even have “work” drawers, socks, bras etc…shit play wit it

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao no fuks to give! Be like that some time.

  • Incog-knee-gress

    I tired to get back into the weekly meal prep like i used to do when I was in school and working. Its too damn complicated now. I surely miss it tho.

  • Low E. TUH!

    LMAO – IT DOES TAKE A VILLAGE THO…

  • MsEducated

    Word…..ma daughter knows not to play with me..

  • Yoni

    You already know.

  • Mama

    No body scent…. huh?

  • Carolina Blue

    Wtf???? Is he serious????? Maybe his nose legally bline

  • Yoni

    And the work is (barely) done.

  • Carolina Blue

    Im trippin off this shit here myself

  • Rayne

    I wouldn’t have cut his hair that day. If you cannot control your youngins I can’t have anything to do with them. Unapologetically.

  • Yoni

    He’s white so you know they don’t really have a body scent
    _______________
    SINCE WHEN????

  • Carolina Blue

    ??

  • Carolina Blue

    ?????

  • Yoni

    Well, you know I ain’t got shit to do, so….. LOL

  • nekkkyj

    Teach them at home they will know how to act when u take them out

  • Rayne

    My momma cut them eyes ? on me. And basically that was it. I cleaned up super duper fast and acted like I didn’t have a care in the world. Lmao

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No you have me mixed up with someone else but two weeks ago my mom tried to scheme.
    She wants another used car–she’s tired of driving the 2002 Honda Accord I gave to her when I bought my Pilot six years ago.
    Back in April my mom was parked in a grocery store parking lot and the Accord wouldn’t crank.
    I told her that I would give her $5K to buy another used car and I told her it was a limited time offer, but she refused to take it because she didn’t have $5K in her savings to match it.
    Fast forward to Veterans’ day and she wants the $5K. We went back and forth and I told her no the offer was only good for a week and that was six months ago.
    But being the sap that I am I compromised and gave her $2500.
    Then a couple of days later we were talking and I mentioned that I wish I had purchased a Honda CRV instead of my Pilot.
    Why did I do that. She told me that she would give me the $7 K she had saved up for a down payment if I wanted to purchase a new vehicle but I had to give her my Pilot so she could trade it in on her vehicle.
    Then she said that she saw a Pilot like mine in the newspaper for $19K.
    I was like whatever and hung up.

  • Yoni

    Lissen… My shoes are ALWAYS on point, clean. My shit don’t have holes in it. I’m straight. LOL

  • Yoni

    A WEALTHY SITUATION!

  • Carolina Blue

    I skip meals. I really get tired of eating. What type of meals do you prep?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I buy my shirts at Costco, but I have to buy my slacks from Macy’s because I wear pants from the big and tall section.

  • Yoni

    Some folks DON’T GET IT! LOL Didn’t Steve drive a Prius?

  • Rayne

    That is the truth.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/356a253902afe2bded844c138d86e2f1e2872ab10d10ac7ae1907fe28c7e7541.jpg Always looking for a kardashian post to come in and say something about how ugly n lazy black women are. Let me tell you what I feel like doin when I see her Toni-Sotomayor ass on here again

  • Carolina Blue

    ??? shoes and teeth and hair.

  • Yoni

    HA! Observe wealthy people and their habits. What seems odd to you is normal to them. You’d really be surprised. #takenotes

  • Full Monty

    Oh please my brother use to vomit when he got his hair cut as he didn’t like it. No emotional problems just was scared of the clippers. Why is it the people that have no kids always trying to give advice. SMH

  • Carolina Blue

    I cant believe he said that.

  • Rayne

    Ok

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I bought my Pilot in December 2010 and I plan to drive it until the wheels fall off but no I am not a clothes whore.

  • Yoni

    Then yeah, it was you. I don’t have you mixed up. You were talking about BMW’s and something.
    O’an I stopped at “my mom was trying to scheme”… #cliffnotes

  • Full Monty

    OKAY! Thank you. Folks be giving these kids way too much power. Sit your ass down and get this hair cut.

  • Rayne

    I sholl thought I was thee only one with this one. Lmfaoo

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    And he didn’t shower or bathe.
    I read that Steve Jobs had really bad body odor.
    Bless his mur-sty heart.

  • Carolina Blue

    ??

  • Yoni

    Some folks don’t get it. My baby was always taught that name brands ain’t always where it’s at. She learned the hard way when she lost 85% of her shoes and “name brand” clothing in a flood. My BEBE and MK stuff is ruined…and I followed up with “Just like the NO name brand shit, huh?”

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I lift weights and I smell myself more than I do other guys.

    It’s usually just sweat with white guys not manscent.

    I always heard that black guys have higher testosterone than white guys.

    It’s odd!!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    lil hulk hogan…dude gon be a problem! I’m tryin to tell ya! lol

  • iyonah

    This is so utterly ridiculous.

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. I feel so fortunate that 16 my baby only cares about the look and the fit. Never the name.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Thanks for posting. I’m sure he has learned to disrespect his mother. Maybe the kids dad treats her in a disrespectful way, so he imitates what he sees. Sad all the way around, because dad should be bring son to get his hair cut.

  • Yoni

    Honda’s are good cars. You should have it until the wheels fall off. :ye shrug:

  • Yoni

    Believe it. It’s there in black and white. LOL

  • MsEducated

    First off let me say this… this child hasn’t been abused … this child isn’t ADHD misdiagnosed… or has anxiety issues… he is a young child who doesn’t like getting his hair cut.. shop putting LABELS on these kids and giving them reasons to say I act like this because a doctor told me I’m sick or have this “medical issue” that makes me act like this… I got ma ass wooed as a child if I got out of line.. let’s address the first issue people are scared to discipline there kids because A there not that far in age from the child and don’t know how too or B society looks down on it.. what ever happen to this child is just acting like a brat but no let’s misdiagnose him and label him as mentally in stable or ADHD or has anxiety shyt we all have anxiety in us but please stop labeling these children there’s very active kids .. the same way they can pay attention n play xbox or playstation they can pay attention in school or behave like a damn child. If not resort to Plan 2 Woop Tha Ass, take away toys ..do chores, etc… many ways to get a kid in line …??

  • MsEducated

    First off let me say this… this child hasn’t been abused … this child isn’t ADHD misdiagnosed… or has anxiety issues… he is a young child who doesn’t like getting his hair cut.. shop putting LABELS on these kids and giving them reasons to say I act like this because a doctor told me I’m sick or have this “medical issue” that makes me act like this… I got ma ass wooed as a child if I got out of line.. let’s address the first issue people are scared to discipline there kids because A there not that far in age from the child and don’t know how too or B society looks down on it.. what ever happen to this child is just acting like a brat but no let’s misdiagnose him and label him as mentally in stable or ADHD or has anxiety shyt we all have anxiety in us but please stop labeling these children there’s very active kids .. the same way they can pay attention n play xbox or playstation they can pay attention in school or behave like a damn child. If not resort to Plan 2 Woop Tha Ass, take away toys ..do chores, etc… many ways to get a kid in line …??

  • Carolina Blue

    Oh no. I plays no games. Lol

  • Carolina Blue

    Oh no. I plays no games. Lol

  • Yoni

    I paid a nice chunk for dental work (braces). The least I could do is take care of’em. LOL

  • Yoni

    I paid a nice chunk for dental work (braces). The least I could do is take care of’em. LOL

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Tell my mom that.

    She wanted my Pilot as soon as I bought it.

    Talking about she was going to use it to drive the women from her church around.

    I’m like ohhhhhhhhhhh k!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Tell my mom that.

    She wanted my Pilot as soon as I bought it.

    Talking about she was going to use it to drive the women from her church around.

    I’m like ohhhhhhhhhhh k!!

  • Carolina Blue

    I read it, i see it but i still can not believe it!

  • Carolina Blue

    I read it, i see it but i still can not believe it!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Steve Jobs was a lousy POS.
    When he had a daughter while he was in college he lied and said he was sterile to get out of paying child support.
    It’s like he was repeating what his father did to him when his mom got pregnant when she was a graduate student and gave him up for adoption.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Steve Jobs was a lousy POS.
    When he had a daughter while he was in college he lied and said he was sterile to get out of paying child support.
    It’s like he was repeating what his father did to him when his mom got pregnant when she was a graduate student and gave him up for adoption.

  • Yoni

    SMALL portions of shit.
    This week:
    hard boiled egg
    apples
    aloe vera juice
    water

    Lunch
    old bay shrimp
    broccoli
    apples
    water

    Dinner
    turkey tacos (soft tortilla, salsa, cheese, sour cream, guac)
    aloe vera juice
    water

  • Yoni

    SMALL portions of shit.
    This week:
    hard boiled egg
    apples
    aloe vera juice
    water

    Lunch
    old bay shrimp
    broccoli
    apples
    water

    Dinner
    turkey tacos (soft tortilla, salsa, cheese, sour cream, guac)
    aloe vera juice
    water

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. My daughter could use some but she cant keep the takis out of her mouth

  • Carolina Blue

    Right. My daughter could use some but she cant keep the takis out of her mouth

  • Yoni

    My daughter had some as well. I didn’t play. You will NOT break not shit! $25 per broken appliance is NOT coming out of my pocket.

  • Yoni

    My baby is not that type either. But she learned even moreso WHY that day.

  • Carolina Blue

    Damn! See ugh…..i got light headed at the thought.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Listen, this kid may need an exorcism. Just kidding…but I was extremely shocked at his behavior when the let him loose. Did you see him set it off in the parking lot?

  • i troll it like i see it

    That’s another thing I was wondering, why didn’t the barber refuse service? He couldn’t have been losing that much.

  • nucynu25

    ??

  • nucynu25

    I was like where tf that come from ? Who said that ? Who asked you that ?

  • Libra80sBaby

    There is no difference between this and say, a fast food worker. They may wear the same pair of pants and their fast food shirt everyday. It’s a uniform. There could be MANY reasons for this. They may have multiple pairs of the same pants, shirts, etc….They may not have a choice financially, they may not care and choose not to deal with the added stress of trying to find something different to wear everyday. I know it is stressful to me EVERY damn morning getting ready for work. I might need to start wearing the same thing everyday. One less thing to care about in the morning.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Maybe she was trying to pull off that “homeless chic” look the Olsen twins made popular a few years ago. Huge oversized ragged clothes. The same thing Kanye is trying so hard to do now except they did it effortlessly.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No I have never ever wanted anything expensive like a BMW.

    I would never invest that much money in a depreciating asset.

  • MissyJ

    Nawl adult beverage teehee

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But you have to wash it every day or every other day.
    I can’t imagine wearing the same thing everyday because I sweat a lot regardless of the temperature so my shirts get musty.
    Ha,ha,ha!!

  • Chuck

    This is the results of having an uneducated mother and absentee father. And, if someone doesn’t get them (he and his mother) help, the child will end up in the prison system.

  • free

    man, i wish i could transport him back to the 70s and into my house with my daddy and his big black azz belt.

  • nucynu25

    Yep , stop that ish now BC it will only get worst . My mom always said I will pop my kids bc I do it out of love the world will beat them out of hate .

  • Yoni

    I never said you wanted one. YOU were talking about some co-workers and what they drove compared to what they made. Yeah, it was you.

  • free

    they seemed like they wanted to do it. it is a rite of passage, particularly since he was taking so damn long, making sure the lining was right. i would have let his azz look cray.

  • Yoni

    RIGHT! I know I don’t have him mixed up. He was worried about what some co-workers drove vs. what they made. I remember. I remember him goin in about a cousin and their pockets as well. If only folks knew what it cost THEM to mind their OWN business. I’ve NEVER been the one to count folks money from across the street. NEVER!

  • Guess Who

    He needs home training. We don’t know if he’s suffered trauma…he could just be a bad azz lil nigga in dire need of a spanking.

  • free

    does he smell? if it’s comfortable, i would do it.

  • Renee Bee

    Bwahahaha! ?

  • iWasteTime

    WORD!!!!
    When I WFH lunch is half a L and PBnJ

  • free

    the latter.

  • whodatthere

    Big tank head little boy.

  • Rendeezil

    The rod of correction will drive the foolishness out of a child….shooo adults, too!

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    Needs a damn ass weapon imo. This little n!!ca don’t have no Adhd.Blame the ignorant parents for letting him act this way and thinking it’s cute. Not in my house his ass will be whipped

  • Annaunki

    He could be terrified of a bad dream but dont know it was a bad dream. That had to do with hair…who knows. I would not let my child scream like that.

  • Fleur Rebel

    Yesssssss

  • Kilroy

    Azz “whipping” you mean right?

  • Kilroy

    Beat dat azz doe! I don’t care what his affliction. Hit me with a shoe that I bought for you, just the mere act of throwing the shoe should be enough to wax dat azz.

  • Karma WhO

    some kids are genuinely terrified of the barbershop tho..my baby brother use to cry like someone was killing him..hes 16 now and he only gets a line up til this day , he wear his lil august alsina fro..

  • Butter

    yep.. Act Right = leather belt

  • JustB

    At that point he just needs a blow out and a edge up…any kids/adult would be scared with 5 grown men holding him down

  • Petty Patty Cakes

    That’s right! Whoever’s checking your shirt tags needs to get outta your business. If you look and smell presentable then who cares?!

    The test of a truely fashionable person is dropping them in the middle of a cheap store and watching them make mgic

  • Tammie Reed

    His mama is going to have issues with him! How is he at school? He is definitely learning this behavior from someone! I would just need one afternoon with him, he would be good as gold! LOL!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Bless his heart but ADHD don’t mean you won’t be disciplined and it’s not abuse to do so. Better to set boundaries and teach them before the streets, jails undertaker get them.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No it wasn’t me.
    I could care less what other people drive because I don’t pay their car note nor do they pay mine.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I guess but one time before he had to report back to Orlando he did drop my desk and he did some noticeable body odor, but that was almost three years ago and different shirt and slacks.
    Ha,ha,ha!!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Nah son…he came in rowdy from the gizzate! Kicking screaming…beating up his mamma… no sir!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Barbers (owner) below on his facebook post says that wasn’t his first cut. Quoting what Toni ToniToni said…

    This is a comment from the barber from that shop. He said The little
    boy has been there before and is not autistic nor special needs.

    Kenneth Owens
    Kenneth
    Owens To everyone that followed this video, We at Ko’s Barber Lounge ,
    appreciate an respect all comments and concerns. That was a case of Men
    coming together and showing discipline in a Barber way, that young boy
    gets his hair cut often and we have never had a problem servicing him
    before. He is not autistic nor has a special need . But was very
    disrespectful to his mother, and I am sure extra parenting needs to take
    place. But as a Man , Father, and Barber We had to be the Village that
    day, we didn’t think this video would go viral but i hope it shows we
    have a lot to do to save our young men. KEEP THE POSITIVE COMMENTS
    COMING PEACE. KO’S BARBER LOUNGE

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    lololol..I know right!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    J showed her natural azz one day when my mom washed her hair and tried to comb it out… My dad actually cut some of it because she was screaming so damn bad about some damn naps … Some kids are flat out sensitive … Matter fact the ones now are …. I literally have to handle her hair a certain way because of this… SMH…

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    lolol…bolrotf…lord have mercy!!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Yeah that is not the move … SMH…

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I said that too… watch this kid puke afterwards…some kids do this!
    and also do it for attention. in this case, he bad!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Having childhood anxiety does not mean he is special needs. Is Kanye West special needs? None of those barbers are medical professionals. The boy clearly has emotional and behavioral problems. It is not just a parenting issue. The boy needs help to manage his anxiety now before it becomes an anger management or criminal issue later on.

  • Yoni

    But you care what they wear everyday. So you don’t have a cousin that you felt some way about their finances? No? Ok.

  • klwbaby

    If I acted like that in public, I would have a medical issue also. Having to remove my mom’s foot from my behind…

  • Renee26

    I doubt that child gets any form of discipline at home….or abuse as Sandra is calling it….

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    LOL.
    I don’t know about but even if you work somewhere you are wearing a uniform you have more than one uniform.
    No I just get sick of always getting away with being irresponsible with money and my mom is always there to help them, but no one helps me and I don’t expect them to do so.

  • Renee26

    Right and ADHD has nothing to do with respect…this boy is disrespectful and no pill is going to stop that

  • Renee26

    He came in for a line up…acted such a donkey that they ended up having to cut it all off

  • Yoni

    So again, I don’t have you confused. And how EXACTLY do you know that this man wears the SAME EXACT pair of clothing each day if…..as you stated “Yt men don’t have a smell.” How else would you know? You, sir/ma’am are TOO pressed.
    And if you don’t expect them to do so, why are YOU so mad about them “being irresponsible with THEIR money?” Sweetie, that’s not your concern. Well it shouldn’t be if you nothings coming out of YOUR pocket. *snatches the cord from your iron*

  • Renee26

    Come thru!!! It took a village to cut his hair..they really tried to help. In the end she rejected their help and gave in to the child. She doesn’t discipline him and doesn’t want anyone else doing it either.

  • Renee26

    Anxiety = disrespect….OK

  • Karma WhO

    i can dig that!! Well i am glad he gave more light on the situation saying he has NEVER seen him act like this before and this is not his first time being serviced.. wow..jus adds more questions into why exactly did he act that way!

  • Baldheadeagle

    aint no dammm ADHD it’s BAAC (BAD ASS ACTING CHILD) right there right there go bernie mac on that lil neeca

  • i troll it like i see it

    Hey we don’t know maybe Kanye is special needs.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I have eyes and I can see.
    I pass by his cubicle on my way to my desk and to the kitchen such that it is and I have a nose.
    It is my concern because for whatever reason my mom thinks I am going to take her place and play daddy to these bunch of irresponsible hyenas when she dies but that ain’t happening and you can stuff your little sir/ma am bs when dycks used to go but don’t any more because that sh!t has been condemned by the health department.
    I give my mom money out of my check 26 times a year and if I find out she’s helping them then I will cut off that money and put it toward my damn retirement.

    I don’t owe them crap since they treated me like sh!t when I was growing up and now they have amnesia but I don’t.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    If you read my post you would have known that children with anxiety are often misdiagnosed as ADHD. Just because he didn’t have anxiety on previous visits didn’t mean he wasn’t anxious that day. He is clearly acting out for a reason. And, no, you can’t beat the anxiety out of him.

    This is why the prisons are full of black men. Black people refuse to acknowledge or seek help for their boy children even when it is obvious the child has an emotional problem. You can’t beat anxiety out of a child.

  • biggiejax

    I don’t care what anyone says, a good ass whooping will cure all of that crap!

  • i troll it like i see it

    I’m assuming he is a no muss no fuss type like Steve Jobs? He may consider that his work uniform in a sense. We work for Uncle Sam too and I see a lot of what you’ve described. There are very few men stylish around here really, and yes several sport the same thing daily which I don’t get because I wonder if they are washing it nightly or doubling down on the deodorant to keep the g-funk at bay or what. Either way dirty clothes have body soot so I hope your coworker is washing that outfit at least a couple times a week.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Oh crap I didn’t read down far enough..

  • Lurk_Mode_Off

    Right. What kind of help would you recommend in this case, Ms. Sandra?

  • Charlie Brown

    It’s amazing that all of a sudden what we used to get growing up when we acted like this kid was good, old fashioned discipline is now being called abuse. GTFOH….growing up there was no such thing as ADHD…you acted up, you got that azz whipped and it made you think twice about doing it again. Dr. Sandra go and raise a lesbo puppy or something.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    The mother need’s her ass whipped..End of story.

  • Vixen

    The problem is the mother is not spending time with the child. A whooping is not the answer when it comes to a special needs child,the answer is time. She does not spend time with that little boy. I think she knows he is special needs because I see special needs parents act just like she did because they are young, old and worn out or simply do not know what to do. The way those guys grabbed him would have nipped all that in the bud because I’ve seen some bad kids try it and when a man steps in those bad little boys got it together quick. Coming from a parent of a special needs child who at a young age did the exact same thing when it came to doctors visits and dental visits. I heard the same thing, he needs a whooping, give me a week with him. Until you walk in the shoes of a special needs parent, visit a special education classroom, therapy session etc. to see first hand of course you wouldn’t understand. It is the misinformed making those statements. I too was one of the many judgemental people because I was not a parent of a special needs child. My other three children were well behaved as myself and husband raised them to be. It wasn’t until we had our fourth and seeing the difference with him as compared to our older three that something was wrong. We decided I would stop working and dedicate my time to homeschooling and doing what ever it was to help our child. From experience time is whats needed to help a child with special needs. No, you can’t tell my son is special needs by looking at him but if you try and talk to him you will notice it. So, let’s stop thinking an ass whopping can solve everything with a child you see as unruly or not believe something is out of the ordinary just because that child looks “normal” that a “beating” will justify the behavior. You guys wouldn’t make it an hour with a child that have special needs. This little boy has special needs and his mother needs help on calming methods to help this child and she will not get the help because everyone looks down on her instead of asking her is something wrong does she need some help, advice or a phone number to someone that can help her. Sorry for the long winded comment but reading a few of the comments, I had too.

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    You make a point Sandra… I can get that, and I myself am not a medical expert on emotional or behavioral issues… Anyone can clearly see he has a problem…I can’t go to deep between straightening his tall out as a parent with a good ole azz whipping vs medical expertise that you have referenced in your writing, however I can speak on my own children at this point as I was too told one of my twins was special needs with emotional problems throwing tantrums as this…. (devil was a damn lie)…They are 25 now!

    So how would anyone actually know what this real issue is unless they have had on hands on with this boy in particular? The barbers did, and multiple times…While we are on the outside looking in at this, we all are in the same boat with our opinions that we are giving…so I will ask, how does your general references work or be the answer if an ass whopping won’t or the village barbers stepping in won’t, or a man in the home to help with discipline wont?

    We are the parents, and that is not to say, have kids first then let’s see your answer…But I am sure myself and a few others know what it’s like being on the other side of a so-called medical expert or teacher who has been through children behavioral courses in college that will say your child is an issue with anxiety and sitting still with labels and needs help, or here are some Rx to calm him…when behind the scenes there is funding that needs to be used before the program ends… or a Medical professional in cahoots with pharmaceutical companies to make money…

    All in all, its a problem with black children-that’s where we can agree. Kanye…apples and oranges. That I will not touch because He is an anomaly that happens to be genius in his own right, who is anxious and has had…BEHAVIORAL AND EMOTIONAL ISSUES.

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Chile Kanye is all the above…and so called voodoo curse from the kardashians…they say. Go figure.

  • Isignedup4this

    This is abusive. This child will be traumatised. No one took the time to divert his attention by maybe giving him a game or fav movie to watch. The little boy is not being physically harmed but emotionally harmed. What you do to children in their childhood affects their adulthood. This cannot happen everytime he gets a haircut. They need to find a better way. Also, just think…. it’s taking 4 men to hold him down and cut his hair… now if he refuses male disciplinary action then ppl will wonder why. Black ppl are already traumatised. Why keep adding insult to injury. This right here… IS NOT THE ANSWER.

  • klwbaby

    I could be wrong but I don’t think people feel like he should be beat like Kunta Kinte but there are many different forms of disciplines and the parents need to find the one that works for this kid….

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I am somewhat surprised at what seems to be empathy from you here, not to be funny or sarcastic, but I have always took your writing against certain aspects of women raising children single handed or Mom’s raising kids without a father figure as disastrous. Not that you would want anything bad to happen to this kid, on this kids side? hmmm.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Hey, girl. ?

  • Sexy Lexy

    a lot of children WERE abused ….. my grandmother would get an extension chord ….. now why in the entire hell did she need an extension chord …she did not .. it was too damn much … I DID NOT DESERVE THAT CRAP IT WAS ABUSE PERIOD and it has affected the way I deal with people, fear , bullies …. You can’t say hey whack em they’ll get over it …when ANYONE puts their hands on you ESPECIALLY as a defenseless child IT’S ABUSE and will effect them … it’s also showing the child that bullying is an effective strategy to control someones actions …when in fact it is communication love and attention will do that more effectively …. time and patience not frustration and violence … if you don’t have patience for a child you should not have one or take care of anyone else’ .. so beat your kids if you must and i’ll make sure to keep mine AWAY from yours because hurt people HURT people whether they had anything to do with it or not

  • Isignedup4this

    Oh yeah… is he white? Just curious… I did something very similar years ago. I had to go to cosmetology school immediately after work so the dress code for school was all black. Once I finished the program I continued wearing all black because I didn’t have to think about what to wear, didn’t really like the job, and didn’t care what others thought. I am highly creative and always in my head but you can see this same trait in Mark Zuckerburg and the late Steve Jobs. Simplicity is key.

  • zawnn

    I didn’t watch the video, but did he need a haircut that damm bad?

  • i troll it like i see it

    Yeah they put roots on him lol…I don’t know why those women attract anyone at this point. Can’t people see what the hell can happen?!! Lamar? Done. Gone. On crack. Scott? In and out of rehab. The brother? MIA half the time due to depression, morbidly obese. Bruce? Defaulted to womanhood. Kanye? Mental ward.

  • Isignedup4this

    You were on one… hilarious with all the comebacks!!!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    lolol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ????

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Some’n going on with them girls! All their men,…have BEHAVIORAL AND EMOTIONAL ISSUES! if not drugs!!

  • shun king

    Kids like that grow up and kill

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I asked the same thing…

  • Rayne

    See. Ok. I would have told her . He should have asked her first can her son sit still for long periods of time. Some money ain’t worth it.

  • Butter

    Right! My uncle had all the Kids in Check! I bet you the men in his life DONT have this problem..

  • shun king

    I was looking at the vid and it tells me none of those guys had any sense that lil boy would not have got a cut that day. Why kind of man would participate in something like that.? And for it to be several That video speaks volumes

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    Like 25 or 30 is more like it…I wanna see what his hair cuts will be like then!

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    That child desperately needs a full time father in his life. If the mother was the type to spank she would have been done got in that behind. Instead she is extremely passive. She probably rewards him for that behavior at home. He’s going to hurt her one day.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I think if the dad was in his life he would take his son with him on hair cut day. The mother is ruining him. I hope the father sees the video and steps his game up. His son is headed to the penitentiary.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    I think if the dad was in his life he would take his son with him on hair cut day. The mother is ruining him. I hope the father sees the video and steps his game up. His son is headed to the penitentiary.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Beatings definitely don’t cure anger issues. There are other forms of discipline besides violence.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Beatings definitely don’t cure anger issues. There are other forms of discipline besides violence.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    She deserves it. She created that monster.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    She deserves it. She created that monster.

  • nucynu25

    And you are absolutely correct …and getting yo ass beat might not cure yo anger issues but it will damn sure remind yo ass who’s the parent & who’s the child .

  • nucynu25

    Oh & did you not bother to read my 1st two suggestions ?

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I agree!! He seems spoiled. She doesn’t know how to handle him and depends on the community. Where is his dad…She seems to allow anything to keep him quiet during tantrums.

  • Butter

    Im not saying beat them half to death, but don’t wait until 4 and 5 years old to start saying NO! or Get Down! what happens when they don’t listen.. Now a few taps on the butt, the hand, legs, aint nothing wrong with that, the issue is NOT getting them while they like 1 and 2 years old. Stern words and evil looks go a long way if they know what that Sting feels like that comes with a spanking! Id bet her Boyfriend mistreats, and dogs her out… This is learned behavior.

  • Butter

    She needed help! And they assisted!

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    It’ll compound the problem by making him more violent and reminding him who the parent is through violence when he already has an anger issue will only be safe for the mother for as long as he’s not stronger than her. My younger brother became stronger than me when he was 8 and I was 10. Add a couple of years to that for the mama.

  • Soldier Woman

    #CLEARLY!

  • shun king

    You leave family to deal with issues like that. Really that was very close to some charges

  • shell

    that little boy does it on the daily….she needs more than that

  • Incog-knee-gress

    Every kid from my oldest nephew. ..his stepson…all the way down to the newest lil baby 4 months respect him.? He even tell her to stop crine and she dew?

  • shell

    that little boy wasn’t scared. he was still bad after the hair cut was done.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Sandra, there’s another possibility… this could be his first haircut.

    Some boys are traumatized by the sound of clippers and the fact that they are an instrument used for cutting. My nephew had a similar reaction. Instead of holding him down like prisoner and stressing him out even more, I let him hold the clippers and allowed the barber to cut my hair. When he realised he wasn’t in danger, he calmed down.

  • brooklyn23

    That was a nice approach you took, however this boy in this video because of what happened is gonna be in fear for awhile

  • brooklyn23

    I wonder is she gonna take her son back there, now that she knows they all think she’s stupid at the barber shop

  • Ariesjerk

    Thats what i was gonna say, he coulda jus been scared ?

  • anjanette b

    Girl u and Dr. Busman need to shut the hell up. Whoop his a$$…

  • anjanette b

    This is most likely his first haircut 90% of boys cry uncontrollably. I Have 3 boys they all acted like that. Sometime girls act like that when they first start getting there hair done, so what do u do? let them walk around looking like Beyoncé daughter hair use to. I bet that why she didn’t do that little girl hair was that she started crying. So he will be emotionally fine don’t worry, there not fine china that will break- nobody hurting him thats why he bad as hell now/his mother treat him like he is fragile while he around there opening up a can of whip a$$ on everybody.

  • anjanette b

    Anybody that have black boys know that they act like that.. These people that talking most likely don’t have boys I know girls cry like that when they first start getting there hair done. What I don’t understand why is he so damn bad..

  • Cake with A Kick

    I would beat the brakes off that boy

  • anjanette b

    Not always those little boys are cowards (love them very much) but he going to catch a couple of 2 pieces from a couple of people out there in them streets give him the a$$ kicking his mother should have gave him. But a couple of those experiences will knocks some since into him.. U call those type of people fake tuff guys/ in the words of Kevin durant.. Lol

  • PAG

    You’re making the most sense… hopefully, the people at the barbershop reads your post, instead of insulting a paying customer on social media. I bet others will think twice before taking their kid there for his first haircut. The kid was over the top, but they didn’t make it no better… he was traumatized.

  • Goddess™

    ????

  • barbeez

    I would beat him so long and so hard that we’d both need an ambulance. He really turned out in the parking lot. I used to throw tantrums and I got beat and slapped down in public. I learned…yes…I learned.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    If someone did that to an adult, they’d be arrested.

  • barbeez

    Did you see that fool throw his coat off and kick his shoes off. Nah! I would have tore that lil niglette up. Know that.

  • barbeez

    String him up and beat him like Kunta. That boy is bad.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Maybe he didn’t want a haircut. How would you feel if people held you down and forcefully cut your hair? I believe children need structure and discipline but I don’t believe in robbing a child of their individuality.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    You have to be patient with children; especially, when they are experiencing something that is potentially frightening, for the first time.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I felt sorry for the child. That was a horrible way to experience a haircut.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I felt sorry for the child. That was a horrible way to experience a haircut.

  • barbeez

    He’s disrespectful because there’s no man in his life. No excuse…I’d still beat his behind. Respect to these men for helping.

  • barbeez

    He’s disrespectful because there’s no man in his life. No excuse…I’d still beat his behind. Respect to these men for helping.

  • Soon2BWife

    Not his first haircut, he went in to get a line up but he clowned so that he had to get his whole head shaved. First issue. Then he was not familiar with any of the men. I know they meant well but they made it worst by surrounding him and holding him down. Mom should have sat him on her lap and eased him into it. He def has some issues but I believe they were exacerbated by the environment. He felt all their energy and didn’t trust any of them. No one had control of the situation. The person who made the vid said that all the men were shook up after he left.

  • AggieMom96

    He could go on to be President. Don’t you know bad juvenile behavior is de rigueur? It’s at the very least acceptable up to age 70.

  • Shira Harding-James

    What I mean by reaching is this…. children acting out does always involve abuse at home. She is generalizing parenting based on one video with one unruly child.

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    I think he may be mildly autistic

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    My friends son was like that, he has mild autism and fought everyone including his father for his first couple of haircut’s.

    It was so bad, all of the barbers trying to calm him, calling him names but autistic children are sensitive to certain things especially sound and touch.

    They started cutting his hair at home

  • Yetunde

    I think this was so unnecessary. As a mother, I couldn’t watch my child in so much distress and stand by while someone recorded him. He was being held down by 4 grown men as well. If this is how he’s treated, then it’s no wonder he acts out. Then to add insult to injury, the video is posted to the internet for entertainment. The adults are the problem here, not the child.

  • anjanette b

    If giving him a haircut is robbing him of his individuality friend, he is In for a interesting life experience. Wait till he get married lol, he isn’t going to know individuality if it fell in hit him on top of the head. Lmbo

  • Felicia Kelley

    I think he has some sort of emotional issues as well.. Some Autistic children are effected by sounds and sensations. Little things like touching can be a big problem. Some of them have LIKE over stimulated nerves as well. Simple things that are the norm for us can be horrifying, scary or painful as well..

    The mother seemed so unbothered by his behavior so this is normal for them. I need more answers and info before I could make a judgement. I just went by observing . I saw it on FB a couple of days ago..

  • SandrasNewFave

    My 6 year old daughter has autism and this reminded me of her. She can’t stand hand dryers in public restrooms & automatic flushing toilets. But we go in knowing it is sensory processing overload and behave accordingly. The toilet gets flushed, the hands are washed, got “shut up & get over it” ain’t it. I’ve slowed many an ER nurse down just to avoid such a meltdown.
    I couldn’t watch more than a minute and change of that video. All that for a hairline? Somebody needs to step in for his sake and calm him. And a bunch of grown ass men holding him, clearly, didn’t help. ?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    We work for the government in a regular office environment so we are far removed from the creative world.

    I was just wondering if he had a mental health issue.

  • Nonya Bizness

    I think she likes the attention she thinks she gets by “how bad” her son is. Little does she know the reflection isn’t on her son, it’s on her. ALL of those men knew the child was acting like that because of her, and because the only other time he’s seen a man was when he was delivered at the hospital. Was it only me, or did he seem to act out more any time time his mom spoke? Maybe I’m weird, but I got the feeling the little boy knows how he’s supposed to be acting, and he’s literally begging for his mom to get some act right. He’s acting out hoping she’ll come out of her d amn fog, stop giggling at everything he does, and actually punish and parent him. It’s like she’s treating him like her partner instead of her child.Children thrive on stability, and he has none. He’s not being parented, and I think he wants to be, which is why he’s flipping out. He wants some attention,rules, discipline, and not a mom just giggling. There’s nothing wrong with that child, but I think there’s something wrong with his mom.Those barbers care more about that boy than his mom does. I truly think there’s something wrong with her,and she’ll probably think she’s a celebrity once she see’s herself online,and she’ll definitely be back in the shop.

  • CookieMobster

    He was terrified. I could not here my baby screaming for me like that. You have to talk to your children and let them know it’s OK and you are there for them. This mother is terrible!!!!???

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I’m sorry, as a parent, this little dude (not what I really want to say) is just BAD. Listen to him. He comes up with anything to say they are hurting him, “You’re choking me”, “He punched me in the chest” and so on. A long belt with a few well place strokes across the hind parts would have settled him down.

    She’s fortunate they even fooled with his little demon seed acting self

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I think people need to stop excusing crap. It’s funny how most of us who were raised old school, not abused, learned and know how to act, but ever since every child has some “reason” for acting out no matter how good a home they are raised in these kids and the adults since then are a terror!

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    That boy is about 5 years old, maybe older! He would look like Rapunzel if that was his first haircut

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    THANK YOU!!!! Call a Spade a Spade!!

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Uh, they do that when they are 1-2 years old for their 1st couple of cuts. I actually cut hair and have a son. Most of the time by that age, they may not want the cut and squirm a bit, but they DO NOT (and most parents don’t allow them to) act like that.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    “I don’t believe in robbing a child of their individuality.”

    You have bad children too (IF you even have any). That statement about a HAIRCUT is foolish. Part of a parent’s responsibility is to teach a child about dress and grooming. That does not rob him of anything but looking homeless.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    …”2 pieces” are becoming rare. Now they come packing at young ages. Her lack of discipline and guidance may cost him his life

  • KB

    There is definitely something wrong here with this child that needs to be addressed by a licensed professional.

  • Yoni

    This is everyday for me. LOL Stick around. Let’s be friends. LOL

  • Keesh5000

    Its hard to believe he is getting beat at home…..acting like this in public

  • Yoni

    Eyes but no working nose.
    Oh, so basically put……..YOU BIG MAD, huh?
    O’an as far as MY YONI, sounds like you wish you had one. GIRL BYE! A BIG BLACK D!CK GETS UP IN THIS EVERY WEEK! I would tell you to ask him yourself, but you would probably want HIS in yours.
    We can go all day if you’d like. I do THIS for fun, GIRL!

  • Keesh5000

    Fa real

  • Shira Harding-James

    Not saying that he is or isn’t just saying she’s reaching lol

  • Sircaput

    I don’t always agree with your write ups but I do agree with you on this, the kid is suffering from behavioral issues, my son was diagnosed with autism and anxiety issues, we couldn’t him to go to school it became very overwhelming so we had to admit him as an inpatient to a behavioral center where he stayed for four months, he has been out for a year and doing better and receiving good grades. The issue with situation is a mother who is possibly a single black female that is not being informed and do not know are understand the situation her child is going through. She probably hear people around her all the time saying “He so bad” when they need to be researching and getting the child the help that he needs.

  • Felicia Kelley

    Smdh

  • Felicia Kelley

    Smdh

  • Felicia Kelley

    We really wonder what is wrong with our community and our children…Just read some of your comments.. So easy to always say what some should do.. And you can make these EDUCATED and expert opinions. EMPATHY STARTS AT HOME!! A LOT OF OUR PEOPLE ARE JUST EMPTY!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    We really wonder what is wrong with our community and our children…Just read some of your comments.. So easy to always say what some should do.. And you can make these EDUCATED and expert opinions. EMPATHY STARTS AT HOME!! A LOT OF OUR PEOPLE ARE JUST EMPTY!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    Can your heartless self please stop talking to me. Does not cost you a dime to scroll on by..

  • Felicia Kelley

    Can your heartless self please stop talking to me. Does not cost you a dime to scroll on by..

  • Realtalk

    You sound incredibly ignorant. And it’s just as painful to witness as watching this poor child’s distress.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Explain what sounded ignorant?
    Was it the calling the child out for saying whatever works?
    Is it that he needs discipline, which the recording shows he doesn’t get?
    Is it calling out that the parent (in this case, mother) isn’t handling her business?
    Is it mentioning that guidance is necessary?
    Oh, it must be because I don’t believe in a child hitting a parent and ESPECIALLY a boy hitting his Mother

    It’s ignorant to ignore the fact that children need guidance, discipline and structure. Each child is different as to what type of each, but they ALL need it

  • JanusMaximus

    I don’t get why he needs a haircut when he’s already bald. And why are they brushing his bald head? I would pissed at that type of nonsense too (If I were him)

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I absolutely respect what they did, now it’s mom’s turn to go home and reinforce it.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Head looking like an upside-down milk jug!! lol!

  • OrchidJones-Work for Money

    I seen another part of the video doink. She won’t be able too.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No one cares about your tired sex life.

    He’s obviously not getting the job done because you sound frustrated and unsatisfied and you’re talking it out on your keyboard.

    Maybe you should drop by one of those toy stores so you can get that orgasm that your BBD isn’t giving you.

    And if you think using feminine pronouns is going to make me big mad you obviously never graduated the second grade.

    Please block me because I am blocking you.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Getting a haircut and good grooming aren’t the same thing. When my nephew got his first haircut, his hair was past his shoulders but he was always neatly groomed and well-dressed. There are far more important life-lessons than forcing a boy to cut his hair.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Didn’t the video start after the haircut was pretty much finished?

  • tj

    I am so hurt as the mother of a child on the autism spectrum..none of these idiots recognize whats going on…i know this behavior he is not bad!!!! He has sensory and behavioral issues that i recognize and im crying and im hurting for him ..i pray to God somebody get him some help and all this male bravado is of no use you can’t whoop a child like this into better behavior he does not get the concept of that punishing him is useless….i am a counselor 24_-7 to my child helping him work through his feelings…sorry for my typos and grammar and run ons its through tears…I WOULD LOVE to speak to this mother and offer her some advice and encouragement…BLACK PEOPLE DO BETTER WE ALL WE GOT!!!!

  • Bonny

    I’m just now watching this and let me say this, kids have bad days too.#hewasntinthemood. I would literally kill some one if my child ever screamed for some one to stop and they didn’t.#bangbang#childabuse

  • Bonny

    He said he couldn’t breathe.

  • Genia W-m

    First time I’ve seen this. For a 6 yr old to be this afraid of a hair cut there seems to be an underlying issue. OMG! I detest folks saying he needs a beating. As if that’s going to resolve his emotions!! I couldn’t even finish watching that video. The mother needs some retraining. Something is wrong with her son. And this would be an excellent opportunity to educate the barbers too. They had no clue by thinking he was just upset.

  • Genia W-m

    Right or they were beaten so often by their parents that’s ALL they can think of to do to kids, including their own!!

  • Genia W-m

    I hope you’re not a parent because you SURELY don’t sound like one.

  • Genia W-m

    Yeah, had the hell beat in you and out of you. That’s all you know so you think it’s ok. We’ve learned a lot about children over the last 50 years!!!

  • anjanette b

    So true

  • anjanette b

    I bet he acts like that when his mother tells him to get dressed in the morning. A lot of comments are insinuating that there doing something wrong by continuing to cut his hair- but this little boy acts a fool on such a constant basic I bet that she doesn’t know if he is being truly affected are he just being a disrespectful brat.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Spanking your child is not violence, to me it isn’t

  • Shira Harding-James

    I wasn’t thinking that as well….I wonder if it was her turn this time

  • Shira Harding-James

    How is the mother ruining him?

  • Shira Harding-James

    Well said

  • JENNYJONES1

    YOU SHOULD HAVE FINISHED WATCHING THE VIDEO B/C HE WASN’T JUST COMBATIVE WITH THE BARBERS BUT HITTING HIS MOTHER WHO SEEMED TO BE OK AND USE TO LETTING HIM RULE HER. SEEMS HE TRIED HER A FEW TIMES AND GOT AWAY WITH IT SO NOW HE SETS THE STAGE AND THIS IS THE NORM. YES I DO BELIEVE HE HAS SOME ISSUES BUT HIS MOTHER NOT DISCIPLINING HIM ONLY INCREASES THE PROBLEM. IT SEEMS HE REALLY NEEDS STRUCTURE AND A FIRM HAND TO HANDLE HIM. HIS MOTHER IS TRULY FAILING HIM. SAD!!! SMH!!!!……….JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Shade Fest

    Oh that was a $100 haircut right there

  • JJ5

    Poor baby, the hair cut wasn’t that important. He seemed scared.

  • Yoni

    BY all means. I’m not frustrated but YOU are. LOL Girl, YOU brought up MY Yoni, not the other way around. And your font sounds as if you neck roll with your hands on your hip. Fukkin pansy!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Wow.

    And why TF did you even reply to my post in the first place.

    Some of you are just strange people who are respond to me just to insult me but guess what-I’ve been called everything but a child of God so your 2nd grade insults don’t even register.

    Have a nice weekend.

  • Yoni

    Uhm, didn’t you say you were going to block me. I replied HOW MANY DAYS AGO? But others are strange? Nah son.

  • Brigette Webb

    Yes and all the crap we’ve learned has definitely proven true. I mean look at how amazing kids do young adults are now compared. 50 years ago!

  • Brigette Webb

    Amen! He wasn’t scared! He was pissed off because he didn’t get his way. His actions at the end of the video prove that. The mother wasn’t surprised by his actions. Probably happens all the time. Stop excusing, medicating and start discipling!

  • Brigette Webb

    Right! That is what a parent should do. He wasn’t scared. He as mad because he didn’t get his way. All this crap about medicating, diagnosing and coddling this shit is exactly why we have a society of asshole young adults and entitled kids. He’s bad. She’s a bad mom. Period.

  • Brigette Webb

    Amen!

  • TejasChaos

    When I first saw this video a while back, I was like…oh yeah, he needs a whoopin! But of course, I saw a video that was only 2 minutes long, when he was already out of the chair — only a portion of what took place. That poor boy was restrained and held down in that barber chair for over an hour. I don’t care what anybody says….I will let my boys walk around nappy headed before I let 5 grown ass men hold my kid down for a stupid ass haircut. But I’m also not one to worry about what society or others will think of ME if my kids hair isn’t cut….School pictures, wedding, birthday party, I don’t care…No haircut in the world is worth putting a kid through all that. How do they think he is gonna act from here on out, every time he walks into that barber shop? I just hope they remember, that monster was created by them! Adults are so quick to forget that kids are people too. They go through things, have bad days, get mood swings, just like adults. But kids are just supposed to “get over it” and “act right” because a parent/adult thinks they need to right at that moment. That isn’t the case if we are moody as adults…if we don’t feel like doing something, we don’t. One of the things that stood out to me was when the child himself says #ICantBreathe … is that just ignored, because permission to hold him down was given? Stop…..think about it! Here is a longer version of what happened. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tibC8xE2S7A

  • TejasChaos

    OR a parent could hold off on even getting the haircut if the kid was not in the mood or cooperating that day. Not like it is necessary to live. I mean, I know it IS necessary for the mom to show up with kids who “look good” so, by all means put him through all of that so you don’t look bad. #Sarcasm
    I think people need to remember that kids have shitty days too. If an adult were having a “bad day” and wasn’t in the mood to do something, they wouldn’t do it. But it is okay to force a child to do something, simply because it is a child?

  • TejasChaos

    I mean, there was an entire #ICantBreathe movement (which I support & agree with btw) … but when that boy said “I can’t breathe” it is ignored. He is told to “Relax”…”Calm down”…”Be still”. Is it really that different?!?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Children have rights, too. Just because they are small and defenseless, doesn’t give adults the right to force them into situations that make them uncomfortable.

  • Jo bell

    “Usually children who act out in public like this have experienced trauma and abuse at home.”
    -Sandra rose

    And yet here you are complaining about things that other people are saying but you believe that the child’s obvious autism is caused by trauma and abuse at home. Shame on you.