Nakia Venant

A florida teenager in foster care hanged herself on Facebook Live early Monday.

14-year-old Nakia Venant committed suicide while her foster parents slept in their Miami home.

The teenager started the live video stream just after midnight on Monday. Police say she fashioned a noose out of a scarf and hanged herself from a bathroom door at 3 a.m.

A friend called 911 to report the 2-hour live video, but the friend mistakenly gave the dispatcher the wrong address. Emergency responders rushed to the wrong address and later learned of the correct address. But by then it was too late to save her.

Nakia was rushed to Miami’s Jackson North Hospital where she was pronounced dead.

Her Facebook page was quickly deleted. Company spokesperson Christine Chen said Facebook interrupts livestreams that go against community standards “as quickly as possible.”

Facebook requires users to be at least 13 years old to create an account.

Before the account was deleted, one woman who claimed to be Nakia’s mother wrote: “I was showing you tough love when you misbehaved.”

Police did not say why Nakia was in foster care.

Nakia’s tragic death occurred on the same day that aspiring actor Jay Bowdy took his own life on Facebook Live. And weeks after another child, Katelyn Nicole Davis, 12, of Cedartown, Georgia committed suicide in a 40-minute video on Live.me.




  • Liah

    Prayers going up for the family!

  • cherrypie

    If You Know Someone in Crisis: PLEASE
    Call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to everyone.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    My heart just broke. May God have mercy on her pained soul.

  • Fabulousbrownme

    I wrote about this earlier in another post. This is so sad. I’m just glad that a friend had the sense to call 911 to try to help save her. These live feeds encourage people to act out and do things that they might not otherwise do. It’s upsetting that she thought suicide was the only way out. RIP

  • CaliVirgo

    Rest in peace little sis

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    It’s an awful trend my heart hurts for their loved ones…..poor baby you never know how a person is feeling.

  • BlackFeeMale

    God bless this babies soul.

  • klwbaby

    This is beyond sad and tragic… R.I.P

  • Chardonnai

    Bless her heart.

  • A-way29

    man… 🙁
    too sad

  • Sucker Free

    Wow…so sad. Too young to comprehend her actions…

  • Buttercup

    Heartbreaking

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Devastating. Such a beautiful young girl.

  • puppylove

    What is with this fascination with killing on camera?

  • MissyJ

    So sad… babies crying out for attention in LIFE finally get it with their death.

  • MissyJ

    New Edition movie had AWL the viewers yesterday… They’ll get my tonight a well but not TGIT… sorry boys… Congrats to them.. Lifetime take notes.. Can y’all members of black twitter on the blog get #lifetimetakenotes #neweditionmovie trending?

  • Buttercup

    It’s the world we live in. Just like folks fight over social media when they have each other’s phone number, I think social media is how people primarily communicate. Perhaps, because they long for validation and folks to be on their side.

  • TheWildChild

    Didn’t an actor, Jay Bowdy, just live streamed his death yesterday? ….very sad.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    A friend called 911 to report the 2-hour live video, but the friend
    mistakenly gave the dispatcher the wrong address. Emergency responders
    rushed to the wrong address and later learned of the correct address.
    But by then it was too late to save her.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    This was the point that I was making weeks ago about the girl that had a seizure (or something) and died off camera a few weeks ago.’

    Bless her soul. I wonder if she said why she was doing it. Jesus be a counselor.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Yup. And he had a wife and 6 kids too. Real sad.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I can’t. These babies struggling and I get it. People think “you’re 14, what can be so bad?”. Behind closed doors and in a child’s mind, especially nowadays is a cold world with a harsh reality. Social media ain’t all good. Talk to your children, don’t dismiss their feelings and truly try to understand them.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    RIP baby girl

  • Ice Lee

    This is just sad all around. I hope the girl who called 911 to try and save her doesn’t blame herself.

  • Chardonnai

    She’s in the foster system. Aint no telling what that poor child has been through. I’m sure she see some shyt.

  • Are we there yet

    RIP to her.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Is this the new thing now? Some black actor named Jay Bowdy did this too. SMH. Come on people.

  • Emily post

    wow people live streaming suicide… ?

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    An entire family? Wow

  • Lovezoe

    Heartbreaking.

  • Are we there yet

    I have worked on drug trials for a depression med that was already approved for adult use and that they were trying to get FDA approval for peds (7-17) use. folks would say all the time there is no such thing as a depressed 7 yo. I read some of those case files about depressed kids in our study GLOBALLY and I call bs. There is indeed such a thing. And its tragic. Not just American kids. Worse one was a suicidal boy in Poland. He was 10 yo.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    No one wants to die alone.

  • Lovezoe

    Kids are so mean this days. My kids school has a strict no bullying policy, but even then stuff fall through the cracks.

  • the guest

    People are in pain in this cold hearted mean spirited selfish world.

    People talk so much politics but do not show love to people on personal human level.

    Liberal or Consetvative, but if you are unkind then your politics don’t matter. People need to be kinder and warmer because no one especially no young person should feel so alone and unloved as this young lady and the other young people who also took their lives.

    This is not a matter of just depression. Depression is scapegoated for the suffering human beings inflict upon each other. Everyday on the Internet people are mocking people’s vulnerabilities and hurt. This has to stop, young people are sending a message.

    May this beautiful young sister rest in loving and eternal peace.

  • Lovezoe

    It’s so important that kids have SOMEONE to talk to. Create an atmosphere where they feel confronted talking to you, if not let them know they can speak with someone they trust.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Thank you!! Kids can be depressed, a simple chemical imbalance has caused many children to be pretty much born prone to it. Sadly folks want to determine their own answers to what they don’t understand instead of trying to help fix it.

    My 5 year old grandson suffers from insomnia, since he was in his momma belly. Middle of the month, that baby doesn’t sleep for 5 days straight and if we get him to sleep it is only for about 3-4 hours a day. Doctors tried to say no….uhn uhn, I know this child and I know his pattern……so he has low dose Benadryl for those times of months, as he is considered too young for sleep meds.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    We had an 11 year old in PICU was a cutter, carved the word whore into her forearm and had attempted suicide twice. Had been admitted to psych multiple times. First time at 7. Mental illness in kids is very very real.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I actually talk to females and that’s what my nonprofit I’m working on is about. Kids are little people. They matter. If adults can’t cope at times, how does a child whose brain isn’t fully formed?

  • the guest

    I think they want to die and want to be saved at the same time. I bet this young sister would have been grateful had they had the right address and saved her. She was crying out for love and care.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Amy Winehouses’ dad said he thought she’d been depressed her whole life.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Wow poor baby. Insomnia is brutal.

  • Lisa daniels

    Yeah. Mines goes to play therapy weekly.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Which is why I say in this day and age we have to create a friendship with our children. I am my children’s best friend and their parent….always maintained a clear line in the sand with it, but they knew they could talk to me about anything.

    Once a week, we would have “Truth Night”…..no matter what was said it was the night where they could voice any gripe or concern. Each person held whatever object and spoke and even had a chance to tell me something I did that they did not like. It worked so well in keeping the line of communication open.

  • Chardonnai

    Wow. I know he’s tired all the time.

  • Lovezoe

    Folks think because all kids do is eat, watch tv, and go to school life is easy. Kids getting abused all sorts of ways, seeing family abused all sorts of ways, genetics, food supply, because bullies. “Kids should be seen not heard.” Its tragic we don’t see them as humans

  • Lovezoe

    Good idea!

  • Are we there yet

    I am an insomniac and I HAVE an insomniac. I have talked about my woes in sleeping here OFTEN through these years. I PRAY they find him some help. I have been medicating to sleep since I was a teen. They finally told me a few years ago after numerous sleep studies aint nothing they can do for me. The STRANGEST thing about it? I got it from my dad. And when we went to see him last why even in his current state…he is an INSOMNIAC. I would go in at night and look and he would be AWAKE. When we went back in morning…sleep. Mind you, he is on a ventilator. During all his medical episodes through the years the insomnia remains.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Poor baby, My nephew is also on sleep aids. Has been for 3 years, He’s 11.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Stealing this

  • Lovezoe

    I hope someone gets that friend some help as well. Kudos to her for trying to help her friend. She needs to express her feelings as I guess she’s dealing with guilt now.

  • Are we there yet

    I have been tired since May 1993. I stayed up all night to cram for exams my soph. year in HS. I have been awake literally every since.

  • Chardonnai

    How often are you sleeping? Are you tired during the day? I sometimes have a hard time shutting my mind down. If I dont have some sort of substance (weed/liquor) I cannot just fall asleep. I HATE that. My mind be so tired, but I cant shut it off.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    He has his moments, but I think his little body is used to it. We had learned to adjust things and alert his teachers about it. The Benadryl does help and for some reason, when I stay over and he sleeps with me, he sleeps perfect.

  • MookieFly

    I love it! Need to get parents involved because if you won’t talk to your child, someone will

  • Chardonnai

    I’m gonna try this.

  • nucynu25

    Great idea..

  • Lisa daniels

    Yes, i have had check a few preschoolers for runup to me and telling me that my child was bad when I pick her up. I be like wtf is you. Just check one today gor asking me why I was picking her up early.I can’t stand a smart mouth child

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    So far, just Benadryl and a lot of monitoring. Good thing is we only have to use the Benadryl during the middle of the month and not any other time. So that is a plus.

  • Fred G sanford

    Facebook is the devils playground

  • Lisa daniels

    Wow

  • nucynu25

    My gosh..

  • nucynu25

    I don’t know why but that hurt ..

  • Anunnaki

    great job mom, i think that was a great I dea, Maybe if you have twitter and FB put this message on their and it may just help someone else

  • Are we there yet

    I have to have a substance and if I medicate I have to do it early. By 930 pm. I sleep on a good night 4-5 hours. A bad night 2. It indeed comes in what @rulettesutton:disqus said. Some have it regularly. Like her grand. On a sked. Some like me have sporadic episodes that just last a period of time. My longest bad sleep cycle lasted 8 months. And then one night I went to sleep like normal people and it didnt bother me again for almost a year.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    It is a great tool. I made it up one day and it stuck!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That is a good idea.

  • Chardonnai

    I feel like I’ve been depressed since I was 16.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    I’m glad you shared it.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Even as adults, they still talk to me about anything

  • Lisa daniels

    What Amy ?

  • Chardonnai

    WOW!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Especially with pre teens and teens. It builds a great family connection. And the rule is when the session is over, no hard feelings can be held after it.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Go talk to somebody you don’t have to live with that hurt.

  • hi-liter

    People are really struggling with issues these days. There’s another 26 y.o. guy who is described as a unknown actor who committed suicide on facebook a few days ago as well. Facebook might need to do away with the Live thing………..it prolly wont prevent suicides because most people who want to do it are determined one way or the other.

  • Are we there yet

    I have to use Benadryl anyway for my eczema and there is a pill I take called Atarax/Hydroxyzine (generic) that helps. Bc folks with eczema scratch at night anyway. But that mess is only on weekends. It will make you sleep 12 hours

  • Chardonnai

    This puts a lot into perspective. A lot.

    I dont feel alone.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    It also teaches forgiveness, as they cannot harbor any hard feelings once the session is over.

  • Just saying

    I just hate this!

  • Lisa daniels

    Wow

  • nucynu25

    DAMN.. I hope you find a healty way to cope .. shidd just a way to deal

  • Are we there yet

    See below. I try. Its rough. I am used to it. I been dealing with it 24 years this year

  • Chardonnai

    that’s one of my 2017 goals. To go back to therapy. I quit. That was sooooo stupid of me.

  • Are we there yet

    I read that and I belive him still

  • hi-liter

    This is great. When children know a parent isn’t going to beat the brakes off them and just listen to them, they are more open. Kudos to you.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I know I have battled depression my whole life and it seems to stem from my father, as 5 out of 7 of his children have it.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Good you’re going back

  • Are we there yet

    Keep one on deck. So many insurances pay for it like regular co-pay these days too

  • Lovezoe

    We love you, expect to hear you made an appointment by this day next month

  • Are we there yet

    This is my little sister. By time she was 13…3 attempts. Still is a cutter off and on.

  • Chardonnai

    I hate FB live. But in the care of the Philando Castile situation, it was useful.

  • hi-liter

    Definitely.

  • Justlooknout

    My head and heart hurts. Later

  • Chardonnai

    I get my depression from my mother…but it seems as my father gets older he suffers from it now.

    He will call me crying some nights.

  • Chardonnai

    Bet.

  • nucynu25

    My mom would always say she was my mom not friend . I was afraid to death of her . She didn’t abuse me but her words were really harsh sometimes & she would bat the piss out me with quickness. Eventually, I stopped fearing her & rebelled .. not totally blaming her bc I was a knucklehead & she was a young mom .. trying to learn but I do wish that I could’ve talked to her more growing up. Now, our relationship if wonderful tho .. we both matured .

  • Chardonnai

    When I got out the mental ward, I went to therapy 4 times a week for 4 hours a day. It was so good. i was able to release a lot pain by inflicted my mama and step dad go. Harboring so much pain for so long drove me crazy.

  • nucynu25

    Wow.. chardonnay you really be dealing with a lot not just this but in general . You seem like you hve so much on your back .

  • LadyFrance

    I don’t understand why the mother put she was giving her touch love when she misbehaved. Am I missing something? Is there more to this story? And why on earth would you put that on the account? For what? As a mother who has lost a child I would not even be in the right frame of mind to post something like that. smh Baby girl, I pray your soul finds the rest and peace that you were desperately seeking but unfortunately did not find hear on this earth.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    My mom was that way, so I made a promise to myself that I would NOT be the same person. I had to break the cycle and I was successful in it. It took until I was 25 for us to have a relationship, but I have had one with my entire crew of 4 all their lives.

    I am glad you guys have mended those rifts and you will be a different mother than she.

  • Chardonnai

    My high school friend was a cutter. She hid it from me until one night I stayed over, She would cut her thighs…

  • nucynu25

    It took until I was 25 for us to have a relationship, ..sounds bout right

  • Anunnaki

    I use to suffer from that, and it is awful.. im so sorry to see your granbaby go thur that, i have a gran, ughh, I hate it…but he will get better.

  • nucynu25

    Winehouse

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Whatever it takes you gotta preserve yourself. Nothing to be ashamed of. We all need to be healed of something. Good on you for seeking help

  • Lisa daniels

    I know, her name. I was wondering why you said that hurt.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    It’s so heartbreaking and makes you feel helpless cuz ain’t nothing you can really do to help them.

  • Chardonnai

    I do. That’s why I needed to come back to the blog. To get some of this shyt off. I dont know ya’ll so its easier to let it out.

    Between lving in Chiraq
    Cost of living period
    Trump becoming president
    Wanting to quit my job
    Being so far way from my family
    Aging parents
    Not feeling like I where I’m suppose to be career wise
    2 kids
    A step daughter
    A husband
    Not being able to finish my second masters last year

    It is a lot.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    It was her behavior to my children that set me off on her one day and I snapped out on her. Told her she would not do to them what she did to me and I was blessed with them and was there to protect them…that God himself would have to fight me tooth and nail over them. Also, told her she was jealous that I was what she never was…a mother, she had a chance and failed at it.

    They were harsh words, but we my truth, with all that I had been through and not having her protect me like she should have.

    Took 6 months for her to get over it, but she did and we have been better ever since.

  • Are we there yet

    My mother. This is her. Helpless. Hopeless at times.

  • Chardonnai

    Damn. And they way shyt going its gonna feel real hopeless.

  • nucynu25

    I was speaking figuratively .. I just felt a type of sadness for a parent to say that their child has been depressed her WHOLE life .. as a parent we wanna save/protect our babies ..so to say your child has been depressed for entirety must hurt .

  • http://www.Samanthagwrites.com Samantha G.

    Wow. I don’t even know what to say about this. I don’t even know if I want to know the full story. May this girl rest. Whatever she was going through in that house must have been heavy for her to feel this was the only way.

  • Anunnaki

    try beets and red wine any kinda of wine, in a juicer, do it daily, take about 3 tabl spoons. keep refrig til all gone and repeat, i have other stuff I do that helped me balance myself but I started with this Blood Tonic. it really really helps

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Awww. Love to her but I know exactly how y’all feel.

  • nucynu25

    Damn .. Am happy yall in a better place bae . My mom cherishes my son … she always says I needed him.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    It may not seem like it now but it’ll get better Sis. In the meantime keep coming here and laughing with the rest of us weirdos. ?

  • Chardonnai

    That bothers me a lot too. I missed out on a lot of time not communicating with my mama. I’m real close to my step mom, who I look at as my mama cause she be in my life since I was 6. But the relationship with my mama has been strained since I was kid. Her choice in men. She picked a straight fluckboi, who ruined my life. She didnt want to take any responsiblity for a long time. We would curse each out. It was bad. Thank God for my daughters. They have helped us become a lot closer.

  • nucynu25

    Stay up & go see that therapist babes. … aint nothing wrong with it . We all battling something.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    I done tried everything for sleep but I have never heard of this.

  • Chardonnai

    I would say around 31-32. I’m 35. We are just now getting it together.

  • Anunnaki

    this is a blood tonic natural it will balance your blood out and get rid of things traveling in the blood that is not suppose to be there. you will notice the difference, but don’t eat no meat since it carries blood, eat vegs while doing this

  • Carolina Blue

    ???

  • nucynu25

    Yess Charr.. I hve fought my mom ..like really fought her . Man am bout to crying typing this shit .. bc it is one of my biggest regrets but man our relationship was hectic . My son brought us close too.. My momma didn’t involve herself with my pregnancy at all but now she cant leave me & my baby alone . Mannnn me & my momma came so far.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    This is sad, remember when you had to have a college email addy as a requirement to create a facebook account? I quit facebook once they let everybody and their momma, including mine in!

  • nucynu25

    You actn funny?

  • Carolina Blue

    Thats beautiful….im glad it workded out for your family…

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    It takes a village!

  • Lisa daniels

    Yeah, my daughter is play therapy because her behaviour on prek got so bad they suspended her. She is learn how to appropriately express her feelings. She told her therapist she does not like my mom(i do not either but that is another story) and my daughter told her that she can’t wait for us to move out. I almost cried when the therapist told me that she said that even though my daughter has been told me that she don’t like her. I was hurt. Like you 4 and you realize that your grandma is mean and has a bad way about her. I was hoping that my mom would have better relationship with my daughter then she had with me. Now I will have to work 10x hard tp make sure we can get our on place so my child can not be so upset and angry.

  • Chardonnai

    My real mama didnt come to either or my college graduations or my wedding. Not coming to my wedding still hurts. She doesnt get it. She always says “well ur other mama was there” But I wanted HER. You cant get those big moments back.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I know my daughter saved my life. I was 15 and had nothing…….then found out I was pregnant and felt like I had gained the world. My gf tell people I was the happiest pregnant person with all my kids, even with the slight depression with my second baby. I absolutely love being a mom, felt it was what I was put here for and being a grandmother just doubles my joy. When I talk about my crew I am always smiling , because of who they are and the fact that I did that.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Including yours though…..CTHU

  • nucynu25

    Awwww.. I smiled so hardt … Yess babes ..

  • nucynu25

    Save & plan….shiddd uber on the side .

  • Are we there yet

    God bless yall Nucy. At least yall repaired it

  • SummerBaby

    RIP! ??

  • Are we there yet

    Im so sorry man. My GOODNESS.

  • SummerBaby

    I love this! ??

  • Chardonnai

    See. I’m the opposite. I never wanted to be a mother up and until I met my husband. Hell I never thought I was the marrying kind either. I always thought since my real mama was trash at the job I would be too. I was mad when I found out I pregnant with second kid. The whole pregnancy. But when she was born she had soooooo many issues. It was like my being mad affected her or something. I realize now that when God gives you a gift, you better appreciate it. He could snatch it whenever he wants too.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Once my mom and godmom, aunts, uncles, older cousins got on, it was time for me to roll!

  • Chardonnai

    Kids be knowing. They smart af.

  • Lisa daniels

    I am that’s why I am going full steam ahead with my bankruptcy to get all these negative items of my credit report from my 20s of being a knockhead and thinking folks would not try to file garnishment and the like.

  • nucynu25

    thank you

  • nucynu25

    Aint nothing like momma ..even if momma not the best at being momma. SORRY

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I’m sorry that she had that affect on you, but you realize how harmful harboring that anger can be. Let it go, let it out, release yourself. We are NOT our parents unless we choose to be. Our parents were NOT their parents unless they chose to be. Choose to be FREE, choose to be YOU!! That is what I had to do. Been 2 years since I have had to take any medication for my anxiety and depression and although I still have bouts, I chose to learn to cope without the meds. It took years to do it and I had to wean myself off, but I did it and am doing great!! Went from 2-3 pills a day to 1 every other day to 1 when needed to none.

  • Lisa daniels

    Yes they do and mines is the opposite of me. She will not ignore it and will go off on my mom or anyone. She ain’t got no chill. Little Pisces.

  • nucynu25

    I believe this …old ppl always say being angry ,, crying & all that shit affects them babies . I believe it completely

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I love all of those fukkers!! Even when they irk me!! God knew what he was doing giving me that crew……our love is strong and hard!! We have been through some trying times, but we made it as a unit!!

  • nucynu25

    Wishing you nothing but success & a nice spot for you & babygirl.

  • Chardonnai

    She dont understand when I look back at the memories in my life she wasnt there for a LOT of them. Now she gets mad when I come home and I dont go see her or my brothers. SHE created the environment. SHE choice a fluckboi over her child. She didnt come to my graduations cause he told her not to. She only divorced him after he kidnapped my little brother. It wasnt because of what he did to me. That shyt still hurts too,

    Ok I gotta stop talking about this, cause I’m tearing up.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I suffer from it too and my family didn’t understand. I have Ambien but I hate to use it because it often just makes me sleepy but not sleep and I hate that high feeling. What’s weird is I have Chronic Fatigue and Fibromyalgia and that’s rare to have insomnia with it.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I say this. My mind doesn’t turn off. This is why the tv or music MUST be on to doreen out my own thoughts.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Nope get it all out!! And eventually you will HAVE to say this to her. You are gonna have to face that “demon” (not saying she is one, just this situation) and say your TRUTH!! It is freeing!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Schools are trying but it’s hard because sometimes the parents are worse than their children.

  • Chardonnai

    I’m a Pisces. We have no filter or no chill. LMAO.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Love you two ????????

  • Lisa daniels

    Yes. I am budgeting so we can a little yard so she can play in that is the one thing she wants to most out of our new place.

  • Lisa daniels

    Yeah she told me Saturday that since it was raining I don’t have to go to work.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Me too. I’m glad for them. And you!! I just became close with my mom not too long ago, she was a great parent, but we were just never “close,” per se. I don’t think I lived up to her standards.

  • iWasteTime

    Facebook and SandraRose….

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    This literally made me cry. Bless that poor baby. (Auto correct be damned!!!)

  • dontgetblocked

    Facebook Live is obviously not working. It needs to be shut down. Why do everyday people…children need to broadcast anything live.

  • Chardonnai

    Oh I’ve gotten it out on a many occasions. It didnt register to her for a long time. I still dont think she has taken full responsibility for marrying a bum and bringing him into my life. Its always get over it. Thats in the past blah blah. Pray about it. (that one infuriates me.)
    Now she be trying to check me on how I’m raising mine. I’m like ok mama. You want Claire Huxtible yo damn self. More like Precious mama.

  • dontgetblocked

    Some adults act worst than their kids on there. Posting every move they make and every thought.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I do remember that time when young college kids were primarily the ones on FB.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Now you have to let it go!! I know you don’t want to hear that, but YOU HAVE TO!! Not for her FOR YOU. I can hear your anger in your font and I want to just hug the mess out of you, let you cry and yell and cuss and get it all out and release it. She isn’t going to own up or change m, but YOU can’t let that hold you in this place. God blessed you with a husband and children and enough happiness surrounding you……LET THAT ANGER GO!!

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Lord Jesus… I don’t know what to say…. these Children…help them Jesus.

  • Scromes1212

    Glad her friend tried to get her help. So sad that this young girl took her own life. Depression seems to be growing in our community.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Anyone (I like) here?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    We down below in therapy.

  • Ms. Jackson

    These poor kids think that death is better than life – and that ‘s bad. These kids dont have enough outlets. Whatever happened to when you feel down and out, you call your girlfriend, talk shit, feel better….then life goes on?. Damn. Im so sad to hear this. And FB live…i been saying that this may need to be shut the F(*& down. Too many are using it for the wrong reason! RIP baby girl.

  • Chardonnai

    Was this “Get Shyt off Yo Chest Wednesday?”

    I feel better though. Thanks for all the encouraging words.

  • Carolina Blue

    What ever do you mean nu nu??

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I’m preparing to do some self therapy in a little while.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Yup and it helps to talk and vent and laugh and all that. Glad you feel better and sorry if got pushy. ?

  • Chardonnai

    Me too. Soon as a i get home. Fire up!

  • Chardonnai

    Naw its cool. I needed to hear that. ALL of it. its helps to know I’m not the only one with a mama dearest…

    BTW my mama would sign bd cards with Mommy Dearest…aint that some crazy shyt.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Yes!!! It helps to clear your heart and mind. ???????? love is love

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Lordt!! Imma pray for her!!

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I missed the convo. Hope u feeling bettrr

  • nucynu25

    uhmmm

  • Carolina Blue

    Lol you trippin…im tryna get this cake baby

  • missmiami305

    So tragic. Seriously, what is going on in these young adults lives to make them lose hope. To put it on social media is crazy.

  • Oliver Brady

    O/T
    When life comes at you fast? #Maga NSFTS
    (Not safe for tru*p supporters)
    https://instagram.com/p/BPtKRVMjsv4/

  • Oliver Brady

    I’m here. You may like me. Idk. I don’t like you. Nothing against you. Just don’t care for you. Hello though.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    ???? *sips tea.*

  • nucynu25

    I thought you worked overnight .. you been mia

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017
  • nucynu25

    He looks like he chanted make Amerikka great again while jerking off to pics of his cousin .. stupid ass cave demon

  • Oliver Brady

    Sandra replied to my comment. Like Ice Cube, today was a good day?

  • Lovezoe

    Your sister wife

  • Oliver Brady

    ??

  • Lovezoe

    Tell me why I type sister wife so much it pops up on my recommended words or whatever it’s called

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Good for you. I don’t know your font so I’m not sure why you act the way you do. Bren was the only one allowed to go back and forth with me like this.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Fukk man!!! You and this cave demon stuff!! ?????

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    What’s for dinner?

  • Solstice

    My beloved. Hearing your story touches my soul! I applaud you for talking about it! Believe it or not it helps not only the suffering but those around who may or may not understand. It helps remove the stigma. I too suffer from chronic depression and severe anxiety disorder. I can’t remember my life being any other way, it has been so long. I can literally worry myself to sick to death. I appreciate that your consideration in going back to therapy! ? Many of us think we don’t need it or it will not help. I say go for it! I’m glad you don’t blame yourself for your condition either. It takes sooo much courage. And I too learned that my illness affected other family members. But no one ever told me. I was left thinking I was out of mind and the odd one out. It’s hereditary. But I’m not sure about your family but mine all swept it under the rug. It was one of those unspoken knowns. It became life or death for me. And in choosing life, I started demanding answers. EVERDAY I struggle to live. But I know I’ve gotta be here. For my children, my support system and for ME! I have a purpose. I just don’t know what it is yet. They recently changed my diagnosis. I’m more ill than we originally thought. But what I have learned, is that there is healing through my treatment. For me that is medication and therapy. Please hang in there and KNOW that you are loved and you are not alone!! You can and will live through this and come out on top! You are royalty girl! Grab ahold, keep and wear your crown ? EVERDAY! My avi has a message on it. It’s a semicolon. It means ‘a semicolon is used when an author could have chosen to end their sentence, but chose not to. The author is you and the sentence is your life’. Keep writing my love, keep going. I hope I haven’t overstepped my boundaries. I truly come supportive and in peace. I send you love!! ???

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Key signs you need to stop harassing me.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017
  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    We tolded them……they ain’t listen!! Whomp whomp

  • Chardonnai

    I read it Joseline voice.

    Mimi the maid…..OMG!

  • Lovezoe

    No idea. Probably pasta and veggies for the kids. I don’t know bout me

  • Lovezoe

    Nah. You mine

  • Oliver Brady

    ??

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I need to decide a protein and veggie. I’ve been off my new year new me wagon for the last few days.

  • Chardonnai

    NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I don’t want to be claimed. I’m single.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    ? got a tiny violin for they azzes

  • Oliver Brady

    You’re mean?

  • Oliver Brady

    Matches Tru*ps tiny widdle hands?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Veto Facebook Live!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Perfectly

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I’m not mean. I’m saving my bickering for Bren.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    You kill me everytime. Why? Lol?????????

  • Lovezoe

    I have some ground turkey from yesterday that I may whip up with some mini sweet peppers I chopped in the food processor. Eat that with a little rice. Was gone make it a taco bit figure have the rice instead

  • Lovezoe

    Love and me leave me

  • SG

    This is heartbreaking!

  • SG

    Agreed! It gets in my nerves anyway.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I hope you enjoy it. I may opt for leftovers instead however I want something light and fresh.

  • Lovezoe

    Is that shade?

  • Chardonnai

    Goodnight Beautiful People

  • Lisa daniels

    So it begins. Trump has pissed offf the white man. That was quick. I would have thought the honnymoon would have lasted at least a few more weeks. ???

  • Lisa daniels
  • Lisa daniels

    Damn. I thought mines crazy.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Night, Hun

  • Lisa daniels

    Don’t let the bed bugs bite.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    How could that be shade?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Before I post it, I think it and then decide that’s the gif for this.

  • Carolina Blue

    I do but by the time you show up im asleep…

  • nucynu25

    I still don’t know who this is . I thought it was DTTs but she was never this raunchy so idk.

  • Lisa daniels

    Who got a twitter. Go tell him always bet on black. Orange is prison gear.???

  • iWasteTime

    So um. We have to do part 2 in this dead childs posr?!?!
    Come on Sandra, free us

  • Lovezoe

    Long day. I know you know better to shade ??

  • Lisa daniels

    I thought this was bren and was suppose to hush about it. This could not be dtts because this person has spoke to me and said i was one her ?.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017
  • nucynu25

    lol..true . I tried to guess but idk ..fuk it .

  • Lisa daniels

    I don’t know. Maybe django?

  • Missy

    ??This??

  • Lisa daniels

    Or @ Man?

  • Lisa daniels

    ?????

  • Carolina Blue
  • Carolina Blue

    Oh well…?

  • Lisa daniels

    Eww ????

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Just leave

  • Carolina Blue

    You just..smh…??

  • Carolina Blue

    ???

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I don’t either. This is someone whom was way before my time. Dubb said she knew who it was. I don’t remember the font name she posted.

  • Lisa daniels

    So my job is closed on superbowl sunday. I don’t work on sunday anyway. Go falcons

  • Lisa daniels

    She is consistent.

  • Carolina Blue

    Very! Cant be mad at that lol

  • Carolina Blue

    Wack ass superbowl….

  • Lisa daniels

    She is the founder of eop( equal opportunity petty)

  • Lisa daniels

    Maybe but girly hands tom brady deserves the smackdown.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Me too ??

  • nucynu25

    She originally said Chiby but I think she said it wasn’t …

  • nucynu25

    I don’t think man has the patience or even brain power to adapt others font … no shade by that but he just unapologetically himself . He would’ve been called Kelly a horse by now .

  • nucynu25

    Now this I can see..

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Awww!! I love this?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Thank you!! They are my heart living outside my body.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Thank you!! They are my heart living outside my body.

  • Capricornicy

    Watching the Cosby show on Bounce tv while eating spaghetti & meatballs.

  • Capricornicy

    Watching the Cosby show on Bounce tv while eating spaghetti & meatballs.

  • nick c

    Being in foster care is pretty bad. The one 12 year old that killed herself also had videos of her and her mom fighting it was brutal.

  • nick c

    Being in foster care is pretty bad. The one 12 year old that killed herself also had videos of her and her mom fighting it was brutal.

  • nick c

    Being that old in foster care is pretty awful. Some states pay double to take in teenagers for the foster parents because it’s so difficult

  • nick c

    Being that old in foster care is pretty awful. Some states pay double to take in teenagers for the foster parents because it’s so difficult

  • Lisa daniels

    Really?

  • Lovezoe

    You get me. You love me. You adore me

  • Lisa daniels

    Well damn. I just remember him from my lurking days when he would say which one of you hos going to show me your titties? Then give out his email address

  • Lovezoe

    Aww. That was mean

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    It’s barbeez…but is barbeez chiby?

  • Carolina Blue

    I hope he gets it with his crybaby ass

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I’m hangry. I’m sorry.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    Oh sorry I meant disqus/dontgetblocked is barbeez

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    You’re welcome and I totally understand. A mothers love is everything!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Yes. People do the dumbest chiit ever.

  • nucynu25

    Damn .. say it aint so. IDK

  • nucynu25

    YEAH .. he just up & dipped & now we hve these clowns

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Mental illness is a severely underappreciated struggle in the black community. Poor girl.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I’ve been craving spaghetti all day but this body will be fierce this summer! Even if I have to live on air and water!

  • Lovezoe

    Love you

  • Lisa daniels

    We got asshole. I had to cuss somebody out last night because I was laughing at a pic someone said was slim and they decided they wanted to say something to me for laughing. I do not like this direction of the garden and i say that dmn list last night
    Like wtf man?

  • Lisa daniels

    All this.

  • nucynu25

    Am not even entertaining the garden idiots no more …imma tell them to suck a dik & immediately block them . New yr…new me. I ain’t got the time .

  • Lisa daniels

    Met too. I told somebody today to have a nice cool refreshing glass of bleach and not to skimp on the back wash.Drink it all and then hit the block

  • Lisa daniels

    True. Some folks think everything is either a lie or you just need to pray it away. With pray, you still have to put in the work. I can pray to hit the lotto but I still got to buy a ticket.

  • brooklyn23

    R.i.p. Depression is real and I battle it as well as my daughter

  • IamAllnatural

    The news reported that she’s been in 10 different foster homes in the past year. That would cause most people to be depressed. RIP baby girl!

  • lovelygamour

    The first response says it
    Arthur Torkiver
    @TorkOfTheTown
    Jan 24
    @DAWGAMANIA How dumb are you? Minimizing the federal government is literally the GOP platform, what did you think was going to happen?.

  • lovelygamour

    And a lot of people dont realize the harm they are causing by doing “what they think is best”. Examples; telling everyone “tim” is depressed, telling “tim” he isnt depressed, laughing about it, pretending they dont know why “tim” depressed, saying shake it off, and many more.
    A lot of kids in our community have no one to talk to. They tell an aunt and are immediately told to be quiet cause the aunt dont want people to think she didnt help. I’m starting to think all schools need real therapist. It would actually save money.

  • Oliver Brady

    ??

  • BlahBlahBlah

    But ending your life is a spirit and the battle of the mind. She chose to take her life over it.

  • 19awesomegrl97

    sad

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017
  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Who even knows. Be alert is the motto.

  • Mrs. (Asexual) Elmo

    Why?

  • Lovezoe

    You heard me

  • kekeb

    This is terrible news

  • Pamela

    But where Bren at? I wonder if Auntie put his ass in a concentration camp

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017
  • MyNameIs

    ???

  • MyNameIs

    Omfg! ??

  • Jussjess25

    I just cant phantom what would make a young beautiful girl like herself take her life?? Its the saddest thing in the world. God bless her soul

  • the guest

    Because people are cruel and the world a cruel place.

    Some people lash outward while others lash inward.

    This beautiful young girl was in foster care, displaced, and alone without a real family. May every child on this planet be blessed with love and care.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I used to work in a mental health facility on the south side of Chicago. The patients, who were 99% black, received very little support from their family members. It wasn’t uncommon to hear a so-called loved one say, “she just needs to toughen up.”

  • free

    yes, the young girl was sexually abused by a family member at 7. she didn’t act right after that (probably acting out). she was put in foster care because of the mom’s corporal punishment.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    This is beyond sick and sad.
    The last and final attempt to have someone “NOTICE” them,

    People are cruel. You tell someone HOW you are feeling & what you are wrestling with and they say, DO NOT FEEL THAT WAY. SNAP OUT OF IT.

    STUPID, THOUGHTLESS, CARELESS REMARKS.

    ZERO LOVE.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    If You Know Someone in Crisis: PLEASE
    Call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to everyone.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    STEALING.

  • Starsky Willows

    He took his page down. lol

  • LadyFrance

    That is horrible. Many times I have heard it that the world isn’t safe for a girl. This hurts my heart that our girls are going through this

  • LadyFrance

    That is horrible. Many times I have heard it that the world isn’t safe for a girl. This hurts my heart that our girls are going through this

  • Oliver Brady

    Lmao. Let me go look?

  • Lisa daniels

    ???

  • Lisa daniels

    I can believe it with my own parents when I was a teen, I use to runaway because when I try to talk to them about things they would make it seem like I was crazy and now as an adult I am about cut them off for good because they are still with that ?and they are cause my child to act out.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Wooord my older cousins be on there arguing with the wives of men they are fooling around with, picking fights, it’s too much.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Forget that! I cant with your pic LOL

  • Benita Renee’

    This is truly sad…RIP

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    OK

  • VM

    Wow, this is so devastating. If I’m not mistaken this young girl was abused by another child in foster care. I can only imagine how she felt living with that everyday. Sometimes things are not as simple, especially for a child. A child’s mental state is so fragile and it’s more babies out here committing suicide. Rest in Heaven Nakia Venant.

  • Michelle

    As if the poor little baby didn’t have enough problems being passed around in foster care (which is pure hell for those kids). May her precious soul rest in peace. So, so sad….

  • Butter

    Change her Diet… Stop eating meat that’s their Diet… Have her eat lots of Fruits with seeds, avocados, Kale. There is a disconnect with her brain and its not releasing the right chemicals to feel Happy!! Maybe this is the case Im not sure. But its a worth try…. All they want to give for depression is Pills, well how about fixing the problem.. It all starts with the foods we eat. Black Fold were not made to consume their diet because we have melinated skin! just a thought !

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Pictures are hung, people are hanged.

  • Renee26

    Sooo heartbreaking!

  • Soon2BWife

    Her mama is suing tge state because she asked them to take care of her baby……now this witch can find a lawyer, conduct a press conference but couldn’t care for a child she had. This child had been in 10 different foster homes…..
    https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.apnews.com/amp/0a6525ad3f0e448697ae4d466b839d68?client=ms-android-hms-tmobile-us

  • http://flcrime.com/ FLCrime

    It appears the child was in foster care for over half her life because of allegations of excessive corporal punishment aka she was being beaten to the point where it was considered child abuse. Why did she never “take” her child back though? There are case plans instituted to pave a way for people to regain custody of their children. I hope someone asks the mother why she never regained custody of her child from the state… even after the girl was sexually abused by another foster child when she was 7.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Anyone who knowingly and unapologetically causes you pain or discomfort, has no place in your life. We need people who build us up, not tear us down.

  • Lisa daniels

    True

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    She probably was a troubled teen and her mother couldn’t handle her so she let the state take over.

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    Cause some of these damn teens think they can rule their parent’s

  • nick c

    No one said raising teenagers was easy.

  • ThaRealist StudioGangster

    The answer to your question is pretty simple. She did not want the girl back!!! Black women are notorious for having babies that they don’t really want. When the pressure kicks in they lose it and result to giving the child to the state. The strong black woman is a meth. The proof that it’s a meth is the high incarnation rate amongst African American males and the excessive amounts of African American children in state forster homes.

  • brooklyn23

    I feel bad she did that. But have you yourself suffer from that? It’s a feeling you can’t shake off. Though there are better days than others. Those days when it gets bad everything feels so hopeless, and nothing improves that mood

  • http://flcrime.com/ FLCrime

    She was in foster care way before she was a teen though, its sad

  • Depths Of My Soul!

    Thanks, yes very sad

  • GhettoRanger

    I wish young people would stop and realize that their problems are temporary and if things are really and truly that bad why not tell someone, try to get some help and if it doesn’t help at least you tried. People that kill themselves, especially teenagers, kill not only themselves but their parents, siblings, grandparents and friends. Think about the wife or husband you won’t have, the children and grandchildren, the holidays, the adventures you will miss. If things are that bad buy a bus ticket to someplace fun, leave your parents a note telling them how desperate you felt. A change of scenery could be just what you need, but stay away from big cities where you could fall prey to scum. Do this only as a last resort, but don’t hurt yourself or anyone else. PS. Always maintain contact with your family, remember, somebody loves you.