Keshia Knight Pulliam

Former NFL player Ed Hartwell learned his ex-wife, Keshia Knight Pulliam, gave birth to his first daughter after she went home from the hospital.

The 37-year-old The Cosby Show star shared her baby news on her Instagram page on Monday, Jan. 23.

"Ella Grace has arrived!" she wrote under a picture of her daughter's feet in white baby booties.

She took care not to mention the baby's father, Hartwell, who demanded a DNA test to prove the infant's paternity.

The former NFL player, who has a nine-year-old son, Ed Jr. with his ex-wife, reality star Lisa Wu, was reportedly only informed about the baby's arrival once Knight Pulliam was “home from the hospital" by his legal representative.

“He didn’t get a call or anything (from Knight Pulliam or her family],” a source told Page Six. “Ed basically found out at the same time as the rest of the world.”

Hartwell filed for divorce from the actress in July, just days after she announced her pregnancy, and soon after demanded a paternity test to prove he is the father.

However, despite now being made aware, Hartwell has not reportedly reached out to his ex, and is still said to doubt the baby is his.

Hartwell cited irreconcilable differences for the split, and demanded the paternity test as he was not convinced the unborn child was his. However, he missed the deadline to submit DNA for the test, and Pulliam filed legal papers indicating she had already submitted her DNA.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Cold world!

  • MookieFly

    Why would she mention him if they are not together anymore? What she did seemed appropriate. The most important thing is the healthy birth of the baby. Just keep it pushin ? do you Keshia

    Also, what's with all the beefing on this here blawg?

  • Keekz

    "...despite now being made aware, Hartwell has not reportedly reached out to his ex, and is still said to doubt the baby is his." "...he missed the deadline to submit DNA for the test,..."

    Ed shut up and have several seats. This dude is a clown.

  • Justlooknout

    What's for her to tell her, he walked out, called her a slore. He, we..Damn Bill Cosby new when the baby was due.

    Best of Luck to her and daughter.

  • Fred G sanford

    She didn't wanna talk to him because she was afraid he would ask for a loan

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    sooo he feeling a lil butt hurt now?

  • hotntot95

    See, I'm not completely sure about this situation..but this type of person doesn't deserve respeck, kids, love, ..meals...just cancel him...

  • Akili

    Congrats to Keisha. Ed needs to have a tall glass of stfu after all the drama he caused during her pregnancy.

  • Benjamin

    Screw him with his punk @**. I absolutely love Keshia Knight. My first crush, along with Lisa Bona and Jasmine Guy..even though I knew I was gay as hell ?? "And no i'm not bisexual"..I guess I was crushing on their beauty.

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I wish her and the new blessing the best.

  • Lovezoe

    Good. Don't need the stress. Accuse me of thotting and say you ain't the daddy. You'll know when you get that CS summons in the mail

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    I wouldn't have told him either. He should be calling daily trying to find out.

  • iWasteTime

    At the risk of being called a follower, I agree with the others.
    What is there to tell him? He left, suggested the baby wasn't his etc etc

  • Lovezoe

    KKP and Tig should have kept being each other beard

  • Locapoca

    Congrats on her bundle of joy! She'll be ok with or without him being around she's probably over the moon to be a mommy! Don't let him steal your happiness Keesh!

  • tisha

    I don't blame her one bit didnt he say it wasn't his such a jerk now he's looking for some attention

  • Chardonnai

    I just dont understand what she saw in him in the first place. He came off zesty and corny to me on RHOA.

  • tintin

    And that's why she didn't tell his arse. Ignorant fool

    That's his damn baby ain't no one out here tryna trap a old washed up broke former NFL player

  • Chardonnai

    When Bill Cosby is your TV dad who needs Ed. LMAO.

  • Fabulousbrownme

    This is the same man that went to go get milk at the store one morning, only to send a breakup message via text, and never returned home. Why should he have gotten a heads up about the birth? Boy Bye!

    OT: Another teen committed suicide on FB live....so sad man. What is wrong with these kids nowadays?

  • SummerBaby

    I wouldn't have called him either.

  • thehumble1

    Eff him.

  • Mmm…Okay

    I would just take my baby and go about my business...I went through all that
    DNA test to stall child support bs before, just for him not to be paying cs at all. Sometimes the money is not worth your peace and sanity.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    He been putting her through the motions since she announced her pregnancy. Regardless of if she had a motive to get preggo or not he still turned his back on her when she needed him. I wouldn't have called him either...

  • nucynu25

    Who beefing now ? Am just blocking bishes from now on ..

  • PettyEyezPrime

    He knew she been pregnant for a year and a half ? and that baby was coming, Linda listen. Idk if would have called him either. For what? He didn't want the baby. I can picture him saying "so, lose my number".

  • Chardonnai

    I wouldnt want nothing from him. Me and bay and these residual checks will be fine.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    But he doesn't think it's his anyway...right? I mean he hasn't wanted to know anything up until this point, right?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Saw it this morning on tv. That girl was so pretty. This FB live is the devil. They need to shut all live feeds down on social media sites. Its giving the kids an audience when they really need professional help.....

  • Lovezoe

    But he still ain't reached out. Looks like she made the right call.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    I was reading that ???

  • Benjamin

    That privilege...

    Social Media Wages War On Casey Affleck In Nate Parker Racism

    http://thatgrapejuice.net/entertainment/social-media-wages-war-casey-affleck-nate-parker-oscars-debate/

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Y would she have??? Jerk!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    What does he have? NATHAN. Maybe he has Lisa Wu who had Keith Sweat's money?

  • PettyEyezPrime

    He STILL being a jerk. Fugg em.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I thought he came off as a great husband I'm kinda shocked at his behavior

  • Fabulousbrownme

    Yes, that story broke my heart. She was only 14 yrs old. I'm just glad that one of her friends saw it and called 911 to try to help save her. Unfortunately it was too late :-( These live feeds just encourage mentally immature people (not just kids bc a Black actor just committed suicide on FB live recently too) to do outrageous things

  • Are we there yet

    It sounds like to me that he publicly didn't want to have anything to do with this pregnancy. So why he expected to be extended birth details privately about the birth I am not sure. You get told along with everyone else sir

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong
  • Lovezoe

    Watch he be the one asking for child support

  • Lovezoe

    Watch he be the one asking for child support

  • nick c

    Sandra paternity can be challenged if he doesn't sign the acknowledgement paperwork from social services, that's if she request support or state benefits though.

  • nick c

    Sandra paternity can be challenged if he doesn't sign the acknowledgement paperwork from social services, that's if she request support or state benefits though.

  • Chardonnai

    Exactly. He aint got shyt. If anything HE trapped Keisha...I hate grown ass fuckboi.

  • Chardonnai

    Exactly. He aint got shyt. If anything HE trapped Keisha...I hate grown ass fuckboi.

  • Chardonnai

    UGH!!!! The Lamar Sally way.

  • Chardonnai

    UGH!!!! The Lamar Sally way.

  • Are we there yet

    This sounds like to me the friend of the blog who told that girl in private to abort her baby and now he has custody.

  • Are we there yet

    This sounds like to me the friend of the blog who told that girl in private to abort her baby and now he has custody.

  • nick c

    36 year old women try to trap dudes fast with a baby especially if they ain't got one already.

  • nick c

    36 year old women try to trap dudes fast with a baby especially if they ain't got one already.

  • SummerBaby

    I was thinking the same thing.

  • SummerBaby

    I was thinking the same thing.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Back to Malik Smiley (rickey smiley's son)

    I believed his excuse about the producer handing him a script to read from...it sounded like bs...but I was like ok, maybe. I can see that happening. AND then I saw the clip. So not only did he say that he did not want to date blk women during the confessional, BUT he also said that on the date. He literally pulled the dude away to tell him that he only wanted to date foreign women.

    Now, it is odd to me that this would be his feelings and that Rickey wouldn't know. I think Rickey genuinely loves and cares for black people in general. But, this just goes to show that you can't take things for granted and ASSume that your children have certain values and beliefs. I think we have to be extremely diligent when we send our kids to these predominately yt schools. We have to explicitly explain, confirm, and re-affirm our beauty. An ex friend of mine has sent her children to private schools most of their lives and her son (about 18 now) told her years ago that he did not like black women. (because they were loud, wore weaves, were uneducated, etc.) And he still holds those SAME beliefs. Sad.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Back to Malik Smiley (rickey smiley's son)

    I believed his excuse about the producer handing him a script to read from...it sounded like bs...but I was like ok, maybe. I can see that happening. AND then I saw the clip. So not only did he say that he did not want to date blk women during the confessional, BUT he also said that on the date. He literally pulled the dude away to tell him that he only wanted to date foreign women.

    Now, it is odd to me that this would be his feelings and that Rickey wouldn't know. I think Rickey genuinely loves and cares for black people in general. But, this just goes to show that you can't take things for granted and ASSume that your children have certain values and beliefs. I think we have to be extremely diligent when we send our kids to these predominately yt schools. We have to explicitly explain, confirm, and re-affirm our beauty. An ex friend of mine has sent her children to private schools most of their lives and her son (about 18 now) told her years ago that he did not like black women. (because they were loud, wore weaves, were uneducated, etc.) And he still holds those SAME beliefs. Sad.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    OT but OnTopic: Sherri Shepherd won her recent case with Lamar. He went for an increase, due to her increase in earnings....judge told him to have several seats, as he was already getting more than Jersey requires her to pay.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    OT but OnTopic: Sherri Shepherd won her recent case with Lamar. He went for an increase, due to her increase in earnings....judge told him to have several seats, as he was already getting more than Jersey requires her to pay.

  • Lovezoe

    The allegedly broke one?.

  • Lovezoe

    The allegedly broke one?.

  • MookieFly

    Whatever popped off yesterday smh

  • MookieFly

    Whatever popped off yesterday smh

  • Lovezoe

    Sandra said Mike Bivims called her house and cursed her out

  • Lovezoe

    Sandra said Mike Bivims called her house and cursed her out

  • SummerBaby

    Cursed her out about what?

  • SummerBaby

    Cursed her out about what?

  • Fabulousbrownme

    BLOOP!

  • Fabulousbrownme

    BLOOP!

  • Are we there yet

    Who went as far as to hide money and assets. Yes

  • Are we there yet

    Who went as far as to hide money and assets. Yes

  • SummerBaby

    Don't forget hurry up & get married too.

  • SummerBaby

    Don't forget hurry up & get married too.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Lol

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Lol

  • Lovezoe
  • SummerBaby

    Those comments tho! ???

  • Lovezoe

    But the very next week was on a private jet on a private island.

  • Chardonnai

    This is what happens when we turn our backs on our brothers. They stand by theirs, we let them manipulate us to turn our backs. When will we WAKE UP?

  • Chardonnai

    OMG! That's ludicris! LMAO.

  • the guest

    Can't stand Ludacris.

  • Dr. P

    She seems to be a hateful lil sumthin. He thinks he ain't the Pappy, so he was right not reaching out, and she was right not reaching out. The baby has two parents that are hateful as hell, good luck Ella!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    The one about does he talk faster when he's mad. Bwahahahahaahahaha!!!!

  • Kbellaluvvs

    Trap him how? She was married to him....

  • Buttercupdreamsmom

    Have u seen what she posted on twitter... Its on the shaderoom

  • Dr. P

    Anywho, who said Charlamagne went in on Cassette Michelle this morning? #lies he did not. I was bored listening to her arrogant explanation

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Hartwell filed for divorce from the actress in July, just days after she announced her pregnancy, and soon after demanded a paternity test to prove he is the father.

    However, despite now being made aware, Hartwell has not reportedly reached out to his ex, and is still said to doubt the baby is his.

    And this is WHY she did NOT reach out. Learn when to STOP.
    She did.
    Some women would have called, cried & begged for a rejecting knucklehead to show up.
    Keep your Peace. Keep Your Peace.
    Why "SNAP" and end up with a felony?

  • SummerBaby

    Well said! ??

  • nucynu25

    However, despite now being made aware, Hartwell has not reportedly reached out to his ex, and is still said to doubt the baby is his.

  • Victoria Williams

    It's stupid because I remember nothing but black women speaking out against Nate Parker. The media mentioned it but let's go back to some black folks pages and see what was said. They need to have a seat. The privilege is selective but we are our own enemies a lot!

  • PettyEyezPrime

    Then wifey got pregnant too

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    What does this mean that Ed missed the deadline? So he can no longer challenge paternity or what?

  • i troll it like i see it

    I agree, this needs to start at home. The Smiley's really need to instill pride in that kid. How was he holding different race of women so far above his own? Like he looked down on the girl, who was beautiful by the way....then he actually left her on the date to be a third wheel. That kid had no respect for women period.

  • Cheese eggs

    Appropriately petty

  • SummerBaby

    She does seem to genuinely love the break baby.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Learn when to STOP.
    -------
    This right here!!!!!! Life is so much more pleasant when you do.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    and missed the date for DNA

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Hartwell has not reportedly reached out to his ex, and is still said to doubt the baby is his.
    _______
    Does he still have the gym she paid for? Phuck his feelings!!!!

  • rayne215

    It be that way sometimes

  • Chardonnai

    LMAO. My husband trapped me. He said him and the Lord said it was time for us to have a baby. He didnt consult me. He decided not to pull out one night. I wasnt on BC. Should I be mad too?

    FOH. You cant trap your spouse....

  • the guest

    Ed is the kind of man that resented Keisha for being independent and better off financially than him so he wanted to hurt her spirit by rejecting and abandoning her.

    He's upset that Keisha didn't crumble and die over him but instead moved on and had her baby with the love and support of her family.

    He wanted Keisha to chase him and act a fool because he left. He left but he's mad she left him right back.

  • Are we there yet

    I can't speak on all parents, but my kids can have whatever beliefs they want. They don't have to align with mine. But what you won't do, is disrespect the views of others and other people in general. I'm not sure but that might be RS stance. Don't know. Can't gage it

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Agreed. I think Eucerine has made the most out of a fcked up situation. Not her fault her man had a wandering dyck. But given the outcome, she appears to dote on her as if she were her own. Luda still gets a side eye from me, but I'm alright on his wife for that.

  • Chardonnai

    Black faux feminist was the main ones bashing him. They was all on CNN talking about it. Meanwhile Madea's Halloween movie went #1. We gotta get our priorities together.

  • Are we there yet

    Racial pride does seem to be lacking here in this situation

  • PettyEyezPrime

    She has no choice. Probably in the prenup. JK ? The baby is innocent and was extremely young so she had to take on a lot in that role, especially after dad got full custody.

  • nucynu25

    That lil shit head should be happy any body looks his way .. but I totally agree with you .. we hve to teach our own. I think Malcom said only a fool sends his children to be taught by his oppressor . I do understand & even hve the desire to send my own to the best schools possible even if it means there will be less ppl who look like him but I be dammned if he doesn't understand the beauty & strength of US.

  • nucynu25

    Sounds like Future..

  • nucynu25

    thisss

  • nucynu25

    simple & cute

  • Angela

    Thank you????

  • Low E. TUH!

    THEY WERE EATING FUFU LAST NIGHT...I WATCHED THE LOOP A FEW TIMES. THEY ARE CUTE AS A BUTTON...

  • nucynu25

    Definitely..its okay to hve preference but to degrade yours bc of said preference is my only issue.

  • Lovezoe

    He took custody on the sole count of not wanting to pay. Gabby was like don't get any ideas lOl

  • Low E. TUH!

    YEP! HE WAS LITERALLY MY FAVORITE RAPPER...I'M GOOD NOW THO. CHARACTER FLAWS...MEH

  • SummerBaby

    I think it starts at home however it's not always the parents fault. My son to my knowledge has never dated a Black woman. In fact he also had very few black friends. He got bullied by the "cool" black kids so he it affected his dealings. He said black girls never liked him. He's finally at the point now that he has black friends & black women like him.

  • Lovezoe

    Gabby said don't get any ideas lol we not keeping no more kids

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong
  • Just saying
  • Sucker Free

    If the ninja questioned my integrity I wouldn't reach out either...keep yo negativity from round me lame

  • Lovezoe

    I agree. She embraces her and teaches her about Eucerin cultures

  • nucynu25

    Thanks bae

  • Benjamin

    We as black people, I feel, in my opinion, will condemn you, no matter who you are, if you're right, you're right, if you're wrong, you're wrong "Morals". White people on the other had, you could be a serial killer, as long as you're white, they will stand by you "Morals nonexistent" smh.

    I call this, a double edge sword.

  • Sucker Free

    Why y'all calling her Cassette ?

  • Are we there yet

    this is my only issue. He embarrased the MESS outta his whole family. That is not cool

  • the guest

    Exactly like Future!

    He wanted Ciara to crumble and be on call waiting for him for life. She was passionate about Future but she put herself and her child first. He can't stand her for it.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    You can have whatever beliefs you want, but when you categorically say that you will not date someone of your OWN race. That, to me, is self loathing. That comes from a place of ignorance. And for a CHILD to have those beliefs about his own people, that is a reflection of parenting in my opinion. You have a black mother that feeds you, clothes you, pays for you to go private school, but you have the audacity to list stereotypical reasons as to why black women aren't good enough for you.

    Houston, we have a problem.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    ppl who look like him but I be dammned if he doesn't understand the beauty & strength of US.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    This is my entire point.

  • Chardonnai

    Difference is that Future's other baby mama's need him financially. Ciara never needed Future. That's what really drove him crazy.

  • Dr. P

    Black Twitta voted, she ain't Chrisette no mo...Cassette

  • nick c

    Umm they gangsta about having a kid now married now. Relationships in the 30s move twice as fast as 20 year old couples with the same outcome, divorce. Ed should have known older hoes be trippin about kids

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I didn't hear him going off, as I don't listen to his show, but we sure did!!

    #FUKKHERANDHERCAREER

    Didn't even get to shake that man hand, but she was "getting a seat at the table for us". #BYEGIRL

  • Lovezoe

    He missed the deadline to get a test while she was pregnant probably

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Ikr?????

  • JerseyMom

    But he didn't want the baby and questioned paternity tho?

    I am gonna need Ed to stfu. Next!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    That is about all she gonna be selling out of her trunk, once that $250,000 (which is still being questioned) is gone.

  • nucynu25

    My lil bro doesn't like blk girls .. well, he doesnt like dark skinned girls . Tuah, that shit used to piss me off to highest levels of pissitivity .. but now it is what it is . He's allowed to hve his prefernce as long as he doesn't disrespect or demean any woman .

  • Are we there yet

    This to me is like when parents get blamed for their serial killer children. When the parents of terrorists are blamed. Hell we got little white girls whose daddy is probably Klan somewhere down the bloodline flying out to join ISIS. Little Becky hating was taught to hate the very folks she aligning with. I think parents get blamed for alot.

  • nucynu25

    truth

  • nick c

    Yes you can women in they thirties want ring now baby now. It's a statistical fact. Dudes should always bail when an older woman gives you ultimatums

  • SummerBaby

    Thanks you!

  • nucynu25

    true ...them cave demons NEVER go against their own.

  • the guest

    That's the truth. He was trying to punish Ciara for only loving him and not needing him. Future Iikes being needed because that's control. He doesn't like being loved because that's responsibility.

  • Hell_On_Heelz

    Absolutely! Come thru with the truth this 2017!!!

  • Yetunde

    He didn't deserve to be told.

  • Sucker Free

    He is a bitchass...didn't want the baby...questioned paternity...left her when pregnant...I would pay that ninja DUST like my child was immaculately conceived

  • CaramelDrop

    ??Ed Hartwell. His deadbeaass should've been man enough to, at the very least, been in contact with her because of the closeness of her due date. That would've been too much like right though, he didnt even submit his DNA for the paternity HE CHALLENGED.

    Sick and tired of all the bitchassness coming from these SUPPOSED TO BE men.

  • Chardonnai

    at, to me, is self loathing. That comes from a place of ignorance. And for a CHILD to have those beliefs about his own people, that is a reflection of parenting in my opinion. You have a black mother that feeds you, clothes you, pays for you to go private school, but you have the audacity to list stereotypical reasons as to why black women aren't good enough for you.
    --------------------------------------------
    SPEAK SISTA!!!!!!

  • Are we there yet

    My nephew loves white and biracial girls. Never mind his grandparents and great aunts and uncles marched and had hoses on them. His ass know the story of US...yet that is STILL his choice. And ALWAYS has been. Since he was 8 lol. I would have an issue if he is like xyz is wrong with black women that is why I dont date them. Bc see to ME that is where the disrespect is. Not on his choice. His choice is not disrespectful to me.

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    SHEER PERFECTION.

  • Are we there yet

    Hey I am here to lay the foundation. You want to grow up and hate who God made YOU...you go right on ahead. Me? Imma be over here celebrating my black skin, nappy hair etc. Call when you can baby and come home. We love you...write!

  • Are we there yet

    Hey I am here to lay the foundation. You want to grow up and hate who God made YOU...you go right on ahead. Me? Imma be over here celebrating my black skin, nappy hair etc. Call when you can baby and come home. We love you...write!

  • nucynu25

    I had a co-worker who didnt date blk woman .. he said bc when he came to the states the blk kids were the hardest on him . He said they teased him abt his nappy hair , out dated shoes & smell. I hve another coworker right now who doesnt date blk women .. he's from Bama so he said growing up it wasnt many of them & he didnt want to end up dating one of his cousins. The issue is not always self hate.

  • nucynu25

    I had a co-worker who didnt date blk woman .. he said bc when he came to the states the blk kids were the hardest on him . He said they teased him abt his nappy hair , out dated shoes & smell. I hve another coworker right now who doesnt date blk women .. he's from Bama so he said growing up it wasnt many of them & he didnt want to end up dating one of his cousins. The issue is not always self hate.

  • Chardonnai

    YESSSS.

  • Chardonnai

    YESSSS.

  • the guest

    There's a famous book by an affluent African American married couple who took their sons out of elite private schools because of what they felt was racist culture. They homeschooled all three their sons and all three went to Ivy League Universities.

  • the guest

    There's a famous book by an affluent African American married couple who took their sons out of elite private schools because of what they felt was racist culture. They homeschooled all three their sons and all three went to Ivy League Universities.

  • DivineMsM
  • DivineMsM
  • SummerBaby

    My kids growing up got black history lessons from me on the regular. Straight writing book reports in the summer & no tv days I'm natural & so are his sisters. My bro & nephew are hood ASF. My son still has to live his life in the way that works for him.

  • SummerBaby

    My kids growing up got black history lessons from me on the regular. Straight writing book reports in the summer & no tv days I'm natural & so are his sisters. My bro & nephew are hood ASF. My son still has to live his life in the way that works for him.

  • Are we there yet

    I do understand & even hve the desire to send my own to the best schools possible even if it means there will be less ppl who look like him
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    you know how you curb this Nucy? I sent both mine to best magnet schools here. Less kids who look like them. But find you a BLACK afterschool situation if possible. For me its Girls Club. They teach them, have sports etc. With kids who LOOK like them. Its so positive man. I want every single city to have one.

  • Are we there yet

    I do understand & even hve the desire to send my own to the best schools possible even if it means there will be less ppl who look like him
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    you know how you curb this Nucy? I sent both mine to best magnet schools here. Less kids who look like them. But find you a BLACK afterschool situation if possible. For me its Girls Club. They teach them, have sports etc. With kids who LOOK like them. Its so positive man. I want every single city to have one.

  • nucynu25

    Not on his choice. His choice is not disrespectful to me...that pt

  • nucynu25

    Not on his choice. His choice is not disrespectful to me...that pt

  • karen b

    I have a 15 year old son. I told him that if he doesn't listen to anything I say, DO NOT IMPREGNATE A WHITE WOMAN UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES......because when she is tired of him she has the power to do 1 or 2 if not both things.....Call daddy/law to lock him up or call daddy/law to have him killed.....I'm in his ear early.....I told him if he does get involved with a white girl, I will never have a night's rest....RT

  • karen b

    I have a 15 year old son. I told him that if he doesn't listen to anything I say, DO NOT IMPREGNATE A WHITE WOMAN UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES......because when she is tired of him she has the power to do 1 or 2 if not both things.....Call daddy/law to lock him up or call daddy/law to have him killed.....I'm in his ear early.....I told him if he does get involved with a white girl, I will never have a night's rest....RT

  • Chardonnai

    My brother married a Sprite girl. But I knew he would. As a kid he hung around white boys, he was always into drawing and karate, and weird shyt. He said black girls used to diss him. However, he still knows he is a black man. He's teaching my nephew and nieces to love who you love but remember who you are.

    I wasnt happy about it. I will admit. I will always advocate for the black family unit. I told him, she'll call you a nigga one day, just wait for it. I dont trust her or her family.

  • Chardonnai

    My brother married a Sprite girl. But I knew he would. As a kid he hung around white boys, he was always into drawing and karate, and weird shyt. He said black girls used to diss him. However, he still knows he is a black man. He's teaching my nephew and nieces to love who you love but remember who you are.

    I wasnt happy about it. I will admit. I will always advocate for the black family unit. I told him, she'll call you a nigga one day, just wait for it. I dont trust her or her family.

  • Are we there yet

    And see I had forgot his gf was white. My nephew and one of my younger cousins is same.

  • Are we there yet

    And see I had forgot his gf was white. My nephew and one of my younger cousins is same.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Hey, how was that track meet? Did track twin do well?

  • nucynu25

    Awww thank you ..so much . I really appreciate this .. we already looking into private schools bc this NOLA school system is shits . But I will always remember this ..

  • Lenina Just Lenina

    So, um......................hmm. Errrummmm.....uh he wanted her to call him from the hospital after he disappeared nine months ago and be like, "I had your baby! Come see her, and we can do the DNA test when you get here!!!! ?" IN WHAT imaginary joselyne-steebie-headass world does he think he's owed a call? And if he got one, what was he gone say? "Ok, I'm on my way." Nerp. He was clicking that phone and adding her to mr. Number, unless he already did block her number, which I know his fukkboy ays did.

  • the guest

    Thank you sis.

  • the guest

    Amen sis.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    ALL OF THIS!!!

    ALL OF THIS!!!

  • nucynu25

    FACTS

  • Chardonnai

    Call daddy/law to lock him up or call daddy/law to have him killed...
    -----------------------------------
    When my brother and his then white Gf got into a fight, the neighbors called the police. Police didnt ask no questions, just handcuffed him. She goes off on the police for assuming. She was the actual aggressor. I'm talking hitting the police. They did nothing. My brother spent two weeks in jail. Only to get out and marry the sprite bish. Whatever happens to him is on him.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    This is exactly what my mom did for me and my sis. We went to predominantly white schools and we had white friends, but we were always in extra-curricular activities with black folks: dance, Girl Scouts, youth church choir, etc. We got a good balance.

  • nucynu25

    YEP ..

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Future Ike's being needed because that's control. He doesn't like being loved because that's responsibility.

    JESUS!!!
    YOU JUST GAVE ME SOMETHING NEW TO ADD TO MY repertoire!!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    I still say Meka, brought this on herself. I am sure his azz warned her that if she asked for another dime, he would do what he did. She was getting more than enough money to be comfortable with her child. Once he went and married Eudidn'tfinishyourschooling, that was a clear clue to move on and get a life away from him.

    I would have done a Cheryl Pepsi-Riley- said thanks for my child and kept it moving.

  • nucynu25

    You dropping gems babe.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Sounds like me ex.

  • SummerBaby

    It went well! We all got along. I didn't have to snap on anyone. ?

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    New Post-Black Girl Movie Magic

  • klwbaby

    Unless she was pregnant like an elephant for a year and half, then this fool know when 9 months have gone by....

  • blackbutter63

    He did well to get the message when the rest of the world got it. I would have sent the MF the message via pony express. Ella Grace would have 6 mths. old when he found out.

  • Are we there yet

    How I learned to do it. From my parents. She was done one year they learned my sister (then an only child) was the only black girl in an accelerated 4th grade class. That is when my parents first moved here early -mid 70's. From then on all our outside activites were with other little black girls and families. It is essential.

  • Capricornicy

    Rudy raise your kid & fuc that ninja.

  • Guess Who

    Their entire relationship was/is a hot, ghetto mess.

  • Capricornicy

    My petty ass would have paid somebody to burn that bih down.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Apples and oranges in my opinion. Serial killers are psychological deviants. Their behavior is abnormal. Nurture may contribute, but a lot of that is nature.

    I would compare it to your child sitting at home building bombs and using your Amazon account to order guns and you NOT knowing anything about it. That would be the comparison I made.

    My point is that it is OUR jobs as parents to teach our kids to love themselves, and their people. If your child goes to school with rich yt kids all day and then you drop them off at Nae Nae's house on the weekends and they are NEVER exposed to any positive black people (outside of the home). They are never exposed to black excellence and ingenuity,etc. It is your fault. They are NOT going to get that at school, or from the media and I think that was Malcolm's point. You have to educate your children and if you are not, then you are failing as parent. IMO.

  • Anunnaki

    what happen to you guys in here last night? anyway congrats Keshia on your bundle of joy..

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Dont worry, Ed. She'll notify you when it's time to show up in court for that child support hearing.

  • Victoria Williams

    Agreed! I was so pissed when u saw their arguments, but I couldn't give my energy to that bs.

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly. Do a Ciara

  • Are we there yet

    This was my issue. Like dude. She dont NEED you. She wants you very much. But dont get the two twisted honey! Preach!

  • Lisa daniels

    Like Janet, a full grown woman.???

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I told him, she'll call you a nigga one day, just wait for it. I dont trust her or her family.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    This made me chuckle

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Boy stop Im in my thirties and have no children. Do I want to be a mom yes but Im not out here trapping dudes. I know plenty of women who gave birth in their late 30's and 40's. The only difference is by this time you should know what a real man and a little boy playing a man are. Stop generalizing because your sounding silly and immature...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Not all 36 year olds do. There are three sides to the story his, hers and the truth. We will never know all we can do is go by actions. And he still aint call her yet???

  • Anunnaki

    I would, I'm quick to write a person off, especially if they hurt me, NEXT...

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly. My child's father did not find out that I gave birth to my daughter until she was six weeks old and he call me ona whim so I told him. The silence was hilarious especially after the bastard told me get an abortion when I told him I was pregnant.

  • Lovezoe

    I'm in the same boat sis. I live in D(M)V, we live in a neighborhood where all the kids don't look like them. I'm trying to find more opportunities for them to interact with their people. I just feel my kids have always lived in a surburbs life and some kids don't embrace that. I've sheltered them. My 4yo on the other hand, he is truly a mini Micheal Evans from Good Times lol

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lol. I'm not necessarily telling people to tell their kids NEVER to date a yt woman. But you should make sure that you have done all you can to make sure your children know where they come from and love themselves. If your child says, "they don't like black women" for whatever reason. You as the parent, should step in and have some very serious conversations with your child. Kill that seed before it blooms.

    That being said, I'm all for the black unit. We need strong black loving families.

  • Lisa daniels

    I did.

  • Lisa daniels

    The state will

  • Lovezoe

    That's my thing. To say you don't like that girl face . Then to say you like foreign. This twit said Mexican!! Sir!! Is that your definition of foreign?!

  • nucynu25

    silly and immature...that pt

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    I don't see the need to tell him either
    What's the problem?

  • Are we there yet

    The issue is not always self hate.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Exactly.

  • DivineMsM

    ::boom:: and that's all there is to it.

  • PettyEyezPrime

    They were going in. 1 with a spoon the other with their hand ??I like that she expresses her culture.

  • Lisa daniels

    You flood that bish. That's way better.

  • Lovezoe

    I'm sure he'll do the same. He seems like the type of go for CS

  • Blaque Mahogany

    To be clear, I think that it is ok for people to have a preference. I prefer dark skin men. However, if I said, "all light skin men are ugly". I would be an idiot. How could a complexion simply disqualify someone from being attractive. OR if I said, "I don't date black men because they are felons, lazy, cheating, liars". That is not cool. But if I am genuinely just opened to dating anyone and I get approached by more yt men...that is something totally different.

    I have a dark skin female friend that only dates white men. I am convinced it is because her black azz baby daddy ruined black men for her. THAT an the fact that she was bullied by black girls and boys for being dark skin as a child. I should probably say teased...bullied is another level. I think most kids are teased at some point.

  • Lovezoe

    Eudidnt omg ?????

  • DivineMsM

    lol, copied, pasted and running to my nearest copy shop!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Meh. It's not always self hate but I still don't think either example is reasonable.

    You dislike all black women because you were picked on as a child. What would you call that?

    You don't date black women now because when you were in a different state you didn't want to date your cousin? Umm ok.

    Sounds like nonsense. I stick by my original statement. IF you refuse to date anyone from your own race, there is something wrong with you.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    something...he definitely wouldn't be there! I think he used her and when the check cleared on the gym he went back to his ex. Sandra pour the tea. I heard this through the grapevine *waiting*

  • nucynu25

    Seems like most agree with you . Its a difference between preference & hate.

  • SaltineCrackers

    Keshia's pregnancy felt almost as long as Jessica Simpson's.

  • DivineMsM

    "Eudidn'tfinishyourschooling" I am logging out, lol

  • Blaque Mahogany

    And for clarity--- if you have laid the foundation and your child grows up to be an idiot. That's one thing...but you cant sit idly by why your child grows up thinking their people aren't shit...simply because they haven't been exposed to successful people that look like them. See my point?

  • nucynu25

    !st where did i say these men disliked ALL blk women ?Am not asking you to change your opinion. Its yours to hve . All am saying is that now these fellas are used to dating outside of their race .. they adapted to suite who wanted to deal with them & now they hve a preference . SIMPLE

  • nucynu25

    !st where did i say these men disliked ALL blk women ?Am not asking you to change your opinion. Its yours to hve . All am saying is that now these fellas are used to dating outside of their race .. they adapted to suite who wanted to deal with them & now they hve a preference . SIMPLE

  • nucynu25

    !st where did i say these men disliked ALL blk women ?Am not asking you to change your opinion. Its yours to hve . All am saying is that now these fellas are used to dating outside of their race .. they adapted to suite who wanted to deal with them & now they hve a preference . SIMPLE

  • Are we there yet

    Something wrong with my cousin then. He indeed refuses. Like wont eem entertain it and got mad at his mom (my youngest aunt) for trying to fix him up with a black girl from their church. And he graduated from NC A & T. HBCU. Dated girls from Guilford College tho...not Bennett (all girl HBCU)

  • Are we there yet

    Something wrong with my cousin then. He indeed refuses. Like wont eem entertain it and got mad at his mom (my youngest aunt) for trying to fix him up with a black girl from their church. And he graduated from NC A & T. HBCU. Dated girls from Guilford College tho...not Bennett (all girl HBCU)

  • Are we there yet

    Something wrong with my cousin then. He indeed refuses. Like wont eem entertain it and got mad at his mom (my youngest aunt) for trying to fix him up with a black girl from their church. And he graduated from NC A & T. HBCU. Dated girls from Guilford College tho...not Bennett (all girl HBCU)

  • nucynu25

    Neva be afraid to treat a nicca how he treats you #hoodlaw

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Right lol Debarge still doesn't know if he has a baby by Janet and baby girl has graduated from college lmao
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9cc8603f935989bbcc4ff07e0500a9491ae307af529513c3a276b5fad5a93ac5.png

  • missmiami305

    Lemme go read them comments

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Not sure what you are upset about.

    But you clearly stated before both examples that they do not date black women. Hence my term "dislike"...which is appropriate in the context of dating.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    where chile? Guide me in....

  • missmiami305
  • nucynu25

    lol..Am sure you will teach them tho.. thats one of the main pt imo. Teaching @ home

  • missmiami305

    I did. He clowned her is what I was referring to

  • Are we there yet

    Kinda back to the original topic...how we know this is Malik? RS went to HBCU. He Im SURE has talked to his son about race in light of shootings etc. He is extra woke seems like on his show. How we know this is the case with Malik? That he wasnt exposed to successful blacks? We can agree to disagree. As parents you do what you can and hope some of what you instill takes flight. If not we dont write them off or be mad. We try to re-teach but after awhile (15 or so is about the right age which is how old Malik is) you gotta let them make their own path.

  • Just saying

    ????

  • missmiami305

    ?????

  • Libra80sBaby

    Hey Ed! STFU.

  • Are we there yet

    I agree with this. But I got lost or caught up in the self-loathing part which is same as self-hate to me. Which is diff from a choice/preference. *trails off bc I am confused*

  • Dr. P

    WE went off, but he was quite mild. Hell I watched the video and expected him to treate her like he did Lil Mama

  • nucynu25

    Am done too sis .. lets go upstairs.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    In other news, Chrisette Michelle said that her skirt was a statement on behalf of black people. And that she said "black girl magic" during her performance but no one was listening. She just wants to make sure we have a voice...but she's not a political genius though.

  • Dr. P

    She claims she was paid $750,000. Hope she invests it because it's the last good money she will make for a while

  • missmiami305

    Rickey tried to justify it by blaming the boys school environment. Please!!! It is his job as a black man to instill the love and adoration of black women. Lead by example. He failed that boy. It starts at home. I went to predominantly white/hispanic middleschool and highschool, yet always loved black men. Never downed them because at home my parents did their job teaching me to love my folks.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lead by example. It starts at home.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    My point.

  • Anunnaki

    I was reading, and was like oh wow...Really, who is Disqus, A former rose

  • missmiami305

    ????

  • Lisa daniels

    All this. Janet is original player and Ciara is MVP for Upgrading on these Fckbois

  • missmiami305

    Me neither

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    What?! She didn't!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Did I lie?! CTHU

  • missmiami305

    THIS!!!! ???

  • getyourhandouttamypocket

    Alllll the way.

  • Lisa daniels

    Girl, i sm good. I was prepared to not ever breathe a word to him even. I was like.... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/19dd86cd0ab48296abbfe2bf11773b33655a38132951ce95212522a175b31dad.gif We don't talk and he ain't seen her since she was 6 months old nor called since she was 1. My number at changed but I damn sure ain't hold my breath. My daughter will be 5 in March
    . I am just waiting on child support to notify when they are finally able serve his ass

  • thaye

    Lol.....I gather after several comments that the word of today is fukkboi ???

  • missmiami305

    FACTS ???

  • thaye

    Bwahaaaaa?

  • missmiami305

    Downstairs....same post

  • nucynu25

    Fuk him..keep doing you . Ughh .. he such a punk lil bish.

  • Renee Bee

    A great day indeed! Lol. #NoSnapping

  • darealwifey

    What does he want??? He told the whole world he did NOT want the baby!!!! OKAY! NOW WHAT? WHAT DOES HE WANT? You don't get your cake and to eat it, too. I have no sympathy for him!

  • nick c

    What's your friend name? I love me some soul sisters

  • nick c

    If he didn't want the baby abort and try again with another dude it ain't that serious.

  • nick c

    I'm almost positive he can if he didn't sign the birth certificate or acknowledgment paperwork he can request paternity.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    What an idiot. But she's the attention whore. You embarrassed the hell out of Keshia. We never heard a bad thing about her until she got with his skid marked draws behind. Ed Hartwell's looking like a loser in these streets. What does he do for a living again?

  • free

    OMG lolol

  • http://www.mediakraze.me/ Kristi Luv

    Nigga you been knowing for 9 months...lol.

  • Lisa daniels

    If he did not want the baby then his punk ass should not have been having unprotected sex with me after I insisted on using condoms and birth control but like all aint ?ninjas, he sworn he would take care of the baby if I got pregnant but when I did, ninja want to say get an abortion. So how about you have a nice cool refreshing glass of bleach, don't skimp on the back wash. Drink it all.

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly what I have been doing and one day maybe a good man will find me until then, I am focus on mine and me.

  • ………

    10 months.... Indeed

  • Shira Harding-James

    Yass!!

  • Shira Harding-James

    All the way up!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Yasssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Eudidn'tfinishyourschooling

    iDIED

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Eudidn'tfinishyourschooling

    iDIED

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Nope. Dropped out.
    I think, medical school.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Nope. Dropped out.
    I think, medical school.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Good.
    My mother listened to her silly older, NOT helping sisters & I had a very rough childhood.
    Get the child support.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Good.
    My mother listened to her silly older, NOT helping sisters & I had a very rough childhood.
    Get the child support.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    You do know women die from abortions, right?
    You do know women end up NOT able to ever have a child again, right?

    She had the baby AND CLEARLY STATED THAT SHE DOES NOT SWEAT HIM BUT HE WILL TAKE CARE OF HIS SEED.

  • imright

    i rolled my eyes soooo many times durring her interview ????

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Good Keshia. Ed you are messing with a REAL sister. She knows she has bigger blessings. Keep getting your blessings KESHIAAAAA!!!

  • Lisa daniels

    Trying to the state has been looking to serve this fool for damn near three years. They can't find him

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    None!!! I ain't sor, in Beyonce's voice!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Straight UP!!!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    My fiance & I have a Roomer: he stays off the grid by being self employed.
    Went I worked for Salvation Army in LA, I had a white man come in & tell me he became homeless for 18 years, so as to NOT pay child support. After the child turned 18 he said, he could not understand WHY the mother would NOT take him off support.
    I said because you left her hanging for 18 years.
    He just stared at me.

  • Tonia Hannah

    Boy bye i would have not told him shit.

  • nick c

    Why work so the state could garnish all his money and he practically be slave? Would you work for free? Probably not. Nevertheless running away from the problem never works he have just fought it out in court.

  • nick c

    The only problem is he can now show up and demand all types of stuff, the kids going to wrong school, live in wrong neighborhood, you got a man in the house that's the child afraid of, your job has non kid friendly hours on and on. I don't know that black men do this but white dudes do, it can be really annoying and frustrating.

  • Empress

    If he cared about the well-being of the child he would have created and maintained some form of cordial communication to stay abreast on how the pregnancy was progressing. I'm sure he didn't assume it was a 10 month pregnancy?

  • Empress

    Did you see her comment "He's not going to shake my hand?" She apparently never got to meet him. She is cute, but not cute enough to make being stupid marketable.

  • TooMuchTea

    Ummm, I wouldn't have called him either. See you in court!

  • Just saying

    ???????

  • Browneyes

    her statement skirt made by a white person. ok den

  • KarmaBackAround

    If you cared, you wouldve been there along the way..people kill me doing stuff for "Likes".

  • karen b

    I hope he listens to me. I'm not a advocate of interracial dating in this social/racial climate we are in. I've seen too many swirling couples go straight down the drain wit the brotha on the loosing side......Too many beautiful African Women to choose from. Latin/Hispanic or Island women is also a option. Just not worth the risk/trouble. There is no greater love connection other than Melanin Love.....

  • karen b

    I said the same thing.......You put spew on our childs life and I'm supposed to call you to come hold one of my legs as you accuse me of letting another man hold my legs up.....Naw Papi......Just get ready for Divorce Court.....Deuces......

  • karen b

    IKR, I started checking earlier in the month because on her podcast she said her bundle would be here in mid Jan....I was like, Oh- I forget about this 10 month pregnancy talk nowadays....

  • Lisa daniels

    Well 9times out 10 mines is knee deep in some chicks ? and probably has everything in her name. I am just over having to keep tabs on this ninja. I gave state everything ssn and all they need to make it work.

  • Genia

    I mean....has he been there during the pregnancy?....didn't he claim this child was not his? See you in 12 weeks Mr. Hartwell, at the testing center.

  • Mrs.Meenie

    She probably wanted it that way of him not knowing, I believe from the beginning that she didn't really want to be married to Ed all she wanted was a baby b/c she is getting older and realized she may be the only woman in her inner circle with no kids and/or no Husband. She still playing the Rudy character from the Cosby show, she has a image to maintain and I don't think Ed was a good look for her image. I think she will be satisfied and/or content with just raising her daughter, it will probably be the only child that she ever has b/c she has already gotten what she really wanted from Ed.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Head stays up and keep it pushing

  • Lisa daniels

    Always

  • Ajavee

    Well stated.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Yeah, he is working off the grid or living off someone or has a fake SS#.

  • Ajavee

    Beautifully stated.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Mature people take responsibility & pay their own way.
    You must be bored today: TROLLIN'.
    Fight what in court? Taking care of your child? When you know HOW children are conceived, that is ON YOU!

  • Ajavee

    Indeed it does sound like Future he irks me too.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    It must hurt for Keshia to be doing this alone when she never imagined she would be. I hope she's come to peace with the situation and fully enjoying her baby.

  • Lisa daniels

    I know for a fact that he likes to put stuff in other peoples name especially whatever chick he screwing but he did gave a car and bank account in his name avout 3 years back so I don't know. He a street ?

  • Ajavee

    His other babymamas pine over him and wait on him because they depend on his money for their lifestyle however Ciara had good sense upgraded and moved on with her life.

  • Ajavee

    That^5.

  • the guest

    BEAUTIFUL!

  • the guest

    Exactly. Ed did her so terribly wrong. A good sister. He's a fool.

  • the guest

    He's feeling regretful as he should because she paid him no mind and moved on! I hope she doesn't fall for the sweet talk that's coming. Every grown woman on this blog knows the sweet talk and apologies are coming. But it's shallow and after the fact. I hope she's strong because pregnancy hormones make a woman weak.

  • the guest

    She didn't handle the gig right. She could've really made a statement. Poor management and creative direction.

  • interestingconcept1

    I'm going to say a prayer for Keisha. How awful! Oh congrats.

  • stanley

    They should just go their separate ways..... He didn't want a child, and she don't look like she wants child support. He can continue being gay on the Downlow and be free to find another beard lol

  • Cici

    He doesn't want anything to do with the baby, so who cares how he found out.

  • Ms. Jackson

    I wouldnt have told him either! He running around saying she cheated on him, and thats not his baby. Find out how you find out Fool!

  • D. Curl

    That part.

  • S T

    Nicca nawl! ?

  • S T

    She has a podcast? What's the name of it? Is it worth checking out?

  • Keri

    I wouldn't want him there either, everyone knowing there business was his fault. He didn't want the child so y be there? Or maybe I'm just wrong.

  • Jay

    All pregnancies are 10 months, 40 weeks. I will never understand where they came up with the 9 month thing. Anyway, I get what you're saying.

  • the guest

    What a sick POS to prefer being homeless than to take care of his child. He's the lowest POS I ever heard of. What a damn lowlife. He should never be blessed. Live like a derelict to shortchange a child. What a lowlife.

  • the guest

    Or they underwork like 10 hours a week at minimum wage and find a lowlife children hating employer to pay them off the books or get an equally low life ammoral POS poor excuse for a woman to take care of them and have the nerve to give these lowlife men more babies. Low life deadbeats.

  • the guest

    He knows that baby is his. He asked for DNA to humiliate Rudy. Saying she would disappear for days. Because you can tell he was emotionally abusive making her leave her own home running to her parents for peace. That's why you know she loved him because if she doing she would've put him out.

  • the guest

    Bullying is traumatizing and some people throw in the towel altogether on the certain type of people who bullied. On the flip, lots of white girl's date black after being bullied or abused by white boys.

  • Solo

    I'm right there with you. So now the question is, who are the women you are talking about Nick C because you're generalizing an entire group of women. Are you one of us?

  • Sayitreal

    He had just ended his engagement to some other chick that was running around Atlanta telling everyone who'll listen she was engaged to him. He took an L here

  • Sayitreal

    I swear he acts gay and holds on to the fact he used to be in the NFL that was how long ago move on. He's broke too

  • the guest

    BEAUTIFUL STATEMENT!!!!!!!

  • Allihave2say

    Keisha isn't alone. She has 3 loving brothers, 2 parents and team of folks who love and support her. Her village is huge.

  • karen b

    Yes. It's just like everybody else's podcast. It's called Kandidly Kesha. Just google it and you will be led to her pcast. She basically talked about her pregnancy and her nonprofit Camp Kizzy that's based out of Atl. Im a mom of 2 teens, so if you can deal with listening to a first time mom talking about all the ups and downs of pregnancy. Its cute to be excited for a new mom but kinda stale for me because I've been out of the pregnancy excitements for over 15 years.....But I stomach it and listen anyways because it does take me back to my first time becoming a mom. Enjoy....

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    For Shame.
    Some People REFUSE to mature.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    No, he does take care of his children. He is running from the I /R/S.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Some people are GREAT at living off the grid.
    If only they used their powers for good and not evil.

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    I was a kid that grew up in this situation... Watching my mom become so angry and vile with both my father and the family justice system took a lot away from her joy that she previously had being my mom. We were best friends and spent so much special time together (library, park, museum, craft making) I wasn't even concerned about the social issues I had as an introvert child; making my own friends. Child support court and the bitter drama of just getting my father to "help out" turned my mom angry, defeated, and at times displacing her anger and overwhelmed feelings. Our relationship has been forever strained because my mom just fell into a dismal, black hole of negativity and toxic feelings (which were evident in her communication).
    I know this isn't everyone's story, but I caution ladies to be careful on that whole child support pursuit... The government is not designed to protect our kind. It is a bamboozled system to incriminate Black men and continue the fractured status of the Black family while simultaneously making the Black woman "angry" and "bitter".
    Smart children are ALWAYS effected by this... It doesn't matter how much you hide it. Children feel their mother's energy and spirit.

  • Lisa daniels

    True

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    Yeah... My father owned a private limousine company with contracts with Toshiba, Time Warner and others. It was in his father's name (same name, just Sr. instead of Jr.), my father was classified as an "employee" and based on his reported wages they only granted my mother $25 a month for my sister and I together. The State NEVER fights for us. Unless of course, he catches a ball for a living and therefore the taxable child support amount then is so much that is a reward to the State too! Then they are all up on it!
    They gonna cause you more stress than you started with.

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    Black men do this too.

  • Crazy tee

    Not calling a was thing...if it was me I'd a probably been at his location choking his as$ down....

  • ShWa

    Exactly.

  • ShWa

    That's good, wishing them the best.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    turned my mom angry, defeated, and at times displacing her anger and overwhelmed feelings. Our relationship has been forever strained because my mom just fell into a dismal, black hole of negativity and toxic feelings (which were evident in her communication).

    Jesus, this bought tears to my eyes. Life did this to my mother. We have NO relationship.

  • karen b

    I agree %100....... You get what you ask for....

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    I'm glad it is. But I was referring to her partner

  • Michelle

    Who knew little Rudy Huxtable would grow up to be a gutter rat? Hmmm..... At least she gave the little girl a beautiful name unlike the dumb broad who named her kid Apple.

  • Queen of EVERYTHING

    Ditto. It's okay girl. A lot of people criticize me (except for my husband who has experienced my mother first hand) and think/say that I am a bad daughter because of the complete lack of inclusion of my mother in my life. People like to idealize their relationship with their parents, but those people couldn't even imagine the amount of strength it takes to be a woman out here in this harsh world attempting to teach yourself better because your mother lost herself so long ago. I am so fiercely proud of who I am and how I developed to be, under that type of pressure and situation. We're diamonds... Look how bright & shiny we are coming out of the darkness Ms. Zeta Phi Beta 1920!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    *REAL TEARS*
    Thank you!

  • S T

    Haha!! Thank you!! Kandidly Kesha. O lawd. ????? I'm gon check it out; see what Rudy up there doin! ? (Thank you!)

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    If he swore up and down the child wasn't his and told the world she was cheating on him, why even bother? Besides, he can count.

  • Judy Merritt

    Own up to your responsibilities Ed Hartwell. You sound so petty with your allegations about Keisha. Congratulations on your daughter Ella.

  • the guest

    Oh, ok, I thought he was acting homeless to hide from child support.

  • KIm

    I knew Ed Hartwell was a jerk but I didn't think Rudy would be so unlikable also...

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Nah. This one takes care of his.
    My client. The white man went homeless. Lived on the street homeless for 18 years.

  • Allihave2say

    I know you meant her husband. I'm letting you know she isn't alone and she doesn't need or want him.

  • karen b

    Oops, I meant Kandidly Keshia........Now, I'm kinda looking forward to hear her birth experience since she didn't let Ed be there (not sure if I would either since he publically stated he wanted a paternity test instead of waiting until she gave birth to have it done, SMDH at him for that) and to remember my experience with being a first time mom as she talks about hers.......

  • Alexis Carson

    Im sorry but didnt keisha find out he was filing a divorce from a blog. Did he tell her he was going to file for a divorce??? Or did he just do it. They been arguing and fighting and going back and forth her whole pregnancy. She is having a baby. A WOMAN IN LABOR DON'T NEED NO NEGATIVE, NAGGING, AGRESSIVE ASS MAN IN HER PRESENCE WHILE SHE IS IN LABOR. who wants to deal with a man like that. You treat me like crap but you want to come and watch your child be born and pretend like your a loving caring father and you innocent.. HELL NAW.

    I don't blame Keisha. You wanted a divorce, you didn't want to be with me, so don't be here now and try to reap the benefit.

    I'm glad she did. SOME niggas kill me.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    I'm glad she isn't. And I wish her well. I also hope her marriage can be fixed but even if it isn't she deserves nothing but happiness.

  • Allihave2say

    We don't hope THIS marriage can be fixed. Marriage consists of a husband and wife. Dead head Ed has proven he isn't husband material.

  • Emily post

    Don't expect dysfunctional men to behave any other way but dysfunctional. She deserved better.

  • Araminta Glissade Chaines

    Understood

  • URNuts

    STOP ADVERTISING YOUR IGNORANCE

  • URNuts

    LMAO

  • tinalee

    Simple, Keisha should just have walked away from the marriage after he questioned whether he was the dad or not. She should've just been like fine whatever! And she wouldn't be dealing with him wanting custody!
    His loss! I know a lot of people say it's the children's loss but, from my personal experience I disagree, at least in regards to my situation.
    20 years ago I had a beautiful baby girl! Her father didn't want anything to do with me/her when I was pregnant. I never saw him once after I found out. I never asked for anything aside from sole custody and full guardianship which he did not contest.
    For the first year I gave him so many opportunities to see her and he never cared! Ever!
    So, we just went on with life. I was always very honest with my daughter from the very beginning. I met and married my husband when she was four years old and although she called him daddy, eventually & of course still does to this day, I still was always very honest with her.
    I thought that when she got a little older she would express more interest in her biological father but to this day she doesn't care at all! Her daddy is her daddy! And that's good enough for her, she doesn't need this "sperm donor" in her life!
    Of course if hevwanted to be involved at any point in her younger years I would have allowed it but he never ever did! And it just made our lives so much easier! I know so many people who have dealt with and/or are dealing with custody and it's a nightmare, and it affects the children! My daughter never had that! So, Keisha should have just walked away, heard my story LOL and then she wouldn't be dealing with all this BS now!

  • tinalee

    & curious, according to celebrity net worth Ed Hartwell is worth $200,000 whereas Keisha Knight is apparently worth $12 million!? So why is she not paying him? Why vice versa? Alimony I mean.
    If she has all the money and he's broke, like I said in my other comment she should have just been like yeah the baby isn't yours or just not make a fuss about it because she has the money, & does it need shit from him! And she wouldn't have to be fighting a custody war now!
    I truly am lucky I never had to deal with that. My daughter's father knew, had to get a paternity test so I could get full custody and guardianship ( although that was a waste of time because she's 20 years old and I haven't seen him since before I found out I was pregnant) so there was no reason to protect her from him. Anyway blah blah! Sometimes it's just a lot easier to just say screw it, move on and forget about the loser father!