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A Los Angeles judge denied Robin Thicke's requests to change the terms of his supervised visits with his son, Julian Fuego Thicke, 6.

According to gossip tabloid TMZ,the 39-year-old singer was in court Wednesday seeking changes to the current court-ordered visitation arrangement.

Thicke was annoyed after the monitor canceled a 3-hour visit when Julian refused to see his father.

The monitor also cut short a visit to a children's museum after the boy became upset and demanded to go home to his mother, actress Paula Patton, 41.

Thicke and Patton are embroiled in a nasty child custody battle.

The current court order grants Thick three supervised visits a week with his son on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays for 3 hours each day.

Thicke told the judge that the monitor was unfairly biased against him and interfered in the crucial father-son bonding relationship.

Thicke's lawyer complained that the court-appointed monitor abruptly canceled a visitation with Julian on Friday after the boy objected to seeing his father.

And on Saturday, the monitor cut short a visit to the L.A. children's attraction, Kid's World, after Julian threw a fit and demanded to go home.

But the judge refused to remove or replace the monitor. The judge also refused Thicke's request to strip the monitor of powers to alter or cancel visitations.

Thicke is currently under a restraining order to keep away from Patton and her mother, Joyce Patton. The restraining order was granted last month after Patton called cops when Thicke showed up outside her home and refused to leave in the aftermath of Julian's damaging interview with social workers.

In her application for a restraining order, Patton cited Thicke's drug abuse, marital infidelity, drunken tirades, and mental and physical abuse of Patton and Julian.

Thicke's lawyer argued that Patton was vindictive because the court wouldn't give her sole custody of their son; and she was alienating Julian from his father.

Also problematic is the 6-year-old boy's unwillingness to even see his father. Sources say the boy prefers the company of his mother, grandmother and other females. You can see where this is going.

  • n1kk1a

    He's a ladies man! ? Leave him alone!

  • MzApple

    For the child's sake I hope they work it all out.

  • Lovezoe

    CASAs work for the child. This whole situation is a mess.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Yes, preferably before Julian turns 7.

  • Branch Davidian

    Great job parents! That kid is screwed. They should start putting money away for rehab now..

  • Buttercup

    What a mess. I hope they're able to figure something out soon.

  • KDub

    marital infidelity
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I want this bish to STOP using this in anything having to do with ANYTHING. And I want the judges to stop her from doing it. Robin cheating has nothing to do with him supposedly beating her ass or doing ANYTHING to his son. Build yourself a BRIDGE HOE.

  • SummerBaby

    Child custody cases get so ugly. ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    this shyt is ridiculous ...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Just miserable as hell

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Give her azz a drug test that will shut all this shyt down... Robin a good one...

  • Sucker Free

    This is super messy and making me dislike Paula

  • Phillybruh

    He's cheating and doing wrong but she's the hoe, I guess a good r&B tune will get you all kind of favor, even in cases where your clearly unfit.

  • KDub

    I have never heard where this is allowed in a restraining order or child custody. You scared for your safety bc he cheated? He not a good dad or able to parent bc he stepped out on you? I have BEEN in court and the judge was qucik to say that is NOT allowed to be factored in. Cali must be a whole different animal judicial wise.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    his dyck ain't got shyt to do with parenting abilities sorry but nah ....

  • KDub

    Hoe was not used in that context.

  • iWasteTime

    They need to nip this in the bud.
    That boy already has issues and they will not get any better.
    He already knows how to manipulate everyone involved but his father.
    He is going to be a mess!

  • nick c

    Cali is very different it happen in my case and the judge shut it down on the spot women still scream about it in court.

  • Phillybruh

    His dick has everything to do with it. He get's 9hrs a week supervised visits that boy told that school more than he spanked me.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    chile.... Paula full of shyt done said that... full of it

  • MzApple

    Auntie, can you post the story about the woman who is doing seminars with her rapist?

  • nick c

    The school, social workers are all anti men and more anti family, I sued mine and won I didn't take that shit.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Nah get out ya emotional feelings and let this man be a father find you some more dYck if ya that pressed ... You can not make a man want you period... Besides he apologized ... Did a whole damn album for this chick... Chile ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is why child experts say children who don't bond emotionally with their parent(s) will have emotional difficulties that may affect their sexual development. Clearly this boy didn't bond with his father. Small children love their fathers and it's nearly impossible to turn them against him until they're older.

  • KDub

    ON.THE.SPOT here in NC. I do mean it is NOT allowed and they are quick to tell you that mess.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She sounds like a sicko.

  • Phillybruh

    Everybody can't be anti men, some of these dudes are just wrong. He dedicated a whole album to how bad he treated her.

  • SummerBaby

    Sources say the boy prefers the company of his mother, grandmother and other females. You can see where this is going.
    .............
    I don't know how I missed this. ?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Sources say the boy prefers the company of his mother, grandmother and other females. You can see where this is going.
    --------
    Being afraid of his father is not an option? Who are the other females? Who are these sources? Where is this going?

  • klwbaby

    According to this blog, they better get their act together because at 7, he might turn into a homosexual...?

  • Phillybruh

    Tell the child to get out his feelings. This was all settled a month ago.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    clearly this is a mother that feeds the child BS... I have seen her type many times ....

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Look at the photo. Now tell me what you see.

  • SummerBaby

    Hush ???

  • nick c

    They sure as hell was in my case talking about kids didn't want to see me no more they wrote so many lies to the court I got them pulled from the school and social workers were forced to close case. Lying man haters

  • imright

    Robin needs to do something about those bags!!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Good for you. ?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And that is the jist of this!

  • KDub

    Please tell it from the man perspective.

  • CookieMobster

    He may just be spoiled and Robin makes him mind so he doesn't want any part of that. My nephew tells his mother that my brother is mean but I know for a fact that is because my brother makes his little ass mind or trust to at least but his momma let's him run wild like a heathen.

  • Buttercup

    Or maybe Robin has given Lil Fuego a legitimate reason to be afraid of him. 'Tis all speculation.

  • KDub

    He already knows how to manipulate everyone involved but his father
    TOTAL help me SING

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It's not easy to turn a boy against his father... unless they never bonded from day 1.

  • Phillybruh

    The restraining order she has is separate from this custody case. He showed up at her crib, just what was she supposed to do?

  • imright

    they probably baby him. kids gravitate towards whoever coddles them. doesnt mean Robins abusing him. i dont believe it! receipts!!!

  • KDub

    It is very easy to turn any child under 10 against anyone.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    see happen way to much... hence majority of the mess you see.... still good fathers out here

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Since I don't know who is telling the truth in this situation my only opinion on it is that it's very sad. God bless them and guide them through this.

  • lady_elle

    Why is it so hard to believe that this man has anger issues?
    He lost his wife...
    His career is stalled...
    He lost his dad...
    He may have addictions (drugs, alcohol)...
    Everybody does not know how to parent a child.
    During a divorce kids go thru changes...
    This was a Hollyweird divorce!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Boys gravitate toward their fathers, unless they're punks.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Mariah Carey - 'I Don't' might be hitting the rotation.

  • Sexy CJ

    Off Topic: Janet Go Get Your Mother !!!!!!

    Katherine Jackson, the mother of deceased pop superstar Michael Jackson, has obtained a temporary restraining order against her nephew, who she says has been abusive to her, according to court documents.........@Trent Lamar Jackson..........

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/356681dcab3fb0237c6b3eadf1c65c5d4573cc8a4f411a8251f02e9fbd489bbc.jpg

  • imright

    ??

  • KDub

    A restraining order is fine. Just dont cite BS as the reason. He cheated on me does not a restraining order make. Im sorry. It does not work like that.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Sandy, small children love whoever makes them feel the best, which means mom can be the favorite one minute and dad the favorite the next.

    Young boys do NOT initially cleave to their fathers all of the time, especially of the mother is the primary caregiver.

    As for this case, this is a child who is being corrected by ONLY ONE parent, as the other parent is using the child as a tool against the other. That child needs discipline and his momma needs to be on the same page as the father to be a united front in this. If there is no abuse (and a spanking is NOT abuse) Paula needs to cut her shyt and stop letting the courts be apart on raising her child.

    Robin was good enough to marry and procreate with....and I am pretty sure he was a azz back then!!

  • Lovezoe

    You go too far man way too far

  • stanhope

    You don't KNOW s h y t....sit down mary.

  • KDub

    Dew it

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Robin looks really gay in that pic.

  • stanhope

    Like your daddy did? Well not his fault he thought your mom was a drag queen and she sneaked and switched entries on him and SOOPRISE SOOPRISE here you are. LOL

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Lies!! And the words of a person who has not raised a child. A young child is impressionable and if one parent coddles them and seems to be the "nice one" that is who they gravitate to.

    An infant learns very early that crying brings attention and whatever they want.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Thicke was annoyed after the monitor canceled a 3-hour visit when Julian refused to see his father.
    The monitor also cut short a visit to a children’s museum after the boy became upset and demanded to go home to his mother, actress Paula Patton, 41.
    Thicke and Patton are embroiled in a nasty child custody battle.

    I wonder if "THEY" are poisoning the son OR has Robin been truly a jerk. Kids have fits. That is no reason to cut short a visit. It teaches the child that yelling, cussing & screaming will get him his way.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    chile please let a man be a father ... Da fawk ...?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    *Turns it up* Between that and August Alsina - 'Lonely' I think I have two new tracks.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Don't bother...folks gonna make words mean what they want them to mean.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Man listen blocked

  • Lovezoe

    Still in the Breakdown stages of MC.

  • Realhiphopsearch

    His mannerism is pretty feminine
    Sweater tied around the waist
    Hand stretched to the side

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    I usually agree with you on these types of issues BUT I gave an unsettling feeling about this...........................................................

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Hi Bird! Long time no see. Don't be a stranger. ?

  • nick c

    At 7 years old they keep poisoning that child's head that his dad is dangerous and that he can come home whenever he wants to totally sabotageing any visitation.

  • KDub

    Wait...as in Bone Thugs/Breakdown? WHY is you stuck in 1997? BUT. That is my fave Mariah song. One of. Steebie J helped write it. I approve

  • Phillybruh

    Last time they did this the whole family was facing kidnapping charges and Janet was about to beat the breaks off Paris. Katy is in London and it appears Janet is taking care of it.

  • stanhope

    Produce your degree in psychology....since I have one from a very prestigious university that has produced Nobel laureates, I challenge your supposition as there are a myriad of factors that go into a child's development. Now calm down...you find a homosexual under every rock.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Come on forward there are a few gems. I'm about send the digital copy as a gift to someone.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He is emulating the people in his environment. That would be women.

  • Lovezoe

    You need my email

  • KDub

    Every album after that has at least one gem. Emancipation has many.

  • klwbaby

    Stan, that was not a quote from me, Sandra has said that on this blog on numerous occasions. And if u think for one second I am going to stoop down to your immaturity level, then u are sadly mistaken Stan. Enjoy the rest of your day?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Under the rock, on the rock,sitting next to the rock......Like the Oprah of gay people.

    Yelling at parents: You get a gay son! you get a gay son!! All you black, single mommas get a gay son!!

  • Lovezoe

    I listen to that one too.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Always Be My Baby will forever be my song. I was singing my heart out to that song in 1995 with little idea of what I was talking about.

  • Libra80sBaby

    THANK YA!! Cause she a fiend TOO

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Does your arm hurt?

    Cause you reaching to the high heavens!!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Robin probably tried to man his son up, but Paula resisted his efforts. I see it every day in families where the man is emasculated and the women are dominant.

  • SummerBaby

    Chile I had somebody jump on me one time for quoting the write up. ?

  • Lovezoe

    I can listen to Breakdown all day man. But I like some Emancipation hits too.

  • SaltineCrackers

    I hope this family gets whatever kind of help they need to heal old and fresh wounds so that little Julian can have the stability he needs.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No, Sandra's arms are well stretched after eight years of hating President Obama and now she's stalking his daughters.

  • KDub

    Just wait until folks come in here and like when? What proof. When its not anyone fault this keep being speculated again and again about Paula. WE aint make it up. Da hell?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Memoirs of an Imperfect Angel for me. I was go through shit with a fawk nicca at that time.

  • Keesh5000

    This here is one of those situations where no one is a winner and they may not see it now but later it will become obvious. Why is the Monitor granting this lil boy wishes when he throws a fit. Children throw fits all the time and when mine do, I handle it in an appropriate way. His monitored visitations should be granted, he is his Father and would like to have a relationship with him. I dont see a problem with that. When the lil boy grows up and starts crying about how he didnt have a Father in his life..... he should look at his Mother and ask her why and who was she to decide that he did not need a Father because of what she was going through. Some Men deny and just clearly walk out on their kids life because they can. Paula dont let your son miss out on his relationship with his own Father. Its hard starting a relationship with a parent in your 30s

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    How many homosexuals are under your rock?

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Sandy arm is permanently popped out of its socket with her reaching...I am talking about the commenter.

  • Phillybruh

    It clearly does it shows a history of behavior a pattern its what the court uses to make the decisions they do. The court didn't just willy nilly reduce his visits to 9hrs a week.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    For?

  • SummerBaby

    I actually get what you're saying & I've seen it too occasionally.

  • Keesh5000

    Abusive how?? is he putting hands on her?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She's a self-hating lesbian so this hits close to home for her.
    Ha,ha,ha!!

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    A YOUNG CHILD walking with his mother and popping his fingernail in a nervous twitch.

    But he ain't Slow azzed Barron so he ain't off limits huhn?

  • KDub

    One Sweet day and Fantasy and Melt Away are my gems on that album. Tidbit: You can hear an uncredited Missy Elliot singing on Melt Away

  • Ms.Caramel

    Let the boy see his papi damn. And stop poisoning his mind against his father. Every child needs both parents unless one parent is unfit.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Chile, the entire black community is overrun with homosexuals. That didn't happen overnight.

  • Jamie Jay

    Robin is mad that he can't beat up or punch that kid any more. Most boys prefer spending time with their dads but I know Robin did some dirty stuff to this kid. When you bring a drug dealer to your kids bday party, you ain't ish.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That's a lie! Be careful making unfounded accusations.

  • KDub

    I was about done when that one came along. Only song on that one I like is remake of I Want To Know What Love Is

  • nick c

    They will usually grant it at 13 or above that's when the courts listen to the kids, this child is only 7!! How the hell are they granting what he say at that age?

  • SummerBaby

    ??

  • Benita Renee’

    This entire family needs prayer!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    SR: Robin probably tried to man his son up

    He's a kid let him play, but weirdos like you try to sexualize children too young by forcing them to have girlfriends and boyfriends and they end up experimenting with sex too early and become teen parents.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    So you don't be reaching with your posts? Not nary a post ever been a stretch from the actual truth? Um, okay!!

  • Jamie Jay

    Exactly, Robin said his own dad was out whoring and let him without food for weeks, he took care of his own self, not surprised he doing the same things to his own kid.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Call me out my name one more time.

  • Libra80sBaby

    Chile....she has been BEYOND high at all kinds of red carpets and award shows. He even admitted they have tried every drug TOGETHER

  • Lovezoe

    The digital copy

  • nick c

    If this was true he would have walked away from the kid a long time ago.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Betcha Gon' Know, H.A.T.E.U, It's a Wrap, Up Out My Face, Inseparable. All that. Even Obsessed at times.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She's probably in the early stages of dementia.

  • SummerBaby

    My best friend was raised by her father & she was allowed to state which parent she wanted to live with when she was about age 5 or 6.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Hey sis! Been busy at work but my contract ends Monday so I'll be around until the next one starts. In the mean time I been lurking.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    I see I need the simultaneous upvote/ downvote option for you today ma'am ??

  • Sexy CJ

    According 2 Reports:

    Mrs. Jackson is in a constant state of fear and confusion.

    Mrs. Jackson claims that the younger Jackson has accessed her bank accounts and credit cards without authorization. The court papers also claim that he's made himself a core custodian of Katherine Jackson "to control her every move"............

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The courts let them change their sex at that age.

  • nick c

    Most states have laws that govern child testimony ages? I guess your friend had an exception.

  • Taylordanes

    exactly many kids throw fits when they first start school. Should be not have to get an education? Same as these patents allowing a 5 year old to tell them they identify as a different gender.... be a parent and take the reigns

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So that's what made you mad?

    I grew up with people who projected their sexual insecurities onto me and guess what--they are all gay.

    In the closet but very gay.

    It's funny how you decided to internalize the hate instead of fighting it.

    Tragic.

  • Jamie Jay

    Robin trying to be all alpha druggie male and boss around the court appointed monitor, that ish don't fly with kids. I like this monitor, they don't care about status or celebrity, it's all about the child's well being.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I can send you the youtube link on here for free.

  • Sexy CJ

    Possibly........She is 86-years-old.......

  • KDub

    I Wanna Know What Love Is is also the LAST and I do mean last, televised live performace of hern I was like yeah MIMI. Oprah. It was an outdoor show too. That song was on the Precious soundtrack I think. Memoirs was the first album of hers I didnt go out and buy. That album was beginning of the end for my long time Lamb-dom. 1990-2009. It was great almost 20 years for me and her lmao.

  • KDub

    That song is musical perfection.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Because her and Steebie was fawking. *walks off*

  • Jamie Jay

    And high, I haven't even seen his 10 year old gf around lately but you know she somewhere in the wings being his biggest co dependent fame fiend.

  • nick c

    And bashing men yes

  • KDub

    Correct. I do believe this. Still.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I've never been a stan but I respect her. She's in my collection.

  • Lovezoe

    I can do that for myself

  • Darkandlovely617?

    That's a very interesting pair, I wouldn't have thunk ?

  • Lovezoe

    One Sweet Day gets me weepy

  • KDub

    Well Paula sees an issue with it. Bc...well Robin cheated.
    I think its hogwarsh.

  • Renee26

    Sources say the boy prefers the company of his mother, grandmother and other females. You can see where this is going.

    Yeah I can...he wants to be around people that he isn't fearful of

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Then go on and do it pimp.

  • Lovezoe

    Don't be mean today

  • nucynu25

    Preach

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    My oldest grandson called me mean the other day, because he didn't get his way. Asked for a new mommy because his popped his butt and didn't want to go with this dad one weekend because they weren't going to do something he wanted to do. We sent him anyway. Kids will try to push their agenda......up to parents to stop it

  • Chardonnai

    Good Lordt!

    This is messy!

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    After watching Steebie, I'm sure many women have had a 'how'd I end up in the closet with my panties around my ankles' thought after the fact.

  • KDub

    I lost a very good friend while pregnant with Dub22. that album came out that fall and that song still messes me UP. 22 years later. I havent listened to the WHOLE song in about 20 years.

  • I Run New York

    Yup I remember that from his Howard Stern interview. When he was a kid his father had a rotation of women he was sleeping with coming through the house.

  • Renee26

    Robin needs to realize that now that the courts are involved their best interest is that of the child. If the child doesn't want to go see a parent that was accused of abusing them they don't have to FORCE the child to go. If the child throws a fit and the monitor feels that it's not the best time to continue the visit then it ends. That monitor doesn't want to cause any more emotional strain on the child point blank period. Yes kids throw fits all the time but this is a sensitive matter because the courts have gotten involve due to alleged abuse.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    Fine. Here's the link to youtube.

    https://youtu.be/oiQ68AW0LMY

  • KDub

    Who had custody of him though? Where was Gloria?

  • I Run New York

    Repeatedly slanging other women in your marital home says a lot about your character. Judge should consider character of both parents in deciding who raises the child.

  • Phillybruh

    He isolates her in the home in attempts to keep her away from the family. And has taken money from her accounts.

  • nucynu25

    Sounds like this child is manipulating the situation . This whole situation is pure bs.

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    And the parents are too blame for that!! If you want a sex change...when you are older and mature---have at it.

    We knew my youngest was gay at a young age.....and he had male figures in his life-- but I refused to allow him to be labeled that and snapped on anyone who attempted to. It was my belief that whoever he would be, was up to him to announce and not be influenced by other people.

  • Lovezoe

    New post

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Thank you,cause all these NON-PARENT EXPERTS are tiring......wait...what is the topic?

  • Renee26

    When you deal with abused children it's different. This is a case where that father is accused of abusing the child and acting inappropriately around him. The child needs to be protected until it is shown that the father is capable of having unsupervised visits. Nobody is denying him visitation. He just has to deal with the supervision by a professional monitor appointed by the courts to protect the child. I trust the professionals assessment of the visits discussed in the article because in the end the main goal of the family court system is reunification. He needs to change his ways and parent correctly then he won't have the courts all up in his business.

  • Lovezoe

    I'm staying here for a bit let's just say that

  • Phillybruh

    And since they sold the catalog, he probably figured his days were numbered. The estate probally has no use for him now the children are grown

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Manipulating is being nice!! He playing the crap out of everyone, even the system

  • AllAroundTheWorldSameSong

    Then so am I!!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Exactly!! Paula could speak up for him and change this situation, it’s like she should be more on board and understanding how important it is for a father and a son to have a relationship and Robin could be out fuking anyone he wants and making more babies but instead he is trying to fight for joint custody and time with their child and I cannot believe she is going along with this foolishness that the court has put in place! All I know is they both need to get their shiit together wand work with each other for their child sake!

  • Renee26

    I don't know...I work abused children and they sometimes act out because they don't know how to properly deal with their emotions. We don't know what caused the fit or how bad things got that day. I seriously doubt it was a case of the kid being denied ice cream and falling out kicking and screaming as a result that ultimately ended the visit.

  • Phillybruh

    Once the allegation of abuse is made, there is nothing the other parent can do.

  • Renee26

    The courts are involved because Robin is being investigated for being unfit

  • Phillybruh

    Most states will absolutely interview the child and take that interview into consideration when making the decision.

  • KDub

    Lil Fuego was born to a whole white man and a half white mama (Paula mixed right?) Anyway he is more white privilege than anything else. Lil Fuego is playing the hell outta everyone. the end.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I know but then again, when they were together she had no problem with Robin being around their son nor did she think he would harm their son, now all of a sudden they divorce now he's a bad guy that needs someone to monitor him with his own son, that's just not cool!

  • Kbellaluvvs

    I didn't know that he allegedly beat her and the boy....Chile this will get even uglier cause they are both addicts

  • Keesh5000

    Renee, you dont know if that Man is abusing that child. What is abuse...because trust you and I the definition varies depending on who is accusing.

  • Keesh5000

    Paula need to get it together!!! Move on or something....let that man bond with his son.

  • Keesh5000

    This I DO believe... Can probably say FUKK OFF in front of Mama, Daddy and Grandma and the Monitor and get away with it.

  • KDub

    His daddy sound like he gonna spank his ass. That is what this is all about. Robin spanks that ass and Paula was at one time down with it when they were married, but now is not.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Chile this whole thing sounds like a bunch of bullsh!t. They got it in for you Robin

  • nick c

    If the child wanted to join the military drop out school or be emancipated would you allow it? Your logic has serious flaws that children don't have proper analytical skills to make these decisions and best interest of the child is 50/50 custody there are plenty of reports that prove that.

  • Renee26

    Ok! Everyone is quick to throw this woman and her family under the bus for doing what any woman in that same situation who knows her worth and puts her children BEFORE herself would do. She walked away from the marriage the the child himself told stories of what happened. He didn't have to be spoon fed information; children are like sponges and take everything in. If there was no merit behind the accusations the case would have been closed after the first CPS visit. It's open for a reason, to protect the child!

  • nick c

    They are easily poison the kids mind you notice this NEVER happens with teenagers or older kids because it's much harder to brain wash them and put words in their mouths

  • Phillybruh

    Its all Robin is a victim until he does some dumb shit with the little boy then yall cheerleaders will be like where was she at.

  • Phillybruh

    But you don't know if he isn't. It clearly was more than just a spanking or discipline that has his visitation reduced to 9hrs and professionals can tell when a child is being coached.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Is this true?
    I always side on the side of the child BUT something does not sit well with this. There is more to it.

  • Browneyes

    she's an addict too?

  • Browneyes

    Kid seems like a brat to me.

  • Chardonnai

    LMAO

  • Renee26

    You need to stop worrying about the sexuality of kids. It's very strange and weird and it's picking on an innocent child in the worse way. This is a prepubescent child and you can't dictate what he will chose to be like in the future. He doesn't know anything about sex. Just like you can find hundreds of studies that say these things there are hundreds of other reputable studies that say the opposite. If he didn't bond with his father it's his fathers fault...he was in a 2 parent home remember...the father was there. His father let his selfish ways tear apart his family and made his child fear him.

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    "They" as In Hollywood. Thicke was a hippie white boy like the new singer Allen stone before Hollywood offered him the devils luxury. Now he's divorce...barely popular anymore and is going through a custody battle. I hardly doubt Paula would go to such extremes to entertain you strangers and put her son out there just for hoops and hollers. Nobody is hurting that grown man but himself and his demons.

  • VeyoncèSupreme

    If only your knew him. ??

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Listen I don't know if U are a man or woman or if U have children but where I come from it is important for a MAN to be a part of his children lives 100% and that means disciplining them as well! I don’t believe in beating children, however I do believe in giving spankings from time to time if it is needed, I believe in time out, and raising my voice to get my point across if I have too and if nobody else understands my parenting method then they can raise my kids for me or shut the hell up! Now let me get back to Robin. :-) He is a parent that gets upset at times, gets tired at times, and also feels like snapping at times, the only difference between him and us is he is a celebrity and people like to look at them and judge them as if they are different and they are not! Just because people discipline their child by either spanking them does not define abuse. I’m just saying…

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    LOL. "you see where this is going."

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It's good to see you.

  • Renee26

    This child went to school and told his teachers about the abuse. Paula said yes Robin has punched the boy and they both admitted to open hand spankings. Spankings are ok as long as no marks are left but when is it ok to PUNCH a child? I am more inclined to believe what the child says; he lived and experienced it not us.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Some would say that I am fighting it... in my unique way.

  • Phillybruh

    I have no issues with discipline either, I discipline my own children within reason, and I have absolutely no problem with a fit parent spending time with his/her children. This is all speculation we don't know those people, we don't know how he parents. The image we know is what he wants us to know. I personally get the vibe that he's an entitled asshole that's just the vibe I get from him and its how he acted one night when I saw him live like it was a privilege for the audience. In order for the courts to reduce your visitation to mere hours a week there is more than spanking going on. We don't know what this child has seen while at his fathers. My uncle was a crack head which called into question his parenting capabilities If this man has issues, which all signs point to him having them his parenting capabilities should be questioned. But no responsible parent should turn over there child to someone the child is uncomfortable being around whether its the mother or the father.

  • Renee26

    The child didn't make the decision to end the visit the COURT APPOINTED VISITATION MONITOR did...so your whole response to me is moot...carry on

  • nick c

    Lol you sound like those social workers I sued, when I had my doctor interview my kids they claim something entirely different but then the social workers were saying children sometimes have "imaginations" lol get out of here with that non sense bashing on dad and trying to be smooth with it.

  • nick c

    This is why interview therapist before I let them talk to my kids make sure I weed out the man haters.

  • Renee26

    You're right I don't know this family personally, none of us do. But I do know that it was reported that this here child went to school and told his teachers about him being abused and that's when the courts got involved. I will always take the side of children. I don't care about either parent; the child did the accusing and the child is expressing fear. the monitor is picking up on this fear and acting accordingly. She's doing her job. In my state it is not illegal to spank but if you leave a mark on your child that is considered abuse. If there is a claim of abuse but no supporting evidence the case will get closed.

  • nick c

    The courts are involved because she wants full custody you spin everything lol.

  • nick c

    The courts are involved because she wants full custody you spin everything lol.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    We all see it differently, but I appreciate your opinion.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    We all see it differently, but I appreciate your opinion.

  • Phillybruh

    Well he clearly isn't helping his case is he?

  • Phillybruh

    Well he clearly isn't helping his case is he?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You say "surprise," but true lesbians are rare in the wild. Every lesbian I know, except one, has been with a man. Half of them have children. So this notion that lesbians were born gay is hogwash. They were heterosexual at some point before they chose to be gay.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You say "surprise," but true lesbians are rare in the wild. Every lesbian I know, except one, has been with a man. Half of them have children. So this notion that lesbians were born gay is hogwash. They were heterosexual at some point before they chose to be gay.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You have good insight.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You have good insight.

  • nick c

    Lol no it doesn't take any evidence for the court to do that just baseless allegations.

  • nick c

    Lol no it doesn't take any evidence for the court to do that just baseless allegations.

  • Simple_humbleMe

    Dang Robin just lost his dad not he in court battling for his son. I hope he be ok. This has to be hard for him.

  • Simple_humbleMe

    Dang Robin just lost his dad not he in court battling for his son. I hope he be ok. This has to be hard for him.

  • Phillybruh

    Your making shit up now. I'm assuming based on your comments your kids mother still has the upper hand on you...lol

  • Phillybruh

    Your making shit up now. I'm assuming based on your comments your kids mother still has the upper hand on you...lol

  • nick c

    I won, you don't fight you don't win, but I feel very bad for dad's in states where they face the same odds and lose set me back 30k as well for people that don't have those funds they just walk away and the kid doesn't have a dad. But glad you prove your bias by claiming someone has the "upper hand" in a case.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So you're going to be miserable and alone for the rest of your life because you don't want to offend others?
    Sad.

  • S. Williams

    the boy is doing what his mother wants. what child that young doesn't want to see either parent?

  • Phillybruh

    You don't sound like you won, you sound very bitter. And incapable of seeing both sides, not every women is your child's mother and not every parent is a good one.

  • S. Williams

    yep! boy don't like discipline and Paula telling her son it's not ok and he probably gives her hell. Robin seem like even his daddy was getting in that ass when need be. when did it become this way??? nothing wrong with a little physical discipline

  • S. Williams

    the boy got a spanking and cried and told mom. he fearful of discipline if anything

  • nick c

    Well blowing 30k on lawyers maybe not but I would assume anyone would be upset in a custody fight, there is nothing I'm hearing here that I havnt bear a millions time before and sometimes single moms get the business but it's the same tactics every time it's wrong.

  • Dahl

    It sounds like Petty Paula is upset that after all the begging Robin did to get her back, he finally gave up and publicly moved on. They're both addicts, she's been on red carpets high as a kite. They've argued in public. ALLEGEDLY, they were swingers, and she was just as into the other women as he was. But now that he's not writing albums about her anymore, he's the only cheating, substance using abuser....?

  • Phillybruh

    I would normally agree with you dad's get a raw deal. But this is a dad of means whose custody agreement was settled months ago. I have absolutely no control over what my child goes and tells the school good thing we are good parents or there would be questions. Like stated this man has a history drug abuse, you all keep equating abuse to physical when we don't know what this child has seen. The child could have very gone to school and told them that his mother told him to say what he is saying and the courts have a way of telling these things. All I'm saying is there is weight added to what the child is saying because it is more than just physical discipline being alleged by the child, has to be to get your over night visits from a joint custody agreement from the very same judge reduced to nine hours a week supervised. I'm all for good dads being involved but there is a line.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Yep! For years

  • kekeb

    Idk nothing about Robin Thicke, but that his father died not too long ago. He needs time to process and heal. Idk if he's mentally prepared to be fighting in court

  • StoneColdLady

    Or that he can have his way with

  • Jen_no_juice

    Paula gonna be crying for Robins help when Lil Fuego gets older and curses her out and beats on her

  • nick c

    I hope that never happens and your kids never make any huge mistakes under your care cause the state will come after you.

  • Phillybruh

    I would expect them to come after any parent. Its better to make sure nothing is going on.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Lil' Fuego... ???? Is that his future rap name?

  • StoneColdLady

    Has he been charged with child abuse based on the allegations ?

  • Renee26

    The allegations are the reason why he is having supervised visits. In my area the family courts would rather the parent redeem themselves than throw them in jail. He just needs to get on the straight an narrow and he can have unsupervised visits. The court will end up giving him parental rights free of monitoring once they close the case.

  • MissyJ

    Nawl that's his government

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I know his middle name is Fuego. That's not what I'm referring to.

  • MissyJ

    Cept with Madonna and her teenage son.... Celebrities can be bad parents. Just cause he made a fire album a few years ago doesn't mean his known drug addiction isn't hurting his son

  • missmiami305

    Poor Robin. I hope he doesn't lose hope and keeps up the fight. Paula seems to be vindictive. It was all good while they indulged together. The kid doesn't know any better and is caught in the middle.

  • MissyJ

    Then what?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    What I already posted to Jen and Juice.

  • MzApple
  • MissyJ

    I'm confused ELI5 I'm trying to get the joke

  • Michelle

    I see she is manipulating the child and teaching him to be entitled. He's already learning that if he shows his a@@ and is disrespectful, he will get exactly what he wants. I guarantee she will regret her stupidity when this kid turns 15 and tells her to f@@k off and TRUST, he's gonna do it.

  • Michelle

    Exactly!

  • I Run New York

    If its about the cheating why wait until now?

  • darealwifey

    Robin is an addict. He needs help. Has nothing to do with his Dad, the divorce...the guy has issues like a lot of other celebs. If the child is saying he is being hurt by his father, the adults have a responsibility to protect the child. I'm tired of people acting like a celeb can't be a fvcked up parent.

  • Canary Red™

    This! And I didn't know we had so many child experts in the garden either, wow, so impressed!

  • I Run New York

    If the dyck causes him to make poor choices like bringing his barely legal thot around the kid.

  • I Run New York

    Sorry is a word. I hope it takes more than that to make you go back to someone who has showed you who they really are.

  • I Run New York

    That's not all that was in the restraining order. Did you read it?

  • Kirenee

    ? Bam!

  • I Run New York

    Cocaine is a hell of a drug

  • missmiami305

    Are those veins in Paula's arm real

  • jazmine

    He told a teacher robin punched him. Why y'all down playing this situation?

  • jazmine

    Clearly most of the people here haven't.

  • Lisa jones

    Paula been with Robin for how long? She showed up on the Red Carpet as high as him?

  • the guest

    I am all about the voice of the child. Listening to and protecting the child. That children have a right to choices and their own mind.

    With that said, I feel in this instance because there is a visitation monitor and the child would be in no danger the visit with dad should have ensued.

    The goal of visitation is nurturing the bond between father and son. When the child threw a fit and didn't want to visit with dad, I feel it was the monitor's job to comfort and calm the child, encourage the visit, and assure the child of her presence.

    Robin has learned what many men learn too late. They can't be cursing at, beating on, cheating on, and hurting their wife and mother of their child. You can't love a child without loving their mother who loves and takes care of them.

  • Yetunde

    I couldn't agree with you more.

  • Jamie Jay

    We'll Robin was the first male basher when he stole from Marvin Gaye

  • Jamie Jay

    I don't believe half the stuff I read on this site but Robin is no saint. He stole from Marvin Gaye, lied on Pharrell had his hand up a fans skirt with his wife standing next to him. Why people act like he's a saint and hasn't abused his son is beyond me. Paula never said a bad word about him but she ain't playing when it comes to her child. You guys can defend him all you want but his past record & the school is not calling child services without probable cause.

  • Jamie Jay

    No, she just puts them on when she leaves the house. Light skin people veins show like that and their green too

  • Jamie Jay

    Say that!!!! An addict with a voice that people only care about a record deal.

  • Jamie Jay

    As parents we care more for children who've been abused far more than blue eyed soul singer on drugs.

  • Jamie Jay

    I see a blog can tell you anything and you believe it. So the school is who your really mad at huh, messed up you going to see him live in concert huh

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Robin seems to be a coke head with anger issues

  • Naila Thrower

    Yes she did Lisa!! However i was thinkn that was a while ago and Paula seems to have sobered up so im not mad at that (anymore). I hope Robin can get himself together but Rick told us, "coke is a powerful drug!"

  • Naila Thrower

    Girl why when i first saw the pick had to do a double take too like dang she strong ?. Maybe she lift weights?#!?

  • SJ

    And after all you said, that STILL doesn't make it right for this child to be abused.

  • SJ

    Not at all!

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Both of them have issues with drugs. I hope at least one of them gets clean for their son's sake. I also hope the Patton women aren't spending their time bashing his father. If they are it will come back to bite them later. But I also hope he isn't causing himself these issues... Sad situation. So many variables here

  • candy

    I had a situation like that and my child ended up being hurt by his dad, the judge would not listen to any evidence, but in the end he lost all his custody rights, and we are pressing criminal charges, the child should be heard and it at least does need to be investigated.

  • candy

    Your ignorance is sad. Especially if the child is being abused, you should never say that this is not true especially if you are not there to witness a thing, you do not know who people truly are when the cameras and people are not looking, behind closed doors, works both ways. Just saying don't dismiss something that could possibly be a real situation, and if not then at least the situation was investigated.

  • candy

    If he is violent toward Paula and her son then I am not mad at her at all, you have to protect your children, and at least it is being investigated, and not swept under the rug because he is a "celebrity".

  • Dahl

    Never said it did anywhere in my comment. Her bringing up substance abuse on his part without acknowledging her own has an air of hypocrisy, is all.

  • bella28498 .

    cute lil white boy

  • ?Queen_ CleoJones ?

    They are both nothing more than some crakheads. Who cares!