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A Virginia man was convicted of viciously beating his pregnant girlfriend as she hobbled on crutches in a convenience store.

Jamar Bernard Woody beat 26-year-old Shatory Irving so badly that her skull was exposed through an inch long wound in her forehead.

The horrific incident was captured on video surveillance inside a Roanoke, Va. convenience store in June, 2016.

Irving was three-months-pregnant and on crutches for a broken ankle when Woody launched into a savage attack on her.

The store video shows Woody shoving Irving in her back before punching her to the floor. He is seen cruelly stomping, kicking and punching the defenseless woman as she lay on the floor.

The couple’s baby was born premature but healthy last year.
 
SEE ALSO: Woman Beaten While Laying in Bed Next to Her Baby
 
In January, a jury found Woody guilty of malicious wounding and sentenced him to eight years in prison. Several character witnesses testified on his behalf, including Irving who confessed to violating a restraining order Woody took out on her in 2014 after she busted out his windows during an argument.

The prosecutor played the shocking video in court. One juror turned away while another juror was moved to tears.

“You have to understand, it is a volatile, toxic relationship,” defense attorney Melvin Hill told the Roanoke Times.

The judge said he would include psychiatric treatment in Woody’s sentence, after Mr. Hill said Woody had a history of psychiatric problems.

CAUTION: This video contains scenes of graphic violence that may be disturbing to some viewers.




  • guest

    SMDH I’m glad he got that time

  • RaginB

    OL ugly ass,stupid ass nigga…

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Keep poppin babies for these crazy @$$ ninjas. How tf does any black woman still get pregnant by their boyfriend when the odds are stacked high af against us. Hope she get better

  • Julia Lyons

    Not my monkey, not my circus!

    Anyway, Rumi and Sir Carter are officially trademarked:

    “The trademarks are for fragrances, cosmetics, key chains, baby teething rings, strollers, mugs, water bottles, hair ribbons, playing cards, tote bags, sports balls, rattles and novelty items.”

    Smh…

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    She probably had that broken leg because of him too.

  • Coy little wink

    4 day weekend turn-up starts NOW ?

    Enjoy your holiday weekend Roses ?

  • MookieFly

    See…dick is not that important. You better love yourself above the shenanigans.

  • casiepriest33

    I was just about to say that! I bet u he’s the reason she’s on crutches! If he beat her @$$ like that publicly imagine the home grown @ss beatings! Thank God this thug is on jail. He’ll be back ladies remember that gruesome face!

  • Daffany Rose-Gilbert

    This is why I don’t feel sorry for stupid women like this.she probably visiting him and waiting till he get out. I wish a MF would hit me

  • Ebony Starr

    Did I read correctly that she testified as a character witness for him?!!!@

  • casiepriest33

    Yes u did sweetie. I’m puzzled as well.

  • Bonsai

    Yeah, I can’t believe after all that she still defended him in court.

  • GuestSTAR

    And he literally beat her brains out, SMH. Bet he was the reason that ankle was broken.

  • Passion

    I’m sure he did cause her broken ankle. Smh

  • MookieFly

    Im confused as to what compelled her to do the most?? Like I’m truly baffled.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Right after that beating her Pu**y was wet for him cuz ” he a real man”

  • Tammie Reed

    I really hope and pray they do the same to him while he’s in the clinker! I can not believe people are this insane and heartless! I would have wore him out with that crutch!

  • Sid

    Lol why just why lol

  • Tammie Reed

    I’ve been around a lot of women that got beaten up when I was growing up! NONE of the women in my family hardly ever left their mates including my mom! I guess it was just their era or something. I always wondered WHY but its something we will NEVER understand. My sis and I turned out to be the opposite of our mom and will throw hands in a heartbeat LOL!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    This should be disturbing to ALL viewers.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I just reviewed a female patient’s medical records with a similar tale. Two months pregnant and badly beaten by her live-in convict. Aren’t women supposed to be smarter than men?

  • Tammie Reed

    You and me both, will throw hands if you just look at me wrong!

  • klwbaby

    I bet any money when confronted by another man, he would say ‘naw man, we good, we don’t have to fight. I apologize if I disrespected u”….ol’ pu**y azz clown.

  • Mbailey

    THAT’S what they say, but they have yet to prove it…..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    how the fawk is Rumi trademarked … That is a famous (spiritual) poet …. Carters can miss me in fact…. bout to pull my Rumi cards out… Chile these two a trip… Like they invented something chile … The more you know.. You will see they full of shyt … Will do anything t..

  • Soda
  • Mbailey

    WHATEVER you got; I ain’t interested in it. Women talk shyt about men all day long, but always up under the worst ones.

  • Kayke

    She testified on his behalf?? Are you eFing kidding me?!? SMH.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    90% of the cases on court TV are women suing men who took “advantage” of them.

  • Ryan

    In that case they’ll be waiting till there’s nothing left but skeletons and dust.

  • Ms. Jackson

    O my God. He beat her to sleep, literally! Yikes! I hope she continues her treatment and I am praying for any woman that comes his way.. Cause Ooooooh she gone get it. If he beat her like a dog on the street, he’ll do it again.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    … and this how future sociopaths and degenerates are made.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    No. That’s how it typically happens. Chicks like this are one of the many reasons domestic violence calls are especially dangerous for responding officers.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Clown find a corner

  • Anunnaki

    Stockholm syndrome, she need to seek help her dam self. mental illiness is running rapid.

  • Anunnaki

    SMDH

  • Soda
  • Anunnaki

    lmaooo

  • Li

    She’ll be back with him when he’s released. She’ll probably visit him in prison. Poor woman.

  • Kayke

    I’m at a loss for words.

  • Alisa

    Then take it out on her.

  • Tlowe89

    Imagine how he beats her behind closed doors if he beat her like that in public. Just disgusting.

  • Anunnaki

    Dam shame, this saddness me to see women like this, SMDH. I cant

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Blaming the abuser is easy. What about the people who enjoy being abused? Where is their accountability?

  • Tlowe89

    He had a very strong psychological grip on her. I pray she gets all the psychological help she desrves after being in a physical and mental abusive, and controlling relationship.

  • klwbaby

    Upvote x10!!!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    He was probably the reason she was on crutches to begin with.

  • IamAllnatural

    Both of them need mental help!

  • Anunnaki

    mentally challenge has no respect of person, it’s just you got to be careful and not be pu$$y friendly with every man

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I’d bet the farm that her mental issues predate their relationship. Her tolerance level for extreme abuse is an indication that this has been going on for a very long time.

  • Desiree Edwards

    There’s a special place in hell for this character

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    In addition, you can’t help someone who doesn’t want your assistance. Try to save a person who is hellbent on drowning and they will take you with them. In her mind, the brutal the beating, the more he loves her. He’s going to literally live her to death.

  • Renee26

    They also reported that the girl testified that she didn’t want him to go to jail behind this attack. Good thing the state picked it up because she’s another dumb girl who condones this type of bs

  • Renee26

    I doubt she enjoys it… she just doesn’t know anything different

  • Sancha Saintil

    Only God knows smh

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    People get off on a lot of things… including being on the receiving end of violence and pain.

  • Ajavee

    I did not even watch the video I know this is bad.

  • Junkanoo

    She needs professional help also best to be alone than with someone in a toxic relationship. That poor baby, hope this is a wake up call for her if not she will attract the same type of personality

  • Shira Harding-James

    I bet He’s the reason she’s even on crutches….SMH

  • Ajavee

    She doesn’t love and value herself which is ashamed some people normalized this type of dysfunction.

  • Ajavee

    Yep Stockholm Syndrome ?

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  • Ajavee

    Your last sentence loving her to death ??

  • Harley

    I wish these videos of people fighting and beating one another would stop being circulated. It is desensitizing people and it’s TEW much

  • Ajavee

    I agree Harley. I didn’t even watch it’s a bit much.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Some women want diamonds. Some women want headstones. ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    That’s why I didn’t watch it

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    tuh

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I didn’t watch it. I’m not entertained by violence.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I’m not so sure about that.

  • 100milesperhour

    Battered woman’s syndrome. She doesn’t realize the judge saved her life putting him away. The court order should ban her from visiting him in prison.

  • Yall StayWoke

    #BlackKangzGonWild

  • Wayup!

    Right looking like a uglier version of DMX if that’s even possible…?

  • ??LordHell2TheNaw??

    Worse than you can imagine?I wish I didn’t

  • Rachel

    FEAR

  • pynkrose407

    I admit I watched but thru squinted eyes, it is so sad and heartbreaking that people are acting this way..

  • pynkrose407

    I admit I watched but thru squinted eyes, it is so sad and heartbreaking that people are acting this way..and its sad that a baby was born prematurely because of this mess, glad that the baby is healthy but sad cause the mom is still going to be with him when he gets out ..smh

  • pynkrose407

    I agree with you on that cause she is more than likely going to be there for him, make sure he has money and all and when he gets out this will continue again and may end up worse than this

  • NAYB

    I couldn’t watch. .. But I’m glad him and his temper are no where near that baby!

  • hotntot95

    Ima pass on watching but this is tragic. He deserves a cage.

  • soujourn_erets

    Man, this video made my blood boil. Under no circumstances should a man ever strike a woman. What could’ve have gotten him so tight? Makes no sense

  • SummerBaby

    The mother of 5?! ?

  • bemetoo

    That bitch ass nigga would DEAD DEAD DEAD FAWKING 12FT UNDER

  • Ms.Vanilla

    I wondered about that myself. Of course I copied and pasted.

  • Ridajean

    Wow! This was hard to watch. They definitely had a volatile relationship on BOTH sides. I just hope she stay away from him.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Not if you were her. The moment you regained consciousness, you’d be making him breakfast and rubbing his crusty, stinky feet.

  • I’keya Ross

    I stopped reading at the part where it said she was his character witness when they sentenced him to a dime

  • http://disqus.com/ yoliewinecorporation

    Smdh!! Lowdown Mf!! They should have gave this s@b life behind clink!! clink!! IMO. And this chick tells the jury it wasn’t her serious smh!! Some women will tolerate a$$ kicking from a lowdown ninja just to say they have a sorry useless mf

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I am so glad I am a strong black woman. I love myself way to much to even take half of what some women take. Being beaten would have been it and she backed him. Nope I would be the black woman that everyone would be angry with or the one that so calls not down with black men. I would of made sure this bum was put away. He is garbage and he is ugly as hell.

  • stav

    Not enough time!

  • DAYWALKER (THE DAYDREAM!!!!)

    Haaaaaaa

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    I didn’t watch the video, but some the sounds of the head line. He was a punk for doing that

  • hottlanta

    She was probably scared to leave him because some women will say she can’t keep a man as if she is doing something wrong or she didn’t work hard enough to maintain a relationship. I have always said a lot of time when a woman leaves a relationship she is saving her life. I know I have left plenty of relationships to save my life and self-respect and dare anyone to say anything to me about leaving. We need to stop making women who are brave enough to leave a relationship feel bad. There are a lot of women like her right now getting their azz whupped now they need to leave but isn’t strong enough to deal with the criticism from other women.

  • hottlanta

    I can’t either. I will start crying.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    She got on the witness stand and denied it was her and tried to make excuses for there volitile abusive relationship but then the judge showed her the video and she couldn’t deny it!

  • hottlanta

    I always say “SAY IT LOUD I AM SINGLE AND PROUD.” That is why I never told a mofo whatever you do to me I will never leave and I have no boundaries.. I tell women if you love a man unconditional you are setting yourself up to be abused. Some of them sit up and say that shyt like it is cute. I give them the side eye and keep it moving.

  • hottlanta

    I bet she go down there and put money on his books. That is why families don’t get involved because they are worn out emotionally, mentally and financially dealing with your relationship. They have to back up and handle their own relationship.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Awe I thought I would never say this BUT kudos to TMZ for the KeKe Wyatt story. God bless her family.

  • Faithz

    It sure would have been great, if she could have wrapped that crutch
    up beside his head.

  • Daffany Rose-Gilbert

    I know right

  • Daffany Rose-Gilbert

    Stupid bish

  • GuestSTAR

    LMAO, for real. Had she flipped it, he probably would’ve been the one running. Surprise that azz like Tina did Ike in that limo scene, epic fight and funny as hell cause she shocked the sht outta him.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    She’ll be “riding or dying” for him while he’s locked up and running back to him once he gets out..

  • Liz

    Watching that was the wrong thing for me to do. Praying this woman gets some help and the man also.

  • Libra80sBaby

    I’m not even finna disturb my spirit nor my psyche by watching the video. The description is bad enough. P.A.N. need to be locked in a room with a man and see if he so fuckin bad then. Smh. She needs EXTENSIVE therapy as well

  • Libra80sBaby

    That’s why I ain’t gonna watch it. Shit will have me pissed and disturbed for days. Nope ?

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I agree accept that there are men of all races who beat their women. Some races, especially over seas rape found girls.. even their daughters in the name of a God. Matter of fact, white men do it the most.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Eight years, this crazy scum needs life! Put him under the jail, let the maggots eat him!

  • Libra80sBaby

    I agree. The love, loyalty, trust, and respect I choose to give to a man is certainly WITH conditions because I will NOT tolerate abuse. Period.

  • pure_rachet

    I won’t replay. Too close to home. I don’t need to see it,

  • Neva RuthLess

    Black men are killing black women at astronomical rates, and the black community stays silent. Someone above posted white men abuse women the most. That’s a lie! 60% of black girls are intimately assaulted by their 18th birthday! Black women are only 6% of the population but are more than 35% of domestic violence and intimate partner homicide victims. Black men kill black women every 19 hours. Where is the outrage? But black women risk their lives birthing and marching for black men who destroy us and our communities. Don’t make no sense.

  • Jussjess25

    Omg I wont dare watch that video ? So sad I cant even imgine.

  • Jussjess25

    Wow im sorry .. this type of stuff is so disturbing.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly.. its crazy

  • Jussjess25

    Sadly thats the psychological effects of domestic violence.

  • Jussjess25

    Really? You heard that?? What city did this happen in.. smh Im not surprised.

  • Jussjess25

    Your right

  • Pamela

    I hear you Libra. I skipped right over it and came to the comments. Don’t need to get my blood pressure high. Pos got what he deserved.

  • Pamela

    She shouldn’t have gotten pregnant by him. Still she doesn’t deserve to be stomped on by him or anybody.

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Remember she had a stillborn daughter years ago. That would make her a mom of five, I’m assuming.

  • Trey

    ride or die

  • V Dubb

    That’s attempted murder.

  • Kayke

    Nothing different? If she watches any TV she’d see different. I doubt that every female she knows is getting beat. Like Chicagowise said, it’s an enjoyment. Not the beatings themselves, but the attention that goes with it…from him, from her people, the hospitals. I heard of people that love being “victims”.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    this shyt made me laugh … real talk though ?

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Yes trust I know. I guess I am speaking for me and the race I date. My friend married white and is on the edge of divorce. She never wanted to listen to me on anything but it’s hard for her to say I was right. He cheated with his own race and he is verbally abusive.

  • NeverSurprised

    I wish there were some way to get through to black women, but there isn’t. Most have so little self esteem that they have no idea what it feels like to be in a relationship with a responsible, loving man. One who:
    * holds her hand in public,
    * takes her out on dates where HE pays,
    * opens the door for her,
    * tells her she looks beautiful when he steps out with her,
    * has conversations in a normal tone of voice, rather than yelling and screaming,
    * respects her enough to refrain from using vulgar language in her presence,
    * respects her enough to cover his ass when he is out with her,
    * is responsible enough to plan for his future,
    * respects the role of father enough that he has not brought children into the world and failed to support them,
    * has a formal education that extends beyond high school,
    * can intelligently articulate a five year life plan,
    * cares enough about his future to have never been arrested, and finally,
    *BRINGS SOMETHING TO THE TABLE BESIDES A PENIS.

    Most black women have no clue of their own worth, so they settle for subhuman animals who take out their own failures and frustrations on you. If you take the time to improve your own life ( stop having babies before you can afford them, learn to speak and write in English, go back to school and get a degree, set lufe gials)communicate in Englusgrammatic, you will find a man worthy of you. Gemay not be black, and tgat juat may be a very goid thing.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    That’s pretty bad but I have seen a lot worse. Some men are extremely violent. Making excuses for somebody beating the brakes off you in a ghetto corner store is not love; it makes you insane. And the act itself isn’t somebody just blowing off steam–its aggravated assault.

    The fact that she stuck up for him let’s me know she’s a lost cause. Evidently, even watching the video herself didn’t move her to cut him loose. What else can be done for her?

    He’ll find it not so easy to beat up on those big, burly, weight lifting fellas in the state pen.

    I hope he gets dicked down every day he’s in there, voluntarily or not.

  • Justlooknout

    Not sure what your life experiences are. The majority of this behavior I’ve witnessed on television or internet. Additionally, abuse and no morals transcends all races and backgrounds.

  • Justlooknout

    Not sure what your life experiences are. The majority of this behavior I’ve witnessed on television or internet. Additionally, abuse and no morals transcends all races and backgrounds.

  • Rayne

    That was so hard to watch.

  • more

    honey this leaves out most men

  • more

    Yep just like Tiny

  • Tee Bullock

    Not just black women, all races of women

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I would have given him more than 8 years, that’s for sure.

  • hottlanta

    Respects her enough to cover his ass when he is out with her. Wow I bet he be wearing that cellphone out instead of showing her some attention while he is trying to cover his azz in public. You said nothing about him paying some bills. Men like him are not the one paying the bills in the household, the woman is the one doing everything. Because the way he beat her he didn’t say damn I gotta go to work tomorrow and a felony on my record will make me lose my job. A man who is employable is not gonna do anything to be unemployable. You life advice at the end is not inclusive to black women as if we are stupid. Dating a man of another race doesn’t mean we are going to be treated better. I have seen enough of ID Channel to know that is a lie. Everytime I see a white man with a large plastic bin or suitcase I get suspicious. Then when a see a large chain saw and I know he doesn’t have any bushes or trees around his house. I move to another line.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    She needs therapy and his weak azz would never try that with a man.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    P.S., He must have the Dick of Life or a mean head game because the nygga is definitely ugly. He’s not even fine or sexy, so far as I can tell. Not that such things excuse him for damn near beheading your ass in the Arab/Indian corner store.

    This dude looks like somebody beat him in the face with a frying pan as an infant.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I know damn well we are not expected to sit in this asshole post all weekend.

  • Pebbles

    He or his family may have threatened her either way I hope the judge enforced that she has no contact with him via letters, phone calls visits. And put her in domestic violence counseling

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Thank you. I’m SOOOO tired of the box stereotypes on these comments like only black folks do dirt or do most dirt. All lies. I live around rich white housewives. Some of them who have had plastic surgery or wear male up to either hide the scars or keep up with the receptionist their husbands are screwing. Self esteem or lack of does not have a racial preference. My neighbor hits on me all the time with his sorry ass. His poor wife. I think he has a fetish for women of color.

  • Traci404

    This is not the firstt time he has done this to her

  • SummerBaby

    I get where you’re going, but Sandra is implying he’s a father of five not that Bey is a mother of five.

  • Coy little wink

    Dick of life ?

  • Oh Tommie

    She’ll be putting money on his books and waiting the 8 years for him to get out. Hopefully he doesn’t kill her.

  • kitttykatlady

    And bald receding hairline

  • MRiGOThim

    you already know…especially if that dick was good, lol. When these thots gone learn?!!!!

  • Peter Piper ATL

    He looks like one of those ignorant ugly nikkas that likes to fart a lot and tell you about it. Uggghhh. I’m over it.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Jay-Z has two sons outside of his marriage.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It’s a holiday weekend, hun. Surely you don’t expect me to werk? ?

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Hey Sandra

  • Queen B

    Good pipe/head will have these hoez deaf dumb blind delusional and delirious to their own ass whoopings smh

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Well u can’t save her if she don’t wanna be saved

  • VV

    8 years? wow…

  • shun king

    bet he was raised by his mom only

  • shun king

    undercover gays beat women like that

  • shun king

    white america loves this the “wild savage black man” police might shoot somebody because of this….

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Sandra, do a write up on the white man who shot a black girl in the head over a traffic incident.

  • OP2

    Being raised by his mom doesn’t mean that is why he has a history of psychiatric problems. Environmental or stressful issues can bring on early onset of the illness, but those markers were already there.

    Unfortunately, she made a poor choice and dragged that mess into her life. Nothing good can come from getting involved with some crazy, abusive man. He can’t love himself let alone another person like her and their unborn child who might also have inherited the crazy gene.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    No…. I don’t. But damn, you left us in here?

  • GuestSTAR

    Yeah I know, but had it been a video of him beating a Becky down like that, his azz woulda got LIFE.

  • Layah Jhene

    Savage Negroes like this need to put to death. Jail ain’t gonna cut it. What if she lost her life and the baby’s life??? Stop playing with these folks and take em out.

  • nick c

    I know for battery?

  • nick c

    Lol people aint going back to work till Wed like damn!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    He’ll probably get out after 4 years, for “good behavior”.

  • Oh Tommie

    Where did this happen?

  • Oh Tommie

    Yep….Attempted murder charge also

  • Ajavee

    Excellent post.

  • MsPam

    West Chester, Pa. 18 yr old Bianca Roberson

  • Ajavee

    Not only Black women deal with this.

  • Ajavee

    Im glad either of us didn’t watch this video.

  • MsPam

    Can you please give one or two for the ones that don’t do holidays? Maybe in between bites of BBQ????

  • Ajavee

    Your entire post ?

  • brooklyn23

    What you think that’s too much or not enough? I think it’s not enough. Savages that like to beat on women can get life. I speak from personal experience with my ex. I should’ve listened when I was told he put his paws on me once he’ll do it again. Nigga just violated the restraining order yesterday. These niggas don’t change

  • 1shy112

    Flabbergasted ? ain’t no d*ck that good. Idc if he had 20 restraining orders against her. He’s out of pocket. Point blank period. So while he’s in their karma will reach him brutally.

  • 1shy112

    Is she alive?

  • Janice Elizabeth

    Eight years!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Thank you God and teenage Jesus that I’m able to pay these three loans off this month and not be in debt other than my car loan. Amen amen and amen. Can’t tell me shitt about my faith….

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Restraining order didn’t keep him from giving her a baby. Fukker

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Yes ma’am…. Texas style. Needle in the arm and get off my tax dollars.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Now you know………. that’s not what makes this blog run round. Lol

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Tha fukk

  • suganspice68

    Yes! I hope that she will cover that story

  • suganspice68

    That coward is hiding out from the cops;they are looking for his ugly ass

  • http://ebonynsweet.com EbonyNSweet.com

    Only 8 yrs? That’s not enough

  • the guest

    Race and politics aside, this man is the personification of evil.

    He beat a woman, a woman handicapped by injury and crutches, a woman carrying his unborn child, at the checkout counter of a store. Imagine what he does behind closed doors.

    This woman has ways to go to recover her mind.

  • don juan

    I was thinking the same thing

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    LMAO! What are you insinuating?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    In Philly.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    If you ask the so-called victim, he shouldn’t spend a second behind bars.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Getting arrested and getting convicted of a crime are two different things. In NYC people get ARRESTED for non sense all the time. Hell they lock you up here just to release you and give you a ticket. Protesters get arrested all the time. As long as you are not convicted of any crimes and sent to prison getting arrested isn’t a big deal.

  • My Opinion
  • My Opinion
  • Yardgirl

    Can we get our “Independence” from this post??????

  • MsPam

    He was arrested this morning! He turned himself in!

  • MsPam

    He turned himself in and was arrested!

  • SickWidIt2dabone

    Won’t he do it?!!

  • stanhope

    He should be hanged

  • Yetunde

    This is not a man.

  • Luci Lu

    The best thing is, she can escape while he’s incarcerated, and “get strapped’, for when he is released.

  • Justlooknout

    He prolly has fetish for ads. Men and women

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Really?! Good! One less savage on the streets.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Do you think this is the first time he split her empty melon-head open? She enjoys those beatings. She probably has orgasms after every blow.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Killing him won’t solve her problems. She’ll just replace him with a similar model.

  • VV

    So true…I’m not understanding how they only gave him 8yrs!

  • Ryan

    The white dude who murdered the black girl outside of Philly in that road rage incident turned himself in. If it had been a black man who shot and killed some white girl there would’ve been a manhunt – no “allowing” him to turn himself in whenever he felt like it. Hope he gets life.

  • Ryan

    You are one sick and stupid MF. Looks like if anybody’s getting off on this, it’s you.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I’m sick?! I’m not the one who testified on his behalf, after getting the snot stomped out of me. Place your misguided anger where it belongs.

  • Ryan

    In that case, you’re both sick. Fuckin weirdo.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Oh, come on! Stop acting like the cops were giving each other facials and manicures while the suspect was relaxing at Starbucks. He’s in custody and that’s all that matters.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Obviously, you don’t understand toxic relationships. They are feeding each other’s twisted desires. She is getting precisely what she wants from him.

  • Ryan

    We definitely know what they WEREN’T doing – arresting him and getting his crazy reckless azz off of the streets. So nice of him to decide to turn himself in though. They’ll have fun with him in prison.

  • Raymond Isiah

    He has a mental disorder and should be locked away in an insane asylum for the rest of his life. This is what it looks like to erase gender out of our society. We can expect more of this type of behavior, if we continue to say that women are men and men are women.

  • Ryan

    You’re still a weirdo. Talking about orgasms. SMH.

  • JanusMaximus

    That is absolutely horrific. He will probably kill her one day. Poor child being born into that situation

  • Luci Lu

    No, I don’t believe that this is the first time he hit her. The fact that you had the unmitigated gall, to think that the victim has “orgasms after every blow”, says a whole lot about who you really are, and I think it’s sick, scary, and pretty sad at the same time.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    You must live next door to Mr. Rogers. My comments have nothing to do with me. I’m not the one limping back to a man who beat me in to a coma. Like it or not, she’s getting off on this abuse.

  • chris

    I wish. Animals like that neef too be put down.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Have you ever heard of sadomasochism and erotic asphyxiation? Do you know what snuff videos are?

  • Malcom Flex

    What the hell have I been saying here about mass fatherlessness and BM’s failure to police each other? Don’t tell me this LUNATIC male didn’t have buddies who knew and watched. It’s only going to get worse, yall. We have a SICK and TOXIC culture thats what happens when there are no functional fathers and grandfathers in the home to hip ’em.

    WHERE THE HELL ARE THE 50 YEAR OLD BM???!!!

  • the guest

    A masochist seeks and does find pleasure in being dominated and suffering. A sadist seeks and finds pleasure in dominating and causing suffering to others.

    Domestic violence is absolutely wrong yet that fact does not negate that there are people like these two who are deriving pleasure from giving and receiving pain.

    That is why she defends and and stays.

    She needs help but she has a long way to go to recover her masochistic mind because she is addicted to pain.

  • the guest

    Beautiful college bound young black woman from beautiful loving married intelligent black parents, no room for scapegoating her and her family. And that whole town, white and black, are 100% behind getting justice for Miss Bianca Roberson.

    That Sherriff spit fire calling for justice for this beautiful girl’s memory. Her killer is one white man who is going to get Life with no parole for taking this innocent black life.

  • Anunnaki

    Somewhere trying to be 25 again. Listening to lil wayne. Lollipop..

  • Anunnaki

    No they were at dunkin doughnuts

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I see the convo is still ongoing, so I thought I’d add two more cents to the discussion.

    I think there is a psychological and emotional aspect to situations like this. I’ve noticed that many people who are in abusive relationships tend to have been in one before–or even move on to yet another abusive one after the previous one ends. Part of the problem? People who are in these violent situations don’t realize they may need professional help, so they never get it.

    And so the cycle continues.

    I say all this because there ain’t no doubt — some people don’t feel “loved” or feel as if the relationship is real unless somebody is getting clunked upside the head. This isn’t normal behavior. And we all know somebody like that. But whatever the root causes, I still hold the victim responsible too because you HAVE to know when to get the hell outta there. Value your life.

    I think we all have been involved with somebody who has shown violent tendencies–whether we admit it or not. I dated somebody with severe anger management issues that i tried to overlook and make excuses for. But unfortunately for him, he confused me with the last MFer he put his hands on because when he thought it was a good idea to hit me with a toaster in front of friends, I dispatched with a good old fashioned whooping on that nigga’s ass.

    I actually beat him out of his clothes. He ended up running away from me butt ass naked while my friends were running after me trying to prevent me from killing him.

    He ended up hiding under a pickup truck.

    I don’t play that, and neither should you.

    Its not your job to find help for somebody who is hurting you. Your obligation is to yourself. Get out of that violent trap before you end up severely hurt or dead, but do recognize when you have a fool on your hands.

  • Clopretty

    This is insane!! So sad he beat her like she was a man! And it’s so obvious he’s done this before, he publicly humiliated her and she goes to testify on behalf of him! Wtf ?????

  • Renee Bee

    Hey. Keep you head up, stay prayed up and be careful out there.

  • Ryan

    I have. And this post alone is how I know you’re a deeply disturbed individual. Many women in abusive relationships are there because they don’t feel like they can get out with their lives. To sexualize that is… you are one gross MF.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Wow you and Sandra have this ish down to a science….NOT!!

  • the guest

    I see what your saying, but Chicagowise is actually correct. The victim here is addicted to and derives pleasure from pain. She is as mentally ill as her abuser. Without a doubt their intimate life is violent and she procreated with him. The victim does confuse pain with pleasure, She does see violence as synonymous with masculinity, She does find abuse romantic, arousing, acceptable and forgivable. The victim is as unwell and deviant as her abuser. Given her testimony defending him, she is mentally and sexually addicted to violence. She needs prayers and an intervention but would refuse both,

  • free

    8 years from now, she gon be standing outside the prison like whitney houston and bobby brown. and that poor baby is gonna turn into a victim or an abuser!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    SMH saying he is an animal!!! Put him in a cage and throw away the key!

  • Oh Tommie

    Whether you believe in nature or nurture….that baby is doomed either way. Like you said, mostly likely comes down to two options: victim or abuser.

  • Aletha Davis

    IF NOT HIM THEN ANOTHER ONE. I FELT SORRY FOR HER UNTIL THEY SAID SHE DIDN’T TESTIFY

  • rachel

    ANIMAL. SICK.

  • Mojo2

    He’s an evil POS

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Do you believe they are in a sexless relationship? She’s pregnant. Im not the one who sexualized their toxic union.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    I bet they both have mommy and daddy issues

  • stanhope

    Damn bitch, you seem like an authority….and you speak with such vigor. LOL. You are a very sick douchebag.

  • stanhope

    The assembled audience would like you to post your credentials making your comments authoritative…….waiting……I thought so….just another dumb ass who can only find an audience on a website because everybody in her life knows she’s a fool. ?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I’m not familiar with your font so I hope that I am not being duped. I actually agree with this. But I also think that a bigger issue is that a lot of black men do not respect or value black women. I don’t know if it is resentment or what…but there is definitely a problem there.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    I like to joke around on these blogs, but I hope the inmates give him a warm welcome. Jamar Bernard Woody is a bish, and most likely is the reason for her crutches and foot.

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    where’s sandra?? she ok?

  • Music lover

    Is sandra okay is she on vacation ?
    We havent been blessed with a new post since June 30.
    Hope all is well

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She has mental health issue. Have empathy. She may not be “crazy” but she is sick.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sandra takes her Holidays …?

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    but she’s british.. what british person celebrates 7/4? their country lost

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    She told me to kick rocks while she enjoys her holiday chile…… I was just hoping to be in a fashion post or feel good story til her return.

  • Rayne

    I think she turned up a lil too hard for essence festival. Lol

  • hottlanta

    Ouch!!!!! Now it has been reversed. They are winning and now we are losing. She gonna make you pay for that when she gets back.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I’ve been in healthcare for decades. That means I’ve had a front row seat to sadistic, criminal behavior for a very long time. I also understand what propels some people to stay in toxic relationships.

  • hottlanta

    The Mendendez brother’s father was in the bed asleep and they shot him dead in the next room. Those Columbine Boys dad was in the next room while they were in the garage designing weapons and shopping for black trench coats. Blaming dads is so lame and played out. My kids can rob a bank and blame their dad all day but it is something they choose to do. Your dumb azz in jail while dad is free and you think he is gonna put money on your books because he is supposed to feel guilty about him and your mom breaking up. Guess what dad just left the Essence Music Festival balling while your dumb behind is in jail. Don’t blame dad blame yourself.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Sandra, take a break from marinating that meat and “give us free” from this post. ?

  • Browneyes

    wait….my skull is exposed, you stomp the dog ish out me and I’m a what??? Character witness. People still smoking crack I see

  • stav

    Please…I’m glad someone said it!

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Enjoy your holiday everyone. I hope Sandra is okay.

  • stav

    Holiday for the British is their terminology for vacation!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    The significance of the so-called victim’s behavior seems to be lost on many of Sandra’s readers.

  • free

    where the posts at??????

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    It is not lost. It is call empathy and understanding that some people are so broken and have mental health issues. No one is saying her allowing herself to be viciously abused is appropriate. We are saying,
    “Whatever happened to her, that makes her think that way, God help her.”

  • xenaD

    Omg I wish!!! I’m not marinating nor cooking out! If Sandra is Im sooo jealous!!! The weather is going to be so perfect here in NY for it! I went on strike but I absolutely hate it because I love hosting and mostly marinating and cooking good food!! Sheesh

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    She does …. She different … ?

  • Ryan

    And I see what you’re trying to say, but saying “she probably orgasms every time he hits her” is crass and fetishizes violence. A pervert is a pervert. Also it goes without saying that she needs help.

  • Rahab

    Under review by the moderator. ?

  • Waya Hedia

    Not if THIS forum is any indication.

  • TeeTee

    so she taking a 5 day weekend huh?

  • Malcom Flex

    YOU’RE PITIFUL LAME! Shit like you wrote is why I just block DUMMIES. YOU and other ridiculous BP love to DENY the FACTS about US and you fools always bring white people into our biz…that MOST…MOST…MOST black males aren’t even sleeping at home where their kids are. MOST black males aren’t even married to the mother of their kids MOST black males don’t even help raise their damn sons, period.

    72% OF OUR BLACK KIDS ARE BORN BASTARD
    72% don’t even have dads living in the damn home!

  • hottlanta

    Wow, such I need my daddy in my life rage. So the President has 5 kids by 3 baby mamas. His friends like Newt,Giuliani, Flynn and Munechin have 3 wives between them and the new wife smell keeps growing. Damn what black father called you to say he was coming to pick you up for the weekend and left you on the steps and you are still looking for him to pick you up. I see why dad never picked you up, you are crazy.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I live in Chicago. I’m sure lots of people will be shot and possibly killed tomorrow. I’m staying home. ?

  • NeverSurprised

    Please, this is a long weekend, so they started early — 5 dead and 53 injured already in Chicago, and it’s not even officially the 4th yet. Apparently black men love nothing more than celebrating holidays by using their own people for target practice.

    http://www.nbcchicago.com/news/local/chicago-fourth-of-july-weekend-shootings-independence-day-gun-violence-432025753.html

  • NeverSurprised

    Holiday death watch in effect – 5 dead and 53 shot in Chicago so far, and it’s not even the 4th yet. Black lives matter to everyone EXCEPT black males.

    http://www.nbcchicago.com/news/local/chicago-fourth-of-july-weekend-shootings-independence-day-gun-violence-432025753.html

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    He probably has 5011 excuses too. He was touched as a child or his dad wasn’t shitt or momma didn’t hug him or some other bla he needs mental help for. Attention abusers and victims alike…. if you can make choices to be in a relationship, have kids, pay bills, eat food and take a shitt then YOU CAN MAKE THE CHOICE TO GO GET YOUR ADS MENTAL HELP. YOU NOT TOO CRAZY TO USE IT AS AN EXCUSE TO BE IN YOUR SITUATION SO USE IT AS A REASON TO GET HELP!!!!!

    of course, this doesn’t apply to EVERY situation but I believe this for these two air heads

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    It’s the water they drinking

  • hottlanta

    https://www.yahoo.com/news/m/05b83ad8-5e0e-3974-b28d-46e4cc4b02b0/ss_guns-and-kkk-members-at.html

    A few hundred armed militia group members, Sons of Confederate Veterans, Ku Klux Klaners, supporters of President Donald Trump, and other self-described patriots descended upon the Gettysburg battlefield to defend the site’s Confederate symbols from phantom activists with the violent far-left group Antifa. But this country has a travel ban in effect for Muslims overseas while they let white terrorists groups thrive over here in the U.S. White lives do matter.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Clown move around

  • Malcom Flex

    72% out of wedlock rate
    72% of black fathers not in the home
    Rising crime committed by fatherless black boys and males.

    Keep hollaring, hit dog. Our chickens have come home to roost. Mic is dropped.

  • Malcom Flex

    The reason they do not respect or value black women is because their daddies CHOOSE not to be in the home to model appropriate behavior. No man showing them how to be a man, how to court women, how to build a legacy, how to provide. Men have failed, not women.
    MEN LEAD CULTURES MEN ARE THE RULERS.

    Rap and video games have fathered these insane and violent black boys and males. We all know it. They’re acting out violent. Men police other men, too. Women can’t teach a boy how to be a man, nope. Our culture proves it.

  • Malcom Flex

    Hello, hit dog hollaring. How many of your fatherless male relatives are in jail for doing dumb shit, LOL. I’ve got several behind bars with their daddies not giving a damn.

  • Malcom Flex

    Or homeless since they didn’t give a damn about their kids and now they’re older no job… my city is swamped with homeless old ass black males loitering shucking and jiving for spare change. I talk to some of them, yo, take the bus back home? Nope. Nobody will take them in. Hmmm wonder why not? Karma is real.

  • Malcom Flex

    Cue the sound of lames simps and mammies talking about “white folks do it too”

  • Rahab

    Take your racist death poll elsewhere. When a race of people had to receive rights constitutionally, oppressors need a reminder that we too matter.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Ain’t that some shat

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    He was touched as a child or his dad wasn’t shitt or momma didn’t hug him or some other bla he needs mental help for.


    Sadly these r reasons why.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Auntie you gotta stop with this disappearing act!! Where you at!!

  • Noirluv45

    Well, don’t they? If you are ignoring the fact that they DO, it means you are a White supremacist because you excuse their bad behavior…oh, but wait! You are a part of the, “I don’t care what they (White folks) do…I’m concerned only about what Blacks do. Well that’s what White White supremacists do. They excuse their own behavior (they never, ever condemn themselves as a whole,) oh, but Lord knows they do with us. Sadly, many of US do the same thing. That makes them White supremacists, but I doubt you’d get that picture. Good night.

  • hottlanta

    Just read that they found Thomas Jefferson black mistress bedroom at Monticello and she had 6 kids by him. Just in time for the 4th of July celebrations tomorrow. Whoopee!!!!We need to go back and calculation how much ole Prez Thomas owe in back child support since they say black men don’t take care of their kids.

  • Fly By Day and Night

    How is this post racist?

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Happy 4th roses thorns carnations and weeds!!! Hope to see you bright and early tomorrow Ms. Sandra!

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    nah.. Auntie loves trump too much.. she is pro amerikka

  • Anunnaki

    Sad

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    Black lives DO Matter to black males.. however Willie Lynch is a generational curse that keeps on cursing.. we are taught not value our own lives because of Willie Lynch teachings.. Willie Lynch doctrine leaches into other cultures as well ..it teaches hate upon melaninated people. as if our value is less..

  • Mbailey

    STOP those excuses, honey. These gangbangers and drug dealers don’t care about life and death. Only turf, profits, and relatiation.

  • Mbailey

    MEANWHILE, White people have developed the means to destroy all life as we know it. Hitler is the white man’s blueprint for dealing with people’s and countries who dare to be different from them. The Earth and all animal life is phugged up due to the White man’s chemicals, plastics, and stupidity.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    True. Chicago tap water is loaded with lead which results in an increase in violent tendencies and shot attention spans in those who drink or bathe in it.

    It also decreases IQ.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    She need to announce and let us know when she gone be in vacation and taking breaks

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I just posted about an article I read about how male fish are exhibiting male and female traits because of contaminated water not to mention I had already read an article about fringe doing the same thing and actually laying eggs and stuff it’s crazy if it does that to the animals what do you think it’s doing to us

  • the guest

    While I see the examples you are giving of racial double standards, the fact is the President has one ex-wife and their three children born and raised in wedlock, one baby mama whom he did marry, and one current wife and their child born and raised in wedlock.

    The President acknowledged, takes cares of, and is involved in the lives of all of his children. All of his children were visible during his campaign and their mothers invited to the Inauguration.

    The President is not a good example for off-setting the validity of black men having and abandoning out of wedlock children at rate higher than any other racial and ethnic group.

    The President’s children are not fatherless.

    Black men having and abandoning out of wedlock children at an alarming rate is not a fact to ignore, deny, nor defend. It is a fact to recognize so that change in mentality, attitude, and behavior can evolve and bring an end to the fatherless black child epidemic.

  • Rahab

    Because it is making the death of blacks a trival game. As if you didn’t know.

  • Rahab

    Yes, I had to tell some of us saying Happy Independence Day that we were still slaves that day dummy.

  • Fly By Day and Night

    Idk tho. It’s just stating facts and the past part is his/her opinions. We’re all entitled to our own opinion. It’s fact that gang members wait until July 4th to execute their shootings so that their shots blend in with the fireworks.

    We gotta lot of work to do as a nation of people

  • hottlanta

    Holiday rape/death watch in effect. Boy white folks on a roll all across the U.S. but folks wanna stick to Chicago and black folks to make a point. Can’t enjoy my bbq when folks gonna always come with the nonsense.

    http://www.kmbc.com/article/2-persons-of-interest-in-custody-in-deputys-abduction/5273500

    http://www.kmbc.com/article/north-kansas-city-man-charged-with-statutory-sodomy-of-a-1-year-old/10254956

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4662574/Drunk-father-battered-six-month-old-daughter-death.html

  • Dowoop

    He needs to be mentally evaluated herself.

  • Malcom Flex

    STOP LYING. I fear black males more than the police!!

  • Malcom Flex

    STOP

  • Malcom Flex

    He was touched as a child cause his dad wasn’t shit.

  • BeUtFullSoul

    How’s HE making it in prison?…not that I really CARE!!!!!!!!!
    He BEAT this WOMAN down, STOMPED her profusely and unmercifully!

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    good…. you should… melaninated KINGS are NOT their grandfathers.. they are mad.. and rightfully so.. they are tired of being killed and disregarded like yesterday’s trash.. they are angry from years of abuse and injustice.. they are sick and tired of being sick and tired of disrespect aimed towards their mothers, fathers,sisters, brothers,children… you SHOULD fear the Melaninated MAN.. you never know when he may snap crackle and pop on that @ss…..

  • bemetoo

    lets say for a minute it was me ??? he still would be DEAD DEAD DEAD FAWkING 12FT UNDER because if i didnt do it my father, or brothers or mother or sister shit friends or anybody associated with me would kill this bitch ass fawk boy…

  • Rarechild93

    Why do I get

  • Rarechild93

    Exactly!!! He beat you like he would beat a man. Then you in court testifying on his behalf??? REALLY??? Women like her sicken me and then some. He could have just as well taken her life and I BELIEVE she would have come back from the grave to defend this excuse of a black man…Talking about…” He didn’t mean to kill me”…????

  • DynoMight

    Karma. He has likely done this before. He is worse than the boy “men” with a history of wearing white sheets, burning crosses, lynching and burning descendants of AFRICA (not descendants of slaves) in this stolen country (yes I said stolen, check your history). Domestic abuse starts in the mind. “Free your mind and the rest will follow…” -En Vouge