R&B singer Mary J Blige lost the latest round in her acrimonious divorce battle with estranged husband Kendu Isaacs. A Judge ordered the “Not Gon’ Lie” singer to pay Isaacs $30,000 a month in temporary spousal support.

The amount is a fraction of the $129,319 a month that Isaacs originally asked the judge to force Blige to pay. In court documents Blige accused her former manager of using her to support his parents, girlfriend, and his children from a previous relationship.

“I’m not responsible for supporting his parents and his children from another relationship, which he lists as ongoing monthly expenses,” Blige stated in her divorce petition.

But the judge bought Isaacs’ argument that he was entitled to the lavish lifestyle he had become accustomed to as the husband of an R&B star.

The judge also ordered Blige to pay spousal support retroactively, dating back to when she first filed for a divorce, and his legal fees for a total of $235,000.

In addition to the spousal support, Blige and Isaacs also owe the IRS millions in back taxes.

This might be a good time for Blige to file for bankruptcy to reorganize her finances.

Photo by Jamie McCarthy/Getty Images for EJAF



  • BacktolurkingIgo

    After he stole her money. This is why those wives end up on snapped, well some of them. He shouldn’t get shiznit

  • Diva4lyfe

    Dang that is messed up and then he the reason for them having to pay the IRS shady business. Well at least it is not the amount he wanted but that part of “Life Accustom to Living” always get you in the end.

  • Pebbles

    Role reversal … he must’ve had a good lawyer…

    Who was her lawyer? I thought she had a prenup?

  • Coy little wink

    She looks like it’s over in that pic

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Women get big spousal support checks all the time from their rich ex-husbands, so I cant be mad at him. I say get your money if it’s there for you to get.
    But he’d better save and invest that money wisely. Those monthly checks are only going to be coming in for a limited time.

  • Yardgirl

    Welp at least it’s not the huge amount he asked for. He is a POS!!

  • Coy little wink

    Its temporary until the divorce trial

  • lilred1

    Ooooh ? I. Can’t. Stand. Him.
    Love you Mary ?

  • chris

    360k a year I could handle that. Hope he get the house too flip that then he good to go

  • Branch Davidian

    What’s good for the goose is good for the gander. There’s your gender equality right there!!!

  • Elevated Soul

    Mary J. Blige did not handle her financial business correctly.This Kendu clown was all about her money and he and his girlfriend still are.

    Moral of the story….If you got helps paper then he must sign a paper…..There are too many males out here in these streets, who have no honor.

  • Rachel

    I would just offer him one big payout. That bum ain’t about to re-marry (which would end the support payments). She could possibly be taking care of him til one of them.

  • Miami8981

    That ninja need to get a job. And why would Mary trust that ninja and not get a prenup.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Omg! The judge must’ve had an ex take him to the cleaners

  • Please Stop The Madness

    KenDont need his ass straight whooped for this shit

  • Please Stop The Madness

    But the judge bought Isaacs’ argument that he was entitled to the lavish lifestyle he had become accustomed to as the wife of an R&B star.

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    CACKLES ignantly. Sandra called him ah WIFE.

  • kekeb

    This story makes me sad

  • Keisha Hannah

    Damn!!!

  • Desiree Edwards

    No pre-nup–the fact that he was UNFAITHFUL–he shouldn’t get a dime. Time for him to get a REAL job!

  • BlahBlahBlah

    He only doin what these WAGS and Housewifes of _ _ __ (insert city) been doin for years! Get money and live that lifestyle bruh, i ain’t mad.. meanwhile let me log into DCSS and make my payment….

  • testtee

    He is a bitchBoy..

  • http://Bossip.com/ ohplease

    That’s the problem he cannot get a legitimate job because of she was inviting people to her pity party and running her mouth. Remember at her concerts bunches of people were chanting “f****k Kendu”. He just like Harry Belafonte are going to get those monthly checks or a pay out. I would not employ Kendu or Harry just based off the drama that would follow them.

  • Desiree Edwards

    that is so true!

  • BlahBlahBlah

    They on there cuz they crazy, and plotting redrummers

  • Luv Pitties

    I agree with someone else pay him the lump sum of what is currently owed , unless they are able to appeal it. Mary should’ve been hiding money and assets then go to court and cry broke just like a lot of wealthy men do in these situations.

  • Yoni7

    I would file for bankruptcy and go into hiding……with my cash stash.

  • therealashland

    damn. Is Mary into women? im good with 5k a month and I’ll keep quiet too

  • BlahBlahBlah

    Ok, so he gonna pull in about 300K.

  • Ni Ni

    Dayum…that’s messed up. These celebs thinking about marriage might need to just have a spiritual marriage and leave these legal ones alone or do what Kandi from RHOA did to Todd. Po Mary ?.

  • Liah

    At least she can move on….Praying for you Mary….Dont worry …Theres a thing called Karma…

  • Liah

    Indeed!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That was a typo, but it fits him perfectly. ?

  • lilred1

    She’s too trusting and he preyed on her vulnerabilities.. he’s a POdogS

  • Luv Pitties

    What did Kandi do

  • Jen_no_juice

    I get that women get big checks. But in most of those cases the guy cheats and/or they have kids together. In THIS case he stole her money, cheated on her, and HE has the kids. Why should she have to pay financially for being lied to, cheated on, stolen from, and to top it off got his grown kids weighing in on social media?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She was already taking care of his twice-as her manager and as her husband.

    Kendu needs to have an ‘accident’.

  • Luv Pitties

    I’m thinking that’s why the judge gave him a reduced amount.

  • testtee

    Never marry a bitchBoy.. Get a man who has his life already established & you don’t have to employ him so he doesnt feel & look like a loooser.. Ijs.. She shrunk & is now paying for it..

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Too bad she didn’t file here in Georgia. Kendu would’ve gotten $2,000 a month.

  • Luv Pitties

    UPS doesn’t care about his drama, all they would care about is his ability to load trucks and throw packages lol

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Please click the link to find out why she didn’t have a prenup.

    http://sandrarose.com/2012/03/love-vs-dopamine-lust-for-love/

  • BlueHousen

    The 30K is only temporary support, not per year. The final amount and the time she will pay that money is still to be determined. He will get support for a specific length of time then done, not lifetime. My advice: one, only long term relationships and get to know the dude, two, if you have significant money, get a strong prenup with his attorney present, three, better yet, don’t marry, four, if you want a child, go to a sperm bank. Is that cold? Well, when he takes you to the cleaner as this guy is trying to do, too late to protest. It’s a playa’s world, so play to win.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    This is what happens when you marry an under employed man and call him your manager or producer (hey Toni Braxton).

    It’s a fraction of what he wanted, but after a few years, it’ll be over. But talk about a good as rain fall. $30,000 a month for temporary support. SMH

  • 100milesperhour

    Oh.

  • Renee26

    This is SOOOOOOO Upsetting!!

  • BlueHousen

    There was a pre-nup. He wants it invalidated because “he didn’t understand it.” ?

  • Shira Harding-James

    Wow!!!….

  • bemetoo

    Pay that man his??

  • Ni Ni

    She would not marry todd until he signed a prenup that had drawn up which entitled him to very little. I cant remember all the details, but he was very sour because she wouldn’t marry him without it. She was very careful with protecting her assets.

  • Renee26

    It happens in other cases as well. I have a friend who has to pay her ex support and he was an attorney when they married. He stopped practicing before they divorced and was letting her take care of everything….she had to pay his low down behind because he stopped working (could go back to working at any time) and she became the breadwinner. Fuc Marriage!! I’m not giving away my coins to no man

  • Renee26

    Like 50 did…I swear!

  • Ni Ni

    Lmao

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Lol I should of used the ID channel

  • Renee26

    Same

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    I’d be red hot

  • BlueHousen

    Are you sure on that? I read elsewhere she did have him sign one a few days before they got married and he wants it invalidated because he “didn’t” understand it. If I’m wrong, my bad.

  • Renee26

    Sure does! Keep it like that, no correction needed

  • Ryan

    Ouch.

  • Renee26

    I’m still yelling it!

  • Ryan

    I don’t think she has a choice ?

  • Renee26

    This!!

  • Renee26

    Taking trips with other bihs on her dime…being blatantly disrespectful for years…she shouldn’t have to pay; he should

  • lilred1

    Duly noted.I’m saving this for my daughter for when she’s older. ?

  • Rayne

    That’s bogus.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    To me, equal rights cuts both ways, bro.
    Funny, when a rich man gets divorced and has to give his ex-wife like 30K per month, I’ve never seen any woman on the internet calling her names and saying she’s getting paid too much.
    I’m not mad. Cash them checks, Kendu. People can call you names all they want… just keep cashing them checks.

  • Rita fontaine

    I agree with you 100%. I like Mary but she should of learned from sherry shepherd. When you have that much money you should marry someone with the same amount of wealth!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ???????

  • Malcom Flex

    Miss Mary got played by a manipulator and master con artist. He’s a fuc boi unfortunately too many black women end up marrying down because they stay within the race.

  • bemetoo

    Scar face tried not too….wonder if she’s NOT GON CRY

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Thats what happens when you date down and marry a bum nicca…they try to squeeze you dry. Mary shouldn’t have married him especially knowing he had kids ex’s and all the other mess that would keep a childless woman down….

  • starbright9449

    When I got him cheating that monies in all accounts would’ve mysteriously disappeared, that’s BEFORE filing for separation or divorce.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    Well that $30k a month although temporary is more than some people get in a year. That loser and his new girlfriend will still be living the life off Mary. I wish these famous and successful women star and/or marry men on their level and stop comprising their integrity.

  • RicanLBC

    This is some bs! I mean why did it take u all these years to realize he was a DEADBEAT!?!!! I mean he doesn’t work and shopping with your money? Wtf? This is too much

  • Guess Who

    WTF

  • isaiit

    Great write up and it’s almost exactly what happened to my ex and I minus the part where she was ghosted and he was hitting on her friends… I broke up with him

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    How in the HAYELL do you trick off on your spouse with marital funds and STILL get paid?!? Go find Gloria Alred Mary, this is some BS!!!

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    Ensuring her legacy for her kids AND herself, not even mad…..

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    I know he has to be getting dragged all up and thru social media, broke-down trickin’ azz……

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Take your black man hating ass outta here. You always come with the same tired ish. News flash you’ll find bums in every race! WHITE PEOPLE ARE NOT THE PILLAR OF SOCIETY! If you’re black which I doubt you ain’t ish just like your father who should’ve deposited you on to a used tissue. Instead of into your mother’s rancid box.

  • Malcom Flex

    Another control freak hood rat trying to tell a perfect stranger what they can write on a free message board. Some of y’all Negros are wacky as hell

  • nick c

    Lol I have like 10 prepaid cards like a drug dealer.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    If he was truly legit about his hustle that wouldn’t have mattered much, chauvinists and dogs hire one another 24/7.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    You’re a nigga that has issues with being black. You’re mothers a hoodrat which is why your no good father dropped her ass back onto the corner he found her. You can never offended me, you don’t even like yourself. Find some self-esteem and take your head out of white people ass.

  • Michelle Peele

    Reorder her finances…probably should read reorg (reorganization) her finances…just saying

  • Malcom Flex

    Stay mad I don’t care you’re not bothering me you just show me how petty and weak you are You got two choices punk block me or shut the F up.

  • YellowSauce

    I believe in karma … that’s blood money ..

  • Clopretty

    He’d just have to go… like i’d be planning his funeral and hella shit because he would NOT be living off what I worked for! Hell no… this man did her shady! Just goes to show it wasn’t love! He was with her for the lifestyle and money! He’s a fraud! And a VERY WEAK MAN! Marriage is crazy… You pay alllllllll this money to put a title on a relationship, then when it doesn’t work you gotta pay allllllll this money to leave they ass! And STILL gotta pay them throughout life if granted Alimony! Like NO, I’m good…

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Jen_no_juice

    she probably didn’t think he’d try to have her pay a salary to him

  • YellowSauce

    haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    This is the SAME thing that happens to rich men who marry someone not as well off. When they divorce she gets half of everything, child support (if they have kids) and alimony. The main reason, like this states, is because they have become accustomed to a lifestyle provided by their rich spouse. It’s disgusting cuz he’s a grown ass man but sadly, that’s how it works.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thank you!

  • YellowSauce

    BEEN blocked THAT fool …. lolololol

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Some women are desperate for men because the women have addictive personalities. Think how hard it is for a crackhead to give up the pipe.

  • YellowSauce

    daaaaaaamn … what did mary do to you …..

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    And President Trump is trying to pass his tax cut reform so people who earn $48K and below won’t have to pay any taxes. But the DUMBocrats refuse to let him.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    Reading comprehension is fundamental and not MJB’s damn problem.

  • nick c

    A lot of women cheat on their husbands and take everything in a divorce…

  • YellowSauce

    yup .. you help them and they make you pay for it … no good deed …. smh

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    But you do realize they were married. When you’re married your income is your spouses. This happens to men all the time! If he ever does get alimony it’ll stop once and if he remarries someone else.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Dopamine is a helluva drug.

  • Malcom Flex

    This is simple psychology 101 why are you so upset with what I say? Because you’re probably either a fuc boi or you are getting played by one.

    The person who angers you is your master so bow down bish ?

  • Malcom Flex

    Actually probably not you know there are a lot of dysfunctional black women that are on his side and think she should be paying him even more money.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Owww76

    Oh well it is what is is. But it also stated they owe money to the IRS in back taxes, her finances aren’t in the best of shape. She going on tour soon, so she better do her lil awkward dance and deliver them pitchy ass vocals to Real Love and No More Drama to pay for her and his cost of living.

  • YellowSauce

    it depends on which state you live in … I think american laws should cover the country … it makes each state its own country basically and I think its crazy ..HOW are we the united states with diff ish going on … and what does that mean if you have different properties in other states … this actually happened to anna nicole one states gave her money and one state did not … its crazy … they don’t have kids .. he needs to go to a shelter … it takes some people a year to make that money ….

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Because they think that initial excitement or “instant chemistry” will never fade.

  • Malcom Flex

    Bish. I didn’t click over to your meme but I do feel sorry for your bastards you’re another angry black women so I’m sure you beat and curse your kids

  • Jen_no_juice

    I agree and he and bish for asking

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You’re right. Thanks.

  • Malcom Flex

    He went in the game to play her for the money that’s called the “long con”.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Malcom Flex

    Bish. I’m not clicking over to your immature meme. Don’t you understand nobody can see them on their cell unless they click over

  • nick c

    I guess I be putting my jump suit on for the contempt ruling because I would not pay and would dump all the assets immediately. I tell the court I’m living in my car and the seperation has got me so depressed I went to Vegas and gambled all the money away. Close all bank accounts open all prepaid card accounts.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    What she should’ve done was have it in writing that he gets not a damn dime if he commits infidelity.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Malcom Flex

    tired typically angry knuckle head hood wench I’m sure you’re obese and ugly. And you’re mad at me because everything I’m saying is true and you’re getting played by these fuc bois.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Maybe you should be Mary’s advisor. This sounds like a great idea!

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    I hope she has her sister back as her manager, Mary’s career trajectory was a lot smoother with her family in place.

  • Malcom Flex

    knucklehead wench did you read what I wrote? I cannot see your ghetto meme.

    Fact of the matter is knucklehead wenches like you end up raising fuc bois. That’s why you’re so mad you probably got one underneath you right now.

  • Clopretty

    That is HER money, I did NOT see him out there singing no songs with her nor backing her up with the dances! As i stated Marriage is CRAZY! for these reasons exactly… It’s wrong TO ME period! Same for women, hell you was not with these niggas in the gym, on the court none of that! If i’m making the money and you sitting on yo ass reaping the benefits what did these people do to deserve a pay off?! Marriage has too many rules.. make your own money! People always think somebody owe you something!

  • SuperScooper1

    Mistake #1 She should have taken the gloves off when she filed. No tweeting, no songs, no phone calls, “talk to may attorney, Laura Wasser.”

    Kendu would have left with the garbage bags he came in with.

    https://www.bloomberg.com/features/2016-laura-wasser-hollywood-divorce-lawyer/img/feat_divorce11_02.jpg

  • PrettyBrown28

    Dang. I really need to get my body right so that I can trap some unsuspecting man. Get married or pregnant…and get some good dough to start a business. It’s like the shadiest mofos are winning nowadays.

  • Vicki White

    Had he not cheated he would have kept his lavish lifestyle! That judge is either racist or woman hating. The devil is too busy!:/

  • Vicki White

    Exactly… Pull a 50cent on em

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Malcom Flex

    Miss Mary got played by fuc boi playing”the long con” he began the relationship with the end in mind: to leave with her money.????

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Vegas1989

    She needs to pull a 50 Cent real quick…Drop an album under a different name. LOL…What a sorry man…..SMH

  • Malcom Flex

    And in this game you lost I won. You won’t be running me off this board – this ain’t your block in the ghetto. Bye, ashy knuckle head contro freak wench. Still haven’t seen your tired lame hood rat memes.

  • Vicki White

    One last ting… She need to give him that money in pennies every month after she soaks them in her piss and air dry them…

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy
  • Lorrie Irby Jackson
  • SuperScooper1

    SAY IT AGAIN! He was plotting on her money since the day they met. AND she allegedly has to pay back taxes because of him. Oh No Ma’am/No Sir! She needs to hire a ruthless Divorce Attorney.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    That’s what happens when you’re rich and you get married. Even non rich ppl tho, when you’re married your income is their income and vice versa.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    It does vary by state as does the amount determined. I guess this is how Cali gets down.

  • SuperScooper1

    It’s about money, nothing else. He proved that he “needs” the money to live on. Obviously Mary needs a new team of lawyers because Kendu’s aren’t playing. I bet she’s treating him with kid gloves because she thinks they’re going to “reconcile.”

    https://68.media.tumblr.com/1ad1d2bae53f12f80cb46a23699c2e01/tumblr_nr5wy7zETn1syi1ajo1_400.gif

  • Judas & GOD

    lesson for all of us.. love with ur brain not ur heart..just saying!

  • SuperScooper1

    That’s exactly why he moved her to Atlanta and took away for support system. But she allowed it. Never trust a new man over proven friends and family.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    It’s too late for all that. They know she has coins and now she has to upkeep the great lifestyle she provided him.

  • SuperScooper1
  • Tequila Mockingbird

    She prolly thought she wasn’t gonna have to give him anything.

  • Tammie Reed

    HOLLERING!

  • Tena

    I would quit making albums before paying that bum a dime! He is a looser and needs to get a freakin job!

  • 70114

    Damn smh

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    ?. Nothing hood about what I posted. You’re either a white racist masquerading as a bedwenching mammy or a self hating real life mammy. Either way you’re not about anything and you have daddy issues. You’re stereotyping me based on me being black. You don’t know anything thing about me but because I’m black you assume the worse. That speaks volumes about your mind set. You have issue and you only come here to stir the pot. I’m holding the mirror to your face and you don’t like it, so you’re trying your best to deflect and act as if you’re winning some imaginary contest.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    I would’ve added that in the fine print. Like bish, what money? YOU CHEATED, THEREFORE YOU GETS NOTHING. Its stated in the fine print right below your signature ?

  • Anunnaki

    My thoughts Exactly, I could not sleep at night knowing Im taking care of my ex Girl and her friends while I work my ass off to keep him paid, Chyttin me

  • Coy little wink

    But that is marriage … a contract to support until death!

  • Tammie Reed

    Nothing wrong with getting married, I am too but I know so many women that are desperate to be, just for the sake of saying “I’m married” or “my husband” etc. My mom is the first person to come to mind, on her 3rd marriage and none of them was worth a damn but in her day, that made you complete, so sad how some women think but I wish Mary luck. Smh!

  • Anunnaki

    My next marriage will not have a Government contract, i already told my Mate. We wont be getting no License, asking the white man for permission..NOPE

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Again, because she got him accustomed to that lifestyle and she has to maintain it for a period of time.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    I got married almost a year after Mary did, I agree she should have vetted him harder and I wish that she could have seen through his ‘divide and conquer’ strategy long before she committed to him.

  • Vicki White

    This meme tho!!!!! LMAO!!!

  • BlueHousen

    I agree but sadly the law might just side with him. She had legal rep he did not apparently. Today richy folks make sure his and her lawyers sit at the table to hash out prenups.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    What did he do, play dumb and ‘forget’ to file for years in a row?

  • hottlanta

    We women always make excuses when they met a man and he has a past we should question and always try to sound so cute, righteous and forgiving when we say his past isn’t important. I always say his past is important because it determines your future. We need to stop trying to be the one that changes him or help him settle down. (wink wink). Then we boast that he married me I must be special. Yes, you are but not the special in the way you are thinking. He will play that game for a minute then like a rabid dog he will show his stripes you thought you was responsible for removing. If he has no job in the past you gonna be his job in the future. How in the hell you think he was making a living. Wendy Williams take note. People ragging Oprah because she ain’t married. Oprah like fukk that she ain’t playing the game ‘rush me down the aisle” to please no one. Why people are on the boards ragging about why she ain’t married she is on her private plane going to her private island why they are standing in line at Six Flags for their summer vacation.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    I got em’ for days Vicki…… :)

  • Clopretty

    That’s so sad! Makes me not want to get married ever! i wouldn’t want to do this to anyone nor have it done to me! she should’ve married a man on her same caliber if anything!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Just the women? Not the many rich men that this happens to constantly?

  • Coy little wink

    Lol ?

  • hottlanta

    I got a friend who has been married over 5 years and always say my’ husband’ when she talks about him and she never calls him by his birth name. I noticed that one day and said she never calls him by his real name.

  • SuperScooper1

    I like the way you think!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Honey if you do get married just have an iron clad document drawn up to protect your assets. You can even state, if my husband commits infidelities he gets nothing by terms of this agreement. You can even add if my husband cheats and fathers a child outside of our marriage he still gets nothing as his new family will not be my responsibility.

  • Tammie Reed

    I have a friend who just got married about 2 months ago, her dude don’t got a pot to piss in or window to throw it out of and all of a sudden she has all this advice and posts about marriage. Brags all day long about what her husband does for her etc well hell I guess so, he ain’t working nowhere and don’t have a car! He drops her off to and from work in her car! NEVER been married before and she is an older lady, she just GLAD someone finally married her! Once I saw what he looked like, which she kept a secret for a long time, I was in shock but as long as she is happy! Imma shut up now LOL!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    ;-)

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    He better have that ‘good-good,’ one of the reasons I knew my then BF was a keeper was that he refused to take money from me and works his tail off. IMO, real men are too proud to ‘lay up’ and let a woman support him longer than necessary.

  • Tammie Reed

    My husband is the same darn way, won’t even take change from me! One time last year, he got real sick and couldn’t work because of a health issue. I had to pay all our bills while he recovered. When he got better, he paid me back because he said he didnt feel like a real man. I said you do know we are married sir? What is yours is mine and what is mine is mine lol but for real, he paid me back and then some! Kept all the receipts and bank statements, I was so mad at him but that’s how he is.

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    Ick. My ex-friend married the bum b@$tard who cheated on her while pregnant, didn’t tell anybody for almost two months. Yes, they’re divorced now and as far as I could tell, remains a flaming POS.

  • Messenger

    Real men bring home the bacon and real women know how to stay at home at let them.. Women’s lib is why these men are so lazy now anyway. Women are not supposed to be out in the workforce and YES, they are supposed to be married, having babies, and satisfied. However, men are supposed to pay the bills, take care of their wives and work for a living. Our men have gone scott back woods crazy! Both men and women in the western world has lost their minds!!!

  • Crazy tee

    GOOD….i would

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    You two sound precious, he’s a real gem. I hope he’s getting better.

  • Solstice

    I just hollered at this meme ?

  • Guest

    Good for you Mary! At least he didn’t get the amount he wanted. Where is the post about the demon who killed his 7 year old daughter because his NBC exec wife filed for divorce?

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson

    Describes one of my ex-friends and why she kept going back with her POS baby-daddy…..the one who begged her to have his baby, then cheated on her the whole time she was pregnant. It defied all logic and common sense.

  • Messenger

    WHAT?…. Who?

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson
  • Junkanoo

    He’s pathetic Mary probably had to use a
    large strap on on him to get him off

  • Lorrie Irby Jackson
  • DeeFromLA

    I hope the judge ordered this broke bitchass bum to get a job.

  • Messenger

    chile he is toast… Headed straight to hell. I can’t believe he did that. The only good thing out of this is she is in Heaven now.

  • Guest

    Yup, very true. I have been married once for over fourteen years that produced two adult children. I am remarrying soon. However, when my first marriage ended and I was asked ” would I remarry?” I would always say “yes”. Only once more because I married young. These same women would say “you had your chance” as if getting married is a competition. lmao! and smh.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    My daughter just turned 8, my soul aches for her and her mother….. :/

  • hottlanta

    Still can’t get over how his mama and dem trying to get some of her money during the divorce. I bet Mary thinking back when she thought mom’s loved her by baking her, her pies with her secret recipes because she told Mary was special. His whole family got that trifling gene.How you gonna come to someone else’s house, swim in their pool and drink up all their liquor and you want them to pay you for it. I don’t even let my own family spend the night and ain’t gonna let my ole man family spend the night at my house either. I am ole skool, when the street lights come on everybody gotta go. I don’t do families. The only person in the kitchen the next day fixing breakfast in a housecoat is ME. I wish a mofo would ask me walk in, open the refrigerator and get the last swallow of orange juice and ain’t paying no bills.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    YUP! Even my own father told me to ‘quit being so picky’ and that I was running out of time. I was all of 32 yrs old, how is that ‘out of time’? Ridiculous…..

  • rachel

    I don’t know why these successful black women in the entertainment industry employ their husbands as their “managers”. Those men have absolutely nothing going for themselves and therefore leech off their wives. Monique with her “daddy/ husband” is another one waiting in the wings to be ripped off. Wendy is also in line for the same crap. SMH.

  • Tammie Reed

    Why did you marry so young? If you don’t mind me asking. I didn’t get married till I was 31 and I sill didn’t think I was ready at that age lol. I can’t even imagine getting married now a days before 30! LOL!

  • hottlanta

    Just read that. She looked just like him. A lot of our kids are being murdered by their parents and not a stranger. He knew if he really wanted to hurt her for life he had to hurt the child. Will kept her in prayer. He got emotionally jealous that she had gotten to a point in her life she didn’t need/want him anymore and would be fine and he said he was gonna make her pay.

  • We Can Do This

    She married him, he was every bum dude she wanted then and now.

  • the guest

    Women are in between such a rock and a hard place.

    If women don’t marry they face terrible social stigma. If they choose to become mothers out of wedlock they face terrible social stigma.

    Then when they do marry they risk abuse, unfaithfulness, abandonment, and divorce raising children on their own.

    There was so much pressure for Mary J Blige to marry and I always felt she settled beneath herself with Kendu. To me he wasn’t worthy but it was like he validated her by marrying her which was so unfair.

    Kendu’s settlement is exactly why Oprah won’t marry and doesn’t care one bit what people think about it.

    Maybe society needs to regard successful and wealthy women who choose not to marry with more respect. They are at a disadvantage when they marry especially without a prenup.

    I hope Beyoncé and Jay Z have Blue’s future husband’s prenup already drafted and her inheritance contingent on her future husband signing it.

  • dontgetblocked

    Amen. The wrong man will take everything you have.

  • hottlanta

    Apollo trying to get his alimony on his prison books. That “Sal School of Broke Men” have a lot of graduates. I heard Monique call him daddy and I just flipped. I can see you calling him that in the bedroom but in public it doesn’t sound sexy. All some women are doing is making preparations for the man to ride someone else.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Wendy took back her cheating man though, and that was long before she had the show. If she decides to chuck the deuces now she will pay dearly for it.

  • Ms..N

    Applause I thought I was the only one that felt this way..Lol nobody sleeping in my house unless I birthed them and they are under 18! Lol

  • kiddo1

    WTF….somebody tell me this isn’t true…

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well it’s just temporary spousal support. Most judges order that to be in place for a limited period of time, not indefinitely. I would be surprised it were to last more than 2-3 years maximum. It’ll probably be less than that.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Despicable.

  • Messenger

    Hey Guest, didn’t I see you on a british blog?

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Indeed, MJB looks like she was just cussing his azz out right before they posed for that shot. Rigid and forced.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Oh yeah, some of those chicks get sloppy but some of them bring the ‘A game’ in con. I divorced my son’s dad just not to end up on that damn network…..

  • the guest

    Yes!!!! Never believed in overnight guests and sleepovers. And I especially don’t believe in my children sleeping over or their friends sleeping over. People feeling entitled to other people’s homes is so tacky. When Kendu started dating Mary I bet his whole family started rubbing their hands together.

  • Guest

    I was 24 and thought it was the best decision for my children if I married their father. Wrong reason but I don’t regret my decision.

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Looking like she’s channeling Fat Joe’s “Lean Back” in that shot, Mary looks pressed and eager to get away from Kendont in the pic…..

  • hottlanta

    MY man stays when they leave and if he wants to go,bye. I see a lot of women trying to knock themselves out for the man family approval because it means she is the “one” and she is special. If I do meet his family, I am laying in the cut, analyzing every one of them. I don’t be all up in their faces fake skinning and grinning, hoping to be picked.They can call me non-social, boogie or whatever. They analyze me to see am I good enough for them, I analyze the family to see if they are good enough for me. They get mad as hell when you do it back to them. I don’t care two can play that game.

  • the guest

    I am not Guest. I am the guest. There is a popular commenter named Guest. The only blogs I go to are SR and the other are we allowed to say the gossip spelled with a B site here. I love reading the comments. SR blog is my favorite of the two though.

  • hottlanta

    I am all for overnight sleepovers and such because we all need a break. I am talking about the relatives who feel entitled because I am dating a family member they can come over do what they want to do and say what they wanna say and no one will say anything to them. My kids have good memories of the sleepovers at our house and their friends houses. I knew the kids were going home.

  • freelancepimp .

    OH I get it. It’s a ‘Cheetah’ that’s laughing. A cheetah; cheater.

  • freelancepimp .

    “Rounding on Constand she said: ‘You weren’t drugged that night were you? You weren’t sexually assaulted on March 16 were you?’

    ‘No ma’am,’ Constand replied.” DailyMail

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    That too I guess….. :)

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    Why couldn’t she use ‘injured spouse’ and not get penalized?

  • Messenger

    Oh ok… Sorry. I don’t know if we are allowed to say another site on here so you were smart not to…

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    In the words of Meli’sa Morgan, “If you can do it, I can do it too, baby! Watch my smoke! Don’t you choke!” ?

  • Guest

    Yup.??

  • darealwifey

    Women rarely get spousal support. Child support? Yes. Spousal support? Not so much. She gave this man a job and he STILL ran through her money and did whatever he wanted to do while married to her. Ungrateful. Disrespectful. It doesn’t matter what she is ordered to pay him, it won’t last. He is not disciplined.

  • hottlanta

    The right man will add to everything you have. I am sick of women letting men to move into their house, when men don’t have a house for the woman to move into. That is always first on my list.

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Glad you did.

  • MistaO

    Im sorry, but females want “equality” but only when it benefits them. Take the good with the bad. Prominent men PAY the price all the time in these cases and females applaud.
    Kendu is totally justified in seeking the financial remuneration he is due!

  • http://motherofcolor.com Motherofcolor.com

    TY! Leaving that underachieving mama’s boy was the best adult decision I ever made!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    True. Athletes go through this on a regular basis. We’ve all seen it.
    She’s worth about $20 million. Giving him $360k a year in temporary support is not such a big deal.

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    ?? I had one of those. Every argument he went crying to MAMA!!!

  • Yall StayWoke

    Black Men are raping Black women financially,physically, and spiritually. When are Black ladies going to wake up??! Come on QUEENS!

  • Meme

    Many a time those prominent men have a child or more with the woman in question, I’m sorry but how many kids did kendo carry and give birth to for Mary I must have missed that part!

  • Ms..N

    Or a hit man!Lol

  • Meme

    Yes exactly what I wanted to call him kendont as in kendont have a job and in case you thinking of going with Ken,don’t lol she does look like she wanted to get a way lol

  • Queen B

    This is sssooo effed up however, I agree that if she was paying for all of that while they were married she shud continue to do it. Stop fvckin with these broke niqqas

  • Meme

    Add to the list Mel b

  • Meme

    Too right no sleepovers, what type of nonsense is that no thank you my kids will sleep in their own beds and yours can sleep in their own beds in their own homes!

  • Meme

    I agree with you 100% before you know it someone’s mums husband or boyfriend starts sleep walking and the such

  • NicoleZee

    I don’t feel sorry for Mary. This is what happens when you marry a man worth a lot less than you. She should have known better and was there ever a pre-nup??? I don’t get these chicks. No matter how much you think you love someone, you have to protect your money. Women in her position have to realize that most dudes will use you and spend your money on other women/hookers. The best thing is that she didn’t have any kids with this loser. I hope she overcomes this and learns a valuable lesson. Women do this all the time to men, I get it, but still, the person with the most money ends up being the fool. You have to know who you are getting yourself involved with. Most people these days are users, sometimes you have to learn how to say no in the very beginning, that goes for women AND men!

  • NicoleZee

    She should have hired a hitman to clip his sorry ass. She has the money to pay for one. I’m just saying…..

  • sealsaa

    No able-bodied adult deserves to have their lifestyle maintained, man or woman, but I don’t feel for Mary either. Like it or not, this is what equality looks like.

  • NicoleZee

    He should get a job, but since Mary was the breadwinner, she has to pay. She put herself in that position by being dumb. She’s worth millions, I wouldn’t be trying to marry nobody if I were her. I would date and have a sex life when I wanted to, but I wouldn’t be giving a man a damn dime of my money! Sick of these sorry dudes that use women, but it falls on us to make better decisions and leave these bums in the gutter where they belong; let them rot in the back alley on their own! I’ve helped out more people than the United Negro College Fund; now I’ve learned to just say no unless it’s for my son or some other child I care about.

  • KcoolMuziq

    U forgot Jill Scott’s messy ex husband/manager divorce…

  • Faux Gibbler

    If he was her manager he should have his own money. I don’t get how rich people get to argue I am entitled to the lavish lifestyle I became accustomed to when regular folks would never be able to make the argument.

  • Faux Gibbler

    If hewas her manager he should have his own money. I don’t get how rich people get to argue I am entitled to the lavish lifestyle I became accustomed to when regular folks would never be able to make the argument.

  • NicoleZee

    I agree, but there’s nothing wrong with a woman that wants an education and a job or a lucrative career. The problem is that men today feel as though they don’t have to do anything anymore. Most sorry ass dudes are not trying to do anything for a chick and yet they think we want to marry them or just stay laid up with them until infinity and the dick don’t even be worthwhile to be honest! I don’t get it. But my mom is right, a broke ass dumb ass dude has no business trying to find or have a woman. My mom grew up in the 1950s and her father was the breadwinner like most men during that time. My grandmother worked part-time sometimes but my grandfather never asked her to contribute anything. She raised children and grandchildren and they stayed together because they loved each other and WANTED to be together. Situations like that are uncommon today. Most dudes today just want to use a woman for pussy and all they’re offering is their sorry dick that half their community has sampled. Sad, but that’s society for you.

  • TeeTee

    I was thinking that myself… time for him to go … permanently

  • Dr.Rue

    Kendu is a sorry loser. 30k a month??? Did he give birth to a child? He got manager’s fees. Get a job you gold digging thot.

  • BOSS

    AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    I guess this greedy mofo has to get something. I’m glad it’s a fraction of what he asked for…

  • SummerBaby

    This is straight up bull!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Sick of these sorry dudes that use women…are you sick of sorry women who use men? Cuz it happens waay more on that end…

  • stanley

    Listen learned…. She should of had an Ironclad prenuptial agreement.

  • reddfoxxy16

    Oh NO, Oh NO, Oh NOOOOOOOOO!!!!! GOD NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

  • reddfoxxy16

    TRUE…

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    But they were married so HER MONEY was technically his money too.

  • reddfoxxy16

    This is NOT RIGHT by any MEANS…. SMH….MARY HAS BEEN IN THE GAME A LONG TIME. & HAS GRIND HARD 4 HER MONEY & SUCCESS….. If he was ANY KIND of a decent man, (which he’s NOT, I know) he WOULDN’T do this 2 her, & TAKE HER MONEY, in this way…. He should LEAVE with what he came in WITH….SMH…”NIGGAZ” ARE ALWAYS SOMEWHERE PLOTTIN & SCHEMING..I HATE THEM…

  • NicoleZee

    I get so sick of sorry ass slimebag niggas that stay broke and have the nerve to complain about what a woman should be doing. FOH!

  • NicoleZee

    Isn’t she from New York??? She could have easily found a mob hitman to end him completely.

  • NicoleZee

    You’re right, the door swings both ways. I don’t ask men for shit, if a woman has to ask then she needs to find someone else in the first place. But the gag is, men stay begging for pussy, but let a woman ask for something and she immediately becomes a gold digger. A man can’t attract or get a gold digger is his ass is flat broke!!

  • darealwifey

    Most wealthy men control the cash. They give their wives what they WANT to give their wives. They don’t just give them access to EVERYTHING. This is just facts. I’m all for people getting what’s fair, but she was Mary J Blige before he came along, and she’ll be Mary J Blige AFTER him. He earned a salary for his work while they were together. Time to go get a jobby job.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Still, being married the money becomes both of theirs. He was also her manager which is why he prolly had access to everything.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    My belief is that relationships especially marriage should be 50/50. Maybe they took into consideration the fact that he was her manager and was getting paid well and that’s why they feel he’s entitled to that amount. Overall, man or woman no other adult should HAVE to support you. After a certain amount of time they should be required to get a job.

  • darealwifey

    I respectfully disagree. It depends on the marriage and the arrangement. People with lots of cash are not like regular, middle-class people. There are often contracts and agreements in place. In fact, Kendu and Mary did have a prenup agreement. He broke the marital covenant when he decided to cheat on her. Now he wants to break the prenup agreement. He’s sleezy.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    The document must not have been ironclad enough because he’s still getting paid. You can disagree but that’s unfortunately how the law works when people are married. Its shitty because no adult male or female should HAVE to support another grown adult. After a certain amount of time they should be required to find a job.

  • NicoleZee

    I think it’s best today to work hard making your own money before trying to marry anyone. Broke people do not need to be married, period. Too many women are in homeless shelters with their children because they relied on some man financially that let them down. It really is sad to see. That’s probably one of my biggest fears, being homeless. I could not imagine going through that, which is why I am not about to completely rely on any man. If people want to help each other, fine, but both persons should have some type of income on their own so that if their relationship situation does not work out they can fend for themselves. And if you’re struggling to better yourself, the last thing you should be doing is moving in with someone or trying to marry them. Get yourself together first, no matter how long it takes.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Right, which is why i think it should be 50/50 if you work you should be with someone who works too. Split the bills. This just assures that if it ends up not working you’ll be good on your own. The 50/50 is not limited to other things like caring for the house and kids.

  • NicoleZee

    But people should also remember that they have choices. No one “has” to support any other grown person, they make the choice to do that. I get sick of people complaining about helping someone when they make the choice to do that. How about just saying no??? I learned to do that and it was the best thing for me. I’ve helped out sorry ass bum men before and I never will again. I got nothing in return but it was a lesson learned. I have a heart and I hate to see people in need, but these sorry ass broke begging dudes need to go somewhere. If a woman can struggle and go to school and find a job then they can very well do the same thing!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Well, i meant that in this case because unfortunately she has to support him for a short time. Same as with rich men who get divorced they have to support their ex wife now because her and her kids “became accustomed to the lifestyle” lame ass excuse.

  • NicoleZee

    I think it depends on those two people. My mom says she is not about to be a man’s roommate if they are married. Even if both spouses work, my mom feels that the man should be paying for all of the expenses because he chooses to have a woman and that is how she was raised and what her father taught her. She has a point, but you can’t make anyone do anything. If a man is financially stable or very wealthy, then he can afford to do that, but in many households these days, both spouses work and however they spend funds is up to them I suppose. I had a guy live with me when I was really young and it was a horrible experience. Since then, I vowed to never live with a guy again and I haven’t. That guy that I was with at the time was a broke lazy bum and abusive. He contributed nothing. I never want to go through that again. His fat ass just didn’t want to work even after he got hired to do so! Nigga worked one day and said he didn’t want to go back! WTF??? I seem to be a magnet for sorry men. I am trying to correct that. Women (and men) tell me to do better but I don’t meet wealthy men, so then introduce me to someone……please!!! LOL!

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Lol. If I’ve learned anything about finding someone its that you seem to find someone when you’re not looking. My husband and i have a balance he pays the rent. I pay everything else but if my check is short for whatever reason he’ll get the rest and vice versa. All I’m saying is we both contribute enough to where neither one of us feels taken advantage of. You’ll find someone when you do be up front with them let them know you’re not about any bs and hs type ish. When i met my now husband i had just ended a 7yr relationship with the father of my 2 kids. He was hesitant on being with someone who had kids but right out the gate i told him “if you’re trying to play games you can go ahead on because I’m not tryna deal with it, i have 2 kids that are my concern and trying to deal with a grown man and his problems is not gonna happen,” and look at us now…married with our own baby on the way.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    This is Mary’s fault….#prenup. You don’t know these ninjas. You gotta protect yourself..as well as your assets and what the hell you have worked for. It Should have been a prenup with no negotiations….point, blank, period. She should know by now these ninjas “ain’t loyal”.

  • Mac Jones

    Yall simple. Obviously he is getting paid manager fees. Husband /manager. Duh.

  • Mac Jones

    She needed him to manage her career. And have sex with her. The judge gets it.

  • http://www.swedishsoul.com Christina Duphorn Zehnder

    Preach. I swear if that was me he would be in swamp somewhere.

  • reddfoxxy16

    Everybody knows a NIGGA that ain’t used 2 nothing…So if this what this TRASH NIGGAS angle was from the get go, he will STILL end up in the position he was in from the start… I guess this will be Mary’s lot in life, HOWEVER, you never WIN when u PLAY DIRTY…

  • reddfoxxy16

    Hard lesson, I AGREE… She’ll bounce back tho..

  • XoXo

    SCREAMING..I AM N E V E R GETTING MARRIED! EFF THAT!!!

  • Renay Peters

    He had to start HIGH in order to end up with what he got…GAME!

  • mikki

    How can you expect to continue living lavishly when you know you can’t support that lifestyle is what the Judge should’ve asked him as a man you soley depend on a woman to take care of you and obviously his parents cool with as long as he giving them something…Trife

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    I don’t know how she even had dealings with him 1. He had too many kids 2.way too much baggage. 3. Didn’t really bring much to the table 4. Taking too more out the pot than he brought to the table.

  • Miami8981

    If I were Mary, I would appeal this temporary ruling ASAP and send this ninja nothing or at best a check for thirty cents. Ninja need to get a job. Forget the so-called lifestyle you became accustomed to. Where is that a law in divorce court?

  • Miami8981

    I’ve heard Monique call her husband daddy in public and I just shook my head like no she did not. If they were 80 and 85 years old I could understand that but this was about 10 years ago and I was like damn he got you sprung like a slave.

  • Miami8981

    Yes, she is also into women.

  • SuggaB

    Yeah if I had her money I would not have married him. Get him a place (in my name of course) front him a car (leased or paid for by me) and enjoy. He can work with me, not manage me, to earn an income. You can’t live with me. We can travel and enjoy life and when it’s over move out my zhit but keep the ride.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    This is what happens when you marry someone, who is broke, and no prenup. She didn’t need to get married, but some women believe in fairy-tales, which are all lies. Always protect your asset. Oprah is very smart, she is too rich to mary any ninja, just have a companion for a lifetime.

  • Kirenee

    Bish ass move Kendu…

  • PK

    What a loser.

  • PK

    Amen

  • Maxima

    They owe millions in back taxes?

    Black celebrities, please stop going to get your taxes done by Goldstein, Silverman, Grossman & Cheatchuman whoo screw you, fleece you and then leave you as road kill for the IRS. Go to a very large accounting firm, at least it will worry about its reputation so you won’t get screwed.

    P.S., Kendu is a bastard!

  • Mister Fantastic

    Let this be a warning to Monique, Fantasia annnnnnnnd
    Beyonce
    Yep, said it.

  • suganspice68

    Kendu is trash! He didn’t deserve a single dime of Mary’s money and is a greedy,lowdown,UGLY cheating manwhore who need to get a job.

  • We Can Do This

    Right. At the end of the day, Mary set herself up for failure.

  • tintin

    Beyonce is smart to marry a man on the same level as her. She and Jay are practically worth the same

  • We Can Do This

    She was magnetized by his green eyes and he knew he had her and her wallet. Mary knows the game, she’s from NYC, and she went into their relationship knowing she had to support him. I just don’t get the outrage.

  • Mojo2

    Lol

  • Mojo2

    Lol

  • Yoni7

    I would disappear. I’d turn into Where’s Marydo on they ass? I’d put myself on “child” support and make like a deadbeat dad.

  • Yoni7

    Lissen.

  • AlwaysPi7

    Just glad it is temporary. Wish MJB all the best.

  • TOO REAL

    PAY HIM IN PENNIES

  • ShWa

    Yep, they will take u to the cleaners, and have the nerve to call women gold diggers……

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I hate to see that she’s going through this, but you KNOW she’s about to put out about 3 or 4 GOOOOOOOD Albums!!!

  • osmenna

    Anita Baker had a nasty divorce also her husband was her manager.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Exactly! I forgot about her. She keeps a VERY low profile.

  • BeUtFullSoul

    Dang MJ! You WILL come out on TOP! #gOD’S gOT yOU

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Poor Mary.
    I feel bad for her BUT Lil Kim warned her & she saw all the signs.
    I love my Mary BUT guuuuuuuuuuuuuurl, you really did bring this on yourself.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Denial.
    People do Denial all the time.
    I see this in many situations. Denial.
    Lying to themselves because they can not do Life on Life’s Terms.

  • MythCalledLove

    You read my mind. I would send a truck full of nickels, and pennies. Leaving out the dimes & quarters. She should hire a P.I. to dig up dirt pics of him on dates with other women. Anything that points to infidelity. I hope her lawyer makes him pay his share of the taxes owed. Her lawyer is crap because I’m sure he has secrets & trail of evidence. I know lack of prenup was the dagger. I agree with Sandra go bankrupt and try to make it less costly for her since its just temporary.

  • MythCalledLove

    I just remembered she is emotionally fragile. She has never had a true love that treated her right. She dated one from Jodeci that got high with her and beat her. I hope she will not give up and fall into depression or using drugs or worse. As dumb of a move it was to not require a prenup. I would love her to find real love & finally finds her way to true happiness. She has always had the look of sadness. You can fake it but people who have been hurt like Mary see thru the smokescreen.

  • disqus_MNq5Mrn4CF

    I love you right now :-).. smiling at EVERYTHING you wrote here…

  • OP2

    If they didn’t treat her right, it is because they were never a ‘true love.’ Just another similar relationship.

    Real Love is not about lying, deceiving, cheating and mistreating. -it is about having good quality of character yourself with self-esteem; values and worth first. Then, seek a mate who reflect the same.

    Until then, it’s a mistake waiting reveal itself.

  • Blak

    Enough with the “poor Mary” and “she’s emotionally fragile” bullshit. Mary is not the only woman to ever pay a man spousal support and as women are becoming more of the bread winners as men sit by doing nothing, and we allow them to, this will now become the norm. Mary won as far as I’m concerned and should move to better things

  • Yall StayWoke

    Ya’ll Please Stay Woke. I know of Black Men who brag about “dating up” as in they only seek Black Women who have a good job and money in hopes of cashing out! What other race of MEN does this? Name one! You’d think a MAN would be ashamed to live off of a woman….no darling, these “new Blacks” have changed the game. Black men are now PROUD to have their women pay for everything. What real KING in the history of ever has appointed his QUEEN to provide for and protect him? Lol. Black men never cease to amaze me. How low can you get?

  • Rio

    Stop with this BLACK MAN stigma……you sound so bitter we can name countless amount of women who have used men for $$$…..oh and what other race does this how about all of them! since I must name one for your records how about Kevin Federline for starters

  • disqus_MNq5Mrn4CF

    I agree with you 100% on all points. Been there, done THAT one too many times and NEEEEVVVVVAAAAAAAAAA again!

  • Yall StayWoke

    Kfed is a bum. The Majority of Black men are also bums. MOST men of other races have their $**t together enough not to live off their women. # Facts

  • Guest

    Yup. I know a few men who did this.

  • Guest

    Kendon’t needs to get a job. Loser.

  • BallsJustFloppinRound

    You need to change your name to just woke up, you fool.

  • Coffee1st

    Mary can’t get no understanding…. no compassion?? Dang, she chose wrong. She’s paying for it with her heart, pride and money.
    My thoughts and prayers are with her.

  • Mike Love

    as a black man who works and takes care of his family f**k you

  • freelancepimp .

    I kind of feel sorry for Mary and not a because she has to give him money. I mean this ain’t new, a spouse getting spousal support and their ain’t no reason women shouldn’t have to pay too. I am sure she is hurting from the failed relationship and the fact that she has to pay keeps this from being a clean break and is just adding salt to the wound.

  • growingviolet

    Learn from this Mary. Kendu was married when she got with him. You cannot buy love and cheaters will always cheat. I wish I would pay a niccas child support AND parents support. Do no get with any man who cannot pay his own way in life.

  • Rio

    First you ask to name another race that has lived off a woman I give a name of another race and u quickly revert to he’s a bum….. your comments are bias your facts are heavily opinionated. Sounds as though you grew up in the suburb went private school and learned of different ethnic groups through books, TV, and the internet.

  • Queen B

    Bîtch i am a woman so back the fvck up hoe….get mad all you want but i dont feel bad for any bîtch that allowed herself to stay with a broke niqqa for that many years smh but she did so unfortunately this is the consequences so oh well

  • Queen B

    Exactly!!! My man’s family is from Mechanicsvillec in Atlanta….i wish i wud break my neck for their damn approval. I can b cool but im not the type to call any woman “mama” that didn’t birth me.

  • NicoleZee

    Um, who are you speaking to like that??? WTH??? My comment was in response to the topic of being with broke sorry men, NOT a diss to you or anyone personally. I’m not mad at anything. I guess we misunderstood each other. I should have wrote it differently, my error. Enjoy the weekend hun!

  • Queen B

    Oh my bad….yes I completely misinterpreted your comment. I thought you were coming for me chile!!! So so so sorry ??

  • NicoleZee

    No problem. We’re all fam on here. Wondering when Ms. Sandra will throw a party and invite all of us!!! LOL! I’m putting on my 7 inch heels and getting drunk if she does…..and I don’t even drink like that ;)!

  • Dee AKA

    Lesson learned. I had to cough up $60K of my hard-earned 401k to this broke ninja!

  • Mister Fantastic

    ManWhores

  • Queen B

    Lol ikr!! Im already in Atlanta too!! So im ready

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Was he really married when they got together? I had no idea. DAMN he played Mary like a game of chess. Smh

  • the guest

    I was referring to B-ssip. I don’t know of any British blogs.

  • Patricia

    weeeeeell!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    She does, they do have a Prenup…

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Why do everyone keep saying she did not have a prenup. SHE HAD ONE….THAT’s WHY IM CONFUSED>
    MJB wants to make it absolutely clear that her prenup is solid as a rock … but her estranged husband begs to differ.
    The singer’s lawyer, Gary Fishbein, filed docs asking the judge to give her prenup the stamp of approval. She’s worried because the lawyer for Martin “Kendu” Isaacs has made sounds it’s not worth the paper it’s written on, calling it “immensely invalid, unenforceable and unconscionable.”
    Mary says they drew up the prenup on December 5th, 2003 and got married 2 days later. She filed for divorce back in July and asked the judge to block Isaacs’ bid for spousal support.
    It’s pretty simple — she says the prenup clearly lays out who gets what. If it’s thrown out … it’ll be an ugly mess.
    Stay tuned.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    No it should read: Black people–please stop living above you means…