Christopher Milan

Reality TV star Milan Christopher took it all off for his Paper magazine cover story. Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta's first openly gay male cast member discussed being a gay role model and pursuing his rap music career as one of hip hop's few openly gay rappers.

Christopher said he was inspired by actor Burt Reynolds to do a full frontal nude photo shoot.

"I don't even think that he showed dick, but he did this nude thing for Cosmopolitan and it was a huge scandal," Milan said of Reynolds.

"I want that 'break the internet' moment," Milan continued. "I want people to look at this and be like, 'Oh, wow, it's ok. This guy is a musician, he's on TV. He's doing this, he's doing that but it's ok.'"

PAPER MAG: Do you consider yourself a role model?

MILAN: You know the craziest thing? I was just hosting in Detroit. I posted a picture on Instagram and it was this little eight-year-old boy, caucasian boy from Canada, who begged his mom to drive him to Detroit to meet me and he knew all the words to my songs. I was just like this is the weirdest thing. I never knew that I was influencing that age group or that they were even paying attention. So, I do think, in a sense, yes, I am a role model. But I also think that at the same time…Im nervous. But this takes a very strong person to go face forward and make it happen and make people accept it.

Did you have any role models when you were growing up?

Absolutely. Prince and Michael Jackson. Those are my role models. I don't know what Prince's sexual orientation is but I think that he has the biggest influence on me because he was able to transcend from being a man but also being very effeminate and having both men and women just love him and respect him. I think if I could take part in our culture, that's the part I want to take, that place. You know, where Prince left off. And of course Michael Jackson is one of the best entertainers ever. And he used his music to send out very powerful messages.

Are you single now or no?

I am single.

How do you meet guys?

Umm, at the gym--there was a time that I used to have Grindr, I don't have it anymore… Right now, I kinda use the gym, Instagram, Snapchat.

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  • Please Stop The Madness
  • Ro

    I have nothing against gays,but this is disgusting.

  • Wile E. Coli

    Disgusting chump.

  • casiepriest33

    A damn waste.

  • IntroSpective

    He is attractive regardless of his Sexual Orientation. I'm all for liberation, but what's with putting your 'Privates' on display for Public consumption???

  • PROPHETMAJOR

    Gay is the new black?????

  • Yardgirl

    “I want that ‘break the internet’ moment,” Milan continued.
    *******************************************
    *blank stare*

    Sorry Famewhore, this only works when people already know who you are and maybe give a damn.

  • HalleMerry

    PhawKing disgusting!

  • Dowoop

    The middle picture is very disturbing.

  • Yoni7

    That motorcycle pose.... :eek:

    Why do I forget that half of these fools were even ON the show. What's going on with Scrappy and Mama Dee? Why haven't they had any scenes? What's Erica doing these days? How about Shay? Drew and Baby Bop, where are they? Dis tew murch.

  • Yoni7

    LMAO

  • Yoni7

    No baby, what is you doin'? Peter Pippa Picka....DAMN! You couldn't even Nair first?

  • MzJamaica

    Nothing to see here.. move along.. you could have been someone #whatarethose #attentionwh@$%

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Dont nobody wanna see that hairy kielbasa...I thought "the boys" usually manscape?

  • Wile E. Coli

    To make it even worse.. it is a cheap old Honda from like.. the 70s lol

  • i troll it like i see it

    Why are you showing us gay guys?! That motorcycle pic was way over the top!

  • HalleMerry

    Unfortunately

  • MzJamaica

    Disturbing? You mean traumatizing.. looking like a 'trong horse that can kick the life out of ya

  • i troll it like i see it

    This stuff looks like porn to be honest.

  • Anunnaki

    yuk

  • MsPam

    This dude is delusional, this gross! Ain't nobody's mother going to drive their 8 year old to see him!

  • Dowoop

    LMFAO..Its too early in the morning for this.

  • MookieFly

    Looking for attention in all the wrong gas station bathrooms tsk tsk

  • LibraGirlonly

    This is ridiculous!! I don't get the booty toot

  • Soda
  • APeachLikeMe

    What in the Donald Trump is this ....

  • SummerBaby

    How did the 8 year come across his music? ? I've never heard not one song.

  • SummerBaby

    That's because it's not for us.

  • Mrs. ??????????

    These pics look nasty, sweaty, and greasy. I bet the room smelled like butt.
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/ddef602606b5ebb66ffcfff4768ff7763cb9ed73e3db7bb4476663de9b461bcc.gif

  • Daniyyel

    Sooo....he's just gone toot his azz in the air like that?!? It's entirely too early in the morning for these shenanigans!

  • Mbailey

    WELL, good morning to you to, Sandra!

  • JENNYJONES1

    AHHHH ROTFF!!!! I WAS THINKING THE SAME THING. GAY OR STRAIGHT THESE PICS ARE TRASHY AS HECK!!!! I GUESS HE'S TRYING TO BE THE MALE AMBER ROSE.........JENNY JONES!!!

  • Keesh5000

    You out of order

  • hottlanta

    He is shellacked down with all of the shea butter from Sally's Beauty Supply.

  • JENNYJONES1

    AMBER ROSE CHALLENGE. LOL!!!!.......JENNY JONES!!!

  • Cali

    Not cute

  • bemetoo

    So this is like gay porn..he's a bottom but he does have a nice big dick?

  • Messenger

    So this is what black males are reduced to now in the 21st century? Lord please hurrup and come on!

  • bhavana

    Lol ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I will never look at a Rough Ryder video the same again. ?

  • hottlanta

    Well we got first lady who showed her goods so why not.

  • hottlanta

    I bet some rich ole white man don't think it is toooo early in the morning to see a nice, firm black azz in the bottoms up position in the morning.

  • bhavana

    He's disgusting with his 1970's tube socks.??

  • Messenger

    Exactly... Nothing is shameful anymore in Sodom and Gomorrah

  • MookieFly

    welllll African Americans have always been sexualized in the US but Milan is being extra as f**k

  • karen b

    lmao

  • Please Stop The Madness

    not the whole entire century. I cry

  • karen b

    I hate when big dick black men are gay.......That meat stick is supposed to be for the kitties.......Dam shame tho because this fruity booty looks like he has a thick eggplant......

  • PhillyFacts

    I thought this was a family blog?

  • shun king

    high probability this guy is HIV+

  • Kirenee

    WTF ?! Let me take my arse back to sleep.... Maybe if I get up next time and check SR this ---- will be removed!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    LMAOOO eww!

    Y'all I can't deal ??

  • Ticklegirl

    ???????

  • Torae

    Just nasty?

  • hottlanta

    If this was a woman she would be called all kinds of sluts. So Imma say it. This man is a slut, should be ashamed of himself has no morals and he would never get any one respectable in life to take home to his mama.

  • MookieFly

    Hes cuddled up with a dusty old man in the photoshoot

  • Yoni7

    I'm mad at the colored ring, 1968 basketball socks he has on. Do they still make those? He's on a vintage motorcycle with a pair of vintage socks. Oh my!

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Did this fool really say an eight year old white boy commented on his picture on Instagram begging his mother to drive to Detroit to meet him? Wtf? I can't with his foolishness!!!

  • lil goodie

    Hold up.. wait whut???? Naw dogg...let us live???

  • Genia

    BUTTTT WHYYYYY the second pose thooooooooo?! whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ? this is a picture NO MOTHER should ever see of her ADULT son!! #aghast!!!

  • lil goodie

    Face down..azz up... that's the way he like to .f***...(uncle Luke) doo doo brown..

  • Kaayla

    LMAO!!!

  • Kaayla

    Thank you!!!!!

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    "BUTTT WHYYYYY" Literally lmao!

  • Genia

    He looks like he is being violated.....it's disturbing....THAT particular picture...is disturbing...

  • Genia

    i had to sing out the WHYYYYYYYYYYY.......lol

  • lil goodie

    ?????

  • Wile E. Coli

    Tyra?

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Ha ha

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    No father should see his son like that either. :-(

  • Rachel

    He's advertising if you ask me. These photos were not shot for me female consumption.

  • Tammie Reed

    I didn't know that Paper Magazine was SO raunchy ewwww! Every year folks push the envelope further and further, not cute at all! Smh! He irks me hated him on that reality show too, bye!

  • Genia

    I'm sorry i totally used my "GET OUT of Christian Conservative American CARD"...and assumed he didn't have an active father in is life....

  • Mr.LeBrickJames
  • Keisha Hannah

    Lol my thoughts exactly. Because he gay he have to have is ass in the air?

  • Ni Ni

    All greased & tooted up. His parents must be proud ?.

  • Genia

    right!!! it's totally cliche and low bar....this isn't art, this is a Back Page ad. I would have expected better of him.....

  • FOR COMMENT

    why even post the photos--don't nobody wanna see no gay greasy black man with taco meat--this is disgusting to the highest level of disgustivity

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    "I want to break the internet." .....I don't think this is going to happen. No one cares for him like that.

  • Ryan

    The irony of some blogs complaining about the "liberal gay agenda" and then posting gay booty porn on their site ??

  • Yall StayWoke

    Most Black men who date

  • RicanLBC

    He is super thirsty I love the blogs myself and I am always on IG reading them. I often see him commenting it's like damn don't u work! Fawk! Just wanna be seen, heard fawk

  • RicanLBC

    Dripping with dat Monsta!!!!!!!!!

  • NeverSurprised

    Lol!!!!! at "disgusivity."

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Push through Sis.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    She's got a big ole dingaling. I can't envision him using it though; I always got a power bottom vibe from Milan. I mean he tooted that booty all the way to Heaven in one of those pics...

    You brought up another interesting point Sandra: the shortage of successful openly gay rappers in the industry. I have been asked about and had those conversation a lot over the last 15 years. can we talk about that?

    Really, there was never anything blocking a gay rapper from making it. I used to tell people that long before there was a Big Freedia or a Fly Young Red--or a gay impersonator, such as Young Thug. The issue is THE MUSIC.

    Rap consumers aren't ever gonna be accepting enough to make a song about a man eating some dyck a top 10 hit. To understand why, you have to get grasp on the Hip Hop culture, which is essentially framed around the lifestyle of single, heterosexual men under age 45. These are rules that both male and female rappers are bound by.

    That said, a gay rapper simply needs to follow the time blueprint laid down by singers such as Sylvester, Boy George, Luther Vandross, Freddie Jackson (yes, I said it) and Johnny Mathis: make the music that people want; let your sexuality be the backdrop, not the soundtrack.

    I suspect the majority of Michael Jackson fans believed MJ was gay when they made Thriller an explosive success. But they bought it anyway. Partly because they loved the ENTERTAINER and the entertainment VALUE he offered. See where I'm coming from?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    ... added to favorites immediately.

  • Vegas1989

    Damn!!!.I'm done for the day with your comment...Was it on sale?...LOL

  • Ni Ni

    Yes he did and he didnt seem to think there was nothing wrong with that statement. Kids will learn about sex online, it's inevitable because they all have access.

    A friend told me her daughter downloaded some porn, a five year old. My friend laughed about it. It wasn't funny to me. Kids are not stupid, once their eyes have seen it. They could very well attempt it . I'm kinda glad i don't have kids especially this day and age. Good luck parents !

  • Shira Harding-James

    Oh my (clutches pearls)

  • rere

    sorry, that second pose was beyond disgusting

  • stanley

    lol... He need to go ahead and just do a porn tape

  • stanley

    Your #MCM just liked and saved Mulian's photos on his phone.

  • Renee26

    Dang it Sandra! You granted my request with a man that's no even into women...SMH I'm still gonna peek though LOL

  • Rayne

    Clutches the shit outta my pearls tho

  • Luv Pitties

    That man has a nice eggplant too bad it's not for women, he fixed his mouth to say his dream date would be with Odell Beckham, I don't know what to make of that one

  • Messenger

    Yes, we get it... But the singers you mentioned are just that... SINGERS, not rappers. The Rap world will never be accepting of it because men get a "rough rider" card when they come out as rappers. If they are seen as gay it's hard to get that thuggish feel from them and they won't be taken seriously as a rapper.

  • Oh Tommie

    Bet money if he were straight and didn't do the ass pose y'all would be on it! Y'all stay drooling over morning wood...get mad when there are no pics where you can see the dack print....go sit down.

  • Rayne

    Me either ?

  • Look@m3

    This breaks my heart and disgusts me at the same time. That's all I got for this section...puking and crying on the way out. Don't try to bring me back...

  • Look@m3

    nah man this mess becoming way too much. I think Im ready. Its either the Lord return or get rid of social media....

  • Yen Chantress

    I am often drawn to this site, the topics are interesting enough..I opened this post, while eyeing this male's flesh. I have to say, at first I was saying something is "Off". Then I looked at the pics and found that they did not appeal to my heterosexual nature or preference. I opted to read the post anyway, then the reason was apparent. The second pic, with his oily butt tooted up and face down, is really provocative. I have said enough!:(

  • Elevated Soul

    That is wicked gross!....Dude is as thirsty as a camel in a dry desert.

  • Ni Ni

    All im playing right now in my caris Lutha. He really crooned us ladies regardless of his prefence. I just couldn't take my Lutha singing to both men and women. I love me some Freddie too...he's sticking with his story that he's straight and thats fine with me. What about Johnny Gill?

  • Renee26

    You think Young Thug is impersonating gay?? I truly think he's on the DL screaming to get out...That other boy that sings "push me to the edge...all my friends are dead" is gay too. More gay rappers are beginning to surface but like you said it's the hip hop culture that makes it hard for them to be openly gay. Their lyrics are not related to the gay lifestyle...they rap about the same crap the majority of them do. There are sooo many homophobic rap fans that associate gay sexuality with something negative that they want nothing to do with but they don't even think about alllll the other negatives that are in the lyrics instead of focusing on the rappers sexuality....BUT it's perfectly acceptable for female rappers to be gay....Crazy Go ahead and add , Afrikka Bambada (same sex rapist) Eric Sermon, and Baby to the list of DL rappers

  • Justlooknout

    I hollered.....

    Oily butt

  • Justlooknout

    Tears hotttt tears

    Dont bring me back

  • WhooKneww?

    Open booty all on the motorcycle seat...eww

  • Tony Winston

    awwww u mad cuz u cant get the dick, poor baby

  • Yoni7

    You see what they did to Frank Ocean.

  • Judas & GOD

    the hypocrisy is crazy yall madd but but we all clic download the page . lol to see the pic .come on now

  • xenaD

    Was Luther really gay?

  • Yoni7

    Let's play a game of "would you rather...."
    Would you rather see.......
    Milan or Bruce Jenner

  • Renee26

    Duh lol

  • Ni Ni

    He never stated he was gay. It was just assumed by the masses because he's never been seen with a woman, not to my knowledge. There are some asexual people in the world too, so only the entertainment people would truly know i guess.

  • Renee26

    I agree about men in general...not just the black men that you hate so much

  • Renee26

    Why...because he gay?? Is this still the 80's??

  • Renee26

    Hush yo mouf!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Is Wesley Snipes black?

  • LibraGoddess

    "this is disgusting to the highest level of disgustivity",
    I just want you to know that I will be using that phrase of yours. Thanks!

  • Renee26

    Right lol

  • Renee26

    Milan

  • Ebbie U.

    He's hung AF

  • Ni Ni

    I'll take Milan rather than old wrankly bruce.

  • Renee26

    Yes! i like to look and wanted to see some morning wood...but preferably on a man who likes women...but dack is dack nonetheless

  • Renee26

    He gonna get with Odell soon...he in the DM right now

  • kennedy campbell

    speak for yourself

  • kennedy campbell

    where have you been? lol we give that magazine away at our store..has always been on the steamy side

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Scary

  • xenaD

    Lol.. I'm just wondering how do y'all kno fa sho

  • free

    i didn't.

  • free

    that's all i need to see. i'm just here for the comments now.

  • Wreckognize Game

    If dack is dack..would you take dat dack? ??Asking for a friend

  • free

    lolololololololololololololol. i'm witchall!!

  • hottlanta

    A man never being seen with a woman is stereotype is whether or not he is gay we need to let go of, The average gay man has a wife and kids.

  • Phillybruh

    Frank Ocean wasn't authentic. I doubt he was even gay or bi just needed an angle to break through.

  • Phillybruh

    His man was his background singer on every tour.

  • Phillybruh

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/427187935a8bb8d6ee7bb0f60f2aac0de2957f324432f97790d8d768d40a619b.jpg
    Got some dirty dik did you, next time make him wear a condom or you deserve what you get!

  • hottlanta

    They have in up front in the store on sale during the summer months and raise the price again for the winter months. Sales are brisk in the winter months because it is good for winter time ashy skin.

  • hottlanta

    You forgot about the church and the pastor laying of hands on our young men. That white chick on the Bachelorette last week thought the black man dyyk was a lethal weapon and she was willing to die by any means necessary.

  • puppylove

    Thank you for not posting the full frontal

  • Phillybruh

    These photos are nothing compared to what's on tumbler, or what your teenager is sending to his boo through snap chat..

  • hottlanta

    Bruce got his thang cut off and put it in a jar so he can go back and reminisce every once in a while. Didn't he say he had the snippet done at Home Depot. He finally went through the full checkout line.

  • THE Queen

    THIS IS NASTY ISH!!! His arse all up in the air! He needs prayer. SERIOUSLY???? he aint learn yet, huh? sad sad sad to see how black men are just self destructing, shooting and killing each other.. less fathers to raise their children, gay and crazy.. NO future generations from their lineage. I guess the KKK has accomplished the number 1 goal, kill em with stupid thinking..

  • hottlanta

    Let's pause for a moment of silence. Lawd the next time Sandra have something this firm/phune and long let it be for the females. We have to suffer in the real world and look at these out of shape men and the minute we get to lust it is someone who is not for us. God please let Sandra right this wrong, In Jesus name. AMEN!!!

  • Tammie Reed

    Ive been here and I know about that magazine but NEVER seen them post any type of photos like that, very distasteful and maybe because I don't like him either lol.

  • Phillybruh

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/db39a0d11163f35d77d0bfa81355962de5ebc2283475fbc998e7a30f8422e0b8.jpg
    Pick a side either openly gay and not faking it with women or closeted. Why are yall up in arms about a clearly gay man taking pictures that are aimed at gay men.

  • shun king

    more because he is black and gay and lives in Atlanta

  • chaisun

    Good for you for being open and gay and being comfortable in your own skin. I have seen countless friends go through depression and other forms of personal abuse while trying to hide behind the ideology of "masculinity". Its sad that the black community can be so homophobic, you guys are the reason why there is a high suicide rate within their community. You bash openly gay men and then have so much to say about the down low men, then wonder why they just won't "come out the closet". Then you take on their verbiage and traits when its convenient, you want them to be your besties and do your hair etc. He's not hurting you personally by being himself. Its just so hypocritical.

  • Dr. P

    Ladies and Gentlemen, Lessbeens, BullDigguhs, Sissies and Queens...this is what thirst looks like

  • LibraGirlonly

    Of course it does.

  • Tequila Mockingbird

    Issa no for me dawg...

  • hottlanta

    Excuse me the black community has supported the black gay community for years. We never told Lil Richard to take off his makeup. Our parents got tickets to go see Johnny Mathis and bought his music regardless of who he was. Me and Lil-Hots was talking bout that one day ad they said no matter where we moved we had a black person on every corner. Down Low men are Low Down to blame the black community for their behavior. Black women don't get angry because a man is openly gay. We are happy he is open with his gayness that let us know to move onto a man who wants a woman. We get angry with gay men who try to play both ends of the spectrum and wants us be understanding of his feelings but expect for us to put our feelings of sexual/relationship betrayal caused by them on the shelf and feel sorry for him as if our feelings don't matter. Yet you call straight people homophobic when gay people are straightophobic. The gay community needs to take responsibility for the mess they made of people lives by putting other people in it that had nothing to do with their gayness. Yet you call the straight community selfish. Can't have it both ways. I am glad he stopped tooting his azz up on the motorcycle and showed his face so when I see him on the street I know he doesn't want me. That makes me happy not mad.

  • Judas & GOD

    yes you are hun

  • Mrs. ??????????
  • Mrs. ??????????

    hahahaha!

  • Bam Bam Li

    Hell to the fork, fook, frok, frock, Frick...no...now I can't unsee...I don't like bikes anymore frig dis ??

  • Mrs. ??????????

    Swapping this gif.....LOL

  • Phillybruh

    If the black community was so understanding of gay men, the term DL would never exist. At what point to black women take responsibility for their part in laying with any man and contracting a disease or giving birth.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    No one wants that rancid shat covered dick. OK! We all know you women hating dick chasers do , but not us!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    I don't care for gay men period. They all hate women and blames us for their actions. Look through some of these comments. Why the hell should I support ya'll? How would that benefit me? If ya'll like looking down another mans hairy ass to find love do you but don't expect me to go along with it. Nothing masculine about blowing in to another mans ass.

  • hottlanta

    So it's the black woman fault for having the sex but it ain't the man fault for having the sex. Straight black women are not interested in gay men we are interested in straight man. So the term DL was coined because black women made a decision to tell a man if you are gay I don't want to be with you and that makes a gay man purposely lie about his sexuality. If a gay man is hiding behind the initials DL he is not a man he is just gay. A man will own up to want he wants and be true to it and keep it moving.

  • Renee26

    SMH

  • Renee26

    No...I did enjoy looking at it though

  • Phillybruh

    I never said he played no part, but you assume all risk by going raw with anybody.

  • hottlanta

    You never said black men taking responsibility for their sexual actions, you said black women only.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Ima have to pass....

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Phillybruh

    How do we blame women for our actions?

  • Tea??

    Nah. And he has that Neyo syndrome going on under that hat. ?

  • hottlanta

    I tell women all the time if your man is always saying bottoms up when yall are together show him the door he is having the best of both worlds.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Milan.....

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    YOU COMMENT IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF GAY MEN PASSING ALL THE BLAME TO WOMEN!

    Ya'll blame women for the DL movement . Even though it's a choice that greedy disgusting men make because they're in denial about their own sexuality. I Know when a man is gay no matter how masculine he tries to appear . Ya'll carry a different spirit, aura , etc. Ya'll can't fool me. I've been calling dudes out since elementary. So I don't get caught up in that DL mess. DL men should be castrated they're playing with peoples lives.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    Please Father.... Amen! Lol

  • Phillybruh

    I'm not passing blame to all women, just the women who choose to screw raw and blame other people for the outcome.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    DaYum RIGHT!!!!!!!!!! #HighFive

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Ok . What about the nasty DL men that are married with kids or have a girlfriend. How is a woman suppose to protect herself from that? Either way it all boils down to MEN being honest about their actions. It's a two way street.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    I AM FLATLINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    This must be "Morning Wood" for DL and Gay men... #Ugh

  • Phillybruh

    Married with kids I have no respect for, but girlfriends fall into the category of protect yourself. Take this example, I know a young lady who came home and caught her man, and she is still with him to this day. You keep making these comments as if these women are blindly in this when they are complicit and willing participants I want too say 70% of the time.

  • Mrs.Meenie

    I am glad that this young man can live his truth but he doesn't have to show the whole world his goods. Those pictures don't even look professional, they are very disturbing especially his positioning. Sandra... next time, can you please refrain from putting pictures like this on the main page, just use the link...Sheesh

  • SunRiseBlossom

    Wait a minute... You took me to fast! I wasn't ready for this one... So if the man say bottoms up what is that suppose to mean... educate a sista!!! Lol...

  • Phillybruh

    Just pay attention to mannerisms. There is no proof in someone saying certain things. Or just ask not in an accusatory way, like you actually care about the person.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Frank Ocean seems to be somebody who is constantly searching for himself. He's lost.

  • karen b

    Looks like he got one of those HAMMER HEAD dick heads.......Or a real PUFFY MUSHROOM dick head.....lol.....I only had 1 of those in my life, and it was very interesting..............

  • pure_rachet

    That hat looks rediculos. Nice dack tho if i block out everything else lol

  • karen b

    funny

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I think he's one of the two, but I agree--he was looking for any angle.

    I'm not a huge Frank Ocean fan. I don't think he chooses songs that fit his voice.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    You're still passing the blame onto women. Don't claim all women fall or put up with that mess. It's his fault for lying about his sexuality and it's her fault for finding out and not kicking his ass.

  • Kirenee

    Mmmm hmmm!

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I don't see Thugger being gay, and you won't find anybody close to him saying he is either. He saw an opportunity that I had been telling people for years was there: a gay artist with trap beats and mainstream Hip Hop lyrics can win. Especially today. He's not gay, but he effectively exploited an angle no one else was brave enough to take advantage of.

    Sound does plays a part in that too.

    Yeah, there's a lot of homophobia amongst the fans--but it also exists at the labels, the radio stations, in the DJ booths, amongst the venue owners and the talent bookers and even the producers and high powered managers. But thanks to social media, and if the gay artist is "dope", he can rise above all that

    Female rappers has evolved and actually surrundered themselves to the hyper masculine expectations of the Hip Hop industry because females have to have sex appeal in order to get traction. Clothing is optional. Lil Kim helped start this but she did not foresee how crippling that can be for a woman in Hip Hop.

    DJs want to SEE a female rapper before they SPIN a female rapper. This is commonplace. A woman considered unattractive better have hella connections or some serious marketing investors.

    There's definitely more acceptance of lesbian rappers more so than gay rappers. And I gotta tell you, I don't get the fascination with Young M.A. either.

    The list of DL rappers who are famous is longer than both your arms and one of your legs.

  • Phillybruh

    You know what your right, women aren't at fault in these types of situations at all.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    You loved Luther because of the way his music made you feel. It was consistent, on point, relevant to your emotions and lifestyle and therefore it connected. Music is an emotional tool; people are initially drawn to artists because of the way their voice and lyrics make them feel.

    Therefore, Luther's sexuality became an afterthought to you. But sub-consciously, you knew about Luther, and that's OK.

    No, you weren't fantasizing about Luther, although some women did; rather, you were fantasizing about your ideal man doing to you what Luther's voice did to you. You wanted your ideal man to deliver what Luther sang about.

    That's what true artists offer their fans. And that's why gay rappers often flop because they want you to know how gay they are before anything else, which in turn removes you from what should be a magical musical experience.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Of course. Luther was with the same man for almost 15 years.

    Luther was a brilliant musical force, and a very charming person who enjoyed learning about new things and he also liked hearing how his music made his fans feel. He was a consummate pro.

    Luther spent a number of years trying not to give in to his sexuality. He was a deeply spiritual person who had a definite belief in the doctrine of Hellfire and that weighed on him tremendously. This is not something you'll read in any book about Luther.

    I would say Luther and Tyler Perry had a lot in common...

    He was not a club person, and he thought gay clubs were one of the most vilest things on Earth.

  • SumthinSweeter

    that's a damn shame. all that good beef going to waste up somebody's muddy booty hole. smmfh.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Trust, Luther was gay--but he was a very private person. I don't think Luther was ashamed of being gay; he just didn't approve of gay promiscuity. He viewed very active homosexuals as sorta deviants.

    Luther would have been a private person had he been straight as well.

    I do appreciate some of his still-living industry friends for not publicizing his personal business. Dionne Warwick, Aretha, Martha Wash, Janet jackson and Oprah are all women who knew intimate details of his life, and they remained true.

    Of course, Aretha and Luther had issues and Aretha--in typical Queen of Soul style--has been known to throw shade about Luther behind the scenes but never in public and with the media.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Luther was one of the girls, honey. So to speak. I won't talk about other circumstances of his life but Luther spent his early years as an entertainer devoted completely to music and he tried to catch love on the fly.

    The problem is, Luther was very insecure about his looks--and his weight. He did not have a lot of relationships, but he stumbled with some guys that were not able to give him the level of affection he wanted or gave them.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    LOL!

  • Peter Piper ATL

    You're incorrect: I mentioned singers and rappers. Big Freedia and Fly Young Red are not singers, although Freedia claims to be.

    Not all rappers give you a "thuggish" feel. See: Kanye West. See: Diddy. See: Common.

    Let's make that distinction.

    The point is, regardless of the level of machismo, there is an expectation of hetero in Hip Hop. Consumers have come to demand and expect it.

    Of course, few rap fans would recognize the rap of the late 1970s and early 1980s, when make-up and wigs and high heel shoes were the norm.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    LOL

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Milan wants to get to that next level. Unfortunately, his window is closing not expanding. This photo session certainly doesn't scream classy; and he doesn't have a cute ass either. But he got folks talking, and Googling, and as an artist, that's what you want.

    Now, this is also a good way to end up becoming more obscure after a day or two. Milan needs better management because at the rate he's going, he'll be relegated to doing Premium sex scenes on PornHub just to get the rent paid, and then only hopefully.

    Prior to his greasy ass being spread out all over that old bike, nobody cared about Milan anymore. Now, he's found an entry. He needs to use it. He needs better production and he needs to get with handlers who actually believe in his skill set, whatever that may be.

  • Junkanoo

    On a blog by ablack lesbian go figure

  • Tlowe89

    Did anyone else gag a little?... I can't get with the ass shot

  • hottlanta

    Take a glass and turn it upside down. You are not sexually enlightened.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • hottlanta

    I got a front door and if he only wants to hit the back door we have a problem. Ain't running to but no Steve Harvey book or go to a therapist. It is what it is.

  • hottlanta

    Those are low self esteem chicks who don't want to be alone Don't put the 99% of us in that bracket. You did say UNDERSTANDING of black gay men the term DL wouldn't exist as if it is our fault. DL turned backwards like I said earlier stands for Low Down,

  • hottlanta

    If a man is on the DL and uses a condom that supposed to make it better and soften the blow. He had sex regardless.

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  • SunRiseBlossom

    Don't punch a sista in the face for having a slow moment! Educate your people... Enlighten ME!!! Lol...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Homosexuality is a symptom that is linked to other comorbid disorders such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, etc. There is a strong link between homosexuality and bipolar disorder. Even when there is 100% acceptance and tolerance of gays they still kill themselves because the underlying psychological issues are not being addressed. You can't cure depression with acceptance and tolerance.

  • tintin

    Hahhahahhaha lmao puffy mushroom

  • Wayup!

    That's because he knows?I mean anybody wit ???can c

  • NaeNay

    Whaaaaaattttthehellisthisshtttt????? He got his azz all tooted up in the air.
    What his poor mama must think.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Just NASTY....NOTHING SEXY ABOUT A FUDGE PACKING PEANUT BUTTER BUSTED OPEN QUEAN LIKE THIS THANG!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    I'm gay. He is not a role model. He is a negative stereotype. He is precisely what is wrong with the LMNOP COMMUNITY! Taking off your clothes and sticking your musty @$$ in the air isn't doing a "gotdamm" thing for the homeless queens with no job skills and HIV/AIDS.

  • Ni Ni

    Thanks for the info. I hate to hear Luther was insecure about his appearance. He looked fine to me, but i know how those industry standards are.

  • Ni Ni

    Wow, thats exactly how his music makes me feel ?.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Excellent points! People don't care if an artist is gay. It's the music.

  • Nicol B

    yup...this will help ruin his career. trashy NOT classy!

  • more

    Tell em!!!

  • lQueenNefertiti

    lol I was thinking "come to the other side bruh"

  • Youshockedme

    This is heartbreaking on many levels

  • Queen B

    ?? soulja boy tell em....uuuaaahhh!!!

  • Queen B

    Damn shame what a waste of a big dîck smh but s/o to any man that can handle all that

  • gntory

    His dick can drag the ground like an elephant's but that shit was ruined once he ran it up another man's ass! Ole nasty greasy booty ass!!

  • gntory

    Musty ass!! I can't!!! ????

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Bwahahaha

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    It's very hard raising children nowadays. I have three young ones and I don't let my 9 year old near the internet. But I know as she gets older I won't be able to stop her. I just want to put those good values and morals in her life at a young age, so she can take it with her into adulthood!

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Omg

  • C Mack

    He wasn't on LHHATL. He was on Hollywood.

  • kitttykatlady

    Seriuosly that pic of him booty up is tooo provocative. Damn booty bandit.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com EbonyNSweet.com

    He's pretty blessed... I aint mad at him. He need to flaunt what God gave him. I didn't need to know about him hooking up with strangers at the gym though, that's kinda whorish.

  • Fated4greatness

    Damn..what a waste of a good d*ck.

  • DidLEESquatTho

    Thank You! LOL!!!!

  • Peter Piper ATL

    And the irony is he doesn't really have a career--he's got a name. And that's limited.

    He is like so many gay guys his age, thinking sex appeal will save the deal. They never think about what comes after they get too damn old to be in a gym every day, taking nude selfies.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Yeah, homosexuality is linked to depression, but only because being gay is often a mentally exhausting proposition in a society that is so self righteous,homophobic (especially the ones who are undercover gay themselves) and judgmental.

    I could go on but I'm too sleepy to do this with you tonight Sandra honey. I smoked a blunt for the first time in 8 years and I just ate a whole sweet potato pie and now I'm taking my ass to bed.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I don't think the black community ever really supported the gay community as a whole, but instead supported individual, "safe" and sort of abstract personalities--usually entertainers and hair stylists.

    I don't think anybody can be "put into" gay without their permission. LOL. Honey you are a mess.

    He might toot his ass up and still want you though hun. There are men that go both ways, and a lot of women don't know one hidden fact of bisexual life: a lot of these men with wives are actually bottoms.

    I know a woman who found out her husband was getting dicked down by a drag queen who then uploaded video of one of their encounters on a porn site. This woman was shocked. She told me he could take more dick than she could.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    in this day and age, anybody who lays up without protection is asking for "it"--literally. Because you don't know where a dick, a pussy, a mouth or an ass has been and sex without a rubber is Russian Roulette.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Thanks Sandra. It should always be about the music and nothing else but you can't explain that to some people.

  • hottlanta

    You sound older and classy. Because I have some older gay friends who have your same demeanor They say these young'uns are doing toooo much and who cares.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Ni Ni, when you're recognizable by millions, its so very easy to start to become obsessed and insecure. That fame takes on a life of its own, and it has and can consume a lot of people.

    I'll say this: were Luther a telephone operator at AT&T or something like that...he'd probably still be alive today.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Well thanks darling. I'm just a realist who has lived and been there and done that.

    And yes i'm old as hell. Don't remind me of that LOL!

  • hottlanta

    I knew it. I am ole sckool I remember going to the balls and everything from back in the day. I am the kind of person I don't judge people and I don't care. People act as if being gay is something new. Black transgenders been around for years and some of the one's I have seen make Leroy Cox look like a skool girl and the black community love them, support them and protect them. So I am like what is all the gay fuss about. I don't treat my gay male friends as if they are my girlfriends, as an arm accessory we don't roll like that. I treat them like any one of my straight male friends. I stay in my lane. They brought it up to discuss with me about the young'uns and I was shocked when they said their behavior is disgusting. They had me rolling when they said it don't take all of that. They checked me and said you think we all agree with that. I was like whoa.

  • live Learn

    No it's not!!!

  • Jussjess25

    Hes gay what do you expect ?

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly

  • Jussjess25

    ??????????????

  • Jussjess25

    Yalll know he does gay porn all the time.. this is light work ?

  • Monique B

    Well we can tell who's loves the back door.

  • Monique B

    The Spanish dont accept homosexuality. They kill gay men like, India, Africa, Jamaicans,Pakastain, etc etc

  • Phillybruh

    Maybe your front door isn't that good?

  • Malai

    Lmao! ?????

  • sunni_daze

    Pull up to his bumber, baby
    In your long black limousine

  • Renee26

    Ok Ok... he may not be. You are very right about the industry and how females are seen in the rap game. Things have changed for the female image over time. The hard female rappers the gave off that lesbian persona from the 90's didn't really get the recognition they deserved and didn't get to stay in the game long ie. Boss, Marvelous, Lady of Rage because sex sells for them vs. lyrical content.

    The list of DL rappers who are famous is longer than both your arms and one of your legs....Oh I believe it!

  • Tiffany Miller

    It's always the ones with the biggest Peens being bottoms.

  • Tiffany Miller

    Yeah Dat way!!

  • disqus_FW7pCIigCY

    Yuk

  • Coffee1st

    Nasty. Just nasty.

  • Queen B

    Girl he lied lol

  • MsSlayla

    Yikes

  • Ni Ni

    So true ?.

  • Ni Ni

    Great job, we stray sometimes but eventually those teachings resurface.

  • Sincerity7

    I opened the NSFW pics on my phone and yes, nice meat. Funny that the last pic with the Caucasoid dude only using 1 hand to cover the goodies but Milan needs both hands.

  • NoTsWeAtiNgThEsMaLlThInGs

    Socks!!

  • rachel

    He is advertising for male lovers be they gay, "straight", down low, single, married, whatever...

  • Coffee1st

    ???

  • the truth

    How would know when you're female? Cause you don't. Big muscle dudes are more likely to be bottoms. Slim dudes are likely to be more top.

  • the truth

    What does your momma think about you sucking dick?

  • the truth

    Females do the same thing. Show off their goods too. Get over it. You just hating cause he's gay and with a big dick that you can't have. Typical black female attitude.

  • the truth

    Hatin'

  • the truth

    He would've pass on you anyway.

  • the truth

    You act as if you've "hung out" with a bunch gay men and understand the different type of gay men there are. STFU!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Lucky me...

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy

    Go eat a dick! Fact the majority of gay dudes hate women and refer to us a breeders. Ya'll don't care for us as a whole and are trying to replace us with your other confused counterparts trannies and faux transgender women. Hell they're even trying to grow babies out side of the womb now in artificial wombs . Why? Who does that benefit? Oh that's right you gay dudes that don't like women but want to rent our wombs. Women's rights are slowly starting to disappear because your confused tranny brethren want to infiltrate our spaces. So you STFU!

  • Mrs.Meenie

    Lol!!!..FYI..I'm a married black woman. My husband stands 6'2 225 pounds with a third leg that is at my every beck and call this part of the reason why I married him. Sorry but I don't have to scroll the blogs and lust on a fudge packers dodo stained dick like you do!..Sorry you got the wrong black woman this time...You tried it but you need to try again...Bloop!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • the truth

    I got a third leg too 10 inches. You can brag about ur dream guy all you want. Still hating on gays

  • the truth

    NO you're the one hating! You're just uneducated and think there is only one sexual orientation. You're not superior.

  • Mrs.Meenie

    You're pathetic! I will continue to brag on my husband while you continue to lust over a dick on the internet that don't want you. I was never hating on anybody I just asked that Sandra not put the pics on her main page to use a link instead so that married women like myself don't have to see that. Unlike you I am not interested in seeing Milan's or any other man's dick...gay or not! I respect my man and my marriage which you would know nothing about b/c if you did u would know where I am coming from. But since you a true dick riding ass dude then you don't understand and you are not on my level, I have blocked you so no need to respond to this post. Go do ur favorite thing and suck a dick!!!!

  • daryl campbell

    Personally, I could care less about him and his gayness; but Just a little contrast. The white guy posing with him spoke volumes. White men have traditionally have had Gay black fetishes for decades, and its more prevalent today than ever, but their down low deeds don't get blasted as they do in the black community. For the record; I don't agree on either side, Just a little contrast and comparison.