Actors Jesse Williams and Minka Kelly dated for months before his separation from his long-suffering wife, Aryn Drake-Lee. Williams and Kelly were spotted on a date Monday night.

The Grey’s Anatomy star filed for divorce from his wife on April 11, according to court documents obtained by PEOPLE.com.

“They’re having a good time together,” a source confirmed to PEOPLE.

Williams, 35, and Drake-Lee have two children, daughter Sadie, 3, and son Maceo, 2.

He addressed the breakup in Jay-Z‘s visual for his album 4:44.

In the short film, titled Footnotes for 4:44, Williams addressed being unfaithful with 37-year-old Kelly.

He angrily dismissed the widespread criticism about his cheating, saying he didn’t throw his wife away for a cute woman.

“I was in a relationship 13 years, 13 real years, not 5 years, not 7 years — 13 years,” he said. “All of a sudden motherf—ers are writing think-pieces that I somehow threw a 13-year relationship.

“Like, the most painful experience I’ve had in my life with a person I’ve loved with all of my heart — that I threw a person and my family in the trash because a girl I work with is cute,” he continued.

We should have empathy for men like Williams and Jay-Z who are seduced by pretty women to be unfaithful to their wives.

Williams probably tried hard to resist the temptation, but men are wired to cheat. Staying faithful to one woman is a struggle for most men, who ultimately fall short because the flesh is weak, and so it is ordained.

Photos by Getty Images



  • Mbailey

    THAT’S a shame. I don’t know how someone would recover from something so public.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    lol okay …. Got nothing for this… ? folks follow your heart the end …

  • LivingLife_BeingPositive

    Him and minka wont last … That’s all I have

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Makes me look at him a lil different. I aint gon lie…

  • Vegas1989

    WOW…13 years she had your back…SMH…The kids are too young to be going through this stuff. They know that something is wrong

  • Jessica

    My heart hurts for his wife.

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_

    i’ve been through this. smh.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Well, why not stay and work it out or go get some help…those kids are babies..how much did 13 really mean…I call BS…sound like some regular niggah shat to me……

  • missmiami305

    I hope it was worth it?

  • missmiami305

    Gonna email u this week???

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    hey bew …. Got ya ?

  • Branch Davidian

    I mean come on…his wife does look way too much like Orlando Brown. I get it…

  • missmiami305

    Mine too. He denied this for so long but i knew the blind was right. They always are.

  • missmiami305

    Me too

  • sunni_daze

    I read something. But I’m just gonna wait and see if its true.

  • missmiami305

    Spill it

  • Tammie Reed
  • Queen B

    Im sorry but she’s not cute….dress it and make it real for em

  • tintin

    Sandra and her write ups.. geesh..

  • Please Stop The Madness

    Fukk yew Jesse

  • Desiree Edwards

    old news….must be a slow news day

  • Torae

    His relationship with this woman will be over by the fall. And yes he threw his marriage a way…if you’re chasing ass while married you’re throwing your marriage away?????

  • Coco

    In a good way or bad way?

  • Coco

    She’s white and skinny! That’s beauty for most men in this world.

  • SuperScooper1

    I don’t hear a peep from the people who were saying it was all a big misunderstanding and he’d never cheat on his wife.

    Do I smell Biracial Duplicity, Jesse? Isn’t she an industry pass around chick? I’d love to hear what he likes about her….

    https://media.giphy.com/media/UrZWGs5OO3U0o/giphy.gif

  • Karen Brady

    Mizz Minka gets arouuunnnnddd.

  • Karen Brady

    I just said this. YES! SHE! IS!!!

  • Anunnaki

    they sent a siren to destroy him, forget you are a half breed you N1gga to society.. they never forgave you for your speech, now they coming for you……another Black one bites the dust…….lol

  • Anunnaki

    she can be fat, as long as she wyt, she is perfect.. Black man logic

  • Coco

    It’s funny how she’s not getting called a h0e, other girls get called worse for less transgressions.

  • NegraGata

    This Minka lady is NOT that BEAUTIFUL/CUTE…BUT beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

  • Nia

    But he wants us to believe that he didn’t throw his family away for an”pretty girl”. That’s exactly what you did my man! ??

  • Sexy CJ

    Jesse Williams addressed being unfaithful with Minka Kelly.

    “I was in a relationship 13 years, 13 real years, not 5 years, not 7 years — 13 years”……….”a person I’ve loved with all of my heart”……….

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/af930954b256430a41b1caa62dcdfc16bdb5f9a9867588fad969fe7151c3801c.gif

  • NegraGata

    “I’d love to hear what he likes about her….”

    Things that make you go UUUMMM…I guess we can say like we say about our sons – “You better bring someone home that looks like your mother/that can use the same hairbrush (lol @ the hairbrush thingy)”

  • stav

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/86fa1cba0afd6e54a6cb6d1020a4a6bd2a93b6ec7cdee81c0a60eba1a717d30e.png Purchased looks , just like the majority of them . This man is a hypocritical fraud! He is in a deep sleep (not woke at all!)

  • OrangeStarrHappyHunting

    He sound very guilty and angry.

  • imright

    he cheated or didnt ?!?!! who gives a fck besides his wife ??

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And it’s usually NOT about the cuteness!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And the sad part is HE allowed it. She will show him that, THEN WHAT? Oh, I’m black, Tiger Woods, Tyson, O.J.and others!!!

  • SuperScooper1

    For me it’s less about race and more about the background. If she were an accomplished doctor, activist attorney, etc. I would give him the benefit of the doubt of “falling in love” with someone else.

    BUT, if it’s a question of her allegedly indulging his deepest sexual fetishes (re: the alleged butt play she was notorious for with Jeter) than she and Jesse deserve each other. Throwing away your family for sex is never okay.

    Wife or not I’m not tossing anyone’s salad, ever.

  • stav

    “they sent a siren to destroy him”
    —————————————–
    and he bought it, hook, line , and sinker!

  • ShelbyMoore

    Anytime a black (or partially black) man is too deep, too get back to your roots, too the yt man is holding us down, too woke, too afro-centric….they always end up like dude with them bean pies in I’m Gonna Git You Sucka.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    “We should empathy for men like Williams and Jay-Z who are seduced by pretty women to be unfaithful to their wives.”

    I KNOW YOU FXCKIN LYIN! WHOOO WROTE THIS!! LOLOL

  • ShelbyMoore

    Extremely bad.

  • Karen Brady

    Oh my.. I didn’t know that about her & Jeter. Well who’s butt??? Or was it both?

  • Karen Brady

    lol..

  • Olga Summer

    I just…smh idk…Moral of the story is: he was in something far too long at such a young age and never got the chance to “sell his oats”~like mama use to say! Its unfortunate that he couldn’t just be upfront with his wife once he “made it” & prior to kids. Really coulda alleviated this unnecessary drama!

  • Faithz

    Exactly, and when the withe girl throws his as from the train, then
    he will be crying crocodile tears, because these men will never l,esrn how to stop playing themselves.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Money can make anyone a bombshell.

  • Faithz

    Thanks for the truth.

  • Faithz

    Indeed.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Let them yt chicks hold him down now cause when they come for him, there won’t be any black women to have his back.

  • Faithz

    True, many say it’s not the Beauty
    it’s the B00ty, Just saying.

  • stav

    Or what one perceives to be a bombshell( Hollywood imaging from long ago)!

  • Faithz

    True..

  • Karen Brady

    Word up.

  • Anunnaki

    dont they always

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You’re saying she’s an industry bicycle?

  • Anunnaki

    they never learn. NEVER…so many

  • Karen Brady

    If the pedal fits…lol

  • cherrypie

    Fake ass Malcolm X

  • Coco

    Lol, right. only for black men and latinos.

  • 2telldatruth

    Well if you have a man that attractive you may want to get his on level. Just saying.

  • hotntot95
  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    His pedestal got kicked out from under him.

  • Karen Brady

    THIS! You make me want to stand up at my desk and applaud you. Oooh I’m kicking myself for guzzling his kool-aid he served us at the BET awards a couple of years back. Wack azz.

  • Ni Ni

    “sell his oats” ??

  • Coy little wink

    I don’t think she is unattractive, she is just not glamorous…..he was a teacher she looks like a teacher’s wife.

  • stav

    Especially the black girls! Look what Hollywood did with Angelina Jolie , they immediately carefully constructed a Mother Teresa image of her when she became a home-wrecker. Before that she was a Heroin addicted , equal opportunity junkie, lesbian. The last thing they would call her is a HOE!

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I see where you going with this, but this bish look like a riper more-haggard version of Kate Middleton. Cute where!?

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    If he don’t know, he better ask Tiger.

  • Karen Brady

    To everyone saying she’s not cute.. I was addicted to ‘Friday Night Lights’ and she really was cute and sexy on that show. I’m just sayin’ :-). P.S. I LOVED that show.. lol.

  • hotntot95

    It doesn’t matter how fine or desirable a woman is…u can cook, clean, bring in money, have his kids, polish his knob, and he still gonna cheat if it’s in him…

  • Miami8981

    Well, someone reported yesterday that Jay is getting ready to go on tour just as he did when the surrogate gave birth to Blue. That MoFo getting ready to get his snack on. He’s batshit crazy if he thinks that suddenly he’s going to be faithful to his wife because they tore down the fake facade marriage and started over. Uh oh. I think it’s time for me to start ROLFing.

  • OrangeStarrHappyHunting

    lol

  • Karen Brady

    Many many snacks. I said the same thing. He’ll lay low for like 5 min. That’s what they do. Some don’t even do that.

  • Karen Brady

    Absolutely.

  • Karen Brady

    That’s exactly what it is.

  • stav

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/903a6d01951a2a9ef4de2445eb195f2bb97fa4bb3448aac7727bf77d3544939f.png Big difference Huh! Think she was sexy before? Super Mediocre!Nothing in Hollywood is original( including faces and bodies)!

  • Karen Brady

    Don’t forget blood drinking, brother tongue-kissing…

  • Coy little wink

    Sow hunny…not sell ?

  • stav

    Exactly!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    In a bad way..he’s making speeches saying black girls are magical meanwhile he dumps his wife the woman who was with him for 13 years over a white girl.

  • Miami8981

    Yup.

  • Karen Brady

    Oooh… That’s a very big difference. You’re right.. nothing is real in that world it seems.

  • Rayne

    Right attitude. I know I’m not.

  • dontgetblocked

    Another black male failure. I won’t support anything he does in the future. He’s a hypocrite, a liar, a cheat, and a Becky loving slave. He’s worse than Wesley Snipes, Taye Diggs or Terrance Howard. At least they’re upfront about their hate for black women. This yella boy going to stand up and give a black pride speech while cheating on his black wife with a stringy head. Disgusting!!!

  • Rayne

    And she’s still ugly. She’s not no prize.

  • dontgetblocked

    She meant to say “sell”.

  • V Dubb

    Arouuuunnnnnnnnnddddddddd yasssss

  • hotntot95

    Jeezus…If this ain’t the truth…

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    How you get is how you lose them, what goes around comes back around….

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Not really!!! You know they tried it with Denzel, Will and others. Bill Cosby just started drugging them to get them off him. Not saying it was right!!!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Right? I was hoping that was a typo.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I feel bad for his wife. She was his day one. “And when he get on, he’ll leave your ass for a white girl”. -Kanye West

  • Ni Ni

    I’m waiting on her to come back to explain…maybe this something new.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    The sad part is it’s just not that much to a nut that lasts a second!!!

  • Olga Summer

    Chuckle…thx for the correction!! 😀

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    So the same posters who would once not claim him as black cause he is light skin, light eyes and fine hair are now bashing him as a black man. Both these women fit his racial make up. He has made a choice as a human and a man. The end. Race isn’t in this one. We love to bash black men. We fight to bash them…. then get mad when they don’t want you . Lol

  • V Dubb

    Some folk should just remain SANGLE! #thatisall

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Yes. Thank you for not throwing race in there. It is what it is.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Trust only yourself, who YOU know for sure. Never underestimate what another person will do. It’s not what they say but what they do!!! EXPECT NOTHING. You are safer.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I’m 100% for that and encourage that highly!!!

  • Wreckognize Game

    IMO Jesse could not carry the load he was gifted when he made that speech at the award show. He realized he “mistakenly” shifted to the other side of the line. He knows who watches the shows he is on so he retreated/ reneged to get back to where he really belongs. Bye Bih.

    JayZ likes to make his songs cry. They never speak on anything when it happens but the albums be talking like a MF.

  • Lisa daniels

    Damn that same person?

  • Junkanoo

    I didn’t know she was an actress.

  • Lisa daniels

    Even Steve can see it. Ray too.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    In the long run, his wife dodged a bullet with him as a husband!!!

  • Joyce

    Jesse looking real stupid right now, his pockets are not as deep as Derek Jeters… clearly she has a type! Mr. Jeters leftovers. Way to go Jesse??

  • Lisa daniels

    The truly said part is this one of Jeters herpes girls.?

  • Mbailey

    SHE is on his level. That’s why he married her and had two children with her. It lasted 13 years.

  • Coy little wink

    But why? And how do u know?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Nope. If he felt she wasn’t “on his level” he shouldn’t have married her.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    But it’s not about cuteness, Halle Berry, Beyonce, Janet and others.

  • Mbailey

    YOU can add Camel and the fake blonde revolutionary to that list.

  • Lisa daniels

    I told my child’s father hell no. I knew she was piece of ?. No need to marry it.

  • NegraGata

    “This yella boy going to stand up and give a black pride speech while cheating on his black wife with a stringy head”

    This is the part that disgusted me when I first heard about this situation months ago…Just made his speech null and void!!!

  • Junkanoo

    Aryn can now focus on healing no use staying in a loveless draining marriage ,not good for ones mental health. The hardest part is not letting the failed marriage and pain define you she can learn and grow from this experience and rise like a phoenix from the flames .

  • Libra80sBaby

    Jesse….stfu. Addressing this on Jay-Z visual album was for what reason???

  • Anunnaki

    yesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

  • Anunnaki

    lmaoo, I was about to say that

  • Anunnaki

    lmaoo, OOK

  • toni walker

    It is not that deep most people don’t care what someone’s race is. You look ridiculous writing an essay of nonsense. NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR THAT CRAP!

  • 2telldatruth

    Now, now let’s get serious here. While his wife is attractive she looks tired and rundown. All I’m saying is you’re in Hollywood where TEMPTATION is the name of the game and if you’re now willing to keep it sexy for your man you can rest assured someone else who is. Now that doesn’t necessarily mean divorce.

  • Cheese eggs

    Funny how people drop you when you don’t live up to THEIR expectations. Some times you have to do what is best for you…not the culture. Live your life Jessie.

  • Lisa daniels

    Chile… Looking Julie Roberts character in mirror mirror all old and decrypted until she steal the life force from some man.

  • Anunnaki

    let her be great with Sell…lol

  • Anunnaki

    bless your heart , it happens 🙂

  • 2telldatruth

    The marriage was several years ago….you have to keep your man’s attention the same way you attracted him. If you think a man or woman who is keeping themselves together and their significant other isn’t……. well you know the rest.

  • 2telldatruth

    I wasn’t talking about the mistress….

  • Anunnaki

    yep

  • Junkanoo

    Aryn can now focus on healing no use staying in a loveless draining marriage ,not good for ones mental health. The hardest part is not letting the failed marriage and pain define you she can learn and grow from this experience and rise like a phoenix from the flames .

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Williams probably tried hard to resist the temptation, but men are wired to cheat. Staying faithful to one woman is a struggle for most men, who ultimately fall short because the flesh is weak, and so it is ordained.
    _________________________________________
    This is true. America trying to be all “Bible-Belt and in turn destroying what God has mandated. The devil IS a liar!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Right?! I never heard of selling ones wild oats!

  • Shani

    that part!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Ok ok ok.. Sell his wild oats! I can’t lie, that was funny though. I was over here laughing 🙂

  • ebonics

    BWAHAHAHHAHA! I shouldnt have laughed as hard as I did at this… Jeters angels 😉

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Actually black women don’t bash them on their own. Usually it’s YT that says a lot of BS about them and then blacks jump on the bandwagon like puppets. Such as this blog.

  • Lisa daniels

    I said herpes not angels but carry on.?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    It’s a shame that a brutha actually said that.

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    ??

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Like Johnny Carson said… ” It’s nice to see so many new faces… Especially on the old faces!

  • 4RGSpot

    Nice! ?

  • 4RGSpot

    Yeah, I agree. I know her pain must feel endless, but you’re right.

  • I Run New York

    Damn, the kids are so young.

  • 4RGSpot

    Sangle ????

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    something is off with the 2007 photo. I suspect photoshop.

  • Fly By Day and Night

    That speech he gave is now void

  • Shira Harding-James

    Black lives matter and his marriage are two separate things. I don’t feel his choice to be unfaithful or to divorce his wife has nothing to do with police brutality and police killings… ????

  • Mbailey

    SO WHAT? Hollywood or not, he chose what he chose because that was his level.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Why are people saying his speech is null and void??

  • 2telldatruth

    Exactly, that “was” his level and he is elevating himself to higher levels and I don’t mean with the other woman. The man is keeping it together, shouldn’t the woman keep herself looking nice too?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Guess he knew something we didn’t. I mean he kinda did the same thing. Lol

  • the guest

    Gone Hollywood.

    Any woman that takes care of a vain light skinned light eyed mixed type man when he is broke and struggling is a fool. Ask the wives of Jeremy Meeks and Jessie Williams.

    cc: The Jeremy Meeks post

  • the guest

    Unfortunately, there are men who value a varied assortment of orgasms more than their children’s foundation.

  • the guest

    For image of black allegiance and street cred after he left his black wife for a white woman.

  • the guest

    I agree. He didn’t just give a black pride speech. He advocated and uplifted black women. He made so many black women feel valued and recognized.

    White women were evil angry and threatened to stop watching the show. Now the white women feel vindicated because he left his black wife for a white woman.

    Jessie’s situation is not about black people having issues with interracial relationships. Its about black people have issues with the racism around his romantic choice.

  • Queen B

    No im talking about the wife ?

  • Queen B

    Any plans to get married?

  • MistaO

    That “13 years she had your back” stuff is conjecture at best. The wife could have been a disrespectful, unsupportive bi tch for all we know! A whole lot of females who have good men crap on them for years, then play surprised when the man wakes up and moves on with a woman who is nice, sweet, feminine and supportive…

  • interestingconcept1

    Cheaters, cheat. How does that just stop? Jay z with his lame excuses and this fool. Everyone sees Bey as this strong woman, but she is the one with the ego -just got to stay married to prove the world wrong. Girl you in danger.

  • Wayup!

    Because in hindsight that self serving rant became null and void when he picked up with Becky..?

  • nick c

    Speak the truth

  • Wayup!

    BINGO…!!!!???

  • nick c

    If someone is fake to your face about one thing you probably gonna side eye them on the other thing if not you probably get burned a lot in life.

  • nick c

    If was HIS expectations he was the one lecturing everyone.

  • hotntot95

    Nerp…lol…(I tried it twice, not for me)..but he’s my soul mate…he gets me…I don’t call lookin for him….I don’t wait up…I don’t lose sleep..we don’t fight…but I will pack and disappear in a heartbeat cause I always have a exit strategy…and he knows it…

  • Cheese eggs

    Because they’re hurt. Apparently he was supposed to be a shining example of a woke black man that loved an supported black women. He was ours. But apparently, he’s disappointed some black women because didn’t live up to THEIR fantasy. Oops, he’s just a man…oh well? (I still like him)

  • Cheese eggs

    Nope the public’s expectation. What he said is still true. But he’s not a hero anymore. Live ya life Jessie. Hes He’s still woke and dope to me.

  • Mbailey

    HE didn’t elevate himself to shyte. Becky looks like aged and curdled milk, while his wife has buttery, flawless skin, and beautiful wavy hair. Relationships run their course, and that is all there is to it. After awhile, he will find somebody else to succeed curdled milk Becky. That’s how it goes.

  • Mbailey

    A LOT of you lost one’s actually worship and believe everything these entertainers say, don’t you?

  • Mbailey

    HE’S a celebrity. Not somebody you know. Stop stanning for these people and stan for yourself.

  • Mbailey

    I DON’T care who he’s humpin. He ain’t my man.

  • Shira Harding-James

    What was he fake about and to whom?

  • Shira Harding-James

    That’s what disappoints me about it. For me his speech and what he chooses to do in marriage clearly is like apples and oranges. However because he made that speech people uphold him to a different standard. So now that you decide to step out on your wife and then divorce her he had to know that they would connect the two….it isn’t fair but that’s how it is.

  • Munchosgirl

    It’s NEW booty

  • Shira Harding-James

    Chile…. all of this and then some. I kept telling my ex-husband this same thing lol

  • Shira Harding-James

    Ohhh no lol he’s been on almost as long as they have been together. It’s the speech

  • Shira Harding-James

    He did lol!

  • Shira Harding-James

    Why though? Lol

  • Queen B

    Lol i feel ya i want to get married and have 2 more kids with my man we’ve been together for 5.5 years but there’s never been any big talk/plans to get married. I think he likes the long term relationship thing without any real “attachments” or obligations that marriage has. He says he wants to b with me forever and we are so in love but i think he’s nervous too bc he was once friends with my bd lol ? Legend has it that my bd still don’t know we’re dating lol

  • hotntot95

    Use that “no attachments”part to your advantage…I’ve never been traditional so my advice maybe a little raw for some people…but um, always keep yourself independent, the moment u start to get comfortable and give him your heart men get shifty…the less you need him or call him (but show him love at the same time)…the more he will sit and think about that…never show them your hand…and never let yourself go.. keep them kids in check and keep some money for emergencies…chile…u never know what will happen..?

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Yup

  • Anunnaki

    Me too?

  • Dr.Rue

    Jessie is just a man….

  • ???TheRider???

    That’s right, she has the gift that keeps on giving. Hopefully he didn’t give that gift to Aryn.

  • 2telldatruth

    I didn’t say he elevated himself with another woman.

  • Dr.Rue

    Nah, he’s only been on for a bout 2 yrs, and of that time they’ve been separated for 9 months. Jessie was with his wife for 13 years…sad.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    If you feel the need to cheat, end your marriage, or relationship. Women stop giving them second changes, once a cheater always a cheater in my opinion. No excuses. SMH!

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Amen! However, looks have nothing to do with being a cheater, its opportunity, and it takes two.

  • TheOwley

    He cheated on his spouse with this woman. These people will lay down with anybody. She was girlfriend to John Mayer, Sean Penn, and Derek Jeter. He can have her.

  • Cheese eggs

    Okay

  • Cheese eggs

    Re phrase please. I’m not understanding what you are trying to say…sorry

  • Jussjess25

    Shes a white women .. every black man out here trying to get their hands on one. He steady acting like he has all this integrity, but look smh

  • Cici

    It’s not all about looks. Beyoncé and Rasheeda have been cheated on multiple times.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly and the whole world tellin him he looks to good to be with his wife.. he fell for it smh

  • Jussjess25

    Hes a fraud !

  • Jussjess25

    ? I believed him..

  • Coco

    Lol, sorry.

  • Jussjess25

    Thank you! U bette speak

  • Shira Harding-James

    He’s been on grey’s anatomy for 10 years..that’s what I meant by almost as long

  • Malcom Flex

    “They” say he’s bi, she’s a beard.

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly

  • jussaying

    Martin Luther King, Jr had all kind of affairs on Coretta. It didn’t make him any less competent or believable as a civil rights leader. Just made him a chitty husband. Bill Cosby is a rapist, but that doesn’t take away all that he has done for black culture or civil rights either. Remember, we can all walk and chew gum at the same time. Humans are fallible, and one does not need to be perfect to affect change. If someone goes around demanding perfection from everyone they meet, they probably are going to be disappointed a lot in life and likely live a lonely life.

  • V Dubb

    Yes ma’am. It’s best!!

  • V Dubb

    Lolololololol

  • VM

    Cold hard facts. There is no need to to taint your vows, don’t delay if you want to go astray.

  • VM

    I liked and unliked it just to like it again ?!

  • Coco

    I don’t see Beyoncé as strong woman. I see her like I see Rasheeda. Women who got preyed on by much older men.

  • Coco

    Lol.

  • Coco

    Because they both really want to be with becky with the good hair. That’s their true calling.

  • Coco

    Right! Angelina has the best Hollywood switch of all times. *kanye’s voice*

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    part when I told
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    a huge problem,bills pilling up,house rent to pay and kids to take care of he then told me
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  • Juanita Tarpkins

    Thats not all together true that just ur racist opinion,I have several brothers and they are not interest in white women.all white women aren’t all that.

  • karen b

    I betcha a dollar to a dime that his wife is about to do a 360 on his ass….She about to lose some weight, get some surgery, and do a complete make over on his ass then step out and start dating…Watch….after all this crap is wrapped up, we wont be able to recognize her.

  • C Mack

    All that pro-black talk at the BET awards. Hypocrite

  • C Mack

    How many white women did MLK hook up with? People are upset with Jesse because he made his wife a statistic just to frollic with a white woman. His actions do not align with his words.

  • C Mack

    Every thing is the black woman’s fault. Even when they get done wrong, it’s her who gets the blame

  • Ms..N

    Just my two cents, Jessie is biracial you know..So disowning his white side would be disowning himself.

  • Look@m3

    True but the media keeps forcing or trying to forced people to believe that this is the case.

  • Mia Said so

    well i say if your not going leave… just let him cheat in peace.. because he is not going to STOP.. they only stop when we as WOMAN STOP!!!

  • Renee26

    Boooooo!!! to the last 2 paragraphs in this write up; it is what it is. A spade was seen as a spade. He cheated on his wife and left his family….but denies he left his family…OK we BLIND, DEAF, and DUMB Jesse

  • Shira Harding-James

    It’s just sad all the way around
    I guess I’m like celebrities are the same like us normal folk

  • Tawaii

    Ciara looks hood, and Tamar looks strange!

  • Nophace

    Yo, who’s writing these articles?!? I’m pretty sure you can hire someone from the comments that will do a much better job!

  • datATLboi

    All these green-eyed light brothers tippin to the other side lol….let that be a lesson ladies….stick with us dark brothers

  • Queen B

    Lol thanks!!!

  • V Dubb

    Lololololololololol you can tell I was over it. Nicca just stay SANGLE dammit

  • MzApple

    My co worker had nerve to say he left his ugly wife for someone better looking. Why y’all mad? I was like bish what? Smh

  • BeUtFullSoul

    He always looked sneaky to me.. I’ve always felt he had something going on with him…trying to ACT all “Bestman”-ish and s#!+

  • karen b

    same here…

  • TeeTee

    But his mother is white – so I don’t see how that counts really, especially when men goes for women that remind them of their mother.

  • TeeTee

    did she just say BC is a rapist? No that does not take away from what he’s done – but it sure does not help – being a rapist and a cheater are 2 different things…. I am not saying that BC is a rapist – but to say that in the same sentence in look what “this person” as a rapist has done for the Blck Culture is redundant and it that is just being a bad human.

  • Mojo2

    I’m not here for that failure Jesse. He’s already proven he’s not worth my time. I am worried about his wife and kids! After her anger and depression lift – you do you girl. Make this world yours!! Forget that all talk do nothing a$$ h**•
    Better now while she’s still young. Give me 3 hours with her in the shops, she’ll come out drop dead HOT.

  • Karen Brady

    Lol… Right, I surely doubt MLK Jr.was creeping with any Becky Sues.

  • Karen Brady

    Oh for sure.. please. Cuteness is very often not a factor at all.

  • Karen Brady

    Believe it or not. I know her from that show and she played Jackie Onassis in something.. wait it was ‘The Butler’ I believe! Yep.

  • Unhappy American

    Righttttttt ?

  • BlahBlahBlah

    “Williams probably tried hard to resist the temptation, but men are wired to cheat. Staying faithful to one woman is a struggle for most men, who ultimately fall short because the flesh is weak, and so it is ordained.” WTH and women don’t cheat??? HIS WIFE LOOKS BUSTED CMON.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    It’s a 180. 360 she come right back to where she was. but let’s keep it real. She not going to work out. she hasn’t and won’t. Most black women don’t work out, don’t run, got ass and think that will keep their man, then got a big belly in the front. I said some, not all but that is the case w/ this one.But, if your man is very handsome and wanted by others, a woman got to do more with her self, men are visual. At least eat right and stop claiming baby weight when them kids can make their meals.

  • Tink Tink

    I’ve never been that sexually attracted to the sprites. Don’t get me wrong, I have seen some very beautiful white females, but they have never really “tickled my fancy” as my aunt would say.

  • Ruby Taylor

    His wife is gorgeous. Beautiful radiant skin and thick, bouncy hair. A female who says something like that is just simple. Don’t even try to communicate with simple people.

  • karen b

    Yeah right….Haven’t you been watching tv in this century? Did you read what I said? I SAID she will lose the weight by having surgery…..That’s the new way of reducing your size. SURGERY…my gosh folks, lets read and understand before you hit Reply………….

  • jussaying

    Yes. Bill Cosby is a rapist (allegedly if you are of the mind that does not believe in labels if not convicted), however, he still did a lot of civil rights work. This also isn’t isolated to just Bill, as many young black males did a lot of raping of black women in particular during the civil rights movement. (I would recommend watching the documentary NO! for a couple of first hand accounts of this experience). This also did not negate the work those black men did to advance civil rights. What I am illustrating is that man is capable of both good AND evil, and everything is not black and white. It is possible that people can do good and bad at the same time, and said bad does not necessarily cancel out the good everytime. Where you draw the line, of course, is your personal preference but I think it is detrimental to exist in extremes. We must remember that even histories cruelest monsters were still human and not evil twenty-four seven. Ideally, this may help us to keep from repeating the same mistakes or deifying man beyond reason. Cheers! ?

  • karen b

    In other words LIPOSUCTION………

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Then don’t read and move the fuck on.

  • Ruby Taylor

    Great advice hotntot95. Blessings to you and yours!

  • Luci Lu

    Just like Kanye, Jesse “left her for a white girl”. Lots of Black men (especially Black men with money), are opting for white, Asia, Puerto Rican, Latina or Biracial women……anything but Black women. They don’t want little Black nappy-headed children……like the way most of them looked like when they were kids. Kind of sad, but so true.

  • Ruby Taylor

    Yes she was a very successful realtor when they hooked up. She supported him financially the majority of their relationship. I can’t call it, but it sure smells like the typical b.s.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    It’s the court of public opinion and also I dgaf!

  • CaramelDream

    Then why not work on your marriage? Yeah you threw away your family for a cute white girl . . . you said it. Can’t take you seriously anymore . . . and then you address it on a rapper’s track . . . where is the voice you had on the BET stage? Boy bye

  • hotntot95

    ??

  • Vicki White

    He threw away a good faithful heart for half cute by the time she reach forty he’ll b like whoa.. it’s sad to me that they rather raise they kids on the weekend jus to buss one up in some stupid superficial wannabe.

  • Vicki White

    Wait til he see all the Botox and other stuff this fake wannabe gotta do jus to git fine

  • Renee Bee

    Minka got a swirly type! She dated Derek Jeter in the past.

  • teather

    Ah, man. this is a total L for all involved. It seems that there are no winners here. We have no idea what’s going on in their marriage. Y’all just said 4:44 was him admitting to a fake marriage. So, you never know. I’m sad for her unless she’s happy. We always assume the woman is sad. Most often, not just one person is creeping. Once a woman knows he won’t stop, the magnet attracts men to sympathize with her and tell her they can treat her better . . . and the door opens. Me, I don’t cheat, cuz I like my life. Men will kill you. I saw a guy shoot a woman in the head and leave her. she died, after a club, 3am, with all of us watching. It was her ex at that. If this is all that it took him to leave, he’s had one foot out the door already.

  • teather

    LOL! Funny.

  • teather

    They converted when the light skin dudes went outta style. when they could no longer play a woman just off their looks, they decided to switch hit. I give zero fawks about what he does or who he likes, just an observation. I just love our men, light dark whatever, it’s all love.

  • Allihave2say

    He looks like Jeremy Meeks long lost brother. Neither is anything special to look at.

  • Allihave2say

    From all the comments I keep reading about 4:44 Jay Z’s confessions set to set about embarrassing Beyonce yet again. He never defends her ever, tho he let his defense of Rhianna be known clearly. Now he admits to have no feelings for her; even tho we all noticed that when they were on stage.

  • Allihave2say

    If someone has the presence of mind to walk away from you let em go! Shake the dust off your feet and sweep it away from your door.

  • Jussjess25

    ?? humm ok. ?

  • Jussjess25

    Absolutely not! No they arent.. thats not what im suggesting..

  • Jussjess25

    And Im black therefore I cannot be racist ?.

  • Rhondalousey

    Oh shut up. He should’ve thought about his kids. F his happiness, smh.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Williams probably tried hard to resist the temptation, but men are wired
    to cheat. Staying faithful to one woman is a struggle for most men, who
    ultimately fall short because the flesh is weak, and so it is ordained.

    THIS IS NOT SCRIPTURAL. AT ALL.

    Train up a child in the way he should go,
    And when he is old he will not depart from it.

    NOTHING IN. NOTHING OUT.

  • toni walker

    The angry Black Woman has risen I see !?

  • silverspirit

    You sound like ghetto trash. Get a life loser.

  • SuperScooper1

    And you sound like one of the white supremacists trolls that have been haunting these threads for weeks. You really give yourself away with the 4th grade vocabulary and simple syntax. But, if “ghetto trash” is all you can sling and all you have to cling to, you can have it. I hope things get better for you…Seriously.

    http://s2.quickmeme.com/img/2b/2b8fc0973583516bac357819bfb2ce60b966100a36944c217de972fff3ae528d.jpg

  • silverspirit

    Shut your trap gossip queen. Practice what you preach psychopath. In the mean time, get a life loser.

  • SuperScooper1

    As I said before, please don’t respond to any of my posts or contact me in any way again. I feel incredibly uncomfortable with this dialogue and am afraid for my safety. Thank you/Goodbye.

  • Jenni

    “we should have empathy for these men” lord this must be a farce right? Like the onion?. Maybe women like MInka should wear a burka??