Mother of trans nurse calls plea deal a 'slap in the face'
 
Dwanya Hickerson

Dwanya Hickerson said he "lost it" when he stabbed a transexual nurse 190 times at a Pascagoula hotel on July 23, 2016.

Hickerson, 23, was arrested 2 days later and charged with capital murder in the brutal death of 25-year-old Dee Whigham, a nurse at Forrest General Hospital in Hattiesburg.

On Thursday, almost a year after he killed Whigham, Hickerson accepted a plea deal with a recommended sentence of 40 years in prison plus eight years for robbery.

The Navy sailor was stationed at Keesler Air Force Base for training in 2016, when he arranged to meet Whigham after the two chatted online for several months.

Whigham, who was dressed in stereotypical feminine clothing, picked up Hickerson at the gate at Keesler and they went straight to Whigham's hotel.

Once in the hotel room, they immediately had anal sex. Hickerson later said he thought Whigham just preferred anal sex until Whigham told Hickerson he was a transgender pretending to be a woman.

After repeatedly stabbing and slashing Whighams's throat, Hickerson took the time to shower and clean up the crime scene, according to investigators.

Whigham's purse and cell phone were stolen from the room.

Whigham’s friends, who were sharing the hotel room, found the mutilated body and called 911. Blood was still visible in the shower.

“I lost. I lost it,” Hickerson told the court, saying he didn't remember much of the murder. Psychiatrists call such memory loss "homosexual panic". The condition describes temporary loss of memory and perception before murdering gay or trans people.

After political pressure the condition was removed from the DSM, but some jurisdictions still recognize it as a legal defense.

After Hickerson accepted the plea deal, Whigham's mother called the deal a "slap in the face."

“He gets a chance to see his family and I don’t have that chance with my child,” said Vickie Blackney Whigham in court on Thursday.

Whigham's sister also addressed the court.

“I know bad things happened to good people,” Denisha Whigham said. “I don’t know what happened in that room because I wasn’t there and my brother can’t tell me. I just wanted you to know you took away my only brother -- and my daughter, his only niece, she was devastated.”

Photos by Sunherald.com, Facebook.com

  • ThottyPippen

    Naw bruh, even made up you can tell that that's a transgender. He was mad that he enjoyed having sex with a man.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Well he should have never been given 40 years more like life...

    and you didnt know that was a male oh ok.

  • Justlooknout

    This is the old Sandra I know.....All these fukkery post.

    This pretending to be someone you are not, lying on your paynus and just faking the funk, will get you killed in these streets.

  • ThottyPippen

    Sooooo, while he was going through the muddy highway he kept his hands to his sides???? He didn't touch try to touch anything in the front? Cuz surely he woulda felt a dyck. Nope, not buying that he didn't know that was a man when he first got picked up.

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Lesson learned: Make sure ALL openings are operable before proceeding.

  • Banka

    LOL the muddy highway .!!

  • BEANTOWN BULLI

    Ok OK imma say it and someone will get mad but, bruh he kinda caused his own death. He should have been upfront about being trans. He would be alive today!

  • Banka

    The man should had told the man that he was a man ..........and this could had been avoided... man! smh

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    If he didn't know that was a man he must be blind in one eye and can't see out of the other one.
    That she-male looks like Jason Whitlock in a bad wig.
    BTW if he was fudge packing then he was probably on the DL any way.

  • Banka

    I agree and why tell him after the fact, ??

  • Jdove585

    DAM

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    This is why I don't deal with married men.

    These fools will lie to themselves and after the deed is done won't be able to handle it and instead of internalizing it they let their anger out of their sex partner.

  • Rachel

    He prob told him after the fact because dude was ready for regular male to female sex. He prob didn't think dude would kill him. But that's the price he paid for not being honest.

  • Justlooknout

    My apologies for not being sensitive to the deceased. RIP

    But folks be careful OJ is loose, NBA ballers beating folks down, Usher is spreading green juice and RKelly still pissing on folks.

    JEEZ

  • Renee26

    I think he knew damn well that was a trans person....he on the DL and was down with that anal sex hook up with the trans man. #1 the victim looks like a man #2 once they had sexx the victims genitalia would have been all exposed and in the way; IJS he didn't say oral, he said anal (so where did the victim tuck it) #3 190 stab wounds is over kill...then you clean up and take her purse etc...naw dude you intentionally killed that person...more than likely due to your own self hate for being gay.

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    That's the only reason you don't deal with married men? Not their marital status?

  • Renee26

    Exactly!

  • freelancepimp .

    Whether people thinks it looks like a man or not, Women like men come in all shapes and sizes, the transexual should have been honest.

    It's a slap n the face that your nasty a$$ son was going around lying to men about being a woman and raping them by deceit.

  • Renee26

    Ok!!

  • BlackFeeMale

    This is hecka messed up. Dude is a punk. Them boys in the pen gone see straight thru his azz----litralleee

  • MsVAllDay

    Jason Whitlock!!! *dead*

  • Renee26

    That part...self hate

  • MsVAllDay

    litraleeeee you ain't shyt LOL LOL LOL

  • Dahl

    Homosexual panic?? That's a new one to me. But being deceitful can cost your life, all people should know this....

  • Renee26

    giggles

  • MsVAllDay

    So at what point is it criminal to lie to a partner about your gender??? I don't condone nor do I agree with the taking of anyone's life, but at some point these folks have got to be held accountable for not being truthful. Maybe if they are held accountable by the law they would be more forthcoming. This is sad all the way around. There are enough folks that want to hit a transgender, no need to lie.

  • http://citygirlzen.blogspot.com/ missarewa

    Smh. He shouldn't have killed her.

    Faux-women, just cuz the doctor gave you a coochie certificate doesn't mean you should not disclose who you really are. A lesson for all to do some basic checks on people before you get to rubbing your genit*ls together. Nasty

  • Liah

    He knew!....Anybody that looks @ this pic knows!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    He knew he is a homosexual who is scared to come out.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Look how broad his forehead is.
    Tell me that ain't a damn man wearing a Tina Turner wig.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That too. Why should they have the societal privileges of being married and then having their DL life too?
    My motto is: if you married tuna you gotta eat tuna for the rest of your life.

  • Anunnaki

    Dude so as you go in from behind you don't take the other hand and start to feel on breast thighs, Cooch, come on MAN. you took a life

  • hotntot95

    Murder ain't right but some people snap when they find out they've been lied to especially if you're a man saying your a lady..
    .... I would be turned off at the invite for anal...

  • ShWa

    You have to be up front to at least give that person the choice to make whether they want to engage with you or not, it could cost you your life when you deceive people.

  • Renee26

    Currently it is criminal....anybody can CLAIM not to have known...can they prove it though. In this mans case he couldn't so he took that plea. People will always claim to not know about something when they get in trouble...about anything. I call it playing dumb...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yup. You are absolutely right. This man was too old to be playing these kind of dangerous games....

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    1. ALWAYS disclose your sexual status
    2. He knew DAMN WELL that was a man. Something else happened.

  • Renee26

    No ballz slapping against each other, no dangle dangling or nothin...he lying. But the victim isn't alive to tell their side of the story...I bet the evidence told it though and that's why he signed that plea

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    And the devil is napping on everybody's porch. Childe yes...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Hey now!!! Don't insult Tina Turner's wig!!!! LOLLOLLOL!!!!!

  • Anunnaki

    but what if he told him, and he still decided to kill him... we will never know

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    How do you know he didn't and the guy freaked out after the fact and took it out on the victim?

    I have seen that happen.

  • Quitedeliteful

    This guy probably just wanted an excuse to kill someone... He screwed him and then killed him -- cold, Cold, COLD!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    a coochie certificate - LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!

  • MistaO

    Not necessarily, there are a lot of broad shouldered manly looking females out here. Girl you know its true...

  • imright

    after taking a second look ? he had to kno that was a man !! but the Tranny should have disclosed that in the beginning !!

  • Lady Elle

    So, he couldn't tell that she was a he?? ?

  • brooklyn23

    Look I know it's bad to deceive people, but it may be an excuse

  • ShelbyMoore

    ...

  • Peter Piper ATL

    Honey, that looks like Derek J. ALL DAY. So, clearly, this dude had to know he was fukking a big ole man with a wig on. That's established.

    So he felt guilty after he climaxed, evidently. Honey there's no need for science here: he's deranged and in deep denial about being a tranny chaser.

    I just diagnosed him free of charge.

    Legally, I'm not sure what the family expected, death by firing squad or something? He's got 48 years. Death penalty cases involve premeditation, and that may not have been easy to prove here.

  • sunni_daze

    I don't know. I had some whole girls in high school that look like the deceased.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Ask for an elementary school pic?

  • Karen Brady

    That neck alone wasn't a dead giveaway? Reminds me of Derek J. Also should his sister refer to him as her brother or her sister? I thought sister was politically correct since he was living as a she. Chile I'm just confused but this was vicious. And what the hell is “homosexual panic”??? Hear something new everyday.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Exactly I know natural born females that have a hamhock necks and facial hair like the deceased....

  • Karen Brady

    Yep, I was friends with a young lady back in our early twenties and it was hard to believe she was a female but she 100% was. And dudes dug her. Literally and figuratively. LOL.

  • Coy little wink

    Come on now...

  • Karen Brady

    I'm not going to laugh at hamhock neck but that is some description.. just laughing on the inside.

  • Karen Brady

    THIS RIGHT HERE! I decided about 5 yrs ago I need baby/ elementary school pics when I start dealing with a new man and he can see mine to with no problem. Like a dang HIV result or a passport. Not playing out here.

  • brooklyn23

    Listen I'm a female whos done it in the dark, and males dont always feel, they think about busting a but. Did he know I didn't know ,I dont know, but whatever happened to beat downs,

  • sunni_daze

    See. Maybe had dude been honest he'd still be alive.

  • Karen Brady

    I said Derek J below too and was going to say that he knew and then got in his feelings one way or another and commenced to slashing!

  • sunni_daze

    Hamhock necks and facial hair......lls. report to the corner

  • DynoMight

    They both lied; one lived and one died.

    "If you can't love yo'Self how [in] the hell you gon' love anybody else?" -RuPaul

    Condolences to the family of the slain victim of murder AND fear... fear of being judged by a society that sends mixed messages in "gender friendly" Pandora boxes. Deception, fear, lies... all ego. Ego kills, indiscriminately.

    So..... this murderer called the lesson of honesty to his existence via consensual sex with a person clearly not a woman... no offense... but the photo suggests Dee wasn't foolin' anybody sober and not horny. Further, you see what you're looking to see. #HeLookaLikeAMan #MsSwanVoice #MadTV

    The murderer will now complete HIS lessons in prison via a dude or two or three who also "just lost it" to get it in prison. Dee learned that lesson and it was the final lesson. What are we learning? #Uhhhh

    It's interesting to observe the views of those who say Dee should have disclosed the truth. True. However.... how many women disclose their motivations for entering relationships upfront? How many men disclose their other "relationships" up front? #YeahNo

    A lie is a lie. No sin is greater than the other. And if you're a brother, don't think you're fooling any woman or man by wearing the dresses that belong to your mother. #Grimmy #Please

    Stop dying. They're already killing us. #Enough #StudyingDragRace #EatingHalfABean

    https://youtu.be/jzVAIYfY0Gk

  • Karen Brady

    Yup yup. Probably would still be alive.

  • Karen Brady

    what's that song? Now it's in my head Milli vanilli maybe?.... goes to youtube.

  • Karen Brady

    YES!!!!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Right.. I know one maybe two chicks who love it but how you just hop in the bed the first time and bend over for someone to stick it in the azz. Turn off alll the way. AND in this day and age that should be a sign to check the front too before you go plowing in. Just saying. Come on now.

  • JV

    "how many women disclose their motivations for entering relationships upfront? How many men disclose their other "relationships" up front?"
    -----
    Disclosing, or choosing not to disclose, reasons to be in a relationship is not the same thing as omitting, "By the way, I have a penis!"

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I agree. He got Buyer's Remorse--right after he busted his nut.

    Chile.

  • Karen Brady

    THIS!!!!!!! I was going to say this on my first comment... it's natural instinct to grab and feel the front when you're in the back. Plus the peen must have been slapping around if it wasn't taped down. Oh Lord, I'm thinking too much about this mess. LOL.

  • Karen Brady

    Coochie certificate. I am CRYING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!!!! I have to use this one. Thanks missarewa.

  • Karen Brady

    I am on the floorr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love it. Too bad I am a female cuz I would love to ask for one at my next doctor's appointment. She'd be like okay this appointment is over now. Nurse come get this crazy bytch. and show her out.

  • Justlooknout
  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Bless the dead but the deceased ain't no Lucy Papers or Janet Mock.....dont see how he was confrused....

  • Karen Brady

    Yes receipts and by receipts I mean childhood (early) pics and a convo with a family member or two. Maybe an old friend from the sandbox, your kindergarten teacher, school crossing guard who remembers your azz.. somethin.

  • Banka

    I am thinking maybe he did not know or maybe he just ignored the signs, but to stab someone 190 times.!! something made him snap in a very very savage way.

  • Karen Brady

    PREACH

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    TMI and RIP, smh...
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif
    (I'm leaving now because I was speed reading through the article and thought it stated that the wig and purse were stolen. I chuckled a little, and that's why I'm leaving. I'm too ignant to be in here)

  • Karen Brady

    tuna :-)

  • Karen Brady

    YOU AIN'T GOT TO LIE CRAIG!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Justlooknout

    lies, ask for DNA and birth certificate and cervical exam.

    They start in elementary school. NO SHADE.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
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  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!

  • Justlooknout

    come back and sit right here with me.

    Lets be honest, its women we know that got thick necks.

    I know someone older showed me their mother pic and I died a little today. NECK was on swole, look like she pulled tractors back in the 40s/

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  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    we safe (OJ ain't checking for us) ROFL!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ?????

  • Karen Brady

    ROTFLMAO!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Okay you and Nancy Drew below have me crying over here... LMAOOOOOOOO

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • Justlooknout

    Prior to getting married. I would go on first dates and would never hear from them. I asked if things get serious would you be tested for STI's and share your credit report they magically vanished.

    It's bit much, by my Manage my Puscee in that ORDER.

  • Karen Brady

    Okay. I see both sides... you're quite right. That does happen.

  • Karen Brady

    I'm done now. Ya'll are on FIYAH today :-).

  • Justlooknout

    scoots over for @NYTimesBestseller:disqus and @disqus_MGkOxdk8pz:disqus

    Let me go get bench from backyard.

  • Justlooknout

    He may switch up, but either way. I AM GOOD!

  • Karen Brady

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you said they was probably sitting shoulder-to-shoulder, femur-to-femur, in bucket seats during the car ride, but he claim he ain't know? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • Quitedeliteful

    I definitely belong on the ignant bench!!! I'm tryna be good tho...

  • Justlooknout

    @nancy I didn't leave I'm just right here.

  • Justlooknout

    I know you did...just cause you laughed. NOW sit down. LOL

  • Karen Brady

    See that. Good though, saved you the nonsense and Lord knows what else. Good for you!! Shyt is real... we need to take heed.

  • Justlooknout

    Yeah, many I never heard from and THANK GOD!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i can't! LOL! I got stuck back at "coochie certificate" ....I kept re-reading it and falling out! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b029c76378ea5eb0d17be0ae40b316f329298b08b0b47105020d3c5aaea4a82e.gif

  • MsChocCookie

    Looks just like a man, how could he not know? Just saying!!!

  • JerseyMom

    190 times? SMH

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Right though! I refuse to believe he didn't know that was a naturally born MALE dressed as a female. Plus, 9 times out of 10 their voices are dead giveaways, too. Face, neck, hands, feet, and VOICE.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    well, I'm about to get back to my spreadsheet 'cause it's a LOT of ignorant folks in here. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/31d4b8e4afaf8a52cc88b10fc6e77fdc054ac04b6b6259b07f00971e268b3242.png

  • Karen Brady

    Okay I have never heard muddy highway and it is perfect! And you're right, hands get to wandering honey.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I swear! Upon the first time meeting, y'all bout to F and "she" suggested anal? Off the rip?? Red flags should have gone up.

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  • Malai

    I don't know too many women that prefer to start sex off with Anal... that's something u usually work your way up to if ever.. that alone is a red flag if he did in fact not know he was a "man".. smh

  • Karen Brady

    Wooorrrddddd. GTFOH.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOLLOL!!!!

  • Ms Thang

    He knew that was a damn man. Ray Charles can see that that's a man

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  • Karen Brady

    Start? I don't want to finish with it. Tried that, keep that pain waayy over there,thank you very much. But I hear you. That's some later on, really digging each other, feeling comfy and super intimate with each other and want to explore (with a safe word, lol)... not the first night at the motel 8. No siree.

  • Karen Brady

    Stevie too. Ray Charles would have felt his wrist like in the movie.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I hate you LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

  • Karen Brady

    Chile I know. I just couldn't resist. too easy...lol

  • DynoMight

    Hate is such a strong word. Lol. I love you. ?

  • ThottyPippen

    Right, even the ones that like anal don't say "hey take the butt first"..lol. If anything, booty hole is last because of the germs that can come from booty to vagina (hence why we were taught to wipe front to back..LMAO).

  • Mia Said so

    Nope I can't nope not going there with you no stop

  • Mia Said so

    If EVER

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    The minute a dude ask for anal, you already sus to me. My coochie tight as vice grips. They want you face down arse up so they cant tell if you a woman or a man. These rappers aint fooling nobody!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    *still laughing my ass off, sits on bench*. Lol

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    ROFL.... Im too done yall are on a roll today.....reading like a thesaurus and shading like a damn fog....

  • Vegas1989

    Yeah...that's a man..I don't care what color weave/lacefront he put on his head...Man

  • Oxtailsngreens

    Anal 1st should have been a RED flag. I will admit that I don't fully understand the ins and outs of the transgender anatomy. Can the genitals be tucked that dang tight?Does transgender mean no balls in sight? He didn't try to cop a feel on the coochie? I don't believe his story. You should always inspect the goods these days.

  • Tena

    Yeah, I am not sure how he was confused on this one. I bet she even sounded like a man, and now he wants to claim he didn't know. I guess it was one thing to suspect it, but another one once confirmed,

  • tintin

    Homosexual panic !
    This is a thing???

  • Karen Brady

    True. Sad but true.

  • Platoon

    Sad. He should've just left. Never an excuse to kill a person.

  • Oh Tommie

    If there's a dude reading this... please get on all fours and ask your lady if she can see your Franks and beans from the back. I wanna see something lol.

    Basically..... this negro is lying....ain't no way y'all got to anal and you couldn't see the package. Wait... what about foreplay...he went straight doo doo chasing without even trying to touch the vag? He got what he wanted... feared being outed, and killed the only witness.

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  • Platoon

    The eyes don't lie...you can spot a tranny a mile away. Eyebrow ridge, big jawline, ring finger longer than the index (subjective/relative), shoulders, waistline, bellybutton.

    Y'all remember when Obama called Michelle "Michael" on two separate occasions??

  • Karen Brady

    When I tell you the whole office must have heard me bust out laughing at coochie tight as vice grips.!!!!! But this is a good point. Will remember this fo sho.

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  • Karen Brady

    Worked for Ray Charles as portrayed by Jamie Foxx. Just sayin'. Oh wait. he did that cuz he said he could tell if they were pretty and fine. Didn't say he could tell if they had a peen. Never mind. Carry on.

  • i troll it like i see it

    No I do not remember when Obama called Michelle Michael...that crap did not happen!

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  • Karen Brady

    See now. You had me until that last sentence. Just wrong for that. lol.

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  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He didn't want any witnesses.

  • Karen Brady

    You know what I don't know you but I am so upset with you right now because my dumb azz is probably going to laugh all night at "see your Franks and beans from the back". Imma be driving home and just busting out laughing. WOOOHHH! Thanks boo.

  • cjilla16

    True...worked with a lady who could ONLY get off by anal (her words) in the end her boyfriend left her because of it. She was 100% lady, had kids and all...

  • Karen Brady

    Hell to the naw I'm sure.

  • Karen Brady

    No pun intended. You are killing me today.

  • Karen Brady

    Same here. I don't understand nor do I need to or want to but I thought they be strapping and taping their god given equipment down. Inspect it, definitely SMELL it, all that.

  • Karen Brady

    I just said the same thing. I'm done with ya'll people today. I can't laugh NO MO!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Was he a nurse or a CNA? Lots queens who are certified nurse's assistants claim to be nurses.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    LOLOLOL

  • Platoon

    Hey, how many men call their wives by a males name?

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Platoon
  • Karen Brady

    loosey goosey. had to be pretty loose but to each his or her own I guess. He went in search of something tight I guess.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He knew that's why they went straight to anal.

  • Anunnaki

    U MAKE ME SICK....LMAOOOOOOO GO HOME

  • Malai

    EXACTLY!!! ???

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Let me explain why he killed the tranny:

    He knew he was a man and he was sexually attracted to him. However, after the sex was over, his guilt turned into rage. He stabbed him so many times, because he was really trying to kill his own homosexual urges.

    I've had many friends murdered or severely beaten by men like the killer. In fact, one such man tried to assault me after I declined his sexual advances... an act that could have cost him his life.

  • Karen Brady

    ROTFLMAOOOOOOOOOOO. "hey take the butt first".. I can't stand every last one of ya'll today. This was one of the best boards ever. I can't laugh anymore. I refuse. Logging out cuz ya'll get on my nerves. PEACE.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Why is that even important enough to ask?

  • Karen Brady

    If ever.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    CW: He knew he was a man and he was sexually attracted to him. However, after the sex was over, his guilt turned into rage. He stabbed him so many times, because he was really trying to kill his own homosexual urges.

    Bingo!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Yes, we read about this, see news stories, movies that go like that quite frequently. Jesus. I'm glad you're okay.

  • Karen Brady

    mmph, none I know of.

  • Platoon
  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    The facts in a murder case are always important.

  • Karen Brady

    Ooooooooo.. Oh MY! What is up with that? And twice?! No bueno. You see I deleted my first comment. Smh at this one.

  • Platoon

    Lol. Crazy, right?!

    All of this information is right in front of us.

    Makes you wonder why he pushed the lGBTQ agenda so hard.

    Remember what Joan Rivers said about "Michelle"?

  • Karen Brady

    It is crazy. Yes I do remember when she called her that and I was giving Joan the side-eye. Hmm.. Interesting... goes off to do more research..

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    He was a security guard stationed outside a property that was purchased by a hospital. We had been speaking for weeks. One day he asked me to sit in his vehicle and talk. Once I was inside his car, the conversation turned sexual. When I made it clear I wasn't interested, he flew into a rage.

  • Platoon

    Yep, then she ended up dead shortly after that:

    Yes, research it. That's all we can do.

    It's not hate to research and find truth

    Keep me posted

  • starbright9449

    It sounds like he went insane for a little while, that kind of news could shock anyone and in that moment he lost it. Did his lawyer even try? He consented to sex with a woman but basically it was a man lying and masquerading as one. That can be considered rape but in my personal opinion I think it is. It may sound like I'm reaching but if he had the complexion for protection, we wouldn't even be hearing about this. The deceased basically raped this dude, why not just go after men who are into transexuals?? Why are you forcing your intentions on a straight man knowing you also carry a 'y' chromosome??

  • hottlanta

    Both of them have the same hairline. He knew that was a man even with the wig on and a glamour shot. It wasn't enough lighting in the world to diminish his manhood.

  • hottlanta

    Well Dump needs to call Melania Bruce. Her and Bruce can go for twins. It is hard for me to tell sometimes who is who.

  • Li

    Transgenders should announce that they are a he instead of a she. Up front. Be honest.

  • Li

    See the movie, The Crying Game. It explains everything.

  • Platoon

    Honestly. I think she's a man too. Majority of the Vickie models are trans too. Google it.

    Google: man vs female torso. Pay attention to the indent and belly button.

  • Li

    Everybody should rent the movie, the Crying Game. I don't understand this online dating where the she / male doesn't admit the truth. Just come on out and say, I had a sex change. Case closed. Either they want you or they dont.
    I was in Michigan at an airport hotel and there was one ugly-ass trans/fem (black) and a white guy hooking up. And the white guy was trying to NOT look like he was with the trans/fem. Everybody in the lobby knew what was happening.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Most trannies aren't passable; meaning anyone with partial sight can see they are men. There are a lot of men who are into gay sex, but after the sex is over, they are struck by feelings of guilt. I do agree that unclockable trannies shouldn't lie about their gender.

  • abby500

    Your child should not have been out here misrepresenting themselves in such a matter that leads to a straight man performing a gay act. These men need to stop with this mess.

  • abby500

    Shut up.... u always have these "Let me tell you how it went" statements. We can draw our own conclusions....thanks but shut the f up.

  • mzwhang90210

    ...he went straight doo doo chasing without even trying to touch the vag?
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/810664acc8962f128a06607f5fe4ad2cf78e9358a48215477daff656ed84fef0.gif

  • KcoolMuziq

    Exactly! It is such a BIG market for them now being in very much demand(NBA ALL STAR WEEKEND IS ONE). That they don't have to try and fool or pass as a real woman anymore.It is many MEN that seek them out.

  • mzwhang90210

    Sorry for the loss of life, so tragic, whatever the circumstances.

    See how powerful the LGB community is? To actually have something pulled out of the DSM. Lawd

    By the way, I find the DSM a great read.

  • SummerBaby

    RIP! ??

  • Karen Brady

    NBA ALL STAR WEEKEND???????????????

  • Karen Brady

    Oh no no no.... confined to a vehicle.... Too close for comfort.... O'm sure you were on alert though. The way people spin out of control in seconds in a rage is what scares me. And he's security?? Smh.

  • Karen Brady

    Wow...

    Will do. Thx.

  • Justlooknout

    ???

  • TDK

    Janet Mock was on the Breakfast Club and said He told this guy HE was on his period so they had anal sex. Then told him afterwards that He was born a man. I also saw an episode on ID where this transexual would tell the guys that He was on his monthly to fool them into anal sex. More of them will get killed if they keep tricking others.

  • TDK

    Alternative facts.

  • T3

    A person who has anal sex with another person and does not discover what's in front is bot curious enough. I mean, wtf?!?? U don't touch, rub, feel or anything . I don't get it. I personally like to see what I'm working with. I just
    don't understand not knowing what genitals a person has and you've had a sexual encounter.

  • EMILY POST

    Whoa ? he misrepresented himself. I don't know that's similar to rape lying about your gender fooling somebody. You get in trouble for lying about not having a disease but it's okay for this behavior.
    Sorry he died but the Obama administration really messed up with transgender law crap. Sorry that's lying to people and misrepresenting themselves will get them killed and why is the us government approving this behavior. That's wrong on all levels.

  • PlayerP

    This makes me really sad for all involved. It's sad that people are afraid to be who they really are. Not saying it's the same, however when entering into a relationship, I put all my deal breakers out in the open. I like being me.

  • EMILY POST

    I have to agree with you on that 1. They get a kick out of humiliating the men too. People who have been abused have a tendency to abuse others.

  • bella28498 .

    advice to the men if a "female" straight out of the gate request anal go on alert you damn dummies

  • Platoon

    Sheeple

  • TDK

    Troll

  • Allihave2say

    She must have really been devastated because that relationship lines makes zero sense.
    “I know bad things happened to good people,” Denisha Whigham said. Um your brother, daughter niece, confusion was a deceiver and should have told this man that he too was a man.

    However any man who agrees to have anal sex needs to evaluate his own sexuality. Real men know the V was made for the P and any other variation is gay in essence of origin.

  • CookieMobster

    I heard that. I MIGHT let my husband get it that way on his birthday but that is ITTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Any other time I'm like naw playa!! Except that one time he made like $2500 cash in one week then I was like "HOW YOU DOIN'???"

  • Shawn Williams

    Can you plz STFU. No one cares about your fables.

  • Allihave2say

    Beyond gross! The willing man should just decline to wait for the right hole to be available in 3-5 days. Few real women are willing during their cleansing time. This is disgusting to even think about.

  • Allihave2say

    They've pulled most sexual deviances out of the DSM years ago. Too many doctors politician etc were engaging in these behaviors.

  • Allihave2say

    They live lies everyday so to them one more doesn't matter. the only thing that matters to them is getting what they want, the D. Makes me wonder if some of them play gender dress up to cope with desires for the same sex. IJS. Why lie? There are plenty of men who willingly engage in this lifestyle why deceive a none gay man?

  • Allihave2say

    The Crying Game is a very good movie.

  • Lisa daniels

    Mines is exit only. No enter.

  • che’lint

    I will be here for the comments. I know how I personally view this story. My intense curiosity is on how the public feel .. generally.

  • Allihave2say

    If they trick then man it furthers their delusion and fantasy that they are accepted as a woman. Most real women aren't interested in sex during menses we have smells, pains, headaches and moods. That should be the 1st key. The other is did the guy see a tampon string? IJS.

  • Allihave2say

    That issue makes this new law that requires us to call them a he or she of their choosing so disturbing and dangerous. What about the risks associated with this behavior, the deception and this type of outcome?

  • che’lint

    cookiemobster you silly hahaha

  • Allihave2say

    This man had a huge face. May the military guy just assumed she was naturally ugly in a Derrick sorta way?

  • Allihave2say

    This is why I say Serena Williams is not pregnant. The Reddit guy always looks like he's questioning what he stepped into. Serena was about to be investigated for being a transgendered and bam this baby popped up. Yet all signs point to her being a man, physically.

  • Allihave2say

    Melania's wig drives me batty.

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly. Especially for dudes like Usher, I am the doctor. Turn the lights on examine that ass. Ninja you at give me a monster. I need to see and smell if you clean.

  • Malcom Flex

    I can't stand Mr. Mock!! Ugh

  • Allihave2say

    I wish brother would. We wouldn't EVEN need a discussion. He'd just be in the lawyer's chair the next day with his suitcases.

  • Lisa daniels

    I ain't trying to be mean but that is manly looking face, I think ol killer boy knew and was the Nile.

  • Malcom Flex

    Bullshit. Stop hating on a sister who is a champion.

  • Allihave2say

    You see that Joan's daughter remained very quietly kept. I think a few reporters tried to ask her about, she declined speaking on it then stopped responding to the media. She is now MIA on SM.

  • Joi Calloway

    Exactly! Most woman don't prefer anal and would prefer the standard "V"!

  • Allihave2say

    EEEEWWWWW!!!!!!

  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly

  • Allihave2say

    His whole head and face was probably bigger than the killer's whole head and face. Giant. He must have had his parts taped to the front.

  • Joi Calloway

    100% agree! It should be rape by deception! And they should charge him with manslaughter, temp insanity or 2nd degree murder at most!

  • TDK

    True, I know some females that screw while it's on. The most disgusting thing ever.

  • Joi Calloway

    100%

  • Allihave2say

    OMG. I'm so glad life has spared of me of actually knowing people this desperate for sex.

  • Allihave2say

    I hate not on her championship status. Serena is a beast. I do today as I have always questioned her true gender. Thx.

  • Joi Calloway

    If he knew it was a man, why did the tranny tell him it was on a period!? Only women bleed from their uterus last I checked!

  • Vicki White

    My sister's classmate got shoot and killed. For deceiving this old white man. Just be honest men go in on folks who lie about they gender esp when they want the "some".

  • Joi Calloway

    What really makes the tranny's act despicable is that the 2 talked online for months according to the news story. Over 3-4 months and the tranny never once mentioned it was a man! He raped the guy by deception and the guy went temp insane when he discovered it was a "he" not a "she"!

  • Platoon

    Exactly. You're on the money. It's all a scam. It's not hate. It's sad that people get so upset when you highlight all the signs that points to her being a man. Once they realized that then they will look at the men he dated and then connect the dots and see what the industry is about

  • Lisa daniels

    xactly

  • Platoon

    Yep. The powers that be are some sick folks

  • Allihave2say

    Well, I say this too the reason she quickly took to the media to discard the sex of the baby is because she doesn't know what she's getting. She has the same changing baby bump as Beyonce, as a matter of fact at Beyonce's baby shower Serena didn't appear to be pregnant at all.
    https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=images&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwjk7vjm06XVAhWIXD4KHfFeB0AQjRwIBw&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.shefinds.com%2Fcollections%2Fbeyonce-jay-z-carter-push-party%2F&psig=AFQjCNHCoa1dZWmUd-PMP342f9r5rqc4Uw&ust=1501114058276012

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    He knew. ?If you look at them you can see the similarities. You know it's been said that we're attracted to people who look like us. Whig aside, they even got the same hairline and line-up.?
    :kona:

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    This!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    He said F this S????
    ?????

  • bella28498 .

    agreed

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Whole entire statement is just WRONG!
    ?????

  • Yup, I said it

    People should be honest with their sexual partners. They need to be honest about their disease status, sexuality, born gender, marital/relationship status etc. Dont take away another persons choice by excluding the truth.

  • MrsHBC

    The victim looks like a man to me. When I showed my husband the picture he said that's a man.y heart goes out to his family, his friends (especially the ones who found the body) and loved ones. It's sad on both sides.

  • DynoMight

    If a person is sleeping with ANYone or "body" (pun intended) without knowing their genitalia.... gender identification is the least of the issues. #WhoYou?

    I know you get that and you're Just Voicing the obvious via your response to my over-standing. #ThankYou #ToneIsEverything

    The point for the other half of the room is: Clearly disclosing what should be obvious isn't a prerequisite for entering a relationship... or an arsehole or vagina... but it should be. One lie isn't bigger or better than another. It's a lie and they grow from the bottom...

    Thanks again for your comment. Good morning. Peace... #Blessings2 #LoveOverLikes

    Back to the battlefield, I go. ?#EsuVoice #OgunEcho #YouSure

    https://youtu.be/tRe5aACNx50

  • Look@m3

    This got Fatal Attraction written all over it.

  • Huey Freeman

    Curious that the sister states that she lost her only 'Brother'. Her 'brother' created this situation.

  • EMILY POST

    The lgbtq is bullying everyone with this deception. People have the right to to be heterosexual .
    All this bedroom legislation brought on by the Obama administration

  • Nathan Hastings

    He knew that was a man.

  • Huey Freeman

    You make some good points, but you lost me when you start talking about the origins of any variation on intimacy between a male and female as you see it. Because a hetero couple engage in some of the same acts of intimacy that a gay couple happens to engage in, e.g., oral sex, kissing, hand holding, or *gasp* anal sex, does not mean that the couple need to question their sexuality. A gay kiss is identical to a straight kiss. Should I stop kissing my woman? Being intimate or desiring to be intimate with your own sex is the gay part; not the actual activity.

  • Huey Freeman

    Like many a black man, he was in court with a lawyer who was overworked and under-interested in his case and when you have 'your' lawyer and prosecutor telling you that you have no chance and this is what you can get if you don't take the deal.... He took the deal. Still, I could definitely see him at least getting a hung jury, in the state like Mississippi.

  • MRiGOThim

    most of em know...its until they homies find out its an issue

  • MRiGOThim

    no...the assailant created the situation & he knew he was a man. Not too many BLACK WOMEN even like ANAL SEX so he knew & killed him bcuz the homies back on BASE might find out

  • Huey Freeman

    I can understand the plea deal from the defendant's side, but if he could afford justice, it is quite possible that he could have gotten at least a hung jury in Mississippi. Many in Mississippi would see it as the 'deceased' was attempting to commit a sexual assault and women should not be the only victims of sexual assault who are allowed to defend themselves.

  • Huey Freeman

    This dude was only 21 at the time... maybe even a little tipsy... maybe he was told it was 'that time of the month', which is kryptonite to most dudes. The thing is - the 'victim' created this entire situation. There are plenty of dudes out there looking for what he was offering. He should have gotten with one of them. I feel for the families of both sides, but the victim's family is not assessing any blame to their 'Brother'. I bet they knew the games he was running. Someone should have told him: "somebody is going to really fuck you up, behind this shit"

  • Huey Freeman

    Agreed! You need to come with what you advertised...or whatever the fuck you get - you get. I won't say ol boy should have been stabbed 119 times, but he definitely needed someone to get his mind right. His family, which I sure knew the games he was running, should have gotten with him.

  • TDK

    Exactly!!!

  • Huey Freeman

    You have proof that the assailant knew? (emails, texts, IM's, anything?) He has sex in a hotel room, learns of gender in that hotel room, kills him in the hotel room... at what point this his 'homies' so say find out? In m opinion, you should finish or begin all your comments with "In my opinion".

  • Huey Freeman

    honestly, I see sistas all the time that look even more masculine than this. I'm trying to think of the name of this big-breasted talk-show sista, but I can't. Anywho, the so-say victim created this situation. Now, he's dead and a young brutha, who was just 21 at the time, has his life taken from him as well.

  • Huey Freeman

    Likely he had a public defender, who job it is to scare young black men into taking plea deal. Regardless of evidence, the vast majority of public defender cases result in plea deals.

  • Malcom Flex

    I believe he thought the male was a female and lost it. If you're talking with a person online impersonating as a woman and on the first date they give up the ass passing as female then drop the bomb they're a male, some men go insane.

  • Malcom Flex

    I'm sorry to say too many BW are giving up the ass to keep black males, down lows, jail birds, etc.

  • Huey Freeman

    "He was trying to kill his own homosexual urges" Wow, the fact that you make that statement as though it IS fact, while having no conversation, correspondence or other meaningful contact with this man - is FREAKING scary. It's crazy because I have no doubt that you have 100% confidence in your assessment, which is based on... 0% first hand knowledge of the individual.

  • Huey Freeman

    You based your questioning of her gender on... your examination of her, your knowledge of the ATA conspiracy to hide her gender from her competitors, your proof that the videos we have seen, from all stages of her development were fake, your degree in a relevant field of study that gives credit to your 'opinions' on human physiology? Do Tell Us. Thx

  • Malai

    Lmao!! ????

  • Huey Freeman

    My God. I share a planet with you people. This is why I believe jury trials should be turned over to a well-written computer algorithm. You guys are like... really morons. Yet, you have the ability to type. It's crazy.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Who cares what the tranny allegedly said... he is not blind. Anyone can see that's a man. Secondly, the period story may be something his defense attorney concocted.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    How does that make you feel? ?

  • Platoon

    -sheeple

  • Huey Freeman

    Wow, I was with you until you ended with brought on by the Obama admin. The FACT is... more BEDROOM legislation has been put forward by the republican side. It was the RED state of Texas, in it's attempt to regulate the bedroom with it's attempt to enforce an anti-sodomy law, that brought bedroom legislation to the supreme court. The 2003 supreme court, over-turned all anti-sodomy laws. You can research who was president during that time. Hint: It was not Obama.

  • Platoon

    Hollyweird ?

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    I don't believe his story at all. How could you not know that was a man? lol.. The only type of transsexuals that are convincing are "Asian". Asian men have very small feminine body frames lol. But it's no way any other race can really pull it off. She probably told him his D*ck game was Weak, and he got mad lol

  • Huey Freeman

    MOST would fucking lose it. I mean, firstly, you've been playing me for 2 MONTHS! Secondly, you're a lying bitch! Then - You not even a bitch!

  • JENNYJONES1

    YOUR HUSBAND MUST HAVE NEVER LIVED IN A MILITARY TOWN B/C THE WOMEN ARE UGLY AND THE MEN ARE THIRSTY FOR A WOMAN WHICH IS WHY YOU SEE A LOT OF MIXED RACED COUPLES B/C THE MEN HAVE TO TAKE WHAT THEY CAN GET EVEN IF THEY ARE MANLY LOOKING. LOL!!! SAD BUT TRUE..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Jussjess25

    Hes a disgusting pig of a liar. He knew that girl was a trans, she clearly looks like a man. (God rest her soul). He had sex with her felt bad and went ham for his own deed. Its sad, perhaps she told him to late but he didn't want to hear the words. He should be locked away forever.

  • tintin

    God rest her/his soul but nothing about that looks feminine so that killer is a idiot. However these tranny need to stop . They are signing a death certificate by not disclosing who they are. I think this is as bad as a person with aids not letting their status be known to someone they are going to have sex with

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    He knew he was a man and he was sexually attracted to him. However, after the sex was over, his guilt turned into rage. He stabbed him so many times, because he was really trying to kill his own homosexual urges.

    ^^^^^^
    ITA

  • JENNYJONES1

    I SO AGREE. THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY NEEDS TO REALIZE EVERYONE DOES 'NOT' WANT TO BE GAY OR EVEN WANT TO EXPERIMENT AND NOTHING IS WRONG WITH BEING STRAIGHT OR A NATURAL WOMEN OR MAN B/C IT'S BECOMING ILLEGAL TO EVEN BE CALLED A WOMAN/MOTHER AS IF WE ARE ALIENS OR GENDER-LESS. GTFOH!!! WE CAN'T BE WHO WE NATURALLY ARE B/C YOU'RE MAD YOU AREN'T. I WANT PEOPLE TO BE HAPPY AND SAFE TO BE WHO THEY FEEL THEY ARE BUT NOT AT MY GOD GIVEN EXPENSE. THIS ISH HAS GONE TOO FAR AND ON TOO LONG. SORRY BUT I DON'T THINK HE SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN 40 YRS. MAYBE 5-7 WITH COUNSELING B/C
    HE WAS A VICTIM TOO AND I KNOW THIS WHOLE ORDEAL HAS MESSED UP HIS MIND .........JENNY JONES!!!

  • KimJongTrill.

    Maybe it's just me but I can definitely tell that's a man. The hairline is a dead giveaway.

  • Allihave2say

    Get a whole life of your own. I said it. I believe it. I mean it. Fly away fly.

  • Allihave2say

    I talking about the anal stuff predominantly.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Some transsexuals/transgenders don't want sex with gay men; they want heterosexual men to validate their delusion that they are females.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm so glad I wasn't born a man. Their lust for sex is unreasonably excessive. ?

  • Maxima

    THIS RIGHT HERE!

    The defendant stepped up on his manhood and he is punished, damn shame.

    I am sick of trannies being portrayed as victims. I remember the trannies from the last couple of decades and they are sick, violent, crazy freaks of nature. This is social engineering and the defendant wasn't having any of it. Too bad he didn't take it to trial.

  • Maxima

    which is the real reason for the rise of HIV in BW

  • Mrs. ??????????

    Well I feel no sympathy for the man pretending to be a woman, they got what they deserved for lying!

  • Tena

    Exactly. How can you have anal sex and not reach around to the front to feel a set of balls? I am not buying this guy's story.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I am gay and I have seen all manners of crap and mental gymnastics when it comes to sex and sexuality and sexual orientation.

    The guy screwed the other guy in the butt. No attempt at vaginal penetration which suggests to me that he was aware of this partner's anatomical limitations which says to me that the tranny had not gone through surgery

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Two points-- they engaged in only anal sex. Either they did that because the killer knew that the dead guy could not accommodate the killer vaginally and if so why--did the dead guy have obvious male genitals?

    Why anal? Do you think that most straight guys go directly to anal?

    I never said that my opinion was a fact, troll.

    Opinions are like a$$holes---everyone has one

  • Sircaput

    I was trying very hard to be sympathetic for the victim but I can't especially if he lied.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I agree, but dude looks a little "special" in the pic above. Maybe he didn't ... SMH

    Nah, #IOWNEEENBEELEEEVEDAT!

  • The Realest 514

    When they first started conversing online is when he should have disclosed he was a man pretending to be a woman. Then dude could have made an informed decision as to whether he wanted to continue to get to know him/her. All this pretending and keeping secrets is unnecessary. Now two lives are gone. There is something for everybody so trans people need to let them know ahead of time and keep everyone safe.

  • Youngblood

    stop playing games with these men like that everybody aint homo

  • Joi Calloway

    I dont think he knew it was a man. Some woman look masculine but really biologically are woman.

  • yvette46

    Some Men need to stop thinking with their penis and focus on the big picture. Black supposed to be female let you screw her ass the first time they meet.. RED FLAG!!

  • Allihave2say

    I remember years back on Jerry Springer a black girl was in love with her boyfriend who was actually a woman. The woMAN would only have relations from behind and in the dark. Turns out she was using a strap on and revealed the truth on JS. The girl was crying you made me a lesbian! No not checking for the truth made you a lesbian.

  • EMILY POST

    No it was brought on by the Obama administration and him choosing to advocate sexuality and LGBTQ issues...

  • chris

    That's crazy. I wouldn't take that plea but when a woman (man) look to be about 5 10 talking about anal... Bruh u gotta do your due diligence... Most of these homos will just try to give head. Ain't even safe on these streets no more for straight men.

  • chris

    Said she was on period

  • itsjismemelly

    i think its very wrong for a transgender to trick a man and not tell them upfront. how is a man who is not into that suppose to react!!!

  • Malai

    Smh

  • Antonia Simms

    If he couldn't tell that was a man, it's because he didn't want to! He enjoyed the hell out the sex, then when his suspicion was confirmed, the guilt over enjoying sex with a man dressed like a woman drove him to murder. Probably didn't want to risk his little secret ever getting out.

  • Lanegra??

    I always say that about asians and some hispanic men. I had a guy tell me it is hard to tell in Atlanta because even the natural born women wear drag queen makeup. Sigh

  • Lanegra??

    I shouldn't find this funny but I grew up in a military town and this is accurate. I have seen some women that even after seeing them pregnant I am still questioning the gender.

  • Lanegra??

    Speak on it.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    1st of all the buttocks is a sensitive organ that can be painful with a hard stool bowl movement going out and definitely painful with something going in it. So for a man to meet a random chick and she wants the stick in her buttocks, that’s should be a red flag there, normal chicks don’t offer up the booty on the 1st hit! Like WTF was he thinking??? This big body he/she looks like a dude, how do u miss that??? Another problem I got is the sister spoke saying that he took away my brother so you telling me U are acknowledging that he is still a dude and not your transgender sister??? Things to make you go Hmmm… So basically he was a dude in a dress?! And just because a dude wears a dress doesn’t make him a transgender but a cross-dresser. Anyway no matter what, it doesn’t give him or anyone else the right to take a life. May he RIP

  • Diva4lyfe

    Ok now I am wondering why in the process you didn't notice the man parts I am sure they are still there but then again who knows. I feel if that is the way you going to be don't be ashamed of it in some ways and bold about it in others. Once you made that decision to crossover then be straight forward with the opposite sex you are trying to connect with and let them be the decision maker of being with u or not

  • YES I SAID IT…

    On everything U said, I co-sign 100%!!!! Its like we are the abnormal and they are normal now and we are wrong for not being down or into that lifestyle

  • YES I SAID IT…

    U so silly LOL! I tried to do it with my husband and he was like no nah he not into that. I even offered it for V-day and he was like nope I'll pass, lol!

  • Joi Calloway

    He actually might have got much lighter sentence if he went to trial. 1 day 1 of these cases will go to trial, maybe them heterosexual Men can get some fair justice. He should have been charged with manslaughter.

  • Karen Brady

    Back that shat up and come around the front.

  • Karen Brady

    Yep some men don't even want to think about it. start going into convulsions almost if you ask them about it. Lol. I can respect that!

  • Karen Brady

    LMAO

  • Karen Brady

    I've met 2 dudes who eat it when it's on. DISGUSTING.. #Somethingiswrongwithyou.

  • Karen Brady

    Lol... what? Investigated for being trans? I can't.

  • Karen Brady

    LMAO

  • TheOwley

    Murder is never justifiable, period. But the onus is on both parties to be honest with one another and put a hold on sex until they exchange information about themselves starting with health, etc.

    Men need to ask women if they are born females or transgender. Women need to ask men if they are transgender as well. Ask them all. But here is the rub: These folks feel they are being denied rights to have relations with cis gender heterosexuals and feel entitled to skirt around an unwritten law to do so. When the guy gets angry, they call it homosexual panic. No, it is not. It is deception by the other person and this is the outcome in some cases. We still live in a society where we have a choice with whom to engage with for sexual relations but I see laws coming that would limit that choice to give transgender the ultimate right they seek. I see a future where people walk around with their own DNA kits to settle the issue outside any law that takes away your rights to be selective.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    We have zero idea, WHO SAID WHAT?

  • TheOwley

    There are many facets of the LGBT community and one is to erase distinctions of gay and straight. They make fun and memes of the so called gay agenda, that it's a christian conspiracy theory. But if you read carefully, those things are becoming a reality. The LGBT community does not feel they owe you disclosure of anything. The fact that this man got 40 years is a message to others.

  • ItsMeIvory

    They better stop tricking ppl otherwise they will trick themselves off these streets..

  • On the radar….

    I knew someone who's son is in prison right now for this very same incident. We don't talk anymore. His son had been talking and getting to know the trans. The trans never revealed who s/he really was until the time came for them to have sex. S/he didn't have the operation so when dude saw the trans still had a penis, he snapped and beat the trans to death. Their trying to say it was temporary insanity. I was just like....wow. When my friend would discuss his son, I just felt bad. The deception is real. Be honest from the start.

  • On the radar….

    Hell, my booty hurt when I'm constipated. Ain't no way a ding dong is going in there. Any man that asks I'm out and not interested anymore.

  • MrsHBC

    My husband retired from the military after serving over 20 years.

  • Layah Jhene

    Stop being lustful men. Seriously! Yall be so lusful that you can't tell between a real woman and a tranny. This strong faced tranny still looks manly and you telling me you couldn't tell the difference? I can stop a tranny instantly.

  • Layah Jhene

    This is true. The men looking like women and then women looking like hard faced men.

  • Coffee1st

    Rape by deception.

  • MRiGOThim

    exactly!

  • MRiGOThim

    clearly you didn't look at the courtroom footage...they TEXT & SENT EMAILS FOR OVER 4 MONTHS Before meeting. IT WAS IN THE EVIDENCE & presented to the JURY -_-

  • Omandesert

    His death is sad, and not to seem insensitive, but stop trying to deceive people. Be open and honest about who you are and allow other people to decide based on that truth if they want to be with you. It was this young mans choice to portray a woman, so why shouldn't the other party involved be given a choice based on that information to stay or go. He would still be alive today and the other guy would not be in prison if this was the case. I had a friend that was a Whore in high school and contracted herpes. She was never open with guys she met about it. Always waited until the guy had feelings and screwed her. Even then she told a lie that she was raped, instead of the truth about being a gym rat groopie Whore. Some guys were infuriated over this news. I didn't expect her to reveal on the first date she got a STD gift that keeps on giving, but use your better judgement early in the development stages of a relationship and communicate this to the other party involved. Time is valuable, some people don't want to waste their time, and shouldn't be deceived to.

  • MRiGOThim

    the homies part...was IN MY OPINION as to why he did it, but the rest was EVIDENCE

  • Nessa

    Why would a trans woman
    want to deceive a straight man into having sex? That makes no sense!! Isn't that a twisted form of rape?

  • Malcom Flex

    They want to be 'clockable' as Auntie calls it their utmost desire is to pass as a straight woman and seduce and have a straight man fall in love with and protect them the basic princess fairy tail.

  • Malcom Flex

    Some can pass as pudgy and unattractive women and adding weed and booze to the mix have you hear of beer goggles?

  • Malcom Flex

    Some pass as fugly women and if a male is drunk or high and it's dark ...

  • Malcom Flex

    No. Anal sex is the new thing. Really. Females give up the azz like it's the vagina, in many cases. Anything to catch a man.

  • Trippinhhard

    These trannies need to let men know they are men trying to ge a woman.. They just don't know the pain and agony women go through every month.. They will never know, even if they have the reconstruction surgery.. Then menopause is a SOB and it's worse than your monthly cycle ever was.. I can say he didn't deserve to die, but the young man deserve to know he was sleeping with another man.. Who wants a pecker up their butt, not me under no circumstances will that ever happen.. If ussy is not enough for you, let someone do you up your butt to feel that pain.. Some men issue out pain but they can't take it.. Two lives are ruined because of a lie and a man is dead ? because he chose to pretend to be a woman..

  • Chuck

    This gay murdered knew he was phucking a man in the arse, and deserves the death penalty for pre-meditated murder.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Well I am a woman and I ain't giving up no azz to please a man, if they want some b**ty lovin then they better go find them a man or a woman who don't care that they sleep with menz bcuz I ain't on that type of level or down with the new trend. :-)

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Ha me too, gurl I be straining so ain't no way in h*ll I would want the D in it lol! I'm with U on that, if dude want to do me in the buttocks, well I'm out, that's a suspect to me like for real! I got a mouth and a vag -g-g and if those 2 holes ain't good enough then he don't need me

  • JENNYJONES1

    WELL IF YOU WERE LIVING IN ONE OF THOSE MILITARY TOWNS WHEN Y'ALL MET I HOPE AS A WOMAN YOU'RE IN THE MINORITY..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I heard it is but I ain't into that and any man who want me to be, really aint the man for me, I'll pass I the new normal bcuz ain't nothing normal about having anal s*x all the time and tearing and damaging the tissue and the cells in my buttocks for a man to get off.

  • On the radar….

    *** a mouth and a vag -g -g ***

    (snorts in laughter) no more holes ????

  • On the radar….

    It's old, not new. People are just more vocal about it.

  • On the radar….

    Women are going to be carrying birth certificates, certified documents that show proof of birth, and all kinds of stuff in their wallets with driver's license and other id's. Showing pics of giving birth in the delivery room will be the new norm, damn, it's real out here ???. Guys will be doing thorough examinations, checking tampons and maxi pads, Pap smear like tests and chit!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    LMBO!!!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    WELL OWLEY YO ASS SOUNDS SQUIRREL-LY AND LIKE YOU'RE ONE OF THOSE TRAN MEN THAT GOES AROUND FOOLING AND HAVING SEX STRAIGHT MEN THUS DESERVES YO ASS BEAT B/C YES A PERSON DOES NEED TO DISCLOSE IF THEY ARE A TRANS MAN OR WOMEN TO A STRAIGHT OR NON-TRANS PERSON AND LET THEM DECIDE IF THAT'S SOMETHING THEY WANT TO ENGAGE WITH. EVERYONE'S PSYCHOLOGICAL MAKE UP IS DIFFERENT SO YOU NEVER KNOW HOW THEY WILL REACT TO FINDING OUT THEY ARE WITH A TRANS PERSON WHETHER IT HAS ADVANCED TO SEX OR NOT WHICH IS HOW THINGS CAN TURN TO VIOLENCE OR MAYBE EVEN MURDER. YO ASS SOUNDS CRAZY SAYING IT DOESN'T NEED TO BE DISCLOSED AND ANOTHER REASON WHY LGBTQ IS MISUNDERSTOOD AND SEEN IN A NEGATIVE LIGHT ONLY FEEDING INTO THE BS. IF YOU ARE A TRANS PERSON BE PROUD OF LIVING YOUR TRUTH AND DON'T BE ASHAMED OF IT WHICH IS WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU DON'T DISCLOSE. .........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • TheOwley

    Who's on meth now? You need to put the pipe down. I am advocating for FULL disclosure between people before sex. DOn't hide your HIV status, herpes, other STD's, ANDDDD if you were a man and now a woman, etc. I was merely pointing out that there will be an effort to protect people from having to disclose and that is wrong. Read again.

  • JENNYJONES1

    NOT IF TRUMP IS IN OFFICE. I LOVED PRES. OBAMA BUT HE GAVE THE LGBTQ TOO MANY WINGS AND TOOK AWAY THE RIGHTS OF STRAIGHT PEOPLE ESP WOMEN TO WHERE THEY'RE TRYING TO MAKE IT AGAINST THE LAW FOR A NATURALLY BORN WOMAN TO BE CALLED A WOMAN OR EVEN A MOTHER. THEY WANT NON-GENDER. WTF!!!! CASES LIKE THIS STORY OF THE MAN STABBING 190 TIMES ARE ONLY MAKING IT HARDER FOR TRANS OR EVEN THE ENTIRE LGBTQ COMMUNITY B/C IT JUST ADDS FUEL TO THE FEAR THAT THEY ARE SINISTER AND TRYING TO TURN US ALL OR WANNA MOLEST OUR CHILDREN WHICH IS ALL BS BUT NOT DISCLOSING CAUSING MORE VIOLENCE OR MURDER WHICH WILL EVENTUALLY NUMB JURORS CAUSING A LOT OF NOT GUILTY VERDICTS FOR MANY PEOPLE WHO TURNED VIOLENT BUT ACTUALLY DID KNOW THEY WERE SLEEPING WITH A TRANS PERSON. IT WILL BECOME THE NEW WINNING DEFENSE TO GET AWAY WITH MURDER.........JENNY JONES!!!

  • Maxima

    What scares me is that trannies are now being presented as vulnerable sweet kind victims.

    Trannies are evil dangerous bitches who would like nothing more than to cut a real woman's face and deceive a man.

    You had to cross the street when they were trickin' on that side of the street. Trannies always were nasty evil filth -- always were, always will be. Unlike the gays who have seemed to let go of their rage and bitchiness, I don't think it will happen for the trannies.

  • Not Down With The BS

    Trannies need to stop tricking straight men into sleeping with them. I'm sure that there are enough gay men who actually like and prefer trannies.

    That doesn't excuse the stabbing, though. It takes a long time to stab someone 190 times, he's a psychopath. How about you check for a vagina before you end up having sex with a man!

  • NIA

    These people should fully disclose who they are... they setting up these men....that's why they meet their own Demise....

    Sad though ...

  • Leigh Burton

    No pity for the man who murdered the transgender person. Who gets in the bed with someone before seeing childhood pictures of the person?

  • BrownSuga

    There should be full disclosure

  • hopeless?

    Yeah bc you never know how someone will react. Just tell the truth!

  • voiceOFreasonn

    murdering someone isnt the answer...but i can see how it happens...i dont have a problem with transgender folks, but until science finds a way to make your chromosome tests say youre a woman, you are in all actuality still a man-who now looks like a woman because of surgery...most straight men are homophobes-if you dont give that man a choice upfront about dating you as a transgender woman, then chances are if he finds out hes sleeping with a man-he will snap, and this will be the end result. be upfront and honest when you meet a man you are interested in and stop hiding who you are because it will never turn out right... and now for the men, its public knowledge that men are having sex changes and yes a lot of them look better than us born females-simply start asking right off the bat as soon as you meet someone you might be interested in-were you born a female...hopefully they will tell you the truth, then you have the choice to stay or walk away...

  • Nessa

    Disagree

  • Nessa

    There's a lot of masculine looking women.

  • Layah Jhene

    True but you can still tell the difference by looking at the body shape.