“I hope you live with pain and shame and guilt for the rest of your life”
 
Jessica Edens

A scorned South Carolina woman left several bitter suicide notes for her estranged husband after killing their two children and his mistress.

In one note, Jessica Edens, pictured left, said her estranged husband, Ben, had been cheating on her with Meredith Rahme, 28, for about a year. Jessica and Ben were locked in a bitter custody battle for their two kids, a 9-year-old son and 5-year-old daughter.

She shot and killed her 2 children and Rahme before turning the gun on herself on July 13.

The suicide notes, 911 audio, and 100 pages of case files were made public in response to a Freedom of Information request by The Greenville News.

“You have caused me more pain that I’ve ever been in in my life. You have caused my children pain. I hope you rot one day for what you have done to me and my kids,” Jessica wrote in one of the suicide letters, according to the Greenville News.

Ben and Rahme worked together at Michelin and both lived together at Main+Stone Apartments after Ben moved out and left Jessica and the kids.

Jessica stalked Rahme, 28, and shot her to death on July 13 while she sat in her vehicle on the third floor of her apartment complex’s parking garage.

After killing Rhame, Jessica placed a final phone call to her estranged husband.

Records obtained by the newspaper reveals Jessica told him: “Everyone you love is gone. Do you hear me? I’m about to be gone too.”

When Ben tried to call Jessica back, the call went straight to voicemail, according to the documents.

After leaving the parking garage in Greenville, Jessica drove 7 miles to the Greenville-PIckens Speedway in Easley.

Two hours later, police discovered her locked SUV parked at the speedway. Her body along with the bodies of her two children were found inside the vehicle.

Three suicide notes were recovered from the vehicle.

One note, addressed to Jessica’s parents and sister, said:

“I am so sorry for the pain I am causing all of you. You’ve all always been there for me and I love you all so much. I know what I have done is selfish, but I cannot live with this pain any longer. I just cannot handle it. It is too much. It hurts too much. I will no longer be in pain and my children will no longer hurt either. I am so so sorry. I love you all.”




  • tintin

    i have to have a peen in my life that would make me this crazy.

  • brownisback

    Sandra can you please take away the photo with the blood

  • sunni_daze

    Selfish is an understatement.

  • southern

    While you taking down that bloody pic. Take those kids pics down or blur their faces.

  • Banka

    I detect some mental issues, still so so sad, smh!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yt women in South Carolina lose their sh*t over the D, don’t they! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • Karen Brady

    I always say that females need to be careful messing with dudes in relationships because often enough the broad is coming to kill the other woman. SNAPPED. Check it out. OR the other woman will kill the wife! SNAPPED. You’ve seen the one where the black school teacher killed her co-worker’s ‘s pregnant wife in the garage and got life in prison and he moved right on out to Chicago afer the trial and remarried. Bloop. And he was MESSING WITH A BUNCH OF OTHER FEMAILES ON THE JOB TOO. No ma’m you’re not murdering me over some damn shared dack. Be careful ladies. Some cuckoo bytches out in these streets. No man is worth it. No matter how good the dack is. *sigh* LOL.

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    Sandy, we need a copy editor for the intern or a couple more explanatory sentences because I’m trying to figure out how and when Jessica told the cops anything if she managed to shoot up everybody including herself and wasn’t found until days later. ??RIP to the innocent babies.

  • southern

    Whole Lotta instability. You have basically killed your kids cause some dick is gone.

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  • Karen Brady

    UGHHH… chile..

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yall got it…. I don’t want NONE of that.

  • Karen Brady

    Yes in the south… The story I wrote about below was in the carolinas I believe.. SouthCarolina or Tenn but I think Carolina.

  • Soda

    Three suicide notes were recovered from the vehicle.

  • Yardgirl

    I hope this is not the famous “final post of the week”, where we spend all weekend and early Monday looking at bloody car and young victims!!

  • Soda

    It was in MS, and the victim was his fiancée.

  • stav

    True that!

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    This blog has evoked a spirit of depression this week. Tragedy after Tragedy after tragedy and each story gets worse than the one before. RIP to the souls out there…May God provide peace to loved ones left behind that surpasses the need to understand how this world works. May God move for the soulless souls, who are emboldened enough to take the gift of life as if they themselves are Gods. May the ones who have been scared by others, seek Gods’ face and be empowered to move through life impacting others with the power of love, for i know this to be the best weapon against evil. …May those who have physically scared others, fall to their knees in distress and cry out for heavenly forgiveness…and may forgiveness be offered, so others will know it’s power.

  • Cricket404

    Poor thing, the hurt would have passed. I know the feeling all to well.

  • NaeNay

    Sandra I’m not liking these posts.
    Babies getting killed by their dumb azz parents/siblings, feet poppin out of graves…
    Too much…

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    this one was more gangster than susan smith…. no made up story and suspect or nothing… just straight up murder/suicide.
    I won’t lie. If I was the other woman, and it became clear to me that dude’s wife/ex-wife was genuinely crazy, he would have to stay the hell away from me. I’d apologize to that lady and let her know, if he ain’t home I promise he ain’t with ME, and I hope YALL can work things out. good damn day to both of yall!

  • Hunni24

    Amen!

  • datATLboi

    I hope this biotch is burning in hell….the babies didn’t deserve this….before you kill others just KILL YO SELF if u ready to die

  • NaeNay

    So beautifully said. Thank you for this.

  • Coy little wink

    I come here to laugh I have my share of pain…

    Have a nice weekend y’all

  • SuperScooper1

    Thank you for this; What is going on with this Blog? I’ll be taking a break because the negativity is at an all time high with the posts and trolls.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    WORD! be careful!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    WORD! be careful!

  • tt

    This is obviously not about sex for her. This was obviously about time invested, a life she thought she was building with this man, things she had to put up with, having children, raising the children, paying bills together, making life decisions together, times she had to fall back and “play her part’ and for what!!! For the husband to leave her for a younger woman. This is not about SEX… This is about what she deemed “her world/life” This is excatly like Shakespeare’s play Medea, when Medea killed their sons to get back at him for cheating on her….

    PS She was all the way wrong though.

  • tt

    This is obviously not about sex for her. This was obviously about time invested, a life she thought she was building with this man, things she had to put up with, having children, raising the children, paying bills together, making life decisions together, times she had to fall back and “play her part’ and for what!!! For the husband to leave her for a younger woman. This is not about SEX… This is about what she deemed “her world/life” This is excatly like Shakespeare’s play Medea, when Medea killed their sons to get back at him for cheating on her….

    PS She was all the way wrong though.

  • Pamela

    Damn. Them white womens can’t handle rejection. Sad for the innocent angels (sans the trifling heffa) she took with her .

  • Pamela

    Damn. Them white womens can’t handle rejection. Sad for the innocent angels (sans the trifling heffa) she took with her .

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Cricket404 I was saying the same thing while reading. I remember going through the deepest depression I have ever felt. The pain was just unbearable and I wondered some days how am I going to get through this. I obsessed over it most of the day and it kept me up at night. But I tell you what, MY KIDS! They needed me more than I needed him and eventually I got through it. And today almost 4 years later I laugh at it. But I also mention to my two children that they are my heros more than I am theirs!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Cricket404 I was saying the same thing while reading. I remember going through the deepest depression I have ever felt. The pain was just unbearable and I wondered some days how am I going to get through this. I obsessed over it most of the day and it kept me up at night. But I tell you what, MY KIDS! They needed me more than I needed him and eventually I got through it. And today almost 4 years later I laugh at it. But I also mention to my two children that they are my heros more than I am theirs!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    not excusing her actions, but I think she was WAY beyond rationalizing all the reasons to spare her children’s lives (or her own for that matter). there are some emotionally fragile people out here. that combined with cold, azzholie people who prey on the weak is a recipe for disaster and despair.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    not excusing her actions, but I think she was WAY beyond rationalizing all the reasons to spare her children’s lives (or her own for that matter). there are some emotionally fragile people out here. that combined with cold, azzholie people who prey on the weak is a recipe for disaster and despair.

  • stav

    These post have mos def been more depressing than the local news, which I refuse to watch because of the depressing events. I go to sites like this solely for “Celebrity ” gossip, and the photos. Come on Sandra lighten things up a bit. Truly sickening ! Constantly praying for God’s Kingdom to come.

  • stav

    These post have mos def been more depressing than the local news, which I refuse to watch because of the depressing events. I go to sites like this solely for “Celebrity ” gossip, and the photos. Come on Sandra lighten things up a bit. Truly sickening ! Constantly praying for God’s Kingdom to come.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Beautiful! I really enjoyed this more than any negative comments.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Beautiful! I really enjoyed this more than any negative comments.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
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  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    The children didn’t need to die

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    The children didn’t need to die

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yes they were from Mississippi. Smart beautiful girl too, who I’m sure could of had anyone that she wanted, why him?!

  • NY_Chick

    just kill yourself. Let the kids live. smh

  • Pamela

    Saw that. The murdered young lady’s name was Avis. The trifling heffa killer was a beauty queen in HS. Had a Masters degree and everything, but remained trifling and selfish. Ugh

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, I’m sure she felt like her whole world had shattered. everybody’s not able to handle life’s harsh realities and keep it moving.

  • Karen Brady

    Well she should have just burned his clothes ‘a la Angela Bassett’, lit a cigarette and called it a day.

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  • southern

    Linda honey listen it ain’t even much no where near worth it. She showed them some crazy before this happened. I’m willing to guarantee it

  • Karen Brady

    Yes! Avis. Cute pregnant girl. And yep, all that education, had a young son herself, loving parents and lost her damn mind. And as much as I couldn’t stand him, he had no part in that murder so, oh well.

  • Pamela

    The pictures of the kids and the blood-splattered car are so unnecessary. Just in poor taste.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    I’m sad for the kids but they ARE in a better place.

  • Karen Brady

    Right… why him?? When they sad he had several women I said of course he did. Those seem to always be the ones and I’m like I just don’t see it but ya’ll go head.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    People just don’t know how to move on anymore. They don’t know how to roll with the punches. He cheated, men do that you know. You’re warned about their infidelities from childhood, yet people still get shocked to the core when it happens. Women cheat. They just do. Sometimes with your friends. It happens. Family and friends been telling you this since childhood. Guess what? Men and women cheat. You have to have something else going on in your life to live for than the affections of another person. Now she went on a murdering spree, and won’t be alive to see him in the pain she is hoping to cause. You know what’s gonna happen? Another women is going to comfort him, marry him, and give him some more children. Meanwhile your a ss will be roasting like a marshmallow in the pitts of hale. Sorry for the rant, I just hate when people kill innocent kids over something meaningless, like cheating.

  • southern

    She’s been told. She doesn’t care.

  • V Dubb

    I’m really starting to hate people.

  • Tee Bullock

    Demonic should have left the babies alone!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Wow, this is really quite tragic but those babies were innocent and deserved a chance to live. The children are resting with Jesus now. R.I.P to the little ones.

  • Karen Brady

    That’s it! Mississippi… Avis was the victim and you’re right they weren’t married yet but her fam loved him and accepted him. Had no idea he was slanging it around town. :-(.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    I feel you SouthernGirl. I have to back off at times as well. Between these stories, the trolls and even myself!! Finding i’m being hateful with my words and arguing with someone whom i have no day to day connection with….becomes draining. I have to reset.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    And with that I’m out. No blog is worth being sad all damn day. Bye Sandra with your deranged azz.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    mmm-hmmm…. you know it was some phone calls, texts, drive-bys, etc. just like Betty Broderick, she showed them her crazy. They laughed and Betty and shrugged her off, but anybody should have been able to see that she was crazy FOR REAL.

  • Karen Brady

    Right. I’m with you. I wish ya’ll all the best, hope you work it out.. lose my number.. forget this address.. Take Care boo! You ain’t got to morry about this lady right here ever again. I love waking up every morning.

  • Karen Brady

    Yeah and they brushed it off. Sadly.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    How’ve was the children hurt! She put all her hurt feelings on to the kids!! Yet the man is free to live in have more kids and find love again she couldn’t have thought this through

  • Pamela

    Murdering heffa left a footprint at the crime scene. Masters degree my azz. That led to her conviction.

  • Karen Brady

    Definitely all of those things happened :-).. And when my girl Betty drove the dam SUV into the house… ummmm it was on and poppin for sure from there!!

  • MsPam

    Race doesn’t have any thing to do with it. Black ones can’t handle it either!

  • Karen Brady

    LOL.. damn sneaker print I think, then gonna return her poor cousin’s gun to him like it was nothing. She showed not one ounce of emotion at that trial. Evil.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    I thought Avis was the college grad, who was engaged to a police officer, who was having an affair with a staff member from his precint? She shot her in the head while she was leaving her apartment then tried to frame the dude for the murder?

  • Fiona

    She was so selfish. Word can’t express her level of self absorption. She was so upset with her ex for leaving her that she killed 3 innocent people for revenge. I think women are doing too much when they damage property or stalk men or project their anger on the new girl, but this beech killed her kids and the new beech. Yes, he will be sad, maybe even devastated or depressed, but the reality is he is alive and free to love again and have more kids, she was CRAZY!

  • Mrs. ??????????

    What a cowardly b!tch, if you was in so much pain, you should’ve taken only yourself out. She just couldn’t take the fact her man was moving on and 3 other people died for that rejection.

  • Yardgirl

    ??????

  • Pamela

    Okay. Noted.

  • Karen Brady

    That’s not Avis. And the maintenace man heard a shot and the neigbor leaving his apartment found her body at the bottom of the stairs?

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    HELL IS TOO GOOD FOR THIS SELFISH VINDICTIVE THING!! HOW INSANE IS IT TO KILL INNOCENT BABIES! THIS WORLD … https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7ee213326789da8c38cd6f48b38b83c0913d5380bd129361dd5ed666d29db102.gif

  • Karen Brady

    Beautiful. Thank you.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    You know what? You make some great points, and you are correct in what you are saying. Problem is when a relationship goes south, there are clues along the way. Arguing, cheating, can’t pay bills, he ain’t doing it like he used to. She chose to see the red flags and treat them as badges of honor instead of moments of truth. Truth like, maybe this isn’t going to work. Maybe I should start trying to think about me and the kids. Maybe I should go back to school just in case it don’t work out. Maybe I should get involved in some activities to create some kind of life for myself outside of just me and him. I wonder if he is cheating… how can I prepare myself if he is. She took the weakest way out because she wanted to hurt him. She never thought further than ‘him.’

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i’m ashamed to admit it, but Meredith Baxter Bernie(sp?) played that role to the gawds, and I laughed — through most of it, smh. But when she slaughtered those people in cold blood, I was stunned and silent. that was a chilling portrayal.

  • Pamela

    Avis was the pregnant murdered girl. She was shot and stabbed inside her garage by the school teacher, who worked at the school where Avis no-good fiance was a basketball coach.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    he’ll mess around and get picked up on a TRO foolin’ with ME, Lol!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Selfish, yes….AND…..mentally and spiritually disturbed….I’ll leave the judgement for God…..We’ve all been there….with pain so bad you thought you’d die from a broken heart….and you’d do anything to make it stop….however, sometimes, some people are one bad situation from fatally losing it…that’s why I consider myself a strong woman…not a better woman, just stronger in my faith and GOD. The fact that I felt the same pain and betrayal this women probably felt and I didn’t end it all…I didn’t lose my mind….I’m still here….not prison…or 6 feet under…Still Standing…Stronger than ever…..and I owe it all to Jesus…..thank GOD for Jesus….is all I can say….GOD IS GOOD….

  • belizeanborn

    She killed 2 innocent children, the other woman was having an affair with her husband, she was a homewrecker. Warning to other homewreckers out there. By the comments on here there seem to be a lot of you.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    this sounds like an episode of snapped, with the police officer and the college student????

  • hotntot95

    OK that’s enough human trash for a while…I’m gonna go walk my dogs and roll one up…

  • Karen Brady

    Honey I’ll one up you. I’m ahamed to say that everytime that movie is on I watch most of it. She was soo good and a trip but yes when she shot them and SNATCHED and I mean SNATCHED that phone from him AND WRAPPED the dang cord around it I was like oh okay. This is FOR REAL!!! Smh.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Amen! (there but for the Grace of God go I….)

  • Karen Brady

    Lmaooooo… you a mess!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Where you walking your dogs? I need a hit!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    that right there! she had me shook through the tv!
    (and, yes, i’ll still sit and watch it ’cause I’m old enough to remember the ‘movie of the week’ with 2 and 3 parts, LOL!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Pamela

    Yes it was a sneaker print. Almost got her innocent coysin in trouble. Thank goodness he had the good sense to go to the cops when he became suspicious. Murderer b!tch got life in prison.

  • Karen Brady

    Yes!!! And I love that they always put both parts on one right after the other. There goes 4 hours of my dam day :-).

  • hotntot95

    Lol.? here u go…..round the block…it so nice outside…animals are much more sane than humans..

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    #NoMeansNo!
    #MyLifeMatters!
    LOL!!!!

  • Fiona

    I’m happily married and never dated a married man in my life, but I don’t think the wife/murderer was legally or morally justified in killing the new girlfriend. Just like I don’t think drug addicts deserve the death penalty or life in prison for breaking the law and buying drugs. What the homewrecker did was morally reprehensible, but it was not worth her life. Just because your man rejected you or disrespected your relationship doesn’t give you a license to kill.

  • Karen Brady

    Thank God he went to the police. And they sent her up for life. That man didn’t even wantt her!!!! He hot what he wanted. Man get out of here with that mess!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I never consider my “me time” as wasted time, Lol!
    and sometimes you need to just sit and think… count your blessings… (and that story will have you doing all of the above, LOL)!

  • Pamela

    That was another beautiful murdering heffa that drove allll the way to that university campus to kill that young lady. Tried to pin the murder on that no-good policeman she was cheating with.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    that last part though… if that were the case, quite a few of us would be up on charges, smh. anyway, I’m never one to blame the next woman – I’d deal with HIS azz….

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    that’s the one.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    all of this! he was her “world” smh

  • Bonsai

    You see that’s why you can’t go messing around with people’s feelings. If anything she made it easy for her husband because now he can go about his business because all 4 of them are gone.

  • casiepriest33

    If he marries again he’s going to be so faithful.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl, for a minute, I thought you were talking to yourself, Lol!
    (but I get it… we both made a point of emphasizing the ‘whiteness’ (not because we think it’s only them, but because we obviously think we’re ‘clever’) ROFL!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Oh I can name some thangs….. I’ve poured cooking grease on a whole bin of clothes….I’ve cut up clothes left them on the hangers….took one of every pair of everything he had and hid them….etc…just foolery……luckily my ex husband thought it was all fun and games….until I took his phone to work with me one day……….again….Thank God for Jesus…I’m on the other side of that…and 5 years later he’s doing the same FK-Boy things….he somebody else’s problem now….

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    oh ok. Both were horrible. Both men, went on with their lives, while leaving two women dead and two women in prison

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    sad

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Girl if you don’t testify, you betta!!!!!
    I got one I haven’t physically seen in a good 12 years or more…. he STILL will call my work number and ask me out to lunch. I play his messages when I get home (and me and my current Mister laugh our azzes off at his played out azz)

  • Me 215

    Her spirit will burn forever. Life on earth is temporary. This journey through life is Gods test. If you fail God he will punish you severely when we get to your resting place.

  • Pamela

    Damn girl you was crazzyyy…..

  • We Can Do This

    Just move on. This concept of love has people losing their minds. Unconditional love for her kid, yes but all that other stuff is nonsense.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    leave her ‘lone…. she was traumatized! Lol!

  • Mrs. Joyce

    I have survived two crazy marriages and people are always surprised at my strength and my joy, I always say its by the Grace of God….

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    but you just explained it: she was INSANE.
    once the mind goes, all bets are off. that’s why I don’t fugg with NO crazy folk once I know they’re crazy. the end.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Sometimes when people are in pain they do really bad, evil, selfish stuff. For sure, what she did was evil, but part of me feels bad for her. She clearly was in a lot of pain.
    R.I.P to the innocent victims.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    What a selfish, stupid thing to do. I understand wanting to hurt her husband after he hurt her but to shoot her own children? In their heads. Wtf is wrong with people?

  • Bonsai

    I still remember on America’s most wanted it was a black woman who killed the pregnant wife to get her out the picture.

  • Anji

    Children are blessings that enable us to get through and get over. I find it hard to understand the taking of your child’s life. I would want life for them over respite of emotional pain for me.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    all this^^^^!!!!
    she was so far gone by the time she did this, smh.
    I’m no clinician, but it’s possible she suffered a psychotic break (not excusing, just trying to understand)

  • Pamela

    Betty still crazy and mad as hell to date. Have you heard her latest interviews from prison? She STILL sees nothing wrong with killing those people.

  • Pamela

    And that cheaying ex-husband never got time to fix it before he got killed by crazy azz Betty.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    see! crazy FOR REAL. (and here I go again, but….) ….you know yt women think they’re supposed to have it their way all the time, just on GP. now take that level of entitlement, mix it with delusion, denial, fear, and vengeance, and voila! – heeeeere’s Betty!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    What decent woman would even want to marry him, with all that baggage he’s got now?

  • SweetTEE

    I really think something like this could really mess with the mental. I remember when D.Wade’s exwife was outside with that sign. I think it drove her crazy. Not an excuse, but everybody aint built the same.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    honestly, I’d be scared it was all gonna come crashing down on him suddenly. it’s 3 am, you wake up, and he’s standing over your side of the bed balling his eyes out, waving a gun, talmbout maybe she was right… go get the kids…. BISH WHET???!!!!

  • Pamela

    That sense of entitlement that they have. They loose they minds when reality strikesz can’t handle sh#t.

  • SweetTEE

    I would be like..”Naw son, I dont want any of that negative energy”. He’s going to have nightmares for the rest of his life for sure.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    exactly. when see a formerly ‘normal’ person doing stuff that no self-respecting person would stoop to, I think that’s a pretty clear indication that something has gone horribly wrong. we may say ‘well he/she/it/they wasn’t worth all that, but “worth” is subjective and what one person values, another may scoff at. flesh is weak…. *shrug*

  • SweetTEE

    She literally killed those babies JUST to hurt him. Makes me wonder why she had them..to keep him? Sad.

  • Mischelle

    The older kid belonged to her first husband. She left him a note as well, apologizing and thanking him for giving her her first kid. What a sick and twisted mind she had.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you’re exactly right. and there’s some supporting fact to go along with how right we are, Lol!
    I just heard news radio yesterday a story about yt folks who are poor and/or un-/-undereducated are dying younger than Blacks and other minorities – no joke! I swear they can’t adapt to the ‘struggle’ because they feel it’s ‘beneath’ them. that’s why so many voted for Trump in droves and some still haven’t figured out that if he replaces/repeals “Obamacare” they’re going to be even further azzed-out than they are now, smh.

  • SweetTEE

    WTF? See… I can’t. Why didnt she just give that man his damn child?

  • RICHIE_RICH

    She did what she felt was best for her to do!! That’s why whomever I’m dealing with I Let them know up front I don’t deal with cheating on no levels. So if you a cheater or plan on cheating on me just let me know so I can go my way and we can end on good terms. Some people can’t handle the pain that comes along with cheating. I don’t condone what she did, but She will have her day with the maker. It’s up to him!!!

  • Pamela

    Lol

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Yup . I think we all could have a psychotic break!!!

  • Malai

    And now all he’ll do is go get with another woman and make a whole different family and now her crazy ass nor the mistress will have him… like wtf… we all have been cheated on but this is clearly a case of mental illness…

  • Lisa daniels

    Damn bish

  • Lisa daniels

    Both men their kids. Bish was sick as hell.

  • Pamela

    Let them die and rot in hell. Most of them are racist idiots who need to die off anyway.

  • Lisa daniels

    She plotted this, she ain’t snapped. Don’t make excuse because you see Lily white that bish was evil period.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Lisa daniels

    Exactly.

  • Lisa daniels

    Her ghost gonna be all over his ass.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    DIDN’T I SAY “NOT EXCUSING” RIGHT THERE IN PRINT? GET OFF MY FONT! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/01755f97914c4dc5856b30727af9a053978ac454beddaf195da2d196d1ee6092.gif

  • Lisa daniels

    I missed it. My bad

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    hey, the human psyche is a mystery. we know a lot about how it works, but at the same time there’s a lot we still do NOT know… “for now, we see through a glass, darkly….”

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    (no worries, lol)

  • Mrs. ??????????

    well damn.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Lisa daniels

    ??

  • bashi

    His conscience will be the death of him. He would be thinking what could I have done better to prevent this situation. Should I have my side woman lay low. That side girl lose her life for some dick simple.

  • bashi

    Exactly she might have invested a lot in that relationship too. Some people heart is just fragile

  • Malai

    Bashi I will NEVER understand what’s so hard about being FAITHFUL or leaving a person alone! It makes no sense. Any person that I have dated in the past could have easily been my husband because I love hard and I don’t give up.. faithfulness is beyond important to me. It’s sad that people don’t cherish those that they’re with or respect them enough to not cheat.

  • Malai

    ??????

  • Malai

    Omg who’s foot was it tho! Like I wonder if the family know that their family member’s foot was sticking out into someone else’s grave 🙁

  • dontgetblocked

    Sometimes you just have to take a L and walk away or you end up like this…

  • dontgetblocked

    But why kill your kids??? The cheating slut…that’s understandable.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Semi light at the very end of the tunnel!!!!! Lol That’s why I don’t fcuk with people and there feelings. I try to be as honest and up front as possible without hurting ones feelings. I’m a Gemini, so I’m throwed off by default ?????

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    So sad!!!

  • Mischelle

    Agreed, Malai.

  • Nikke0208

    Nothing hurts worse than someone trying to destroy you and take your kids.

  • Saharabutnotdry

    The side chick was married too ..

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Thank you!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I remember that one

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    No, he wasn’t all of that for me to be murdering anyone. Now that fine specimen from Queen Sugar I would!!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yasss!! That’s a testimony right there!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    His grace and mercy is so sufficient. He has promised us he will never leave us even in our darkest hour. My God I am so glad we have you on our side!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Especially if the wife DIDN’T kill him FIRST!!!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yass great points here! When I went through my divorce for infidelity it was never about sex. The disrespect, the betrayal, the pain, and the hurt. The time energy and effort you put into another woman instead of into your marriage. The selfishness and inconsideration…. girl I could go on and on

  • Dr.Rue

    white women….

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Some of us just know who to go to, that IS the difference!!! I thank GOD I Know to go to him!!!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I didn’t have any signs. My ex husband still wined and dined me we still took family vacations we still made love had date nights and conversations of the future….them BAM! I’m sure every situation is different but that’s how mine happened and was the hardest for me to except but everything was normal

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I bleached mine!! Hehehe I’m ashamed and asked for forgiveness but it was still hilarious

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Oh no ?

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Idk I guess she felt that was the best thing for her to do. Maybe she didn’t want her kids to know she was a killer ?????

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    That’s what I’m saying

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Ma’am we need to talk…. we have some things in common

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I like it

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Amen ????

  • Alicia.Ashe

    You as well

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Hahaha me too!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Oh no I like Lisa Daniels!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    She wont

  • Satui Lerne

    Because she got so wrapped up in revenge and hate, she wanted to hurt him in the worse way possible. Even, if that meant sacrificing her kids.

  • Renee Bee

    Me all day! Gem power!

  • jazzysmith12

    As usual the cave,Neanderthal ,devil’s animal instincts are acting up!!!!

  • jazzysmith12

    She’ll probably get community service.Meanwhile,they’re killing innocent blacks for breathing!!!

  • semaj24philly

    It’s so funny people always say “being gay is unnatural & a disease of the mind” noooooooo THIS is unnatural & a disease of the mind.No one in their sane mind will do this.They’ll say “forget you Timmy or screw you Bill” & find someone else.Not this but hopefully she found the peace she was looking for.

  • stanhope

    Only in white America. She should have just shot old boy’s thang off abd given Caitlyn

  • the guest

    Her POS husband was obviously a gaslighting narcissist who used everyone around him including his children.

    I have no doubt this poor excuse for a man, husband, father, and boyfriend is being comforted by a third possibly already pregnant woman the wife and girlfriend didn’t know about. This POS didn’t love anyone but his own wants.

    When people are not divorced and still have emotional baggage, connection, confusion, and pain with their spouse and custody struggles, they have no business dating. Period. Proper closure first before moving on.

    Society needs to stop thinking there’s anything cute about selfish, manipulative, lying, instigating, abusive, cheating men who play with people including their children for sport.

    A man is judged by the well being of the women and children in his life and around him. Where there are unhappy women and children there is a POS man.

  • the guest

    No he won’t. A man who causes this much pain and devastation is unwell and will bring his unwellness wherever he goes. This tragedy will make him sneaky and secretive. The only thing that will change is he’ll bring more kids into his sick world.

  • On the radar….

    Those kids are too small to grasp all of that. I hate when women/men involve the kids in their shit. What he did was wrong but to kill the kids is just a dumb ass bitch only wanting to hurt him because she’s hurting. She did not have to do that!

  • the guest

    Exactly. I don’t understand side pieces laying with men that are married, messy, and mired down in child and spousal support.

    Sorry but this girlfriend chose to be with and live with a man in a very painful and messy situation.

  • Vonn

    That crazy b!tch killed her kids, she’s the POS.

  • Solo

    she’s dead!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I guess clearly she hated her husband more than she loved her kids.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Take a look at the story again. She killed herself.

  • Mika

    Why don’t they ever start with killing themselves first?

  • On the radar….

    Clearly

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Oooh… You’re one of them crazy ones. Us brothas talk about women like you all the time haha

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I was just joshing with her, hence me ‘chasing’ her (I’m rarely serious on here – unless it’s a racist troll) …LD is cool with me

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Right. That simple “golden rule” could help us all avoid a lot of unnecessary drama.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    …?

  • jazzysmith12

    ok thanks

  • Karen Brady

    lol.true

  • Karen Brady

    same to you.

  • Karen Brady

    lol

  • Karen Brady

    hahhaaa.. bleach definitely works!

  • Karen Brady

    praise God.

  • Karen Brady

    always!! them men ain’t studying these chicks who kill over them. on to the next.

  • Karen Brady

    I looked it up.. yep..that’s right. you’re right.

  • Karen Brady

    lmaooooo.. okayy.. make it worth it!

  • Karen Brady

    lmaooooo

  • hotntot95

    Amen.?

  • Freeriah

    Hearing this makes me sick at the stomach.

  • lovelygamour

    so what did the kids have to do with this? the only thing I can think of is she only had the kids cause she had the man.
    this is way you don’t move on until you divorce. don’t bring people into your mess. I would’ve left the kids with the dad and lived my life but he had to have known she was a little crazy.
    a lot of women get a new boyfriend to chase away the old. that is a bad practice for this reason. I know her family is just distraught.

  • nick c

    I KNOW!! You hurt me AND the kids you betrayed me AND the kids those damn kids do not know whats going and a failure in your marriage does not equal a failure in parenting soooo many people cannot or will not grasp that.

  • lovelygamour

    I hate when people say that. no, the other parent hurt the other- they didn’t betray the kids. they usually still want the kids. but I know so many women that rope the kids into it. he wants the kids to live with him, he just doesn’t want her anymore. this woman was crazy. the kids couldn’t even run away.

  • MistaO

    Another lazy selfish broad. Plain selfish.

  • nick c

    A man is judge by God not by the women and children around him, people cannot control how their spouses or even children turn out in life no matter how hard their efforts are. People grow apart sometimes you do not OWN people.

  • On the radar….

    Thank you

  • On the radar….

    I hate when sorry women don’t focus on their kids. So busy running up behind dick.

  • On the radar….

    Black women too.

  • Oya Shango

    How does she figure murdering her children in cold blood and then herself will bring her and them peace???? Plz explain that.

  • On the radar….

    Uuhh, Sandra, please show this isn’t just with white women. Black women do this too. Annoying when people put race in it.

  • Guest©

    This is why I love coming to this blog. Y’all for the most part know the Lord and it makes a difference. The comments are usually positive (in comparison to other urban sites). I’m so glad I know the Lord as well. He has kept my mind and given me peace in the midst of a storm.?

  • Jussjess25

    Wow what a psychopath ! All this evilness over a man who cheated on her? Wow the poor children lives cut short becauseof their sick mother. So sad

  • Jussjess25

    In her sick mind she wanted to hurt him so much that she took his children from him. She was so selfish that she couldnt just kill herself and let her children go on and be happy. Smh so sad

  • Nonya Bizness

    There was no way on God’s little green earth she was going to let him and the new gf have “her” kids. In her mind, that would essentially be “erasing her existence” while they took her kids and created a new happy family. If she couldn’t have the family, no one could.

  • Felicia Kelley

    He left her and was attempting to take the children too!! Not saying she’s right at all!! But I do sort of understand why she did it!!! Emotionally or logically, it’s a very fucked up place to be in!! When someone betrays you in the worst way, you’d be surprised at how vindictive you can become..

    So many lives lost!! All because a guy couldn’t keep his dick in his pants!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    Folks have lost it over things way less than this!! Folks always claiming to be the bigger person!! Folks will cut you to pieces in words for just stating a fucking opinion,in here, but can’t understand this!!! It’s not always meant for you to understand why, just pay attention to how you treat the ones you supposedly love ..

  • Cici

    She killed herself, the kids, and the girlfriend for what? All the man is going to do is move on, and marry someone else. Smh.

  • Felicia Kelley

    EXACTLY!!

  • NicoleZee

    Someone should of dragged her, the husband, and the side chick into a wooded area full of pitbulls that would tear them apart limb by limb and the children could have gone to a deserving adoptive family. Dumb ass heifer! Children are innocent. I get tired of lowlife people having kids when infertile loving people have to go without. Sick and unfair world we live in.

  • Felicia Kelley

    I had an ex not only cheat but humiliated me in the process.. I felt so dirty for a long time.. Some people missed their calling as actors.. I am just saying!!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    ????

  • NicoleZee

    These bitches are dumb. If a man cheats, drumroll please……that means his whack nasty ass don’t want you! Move on! But too much like right. Most men are not worth the trouble. If I was being cheated on, I would be celebrating that he’s out of my life! Never let a man think that you need him. He should be the one begging to keep you, not the other way around.

  • Felicia Kelley

    You are so fucking right!! They never change!! I was with someone that caused a lot of devastation in his exes and children’s lives!! I was 21 and he was 41 when we got together.. By the time he left me at 33 he caused a lot of devastation in my World too and washed his hands of me!! I swear I ate those words, “it won’t happen to me” and had to throw them back up..

  • Felicia Kelley

    They will

  • Cici

    Exactly, women are the prize, but many don’t know it. I’m just wondering whatever happened to divorce, crying, listening to sad love songs, and then getting your groove back?

  • Felicia Kelley

    And like what kind of woman wants to uproot kids from the mother?? And if she was such a bad mother why did he leave and leave the kids!! I noticed no divorce paperwork was meantioned!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    WOW

  • Felicia Kelley

    Of course NOT!!

  • Felicia Kelley

    2 were innocent

  • Felicia Kelley

    I’ve been there

  • Cici

    Yup gave him a clean slate.

  • bashi

    She’s a education fool

  • NicoleZee

    Those days are long gone. Now women feel the need to get even with the guy and the side chick. In the end no one wins and the children are the ones that suffer. What kind of woman stalks a side chick??? The f*ck??? Why care??? He’s shown you who he is, now move on. Plenty of men and women to go around. I don’t get why people get so fixated on the sorriest people imaginable. Ain’t no dick in this world good enough to kill yourself for, no way! Half the time men suck in the bedroom anyway! Sad.

  • NicoleZee

    Why didn’t she just kill him, he was the one that cheated??!! I guess she knew she would end up in prison for life, so she’d rather be dead. But why kill the babies??? That’s some sick and twisted shit. Goodness!

    And I was also thinking, why didn’t she just hire a hitman to kill the husband??? Geesh. Dumb people don’t even know how to properly kill somebody. Ridiculous. If I was psycho like that, why get my hands dirty??? I would have hired someone to clip the husband and possibly the side chick and me and my kids would go hide out in another country under new identities. I’m just saying……

  • bashi

    You are very correct about the human psyche

  • 4RGSpot

    And have more kids.

  • Pamela

    Me too, but i like Nan as well.

  • bashi

    Sometimes the next woman instigate conflict. Want to play mother to wife kids. When wife call strange husband she verbally disrespect the wife in the back ground.

  • Cici

    Yup

  • Cici

    Now you’re right about that. It’s like over 7 Billion people on planet earth, and you mean to tell me you can’t find NOBODY else? Smh

  • NicoleZee

    I say that ALL THE TIME! Why settle for these sorry losers when you have so much more to choose from??? Well, I guess that depends on what each person’s standards are. A LOT of people blame where they live and say that the people are not of quality, but I don’t think you can blame an entire city for what you attract. I keep wondering if who we attract reflects on things about ourselves that we need to work on. I always attract losers and users, but that’s not who I am, so I don’t get it. Everyone tells me the type of guy I should date, but I never meet the educated guys like me or wealthy dudes. But I’ve met women more successful than me and they say they keep attracting losers too, so what gives??? Damn! My mom almost beat my ass for the last lowlife I was with, but it’s a lesson learned. Never again. I think now I need to require men to be within a certain tax bracket and to show me their tax return before I give them my number! LOL! If I meet another asshole that needs to borrow money or wants to use me for coochie, I will be a wanted fugitive! Sorry, I needed to vent! Sick of these lying married cheating broke ass lowlifes!!! Geeesh!

  • NicoleZee

    Beautifully said. I’m not that religious, mainly spiritual. I keep wondering if God forgives killers, child molesters, and rapists?? Glad I’m not Him, I wouldn’t forgive someone so sick and evil, they deserve to rot in the lowest part of hell. How can anyone even be considered human that would harm an innocent child??? I just don’t get it. This world is so unfair and these laws are too lenient. I wish that the death penalty could be used more often and that every state would allow it.

  • NicoleZee

    A difference of opinion often warrants a lot of disrespect, especially on these blog sites. I just respond politely if I can, or ignore them, and then block them and you never have to hear from the trolls again. Noting wrong with disagreeing, but people don’t have to be so nasty and disrespectful. Or even better, if someone says something you don’t like, ignore them or block them, easy!

    “How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours.”
    ~Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Who is nan? Lol

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I know you were joking. I try to keep it funky here as well. My real life is way too serious lol good night!

  • On the radar….

    Kicker part to this story…the 9 year old boy wasn’t the husband’s son, the 5 year old daughter was his only child.

  • Pamela

    Nancy Drew.

  • the guest

    What I meant by that sentence was that a man should take pride is the positive well being and happiness of the women and children in his life and around him.

    There’s proper and considerate ways to separate and divorce, don’t hurt less, but humiliation, abuse, and womanizing do not have to be a part of it.

    This POS poor excuse for a man was surrounded by messiness and misery HE caused with his selfish, self serving, and evil disregard for everything and everyone else except his own needs and wants.

  • V Dubb

    Like it’s too much!! Just doing stupid shit for no reason.

  • Fiona

    So many lives lost because a crazy vindictive selfish woman took those lives.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Oh my goodness went right over my head

  • Mojo2

    ^^^ This!! Lol

  • Mojo2

    If I had to shoot anyone it would be HIM.
    Dirty traveling dick. I’m really nonviolent, lol

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Exactly. I’m here for the jokes and some comic relief to get me through the workday …I keep my war arsenal for the vipers I work with on the daily., Lol!

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    You’re right about that part too. That’s why I said I won’t “blame” her (because it takes two). HOWEVER, if she decides to address me directly, in a disrespectful manner, then she can catch these repercussions & consequences right along with him, LOL!!!!????

    #DontPushMeImPetty

  • time

    This tragedy took place in a matter of hours, not days…. This happened in my city.

  • Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Girl! Don’t you go feeling like the ‘ lone ranger’ because you’re not alone in your experience- they are out here and ANY of us can fall prey to their charm. They are carnal and cunning liars, endowed with powers of darkness?
    ?

  • Allihave2say

    Well, he did leave his children as well. Perhaps she believed he didn’t love and care for his children as he wouldn’t have left them for Rahme.

  • Allihave2say

    Sometimes the pain of depression is so overbearing people feel the only way of the suffering is to die. If her children were home crying to HER for their father and she had to be the one to always explain to their tears that their daddy lives with someone else, it may have been overwhelming for her.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Yes blacks do it too.. But not at the rates white people do. Sorry but it’s true. Just like there are black serial killers but not nearly as many as white. Doesn’t even come close.

  • On the radar….

    ???? That’s the dumbest shit black people say to make a point!

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Have a good day radar. I’m going to the beach. Hope your day brings many smiles to you.

  • On the radar….

    You too. Have fun ?

  • the guest

    Exactly.

    But there are women so desperate for D!?K they will support a man’s evil.

    The lowest women support vindictive custody petitions and the lowest women hide men and support men’s abandonment of his wife and children. The lowest women put everything in their name to help a man look broke and not pay or pay less child and spousal support.

    I hate to say it but the girlfriend in this tragedy signed up for hell on earth and she got it.

  • bashi

    I bet 99.9% the next woman was very mouthy an a instigator. If I’m wrong I’m asking God the Universe forgiveness but I think I’m right a gut feelings.

  • Karen Brady

    Dirty traveling dick. I’m really nonviolent, lol 🙂 🙂 :-)!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    I relate to all of this.

  • unknown user

    there is a reason they say no fraternizing in the workplace. He would’ve cheated with someone else if not her but, I’m just saying. Folks be having a whole notha life in the workplace. You be surprised to hear who’s actually married with kids. Tragic.

  • just saying

    Yep and people always saying what they wouldn’t do or how dumb someone is until it happens to them. I walked in on my sister having sex with my fiancé. I lost my virginity to him and my first kiss. If u think I didn’t have horrible thoughts and think things..hmm.. that memory and pain lasted for a LONG time and would be lying if i didn’t say it altered my view in men and myself for the rest of my life.

  • Judi Lauren

    It might be his wake up call.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    ???????

  • brandy jackson

    These broads been watching too much Lifetime and ID Channel. smh

  • brandy jackson

    That’s what I think happened. Also, the fact that she states selfishness in the suicide note tells the tale. So messed up. Just a reminder that we all need to be mindful of our mental health check. I could see if she snapped but this seem premeditated especially when you start stalking folks and shiat.

  • Cici

    Let’s hope so.

  • brandy jackson

    Damn sis that’s deep asf! Well thank goodness you didn’t just snap because that would’ve rocked my world.

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly.. its a horrible story just horrible nobody wins in this story ?

  • hopeless?

    NO dK is ever that good!

  • Nonya Bizness

    Because they’re selfish and she knew her estranged husband wouldn’t be impacted by that like he would the loss of his children. Hurt people hurt people. If she only killed herself, he would have gone on to live with his gf and raise his kids with her. If crazy can’t be happy, she wasn’t going to let anyone be happy. It’s quite sad.

  • Li

    OT: What’s the word on Jennifer Hudson and her fiance’? I saw an interview JHud gave and there was no Diamond ring on the left finger. Completely gone. Empty. She wore that diamond ring everywhere, now it’s gone.
    Breakup?

  • suganspice68

    Me too

  • the guest

    Employers are not innocent.

    Employers are the ones facilitating double lives in the workplace.

    Employers pay men off the books, create fake pay stubs and W2s, and employers help men cheat on their wives and abandon their married families.

    When employers cross the line to friendship and break the law to cover up employees cheating in their workplace then they should also be brought up on charges.

    If employers were held accountable for their role in covering for employees fraternizing and living double lives in the workplace then fraternizing would cease. This is a law that needs to be developed.

    Companies conspiring with and committing financial fraud to cover up marital infidelity and desertion are criminals. Period.

    Michelin is accountable for allowing this married man employee to fraternize with a female employee and remain on their payroll. The family of the deceased wife and kids needs to sue Michelin for infliction of emotional distress and wrongful death.

    Also, Michelin put their whole staff in danger because a distressed spouse could have went up to workplace all because the company letting a married man and female employee carry on in workplace.

  • the guest

    The man in this article does not have happy days ahead.

    Unless he’s a certified sociopath then he will feel grief forever.

    But he’ll find some loser woman who won’t mind the karma of four dead people over his head, then he’ll make a few replacement babies, get a prescription pill addiction, and probably end up killing himself in a few years anyway.

    He thought cheating and abandoning kids was all fun and games until it wasn’t.

  • the guest

    The thing is the cheating men do still also want their wives and family. That’s the problem. They’re playing double lives and misleading people. What women need to learn is that not all desire is good desire and being still wanted by their cheating husband is not a good thing. It’s the wanting that’s the problem not rejection. Women would be better off if the men were straight up and ended things. Crazy how there was no legal separation or divorce in this tragic situation.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Keep it Simple.
    All the adults are wrong.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    You don’t all that, to give someone a wake up call. Her anger was misguided. Codependent to the end.

  • AListDiva29

    It’s terrible that she did this, but in her mind she probably thought I’m not letting another woman play mommy to my kids!

  • voiceOFreasonn

    meanwhile the man, finds a new love and lives happily ever after??? smh when we we women learn that the “other woman” and most certainly not the kids are not the problem, your husband took vows to love and honor you , not the other woman, your husband cheated on you, not the other woman, your husband left you and the kids…your anger is displaced when you blame the other woman and let the man off scot-free. killing any of those who hurt you is never the answer…God probably had so much more in store for you and your family, but you blocked that blessing by killing your self and your kids…those 2 lying/cheating idiots were probably made for each other but you couldnt see it because your selfish! people are in your life for a reason…and he was probably in yours to show you what a horrible relationship looks like so that when your true blessing came along you would know the difference!

  • Mojo2

    So true. Think before you act. There’s always some low down woman willing to go along with a low life traveling dick. Women need to have more respect for themselves.

  • Mojo2

    Better to be alone than to be with these no good, low life, a$$ chasing fools. That goes for cheating women also.

  • YellowSauce

    listen people … we may think that jail is the worst lol but there are some people out here that think killing you is totally worth the time …with that said don’t play with people’s hearts or their money … you’re welcome ….

  • NicoleZee

    That’s what I say, just leave! Why stay with someone when that’s not really what or who you want??? I think most people go through that. You get involved with someone and you may not feel the same or want to be with them anymore, and it gets hard to leave. You may not want to hurt their feelings or you just don’t want to completely let go for fear of being alone and lonely. I will say from experience that it’s best to just leave and move on. It will hurt for awhile, but when you’re unhappy and miserable with someone, the best decision is to walk away. It’s selfish to stay, especially if you already have another person you clearly want to be with. There would be no such thing as cheating if people would just end the damn relationship before moving on to someone new. Geeesh!!!

  • interestingconcept1

    Yes! Spending 9plus hours with another man/woman getting intimate…I agree. No fraternization.

  • interestingconcept1

    Damn, I hope you right. Because he can be happy he’s free and move on to somebody else…hell I can probably bet he will. Folks fall in and out of love everyday, it’s all how you handle it. He shouldn’t have left his house without being divorce. He just walked out. On his kids too. Hell and kids normally keep them at least coming home after the secretive trysts. This type of man might not feel anything.

  • Jussjess25

    Either way im sure that would have been better than their death.. for that to be justification in killing your children, theres a special place in hell for her. Smh

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Welp. That’s all I got….don’t start none, won’t be none….I’m that good kind of crazy tho….I won’t do anything outrageously criminal…..just enough to make you mad…LOL

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Yes. I let myself go temporarily insane in a toxic, mentally and emotionally abusive marriage. I’m not proud of it, but I came through it and that was 15 years ago. I didn’t want to harm my kids, myself or the other woman. I was mad as hell. I’m a very transparent, I don’t pretend to be perfect like everyone else on here.. I’m actually writing my personal memoirs …… I’ve lived and I’ve learned.