NBA players

You'd be surprised what you learn while shopping in the women's shoe department at Neiman Marcus at Lenox Square Mall.

Last weekend your auntie was in Nieman's shoe department when I overheard a discussion about one of the super rich NBA stars pictured above.

While visiting Atlanta recently, one of the ballers in the above photo noticed a beautiful young lady trying on shoes (I don't know why he was in the lady's shoes section).

Anyway, the young man was so impressed with her that he approached the sales associate and offered to pay for the shoes the young lady was trying on… I hear he purchased several pairs of designer shoes for her.

The young lady was so appreciate that she gave him her contact information. I hear tell that they hooked up later and he took her on a spending spree.

I can't say who he is because he has a wife and kids at home.

But here's my question: would you be upset and call your divorce attorney if you found out your man took a total stranger on a shopping spree?

Bonus question: did a professional athlete or rapper ever offer to buy you anything after a chance meeting at the mall?

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  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Nope. I'm always at the wrong places at the wrong time AND wearing the wrong clothes.

  • T3

    Lol Exactly! I couldn't be so lucky.

  • Harley

    well one is married and one is separated. the other is a clown... so if it was Carmelo thats his typical behaviour. Lala funny shaped arse cant do shit but get more surgery...

  • 1BlueStar

    I say Chris Paul. He's the only one of the three with a wife AND kidS...correct?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    GONE

  • Rayne

    And I'm Finna stop shopping online. I'm getting dressed to the 9's tomorrow and hanging out at nieman's. Since they like giving it away.

  • FallenOne

    yes, while hanging out for a party weekend ran into ..........had conversation and ........offered to buy some stuff.......I accepted. yes we hung out later but nothing extra...I think some people know they are blessed and maybe do not mind hooking up someone just out of love,......or g.p

  • dontgetblocked

    No surprise. These men have all the money in the world and they use it to buy all the flussy they want. Good gossip though.

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    True.

  • 2telldatruth

    Why be upset about him taking a stranger on a shopping spree? You married a trick and that's trickish behavior. You know what you have so NOPE I wouldn't divorce him....I learned a long time ago not to fool with athletes, rappers, etc....YUK! ALL MONEY AIN'T GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH!

  • n1kk1a

    You've been on a roll today, Sandra!

  • JENNYJONES1

    EXACTLY AND HE WAS HERE FOR LUDA DAY........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Julia Lyons

    I noticed that LaLa has a weird square butt and a block back. I think she is trying to fight off that typical "boxing up" that typically happens to most latina women when they hit 30...???

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    There's a saying "It ain't tricking if you got it". ?????

  • thrift.store.jungle

    say it ain't so, chris paul. he has such sincere and kind eyes ?

  • monique

    I hope it's not CP. He appears to be such a dedicated family man.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    ??
    How are you doing?

  • TheOwley

    There is always some quid pro quo with such an offer, so no thank you. Herps free forever.

  • Desiree Edwards

    sounds messy--just out him! LOLOL

  • ???TheRider???

    Harden - not married
    Melo - married, one kid
    CP - ding ding ding we have a winner!

  • shun king

    no quicker way to get the goods than to buy a women something works like a charm....

  • 2telldatruth

    Nah....it's still tricking.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    That's just it appearance as a family man. That wholesome image helps to get those sponsors State Farm etc. I thought he got married rather fast when he jumped in the NBA.

  • KA
  • Karen Brady

    I once had a regular man fill my gas tank up. Does this count Auntie?

  • Karen Brady

    you saying harden is a clown?? tee hee..why?

  • NicoleZee

    If I had a husband and he did that, he would no longer be my husband. No woman wants a sorry nasty cheater! Gross! A married man should only be spending money on his wife, not random hookers.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Aunt tea what's wrong with helping ppl in need! That man wanted to help that lady get some good quality shoes! I'm sure they exchanged contact information so that she can give him a receipt for his donation so he can file it under charity on his taxes!! How can you turn something so innocent like a act of kindness into infidelity SHAME ON YOU!! @sandrarose

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    My man can cheat but him buying another woman something or paying her bills is where I draw the LINE!! Flag in the play!! That's a foul!! Issa no from me dawg!! He bet not so much and go to the drive thru and get her thirsty butt a free cup of water! Bust her down in the back seat of her car near a dumpster and keep it moving!

  • NicoleZee

    I don't meet too many men that offer to do or buy anything, if they do, it's cheap shit I don't want or just a few dollars they want to throw around. Maybe it's wrong that I'm not a hooker. On second thought, nope, it's not, I don't want a diseased vagina or HIV, no ma'am!!!

  • tintin

    always looking like he trapped

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    He has that kanye look in his eyes that I have no control over my life anymore and all hope is lost look

  • Diva_woman

    I met a basketball player recently at a club (popular player but on a small market team where I live). We talked and had a good time. He asked for my number and I gave it to him. Later that night he called and wanted to continue the evening. I declined because I googled him after leaving and saw he had a wife and three kids. It was just so surprising to me how free he was to engage as a single man would. This city is not that big and I can't imagine he could get around like that without being seen. That situation kind of showed me how easy it is for women to get involved with these men.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    That's prolly how he got his wife quite as it's kept ?

  • 2telldatruth

    EXACTLY!

  • Noirluv45

    It's amazing to me how many women put up with that crap. I don't care how much fame, money, good sex, etc. There are some things that are deal breakers, and like you, that would be one of them.

  • tintin
  • Noirluv45

    Looks like he's not that into her.

  • Noirluv45

    Nothing's for free.

  • tintin

    Today I went to buy my son a video game and a man paid for it for me.. a whole $15 . Said he loves the kids..does that count???

  • Noirluv45

    Girl, nothing, and I mean NOTHING is worth getting herps or any other disease. Too many women willing to allow a many to pay for her not realizing that nothing is for free.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Back in the early 90s, I had an associate who was a male prostitute. While working the strip, which used to be located near Clark and Hubbard, he met a guy who took him to a fancy high rise apartment near the Magnificent Mile. While in the apartment, he noticed a plethora of Chicago Bulls memorabilia and lots photos of one particular member of the team. According to my prostituting associate, the guy who paid for his services was the down low partner of one of the Bulls and they were in that athlete's condo.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Girl... ? ?

  • Rayne

    I here ya. I got a fiancé. I was just kidding but if I were single again.... good lord it would be about to go down! Lol

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Tranny gets punched after sucking the "D?"

    https://youtu.be/KuB527iSLZo

  • Jussjess25

    Wow spill the tea honey.. your right these dudes do not be loyal

  • Jussjess25

    ?????

  • Jussjess25

    Yall soo stuupid ?????

  • Jussjess25

    Wow.. looks like he realized that she not as interesting as he thought she was . Smh, go head yall.

  • CaramelDrop

    Wait, what? ....... So you wont share the coin but will share a potential STD? SHHHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIDDDDDDDDD. To each his own. But mine is mine or else I dont want him anymore.

  • NicoleZee

    I'm not about to feel proud of being with a fool. Women seem to gush over being with someone famous. If a man treats you like roadkill, then there is no incentive good enough to put up with that kind of foolishness. Men like him are an embarrassment. I wouldn't want to be seen with someone like that.

  • CaramelDrop

    ???

  • TheOwley

    True, except your free will and the strength to say NO.

  • ?Royalty?

    Right?! I'm with you.

    I think many women have drunk the koolaid and have convinced themselves that all men cheat.

    This is why men have no qualms doing half the ish they do now. Way too many females out here lowering the dayum bar.

  • shun king

    i would say the men that can will i am attractive clean cut athletic build gift of gab its really easy for me to get women and its fun why should i settle down with one coochie for eternity. AND sex have nothing to do with love...

  • shun king

    why would you be hanging with a male prostitute don't you know its a good chance he got HIV

  • dontgetblocked

    I'm starting to believe that he likes to tell tall tales.

  • dontgetblocked

    I'm starting to believe that he likes to tell tall tales.

  • ?Royalty?

    I'm not here to convince you.

    The problem comes about when guys like you pretend to be of good loyal character.

  • ?Royalty?

    I'm not here to convince you.

    The problem comes about when guys like you pretend to be of good loyal character.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Well we know it's not James Harden since he's not married. Carmelo is in the process of a divorce, so......Chris Paul what's up? You out here buying women shoes to walk your way? Hahaha.

  • Duhhhh

    looks like a little kid who's mama made him wear an outfit he didn't like

  • PlayerP

    Loreana Bobbitt...j/k! Kinda sorta not really...metaphorically anyway (***insert Morris Day laugh from Purple Rain here)

  • samuel severino

    He isn't. Trust me. Dude is a freak. Has been seen more than once at high end sex parties in LA and has at least 2 women that he was paying their bills for. His good guy image is an act.

  • Coco

    Lol, it was pretty obvious!

  • Coco

    Normal guys can also be "trickish" but with way less money.

  • shun king

    top pic photoshop that dude wouldn't wear anything like that

  • Ni Ni

    Well that's what the guy gets. He shouldn't be willing to accept head from any random woman either...disgusting lowlife.

  • datATLboi

    While you were shopping at Niemans huh? Auntie Got MONNNEEEYY

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    Big dummy, this is what happens when your secret looks and n0bs like a woman, but bobs and weaves like a man. smh

  • Renee26

    You know what they say...pay them to keep quiet and leave

  • 2telldatruth

    Why would the dumb broad hook up with him later, ESPECIALLY since he had already bought all the expensive shoes. I would have changed my number....The first thing that has always popped into my head when a man offers money in exchange for your goods is.......HIV!!!!!

    Think about it, he's a stranger, he does this ALL THE TIME! He doesn't know what your HIV status is and you don't know his, he has money and he picking up random chicks and probably dudes too. If you contract the virus from him, he'll use that ole saying, how do you know you got it from me?" You hooked up with me and didn't even know me.

  • Renee26

    I'm willing to bet it was Scottie

  • Renee26

    You can do all of that while single...why bother entering into a relationship if that's where your head is??

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    I'm not saying it's a tall tale, I'm just saying this does sound like an E. Lynn Harris novel. ?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    I'm wonderful! Can't complain one bit. Yourself?

  • Renee26

    He's high

  • sunni_daze

    Well we know its not James Harden, he's single with no kids. Carmelo for $1000

  • Renee26

    Looks like a man to me...he probably got clowned by his friends and that's why they dumb butts went back to tape this for world staaar....Idiots

  • brownisback

    Why did I just do that laugh lol

  • Guess Who

    I am sure this thing happens all the time.
    Years ago, Tony Gonzales (played for the KC Chiefs for YEARS) tried to holler at me, even AFTER I told him my YOUNG age. I was grossed out. He didn't buy me nothing though.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Me and two friends had our food paid for at a nice restaurant in my city about two years ago. When the check came the maître d came over and said that our bill was paid and any further incidentals would be paid for as well as long as we joined the "gentlemen" at the table. We turned around and it was two football players. We joined them it was nice and we had a good convo. At the end of the night it got kinda weird tho cause they wanted to buy a suite and have "Us" join "Them" for a night cap. We was like nah but thanks for the meal LOL....

  • Ghost

    LMAO...

  • TOO REAL

    This is something Chris Paul does all the time.

  • Look@m3

    GIRL YOU DIDNT SECURE THE BAGS...JK. I would have done the same. This why they think they can get away with stuff like this because its more chicks out here that wouldn't care about wife and kids and kept it moving.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    True I was just being petty about it the situation. However MOST men cheat some just don't get caught so some ppl may not be knowingly sharing STDs but they are still sharing them none the less ?????

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I'm glad you saw the humor in my comment lol ?

  • Mrs. S. Kidd

    Prostitutes and strippers get tested regularly....it's the "normal" women who are in "monogamous & committed relationships" that need to be worried.

  • Yea I said It!

    Got to be Chris Paul, Carmelo has only 1 child and a shaky marriage. James Harden is not married, which leaves Chris Paul. I can see that.

  • jayhawkpride

    What if he was truly just paying it forward?

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    I wish.

  • darealwifey

    No way the guy didn't know that was a transgender person. It is obvious from the front AND back. He was just ashamed or embarrassed after the act. SMDH. I just read something that said EIGHTY-FREAKING PERCENT of black men in Atlanta are gay. That is EIGHT ZERO. That's why when I meet a brother from Atlanta, I can't be interested. Too men DL men down there, too.

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Well men buy me stuff all the time so Hell to the Naw I wouldn't give him anything except a "Thank You". I didn't ask for whatever it was that you did so I don't owe you anything.
    And yes, divorce is on the way if my man took a stranger on a shopping spree.

  • darealwifey

    She said in the back seat of HER CAR "near a dumpster..." smh lol

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    When I arrived on the gay scene in the 80s, and started navigating my way through the culture, I was shocked at the number of men who sleep with other men. They seemed to be everywhere! Doctors. Lawyers. Cops. Teachers. Gang members. Bus drivers. Janitors. Clerks at Dunkin Donuts (LOL)! Everywhere.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Gotta keep a sense of humor. ?

  • Moon Lee

    Sandra and Company back on the sh$t starting grind!!!!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That mindset right there is big reason why the marriage rate among black folks is so much lower than for whites and other races. And in the end, the black family and the black community suffers.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Nope, but around 1988 or 1989, Scottie started sending flowers to a woman who wasn't his wife, and the cards attached to the floral arrangements weren't the kind of notes you send to a friend. I believe Scottie and his first wife were divorced in 1990.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Guilt is a hell of a drug! ?

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    LOL! Great story! These athletes seem to think money buys entrance to the panty drawls.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    I'm glad to hear. You really motivated me to travel more! And the knowledge about the Schwab card was so helpful. In a new contract, hoping it goes perm...

    Love to you, continue to have fun along the way

    ?

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    You're welcome! If you're ever in Mexico City let me know!

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Of course doll!

  • Naomi

    Yup. A few years ago one of the coaches for the Dallas Cowboys was in the same club as me. Gave me his card to contact him and wanted me to go to his hotel room so he could "entertain me" for the evening. I declined. When I looked him up, homeboy was married with FOUR KIDS!!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Are you asking if we should be mad about the shopping spree or the fact that they hooked up? All of the above.

  • Lisa Lisa 901

    Yes you are paying for sex. No different than paying for a hooker off the streets. Youre still paying for sex so you gotta go.

  • Diva_woman

    Lol girl I regretted it for a slight second but I just had to hold on to some piece of morals. My homegirl was trying to convince me to let him come over. Once I looked him up I already knew what it was gone be so I just had to decline the offer.

  • Diva_woman

    Girl that was the shocking part like this man has a full family. I actually ended up finding his wife on instagram and everything looked so perfect (kids soccer games, community service, events, etc). I'm thinking like she gotta know he out here in these streets lol

  • anjanette b

    Thanks for the tea boo?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yep! Wit her trashy a$$ take her out!! ?? (I've always wanted to use that line 2chaaaaainz)

  • My Thoughts

    You're right, but it does for some! ??

  • TheWildChild

    Bonus question: did a professional athlete or rapper ever offer to buy you anything after a chance meeting at the mall?....... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d857f6abbb9d4a4e670fe5f60b2475a17b79d856fabf8c079b72c3fca2ac64d2.jpg ? Well, not "me' but this girl I know named 'Quantasia' ?

  • Olga Summer

    Welllll...I've never been a kiss and tell kinda gyal...so I ain't gonna put my biz in these streets BUT I will say that the wives are WELL AWARE of what happens in there absence. Athletes, musicians, film...hell even successful entrepreneurs....when the cats away, the dogs will play!! ??

  • PussyGal0re

    Chris is a naughty boy.

  • Not Down With The BS

    Yes! Several rappers have purchased things for me after a chance meeting that was NOT at a mall.

    If that was my man, not only would we be on the rocks, I'd start spending it all (stacking) on my way out the door. I'm taking everything I can get above and beyond anything he's spent on any other woman.

  • Not Down With The BS

    Sh*t, even regular guys.

  • Queen B

    Well damn Chris Paul just b all open with it lol trifling ass but yes I had my 2 ballers (athlete and rapper) to spend a few coins but they weren't married so no issues with me ?

  • Queen B

    Lmao ?

  • LibraGoddess

    Thank you for holding on to your morals! Even though he's a dog you don't have to share his fleas.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    If my boyfriend did that to me, I'd tell him. Since you're taking people shopping, you need to tell her help you shop for a place to stay and to help with all this child support your gonna have to pay

  • YellowSauce

    these men have babies on these women which means their husbands are going raw in some other chic and now paying child support aka taking care of a whole other family ... with that said after all that buying shoes seems like light stuff compared to the other

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Hey there,

    Checking in. ?? You're in a safe place
    ??

  • http://www.keenready.com KeenReady.COM ?

    Yea I'm in Houston. I was in the first earthquake that scared the SHIT out of me. Between watching what was going on in Houston (my family and friends live there) and panicking for days on that and that earthquake. I packed my bags and went to Houston for a bit (yea I know lol but my family wasn't affected). I'm supposed to go back next week...but we'll see.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Sorry for the delay!
    I am glad to hear that you're ok.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Yes, these storms & earthquakes are slamming us?

    Stay in touch ??