Poor Kendu Isaacs is having trouble making ends meet on the meager monthly support he receives from his estranged wife, R&B singer Mary J. Blige.

In June a judge ordered Blige, 46, to pay Isaacs $30,000 a month in temporary spousal support. But Isaacs says that’s just not enough cash to support the luxury lifestyle he grew accustomed to as Blige’s husband.

Isaacs, 49, filed new court documents on Monday, asking the judge for more money and accusing the singer of using their breakup to revive her career and keep him out of work.

He claims, as Blige’s former business manager, he helped the R&B legend earn $8 million. She filed for divorce after she caught him cheating with a younger singer.

Isaacs claims Blige released two “divorce songs” since their split and she is attacking him on social media.

In new court papers, obtained by The Blast, Isaacs, whose full name is Martin Isaacs, claims he is close to becoming destitute after failing to find work as a music manager since their split.

He points out the singer’s two singles — “Love Yourself” and “Set Me Free” — have boosted her career and cast him in a bad light.

Isaacs claims he’s living in a tiny 1,400 sq. ft. apartment in Los Angeles and he needs more money from Blige just to survive.

He’s asking the court for $65,000 a month — pocket change compared to the $275,476 per month he claims she’s earning from breakup songs.
 

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  • oshh16

    tough titty. 30k month is an excessive amount as is, more than a lot folk make in year.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    A piece of work.
    This proves how abusive he was to Mary in their relationship & how codependent Mary is to men.

  • Guess Who

    What a turn off…a man that is not self-supportive and STILL trying to leech money off of his ex wife. He’s a lowlife POS. HE’s worse than those groupies getting knocked up by athletes. How in the FUK is 30K NOT enough to survive? Hell, baby mama’s of wealthy men don’t get that much! Is this fugly, play-dough faced vulture insane?

  • sunni_daze

    He makes my pressure rise. She could have handle him for a lot less than this.

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    This shyt is shameful.. men are becoming soft ass weak ass thot ass gold diggers.. I hope he never get one job again..HE FUCKED HIMSELF UP by fucking round and them cry for help from the same hand you bit..BHHHHHHHIIISHHHHHPLEASE..

  • stav

    What a bum!

  • Elevated Soul

    He needs to get up off his azzzzzzzzzzzzz and start working.

    Moral of the story whether you are a man or woman: Don’t marry a goldigger.

  • Malai

    He can’t be frugal and live off of $30,000 a MONTH? $30,000 in which most people don’t even make within a YEAR??? Ok cool… let him go back to court and by the grace of God, the judge will drop it down to $10,000 and we’ll see how BUM-do like them apples.

  • pecancandy

    This is one bitch made dude. Instead of running to court he needs to take a financial management class.

  • monique

    He better find a smaller apartment or gind a roommate. There is no way one cannot survive off $30,000 a month. I lived off less than that amount yearly, in my 20’s. He can’t find a job as a manager because she gave him that position. Why isn’t he managing the mistress? Find another career, go back to school or downgrade. I pray the judge ignores his request. Why should she have to pay for his wrongdoings? Paying for him to live the good life with someone else, that’s such a slap in the face. If he hadn’t cheated, she wouldn’t have had a reason to write these songs. He should stop whining, be a man, hustle and hush.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    A lot of men would kill to be in the position he was in… and he messed it up. He should have kept it in his pants, then he could have avoided all this mess.

  • Rayne

    Now come on now!! Greedy MF!! I’m screaming mad ? he’s getting THAT much!!

  • Solstice

    She married a real winner, boy. Just smh. ????? Ken-don’t needs to get his life together and leave Mary alone. If he can’t figure out how to live off 30k a month then he truly doesn’t know how to manage money, let alone someone’s career. Shame.

  • Dowoop

    Especially when there are people living of less than $30K a yr.

  • Solstice

    Exactly

  • Simone

    I saw her in concert last month…and it was everything.
    Mary can sing! Hell she didn’t even have to sing…everyone knew the words to every song.

    As for that dead beat KEN-DODO lol he need to go ask the bish he was cheating with. The nerve of some people. SMH.

  • kiddo1

    I don’t make that much a YEAR..Kendu there is a SPECIAL PLACE IN HELL FOR YOUUUUUUUU!!

  • You Could Never

    Isaacs claims Blige released two “divorce songs”

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Nigga she released a whole “I got my ass whooped” ALBUM about K-Ci. He aint try to get paid. And its a classic. Fukk your “divorce songs”.

    Starts singing in my Carly Simon voice….”I bet you think this song is about you…dontchu dontchu…YOU’RE SO VAINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN”

    Go play in traffic KenDont.

  • ShWa

    Some people only make that in a year or even less, he better take his cheating as somewhere else with that BS and stop dogging MJB any further, already cheated, plus getting paid after that, he’s a lowlife no good dog, I hope he loses everything else……Get a J.O.B. u bum.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Of all the dudes she could have chosen to be with, I dont understand what it was that made her fall for him. He didn’t seem like he was any kind of catch at all.

  • Solstice

    He better go down to that mall and get him one of those holiday season jobs to supplement his spousal support. Get a roommate, go back to school, something. ?

  • You Could Never

    he supposedly helped her stop drugging and drinking. substance abusers often times feel indebted to those who assist in their journey. its why you see so many folks marrying each other who were in rehab together etc. sleeping with their drug counselor etc.

  • Solstice

    He wasn’t. Not at all. I know she said he helped her find God but she didn’t have to marry him. Shoot she could have found Jesus for free.

  • Coy little wink

    If the rent is too high in LA he should move in that young broke hoe and share the expenses ? in fact manage her career and make millions

  • 100milesperhour

    Not a good idea for her to give a Breakfast Club interview & bad mouth him on stage in the midst of a divorce. Wonder if the judge will consider this? He can make do, he’s just bitter. Mary said he’d tell her she no longer had fans.

  • Bonsai

    If women can be gold diggers than men can too unfortunately.

  • darealwifey

    No wonder Mary is in debt up to her eyeballs after being married to this bum. All he did was spend her money. She needs a new lawyer cause her current lawyer isn’t representing her right. She needs to hire Gloria Allred (or however you spell it).

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    Sad situation. Sounds like a guy that DOESN’T WANT a job. All these singers out here!? Even his side-singer (see what I did… lol) go MAKE some money. If you’re done with someone BE DONE, especially when YOU were the cheater. SMH

  • PROPHETMAJOR

    Ungrateful bastard!

  • 100milesperhour

    Mary made him her manager to give him a job so he wouldn’t look like a bum. I only started hearing stories of $ mismanagement & loans on default after she married him.

  • darealwifey

    I…LOVE…THIS…BISH!!! Been down with her since “Real Love.” I love the whole vibe of this song. And the imagery. lol Get ’em, Mary. lol

  • Ms..N

    Wow this takes bitchasness to a whole another level!!!

  • SpiceGirl

    Kendu…..you BIG Mitch!!

  • Nophace

    This clown has officially reached Level Orange with his bitchassness!!

  • Rachel

    What happens if she don’t pay? Cause if it was me he wouldn’t see sh$$, but a letter of recommendation.

  • blackbutter63

    I want him to make sure he plays in traffic on the 405 Freeway during rush hour.

  • Kanyade

    i’m sure the money she’s earning from those “breakup songs” is what she’s having to put forth to cover the debt she accumulated with him as her manager.

    i’m amazed at this “man”. as many have stated, 30K is more than what many in this country make in a year. he needs to humble himself, get a job and go back to living life the way he did before he even met Mary.

  • NaeNae2015

    I would fake my own death and disappear to places unknown before I would pay him another dime!!!! UGH!!! Lazy!!

  • Victor Nathan

    who lives on a measly $30k monthly welfare allowance?

  • Phillybruh

    I know she can’t wait until that divorce is final so she can be done with this man.

  • Renee26

    I HATE him! F that dinosaur looking azz nucca

  • Renee26

    That’s more than he’s worth …he should ask his new woman to support his lifestyle…Go to a fast food joint and get a job; they don’t care about his break up issues, they just need burgers flipped

  • Renee26

    Yeah she needs a shark to fight his bum azz

  • Renee26

    It’s her story to tell too…. real life experiences so they shouldn’t hold it against her because she told the truth not spread lies and rumors…her truth

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    then what Kendu needs to DU is start putting in some job applications for this seasonal hiring that’s kicking off!

    if he don’t sit his bish azz down somewhere…argh!!!!!!!!!!

  • guest

    Hes a tripp! NI$$A go ask that younger chick to support yall! Leave MJB alone!! smdh

  • Renee26

    Ok!! Hurt Mary comes with that hot fire music. I love her and don’t want to see or hear her hurting but I can say the music behind it was fantastic…. Hell, even Taylor Swift wins grammys singing about her break ups and hasn’t gotten sued over it…it’s what makes her popular.

  • Renee26

    I’ve seen her 4 times and try to go every time she’s in my area. Her concerts have always been different and she switches up the songs even on the same tour. I love her…super fan

  • Renee26

    That part

  • JV

    Waiting for the “Maybe I should do reality TV!” light bulb to go on in 3…. 2….. 1…….

  • Quitedeliteful

    If $30,000 isn’t enough then get to flipping burgers!
    Somebody gotta be on fries…

  • Justlooknout

    30k….Jesus lawd. I’d be madder than raging bull.

  • guest

    Once she is ordered by the courts and don’t pay he can file for Judgment/s against her wages, bank accts, Lien/s placed on her properties, etc

  • Renee26

    Those type of guys are the BEST charmers

  • Yoni7

    And shakes…….if the machine ain’t broke.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Maybe he should join Hollywood Husbands….

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!

  • 100milesperhour

    It’ still a pending legal matter; she has to be smart about it.

  • Renee26

    Alllll of this!!

  • Rachel

    Thanks for clearing that up.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    If he doesnt find a seat, all these jobs out here. Hell every time I call the phone company Im on hold. He needs to apply

  • James Hudson

    I see a lot of hate on here towards Martin, I actually know him & people forget he came into the marriage with his OWN $$ (he’s been in the biz a long time) he’s no deadbeat he started with Queen Latifah & Flavor Unit, Shout out to Martin Issacs from Hamilton High.

  • Scromes1212

    Is Queen Latifah or the flavor unit hiring? Lol it’s obviously not looking good out here for him smh. Wish him the best though

  • hottlanta

    I live by the motto where I would never marry a man who DON’T want to take care of men. Never marry a man who CAN’T take care of me. Never give your boyfriend a job where you have to keep him employed as your husband to take care of you, It is like paying the bills with your money. Men shouldn’t step to a woman if he can’t take care of her. Boy that Sal School of Male Pimping list is getting longer and longer. I know Sal told him should have had a baby man for them checks for 18 years. Instant gold mine.

  • hottlanta

    If he had his own before he married Mary but spent Mary money doing the marriage he should still have his own.

  • Scromes1212

    Would you feel the same way if it was the other way around?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    My advice would be to move somewhere where no one knows you. Montana, North Dakota, etc. Buy a modest 5 bedroom home and live like a king off $30,000 a month. People like him need to learn to downgrade and appreciate what they have. He is getting 360,000 a year.
    I would be a rich bytch if I were making that much a year.

  • Scromes1212

    “Buy a modest 5 bedroom ” a 5 bedroom is not modest for a man with no young kids. JS

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Ms.Vanilla

    I was trying to be modest for his income. With 360,000 a year he ain’t buying a 1 bedroom.

  • James Hudson

    He MANAGED her & contributed to her $ucce$$ not to mention getting her clean & sober (she said as much) But now because she’s the “Star” & has the media as a platform she can vilify Martin for being human, people have affairs ALL the time, that doesn’t diminish his contributions to her career.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Hmmm~?

    What kind of man relies on a woman that don’t even want him for financial support? He’s really going out bad.

  • hottlanta

    I sure would. If I was a man I wouldn’t ask a woman to take care of me. As a woman I handle all of my business by the grace of God so why would I deal with a man who don’t.

  • Scromes1212

    He ain’t but he should. JS

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you better tell his azz!!!!!!!

  • Scromes1212

    How you gonna say “I sure would ” then explain how a man shouldn’t do that?

  • James Hudson

    Obviously that was back in the day & he helped Mary’s career go to the next level (No More Drama album) all conceptually his idea.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    in the bus lane, bih!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Scromes1212

    Kendu? No disrespect bro, but you gotta get a job.

  • hottlanta

    What is ever sicker is that his whole family wanted in on the financial train as well. They took the phrase you marry the family to a whole new level as if you divorce him you divorce us as well and we all get a check. They was trying to sound like Oprah and say you get a check, you get a check, you get a check. Never seen anything like it. I bet he was trying to get her to adopt his kids when they were young and somebody said don’t do it and he would have divorced her earlier.

  • James Hudson

    WHY should he “get a job” he had one but now that he’s no longer with Mary he STILL has to get paid for services rendered. That’s how business works bruh.

  • Scromes1212

    That’s true bro but if it was my wife I have to treat it a little different. That’s just my personal opinion. But I feel you, if females can do it then why can’t we?

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Women aren’t the only gold diggers anymore. Men are just as bad.

  • James Hudson

    EXACTLY…. Now you feel me. Just like Jaunita Jordan got $$$$ when she divorced Jordan… if females can do it why can’t men??

  • Bashi22

    He’s playing tick for tack well Mary you made your bed just lay in it Sister

  • Coy little wink

    A judgment lien goes on her credit and wage garnishment

  • Solstice

    Umm Juanita was married to Michael during his ENTIRE career. She supported him AND raised their 3 children. You’re comparing apples to oranges.

  • Scromes1212

    Ok bro, I see your angle lol if we gonna do it like this then let’s just make it fair all the way around.
    My n*gga :)

  • Scromes1212

    She wasn’t with him shooting in the gym!

  • Solstice

    She didn’t have to be

  • Scromes1212

    True, but that’s what made him a millionaire, right?

  • James Hudson

    Exactly, Juanita got 250 million and didn’t shoot not ONE basket.

  • Solstice

    Yep. And he made her his wife for 17 years and had 3 children with her. She was a model and he was a basketball player. Kendon’t and Mary weren’t married for 17 years and they do not have children. Apples to oranges.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Ugh I cant stand a nicca who just wont get up on his azz and go get the bag. There are men who have been through worse and still managed to survive. He got all those kids and Mary gave as much as she could when they were together. These men aint men no more…

  • James Hudson

    Not apples ? & oranges ? my point was females divorce a man and automatically expect to get paid… what’s different when a man does it? Rene Elizondo got 10 million from Janet & Chris Judd got 15 million from J-Lo so they contributed to the success of these ladies… they don’t deserve to get paid??

  • oshh16

    female?

  • James Hudson

    Fasho my nig

  • Scromes1212

    She was a model? Lol stop it. She was a Instagram model before Instagram lol but I agree this situation is different.

  • oshh16

    nope they want to be treated and regarded like “females”.

  • hottlanta

    Correction, she was a bonafided star before she met him. That 411 album is still the business. If he loved her and helped her to get sober that was to be his job as a loving husband. Now you gotta pay him. If I know beforehand my boyfriend has a problem before the marriage and I choose to go into the marriage anyway it is on me , I shouldn’t complain when it is over. Now she gotta write him a check for that as well. He was guiding her in the right career direction with the Burger King fried chicken commercial. Wow great managerial skills.

  • Shay

    So , let me get this right…you cheat on your wife she leaves you and you demand 60K a month and this is the bed YOU made…..gtfoh

  • James Hudson

    A model!!?? Stop it Juanita Vanoy was just a average light skin sista (no disrespect) but she was no “Model” lol

  • Solstice

    Never said that. Michael and Juanita were married for 17 years and have 3 children. Juanita, to my knowledge was a housewife. Mary and your friend were not married for 17 years and they have no children. Mary worked and as you stated, your friend did as well. He wasn’t a housewife. Therefore, apples to oranges.

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_

    prime example of a b*tch a*s n*gga.

  • Solstice

    lol hey, that’s what she/he stated. It’s on google. ?

  • Solstice

    Lol hey, that’s what she/he stated. It’s on google. ?

  • James Hudson

    LOL… I see you hard on a brother my sista, but all good. I just don’t think a double standard should apply when talking divorce & alimony.

  • Scromes1212

    I can’t stand a woman hollering that “a man ain’t a man if he don’t do such and such” then turn right around and say you a cave man cause you ask her to do some stereotypical female sh*t lol “cook me something to eat ” response, “why can’t you cook, that’s not a woman’s job” lol sh*t is ridiculous smh

  • Evillene

    This man has no shame.

  • James Hudson

    WOW.. no you didn’t go there with that “crispy chicken” commercial! I give up you got me with that one.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Didn’t I block you before??? I dont feed the trolls honey…

  • hottlanta

    I just feel that a couple gets together to take care of each other and they should want to do it. If it was the other way around I would feel the same. It is just the changing of the sexes. Men have always had money and married women with no money. Yes women have married these men for 2 days, get divorced just to get the check once a month. Courts got smart and made it difficult to get a quickie wealthy divorce. So it does goes both ways. We women can’t have it both ways.

  • Ridingfinest

    Of course the industry is going to blackball him & not want to do business with him after the way he did her!!! He need to take that L she made him.

  • bemetoo

    now i was all for this nigga getting some money for all those miserable years spent with mary nasty attitude scarface having ass but this nigga is tripping 65k a month if you dont take yo cock sucking frying pan head ass somewhere and be happy imma have to beat that ass

  • kennedy campbell

    wait i know in the hood she was a star off of what’s the 411..but i thought once the sprites started playing her on their stations (not gon cry and even real love from the 1st album) she was next level lol

  • Scromes1212

    Block me for what? What exactly did I do to you? It’s cool, no worries. I was just engaging based off your comment. Won’t happen again, my apologies.

  • Lady_Elle

    How so?

  • Lady_Elle

    Ummmm so side-piece ain’t making no money for this leech?
    I would make him show what he is doing with the $$$ and get a new atty.
    I always thought when you were the cheater… you got NOTHING!!!

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    It’s not her though. People worked with him because of her, so the door will swing both ways. He’s coming off like she’s on a campaign telling people not to work with him. Come on bro. Plus, $30,000 a month in any state is great living. But if it’s not enough for you to be in Cali, move. The judge should reduce it. Then what?

    You will not live like the breadwinner ever, man or woman, so change that thinking.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Nope, side piece was a side piece cuz of MJB’s clout and money. Now Kendu has access to either, so what’s the point. He said no one will work with him so side piece is about to get out that life. Diggy Simmons is available, side piece.

  • James Hudson

    Wow, I guess anyone can claim to be a model lol

  • Solstice

    Lol. That’s not my intent at all. ? I agree there should be no double standard in a divorce. Michael and Juanita just weren’t a good reference in this case. ? Enjoy your day ?

  • Solstice

    LOLOLOL

  • Lady_Elle

    Diggy was just on the Red Carpet with his girlfriend.
    I will bet he’s unavailable for a side-piece w/o $$$.

  • James Hudson

    You as well my Queen.. make your day count.??

  • Marlika

    This is what happens when you take a broke mofo make him your ” manager” and take care of him. The same is going to happen to Wendy Williams when her husband leaves her. Her dumb ass is always bragging she didn’t get a prenup. Mary didn’t either. Prenup she would eliminate a lot of her headache right now. ??

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    So true and they don’t even realize they turning into woman right before our eyes. Like its a shame. Always complaining about what a woman don’t do well what exactly do you do sir besides NOTHING! I had to go thru a lot of frogs and fake princes to find a real KING. Which is why he’s treated like one. A lot of these men have superiority complexes like they deserve proper treatment but dont even do shit. I learned a while back not to entertain any man defending his manhood all while living off a woman GTFOH!! Like SCGW said these men aint men no more. All soft and delicate fraudulent asses.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Mary did have a prenup.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    So $360.000 a year isn’t enough to do nothing? Karma is a Bih….watch what happens next…..let him keep complaining thinking the “system” gone be sympathetic to him….they gone wind up reducing it…

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    you forgot the made…B*tch Made azz N@gga!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Mary had a prenup that’s why her spousal support is temporary. He wants more money now so he can stack that extra up before she doesn’t have to pay anymore. Perfect example of a BAN I don’t see how these men feel good about themselves living off a woman. Its really the world we live in these niccas think their bad bitches and its disturbing.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    The prenup was tight, he complained about it and he is getting “temporary support” until the divorce is final.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Not “They” “HIM” HE was the one who hooked up his family. They were the grateful recipients of his leeching off her.

  • Nonya Bizness

    Welp at least we’ll be getting some good Mary music again. I remember when she sat on Oprah’s couch talking about this man like he was sent from Heaven. It was sick. He’s living in a “tiny” apt that’s bigger than my 1300 sq ft house. Fk him. Ugh. You cheat on your wife and then demand hella money from her each month?He sickens me. Not saying she didn’t bring this on herself, because she did by giving him a job, but that doesn’t make him any less of a POS.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    You live and you learn. I’m sure she’ll marry way up next time.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Ummmmm…Shout out to Hamilton High for producing one Bytch Made Azz N@gga asking for more than $30K a month. Tell that Hamilton Made azz Bih to get a J-O-B.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    He’s a Bytch. He used her, her fault for allowing it but call a spade a spade. He’s an opportunist and he should’ve been saving some of those coins instead of spending it on his ho.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Don’t forget about the tax thing as well. ALL of that was his manipulative, greedy azz. Not saying MJB shouldn’t take responsibilities for her part in it…but this dude is a snake in the grass, future park bench bum. I just can’t stand no bytch made azz ninja.

  • Itiswhatitis!

    Needs better representation….

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    My Life
    What’s the 411
    Share My World
    Mary
    Were the best sounding. best lyrically, Those albums catapulted her to Star status which made No More Drama cross over status easy to be the best ranking for her. He ain’t do shat but get lucky and hit the jackpot. ANY manager worth salt could’ve came in and did the same thing.

  • oshh16

    My mom’s Bishop reminds us that we are in the time the Holy Bible speaks of when a man, in the true biblical sense of manhood, is something that we marvel at because it is so rare as opposed to being the norm.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    So you mad he’s not getting more than $360,000 a year? That bih signed a prenup.

  • Marlika

    If I were her I would have hid my money under my sister and mother before he knew it was over and a divorce was coming. Rich men do it all the time to keep their spouse from getting more.

  • Marlika

    What was his sorry ass doing before he met her?? She used to claim he was a producer. But I ain’t heard nan music her so called produced before her. ????

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Level Orange……I think I like that…lol

  • hottlanta

    Talking bout he nursed her back to health to get her off alcohol. Cold season is upon us and now when my man brings me some orange juice, cold medicine and aspirin Imma tell him to take it back I can crawl outta bed and get it myself. I don’t want you to divorce me and wanna get paid for being my nurse.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    That’s real!!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Right they said for better or worse. He brought nothing to the table. Mary J had clout well before him and still does after him. So her allowing you to be her manager then husband was a luxury.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I actually just saw Mary J Blige a week ago at a SAG Awards screening for her new movie called ‘MudBound’. She was excellent in it!. She also looked very svelte in person. I feel for her recent marriage breakup. But a person should NEVER marry below their means.

  • Pamela

    You know what? …on second thought….I can’t….I have noting to say….damn shame.

  • hottlanta

    Helloooooo. She was already an ESTABLISHED artist before him. I bet you 9 out of 10 when Mary heard about that sidepiece she hit that bottle again.

  • Sorry_Not_Sorry

    There at families living off of 30k a year and making it work. This high maintenance bum can’t live off that amount monthly. He must be still paying for that sk@nk he cheated with

  • KcoolMuziq

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/bc911e7db7e7bc3eccd9cb8c8e6d83a64a26aa9955fd24b834feee9b4519a4eb.jpg

    I actually just saw Mary J Blige a week ago at a SAG Awards screening for her new movie called ‘MudBound’. She was excellent in it!. She also looked very svelte in person. I feel for her recent marriage breakup. But a person should NEVER marry below their means.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    You right! You know she did but it aint stop her from putting out that fire album and that breakup body is snatched too!!!

  • James Hudson

    That was toxic, I’ll remind u
    What’s in my post Martin has been working ALL along making MJB be MJB I’m not on here to be his cheerleader but I hate when blogs or social media tries to tear down another Black Man. Not on my watch.

  • Desiree Edwards

    lol, he should just get a job! You reap what you sew!

  • hottlanta

    She is so mofo fly to me. Can’t nobody beat her when it comes to dressing. She is a beast. I love the Mr. Wrong video with Drake with the different styles throughout the video.

  • Renee26

    I think she has been…in the concerts I attended she never called him out by name…she spoke about it saying things like…”I’ve been through…” “When you are dealing with someone who does …” At the last one I went to she didn’t even sing any of those songs off her new album; I was wondering if she was advised not to. I attended another one that was close to the time when they first split she was really emotional and the whole crowd could feel it; I mean damn near crying and everything. At the most recent one she seemed to be in a much better place… I was happy for her

  • KcoolMuziq
  • KarmaBackAround

    AsK the bish u cheated with to fund ur broke ass..what a bastard

  • DETROITTOATL

    I WOULD GIVE HIM MORE ALRIGHT…SOME CRACKS UPSIDE HIS BIG HEAD. shameless GROWN MAN TRYING TO GET ALL HER MONEY…

  • DETROITTOATL

    Yass Mary has always stayed fly…

  • Ebony Starr

    His daughter is crying on Growing Up Hip Hop that Mary left her. Mary is the reason that she is getting that check. She doesn’t care about having a relationship with her own daddy, but she’s crying over her relationship with Mary.

  • DETROITTOATL

    okkkkay…That monkey can’t stop her flow.

  • DETROITTOATL

    They should stop it all together since he complaining. Good for nuthin negro. I hate that his daughter is also suffering because of him.

  • DETROITTOATL

    lol FRYING PAN HEAD AZZ

  • Missy

    she made him.

    Yes indeedy.??

  • James Hudson

    I loved Mary’s “My Life” & “Share my World” & “411” but at the end of the day… Martin still has to get paid.

  • James Hudson

    He’s not trying to get ALL her $$ just what he’s owed.

  • hottlanta

    THANK YOU, YEAH!!!

  • Mia Said so

    yup i agree what what you didnt say…

  • ZoraNealHurstonsNiece

    Mark my words…. His greed is going to catch up to him in more ways than one…Ive witnessed this scenerio before… Not only is he a whole “bum” for his antics.. He has no real where with all to do or produce ANY income of his own…. How are you, as a grown man going to justify asking for more except for the simple fact that you are too damed lazy and want Mary to support you, your side and your family forever?!?!…

  • Toni Wiggins-Sorzano

    Kendu is a leech and he needs to be ashamed of himself. I am pretty sure he can find work somewhere. Maybe not where he wants to be, but somewhere.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    KenDon’t!! LOL

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    He has a big dack.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    It’s call Co-Dependency…She needed to be drug free, he needed money and a career. Perfect Match.

  • KA

    He’s a bum.

  • TheOwley

    Well, he has his whole family of adults to support as they all grew accustomed to leaching off Mary though him. <>

  • nick c

    She would have to get gangsta hide her money in family accounts or overseas dump all property in her name. Operate off of a prepaid debit card which allows 100k at any time. He also know too much about her finances so she needs to either plug the leak and close every account he ever knew about and open new ones and never tell him.

  • 19awesomegrl97

    smh

  • Moon Lee

    Boy Bye! I hope the judge decrease his support! Man baby!!!

  • nick c

    This is rare I know it happened to Jessica Simpson and Britney Spears so this is another one. He probably trying to get every penny he can before the final judgment comes down he gets nothing so he’s going to drag out the proceedings for years if he is able to. This is a leech and they NEVER stop the courts always entertain this mess.

  • Bashi22

    When she takes shots at him in the public. He goes to court for more support. They both was in at one time so I don’t care they need to just dissolve this union quickly before it’s drags on too long. Then the lawyer win big in the end. Mary don’t let pride gets in the way of rational thinking in the end. If Mary was in Kendu position she would want that money ? and try to get as much she can. That just how they play in divorce court

  • Luv Pitties

    Sounds like Kendu is very bad with money. How in the hell you are almost destitute on $30k/mth?! Live and Love within your means. Don’t date a woman with a $50k/mth and caviar lifestyle when you can only afford $10k/mth and fish sticks

  • Luv Pitties

    Exactly, UPS is hiring

  • Luv Pitties

    But prenups seem to be an exercise in futility. Look at all these men who had their wives sign one only for the judge to throw them out.

  • Luv Pitties

    I hope she finds a billionaire and cut off Kendu’s kids and that entire clan

  • Gone Too Far

    The nerve of this man to cheat and still expect money from Mary so he could still keep up the lifestyle with his new hoe. Time to get an actual job Kendu!

  • Gone Too Far

    Right and he’s getting it for doing nothing! Most hard working doctors, engineers, bankers, lawyers with degrees don’t even earn that much so why is he still unhappy? Someone remind that lazy mf he doesn’t get to be picky!

  • Blah Blahhhhh

    Shouldn’t have cheated fkkr

  • bemetoo

    Shit looks like a deep skillet

  • Gone Too Far

    I dont get how he’s not embarrassed. It just goes to show he still needs her to survive because he has no wealth of his own

  • Lisa Lisa 901

    MAN UP Cantdo!

  • Shawty

    Lmao….too damn funny

  • Shawty

    I’m just waiting to see the outcome of this. He did her wrong and have the nerve to complain that he can’t keep up his lifestyle? If he kept his peanuts in his pants he would still have the lavish life. Should’ve cheated up not down dumb ass.

  • Gone Too Far

    He’s incredibly dumb. I hope the judges reduce his spousal support significantly for still trying it, or take it away altogether. He can leech off his new bitch now and leave Mary the hell alone. She doesn’t owe him anything. He made his choice

  • BacktolurkingIgo

    Get a job he better.

  • NicoleZee

    No one feels sorry for Mary. She made her bed, now she has to lay in it. If women would STOP dating and marrying bums, then they wouldn’t have anywhere to go or anything to gain from you. Dating is one thing, but marrying a man who has nothing or earns less money is dumb because the woman will end up paying him in the divorce. She must have really been blinded by love. She needs to just date and never give these men anything, period. The door swings both ways here: If you get married and you are the breadwinner, be prepared to write a hefty check in the divorce. So why complain when you know what the deal is??? Men AND women should know this by now. SMDH!

  • Shawty

    I’m sure the money he asking for is for him and the new one. Hope she has a job.

  • NicoleZee

    Toys “R” Us is hiring too, even though they filed for bankruptcy. I love them, but heard it’s not the best place to work. Heard the same about UPS. Sad. These companies don’t pay shit, but expect you to work hard and be happy at work. FOH!

  • Gone Too Far

    Definitely. I’m embarassed for him. He can’t go on with his mistress without getting his allowance from Mary because he doesn’t have any wealth of his own. He has no dignity

  • NicoleZee

    Bums don’t care. If a man can find a woman to support him, house him, clothe him, and feed him, then he will take full advantage. Bums don’t care about pride or what people think, they are just USERS, period. I can’t tell you the number of times I encountered and dealt with a sorry ass bum that does nothing but use and abuse women. They are at every corner. Nothing phases them. As women, if we leave them in the street to rot, they won’t have anywhere to go!

  • NicoleZee

    The woman he cheated with is probably a bum like him. These niggas are sorry as f*ck. They expect women to take care of them and cater to them while they do nothing for you but give you sorry ass dick for five minutes, if that even works! It’s sickening, but Mary knew what the deal was. I’m trying to figure out what she saw in him. He’s not attractive one bit and doesn’t seem like a nice person, just a loser. Sad. He feels no shame, he’s used her for money for years, so that;’ what he is trying to continue to do. I hope she has learned her lesson to leave these lowlife bums in the gutter where they belong.

  • NicoleZee

    I think these bums go from woman to woman. When one woman realizes she can’t deal with a lowlife anymore, the guy runs and tries to finesse his way into another woman’s life. I have met countless men who need housing and food and I wonder what the hell they were doing before I met them, probably their wives or girlfriends that dumped their sorry asses. It’s just sad. And it’s about to get worse with the holidays and winter approaching. Everyone is in need of something. My door, bank account, and fridge are closed to these bums, No more. If you need assistance, cal DFCS and become their problem because I;m done and have had enough of these sorry pieces of shit!!! My very smart mother said it best, if you’re with a guy that can’t do shit for you or your child if you have one, leave his sorry ass alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • ?Royalty?

    Jessica Simpson tho? Really?? I had no idea her husband got her like this.

  • NicoleZee

    It’s disgusting. Most of these dudes are sorry sick pieces of shit. I say keep your doors and legs closed to them. I thought it was just black men who always need to use a woman for something, but I’ve met Hispanic, white, and Asian men who were also sorry lowlife’s too. Completely pathetic. I’m starting to really think there are no good men left. No one wants or needs love anymore, they just need some type of help. Most men are married liars, gay, or if they’re younger and attractive, they’re probably bisexual escorts. I just thank God for my life and health and leave the rest for Him. But I do’t need anymore devils and psychotic people in my life. Never again!

  • NicoleZee

    I didn’t either. Nick Lachey had a singing career with 98 Degrees before they got married, but I can’t remember the details of their divorce. I heard that they man she is currently married to is a bum. Jessica has built an empire. So a lot of women in her position end up with men who earn less or don’t do anything but help take care of the kids. The door swings both ways as I love to say. But people need to quit being surprised when the person with less money demands a huge payday. Women get paid in divorce all the time, so it is not surprising that these men seek to get their money too. It’s probably better to just date and live separately, that way if you break up, nothing to battle over in court accept over the kids if you have them, otherwise you just go your separate ways.

  • Luv Pitties

    True. But Kendu will think all of those places are beneath him. I don’t think this monthly support is going to last much longer.

    They don’t have any kids but he wants Mary to take care of the grown ones he has with another woman. I personally don’t believe he is trying to find work in his industry, I believe he is still trying to live some lavish lifestyle and spending the bulk of it on women.

  • Luv Pitties

    But what if they pull a Mariah and sue for emotional distress over the breakup ? I believe she sued for $50M

  • JENNYJONES1

    YEAH YOU’RE RIGHT B/C THEY HAD A PRE-NUP SO HE SURE AS HELL IS TRYING TO DRAG OUT THE FINAL JUDGMENT WHERE HE PROBABLY IS GOING TO GET NOTHING OR CLOSE TO IT…………..JENNY JONES!!!

  • noireyblanca

    Cantdo indeed!!!! Mary was blinded by love. Had she had a good functioning relationship with her she never would’ve married this LOSER. Smh

  • Gone Too Far

    Exactly right. They start to take advantage because end of the day, they love what you can give them – not you. Kendoodoo was jobless hence Mary making him manager so he doesn’t seem like a bum who does nothing, he got bored of her and started cheating but while he’s okay letting MJB go, he doesn’t want to lose the luxury. That is just disgusting and such a huge violation which is why I hope the courts cut his ass off for the nerve of his behavior. His new bitch can fund him but he should leave Mary and her money, the hell alone. His daughter too, they’re all leeches

  • JENNYJONES1

    PREACH!!! REMEMBER 50 CENTS’ BABYMAMA? HE WAS JUST GIVING HER $25K/MO. & A MANSION W/O ANY COURT ORDER AND SHE LET HER GIRLS GAS HER UP TO GO FOR $50K/MO. AFTER HE GOT HIS $100 MILL VITAMIN WATER DEAL. AHH THE JUDGE REDUCED HER $25K/MO. & FREE MANSION TO $8K/MO. AND AN EVICTION NOTICE. AND REMEMBER LUDA’S BABYMAMA TRIED TO GO FOR MORE AND LOSE HER MONEY AND BABY EVEN THOUGH THE JUDGE WAS JUST A STRAIGHT CROOK BUT THE OUTCOME WAS THE OUTCOME. BOTH TOTAL LESSONS TO NOT BE GREEDY……….JENNY JONES!!!!

  • NicoleZee

    Lawd, I remember that. People sue for anything these days Mariah has her own money, she doesn’t need to sue anyone. She can just keep funding the lifestyle of her current boy toy. I love her music, but she makes horrible choices in men. And younger men are NOT worth dating. The only thing they can do for you is give you some okay sex if they have stamina and their dick works. And if they’re younger and very attractive, be careful, more than likely, he’s an escort who screws men and women for some coins. Nasty. SMDH!

  • NicoleZee

    If I had Mary’s money I would have just hired a hitman to clip his sorry lowlife ass. Then she could have just moved overseas for the next several years. All of these killers walking around hard up for money! And if you live in Jersey or New York, there are plenty of folks there still associated with the Mafia, use them!!!!! LOL!

  • NicoleZee

    And it’s not just black dudes, Seems like SO MANY MEN of all races need to use a woman for something these days. I don’t get it. I had an Asian guy ask me if he could stay with me. Hell to the naw naw! His ass probably gets hired quicker than I do for a job and yet he needs to use a black chick for housing and sex??? He needs to get an affordable hooker and call DFCS, Section 8, or whoever you call to get housing. FOH!

  • nick c
  • Fred G sanford

    This is the definition of a roach azz nicca

  • KarmaBackAround

    ???Yessss n sign a damn prenup lol

  • Tena

    This lazy, trifling, greedy scumbag needs to get a damn job. Ole bum trying to fleece Mary out of all her cash. This one fits the definition of a true Looser.

  • ZZZ

    If I was the judge I would say too bad, too sad…make it work. Next case on my docket.

  • Omandesert

    Nig get a job! Whiney bitch needs to learn how to downsize and live within his $30,000 per month means. That shit sounds crazy.

  • Li

    Didn’t she sign a pre-nup. If she didn’t, what was wrong with her?

  • ?Royalty?

    Thanks ?

    Wow. He got more money divorcing her than he did with his music career. SMH

  • NicoleZee

    These men today are too lazy and entitled to get a job. They EXPECT women to take care of them and when the dumb ones do they think every other woman is supposed to do the same. I don’t feel bad for Mary, but she needs to leave the broke bums alone. Don’t give these men shit, let them rot in the street with the rest of the bums in the tents and cardboard houses!

  • NicoleZee

    And furthermore, who are these women he is sleeping with??? How do these ugly dudes stay getting women??? I don’t care where the money is coming from, I’m not looking at a face like that everyday, I would grow tired. Looks may not be everything, but we have the choice and power to just say no!!! Yuck on yuck! These ugly bums stay winning because dumb women keep taking them in and laying up with them. I guess no man is worth having. Seems like they all have something wrong with them. They’re either ugly, broke, sex game is horrible, they have diseases, married, sleep with hookers and the rest of the women in the nation, or they’re just dumb! I can’t! Sick.

  • Gone Too Far

    LMAO. Kendu really is a pain in the ass that just needs to go away. I just hope she got a powerful attorney that can put him back in his place and shut it allll down so she can move on in peace, I mean, she really doesn’t owe him anything, he made his choice and it wasn’t her, but still wants to enjoy the luxuries that come with being tied to her? Tf!? Trifling. I’ll be damned if a man had the bravery to cheat on me, and still expect to get money outta me after doing that dirt. Men don’t value women anymore these days that is just the sad reality

  • Jygalo

    This is why ninjas get killed

  • NicoleZee

    Men have never respected women to begin with. No matter what type of woman you are, it doesn’t make you immune to lowlifes. I’ve met women who were more successful and in better shape than me and they say all they seem to meet are bums that need money or housing. It’s not just sad, it’s disgusting. I have never in my life needed a man to give me somewhere to stay and I never would depend on that anyway. It just sickens me how these men just want to use you for coochie and they can’t contribute or do anything for you. And half the time, you are one of many since most of these men have wives and other girlfriends. I think it’s best to be single these days, that way they’re easier o get rid of when you’ve had enough of their sorry asses! These men are like cockroaches, no matter what you do, they keep coming back. Only way to get rid of vermin is to move!!!! Sick and sad.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Change your career from hustling women to getting a real job bum.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Basically!

    Lmao because he just found out that a happy wife is a happy life.

    I hope they cut it down to 1k a month, since his ungrateful azz want to complain.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Ketchup needs to be happy he’s getting 30k a month from Mary, with his ungrateful self.

    Klenex could have only been rewarded 1k or 2k a month, since HE was the one that cheated.

    Mary shouldn’t have ever married Kansas in the first place. His b?tt is too big for a man.

  • Queen B

    He needs to live in Atlanta lol he’ll do just fine with 30k lol

  • Gone Too Far

    I can relate because same thing has happened to me, except it was my ex boyfriend/baby father’s mom who would leech off me, and he was too scared of her and such a mommas boy that he wouldn’t really do much whenever she misbehaved. Sometimes these men behave like that because they didn’t have anyone to teach them any better, and some because they literally don’t care and will use women because they don’t value us. They only want our bodies or our money – sometimes both. MJB needs to find a man on her level that she can make boss moves with instead of funding him cos he has nothing smh. Nothing good comes out of men like that but often they’ll manipulate you into thinking its not a money thing because they’re so busy charming you that you spoil them anyway. That is not what a man does. Kendu has no dignity whatsoever and like I said before, I’m embarrassed for him

  • Diva4lyfe

    Go sit your azz down and work it out. Many folks out here paying bills, feeding they kids and doing it all with 30K. Bum azz dude nobody want 2 work with u because they saw how you did her GTFOH

  • NicoleZee

    OMG! You are not alone sister! I went through the same. I dated a guy and he and his mom needed help with the rent and she needed to borrow more money from me. She paid me back, he never did, but I helped her because she was a nice old lady, but he was a sorry piece of shit and she did tell me that about him, so she was right. In the past, I often felt sorry for people, so if I cared about someone and they needed my help, I would oblige. But now, I’m done. I don’t help these bums anymore even if they get mad or get a nasty attitude about it. I’m just dog tired of bums that can’t do shit, waste your time, lie about every single thing, and then the dick don’t even be worth those few minutes they can give you! I have had enough. Loneliness isn’t easy, but it’s better than being with a complete bum.

    Years ago, I remember thinking that maybe dating outside of my race would get me better results. NOPE! The white, Hispanic, and even Asian men tend to be bums too and end up looking for just sex or need something else from you just like the black dudes. Men lie, most of them do NOT want to date or build a relationship, they want to use you for whatever you can offer them. Most men, regardless of race or ethnicity, seem to have too many problems these days and they don’t want love or even think they deserve love at any point. They’re just looking for some woman to take pity on them and move them in and financially support them. It’s sad. But I keep saying if these women would say no and ignore these losers, they would have nowhere to go but to the street with the rest of the trash that needs picking up. Sickening.

  • Gone Too Far

    Looool! Glad I have someone who gets what I’m talking about. It really is just disheartening how women are just objectified these days. At least we can say we have learned from it and we have stories to tell and advise other women from our own unfortunate experience with these leeches. Men want sex and money, not love. Love isn’t in their agenda until they’ve decided they’ve had all the fun they wanted and now they’re ready to settle. Some men never settle, I have an aunt who’s 45, and her now ex husband is pushing 70. They divorced once because of his infidelities, then remarried when he cane back begging after dealing with a women after her, then cheated again. Mind you, he’s a bum. No generational wealth, no dignity, no achievements, she was the bread winner while he took her money and would stash it away for him and his mistress. My aunt is his second wife mind you, the first left and remarried after he cheated and had a child with a maid in the home. It’s just so sad what life has come to these days. And yet, men are the ones who are incomplete without a woman not the other way round, but society has flipped it to where we feel worthless if we don’t have one, and end up settling for less. That shouldn’t even be the case

  • NicoleZee

    That’s the problem, seems like most women settle for these losers just to have someone. I just refuse to do that. I’ve had times where I was depressed and extremely lonely so I settled for the fool I was with and I hated myself everyday for it. The last guy I dealt with I was on and off with for about 2 years. He didn’t have much money, hated everybody and everything it seems, couldn’t do much for me, kept asking me to help him get an apartment since he was staying with family, suffered from mental illness, and had the nerve to be possessive and controlling with a nasty attitude. I felt sorry for him, so I often took him back. Turns out this sorry nigga was married the ENTIRE time! This nigga had a wife that I never knew about and when he finally confessed to it, he said he thought he was divorced. Now what fool would believe that lie??? I thought my heart would stop after that mess. Of course he had issues that had nothing to do with me, but I get tired of these sorry men taking out their anger on women and it gets worse if you can’t help them with anything. WTF???

    I’m convinced that there are no good dudes left and if you do find a semi decent guy, he has too much baggage to deal with that no woman should have to put up with. I tried dating after that last loser, but then I met another dude who needed housing and sex and I wasn’t convinced he was single either, an Asian guy, So now, I’m just happily single because all I seem to meet are bums that need help. What happened to being self-sufficient??? Why do these men need a woman to help them do anything??? I just don’t get it and never will. If I have to settle for trash just to have someone, then no, I’d rather just be alone and lonely at the same damn time!

  • Gone Too Far

    Lol! Trifling! That’s literally it. I’m convinced too and like you said, the ones that could be compatible often have baggage and nobody has time to teach a grown ass man how to be a man.

  • Ro

    Hes so Pathetic! BE a FLuking MAN AND GET A JOB!!! Dam Loser!!

  • Yoni7

    And because of THIS……I will be going to see Tyler Perry’s movie starring Taraji Henson; Acrimony.

  • ViolettaBliss

    What a loser! You can’t find work as a manager because that was a made up position Mary used to keep you under her thumb. This fool really thinks that he is the reason why Mary had a career?? This is why you don’t take bum -ss dudes off the streets and build them up to be kings.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    He is getting “paid” and if he don’t shut TF up somewhere and sit down, the judge is going to snatch most if not all of that temporary $30K a month he’s getting after the divorce is final.

  • CT

    Since he want someone to pay him for his foolishness and clown behavior….The Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey circus clown college are looking for few good clowns..he should apply….since he want to act like a clown..smh.

    I need for him to go get him some Manpons and start wearing panties…cause don’t no GROWN MAN display this type of behavior

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    I feel you and I totally get the spousal support thing when you marry down (man or woman). But let’s stop pretending like he didn’t initially ask for over $$100K and was granted $30K. Now he back begging, thirsty azz wanting $$65K based off two songs that are about him?? FOH…I would be ashamed to say I even know this prick!

  • Nakia Brown

    tiny 1400 sq. feet? FOH Kendu

  • Allihave2say

    I’ve been trying to figure out for the longest who or what Kendude looks like. Now I know his eyes and skin color are the same as a roach.