Erik Asla Tyra Banks

Tyra Banks has reportedly split from her photographer boyfriend Erik Asla, the father of her young son.

The America’s Next Top Model host and her Norwegian partner welcomed son York Banks-Asla into the world via a surrogate in January 2016.

According to the New York Post‘s gossip column Page Six, Asla moved out of the couple’s Los Angeles mansion recently.

The split was amicable and the pair will continue to co-parent York and put his needs first.

“It came drama-free and they’re co-parenting their young son,” a source told Page Six.

Erik Asla

Erik will continue to work with Tyra on upcoming projects, including shooting the “opening credits of the upcoming America’s Next Top Model”.

Tyra, who also acted as stepmother to Asla’s daughters from a previous relationship, has also put her $17.5 million apartment in New York’s Battery Park City on the market.

Representatives for both Banks and Asla declined to comment on the split report when contacted by Page Six.

Photo by Michael Buckner/Getty Images, WENN.com




  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    That was quick…

  • Pamela

    Cute li’ll boy. Best to both of them. That’s all.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Wait. I’m confused. Were they married? If not, she’s not a stepmother. Tf. I don’t have any kids, and that ish would be annoying as hell to me. Every time you move in with a bih, you think my kids are going to call her stepmom? Issa no.

  • Rayne

    ? that’s just my baby daddy?
    ?that’s just my baby daddy ?
    ?that’s just my baby daddy?

  • Jen_no_juice

    Another celebrity couple didn’t make it, what??? ?? *goes back to beard and grey sweatpants groups*

  • Pamela

    Look at the last photo. Where that mans half foot at?

  • stav

    He’s not attractive , he’s aging horribly, and looks like an alcoholic.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    acted as stepmother……

    Herein lies the problem….stop playing house….

  • Coy little wink

    Who?

    Boobie is requesting full custody and spousal support from keyshia cole…come on intern give us a post we can clown on ?

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    I don’t believe they were a real couple anytway…..she just wanted a donor….mission accomplished…..you can go home now…

  • Vegas1989

    Are you for real? He got some nerves. He better call up LaBron and get a job as the Cavs ball boy or something. He is trying to get in the music game. He better ask Shaq how far his career went. And also Penny.LOL

  • Keesh5000

    LAWD….I dont know, they are LHH characters now…and it looks like Boobie gonna need a solid story line and Im sure Keysha want her baby daddy to get a check from somewhere. They may be in on this together…

  • sunni_daze

    He does have the drunk face.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Oh no

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Weak

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I don’t see anything with it especially if that person is around your kids often and basically raising them with you

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    What’s your definition of playing house?

  • Vegas1989

    When I first saw him I thought of homeboy from the Rocky movie. LOL..I can’t remember his name..LOL

  • Justlooknout

    damn

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    unmarried = playing house.

  • shelly

    She’ll be paying him child support.

  • I want to be free

    Sylvester Stallone???

  • datATLboi

    LOL all these Hollywood men taking these women to the CLEANERS now lol it’s a huge turn around

  • my view

    lol…june bug callin 5 diff women mommy

  • TheOwley

    So sad people are putting these children in broken homes deliberately. And this was deliberate, they were never going to stay together.

  • Clorox

    dolph lundgren

  • stav
  • stav

    A white donor at that!

  • Malcom Flex

    BW should just go to the SPERM BANK that would be cheaper.

  • stav

    Keisha’s story in non-existent, she’s there for nothing! He’s the ultimate in lame.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And the men are catching on, and going for it. The women are really choosing these men.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Stress baby stress!!! Will age you everytime.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Ala Serena Williams and Alexis Olympia?

  • stav

    I do agree with this, I will be totally shocked if they actually marry!

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    How old is buddy jeesh!

  • Bashi22

    These celebrities cannot keep a relationship

  • Phillybruh

    Wonders if her and Janet will have play dates…lol

  • Ms.Vanilla

    Good night all… I’ve been in here long enough today. Ya’ll be good and don’t take no wooden nickles..
    Tootles

  • I want to be free

    Thanks! I was thinking he looks a little like a broke down Tom Brady.

  • Phillybruh

    Well John Singleton did a number on her.

  • stav

    Don’t forget Chris Webber, and now this man as well!

  • Phillybruh

    She ruined that dude.

  • Phillybruh

    I think this guy served his purpose.

  • Bossy704

    She seems like she would be an aggravating self-absorbed partnered. Beautiful baby. She got what she wanted.

  • stav

    Now she wants to be apart of a stable of whorres, to get what ever trinkets she can out of Floyd, she appears to be desperate, and there in no way I will believe that Mona paid her 1 mil to join the cast, she brings NOTHING to the table. He allowed himself to be ruined if that is the case, I can’t say. He is very lame though!

  • Phillybruh

    Now he’s lame. He was a ok bench player for the Cavs making 3 mill a season and he got caught up in the mess that is keysha coles family. His momma tried to warn him when they first got together.

  • Harley

    “Acted as stepmother” ???

    i see his daughter all on IG with THEIR mom!!!!!!!! Doubt it!!!

  • HIS4EVA

    or Gordon Ramsey

  • Renee26

    OMG that pigeon toed walk they caught on camera made me bust out laughing!!

  • bemetoo

    Another one bites the dust

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He looks like a homeless crackhead.
    I assumed that she made the money than he did
    so she will need to crack out her checkbook to pay him alimony.
    Oh well such is life.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    You try to have a relationship with the paps in your business 24/7/365.

  • Phillybruh

    They weren’t married.

  • Renee26

    I hope the baby has zero genes from him…..IJS he’s hit in the face

  • Bashi22

    She’s not new to the block plus she’s not out at every event with him. They signed up to be in certain lifestyle so it comes with the territory.

  • Renee26

    His face sure aged in dog years

  • Renee26

    Idk…if it was looks she was after this was the wrong choice

  • Renee26

    Whaaaaat????? I hope that’s not true!!

  • Pamela

    Dolph is good looking though.

  • Renee26

    She helped him out when he was out of work and provided him with a roof over his head and now he’s going to use that to flip the script on her????? That’s just wrong.

  • Renee26

    It’s different when the rich person chooses the mate just to be a trophy and they take care of them then leaves them high and dry (most female gold diggers story) These women aren’t thinking with their wallets like some men do…they are thinking with their hearts and getting swindled. I feel so sorry for them

  • Renee26

    What did her and her family do to get him kicked off the team?? I thought he was injured and not a good enough player for another team to pick him up…was I wrong all this time??

  • Renee26

    Stress my azzz that’s yt pepo genes LOL

  • Renee26

    LMAO

  • YES I SAID IT…

    He’s a cutie pie and he look slike Tyra, Thank God!

  • Justlooknout

    Wouldn’t be surprised if she prefers women. IJS

    Son is so handsome

  • Satin Panther

    This nugga look like Gordon Ramsey’s eviler twin and chit

  • Music lover

    ????No you didn’t my sides hurt, but you didn’t lie though .

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    Tara is just like Serena… They both tried dating black men for years and failed lol… So I dont mind them dating men of other races. Atleast they tried to stay black lol..

  • Mojo2

    Yes, he does look homeless. ?

  • Satin Panther

    I was just thinking who this nugga look like? That’s right..Hell’s Kitchen nugga! LOLLL

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I just noticed that.
    She will be paying him child support just like Halle is paying her baby daddy Aubrey.

  • Legacy

    Ikr…..like issa no for me dawg!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She’s still human and not having any privacy wears on even strongest person after a while.

  • WutizaGRANNY!
  • FallenOne

    how can he look like Tyra?

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy??

    Tyra got what she wanted. An odd looking half white kid.

    Her cave man looks like a less attractive Gordon Ramsay.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I highly doubt it.

  • shun king

    the love them po white boys

  • the conscious one

    Got with a white man and still ended up a baby momma. WELP!

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy??

    She too wanted a non black baby with an ugly white man.

  • hottlanta

    Tyra betta call Halle about having a baby by them no job having white boys and breaking up with them. Call her now, it is the first of the month and Halle baby daddy check just hit direct deposit before the 5th of the month. I also read when Sandy said the “S” word. STEPMOTHER to his child. Call Mary J and put her on a conference call as well.

  • hotntot95

    That awkward az kiss shows me they had zero chemistry.

  • Bashi22

    She’s still work in a industry all her life dating a lots Tara Banks as a very good list of guys she’s dated coming up in the industry. She knows all to well about the privacy. I’m just saying her relationship some what find away to dissolve. She’s a veteran in her field very successful . Doctor and nurse have to work overnight missing their loves ones too but it just different career choice. Celebrities get perks so it’s a trade off

  • Bashi22

    Human are adaptable

  • Phyllis

    Love TyTy’s boots…

  • MsPam

    This is how Serena Williams will end up.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Yup. I remember when white folks told her and her sister that they were the ugliest women on earth and that they are animals. Fast forward, the self hate set in and to her she has been vindicated with her mulatto child who people gush over affirming her self hate.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Funny how these celebrity black woman can tolerate bum white men and lower their “standards” for them yet don’t have time of day to stick with a brother while he is on the come up.

    Still unmarried, still a black single mother.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Serena wanted a light skinned baby

  • hottlanta

    Or her other option is be like Camille married for over years to a man who turned the comforts of your home into a crime scene.

  • hottlanta

    Some brothers are still on the come up in their 50’s. It is disgusting to see a mofo over 50 and still trying to find a home to move into.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    lol.. I don’t think she cares about that. But her Boyfriend is a billionaire, money talks.

  • Oya Shango

    You forgot to mention those rich and famous brothas who marry obese, unattractive, slave driving, one generation trailer trash, and won’t give a beautiful sista who has her own success, the time of day. It works both ways. . . . Still black and still a buck-slave to masta’s women.

  • more

    Lmaoo

  • bella28498 .

    she look like a damn slave

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Agreed

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Both Venus and Serena were called every name in the book by white media. Black, ugly and that they were really men. Both sisters are with European men today. Her having a mulatto baby isn’t by coincidence.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    At 50, he most likely have a ton of baggage, an ex wife, 3+ kids and knee deep in debt. He’s not looking for a come up but a hand out.

  • Benjamin

    How did you come to that ridiculous conclusion? Did you have an indepth conversation with her, and that’s what she related to you?

  • imright

    he looks just like Tyra. i love his name? York

  • hottlanta

    Want their wives to look like you. It is disgusting to think of a son sexing his mom. They might as well date you/marry you and keep it moving. These boys are young and think that it is cute. When they get grown they gonna chose who they want to chose and tell you to butt out. Women like you raise sorry boys. They cant think for themselves they trying to please mommy and daddy. Yep yall betta prepare for them to stay in that basement forever because you still got them at the balls. Even hoochie mamas ain’t gonna put up with that mess. Sounding like you got the perfect household when I read what you wrote you have a dysfunctional household. Lying from the truth and lying to yourself. All families have secrets and yours are bursting to come out.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Not really. A mother is a sons first love.

  • AllSeductress

    OF ALL THE MEN SHE FOUND ONE THAT LOOKS LIKE A PUG DOG IN THE FACE

  • hottlanta

    Please all a baby wants to do is eat and get his diaper change. If you die someone else will and can do it better than you. You can be replaced. A baby don’t care who does it as long as it gets done. When Laquechtawanda starts tapping that azz right he is gonna say mama who. Ain’t no woman gonna be competing with your sons with you. If they are a woman like me I will give him back to you and keep it moving. Yep a good son respects his mom but a good man keeps her out of his business and tell her to butt out. I will not stick around and wait for your son to be a man. That is why I said start prepping the basement he is gonna be down there for awhile.

  • hottlanta

    Dayum shame all he got is his clothes in a white plastic bag with 2 handles trying to move in. Some of them don’t have kids and debt. All they got is the “D” and I am suppose to be grateful he spoke to me.

  • hottlanta

    My daughter has light eyes and their father is black. So what are you saying.

  • bhavana

    You don’t know that! They were together for several years before the baby came along. They may have had every intention of being together for the rest of their lives.

  • Jussjess25

    You said it!! Facts cabe beck’s has me screaming ???

  • Jussjess25

    You said it!! Facts cabe beck’s has me screaming ???

  • Jussjess25

    Please dont waste your time responding to that sicko ???. Cant you see he crazy? How in the world could he possibly know what kinde of mother you are smh .. wow

  • Jussjess25

    Please dont waste your time responding to that sicko ???. Cant you see he crazy? How in the world could he possibly know what kinde of mother you are smh .. wow

  • Jussjess25

    Facts!! Dont forget he will try and take her for everything she has. Spousal support smh

  • Jussjess25

    Facts!! Dont forget he will try and take her for everything she has. Spousal support smh

  • Jussjess25

    Yup ?????

  • Jussjess25

    Now that is a fact! ????

  • TheOwley

    No I don’t, but my option right or wrong. They are all the same. Weirdness > children, always.

  • NicoleZee

    What you wrote may seem harsh to some, but I co-sign everything you said. I love my son, but just like you told me weeks back, once he gets grown, what he does is his business. I can give him advice and guidance, but I know I won’t be able to control who he dates, sleeps with, or marries. I’m just trying to raise him to self-sufficient. I don’t want him growing up like these sorry dudes today that expect a woman to do everything for them. I’m sick of these bums!!! They all belong under the damn bridge!!! Sickening!!!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    A woman doesn’t need to compete with me for my sons attention. He will give it to her based off his principals and values. And yes, my husband and I already discussed that our sons can stay with us as long as it takes for them to be financially stable- we aren’t going to kick them out at 18 like your generation did. Just like white people do, my kids can stay until they have a deposit for A HOUSE. Laquita can give them all the vagina my sons want they still ain’t marrying or reproducing with no dumb hoe and they sure as hell know (at the age of 6 and 8) not to bring that type of female around me unless they want to be embarrassed. They don’t have anything in common with that kind of female so I’m not worried. I am raising my kids better than that and that is not the example they see in me. Sorry not sorry.

    You are so immature OLDlanta. You raise your kids how you want and I will raise mine how I see fit. Only time will tell whose is more able to properly function in this society.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Can I ask, would you accept any type of female your son brings home or are you teaching him to have standards? Since when did having standards mean that the woman has to slave for him?

  • NicoleZee

    Nothing surprises me anymore. Every other dude I run into needs a place to live. I was just talking about that with my mom. She has a friend, Ms. Kaye, who is housing a disabled Nigerian guy that lives with her, she won’t put him out right now because she doesn’t want to see him on the streets. He’s in his 50s I think. This sorry n*gga went all the way to Nigeria and she actually let him come back after she moved into a new place!! Now, if you got the money to go to Nigeria and stay a few weeks, why don’t you have your own place??? I fell out laughing because Ms. Kaye is afraid to put him out. She keeps saying how broke she is, so I know this dude isn’t helping much, he gets disability.

    My thing is, most men today are sorry as sh*t, they ALWAYS want women to help feed, clothe, and house them but they can’t do nothing for you and won’t do nothing. So why are we as women supposed to put up with that?? I won’t! I’m done with sorry bums, I’m NOT helping anybody out anymore. I learned my lesson the hard way. If they need help, then get government assistance!!!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Teach your son to do and be better so that he won’t become the same problem you are seeing. That’s all I’m saying.

  • NicoleZee

    Well, he’ll be two next week, so he’s still a baby. Now, I’m one of those mama’s that don’t play games, but at the end of the day, once he gets grown, I will always be there for him, but how can I tell him who to sleep with??? I do not want to think of him having sex, but one day he will. I plan to educate him on preventing things he doesn’t want like diseases and unplanned babies. I don’t even want him dating, but he will, and if he brings someone I don’t like, I can voice my opinion, but I can’t force him to stop seeing her. I can only pray that with my guidance that he will make better decisions or he will feel my foot up his ass! LOL! Children find their own way mostly, they have to make mistakes.

    My mom hated the last guy I dated, she cursed me out. Now I see why. He was a bum with mental illness. My mom knew it before I did. Most mothers are always right and she was right about him. If my son were in that same situation, I would tell him that it’s best to move on and not get involved with a mentally deranged person, it’s not safe. I’m a mother bear just like my mom was, and even though I made mistakes, my mom was always there. I still get checked by my mom, and I’ll be the same way with my son, but I know he has to grow and experience life on his own just as I have :).

  • NicoleZee

    Very true. Thank you. I don’t know why men today feel so entitled all the time, they don’t feel the need to put effort in nothing whether it’s working, a relationship, sex, etc., it’s pathetic and sickening. My mom told me that a lot of mothers are the reason their sons are sorry bums because those mothers coddled their sons too much. I guess most men just want surrogate mothers. They want someone just like their mom but someone they can sleep with. Kind of creepy if you ask me.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    What are you saying that is so different than the what I said? I can’t force my sons to do anything but in teaching them the things that matter most to me. Whatever they do with that knowledge is up to them.

    Except that baby momma drama with Laquita. That will not fly over here.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    OLDlanta just doing what she does, regurgitate a bunch of words that make no sense. In the meantime, she waiting on Tyrone…CALL ME!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I don’t want my sons dealing with hoochie mommas at all so thanks for proving my point.

    What secrets are we hiding over here Ms. Cleo?

  • hottlanta

    Our kids do not need our permission to have sex. Want them to look like you that sound incestuous and sick. What is gonna happen next your husband gotta compete with you for attention because you all up in your kids business. Good boys grow up to be bad boys with mothers like you. Your home life doesn’t determine his future because he is gonna make up his mind what he wants to do and who he wants to be/who he wants to be with and guess what ain’t nothing you can do about it. You will be right ain’t nobody gonna be good enough for your son so he might as well stay with mommy.

  • hottlanta

    Can’t raise your son the way mom raised you. You gotta raise him according to his personality and where both of are in your lives mentally and emotionally. If you are raising your child the way your mom raised you, you are not raising him, your mom is. Raising YOUR child are making your rules where you both can live and survive by. What works for you with mom isn’t gonna work for him and you. Lil Hots told me she wanted to raise her son the way I raised her I told her I was glad she felt I gave her a good childhood but she gotta raise her child her way She came to me and said thanks and I was right. Their time is different than our time together. That is why families are messed up today because the whole family is being raised on one generational tale/role for the entire clan that is not working for each individual nor family but folks are afraid to speak out.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Look like me as in being a black woman! Not actually looking like me.????????

    Are you really this dense? My kids aren’t grown men yet so everything you are saying doesn’t even apply. They are kids. They look to me for guidance and it’s my job to teach them the principals and values so that they can be outstanding BLACK MEN.

    Kids rarely steer away from their home bringing- especially if they feel loved and protected in their identity. That is our goal.

    If you are going to bash me bc I want me sons to marry strong black educated woman than that’s your problem.

    Just keep your bed wrench nieces and daughters wayyyy over there.

  • Goddess™

    TALK ABOUT IT!!!!!!

  • hottlanta

    I stand by what I said. Mom is son first love is maternal , yes. You demanding for his wife to look like you incestuous, yes. There is a difference. They are 6 and 8 and you say you are serious about that. Guess who coming to dinner my dear and it ain’t gonna be nothing you can do about it.

  • MRiGOThim

    Tyra just wanted that baby…now bye!!!

  • hottlanta

    Yes they do. You don’t do everything your parents taught you. You made your own rules for yourself as you grew and especially when you got your own home. It is call raising yourself. A adult don’t allow mom to run their house and her house. Your son may not want a black woman he might want a woman of a different race or a man. Who he loves is not your call but to respect and if you didn’t so be it. Whoever they chose to love ain’t go nothing to do with how you raise him but it is what he wants and who he wants to be with. You will go to bed mad but he will be in bed fycking not giving a dayum how you feel. That is called growing up from a boy to a man.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Are you saying something is wrong with that?

  • hottlanta

    Your husband told you he hates hoochies. ROTFLMAO. When he is out in public he be breaking his neck looking at them. He got one on the side as well. He just told you that to make yo feel good. Awww that’s so cute. Trying to raise your son like white folks. Good they gonna be doing meth and don’t go to sleep at night remember the Mendenz brothers killed both their parents.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You sound like the coon you are OLDlanta. Give it a rest. My kids will marry/reproduce black.

    Take your Geritol. It will be okay.

  • hottlanta

    Your grandkids gonna come into the world in so many shades you gonna need to compare them to the shades of Rhianna Fenty Shades makeup line. She got 50 shades so take your pick. She got one for each race. Just take them to the counter and compare.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I’ll take the any shade of brown for $100 Alex.

  • NicoleZee

    Everything you said makes sense. A lot of people who were raised a certain way are raising their kids the same way! I just want my son to be a respectful kind gentleman who treats people well. I think being raised with kindness is still a good thing today. I really pray for our youth of today, they are so misguided and a lot of parents just don’t care about their kids. But for now, I’m trying to get my son to use the potty, but he won’t! LOL! Terrible twos are well in effect!

  • hottlanta

    Shades of beige for Daily Double for $400 Alex.

  • hottlanta

    Stop lumping all of the youth into one category. We don’t praise the one’s who are doing well enough. Are some bad as hell, hell yeah. Are some doing the right thing, hell yeah. Bad azz kids been around since the beginning of time. Just read the Bible and see where Cain murdered his brother Abel. Did he kill him because of poor parenting kills by Adam and Eve? Could Vanzant fix his life .No, he killed him because of a emotion we are born up called jealousy. We have that emotion but it is what we do with it that matters. When you see stories we saw on television like Peyton Place a wholesome time where mom/dad was home it was about a pedophile in the neighborhood and yet we see this on the news everyday. I have asked why are they romanticizing Romeo/Juliet who committed murder/suicide and Bonnie/Clyde were crooks. So what we see now isn’t new been around for ever. Guess what it ain’t going no where. If you gave birth to a child and you don’t want them to face this world you should have not had the child at all. I told Lil Hots I wanted to put them in a cage and not let them out but as parents we have to.

  • Gone Too Far

    That is weird. Why do you want your sons to marry women who look like you? You’re their mother, not their women. Those choices should be their own so long they’re not ignorant with it or putting women down like these other coons out here on this forum.

  • Gone Too Far

    I agree

  • Gone Too Far

    ‘Good boys grow up to be bad boys’ this woman really sounds like my ex’s mom and our relationship went to shit real fast because of her. Even taking responsibility during my pregnancy, she wouldn’t allow him to because she wanted to be in utter control and have him marry a woman just like her and she knew I wasn’t like her. It’s damahing and gross. Then they end up being ain’t shit niggas cos their mothers influenced it into them, and they can’t make decisions other than their own in life cos it’s always to impress their mother or make sure she’s happy

  • NicoleZee

    They’re all rotten, entitled brats! I’m just joking around! LOL! I know that there are good kids out there today that are making positive impacts in their communities, so kudos to them!

  • hottlanta

    ID Channel episode waiting to happen,

  • Gone Too Far

    So strange. I really felt to comment because women like her are how women like me have suffered in relationships with men because of their overbearing mothers who don’t want anyone for their sons but women who are carbon copies of them, whole package and all. It’s incesteous.

  • hottlanta

    I don’t waste my time with them. My kids father mom was the same way and I went and told her if she wants her son back she can have him. She wanted a back and forth. Then when I left that azz and God let our cup overflow with blessings while he was in her basement. She gonna approach me and try to be nice one day and I told her no ma am before she could finish her sentence, he is your son, your problem he can stay in your basement. People kill me thinking someone is trying to get into their sorry/no money/ broke azz families. My self esteem is not that low. I tell women don’t spend time watching how he treats mom watch how she treats him. Her not liking you has nothing to do with you, she wouldn’t be satisfied with who he choose because she wants her son for herself. Incest. I don’t try to please the mom’s I am trying to please him.

  • gail jones

    She is just as crazy as Halle. And that baby is the prime example of ‘just because a baby is mixed, doesn’t make it.’

  • gail jones

    You tell them all that for them to bring home Melissa McCarthy. Girl Bye!

  • gail jones

    Exactly. I have a cousin right now who is freaking out that her 21 year old son picked a chick who is the EXACT OPPOSITE OF HER! Fuuuuunnnny.

  • Gone Too Far

    ‘While he was in her basement’ lol! One thing with my ex/baby daddy is that I don’t expect him to move out any time soon. They will keep their sons right where they can keep a close watch on them. I really could’ve have said it better myself though, you’ve put it all perfectly.

    That’s one thing I’ve realized as well, often they’re projections but they will manipulate you into thinking it’s you that’s the problem and that they just don’t like you. Often the case is that they want them for themselves but since they can’t do that they will be in complete and utter control of who does! And 9 times outta 10 the woman will be one the mom can control, and is exactly like her. It’s all about insecurity and them having unhealthy attachments and expectations for their sons. So gross. I will not be that way with my son

  • gail jones

    PREEEACH!

  • Gone Too Far

    Of course. They want women for their sons who are like them, because they can’t have them for themselves so better yet they’ll decide who does. If you aren’t, you gotta go and trust me some of these mothers will do EVERYTHING to get rid of you. Even in my pregnant state my ex’s mother tries and tries and doesn’t allow herself to sleep until she feels she has succeeded

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Blocked.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Where your man? Oh that’s right, he doesn’t exist.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    But you don’t have a son and neither does grandma ??, so save it.

    Who are you again?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You think I’m going to listen to a single, borderline lesbian with none of her own tell me how to raise my black sons?

    Okkkkkkkkk ?

  • MocaPretty

    I legit thought he was Chef Ramsey tho LLS

  • hottlanta

    Where is my man? How old are you 12? Yawnnn that is so old and so played. That is all you got is to revert to that dumb where is your man comment as if you got a trophy or something to stop a conversation. Trophies are made to be removed from the shelf. Don’t be surprised when your husband die you get a certain vibe from a strange woman at the funeral or see a child or 2 that looks just like him.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    To a certain extent yes.

    But she’s also a mother and maybe she wants her son to have a relatively normal childhood since he didn’t ask to be the child of a celebrity.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    They’re about as crazy as your average woman who don’t keep a man or endure pain and suffering to be in a relationship.

    Both of these women can hand-pick eye-candy of their choice, if only looks matter or being in a relationship.

    That’s easy, just date or marry someone you’re not into or in love with, and he won’t leave your side, afford him a lifestyle that even with having his own loot would be impressed, over look any infidelities, and you, too can claim a long-term marriage or relationship!

    Her son looks like his mother and father (both are oddly attractive yet beautiful and handsome in a rugged kind of way, very uncomplimentary photos)!

    Why must celebrity children be the most beautiful??? He’s hers and healthy, and a cute little boy, if you weren’t expecting an Adonis!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Tyra wanted a child, and marriage didn’t happen, SO WHAT!

    Y’all need to stop with the ‘black single mother’ put downs.

    When many two-parent homes are living nightmares with infidelities, abuse, and loveless coexisting to maintain an investment or status! Many women are paying to be married, like all or most of the bills, or looking the other way with side-pieces, OK!

    Y’all must not have been exposed to married couples or two-parent homes, OFTEN far from the ideal or very imperfect (if not toxic) in many cases!

    America’s EPIC DRUG ADDICTION AND FATALITIES is happening in upscale two-parent suburbs and towns across the nation. Why?

    Marriage SHOULD BE the goal in building a family dynamic, but it’s not the only dynamic that works, it still takes a village (networks and community)! Spouses leave, die or can be worthless, then what?

  • Rhyme and Reason

    This is why they can’t be neutral or give their sons good advice because of their unhealthy attachment.

    Therefore, their son lives a life a misery, unfulfilled because she’s cosigning and doting on him to compete with any woman and sabotage his relationships.

    The son is too blinded to see that his mother is deeply flawed!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You’re so right, I worked with older guy and he said it so well, “mothers who love their sons to death”…many women treat their sons as their man, and not as their son, way beyond being a typical mama’s boy!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Parents can’t dictate or decide who their sons or daughters will date or marry.

    If your kids live with or go to diverse schools, or live in predominantly non-black communities, or your son plays sports, or live in the hood and starts working or goes away to college, meets new or different people, chances are they will date outside of their race in this day and age!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Look at the forehead, LOL!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Black women find time to complain that there is a large number of successful black men that are dating outside their race yet in the same breath justify all the reason why why black men are allowed to date outside their race.

    Go figure.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Learn to love yourself and stop advocating for Becky. Bye Felecia ??

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Then I guess I have been blessed with two mommas boys and a daddy’s girl. Straight Black Pride!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Please don’t compare the reason for your failed relationships with your ex to my 6 and 8 year old relationship with their mother. Like you had absolutely nothing to do with why it didn’t work. Now that is gross and is completely far left.

  • Mark mcharm

    You are like jill scott, angie stone and jacquie reed a real black women who understands that some black women seek out trashy white men and some females applaud them double standards are real and you get it

  • Gone Too Far

    I will compare where I see fit. You don’t know my relationship, so you cannot say that it’s my fault, otherwise I would acknowledge it because I’m honest, but it’s women like you who are damaging their sons and then leaving other women to struggle with them because they live up your crotches. I’m expecting and there’s no way I would want to mother like the way you do, those boys are gonna grow up with issues and end up stuck in your basement I can already tell. They already don’t have a chance.

    I’m not single or bitter, I’m doing quite well actually, but just pointing out your gross mentality of how your sons should date women that look like you, if that’s the case why don’t you marry your 6 and 8 year old sis? Never mind the fact they’re minors, you already don’t care about the fact you’re incestous. And it’s crazy how what bothers you the most is my relationship and not the fact you have a weird expectations for your children. Barf. I might call CPS, it’s a little concerning…

  • Quitedeliteful

    Cute kid but York for me is a doggie’s name… Glad they can co-parent amicably though…

  • Gone Too Far

    But there’s boundaries. You can love your son dearly without forming an unhealthy attachment and relationship with them because of how you feel. That love turns toxic and turns into manipulation and control and they struggle to find wives who’ll put up with that because the momma is meddling in that too of course, which is why if a mommas boy does have a wife, the mom prefers she’s the one to choose for him. Especially the single mothers with mommas boys and married ones, it’s usually the single ones who have issues between separating the son/husband relationship to her. They often think that the son is their husband. I can compare because I’ve seen how my mom treats my older brother (mind you he’s her only son) and his girlfriend and how my ex’s mom treats me and her son. My mom is married, she is single. Guess which of us suffered.

  • Gone Too Far

    Deeply deeply blinded and I find it so sad. These men just become damaged and they keep marching to the beat of their moms drum. They don’t even decide for themselves to just be a man and walk away, whatever Mom wants she gets. Normally she comes before the wife. It’s a very unhealthy attachment and I’ve promised myself I will not be like that with my son, especially since I’ve experienced it. It’s not worth it. @NappyNurse would agree, her mom in law was a devil too lol

  • Gone Too Far

    I’m expecting since you’re so nosey. Either way I won’t sexualize him like you, he will grow up to be a normal kid and a normal man. Not a victim. Next.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I don’t flinch to empty threats. Later troll.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You took what I said too literal which I should expect from self hating women like yourself. I’ll wait for a straight black man to comment and tell me I’m wrong.

    Dismiss yourself Laquita?

  • Gone Too Far

    Self hating is you sis. If you were so confident in yourself you wouldn’t need to be in such control of your children, worrying about them not being with women like you. But here you are

  • Gone Too Far

    I told you you’re done in my other comment. Why are you still trying? The troll is you, because you have said disgusting and worrisome things and I do feel your children need to be safe. We will see. Once again, you’re done.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You responding to my comment lady. Dismiss yourself ?

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    I’m not looking for likes- that is you ma’am. Again, you were the one to respond to my comment. Dismiss yourself ?

  • ThisIsWhat40LooksLike

    Hell… me too!! He ain’t cute at all??

  • Gone Too Far

    you’re done

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You’re blocked ?

  • Gone Too Far

    Am I supposed to care? Do your thing and go away lol

  • Anonymouse

    This is not a good look, Tyra. You’re too old for this!

  • Karen Brady

    Now let’s get rid of these wigs Tyra.

  • Karen Brady

    This has me grinning from ear to ear and I could almost cry a tear or two. Thank you for every word you spoke here. Thank you and I feel the exact same way even though I don’t have kids. Straight Black Pride!

  • Karen Brady

    Odd is the word honey.

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Playing house= playing dumb..

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    What if those people don’t desire to get married then what?

  • FallenOne

    o.
    as I thought this was a surrogate child having None of her DNA just the father. maybe I am wrong? but wrong are wright I regret saying this as she is his mom and I never want him to read this.
    but yes a handsome young bloke.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You are soooooo WRONG! We don’t justify, we just understand the motivations behind the disproportionate numbers of black men who date and marry outside of their race or group. Data shows that most groups date and marry within their race or ethnic group, like Asians or Hispanics or Whites.

    Black men want to be seen as equal to the white male, and for a variety of reasons feel it’s makes him liken or equal because he has a white woman!

    Some are just COLORBLIND ATTRACTIONS, but the numbers says, there is a disconnect, a syndrome of sorts at play stemming from slavery, systematic racism, being snubbed or discounted as a black man!

    Or, it’s revenge for the black women who wouldn’t date him, or he’s in it for the cash and opportunities (i.e. The Kardashians or cases you see on the Court TV shows for food, entertainment and shelter), or he does it for attention, the people who oppose it, makes him feel more valuable and not so less than!

    Black Women are good with having her own, taking care of herself, and her kids, getting some degrees, starting her own business, buying a status symbol car, home, luxurious vacations, clothes, accolades and other things as her snap-back to white people’s given put-downs! But, she, too, like other groups prefer to date and marry within her own race or group, the norm!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Exactly!

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    Shut up lol.. Black men haven’t been that kind to the Williams sisters either. They call her a tranny all the time.

  • Oya Shango

    Another sorry, cowardly cop-out and excuse for brothas not taking responsibility for their own children. Blaming black women for every dam thing. I am SICK of it. I have absolutely no respect for any so-called “man” who stoops this low.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    You shut up.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    It was her egg so yeah I think that’s why he looks like her a little but I’m glad she had a baby, it was time

  • Look@m3

    This is true! makes me sad…

  • Look@m3

    This is so true too…

  • Look@m3

    I get the look like you part I know you don’t mean literally look like you but meaning a black woman. Your not the only that feel this way and use that statement. I have heard several black women say this and I’m sure there are some other races that have said the same thing as well…

  • Look@m3

    Did they get engaged?

  • Look@m3

    This wouldn’t surprise me. I have seen average women say things that blow my mind similar to this!

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Thank you. For the black female roses to incite that I am incestuous because of this is disgusting and somewhat hurtful meanwhile it’s their black daughters who I am preserving my sons for. I’m just glad I don’t live their life. JAH Bless.

  • Look@m3

    Understood…

  • MsPam

    Yes, but is she going to get married?!

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    Just make sure you save your coins, your name is on the lease and all the bills cause if one person gets tired of the other…and your name isn’t oon everything…you could be instantly evicted. or life made a living hell. I’ve lived it and seen it happened to other people . I’ve done it and will never do it again. More power to anyone who chooses to do it..n

  • Gone Too Far

    It shouldn’t be a competition. My mom has never made my brother compete between her and his girl, he loves them separately and differently which is how it’s supposed to be. Mommas boys tend to be products of mothers who’re single and insecure. That’s just my intake on it

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yes I agree, just wanted to see what your stance was is all lol. I’ve done it before it before and fortunately his name was on nothing because he paid for nothing. I won’t do that again!!

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    He looks like Gordon Ramsay

  • http://ivyleaguelove.tumblr.com/ Applebootay

    It was the opposite for me, everything was in his name, cars, house, bills, grant it, he was paying All the bills however, when ish hit the fan….you guessed it….first words out his mouth….”get the phuck out”…that was my first and last time ever in that situation..this ninja even told me…you should have plenty saved up cause you werent paying ish! LOL…he was right on that one…but nah…I was stoopid and spending ..got comfortable…ait was the 1st relationship after my divorce from a “Can’t keep a job ex-husban…I got comfortable and was making up for lost time…LOL LESSON LEARNT

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    OMG lol yes we live and learn. Mine was opposite but just like you first relationship after my divorce where my ex took care of mostly everything. So I tried something different…. big mistake!!