David Jr David Otunga

David Otunga won a major victory in his child custody battle with singer/actress Jennifer Hudson, 36. A judge dismissed Hudson's petition for a restraining order and awarded Otunga primary custody of their 8-year-old son David Otunga Jr.

David Otunga & David Jr

Sources tell TMZ Hudson and Otunga reached a temporary custody agreement which gives him primary custody of David Jr.

Jennifer is currently in London shooting "The Voice UK" and she will travel from Europe to Los Angeles to tape "The Voice."

As TMZ reported, David has been his son's primary caregiver since birth because of Jennifer's extensive travel schedule.

Jennifer Hudson, David Otunga & David Jr

Hudson and Otunga got engaged in 2008 a year after they started dating. They welcomed their son in 2009 but they never married because Otunga reportedly refused to sign a prenup.

The victory is an important one for Otunga, who accused Hudson of cheating on him with with music producer Mali Music.

Hudson denied a romantic involvement with Mali, whom she met when she hired him to work at a party.

Hudson's fans took Otunga's side in the custody drama, with many agreeing that a boy should reside with his father rather than a highly emotional woman.

  • JRock

    I agree with the court's decision. David appears to be the better parent and has been the custodial parent since birth and it should remain so. Let Jennifer get noncustodial visits like every other noncustodial parent.

  • Noirluv45

    Whatever is best for the child is what I support. It makes sense since she travels that the boy would be with his daddy.

  • unknown user

    Idky but something in me is also telling me the boy is better off with him

  • ThottyPippen

    IF he wasn't really a danger to her or the child I think it's DISGUSTING to file a protective order and tarnish his name and image, especially with everything going on right now in the media.

  • thrift.store.jungle

    Punk, i mean, David Sr. is a lawyer by trade, right? listen, if the dad will provide more stability and structure... i wish this family the best.

  • ShelbyMoore

    You go David. He just always seemed in love with Jennifer and she always seem to not GAF about David. David loved that girl while she was big and fat and he loved her after she loss the weight and had (still has) excess skin hanging all over the place....just wrinkled up and gross. Anyway, he deserves the win. David seems like a nice guy and a really hope he finds a woman to love him for real.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I had a feeling that whole restraining order thing ("he's a threat to me and my child's safety") was bogus.
    Apparently the judge thought so too. Good for him.

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    He has always had the son while she worked on different locations and toured. So ok nothing to see. Punk has always been the housewife.. sooooo...

  • Anonymouse

    I'm not surprised. I've long thought that Jhud was not "all there". I think family tragedy just pushed her over the edge.

  • Anonymouse

    Not to mention this guy is a very smart guy. Jhud's loss, honestly. I wish him the best.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Jennifer seemed like a bish when she was fat, but she seem to turn into a super bish once she lost the weight....

    David even stuck with that girl after the weight loss and every time she smiles all you see is "( teeth )" around her mouth.

  • WutizaGRANNY!

    One question.. I saw where they have made advancements on the whole arm skin thing so you won't have that long surgical scar on your arm. I wonder has Jen looked into that recently?

  • hottlanta

    If he refuse to sign pre-nup put him outta your house. Don't have his toothbrush in the bathroom none of that. When he leaves to go back to his home after he leaves your home from spending the night make sure he has everything so he won't have a reason to come over and pick up nothing when you break up with him. That is my rule.

  • Truth

    I agree!

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL

    +10000000000
    Such a low down BISH move.

  • hottlanta

    Please he knew what he was doing. She LOST the weight and her pockets became FATTER. He came over one night and never left to go back to his house.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    he has always raised that child JHud old knocked knee azz has always been a bytch.... I don't know how this one thought she could win.... This brother is smart ... Book wise ... I remember on I love New York this guy was a lawyer or something ... Has a law degree .... And comes from a well off family of lawyers .... FOH JHud ... Nasty spirited azz...

  • Carrington

    I'm very shocked to see so many women in support of this. I expected to hear much more "bitch ass"... "Living off of her" type comments. Bravo.
    Dude graduated from Harvard Law School, it's not like he can't make a buck if he wanted to. I think he wanted fame more than he wanted to practice law and the thing with Jennifer just kinda happened.
    If she's on the road, I think it's a good idea that he remain with the parent who has a little more stability. I'm a grown assed man and I hate to travel because I despise sifting through suitcases looking for stuff.
    When she's not working, I think she should get split custody, but when she is, he should be the primary custodian.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Why is Punk showing his back teeth in Picture #2?

  • JRock

    She definitely gives off that bitch vibe with her knock-kneed self. I was channel surfing a few weeks ago and came across her on the Voice (which I do not watch) and she was horrible sitting up there talking in that Effy voice from Dream Girls. I said to myself they must be desperate and can't find anyone better

  • i troll it like i see it

    I lost a lot of respect for Jennifer, tried to slander the father and used her own kid.

  • You Could Never

    Ive tried with her bc of her circumstance of her family losses etc. But she smooth pissed me off with that restraining order. Let that boy stay with his dad and the dad folks and you go off and work. Its okay.

    *Since some of yall so vocal about it in all the OTHER POSTS: Why David aint being called a half breed that he is? He was raised by a cave demon white ass mama too. Which mean this baby other granny a white woman. Aint lil David gonna have to eat that unseasoned ass food round his grandma house?

    *Exits*

  • Rachel

    Exactly! How can he beat her when her a$$ is never home.

  • SDot

    I love David......LOVE HIM!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    He looks like hes really happy in that picture

  • Ro

    Good for him!

  • i troll it like i see it

    I think it's because smart rational women recognized that he has been a great dad and Jennifer Hudson was being a spiteful demon, using her kid to get back at the father. You do not take boy from his good father. I'm glad David has custody. As for Jennifer, she should be ashamed.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Moving on.. Their child their money their custody fight...

  • You Could Never

    Its one in here painting him as a nobody. I think David brung to the table. He wasnt unemployed the whole time. I think the is a decent fella.

  • Ro

    PREACH!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    This is unfortunate. I thought he was good for her and they seemed to be a stable couple. If he always has their son due to her schedule, then i see nothing wrong with making him officially the primary.... just wish they'd decided this between them, without involving the courts, smh.

  • countrygal

    Old knocked kneed ??

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    and eat out the can like Phaedra said Apollo's peepa did....
    ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • shelly

    I don’t think she ever wanted the kid or the man she was depressed and highly vulnerable when her family was killed.

  • i troll it like i see it

    i was on another forum and a lot of the women were claiming he wasn't chit and she could have done better, blah blah. I'm like, how? He's a Harvard educated lawyer, WWE wrestler/commentator and a solid father. He proposed to her years ago so they could be a legitimate family and not some baby mama/daddy situation and would have probably walked down the aisle back then if she hadn't put it off. She completely shat on the relationship and degraded him on Ellen once, and he should have left back then. People are always complaining about not being able to find a "good man" then don't know what to do when they meet one.

  • I want to be free

    May I ask why?

  • Noirluv45

    What happened to make people hate her so much? On other sites, people are busting her a new one!

  • You Could Never

    Its only a problem sometimes I see. Cause like I said nobody brung up Lauren London being biracial last week. She was too busy being a hoe, 2 time baby mama, a baby by a crip and one by a blood ass ghul that nobody CARED she is a half Jew ass someone.

  • Armymom20

    WOW..

  • ThottyPippen

    Very low down.

  • i troll it like i see it

    i hope he meets a good woman too, this whole situation is sad because it's like people are never satisfied. He appears to be a good solid man with a kind heart and folks are calling him out his name, calling him a housewife because he cares for his son...his fiance tried to turn the world against him by implying he's a dangerous man and he fought back and won, good for him.

  • You Could Never

    See? He isnt a bad dude I dont think. He seems to love the hell outta her and the boy. She put that career first all this time and NOW look. I mean to each but its kinda obvious what happened here bc its still happening. If it wasnt happening he wouldnt have primary custody.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Yes I agree it’s vital for ALL children to have BOTH parents involved in their upbringing.....if they are good parents. We need to stop saying “a boy needs his father” duh, that’s a given. Punk should have custody of thier son merely based on the fact that Jennifer is working a lot right now and not just because he’s a man or the better parent.

  • You Could Never

    Damn legs form a capital letter K. TUH

  • i troll it like i see it

    exactly. I never realized how many women hate men simply to be hating them until i was reading some of the comments on the other thread demonizing David, and nobody really had any real reason too, all of a sudden he was just "the worst." it was ridiculous! He's always come across a good guy!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    And another thing, let’s stop putting limitations on our children just because 1 or both parents are missing from thier lives. Yes it’s important but it doesn’t limit the children from living successful productive lives. It does not always mean they will have adversaries because of a missing parent or parents. Stop making them feel as if you have to have both parents in the home in order to amount to anything!

  • i troll it like i see it

    Me too, i liked him back when he was on I Love New York, he was the only man on the show worth a damn. People always want to pass up the good man for the bastards who treat them like crap for some reason.

  • Faux Gibbler

    That was so sad when it happened.

  • Renee26

    Poor Jen! To deny someone a restraining order is wild...he's not traveling so I understand the custody thing but to dismiss her accusations of abuse is another....did he have an air tight alibi for the nights she said he was trippin or something??

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    " People are always complaining about not being able to find a "good man" then don't know what to do when they meet one."
    -----------------------------
    Yup! +1000
    I've seen that way too many times. Sad.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile I started to put that (K )shyt up... but you beat me to it ... That and the jalapeno nose dig ...??? oh and beef curtains Chile .... thee old rose garden chile good times

  • Vonn

    Now, why in the hell did you remember that? I remember too. Lol.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    it's her... she has a nasty arrogant attitude .... just ugh....

  • Guess Who

    Well damn!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    well you see, Lauren 'claims' Us so she can be blyke (but this also makes her a drag-worthy hoe for procreating with blykes)

    these biracials can't win, smh

  • Phillybruh

    They both have issues, glad they worked it out before those issues really hit TMZ.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    it was honestly one of thee oddest things i've ever heard. that's when Phae had started that 'southern belle' b.s., smh

  • imright

    Jenn works & travels alot, so it makes sense for the son to stay with David primarily. i hope she doesnt feel like she “lost” cuz she didnt.

  • ThottyPippen

    She voluntarily dropped the restraining, which makes me feel bad for David-not her-if she used the restraining order as a "tactic".

  • You Could Never

    THIS! Hell according to that theory (which is the blog theory) only ONE Mowry twin is blyke. Cause one claims us and the other is on the fence (supposedly) about her blackness. I cannot. How one twin blyke and the other is biracial Nan????

  • You Could Never

    Its never gonna be the same AGAIN. We are stuck wit these crazies J. fukk!

  • Django the God

    Sugar free daddy.

  • tintin

    So why didn't he want to sign a prenup

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Fawk ....??? sweet jeebus

  • I want to be free

    I read somewhere that she dropped it because he wanted to spend some time on Thanksgiving with the son.

  • Vonn

    It was strange to me too, & that damn pickle sucking maternity shoot.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i must deduce that it appears that one's blackness hinges, ultimately, on ones contact list. so, ordered! *bangs gavel*

    *goes to try to 'clean up' my niggra-heavy contact list*

  • You Could Never

    Get RID of em Nancy. They gonna be looking on the interwebs to see if you ever been photo'd with a black fren EVER.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    chile... i had halfway had got mister watching it with me, but he tapped out when the pickle pics went up, smh, LOL!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Li

    He's an attorney, that's why.

  • Li

    She made up the abuse.

  • Li

    How the hell can you say she didn't want the kid????

  • Tay Gee

    I wonder if she belted "And I am telling you" in the courtroom?? #justwondering

  • Lady_Elle

    there must have been at least one clause he did not agree with.
    Perhaps she did not want to give him credit for free legal advise provided over the years.

  • SumthinSweeter

    all I know is, he is fine asf. but everyone has their flaws. people fall in and out of love everyday. what was surprising to me was how Jennifer played it and herself.

  • SumthinSweeter

    Lolllllllllll!!!!!!!!! That made me giggle.

  • SpillyNillie

    D E A D

    "I aint goinnnnggggg"

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • hottlanta

    He was taking Comey Notes.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ROFL!

  • hottlanta

    Here here. Betta say it.

  • Renee26

    Where did you read that??

  • Renee26

    Nah, I don't think she got it just to be messy... I doubt she made it up... more than likely forgave and dropped it because he is active in his child's life... putting the child first. Break ups can get messy

  • Soda

    I have never liked that loud singing wench. She should only sing on cruise ships where the ocean can absorb her loudness. How many years was she with the sanitation man before she thought she was too good for him?

  • Lady_Elle

    Jennifer isn't the sharpest knife in the block. It will help their son to have the other parent during school hours. Also for stability...

    Jennifer is talented and needs to continue to grow herself.

  • Renee26

    Sounds more believable than her just making it up

  • You Could Never

    And Pagan Easter eggs and Mandinga and @'em or dap em.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Well damn!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Soda

    Sorry, I can't pretend to like her!

  • Kayke

    Congratulations Sir, well deserved!

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Children shouldn't be used as pawns. Glad they agree for Jr.

  • You Could Never

    How many years was she with the sanitation man before she thought she was too good for him?

    ^^^^^^^^^^
    Bout 10. James. She took him to the Oscars when she won

  • Soda

    Thanks, that's what I thought. I remember seeing him all dressed up.

  • sealsaa

    She obviously does, otherwise she wouldn't have pulled that stunt with the restraining order. She would rather have her son raised by nannies than his own father. Shameful.

  • You Could Never

    They grew up together. When they broke up she said she didnt want to put HIS biz out there as to why, but yet takes a restraining order out on this man, father of her child, that I kinda think was made up. And I am not even one to victim blame. But I dont think Dave was beating her. Who knows?

    *whispers I kinda dont like her either*

  • Vonn

    He wanted a nice chunk of change to put up with her loose skin & bad attitude.

  • shun king

    lot of women make those outrageous claims because they think the judge will automatically side with the woman but when they find out their lies come with consequences they change their tune quick

  • MistaO

    Outstanding! Courts starting to get things right! Boys and girls tend to thrive when raised by their Fathers. Mothers raising children alone tend to be selfish and they usually resent their children...

  • Kayke

    Makes no sense....she doesn't want the family she has now because she is no longer depressed over the family she lost?!? .... If anything she would be holding this family as close as possible.

  • ?Royalty?

    Fathers are the cornerstone of the family. They set the tone. I don't get why so many people don't get that.

  • Noirluv45

    Oh, OK. That's too bad because I always liked her.

  • Kayke

    It's because they never had one.

  • Noirluv45

    What an outright generalization about mothers.

  • MistaO

    Absolutely, take that cornerstone out and the result is what you see in the majority of black "households" today. Sadly.

  • Soda

    Thanks, Dr. Feel. Seems based on your feelings, not facts.

  • JRock

    They will always have a connection because of their son, but David dodged a bullet by not marrying that winch, heifer and hussy (formerly known as a fat ass cow). David need to breathe a sigh of relief and go continue to raise little man to be a man.

  • MistaO

    Not at all, just look around you..the proof stares us in the face daily!

  • You Could Never

    When my dad was present, we were not thriving. We were sad and depressed bc our mother was. They were making each other beyond miserable. He got his ass put out, they got divorced and went his way. We stayed in our lane. Speak for your own single selfish ass mammy. My mother will tell you we are the loves of her life, she is not resentful of us and she is the most NON selfish PERSON I know.

  • Rayne

    That is a fine man to MEE!!

  • Noirluv45

    The "majority?" Really? Says who? Have you actually bothered to check out what's going on in many Black households. I'm not talking what the media is saying, but what's actually happening? I've been around 50+ years and the majority of Black households I've seen have a mother and a father and they are thriving. Even those with just a mom, the mom is busting her ass to raise her children and they are amazing. Are there Black households that need help? Yes, but dysfunction is not synonymous to Black.

  • You Could Never

    Its called a fukkin MIRROR. Stop looking in it.

  • MistaO

    A broke clock is right twice a day! Of course there exists exceptions to every predominant situation.

  • ThottyPippen

    Yeah, I'm with you on the singing. She always gives me one note, LOUD. Like girl can you finesse the song first before singing in ALL CAPS..lol. I bet even her lullaby's are hard on the ears.

  • SpillyNillie

    The world consist of good fathers and bad fathers. Good mothers and bad mothers. No need to praise one over the other. A good parent is simply that, a good parent.

    As far as the Black community is concerned, lets focus on increasing dual parent households.

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, I have looked around me, and guess what? Do you know how many White families have strung out mothers and fathers and daddy is steady screwing his children, beating mom, and doing egregious things we don't see or hear about because their mess is covered up. They want us to continue to think their shit doesn't stink, but ours does. The "proof" is based on who and what? Do you bother to see other narratives?

  • imright

    oh wow thats her pride. she needs to let that go !

  • Noirluv45

    There are some AMAZING Black families, but one wouldn't know that based on the negativity we hear everyday, so based on that, it is in our faces.

  • Karen Brady

    Wow. Your first two lines are deep. All too real. I'm glad things got better.

  • Karen Brady

    Ummm.. I don't believe you called her enough names. .. lol. I love hussy.

  • MistaO

    I'm not too concerned with white or other households. I'm speaking purely regarding Black people, seeing how we rest firmly at the bottom of every socioeconomic measurement in this country.

  • SpillyNillie

    Jr. has legs just like his mama...circa Dream Girls...

  • Noirluv45

    Right. That's what all Black people say when you put reality in their faces. Well you should be concerned about what White folks or anyone else does unless you live on Mars. We lives among many people and their behavior affects all of us. My point is, you can stereotype Blacks, but willfully dismiss others because you choose to. Let me ask you...since the Black community is in shambled, according to you, what are YOU doing to make it better. First, we can start by speaking to one another. There are millions of Black people around the world, and most are doing well.

  • Rayne

    Lmfaoo

  • You Could Never

    We didn't know we were depressed. Wasn't such a thing in the 80s. Depressed kids. I mean yes.... It was. Just didn't have a name. But my sister's grades dropped. Was straight A student. I was withdrawn and quiet. And mom was like fukk this. I gotta get me and my kids away from this fukkery. ASAP.

    We surely we not thriving by having our dad there. Tuh

  • MistaO

    Sure there are. But lets not blow rose colored smoke up our own rears! If we choose to stand in truth we would collectively quit playing and recognize just how deplorable many Black households are and bathe in the reality of just how we got here!

  • ?Royalty?

    Exactly

  • You Could Never

    I was hushin on his legs. Trying to???

  • shun king

    its a case in Atlanta where the girl put the kids in the stove and turned it on

  • Karen Brady

    LMAO.... good for him! I can just see him getting up and leaving the room.

  • Noirluv45

    Hmm, we rest firmly at the bottom, huh? Why is that, Mista O? What are you doing to make it better? You see, when I encounter "Black" people like you who see themselves through negative colored glasses, I pity them because they are a product of a White world who has accomplished exactly what they want. They want us to feel inferior and beneath them ignoring all the good stories about the MAJORITY (of course, not you or your family) of us are doing. You allow the White media to tell you about yourself and you ignorantly believe it. Boom! Congratulations. You've been inducted into White supremacy. If you think it's all bad, then do something about it, but don't equal all of us as being negative. If you do, you are no different than hateful and racist yt.

  • Karen Brady

    You know folks were not coming for New-New. Some get an automatic pass. Like my girl Lisa Bonet.

  • NicoleZee

    I figured he would win because she's hardly around to raise her son. I don't understand how any woman puts her body through painful pregnancy and delivery only to not be around most times while the child is growing up. Why didn't she allow her son to travel with her and have a tutor and nanny come along??? Sounds like she likes being away. No way in hell I could be away from my child like that. Very sad. She was wrong for lying about being afraid of David. I wonder if she was really cheating??? She wasted David's time but he is dumb for staying if he truly wants a wife. Sad.

  • SumthinSweeter

    Lol @singing in ALL CAPS! That was genius.

  • MistaO

    What I am doing to make it better? How about raising my 4 children and supporting my spouse, who had all 4 of our children! Just that simple! More of us did this, vs all the f uckery a lot engage in, we wouldn't be talking about basic stuff other communities dont struggle with..

  • NicoleZee

    I heard she had a nasty attitude. These celebs kill me thinking everyone should bow down to them. The Voice doesn't want her back next season because of her attitude. Karma is a real bitch. Maybe if she was a nicer person who cared more about being there for her son, then maybe she wouldn't be in this mess. Sad.

  • Noirluv45

    So are deplorable Black households worst than others? Again, I ask, if that's what you think, then what ARE YOU DOING ABOUT IT other than bumping your gums on SR? If you aren't apart of the solution, then bow out. You choose to have that negative outlook, and there is nothing I can do to change your mind, and I'm not going to waste my time just like I don't with racist White folks because they aren't interested in the truth, but lies. I don't operate like that. You have no clue because you choose not to. I see people like you the enemy.

  • MistaO

    No, I just choose to accept reality vs telling myself lies hoping they become truth. Must be a feminine trait.

  • NicoleZee

    We can't increase dual parent households if people refuse to marry or lie and manipulate others into thinking they have a future with them. If you do not want to be married, cool, but you don't go around misleading people and lying about what you truly want just to keep someone around and waste their time. Very sad. Liars and manipulators are the worst. They belong on their own sorry planet!

  • https://www.instagram.com/nymagee/ Ny MaGee

    "a boy should reside with his father rather than a highly emotional woman."--> Truth.

  • Noirluv45

    Put your money where your mouth is.When last have you researched thriving Black households? ?

  • Karen Brady

    No I get it. Just a constant almost gloom over everything. We went trough it too trust me .. it was like a damn blanket. Our father didn't get put out, he died and I'm never ashamed to tell people that looking back, as an adult now, it's one of the best things that could have happened. Something had to give or GO and it damn sure wasn't going to be our mother. Amen.

  • Noirluv45

    No, you choose to accept b.s. No reality in what you are saying, and like I said, prove it. If you can't you are a troll, and I'm not going to keep going in circles with you.

  • Lady_Elle

    I think he stayed for his son.
    Tutor + kid =$$$
    I'm not sure how deep her pockets are.

  • Ajavee

    Kudos to David!!

  • Noirluv45

    That means NOTHING to the horrible Black community for which you speak. Just that simple. If you think all is bad, get your ass out there and volunteer. You are either a part of the problem or solution and you can run your mouth all day long. Bye.

  • NicoleZee

    I think she was protecting her money, that's why she strung him along and never married him. He always said in interviews that she was the one holding things up on getting married. Plus, he wanted more children and she did not. I would have been gone but maybe he really loved her and wanted to stay for the child and hoped that eventually she would marry him. Life is too short and yet people waste so much time with the wrong person. Ten years??? I would have been gone by year 2 if I wanted marriage and no progress had been made. Sad.

  • MistaO

    I agree wholeheartedly!!

  • Cici

    Yes and seems like he is a good one too.

  • Cici

    I bet she feels crunchy

  • bhavana

    Maybe David wouldn't allow his son to travel with his mom. Even with a nanny or tutor, the road is not the place for a child. Children need stability and their own bed to sleep in at night.

  • bhavana

    He's too big.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    You made your opinion known loud and clear.

  • Cici

    I know what you mean. I just got finished dealing with that.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Wait when did all this go down?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    chile.... gritted on me and walked out shaking his head... (like EYE was the one passing out pickles) LOL!

  • MissHarlem

    Cackles ignorantly ???

  • NicoleZee

    I'm sure she could afford it. She pays assistants, travels, and pays her bills hopefully. Plus, David isn't broke. Sounds like she didn't want her son coming along. Some mothers like being away from their kids alot. I couldn't be away from my son for days or weeks at a time. The f*ck??? If that's the case, why even have kids??? I don't get these shitty and neglectful parents. I don't know why God blesses certain people with kids and you have others that are infertile and would make amazing parents if they were given the chance. Very sad and unfair. F*ucked up world we live in.

  • Noirluv45

    Girl, ain't no way I'd be away from my child either; therefore, I could not be a traveling mother.

  • SumthinSweeter

    No, by played herself I meant that she ran to the courts to get that restraining order to be spiteful and to hurt him.

    They should have broken up years ago. Anyone that stays engaged past 2-3 years will never marry. So I do agree with u on that.

  • Noirluv45

    Wow! I wonder if the death of her family members made her that way?

  • SumthinSweeter

    lol!

  • Soda

    If The Voice doesn't want her then why is she doing all that traveling mentioned in the write up?

  • iWasteTime

    I bet this isn't how she saw any of this going!

  • Noirluv45

    Flat-lined!

  • V Dubb

    Agreed

  • You Could Never

    Amen. Sometimes....a lot of times...you dont see stuff until WAY later.

  • SDot

    It’s rare to see a man that is in a relationship to truly love his women. He seems to be oozing with love. ESP to stay with me after I put a prenup in ya face? I like him

  • SDot

    Yess

  • You Could Never

    Done pist me sis. Like truly. I pure found me some WORK to do

  • freelancepimp .

    But I thought she had a restraining order!!! Seriously, no one has noticed the trend lately with celebs claiming the spouse is violent during the divorce.

  • Junkanoo

    I could have sworn when this story first appeared here the majority of people seemed to be on Jennifers side with a small few saying they didn't believe her but many weren't feeling David . The kids welfare is what should be the main focus ,the courts need to get it right more often

  • hottlanta

    I guess that MARRIED lady in Texas was selfish and resented all 5 of her kids and MURDERED all of them while her husband was at work.

  • soulbrother13

    Didn’t they call this dude “punk” on one of those reality shows

  • MistaO

    Volunteering and all that crap is just that. Crap! The BIGGEST impact any Black person can make is to decide to be married before having a child and being committed to that union before God! Doing just this, enmass, would be enough to begin to right the ship! Intact, traditional families. But of course we know most of yall fell for the okey doke and bought into all the crap like feminism and the I don't need no man culture that has led us here!!?

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Wellll.....lol

  • Noirluv45

    Volunteering is crap? Really? Simply because you've never done it? I used to be a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) and those children I helped didn't think my work was crap. You see, you can be here all day long judging others and running your mouth, but again, if you aren't going to do something (and I'm not talking about marriage) what you see is wrong, then sit down and be quiet. That's like people who complain about our elected officials, but don't bother to vote. Put up or shut up. Now, I'm a huge advocate of marriage. We'll agree on that point ONLY. You know who falls for the okey doke? You because you use generalizations and have no idea what you are talking about. You don't know how many Black families are intact because if you did, you wouldn't be so negative. I'm done conversing with you.

  • Noirluv45

    For you to say volunteering is crap shows me the extent of your mentality. People get out there everyday to help others and don't get a lick of pay, but you say it's crap? You truly are one ignorant person.

  • MistaO

    Uh, yea..your point? Selfish to the highest order, married or not, typical selfish behavior, no ultimate selfish behavior exemplified by many bratty females today.

  • Noirluv45

    God help his wife. I can imagine what she has to endure.

  • NicoleZee

    The UK version wants her back but not the one here with Blake Shelton and Adam Levine. I don't watch anymore but a lot of people who do watch say she is horrible on the show. The Voice here will not ask her back once this season is over.

  • Trace da Ace

    umm...remind me of what he does for a living again???? I expect him to ask for child support in 5...4...3..2...1.....

  • MistaO

    Yes, I say that contrasted against what it will take to get Black people back in order and in the game! Volunteering, community groups, ect is like a bandaid on a compound fracture. It might look good, but has no bottom line effect vs the promotion of and maintenance of intact families!

  • Applebootay

    A judge d awarded Otunga primary custody of their 8-year-old son David Otunga Jr.

    Sources tell TMZ Hudson and Otunga reached a temporary custody agreement which gives him primary custody of David Jr.

    So which is it? They agreed to or he was awarded because she opposed it?

  • NicoleZee

    Everyone grieves and goes through things, but that is no reason to mistreat others and be nasty and rude. Imagine dating someone who is nasty to you and rude to most others. I certainly wouldn't put up with that. Ridiculous. However, some northerners are not that nice, I guess that's just the atmosphere in certain places as some people have told me. I'm southern, so I wasn't brought up that way.

  • freelancepimp .

    Sop are you saying she shouldn't pay child support? Maybe she should get a blood test first. Make sure he is not a greedy gold digger trying to put his child off on any woman. HA HA

  • NicoleZee

    It's usually the guy that doesn't want to marry, so it's kind of odd when a woman has man that wants to marry her and she doesn't want to get married. But if a woman is wealthier than the guy, I guess she might be concerned he would go after her money if they divorce, like with what happened to Marry J. Blige and Sherri Shepard. Sad.

  • TMW

    Yep, I noticed. It’s totally a legal maneuver.

  • NicoleZee

    Agreed! I passed up an overseas job once I found out I was pregnant. I didn't want my son growing up in a foreign country with no family around. I wanted my mom to have a relationship with him and she definitely would not live abroad, although we have both traveled overseas several times. I made the right choice, my mom adores my son, she calls him her baby! Dang, you'd think she carried him for 9 months! But I love the bond they have. Children need their grandparents :)!

  • NicoleZee

    I really wish more people would have the courage to be honest about what they want instead of wasting the other person's time. But you can't expect someone to have courage who lacks character. I just don't get it. I guess society puts so much pressure on us all to have relationships and marriages that people feel obligated to force themselves into situations they know they don't want. It's best to be honest but a lot of people are not. Sad. Sorry you went through that.

  • Applebootay

    It is a known fact that women thrive when left alone and a man can barely wipe his own azz w/o a woman...the child was/is with him mostly at home (where he should be) presumably a healthy environment, so naturally he should be the "primary" caretaker and that's the dad.

  • JRock

    As horrendous and hurtful as it was to lose her family members, I don't think that's what made her a nasty bitch. She had a tiny bit of fame after American Idol and Dream Girls and that went to her head and it got stuck in that bobble head position permanently.

    I'm not a person that will waste money buying a concert ticket but the last I heard she can't even sell 500 tickets on a tour so that's why she does go on tour anymore. I expect to see her selling Amway in the near future.

  • SweetTEE

    I get a positive vibe from him. Always have

  • NicoleZee

    Maybe so. My dad was in the military while I grew up. My mom stayed here in the U.S. and didn't want to give up her career or have us move every few months and get held back in school. However, there is no way I could be married to someone who is never around, why even get married??? Children do need stability, but ain't no way a child that came out of my body is going to be away from me for an extended period while I work. The hell??? You can find a job that gives you more stability to come home to your child every night. Sad.

  • SweetTEE

    Ima add Strumpet since it all sound like something my gma would say

  • SumthinSweeter

    That's the rumor I've read on here. Supposedly he wouldn't sign a pre-nup. I thought it was because she was grieving over her family and had issues with that but....... who knows.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Did y’all see where Tyrese did a post and stated because of those meds he lied about his wife being pregnant!!! ????? Now my first thought was when he got to acting crazy she got an abortion and faked a miscarriage and told him to say she was never pregnant so they won’t think he caused it on the other hand I said maybe he said that to make the ex jealous either way he says his wife is not pregnant and guess what if I were her I would be on every type of birth control known to man

  • SweetTEE

    Sounds about right. Damn right if u ask me.

  • SweetTEE

    Im grown and just finding out how I was concieved. Similar situation & completely possible if she did not receive the proper counseling. Every woman does not want and should not be a mother. Some are not emotionally prepared. She may be different, but it is possible.

  • Cici

    Me too ??

  • JRock

    Yep, and after inserting or ingesting every type of birth control known to man, I would hire a lawyer, move out and get a real restraining order (not a fake news restraining order just to lie on someone) and kick him to the curb. I do not believe you can blame all of his crazy on medication. Maybe not being on medication but not the medication itself.

    And that fake thing posted with the black comedian (don't know his name) and had cops come to house, his EX should have immediately gone back to court and say your honor here is why you made a mistake in giving him visitation. He still ain't stable enough to be a father or have visits with the child.

    If I were the wife, I would be haul assing out the door and out of his life for good.

  • Cici

    Thanks and I’m sorry you went through that as well. The older I get character seems to outweigh looks. I encourage you to not give up; there are good men out there just few and far in between.

  • sceutie

    Why are women styling their nails as talons that look like weapons? Do they think this looks nice??

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    He's an attorney and also a wrestling commentator for WWE. Why shouldn't he ask for child support if he's the primary custodial parent and is entitled to child support under the law?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Judges are smart. They can usually see through that stuff pretty quickly if it's fake.

  • freelancepimp .

    If they want to.

  • hottlanta

    Yep this is one happily single black woman who is glad she ain't married to that fool and be tap dancing everyday saying glory hallelujah. I am still ROTFLMAO about him giving women relationship advice and women actually believed what he said was the truth.

  • hottlanta

    Betta say it. What he did is not good for the child. If I did all of that to get my chile I would cancel going to Dubai and flying all over the world. Shit it is autumn. We would be taking photos picking apples/Six Flags/Disney all over the place. I would have had a huge Thanksgiving spread with all the fixings with just me and her at the table.

  • Noirluv45

    Girl, it's a blessing you have your mom. I never get tired of saying that. It's a blessing your son has his grandmother. Children definitely need their grandparents!! Mine was from Jamaica and I treasured my Nana. She carried you 9 months, and since he's your baby, she can claim him. Lol! I love it.

  • IamAllnatural

    Now she will have to pay child support, it’s cheaper to keep him!

  • Noirluv45

    You're so right about that. Nope, I wouldn't put up with that either because that is an indication that they have character flaws. I know none of us are perfect, but being nasty for no reason is unnecessary. Nicole, let me tell ya. I've heard that most Southerner are nice and polite, but they don't live in Fayetteville. OMG, the people here in Eastern Carolina are something to behold. I have never in my life seen the rudest, meanest, and unmannered people EVER! I don't know if it's because this is a military town or what, but it makes me want to scram asap! You were brought up correctly. I was too even though I'm not from the South, but I've heard many nice things about Southerners (except racist White ones). That's another story.

  • darealwifey

    Yes, she will. That is fair. She has the money, and he will be raising their child. People need to stop playing with people's emotions. If you are over a relationship, LEAVE before you start messing around.

  • hottlanta

    So is she supposed to give up singing. I guess all the truck drivers and airline pilots need to quit their job and stay at home with their kids everyday. The rule you have for yourself is not for everyone. Just because a parent is at home everyday doesn't mean they are doing their job as a good parent should. I just hope you are able to let go of your child as an adult and let them be the best they can be and not suffocate them because you are mom and wanna be there 24/7 because you feel threatened by someone taking your place as mom because that is the only identity that you have in life that means something. Those people in Puerto Rico trying to help other people get their lights restored needs to stop doing God's work that he gave them the talent for and come home and be with their kids every night. Sad.

  • Chocolate Bliss

    That was the first thing I saw. The second thing is he's going to end up fat like his mother and the women in his mothers family if his father doesn't teach him about health and nutrition

  • SumthinSweeter

    "Stiletto Nails"... *eye roll* Reminds me of witch fingers for a Halloween costume...

  • AnotherBlackGirl

    Good for David he seems like a nice leveled headed and sincere man who really loves his son. I wish him the best on raising his son. I'm quite sure his son will grow to be an outstanding man just like his father is.

  • Trace da Ace

    I am sure he is "entitled" to a lot under the law...but my thing is if he a "practicing" attorney and making money as a commentator, then why would he need the support, as I would hope that Jennifer, being the parent that travels and whatnot, is making sure their son is taken care of financially. I mean don't ask for it just because.....some folks take advantage of the system.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Please save him. He's closed to having a frumpy body like his ill bodied mom.

  • Tena

    I think the judge made a fair decision in this case.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    agree agree agree

  • Tamara Artis-Dawkins

    Well said...drops mike!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Him and Steve Harvey!! Any man that tried to give relationship advice to women I side eye and say they are very insecure especially when they don’t bother to give advice to other men publicly!!!

  • Kimberly King

    Hell yea it looks nice! Sh*t, Jen's nails aren't even long enough. They look super short. Why get your nails done if they're gonna be the same length as a man's? I used to crack up when I would go to the nail shop and hear a woman say "can you cut them shorter?" And the nail tech would let them know that if thy go any lower they would actually cut their skin... so damn basic and boring.

  • Kimberly King

    I thought Punk was gay when I saw him on I Love New York... Is it really true that he didn't want to sign a prenup? Crazy.... but not surprised. I hate the pressure people put on successful black women to marry men who are financially beneath them. And then look at them sideways if they want a prenup. lol Remember when Todd didn't wanna sign Kandi's prenup on RHOA?

  • Rayne

    That's how I like em too. He can hold a tool belt with no problem lol ?

  • Quitedeliteful

    Watchoo talking about,Sandy Mae -- a highly emotional woman???

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Some women aren't mother material.

  • Quitedeliteful

    I'm on the fence about this one. Punk seems to be a good dad but Jennifer seems to be a good mother also. I think they should have shared custody. Even if he gets full custody, he better look for a job because those support checks don't last forever -- just ask Fiddy Cents BabyMoma..

  • NicoleZee

    I was speaking on the good parents who want to be with their kids, not the ones who are abusive or may neglect them. Why go through the hell of getting pregnant only to be away from your child so much??? I don't get it. People do as they please, of course. However, in my situation I was blessed with a child unknowingly after medical issues where I thought it was not possible. I wanted to be a mum after not even knowing if i would ever have children. So I made the sacrifice to spend as much time with my son as possible. When I work, I do not work too many hours and my mom helps care for him. But that's just me. Doesn't make sense in my opinion for me to have decided to have a child and then disappear every other day going wherever even if it is for work. If I ever decide to take a job overseas again, he will come with me. He came out of MY body, he is mine, and I almost died on that goddamn operating table having him and then almost died in a near fatal car accident 9 months later. So obviously, God STILL has me here for a reason. I am raising MY child and I have a good relationship with him. Now what other people do with their kids, that's them, God will deal with them if they are doing wrong by the child. But anything coming out of MY body will be raised by ME!

    So ma'am, until you go through the hell of infertility, misinformation from doctors, surviving an extremely painful C-section delivery and recovery, almost dying again in a car accident and totaling a car, still being told by doctors that you can't have anymore children, and then trying to find love having to tell these loser men that your womb is basically mush, do NOT talk to me. FOH!

  • Mrs Mary

    Good because he was the one raising that boy...yea Jennifer had him when she wasn't "busy" but that boy needs to be with his father primarily as he has been so that is nothing new. I'm glad they saw right through Jennifer Hudson's fake self!

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    This was the arrangement they had in the beginning when everything was still good between the two of them. Oh well, hopefully she won't have to pay too much child support. He is a lawyer after all, and he should be working too. I don't know why Jennifer Hudson made an agreement for him to become a "stay at home" father lol.. He could be making $200,00k a year.

  • NicoleZee

    What??? I haven't been to the Carolinas in years but when I have gone, the people seem cool. I am not surprised. The problem might be that a lot of people have migrated throughout the U.S. from different cities and countries, so the southern atmosphere has changed. So you rarely meet people who are from the south and still live there anymore. I'm from Atlanta and still live here, I live about a half hour from the city but I still claim it though :)! Most people I meet here are not from here. No diss to anyone but I just find that people from the north and midwest are more rude and lack manners and etiquette, while people from out west tend to be more arrogant, especially folks from California.

    People are nicer overseas it seems. I say that all the time! I LOVE Canadians, and Colombians are amazing. Europeans on the other hand, it depends on what country they are from. Irish people are very kind and warm, but people from some parts the U.K. are somewhat mean and hung up on race, so imagine me as a black woman all by my lonesome over there, I got all kinds of nasty stares! I'm speaking from MY experience. I just believe that kindness and humility go a long way. It's hard to be nice to someone who is not nice to you. I just try to mind my own business and not bother people.

  • TheWildChild

    A Young Aretha Franklin in the making kinda attitude ????

  • TheWildChild

    They might can hook back up now ???? That EX sex is the best sex ???

  • Stuffin10

    To be continue I'm sure $$$$$

  • dontgetblocked

    Really??? Glad to see him working the boy out. It looks like her fat gene is starting to show itself. Yeah! I said it.

  • NicoleZee

    Oh wow, I bet your grandmother had all kinds of stories and taught you many things about her culture. I've always heard that island women do not play! That's a good thing. I had my grandparents growing up too, they're all deceased now though. Grandparents are definitely a blessing. Raising children takes an "effective and safe" village!

  • dontgetblocked

    No, you didn't call him Punk. LOL!

  • Tammie Reed

    He is an attorney by trade, I bet he had a good ass argument geesh!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ????

  • StoneColdLady

    Is he a “practicing” attorney and currently a commentator with the WWE?

  • hottlanta

    You gonna tell him that same pregnancy story when he gets older over and over again to make him feel guilty if he doesn't do what you say as he gets older even as a grown man. Then he is gonna rebel and tell you, you should have not had him. Being a good mom is more that just being at home looking in your child face 24/7.

  • NicoleZee

    I know there are some good ones left, where to find them I don't know. The Atlanta dating scene sucks. This is just not the city to meet anyone. One lady told me that foreign or Jewish men make great mates. So, I have no idea!

  • NicoleZee

    I wonder why. He's a lawyer, so I wonder why he isn't practicing law at a firm or opening his own firm??? I wouldn't marry if I was wealthy unless the guy had more wealth than me. These men are more clever now. If they find a wealthier woman, they know that if they marry and divorce, they will come out with a check since the woman is the breadwinner.

  • Noirluv45

    She really did. She taught us manners and how to speak correct English (she used to be a school teacher) and so many life lessons. She was so prim and proper. She would not let us drink soda in a brown paper bag. It reminded her of men standing on the corner drinking beer. I wish I had learned more from her. She has a niece who lives in Florida and she's a wealth of information too, but she's 84 and not in good health. It's so good to get as much information as possible before the family tree starts to go away. Lol! No, they sure don't play! She was very stern, but very loving too. Oh, I miss her so much. She died in 1986. Aren't grandparents a blessing? Yes, ma'am! "Effective and safe village." I like that!

  • SumthinSweeter

    Girl I wouldn't marry if the guy is unemployed, unemployable, under employed or just plan unstable.

  • OP2

    He was working. But, earlier this month he abruptly quit a gig as a Sports Commentator. Let's not forget his other side jobs for earnings in acting, modeling and being one of those professional TV WWE (wrestlers). -he worked, but was mostly there for his child after school and on weekends. Otherwise, most kids end up messed up psychologically and acting out as teens & adults going down the wrong path.

    Once the breakup became a custody battle, it was easier for him to quit & to make his claim that he is Not the one who needs to fly around the world to make $$$ and always gone from the child. He is said to be the constant stability that child can count since birth.

    -while a child is in school, a parent can also attend school and work during those hours with just a couple of hours after school given to a nanny or babysitter before the parent is able to arrive home.

  • Keepin’IT100

    You can look at her arms and tell she didn’t loose her weight naturally

  • NicoleZee

    You just described most men, no wonder why some women can't find mates. A lot of men who do want to marry do not make enough money or they have too many character flaws. I guess some women feel that they have to settle in order to have someone or for those that want children but only with a husband. Pickings are very slim these days, very. Everyone has something wrong with them as I love to say, but it seems like many people have issues that no one wants to deal with. Girl, I have met men who were looking for wives when they already had a damn wife at the house that they planned to keep! The f*ck???! I can't with these dudes!

  • NicoleZee

    Please have several seats if you can sit without falling down. MY life, MY body, MY decision. God blessed me with a beautiful and healthy child when He certainly didn't have to. Please don't blame me if you were a shitty mother or your kids don't care for you too much. That's YOUR problem to deal with. Now I'm trying to be polite since you're an old crusty lady, so I'll just block you so I don't have to see your nonsense again. Have a lovely evening and Happy Holidays!

  • hottlanta

    Be careful who you listen to. I remember women taking Bynum advice and you see what happened to her. Waiting on sex didn't stop her from getting divorce or abuse.

  • hottlanta

    She went to jail he got married again.

  • hottlanta

    Block me. I am crying because I need you. Get over yourself you are not that important to me.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    That's a long as s engagement..

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    She has Oprah arms..

  • NicoleZee

    I thought she was a nice person but a lot of people have said she has a terrible attitude. When she was doing Dreamgirls, people said that Jennifer And Bey did not get along, I can kind of believe it. Everyone says Bey is sweet as pie and very humble and an overall nice person. I can't stand when celebs have nasty ass attitudes. If it weren't for the fans, they wouldn't have shit if no one buys their crappy music or goes to see their shitty movies. Jennifer is an okay actress, but her attitude is probably holding her back from bigger opportunities, even though she has that Oscar. No producer wants to work with someone with a nasty attitude. If word gets around Hollywood about her attitude, she won't be doing movies anymore.

  • Cici

    I actually had good luck in the dating scene when I lived in Atlanta; I just wasn’t attracted to any of them. I always hear they come when you least expect it.

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    The order is temporary!

  • NicoleZee

    I actually had good luck in the dating scene when I lived in Atlanta; I just wasn’t attracted to any of them.
    ______________________________________________________________

    That's probably because a lot of men here are gay or bi or they're just bums. From MY experience, the better looking younger men are often bisexual escorts or just gay period. Of course there are some straight men here, but a lot of them are married or just have a lot of character flaws that you definitely don't want to deal with. It's a needle in a haystack kind of search when it comes to finding a mate I think. It's probably best to not search and just remain single until you happen to meet a more decent person. My mom's friend started dating online and all she meets are hood dudes that need money. One guy asked her to send him some money! The nerve! I can't! Sad.

  • NicoleZee

    I can't stand dumb simple bitches who lie on men out of spite knowing damn well nothing was done to them. It makes it hard for the REAL women who need protective orders from these sickos and then they get denied left and right by judges when they do in fact fear for their lives. She needs to be locked up for lying if you ask me. Men ain't shit half the time, but you don't lie on a guy about something that never happened. Sickening.

  • NicoleZee

    She's a hood rat from Chicago, what do you expect??? She wasn't taught how to be honest and have character. Sick POS!

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    lol! right! LOL

  • NicoleZee

    Her dumb stupid ass should have been on super triple birth control or should have had her tubes tied if she never wanted children. There are doctors that will sterilize you if you have never had children or only have one, you just have to search and find them. I swear I don't get people. Why have children knowing damn well you don't really want them??? Why even put yourself in that position with someone when you KNOW parenthood is not something you want either entirely or with the person you are with??? I'm starting to think that some of these clowns suffer from mental illness. Why would a sane person have a child they do not want when there are ways to prevent it from happening??? The f*ck???

  • SG

    Exactly!!!

  • SG

    I never heard about her bad attitude until recently but I know someone who saw her in concert. Said she was boring. Can definitely sing, but boring nonetheless.

  • MsChocCookie

    A kid needs stability, so if he is the stable parent, so be it. I don't know why some feel the woman should have primary custody, when a child is half of both parents....

  • NicoleZee

    Upbringing matters. Some parents do not talk to their children about preventing unwanted children. My mom was different. She was DONE having kids after having her second child, my younger brother. She often told the story of how she got her tubes tied while still in the hospital after he was born. She was 100% certain she only wanted two children with her husband, my dad. So I grew up knowing how to prevent pregnancies and how to do something about it when you are done having kids or don't want any at all. My mom planned her kids. I couldn't prevent anything because I didn't know I was fertile after being infertile! Funny how life works! However, if I am blessed with a second child, I will get my tubes tied. I am not the baby factory! No ma'am! Not happening! LOL!

  • SG

    I always thought he should have been charged well. Left that woman alone with 5 little children day in and day out knowing good and hell well she was unraveling.

  • hottlanta

    I don't have nobody on my list as a relationship goal I want to reach because you don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Then if they break up I am freaking out when in a relationship you got a 50/50 chance of staying together or breaking up. Then my relationship is not my relationship it is theirs because I am trying to model what someone else has and not what I need.

  • Cici

    Oh wow yeah I agree

  • hottlanta

    She probably wanted to do more with her life and having 5 kids she couldn't do it. She probably got tired of the same routine everyday. He was working as a NASA Engineer seeing the world. Maybe she has this fantasy about I am gonna get married and have kids when I marry my engineer and her fantasy didn't turn out like she thought it would when she saw how tough motherhood is and you gotta be on call for 5 kids 24/7 and got over whelmed and became depressed. She got no help from him at all. She was a single married woman.

  • SG

    She had those babies back to back. Postpartum was something major for her and she had no help. When I read that he came home one day and found her in a corner literally pulling plugs of hair out of her hair and he STILL left her at home with those kids everyday was when I gave him the side eye. WTH... you see that her mental health is in a steady decline but you continue to leave your babies with her. sMH

  • hottlanta

    I read that as well and my heart broke. He didn't care. I can imagine him calling her names and he probably told her not to have any family/friends over to the house. She was like a prisoner in her own home. His second wife don't even care. He got married real quick when those baby bodies were just put in the ground. I wonder how many kids he got by his 2nd wife and how he treats her. her. He is probably good to her.

  • SG

    That’s usually how it happens. Now I want to know if he had any more children. Let me google it.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Hey? That's my girl!

    Ok- fake outrage over ?????
    He turnt her out, didn't he? Made her get her lickher license and some more ?

  • hottlanta

    I remember she would come to the ATL and the women would go crazy cursing and knocking you out on the train going to see her. I had some girlfriends that would get her books and used them as a guide. Especially "No More Sheets". When she got married you would have thought it was the 2nd coming of Jesus. You know me I was sitting back just chilling. He knocked her down in the parking lot and when she wore that wedding gown to court for his hearing I was done. He got himself another wife real quick after that. All that waiting for the "D" and still got divorced.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    She has a beautiful voice... But that personality and arrogance overshaddows that shyt... Mean ?? ... Bout like Keke Wyatt beautiful voice overshadowed by demon ways... nasty.... and use children as a form of a weapon... anyone like that ain't shyt .

  • shelly

    I will bet you money he wanted the kid more. After her family was killed I think she lost all her feelings and focused on her career.

  • Tammie Reed

    I got my tubes tied right after my c-section with my second birth my son. I only wanted two kids and that was it! I had already discussed this with my husband. He thought I was playing! My hubby was sitting there in a daze when the doctor said, Mrs Reed you ready?

    My hubby was like, don't I have to sign something? The doctor was like, this is not the stone age anymore, its her body and her decision! I be damn if I was going to be sitting in the house with a bunch of damn babies, no thanks! A boy and a girl is enough, for me anyway lol!

  • Darkandlovely617?

    It was so so sad ?
    Yes "No more sheets" had women out here out of control ?

    I haven't heard anything about her lately ? She ok?

  • Hugga Bunch

    Yup!

  • Hugga Bunch

    Lol

  • Hugga Bunch

    Ima need Erykah Badu to come get Cryrese and make him put his phone done. Then again...?

  • Noirluv45

    I had no idea about her nasty attitude. It's disappointing. I never liked Keke. There was always something about her that I couldn't put my finger on. Now I know.

  • Noirluv45

    I had no idea about her nasty attitude. It's disappointing. I never liked Keke. There was always something about her that I couldn't put my finger on. Now I know.

  • Noirluv45

    Say what?

  • Noirluv45

    Say what?

  • Kayke

    I understand. But you don't get those choices after you've made the life..... After you've made the life, it's selfishness. That's all.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I guess it depends on how you define the term "practicing". He doesn't practice full time but he does have an active law license in Illinois. He's done some court cases in the past, and some legal commentary on TV.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Allegedly, Jennifer cheated.
    Even if she did not, he is not traveling & unless he is a child abuser, better him than some stranger who may be a child abuser.

  • SpillyNillie

    Welp....me and my big mouf said it for ya...

  • SpillyNillie

    Absolutely...the lies and manipulation must stop. Being that they're both man's best friend...don't see that happening soon.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Jenie!!!! chile, yall used to keep the garden lit, ROFL!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Miss Thang

    her lawyers probably advised her to do it.

  • ShWa

    LOL

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy??

    She's a lonely loser. Her son is the only thing in her life she can control . She has no man and can't find one. Her son is her boyfriend. She's a ding bat ! She poses her stupid nonsense opinions as facts. Shes a smother not a mother. Poor child gonna grow up to hate her fat ass.

  • hottlanta

    Sure we all have a bad pregnancy story but she has a novel. She hated the man/environment and her pregnancy and you ain't gonna tell me she ain't gonna tell that to him over and over again when he get older to make him feel guilty about a decision she made. Any woman he brings home will not be good enough for her and will be all kinds of skanks/whores. He will get with a hoochie to piss her off. Now that is funny.

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    ?????

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    I wasn’t even registered then but I used to come on and read the comments....rollin! where’s Brenden?!

  • SouthernGirlAZWorld

    Crazy as bat ?

  • LadyL

    Oh people actually thought she did?... Weight Watchers my azz

  • Noirluv45

    Pitiful.

  • Reina1718

    Good! She think she the ish after dream girls & weigh watchers

  • Reina1718

    Cuz of her

  • Reina1718

    He knew she would try this

  • Reina1718

    ??

  • Reina1718

    Yes a good man & father

  • Reina1718

    Mhmm 2 post him singing

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I have no idea ... I don't know who's who... But a certain few... We miss Bren pie... ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Lit AF .... Drag city .... Chile my was supposed to be working.... Was in conference meetings and all in Sandra Rose chile... ????? good times... One day Ima pull my gifs back out though?? even Sandra old ones... I still got em and then some... I be too lazy now... So I just use my phone ...?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    You can tell... I see it in folks eyes ... And by their actions and reactions ... Keke throwed ...

  • GUEST

    This man got justice!!! Great news for him

  • Ajavee

    Listen ATL at you entire post 100% . I remember her wedding being broadcast on TBN, she had double wedding rings one for the right and left hands, etc then fast forward 2008-2009 they fighting in the parking lot of a hotel.

  • Ajavee

    Your entire post! I see a lot of people relationship goals other peoples relationships/marriages no one really knows what goes on and what people endure.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Ajavee

    I've always heard about her nasty attitude.

  • hottlanta

    2 rings and 5 ministers. I grabbed me some snacks. I was looking at it to see what folks was talking about. When she read a verse from the Bible to prove the validity of rings on both hands I was floored. That wedding was a cool mil with the floor to ceiling cake

  • Ajavee

    LOL crazy.

  • NicoleZee

    Good for you! But question, since you are married, when you decided to get your tubes tied, did you ever tell you husband that he should get a vasectomy??? If two people are married, it just seems more fair if they BOTH get sterilized unless they plan on making babies with someone else! I asked my mom the same and she said she wasn't worried about my dad and didn't care, she was doing what was best for herself, not him. He didn't object or care when she told him she wanted her tubes tied.

  • NicoleZee

    Sounds right. But me and my mom keep wondering why any woman would have a child she know she doesn't want??? Why??? If she didn't really want children, why not just be honest and prevent it from happening??? I don't get why people force themselves into relationships and parenthood knowing they will be miserable. I just hope David takes good care of his son.

  • Tammie Reed

    I agree with your mom lol!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    What a mess chile .... Never again ????? caught

  • 19awesomegrl97

    lol

  • 19awesomegrl97

    she had him acting way 2 feminine anyhow

  • 19awesomegrl97

    lol

  • NMusic

    Why do yall hate Jennifer Hudson? What did she do ? From these comments about her body and how emotional she is? and unstable ? One would think some of you actually lived with this couple?

  • Nikke0208

    You did the same thing to Pilar Sanders when she was fighting for her kids. What's your issue with mothers? Did you have a rough relationship with your own? Something in your milk ain't clean when it comes to mothers.

  • teather

    I was a bit perplexed by ppl's anger towards her as well. She's had extensive trauma in her life. Oftentimes, these events don't mix well with marriages and other committed relationships. I think they did pretty well considering and they should continue to do what they can for that sweet boy.

  • Keepin’IT100

    Bcuz people are easily fooled by the media..

  • Keepin’IT100

    Not the ole Oprah arms

  • Kita Williams

    she shouldn't be expected to give up her career that she had well before her son was born just to stay at home 24/7. being away at times does not make one neglectful either. plenty of moms and dads at home all day and don't even cook for they kids, don 't know where they kids are, etc.

  • Kita Williams

    she had postpartum but he didn't believe in using birth control. the doctors advised him to not have anymore kids without protection or him getting a vasectomy but bc of his beliefs she continued to spiral down. he should have been charged for murdering his children bc he knew her mental health history and did nothing about it

  • justsayin

    Why after 10yrs. He’s all of a sudden a bad person/father

  • https://www.facebook.com/groups/893166240860202 2EyesWideOpen2

    She definitely did the right thing not marrying Otunga. Something about him looks suspect. At the very least he seems like a narcissist and maybe a sociopath. He went after New York with her dusty, ghetto self, and then pursued an overweight songstress with body image issues. Seems odd for an educated man into fitness, don't you think? He seems willing to prey on weaker women and probably tries to manipulate the hell out of them just to get his 15 minutes of fame. I hope he's not a closet pedophile, but he does not smell straight to me.