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A single mother took drastic measures to control her misbehaving son. Most women don't know how to discipline boys without violence. This little boy's mom let a female barber take a pair of clippers to his head. Here's a gentle reminder that this is child abuse.

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One man held the boy steady while the butch female shaved the child's head nearly bald At least little man still has some hair left on the sides and the back.

It's too close to Christmas for this child abuse.

 

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I was tender-headed when I was a kid so I really had trouble sitting still while getting my hair cut.

    Some people shouldn't be parents.

  • Anunnaki

    haven't we seen this same story, different child over 20×...parents do better

  • lesi

    This pisses me off. I hope the barber goes to jail right along with the mother. Don't get me wrong.....If he is misbehaving.....His mom needs to do something to control her child. It is not any one else place to punish that child and they should be in jail. Simple as that.

  • shun king

    you got idiots in the back ground laughing other fools recording and a
    black dude cheering it on...and thats why i stay as far as i can away from most black folks even tho i am black

  • klwbaby

    It was another story like this where a father shaved his daughter's hair off because she was being disrespectful.

  • Yardgirl

    Some of these kids are bad AF however that was not the way to discipline this boy. The level of "violence" and I use the word cautiously was not necessary. And that woman talking about "at least line him up". All this kid learned was that someone bigger and stronger than him held him down and they effed up his hair. SMH

  • imright

    this is terrible ? she needs to be in jail !!

  • I Run New York

    the one where the girl downloaded Snapchat or different case?

  • Noirluv45

    What the hell is wrong with people?! I don't care what he was doing. There's a way to handle things, and humiliating a child is not one of them. Maybe he was being disrespectful because he has a jackass as a mother.

  • klwbaby

    Yeah the one who had the Snapchat. I guess she was talking to boys and being inappropriate.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Then the barber is a man-hating lesbian. This is pure violence against a child.

  • JRock

    Misbehaving or not shaving that boy's head like he's a white supremacist skinhead is going too far. Deal with the misbehavior like normal parents would. Talk to the kid and if that doesn't work then whoop his ass when you get home (not in public - I hate to see kids beaten in public). Shaving the head as a form of discipline seems to be the new norm with dysfunctional unhappy and frustrated people with no parenting skills.

  • I Run New York

    I heard that was her foster brother.

  • klwbaby

    It was her foster brother who shaved her head?

  • BR….

    Meh , if he act up in public he can get his head shaved and wear it in public. People too soft these days. no one is physically hurting him , he will learn from this, He’ll be aight

  • Willetta

    I don't think the haircut is the abuse -- posting it online to humiliate is the abuse! The posting is totally unnecessary!!!

  • You Could Never

    This is the second child in 2 weeks this has happened to national spotlight wise. First was a girl. This a whole mess. Not child abuse but I don't agree with it.

  • hotntot95

    ?That was painful to watch. Humiliation tactics on social media by a parent and a room full of people will cause permanent damage to your child's mental health..this is not my opinion it's facts. it's not what was done, it's how they did it.

  • shun king

    so humiliation is a good form of punishment

  • Shamari123

    This really broke my heart. It's just not right. There are various ways of discipline little kids. And on top of it they posted it online so you know he most likely will be a target for bullies at his school (hopefully not).

  • I Run New York

    That's what the comments said, that guy is her foster mother's son.

  • shun king

    totally. wouldn't be surprised if she jumped at the chance to do it

  • Noirluv45

    Maybe the authorities will hunt down these bottom-feeders and arrest them for child abuse. If they think this is going to straighten the child up then they are clearly delusional. Abuse doesn't correct children.

  • Shameful

    This is why kids misbehave, the parents. Because if your child doesn’t respect you or others, it’s YOUR fault. I feel for these kids with these trashy parents.

  • klwbaby

    I thought it was the father. Didn't he get arrested for doing that?

  • You Could Never

    This is not abuse. If I dye my kid hair purple. Not abuse. If I take my nephew to get a Mohawk. Not abuse.

  • Seek Truth Speak Truth

    Ephisian 6:4

    And, you fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

  • Phillybruh

    I have always thought this was drastic.

  • TMW

    And subjecting this child to ridicule and bullying because of a bad hair cut - not to mention the trauma from the cut itself - is going to improve his behavior how?

    Folks need a license to drive, hunt and fish, but not to be a parent - SMH!

  • klwbaby

    I don't know why people feel the need to post everything online, just makes child protective services job easier.

  • I Run New York

    Yeah he got arrested. I didn't watch the video but the description said that he hit her over 50 times and was making fun of her about not knowing how to use tampons. I can't imagine any father coming at his daughter like that

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I see something else on that little boy .on the mom too... sitting back finding joy in this ..... But Ima let y'all have this shyt here .... ? and damn folks post everything ... Smh

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    This mother should have been doing something LONG before shaving his hair became the ultimate punishment. now when he burns the house down while everyone is sleep.....at the end of the day THIS is abuse. FLUCK that back in the day ish...it was still abuse..we just didn't have enough people who saw it as such......TODAY it's still mofo ABUSE....

  • Noirluv45

    SMH. Tis the narcissistic self-absorbed society we live in. One plus is that it does make it easier for the authorities to nab them, and that makes me happy.

  • MsPam

    Yes, it keeps me busy all day!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Folks need a license to drive, hunt and fish, but not to be a parent - SMH!
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    That part.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I'm not even going to watch the video. I don't understand why everything has to be posted on the internet. Monkey see, monkey dam do.

  • You Could Never

    Confused on how this is deemed child abuse. A parent within parental rights can choose whatever haircut, hairstyle, whatever for their kid. Bc the kid is a minor. Ethics wise is this wrong...why yes. Are they breaking a law? No.

  • klwbaby

    I watched it. And he was making fun because she didn't change her pad like she should. I hope someone beats the brakes off him in jail.

  • Problem child pure and simple

    Pop his ass a few times, he will get the message. The parents let his behavior go unpunished and so this is what you get. This kid is
    unmanageable.

  • Patricia

    i dont see anything wrong with it except that it was posted. folks are too scared to beat their kids so they have to get creative. it was HIS lesson to learn and MOM's tactic to get him to act right. it didnt need to be posted.

  • Rayne

    Gat damn! That’s that smedium George Jefferson. I couldn’t do that to my child. It’s other things to take away; toys, privileges, snacks, friends and limited playtime outdoors. The momma did this for likes.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    hmmm.... so she failed, apparently, at teaching the child discipline, so she decided to traumatize him?????????? I'm lost, smh

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Kids today are bad but the mothers and fathers...........

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Patricia

    i made my 16 yr old get an old school clean cut this weekend. he looks outstandingly handsome. he told me its child abuse. i told him if he stands in my doorway a few seconds longer ill show him some child abuse...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "bottom-feeders"
    LMAO!

  • Renee26

    It will grow back...he's a boy so there's nothing wrong with him being bald for a few days

    IMO what he really needs is an ass whoopin...with no marks left behind...not child abuse ... an acceptable form of discipline that has worked for generations

  • Renee26

    He can't come to the sleep over

  • NeverSurprised

    And then there's THIS "loving" black father who gave his 9th grade daughter 50 lashes with a belt, then shaved her head, all because she downloaded snapchat. Luckily he was ARRESTED for child abuse shortly after posting the video.

    https://www.google.com/amp/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5159671/amp/Video-shows-dad-beating-girl-belt-shaving-head.html

    Hopefully, the same fate will befall the abusive parents who emotionally scarred this little boy.

    Using bad judgment re: punishment is one thing, but posting videos of the abuse is clearly designed to humiliate the child. Only a sadist would do that.

  • Renee26

    Barbers all around the world would disagree LOL

  • KarmaBackAround

    First of all it's not abuse..2nd of all if he is being disrespectful and unruly then desperate calls for desperate measures..3rd of all, damn the xmas u praise..teach him the real meaning..Jesus bday and the actual lesson behind it..if he actin up that bad he dont deserve a good xmas anyway..its jus hair itll grow back ..u talk about feminizing boys alot yet when a child acts up u the first one hollerin abuse...girllll bye!

  • NeverSurprised

    AND humiliate him by publicly posting it. No real parenting going on here.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, I think it's the 'ganging up' part that is disturbing to me. their behavior is no different from a gang of bullies (IMO)

  • Noirluv45

    Sadist is the very word I thought of especially reading some of the comments here thinking what was done to this child was acceptable. It's a pathology with some Black folks who brag about child abuse. They clearly think children are toys and that they have no feelings. Parents can be bullies because the child can't fight back which makes many (especially boys) hate their mothers. They think "beating that ass" is the only form of discipline because they don't have the brain cells to talk to their children. They are ill-equipped for parenting. I'm afraid for their children if they have any.

  • Renee26

    So all lesbians hate men now?? Interesting

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    wow. sounds like he may grown up in the system, smh

  • You Could Never

    She got beat tho. That really can be viewed as abuse. A haircut is not abuse.

  • Noirluv45

    Do you ever wonder why children act up? Many act up because their parents don't know anything about parenting. They haven't passed down lessons to their children. Maybe they hit their children and then cry that their children are acting up. It's the PARENT, not the child. It's the slave-master mentality to hit the slaves to straighten them up. That sickness has been passed down. Also, who cares if he hair will grow back. The psychological damage has been done.

  • http://yvonnechase.com/ Yvonne Chase

    He will grow up to be a criminal thanks to his mother.

  • You Could Never

    So....White parents don't spank?

  • NeverSurprised

    And the boys who feel powerless when physically abused by their mothers internalize their anger, then later project it onto future girlfriends and baby mommas. It is a vicious psychological cycle that begins with bad parenting.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I can understand a child causing a parent to become really angry. but I would have thought that by the time they got to the barbershop and lil man was seated in the chair, once that person grabbed my baby's face like that, I would have been like, bish he can't breeve; I said cut his hair, not suffocate him! and slapped those clippers outta their hand and told him to get his lil azz in the car so I can deal w/him when we get home. ROFL!

  • Noirluv45

    THIS!!! I really believe a lot of Black men (I'm not saying non-Black men don't have jackass mothers because they do) hate Black women. They hate their mothers.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Don't watch it. I shed a tear for the kid. ? ?

  • KarmaBackAround

    I don't agree..some kids dont get their ways from their parents..they pick up habits n day cares, schools etc..see their friends tryin ish with their parents then wanna come home n try it. Cant always blame the parents..lucky my 3 boys KNOWS better..every kid gonna try u from time to time but its all in how u handle the situation as well

  • Renee26

    The ones I know sure do

  • NeverSurprised

    The teen girl was beaten AND had her head shaved. For a young girl going through puberty and concerned about her looks, having to face the world with a SHAVED HEAD is the very height of abuse. You know how obsessed girls/women are with their hair.

  • Ni Ni

    If you shave it as punishment, fine but why film it? Parents have to be careful with punishments today. I remember hearing a story a few years ago about an asian teen who killed herself because her parents took away her cell phone. A couple days ago a little black girl, 8 yrs old, reportedly killed herself after being put in time out.

  • You Could Never

    Brad and Angelina and Robin and Paula all been at odds over it. White daddies spank the hell out of a kid. Some of the moms too lol. My childhood friend with the gazillion sibs? Their parents used to tear their asses up.

    What does spanking get blamed on if you are white? Its inbred in you because your ancestors whipped slaves now you whipping your lilly white ass kids?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    a suicidal 8 y/o was suffering from way more than time-out, smh

  • Noirluv45

    You're right. There are some kids that have issues that have nothing to do with the parent. Nonetheless, if they come home trying to imitate their friends at school, then you just slap the crap out of them and expect them to know right from wrong? No, you sit down and talk and explain to them why they are wrong. They are children. They don't know right from wrong until responsible adults teach them. Of course they are going to try to get away with things. That's what kids do, so it's up to the parent to have a sound mind and handle it without always resorting to hitting. If they do it again, then pop them, but far too many people are ready to hit, and that's sick. What this woman did was unacceptable because maybe she's the problem. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent.

  • klwbaby

    I thought she killed herself because of bullying?

  • You Could Never

    I would say yes its more cruel for a girl to be shaved. And comes to find out that wasnt a parent who did it as seen below. So yes. Extra wrong.

    But if you are a parent you can pick whatever you want to do with your kids head.

  • Noirluv45

    Why would someone shave a child's head for punishment? I don't understand that? What is that supposed to teach him/her?

  • Coy little wink

    Didn't we already discuss this when they gave the lil bad azz that george Jefferson haircut as punishment?

    No its not abuse its a haircut

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ROFL!!!!

  • Nikki

    I don’t, my son gets stuff taken away from him and doesn’t get any treats

  • NeverSurprised

    Absolutely. There have been a few studies on this, but we are so politically correct these days that no one wants to address the real truths that affect black families.

    So many single mothers are overly forceful and verbally abusive, trying so hard to maintain "order" and show who's "boss." The boys have no voice. Every utterance is met with "I'll slap the sh!t outta you."

    Add to that the anger that some of the mothers have against the absentee fathers. They project that anger onto the innocent sons. How many black boys have repeatedly heard. "You just like yo damned daddy." When they finally have a chance to strike back at a woman, ANY woman, believe me, they will do so.

  • You Could Never

    I think that is your choice as a parent. to discipline however you see fit within the confines of the laws of the land.

  • Scromes1212

    I don't think people realize that once something gets put on the Internet it stays there forever. Not the approach I would have took but maybe it works for her.

  • Noirluv45

    Precisely! Every last word is the truth. In fact, I don't think I've ever heard this issue addressed. All that pent up resentment spills over to the woman he dates or marries. "Every utterance is met with 'I'll slap the shit of outta you.' Right here! Children in the Black family are not allowed to have a voice. That voice doesn't have to be disrespectful, but it should be expressed. Many children aren't allowed to cry even after being hit. How sick is that? Then, add the, "You are just like your daddy..." It's over.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I was most definitely in a relationship with ONE who had a LOT of anger towards his mother (anger that he wanted to unleash on Me instead of on HER)

  • Noirluv45

    A cattle prod might've worked too.

  • Shamari123

    Well someone from the WSJ(whom I believe is white) says spanking is bad for kids. IT worked for my parents, For me, for all the other kids who received disciples. Smh?? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7507660e5a7a812f0f39b00602dce409fb4ae4c7dc30cf776a5aeb264d19f6f9.jpg

  • Noirluv45

    There are SO many men like that and it's women like this mother who cause it. Unfortunately, the rest of us have to deal with this child when he gets older, or even now because all that anger is going to be directed somewhere. Those are the worst ones to deal with.

  • Patricia

    i always wondered if that scripture was about bullying children or provoking them to HIS wrath. i think it means dont allow them to grow up and be sinful people and go to hell. parents have a big job in front of them to raise their children in fear and admonition of the LORD.

  • Ni Ni

    That was the 10 yr old who killed herself due to bullying about two weeks prior to this little girl. News reported the 8 yr old heard of the 10 yr old doing it from the internet(they all have the internet). I don't know if it's all true, but it was reported on yahoo last week. Earlier this year, i commented that these suicides online is inadvertently letting younger kids know they can "check out" when they dont want to deal with something.

  • You Could Never

    Proverbs 23:13

    Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.

    The old school version of: But didjew DIE?

  • Scromes1212

    As long as it keeps him out the penitentiary. That's all parents in my community have time to think about.

  • Noirluv45

    It worked for me too, but thankfully, it wasn't my mom's first resort. I've seen non-spanking work for children too, and I've seen those who were spanked just as screwed up. Culturally, many of us love hitting our children. It makes us feel powerful. It's the easy way out instead of just teaching a child right from wrong. What gets me is if the child grows up to hit in order to resolve conflict, the parent will wonder why his/her child is so out of control.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    smh, LOL!

  • Noirluv45

    It might make him go to the penitentiary. If they learn how to talk it might work just as well.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    this is shocking!

  • klwbaby

    Damn, that's crazy

  • Noirluv45

    Putting their hand over his face and torturing him is abuse. It's a haircut, but it was done maliciously. You wouldn't want someone doing that to you, would you? Then why would a child?

  • Ni Ni

    I dont know. Folks have they own parenting preferences I wouldn't have done it myself, but thats obviously what she does as punishment.

  • NeverSurprised

    ???????

  • Noirluv45

    Right, they sure do, and many of their preferences are damaging their children. I used to be a CASA and I've seen and heard some things parents do. If it were up to me, I'd damn some of them to the fiery place because of the damage they do to their children. Children are human beings who need love and respect, and anyone who damages them don't deserve them. I'm really passionate about this subject.

  • Yardgirl

    Exactly ?

  • SpillyNillie

    My grandmother gave me the best advice one could on disciplining a child. She said, "Don't whoop him for EVERYTHING, but don't spare the rod either."

    The End.

  • Shamari123

    I understand what you are saying. Spanking is NOT the only form of discipline. There's a training, patience, etc. that goes into raising a child to be obedient and well behaved. But if you withhold discipline when they are acting up, then they'll grow up to walk all over you. Spanking wouldn't kill them that's for sure. Look at the kids in Africa. Even the Teachers are allowed to spank them if they misbehave at school. Trust me it work (over there)

  • NeverSurprised

    They do, but it is more of a class distinction. Poor whites utilize corporal punishment far more than educated whites. It is considered de classe. My white friends with advanced degrees go too far in the opposite direction -- they allow their young children to rule the household.

    But the real question is this: How many times have you seen a white parent cursing at their child in public and yelling "Imma slap the sh!t outta you."? It is this PUBLIC humiliation, this PUBLIC attempt to let the world that you, an adult, can beat up a child, that I find much more commonplace among blacks.

  • Noirluv45

    Exactly. No, don't get me wrong. I'm not saying withhold disciple. No way. A child has to be taught and discipline, done the right way, shows love; however, the way many parents are today, they don't know anything but "beating that ass." All I'm saying is it doesn't have to be the only resort.

  • You Could Never

    THIS!

  • freelancepimp .

    He'll be aight!!! While I might not be a fan of this, it's still only cutting hair. I've seen kids act like this while there parents put clothes on them. We've all seen kids react like this in the store when they were told no. Raising kids ain't all hugs and kisses.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    I don’t like when parents do humiliation tactics like this.

  • A D N

    This child just came into the world, and already the parents are at wits end on how to "control" his behavior? I mean, is parenting this difficult to result to this type of action such as embarrassment, which is probably why the child is acting out in the first place? This will NOT resolve the problem...more like suppress the problem that will expose itself later in other ways. Then the parents will ask, how did he turn out like that? I did all I could for him. He is a CHILD, who was just a baby! Parents are the first teachers and if his behavior is "bad" at just 6, 7 or 8, then who is to blame?

  • Scromes1212

    You seem to speak from a different environment when you make comments. I get that. It's hard to understand another persons reality when it's not yours.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ?????? chile still love that emote

  • You Could Never

    I worked at a daycare for a few years. I have seen white parents threaten kids. I dont think this boy is going to turn into a serial killer just like I dont think the majority of kids who are spanked, black, white or purple are going to grow up and go bat shit due to spanking. Furthermore, I also think that its up to each parent to parent THEIR CHILD as they see fit and as I said below to another poster...within the confines of the laws of the land. Its kind of not nice to keep running up and through here looking down on how folks parent. Folks keep saying over and over. Yes its a bit much. But if that is what the mom wants to do...then FINE. A lot of folks have said it. Its not for us but if that is what she is doing then that is on her. If you spank. Dont spank. Its up to the parent.

    Its wrong to parent shame and that is what is being done here.

  • darealwifey

    Guaranteed that this incident triggers some behavior issue at some point in this kid's life in the future. I would almost bet money on it. Could be that he is hostile/no respect towards women, hates black people, acts out violently without remorse...who knows...but these kinds of traumatic events can f up a kid's mind for decades. It's not "just a haircut." It's the way it's being done.

  • A D N

    I had a long year, good year, but long in regards to work. My business is doing well and we expect an even longer next year. Therefore, I need a break which I've taken for the past few weeks. But over the holiday, I want a big break like going out of town, in country. I was thinking New Orleans for the rival game Saints/Falcons on Dec 24, then visiting family.

  • Guess Who

    This is why you train them to be respectful while they're still in pampers.

    Shaving his hair off is one thing but why post this shyt online though?

  • Guess Who

    Agreed

  • klwbaby

    Do it. Life is too short and since u clearly deserve the break, take it and enjoy yourself.

  • NicoleZee

    The parents and barber should be arrested. The only good thing is that the parents did not kill the child like other sickos do. IF YOU HAVE THAT MUCH TROUBLE AT HOME WITH YOUR KIDS, THEN GIVE THEM UP FOR ADOPTION OR TO A FOSTER FAMILY, but going to extreme measures like this is dumb and it will more than likely not improve the child's behavior. Most sickos with kids do not deserve them. I really wish the government would get involved and make STERILIZATION mandatory and free for sickos that harm kids and for ignorant people that know they don't want kids. Disgusting.

  • A D N

    We are on the same page. Parents or I should say people have to either work in an environment or study human behavior to understand children's behavior to realize it is THEIR actions that children learn FIRST. Parents are the child's first teacher!

  • NicoleZee

    If the child is that much trouble, then give them up to the state. I already told my son and my mom that I am NOT dying of a heart attack or brain aneurysm by letting my son drive me nuts. I'll put his ass somewhere if he ever becomes a problem! I'm not sure the cutoff age for the Safe Haven law, but they need to amend it. Parents should be able to drop off their underage children to a safe place without being charged or prosecuted for a crime. That is way better than abusing or killing them.

  • A D N

    Exactly, at birth parenting begins...really in the womb, but some will not get that. I read to my son, in the womb, talked to him all the time, told him how much I loved him...all kinds of things. Formed a bond with him early on so when he arrived, I was ready to be a mom.

  • A D N

    Thank you!

  • NicoleZee

    Um, sometimes a parent can do everything right and their kids still turn out to be little demons that are disrespectful, evil, and criminal. So what then??? After so many spankings and punishments, some kids still have behavioral issues and they're not mentally ill. At that point, I say send them somewhere, but don't abuse or kill them.

  • NeverSurprised

    N.O. is such a fabulous city. Great food. Great entertainment.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Exactly. A vicious cycle that never ends well for our young men.

  • honeynut22

    Disgraceful smh

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Most of them don't. They know how to communicate with their kids without resorting to violence. Spanking is so barbaric. If you do something wrong at work, should your boss hit you?

  • NicoleZee

    Most of these parents are dumb and deranged, so they wouldn't know how to properly discipline a child. I got my ass whopped growing up! I was never abused by my family and never felt unloved. I got spankings with belts and switches, which I find appropriate depending on the age of the child. Shaving a child's head is kind of sick and calculated if you ask me. This is why dumb people need to quit having kids and get the goddamn surgery and get sterilized! And if you're a dummy and you happen to give birth to kids and you don't want them, be decent enough to give them to a foster family or have them adopted, but don't abuse them.

  • Ryan

    I love N.O. Something for everybody there and I have dreams about the food ? Go to Willie Mae's restaurant if you get the chance. Best fried chicken in the country.

  • Ryan

    Side eye

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    While I wouldn't of posted it or done it some folks wouldn't agree with me getting all of my 3 when they stood in solidarity and wouldn't tell on each other. Different ways for different people again I wouldn't of chose it.

  • ?Royalty?

    For a boy, I don't see it as abusive.

    For a girl, I see it as abusive because women are taught in nearly every culture from birth that their beauty or crown is their hair.

    I don't think the parents should have posted the video tho.

  • NicoleZee

    The problem is with the parents before they become parents. We need more solutions to PREVENTING unwanted pregnancies. If people do not want kids or if they are too mentally deranged to raise them, why have them to begin with??? I believe in sterilization but most people are either afraid of the surgery, they may not have insurance, or they may not be able to find a doctor that will perform the surgery. I've heard that many doctors do not like to sterilize someone unless they have 2 or more kids. Plus, since most people do not want to use condoms or birth control or cannot, unwanted children will continue to be a problem. So these sickos have kids they don't want, abuse them, and the children suffer tremendously in various ways if they live through the abuse.

  • ?Royalty?

    Exactly. It's a haircut. I've seen little boys react this way in the barbershop even when it's not punishment. ?????

  • Noirluv45

    I'd go for that. Sterilize these mofos. I'm sick of people bringing children into the world they are unequipped to care for or don't have the mental status to take care of them, so they resort this maniacal crap like this.

  • Coy little wink

    Didn't watch the video but a hand on his face to me is not torture...my nephew cuts the fool getting his hair cut... his dad (my brother) is a barber and he has to hold his head to steady him...

  • Quagsire!

    This wolf headed butch axed troglodyke derived great pleasure in abusing this kid. Yes they all should be charged with child abuse, period.

  • Noirluv45

    Hey, I got spankings too. Child, we had a bush outside our house that my mom and the neighbor cleaned bare, but it was always done in love and it was never the first resort. I got the belt as well. Yes, what is shaving a child's head, other than the humiliation they have to deal with, will result in a change of behavior? It's stupid. Again, I'm with you wholeheartedly on the sterilization solution. Abuse is never okay. The sad part is that many can't even recognize it? This type of behavior is so common that there are those who can watch this video (which I did not) and think this is okay simply because he's a child. They say, "It's only a haircut. It will grow back." But the damage done to his spirit may not heal.

  • Noirluv45

    Exactly!

  • ?Royalty?

    ????
    My nephews HATE getting their hair cut. 16 and 11. I understand the little one tho. He has this Stewey Griffin thing going on with his head and he has the brains to match. ??
    But the 16 year old has a normal nice head. He wants his little curly fro tho.

  • NeverSurprised

    I've always thought it was a shame that parenting classes weren't mandatory. You can't operate a car without first completing a test for a driver's license, but the most important job of all -- preparing another human being to become a well-adjusted member of society -- is being undertaken by people who have no clue what they are doing. We are witnessing the results of that lack of knowledge as we see the wanton behavior of teens across this country. They simply have had no quality parenting.

  • Noirluv45

    I really do speak from another environment possibly because of my age, my experience, and the things I've seen. You're right. It really is hard to understand another person's reality, but abuse is never, ever a solution.

  • NicoleZee

    I hope you are also considering that some kids are pure evil and beyond help. They will grow up to be sick criminals. Jeffrey Dahmer was killing animals as a child and look what he turned into, a necrophiliac, cannibal, rapist, and killer. My main point is that some kids cannot be helped just like some adults cannot be helped. They need to be locked away until death so that they will not hurt anyone. I studied forensic psychology and I knew a psychiatrist that worked with sickos. I do not know how she could sit in front of someone that molests children or rapes a dead person. God help her and God help us all please. Disgusting. By the way, she told me that most sickos (kids and adults) are beyond help and do not change.

  • NeverSurprised

    People who minimize the impact on this child have never had a course in basic Psychology.

  • freelancepimp .

    I can see that

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, ma'am, I do consider that, BUT I also wonder why they are and will hitting them change their behavior. Ya know? I wholeheartedly agree. Some can't be helped. They are mentally ill, demonic, and evil. Lord hammercy! I could not deal with sitting in front of someone like that without the intense desire to do some harm. Yes. God help us all! I believe that last line you wrote and they do not need to walk among and breath the same air we breath.

  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    No Christmas present to you. When he goes back to school he won t brag about anything. Make him do house chores but this is humilating

  • Noirluv45

    I'm sure the child will disagree with you.

  • NicoleZee

    I keep wondering why the government is not doing more to prevent unwanted pregnancies which can also lead to more people being on public assistance. The country already has a huge deficit, so with more people having unplanned pregnancies, that deficit will increase if those people are poor or have low income and depend on government programs to help them. I'm thinking maybe we should have a limit on how many children someone can have. Maybe 2 children per family and mandatory sterilization for child abusers, molesters, rapists, and any other kind of criminal period. And make sterilization free for anyone else that wants or needs it. I'm just tired of hearing about sickos abusing kids because most of them did not want the children to begin with. I just don't get the mindset of these people. You know damn well you don't want kids but you end up with 8 or 9 of them. What in the entire hell??? Crazy, stupid, or mentally ill???

  • Malcom Flex

    Lil boys acting crazy are usually SEXUALLY MOLESTED but too many single mothers too dumb to check her circle and the babysitters and the BS's friends, etc.

  • Noirluv45

    It's not just about cutting his hair. How is cutting his hair going to resolve behavioral issues. Children act out. They don't have the maturity to know how to behave unless the parent teaches him/her. Heck, adults act out too. His hair will grow back, but his spirit probably won't. We can't just do what we want to children just because we give birth to them. They have feelings and we have to be able to deal with them where they are. If a parent doesn't understand that, then said parent need not have children. Sometimes we have to look beyond what we see and more so at the impact an action will have.

  • NeverSurprised

    No one is parent-shaming. We are ABUSE-shaming. Abusing a child is equivalent to a man abusing his wife or girlfriend. He does it because he has a physical advantage over her. This is the same reason a parent holds a child down and humiliates him by shaving his head -- because the child is smaller and weaker.

    A CHILD IS NOT A PIECE OF PROPERTY. He or she has the same feelings as an adult. If you wouldn't shave your wife's head because she disobeyed you, what is the justification for doing it to a child?

  • Noirluv45

    You know what? I don't think the government need to govern our uteruses. If we give them that, they'll take more and those freedoms have a tendency to intrude on other like us. I agree with sterilization if someone chooses that route. I'm telling you, I feel the same way about children being abused. I don't know what can be done. When I CASA, I was the voice of those innocent babies who grew up with the worst of the worst parents. I think social workers are overworked and have huge caseloads. You and I both are left scratching our heads. SMH.

  • Noirluv45

    No clue whatever! It's just a haircut to them and they are sticking by it. We, especially in the Black community, have a whipping culture that needs to be deleted. The mindset is set in stone. For anyone to see this child's reaction and think it's okay makes me question people's conscience.

  • NicoleZee

    Girl, you would not believe some of the dumb people I have met. Women that brag about having a bunch of kids or try to put someone down if they don't have kids or only have one. I only have one baby boy, but people seem to think I'm selfish and should have more. I'm like, bitch, with who??? I would be a fool to lay down with another lowlife and have a child only for him to abandon me again and leave me with yet another child to raise on my own like I'm doing now. This one lady I met had 5 kids, different baby daddy bums, and was pregnant with another one! She told me I need to have at least 3 or 4 more. She said it's not hard at all. I told her she needs to consider tying her tubes, she said no and that she would probably have more!!! I wanted to clock her in her jaw for being dumb but I just wished her a healthy pregnancy and baby. Where does that kind of mentality come from??? Shouldn't one child or no children be enough if you're single and not in the best situation??? I don't get it at all.

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, to everything you said. It sure is a shame that parenting classes are mandatory. So many need them. Exactly! Every other aspect in life requires a license or training except being a parent. Anyone can have a child. They really don't have a clue, and that cluelessness passes down from generation to generation.

  • Mrs. Asexual Elmo

    Why did they carve a "George Jefferson" on top his head? Take away his electronics...sheesh.

  • Noirluv45

    Girl, let me tell ya. I think I would believe it. SMH. It sounds like her worth comes from spitting out babies. It's a damn shame! I'm not one to govern someone's uterus, but having multiple babies by different men who more than likely cannot be there for each of his children, is insane. Women seem to be taught that having a man and spitting babies out makes her a "woman." You have one son and she's trying to tell you to have more based on her not giving a damn about who she breeds with, but then tries to tell you to do the same. What you said sounds reasonable to me. I don't get it either, girl. Not at all.

  • TMW

    People don’t need seem to understand that how a child behaves is a reflection of THEM, not the child. Even if a kid picks up a bad behavior from friends or peers, it is still the responsibility of parent to correct that behavior.

    My child did not respond to punishment. She responded to rewards. But that took conversation - getting to know her - to understand what’s rewards meant to her. If she wanted a new phone, she knew she had to behave. I just feel like parents don’t want to parent - they are one of two extremes - abusive or trying to be their kids’ friend to the point that kids don’t even take them serious. The latter is what this looks like to me. She had to take a drastic measure.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    It better than beating him to death

  • Tena

    I think these parents are confusing being bad with some form of behavioral problems. This little boy acts as if he is dealing with more than just being disrespectful to his mom. I doubt if this is going to solve any of the issues with him.

  • OvertheMississippi

    Then her @ss gone be on social media blubbering because he is being bullied and picked on!

  • A D N

    Thank you. I am really considering it.

  • A D N

    Thanks! Appreciate the recommendation.

  • A D N

    I just don't understand how people think a child at that age is "bad" because of the child which science clearly suggests is undeveloped? The child is "growing" up and needs guidance. This reaction to his misbehaving is not guidance! This is teaching him something along the lines of trauma...

  • A D N

    They posted the video for what reason?

  • Monique B

    EXACTLY, THESE KIDS TODAY ARE UNGRATEFUL!!!

  • Bonita

    He probably got all kinds of nicks on his scalp.

  • Bonsai

    This is the same mother that is going to be wondering why her son punched her in the face when he’s older.

  • dontgetblocked

    I would need more information before passing judgement. Some of these kids are devil spawns. I would not have done that to my child but I don't know what this little badazz did. He may be a thief, a liar, and/or a bully. He must be a monster for his mother, the butch barber and her assistant to take his hair.

  • NicoleZee

    Good point about the government and our uterus! I was just trying to come up with ways to help curb the problem. We all see this behavior all the time. Women with several kids by different men and many of them are struggling and you can't get much child support from a career bum! Sad. I could not imagine having a house full of kids with deadbeat men, one was enough for me. No woman wants to be a single parent, but we are often left with no choice when men abandon us. There is nothing you can do to force a man to stick around if he wants to go. What we can do is learn from our errors and try to make better choices. If a woman keeps attracting bums, then maybe it's time for some self-examination and focusing on yourself instead of chasing these user losers. I'm just trying to do better and focus on me and my son. I have no more time or room in my life for bums that have nothing to offer but yet they expect women to do everything for them. SMDH!

  • T3

    You should definitely go. That game is an experience like no other. That's home for me. I'll be down there! Whatever you decide, safe travels and enjoy!!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Exactly. If you don't have patience don't become a parent.

  • Noirluv45

    No, I completely understand where you are coming from. You are trying to find some solution for this nonsense. Yes, there are so many men who abandon the mother of their children and they are left with all the responsibility of those little lives. It's a huge responsibility and they just get to walk away like they had nothing to do with it, and then they have the nerve to totally blame the woman. There are so many women who have to have a man and they don't care whether he's a deadbeat or not. There are so many women who have low self-esteem seeking love they probably didn't have from their father. I know we've all made mistakes, but hopefully, we learn from them. You are doing the right thing. Focus on you and your son and wait for the man who deserves you to find you. Girl, a lot of men think women are so desperate that a woman will jump at the chance to have him so she'll do anything. We aren't the ones!

  • Olga Summer

    Child abuse? No, not in the least bit! Humiliation, absolutely! If you have to shave your child’s head to prove a point then that’s just bad parenting!! Teach them discipline early on!

  • bella28498 .

    dont care, lucky he didn't get an a z z whooping

  • ?Royalty?

    I already said I didn't agree with them posting the video. That was totally wrong.

  • JackieBrown

    The brilliant parents look like graduates of Harvard University.
    When social services show up to talk to them I hope charges are pressed against the barber also.

  • JackieBrown

    Ha ha ha you are so right! Cause you know the father will be long gone.

  • JackieBrown

    You are correct!

  • JackieBrown

    The parents look like upholding law abiding citizens...

  • NicoleZee

    See that's the thing Noir, if women would close their legs and doors to these lowlifes, they would have nowhere to go and no one to get something out of. I hate how these men prey on women and manipulate them, it's sickening. And they love going after single moms and disabled women. A disabled lady that lives around the corner from me was dating this guy, moved his homeless sorry ass into her house and he ended up robbing her, took most of her electronics. She was so broken and hurt telling me what happened. I told her that she needs to be more careful and DO NOT allow any man to live with you; let his ass stay on the street or in the shelter where he belongs. I was so angry for her when she told me what happened. She is a really nice woman who got taken advantage of badly. I just wish more women would stand up for themselves. We all make mistakes but enough is enough. Women need to become stronger and learn to exist on their own without settling for some sorry dude just to have a sorry limp dick in the bed at night. Very sad.

  • Malcom Flex

    You're sick in the head if you think that's normal.

  • Malcom Flex

    Thanks I'm tired of people playing dumb but worse treating kids like slaves.

  • Malcom Flex

    ITA

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw....MOST abusive bad ass parents didn't do as OP above stated!!

  • Malcom Flex

    Don't you have any males in your life besides your son? No father? No baby daddy??

  • NicoleZee

    Kids and teens are mostly selfish, their brains are still developing. So they do not understand the sacrifices their parents make to get them here and to keep them here. When you tell them no, they always think there will be some type of negotiation. Hell naw, no means no because I said so!!! I just hope and pray my son doesn't turn out to be a POS, it would kill me knowing I raised a monster. I don't know how any parent can live day to day knowing they have a sick POS for a son or daughter. Imagine having a child that turned out to be a killer or child molester or rapist. I'd kill him myself if that were the case!!!!!!!! No trial and sentencing needed!!!!!!!! Sad.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Let's not get punishment and abuse mixed up! He must've showed his azzoff and got his just reward!!! That's not ABUSE!!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    And that lil MUFUGGA look like he was cutting up in that chair... If my parents told me to sit I SAT! AND I BET NOT BUST A MOOV ! THAT CHILD WAS LUCKY! Besides his hair will grow back looks like a good grain! :)

  • NicoleZee

    You think so??? They could have just spanked him and moved the hell on with their day. Shaving his head was kind of sick if you ask me. I doubt those parents are normal. Sometimes sick and evil kids become what their parents are. If this child ends up beating or killing the parents one day, I won't be surprised. SMDH! The Menendez brothers started that trend back in the 90s it seems of kids killing parents. Now you have kids running households and abusing their parents. I wish mine would. He'd be on a slow boat to China with his breathing machine right next to him after I got done with him!!! I'm not having it!!!

  • Patricia

    i work with kids. this is what all of them become when their bad behavior that parents think is cute at 1 and 2 years old is allowed to fester and grow. the 4 and 5 yr olds i work with are talking back to us teachers and their parents and throwing major tantrums when sent to the office when they cannot have their way. instead of an ass whooping, they are being signed up for medical evaluations and therapy and mess. i am starting to see some embarrassment on their parents faces bc they know this mess is getting out of control and they are looking dumb for it.
    it only gets worse as these kids grow taller and stronger than their parents and start threatening and swinging on their parents and shooting them with rifles and mess. you gotta raise them right from very young, train them to respect authority figures and rules from babyhood. they are going to need to do so for life! its not going to happen magically on its own and it only gets harder to impossible to accomplish as they get older and set in their ways. this boy can still be helped...for now....but its going to take some tough LOVE and consistent discipline to turn it around. his mother needs parenting coaching.

  • Patricia

    nope. my son has that 4Z hair going on. he looks so good with the low even haircut i used to get him all the time as a young child, gotta get all that mess cut off. i caught him primping in the mirror today though...ummhmm. mama didnt raise no fool lol.

  • Malcom Flex

    You're another crazy person who condones abuse. Well that's how racist whites condone cops abusing black people. "Michael Brown must have showed his azzoff"?! See how crazy that sounds?!

  • Malcom Flex

    Agreed.

  • Malcom Flex

    Another abuser. I bet you got some real winners in your family.

  • Malcom Flex

    HUMILIATION IS ABUSE

  • Malcom Flex

    You got that right these dumb single mothers forget that boys grow into men. Wonder why so many males ain't got their mothers back?

  • Malcom Flex

    I like what you wrong and not one word about whipping or beating or whupping a kid like a slave. Yes the parent needs serious coaching.

  • Malcom Flex

    Those the only options? Sick

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    I’m so curious.What was she suppose to do in your opinion that doesn’t include child abuse?

  • Boogie79

    that's what I was thinking. My brother didn't want his afro combed and was misbehaving in school so my mom had the barber cut it. The barber didn't cut it skinhead bald though.

  • Olga Summer

    Are you freaking serious? Your non-intelligent ass is seriously comparing police brutality to a child getting there hair shaved!!?? Yo real rap, Auntie should block your account just off the strength of your ignorance!

  • Malcom Flex

    LOL saw something on FB reminds me of you "HIT DOG HOLLARING" You a child abuser, too. That's why you trying to front .And your lame attempt of bullying will fall on deaf ears Miss Sandra isn't your typical dumb abusive BW. On the contrary.

  • Olga Summer

    I didn’t read all of your comment but from what I did read I do agree. I work as Therapist in a charter school and they have no discipline in elementary then when they get to middle there completely outta control!

  • Malcom Flex

    What do you think she should have done besides a sadistic humliiation ritual for the public?? If you think that is appropriate you're insane.

  • Malcom Flex

    It's a sadistic humilation ritual I bet you good money that mama knows her boy is being abused either she does it or a family member & he acts out at school. She whips/abuses him as a 'cure' to silence, of course that doesn't work and being a pea brained dummy she tries to go viral.

  • Malcom Flex

    "Most women don’t know how to discipline boys without violence. " -Sandra Rose

    She's right.

  • Malcom Flex

    "Most women don’t know how to discipline boys without violence. " -Sandra Rose

    She's right.

  • soflystann

    How is this abuse again? Hair grows back..

  • soflystann

    How is this abuse again? Hair grows back..

  • NeverSurprised

    He's a child. What do children love? Toys and snacks and playtime. You punish a child by taking away the things that he loves. You also talk to him in a quiet, rational tone and explain WHY those things were taken away and that he must EARN their return through good behavior. In this way, you are teaching lessons the child can apply later in life.

  • NeverSurprised

    He's a child. What do children love? Toys and snacks and playtime. You punish a child by taking away the things that he loves. You also talk to him in a quiet, rational tone and explain WHY those things were taken away and that he must EARN their return through good behavior. In this way, you are teaching lessons the child can apply later in life.

  • PRPSP

    This is abuse because this mother, like so many other fame seeking whores are craving attention at the expense of their children. It's one thing if you wanted to do this to teach your child a lesson but to do this and post it to get some ''likes'' is just pathetic and goes to show what the world we live in has come to... Just pathetic how nothing we do is private any more and we have to share it with everyone to see as validation.

  • PRPSP

    This is abuse because this mother, like so many other fame seeking whores are craving attention at the expense of their children. It's one thing if you wanted to do this to teach your child a lesson but to do this and post it to get some ''likes'' is just pathetic and goes to show what the world we live in has come to... Just pathetic how nothing we do is private any more and we have to share it with everyone to see as validation.

  • free

    back in my day, my daddy would have took his belt and beat the MF brakes off my brothers (my mama whipped me) for disrespecting him or my mom. that shyt needs to be put in check early. if all he got was a haircut, he came out on the good end of the discipline spectrum.

  • Tennessean

    So aggressive. There ARE other healthy helpful methods of parenting. I am not saying this is right or wrong but it is very aggressive and embarrassing and possibly traumatizing.

  • free

    i know you not comparing this to getting murdered?

  • free

    i'm not surprised he didn't give you a cogent answer.

  • free

    chile, i was talking to a teacher this week who teaches elementary school and she told me 5 years olds are cursing her out on the playground!!! she said one of the mamas was like "did he call you a b!tch?" she said no. so the mama was like, "what are you complaining about then?" smh.

    i was watching the real housewives of new jersey when one of the husbands was saying the old italian adage that you have to bend the tree when it is young, presumbably because, once it grows older, it's hard to change those habits/attitudes.

  • free

    that happened to my brothers. they are 2 years apart and did everything together.

  • Yardgirl

    I agree!! Taking away things WORK and is more powerful than what a lot people do. Oh well, you reap what you sow.

  • free

    his feelings got hurt.

  • unknown user

    Her child her rules, but as a barber i would not have gotten involved with having to restrain someones child while they were in distress for what? 10 dollars? No thanks maam. Youre on your own

  • the guest

    Traumatic and abusive punishments like this are easy way out short cut cop outs for lazy parents.

    They traumatized this child with a "scalping" but I bet he still watched television and played video games when he got home because those are needed babysitters for lazy parents.

    These parents don't have the strength or parental attention span to really discipline by banning tv, video games, computer, tablet for a whole month which would check this kid for a year.

    And they had to use a female batber so the seed of hating women is planted in this young mind that can't discern that not all women are capable of this abuse.

  • sunni_daze

    Shave his head = abuse
    Beat is lil ass = abuse
    Ignore him= Neglect
    Let him run like a wild animal= bad parenting
    in short parents just suppose to let their kids run around and behave any type of way. Nope....not over here.

  • sunni_daze

    Amen.

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, yes, and yes over and over again. I think how many women were raised and how this society functions is that women should have a man/children, and if she doesn't, something's wrong. I understand everyone (or a lot of people) are looking for love, but in all the wrong places. Lord knows I've done it, and because of that, I will never, ever in this life, do it again. No man is worth a woman losing herself for. I don't care what society says. That poor disabled woman was so vulnerable and that man was like a shark that smelled blood. Men have that sense, girl. They can sniff out desperation from miles away. I feel so bad for her because she let her guard down. She allowed a snake into her home trying to help him out and he screwed her. Ugh! " I just wish more women would stand up for themselves. We all make mistakes but enough is enough. Women need to become stronger and learn to exist on their own without settling for some sorry dude just to have a sorry limp dick in the bed at night. Very sad." Welp, drop the mike, girl!

  • Noirluv45

    Yes, yes, and yes over and over again. I think how many women were raised and how this society functions is that women should have a man/children, and if she doesn't, something's wrong. I understand everyone (or a lot of people) are looking for love, but in all the wrong places. Lord knows I've done it, and because of that, I will never, ever in this life, do it again. No man is worth a woman losing herself for. I don't care what society says. That poor disabled woman was so vulnerable and that man was like a shark that smelled blood. Men have that sense, girl. They can sniff out desperation from miles away. I feel so bad for her because she let her guard down. She allowed a snake into her home trying to help him out and he screwed her. Ugh! " I just wish more women would stand up for themselves. We all make mistakes but enough is enough. Women need to become stronger and learn to exist on their own without settling for some sorry dude just to have a sorry limp dick in the bed at night. Very sad." Welp, drop the mike, girl!

  • Overpower Radio

    That's the only part that I disagree with. Posting your child's punishment on social media for the world to witness is an abuse. It should be a private matter. As far as cutting his hair though, she's the parent. She gets to decide how he wears his hair, or how she'll allow him to wear it. Some cultures don't cut their kids hair, and in some, they'll shave them bald (not as punishment), so if she decided to cut his hair as a punishment I don't see the harm in that.

    What I do see, is if she told him to sit still and let that barber cut his hair, and he didn't. Then, the child is continuing to be disobedient. He should sit there for that cut, whether he likes it or not, because his parent told him to do so. And if the barber decided to help by holding him down, so what. He wasn't in pain.

  • Overpower Radio

    That's the only part that I disagree with. Posting your child's punishment on social media for the world to witness is an abuse. It should be a private matter. As far as cutting his hair though, she's the parent. She gets to decide how he wears his hair, or how she'll allow him to wear it. Some cultures don't cut their kids hair, and in some, they'll shave them bald (not as punishment), so if she decided to cut his hair as a punishment I don't see the harm in that.

    What I do see, is if she told him to sit still and let that barber cut his hair, and he didn't. Then, the child is continuing to be disobedient. He should sit there for that cut, whether he likes it or not, because his parent told him to do so. And if the barber decided to help by holding him down, so what. He wasn't in pain.

  • the guest

    Punch his mother is least of what could erupt from this type of abuse. This kind of abuse can make this boy grow up and be a domestic batterer and child abuser. Its more likely he will act out on society rather than his mother. That's why abusive parents are selfish, inconsiderate, and only think of themselves not what they are unleashing on society.

  • the guest

    Punch his mother is least of what could erupt from this type of abuse. This kind of abuse can make this boy grow up and be a domestic batterer and child abuser. Its more likely he will act out on society rather than his mother. That's why abusive parents are selfish, inconsiderate, and only think of themselves not what they are unleashing on society.

  • Noirluv45

    It wasn't simply getting his hair shaved. It was the manner for which it was done. Anyone watching that video who could sit there and justify what was done frightens me. It shows me how far we've come and how desensitized people are. It's scary. Children are not toys. They are human beings with feelings and they deserved to be treated with respect. I understand discipline, but this is unacceptable.

  • the guest

    They need ban this child's every privilege and luxury!

    They pin him down and shave his head but I bet he gets a truck load of Christmas presents. I bet he got McDonalds on the way home. So quick to abuse this kid but I bet a triliion dollars this kid is STILL not disciplined.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • Noirluv45

    Your comments are so spot on! You know what really is telling? The people who believe this is okay. There is a pathology that is very dangerous and leads to the abuse of our children. People see this simply as "a hair cut," but can view the video and not see the cruelty. Is it because people have seen countless "caught on tape" videos of an array of violence that their souls have been seared? It's really sick, and this mentality is very prevalent in the Black community. There's only one way, in some people's minds, to discipline and that means hitting them. What many of these people and their parents are are bullies. They can control someone and they think they can do what they want. It's troubling.

  • Noirluv45

    Gurlll, tell it!

  • Kayke

    The only problem here is recording and posting this, that's the abuse .....furthering his embarrassment beyond his contacts. I don't think anyone should be punished on a stage. But shaving his head is a drop in the bucket to real punishments. Mom should have done the shaving herself, then took him to barber if a fix was needed. Respect is earned. He's obviously not earning his mother's respect.

  • TOO REAL

    THE PROBLEM - everything is child abuse and the system wonders why so many kids are out of control. Ok so his feelings are hurt, his ego is bruised and kids will laugh at him. What about the parents who work their ass off for this rude kid. What about their feelings and embarrassment they endure. Spare me - SHAVE IT SHAVE IT

  • O.B. DaLava

    They have rights now so Im with it. Back in the day, you can whoop that ass

  • Kayke

    If you are doing everything right and your child turns out the complete opposite of that..... I know for a fact all that right doing was more verbiage than action or practice. Those "do as I say, not as I do" parents. The biggest fail for parents is not being the biggest influence in their child's live and living their own words. Those kids saw and disliked the hypocrite in their parent. All that "did all the right things" ....today especially it's impossible to say a parent did everything right when someone else has the child as much as they do daily via daycare and institutions.

  • Noirluv45

    I want to know how shaving his head will punish him. It's going to make him bitter. Putting it online was the icing on the cake. To grab him, hold him down, AND shave his head was cruel. It, to me, is not about the shaving. He's a child. He has to learn to respect and that comes from his mother. Blame her for not raising a child who she taught to respect. How can we point fingers at a child as if they are supposed to know these things? Like I said, shaving his head will probably not work. She embarrassed and humiliated him and that will further his resentfulness.

  • jadapooh2

    How is it child abuse? Because he

  • ?Royalty?

    We've already established you have a problem with reality so..........???

  • jadapooh2

    Lmao! To hell with them feelings! What about the feelings of the parents whenever he disobeys and disrespects them?

  • ?Royalty?

    Your "typical dumb abusive black woman

    ?

    I can't stand over sensitive black boys such as yourself who do a pi$$ poor job of hiding their misogyny. ?Here is your long overdue block. ?????

  • Mischelle

    Ok!! We’re on the same page. This type of discipline takes ZERO effort. My parents would sit me down and explain to me how what I did was wrong, then I was disciplined.

  • Mischelle

    This, to me, is sadistic. How anyone could believe this is effective discipline is beyond me.

  • Tee Bullock

    Me too

  • bella28498 .

    actually everyone in my family including my husband is a winner.....dgaf about his haircut

  • Malcom Flex

    Scroll below most of the obese single mothers think it's ok. Then wonder why black boys don't protect their mother.

  • Malcom Flex

    YUP!

  • Malcom Flex

    AW some violent obese female slob is blocking me. Quick, let me call my parents.

  • Malcom Flex

    Right. The black community is full of winners and it shows. Pure irony. If azz whipping worked our community would reflect it, it doesn't.

  • Malcom Flex

    You're another sadist and if you have a son I bet he hates you for whipping his ass. This is what I wrote to that other knucklehead "What do you think she should have done besides a sadistic humliiation ritual for the public?? If you think that is appropriate you're insane."

  • bella28498 .

    smh stop chatting me

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    They weren't like me lol I told so I wouldn't get it.

  • RichieRich88

    Just so we're clear, scalping is when a knife is used to literally cut off the skin from your head. Made famous by Native Americans. Please, lets not compare the two. What worked for your parents, worked for your parents. What works for you as a parents, works for you. People have to stop telling other people how to parent THEIR child. All children are NOT the same. All children do not respond THE SAME to ONE type of discipline. Stop shaming parents for TRYING.

  • BR….

    Everyone is entitled to their own opinion....

  • Drea982

    How the hell is this abuse? It's a haircut and anyone calling it "scalping is a buffoon. Most of the people screaming child abuse are people without kids. I'm going to need people to look up the word abuse. That's why kids are running around doing whatever thinking there are no consequences for their actions. If kids can do whatever they want with no discipline, I shouldn't have to bust my ass working to take care of them. They need to get there own sh*t and take care of themselves. Ppl are stupid.

  • QueenMe

    Maybe according to ur interpretation of what humiliation is. Not all forms of humiliation is abuse. Had she recorded him being beaten, that'd be different. She just embarassed him.

  • YellowSauce

    I Just saw a video of a man beating his daughter and shaving her head but somehow I feel differently about this one ... he got no beating and his head is not even completely bald ( of course they had to finish it ) but that little girl was beaten by a full grown man AND THEN her head COMPLETELY shaven .... The world we live in where no one can affectively communicate without violence

  • Mirella

    Call the police on these ghetto barbers and "mother". Somebody should check on this kid. He needs help.

  • Mirella

    I have to admit that I'm surprised by the number of ghetto a$$ commentators who approve this kind of treatment to a child. I wish none of you have kids, but I know that sadly most of you are parents. You can be a single mother, educated and do the right things. Ask for psychological help when you are overwhelmed. Your son will hate your guts and wait for the day he will be able to kill you. That is what probably will happen with the daddyOfive. You piece of s hit should know better than a busing your own children.

  • Mirella

    Absolutely, you have to be a very sadistic barber to be able to do that. Going to the barbershop is supposed to be a pleasant experience.

  • Mirella

    I'm pretty sure there is more than these two options!

  • Mirella

    A child doesn't have to earn the respect of his mother. Are you nuts? I can't with all of you today. Most of you are dumb.